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Ali Colleen
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Bobby Bones
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Ali Colleen
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Bobby Bones
Yeah, we're moms, but not your mommy.
Ali Colleen
Historically, men talk too much and women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your try. Listen to the Good Moms Choices Bad podcast every Wednesday on the Black Effect podcast network, the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you go to find your podcast. I think he's very, very hesitant to tell me anything about music, you know what I mean? Because it just doesn't work the same as it did. I mean, you're talking about generations different. My dad hates social media and sometime is thought that maybe I shouldn't do social media like for myself, like the Preserve Valley. But I'm like, who else is going to do it, man? Like I'm an independent.
Bobby Bones
Episode 518 of the Bobby cast with Ali Colleen. She just put out a new EP called Sincerely Rolling Stone. And I found because we've had her before and I've always tried to be sensitive of the fact that she is her own artist. She's also Garth Brooks's daughter. And I never want to be like, hey, so you're Garth's daughter? And I felt like in the first time we really didn't do that much at all till the end. Yeah. But this time, so much of her music this time is about. And you can correct me if I'm wrong here, about how she balances deals, lives with the fact that there's an expectation on her because she's Garth's daughter. Do you feel like that's accurate? Yeah, she got deep into it here. Felt like therapy throughout, and I think it was because really, a lot of her music this time is about those feelings that surround that. And we talked about it. Otherwise, I don't think I would have just cannonballed into it. I would have definitely respected her as she is, as her own artist, but I was grateful for her generosity in that area. Yeah. It was almost like she couldn't talk about the music without talking about that. Yeah. So know that. Know that. I would have for sure just been like, hey, let's talk about your music. Because I definitely respect her as an artist and as a songwriter and. And just who she is as a person. So, yeah, that's it. Just want to make sure we're all cool there. She's Garth's daughter, but she's also, first and foremost, Ali Colleen, her definite own person. She has a lot of tattoos. We talk about that. Her arms are. And even her legs are covered in art. I won't even say tattoos. It's like one big art project. She didn't sing a lot growing up, especially not in front of her family. I don't know if we talked about horses this time. I don't think so. Well, a place in her house we talked about. That's true. That's true. But she's a big horse person, so we'll just get to it right now. Episode 518 Ali Colleen. Follow her on Instagram Alicoline Music or check it out. Alicolinemusic.com I don't want to spoil anything, but when she's like, people just expect me to play Friends in low places. That was kind of funny. All right, here you go. Enjoy. Right before we went on, we were talking about exercising. I don't like going to the gym. I don't like exercising. But I think I. Six days a week, probably.
Ali Colleen
What do you not like about it all?
Bobby Bones
Everything. I hate it. What do you like about it, though? Because you're getting fired up. You're like, I just like going, like, what. What is it about it that you.
Ali Colleen
I absolutely love it. I think it's. It's a big control thing. Right. Like, I think there's a lot of stuff you do during your day that you don't want to do, and I get to choose to do this one. It's also, like such a release. I'm an angry guy sometimes, you know what I mean? I don't feel that way when I get out of there.
Bobby Bones
That's funny that, that. Because everybody has different ways to release. And I do have friends that are similar to you and they like to. And I owned a bunch of boxing gyms here in town for a long time, and so I liked it, but I never found my release in that. And like, the exerting physically. I think mostly my release is like getting burner accounts on social media and going after people. That's my role.
Ali Colleen
Do you link it to performing the gym? No, because, like, you don't ever stop performing.
Bobby Bones
I hate the gym, though. Okay, let's break this up. I like. I like where you're. Where you're taking me.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I feel like my day is constantly creating content regardless, thinking of it, talking about it. I got like five shows if I'm touring a part of the year, if I'm coming. So that's always happening. I still hate the gym, even though I'm able to separate from it. I just hate. I like exercising. If there's a. Okay, you put me here. I got it. I like competing. I like competing. It's other people and beating other people because I'm so insecure that I have to beat people and stuff to feel good about myself. And so if my exercise comes from that, A would do it all day.
Ali Colleen
So beat Bobby.
Bobby Bones
But I don't like that because I can beat Bobby or I can lose to Bobby.
Ali Colleen
Who said you could beat Bobby?
Bobby Bones
I can beat Bobby or I can lose to Bobby. Either way, Bobby wins. I don't like running. That's why I don't like running. I want to be.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, but there's Bobby and then there's the self.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but even if the self wins or if Bobby wins, either way, I still won.
Ali Colleen
Oh, the self can lose to Bobby dog.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but that's okay because then Bobby still won. One of the. Bobby's won.
Ali Colleen
Okay. All right, all right, all right.
Bobby Bones
So you, like, you go. Okay, what do you do? You box.
Ali Colleen
You say, I go to Hot box when I don't want to do anything. Because then you show up and you're in a class and you have to. And then the competition comes in and it's like, well, I'm gonna work harder than the dude next to me today so that I do that when I don't want to do something. I go to hot box because I know my weaknesses, and that is pushing myself And I don't want to.
Bobby Bones
My weakness is just getting up to go once I get in the car. If I go to the gym or I'm good. It's just getting, like putting my clothes on.
Ali Colleen
When was the last time you bought a new gym outfit, Bobby?
Bobby Bones
Oh, no, never. Not in forever. But I'm good, though.
Ali Colleen
I'm just telling you right now.
Bobby Bones
I like a cut.
Ali Colleen
I buy a new gym fit, I'm in the next day, I'm probably in that night. You know what I mean? I'm in the fit. I'm in the gym. I'm ready.
Bobby Bones
I. I don't think I. I usually just cut out sleeves of old shirts, and that's a new outfit for me, though. As long as I cut the sleeves out, I'm good.
Ali Colleen
We could also debunk that if you wanted to, but we don't have to.
Bobby Bones
I don't think so. I think that's a new shirt for me. My wife tells me all the time, she goes, I see you cut sleeves out of two more of your shirts. I like to wear. I think that's one of my simple joys, wearing cutout shirts.
Ali Colleen
Do you ever feel that way about your laces?
Bobby Bones
So here's the thing about my laces. My laces are. And we're. Look at us. Hey, look at us. Very similar. I like to wear my laces loose. If there's shoes that I know I'm going to do nothing athletic in, and then I can slide on and off.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And then I have shoes that are very similar, that the strings. I'll pull them out and I keep them tight just in case I have to, like, run if I'm getting robbed or something. I think that would be that reason. What is your lace theory? Because yours are loose as well.
Ali Colleen
Mine are loose, but they're also the. They can't be longer. You guys step on them. You know what I mean? Yeah.
Bobby Bones
But you got to make them so loose that they can't. Because if you made them the exact length they were, you would step on them. Like, you've kept them loose to the front of the foot.
Ali Colleen
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I feel like these are my shoes. It says, I. There's nothing I can do except work. And I love shoes. I didn't have a bunch of shoes growing up as a kid, so now it's. It's. These are very expensive shoes. And I say that in a way of. I never had good shoes growing up, so now I buy expensive shoes.
Ali Colleen
I played a show for a roofing company in Oklahoma. And it was the wife's birthday, and she got an entire Louis Vuitton set for her cow at that party.
Bobby Bones
Wait, what?
Ali Colleen
She got a Louis Vuitton, like, harness? I got, like, a whole set.
Bobby Bones
That's even weirder.
Ali Colleen
They made me think about it.
Bobby Bones
They make Louis Vuitton harnesses.
Ali Colleen
I don't think they do. I think they did.
Bobby Bones
You know what I mean, for one.
Ali Colleen
I think so, yeah.
Bobby Bones
So those are just listening. I have on a pair of Air Max red Nike Louis Vuitton, and I love them. And when I put these on, I know that I can't hop into a pickleball match.
Ali Colleen
That seems more like a personal boundary for you than the shoe.
Bobby Bones
But I think I will hurt myself if they're loose.
Ali Colleen
Oh, really?
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I have to tighten these way up.
Ali Colleen
I can't do that.
Bobby Bones
So what's your shoe deal? Because you. You. You have a pretty cool fashion sense in general. Why?
Ali Colleen
I love half and half. I always have. When I was probably in, like, eighth grade, my sister got a pair of Kool Aids and she couldn't pick between the yellow pair and the green pair, so she bought both. And she wore, like, the right and left shoe of both colors. And ever since then, I've been obsessed with half and half. So my laces are half and half. For tour, I have a khaki Timberland and a black Timberland. I always mix my Converse half and half.
Bobby Bones
That wouldn't work for me. I'm pretty colorblind in general, so I'd accidentally be normal.
Ali Colleen
But you could tell the difference between a dark shoe and a light shoe.
Bobby Bones
If it was black and white, yeah. But blue and green, no.
Ali Colleen
Can you tell that my laces are different?
Bobby Bones
I didn't notice they were different until you said that.
Ali Colleen
Interesting. I don't know too much about the whole colorblind thing. It's certain colors for certain people. Right.
Bobby Bones
All mine's dark colors. After about a six on the scale, it's all. All black. Maybe 6.5.
Ali Colleen
How do you pick the colors you like to wear?
Bobby Bones
I love red. I'm wearing a lot of red today.
Ali Colleen
Because you can see it.
Bobby Bones
Or I can see red a little darker. But yeah, I wear a lot of red or light colors. My wife helps me. When I was in high school, and I would go. I was in key club and which is Kawan is educating youth. And I would go speak and try to win scholarships. And so they let me because of my quote unquote disability. I don't say that now, but they let me Take my friend with me to match clothes because I couldn't tell the difference. I really didn't need them.
Ali Colleen
But the camaraderie is kind of cool. But that's crazy.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. No, I really didn't need them because I can just like, now. A lot of my stuff's labeled as well, but I'm not blind, mama. Right eye doesn't work. I have 8% vision on my right eye in general, so I should have a handicap sticker, and I don't.
Ali Colleen
And you still pickleball the hell out of it, though.
Bobby Bones
Imagine, though, if I had both eyes, how good I would be.
Ali Colleen
I don't think anyone wants to.
Bobby Bones
They shouldn't, because you're unstoppable. Because I want a bronze medal with one eye. Imagine if I had both eyes. I never have a silver. You play pickleball at all?
Ali Colleen
I'm gonna tell you no. But yes, I do play pickleball. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
What do you do? So if you're going to work out, though, you say you go to. You don't say the name of the gym, but you go to, like, a.
Ali Colleen
I just go to a local gym when I want to work out that has, like, free weights. I love lifting.
Bobby Bones
And you can make yourself work hard. Yeah, because I can make myself work hard at work. It's hard for me to just push myself physically to the point where it's uncomfortable, which I pay a trainer to do. But it's hard for me to push myself in that part of my life that I push myself so hard. It makes me uncomfortable. But you can do that?
Ali Colleen
Yeah. I feel like I perform for everybody else all the time, and the gym is the only place that I only perform for Ally.
Bobby Bones
That's interesting. I feel like I don't want to perform anywhere else in the gym's part of the place. I don't want to perform.
Ali Colleen
I don't. I can't relate to not wanting to perform.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I don't. I'm such an introvert when I'm not an extrovert.
Ali Colleen
But you don't perform for yourself at home?
Bobby Bones
I perform for my dogs. I do bits all the time for my dogs and my wife, but she doesn't really like the bits.
Ali Colleen
Oh, the world's. Your dogs have seen.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I do a lot of bits, but I'm very introverted. If I'm not on. A lot of people will go. If they'll see me at a restaurant or something, and they won't. They won't come say hi. This is the annoying part about it. They won't come say hi, but then they'll tag me in something, be like, he was a total jerk.
Ali Colleen
Yeah. They'll tell somebody later that you were like, put off. But they didn't.
Bobby Bones
And I was like, you never said anything to me. And. And I naturally am a quiet person that feels like nobody wants me in their space, so I don't get in their space.
Ali Colleen
Well, the expectation for someone to expect you to come and create rapport just because you're in a room is crazy. You don't know they're there and you don't care they're there. Respectfully. You're just at first watch having some avocado toast. You know what I mean? That's crazy. You shouldn't have to set rapport with the entire room.
Bobby Bones
Yes, And I agree. I also appreciate the fact that they think they know me well enough. And it's so. Because it's an odd relationship to have with that. Because it does irritate me when people will say, man, he was a jerk. Or tagged me, hey, you were such a jerk at this place. And I'm like, you never said hi to me. How am I supposed to react to somebody who doesn't come up and say hello? However, I think for me, the benefit of that is somebody feels like they know me well enough through what they've consumed from me that they feel I should be a certain way. And that's intimate in that content, you know, absorption from people. And I don't think it's fair, but I have found kind of a silver lining to that, that people feel they know me well enough to get upset irrationally because it's not fair.
Ali Colleen
It's not fair.
Bobby Bones
It's not fair.
Ali Colleen
It's not fair. I know that you're an introvert, so maybe you don't relate to this, or maybe you do. I'm an introvert, so if I'm out in public, I've just already decided I'm out in public. How do you feel about people who are like, if celebrities aren't going to be nice to you, they have no reason to go to a restaurant.
Bobby Bones
I hate that.
Ali Colleen
I feel like they should be able to go to the restaurant.
Bobby Bones
There's only two rules that I give people that listen to me, and they don't have to listen to my rules. But if a celebrity is with a kid or they have food in front of them in a public place, leave them alone.
Ali Colleen
Absolutely.
Bobby Bones
Other than that, they know what they've got themselves into and they've gone in public Knowing that people will know them. Their job was to be known. So if they have a kid with them, don't bother them. Or if there's food in front of them, don't bother them. Other than that, they have the right to say no. As a celebrity, absolutely. They can absolutely be a jerk all they want. But you're in a public place, go up and say hi. And most times I have found that people enjoy when normal people come up and say they're a fan of them. That's kind of why they got into the business.
Ali Colleen
Absolutely.
Bobby Bones
Most times there's a rare exception to people who are jerks, but most people that create for public consumption enjoy it. When the public comes up and says, I enjoy what you have put out, yeah, but just no kids and no food. Other than that, they're free game. And I don't.
Ali Colleen
The kids and the food thing is very cool to me.
Bobby Bones
Why? Because you were the kid once.
Ali Colleen
I was the kid.
Bobby Bones
I was thinking about you today leading into this for that exact reason. It's so funny that we ended up on this because I was thinking, man, I bet your relationship with fame is so weird because you probably just wanted to have parents.
Ali Colleen
I just wanted to have parents, and I just wanted to have parents that could be parents too, you know, like. And that's always tough because you're, you're, you're, you know, considering this lifeline that isn't real. So who knows what we're talking about, you know what I mean? But I do wonder sometimes what something would have been like if my dad was always just dad. If, like, that was his biggest thing. But that takes away 82% of the human that that man is. You know what I mean? He's a lot more than just a dad, so. But I was the kid and it was really tough. And I only found when we were eating. So I think it's really interesting you say that if you want to come up and say hi when we're shopping in the grocery store. It never bothered me. It really didn't. But there was something about when we're eating and he has to stand up and make sure that he is not have food in his teeth and that he doesn't. You know what I mean? And all the things that a human should be able to do when they're sitting and eating with their family and they. That was always really tough.
Bobby Bones
And I'm not going to compare my situation to yours in any way or my wife's, but. So when I got married for my wife, the situation Was a bit difficult in that I got to grow with whatever version of fame that I have, because I'm definitely not famous, but I am known in parts of the country, and people do come up and say hello, and that's great. 99% of the time. It really is. I got to grow with that. Meaning I got to be in a small town. I got to syndicate myself. I got to have. I did shows of a hundred people.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, you got to evolve as you evolve, for sure.
Bobby Bones
So I grew with it. Learned where my wife was kind of dunked into it, and I would be like, oh, it's okay. They're recording us from two tables over. It's not a big deal. But to her, that was her starting point, so it was really weird.
Ali Colleen
I can't imagine I feel that way about the. The TikTok and the viral thing with these artists right now. I think we've seen the last five years the most mental effect on these new artists who haven't done anything, and then now they're on an opening tour or haven't done, and it's like, I can't imagine that. And I. I have a lot of stuff that I have a big chip on my shoulder about with having, you know, famous parents and, like, living and growing up in that way that I do. But I can't imagine running into it at 19. You know what I mean? Out of nowhere and, like, being viral overnight or running into it at 22 out of nowhere, like. So I'm very grateful to have gotten to seen it on the spectrum that I saw it. And then now I've experienced it in my own way in such a totally different. Different spectrum than the way that my, you know, I did as a child.
Bobby Bones
But it's crazy. That would also relieve. Because I. In a different way. I feel it, too. It relieves a bit of resentment.
Ali Colleen
It does.
Bobby Bones
You're able to see somebody else go into it differently.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And you're like, man, that would kind of suck.
Ali Colleen
Perspectives.
Bobby Bones
It is a tool, but you only get it through situations you didn't ask for.
Ali Colleen
Yeah. Like patience.
Bobby Bones
Like, if you have perspective, it's because you've been through something that sucks. It wasn't desirable.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. So we have kind of rules at the house. My wife's very private. She. And part of that, too, is probably her getting dunked in it and me not understanding. I needed to care more. I think I failed a bit early on because I didn't understand. I needed to care more about that part of our life because I'd just been so public with everything and.
Ali Colleen
Right.
Bobby Bones
She's very private. Was there a part of your life where you were just like, I'm just. And maybe it's not even. It's in your name. I don't know what it is, like, that you were just like, I need this for me because my life has been associated with Garth Brooks or country music, or, like, what did you keep to yourself that was so private or different?
Ali Colleen
I'm still working really hard on that. I don't know. I really don't know. I've been in therapy for the last three years specifically for that. Because, you know, growing up the way that I did, you were just privileged. You know what I mean? Like, you just had everything that nobody else had. Like, there couldn't have been anything wrong because we had so much. You know what I mean?
Bobby Bones
Now, to be fair, what you're saying is just so I can speak between the words you're actually saying, you're saying you weren't allowed to feel like you down because you were so up.
Ali Colleen
I didn't know that until I was an adult. But of course, like, we had everything. And my parents came from, respectfully, nothing, you know, So I don't know that it even crossed maybe their brains that we could go without because we had everything. And so I didn't know. And when we talk about performing in the gym and all of those things, and, like, I mean, I had to learn at, you know, a very young age that you didn't just get to be a wild kid in the grocery store because what you did was a reflection of Garth Brooks. You know what I mean? And, like. And we, as a family, we love that name. We love the name of Tricia Yearwood. We love the name of Garth Brooks. Now, those. Those products are not my parents. You know what I mean? My. My bonus mom is my bonus mom, and my dad and my mom are my parents, and that's what they are. But there's also that thing of growing up where it's like, man. And anyone from who's like a really, really small town also gets it, too, on that spectrum, like, if you get in trouble at the bar, you know what I mean? When you're 21 on your first time, like, that is a reflection of your family in that small town. You know what I mean? And so think about that. Globally, it just seemed like everything we did, so we had that. We tried to get the best grades, and we tried to be the best athletes, and we tried to be the kindest people in town, you know what I mean? Like you just try and do all that thing like what you were talking about earlier just to negate any possible run ins with like being anything that's negative. And so as an adult, I'm 28 now and I'm really trying to figure out what Ali does for Ali.
Bobby Bones
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Ali Colleen
Guests such as Western historian Dr. Randall.
Bobby Bones
Williams and best selling author and meat eater founder, Stephen Rinella.
Ali Colleen
I'll correct my kids now and then.
Bobby Bones
Where they'll say, when cave people were here. And I'll say, it seems like the Ice age people that were here didn't have a real affinity for caves.
Ali Colleen
So join me starting Tuesday, May 6.
Bobby Bones
Where we'll delve into stories of the west and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we.
Ali Colleen
Experience the region today.
Bobby Bones
Listen to the American west with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. And we're back on the Bobbycast. Have you read and this is such a cliche book, but I say that because I just read it. I always felt it was cliche, so I never read it. I just read the Alchemist.
Ali Colleen
I'm familiar with the title.
Bobby Bones
Okay, me too. It's all I was familiar with because. And so I. The whole thing's about finding your personal legend. The whole book.
Ali Colleen
Explain that to me. What's the first?
Bobby Bones
Your purpose.
Ali Colleen
Oh, like your legacy. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Like why do you exist? Like what in inside of you? What is your purpose for being here? And I think my purpose was so attached to my career for so long.
Ali Colleen
Right.
Bobby Bones
Like it would. Only. That's the only thing I really had control in though, because it's coming from how I grew up. I didn't have control. I didn't have any family. So.
Ali Colleen
Children do not have agency.
Bobby Bones
I. Okay, go ahead.
Ali Colleen
Children do not have agency.
Bobby Bones
I felt like I had to develop agency very early because you had to. Yes. Yes.
Ali Colleen
Is not a fault. You understand what I'm saying? Like any child that had to establish their own agency before. I mean, let's just say 18, because culturally that's. That's what we do here. You know, at 18, you're out there and you're able to make your own decisions. You can mess up with the IRS and go to jail. You can do all the things at 18. So anyone who has to establish agency for them before that, that is something that you're going to have to go back through your entire life with your new beautiful frontal lobe that you have now and reprogram all of those things. Children do not have agency. Children have Freedom to be free children. And that is not the case for I'm sure most. Most people. You know what I mean? Like, we all have to do it. But you didn't have agency as a child.
Bobby Bones
I would say, though how I compare my childhood is I would compare it to yours in the parallel of you may have been given. You may have had the ability to not have to have agency for so long that it could have kept you from growing in certain ways.
Ali Colleen
We didn't have agency because I think the biggest thing of agency is not having the freedom to be a child, not having the freedom to grow up and establish your own likes and dislikes, like your own fears and not fears. Instead, you have like this lifeline that is thrown onto you that kind of takes away that agency. And so for you, having to perform in such a way when you were younger because you had to step in and feel, fill roles that children should not have to fill, I think that affects the self the same way.
Bobby Bones
But don't you think you had to step in and fill roles of the expectation that I. That you had put on yourself to be whomever everybody else thought you were?
Ali Colleen
Absolutely. My siblings and I had absolutely no agency to grow and to evolve at an appropriate pace, you know what I mean?
Bobby Bones
Like to find your real self.
Ali Colleen
Reflection. Yes. And so how. How are you encouraged to do that with the alchemist? And where do you land at? Is there a landing point?
Bobby Bones
I don't think there's a landing point ever. Just in general, anyway. Yeah, I don't. I don't.
Ali Colleen
I hate that.
Bobby Bones
I think the one thing I've learned is there really is no target ever. You just kind of aim toward a goal, and then at any time you want to modify that, you have the ability to modify that. Yeah, my goals used to be A and B. And I've had a. In therapy, I've had a real hard time with not feeling like a failure because I'm modifying a goal. Because I feel like if I'm modifying a goal, I'm giving up.
Ali Colleen
So how is purpose defined in the alchemist?
Bobby Bones
That it's okay to chase your sense of self, even if it wasn't your sense of self even five minutes ago, that there. There is no definitive sense of self. That a lot of the things that we prioritize and make extremely important, we're making important. Making important for exterior, for. For reasons that really don't matter to us, it matters to other people, and other people matter to us, and limiting that because it's never going to be Gone.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And so, yeah, I avoided that book forever. And I read it and pretty freaking amazing. I get it. I get why people like talk about it so much. But same thing with the four agreements. Like, I read that didn't want to friend was like, read it. And for me, that the part of that book was don't. Nothing in business is personal. Even if it is, it's not.
Ali Colleen
One of those things may, like, push you to make a decision that is bigger than the self. I think same thing with, like, pushing yourself to work out. It's like, it's just pushing that bigger conversation that's like, I don't know. It's hard. But I do like the. I like the frustration you have with taking on new stuff that you know is going to be helpful. But you also know that you have to evolve afterwards.
Bobby Bones
I'm good with delayed gratification. I really am, because all my gratification has been extremely delayed. Extremely. So, yeah, I'm pretty good with delayed gratification. You have a lot of tattoos.
Ali Colleen
I was looking at this photograph before you came in here, and I was thinking about the ones that are not on this photograph. I like doing that. Every time I come into a room, I'm like, what's new?
Bobby Bones
What are you saying with all these tattoos?
Ali Colleen
I think that they all say, you know, something different in their own way. I also don't find it to be too serious in the sense of, I saw a woman when I was probably 8 or 9 that was just covered head to toe in tattoos, and I thought, what a story. Like, that's crazy. Like, I just thought she was stunning. And I thought, I want to represent what I've learned and how I've evolved in a bunch of tiny little things that matter to me. And some of them are just cool, man. Some of them I just think are cool. Cool like my band aid? Are you joking?
Bobby Bones
I think all of them are probably cool, and I guess so. I wonder if you were, in your mind, required to live a certain way because of the expectation upon you. Is this a way to say there is no expectation on me anymore?
Ali Colleen
I think for me, it's just an outward thing of, like, maybe that is one of the few things that I have done for myself. I have tattoos of myself. I have two tattoos of myself and where she was when she got them and who she is now. Because I don't know who else is ever going to get an Ali Colleen leg sleeve. If there are a couple people, that'd be pretty rad. But I don't Think there are. I think it's probably just me, so I'll do it. But I just love it. But I've never thought about it as any kind of, like, negating what people expect me to look like. I've never talked. I've never taken it that way. I don't mean to put words in your mouth.
Bobby Bones
No, I took some people. I did take it as that.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, completely. I've had a lot of people ask me that and ask about, oh, well, so you have tattoos because your parents don't like tattoos, or. The case is. And I'm like, I. It has never crossed my mind to ask my parents what they thought about my tattoos or my body.
Bobby Bones
How many do you have?
Ali Colleen
I don't know. I'm gonna. I've passed. With both of my arms being one whole piece. I know I've passed 30.
Bobby Bones
What was your first tattoo?
Ali Colleen
My elephant.
Bobby Bones
Which one? There on your leg?
Ali Colleen
Yes.
Bobby Bones
That's a. Odd place to get a first tattoo, right on your quad.
Ali Colleen
I already had my. I already had my sleeve planned out, but I graduated. I was one of those really late summer birthdays. I graduated, like, 17, so I knew I was going to be in Nashville when I was 18, because I chose my university here, and so I already had Jay picked out. J. Quarrels is my tattoo artist. I absolutely love him, and so I already had him picked out. So I just wanted something to get on my 18th birthday. And the elephant was a painting that I'd done, and so I wanted to. I wanted to do my own first tattoo. Like, I wanted to design it.
Bobby Bones
Are they all personal?
Ali Colleen
Not all of them. Most of them, yes. Some of them, I genuinely think just look absolutely cool. Just swag.
Bobby Bones
What's more personal, a tattoo or a song that you've written? Because I'm assuming not all songs are as personal as others. I mean, there's. There's a scale.
Ali Colleen
There's absolutely a scale. I mean, there's those songs that. There's very few of these. Because I feel like as performers, you know, when something touches us that much, we kind of have that ego of thinking it can affect a lot of people. But if you ever meet songwriters who have songs that they've truly never played for anybody else, that I think is the most personal thing that you can. That you can have.
Bobby Bones
Do you have one of those? Two of those, Three of those?
Ali Colleen
I only have one.
Bobby Bones
Why?
Ali Colleen
Everything else, I've always wanted to share in some capacity with somebody.
Bobby Bones
Are you. Are you making it precious or are you insecure?
Ali Colleen
I think it's a shame thing for sure. But I think it's one of the very few ways, like, outlets that I've learned to navigate shame with that I like. But it's also rooted in performing, which I'm trying to get away from. If I can turn my shame into something that I think is beautiful and that someone could listen to it without arguing against it or negating its purpose, surely I did a good job. That's performing.
Bobby Bones
Is the shame limiting itself as time goes by in your dream scenario, or are you always gonna hold this song this precious?
Ali Colleen
I think I'll hold it this precious until I don't have shame for what the song is about. You know what I mean? Like, for shame for that memory, shame for that circumstance, shame for how I reacted or didn't react to that circumstance. I think that the shame will always be there. And then there's also that performing thing of, like, it's something that I don't want anyone's even positive affirmations about yet. You know, it's just a little personal world. I don't know. But I don't think I have any tattoos that I would feel as personal about to a song.
Bobby Bones
Do you have any tattoos from songs like, did you write a song and go, I'm gonna make this. This makes me feel a certain way. It's about a certain thing.
Ali Colleen
Yeah. I have started my back recently, which is going to be over my lifetime. All lyrics of mine that I. That I. That, like, really mean something to me. So I have a song called Wildflower and that chorus is the first lyrics that are on my back so far. Cause it's just one of the songs that I want to represent for the rest of my life. And one of the songs that I wrote for me to represent for of the.
Bobby Bones
The rest.
Ali Colleen
The rest of my life.
Bobby Bones
Are you OCD that the lyrics all have to be in the same font or same size?
Ali Colleen
No, no, I've already made it. I've made sure that they can all be, like, hodgepodged. And like, the margins are all different on all of them too. And the font's different on all of them based off of, like, the character of the song. So the font should reflect the song if that makes any kind of sense.
Bobby Bones
How often do you write?
Ali Colleen
I write in some capacity every day. Whether it's like free writing or whether it's actually putting melody to lyrics or whether it's co writing or. I write every day.
Bobby Bones
Are you a melody first or a concept lyric first?
Ali Colleen
Always different.
Bobby Bones
Generally, 51% of the time concept first.
Ali Colleen
It's happening less and less as I get older, that I just have a melody that I can't shake, that I want to put it like a narrative to. Usually it's trying to find the melody that fits the narrative.
Bobby Bones
Where's home?
Ali Colleen
Somewhere where there's food. You know what I mean? I don't know. It's not Oklahoma. It's not here. I live here. I was raised in Oklahoma. I don't know where I'm gonna end up or where I want to spend my personal time.
Bobby Bones
God knocks on the door and says, hey, take me to your home. Where do you take him?
Ali Colleen
Take him to the barn. I have a barn at my house. It has the best acoustics on the planet.
Bobby Bones
Why?
Ali Colleen
I think it's because it's open. It's like concrete and wood. You know what I mean? It's nothing but refracturing sound. There's no soundproofing or absorbing or anything out there.
Bobby Bones
But there must be a security there in that spot, though, if you pick that.
Ali Colleen
I think it's just where I'm always alone, you know, My house, I've invited people into. My personal life is very small, so it's also very connected. I only have really, like, two best friends and people that I spend my time with, so it's all really connected. Family's weird, will always be weird, and I love them all so much. But the barn is the only place where it's ever just me. No one works in there with me. No one cleans it with me. No one takes care of the horses with me. That's just my place.
Bobby Bones
So that is your security?
Ali Colleen
I think so.
Bobby Bones
And that barn probably. Allow me to put some words in your mouth, and then you can take them out. That barn could probably exist in a few places if it needed to.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Like, it's not that literal place. It's what. What it stands for and what you can do in it.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So it's not Oklahoma, huh?
Ali Colleen
No.
Bobby Bones
When did that not. When was that not home?
Ali Colleen
Oklahoma never felt like home. Oklahoma has always felt like an expectation and a weird thing. I have a song on on this project that's called Oklahoma Mountains, and there are no mountains in Oklahoma. I'm sure you've been there.
Bobby Bones
I'm sure you know, my wife's from there. We're there a lot.
Ali Colleen
Oh, right. Yes. There's nothing. You get lost. You just look up.
Bobby Bones
You're like, where? We're the one thing. They're great in laws. That's what I'll say about the people.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, the people in Oklahoma are incredible. Everyone in Oklahoma will agree with you. They're the best and the worst part. The people are what it is. But Oklahoma mountains is just. They say there's no mountains in Oklahoma. Why have I always had to climb? Oklahoma is just tough for me. It's tough on me. It's tough for me. I don't know. And that's probably an alley thing.
Bobby Bones
Is that an expectation to being Garth's daughter thing?
Ali Colleen
I don't know that it's so much an expectation as much of it's like a just like this really hard label that nobody will move.
Bobby Bones
What's the label?
Ali Colleen
Just being a product's daughter. Like, there's not even an alley in the title. I feel like. I feel like we've talked about this in the past, grammar wise. My. My vendetta with Garth Work's daughter, comma, ally, Colleen, comma, is really, really great and works really hard on her own. That whole sentence is still wrong because I am an adjective of the noun. That's crazy. You know what I mean? Like, I am a daughter to a title. That's. That's crazy because, like, he's a product. Like, Garth Brooks is a product that has been molded and shaped it and worked for. And I am a fan of it. I love what it represents. I love who it is. I love everything about it. But that's what it is. Like, Garth Brooks is a product. Ally Choline is a product. I've worked really hard on it, you know what I mean? On its shelving, on its packaging, on what it represents, on where it comes from, all of those things. But it doesn't have a byproduct. Do you understand what I'm saying? Like, I'm not a byproduct of Garth Brooks. He's just my dad, and we love each other. And then I went off and made a career for myself in music, you know what I mean? And in Oklahoma, you're just always a daughter. You're always someone who's probably never worked very hard for anything. You're always someone who probably has all of our finance taken care of. You're probably someone who dad sits in the meetings with you and makes sure that you've become as successful as you are. Like, you're just always some kind of byproduct of someone else's legacy. And that's not what I am.
Bobby Bones
Do you think you have to work harder than the average hard worker to prove that you work hard?
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Do you think it. I'm not saying, is it real? I'm saying, do you think I do.
Ali Colleen
I think it, yes.
Bobby Bones
Because.
Ali Colleen
Because that has been the narrative that I've been told for as long as I can remember. I think I shared this with you last time. My first spelling test. Made a hundred on it. Did a great job. You know what I mean? Crushed it. Kid next to me spelled beans wrong. B, E, E, N, S. You know what I mean? Beans. Rock on, dude. You were so close. I got 100 on that spelling test because of who my dad is.
Bobby Bones
Which.
Ali Colleen
You know what I mean. Like, just being told from the age that you were six from someone who you sit next to in class and do the same work with, you do the same things every day. I went home and practiced. You know what I mean? And that has been the case my entire life. Every soccer team I've ever made, every tryout I've ever had, every grade I've ever made, the car I drive, the house. I have all of these things, you know, and that's. And everybody has their labels. Everyone has their stuff. I'm not special. We all have our things we have to get over. Those are just things that I'm really trying to get over.
Bobby Bones
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Listen to the American west with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. This is the Bobbycast. I want to make a comparison. It's not to your dad and I hope the comparison's okay. And if it's not, then we'll just say it's not okay and you can we'll talk about it. But nicotine the song, it feels. I won't say sounds like, but it feels like a Ashley McBride type song. Because I love Ashley.
Ali Colleen
I love Ashley.
Bobby Bones
Ashley's from Arkansas like I am small town in Arkansas. Like we grew up in similar situations. So I love Ashley and I say that in a very complimentary way. It feels like a a story that she would tell. How does that make you feel if I make a comparison to somebody else? Because I don't think it's derivative of it at all. But I think that that is a skill that a few people have.
Ali Colleen
I want to be Ashley McBride. So I. That makes me feel like the coolest kid on the planet. That I could even do something that Ashley would do. I think that's the coolest thing on the planet. But I've never once been told. I've never once been told when I do something that I'm really proud of that Ashley McBride made that happen for me. You know what I mean? Like, it just never happened.
Bobby Bones
Well, I also wasn't saying, Ashley, Brad made that happen for you. I'm saying it reminded me of that.
Ali Colleen
Right. But I'm just saying, like, being compared to another artist in that kind of way, in a songwriting way. Absolutely. An honor, especially one that I love. I'm like, I did something she could do. That's. That's an honor. Even if I've been. And this doesn't happen often because we don't sound alike at all, but the very few times, like, the first time that you watched me sing on YouTube, and I did choose every woman, and you said, I can hear Garth's inflections in her voice. I can hear that. That's one of the coolest compliments I've ever gotten in my life, Bobby. Because I've always wondered if I could ever sound like him or like anything like that. Because my siblings don't sing at all or do music.
Bobby Bones
I would think it would be the opposite. And actually, I was a little ashamed that I had said that.
Ali Colleen
No, that's okay. I think that's cool. But at the time, too, like, you weren't saying, oh, she can sing because of who her dad is. You didn't do that thing of, like, oh, genetics must be good, and then you punch me on the shoulder. You know what I mean? You just. I. I was. Allie was compared in that moment to a song or something of. Of an artist that she loves. And I thought that was really, really cool.
Bobby Bones
I mean, a tone and a texture.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
To me, is what it was more than, hey, she's his kid. Obviously, she's gonna be able to do that.
Ali Colleen
Exactly. And those are different. You know what I mean? Like, those things are different, and I can recognize that. So any. Anything that would have to do with, like, music I'm such an honor for. But it's just like, if you told me that little Bobby Bones was walking into the room, I would just think I would already have a lot of assumptions about little Bobby that all have to do with you, you know what I mean? There's nothing wrong with that. That's human nature. It makes sense. I'm just asking more so the industry to help me out, to not put me in that box to people that I'm not going to fit in that box. They're not going to like me. You know what I mean? I don't represent him at all. So it's just always been really tough when it's like Garth Brook's daughter, Ally Colleen, doing this, this, this. Now all of a sudden, everyone thinks Friends in Low Places is gonna be in my set, and it's not. It's not.
Bobby Bones
I never thought about that. The expectation they would have of you to play your dad's songs.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
No way.
Ali Colleen
Everywhere I go. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. That would wear on me psychologically.
Ali Colleen
It'd be like if people expected you to do someone else's bits.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Ali Colleen
You know what I mean? Like, it's like that. That's not even how that works. Like. No, that's always tough. Like, when you've worked so hard on the product and, like, what it is. And I love my music. I'm not gonna lie to you, Bobby. I think I'm, like, one of the best. I love my music. I get so excited every time I write something new, and I get so excited, and I love it. But you're not gonna feel that way if you think it's gonna sound like a Garthberg song. You know what I mean? And that's always the wall that I hit. I love representing my family and being a daughter and having the parents I have. I love them. I'm so proud of it. I just wish Allie. Colleen could also just stand on her own in a conversation, you know, without the legacy.
Bobby Bones
Then I'm gonna ask you a question that's gonna be annoying. What does? Not the product, but what does your dad say about how. About how to approach that. About how to approach finding yourself away from the Garth Brooks product. And there are two different people. There's Garth Brooks, like, you said, the product, and then there's your freaking dad, who's been through it and knows a lot because he's been through it. What is his advice to you?
Ali Colleen
My dad is. And I might perceive it this way. So this entire conversation from this point on is how Allie perceives this. This.
Bobby Bones
You can tell you've had a lot of therapy, because I say the same type of things. You can tell when someone's been through a lot of therapy. Yeah.
Ali Colleen
Go ahead. I'm not trying to make a blanket statement about Garth Brooks, you guys, but How I perceive my relationship with my father is. I think he's very, very hesitant to tell me anything about music, you know what I mean? Because it just doesn't work the same as it did. I mean, you're talking about generations different on, like, how he entered the scene, how I'm trying to enter the scene. My dad hates social media, and sometimes it's thought that maybe I shouldn't do social media, like, for myself, like, for to Preserve Valley. But I'm like, who else is going to do it, man? Like, I'm an independent artist. It's just me and Bev. That's it. Just me and my manager. That's all we got. So my dad really stays away from that kind of stuff. And I don't ask too many questions either. Bobby. My dad and I have worked out since I was a kid, so maybe that's also why I love the gym. But I've never really.
Bobby Bones
What about your dad? Not the guy that does music, but your dad. Let's say he didn't do music. He probably still have advice for somebody doing music on how to set. How to differentiate themselves from A to B. Is there not. Is. Is there not a separation of church and state?
Ali Colleen
I have worked so hard in learning the difference between Ali, Colleen, and Ally. And the way that I perceive my father.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Ali Colleen
Is that he hasn't had that luxury. I don't know that my dad knows that there's a difference between Garth Brooks and dad.
Bobby Bones
That's fair. I struggle at times with knowing there's a difference between me, Bobby Estel, and Bobby Bones. And I think the. The.
Ali Colleen
I think I only know because I saw the two difference. You know what I mean? Because, like, I didn't realize who dad was until I was probably 12 or 13, because that was the age that I saw the Central park footage, and I thought, now I get why the grocery store is not that chill for us, you know? Like, I really didn't. I knew he was huge. I knew he was famous. I didn't know the capacity, that it was global, you know what I mean? Like, I really didn't understand that. So I saw two different things. And I mean, you being entering to fame the way that you did, you. You didn't have anybody, you know, that you got to watch be two different things. So my perspective is just really weird.
Bobby Bones
How do you write a song? You walk back into the barn and you just sit down and is it always there?
Ali Colleen
It's always there. I've gotten to the point now on guitar where I'M starting to get better at it. To where, like, because I used to. If I didn't start the melody on the guitar, I was just screwed and was gonna have to sing a song later. For a guitar player in the sense of, I'm very good at guitar, but I can't always find my key or my chords, like, if I'm making something up. And now I've kind of gotten there, but now I just. I just sit down and I just. I sat down and I'm grateful. I have a skill and a craft that I've worked really hard at, that I've met people that don't have the same outlet. And ever since I realized that, like, it's not always normal for people to sit down and be able to write a song, I became really, really grateful for that. And there is something about, like, surrendering to your craft. Like, no matter what it is, there's something about surrendering, like, to yourself and, like, your ability to do something. And that's what songwriting feels like.
Bobby Bones
What's your live show like? Because I've seen you play, but it's always, you've played our studio, you've played. I've not seen you out in the wild. Yeah. Like, what is it?
Ali Colleen
My music is really big. It's really, like, sonically textured. I'm a big sensory person. I have a lot of sensory stuff, and I love. I just want my show to feel like a 5 Gum commercial. You know what I mean? I want there to be subs. A 5 Gum commercial, you know, like 5 Gum. It's like, feature senses, and it's like someone laying on, like, a Bose speaker that's the size of a football field, and they're just, like, laying on it. And like, the gum commercial. Yeah, got it.
Bobby Bones
I do now.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So five gum. I want my show to feel like a sensory experience like that. So we try and we do the whole heavy subs thing. My drummers are always much more rock oriented than country oriented, and it's just big and it's fun. And I. I do an acoustic set in the middle, which is very similar. It's like what I've gotten to do with you in the studio and just. And get to play my stuff acoustically for someone right in the middle of my set. But for the rest of the show, I don't hold a guitar or anything. I just run around and I find little girls in the crowd, and I put little face tats on them later in the merch line, really? I keep eyeliner on me all the time and I'll give them little horseshoes if they want it.
Bobby Bones
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You still get to keep it.
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Ali Colleen
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Ali Colleen
Lot of cops and they get asked.
Bobby Bones
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Ali Colleen
I get right back there and it's bad. It's really, really, really bad.
Bobby Bones
Listen to new episodes of Absolute Season 1, Taser Incorporated on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Binge episodes 1, 2 and 3 on May 21 and episodes 4, 5 and 6 on June 4 ad free at Lava for Good plus on Apple Podcasts. And we're back on the Bobbycast. What do you do before a show? Any rituals?
Ali Colleen
We have a pre show shot and a pre show prayer where we come together. As far as me personally, no, I. We all still. Still kind of try and do everything and. And wear all the hats. So who knows how long soundcheck goes, you know, and how much time you have ready to get ready afterwards. So it's always kind of a scramble for me.
Bobby Bones
Do you ever stumble into a song at soundcheck?
Ali Colleen
I have. Not.
Bobby Bones
Completely different than you, but wolves. If we're doing. If I'm doing a comedy show and I'm testing, you know, we're checking guitars, I'll just say funny stuff over chords. And there have been a few times where I'm like, oh, this is actually a good idea. Let's just sit with it and play it and kind of flesh it out. I think we did a song called it's so trivial compared to what you do. But we wrote a song called your mama's house and Matt Stell, the artist and myself were up there. We were playing a show in Atlanta and we were just going back and forth, but on stage together, and somebody made a your mama joke. And I was like, oh, man, we should do that with a song. And so he started playing something and I think it was like, man, I really love your mama's house. You can always find me there when you're not around. Got a good laugh. But we started just going back and forth, back and forth, and there's not always time for that there, but I want.
Ali Colleen
Do you write with your band?
Bobby Bones
No.
Ali Colleen
Okay. I don't write with my band. So I was wondering if maybe you did.
Bobby Bones
But I don't have a band. Like I said, I'm not you. You're actually good. I fake being good.
Ali Colleen
That's not fair.
Bobby Bones
I have a partner in Eddie. We have a band. I have Brandon And Brandon, who works with me as well, we'll send each other voice memos. We'll never even be in the same room. And I'll just be like, hey, what about this?
Ali Colleen
That's cool.
Bobby Bones
What about this? And we'll go back and forth and almost write, like, here's the idea. Is this funny? What if you did this? And 85% of the song gets written like that?
Ali Colleen
I want to learn how to not be a performer in the writing room. I'm not very good at at that also, too. Like, usually, like, I have my own room in the Word document. I'm like, if you guys go in there, I swear to God, leave me alone. Okay? You can read out loud all these other things I'm putting on the main page, but my room's my room. Get out of here. And, like, if I have a chorus idea, I'm going to play you the entire chorus. You know what I mean? I'm gonna sit with it and I'm gonna write the whole thing, and I'm gonna ask you if you like it. And I wish I could get a little more not performery in, like, the writing room.
Bobby Bones
What about the vulnerability of the writing room?
Ali Colleen
I think it depends on who I'm writing with. I have some people that I'll call them up and I'll be like, hey, I am not mentally okay or healthy or well today. Can I come over and share with you what's going on? And you kind of scribe it out for me, you know what I mean? And see if we can turn it into something. And I've gotten to a point where those co writers sometimes are like, ali, yes. But if you get over here and you're really not okay, we're not going to romanticize this today. Like, we're not going to take everything you're going through and turn it into something for you to sing later when, like, you still are in this. And, like, that's very few people, but I have two or three. And that is the coolest thing on the planet to not only have someone to go to to talk about that stuff, but to have someone stop you from performing and go, hey, you're having a really hard time right now. And the song you're writing is not even, like, reflecting these characters in a true way. Like, you're just. You're taking something that really hard that's happening to you, and we're watching you turn it into something that is pretty and packaged and going to be consumed by people. And I feel like this is what you're working really hard to not do, and that's really cool. And then I have other people where you just get in there and you write the song. And it's almost always for them, like as an artist or for somebody else. And I get to put on the songwriter hat that day. And my job is to sit there and mediate someone's feelings and to help them kind of put it into something which is always different. But the songwriting community in Nashville is so diverse and it's so different. And so each right is different in its own way too, which I love with the ADHD brain of, like, not wanting to do the same thing ever again, you know, so you can always do something different with the co writers in Nashville.
Bobby Bones
The ep, there's five songs on it. Why just five songs?
Ali Colleen
These were the five that I didn't think anyone would ever relate to. These are the five that I didn't think were commercial. These are the five that Allie cared about, and she couldn't get past them. You know, I wasn't gonna go and release another single that I thought was super commercial when I had these five that I've sat on. Sincerely, Rolling Stone. I've sat on since 2021, and I love that song. And these are the five that I just wanted to put out as a very sincere. This is how, like, this is what a reflection of Ali's world is right now. It's these songs.
Bobby Bones
I have a question then, because the ep, Sincerely Rolling Stone. But isn't the song just called Rolling Stone? Because now I'm confused.
Ali Colleen
So the song is called Rolling Stone, parentheses Sincerely, or Sincerely Princely Stone, however you want to do it. Absolutely. Absolutely. You know, everyone asked about this. Our first album was the same way. The first album is called Stones, Parentheses. I don't give a. And people never know what the song title is. So I'm eclectic like that.
Bobby Bones
The EP is Sincerely comma, Rolling Stone.
Ali Colleen
Sincerely Rolling Stone.
Bobby Bones
But track one is Rolling Stone, parentheses, Sincerely.
Ali Colleen
Yes.
Bobby Bones
What the crap?
Ali Colleen
Because the song is messing with us. The song is I want to be your rock. And I'm sorry that I'm not sincerely your rolling stone. So the. The EP is Sincerely Rolling Stone because it's just a sincere project from me. And the song is just called Rolling Stone because that's what people come up and request. They say, will you play the Rolling Stone song? So it's called Rolling Stone.
Bobby Bones
People were requesting it before it was put out.
Ali Colleen
I've been playing this live since 2021.
Bobby Bones
And if people were requesting it, then I don't know. Why would you think that song would be the most non commercial or not?
Ali Colleen
They're probably lying to me, Bobby.
Bobby Bones
Here we go now. Now we're getting to the trauma again. We're going back.
Ali Colleen
You're probably lying to me.
Bobby Bones
All five of these songs, they're just, they're different. I mean, I. Even when listening, because I tell you what, this was easy to listen to because there's only five, sometimes people be like, here's 73 songs. I don't even listen to all of them.
Ali Colleen
Yeah. Put this in your notes. Bobby will listen to 73 songs.
Bobby Bones
Bobby will not crazy.
Ali Colleen
Now that I know that, no.
Bobby Bones
But Bobby will be like, I didn't get a chance to hear them all, so. But these five songs, I mean, you. I don't know, they. Now that you say how that project is what it means, it makes more sense then. Because they all five don't fit perfectly together. Is that insulting in any way? Because I didn't feel like. No, it's not insulting, but now it makes sense. If that's why you picked the five songs.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, these are my five.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Ali Colleen
You know what I mean? It's not. This was not a rolled out. Do we have this song on it? Do we have one of these songs on it? Do we have one of these songs?
Bobby Bones
Because that's what I expect most of the time now, whenever it's, hey, we're releasing whatever the project is, we need a mid, we need an up, we need a down, we need a set. You know, there are these roles that each song has to play. I didn't feel that this met that criteria.
Ali Colleen
Yeah, it doesn't have it at all. These are the five that meant the world to me, that I wasn't sure if anyone else was going to care about. And. But my. I have a really, really amazing close following like, like the followers that I have, like, I'm very close to my following. You have a really private fan club that like gets together for like Thanksgiving and like, it's. It's really special to me. And they, the cool kids have been asking for these five songs for the last couple of years all the time. So I thought, I'm gonna put together a sincere project of Ali because the single world is always chasing, you know, what represents me as a commercial artist. Like it always has been, always will be, and how it's structured to do that. And so if there was a single from this, it was Grass in the Grave and we released that as a single before it came out. But yeah, they're not. They're not supposed to go together. And then also Household Name was something that I was never going to be too confident about releasing as a single because I didn't want all the attention to be on Household Name. I wanted to be a part of a project, and a sincere project at that. So Household Name made it on this one, which was one that I wasn't sure if I was ever going to share with anybody. And it's one of my favorite songs on there, only because it sonically achieves everything I've wanted to. It's like the thunder rolls of Amy Lee in Three Days Grace, which is like my favorite thing on the planet.
Bobby Bones
Amy is an Evanescence. Amyla. Yes. Yeah.
Ali Colleen
I listened to 47 minutes of thunder pre roll to pick the probably second and a half of thunder that's in Household Name.
Bobby Bones
I'm so proud of that thunder pre roll.
Ali Colleen
Just searching thunder sounds and just listening to everyone because I needed the perfect thunder crash. I needed the perfect thunder that would have been in Thunder Rolls but wasn't and would represent Ali. And I picked it out. I was so proud of it. So I had. I had a lot of fun creating this, this project, but it's not for. I don't feel like it's for commercial listeners. I feel like it's for the people that care about Ali and represents exactly what, like, our next chapter of music commercially is going to be.
Bobby Bones
Then do this for me as we end, because I want to play on the national Countdown show Grass on the Grave. So I always like a good sound bite. So just tell me what the song's about so then I don't have to edit anything together. I can just play this clip.
Ali Colleen
Of course.
Bobby Bones
Go ahead.
Ali Colleen
Grass on the Grave is just a song for you to grieve all of your plants, whatever they are. For me, it was a relationship, it was an entire future, it was a marriage. For some people, it was a vacation in 2020 that they budgeted for, for three years they never got to take. For some people, it's fertility. For some people, it's all of these different things. And Grass on the Grave, it's just a real cool sonic song that isn't supposed to be too heavy, isn't supposed to be too hard, that just allows you three minutes of absolute frustration of what something was supposed to be. But you're still going to be okay because there's grass in the grave.
Bobby Bones
You nailed it. Except you had. You had no choice but to nail it because it's your story. You really couldn't have not nailed it.
Ali Colleen
Yeah. Would you have been like, reframe it? Yeah, give us a reframe. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Can you.
Ali Colleen
Can you say it again, but better?
Bobby Bones
You're extremely magnetic as a person.
Ali Colleen
Are my magnets on the right side?
Bobby Bones
Doesn't matter.
Ali Colleen
It does. One will push you away and one will drag you in.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. But what pushes someone away?
Ali Colleen
Have you seen that? My therapist did that with me with magnets.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. I just don't. I temporarily would push someone away. I think we probably all. Our magnets all change.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And I think I've been pushed away by certain magnets that later I've realized, oh, I shouldn't have been pushed away at all. I should have, actually. But that's what probably pushed me away, was feeling so uncomfortable that I wanted to be drawn so close.
Ali Colleen
Perspective on polarity is crazy.
Bobby Bones
I've spent a lot of money in therapy.
Ali Colleen
I haven't. Protocol is completely free.
Bobby Bones
Good for you and good for everybody who.
Ali Colleen
I feel like it would be free for you also. But.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I don't know if they think I'm an artist enough. And also, I like my therapist to be really close to my house. So. Actually, I go to a. My wife and I go to therapy every two weeks. We've been going since before we got. Well, I guess right when we got married.
Ali Colleen
That's hot.
Bobby Bones
It's awesome. Except it's not like it's hard.
Ali Colleen
Oh, yeah.
Bobby Bones
No, for sure it's hot. But it has. I think, for me, the heart is hot.
Ali Colleen
And you can quote me on that.
Bobby Bones
I don't know that I will, but I will say that it has allowed me to live in an uncomfortable moment with my wife. And. And I never really had a relationship that was intimate where it. I just thought everything intimate had to be perfect. No.
Ali Colleen
Feeling uncomfortable and feeling safe at the same time. That's crazy.
Bobby Bones
And for me, that has been the most growth I've had. Is that it's okay for it to be comfortable and uncomfortable and to live in it.
Ali Colleen
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Because that's what happens with normal humans. I didn't have normal human relationships, so I didn't know. I thought every time we fought, she hates me, it's over.
Ali Colleen
No. The only time I could get you to talk about anything personal last time was if it was about you and your dogs.
Bobby Bones
That's about it. And now it's a bit different. Yeah. So we. I've been able to grow in that a lot. And then my personal. I go every other week to my own as well. He's a Psychiatrist. And he can give medicine.
Ali Colleen
Hell, yeah.
Bobby Bones
And I took a bunch of OCD medicine I was on for a long time because I sometimes I get way, way, way obsessed with things. I put on, like, 30 pounds. I didn't even know.
Ali Colleen
Did it help at all?
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Put on £30. Well, I'm just like, I'd rather be focused and not have to buy new clothes. I was gonna buy pants. I was like, what's happening right now? My wife's like, did you check your medicine?
Ali Colleen
Scary.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. And the medicine's like, you will gain 3 pounds a month or whatever it was. And I was like, how did I not know this?
Ali Colleen
So there's something else for you to be OCD about. That's crazy.
Bobby Bones
Exactly. Now I'm OCD about not being on OCD medicine. So, yeah, it's been a big part of my life. I'm glad to hear that you're so open about it as well, because I think people need to hear people talking about the benefits of it and not the stigma of it.
Ali Colleen
Oh, it's incredible. Yeah, it's absolutely so.
Bobby Bones
I appreciate you being so open about it and talking about it.
Ali Colleen
Thank you.
Bobby Bones
And you got the good magnets. You're north, I'm south. Right now we're drawn. You're very magnetic. You guys can follow Ali. We put all of her information down Allie's information down below, and we talked about it before she got here. So nothing has changed since we spoke before Ali got here. At least I don't think so. Right, Mike? No, I'm still clear. Okay, good. Ali, great to see you, as always.
Ali Colleen
Thank you so much.
Bobby Bones
And congratulations on the record. And now it all makes sense. But nothing ever makes fully sense. And if it does start to make sense, then you don't actually understand it. You can quote me on that.
Ali Colleen
I probably will.
Bobby Bones
No way you can remember that because I don't remember what I just said. All right, that's it. Thank you. Thanks for listening to a Bobbycast production. Why is a soap opera western like Yellowstone so wildly successful? The American west with Dan Flores is the latest show from the Meat Eater Podcast Network.
Ali Colleen
So join me starting Tuesday, May 6.
Bobby Bones
Where we'll delve into stories of the west and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we.
Ali Colleen
Experience the region today.
Bobby Bones
Listen to the American west with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Michael Kassin, founder and CEO of Free C Ventures, and your guide on Good Company. The podcast where I sit down with the boldest innovators shaping what's next. In this episode, I'm joined by Angeli Su, CEO of Tubi. We dive into the competitive world of streaming. What others dismiss as niche, we embrace as core. There's so many stories out there, and.
Ali Colleen
If you can find a way to.
Bobby Bones
Curate and help the right person discover the right content. The term that we always hear from.
Ali Colleen
Our audience is that they feel seen.
Bobby Bones
Listen to Good company on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Ali Colleen
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Bobby Bones
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Ali Colleen
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Bobby Bones
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Ali Colleen
Historically, men talk too much and women have quietly listened. And all that stops here. If you like witty women, then this is your try. Listen to the Good Moms Bad Choices Podcast every Wednesday on the Black Effect podcast network, the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you go to find your podcast. This is an iHeart podcast.
Podcast Summary: The Bobby Bones Show – Episode #518 featuring Allie Colleen
In Episode #518 of The Bobby Bones Show, host Bobby Bones engages in an in-depth conversation with artist Allie Colleen. The episode delves into Allie's personal journey, artistic endeavors, and the complexities of growing up in the shadow of a famous parent. Below is a comprehensive summary of the key discussions, insights, and conclusions from the episode.
Allie Colleen joins Bobby Bones to discuss her newly released EP titled Sincerely Rolling Stone. This project marks a significant milestone in her career, showcasing her growth as an independent artist separate from her renowned father, Garth Brooks.
Bobby Bones highlights the sensitivity required to discuss Allie's work without emphasizing her father’s fame:
"I never want to be like, hey, so you're Garth's daughter?"
Allie Colleen emphasizes her desire to be recognized for her own artistry:
"She's Garth's daughter, but she's also, first and foremost, Allie Colleen, her definite own person." [Timestamp: 01:06]
A significant portion of the conversation centers around Allie Colleen’s struggle with public expectations due to her father's legacy.
Allie Colleen shares her challenge in establishing her own identity:
"I just want to make sure we're all cool there. She's Garth's daughter, but she's also, first and foremost, Allie Colleen." [Timestamp: 03:00]
She reflects on how her upbringing in Oklahoma felt more like an expectation rather than a true sense of home:
"Oklahoma has always felt like an expectation and a weird thing." [Timestamp: 36:20]
Allie Colleen boasts over 30 tattoos, each with its own story and significance. She discusses how her tattoos serve as a form of personal expression and a way to signify important aspects of her life.
Allie Colleen explains the meaning behind her tattoos:
"I have tattoos of myself and where I was when I got them and who I am now." [Timestamp: 30:34]
She elaborates on her first tattoo, an elephant, symbolizing her entry into adulthood and her plans as she prepared to move to Nashville:
"I wanted to do my own first tattoo. Like, I wanted to design it." [Timestamp: 31:02]
The discussion shifts to Allie Colleen’s passion for working out and how it serves as a form of control and emotional release.
Allie Colleen articulates her love for exercising:
"I absolutely love it. It’s a big control thing... It’s also such a release." [Timestamp: 04:34]
Bobby Bones contrasts this with his own dislike for the gym, highlighting different motivations for fitness:
"I hate it. Everything. But you like... what is it about it that you?" [Timestamp: 04:24]
Allie Colleen discusses her relationship with performing, portraying it as an interaction solely for herself, contrasting with Bobby Bones’ perception of the gym as a place of unwanted performance.
Allie Colleen describes the gym as her sanctuary where she performs only for herself:
"I feel like I perform for everybody else all the time, and the gym is the only place that I only perform for me." [Timestamp: 11:36]
Bobby Bones shares his struggles with avoiding unnecessary social interactions despite his public persona:
"I naturally am a quiet person that feels like nobody wants me in their space, so I don’t get in their space." [Timestamp: 12:03]
The episode delves deep into the pressures Allie Colleen faces as Garth Brooks’ daughter, particularly regarding public expectations and her desire to maintain personal boundaries.
Allie Colleen expresses frustration over people expecting her to perform her father’s hits:
"Now all of a sudden, everyone thinks Friends in Low Places is gonna be in my set, and it’s not." [Timestamp: 46:19]
Bobby Bones empathizes, acknowledging the psychological toll of such expectations:
"That would wear on me psychologically." [Timestamp: 46:13]
Allie Colleen provides insight into her songwriting process, emphasizing sincerity and personal significance over commercial appeal.
Allie Colleen discusses her EP Sincerely Rolling Stone as a collection of deeply personal songs she initially doubted others would relate to:
"These are the five that I wanted to put out as a very sincere project from me." [Timestamp: 59:22]
She elaborates on her approach to writing, highlighting the balance between melody and narrative:
"Usually it’s trying to find the melody that fits the narrative." [Timestamp: 34:45]
Both Allie Colleen and Bobby Bones openly discuss their experiences with mental health and the benefits of therapy, breaking down stigmas associated with seeking help.
Allie Colleen shares her ongoing journey with therapy:
"I’ve been in therapy for the last three years specifically for that." [Timestamp: 19:18]
Bobby Bones talks about his own therapy experience and the importance of open discussions about mental health:
"I appreciate you being so open about it and talking about it." [Timestamp: 67:58]
The conversation touches on Allie Colleen’s ambiguous sense of home, contrasting her upbringing in Oklahoma with her current feelings.
"The barn is the only place where it’s ever just me." [Timestamp: 35:16]
As the episode concludes, Allie Colleen reflects on her future projects and the authentic representation of her artistry.
Allie Colleen emphasizes her commitment to sincere and personal music over adhering to commercial expectations:
"These are the five that meant the world to me, that I wasn’t sure if anyone else was going to care about." [Timestamp: 59:35]
Bobby Bones congratulates her on her record, acknowledging the depth and authenticity of her work:
"You nailed it... it’s your story." [Timestamp: 64:15]
Allie Colleen on her tattoos as personal art projects:
"It's like one big art project." [Timestamp: 03:00]
Bobby Bones on the difficulty of separating personal identity from public persona:
"I have to make sure we're all cool there." [Timestamp: 19:18]
Allie Colleen on the importance of authentic creative expression:
"Just put together a sincere project of Ali because the single world is always chasing what represents me." [Timestamp: 63:18]
Episode #518 of The Bobby Bones Show offers listeners an intimate glimpse into Allie Colleen’s life as an artist navigating the complexities of personal identity, familial expectations, and creative authenticity. Through candid conversations about her tattoos, music, mental health, and sense of home, Allie Colleen emerges as a multifaceted individual striving to carve out her own path in the music industry.
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