The BOB & TOM Show Extra: Alli Breen with Sexy Time
Episode Date: October 2, 2025
Host(s): The BOB & TOM Show (Bob, Tom, Mr. Obvious, Christopher)
Guest: Comedian Alli Breen
Main Theme: Comedy Q&A on Love, Sex, and Life Advice
Episode Overview
This "Bob & Tom Extra" episode spotlights comedian Alli Breen in her recurring "Sexy Time" advice segment. The panel answers humorous relationship, romance, and lifestyle listener questions with unfiltered wit and playful banter. Expect classic Bob & Tom irreverence aimed at modern dating, cohabitation woes, noisy neighbors, and the perils of awkward social situations.
Key Discussion Points and Insights
1. Opening Skit: Mr. Obvious Show - The Pilot/Pilates Mix-Up (01:41 – 06:57)
- Premise: A caller seeks career advice from Mr. Obvious, believing he’s training to be an airline pilot at his gym, only to discover he’s been in Pilates classes for two years.
- Notable Quotes:
- Caller: "I wanted to be a doctor, but you have to go to college for that. I like those uniforms that pilots get to wear. I look great in blue, Mr. Obvious." (03:01)
- Mr. Obvious: "No, caller, that's not pilots. It's Pilates. It's a physical fitness program designed by a man named Joseph Pilates." (05:40)
- Memorable Moments: The confusion with Pilates vs. pilots, ending with a mixup at a "Lamaze class" at a Mexican restaurant, showcasing classic show absurdity.
2. Alli Breen Joins for ‘Sexy Time’ (07:10 – 23:08)
a. Relationship Suspicion After a Dream (08:49 – 10:23)
- Letter: Husband (truck driver, often away) dreams that wife is cheating; unsure if he should voice suspicion based on the dream.
- Panel’s Take:
- Bob: “The dream isn’t the problem, the suspicion is the problem.” (09:14)
- Tom: “Guys and girls can be friends.” (09:19)
- Alli Breen: “The dream’s a good way to approach it without sounding actually suspicious. Like, ‘I had a dream...’” (09:53)
- Panel debates whether mentioning the dream is clever or manipulative and joke about overanalyzing dreams.
b. Noisy Neighbors with Kids at Home (11:17 – 14:17)
- Letter: Couple struggling with neighbors’ extremely loud, frequent sex, worried for their young kids.
- Panel’s Advice:
- Bob: “Go over and say, ‘I had a dream I killed my neighbors because they were having sex too loud. Isn’t that crazy?’” (11:45)
- Tom: “Maybe they make movies for a living... OnlyFans couple, right?” (11:38)
- Alli: “You can say, ‘I have kids, can you tone it down?’ and hope the couple isn’t psychotic.” (13:51)
- Final verdict: Diplomacy is recommended, but ultimately a “construction problem” if the walls are thin.
c. Being Left Out of Bachelor Party at Destination Wedding (14:32 – 16:20)
- Letter: Woman's boyfriend attends a bachelor party during a destination wedding, she feels left out, doesn’t want to socialize with the bride’s group.
- Panel’s Humor & Perspective:
- Bob: “He can go to his friend’s bachelor party and you just... watch Netflix soft porn, whatever.” (16:04)
- Alli: “I never understand why people get upset about having a night to themselves... I’d love that.” (16:20)
- Consensus: Enjoy the solo night, don’t guilt the boyfriend.
d. Living at Home at 34 and Dating Coworkers (18:40 – 20:24)
- Letter: Listener drives nice car, coworker assumes he’s rich, but he lives with parents at 34. Fears girlfriend will leave if truth comes out.
- Panel’s Response:
- Bob: “If you’re gonna lie, keep up the lie as long as you can... You’re not gonna be able to.” (19:01)
- Tom: “He’s got three weeks to find an apartment, that’s the answer.” (19:12)
- Jokes about living at home and showing off the car/fake affluence.
- Alli: “Maybe make an excuse to always go to her place, say yours is under renovation.” (20:37)
e. Roommates and Tinder Dates (21:04 – 22:46)
- Letter: Woman’s roommate objects to her bringing home multiple Tinder dates, wants to "vet" them. She disagrees as they pay equal rent.
- Panel’s Debate:
- Mr. Obvious: “She has a point.” (21:25)
- Bob: “Dear Easy, there’s no background check.” (21:26)
- Alli: “How could you have them vetted by your roommate every time?" (21:50)
- Suggestions: Get a deadbolt (Tom: “Not a bad idea.” 22:01); take a picture of guest’s ID.
- Laughs about the practicality of roommate approvals and dangers of random guests.
Notable Quotes & Fun Exchanges
- “You look like the femme fatale in those LA Detective movies... the kind of legs you wouldn’t mind strangling you.” — Bob to Alli (07:50)
- “If you’re 34 and still living at home, it’s time. It’s time to move out.” — Tom (19:56)
- “Hold up your license if you want to sleep with me — you have to submit your license to my roommate and get approved, like a condo.” — Alli Breen (22:46)
- “Order some food in, take it out of the containers and re-plate like you do. Have a lovely evening.” — Bob to Tom (16:42)
Timestamps for Important Segments
- 01:41 – Mr. Obvious skit begins
- 06:57 – Skit ends, transition to main segment
- 07:10 – Alli Breen appears for Sexy Time
- 08:49 – First letter: Suspicion after a dream
- 11:17 – Noisy neighbors with kids
- 14:32 – Bachelor party dilemma
- 18:40 – Living at home at 34 and dating
- 21:04 – Roommate trouble with Tinder dates
- 22:53 – Final banter and wrap-up
Tone & Style
The episode maintains a breezy, quick-witted, and adult comedic tone. Banter is irreverent, playful, and unfiltered but lightly tinged with practical advice. Panelists riff on one another’s jokes, push storylines to absurd conclusions, and playfully roast Alli about her “femme fatale” look and eating habits.
Summary & Takeaway
This is a classic BOB & TOM: a blend of over-the-top characters, oddball advice for real and fake relationship problems, and crowd-pleasing guest Alli Breen dishing out humor-laced answers. If you crave comedy that mixes real-world issues (love, cohabitation, noisy neighbors, awkward social encounters) with relentless punchlines and spontaneous joking, this episode delivers.