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Bobby Bones
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Lunchbox
So many that. So much so that my story was a shark story, but I got nervous that maybe we've already done it. You've done it.
Bobby Bones
What was it though?
Lunchbox
But it just came out this morning, the update at least. So maybe we haven't. This mom who's got a one year old, she's 34 years old and she lost her arm in a shark attack and she has woken up after a 12 day coma.
Bobby Bones
We talked about this. I think this is the one we talked about.
Lunchbox
But now she's awake.
Bobby Bones
But now she's awake. I didn't know that.
Lunchbox
Yeah, so that was the update is she was attacked off the coast of Australia earlier this month and she woke up and she remembers everything.
Bobby Bones
You know, I'm torn if I want to remember or not, depending on if it lets me sleep or if I have crazy PTSD from it. If I can remember everything and I'm able to sleep and not have real mental health trauma. Like I want to know because I want to like tell the story and write books and be able to at a party, like, oh, yeah, see this arm?
Lunchbox
Yeah, she said, or in time, she's going to want to share more of her story because she remembers the whole event in detail. But for now, she's focused on resting and healing as her doctors support her in pain management tests, regaining movement and preparing for further surgeries tomorrow. Which is crazy because, yeah, that got me thinking, like, do I want to remember that? And then it also got me thinking about that, that show, the Crash that we've talked about on Netflix where she crashed into a wall going 100 miles an hour and her boyfriend and his friend died. But she doesn't remember anything. Only in that she says, right, Because I was thinking, okay, yeah, traumatic event, maybe you do blackout and you don't remember anything.
Bobby Bones
Sure, that's pretty common.
Lunchbox
But shark attack, you're putting a coma for 12 days. She remembers everything.
Bobby Bones
I mean, if she really wanted to have like a podcast career or, I don't know, sell some stuff, she could say she saw the light and she walked toward the light and someone said, you're not done yet.
Lunchbox
The shark Attack victim.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And create a whole story of how she ran into Abe Lincoln or whomever. Insert whomever. And they told her what the keys to life are. And now she's back because they told her it was her job to share it. And now she's on a speaking tour. She's doing podcasts.
Amy
I mean.
Lunchbox
Well, it says here that you don't
Bobby Bones
think people do that.
Amy
No, no, I think people.
Bobby Bones
Because you can't prove they. They didn't.
Amy
I know, but how do you live with yourself? Like, just keep talking about like.
Lunchbox
But in time, it says she'll share her story, so she'll still. She still has help with it. Yeah, she. Right now, she said she's trying to focus on healing, so who knows? Maybe that will. Who knows?
Bobby Bones
You know how I think they justify it?
Lunchbox
How they justify lying?
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Lunchbox
Okay.
Bobby Bones
I think a lot of them justify it by going, nobody's hurt from this. I'm actually sharing a positive message that can make people's lives better. This situation allowed me to create this story that hurts no one and helps people. That's how I think it would be justified if I were to do such thing.
Amy
Oh. I mean, you can justify anything, really,
Bobby Bones
but nobody's getting hurt. Oh, you're saying not right. It's not wrong.
Amy
Well, it's a lie.
Bobby Bones
But you don't know that because you can't prove it.
Amy
No, but you're saying the scenario is you got to make all the stuff up to make money. That's a lie. I can't. I'm not proving that she's lying because I don't know.
Bobby Bones
Oh, no, she's not even saying that.
Lunchbox
She hasn't said it yet.
Bobby Bones
It would be so easy to create that story and then spend your. But also, you could look at it like, I lost an arm. I'm not able to do the things that I used to do. It is taking away. If she did something with her hands, it is taking. Taking away my ability to make money, to support my family. And now what am I going to do? I. I need to create something from this story and. And so she could write a book about it. But you could always do that. I saw the light thing.
Lunchbox
I think the people that have written books about seeing the light, they did see a light, and it's not fair to them, or they think they saw a light, or they did, like, five minutes in heaven and bow some.
Bobby Bones
Some.
Lunchbox
Or what was that?
Amy
Like, there's a guy in my high school that got stabbed. He said he saw the light, and
Bobby Bones
I would Say that too. If I wanted a good story or wanted to write a book or a podcast.
Lunchbox
But what if you really see a light?
Bobby Bones
That's the problem. You might. Because I can't prove you did or didn't. That's why it's so easy to do it.
Amy
Yeah.
Lunchbox
Can I believe people when they say that?
Bobby Bones
I believe nobody that says that.
Lunchbox
Wow.
Bobby Bones
But I also can't prove they're wrong, so I don't get angry about it. Like, I don't.
Lunchbox
Yeah, you move on.
Bobby Bones
I don't point and go, liar, but in my mind, I go, they probably didn't. Sometimes I think maybe they just think they did once they woke up and they. Who knows? I can't prove anything.
Lunchbox
Well, yeah. And who knows what's going on with our brain when we're in that type? So did your brain see a light or did you see the heavenly gates? The per.
Amy
That's like, when my dad was in the hospital, you know, he was, like, in a coma or like, he was pretty much brain dead for I don't know how many days.
Bobby Bones
When he fell?
Amy
Yeah, when he fell. And they said that, you know. Oh, they can't. I mean, he's not. It's not working. Like, there's nothing. Like. And we were thinking, like, can he hear us when we're talking to him? They're like, no. But then, you know, like, when my son came in, he started moving. I'm like, oh, are we sure?
Lunchbox
I know that's hard because we don't know.
Amy
Like, doctors think that he can't hear or can't comprehend what's going on, but maybe he can.
Bobby Bones
Well, to say doctors think, I think would be unfair. Doctors are using all the information.
Amy
Yes.
Bobby Bones
From thousands of years, mostly the last hundred years of brain waves when they're having interactions and reactions to things. So doctors think. Doesn't feel fair to doctors. But I also feel like based on the science that they have learned and taught over the last hundred years. Yeah, yeah.
Amy
But I also feel like, you know, say 30 years ago, they're like, all right, this is what we came up with. They can't hear or think. Great. And then the next 30 years, for sure, they just don't even question it again. So they just go with that.
Bobby Bones
Oh, no. I think they're always testing it. And I think, yeah. And I think that technology gets better. That allows us to go deeper into what may have been a no. And the deeper you go, it's not so much a no. There's much more possibility that it could Be a yes even if it's not so. Yeah. Doctors thinking feels.
Amy
These doctors, they.
Bobby Bones
They didn't think.
Lunchbox
So they're just guessing.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
But also, again, who knows? Who knows? Okay, thank you, Eddie.
Amy
Oh, man, this is terrible. So three people in South Carolina have been arrested. They are fast food workers because somebody came in and complained about their order. So they took food out of the trash and spit on it and served it to the customer.
Bobby Bones
This isn't the other spit story we had.
Amy
No, that was the difference.
Bobby Bones
She spit in a milkshake.
Lunchbox
Different.
Amy
These are three people. They were behind it.
Bobby Bones
How did they find out?
Amy
I think that their surveillance cameras and they caught them.
Bobby Bones
But how did the people know to even inquire about their food? Because I would not eat a sandwich that tasted normal and go, I sure would like to see the people on camera that made this. Like, there had to be something. Right. And.
Amy
And oh, a cleaning staff saw it and called the manager and said, this happened.
Lunchbox
Oh, okay. So the person that ate it didn't even know at that point. I don't want to know.
Bobby Bones
We wouldn't know. That's my point. Like, we wouldn't know unless there was something that led to us wondering more about it.
Lunchbox
Right. Like, they want to get those. If this news story is running. And I know that I ate there, like, don't be like, oh, it was a customer. Female, 45. No, I don't wanna know who you fed it to.
Bobby Bones
Did you see the thumbnail on yesterday's show? Cause she has herpes and your head was right next to it.
Lunchbox
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Okay, so let me tell you the story about that.
Lunchbox
I did.
Bobby Bones
So I know, but hold on, hold on. Let me tell you the story. So I've the BobbyKast YouTube channel. I have to put the Bobby cast on Netflix now. So I don't get to put it on YouTube anymore. We just do clips. So I had to change the name of it. And I've had that BobbyKast channel for 12 years. And so it's just now obbybones channel. We put BobbyKast's clips up there and. And then we do other content that we use as podcasts on this show as well. But I've taken an entire three month basic course on how to build a YouTube channel. And the most important thing about a YouTube channel now is an absolutely attractive thumbnail. The content can be great. If the thumbnail ain't great, it don't matter. You're not getting it. So we've been. I mean, I've been doing Them with thumbnails for the show. And it says, she got herpes from a milkshake. And I was working with Brandon on it. Cause Brandon's really good at graphic design. And I said, you need to do a line that says not her pointing at Amy. Did you see the not her?
Lunchbox
I did not see that part.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, it's on there. Go back and look at it. Or I can show it to you on my phone. Because it was the story we did about the girl drinking the milkshake got herpes. And she got herpes from the spit in it.
Amy
That's what she says. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And so Mike and I were doing the teases, and then I sent it over to Brandon because we kind of built how the Amy's and I heads are. And, you know, we did the design of it, and. And it just said, she got herpes from a milkshake. And it's my head and Amy's head. And then I said, brandon, will you go back and put a not her arrow to Amy's head so people know we're not talking about her?
Amy
That's funny.
Lunchbox
Okay, sure.
Bobby Bones
Did you not see it?
Lunchbox
I know I.
Bobby Bones
Did you see that she got herpes? Did it look like we were talking about you?
Lunchbox
I mean, I knew the story, so I knew, but I knew other people don't know the story. And then it's my face, so. Okay, I totally missed the not her part.
Bobby Bones
That was a late addition.
Lunchbox
Yeah. Okay.
Bobby Bones
If you go to the Bobby Bones Show YouTube channel @Bobby Boneshow, I'll show you where I sent it to Brandon.
Amy
Let's see.
Bobby Bones
Because I did. I. I was watching out for you.
Lunchbox
Thank you. I mean, I knew.
Amy
Oh, here we go.
Lunchbox
But I figured.
Bobby Bones
So he did. So after we sent. I sent him all the design stuff. It says she got herpes from a milkshake, and it's Amy. It looks like it's talking about Amy,
Lunchbox
but from a milkshake is small. So it just.
Bobby Bones
It just says she got herp.
Lunchbox
And then herpes is bigger.
Amy
Of course, herpes is a big word
Lunchbox
and in white, and everything else is in black.
Bobby Bones
Thumbnails have to be bright, and T's click. It's got to make you want to click in, Right? So she got herpes, and it's Amy's head next to it. And then there is no line. So that's that one. And I send it back. He said, how's this? I said, yeah, do parentheses, not her. And then point the arrow at Amy.
Lunchbox
Thanks.
Bobby Bones
So that was it. She got her piece from milkshake. Not her.
Lunchbox
Okay, got it.
Bobby Bones
Just in case.
Lunchbox
Thank you for looking out.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's what I do. Okay. Stop spitting people's food.
Amy
Yeah. Okay, so. So I kept reading a little more. So apparently somebody that was working there saw the whole thing, called the customer. I don't know how they got the customer's number. Call the customer and say, hey, that food that you just took home, don't eat it.
Bobby Bones
How'd they call the customer?
Amy
Yeah. I don't know. It didn't say. Like, if they knew the customer, maybe they knew them. But then the customer looked in the bag and saw that it was the same food that she said wasn't good. And then. Yeah, she said. And they spit on it.
Bobby Bones
Did she get herpes from it? And can we make it into a clip with Amy's head beside it?
Amy
And then say, not her.
Bobby Bones
But way small. But way small lunchbox.
Eddie
Yeah, this one popped up on my timeline a couple days ago. So there was a former youth pastor 20 years ago, he went for a hike with his wife in Zion national park, and he goes to set up the camera to take some pictures. They were celebrating their anniversary, and she had fallen off the cliff, plummeted to her death, and she died. And 20 years go by. Nothing ever happened.
Bobby Bones
His son told on him. Right. Is that the story you told us?
Eddie
No, no, this. That's the one where he beat her with a rock in Hawaii. This is a totally different one.
Bobby Bones
Oh, my God. Okay.
Eddie
Well, it turns out affairs with kids in the youth group, and after 20 years, they finally revealed this to police. So police did investigating, and three days ago, they arrested him, charged her with. Charged him with her murder. And then last night, he killed himself in his jail cell.
Lunchbox
What's his name?
Eddie
His name is David Vandermeer.
Bobby Bones
David Epstein.
Lunchbox
So he had affairs. I don't. Were you saying with kids in the youth group? Yeah, but I don't call that an affair.
Bobby Bones
Depends how old if they're over 18. Affair. Right, like one of rape.
Eddie
Right. Like one of them was 18. And they ended up getting married. They got married, and then they got divorced. And then she revealed to police, like, hey, you know, he said, I could never be with you unless my wife's gone. And they started looking into it, and he had upped the life insurance policy, like, a few months before she died.
Lunchbox
And they didn't look into that 20 years ago.
Eddie
But maybe there wasn't evidence. I mean, that's circumstantial. And then now they got these, like, 20 years ago.
Bobby Bones
Doctors just thought.
Amy
Yeah, they were.
Bobby Bones
Just think now they.
Eddie
But yeah, but then he got arrested three days ago and then he killed himself in his jail cell. So I would.
Bobby Bones
So it doesn't sound then like the big part of the story is he was hooking up with kids in the church group. It was an adult. But that affair with an adult 18 year old, still young is what turned into the information that led to finding out he killed his wife.
Eddie
Correct.
Bobby Bones
What's wrong with people?
Amy
What's wrong with people? And that camera never caught anything like the one they set up to take that.
Eddie
No, he was just setting, setting it up. And when he turned around, before he could film anything, she was falling down the cliff.
Bobby Bones
Finger quotes, right? Like all that.
Eddie
Finger quotes. Yes.
Lunchbox
Like
Bobby Bones
20, 20 years. You think you're good, right?
Lunchbox
Yes.
Eddie
Heck yeah.
Bobby Bones
After seven years.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You're probably like, I, I got away with this.
Lunchbox
You definitely think you did.
Bobby Bones
I remember Mary Kay Letourneau or whatever her name was. Yeah. She fell in love with her kid student and the kid was like a teenager, like 13 or 14. Could be messing up the ages here. And they end up getting married and staying together.
Amy
Is there a movie on this? Because I saw.
Bobby Bones
I'm sure there's.
Amy
I saw some weird movies.
Lunchbox
Yeah. I think on Lifetime.
Eddie
Yeah.
Josh Ross
They.
Eddie
He was like in seventh grade and then she got pregnant and they ended up having a couple more kids. She went to prison.
Bobby Bones
They stayed together though, right. For a long time.
Eddie
And then they divorced and she has now passed.
Bobby Bones
Oh, of anything suspicious?
Eddie
Cancer, I believe.
Bobby Bones
So nothing suspicious. Yeah, the movie was May December on Netflix.
Amy
Yeah, I've seen that.
Bobby Bones
But they stayed, they stayed together through all the prison stuff.
Amy
Oh, they did.
Bobby Bones
Even after. Yeah.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Not that that makes it right.
Amy
And it was a weird movie because you start thinking like, well, they do love each other, you know, and then it's like cuz they, they do.
Bobby Bones
But also she could have. She groomed the crap out of that kid.
Amy
She did,
Lunchbox
Yeah. I just think like who. Yeah, who knows if you would really have fallen in love with that person if you weren't young and vulnerable and manipulated and groomed and brainwashed. Because then you think you are, but I don't. Yeah, I really are.
Bobby Bones
You don't even know how to love it in seventh grade.
Lunchbox
Also, I just saw a picture of this guy and he looks so nice.
Bobby Bones
Let's see.
Lunchbox
Like. And look here. He's just like, who is this? He's doing a yoga. Like he looks so zen and nice like the pastor that in shape.
Amy
Young.
Bobby Bones
He's definitely the youth pastor that turns the chair around when he sits on it and has a talk with you. All right, kids, but that's as a troublemaker once, too, when I was a kid.
Amy
I know exactly what you're talking.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, yeah. Either his hat's backward or the chair is backward. And he's down on your level now, and he's gonna have a talk with you, Morgan.
Lunchbox
So you guys all know who Kevin Bacon is? Yes, the actor. Well, he's a big animal advocate, and he has changed his name to Kevin Bean. It's part of a campaign with Humane World for Animals and their new Beans Day campaign. They want people to eat beans instead of meat on Wednesdays.
Bobby Bones
And so he officially changed his name
Lunchbox
to go along with the campaign.
Bobby Bones
I did see the story, and I thought it was cute, but did he really change his name, or is he just, like, going by a different name for a while?
Amy
Right.
Bobby Bones
Unconfirmed.
Lunchbox
All the articles say that he changed his name, so it doesn't say if he officially.
Bobby Bones
That's what they say in the articles,
Lunchbox
but I don't know. That actually means legally.
Bobby Bones
He might have just done it for the campaign. It also doesn't matter. It worked.
Amy
It does matter, though, because, like, if the family name Bacon has been around for so many years, you're killing it, Kevin.
Bobby Bones
Well, it matters in that regard, but for the campaign, it doesn't matter, because what they wanted was the new the press, and they got it. I wonder if that's even his real name.
Lunchbox
Kevin Bacon.
Amy
Yeah. If it's not.
Lunchbox
If it's not, I'm gonna feel gypped because we always have seven degrees of Kevin Bacon. It's a whole thing.
Bobby Bones
Like, that's his real name is Kevin Norwood Bacon. So that's his real name. Dang, that's a cool name. Bobby Bacon would have been cool.
Lunchbox
Bobby Bean.
Amy
I don't like Bean.
Bobby Bones
I don't like Bean either. Reminds me of Mr. Bean. I like Mr. Bean, though.
Amy
He was awesome. Yeah.
Lunchbox
Will you guys now eat beans on Wednesday instead of eating meat?
Bobby Bones
Well, I'm glad you asked. As soon as we stop talking about this, I will no longer think about it.
Amy
So no. Correct.
Lunchbox
Probably not.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Lunchbox
You don't really eat bacon.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I don't eat that much bacon, though.
Amy
Y' all don't eat bacon?
Lunchbox
Not really. I tried to. I tried to ixnay the porque.
Bobby Bones
Oh, aye. In day top, say ting tay, orc, pe.
Amy
Whatever you just said works as code for you and your wife when your daughter gets older. Yes, that's how you do it.
Lunchbox
What is it, Pig Latin?
Bobby Bones
That's what you did.
Lunchbox
Well, I didn't do it right. I just sort of. You did it right.
Amy
That was awesome.
Lunchbox
I just said ixnay. Porque.
Bobby Bones
A couple things here. Scuba get your flights booked or. No, no, we're still waiting on that
Josh Ross
to be booked, but the information's been
Amy
passed out, so we're in a holding pattern.
Bobby Bones
So Scuba text me last night, and he said, all right, we're gonna go to Vegas. Ray got the clearance from his wife, Scuba. Scuba's family is still not here. I got the hotel booked and everything.
Josh Ross
I'm just.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Waiting on flights, so I'm gonna. I'm gonna cover their flights to Vegas. They're so expensive.
Amy
Oh, they're so expensive right now.
Bobby Bones
Thank you. They're so. I'm not saying that for a thank you. I just was looking. Again, thank you.
Amy
But a thank you is nice.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, no, no. Yes. I thank you as nice. I wasn't saying. I wasn't fishing for a thank you. Right then. I also own 10% of the team if they make any money.
Amy
Oh, that's the deal.
Bobby Bones
Yes. Yes, that's true, but that's not why. That's just a fun bit. But they're going to go to Papa Shot. You're gonna leave the Thursday night on what day it is?
Lunchbox
Thursday?
Amy
I believe it's the 9th. Yeah, Thursday, the 9th. And then we're flying back Saturday afternoon,
Josh Ross
which is the 11th.
Bobby Bones
So they're gonna go out and compete one final time in the Papa Shot challenge. I'll tell you guys what, if for some reason, one of you make it to the actual championship that next weekend, because that could happen, right?
Amy
Definitely.
Eddie
Oh, my gosh. Yeah. That's the goal.
Bobby Bones
So you have to win that one that you're going to. I'm gonna try to follow this. If you win that prelim, you get to go to the actual championship.
Amy
So I think what it is, is there's.
Bobby Bones
There's two different championships.
Eddie
There's.
Amy
The one that we're now competing in for is the one in Las Vegas the following weekend, which I believe is the 18th.
Josh Ross
And that's the $11,000 prize.
Amy
And Ray may know more, but I believe they picked that person to throw them into the one that's ESPN in August.
Bobby Bones
Okay. So if you win the one that you're going to next, you don't go to ESPN in Florida?
Amy
No, I don't think so now. Okay.
Bobby Bones
But you go to the big one in Vegas, so you go into, like, A super prelim.
Amy
Exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Eddie
But they keep.
Bobby Bones
This has been so fluid that who knows that if, if and when one of us makes it to the Vegas
Amy
one and we win that one, I feel like there's a chance that they would throw us into the ESPN round.
Bobby Bones
There's a chance. So you may have to go back to Vegas another time. The next week though and compete again.
Amy
Yes. Yeah, yeah, the next week. Might as well stay.
Bobby Bones
That's expensive. And they got to work.
Amy
Oh, good points.
Bobby Bones
So, okay, if one of you make it to that next round, I'll cover half the flight the next time. Dude, we just take out a residency in Vegas.
Amy
Pretty much.
Bobby Bones
My wife's like Chicago and now Vegas. What is happening? Yeah, he almost wasn't allowed to go to the Vegas one. Well, that's because of the city, not because of how fun this is. And how do you mean the city? Yeah, I mean it is Sin City. So your wife thinks you're going to go and do what?
Amy
Sin?
Bobby Bones
Well, I mean there's a lot of deadly sins out there. I would commit several of them, one of which is gambling fair. And you told her what? I just told her, I won't gamble. I said you got to just. I mean, isn't that the point of trusting in marriage? You just gotta trust and hope that the person is believable and does what they say they're not gonna do. Okay, so here's what I want though, content wise. Scuba. When you guys leave Thursday evening, I want episode one to be you guys at the airport. You're flying, you get to Vegas, your hotel. Like episode one is the night before. Everything you're doing to get ready the night before. Episode two, I want day of and you guys going and shooting. You can even, I mean spoiler. I don't care, it's not a spoiler. Do the episode what you score, if you made it, if you didn't do, you should do one for you and one for Ray.
Amy
Okay.
Bobby Bones
And so that'll be three episodes. Make them like. Well, you'll have to get them to Eddie. But I don't want you guys sending eddie like a 10,000 hours of raw footage because then now he's on the hook for having to edit through all that.
Amy
They were really good the first time.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, yeah, we're streamlined, dude.
Josh Ross
You're dealing with the EP and you're dealing with the audio guy.
Amy
I love it.
Bobby Bones
So I would like for them to be between four and six minutes each.
Lunchbox
Each.
Bobby Bones
Each episode. Okay, so three episodes total. You guys trip There individually, your performances, you know, leading up to it, the day of, and what happens at the end and if you made it or not.
Eddie
Got it.
Josh Ross
Cool.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Okay, good.
Amy
Yeah, yeah, we're in. Okay.
Bobby Bones
Very easy. That's fun.
Amy
That is fun.
Bobby Bones
Kind of wish it was me going, but you can come with us, man.
Amy
Do you papa.
Bobby Bones
One seat left. No and no. Yeah. If there's one there and it's killing time. I'm not anti Papa shot. That's fun. But I don't. I don't. I don't look at it and go. That's something I can accomplish. Or I should get really good at that. But I think it's such a fun idea, and I hope you guys make it in scuba.
Lunchbox
You should.
Bobby Bones
You guys have to train leading up to it. Yeah, I guess we have to figure out.
Amy
There isn't one around here, is there, Ray?
Bobby Bones
No, I mean, I'm still training on mine, but there's Google papa shot in Nashville.
Amy
There is not.
Bobby Bones
Because I talk to the people that own it, and they want.
Amy
They want to get one here in Nashville and. And I'm having a lunch with somebody.
Bobby Bones
It's got to be like a go. One of those games somewhere at Dave and Buster's where you play.
Amy
It's not the same one.
Bobby Bones
Okay, but what's. What's better? Not doing it at all or practicing on a. On a goal. That's kind of the same. That moves. True. There's one at the mall, but the backboard moves. So, yeah, there are different variables. You're not exactly practicing for the one we're going to be on, but it is a basketball, it is a hoop. Ye. And get your reps in doing that. It doesn't have to be exactly the same. Like, if you got it. No, I've got mine at my house now. Pretty much exactly the same. I play in the dark because it gets me ready to the digital screen in the background. And I turn my backboard from white to black. So I'm preparing just like it's the elite machine. So Ray doesn't have the actual machine either. And he's practicing.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Sounds like he's putting, like a headband over his eyes and doing ninja style and just seeing how many can make.
Amy
Make.
Bobby Bones
Well, no, I do. I put the blinds down, and my wife came out. She's like, why are there no lights on up here? And I said, I'm practicing for the digital screen, so I can't really. It needs to be a flo. You can't see that white backboard you
Amy
should just tell her you're training. Dude, just leave.
Bobby Bones
She knows. She knows. Every night the basketball's hitting for an hour. She's like, after this is done, I don't want to hear the phrase papa shot for a year. You're not in the NBA, Mike. Anything? Nothing yet. Maybe they're onto something. But there's got to be some sort of basketball. Okay, they don't have the brand, but you guys got to practice.
Amy
And are they that different, guys?
Bobby Bones
Well, because scuba can't shoot 80 again.
Josh Ross
No, but I feel like I, I
Bobby Bones
got my, my feet wet and I
Josh Ross
feel a little more confident about it.
Bobby Bones
So you can get 85?
Josh Ross
No, I could easily crack a hundred.
Bobby Bones
Okay, you guys have to go and perform. I'm the owner. I'm Jerry Jones of this team. Now, if I'm gonna spend 800 in credit card points or southwest points, we
Lunchbox
can we per person.
Bobby Bones
It's expensive. It's almost all my points because the
Amy
flies are so expensive of so many years of saving.
Bobby Bones
It's very expensive. Not credit card points. I have like millions of those.
Amy
Oh, okay.
Bobby Bones
Southwest points.
Amy
Got it.
Bobby Bones
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Bobby Bones
Let's go on the Bobby Bones show now. Josh Ross. Josh Ross is here. Good to see you, man.
Josh Ross
Good to see you too.
Bobby Bones
So something happened. This has never happened with me. They've printed out two sets of notes for me on you.
Josh Ross
Perfect.
Bobby Bones
Would you like to have one of your sets of notes about you?
Josh Ross
Yeah, let's see.
Bobby Bones
Let's look at this. What do you see that's interesting? If you were me, what would. And there's like five pages here. What would you ask you here with all these notes?
Josh Ross
Like, if you like. If I was you reading this, what would you pick out?
Bobby Bones
Yeah. So what do you see here that interests you?
Josh Ross
Single again, number one. US Number one. I love that it's got US number one because I'm from Canada and it says all number one in Canada.
Bobby Bones
You know what? I wasn't gonna bring up Canada at all.
Josh Ross
Cool. Last time you did. But it was like a good thing.
Bobby Bones
But that was the first time and that was sticking up for you for a different reason.
Josh Ross
I appreciate that.
Bobby Bones
So we're gonna talk. No, Canada.
Josh Ross
I love that.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Josh Ross
I think that Hate how youw look is exciting because it's in the top five.
Eddie
Yep.
Josh Ross
So that's exciting. Point. I just released their super sad song called Wanted Me To Be. Debut album since I saw you called later tonight.
Bobby Bones
We're not gonna read everything. It's like what sticks out, you know?
Josh Ross
Yeah, I think. Yeah. Well, I'll just see. I'd just be reading all the talking points out.
Bobby Bones
You just read page two. Page two just wrapped up opening for Nate Smith.
Josh Ross
Yep.
Bobby Bones
How was that?
Josh Ross
Great. I mean, I learned a lot from that tour. N. Nate's awesome. He's such a people person. Like, it's. It's amazing to watch somebody that, even on his bad days, is still having a great day.
Bobby Bones
This is what we should do. Let's go page by page, and I'll just ask you something from each page before we get on track.
Josh Ross
All right, let's do it.
Bobby Bones
I've never done this with anybody. I never show people my notes. This is a lot of notes, dude. I'm telling you. I know everything about you. You peed twice today already. That's in the notes.
Josh Ross
Actually, I peed twice today.
Bobby Bones
Exactly.
Josh Ross
Honestly.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, we're watching.
Josh Ross
I have peed twice today.
Bobby Bones
We are watching.
Josh Ross
A little dehydrated, so. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Okay, over to page three.
Josh Ross
Yep.
Bobby Bones
Apparently you made some waves with a series of independent releases. What were those waves exactly?
Josh Ross
I mean, I'd release, like, wait, are we on my own page?
Bobby Bones
I don't worry about it. We're on page three. But it's right here. Made some waves.
Josh Ross
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I mean, I put out a bunch of songs independently. I think that, you know, that's. That's every new artist does. And I had a song in 2022 called First Days Agone that got recognition in town, and I had the sport in Nashville, which was really exciting. Kind of led me to find my management team and my record deal.
Bobby Bones
And you had one of those songs. Did it blow up virally?
Josh Ross
Honestly, it was like, a little bit of, like. A little bit of, like, TikTok, all that kind of stuff, but it was more like I was getting playlisting love and DSPs that were like, we want to support this guy. Which was, like, really, really cool because I.
Bobby Bones
So people like the music more than they like the data they were seeing on the bottom of a video.
Josh Ross
Yes.
Bobby Bones
That's pretty cool. Yeah.
Josh Ross
And I've always been very grateful that. But I think a lot of people were championing just, like, I wasn't from here. I came to town. I knew one person. I was, like, purposely going to Red Door, bumping into people, and would honestly be, like, texting people at different DSPs, being like, hey, can you check this out? And I think that it started to pay off there in 2022. If first chase Gone was the first one that I think independently moved some things.
Bobby Bones
Did you do the hustle thing where you went and knocked on doors and publishing companies and record label? What is that like?
Josh Ross
I always remember JD Grover Groover. We tell the story to this day that I knocked on the door. I was supposed to have a meeting with him one morning. He's gonna kill me for saying this, but, like, I. I showed up and he wasn't there.
Bobby Bones
And what does he do?
Josh Ross
He was in like, he's in the publishing artist, man. He used to do John Langston or still does manage. Manage him. A few new. New artists too. And. But it was just somebody's well connected in town. And like, as soon as I found out that about somebody, I was like, all right, I got to go hang out with that guy. And I asked for a meeting and say it was at like 9:30. And I showed up and they're like, he's not here. And I texted him and he, whatever. And they're like, they're like, do you know what time he's going to be here? And I went, like, sat in his office and waited.
Bobby Bones
How long did you wait?
Josh Ross
It was probably a good hour.
Bobby Bones
And did they text him and say, hey, a meeting that you scheduled is here waiting?
Josh Ross
I don't know what the. I don't know what they did, but I do remember him being like, it's pretty cool that you did that. Like, it shows that you. You want that. And I think he had like a legit reason not to be there. And honestly, I wouldn't have probably met with me if I'm being so honest. Like, I was new. I didn't really have a ton going on. I was just looking for advice. Everybody's busy. But he took the. He took the time.
Bobby Bones
So whenever you just move to town and you have something that's organically hit, that gives you the confidence and even the backing of it, of people trusting you whenever you move here, like, what kind of advice are you looking for?
Josh Ross
Mine was just like, who are the right people? And I always said, like, I don't. I don't need somebody to open the. Like, I don't need to. Somebody, like, open the door completely for me, it's just like, tell me what doors to, like, knock on. Because I feel like there's so many doors. And that was the analogy I always use was like, which doors are the best doors to knock on, and if they open up, I'm gonna run through them. And I was like, always trying to figure out, because I did. I spent a lot of time early when I came to town. Not that, like, I got scammed, but, like, I maybe worked with not the right people, whether they thought they were helping me. On the management front or production, and I spent a lot of money, songs that maybe I shouldn't have early on, and I just learned a lot. So I, like, I was not, like, jaded by it, but I was very much like, who. Who can coach me in the right way? And. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So do you think the coaching thing. Because I'm a big believer in coaching as well. Do you think that comes from an athletic background?
Josh Ross
Yeah, yeah, I think so. And everybody was, like, thinks, you know, football is, like, my background. Everybody was like, says, you know, is that the sport that, like, helped? And I feel like, yes, because I had a coach, but then I raced motocross, and my dad was my coach, and I would say that that was the most important sport that I ever took part in.
Bobby Bones
You still had to listen.
Josh Ross
I still had to listen.
Bobby Bones
You still had to grow. You had to trust somebody to take advice from so you could grow.
Josh Ross
Yeah. And I, like, I still. I look kind of would say I have a life coach. I guess.
Bobby Bones
Like, I go, you don't have to call me that. I'm just a buddy.
Josh Ross
I mean, we meet once a week.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I'm just a guy, you know, a life coach.
Josh Ross
No, but I do. I meet with somebody once a week about my life and just talk stuff through. And I think that one is just, like, a checkup on me. I'm also somebody that, like, I'm all. I can be all over the place. So, like, it grounds me. I need to be kind of, like, I need that.
Bobby Bones
So I'm a big therapy guy. Is your life coach? Is that your therapy?
Josh Ross
It's a little bit of both. I probably vent to him about stuff in my life a little more than I should. Like, we're more in line, like, how do you make a good culture and have a good business? And, you know, it is a business. And I think that we do talk a lot about that. But then also, like, I've been going through things in my personal life where I feel like that affects the business. So it's like, you know, how do I also clean those things up and work on them and be better?
Bobby Bones
So who do you think you still want to do well for? Who do you want to be proud of you?
Josh Ross
My problem is still my coach. Dad. Yeah, I just. I mean, I owe my dad so much. So I think that they come here next week. I'm so super excited. And every time they come here, I'm excited to, like, show them the house and, you know, take my dad fishing. And for me, it's like, simple things like that. And it's a great question, though, because I feel like sometimes you're like, why? Like, what am I cha. Like, what is this for?
Bobby Bones
What's your dad like?
Josh Ross
He's just like, a hard worker. He gets up every day at like, 4, goes to work from like 6 to 4pm and my dad worked his off way harder than I ever will. So it's like, I can't complain.
Bobby Bones
You know, there would be times where I would just be on the road and then come back and do radio and then hop back on and just be so exhausted. Where I think for me, the greatest understanding was I am so lucky to be tired doing something I love doing. Because from where I come from, nobody gets to do what they want to do. They work at the mill or they work totally. So I had to have that moment because I would be freaking burnt. And I think for me, it was an adjustment in perspective that I get to be this tired doing what I love to do.
Josh Ross
How long did it take you to figure that out?
Bobby Bones
A while.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Because, you know, you're in the rat race for so long. Especially when you started. When I started, it was very much a new, like a nationally syndicated deal and I was just starting standup and I was just writing books and it was just do, do, do. I really wasn't appreciating anything that I was doing because I was always looking at the next thing.
Josh Ross
That's me. Yeah. That's 100% me.
Bobby Bones
And I was comparing myself to everybody else. Unfairly.
Josh Ross
Yep.
Bobby Bones
And I was burnt out. And it took one of those. And it's not a bottom, but it took one of those, like, bottom type feelings of I'm so tired. Do I want to do this? Because I know I do. And I had the fortune of having, like, that. That realization of I get to be tired doing what I love.
Josh Ross
Yeah. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Literally, it's the greatest thing we could possibly be tired from.
Josh Ross
Sucks. I gotta go play shows and write songs and go socialize and then wake up and do it again and then
Bobby Bones
hop in and do an interview.
Josh Ross
And I'm so lucky. And I think that's for me.
Bobby Bones
Like, you can also be tired, though.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Like, I think that's where a life coach comes in. Like, somebody that can understand. I couldn't complain about half the stuff in my life to, like, my friends that are not in this weird business because they wouldn't understand. And they'd be like, shut up.
Amy
You.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, you travel, you talk in a microphone.
Eddie
Who cares?
Josh Ross
And at the time, do you, like, did you have a personal life, too going on?
Bobby Bones
No.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
None. Right? There was. I had a dog that had to take on a tour bus. Like, I had to get a bus for the dog because it was my only connection.
Amy
Right.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So then I felt like I was behind so much because I did. Had no human connections back home.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Do you deal with that?
Josh Ross
I've been dealing with it, like, straight up. I mean, we were talking about today. I've been. I've been going through it, but it's been like, yeah. It's like, how do you have a home life that still feels normal? Ish. Because you're home a day or two a week. I have two dogs. There's. You know, we got 11 guys on a bus. It's like, you know, I spend more money in dog care than probably some people do in childcare, you know? But no, I ask that because it's an interesting time even for me just to be like, yeah, like, what grounds you? And I think you ask me, like, who do I. Who am I doing this for? I would say my dad for myself, for sure. Like, I definitely have, like, a little bit of chip on my shoulder. I always have.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. You got to have a screw loose to do this stuff. It's the rights. It's got to be the right screw.
Josh Ross
Yeah, totally. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And also for me, I had to set a point. There's never enough.
Eddie
I.
Bobby Bones
For me, I'm unhealthy in that way. I'm sure you are, too. Right.
Amy
But.
Bobby Bones
But there had to be a point where I reached a place where I would allow myself to get a little more healthy.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And I think you can still run hard for a while.
Josh Ross
Oh, yeah.
Bobby Bones
You're in shape. You're young.
Josh Ross
I mean, I love it. That's. We were, like, embracing how tired we were a couple days ago.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Josh Ross
It's like, screw loose, probably a little bit. It's like, I've slept nine hours in three days, but I'm playing my sixth show of the day, and I'm having a great time.
Bobby Bones
So it's like, well, you're at least playing your sixth show of the day. You may not be having a great time right now.
Josh Ross
But I was. And then it would be like, everybody's like, all right, we're all gonna go home. And I'm like, all right, well, who's going to. Let's go grab a drink, you know?
Bobby Bones
You know, dude, the loneliest thing for me would be I would do a theater of, like, 2,500, 3,000 people. I'd be having a great show. Crushing. Everybody loves me. Everybody loves me. Go back to the hotel room by yourself.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And it's weird.
Josh Ross
That's tough.
Bobby Bones
Cause you just went to hanging out with all these people that are giving you love and adoration for the art you created. And now you're back in a hotel room watching the Fresh Prince on BET at 1:30 in the morning by yourself.
Josh Ross
Like that's.
Bobby Bones
I don't think people understand that life about artists.
Josh Ross
Totally different. Yeah. Or like, yeah. Like I said, like you come home and it's like I would. I toured a new house the other day. I was just like looking at different spots and I was like, I already live a little bit out of town, not going to say exactly where, but I was going to move a little closer to town. And I went toward like, it was like a six bedroom, four bathroom house. And I like walked around and I called Kenzie, who's here today, and I was like, every room was like decorated. One's pink one's blue one's like, I'm like, what would I be like, what would I do when I come home? Like, to me, that's weird.
Bobby Bones
It's weird. But I don't think you're where you need to worry about that yet.
Josh Ross
So I'm not moving just to say,
Bobby Bones
yeah, so no new house.
Josh Ross
I think if I'm going to get anything, it'll be in town. Like actually in town and smaller just to be closer.
Bobby Bones
What a great decision for your point in your career right now. You're just making some money.
Josh Ross
Right.
Bobby Bones
Also, are you investing it back into like a lot of it back into the show?
Josh Ross
I think, yeah. I mean I have to, I know the show's got to get better.
Bobby Bones
I don't think that's what people understand is that, yeah, you're making more money now. You got to make the show bigger. So you got to spend the money. You're making a lot. Yeah, you're in a, you got one bus.
Josh Ross
Two, one. Right now. Yeah, we're, we're all, we're creeping on that thing. But I, I'm, I luckily have created it. Like I, like I was saying like the culture and the, and the, the band. I'm very lucky that it's like we are a family and I'm kind of good with sleeping in a, you know, a bus with 10 people. I don't think I've ever had that thing where like I need to have my own space and, and you know, I'm very grateful that I like being surrounded by people. And it would also just be weird. I thought of that the other day. I was like, imagine rolling down the road and knowing that all the guys I hang out with are like in the bus behind me or ahead of me when I just want to still hang out with them. When you get kids, I think exactly. So when I get to the six bedroom house, grind as hard as you
Bobby Bones
can right now until you hit your bottom. Then you'll start to kind of go because you're killing it right now. It's really awesome to see. I was talking about you on something recently and I was like, I really like Josh. Really nice guy. And I should. Because you're good looking and a good athlete and a good singer and you're a good song. I shouldn't like you. I should just have to, like, put up with you.
Josh Ross
Right.
Bobby Bones
But I like you because you're like a nice guy. And I think that probably is because of how you were raised.
Josh Ross
Yes. Very much.
Bobby Bones
Your family. Pretty, pretty warm family.
Josh Ross
Very warm, very huggy. My mom is like the free spirit angel. And then my dad was the. Like, this is right and this is wrong and there was no in between. So I like. I'm very, very lucky to have that balance growing up.
Bobby Bones
Do you still ride a motorcycle at all?
Josh Ross
I have one. I can. I do, but not.
Eddie
Not.
Josh Ross
I'd be lying if I said I rode once a week.
Bobby Bones
Is it time or is it safety?
Josh Ross
Safety, for sure. I would take a bike into town every day if I could, but I think that everybody around me would be like, no, there's no way.
Bobby Bones
I feel like as either a cyclist or a motorcycle. What do you call a motorcycle? A biker.
Josh Ross
Like mine was dirt bikes, but like a street bike. Like a.
Bobby Bones
What would you call somebody that rode a street bike into town?
Josh Ross
Like a cyclist? Motorcyclist, but it's right. Motorcyclist.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I feel like if I were a motorcyclist, I would be scared every second because everyone's on their phone.
Josh Ross
People.
Bobby Bones
You got kids screaming in the back. You got people dicking with their car, their Bluetooth. They hit you, they got a dent on their car, they hit you, you got a dent in your body and you're possibly dead.
Josh Ross
It doesn't work.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You raced and you competed motocross?
Josh Ross
Yeah. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Is that jumping?
Josh Ross
Jumping, like. Yeah. Lap time, Track. There's like 30, 40 people on the track kind of thing.
Bobby Bones
Any big wrecks?
Josh Ross
My biggest was, I had like, bad. I got like burned and chewed up kind of bad. I was probably, like, 12, 13. Yeah. I basically, like, fall off the back of the bike and where the tire spins. I got, like, caught between there and the rear fender and.
Bobby Bones
And it was like a.
Josh Ross
Just kind of chewing me up.
Bobby Bones
So do you like, like, Travis Pastrana type guys?
Josh Ross
I've met Travis. Yeah. Travis is a great guy who's like, the King. He's more on, like, the freestyle side, which was. Is really cool. I didn't do, like, tricks. I was like, the racing.
Bobby Bones
Who's the LeBron of racing?
Josh Ross
Probably. Probably Jeremy McGrath, which I've gotten to meet, which is awesome. Ricky Carmichael, Chad Reed. There's so many, like, new guys. Like, Deegan's like, this new kid that's crushing it.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I love him.
Josh Ross
He's just got, like. He's got the thing.
Bobby Bones
I never even been on a motorcycle. I got on a motorcycle once.
Josh Ross
Do you actually, like. Do you know who he is?
Bobby Bones
No, I don't know any of that. What you just said to me was Mandarin.
Josh Ross
I mean, Deegan would be stoked if you. But no.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I was doing Rosetta Stone motorcycle right there. I didn't know any of that stuff.
Josh Ross
Do you cycle? Like, cycling? Is that like bicycling?
Bobby Bones
I have a peloton bike in my house. Okay, cool. I don't want to get hit by cars.
Josh Ross
Oh, no. I was just wondering.
Bobby Bones
I'm trying to limit any sort of
Josh Ross
me getting hurt probability. Yeah, no. Through the equation.
Bobby Bones
I tore my ankle playing pickleball in.
Josh Ross
We were having a surgery when we.
Bobby Bones
November of last year, and it's just now healed.
Josh Ross
The worst. I told you ankles were the worst.
Bobby Bones
You had a bad. Like, you had to have your ankle reconstructed, right?
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
It took forever. I keep my miles of what I can run a mile in now without it hurting. In my phone. I'm now at 7:37:30 without it hurting.
Josh Ross
Right.
Bobby Bones
So I keep. If I try, like, a 645 mile, which is pretty. Going pretty good.
Josh Ross
Yeah, it's great.
Bobby Bones
It hurts.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So then I realized I can't do that anymore.
Josh Ross
It's gonna get better, though.
Bobby Bones
That's what the doctor says.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I don't know. I did every. Was I in a cast when I saw you last time?
Josh Ross
I think you were about to have the surgery. We were talking about you falling asleep, and we talked about how much I enjoy that. I wasn't sure if you did or
Bobby Bones
not falling asleep in general.
Josh Ross
No. Like, when you, like, go for surgery, it's just kind of like, let it go.
Bobby Bones
Oh, yeah.
Josh Ross
The best.
Bobby Bones
Best ever felt my life is on laughing gas. Best ever felt my life totally just, like, I can relax.
Josh Ross
I stuff up in my house. I'd be like, this is great.
Bobby Bones
They used to have that available in, like, the 50s and 60s. You go to a party, they would
Josh Ross
just have that at a party.
Bobby Bones
Yes.
Josh Ross
Oh, my gosh.
Bobby Bones
You would go, and you can just hook up to some laughing gas.
Josh Ross
I wouldn't be here. So.
Bobby Bones
It's the greatest. And, like, I don't smoke anything. I wish I did, but I don't ever relax. That relaxes me.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Like, I see heaven and, like, I know what love is. Whenever I'm high on laughing gas.
Josh Ross
Me, too. It's like, about the only time and
Bobby Bones
I get so mad when I purposely
Josh Ross
get hurt to have surgery.
Bobby Bones
We take sledgehammers to our ankles, each of our ankles, so we can go under anesthesia. Where I get annoyed is coming out of anesthesia when the song starts to make sense again. Because they're playing music and you're hearing, and they were all yellow, and all of a sudden it's like. And then all of a sudden it's nothing. And then when you're coming back to, you're hearing, and then when I can tell the words again, like, dang. Oh, the day is over.
Josh Ross
It feels like it was 20 seconds.
Bobby Bones
I know. That sucks. Yeah. You got another number one about to happen, man. Yeah, that's cool.
Josh Ross
It's exciting. This is. We're only on page three.
Bobby Bones
Oh, yeah. I forgot we were going through crap.
Josh Ross
Dude, you got so many.
Bobby Bones
See, we got so into it, I forgot we were going through stuff. Okay, let me ask one question from the question page here, okay? Because I didn't write these questions. Who's an artist that possibly shaped your sound that people might not expect?
Josh Ross
Steve Earle and kind of like, who I like. I don't want to say who I am, but I feel like he was before his time. He kind of was like a rebel. A little more edgier. Oddly, some of the phrasing are like, how. Like, I know he's, you know, grew up two different parts of the world, but I. When I received a Steve Earl CD as a kid, that was country music to me and shape definitely what I do.
Bobby Bones
So where do you play? So you'll have two number ones now, if everything works out according to plan. Where do you play those? At the very end.
Josh Ross
Oh, I thought you, like, in the car
Bobby Bones
on stage. No. Like, what are you playing when you're set? My bad.
Josh Ross
Great call. No, I was like, where did I play them in the set? Yeah, right now I'm playing Hate how you look. His first song single again, Last.
Bobby Bones
Oh, you start with a hit.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I was talking to Vanessa Carlton. Do you know who that is?
Josh Ross
I don't know if I do.
Bobby Bones
I would fall into this.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You know, Thousand Miles. Well, because I just. Do you. You know, song. Yeah, Tonight. So that's a monster song. She plays it very first.
Josh Ross
Wow. She played at the end again. No, there's some artists, like, play the same song three times in the set.
Bobby Bones
I would do that if I only have a hit.
Josh Ross
I remember going on tour with Bailey, like, early on, and he, like, started with a rock and hard place and it wasn't even that. What was it? Was it Fall in Love? What was his first one? But anyways, he. I played a show with him, like Peoria. I was like, is this his third time playing that song?
Bobby Bones
I don't.
Josh Ross
Double encore.
Bobby Bones
And that's what the fans want.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
They came like, they're coming out because probably they were exposed to you by a song and then they fell in love with you with other music.
Josh Ross
He for sure played twice in a row at the end of the show.
Bobby Bones
I have no problem with that at all whatsoever.
Josh Ross
I. I probably won't play either of those twice, but I just gotta, I guess, get a couple more.
Bobby Bones
Who sent you? Hate how youw Look Like. How'd that song come about?
Josh Ross
A guy named Christian Yancey sent it to me. I love that none of the writers on it had had a radio song or any sort of, like, hit necessarily yet. And at that time, I was like, debating on. I'm very passionate about writing my own stuff. I probably write 75% of it, 80% of it. And I was kind of like, you know what? I need to. This is the best song. And I love that it was uptempo. It felt good, but if you weren't listening to the lyrics, you wouldn't know. It's a sad song. Like, the concept of it. And I've been in that situation. I've, like, broken up with somebody and then saw them six months later. I was like, she looks. Hate how she looks. She looks so good. So that was. I just thought it was a relatable subject and fun.
Bobby Bones
As somebody who is known for being a great writer, is it hard to take a song that you didn't write?
Josh Ross
It used to be, but I feel like now, like, I. I will take songs where I'm like, I'm jealous. I was not in the room that Day. And, like, that's a good thing because that means. I wish I would have wrote it. It means it hits at home. Like, it hits home for me. But, yeah, you hear, like, especially early when you come to town, you. Everybody's like, gotta write your own songs. And. And then you look at some of the greats that have done it. It's like they didn't write one of their songs. It's like they made a career.
Bobby Bones
So the song, fun to play live because it's upbeat.
Josh Ross
It's the best. Yeah. That's why I love starting the show with it. It's just tempo off the top.
Amy
And.
Josh Ross
Yeah, that's my favorite.
Bobby Bones
What's the next single?
Josh Ross
We're debating on a few right now where we got.
Bobby Bones
If you don't have one, you have to commit one now.
Josh Ross
We don't. We don't. I mean, we got. I got a song called Kicked out of Bars that just finished recording. That could potentially be it. We got three or four others that were. It's a good problem to have. We're just trying to figure out, do
Bobby Bones
you ever have a concept for a song? And the concept is awesome. Even the title freaking rocks.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Then you wrote it. You're like, man, this isn't it.
Josh Ross
Yeah. I wrote one the other day. It happens all the time.
Bobby Bones
Just give me the concept. You know, I've said the title, if
Josh Ross
you're gonna try to recreate, was called Fake the Smile. And the whole idea was just like, you don't even know, like, what's behind the smile. Like, even on my best days, I can fake the smile.
Bobby Bones
If you write a song and you didn't quite hit it, will you try to write another version of it?
Josh Ross
If you didn't, then it gets messy too.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Because people in the room that weren't in the room the next time.
Amy
Yeah.
Josh Ross
I mean, I've done that, or you know, what I've done, and it's actually cool. We have a song called you already know that that we recorded a couple weeks back, and we wrote that song in 2023. And then we were on a writing retreat this year, and I was like, can we revisit? And I took the same group, same people, and I was like, let's just completely change some of it and rewrite parts of it. And then it ended up working.
Bobby Bones
That's cool.
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
What's your favorite song ever? And all commit.
Josh Ross
Name? Goo Goo Dolls. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Iris gets a lot of the shine.
Josh Ross
Yeah. I cover Iris. I put Iris out as a song,
Bobby Bones
and it is A good one, but I agree. Name?
Josh Ross
Dude, I could be driving in the car and putting name on at like 6:30 in the morning. I'm like, why am I crying?
Bobby Bones
Need to know the moment passing by.
Josh Ross
Dude, it's the second verse for me.
Bobby Bones
How's the second verse?
Josh Ross
It's like, doesn't make you sad to know that life is bigger than life.
Bobby Bones
Doesn't make you sad to know that life is more than who we are. God, what a jam. That black balloon.
Josh Ross
Did you lose yourself some way along? It's like, come on, dude.
Bobby Bones
Fat drumstep nerves. You'll never be the same. I've seen Goo Dolls probably five times. Yeah, here's my annoying Goo Goo Goo Dolls. Constant factor. The bassist sings too many songs at a show.
Eddie
I get it.
Bobby Bones
You gotta let the bassist sing.
Josh Ross
I'll let him sing one song.
Bobby Bones
Sing one. Sing one.
Josh Ross
I do. Yeah, yeah.
Bobby Bones
You let your basis sing a song?
Josh Ross
Yeah, he just does like a cover song.
Bobby Bones
Is your bassist a Goo Goo doll's bassist? Because that would be the greatest end of this interview if it all just comes together.
Josh Ross
And I was like. And yeah.
Bobby Bones
Congratulations, man.
Josh Ross
Thank you, brother. I appreciate it.
Bobby Bones
Seriously, I'm a big fan of you. You're always super nice, super warm. Got another hit. Hate how you look. It's a really cool song.
Josh Ross
Thank you.
Bobby Bones
So, congratulations. And there he is, the great. We never talked about Canada purposefully because I get annoyed with my friends from other places, even Australia, when they. All anybody wants to talk about is that we've grown beyond that.
Josh Ross
It's an interesting subject. And it's like, okay, we're going on three years of that subject now, so I agree.
Bobby Bones
Let's move on. Let's say, have you ever seen Nirvana? The band, the show, the movie?
Josh Ross
I haven't. Okay, I need to watch it.
Bobby Bones
Well, it's Canadian, but it goes against everything I just said about us talking about Canada, so never mind. There is. You guys follow him. Oshross music. Good to see you, Josh.
Josh Ross
Appreciate you. Thanks, y'.
Eddie
All. Bones.
Bobby Bones
What? Dudes here think they're an alpha male.
Eddie
Me.
Bobby Bones
You. Okay. You?
Amy
Nah, nah. And I'm cool with not being an alpha male.
Bobby Bones
Ray, you think you're an alpha male? Definitely. I lift, I play all the sports. Guys enjoy hanging out with me. See, I guess I don't really assign alpha male to just, like, physical strength.
Lunchbox
Well, so what do you put you at?
Bobby Bones
For sure, because I'm a leader and. Yeah, for sure. But I don't think it's like, a strong thing.
Amy
Can I Be an alpha male at home. Because at home I'm the alpha male.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. There are no rules on this. I was gonna read you anti alpha male things, but it work.
Lunchbox
You're a little bit.
Amy
I'm not like, I'm just not a manly man.
Bobby Bones
You know what I mean? I don't think manly. I think this is very much type A personality versus type B.
Lunchbox
But like, at home, does he really take charge or his wife takes charge? He does, but he says his wife is really the one.
Eddie
Yeah, she's the one that does the money.
Amy
That's fine.
Bobby Bones
That's telling you when he shows up, those kids. Yes, sir. It's crazy.
Lunchbox
So it's like to the kids.
Amy
Well, yeah. At home, family and my wife.
Bobby Bones
I don't know that that's true.
Lunchbox
I know that you slid that in real quick.
Bobby Bones
These are anti alpha male behaviors. And Amy, you can assign them to any of us. Okay?
Lunchbox
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Number one, he tries to be a bully.
Lunchbox
Okay. That's lunchbox.
Bobby Bones
Okay. So anti alpha male.
Lunchbox
What?
Eddie
How do I try to be a bullet?
Amy
How do you try to bully everyone?
Bobby Bones
Well, Abby Morgan.
Eddie
Why? Because I tell Abby she sucks at me.
Bobby Bones
Amy. Yeah, the girl. Oh, he does try to just bully the girls.
Lunchbox
And Eddie.
Bobby Bones
That doesn't really work.
Amy
He tries to.
Eddie
How do I bully Abby? I tell her she's bad at something. That's the truth. Yeah.
Lunchbox
Callers. Callers. Lots of callers.
Bobby Bones
Next up, he whines a lunchbox too. Anti.
Eddie
I do get unfair shake in the world.
Amy
No, that's whining.
Bobby Bones
Do you feel like you're a whiner in general?
Eddie
No.
Bobby Bones
No complainer.
Eddie
No.
Bobby Bones
He never does anything on his own, but expects others to lunchbox.
Amy
Okay.
Lunchbox
I wouldn't say he never does anything on his own, but there's.
Eddie
Thank you.
Amy
What does he do on his own?
Lunchbox
I mean, he shows up here every
Amy
day, show up, gets himself to work.
Bobby Bones
Himself to work? Yeah. Next time he makes fun of people.
Lunchbox
Lunchbox. Okay.
Amy
Wow. And this is what?
Bobby Bones
I'm sorry, what's the anti alpha male traits?
Eddie
Wow.
Bobby Bones
Okay. Okay.
Lunchbox
He.
Bobby Bones
This could be anybody. He sucks up to get approval.
Lunchbox
Lunchbox Eddie.
Eddie
That is Eddie to a T. I mean, Eddie can't do anything by himself without Bobby and he sucks up. I mean, that is two back to back Eddies and you whip me back to back Eddie. I don't think so.
Bobby Bones
Can't do anything on their own.
Eddie
You had to do it with Bobby. That is two in a row. What?
Lunchbox
I mean, maybe. Am I missing the artist?
Eddie
Yeah, you are missing.
Amy
No you're not Amy. You nailed it.
Lunchbox
Did I miss.
Bobby Bones
I'm asking you just for your answer.
Eddie
You think I suck up?
Bobby Bones
Next up.
Lunchbox
I mean, you do. You meet with the sales people, like, every day.
Eddie
I am shocked Bobby even thought you were gonna say Eddie. And he was laughing before he even read it because he knew it and you didn't say it in the shocked look on Bobby's face. I am.
Bobby Bones
Next up. He never apologizes.
Lunchbox
Lunchbox.
Amy
Like, he can't say I'm sorry. He can't.
Bobby Bones
Okay, next up. He doesn't want to pay for things.
Lunchbox
Lunchbox. Okay.
Amy
Yes.
Bobby Bones
What's up? Speaking for anything either.
Amy
Yes, I do.
Eddie
Amy doesn't ever bring her wallet. It always disappears.
Bobby Bones
One time in, like, 2006.
Amy
Thank you.
Lunchbox
Thank you. I was about to say. Yeah, dinner, 2007. I forgot my line.
Eddie
Eddie and his wife were going to dinner with Bobby and his wife, and the first thing Eddie asked was, bobby, you gonna pay for that?
Bobby Bones
Also not true.
Amy
Not true.
Eddie
Oh, my gosh.
Bobby Bones
He lies.
Amy
He just lied.
Bobby Bones
No, no, I'm saying he. I'm just saying that's another trait.
Lunchbox
Lunchbox.
Bobby Bones
Lunchbox.
Eddie
Eddie. So busy. That's not lying.
Amy
No, it's not lying.
Bobby Bones
The next one. I don't know if it's anybody, but you may have an idea. He gossips.
Amy
Amy.
Bobby Bones
Amy, is he a gossiper? Did you hear Lunchbox? Yeah, I don't. I don't know.
Lunchbox
I don't think he is.
Bobby Bones
I don't ever leave this room, so I don't know what you guys talk about out there in the lobby.
Amy
No, forget this room, guys. What?
Bobby Bones
Voice changer. Hey, lobby.
Eddie
Oh, you're right, guys.
Amy
That's all he does.
Bobby Bones
He's a gossiper.
Lunchbox
But Eddie does that, too.
Bobby Bones
Guys, I saw Abby in the bathroom. Like, that's Lunchbox.
Eddie
Oh, my God.
Lunchbox
We have tattletale culture, but not gossip culture.
Bobby Bones
Okay, so of those, all those were listed on askmen.com, who is the most anti alpha male.
Lunchbox
I guess it would have to be Lunchbox.
Eddie
Oh, my gosh. Amy, you're.
Lunchbox
Okay, fine if Eddie gets one. No, he didn't. I mean, maybe the suck up one.
Josh Ross
Maybe.
Eddie
Bobby, you're so great.
Bobby Bones
Oh, Bobby, you're so funny.
Eddie
Bobby, you're so good.
Bobby Bones
Oh, Bobby, this.
Amy
Bobby, how do I say that?
Eddie
You say it all the time.
Bobby Bones
I wish you would say that. It made me feel better.
Amy
I don't say that.
Bobby Bones
I know. If I did say that, that would be awesome.
Eddie
Oh, my gosh.
Bobby Bones
How do you feel that she calls you the Anti alpha male wa.
Lunchbox
I just did the checklist. I didn't call him that well.
Bobby Bones
Then I said who had the most use of.
Lunchbox
Well, yeah, that's just. It's from the checklist. I don't make the rules. I just did the.
Eddie
Yeah, a little bit. I think she wasn't even listening to what you were saying, and she just started saying me because she got it. She got in a pattern. And she was like that Pavlov dog where you say they did it on the office where, you know, you. Oh. And you just start saying something. You don't even think what you're saying.
Bobby Bones
You explain to me what you call it.
Eddie
Pavlov dog.
Bobby Bones
Okay, Explain that to me. It's where, like, the actual.
Eddie
Yeah, you train something to do something, and then they do it without even thinking. And that's what you did with Amy. You did a couple where it was lunchbox. And then she turned into the dog and just started saying lunchbox and didn't pay attention what you were saying.
Bobby Bones
You kind of got.
Eddie
Thank you. Because I watched it on the office. I know what I'm talking about.
Bobby Bones
So that is where every time you feed the dog, you ring a bell. Feed the dog, ring a bell, Feed
Eddie
the dog, ring a bell.
Bobby Bones
You just ring the bell without feeding the dog. And the dog expects food. So the mouth starts watering.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So Amy mouth started watering with Lunchbox.
Eddie
Yes.
Amy
I don't think so. Amy, did you understand all the questions?
Lunchbox
I did.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Okay. That's tough.
Amy
Lunchbox.
Bobby Bones
So in order least alpha male, lunchbox second. Least. Eddie and the Ray and I are tied for first according to your data.
Lunchbox
Sure.
Amy
Okay.
Bobby Bones
All right. Everybody go with that.
Eddie
Sure, Bones.
Lunchbox
All right.
Bobby Bones
Voicemail. Hi, I'm calling and regarding Eddie is seeing the UFOs. Cut waters are so strong. 2 I would be gone. And I can usually drink like a good six pack. So, yeah, two Cut Waters are so strong. He was definitely drunk.
Amy
Dude, she's not wrong.
Bobby Bones
I never heard of Cut Waters. And you talked about it. Now they're everywhere.
Lunchbox
I know. I keep seeing it, too, so might have to try one.
Amy
And they taste so good that when you hit that second, you're like, dang, that hit me hard.
Bobby Bones
What a good brand name, though.
Amy
Cut Water.
Bobby Bones
And that's the official name.
Lunchbox
Yeah, it's like, what. What.
Eddie
What?
Lunchbox
What is cut?
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I don't know. It's just a cool thing to say. I saw something called I was. There's another billboard yesterday for some kind of vodka drink. It was called like, oh, oh, Naked. Something sexy.
Lunchbox
Sunrise.
Bobby Bones
I don't know, but I thought, that's a good name, too.
Amy
Yeah, I saw one called Sun Cruise or something. It was like, that sounds refreshing.
Lunchbox
Yours was called Naked.
Bobby Bones
I don't remember. It was a billboard on the. Right. On the highway when I was driving home. And all those billboards flip, because they did.
Lunchbox
I know. Sometimes when you're on it, I try to get a picture, and I'm driving. I know, I know, I know, I know, I know. So I'm like.
Amy
And Amy, you know Bobby. Like, you'll see him.
Bobby Bones
But sometimes. Sometimes I'm on it, and I don't know I'm gonna be on it.
Lunchbox
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Like, if I'm playing the operator, my picture up, like, oh, my God, that's me.
Lunchbox
Yeah, yeah. Or Netflix. Like, yeah, I've tried to get it. And then I'm like, oh, dang it already switched.
Bobby Bones
People think you're used to that crap. You don't get used to that crap. Driving on the road, you see yourself on a billboard.
Amy
That's pretty crazy.
Bobby Bones
You're like, what?
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And then when the Opry puts you up and you're like, oh, they chose me of everybody to put on the billboard. That's a really cool feeling. But the drinks. You had a drink. I wish I had more of them. I don't remember the name, but you're having a meeting with that guy.
Lunchbox
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Whatever that was, I need more of.
Lunchbox
Oh, I have some in your fridge.
Bobby Bones
In my fridge? Oh, in my office.
Lunchbox
Well, yeah, I hid them in there because Scuba was like, just use Bobby's refrigerator.
Bobby Bones
But those exact ones, that was. It was like coconut water.
Lunchbox
Yeah. The Life cider.
Bobby Bones
Those are called Life.
Lunchbox
They're called Life Cider. But I don't know if you want me to say, because it's not an ad.
Bobby Bones
Well, it's not an ad. They were so good. So I'm gonna get another one.
Lunchbox
So there's apple cider vinegar in there, but no alcohol.
Bobby Bones
No, but they cut live ciders.
Lunchbox
No, no, no, no, no, no.
Amy
On a Saturday night.
Lunchbox
He said that some people add alcohol.
Bobby Bones
I could see that.
Lunchbox
But no, he just uses them more for his health. He was making this own concoction every day in his kitchen. And, like, that's how it started. And he had some acid reflux issues and weight stuff that he was trying to manage. And his drinks were so good, his kids started drinking his.
Bobby Bones
Now you're doing the commercial.
Lunchbox
Oh, no. I'm just telling you how it came about.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. But now I understand why listeners and Amy's like promo code, Amy. But we have no money from them. I didn't even know the name of it.
Lunchbox
No, no, no. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
Bobby Bones
If I were like ranking. Because I've started to drink a little bit more of an energy drink in the morning. I'm still a sugar free Red Bull number one guy. No sugar. It's too much sugar for sugar. Red Bull. I'm still. I like the taste. There's something about it.
Lunchbox
Yeah, but you don't want the come down from that is.
Bobby Bones
Oh, I don't mind the come down. I don't really come down.
Lunchbox
Really?
Bobby Bones
Yeah, not really. So number one, sugar free Red Bull number two is going to be. I do like some of the Celsius flavors more than others. So Celsius is two.
Amy
That's an energy drink.
Bobby Bones
It is. And then number three, whatever.
Lunchbox
This is a Lani.
Bobby Bones
I thought I said aloha. How do you know what this is? I have a can of my hand.
Lunchbox
Very popular, especially with the teens.
Bobby Bones
Oh, you guys know this one?
Josh Ross
Yeah.
Amy
You know this one? It's very popular.
Bobby Bones
A lot of influencers use it too. Okay. So they sent cases of this stuff to my house. I did not know why. And I'm like, I'm not drinking that because I'm not doing any. I don't do any ads for them or anything. I thought it was called Aloha, by the way. Doesn't look like that.
Amy
Kinda looks like that. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And so I was out of like sugar for Red Bulls. I didn't have any Celsius. And so I was like, okay, let me do this. They're good. Sound like a teen, huh? Yeah, I swear.
Lunchbox
Well, I mean, teens are like, I don't know. Be careful if you're a teen because it's still an energy drink.
Bobby Bones
But all the teens listening are now careful. I'm glad you said that. You really saved some teens there with
Amy
one at the store. And I think the flavor was like shaved ice or Hawaiian shaved ice. Did you get that one?
Bobby Bones
I don't know. They came and like, I don't even know how they got my address, but they came in like, get to your house house. Yeah. They wanted to do some business with me and I didn't want to do business with them because I didn't know what it was. I'm never just taking money from people. I don't do it. And I don't do many ads. I mean, especially on social media. Almost none. And so I didn't.
Lunchbox
So.
Bobby Bones
But they're pretty good. So this is not an ad. This is a non paid one.
Lunchbox
It's definitely not an ad because we're gonna talk about life. Cider too.
Amy
Oh yeah.
Bobby Bones
You wanna know what's weird? So I'm trying to drink more water. I don't drink a lot before I come to work because I don't wanna have to pee during the show. But I do. I really try to focus on drinking a bunch of water until like 6 or 7. But then you have to pee all night. It's a whole situation. But I like those packets that are like hydration packets. And there's a. There's a juggling act with the sugar in those as well. Right? Everything's a juggling act with sugar. And really if it tastes good, you're giving something bad for that taste. Just generally speaking, if something tastes good, it ain't that good for you, so. But I try to drink a bunch of water, so I do. I'm a child. I need it to taste pretty good. So if I'm drinking like six boxes of this kind of water, three of them, I'll put in one of those. Oh, I shouldn't know the names of those hydration packs is like.
Lunchbox
You mean electrolytes?
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but they're called not element. No, now I have those. But those are salt.
Amy
Yeah. It's not the liquid.
Bobby Bones
Liquid iv.
Amy
Is that what it is?
Bobby Bones
That's what it is. They have this flavor now that's too much like the.
Lunchbox
Too strong?
Bobby Bones
No, it's well too. It's called. It's like a bomb pop.
Amy
Oh, yummy.
Bobby Bones
It on the box.
Lunchbox
Oh, like the ring pop pop?
Amy
No, no, no, no.
Bobby Bones
Like the ice cream. The. The stuff.
Amy
The red, white and blue one.
Bobby Bones
Oh, here it is. Mike found it. And I like. This is not AD. I like liquid IVs. I need them sometimes to drink more water because I don't. I get kind of bored and forget it is. What's that flavor called, Mike? It's the popsicle firecracker.
Amy
Dang, it sounds good.
Bobby Bones
It's too much like candy because I'll order from Amazon like three of those small boxes. And I like the lime, I like the berry. I. And I accidentally ordered this popsicle firecracker. It's too much like candy. It's too sweet. And I love sweet.
Lunchbox
Well, maybe you just pour half in.
Bobby Bones
Just, just, just the flavor of it is too much like a popsicle.
Lunchbox
I just think if you dilute it more like.
Bobby Bones
I'm sure you're right.
Lunchbox
Speaking of your water, that one you held up like. I don't know, like at your house, I guess my daughter was over there and opened up the fridge to get a water and saw all your waters and how they're organized. And she comes home and she's like, can we stock our fridge with these? And I was like, I know. I know exactly where you are because I see that water bottle and I know the fridge you're talking about. And yeah, it does look cool. But no, we're not. We don't have an extra fridge for just stocking.
Bobby Bones
Like to organize. It is.
Lunchbox
It does.
Amy
It's perfect.
Bobby Bones
We legit. We do have a great selection of Ollipops as well, which are great. Not an ad. There's no ad in this. Okay. I don't. I'm getting tired of having to say not ad because let's just bust my balls about this. We have a great selection of Olipop. And then there's another soda that's kind of like that. That's not full. Coke.
Lunchbox
Poppy.
Bobby Bones
Poppy and poppies. We have good those. But what's funny is they still had. They have lesser sugar, but they have sugar in them.
Lunchbox
Yeah, like three to five grams.
Bobby Bones
No, like three to five to five.
Lunchbox
Yeah.
Amy
Is that too much?
Bobby Bones
Unless you're drinking the bomb calories.
Amy
Calories. 15 calories.
Lunchbox
Okay. Sugar. That would be a lot.
Bobby Bones
I'm just trying to like manage my sugar.
Lunchbox
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Bobby Bones
But I'm seeing some of the major sodas now are doing their version of that kind of soda.
Amy
The.
Lunchbox
Well, Pepsi bot. Poppy.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but it's like the gut.
Amy
Yeah, yeah. Probiotics.
Bobby Bones
Probiotic sodas.
Lunchbox
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So that's a thing. And I think some people think you can just drink non stop and it's good for you. It's not good for you, it's just less bad for you.
Lunchbox
Yeah. I think you would still need to manage because I would imagine your stomach might get a little upset if you have too many.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. And that's anything not good. Yes. Not good for you, but less bad for you. Because if it were all equal, I would drink Mountain Dew.
Lunchbox
Yeah, like pick your poison.
Bobby Bones
Oh, Mountain Dew. I was watching a bet that we were doing on the show.
Lunchbox
No, it's not a commercial because nobody would be like, actually, we don't want to refer to it as poison in any way.
Bobby Bones
Sugar poison.
Lunchbox
Oh, did y' all see they have sugar free Oreos?
Eddie
No. No.
Bobby Bones
But is it some substitute though that's like equally as bad but not quite sugar?
Lunchbox
I just saw someone post about it and I was like, what? My mind is blown. I'm scared to try it, but I'm also intrigued.
Bobby Bones
I'm looking at it, but you know,
Lunchbox
I would not eat more than 1 oreo0.
Bobby Bones
Sugar. A blend of sugar, alcohols and high intensity sweeteners.
Eddie
Ah, yeah.
Lunchbox
Yeah. I feel like you better proceed with caution. Eat, eat.
Bobby Bones
One half of one. You know what's pretty good is the Coke Zeros. It's not quite a Diet Coke.
Lunchbox
I don't. I don't like them because they taste
Bobby Bones
like Coke, but I like Coke, right? And I've had a Coke Zero by accident. And then look down, I'm like, oh, it's slightly off. Oh, it's Coke Zero. Oh, not so bad. But I'm sure it has other stuff in it.
Lunchbox
I guess when you put it that way. Diet Cokes are fine and they have no sugar, so maybe Oreos. It's those sugar free gummy bears you gotta watch out for.
Amy
Oh, I've heard that.
Bobby Bones
Now we're listing all the stuff that's tricked us.
Lunchbox
You realize like five and your stomach
Bobby Bones
is a wreck in the fridge right now. Some of those drinks are in there.
Lunchbox
There should be one in your fridge.
Bobby Bones
One?
Lunchbox
Well, there was two and then I had one.
Amy
And why did you put them in Bobby's office? What were you worried about, Scuba?
Lunchbox
I was worried.
Bobby Bones
No, no. Say the truth. Say the truth.
Amy
Come on.
Bobby Bones
Why don't you leave food out here? Even food that.
Lunchbox
Because other people will take it.
Bobby Bones
Leave it all.
Amy
Yes.
Lunchbox
And so.
Bobby Bones
And leave none. And by other people.
Lunchbox
If Bobby wanted to grab it out of his fridge and take it, no problem. That's fine.
Bobby Bones
I thought you put that in there for me.
Amy
Me?
Lunchbox
I. For us.
Amy
No, no, just for you, too.
Lunchbox
We just thought it would be a better, safer place. But then also, if you wanted them, that's no problem.
Bobby Bones
Got it. Okay.
Eddie
Yeah. But if anybody else around here wants one.
Bobby Bones
No.
Eddie
Shame on you.
Lunchbox
To be fair, if I didn't. If weren't for Bobby, I wouldn't be having that meeting with that guy.
Bobby Bones
I don't. I didn't set that up.
Lunchbox
I know you didn't, but any meeting I have, I see.
Bobby Bones
Well, I don't think I don't get credit for everything because. No, that's. No, no, no, no.
Lunchbox
You're not seeing what I'm saying. I.
Bobby Bones
You act like I birthed you into this world.
Lunchbox
You know what you birthed me into? This job.
Amy
My Jeep I got with one of my clients. You can have that too.
Bobby Bones
Dude, she's.
Eddie
Yeah, he wouldn't have got that. He wouldn't have got that without Bobby.
Lunchbox
I'm not trying to hand over my paycheck, but I am thankful for my paycheck.
Amy
My paycheck. It's yours too.
Bobby Bones
Okay. Okay. All we have to say here is we talked about a bunch of products. None of that was a commercial, so don't get mad. Yes. Not a single. We were not paid one red cent for any of that that we just talked about. Everybody agree?
Lunchbox
Anybody that was considering working with us, maybe they walked away after hearing that. They're probably like, we're good.
Bobby Bones
Correct. Thank you guys for listening. You can go over and Steve O is the latest Bobby cast. You watch it on Netflix. You can also listen to it on the Bobbycast podcast. So that is up. I hope you have a great weekend. If you're a part tour, we appreciate you so much. You're so much cooler than people that just listen on the radio. So thank you.
Amy
Thank you.
Bobby Bones
And thanks to Josh Ross for coming on. That was super fun. And we will see you guys on Monday. All right, Bye, everybody. Service opens doors, and at American Military University, it can open doors for the whole family. If you have a loved one who served in the military, you may qualify for reduced tuition. AMU offers flexible online programs designed to fit your schedule so you can keep moving forward wherever life takes you. Learn more at amuapus.edu Military open doors to the future for you and your family with the help of American Military University. That's AMU Apus Edumilitary. Living with a rare autoimmune condition brings uncertainty, but it can also create community. In season six of Untold Life, with a severe autoimmune condition, they go beyond MG and cidp. As host Martine Hackett welcomes stories from other conditions like myositis and IgAN into the conversation. Untold Stories is produced by Ruby Studio in partnership with Argenics. Listen to Untold Stories. Life with a severe autoimmune condition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Mom, are we there yet?
Lunchbox
10 more minutes. Only 10 minutes.
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Amy
What's up with them today? Lingokids, that app we downloaded last week.
Lunchbox
They love it. The games, this funny baby bot character.
Josh Ross
Kids, we're almost there.
Bobby Bones
No. With more than 4,000 interactive games, songs and shows little ones can't get enough of. Lingokids is the number one entertainment platform for young kids.
Amy
Why didn't we download this sooner?
Bobby Bones
Mango cakes.
Lunchbox
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Episode Title: FRI PT 2: Why Is Lunchbox An Anti-Alpha Male? + Josh Ross On Why His Dad's Approval Means Everything
Original Air Date: June 26, 2026
Podcast Host: Bobby Bones (Premiere Networks)
Special Guest: Josh Ross
This episode balances the show's signature mix of offbeat news stories, playful banter, and music industry insights. The team debates what makes someone an "alpha male," both roasting and supporting co-host Lunchbox. Country artist Josh Ross joins for an engaging conversation about the family-driven roots of his ambition, navigating Nashville, and his fast rise in country music. The episode also dives into viral news, work-life boundaries, realities on tour, and the relatable pursuit of approval—from dads, coaches, and oneself.
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“If I can remember everything and I’m able to sleep and not have real mental health trauma...I want to know because I want to tell the story…”
— Bobby Bones [04:03]
“You gotta have a screw loose to do this stuff. It’s gotta be the right screw.”
— Bobby Bones [43:24]
“You know, I owe my dad so much…he gets up every day at, like, 4, goes to work from, like, 6 to 4pm…way harder than I ever will.”
— Josh Ross [40:34]
“I just think—who knows if you really would have fallen in love with that person if you weren’t young and vulnerable and manipulated…”
— Amy [18:20]
“I’m kind of good with sleeping in a bus with 10 people. I like being surrounded by people.”
— Josh Ross [45:44]
This episode is a strong snapshot of The Bobby Bones Show’s core: lighthearted news, group dynamics, listener engagement, and unique musical guests. The Josh Ross interview stands out for fans interested in the grind behind the music and the tension between success and self-worth.