BOBBYCAST - #569 - Bobby & Caitlin Do a Pregnancy Q&A: “Nursery” vs. “Baby Bedroom” Debate + Why the Baby’s Name Is Staying Secret + Sleep Scores, Acid Reflux, and No-Sleep Season

Summary

Episode Overview

Podcast: The Bobby Bones Show (Bobbycast)
Episode: #569 – Bobby & Caitlin Do a Pregnancy Q&A: “Nursery” vs. “Baby Bedroom” Debate + Why the Baby’s Name Is Staying Secret + Sleep Scores, Acid Reflux, and No-Sleep Season
Date: January 16, 2026
Hosts: Bobby Bones and Caitlin

In this deeply personal and lighthearted episode, Bobby and Caitlin answer long-awaited Instagram questions about Caitlin’s pregnancy journey. They discuss everything from their excitement and nerves, dealing with pregnancy symptoms (like sleep loss and acid reflux), their philosophies on baby names, the ongoing “nursery vs. baby bedroom” debate, and playful banter about their changing lives. The episode blends humor, vulnerability, and insight into what it’s like to be expecting parents for the first time.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Pregnancy Real Talk: Symptoms, Sleep, and Daily Life

• Sleep Struggles & OURA Rings

  • Caitlin opens the episode apologizing for her tired voice, revealing a poor "readiness score" of 49 on her OURA ring, attributed to third-trimester discomfort and poor sleep.

    “Third trimester.” – Caitlin (02:18)

  • Both experience disrupted sleep, but Bobby admits his reason for being up at night may soon gain more purpose with the baby's arrival (07:21).

• Body Changes

  • Caitlin comments on feeling hotter due to increased blood volume and body changes in pregnancy (02:45).

    “There’s more to me. A lot of extra blood flowing through me and a lot of extra area.” – Caitlin (02:45)

• Baby’s Senses

  • They’re fascinated by what newborns can see and how babies recognize parents by scent and voice (03:31-04:22).

    “I think your smell, your voice… The baby’s heard your voice more than any other voice outside of my own.” – Caitlin (04:11)

• Communication with Baby

  • A playful ritual: Bobby talks and sings to Caitlin’s belly, asking for “kicks” from the baby to make decisions (04:32-04:47).

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2. Anticipation and Expectations as Parents

• What They’re Looking Forward To

  • Both are most eager for the actual arrival and meeting of their baby (05:12-05:58).

    “I’m looking forward to the baby being born.” – Bobby (05:12)
    “I’m looking forward to having something that’s half me and half you. I think that’s really special.” – Caitlin (05:41)

• Parenting Vision

  • Bobby describes parenthood as a “lifetime science project,” focusing on raising a capable adult (06:08-06:14). Caitlin expects their focus will shift more to love over time.

    “From day one until day it moves out, my focus will be training the baby to be the best adult possible.” – Bobby (06:14)

• Excitement vs. Nerves

  • Both feel excitement outweighs nervousness, though Caitlin is anxious about labor (11:22-12:29).

    “The things I’m nervous about involve birthing it.” – Caitlin (12:14)

  • Bobby jokes about handling pregnancy poorly, with Caitlin bluntly agreeing:

    “You would hate being pregnant and I would hate you being pregnant because you’d be a nightmare.” – Caitlin (12:41)

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3. The Great “Nursery vs. Baby Bedroom” Debate

• What Counts as a Nursery?

  • Caitlin insists they're creating a nursery, despite rumors Bobby claimed otherwise on-air. Bobby’s vision of a “nursery” involves painted clouds and clowns, which Caitlin rejects as a stereotype.

    “It’s just going to be a baby bedroom.” – Bobby (17:14)
    “If a baby bedroom is a nursery, fine. But to me, it’s just a baby bedroom.” – Bobby (17:18)

  • Caitlin clarifies she’s intentionally curating the space, even if Bobby is unaware of decor decisions (16:29-16:54).

    “I don’t tell you everything because you don’t know.” – Caitlin (16:35)

• Playful Tension

  • Their differing expectations for the baby's room create humorous tension, with Caitlin defending her efforts and Bobby teasing about what “nursery” means (16:17–19:24).

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4. The Secret Baby Name

• Why Keep It Private?
  • Caitlin strongly prefers to keep the baby’s name secret to avoid unwanted opinions or reactions, even from well-meaning friends or family (07:57-09:14).

    “I don’t want anyone’s opinion…it’s our baby…We feel confident about it...I don’t want to know about it before we give the baby the name.” – Caitlin (08:08)

  • She confides that only a couple of trusted people know the name, and their positive reactions mattered because they’d give honest feedback (09:29-10:34).

    “Everyone I asked has given me negative on other things in my life.” – Caitlin (10:30)

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5. Navigating Pregnancy Symptoms

• Morning Sickness & Acid Reflux

  • Caitlin experienced intense nausea through the first trimester and into the second, worse than expected (20:13-20:25). Acid reflux has become an everyday struggle (20:53-21:38).

    “I don’t know. Some people say because of hair on the baby.” – Caitlin on reasons for acid reflux (22:16)

  • Humorous incident: Caitlin vomited out a window during a family vacation (31:07-31:55).

• Advice For Other Pregnant Women

  • To a listener experiencing constant vomiting (12 weeks pregnant), Caitlin offers empathy and practical advice: eat protein when possible and be gentle with yourself (28:41-30:45).

    “It will get better. That’s really all I can say... protein helped me.” – Caitlin (28:41, 29:34)

  • Bobby notes that every pregnancy is different, as sickness levels can vary greatly (29:48-30:00).

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6. Eating Habits and Cravings

• No Wild Cravings
  • Caitlin says she hasn’t had intense, stereotypical cravings, though Bobby observes some shifts in food preferences and frequency (25:51-27:34).

    “I have to have something every two hours or I feel terrible.” – Caitlin (27:34)

  • Eating more vegetables and occasionally ice cream, but no aversions have developed (26:20-27:03, 44:27-44:38).

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7. Family, Friends, and Life in Nashville

• How They Told Family

  • Story of telling Caitlin’s parents over FaceTime, with botched attempts to record the moment for posterity (46:49-49:01).

    “I wanted to someday show our child their grandparents finding out about them. But I won’t be able to because you didn’t want an extra 30 seconds of footage on your phone.” – Caitlin (49:40)

• Nashville Adjustment

  • Caitlin says it took time to adjust to Nashville, especially moving during COVID, but now she feels rooted with her own friends and identity (33:17-38:27).

    “That’s a long way to say I like it now. It took me a while because of just the timing of everything, but I have amazing friends. My own stuff, my own life, my own lane.” – Caitlin (37:25)

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8. Playful Banter & Memorable Moments

• Sports Fandom

  • Baby will be “both” a Razorbacks (Hogs) and Sooners fan; Caitlin is indifferent, while Bobby cares more (44:51-46:27).

    “I will never hold our child back from being a Hogs fan because I’m not evil.” – Caitlin (45:26)

• Headaches & Sleep Habits

  • Bobby jokingly laments his frequent “splitting headaches,” which Caitlin calls habitual exaggeration (40:41-42:18).

    “Every headache tops the last with you. It’s so true. It’s so true.” – Caitlin (41:47)

• Food & Couches

  • Bobby is surprised by Caitlin regularly using the "fancy" couches for friends; only uses them himself when very ill (40:07-40:37).

• Country Music Connections

  • Caitlin receives a supportive DM from artist Lauren Alaina about pregnancy; they play a guessing game to reveal her identity (56:08-60:01).

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Notable Quotes (with Timestamps)

• “From day one until day it moves out, my focus will be training the baby to be the best adult possible. So when the baby moves out, it knows what to do.” – Bobby (06:14)

• “I personally…don’t want anyone’s opinion because it’s not anyone else’s baby, it’s our baby. We like a name…we feel confident about it.” – Caitlin (08:08)

• “I wish there was some kind of, like, updates I could get when you say something like that on air, and it would, like, go to my phone and I could directly call in and correct it.” – Caitlin (18:48)

• “I was projectile vomiting out of windows, literally, on vacations.” – Caitlin (31:07)

• “The things I’m nervous about involve birthing it.” – Caitlin (12:14)

• “You would hate being pregnant and I would hate you being pregnant because you’d be a nightmare.” – Caitlin (12:41)

• "I have to have something every two hours or I feel terrible." – Caitlin (27:34)

• “I still think that you’ll do that, but I don’t think that’s gonna be, like, the thing that’s on the forefront of your mind all the time. I think it’ll be loving the baby.” – Caitlin (06:40)

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Important Timestamps

• Introduction, sleep struggles & body changes: 01:30–04:56
• Baby’s senses, communicating with bump: 03:06–04:53
• Parenting excitement, nerves, and expectations: 05:06–08:00, 11:22–12:29
• Secret baby name discussion: 07:54–11:00
• Nursery vs. baby bedroom debate: 15:09–19:24
• First trimester sickness, acid reflux, and real pregnancy symptoms: 20:09–22:44
• Advice for vomiting during pregnancy: 28:19–31:11
• Family and Nashville adjustment stories: 33:17–38:27, 46:49–49:01
• Quotes about headaches & sleep habits: 40:41–42:18
• Country artist Lauren Alaina's DM guessing game: 56:08–60:01

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Episode Tone and Takeaways

The episode is a blend of warmth, realism, and humor—sometimes sweet, sometimes snarkily honest—true to Bobby and Caitlin’s style. They don’t shy away from the tough or gross parts of pregnancy but keep things light, relatable, and supportive for listeners in similar circumstances. The importance of mutual support, communication, and letting expectations evolve stands out—as does their willingness to poke fun at themselves and each other.

Listeners come away with insights about pregnancy’s reality, the importance of privacy around big decisions (like names), and a reminder that, while every journey is different, community and humor make all the difference.

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Episode Summary Edited by: Podcast Summarizer AI (2026)

Transcript

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[A]

I'm Caitlin.

[B]

There it is. And we are here to answer some questions that we got off Instagram like six months ago. Yeah, I did save them though. So we'll go down and I think I have 11 questions. Is there anything you'd like to start this off by talking about?

[A]

I'm sorry if my voice sounds crazy.

[B]

Are you sick?

[A]

Allergies. Allergies. And up late last night. Didn't get much sleep.

[B]

Partying.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Okay. Oh, you did have a really bad sleep score last night.

[A]

I had a really bad readiness score and sleep score. My readiness score on my OURA ring.

[B]

Was a 49 with 100 being what is perfect, right? Yeah, Mine wasn't good either, but it wasn't as bad. Why do you think you're not sleeping? Well.

[A]

Third trimester.

[B]

Boom. I was gonna say it if you didn't. Okay.

[A]

I mean, that's pretty obvious.

[B]

Anything else you'd like to say before we get started? The world is your oyster. We've turned the lights out in the room. We are. We're vibing.

[A]

We're vibing.

[B]

You have a blanket on.

[A]

I do.

[B]

Do you find yourself being more cold these days?

[A]

No, hotter.

[B]

You find yourself being hotter?

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Why do you think that is?

[A]

There's more to me. A lot of Extra blood flowing through me and a lot of extra area.

[B]

What I found interesting today was, and my algorithm on TikTok is now 40% new baby.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And everyone's an expert, and there's tons of experts with contradicting advice, so I don't think everyone's an expert. And my point was everybody just says stuff, and you're just supposed to believe it. However, today you did show me a picture that I found to be very interesting. It was when a baby is born, a baby's vision and what they can see.

[A]

Right. Very little.

[B]

Yeah. For weeks.

[A]

I mean, it progressively gets better. But for sure, for the first couple months of their life.

[B]

Yeah. It looked like that first picture looks like my right eye.

[A]

Right.

[B]

Because I have really almost no vision in that eye.

[A]

Yeah. I think it's something. This is probably wrong, but it's something like 20 to 30 centimeters in front of their face is all they can really see. And even that is very blurry.

[B]

And then it slowly gets better. So how does the baby know it's me?

[A]

I think by your smell and your voice.

[B]

That won't be good. If it's the smell, that may not be good.

[A]

Yeah, I think your smell, your voice. I mean, the baby's heard your voice more than any other voice outside of my own since it was conceived.

[B]

I do get right up on the belly.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I do sing right into the belly and talk right into the belly.

[A]

Yes. In a specific voice.

[B]

And then I do acts.

[A]

That's not your normal voice, but I.

[B]

Do act for the baby to show me that the baby's there and listening. And sometimes I say, okay, if you want this to happen, kick. If you want this to happen, kick. And we dictate our lives and decisions based on if the baby kicks.

[A]

Right. And sometimes I don't like when the baby kicks correct. Depending on the question that you've asked the baby.

[B]

All right, let's roll through some questions here.

[A]

Let's do it.

[B]

This first one is from Ms. Jay Lance. What are you looking forward to most in parenthood?

[A]

Me?

[B]

Sure. Both of us, probably.

[A]

You go first.

[B]

No, you can go first.

[A]

No, you go first.

[B]

What am I looking forward to most right now? I'm looking forward to the baby being born.

[A]

Right. Same.

[B]

So, yeah, I'm at that stage where I'm just ready for the baby to be born now, but I'm not the one that has to push it through.

[A]

Yeah. I'm ready for the baby to be in the world, but not necessarily for it to be actually born, because I have to do that part.

[B]

Oh, so you're ready for it to be here? You're just not looking forward to.

[A]

Yes, I'm ready for, like, the five minutes after you give birth. Even though I know the recovery is awful, I'm looking forward to that. I'm looking forward to seeing the baby. I'm looking forward to having something that's half me and half you. I think that's really special.

[B]

What am I looking forward to most? I don't really know what to look forward to. Maybe training the baby to be good at something.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

It's like a lifetime science project.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And for me, I also. And I think we had this talk last night a little bit. I think from day one until day it moves out, my focus will be training the baby to be the best adult possible. So when the baby moves out, it knows what to do.

[A]

Yeah, maybe. I think that might change.

[B]

Maybe.

[A]

I mean, I still think that you'll do that, but I don't think that that's gonna be, like, the thing that's on the forefront of your mind all the time. I think it'll be loving the baby.

[B]

Well, micro and macro.

[A]

Mm.

[B]

But that's what I think now.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

What am I looking forward to most? I don't know.

[A]

I feel the same way. All of it. Really?

[B]

Yeah. I don't know.

[A]

There's nothing I'm not looking forward to that I can think of.

[B]

Well, I mean, there's stuff I'm not looking forward to, like being up in the middle of the night.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

But it's not so bad that I'm not looking forward to it. Like, it's.

[A]

And that's also just kind of how you live.

[B]

Net gain is just positive. What up.

[A]

And not sleeping well. So I feel like at least now there'll be a purpose or something for you to do while you're up.

[B]

Yeah. But it won't be I'm up, and so I look for something to do. It might be I have to get up even more than I already am, getting up when I don't sleep well. But I think overall, I'm not. I'm looking forward to it. But if we had to pick something out, it's probably that.

[A]

Yeah. Lack of sleep, for sure.

[B]

At least for me. Question number two from Ms. Victoria Jane. Is the baby's name picked?

[A]

Yes.

[B]

You want to share it?

[A]

No. Share the baby's name?

[B]

Well, no, I, I, I was just gonna let you answer the question.

[A]

No, we're not telling anyone the baby's name.

[B]

And what's the reason we're not telling.

[A]

Anyone the baby's name, There are a couple reasons. The main reason. Well, the main reason is because I personally, I don't know how you feel, but I don't want anyone's opinion because it's not anyone else's baby, it's our baby. We like a name, we like a middle name, we like our last name, and we feel confident about it. And I know that I would not be able to get someone's expression or micro expression out of my mind if they had a negative reaction to the name. And I ultimately don't care if anyone has a negative reaction. I just don't want to know about it. Before we give the baby the name.

[B]

When people have asked me, do you have a name for the baby? And I've said, yes, but we're not sharing it. It's been met a few times with, ah, great idea.

[A]

Right?

[B]

Because some people will go, hey, that's awesome. Some will not have a reaction and some will go, whoa. And it's all the woes that you'll focus on that'll be the only focus.

[A]

Yeah. And I don't think that any reaction you get can be as good as you want. Right. Except for that's not true. Because there are a couple people that know the name.

[B]

Hey, you're the one saying there are.

[A]

A couple people, now that I'm thinking about it, that know the name and they have given great reactions and they're people I really trust. So.

[B]

But whenever you ran the name by them. Because I don't think I've told anyone.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I'm thinking I've not told a soul.

[A]

No, you haven't.

[B]

When you told them, was it, this is the name. I'm watching your reaction, or was it, hey, what do you think about this name?

[A]

It was, hey, I think we're going with this name and this middle name. What do you think?

[B]

Do you feel like they would have given you an honest answer?

[A]

Yes. The people I asked? Yes.

[B]

Do you feel like they would have said, oh, that is not good. Yes, you do.

[A]

Or I feel like they would have said, I actually like this better. Or have you thought about swapping the names, like doing the middle as the first versus the middle, whatever. But they didn't say that.

[B]

Yeah. Because you can really only trust people's positive if you trust them to give you negative.

[A]

And everyone I asked has given me negative on other things in my life.

[B]

Like the guy you're marrying.

[A]

Exactly. So I trusted them and they loved it. And that's all that matters to me is that we love it and a couple people that we trust gave it the stamp of approval. I'm good.

[B]

And what if you didn't get the stamp of approval?

[A]

I think that it would depend on why they thought it was not a great name. If they had like something good to.

[B]

Back it up and meaning if they said, well, the. Those initials are poop or something like.

[A]

That, something I hadn't thought of then we could have maybe made made a change. But I think we're pretty happy with it.

[B]

Next up from twin belt. Are you more excited or more nervous for the baby?

[A]

Excited, for sure. I'm. I mean, we've talked about our nerves or maybe lack of nerves often, right?

[B]

Yeah. I have an understanding within myself that when we get right to the moment, I'll probably be nervous for you.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And for it. But about the situation. I know it's going to be crazy, but I'm not nervous about it because I have smart friends, dumb friends, short friends, tall friends. And really the consistent thing about being a good parent with the friends that I see because some of them are really good parents is the ability to give time to it.

[A]

Yep.

[B]

And so if it's an effort thing, I feel good about it.

[A]

Yeah. I'm interpreting the question as are we nervous about like once the baby's here and how we work together to raise a baby. I'm really not nervous about that. The things I'm nervous about involve birthing it.

[B]

Man, I would hate to have to deliver a baby.

[A]

Yeah, you would. You would hate the whole process. You would hate being pregnant.

[B]

I don't think so.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

I think I like being pregnant because I'm jealous you get to bond with a baby.

[A]

You would hate being pregnant and I would hate you being pregnant because you'd be a nightmare.

[B]

That doesn't seem like a nice comment.

[A]

It's not, but it's true.

[B]

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[A]

I just think that you don't deal with physical discomfort very well. Mental discomfort, you do a great job. Physical discomfort, you let me know.

[B]

I'm way more excited than nervous. I'm just kind of ready now. But again, I don't have to let it come out of my body.

[A]

No, I'm ready to. I'm ready to.

[B]

But I think if I were going to actually have to deliver the baby out of my body, it's all I would think about.

[A]

Really. I don't think about it that often.

[B]

I think. I think so because even going into my ankle surgery, I thought about it a lot.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It was like, oh, boy, I wonder if. I wonder if. I wonder if I would just think about it all the time.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But. Well, I'm more. Way more excited than nervous. I'm really not nervous right now.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And we're set as far as the stuff we have?

[A]

Yes, pretty much.

[B]

We.

[A]

We are set.

[B]

Baby fell right now and landed in between us. We're good. We're good with the stuff that we have.

[A]

We figure it out. Yeah. Yeah.

[B]

Now we really only got like the crib.

[A]

Oh, yeah.

[B]

A couple weeks ago.

[A]

Yeah. The stuff was delayed.

[B]

Yeah. So.

[A]

Which was frustrating.

[B]

It would be a little nerve wracking.

[A]

I do need to make a psa. We are doing a nursery. I've heard mumbles.

[B]

No, I'm not calling it a nursery.

[A]

I've heard mumbles from people.

[B]

It's called rumbles. Unless they're talking to you in a different way.

[A]

I've heard rumbles and mumbles that you've been on air saying that we're not doing anything for the baby's room and we're like leaving it, playing.

[B]

No, that's a game of telephone that's coming to you.

[A]

And that's not true. I just want it to be known. That is not true.

[B]

What I've said. That's not true. I have said the baby doesn't know the difference. Like, so there's no. And we're not, like, painting the walls. It's just.

[A]

We're not painting the walls because it's a beautiful room. It's already, like, exactly how I would want the walls to make a nursery.

[B]

It's literally a guest room with now a crib in it. But no, there's a bassinet and a couch and a rocking chair, a changing table.

[A]

There's gonna be a rug. There's gonna be art. Like, it will be a nursery, but.

[B]

There is no rug or art now.

[A]

But there is going to be.

[B]

Not that I know of.

[A]

I don't tell you everything because you don't know.

[B]

I don't know of any art.

[A]

Do you want to know of art? You know what? Tonight, after this, then you and me, forget about the game.

[B]

I'm good. I'm good.

[A]

Forget about the game. We're gonna sit down and go through art.

[B]

But have you already ordered art?

[A]

I know, but I looked at a lot today, and I think I know what I want to order.

[B]

But my only point was we just shifted some furniture. And I think, to me.

[A]

Sometimes the things that I hear, the things that are reported back to me that you say on air are so crazy.

[B]

Well, people were like, are you building a nursery? And I said. I said, no, we've shifted furniture in there.

[A]

What do you mean shifted?

[B]

It's just gonna be a baby bedroom.

[A]

That's a nursery.

[B]

If a baby bedroom is a nursery, fine. But to me, it's just a baby bedroom.

[A]

What's the difference to you? What are we not doing that? You think a nursery would entail clouds on the walls. But that's not my bottom.

[B]

Clowns in the room. I don't. A nursery. That word feels like the aesthetic is also that of a newborn.

[A]

It is going to feel that way. It already kind of does. I just think that you're a little maybe skewed in what you think a nursery looks like.

[B]

I think a nursery looks like clouds on the wall, clowns in the room, little horsies.

[A]

I don't know. Okay? I just think. And I don't know what you said, to be fair.

[B]

You don't.

[A]

The mumbles that I'm hearing are that you're basically like, we didn't do anything to the walls, and we're just putting rib in there.

[B]

I don't talk about.

[A]

Okay, well, whatever. That's what I'm hearing. And.

[B]

But at the time, that's all we had. That's all we did.

[A]

But there's a difference between we're not doing anything to the walls and the room that we have chosen to be the nursery has really beautiful walls, and thank goodness we didn't have to paint them or wallpaper them in order to make a beautiful nursery. There's just a difference.

[B]

I just feel like it's the baby bedroom now.

[A]

That's fine. Call it what you want.

[B]

Thank you.

[A]

Call it what you want, but don't act like I'm not making a beautiful room for our child.

[B]

Right now. It is not a beautiful room.

[A]

I wish there was some kind of, like, updates I could get when you say something like that on air, and it would, like, go to my phone and I could directly call in and correct it.

[B]

You would hate that. You don't want to. You wouldn't call in. Okay, well, you would not call any.

[A]

Okay, well, maybe I'll just.

[B]

You would probably text me, but you wouldn't call.

[A]

I text Amy.

[B]

And also, you wouldn't want those because they would be skewed like the ones you heard Now. I didn't say you weren't doing anything. I said it's more like a baby's bedroom than it is whatever a nursery is. Because in my head, a nursery is clowns and clouds.

[A]

Okay, well, if a nursery is clowns and clouds, then we are not doing a nursery. We're doing a baby bedroom.

[B]

Correct.

[A]

A beautiful baby bedroom.

[B]

Here's one from libk3. What?

[A]

I just don't know why you're giving out everyone's handles.

[B]

Well, because they messaged them. And also.

[A]

But what if they don't want you to?

[B]

They do. They don't care. Oh, and also, just so people know that I'm not making up questions.

[A]

Oh. Oh, good point. You could be making up the handles.

[B]

Amy calls them handles, too.

[A]

You just said handles.

[B]

Did I?

[A]

That's why I said handles.

[B]

If I did, I took it from Amy because I made fun of her because it sounds like a CB handle.

[A]

You just said handles.

[B]

Okay, I think I'm doing that because Amy. I apologize. Her username is libk3.

[A]

Okay. Better.

[B]

How was Caitlin feeling? How is she feeling? And how is your ankle? Ooh. You go first.

[A]

I was, I guess. Are we starting at the beginning of pregnancy?

[B]

Yeah. Go for you.

[A]

I was feeling terrible for certainly, the first trimester and into the second trimester.

[B]

As bad as you thought or as bad as people would tell you? Or worse.

[A]

Worse. I would not have imagined that I would be as sick as I was for Months too? Yeah, for a long time. And then I started to feel better for the most part. And now it's kind of going downhill again, which I hear is pretty common.

[B]

Like getting sick again.

[A]

Yeah, just nausea and then the lack of sleep, you know, High heart rate.

[B]

Is that why your sleep scores are so low? Is that why you're having so much trouble sleeping? Because your heart rate stays high?

[A]

My heart rate stays high. And also I have really terrible acid reflux.

[B]

Did you have terrible acid reflux before you were pregnant?

[A]

I've never had it. The only time I ever remember having it was one time when we were in Italy and I didn't know what was happening. And I guess it's just because we'd had so much tomato and lemon and things like that. And I guess that can happen, but it was short lived. It was like for, you know, a 24 hour period. It's been every day for. Honestly probably the beginning of my second trimester until now.

[B]

And it burns.

[A]

That's awful. It feels like lava in your throat. And then the other day I threw up in my shirt.

[B]

Remember? I made you laugh so hard.

[A]

I wasn't. No, that's not true.

[B]

I was being funny. The truth is, I was being funny and she started choking. Then I thought she was dying.

[A]

None of this.

[B]

So I'm like, are you. Is this the first time you've ever heard this from me?

[A]

No.

[B]

Tell it like this.

[A]

No, but every time I say, that's not what happened. I wasn't laughing at all. I just choked drinking water.

[B]

I was being really funny right around then.

[A]

And my acid reflux was already acting up. And I like.

[B]

You kept throwing up.

[A]

Threw up my shirt. That was crazy.

[B]

So you were feeling bad, then you were feeling good, and now you're feeling bad again.

[A]

Yeah, but it doesn't compare to my first trimester, so.

[B]

And why the acid reflux, do you think?

[A]

I don't know. Some people say because of hair on the baby.

[B]

I had a lot of hair when I was born.

[A]

Same.

[B]

You did too.

[A]

You saw. You saw the photo.

[B]

I didn't know how. Right after birth.

[A]

That was right after birth.

[B]

Then you came out with braided hair in a dress. Yeah, I came out with red hair, which you were finally able to see. Found the picture. Bright red hair.

[A]

Well, I've seen you have red. I've seen pictures of you with red hair before.

[B]

Well, I have. I have red armpit hair too.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Which is weird.

[A]

It's weird.

[B]

The ankle is. It's a work in progress. I'm not pushing it, but I am doing work to get it straight. But it's been a work in progress. But the reason I had the surgery when I had the surgery is so it would be healed by the time we had the baby. True, true, true. Next question from my genstagram.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

What does Caitlin think about a Thunder repeat? Does she watch any Thunder games?

[A]

I do watch Thunder games, and I think that would be amazing.

[B]

Yeah, you watch them unless finish the blank.

[A]

Unless they're on the west coast.

[B]

They're on the west coast.

[A]

It's too late for me.

[B]

It's very late.

[A]

I go to bed early.

[B]

Yeah. And because they play in the Western Conference, a lot of those games are on the west coast.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But Thunder up next one up. Does your dad watch every Thunder game?

[A]

I think for the most part, yeah. My brother for sure does. I think my dad does.

[B]

I think he does, too.

[A]

I think my mom does.

[B]

Yeah. Your mom was talking the other day about just watching TV on a random night, and what I heard her say was, well, I just look for a ball game.

[A]

Yeah, for sure.

[B]

Like, we eat dinner and then I just look. She didn't say, your dad just looks for a ball game. No, she said, then I just look for a ball game, and then we watch it and then we go to bed.

[A]

Of course.

[B]

I think you growing up in a family like that has benefited me greatly.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah. Because at times it's not that you want to sit there and watch whatever game it is, but you're not anti it and you also understand it.

[A]

Very much a part of my culture growing up. Yeah, it was just on if there was a game. I mean, we didn't get the Thunder until I was in high school.

[B]

Meaning they didn't move to Oklahoma, right? Yeah. You know where they came came from, right?

[A]

Seattle. So, no, I didn't watch a lot of NBA growing up, but certainly I watched a lot of college football and NFL.

[B]

My dad would have it on whenever they came to Oklahoma City. Did you guys go to the games?

[A]

I didn't go to a game. My brother, I think, went to the first game, and he was in college.

[B]

That's cool.

[A]

So I believe he went to the first game. He went to quite a few games. Yeah. And now he, you know, writes for.

[B]

And he writes a lot of Thunder.

[A]

Writes a lot of pieces and NBA.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

But, yeah, then I went later on, like when I was in college.

[B]

What's been funny about your brother who works at the Ringer, that's Bill Simmons network, is that we're friends with one of his best friends. Because he's one of his best friends, Jason.

[A]

Right.

[B]

And a lot of the guys that I have relationships with through sports. Like the guys at Barstool.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Like Mark Titus, like, he worked with Jason and New ti.

[A]

Like, oh, really? I had no idea.

[B]

Like, Jason hit me up and was like, I worked with Titus for a long time. So I hit up Titus. I was like, hey, do you know that's happened a few times.

[A]

Oh, that's funny.

[B]

Where they're like, you know, Gallagher or Tyler Parker, that's your brother in law.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Where they think that's. That's pretty weird.

[A]

And that is. It's weird. It's a weird connection.

[B]

Next up from Ms. Sandypandy. Has Caitlin had any cravings?

[A]

Honestly, no, I haven't had any extreme cravings. I'm just. I'll get really hungry. Some things don't sound good. But there's not really anything that's ever been like, I have to have this. I think you can kind of vouch for that.

[B]

Yeah. I don't know that the cravings have been acute. Cravings.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But there are phases, I will call them craves. Where for a couple or a few weeks. Vegetables.

[A]

Yeah, for a couple or vegetables.

[B]

Sweets. More so than normal. More so than normal. Yeah.

[A]

I don't feel like that.

[B]

But. But you've also been super aware of what you're eating. So you have. You haven't eaten as much sweets as I have.

[A]

No, I'm not really a sweets person in general.

[B]

But there have been times where you've wanted ice cream.

[A]

Yeah, I guess.

[B]

Or like, you like meat.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You've had.

[A]

I'm thankful that the things that I desire have not been stuff that would make me feel super bad, I guess is the way I should say it.

[B]

Is there anything that you've wanted while you've been pregnant that you never wanted previously?

[A]

No. Thankfully.

[B]

It has been crazy to see you and you've never been someone shy to eat and a lot because you're always very active. So you always.

[A]

Oh, great. Where are we going with this?

[B]

Well, you always ate a lot and you ate consistently because again, you were very active. But man, that is just. It's multiplied like. It's like every. Every two hours you just go, I'm hungry.

[A]

I have to have something every two hours or I feel terrible.

[B]

I hear you. I understand why too. But it's crazy.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because we will finish a meal. This is why it's crazy. We'll finish a meal at lunch and.

[A]

I think I'm full. Well, I am full for the time being.

[B]

It feels like everything you're eating is Chinese food. As far as how when you eat Chinese food, you get hungry right after. Yeah, that's what every meal feels like. Because I'll be stuffed and you'll go, I'm hungry again.

[A]

Starving.

[B]

And I'm like, what?

[A]

And when I don't eat, it makes my reflux worse.

[B]

Really? Do you know why?

[A]

Or if I eat too much? I. I was reading about it. I think it's like when your stomach gets empty, some. Something about the stomach acid starts acting up. I don't know.

[B]

Here's one from Jackie Guidry, 22.

[A]

Hi, Jackie.

[B]

Jackie Gidry, 22, just turned 12 weeks pregnant, and I vomit every day. Does Caitlin have any advice?

[A]

She's 12 weeks pregnant and she vomits every day. Do I have any advice? It will get better. That's really all I can say. I don't have any advice. I wish I had.

[B]

If a friend came to you and said the same thing, I'm vomiting all the time, what would you tell them?

[A]

I'm so sorry. And I know that's terrible, and I know that takes away from this experience, and I hate that for you. And I hate that you can't just sit and enjoy being pregnant because it's a great, magical thing. But, yeah, it's gonna get better. I would say what helped me is eating protein.

[B]

Did you read that and then do it? Or did you do it and then just discover that it helped?

[A]

I don't remember. I don't remember what came first, but, like, everything. That sounds good to me, at least. And from my friends, what I've heard is carbs, but that doesn't keep you full. You get hungry. When I would get hungry, my nausea would get worse. Then you don't want to eat because you're nauseous, but.

[B]

And then it makes it worse because you're not eating.

[A]

Because you're not eating. So, yeah, protein helped me. But really, if it was a friend of mine, or to this, to Jackie, I would say I'm very sorry. And it sucks. And it's okay to say that it sucks.

[B]

It also seems that most experiences are just different based on the biology of the person, because I was talking to my cousin last night.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

She said she was sick her entire pregnancy.

[A]

Yeah. Also, I would say something encouraging to hear maybe, is that our doctor told me, typically, the sicker you are, the healthier the baby because of the amount of HCG that you're producing.

[B]

So is this sickness then, a hormone.

[A]

Ill sickness, it's brought on by your body rapidly producing hormones. A hormone.

[B]

Yeah, got it. So then that's healthy. It doesn't feel good. But if your body's doing the work it needs to be doing and it's rapidly producing the hormone in the way that it's supposed to, some people can hit that in a way that feels negative.

[A]

Yes. And. And I'm not saying if you're not sick, your baby's not healthy. I'm not saying that. But I'm just saying our doctor to encourage me, let me know that that can be a good sign. So I hope that helps. And I'm sorry. It's the worst. And it will get better. I was projectile vomiting out of windows, literally on vacations.

[B]

We went on vacation.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It was us and your whole family. And we were in our bedroom. And the only thing that was close to you, the only hole that was close to you was the window. And you went and vomited out the window.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You were in the bathroom on the second.

[A]

On the second floor.

[B]

So people saw it come down.

[A]

I opened. Yeah, I opened the window because you're in the bathroom, so. And of course you would get out.

[B]

I was using the bathroom. So the door was closed.

[A]

Yes. And of course you would get out. But there was no time like it was coming. So, yeah, I just had to open the window. Vomit outside outdoors. And my mom was on the balcony next to us and I was just like, I'm so sorry, please don't look over here. And I was just vomiting up. I think it was tomato soup or something like that was terrible.

[B]

I bet that felt like it was never going to end. Like being that sick, it just feels like it goes on forever.

[A]

It did feel like it went on forever and I still feel like it went on forever.

[B]

Even removed from it because a lot of times you get removed from it, you're like, okay, it wasn't so bad in the moment. It was that bad.

[A]

It was that bad. There are still certain songs I can't.

[B]

Hear because they play a lot.

[A]

They take me back to that time or like foods that I think about that make me feel triggered into nausea. So it's a rough time. I'm so sorry. For those of you experiencing that.

[B]

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[A]

Oh, that's a good question. I like it now. I really do.

[B]

You say now with emphasis on the now.

[A]

Yeah, I mean, moving here was tough for me, to be honest. I loved la. I had a great group of friends.

[B]

And you must have made that group of friends pretty fast because you didn't live out there two years, did you?

[A]

Yeah. Two years, was it?

[B]

About two years? Yeah.

[A]

And I. I mean, how did you.

[B]

Make your friends out there?

[A]

How did I make my friends out there? I knew one friend from college, so the friend that actually introduced us, I knew her from college. And so when I moved there, she had a group of friends. So I met them. I met friends at church. I met friends. I was in grad school. My brother lived out there. So I felt like I had, you know, certain pockets where I could, like, dip into those people's communities. And then I just formed a friend group and I really loved living there. And then I moved here. But it wasn't like a plan to move here necessarily. It was.

[B]

It was also Covid.

[A]

Right, it was Covid. So I moved here in 2020. Like, March essentially came for what I thought was going to be a week. You told me, like, I bet this whole thing will blow over in a week or so.

[B]

Like, and California was shut down, Moving rapidly on the shutdown.

[A]

Yeah, because I was here for a weekend. It was like, me, you, Ahmad was here. I don't remember why. There was something going on. So anyway, we were here. I flew back on a Sunday because I had class on Monday. And I. As soon as I landed in lax, it was a ghost town, which was crazy because it was the opposite experience here. Like, there was no real sign of COVID here at all.

[B]

We were living for a while, actually.

[A]

And then I started getting emails, like, schools closed. The place I worked out, that was. I got an email saying that was closed. Like, church was closed. All within a couple hours of when I landed. So it was wild. So I remember I called you and you said, why don't you just come back tomorrow or so and stay for a week or a couple weeks until this blows over. And I never went back. So I Moved here. It was Covid. There were no restaurants open. I couldn't meet anyone. So it was rough for a while.

[B]

We only had one because, you know, we had the whole circles where you had to stay with your circle. Do we only have one friend that was coming over?

[A]

Amy would come over, like, separate from that. So she. But she was already around you for work, so she was already in our pod. So, like, Amy and. Yeah, Amy and her family. And then. Yes, our friends.

[B]

Brett.

[A]

Brett. Yeah, Brett would. Was in our pod. And who else? Like Mike D. And Kelsey. They would be. They would come over. Cause Mike would have to help you with work.

[B]

Yeah, Mike was. Mike and Amy were coming to the house to work right before we started going back in.

[A]

Yes. So that was our own little group for a while. And I want to say maybe Morgan Massengill a little bit.

[B]

Morgan 1.

[A]

Yeah. Yeah. But, yeah, it was a pretty small little.

[B]

It's hard to make friends whenever you can't get out and do anything.

[A]

Yeah. And then I guess, like, then Eddie and his wife, we would do some things with them once things kind of started to open up a little bit. But it was hard to make friends or. Or make just a life for myself outside of you, because all of these people were really. At that time, they were your friends. Now they're my friends. But at that time, it was your life. Your friends, your state, your house. And it was just to be fair.

[B]

Not really my state, but it. But kind of my. I mean, I.

[A]

It had been your state for a decade, but that's your state. I mean, if you live somewhere for nearly 10 years, it's much more your state than mine.

[B]

Okay, fair. I'm just saying it's not really my state, but. Yes.

[A]

Anyway, that's a long way to say I like it now. It took me a while because of just the timing of everything, but I have amazing friends. My own stuff, my own life, my own lane.

[B]

Yeah, your friends are cooler than mine. I still have the same people we'd mentioned a minute ago. It's the same people.

[A]

Yeah. Now our friends are shared.

[B]

You got new cool friends, but your new cool friends that I say are cool because they're just like, really great people. Like, I like them.

[A]

Right. And a lot of my friends are actually people that were in your life. I've just become the one that's closer with them.

[B]

Well, there have been, like, one of them. I don't know how you and Caitlin became friends, because I've been friends with Ross Copperman for a long time, but I didn't make you guys be friends. Our relationship had no impact on you guys. Relationship, right.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I don't even know how you guys.

[A]

Became friends, but I think we were introduced through other friends and then we just fell in love with each other.

[B]

Got it, got it, got it.

[A]

But even like Jackie, you know, she's. I heart.

[B]

Yeah. How did you guys become.

[A]

We just did. And now she's.

[B]

You guys are way closer.

[A]

One of my closest friends.

[B]

Yeah. She's in you extreme close friend group. But. And I knew Jackie, who works at iHeart. I knew her when she was in New York working for our CEO.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And then we stayed in touch and in contact, but we weren't like close or anything. But I would say that we are now because of your friendship with her.

[A]

Amy is one of my closest friends, which is wild.

[B]

But. And I at times now don't have to be outside of the show as close with Amy, because I can hear through you.

[A]

You don't really hear things through me. I have my own friendship with Erin.

[B]

No, but I'm saying keep things in the vaults. We, Amy and I would spend all day together at work, and then sometimes we'd make sure, like, okay, let's make sure that we do stuff outside of work. But I don't have to do that anymore, and she doesn't have to do that with me because it's not a have to.

[A]

You guys want to, but you have.

[B]

To maintain a free. You have to put effort into a friendship. And I feel like her being so close with you is just her being so close to me, but just.

[A]

It's not.

[B]

Oh, I feel that way.

[A]

You shouldn't. You and I aren't the same person.

[B]

Yeah, but I feel that way.

[A]

Well, that's weird.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

I guess you mean, she's just so present in our lives because you're with her every day.

[B]

Every day.

[A]

And then we have our own side.

[B]

Thing and you and her spend time together. Got it far outside of me and her. Sometimes I don't even know when you guys do. Or I come home and she's just sitting on the couch. And I'm like, I just saw you at work.

[A]

You spend more time with her than me. Cause you see her multiple hours a day.

[B]

You spend more time with her when nobody's getting. Yes.

[A]

Oh, that's another thing that I need to address. I do sit on those couches.

[B]

Oh, the fancy ones when Amy and her boyfriend came over.

[A]

Yes. I sit on those couches with all my friends.

[B]

Yeah. I.

[A]

Do you not notice like when I have friends. Wear it over. Where do we sit?

[B]

Well, I never sit on those couches unless you're already there. That's the only time I will ever sit on those couches. Like, have you ever seen me just chilling on those couches? The only time I can think of is when I got sick. And I was digging my head into it because it was the closest place I could lay my head into it and whine about my headache.

[A]

Oh, yeah, that was quite the night.

[B]

I had a bad headache. I had a migraine.

[A]

Yeah. And you thought I was gonna have to take you to the er.

[B]

I thought my head was gonna explode. Okay.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I thought I was gonna have to go to the emergency room.

[A]

I know you did. I know you did. You told me multiple times you might.

[B]

Have to be to the emergency room. My head, it's hurting like it's never hurt before, right? And I stuck my head and I stuck it in.

[A]

But your head often hurts like it's never hurt before.

[B]

Oh, not true. This one.

[A]

You've never once had a headache. You've always only had a splitting headache.

[B]

No. Sometimes it pounds.

[A]

Every time you've ever referenced a headache, it's splitting.

[B]

Well, I don't tell you about half of them because they're just mild.

[A]

There is no chance you don't tell me about half of them. If you don't tell me about half of them, then you have one every day.

[B]

Why do you think I have so many headaches?

[A]

I don't. I. I actually. I don't know why you have so many headaches.

[B]

No, take a guess.

[A]

Lack of sleep. You don't drink a lot of water at all.

[B]

I wear my hair in a ponytail.

[A]

No, I think it's a mixture of lack of sleep and you're not nourishing yourself correctly.

[B]

But that day, it was the worst headache I ever had in my life. And I thought I was gonna die. And I thought, if this stays up.

[A]

You know what?

[B]

I gotta go.

[A]

Every headache tops the last with you. It's so true. It's so true.

[B]

And I think. I think I'll be great being pregnant.

[A]

Yeah, exactly.

[B]

And you. What?

[A]

I do feel bad for you when your head. When you. When your head hurts, but it's just a little. Sometimes it's like the boy that cries wolf.

[B]

No, I never cry wolf.

[A]

You cry. Splitting headache often, but no, if I.

[B]

Do, not even once a week? Okay, probably once every couple of weeks.

[A]

I know.

[B]

When's the last time I've had a bad headache? That time. That's Three weeks ago.

[A]

That was literally.

[B]

It wasn't literally last week. It was two weeks ago. It was three weeks ago. least.

[A]

You're out of your mind.

[B]

It was three weeks ago. least.

[A]

You don't feel well often.

[B]

And I think a lot of that is because I don't get it. I don't get good sleep.

[A]

And I have theories on why you don't get good sleep, but they're not right. How do you know? You don't test them out.

[B]

Yes, I do.

[A]

I think that you get off your phone. I think that you have a caffeine intolerance, much more than you're willing to acknowledge. Because you're always like, caffeine doesn't affect me. It doesn't. Yet you say if you don't drink it, you get a headache. That is the definition of it affecting you.

[B]

But I don't drink caffeine after 11.

[A]

But that's fine. Well, today you did.

[B]

Yeah, but I didn't wake up till late.

[A]

But that doesn't matter. That's.

[B]

And I don't even know that's true. I didn't have caffeine the other day at all. I didn't get a headache. It's mostly like the jinx. Like, I don't believe in the jinx, but just in case.

[A]

But I'm curious, and I know you wouldn't want to do it while you're working, but maybe next time there's a vacation, would you just try not having caffeine? Because for me, I am caffeine intolerant. I cannot have caffeine. And you know this. At any point in the morning, it doesn't matter. It could be 6am it will still affect my sleep. I can go to sleep, but my sleep will be disrupted. I will feel terrible. It will really affect me. So I just wonder if maybe your whole life you've had a big issue with sleeping. A lot of it is stress. I will definitely acknowledge that. But why not just maybe try to see if caffeine is adding to that?

[B]

I have before and today I had caffeine and then I took a nap, no problem, for an hour and a half.

[A]

It's not always that you can't go to sleep. That's not always the effect caffeine has on people. It can be that your sleep isn't sound. You're not getting enough REM, you're not getting enough deep caffeine.

[B]

Caffeine's like the 73rd thing.

[A]

Why would you just be open to trying sometimes I have tried it before.

[B]

I'm sure I tried it before.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

All right, next up, Darlin Tan. What?

[A]

Just the way you say these.

[B]

Darlin Tan. Darlin Tan. We kind of referenced this already. There's only three more questions, but anything you love to eat before pregnancy that you can't stand now.

[A]

No. Nothing. I love it all. I love it all.

[B]

Angel. Green 66. Will the baby be a Hogs fan or a Sooner fan?

[A]

I would say both. And that's that on that. Why do you care?

[B]

Her?

[A]

Why do you care? No, not. No, I, I. I don't care. I don't care that she asked the question. I'm saying, why do you care?

[B]

What do you mean, why do I care?

[A]

Like, just let the baby like who they like? Of course. I will never hold our child back from being a Hogs fan because I'm not evil.

[B]

Great.

[A]

So I. I've said nothing, and I will encourage that. I. I cheer for the Hogs. I don't have the complex that you have. I think it's an Arkansas thing where you feel like a little brother or something. We're not thinking about you.

[B]

I don't. We don't think about you.

[A]

You do. Because you're like, never.

[B]

I haven't said that.

[A]

No, but you said it before.

[B]

No. Maybe we first started dating. Nope.

[A]

Okay. I never even. I never even thought it was an option to hate Arkansas. I had no negative feeling toward. Towards Arkansas at all.

[B]

I hate Texas.

[A]

Same. And that we can agree on.

[B]

But I don't hate Oklahoma.

[A]

Well, thank you. But I think that our child will be. I don't think our child will dislike either. I'm sure that our child will go to more Hogs games because we go to more Hogs games. So in that vein, the baby will likely grow up more of a Hogs fan. But I would also like the baby to enjoy the Sooners.

[B]

There you have it.

[A]

There you have it.

[B]

Let's take a quick pause for a message from our sponsor. And we're back on the bobbycast. How did you tell your side of the family about the baby?

[A]

I told. We told my side of the family. Is that what they're asking my side? Mm. We told my side of the family. We told my parents on FaceTime.

[B]

Yeah, I kind of screwed that up.

[A]

You did.

[B]

Here's what happened.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

We were telling him on FaceTime that you were pregnant. And luckily for me, you did the exact thing that I did earlier in the day because you were trying.

[A]

No, I didn't.

[B]

Yeah, you did. You were trying to record Me and you had pushed record. And then when you. By accident. Then when you wanted to start recording, you had stopped it. Luckily, you had. You did that by accident that morning. And then I did.

[A]

No, I just never hit record.

[B]

Fair enough. Same thing.

[A]

Not the same thing.

[B]

We were telling her parents, and I hit record a little too early.

[A]

No, here's what happened.

[B]

So then I didn't know that it hit record, so I stopped hitting record when it was time to record. And so I started recording again, thinking I was stopping it when they were done. So we got pre and post.

[A]

Nope. This is what happened.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

You weren't hitting record, and I was the one that was in charge of telling them. Right. So I'm like, you can't possibly know when I'm about to drop the information. So I reach over to your phone and I hit record. You don't like that I hit record because you want to be in control of when record is hit and when it's not. And you didn't want, I don't think, five minutes of footage on your phone, which is ridiculous, because we can edit it down. So then as soon as I hit record, you stop recording. Then I tell them you miss it. You hit record, and you miss the whole reaction. I was so irritated. Like, just leave it on record. When I hit record.

[B]

There's no reason to hit record.

[A]

We'll never have that footage before they start.

[B]

There's no reason to hit record. Just let. Just tell me it was a 20.

[A]

I. But if I'm hitting record, this is my way of saying, hey, I'm hitting record. Because I know I'm about to say the thing that will get the reaction that we're wanting to capture.

[B]

You were grabbing my phone.

[A]

I wasn't grabbing. I hit tap. But it's your control issues.

[B]

No.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

That's not how I remember it. How I remember it was I hit record because my thumb was there and I didn't realize it. And then I hit stop recording when I was trying to hit record. And then when I was trying to stop it, it hit record again. And so we got pre and post.

[A]

Well, that's your version of events.

[B]

And then that did not happen when your family. When your family got emotional. We didn't have that. We had after they got emotional. We had before and after.

[A]

So sad to me.

[B]

It's really not.

[A]

You can say that. It's not sad to me. I wanted that footage.

[B]

I know, but we can remember it, and it was.

[A]

I wanted that.

[B]

Sometimes it's better not to look back and just remember for how beautiful it was.

[A]

No, I wanted that. I wanted to someday show our child their grandparents finding out about them. But I won't be able to because you didn't want an extra 30 seconds of footage on your phone.

[B]

Trying to slap my phone out of my hand.

[A]

I did not. Slap, slap. I slightly reached over and hit record.

[B]

All right, that's it. That's all the questions.

[A]

Oh, those were easy.

[B]

Yeah, those were pretty easy.

[A]

I mean, they were going to be harder.

[B]

Well, there were a lot and a lot were duplicates, and a lot were. What's the baby's name? What are you having the baby.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

How many are you going to have?

[A]

Right.

[B]

So it was like.

[A]

So the harder ones. We ignored those.

[B]

Well, I'm not going to ask. Ones I know that we're not prepared to answer.

[A]

Right, yeah. Sorry. Not answering those right now.

[B]

Anything else you want to mention or talk about before we close it up? This is. You owe 12 episodes. This is one of 12.

[A]

Yep.

[B]

We got one out of the way. Although to be chipping away, to be fair, you have said a few times, hey, we can go and do these questions if you want.

[A]

Yeah, I have tried multiple times.

[B]

But a lot of times you've tried, like right after to live up to.

[A]

My end of the bargain.

[B]

Right after I've finished 17 hours of doing interviews. And you're like, hey, I'll go do it.

[A]

That's every day. Like, what then? What day am I supposed to ask you? Or say, hey, I'm ready to, like, try to uphold what I agreed to? You've always done an interview. You did an interview. It was, say, Sunday. You did one yesterday, like, it's Saturday, and you did one.

[B]

Well, I was interviewed in that case.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

There's a difference. When I'm interviewing, it is far more intense because I've got to focus, dial in, be prepared for an hour.

[A]

But you have so many interviews. I was looking at the calendar for this coming week. You have, like 9,000 interviews, more than normal.

[B]

8,997.

[A]

So you do you have a lot of interviews coming up. A lot of Bobby casts.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Multiple a week.

[B]

But you know why? Because.

[A]

No, I know.

[B]

Netflix show is starting and we're gonna make sure that we're not behind. Cause I never wanna be chasing it.

[A]

Yeah, you got a lot, though.

[B]

Like six or seven in the next.

[A]

Five days or something crazy.

[B]

And then a couple radio show ones, too.

[A]

Oh, really?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

What do you mean?

[B]

People coming up to the morning show as well.

[A]

Oh, not Bobby Cass.

[B]

Yeah. Some of those listed are probably coming up.

[A]

No, I'm just specifically talking about the ones that are listed as Bobby Cass.

[B]

Yeah, they're good.

[A]

They are good. They're really good people.

[B]

Mm.

[A]

Really good people.

[B]

We called in some favors, meaning most of the time, we wait, and if somebody has something to promote, great. They come in. We don't really ask anybody to be on the show. We just sometimes say yes, sometimes say no. We reached out to a few people that I know well. I was like, hey, we're launching on Netflix. Throw me a bone and hop up. Like, people I felt comfortable calling.

[A]

Are you able to say who they are?

[B]

I can tell you a couple of.

[A]

The ones that tell me who you're most looking forward to. Out of the ones that I know.

[B]

About, I can tell you that I reached out to Kenny.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

And was like, are you in town? If. So I'm launching on Netflix. Can you do me a favor and come up for an hour? And Kenny Chasm was like, yeah, no problem. So we're doing that.

[A]

That'll be a good one.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I can think of one, but I don't know that you're gonna say it.

[B]

I don't think I'm gonna say it.

[A]

Okay, then I will.

[B]

Just kidding. Is it a guy?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And it could get a little dicey.

[A]

Could get dicey?

[B]

Yeah. Oh, then you may not mouth it to me.

[A]

Oh, wait, I think I heard. I want to say mumblings, rumblings of this at dinner the other night with Tom and Steph. Is that what you're talking about?

[B]

Maybe. Who did. Who did You.

[A]

Okay, I'll mouth it. I'll mouth who I think you're talking. I promise I won't do any air or anything.

[B]

No, I won't.

[A]

I swear. I swear.

[B]

I swear.

[A]

I swear. I promise.

[B]

Trust me, air will come to me.

[A]

No, I'll move my mic. Look.

[B]

Okay, go. Yes. That's the one.

[A]

Did I do any air?

[B]

But you pulled your head.

[A]

I told you, I. That's not who I was thinking of. But I heard you talking to Tom about that. I meant to circle back on that and be like, what? You're doing that.

[B]

That was one that I didn't. I didn't pursue. But this artist was doing one interview, and they said, I would like to do it with you.

[A]

And I said, oh, they. They reached and they said, I'm doing one interview about a specific topic. Oh, dang. Are you going to do that? Oh, dang. Okay.

[B]

I will.

[A]

I will delete my Instagram on that week.

[B]

No, I'll just do. I'm just. I'm going to go where he wants to go.

[A]

Yeah, no, I know you're never going to, like, put anyone in a bad position, but that's crazy.

[B]

But if somebody wants to get stuff off their chest.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

In a public forum, they can feel safe doing it with me.

[A]

Right? I think that's fine.

[B]

Another one. Luke Combs.

[A]

No, that's not who I'm thinking of. But now I don't know if I can say who I'm thinking of.

[B]

Stephen Wilson Jr.

[A]

Hold on. Let me do the same thing.

[B]

Okay. I don't know who you're doing. Oh, that one's fine.

[A]

Oh, I thought that's exciting.

[B]

Yeah, no, it is. I'm saying that one's fine to say. I mean, he. Oh, he hasn't showed up yet. He hasn't showed up yet.

[A]

Oh, so we shouldn't say it.

[B]

Oh, I don't care. I mean, if he doesn't. If something happens, we'll just say he canceled. But Kirk. Herb Street.

[A]

Yeah. I think that's gonna be so cool.

[B]

I think so. We follow each other on Instagram, but I've never met him.

[A]

He seems so nice.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

What do I not mean?

[B]

And then Jose. Josie worked with him, our vet and also podcast. She said he's so nice. And so we just reached out and he's done with football then.

[A]

Right. Got it.

[B]

Or he's getting closer. Yeah, probably and should be.

[A]

Does he do any NFL stuff?

[B]

Yeah, but I think. I'm not sure if he's done by then.

[A]

Huh. Why'd I think he was only college football?

[B]

He does Amazon.

[A]

Oh, got it.

[B]

Amazon, NFL. And he does college football game day. But game day will be over. His national championship will be over. Yeah. Anyways. Yeah, that'll be good.

[A]

Yeah, that's exciting.

[B]

We have some really good guests coming up.

[A]

Are you liking the new space? Mm, yeah, it's so cool.

[B]

Yeah. Still figuring out the hiccups.

[A]

What else should we talk about?

[B]

Nothing. I feel pretty good. Unless you have anything else. Just completely out of left field that's been on your mind?

[A]

No, I got a really nice message from a country music artist.

[B]

Can I guess who? Is it a girl?

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Do I have anything?

[A]

I actually need to text her because she was like, please text me. And she said it a couple days ago. And then, of course it's me, and I didn't because I just am mean.

[B]

Do I have any sort of personal relationship with her?

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Okay. Female.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

So I must be friends. Ish.

[A]

Mm. And why would someone be reaching out to me now at this stage in my life?

[B]

Well. Cause you're pregnant, right?

[A]

So it has to be someone tied to that.

[B]

Let me figure this out. Cause nobody comes to mind. So, okay. Natalie Stovall. I'm close to.

[A]

Yes. It was not Natalie.

[B]

Runaway June.

[A]

This is someone that I have not ever had any relationship with. Like, I know Natalie. Well, like, yeah, I'm not.

[B]

You don't know them.

[A]

I don't know them.

[B]

You've never met them in person?

[A]

I don't think so. And they said that they were like, I know we don't know each other, but I love Bobby, and I just want to reach out because, you know, you're pregnant. It was a really, really sweet message.

[B]

That's.

[A]

They were like, I can't.

[B]

But I can't think of who that is.

[A]

Well, honestly, should I even be sharing this, or is this, like, a private thing? Maybe that person doesn't want me to say.

[B]

If it's bad, I'll delete it. I want you to tell me.

[A]

It's not bad at all. It was really nice.

[B]

Okay, who.

[A]

Who are country music artists that have just had a baby?

[B]

Hillary Scott.

[A]

Nope, wasn't her. It wasn't Hillary.

[B]

Okay. Oh, wait, I. Who just had a baby? Huh? Am I gonna go?

[A]

Oh, I don't know. I don't know. Because we didn't follow each other on Instagram or anything like that. But it was a really sweet message. And sometimes I like to be like, hey, these people are good people, you know? Which is so unlike me. Cause I never share anything personal.

[B]

And I'm like, hey, somebody just had a baby.

[A]

Mm.

[B]

How? Like, just, like, how long? In the last few weeks? Last year?

[A]

No, I think a couple months. Couple months? Actually, probably, like, longer than that.

[B]

And they texted you five months?

[A]

No, they DMed me, and then I was like, oh, so kind of you to reach out.

[B]

Did you respond?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Oh.

[A]

And they said, you know, please ask me any questions. I couldn't have done like this without my mom group.

[B]

It wasn't like, Maddie.

[A]

No, I know. I know them.

[B]

Okay. Okay.

[A]

They're great.

[B]

I have no idea who this is. I've had them on the show recently.

[A]

I don't know. I don't think so, but I don't know.

[B]

Have it. Have they ever toured with me?

[A]

I don't know. Probably. Maybe. Long time ago.

[B]

Are they a solo artist?

[A]

Yes. This is so silly. This is a lot to just tell you a story.

[B]

No, no, I meant. I keep meaning you never get to play the games.

[A]

I keep meaning to tell you this because it was. I thought it was really a kind gesture, but I just keep forgetting. Reached out, said, what state are they from? I don't know.

[B]

That, like, it's not like part of their.

[A]

I don't know. Let me look it up.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Oh, sorry. Cuz you might not. You might know, but I don't know.

[B]

And I rarely get to play games, so I'm actually having a good time doing that.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Because even, like during the morning show, I got to prepare all the games and host all the games for the most part.

[A]

State. She is from Georgia.

[B]

Lauren. Yeah, got it. Yeah, got it. Yeah. She just had a kid. Yeah, she was touring. Pregnant. Lauren. Elaine.

[A]

That's crazy. I can barely talk without running out of breath. Cannot imagine singing. All right, well, that concludes the game.

[B]

That concludes. Well, that concludes the show and the show. Yeah. Everything good? You good?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Okay. Thank you, everybody, for listening.

[A]

Thanks for listening.

[B]

And I don't know when we're getting when the Bobby and Caitlin show is going to be back. The Bobby and Caitlin Show. The Bobby and Caitlin show.

[A]

Whoa, whoa, whoa.

[B]

But it'll be back one day.

[A]

Yep.

[B]

It's like Black Mirror. You just don't know when it's going to come back. And when it does, it comes out of nowhere and you're like, wow.

[A]

Oh, that's cool.

[B]

What an episode.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

All right, that's it. Thank you, everybody, and goodbye. Thanks for listening to a Bobby Cast production.

[A]

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