B&T Extra: Comedian Sherra Lasley

Summary

The BOB & TOM Show Extra: Comedian Shara Lassley

Date: October 3, 2025
Main Guests: The BOB & TOM Show crew (Tom Griswold, Bob Kevoian, Christopher, Christy Lee), Comedian Shara Lassley

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Episode Overview

This episode of The BOB & TOM Show Extra welcomes comedian and actor Shara Lassley for a lively, often hilarious discussion about her unique background, career in comedy and acting, life transitions, and, in classic BOB & TOM fashion, a no-holds-barred group discussion on overrated sexual fantasies. The episode delivers laughs, personal stories, and friendly banter, encapsulating the show's trademark blend of humor and real talk.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introducing Shara Lassley & Her Name

• Origin of the Name “Shara”

  • Shara reveals her mom found her unique name in a magazine.
  • Bob jokes about the possible source, riffing on men’s magazines for comedic effect.
    • "Did your folks just invent it?" – Bob Kevoian [05:19]
    • "No, my mom saw it in a magazine and thought it was pretty." – Shara Lassley [05:29]

• Gentle, Playful Teasing on First Impressions

  • Bob, Christopher, and Tom poke fun at unusual magazine sources and make light references to men’s magazine features.
  • The team clarifies the “Beaver Hunt” joke to Shara with tongue-in-cheek explanations of old magazine features.
    • "Hustler had the Beaver Hunt...the photographer was the lady's mom." – Bob Kevoian [06:54–07:01]

2. Background: From Bettendorf, Iowa to LA and Back

• Shara’s Roots & Career

  • Shara grew up in Bettendorf, Iowa, and listened to BOB & TOM as a fan.
    • "I'm from Bettendorf, Iowa...grew up listening to you guys. Loved the show." – Shara Lassley [07:56–08:03]
  • Went to LA for acting, but returned to the Midwest to help her sister—and now enjoys being back.
    • "I went into LA and then I came here...to help my sister with her first son." – Shara Lassley [08:33–08:42]

• Her Comedy & Acting Work

  • Bit roles on Netflix’s Dead to Me and Hulu’s Everyone Is Doing Great, plus content, commercials, and VO work.
    • "Mostly comedy...a bit part on Dead to Me on Netflix..." – Shara Lassley [09:01]
  • Discusses self-taped auditions and the perks of remote auditions.

3. Tattoos: Stories & Family Connections

• Shara discusses having a few tattoos—one visible, the number “29," signifying the unique birthdates aligning among her female relatives.
  • "All the women in my family were born on the 29th of the month." – Shara Lassley [10:56–11:03]
• Shares about a less satisfactory ankle tattoo (“just a star”), but wouldn’t remove it.
  • "I've got one on my ankle that was a mistake..." – Shara Lassley [11:03–11:11]

4. Restaurant Days and Table Banter

• Shara shares that waiting tables can be fun, and the group riffs on their own food service stories.
• Joking about Tom’s habit with servers:
  • "You know what? We're going to be your favorite table." – Bob Kevoian, paraphrasing Tom [10:15–10:26]

5. Overrated Sexual Fantasies: Group Roundtable Discussion

(Reddit-Inspired Segment)

• Christy Lee brings up a list of overrated sexual fantasies per Reddit users.
  • "We were going to jump into overrated sexual fantasies." – Christy Lee [11:51]

Main Fantasies Explored:

• Mile High Club

  • General consensus: overrated, uncomfortable, impractical.
    • "Especially in tiny bathrooms of today's planes..." – Christy Lee [11:58]
    • "I don't even like using the bathroom for what it's for, let alone have sex in it." – Tom Griswold [13:46–13:50]

• Sex on the Beach

  • Sand everywhere, unpleasant in practice.
    • "Sand goes everywhere. It wasn't worth it." – Christy Lee [15:14]

• Sex in a Lake/Pool/Hot Tub

  • Water friction and cleanliness issues—a comedic highlight.
    • "Hot tub sex is awful. Pumping nasty water into your partner sounds terrible." – Christy Lee [15:46]

• Large Male Member

  • Myth vs. reality, with the group riffing about expectations and pain.
    • "Not only overrated, but pretty damn exaggerated as well." – Christy Lee [16:13–16:14]

• Shower Sex

  • Slippery and hazardous, jokes about water shoes and wings.
    • "Every time we've done it, I've almost slipped and died." – Christy Lee [16:49–17:00]
    • "I go extra safe. I go water wings." – Tom Griswold [17:05]

• Threesomes

  • Mostly seen as awkward, best left as fantasy for most hosts.
    • "I'll call my parents instead if I want to disappoint two people at the same time." – Christy Lee [17:49]
    • "I can't play zone. I will not do it one on one, man." – Christopher [18:01]
    • "I am a one woman man." – Tom Griswold [18:14]
    • "The key is to not have any sort of delusions of grandeur. It's not just about you, it's about everybody." – Tom Griswold [18:39–18:46]

• Dirty Talk Gone Awry

  • Shara describes a cringeworthy moment when dirty talk backfired:
    • "Meant to say, you know, yeah, daddy right there, but it came out as like..." – Shara Lassley [20:23–20:32]
    • "If you really get into character, it can get even more disturbing." – Shara Lassley [20:35]
    • Delivered with self-deprecating humor and warm rapport with the cast.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Tattoos & Family:

  • "All the women in my family were born on the 29th of the month." – Shara Lassley [11:03]

• On Overrated Fantasies:

  • "I'll call my parents instead if I want to disappoint two people at the same time." – Christy Lee [17:49]
  • "I don't even like using the bathroom for what it's for, let alone have sex in it." – Tom Griswold [13:46–13:50]

• On Comedy in Dirty Talk:

  • "You meant to say, you know, yeah, daddy right there. But it came out as like..." – Shara Lassley [20:23]
  • "If you really get into character, it can get even more disturbing." – Shara Lassley [20:35]
  • "He like it too. I was like, I gotta call the cops." – Shara Lassley [20:48]

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• Introduction & Name Origins: [05:13–07:47]
• Background & Acting Career: [07:47–09:58]
• Tattoos & Family Traditions: [10:39–11:12]
• Server Banter & Restaurant Stories: [10:05–10:43]
• Overrated Sexual Fantasies Segment: [11:51–20:48]
• Dirty Talk Mishaps: [20:23–20:48]

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Tone & Style

The tone is classic BOB & TOM: fast-paced, irreverent, self-mocking, and warmly inclusive. The crew’s chemistry with Shara Lassley keeps the conversation energetic and accessible, blending playful roasting with real stories and a dash of blue humor.

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Summary

This B&T Extra showcases the quick wit and easy laughter that define The BOB & TOM Show, with Shara Lassley proving to be a game and engaging guest. Personal anecdotes about comedy, family, tattoo regrets, and romance blend seamlessly with candid, comical discussions of sexual myths and mishaps—offering up plenty of laughs and relatable moments for listeners, old and new.

Transcript

[Tom Griswold]

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[Bob Kevoian]

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[Tom Griswold]

With a star studded premiere including Jenna.

[Bob Kevoian]

Elfman, Nancy Travis and hey buddy.

[Tom Griswold]

A big home improvement reunion.

[Christopher]

Welcome.

[Bob Kevoian]

Oh boy, that guy's a tool.

[Tom Griswold]

Shifting Gears New Wednesdays, 8, 7 Central.

[Bob Kevoian]

On ABC and stream on Hulu.

[Christopher]

Welcome back.

[Bob Kevoian]

It's another Bob and Tom extra. This is Christopher. Not only is the Bob and Tom show live every weekday morning, but every afternoon. We'll give you a little extra. In case you missed anything on the big show today, comedian Shara Lashley. It's coming up right after this.

[Shara Lassley]

When did making plans get this complicated? It's time to streamline with WhatsApp, the secure messaging app that brings the whole group together. Use polls to settle dinner plans, send event invites and pin messages so no one forgets mom's 60th and never miss a meme or milestone. All protected with end to end encryption. It's time for WhatsApp Message Privately with everyone. Learn [e-mail] Time now for the Mr.

[Christopher]

Obvious Show. Here's your host, Mr. Obvious. Thank you. Hello, it is the Mr. Obvious Show. I am your host, Mr. Obvious. This week, of course, every week, a trip around the home, the world of home repair and home maintenance. And our spotlight this week falls on gutters. Now, you'll notice that your gutters are located along the roof line of your home. And I'm not sure if you're aware of this or not, but those gutters from time to time need to be cleaned out. Of course, due to the hollow shape that gutters often take, they are inclined to attract stray debris. So what you'll need to do is grab a nice sturdy ladder. You might want to get a piece of paper and pencil to copy these Instructions down the Mr. Obvious checklist. What you'll need is a nice strong ladder and lean that up against the house, climb up the ladder and clean your cutters out. Very obvious. Well, there is a Phone call. Of course, there are always questions here on the Mr. Obvious show. So let's go to the phone.

[Caller]

Hello, Mr. Obvious?

[Christopher]

Speaking.

[Caller]

Hi, longtime listener, first time caller. Really enjoy the show. The gutter thing works great. Great tips.

[Christopher]

Thank you very much.

[Caller]

I took your advice. I used that latter idea right. Scraped everything out just like you said with the. Your hands. Got rid of all the leaves. Gutter works great. Blowing right out.

[Christopher]

Uh huh. Now, did you start a checklist for all of the little maintenance problems?

[Caller]

Did exactly what you did, Grabbed a pencil, paper, wrote everything down, checked it off, and I mean that way there was no muss, no fuss. Got it done.

[Christopher]

Super, super.

[Caller]

Here's my problem. Got done with the gutter thing. Now I've got leaves in my yard. I don't know, you know, it's great. The gutter's working fine.

[Christopher]

Got leaves in my yard, front yard or backyard?

[Caller]

Well, tell you the truth, Mr. Obvious, I got them in both.

[Christopher]

No kidd.

[Caller]

I'm just not entirely sure what to do now because the gutters, they're working great. Water's flowing down. Problem is the leaves in the yard's just a mess.

[Christopher]

Are they most prevalent around the gutters?

[Caller]

Well, as a matter of fact, they.

[Christopher]

Are on the ground there.

[Caller]

Right, that's where I put them.

[Christopher]

Okay, well, what you'll need to do is get.

[Caller]

Excuse me, Mr. Obvious.

[Christopher]

Yes.

[Caller]

Can you hang on just a minute? I was just gonna go ahead and make another checklist.

[Christopher]

Okay, caller, copy this down. You'll need some sort of container to put those leaves in.

[Caller]

Like a bowl?

[Christopher]

No, not a bowl, I don't think. Something bigger and a little bit more convenient, I'd say possibly suitcase, maybe a trash bag or possibly a garbage bag.

[Caller]

Okay, garbage bag.

[Christopher]

Get the leaves up and put those in the trash bags. And that should take care of your problem.

[Caller]

Wow, I can't thank you enough.

[Christopher]

Well, thanks for the call and you keep listening to the Mr. Robbie.

[Caller]

Really enjoy the show. Thanks a lot.

[Christopher]

Well, thank you, Colin. Join us. Next week we'll be installing a table la.

[Tom Griswold]

Next time, Mr.

[Christopher]

Obvious. We'll take a around the house. Thanks for listening.

[Bob Kevoian]

You asked for it, you got it.

[Tom Griswold]

More Bob and Tom. This is Bob and Tom.

[Christopher]

Extra.

[Bob Kevoian]

She is Shara Lassley. Hi, Shara.

[Shara Lassley]

Hi.

[Bob Kevoian]

Now that's a weird name.

[Tom Griswold]

Thanks, Shara.

[Bob Kevoian]

What is that? S H E R R A. Wow. Yeah, One of a kind.

[Shara Lassley]

You got it right out the gate.

[Bob Kevoian]

Did your folks just invent it?

[Shara Lassley]

No, no, my mom saw it in a magazine and thought it was pretty.

[Bob Kevoian]

Okay.

[Shara Lassley]

What is pretty deep thank you.

[Christopher]

There you go.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

What magazine? Do you know?

[Shara Lassley]

Oh, my God. I'll have to do some research.

[Bob Kevoian]

This could be.

[Christopher]

I think it was Gent. Is that what you want?

[Tom Griswold]

Is that what you want?

[Bob Kevoian]

It could be terribly, terribly embarrassing. I don't know. Well, it was. I was looking at the Beaver Hunt and you're great at first impressions.

[Christy Lee]

Yeah.

[Tom Griswold]

Just look at you go.

[Christopher]

Sorry.

[Christy Lee]

No, no, no, because she's pretty all nervous.

[Bob Kevoian]

I just walk now.

[Christopher]

You remember the famous Beaver Hunt story though, don't you?

[Bob Kevoian]

Oh, yeah, one of the photos.

[Christopher]

Go ahead.

[Bob Kevoian]

I should explain to her this is an awkward thing. There used to be a feature in one of the men's magazine before the.

[Christopher]

Internet made this quite common. Yes.

[Bob Kevoian]

One of the lesser men's magazines. I mean, you know, Playboy always had that. That sort of sheen of. Of fake. Fake, you know, the Playboy philosophy. Like it was going to be Aristotle, Plato.

[Tom Griswold]

They would have a pictorial. Yeah. And then maybe an Updike story.

[Bob Kevoian]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Christopher]

They were.

[Bob Kevoian]

There was this sort of faux intellectual thing going on there. But the lesser magazines like Gent and you know, Hustler. Hustler had the Beaver Hunt. Yep. In which. Which, as you mentioned, Chick. Very common now, but the women would submit photographs of themselves. Of themselves but. And it would always have the name of the photographer. And there was one of them in the back room one day and I opened it up and the photographer was the lady's mom.

[Christopher]

And the.

[Bob Kevoian]

You could have you.

[Christopher]

The description would include the word splay.

[Christy Lee]

Huh?

[Christopher]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Really, really, really unfortunate. Sorry. I don't know how he got off on that topic. Well, we're going to get around to things. Have you met Mr. Godwin? He's in the other room now.

[Christopher]

Hello.

[Bob Kevoian]

We've displaced him.

[Shara Lassley]

Hello.

[Bob Kevoian]

There were some incidents in the last two days. He's.

[Tom Griswold]

I made some mistakes.

[Christopher]

He may be there for you. Admit it.

[Tom Griswold]

Don't you? Absolutely.

[Christopher]

Oh, boy.

[Bob Kevoian]

See? Okay, I know. Well, then let's. Let's meet Cheryl. Let's find out about here. We found out she's got a lovely name given to her by her mom. She saw it in a magazine. Probably Mademoiselle or Vogue or Reader's Digest.

[Shara Lassley]

Yes, yes, probably Reader's Digest.

[Bob Kevoian]

Scientific American maybe. She's an engineer.

[Tom Griswold]

I don't know.

[Christy Lee]

National Geographic. You don't know?

[Shara Lassley]

Might have been.

[Bob Kevoian]

Okay. Oh, there's a joke I can't do.

[Christy Lee]

Yeah, I know.

[Bob Kevoian]

Okay, let's. Let's find out more. Sure. You're. Are you. Where do you. You live in the Midwest now, Are you from here?

[Shara Lassley]

I'm from Bettendorf, Iowa, actually. Grew up listening to you guys. Loved the show.

[Bob Kevoian]

Well, thank you.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Whoa, whoa, whoa.

[Tom Griswold]

That's the past love.

[Shara Lassley]

Currently. And currently. Loud.

[Christopher]

Hey, Christy, what's coming up in the news?

[Tom Griswold]

Well, the only thing that's changed, I think, is me. So I.

[Shara Lassley]

So that's true. Maybe you should. And then we can switch. Yeah, if you could see yourself, that'd be attaboy.

[Bob Kevoian]

Because I was looking at your resume and it looks like you've been doing some movie stuff and some acting and living in Los Angeles, California.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah. Yeah. So I went into LA and then I came here a couple years ago to help my sister with her first son.

[Tom Griswold]

Oh, nice.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah, I'm a real. I'm a real sweetheart and ended up staying and really enjoy being back in the Midwest. It's very different from la and I missed a lot of things about this place.

[Bob Kevoian]

But you are an actress.

[Shara Lassley]

I am an actor, yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

An actor.

[Shara Lassley]

An actor line.

[Bob Kevoian]

What kind of roles have you had?

[Shara Lassley]

Mostly comedy. I had a little bit part on Dead to Me on Netflix that was really fun. There's another show called Everyone is Doing Great on Hulu that I was on and then a lot of, like, Internet content and a lot of commercials and voiceover work and stuff like that.

[Tom Griswold]

Cool.

[Bob Kevoian]

And these days, a lot of the auditioning is done self tape with an iPhone.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

I was just talking to a guy yesterday that lives here some of the time.

[Tom Griswold]

And don't be shy. It was Jake Gyllenhaal.

[Shara Lassley]

No big deal.

[Tom Griswold]

He and Tom are very close.

[Christopher]

Yeah, they're really close.

[Shara Lassley]

What are you guys doing later? Are you guys getting together or is it.

[Bob Kevoian]

But he just did an audition and got the guys moving on to the next phase of it. But it's all done remotely and you can be anywhere.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah, yeah. Technology, it's kind of nice. Yeah, I enjoy it. I like being an actor. It's really fun. Best part about it is being a waitress. That's been good, you know, so I've been doing that around here, which has been all right.

[Bob Kevoian]

All right.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Now, I worked in a restaurant for quite some time. Christy Lee, you want to. You want to show Shara your restaurant skills?

[Christy Lee]

You were welcome to Arby's. May I take your order, please? That's my restaurant skill.

[Bob Kevoian]

You know what?

[Christy Lee]

I was great in the drive.

[Christopher]

You know what Tom does each and every time he goes to a restaurant?

[Bob Kevoian]

The.

[Christopher]

The server will come up and, hi, welcome to the Bob's Restaurant. And Tom looks at them and Goes. You know what? We're going to be your favorite table.

[Bob Kevoian]

I don't. I don't. I know. I don't. I don't throw that up that quickly. I'll often say, oh, I like your tattoo. Is there a story behind it or.

[Tom Griswold]

Or.

[Bob Kevoian]

What's that in your nose? You say that now. Are you heavily tattooed?

[Shara Lassley]

I have a few tattoos.

[Bob Kevoian]

Do you know?

[Christy Lee]

Yeah.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah. I've got a couple. All the.

[Bob Kevoian]

I.

[Christopher]

There's nothing more filthy than people with tattoo.

[Tom Griswold]

Never.

[Christopher]

I don't care for it. I'm exposing my tattoos.

[Bob Kevoian]

I see.

[Shara Lassley]

Very cool.

[Bob Kevoian]

Do you. Are they visible when you're waiting on a table? Yeah.

[Shara Lassley]

I've got one right here. But it's just like a pretty design. It's the number 29. All the women in my family were born on the 29th of the month.

[Tom Griswold]

Whoa.

[Shara Lassley]

Kind of witchy. And then I've got one on my ankle that was a mistake. And it looks like a Chuck Taylor star, but it's not. It's just a star.

[Bob Kevoian]

I see.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Are you gonna get it taken off?

[Shara Lassley]

No. Absolutely not.

[Christy Lee]

Converse all the time.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Christopher]

I can't imagine how painful that would be on your ank. Ankle. Wow. That's close to the bone, man.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

It wasn't, I guess the most painful. The most commonly one to be taken off. Pat and I were talking to a lady that removes tattoos is the wedding ring tattoo. Yep. And that's apparently really painful to take off. Yeah. And it's expensive.

[Shara Lassley]

Hurts here.

[Bob Kevoian]

Getting divorced, I mean. Yeah. Yeah. I see. We're gonna check in with Christy Lee. She's at the SILAC insurance news desk. Do you have a story that would be interesting to all of us?

[Tom Griswold]

That was the meanest thing I've ever heard in sort of a polite fash.

[Christy Lee]

Wow. Actually we were going to jump into overrated sexual fantasies.

[Christopher]

There we go.

[Christy Lee]

Probably joining the Mile High Club.

[Tom Griswold]

Lol.

[Christy Lee]

Especially in tiny bathrooms of today's planes. According to the top answers from Reddit.

[Bob Kevoian]

So wait a minute. That. That's the most overrated.

[Christy Lee]

No, These are some of the most overrated sexual fantasies by Reddit users. They're. They're weighing in on them.

[Tom Griswold]

Do you guys know. Is it. So as a Reddit users. They had the fantasy, they tried it, decided it was overrated.

[Christy Lee]

Right.

[Tom Griswold]

Okay.

[Bob Kevoian]

I would. Yeah. I think that's a pretty overrated one. Wouldn't you?

[Tom Griswold]

What's that? The Mile High Club.

[Christy Lee]

I. I can't speak because I don't know. I'm not a member.

[Bob Kevoian]

You've done that Pat.

[Tom Griswold]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Now this is this. I think they mean with a partner.

[Tom Griswold]

Yes, smarty pants.

[Christopher]

Well, first of all, where was her husband?

[Bob Kevoian]

Is the guy in seat 4B being beaten up?

[Tom Griswold]

This obviously isn't the one. You had to jump out a window. Did. Our guest is getting the wrong impression about.

[Shara Lassley]

I think I know the impression. I'm getting spot on. Yeah.

[Tom Griswold]

Do. For it to count. For the mile high club to count, do both people have to complete?

[Bob Kevoian]

No. Absolutely.

[Tom Griswold]

Does the guy at least have to complete? Yes.

[Bob Kevoian]

I don't think so.

[Christopher]

I think both.

[Tom Griswold]

Shara's saying yes.

[Christy Lee]

Yes, the guy has to complete. The girl doesn't always.

[Tom Griswold]

I don't just go in there and kiss and hug. It's the Mile high club.

[Bob Kevoian]

Yeah.

[Tom Griswold]

Then I'm never gonna finish Shrek on my iPad. You know, I want to get back to the seat so we can get things going.

[Shara Lassley]

It's good to have priorities. Yeah.

[Christy Lee]

It has to be in like. But I think it has to be like the donut french fry thing.

[Christopher]

Huh?

[Bob Kevoian]

What?

[Christopher]

No, no, hang on.

[Tom Griswold]

She's right. I. I have completed. On a donut.

[Bob Kevoian]

On the donut while eating a french fry.

[Tom Griswold]

No.

[Bob Kevoian]

Now you know all my.

[Tom Griswold]

So it can't just be a little in and out. You. It should be the full thing.

[Bob Kevoian]

But I think the larger point here is. Is this on your list of this.

[Christy Lee]

Is not a fantasy?

[Tom Griswold]

I wouldn't. No. I mean, I don't even like using the bathroom for what it's for, let.

[Christy Lee]

Alone have sex in it.

[Bob Kevoian]

Yeah. This is no.

[Tom Griswold]

2. I can't. I wouldn't be able to get comfortable. I gotta. I gotta be able to stretch my legs out.

[Bob Kevoian]

I mean.

[Tom Griswold]

Oh my God.

[Christopher]

It's her word. She's working.

[Bob Kevoian]

And those. Those bathrooms are tiny.

[Tom Griswold]

Yeah. Of course.

[Christy Lee]

Even on a. I was on a huge flames seat. She would. I don't know. How would you do it?

[Tom Griswold]

I don't know.

[Shara Lassley]

Is he seated on the seat? There you go.

[Christopher]

I would think he would have to.

[Bob Kevoian]

But the question but is. Is this something that you would ever even want to do? Is the question.

[Tom Griswold]

Well, I get the thrill. You think so? Yeah. Yeah, sure. Heck yeah. And I get the whole, hey, you know, I'm a member of the mileage. That's kind of fun. Yeah.

[Christopher]

Really?

[Bob Kevoian]

I think it's gross.

[Christopher]

You can get T shirts.

[Christy Lee]

Well, you think sex is gross?

[Tom Griswold]

You want me to put. What. Where have.

[Bob Kevoian]

That's not true. Have you been lick. It's filthy and great.

[Christopher]

It's for reproduction. Correct. That's all.

[Bob Kevoian]

I was just on a Rather large airplane. And even on that thing, the bathroom, I could, of course. And I had to go in there. I'm thinking this is the time the seat belt light pops on and the thing's going to drop 10,000ft. No, I. I have no desire to be part of that.

[Christy Lee]

What about sex on the beach? That's another one. This Reddit user says, nah, sand goes everywhere. It wasn't worth it.

[Christopher]

Yeah, true, Tom.

[Christy Lee]

Here's one for you. Sex in a lake.

[Bob Kevoian]

I think that's kind of counter productive. I mean, unless. Do you remember the scene in Jaws where the, the reel starts going out when the shark grabs the wire line and he says, he says, pour water on the reel to cool it down. I mean, I suppose if it's smoking, you might want to wait into the lake.

[Tom Griswold]

Like, it'll just make more smoke. Water creates friction.

[Christy Lee]

Hot tub sex is awful. Pumping nasty water into your partner sounds terrible.

[Tom Griswold]

Nasty water into your partner. You know what, that does sound.

[Bob Kevoian]

Yeah. So you don't want to do it. Okay.

[Christopher]

In my book now we can say anything we want.

[Bob Kevoian]

That's what, that's what someone.

[Christy Lee]

That's what it says, right?

[Bob Kevoian]

That's what someone in Reddit it wrote down. Okay.

[Christy Lee]

Being with a man with a huge male member.

[Tom Griswold]

Oh, Chris.

[Christy Lee]

Well, ladies, not only overrated, but pretty damn exaggerated as well. The average being is smaller than people like to think.

[Tom Griswold]

Yeah. Girls like the small penis. I imagine it does sort of become unwieldy and.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah, I mean, I think it depends how big. Right?

[Tom Griswold]

Painful.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah.

[Christopher]

And we and the guys know what the most haunting words are. No, no, you're perfect.

[Tom Griswold]

I just take and run. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Christopher]

You got to. You can't dwell on it. Yeah.

[Christy Lee]

All men are perfect.

[Christopher]

Yeah.

[Tom Griswold]

That is true.

[Christy Lee]

Yes, yes.

[Christopher]

Not quite up to snuff.

[Christy Lee]

Overrated sexual fantasy, according to Reddit users. Shower sex, sure. It's impractical, uncomfortable. Every time we've done it, I've almost slipped and died.

[Tom Griswold]

Let's have to wear your water shoes in the there for grip to be safe.

[Christopher]

Tom, do you wear water shoes?

[Tom Griswold]

I go extra safe. I go water wings.

[Christopher]

When you take a shower in your home, do you wear shower shoes and water wings?

[Bob Kevoian]

No, but I. If I go out to the pool, I'll put on water shoes. Really?

[Tom Griswold]

Okay.

[Christopher]

If you get in your pool at your house, you wear water shoes. You wear water shoes in the house.

[Tom Griswold]

Because the concrete's hot.

[Bob Kevoian]

No. Yeah, between the, between the house and if I walk to the household, you.

[Christopher]

Won'T walk very well.

[Tom Griswold]

Foot.

[Bob Kevoian]

I'd rather not.

[Christopher]

Boy, you are the oddest person I know.

[Tom Griswold]

I bet he has algae between his toes right now. What's that in your toes, lg?

[Christopher]

They're like two blades.

[Bob Kevoian]

Steel. So now to take this topic. Are there any more from the Reddit people?

[Christy Lee]

There are the threesomes. According to this Reddit user. I'll call my parents instead if I want to disappoint two people at the same time.

[Bob Kevoian]

Oh, that's a good.

[Christopher]

Real funny.

[Bob Kevoian]

And then chick. I say you, you've nailed this one.

[Christopher]

I can't, I can't play zone. I will not do it one on one, man. I can't, I can't. Oh yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Never been interesting to me, Josh. Is that part of your repertoire of.

[Tom Griswold]

Sure. Really? Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

You'd like that.

[Tom Griswold]

I would, yeah. I am a one woman man.

[Christopher]

Are you now or have you ever been, Josh, a member of a communist party?

[Tom Griswold]

I think that has its place, doesn't it?

[Christopher]

Look, Tom, Tom is doing.

[Bob Kevoian]

No, no. I'm curious.

[Christopher]

Can't get over it.

[Bob Kevoian]

Have you ever been involved in one of these so called three?

[Tom Griswold]

Let's say I have.

[Bob Kevoian]

Okay.

[Christopher]

Just for fun, let's say yes.

[Tom Griswold]

The key is to not have any sort of delusions of grandeur. It's not just about you, it's about everybody.

[Christopher]

Isn't it?

[Bob Kevoian]

That sounds really reasonable.

[Tom Griswold]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

And yet.

[Christopher]

But is it? It has to be at some point. Is it is much like just waiting for a bus, isn't it? I mean.

[Christy Lee]

What?

[Tom Griswold]

No, no, no. I, I, Yeah. I would maybe be a person who would appreciate the chance to go get a glass of water.

[Christopher]

Okay.

[Tom Griswold]

And then come back. Are there times where you feel left out? Like you just kind of land, like I said, you use that time to your advantage.

[Christopher]

You go make some microwave doordash.

[Bob Kevoian]

Now, do they make requests like I'd like a blt. Would you mind going, going to the kitchen and whipping up. I can't go.

[Tom Griswold]

Hey, wait a second. Am I out out?

[Shara Lassley]

Not if you make a good BLT and come back.

[Bob Kevoian]

I want to catch up. Now, when you were doing this, if I were to share of the blt, what did the guy want?

[Christy Lee]

Devil's three Way is what he's got there.

[Christopher]

Oh yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

See, the assumption was. Yeah, no, that does not appeal to me at all. Are there any, any other fantasies that are appealing to you at all? Just chick.

[Christopher]

No, I'm a meat and potatoes kind of guy. I. Whatever.

[Bob Kevoian]

Really?

[Christopher]

Yeah.

[Tom Griswold]

Little dirty talk, right? You like that?

[Christopher]

Oh, I like, I like. Like a little league game. Yeah. I. I like to hear how I'm doing.

[Bob Kevoian]

Oh, really?

[Christopher]

I like. I like an instant report card. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Chalk it up, man.

[Tom Griswold]

Not too crazy.

[Bob Kevoian]

Like, swing better. Better, better.

[Tom Griswold]

Swing better.

[Bob Kevoian]

Okay, that's.

[Christopher]

That's fine.

[Tom Griswold]

Yeah.

[Bob Kevoian]

Pardon me.

[Christy Lee]

Are you a talker in that situation?

[Tom Griswold]

Is that the only place you don't.

[Bob Kevoian]

Talk too much, that you may have nailed it?

[Tom Griswold]

Shara, you have. You had it go bad. Dirty taco bath.

[Bob Kevoian]

Yeah.

[Shara Lassley]

Yeah. And it's pretty awkward. You know, you get a little into it, and it's like you meant to say, you know, yeah, daddy right there. But it came out as like, the.

[Bob Kevoian]

Daddy thing is disturbing. Yeah.

[Shara Lassley]

If you really get into character, it can get even more disturbing. You know, I was like, yeah, daddy, right there. But it came out as, you know.

[Christy Lee]

Yeah, daddy right there.

[Tom Griswold]

That would be. You know, I kind of like that.

[Shara Lassley]

And that's the problem. He like it too. I was like, I gotta call the cops.

[Bob Kevoian]

That is.

[Tom Griswold]

I got.

[Bob Kevoian]

That is.

[Christopher]

I think we're gonna have to take.

[Bob Kevoian]

A break for, like. I wanna hear that.

[Tom Griswold]

44 hours.

[Christopher]

Tom is shocked beyond belief.

[Bob Kevoian]

That's it for another Bob and Tom show.

[Christopher]

Extra.

[Bob Kevoian]

Catch us on itunes, Google play and stitcher for Bob and Tom. Extra. This is Christopher. Take care, everybody.

[Tom Griswold]

Action. Next role is a groundbreaking podcast created and executive produced by Vernon Davis. This is where we talk about reinvention. The series explores the transformative journ of athletes, artists, comedians, and entrepreneurs.

[Christopher]

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[Bob Kevoian]

They just keep going.

[Tom Griswold]

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[Bob Kevoian]

Stay tuned.

[Tom Griswold]

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