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Amy
1, 2, 3.
Kat
Hey.
Amy
Alright, break it down.
Kat
If you ever have feelings and you just want some Maybe a cat got you covered like a number. Ladies, we just follow in the spirit.
Amy
Where it tell us from the real.
Kat
Stuff to the chill stuff and the in between. Sometimes the best thing you can do is just stop and feel things. This is Feeling Things with Amy and Kat.
Amy
Oh, yeah. Happy Tuesday. Welcome to Feeling Things. I'm Amy. And I'm Kat and we have something super fun in store for y' all today. We don't actually even know what episode you're gonna hear. Producer Houston is going to be picking it out, but Kat and I are here at the beginning giving a little intro and a little peek behind the curtain of. Well, we're dealing with an ice storm here in Nashville. I'm sure you have heard a lot of you live here, so you may be experiencing this. You're not even listening right now because you don't have Internet, you don't have power, you don't have anything. So.
Kat
Or maybe you're.
Amy
You're charging your phone in your car and you are listening because a lot of people have been warming up in their cars. I know that that was the warmest place for me for a while. I still don't have power. Kat, on the other hand, not to brag, but she has had power the entire time.
Kat
Yeah, our power never went out. But I. I did lose Internet for an hour, remember?
Amy
She did lose Internet for an hour. It was really. It was really difficult trying times. Yeah. So Kat and I literally just connected. She's at her house. I'm staying at a friend's house. I was roughing it at my house. Is no power for a few days. And then finally my son was like, mom, I'm cold. And the fun and games were over because we were having fun acting like we were living in the 1800s, you know, by candlelight, keeping warm by the fire. But the novelty wore off and so we left and Grabbed up the pets. And sometimes you'll hear us talk about Shannon in the podcast. We came to her house, shout out, Shannon saved the day. We got dog, cat, kid, kids were here. We're doing the dang thing. And Kat and I linked up on Zoom. Since my house studio is not an option and we recorded an entire episode, we're not going to give you the details of it because next week, when we're able to meet together in person or whenever my power comes back, we're going to do that episode again, and it's just going to be even better. But I felt like it was pretty good.
Kat
Yeah, but you've taught me whenever that happens, it's because it was supposed to happen. And that episode was not meant to be heard in that way.
Amy
Here's my thoughts on that. The content of the episode, I loved it was our connection was bad because even right now, we're on a different connection and there's no delay.
Kat
Oh, really?
Amy
No delay. Everything's fine. So we had that 45 minute long episode where I think the delay would have been painful.
Kat
Yeah.
Amy
It would've been more like, hey, Happy Tuesday. Welcome to Feeling Things. I'm Amy. Pause, pause, pause. And I'm Kat.
Kat
Okay. So that episode could be better. And so we're gonna make it better.
Amy
We're gonna make it better. So we're gonna save the contents of that because Kat and I are honestly, we're out of time. I've got to cook dinner. Kat has to be somewhere. And Houston, our producer and editor, he is boarding a ship. Literally, she's going on a vacation, and he's trying to get some stuff done. And the funny thing is, is Kat and I have been working, like, for about two weeks to get ahead because we knew Houston was going on vacation and we were so on to deliver. And on Monday, we were going to send him these files. And on Monday, what's kind of funny about Monday is I was like, okay, we're probably going to get power back tonight or maybe on Tuesday. And now here we are, Friday. My neighborhood is not thinking they're going to have power until next week, but we're making the most of it. It is what it is. And Houston, this part isn't really for our listeners, but we're leaving it in here. We're really sorry that we failed you. And to our listeners, I guess this is an example of right when the computer shut down and I knew we were going to lose the audio. That's what happened. The computer died. And then Zoom didn't record it anyway. I was like, okay, I'm gonna cry. Because we had just put all this work into it. Because even a Couch Talks episode, it wasn't just feeling things. It was Couch Talks too. And then about two seconds after that, I was like, I think that this is what's meant to be is we're supposed to air a best of, and Houston's gonna figure out what that's gonna be. I think Cad said something like, what'd you say when I called you? You were like, is the Lord trying to tell us something?
Kat
I said, is God trying to say something about what we just recorded? I don't know. But then you're like, I mean, no, I'm feeling good about this. I'm taking this as, like, this is what needs to happen. So you had a good attitude. I was kind of nervous of, like, oh, I don't want you to be mad at yourself because the computer died.
Amy
Well, yeah, because I should have plugged it in. Oh, are you reminding me of that?
Kat
It wasn't your computer, so it can't be.
Amy
To be fair, I was on Shannon's computer, and then I was like, shoot, where's the charger? And we had been recording for way longer than we thought we were going to, so I didn't. I didn't anticipate the battery dying. But now it all makes sense. And so the little nugget will leave you with is I went from, oh, shoot, I'm gonna cry to oh, no duh. This episode needs to be redone with proper microphones. Kat and I being in person, because I did like the content. And you know what I think we should do, though? Just a little gift before Houston throws in the best of. Should we read that nugget of an email that we had for Couch Talks? Let's just read it. Let's give people the one that we read. Huh? The first one.
Kat
Yeah, that. Okay. Yeah, that might. It might brighten your day as much as it brightened ours.
Amy
Yeah. And also it might explain why if after this, if you quit listening, we understand. You know, if you're like, these girls, I gotta get it together. So this is from a listener. We decided that she didn't ask to be anonymous, but we're not using her name. We're just going to use her initials. So this is from MJ I know this isn't an airport, and I don't have to announce my departure, but I'm done. You used to have important issues and interesting topics and guests. Today I had to hear stupid jokes About Snoop Dogg, what you eat at Chick Fil A and where Kat buys T shirts. And that in 2019, you got a waffle maker. Worst podcast. And the constant giggling is obnoxious. It's so sad that you get paid for this content. And then she signed her name.
Kat
The most wild part about that email is that she signed her full name and she did not ask to be anonymous, which I imagine she probably didn't think we were going to read her email.
Amy
But even if we did read it, she's not listening to hear it. So she'll never know.
Kat
She'll never know.
Amy
She'll never know. But that's a solid line. Like, next time I'm leaving somewhere, I'm going to be like, I know this isn't an airport, and I don't have to pronounce my departure, but I'm leaving. I'm out of here. Like, not even. Like, I'm leaving in a bad way. Like, she's like, I'm done. I'm not listening anymore. I'm just gonna. Like, tonight before I go to bed, maybe if we're watching something, I'm gonna get up from the couch and be.
Kat
Like, have you not seen people say that all over social media?
Amy
Oh, is that. Is this a thing?
Kat
Well, this is from my experience. Like, you'll see that people say that when somebody's like, I'm unfollowing you. And then people will be like, this isn't an airport. You don't need to announce your departure. Like, just unfollow them. You don't have to tell them about it. Like, nobody cares kind of thing. And so I do think it's interesting that she felt the need to send this email. Like, just stop listening to us. Like, that's okay.
Amy
Yeah. Like, if anybody after today has decided that they're going to stop listening, just go, yeah, just stop. Or, you know, per this email and how she describes the content we had, I mean, I might stop listening to, but surely we offered more than a Snoop Dogg joke. Our Chick Fil A orders where cat buys their T shirts, and the fact that in 2019, I got a waffle maker.
Kat
Wait. You know what is crazy is last week I sent you. Because I was editing the. The video. I sent you a text that was like, oh, my gosh, this episode's so good.
Amy
And this is the episode she's referring to where she's like, I'm out of here, y'.
Kat
All. Maybe that was couch talks. I don't know. But I just remember last week being like, oh, yeah, we're on it.
Amy
That's funny. Well, hopefully we offered more than that because I understand why MJ departed, if that's all we had to give her. And just know that. Coming up on the horizon, Kat has put together some helpful things that you can say when things are not going well to yourself, to others that are helpful. I really loved your list, and I know that it is meant to be heard. It's just not today. Yeah.
Kat
And this. You know what? You're teasing people right now, so you're leaving on a little cliffhanger. They're not going to be able to wait for that episode to come out. Yeah.
Amy
You got to listen, and then we'll tell our stories. We've got. I've got a question that doesn't come up. Cats feeling the day. We have a word of the day. We have all kinds of things. And hopefully by then will also just be in a better space and back to some normalcy, because, honestly, right now, everything's just a little out of whack. And I've really been living our mantra of have the day you need to have. Like, the other day, I cried three times, and I was like, that's okay. I'm crying. I'm having the day that I. I need to have. And it was really sweet. And one of the moments I was huddling up on my fireplace to stay warm, and the tears just started showing. It was, like, coming down my face, and it wasn't dramatic, but my son was over on the couch doing something else, and I didn't even know that he would notice. And he got up and he. And sat by the fireplaces and put his arm around me. And I was thinking he was maybe even going to go to a friend's house that night. It's the night we decided to leave my house, but I didn't know yet that we were going to leave, if that makes sense. Like, the order of events was like, I was upset about something else and the pressure of it all, I just started crying. But we were already making arrangements for him to maybe go somewhere at least. And then I would stay at home with the pets because the main reason why we were staying at home is the pets.
Kat
Cats.
Amy
It's hard to go places with a dog and a cat when people are kind to open their home to you and you're like, oh, where can I put the litter box? But he came over and he put his arm around me, and he was like, are you okay, Mom? And. And I just said, oh, yeah, thank you. Just processing a lot. I don't mind if my kids ever see me cry. But he. He said, just so you know, I'm not leaving you. Like, at that point, he's like, either we go somewhere together or we stay here together. Like, you're not taking me to a friend's house.
Kat
And I was like, that's making me tear up.
Amy
Yeah, it was a moment. So I was like, okay, buddy. Yeah. Let's go pack our bags. We're going to Shannon's. I'll go with you. Go grab the litter. So anyway, we are looking forward to some normalcy, and I don't know when that will come back, but we are having the days that we need to have.
Kat
Amen.
Amy
Feeling all the feelings. And so wherever you are, whether you're impacted directly by the storm that swept across part of the country or you're impacted by other things going on in our country, have the day you need to have. It's heavy out there right now for several reasons. So I wish we had a new episode to give you some comfort and entertainment, but hopefully whatever Best of Houston picks and pulls will be exactly the episode that you maybe missed and you need to hear because you never heard it. Or that maybe you need to hear again because you'll pick up an extra little nugget. Like a Chick Fil A nugget.
Kat
Not that that's your order. That when you go to Chick Fil A. We wouldn't want to talk about that.
Amy
Yeah, like, who would ever talk about their Chick Fil A order? That's so boring.
Kat
Lame.
Amy
Them. Who would get paid for that content? Anyway, we appreciate y' all so much. Thank you. Even UMJ if you're listening, although you're probably not, but we do appreciate you nonetheless. Nonetheless, nonetheless. All right, in the meantime, check out our old videos on Instagram and YouTube Feeling Things podcast, and we will be back whenever we can be back.
Kat
Sweet. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Amy
You like that saying?
Kat
Yeah, we'll be back when we will be back. Have the day you need to have. Actually, this is where you could have used that line, I'll see you then, or I'll see you at another time.
Amy
What's that from?
Kat
I love you, man.
Amy
Oh, I love how you're teaching me.
Kat
All these new sayings.
Amy
Like, I'm sort of like, oh, yeah, I can't wait you to use this airport saying. And you're like, amy, it's online all the time. It's what people say when they're unfollowing someone. I'm like, oh, really? Okay.
Kat
Get it now.
Amy
Proper use of the departure. But, yeah, we'll. We'll close out with our thing officially, and then Houston can roll into whatever best bits he has best bit episode he has selected for your enjoyment today. All right, Buckle up and have the.
Kat
Day you need to have.
Amy
Bye.
Kat
Bye.
Amy
Happy Tuesday. Welcome to Feeling Things. I'm Amy.
Kat
And I'm Kat.
Amy
And before we get to the feeling of the day, which is coming from you, Kat, I have a random question of the day, and it's this.
Kat
Questions that don't come up. Yeah, okay.
Amy
But I feel like, are we doing questions that don't come up, like, in the middle of something? Like, randomly? If it comes up. This is premeditated.
Kat
Okay, then. No, it's not.
Amy
Well, it's something because I was on a call before we were recording, and I had to say my credit card over the phone, and I have zeros in my credit card multiple. But I realized that depending on how the numbers are laid out, sometimes I say O and sometimes I say zero. I don't say zero every time, and I don't say oh every time. So my question is, when you have a zero, do you say zero or O? Like, for example, I can say my phone number. Growing up, it was 2820841. Oh, that's. Oh. But then sometimes if I was like, 2820841, and then maybe there was, like, four other numbers, it might be like, 096, you know, like, if it was like, okay, and what's the code to access your bedroom?
Kat
Yeah, you would say.
Amy
I would say zero.
Kat
Access your bedroom.
Amy
Like. Like, what's your extension? You know, like, that was. Because that was my home phone. Do you still remember your home phone number going up?
Kat
Yeah. Why do I feel like I shouldn't say it out loud? It doesn't even exist anymore.
Amy
Yeah, mine probably. I mean, I didn't give the area code, but I gave the 282 8.
Kat
I still use it for, like, certain things that it's connected to, like.
Amy
Oh, probably shouldn't do that.
Kat
Well, I mean, for, like, when you go to, like, a grocery store and you type it in to get the.
Amy
Points, you know, at the grocery store, you can always do whatever area code you live in and do 867-530-9. Oh, hey. Oh, in the song, they go 867-530-9.
Kat
And get the points.
Amy
It works for me.
Kat
So at a grocery store, you've never actually created an account. You just.
Amy
Sometimes I have, but then some. If I don't Yes, I will do the area code of where I am. So In Nashville, we're 615. And then you just type in 867-5309, and then all the discounts come up.
Kat
No way.
Amy
Yeah. Okay. Okay. Well, so I don't know. I know it's a very random question, but it just got me thinking. Like, that's a great question. In my credit card number, I have multiple zeros. And sometimes I say zero, and sometimes I say, oh, it just has to be the placement and how it feels rolling off the tongue.
Kat
So you're asking, do I say, yeah.
Amy
Do you ever say oh or zero?
Kat
I don't know, because I don't pay attention that. But I'm assuming because when you said the phone number, I'm like, yeah. If you said zero, say that phone.
Amy
Number and say 028-20841 or 282-0841.
Kat
Oh, it sounds normal, too.
Amy
I wouldn't do that. And it's not like we call it Coke Zero. I don't say Coke O. I mean, obviously Coke Zero. Okay, They've told us. But, I mean, zeros are zeros. So why do I say, oh?
Kat
It's an abbreviation.
Amy
I know, but why? It just was weird. Like, in the. In the flow of it, I didn't say consistently zero. Every time. It was like, oh, in the delivery.
Kat
I'm finally hearing what you're saying.
Amy
Let's say my credit card number has five zeros. Am I not being clear this entire time? Me? I'm not saying. I'm saying not. You understanding at me not being clear in my delivery, like, my credit card number has multiple zeros, but say it's 4, 2 5, 0. I wouldn't say 4, 2, 5, 0. I say 4,250. And then if it's like 0680, I might say that. But then there's. There's another zero in there.
Kat
I say, oh, you say both is what you're saying.
Amy
I say both, okay. In the combination of saying, you know, I love how.
Kat
What's the right word here?
Amy
Passionate.
Kat
How passionate you are becoming over this. I thought you were saying I feel like a weirdo. No, I thought you were saying, like, sometimes, like, with my phone number, I say oh, but with my credit card, I say zero. You're saying I. I mix and mingle.
Amy
I mix and mingle in the same delivery.
Kat
I think that's okay.
Amy
I know.
Kat
Okay, thank you. Thank you.
Amy
That's all I know. I don't know. I guess I was just Curious if I'm the only person on the planet that does this.
Kat
I don't think you are.
Amy
Okay. Cryo cat does it.
Kat
Okay. Everybody in this room does.
Amy
So you mix and mingle in the same flow.
Kat
I think it's like, yeah, it's a. You have to go based on how you feel. And like a zero. Might feel right here and oh. Might feel right here.
Amy
0 and oh. This is the only one we do it for. We don't do it for.
Kat
Well, what other numbers have abbreviations?
Amy
1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. You're like, Ocho, tres. Okay. No, I guess they don't. We don't. Yeah.
Kat
So I think you're normal. Oh.
Amy
Oh, Yeah, I would say oh, oh. Yeah, I would say, oh, oh. I would probably say oh, oh. I wouldn't go zero, zero, but I might. But I might say zero. Oh, okay. Four, three, two.
Kat
But I also think if I'm. If I'm reading something off to somebody, I like to be very clear because I think sometimes when I speak, I don't speak clearly. So I probably would say zero if I'm reading something. Zero, zero, four three kind of thing.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
But if I'm just somebody's like, what's your phone number? I'll probably would be like, 430-420-0.
Amy
Right. You know, I know. I'm with you. I'm very clear. That's why it was weird to me, because I noticed that I was like, 960420, and it was like, zero, and then, oh, and I'm like, why did I just switch that?
Kat
There's nothing.
Amy
Probably should have described it just like that in the very beginning.
Kat
Yeah, you're. I think you're normal. And if you weren't normal, that would be such a fun quirk that we would just love about you.
Amy
You probably wouldn't even really notice it.
Kat
And I bet that person didn't notice that you did that.
Amy
Yeah, well, because then, I mean, all credit cards are numbers. But she might be like, oh, oh, it's not a number because O is a letter.
Kat
Yeah, I think that she gets that. That's the abbreviation for zero, though. I know.
Amy
Probably.
Kat
What if she said that it was on a number? I don't. I can't input that, ma'.
Amy
Am. Yeah, and I would be like, you know, it's the.
Kat
What do you abbreviations for zero?
Amy
It's. This is short talk. Or like, shorthand. My mom was able to write shorthand. I never.
Kat
What does that mean?
Amy
It's a. Abbreviated writing.
Kat
Don't you just do that anyway when you're taking notes?
Amy
No, this is like a special language.
Kat
Oh.
Amy
Well, I don't know if they were taught it like a. My mom was a secretary back when it was called secretary at places, and then later an administrative assistant, but I think it was a taught thing. Like, you learned shorthand? Oh, sort of. Like, who keeps notes in the courtroom? You know, the clerk. No, topography.
Kat
But the topography they're taking, they're not notes. They're taking minutes.
Amy
The minute. The minute taker. I know, but they're. If you've ever noticed, their keyboard is not a normal keyboard. I don't think. I believe it's like a shorthand typewriter. So it's.
Kat
So how. The letters. It has like.
Amy
Yes. You're typing so quickly to keep up with everything that's being said.
Kat
I didn't know that.
Amy
So, yeah, a stenographer. A court reporter.
Kat
That's what it's called. Or that's what her machine's called.
Amy
It's. The person is the stenographer, and the machine is the stenographer.
Kat
It's sonography.
Amy
Typewriter. Oh, shorthand. Typewriter. It just popped in my head. Obviously.
Kat
Cool.
Amy
We didn't plan talking about this. Things. Yeah, things. Random things we never thought we'd talk about. But let's get into the feeling of the day, since none of this has anything to do with feelings.
Kat
Yeah. You're feeling passionate. Would you say that? Or were you feeling insecure about that?
Amy
I think I more so was feeling insecure that I was not being clear in what I was saying. It sort of threw me because you did a good job faking like you knew what I was talking about. And then all of a sudden, because I thought you were tracking with me, and then you go, oh, I get what you're saying. So then I got defensive, and I'm like, damn. You go.
Kat
You go.
Amy
You're not weird. I go, yeah. Even though I only brought it up because I thought I was weird, I know I'm not weird. But a minute. Like a minute before, I had brought it up because I felt like maybe I was being weird.
Kat
So do you feel better?
Amy
Yeah, I feel better.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
I don't know if we have any clarity, but those listening out there right now, if you say oh or zero, you are not alone.
Kat
That's what this podcast is all about. Okay, I'm not feeling insecure. Passion. There might be some passion in there, but I'm. I'm feeling a low level of enragement of rage.
Amy
Okay.
Kat
Because I don't know if I've shared with you on here before recently that we have purchased.
Amy
I don't know if I have shared with you before recently on this here podcast.
Kat
Ever in this time, we've purchased a treadmill and breaking news.
Amy
Yeah, this is breaking news.
Kat
My. My iPad's talking to me. So we purchased the treadmill. It was a big deal. We shopped around. We tested some out. I did some research. Great. Purchase it. We go to the store. You know what? I'm going to say the store, because it deserves to be mentioned, like, in.
Amy
A negative or positive way.
Kat
You can decide.
Amy
Well, I need to know the location before you do, because I don't know if I have an affiliation with them at all in any way, shape, or form.
Kat
So it's a common store that people buy goods at. Goods for sporting goods.
Amy
Sure.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
We'll keep it at that.
Kat
I won't even blame the store. I think they wouldn't have known this.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
I will say that. Well, part of it is the store associate. Associate. The store wouldn't have known the actual problem. That would not be their fault.
Amy
Perfect. So good thing we didn't say their name. And we're not going to.
Kat
Yeah. Why would I ever do that? Yeah. So we go to the store. The store associate, which I'm like, duh. Katherine. This probably is just like a college student who's working on the weekends to make minimum wage. He probably doesn't really care. That's judgment. But I will say Patrick worked at this store at one point in his life, and that's what he said. He did. So I'm like, asking questions. Once we were gonna buy it, he was like, do you want to get the assembly and delivery? I said, well, how much is that? He said, 200.
Amy
Oh, I know what you thought. Right away, you were like, what? Why would I pay someone to put it together when I can do it myself?
Kat
Literally. Yeah. I said, well, could we do it ourselves? And he said, well, I did it myself in 45 minutes. So, yeah. And I was like, then, no, we'll just take it with us today. He said, what kind of car do you drive? I told him. He said, oh, I'll be fine. It'll fit in there. Long story short, it did not fit. Half of it didn't even fit in my car. So we had to come back the next day, get my dad's truck, put it there, take it to our house, carry it up the stairs, which I had to enlist family members to come to our house to do this. I thought somebody was going to die.
Amy
Yeah. Treadmills are heavy.
Kat
I didn't know that. Oh, why did I not know that? Why did I not think that?
Amy
Probably because the only previous your prior experience to a quote unquote treadmill before this. But it's one of those walking pads from Amazon. Is that why?
Kat
Yeah. And I could carry that upstairs by myself.
Amy
Right. It's very portable.
Kat
Yes. So I was so scared during this process. And in the middle of the.
Amy
Yeah, like, I'm shocked. Like, we've had to pay. Whenever I've had to relocate my treadmill. We've had to pay the company to come move it because I've been so.
Kat
Should have done that.
Amy
Terrified.
Kat
Should have done that.
Amy
But. But you could do it yourself.
Kat
Yeah. And I have to admit, I did not help at all to carry that up the stairs. And I probably would have died if I was part of that process. We finally get it in there. Patrick and I set it up and honestly didn't see. It was a little frustrating setting up, but it wasn't that bad. Oh, before this, the sales associate said, do you want to buy a mat for this treadmill? I said, do we need one? We're just putting it on carpet. He said, no, it's really more for hardwood floors. So you don't mess up your hardwood flooring. We also don't care about this carpet anyway because we're. Eventually we want to rip it up. So he's like, oh, then you don't need the mat. And I was like, great, save more money. Don't pay for the assembly, don't pay for the shipping, don't pay for the mat. So we get it up there, put it together, it doesn't work. And I'm like, oh, my God. So I'm like, googling stuff, whatever, blah, blah. Then I open up the manual, and on the first page it says before you start, like, warning things to know. The first thing is, do not assemble this and use it on carpet.
Amy
So you need the mat.
Kat
Yeah. And it probably could have, like, I don't know, done something bad, Started a fire. Under. Killed you. Yes. Yeah, probably. So anyway, we had to get the mat, then we had to get ply. Weeks have gone by. We've updated our treadmill experience.
Amy
Yeah. I don't know all of this saga, but I do know when you were. You bought the treadmill. And I feel like that was a really long time ago.
Kat
Month, probably.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
Probably can't return it at this point. Well, I'm gonna speed the story up because this is far too long.
Amy
If someone is currently on the treadmill right now, you have jogged a couple miles.
Kat
Literally.
Amy
They're like.
Kat
And anyway, so we had to take the treadmill completely apart, which did cause a little bit of marital discord, and take it apart to fix the thing. Oh, my God. We took the whole thing apart because we were trying to get to this one screw. And then once we took the whole thing apart, Patrick realized we could have just lifted the child up to access that crew and we screw. And we didn't need to take the whole thing apart.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
So we. Anyway, we did that. Then we lifted it up. Wouldn't you know, the inside the motor of the treadmill is completely rusted.
Amy
How? You don't know.
Kat
It's a mystery. So now we have to undo it again and take it down the stairs.
Amy
The whole thing. Can't the they come pick it up? You sold me a rusty treadmill, so I'm gonna need.
Kat
What did I do to deserve this? That's what I want to know. I just wanted to be healthy. I just wanted to move my body a little bit.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
Well, I've been walking outside now. And so anyway, it's about to get.
Amy
To be the winter months.
Kat
Like, yeah, I did email them to and sent them pictures because they had sent me, like, this is probably what it is. Just look at this and fix it. And I'm like, well, this is rusted. So my hope is that they're like, oh, no, we'll send somebody there with a new piece and they'll fix it. Because if I have to take that thing back downstairs, I'd rather just light it on fire, but I actually can't do that inside my house.
Amy
No, that's not gonna happen. Okay. Our hope is gonna be that they're going to come and fix it, or if it has to be removed, that they will come and haul it away, like, on the house, because surely it needs to be swapped out. And that shouldn't be on you to. To have to handle that.
Kat
Just a girl. And maybe I should pretend like I'm. I'm a single woman living in that home and I not strong enough or something. So they have to like, sir, I have no family here. Nobody can help me do this.
Amy
Yeah, my parents don't live down the street, and that is not my husband right here.
Kat
My brother doesn't live down the street.
Amy
And they're like, how did you get up here? Oh, you know, just, you know, one.
Kat
Step at a time.
Amy
Treadmill. I have my own Issues. But the treadmill works fine. My. My cat has claimed it as sort of her spot perch. And so I get on it, and sometimes she's cool with it, but other times she swats at me and. Yeah. And, like, tries to bite me. And if I'm walking with my arm, she'll like. And, like, she does not want me to be on there. And then I have a little. I'll have to buy you one of these. You can get a little clear tray and a little stand for your computer, and it'll prop up and you can walk and work. But when I have the tray up there, there's no room for her, and she freaks out. And I'm like, maggie, go lay somewhere else. It's not that big of a deal.
Kat
Wait, this is actually really ironic since she's on a diet.
Amy
I know. She just sits on the ground. My favorite spot is the treadmill.
Kat
Everybody in this family will not be exercising.
Amy
Yes. She's like, if you're. Yes. Because I'm currently not feeding her in her bowl. We have to loose feed her where you just hide food around the room. And she has to hunt for it. She has to, like, work for her food and find it. But I feel bad, so I'll hide it, and then I take her to it. And I'm like, this is where I put it. And I'm like, here you go.
Kat
Just. So do you put, like, one little piece?
Amy
No, I put, like.
Kat
Or is it like a pile of.
Amy
A little pile and not in a bowl? Not in a bowl. I just lose.
Kat
Did she just, like, put her food on the floor?
Amy
No, she can't eat that way anymore. She has to go. She has to, like, have an ounce here, an ounce there, here. And I was just like, find it and walk around. And I'm. I am apparently supposed to exercise with her, and I'm like, how do you exercise a cat? Whether you're hosting the watch party, bringing the snacks, or just here for the halftime show and commercials, DraftKings Sportsbook, an official sports betting partner of Super Bowl 60, makes Super Bowl Sunday even more fun. New to betting. No stats, no stress. Just pick the team that you're cheering for or a player that everyone's buzzing about and place your first bet. Simple as that. Download the DraftKings sportsbook app and use code FEELING. New customers can turn five bucks into $300 in bonus bets if your bet wins. With Code Feeling in partnership with DraftKings, the Crown is yours.
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Kat
How do you exercise a cat?
Amy
I mean, you put like a ribbon and they bounce around, but I mean.
Kat
Yeah. Why aren't you doing that?
Amy
Well, I. I have to start. Cara always eats her ch. Her little toys that we get her. Cara eats it. So then on the dog. I'm not going to buy another one. Car is probably overweight too.
Kat
You walk Cara all the time.
Amy
I know, but I overfeed my pets.
Kat
Wait, I have a question. Why? Because I feel knowing nothing about animals. Never had a cat, so take this with a grain of salt. Why can't you just limit her food intake? Why do you have to hide it?
Amy
This is what the vet told me to do. So she has to hunt for it so she's not eating it. So that way if you have it in the bowl, like she's just gonna eat it all right there. And then if it's spread out, she's like Spacing out her food and just. I don't know, Cat.
Kat
Okay, so the real issue is that she's sedentary.
Amy
The vet. The vet said this is the heaviest she has weighed, and you need to cut back on her feet.
Kat
What's the oldest that she has ever been? Of course it's the heaviest. We.
Amy
No, I think at some point, like, cats just, like, should maintain.
Kat
Maybe I'm feeling defensive. I'm like, yeah, I'm the heaviest I've ever been because I'm 35. Yeah. And I'm not 12 anymore.
Amy
Yeah. Okay. Anyway, Maggie, she parks. Parks it on my treadmill. And yes, it is ironic because she does need to work out, but because you have been through such a difficult time with your treadmill, once it's set up, I will gift you the clear tray and the computer.
Kat
That's really nice. And what I hear in that is that you believe that this will be resolved.
Amy
It will. It will be.
Kat
And what I have learned is pay for the delivery and assembly.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
You can't do everything yourself. Do I deserve this? I think I do, because I. I.
Amy
Feel like you have other things going on that are, like, magnifying, like, the rage you feel towards the treadmill, and it makes me wonder.
Kat
It's not about the treadmill.
Amy
It may not be. Have you thought about that?
Kat
It's 100% not about the treadmill.
Amy
Oh, okay.
Kat
See, I really probably wouldn't be this upset. It's just. It's like something. I'd rather hyper focus on that than other things in my life that are out of my control. Yeah.
Amy
You're like, if I have to do that, I'm a set on fire, but.
Kat
I'm just going to burn my house down.
Amy
But I can't do that. If y' all see Cat on the news.
Kat
No, you might. Fire alarm. Speaking of. Okay, so yesterday, as we're working on the treadmill, our fire alarm goes off. But it was not an alarm. It was a woman's voice.
Amy
And it sang.
Kat
She said, there's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm is about to sound. It will be very loud, just so you know.
Amy
And then.
Kat
And then it was quiet. And I go, patrick, because am I.
Amy
Am I.
Kat
My initial thought I.
Amy
You're hallucinating.
Kat
Oh, my gosh. I had walked. I wasn't with him because we. Okay, we just found the rest. I walked in the bathroom, take my contacts out, and I started hearing the woman's voice. And then I yelled out, patrick, Patrick. And I, like, grabbed my shoes, and I was about to, like, run outside because I thought my house was burning down. Also, I was like, who was that? It reminded me of Smart House.
Amy
I don't know.
Kat
Oh, my gosh. Okay. Disney Channel original movie. And that was a scary movie to me because the lady was, like, a robot that, like, took care of the house, but she then started taking over the house. And I'll. In my head, I'm like, somebody's invaded our house. We're not gonna. They're gonna lock the doors. Like, I don't. I freaked out. And then the alarm never sounded. But then there was no smoke. So then Patrick was like, it's fine. And then 10 minutes go by, she does it again. There's smoke in the master bedroom. The alarm will sound. It's going to be very loud. Just so you know.
Amy
Was she glitching?
Kat
She said it clearly.
Amy
Well, I know, but, like, glitch. Like, was her system. Like, what was making her fire off? Like, was there smoke in the master bedroom?
Kat
No. And so then. Well, then I went and blew.
Amy
I had a candle by a glitch.
Kat
Oh, I had a candle on downstairs. So I went and blew the candle out. I'm like, surely that's not it. And then 30 minutes later, it did it again. This time, the alarm went off. So I opened the door, and I'm like, I'm out of the house. And Patrick's, like, in the bedroom looking for smoke. I'm like, get out. And then I called my dad.
Amy
And then.
Kat
Well, I texted him. He said that those alarms are norm. My first concern was, why is she talking like, this should just be a sound. And he said, new alarms. Fire alarms talk. Interesting. Never heard that before. Ever? Anybody in this room? Never. So if that happens to you one day, just know it can be normal. It's not a person. And then he said to vacuum it, because sometimes dust gets in there. And he said, do that. And if it doesn't work, it could be a spider. Sometimes spiders crawl into them. So if it still doesn't, the vacuuming doesn't help, then maybe it's a spider and just to take it down. And I said, well, what if there really is a smoke somewhere? Like, in the attic and there's smoke somewhere, and then. And the night it's going to turn into a fire, and then we are dead.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
And he said, that would have already been a fire by now. Right?
Amy
Okay.
Kat
And then he said, if you need me to come over, I will, but I don't think. I think Patrick wanted to take care of it. Himself.
Amy
He probably did. And you're like, it's cool. I already texted my dad.
Kat
No. I said, is it a. Does that make you feel weird that I'm texting my dad? And he said, no, I don't really know what's going on either, but you don't need him to come over here at 9pm I can take the fire just so he can take it off the wall. I can do that.
Amy
Yeah. That reminds me of one time, my ex husband. Early in our marriage, my dad was going to carve the turkey, but we were hosting and that didn't go over well. I mean, he didn't say anything to him, but he got upset and he was like, this was supposed to. This is our Thanksgiving. I'm supposed to carve the turkey.
Kat
So your dad carved it.
Amy
I think my dad started working on the turkey and my ex husband was like, that's my turkey. Well, he didn't, he didn't say anything. It was more internal. And then later he expressed to me that he was upset because it was his turkey.
Kat
Who. Did he cook the turkey?
Amy
Yeah, I mean, I think we did it all together. I, I honestly, this was years ago. I mean, I was married 17 years and that was the early part of our marriage. So we're going back to like it could have been around 2007, 2008 that this happened. So I don't remember every detail, but it just made me think of like a son in law father relationship and how it's like newly married, like, this is my house. You're her dad, but I'm her husband and I'm gonna protect her and carve her turkey. That sounds interesting. Sounds like, I mean, something else have to be sexual. It still sounded it, it doesn't have to be, but it sounded dirty. So to be clear, like Ben is actually talking about a turkey.
Kat
Yes.
Amy
Like actual turkey. But it was, it's an interesting thing. Like some of that is just conditioning as men or wanting to feel a certain way in your home, you know?
Kat
But I feel like your ex husband was way more. And I could be wrong, but appeared to me to be way more like handy and traditionally masculine in that way than my husband. Like, Like Patrick doesn't know how to carve a turkey. Wait. Oh my gosh. Stop. This is not supposed to be. Why are you laughing?
Amy
Poor Patrick.
Kat
I don't mean like that. I love my husband. Poor Patrick.
Amy
Oh my gosh. He doesn't listen. Right.
Kat
Okay. I don't mean it like. I wanted to say it. He's so Masculine. But I. He can't. Oh, he knows how to carve a turkey. That's what he does. Tell us.
Amy
Tell us how manly he is.
Kat
Like, meant. Like, name all the ways.
Amy
Hurry, hurry. Name him. Start saying them. Sorry. So he's like. So he loves sports. He loves sports. He loves sports.
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Amy
He. He. He loves gambling. He loves sports betting.
Kat
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I know. Wait, stop it. I don't think that would even upset him, because I think he knows what I mean. Like, he can't. Like, he's. He can't. He wasn't handy.
Amy
He, like, he manages money well.
Kat
Does he? I hope he does.
Amy
He's an accountant.
Kat
Crying.
Amy
I didn't mean it like, I don't know. We're just giving you our time.
Kat
Okay. Okay.
Amy
But look, hey, guess what?
Kat
I love you, and you're perfect for me. What I meant was, I feel like Ben would do probably more like building of things.
Amy
Like, my dad definitely did. Not Ben. I mean, I think, you know, he. He could be handy. And also, he was gone a lot, like, because he was in the military, so I think yes. Could he do certain things on a plane? Like, could he fly an airplane? I felt like that was always. Yeah, that's pretty. Office of women. Flight airplanes is not, like, just a man thing, but I think I had to learn how to figure out things on my own. I didn't do. I hired out.
Kat
So did you call your dad?
Amy
Yeah, my dad would do a lot, and I don't know if that really bothered Ben, to be honest. We didn't really talk about it, but things would just get done, or I would hire people, and then I think that was sort of our routine. So even when Ben would come back from deployment, I'm like, oh, I already have my handyman, who is not threatening. Like, he couldn't hear. Well, I had this one handyman, and I think he was like, maybe. You know how you're sort of legally blind?
Kat
Yeah.
Amy
Right, right. But, like, you can see.
Kat
It's like a. Yeah, I'm legally blind, but I can see, like, shapes and blobs.
Amy
Yeah. So anyway, can I say what I meant by that?
Kat
Just I feel like I need to get this out.
Amy
Well, first of all, Patrick's not gonna listen.
Kat
I know, but I wouldn't want that in the ether anyway.
Amy
Okay.
Kat
I meant, like, traditionally masculine in the sense that, like, the traditional roles where we kind of bend the. Like, I can probably hang a picture frame better than he can kind of thing.
Amy
Wow.
Kat
Is that not. What is that? Okay, I'm just kidding. So a lot of women get mad.
Amy
I think my sister's the same way. Her husb husband can design and help build a house, but my sister is going to hang the picture better.
Kat
Yeah. I'm just saying he doesn't get mad about that. He would never get mad at the. I can't say this, but I wouldn't expect him to care who cuts the turkey at Thanksgiving because he just is like, oh, your dad would probably do a better job at that so he can do it kind of thing. Does that make.
Amy
Yes.
Kat
I love my husband.
Amy
We know you do. It was just funny.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
I thought. And laughter is good for the soul. Like we all got a good laugh. And I bet you feel better because earlier you were like raging.
Kat
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Thank you.
Amy
Yeah. I have other ways to reset your day. I know laughter, that happens organically. You can't really force that. But if you ever need to reset your day again, like if you're feeling ragey, you can take a rage shower.
Kat
What's that?
Amy
So you get in the shower and you blast music. No, you can have it hot, but you just blast music and you rage it all out. Like just. Just jam out in the shower and sing and blast it and feel good. And then yes, at the end, you can do like a 30 second to one minute like cold spurt at the end. But in it you picture with the water, like all the rage running down the drain. It's a rain shower.
Kat
I can't picture my. Well, first of all, where am I getting. I guess I need like a boombox in the bathroom.
Amy
You're a speaker, your phone, but your.
Kat
Phone'S not that loud.
Amy
Okay.
Kat
If I'm raging, I want the music to be louder than I am. Okay.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
Also you mentioned going and throwing ice cubes earlier when I was texting you.
Amy
Oh, yeah. That's something that I got from my therapist a while back or maybe even one of my kids therapists, one of our many therapists over the years. But it was. You take ice cubes and then you just throw them down as hard as you can onto your driveway or your back porch or somewhere where there can.
Kat
Really safer than Rob Hawks a cold shower. I really just can't.
Amy
The cold thing is at the end, you don't have to do that. You can take a normal raid shower and it's just you're washing the bad mood away.
Kat
Yeah, a shower really does do wonders.
Amy
I journaled this morning that washing hair.
Kat
I thought you were gonna say journal in the shower this morning.
Amy
With my waterproof journal and my waterproof speaker. No, I. I washed my hair this morning and then journaled after it right before I had a few minutes before I had to leave for work. And I was like, I'm going to use this few minutes to journal because I'm trying to do my morning pages again. And I. What is it about fresh hair? It changes everything.
Kat
Do you like to wash your hair in the morning or at night?
Amy
In the morning because it's fresh.
Kat
So I. Okay. For the look of your hair, Right?
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
So I totally agree. There is something, like recently, last couple months, because I've either gone on a walk at night or worked out at night or something that has had me take a shower at night. The best. Getting ready for bed and going to sleep feeling with wet hair and feeling like totally clean. I think for my mental health that is better. But for like, my hair looking good. Yeah. I want to, like, wash it right before.
Amy
Well, I can't wash my hair every day now. I'll take showers before bed, but I will put a shower cap.
Kat
Wash your hair every day?
Amy
Yeah. But I don't want to. Yeah, that would take. No, no, no, no. That would take so much time to wash my hair every single day, my friend, because my hair doesn't air dry.
Kat
Did you do it when you were younger? No, I washed my hair every single day growing up. Is that not crazy?
Amy
Well, does your hair air dry normalish?
Kat
You can tell when it's air dry. You'd probably be like, oh, it's an air dry day.
Amy
Okay. Well, some people just naturally can do that. Like, my friend Luke married a girl and she showers and washes her hair every single night and like crawls in bed, but then wakes up and her hair is like, perfect.
Kat
Oh, you know what I mean? That's not me.
Amy
She's lucky. But every night she cannot, no matter what time it is where they are, she will be taking a shower.
Kat
I feel like that's a norm. Like a new thing. Like growing up, I feel like everybody was washing their hair every day. And then all of a sudden people are like, it's not good for you. Or like, you don't have to live this way.
Amy
Well, I sort of trained my hair to go many, many days without washing because we heard that's what was good for you. And then now I'm hearing the opposite. Yeah. Do you see how you see on Tick Tock that now that you told me.
Kat
Oh, I thought your hair girl told you not to use dry shampoo or something.
Amy
Oh, That's a hair. Yeah. That was a hairstylist that. Yes, I've gone to that said that. And also I recently saw on Tick Tock, wash your hair more. Wash your hair more.
Kat
Yeah.
Amy
Because of the dirt and stuff in our head that we thought, if you.
Kat
Think about it, it's kind of gross.
Amy
Yes. We thought like, it was doing more damage, washing it too much. But actually keeping that clean is keeping the roots healthier and gonna give you stronger, better hair. I don't know. And like, I'm sure someone will counter that with something else. It was just a something I saw in passing, but whoever told it to me on Tick Tock, I trusted her.
Kat
Did you get ever get lice as a kid?
Amy
No. Stevenson just asked me that the other day because he's had lice once and we had to completely shave his head. And he's like, what if I get it again? And I said, well, it's been years.
Kat
But also for a boy, it's not a big deal. You can just shave your head and you don't have tons of hair stuff.
Amy
Lice person come to our house and she completely took it out and then she looked in my hair and to share his hair. Everybody in the house. And we were good to go.
Kat
I went to a elementary school at one point where we had like, weekly lice checks.
Amy
I think that's probably normal. Normal.
Kat
Like the nurse would come to our classrooms and they would check all of our hair.
Amy
Then what if someone had it? Would they be obvious?
Kat
Yes.
Amy
Like, hey, you over there.
Kat
She's coming with me.
Amy
Yeah, that's.
Kat
Found one.
Amy
They should. I do it under the radar.
Kat
I had lice, but it was in the summer. You never asked me if I did have lice, but I volunteered that information.
Amy
No, I want to know. Sorry. When you asked that question, I was like, that's so weird. Stevenson just asked me about that and I don't think I've ever had it.
Kat
But I had that thought because they say that lice likes clean hair. I think that might be an urban legend to make people feel better.
Amy
Oh, you're so clean.
Kat
Yeah, don't worry. It's because you're so clean.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
But it is annoying for a girl because you have to get rid of everything. Like every hair bow, every headband, every scrunchie, every anything. You have to get rid of all of it.
Amy
Is that what you do?
Kat
Yeah, all my headbands. Never wore a headband again.
Amy
That's a lot.
Kat
Anyway, riveting.
Amy
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Amy
Now, I know you have something for us regarding, like, cursing, which I'm very curious about, because I used to not cuss ever. Ever.
Kat
When did you say your first curse word?
Amy
I mean, I didn't even think in cussing. Wait, like, I just didn't like cuss words didn't pop into my head. I was never a cuss person until a cursor. How do you say it?
Kat
You sound so sweet. I was never a cuss person. I didn't even think cuss words.
Amy
I just did it. Which was good because on the radio we couldn't cuss. And there were times where like one time I spilled my coffee all over the board and the mics were recording and I was recording something. It wasn't live, but this was way back in my early radio career, so like 2006 or something. And I said, oh, shoot. And like today, me now, I probably been like, oh, fffffffffff.
Kat
You know?
Amy
So like, that was me then and this is me now. And I think the only thing that switched was, I don't know, I went through a lot and then realized that sometimes saying a cuss word helped me feel better.
Kat
I vividly remember my first cuss word.
Amy
Okay, when was it?
Kat
Me and two of my friends walked to Publix. Don't ask me why. And then our walk back, we were like, okay, they were cussers. I was not. And so we all took turns saying different cuss words. I think they were trying to get me to be bad.
Amy
Join the club.
Kat
Yeah, yeah. And then it all went uphill from there because according to research, cussing is a sign of authenticity. And people who. Which goes along with authenticity, I think they mean like more authentic in their personality and who they are, but also are less likely to be liars, more likely to tell the truth.
Amy
Maybe I always wanted to be. And I wasn't in my authentic self for all those years because my parents tell me the story. I don't fully remember it, but when I was really little, they were hosting a dinner party and like a. A jet flew over our house. Like a fighter jet, you know? Have you ever had those fly over? They're so loud. And I looked up in the middle of it and I go, what the f was that? I mean, And I said it, and I was three or something.
Kat
Did you say F or the.
Amy
Yeah, I said the F word because my parents cussed. Yeah, like, my parents cussed. I obviously heard the F word. You said F. No, I said, well, I'm not gonna say it here.
Kat
Yeah, be authentic.
Amy
He used to get beep it. But I was like, what the was that? Oh, you're so bad. And then my parents loved retelling that story, of course, because they thought it was so cute that I did that.
Kat
And then.
Amy
And I was like, what? That's so crazy, because I just wasn't a cusser. And I don't know if I thought I was being bad, if I cussed or I didn't think I was better than anybody else, but I just didn't.
Kat
Did your sister. Did your sister?
Amy
I don't recall her cussing Now. My half sister and my brother, they cuss all the time. Like, with my dad, they'd be having conversations and they all be like, cuscus.
Kat
As an adult, would you curse around your mom?
Amy
No, I didn't cuss till recently. My mom passed away. Before I became a cusperson, she missed it. My mom quit cussing. Now she used to cuss. And then when she really found Jesus, like, her Jesus doesn't cuss. Well, she just changed a lot about her. It was like a dramatic shift, like. And I think how she spoke was part of that. I think there are plenty of Christians that cuss. That's not the point. I think for her, she had to make some changes. And that was one thing I saw, because I remember one time I missed the bus and she was not happy, and she slammed the dishwasher and said some cuss words. I mean, I remember my parents cussing, for sure. And I've cussed in front of my kids now.
Kat
Because you're being authentic. I want to read this because just to give the whole picture. It says multiple studies have shown a positive correlation between higher profanity use and honesty and authenticity, though the link is not absolute. Cursing is often described by researchers as an unfiltered and genuine expression of emotion, which can signal a person's willingness to prioritize candor over politeness. So what I hear in that is people that cuss are more willing to prioritize being themselves than being nice and polite. You know?
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
Which I appreciate.
Amy
I think that there's a. I mean, overuse of it at times that can be a bit much, but for me, occasionally, it's just very fitting.
Kat
Yeah, it's like nothing else works as well.
Amy
Nothing.
Kat
You know, nothing Nothing. Well, I'm proud of you that you're.
Amy
Now a cuss person. I'm now a cuss person. I know my mom doesn't know. My dad maybe knew a little bit.
Kat
Yeah. Because how recent was this transition?
Amy
I'm trying to think of when it really started. It had to have been 20. 20. 2021.
Kat
Was your ex a cuss person?
Amy
Not really. But we have become cussed people together.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
Like, sometimes in our co parenting, we'll say it. One time, he called me out for like, oh, one time. Okay, how do I say this? Because he wasn't being. He was kind of, I need to keep this in my side of the street. My side of the street. You know how sometimes I want to make sure I tell it my side. I was being a little overly colorful with my language, but I was fired up about something, and he had to let me go. And I was like, oh, you know, now you're too good.
Kat
Oh, he was like, I'm hanging up.
Amy
Well, he was like, we just need to talk later. Like, I don't appreciate your energy. And I was like, what? Okay, next time you say a word or two, remind me of this, because.
Kat
You'Re not gonna appreciate it.
Amy
It was around then that we decided we have our code word, which is pickle, so. And we haven't had to use pickle in forever.
Kat
In retrospect.
Amy
In retrospect, I do think I was a little heightened.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
Like, I was here, and I could have brought it down to Hiro and you could have here, but he didn't need to be all, you know, holier than thou on me.
Kat
Yeah.
Amy
Which. That's me, my defensive self talking. I thought I was gonna say on my side of the street. That was not my side of the street. I take it back. I would say all of this to his face. I think I was defensive in that moment of like, well, who do you think you are? And you say these words, too, so just wait. But now I don't feel that way. Like, she does it.
Kat
There's not gonna be revenge.
Amy
No. That was a while back.
Kat
Yeah. I think I remember this.
Amy
Yeah. I didn't do the best job of staying on my side of the street.
Kat
That was the thought that counts.
Amy
I know. But right before I told the story, I'm like, stay on my side of the street. And then I still called out his. Because I still was. I was still. I guess when I think back on it, I'm still perplexed by why he went that route, but that's okay. We all have those moments.
Kat
Is Alex a cuss person?
Amy
Occasionally, when it's right, I probably throw them in a little more than he does. But he's dabbled.
Kat
Well, good. That means that he's authentic.
Amy
He is.
Kat
And this isn't all encompassing, obviously. Like. Like you said, sometimes people overuse there is a too far. And also, if you don't cuss, it doesn't mean that you're a liar.
Amy
Yeah. At all.
Kat
But it is just interesting. I have a book called Swearing is Good for you. I've been meaning to read it for, like, 10 years.
Amy
Oh, you haven't even read it yet?
Kat
No, I did start it, but then it was just a lot about the research of cursing and language, and it just. I think I got the gist of.
Amy
It from the title, you know, so another reset. I know I shared the Raid shower, but another thing you can do for a reset is eat something cold and crunchy.
Kat
That would not do it for me. It wouldn't not rage if I'm overwhelmed. Yes.
Amy
Yeah. But let's just like, you're real mad and you get a carrot and you dip in some hunness hummus, and then you bite down like that. Wouldn't you be like, nothing chips? Do you think that would queso.
Kat
I don't think that. If I'm angry, I want to eat. I'm one of those people who. I have a lot of emotions. My appetite isn't there. What I'm hearing from you is that, like, the, like, crunch and the bite of it is gonna be like, oh, but I think I'd rather throw ice or the scream in the shower or something. Something.
Amy
What about chew ice? Do you chew ice?
Kat
No, but my husband is always chewing ice. If there is a cup somewhere with ice in it, he's gonna eat it.
Amy
That's so manly.
Kat
Masculine. Yeah.
Amy
What a man. What? Amen.
Kat
I hear that chewing ice also gives you gas, so.
Amy
Really?
Kat
Yes.
Amy
Why?
Kat
It's air. You're sucking down a lot of air.
Amy
Oh, well, that's a good deterrent.
Kat
Yeah.
Amy
I don't have a problem, my husband, with chewing ice. You don't tell him, like, hey, babe, that's gonna give you gas.
Kat
I think I've told him that before. And he's like, I can't stop. He loves it. He gets it from his dad. His dad's choose. Like, if you go to a restaurant and you get a drink with ice in it, they drink the drink, but then they eat all of the ice.
Amy
Oh, my gosh.
Kat
Yes. Yes. And like, if we go to, like, especially somewhere with good ice. Like, I'm pretty sure Chick Fil a has good ice. Oh, yeah. If we go there. Yeah. And Sonic, if we go there and we both get drinks and he finishes his ice and my ice is sitting there, he'll have my ice too. Yes. His dad just got a Sonic ice maker. Like a ice maker that makes.
Amy
Oh, pellets.
Kat
Yeah. So probably because he wants to eat the ice. That's something that, like, pregnant people are supposed to like, which I don't know why that is, but I do hear they do like it.
Amy
Probably it's the crunch.
Kat
Nothing sounds good.
Amy
Oh. Oh, yeah. And it, like, gives them maybe the cold.
Kat
Coldness feels good.
Amy
Do you pop your knuckles?
Kat
Yes.
Amy
Okay, Me too. And one of the things that my boyfriend really, really is holding on to, even though the Internet says otherwise, is that popping knuckles causes arthritis. And, like, he won't let his kids do it. And he's. Anytime I do it, he's like, stop. And I'm like, have you researched this? And he's like, yeah.
Kat
And what did he find?
Amy
Well, he finds that it gives arthritis. And I'm like, but I see here it doesn't. It's a myth. I feel so what do I believe? I don't know. But he's just so. He doesn't let it go. He's not budging on it. It's not.
Kat
Couple thoughts. I won pop my knuckles, like, 20 times a day. I love it. It feels so good to not do that. Would have. You'd have to have so much self control. I also love when my husband cracks my knuckles. I bet you do so. But also, I feel manly. So good at cracking my knuckles.
Amy
Tell us more.
Kat
Anyway, what I also was going to say is that if it really did cause arthritis, I think more of us. More of us would have it. Or sometimes I do think I have arthritis, but that's beside the point. It's not from cracking my knuckles. Can't be. But I just feel like there'd be more warnings about it. Like, I just feel like that's something we heard when we were little. And like, we grew out of it.
Amy
Believed it. Yeah.
Kat
Yeah. So if that really was. And I feel like at our physicals, our doctors would be like, and you're not cracking your knuckles. Right.
Amy
You know, do your wrists pop?
Kat
No.
Amy
That's my party trick. It'll do it every time.
Kat
You're like the lady at church that they do the bells. Yes.
Amy
I'm like, they both will pop. This one's not as loud, but it, it's still popping.
Kat
Wow. So if you were in Miss Congeniality, that's what you would do for your talent?
Amy
That would be my talent. No, my talent would. Okay, that could be one of my talents. My other one would be you can line up a lot of different ketchups and I will tell you which one is Heinz.
Kat
That's pretty, pretty sick.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
So you have a backup talent.
Amy
Yeah.
Kat
Okay.
Amy
All right, well, that's cool. Let's. In there. However you're feeling today, if you need to take a beat, throw some ice cubes, take a raid shower, eat something crunchy, curse, curse.
Kat
Be a cuss person. Yeah.
Amy
Be a custom. Is that what I said? I think so, yeah. You know, just know that you're not alone. If that is you, we are with you and we hope you have the day you need to have. Bye.
Kat
Bye.
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Original Air Date: February 8, 2026
Hosts: Amy & Kat (Feeling Things, an iHeart Podcast spin-off of The Bobby Bones Show)
Producer: Houston
This episode of "Feeling Things" features Amy and Kat navigating life in the midst of an unexpected Nashville ice storm, sharing personal anecdotes around resilience, frustration, and the importance of embracing emotions as they come—whether that means feeling ragey about a broken treadmill or laughing at a critical listener email. They discuss the realities of technical failures, living authentically (including dropping the occasional F-bomb), and how to meet yourself with compassion—even when things don’t go as planned. The tone is conversational, honest, and peppered with humor and self-reflection.
Key Theme:
"Meet yourself where you are. Have the day you need to have."
The hosts urge listeners to allow themselves to feel their feelings—good, bad, or silly—and to be gentle with themselves (and others) through life's messier moments.
[Listen to the daily full replay on The Bobby Bones Show podcast feed for more episodes and future updates.]