MON PT 1: Bobby Is Out Of Surgery + What Did Amy's Boyfriend Refuse To Let Her Do? + Songs That Start With 'N' Draft

Summary

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Episode Title: MON PT 1: Bobby Is Out Of Surgery + What Did Amy's Boyfriend Refuse To Let Her Do? + Songs That Start With 'N' Draft
Air Date: November 10, 2025
Host: Bobby Bones (Premiere Networks)
Featured Cast: Amy, Eddie, Lunchbox, Morgan

Overview

This episode blends classic Bobby Bones banter with updates on the crew’s personal lives, listener questions, feel-good stories, and the fan-favorite "Songs That Start With 'N'" draft. Bobby gives a candid post-surgery update, Amy reveals an amusing dilemma with her boyfriend, and the team debates relationship roles and modern etiquette on parenting from the sidelines.

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Key Segments & Discussion Points

1. Psychic Wedding Meltdown (03:35–07:54)

• Story: A bride dramatically slashed her guest list under psychic guidance, sparking a studio debate about the legitimacy of psychics vs. life coaches and relationship transparency.
• Notable Quotes:
  • "A combination of two of my favorite kinds of stories, psychic stories and wedding stories." — Bobby (03:09)
  • "If you're making big, major life decisions based on your psychic and you're not including your partner...that's being dishonest." — Amy (04:26)
  • "Life coaches, for the most part, are crocks too...be a therapist if you want to therapy be." — Bobby (05:21)
• Debate: Is it “cheating” to make big life decisions via a psychic or life coach your partner doesn’t know about? Most agree the secrecy is the problem.

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2. Bobby’s Surgery & Recovery Update (07:55–14:16)

• Bobby details his recent ankle surgery, struggles with recovery, and his worries about "cadaver cartilage" not “taking.”
• Pain, mobility challenges, missing ‘Dancing with the Stars’ and therapy appointments are discussed with typical wit.
• Notable Quotes:
  • "I've had my foot in a cast since Friday. I didn't take any pain medicine yesterday to try to gut through it, but I realized that was kind of a bad move." — Bobby (08:02)
  • "I had a heavy fear of them looking at my wiener while I was sleeping." — Bobby (09:14)
  • "It sucks to lay around when you don't want to lay around, but it's awesome to lay around when you can get up." — Bobby (11:16)
• Mood: Self-deprecating humor with real vulnerability.
• Listeners are thanked for support and Bobby reflects on the unpredictability of surgery recovery.

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3. Listener Advice: Wife Makes More Money Now (14:32–19:50)

• Listener "No Longer the Breadwinner" seeks advice after wife’s promotion upends their relationship dynamic.
• Hosts offer a mix of tough love, empathy, and humor.
• Notable Quotes:
  • "Stop being a freaking loser." — Bobby (16:09)
  • "You're not less of a person, bro...she doesn't think less of you. You think less of you." — Bobby (18:25)
  • "If my wife made a bunch of money...I'd quit my job, stay at home...I'd love that." — Eddie (17:41)
  • "If you want to get higher than her, you need to be hiring her to have respect in that household. You need to start applying for jobs." — Lunchbox (19:06)
• Conclusion: Celebrate your partner, adjust to changing roles, and don't let insecurity ruin a good thing.

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4. Miranda Lambert Birthday Special (25:25–28:11)

• Fun facts about Miranda Lambert for her birthday, including:
  • Why she hates beach balls at concerts (26:01)
  • Why she doesn’t do encores (26:10)
  • Her code name at hotels/Starbucks — “Pterodactyl” (26:55)
  • Brushes with disaster (her trailer once detached on highway) and her Nashville “invisibility”
• Endearing and humorous, fans get a behind-the-scenes look at Lambert’s quirks.

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5. Feel-Good News: Police Chase Good Samaritan (28:19–29:33)

• Cop at a Louisiana mall gets help from a customer during a shoplifter chase.
• Notable Quote:
  • “Give him a badge while you're at it. Why not give him a cop car?” — Lunchbox & Bobby (29:25)
• Studio debates if it’s smart or dangerous for a civilian to help in a police chase.

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6. 'Songs That Start With N’ Draft (29:33–39:40)

• Each member drafts three songs with titles starting with ‘N’. Picks spark playful arguments over naming conventions and what counts.
• Top picks:
  • Amy: Neon Moon (Brooks & Dunn), Nothing Compares 2 U (Sinead O'Connor), Never (unsure artist)
  • Lunchbox: Night the Lights Went Out in Georgia, November Rain (Guns N' Roses), Nookie (Limp Bizkit)
  • Morgan: Never Gonna Give You Up (Rick Astley), (goes blank/“poop”), Northern Lights (Teddy Swims)
  • Eddie: Nothing but a G Thang (Dr. Dre), Nothing On You (B.o.B/Bruno Mars), Nowhere Man (The Beatles)
  • Bobby: Need You Now (Lady A), Nobody Knows (Tony Rich Project), No Scrubs (TLC)
• Debate over how strictly titles should be interpreted ("the" inclusion, real song existence).
• Listeners are encouraged to vote for their favorite team at bobbybones.com.

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7. Sports Parenting Etiquette: Cheering for (or at) Other People’s Kids (39:40–44:48)

• Amy details an awkward encounter: a parent at a kids' basketball game harshly calls out another child (Larry) who isn’t their own.
• Discussion: How should parents act at youth sports? Consensus is to focus on your own child unless you know the kid very well.
• Notable Quote:
  • "If it's not your kid, don't be yelling, unless you know the kid." — Eddie (41:18)
• Eddie admits sometimes he cheers for his child’s teammates, but all agree negative or embarrassing comments are off limits.

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8. Amy’s Driving Dilemma: Boyfriend’s Car Ban (49:19–55:05)

• Amy reveals her boyfriend won’t let her drive his new car, offering only his old Tahoe instead.
• She suspects the show’s ongoing jokes about her driving shaped his attitude; the team argues it’s more likely her actual driving record.
• The debate turns into friendly ribbing about Amy blaming things on ADHD and her history of minor car accidents.
• Notable Quotes:
  • "We have seen you run into things." — Bobby (49:37)
  • "It's not, can she do it? It's her ability to focus. She loses it at different points." — Bobby (51:57)
• Ends on a humorous note but reflects real anxieties about trust, perception, and self-awareness.

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9. Good News: Omaha Pizzeria Feeds the Hungry (55:20–56:57)

• Joel Marsh at Noly’s Pizzeria serves free meals to anyone in need; gave away $20,000 in food in just a week.
• Bobby reminisces about the stigma of the “free lunch” line at school; panel is grateful for evolving attitudes.

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10. Morning Corny & Bonehead Story of the Day (57:38–59:39)

Morning Corny
Q: What is a turkey’s favorite dessert?
A: Peach Gobbler.

Bonehead Story:
— Woman in Syracuse posts a Facebook prank about needles in Halloween candy. It backfires; she didn’t go trick-or-treating and staged it herself.

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11. Voicemails & Wrap-Up (59:43–63:37)

• Bobby answers a listener's drone mystery: the suspicious drone over his house no longer appears, so mystery unsolved.
• Amazing Race/Brother crossover: Lunchbox says he hasn’t watched this season yet and shares advice for contestants: “Learn to drive stick and read a paper map” (63:03).

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Notable Quotes & Moments by Timestamp

• “You gotta know their nutty tendencies.” — Bobby on psychic-guided weddings (07:27)
• “It sucks to lay around when you don’t want to lay around.” — Bobby on surgery recovery (11:16)
• “If my wife made a bunch of money...I’d quit my job, stay at home...” — Eddie (17:41)
• “Why can’t I take that car?” — Amy on her boyfriend’s car rules (50:14)
• “It’s not, can she do it? It’s her ability to focus.” — Bobby about Amy’s driving (51:57)

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Tone & Flow

• Fast-paced, genuinely funny, full of teasing camaraderie and relatable honesty.
• The team balances goofiness with empathy, jumping from silly segments (song drafts, corny jokes) to real-life vulnerability (Bobby’s recovery, Amy’s relationship).
• Listener letters and real anecdotes keep things grounded.

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Segment Timestamps Quick Reference

• Wedding Psychic Story: 03:35–07:54
• Bobby’s Surgery Update: 07:55–14:16
• Breadwinner Relationship Letter: 14:32–19:50
• Miranda Lambert Birthday Special: 25:25–28:11
• Good Samaritan Police Chase: 28:19–29:33
• Songs That Start With N Draft: 29:33–39:40
• Youth Sports Parenting Etiquette: 39:40–44:48
• Amy’s Boyfriend & Driving: 49:19–55:05
• Omaha Pizzeria Story: 55:20–56:57
• Morning Corny: 57:38–57:50
• Bonehead Story: 57:55–59:39

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Final Takeaway

This episode offers a little something for everyone—bizarre headlines, host vulnerability, relatable relationship issues, rapid-fire humor, and heartfelt moments. The 'N' song draft and candid personal stories make it especially fun for regular listeners. As always, Bobby Bones and the crew keep it light, real, and thoroughly entertaining.

Transcript

[Amy]

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[Bobby Bones]

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[Amy]

Oh, my. Is the husband, like, too late? Is it too late? Or the fiance?

[Bobby Bones]

A bride in Asheville caused chaos by slashing her wedding from 200 to 75 people just two weeks before the ceremony. I wonder if the husband knew she was so into the psychic. Right? Like you kind of know it.

[Amy]

Or numbers.

[Bobby Bones]

Do some people sneak around to psychics?

[Amy]

Oh, I'm sure. I'm sure a lot of people keep it quiet. Especially if you work in their government.

[Bobby Bones]

No, from their husband, though.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

You think there are people that sneak around to psychics? So she comes home and she's like, I just have this feeling we need to uninvite everybody.

[Amy]

Well, yeah. I mean, he's probably going to want an explanation. So she probably says, you know, my psychic told me. But I bet there are people out there that see a psychic and their partner has no idea.

[Eddie]

That's cheating.

[Bobby Bones]

If you're not. I don't. Yes.

[Amy]

It's being dishonest.

[Eddie]

It's cheating, man. Like, because that's. You're someone you're definitely not.

[Amy]

Yeah. Like, if you're making big, major life decisions based on your psychic and you're not including your partner in, like, oh. And they're like, well, why do you feel that way, babe? And you're just like, I don't know. I just do. But, like, really, you're taking advantage of psychic.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, but the psychic part's weird. I don't want to stand up for a psychic because I think it's all bull crap. But what if you have a life coach and your life coach is telling you this type of stuff? And I think life coaches, for the most part, are Crocs, too, but not all. But is that still cheating? Or is it cheating more because psychic's weird?

[Eddie]

I think it's just the fact that you're not telling your spouse that you're getting all this feelings and information.

[Amy]

Like, do they know about the life coach?

[Bobby Bones]

Well, let's say they don't. Okay.

[Amy]

But a life coach is, let's hope, giving you tools, and you come to a conclusion, and they're Giving you step by step guidance. A psychic might be like, this is gonna happen in your future, so you need to do this. Like, you're basically like, the. The data they're giving is different.

[Bobby Bones]

But our life coach is kind of full of crap like psychics, though, for the most part. Otherwise. Otherwise they go to school and get a degree and be a therapist.

[Amy]

Yeah, I mean, I think I have a different take on life coaches now that when.

[Eddie]

What.

[Amy]

One of my best friends is a therapist. Like, she has her major frustrations with that.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I have a big frustration with it. Be a therapist if you want a therapy bee.

[Amy]

Yeah, Yeah. I guess I just also know some good.

[Bobby Bones]

I think your friends have good advice. I have great advice.

[Amy]

And my cousin is a psychic.

[Eddie]

Oh, that's true.

[Bobby Bones]

That's true.

[Amy]

I. I don't know. I. I just think that transparency with your partner about it is imperative.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, I'm still on the part where I think life coaches are crying. So apparently, she used a. An energy compatibility to decide who could attend the wedding, Cutting many who did not fit in the energy compatibility chart, including some of the groom's extended family and the bridesmaid's parents, who had already booked travel.

[Amy]

The bright. The bridesmaids. Oh, okay. The parents. Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

When the bridesmaid refused to attend without her parents, the bride accused her of choosing fear over love. It sounds like she's a David crush kind of cult.

[Eddie]

Oh, man.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, the psychic has grabbed a hold of her. I'm not even sure it's not a life coach. You know life coaches are Crocs, right?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

They're just people who think they give good advice.

[Amy]

I. I know some quality. I think that you can't. It's gray. It's not black and white. Like, they're all terrible.

[Eddie]

Elvis had a life coach. I saw an interview with that guy. He looked like he's shady.

[Bobby Bones]

I mean, I will say not all of anything is anything. So I stand by that. Not all of anything is anything but life coaches. If someone's like, yeah, I'm a. I'm a life coach. I'm like, oh, you didn't want to finish school? Oh, you think you can just give good advice? I mean, I've had some life experiences. I don't think I'm. I should be a life coach. I can give people some advice on certain situations.

[Amy]

Yeah. I think that some people have seen it as if I were a life.

[Bobby Bones]

Coach, I'd just say I was a psychic.

[Amy]

I'll be honest with you.

[Bobby Bones]

If I were a life coach, I would just say I was a psychic. Yeah, because then it feels like you're not trying to be a fake therapist.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Anyway, this part. This woman's crazy.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Crazy.

[Amy]

That's why I'm saying this woman needs a life coach. Do you think he's still gonna marry her?

[Bobby Bones]

I just. I, I, I, I would think if.

[Amy]

Your partner came to you and said.

[Bobby Bones]

Babe, I would think he knows she's nutty. If you're getting married to her, you've got to know their nutty tendencies. In this with just days before the wedding, about 30 guests that plan to attend disengaged. The bride wrote something on social media about honoring her truth. I don't know. She's nuts. What was that's from People.

[Eddie]

What was the chart she's talking about? Energy chart.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Find you one. It's called an energy compatibility chart.

[Eddie]

I need.

[Bobby Bones]

Laughs. I'm not even saying there aren't people who can't gauge other people's energy, Even though I don't know what that is. I'm never gonna say anything's everything's, everything's anything. But I do think, for the most part, all that's bull crap. And people just use it as a way to scam people out of money. Psychics, life coaches. But not my cousin Raymundo telling me to buy GoPro stocks. And I did, and I bought GoPro. Now I'm down all this money. Yeah, Bones had my foot in cast since Friday. It's been pretty annoying. I didn't take any pain medicine yesterday to try to gut through it, but I realized that was kind of a bad move. It kind of sucks. The pain medicine I took last night is definitely still, like, ringing in my ears right now. It also puts a bad taste in my mouth. You ever take pain medicine, Amy, and it makes makes your mouth taste bad?

[Amy]

I mean, I've taken it before. I don't recall any weird taste, though.

[Bobby Bones]

H. It can't be, like, spoiled oatmeal or anything I had this morning. I did eat some old oatmeal this morning, but I think it was the pain medicine, but it's kind of sucked. I had surgery on Friday on my ankle. I don't remember much about it. I went in, signed some papers, dedicated my organs if they wanted them. If it went wrong, they had to do the whole legal spill where it was like, if we mess up and you die, do you promise it's not our fault? And I was like, I promise.

[Amy]

But, I mean, you can't promise that. What if it is Their fault.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, then they don't have surgery on you. Okay, so again, I don't remember much. They do a lot to you for just an ankle surgery. So there's a picture on my Instagram, and I'm in the bed, and I got a hair net on, it looks like. And I'm all. I'm all the way naked except for my underwear and a gown. I was glad I got to keep my underwear on because I had a. I had a heavy fear of them looking at my wiener while I was sleeping. But I came out and the doctor's like, all right, you are good to go. Don't let your foot go below your heart, basically, because it's gonna hurt like crazy. And so I gotta keep my foot propped up the whole time, so I'm.

[Amy]

Gotta keep that blood flowing.

[Bobby Bones]

It sucks because I tried yesterday to sit down at, like, the bar in our kitchen and let my foot hang. It hurt for, like, two hours. So it's been pretty miserable. I don't know what else to say, except I get it checked out on Friday. And if. Because they had to glue the hole together, basically, and put cadaver cartilage in my ankle. I think by Friday they can tell if it's taking. And then I move out of the. This big. Can you see my cast?

[Eddie]

No, I can zoom out.

[Amy]

What do you do if it doesn't take? You have to go back.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't know if it doesn't take. I don't know if that's even the term take.

[Amy]

Well, I think because you're putting a foreign somebody else's thing to your body. I get it. It has to do its thing. So if it doesn't. I guess I was just curious. It never occurred to me that it might not take.

[Bobby Bones]

What didn't occur to me either until right now.

[Eddie]

So they may have to go in and, like, read.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't know. I shouldn't say that. All I know is I have to go back in Friday.

[Amy]

Maybe if it doesn't take, all you have to do is just, like, re. Glue again a little bit or just, like, massage it or talk to it.

[Eddie]

And does doesn't take mean, like, the cadaver is like, no, not gonna be in here.

[Amy]

Bobby's.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, like a heart.

[Amy]

Reject it.

[Eddie]

Dang.

[Bobby Bones]

Because sometimes bodies reject organs. Wow. What if they reject this cadaver cartilage in my ankle?

[Eddie]

Would that hurt your feelings a little bit? Like, what, My body's not good enough for you?

[Bobby Bones]

You know, the only thing I thought about was I've had to like, lean on my heel a few times. And the doctor's been like, you can lean on your heel, but you can only put 20% pressure if you have to for any reason. It almost fell yesterday. And so now I'm wondering if, like, I reheard it, but I think I'm in my own head. But anyway, I've just been doing nothing. I laid around all weekend. It kind of sucks. It sucks to lay around when you don't want to lay around, but it's awesome to lay around when you can get up and do other stuff. But. Right. I'm gonna live. I just am not really able to leave my house yet. And the doctor was like, if you're taking pain medicine, you can't drive. And I couldn't sleep last night, so I took pain medicine, so I couldn't drive into work. So I'm working from home. There you go.

[Eddie]

Can you drive anyway with that big old foot?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, because of my left foot, I could.

[Eddie]

Oh, yeah, good point.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't drive. I don't have a standard.

[Eddie]

Good point. You're not pushing a clutch.

[Bobby Bones]

So that's the update. Any other questions? Amy?

[Amy]

Yeah, I would just recommend you not be a rebel anymore. It sounds like.

[Bobby Bones]

That's not a question. That's not a question.

[Amy]

Well, it's a statement, because I am shocked. He's like, keep your foot elevated. And you're like, but I was sitting at the bar yesterday and I just.

[Bobby Bones]

Wanted to let my foot hang just for a minute.

[Amy]

I know, but then you said, every.

[Bobby Bones]

Time I go anywhere, I've got to, like, put my. Find something to put my foot in. And so it's annoying. I thought for five minutes, I'll eat something and sit in the chair. Sit in a chair like a normal person. It's killing me, Amy.

[Eddie]

Yesterday, he was like, man, I was at the bar and I put my foot down. Like, what are you doing at a bar?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I was at the bar of my house. My bad. So for all the messages, thank you very much. All the nice get better soons I have. I'm not dying. I know I'm not dying, but I don't think that I'm going to be mobile at all this week when I thought I'd be able to, like, bounce right up on Monday and go right back to it.

[Amy]

Well, so I take it based on this, like, there's no Dancing with the Stars.

[Bobby Bones]

I know. I can't go. The doctor thinks I'll get a blood clot in my leg if I fly. He said that he Said that's a fear. Yeah. To fly as quickly after a surgery.

[Eddie]

Okay, your doctors sound different than lunchbox's doctors.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't care what you do, let me know.

[Eddie]

Not my problem.

[Amy]

Flying could be fun.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. He advised against it because you can get blood clots when you fly and it being right after a surgery. So no, I'm not gonna go. Which kind of sucks because I was looking forward to that.

[Amy]

Yeah, just poor timing. Good for you, prioritizing your body.

[Bobby Bones]

Dude, I can't do anything. Even if I wanted to go, like, I can't. I can't do anything. It sucks. I feel like I'm just trapped in these chairs. I got this humongous blow up pillow that Katelyn got me. So when I sleep, she actually slept upstairs last night. And usually I sleep upstairs because she's been pregnant and can't sleep. But once I. Once I'm in the bed, I can't really get out without help. And she got this big inflatable pillow, and so it stays in the bed and my foot stays jacked up on it the whole night. But I like to sleep on my side. And so I'm trying to roll the pillow like halfway and hold it at an angle. It's a disaster in my house right now, but people have been through a lot worse. That's what I keep telling myself. I don't know how much worse because it feels pretty terrible. But yeah, that's what I have to cancel therapy today because I can't drive.

[Amy]

What about Zoom?

[Bobby Bones]

Also, I can't think. I'm not even thinking in straight sentences. So what good is it gonna do to go to therapy if I can't even think straight?

[Eddie]

Huh?

[Amy]

Good point.

[Bobby Bones]

What never stops you.

[Amy]

No, no, I feel like that's sometimes when I show up with my best work.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. But thank. Thank you for all the messages. You can see the pictures, Mr. Bobby Bones on Instagram. There's a question to be had. Hello, Bobby Bones. My wife and I used to earn about the same. And for years I felt like we were a true team, building our life together. But a little while ago, she got promoted into a management role and she makes quite a bit more than I do. I was proud, really proud. But I'll be honest, over time, it started to mess with me more than I expected. The dynamic between us feels different now. She's more confident, more independent. She's even started taking over areas I used to handle, like our finances. I've always been the responsible one. I save, invest, think long term these days. We just put money into a joint account for bills, and the rest stay separate. On paper, that seems fair, but emotionally, it feels like I've lost my role in the relationship. Any advice on my situation and how to handle my wife making more money than me? Do I just get used to it, or will it always kind of sting a little? Signed, no longer the breadwinner. I'm gonna go first. I'm gonna go quick. This is gonna be a quick cut. Stop being a freaking loser. There you go. Because this was you for a while. Now it's her. So she's not doing anything. You're. You're creating this image of her because you're feeling insecure. So you got to get over your insecurity. This is better for the family. Stop being a loser. It's awesome. That's my whole statement, Amy.

[Amy]

I was gonna say you should be proud of her and want her to be involved. I'm jealous now. I do understand it. Feeling a little weird since your role and what you used to offer it has shifted. So I think y' all discuss that and how it can be more of still a team thing. Like, maybe you really enjoyed certain parts of the finance part of your relationship. You can still be involved even though you make less. And that's not.

[Bobby Bones]

You're not less of a person, bro.

[Amy]

No.

[Bobby Bones]

Stop being so. And that's awesome.

[Amy]

You still have added value. Like, I'm sure you can help around the house.

[Bobby Bones]

My thing is he's also creative. She's so more confident. She's so much more.

[Amy]

You want that?

[Bobby Bones]

Yes. Not only that, she is. I think he's probably creating that in.

[Amy]

His own mind, but I bet she is. It's impatient. It's like she's feeling empowered. Like, it's a. It's like a snowball. Like, she starts to make a little more, then she.

[Bobby Bones]

She's not a villain.

[Amy]

I know, but her being empowered is. Yes. Is not a villain.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Amy]

He needs to be excited and happy for her.

[Bobby Bones]

You're a loser, dude.

[Amy]

And then you.

[Bobby Bones]

Not for not making as much money, for letting this bother you.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

You're the same. Clarifying that you're in a relationship, there are times where you're gonna make more. Now she's making more. It might go back the other way. It doesn't mean that she's now less than you.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

She might hurt her. Get her feelings hurt, though, if she starts making more.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, Eddie, you go.

[Eddie]

I mean, I don't understand why people complain about this. If my wife made a bunch of money and I had to just stay at home.

[Bobby Bones]

And he's not staying at home.

[Amy]

His goals just shift.

[Eddie]

I would quit my job, stay at home. I'd do the dishes, I'd clean the house all day, pick up the kids from school.

[Bobby Bones]

I'd love that.

[Eddie]

If that's what she's good at and I'm better at doing the other thing, I don't see a problem with any of this.

[Bobby Bones]

So what's your advice to him? Let's do this. Let's all give him a piece of advice. What's your advice, Tim?

[Eddie]

Eddie, Chill, dude. Enjoy it. Like, enjoy that. She's making more money than you.

[Bobby Bones]

The.

[Eddie]

The joint account, though I don't understand the. The separate account that they have.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't understand that they have one for bills. And then their relationship. It seems as if they've each had their own individual. I'm not going to money shame anybody for how they handle their money, but.

[Eddie]

I think that would help. That makes it worse if she has more money in her account.

[Bobby Bones]

But he's always had more money in.

[Amy]

Her account because she was making more.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes, but he's always had more money in his. Until this moment.

[Eddie]

Okay, I would just say enjoy it, man. Enjoy it. She's making more money than you.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, here's my advice. Don't be so insecure. She's not doing it to get one over on you. She probably doesn't feel like she's getting anything over on you. She's probably proud of herself and you're going to make her feel less proud and self conscious of this because of how you're reacting. I understand it could be a little shake to the system, but this is awesome. And it may not always be this way. Be supportive. Be proud. She doesn't think less of you. You think less of you. That's where the insecurity comes from.

[Amy]

Yeah. And like where you put your focus, that's what is magnified. And you're putting your focus on this. So you're missing out on the. The part where you're proud of her and you should celebrate her. Now, y' all probably need to have some talks, but my advice is celebrate her. And then you. You move your focus that direction and you won't feel as less than.

[Bobby Bones]

Give him some advice, lunchbox.

[Lunchbox]

Look for a new job, man. If you want to get higher than her, you need to be hiring her to have respect in that household. You need to start applying for jobs that you know the salary is more than she makes. That's the only way we're going to solve this issue. If you want to. Are you. If you're happy not being a man like Eddie is, then, you know, just sit there and be like, oh, I enjoy it. I'm so proud of you. No. Look for a new job or go.

[Eddie]

To your boss, ask for a raise and tell him. Tell your boss, my wife makes more than me, man.

[Lunchbox]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

You think that's cool?

[Lunchbox]

How do I help me? Yeah, you need to help me. I can't go home at night and, you know, have my dignity.

[Amy]

Oh, God. Say something else.

[Bobby Bones]

You see what?

[Eddie]

Don't put your hands up like, oh.

[Amy]

I can't go home and I have my.

[Bobby Bones]

You gotta beep that. Even beep that because it was too close guy. Get over it. She doesn't think less of you. You should not think less of you because you didn't think less of her when she was making less. I understand there's a bit of a role shift, and there may be a bit of a role shift back. Amy, you're dirty. Okay, close it up. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. As seasons change and days grow darker sooner, it can be a tough time for many. This November, Better Help is encouraging everybody to reach out, check in on friends, reconnect with loved ones, and remind the people in your life that you're there. Just as it can take a little courage to send that message or grab coffee with someone you haven't seen in a while. Reaching out for therapy can be difficult, too. But it is worth it. And it almost always leaves people wondering, why didn't I do this sooner? It's easy to forget the holidays aren't filled with joy for everybody. It can bring a sense of sadness. It can trigger some emotions for some people. That's why it's important to remember to be there for your friends, to be there for your loved ones. But when you get the opportunity this holiday season, Better Help. I believe in it. It's super easy. It's convenient. It really does work. BetterHelp therapists work according to a strict code of conduct. They're fully licensed in the US this month. Don't wait to reach out. Whether you're checking in on a friend, you're reaching out to a therapist yourself. BetterHelp makes it easier to take that first step. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at betterhelp.com Bobby B E T T E R H E L P.com Bobby I'm going to assume that everybody messages their friends. I'm also going to assume that Sometimes you run into issues when messaging, especially during group chats. It is really important that my digital messaging is clear. No mistakes. It's also important when I send messages that they send quickly and that I get responses quickly. WhatsApp can help with all that. First you can message privately with everyone in a group even if you're using totally different phones. Sent a message too fast and you regret it? No problem, just edit it. And when the chat gets a little too intense, you can switch to a group video call and actually talk it out. Photos and videos come through clear messages get delivered without gaps or delays. Plus, WhatsApp has so many great features like polls, pinned messages, even event invites with RSVPs. So planning stuff just doesn't turn into a big ol mess. It just makes a lot of sense. It's time for WhatsApp message privately with everyone. All your favorite NBA players are back in DraftKingsportsbook, an official sports betting partner of the NBA is the place to bet on NBA stars this season. New customers bet just five bucks and get three months of NBA League Pass plus score $300 if your bet wins paid in bonus bets. Download the DraftKings sportsbook app. Use the code Bones. Put in the code Bones bet five bucks, get three months of League Pass plus $300 in bonus bets. If your bet wins in partnership with DraftKings, the Crown is yours. Gambling problem call 100 Gambler in New.

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[Amy]

Where it started was on the Kitty chesney tour in 2009 because I was doing more like her, which is like a, again like a deep whatever. I was sitting on a stool on the stage and a beach ball. Someone like did a volleyball spike like with this giant ball and it hit the mic and hit my lip and busted my lip. I was bleeding and I was like I'm done. So I started carrying a knife on stage on the drum riser. So now I have like a pink little razor blade.

[Bobby Bones]

She pops balls on stage. People really don't do them anymore at her shows because that became a thing for a while. She does not do encores for the most part.

[Amy]

I don't do encores. It's weird. Everybody know and you just go off the stage and then you're like Wait, I'll clap louder. And then I'm coming back. And then everybody's leaving to go their car. I'm just like. We just do our show, and then it's over.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, but it's like, bye, y'. All.

[Amy]

I know you've got to get home. My sound guy's Todd, and I'm almost like, todd, roll the bean footage.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes, we're done. Roll that beautiful bean footage. She still geeks out over celebrities. She told us who. She still gets starstruck around.

[Amy]

Every time I'm around Faith Hill, I turn into a complete idiot. And I don't know why, but it's just Faith Hill. And I just. She's so pretty, and she's just awesome.

[Bobby Bones]

And she uses a code name when she checks into hotels and even sometimes at Starbucks. Now, she did not tell us her current name, but she did tell us a retired name that she used.

[Amy]

Pterodactyl. I had to change it because people figured it out. I was terror for, like, 10 years. Pterodactyl.

[Bobby Bones]

They wouldn't laugh at you as a cup. Let me. I would demand an ID if Pterodactyl came in.

[Amy]

Well, I'm sure somebody else checks in for you.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Like, yeah, she had an accident on the highway once where her trailer got detached and was loose on the highway.

[Amy]

One time, my trailer passed me on 40 and flipped, and it was terrifying. It flipped in the fast lane. I had just gotten a guitar signed by Merle Haggard, and that was the only thing in the trailer that got run. There's a hole straight through where he signed. I was flying to do my kerosene video, so this was, like, a long time ago. But that was scary, for sure.

[Bobby Bones]

But the trailer didn't hit anybody.

[Amy]

It didn't hit anybody. And only one thing got ruined out of all the amps and guitars and everything. My Merle Haggard guitar. But he's on another one, so I'm good.

[Bobby Bones]

One final clip here. She says she can go out in Nashville, and for the most part, people leave her alone.

[Amy]

I go to Walmart. I got losers and winners and.

[Bobby Bones]

People don't bother you?

[Amy]

No, not really. I kind of have this, like, R B, F. Yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Resting blank.

[Amy]

I don't mean to, though. I just do my thing and drink Miller Light and hang out with my friends. Okay. But people just are sweet. Nashville's awesome. Nobody cares. I mean, everybody who's anybody, that's my hero lives here, and I see them out. I don't bug them. So.

[Bobby Bones]

Happy birthday, Miranda Lambert. It's Time for the good news with Lunchbox.

[Lunchbox]

There was a cop working security at a mall in Slidell, Louisiana. And he gets the call. We got a shoplifter at Dillard's. Female suspect. And so he goes, responds, sees the female. He starts chasing her. She runs out of the mall, jumps in a car, and the car takes off. He's like, man, I don't have my cop car. And a customer goes, hey, jump in. Jump in. I'll take you. And so they start chasing the suspect, and he starts radioing for backup. Hey, man, we're following the suspect southbound on this street. And they were able to get the shoplifters thanks to the Good Samaritan.

[Bobby Bones]

Feels like a bad idea.

[Amy]

I thought that you're supposed to just, like, you know, if they get away, they get away.

[Bobby Bones]

I think that's for the people that work at the store.

[Amy]

Lost control. What are they called?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, but if some dude just pulls up in his Hemi, and it's like, get in. It's. It's been his lifelong dream to go on a chase. I think maybe we should let that one go. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That is a good story, though, because in the end, nobody was hurt. Right?

[Lunchbox]

Right. And the Good Samaritan is going to get a citizenship award.

[Bobby Bones]

Give him a badge while you're at it.

[Lunchbox]

Why not give him a cop car?

[Bobby Bones]

We've gone zero to 100. Yeah.

[Eddie]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

There you go. That's what it's all about.

[Lunchbox]

That was.

[Bobby Bones]

Tell me something good. Now. Time for a Bobby bump show draft. The category is going to be songs that start with blank letter. Mike has spun the wheel. It is. There you go. Well, it's a fake wheel sound effect. But we've already spun the wheel. What do you have? N in. Okay, Amy goes first. You won the roll back stage the letters in songs that start within 20 seconds.

[Amy]

Okay. Go, Neon Moon.

[Eddie]

Wow, that is so good, Amy.

[Bobby Bones]

So strong. Okay, over to Lunchbox.

[Lunchbox]

Oh, bam. This is a tough one.

[Bobby Bones]

I have the timer going here. You have 10 seconds. No.

[Lunchbox]

I'm gonna go with Night the Lights Went out over Georgia.

[Bobby Bones]

Interesting. I. I believe that song is called that's the Night the Lights Went out in Georgia. We have to look. If so, we might have to poop you on that one.

[Lunchbox]

Well, poop it.

[Bobby Bones]

The Night the Lights Went out in Georgia. Well, but the. Yeah, but he did say it wrong. Does it matter? I think he gets that one. I don't think the. I don't think we enforce it that hard.

[Amy]

No, it's.

[Bobby Bones]

That's the. No, it's the. I think it's just the. It's just the. Oh.

[Eddie]

So but you, you have to write it down the way he said it though, right?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I think that's fair.

[Amy]

So we can pick songs with the.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Because those not a real word.

[Amy]

That's okay.

[Bobby Bones]

I, I.

[Amy]

No, I just. This opens things up.

[Bobby Bones]

Does it? It wildly opens things up for you. There's so many that you didn't do because of the word the. Okay, so officially he has what? Mike. Night the lights went out in Georgia.

[Amy]

Okay, so what about.

[Eddie]

Amy. Stop. Like in playlists. The isn't. It's not. They're not all.

[Bobby Bones]

What about.

[Eddie]

That's not a thing.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, I gotta start the timer over because you gotta talk too much. Hold on. Okay, Morgan.

[Amy]

I think this is how the title is, but never gonna give you up.

[Bobby Bones]

That's a good one, dude. I heard had that good.

[Eddie]

How did she do that?

[Bobby Bones]

That's a good one, Eddie.

[Eddie]

The other only other one I have is nothing but a G thing.

[Bobby Bones]

That's.

[Amy]

That's good.

[Bobby Bones]

That's good.

[Eddie]

No, man.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, I have Cuz I have like 30 seconds but I got to need it for the second song because I already have my first one. Let me think on this one.

[Amy]

Yeah, you're going to be right back around to you.

[Bobby Bones]

Yep, yep, yep. Nah, it only have 16 seconds. N so hard, dude. Okay, five seconds for my first round.

[Amy]

Oh no.

[Bobby Bones]

Three seconds. Two seconds. Okay, my first one's going to be need you now. Oh, that's perfect. By Lady A. Did you have that one?

[Amy]

Yes.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, and then my second one's gonna be because I have 30 seconds again. No, no, man. Nana, nana, nana, boo boo.

[Amy]

Nano, nano.

[Bobby Bones]

No.

[Eddie]

Oh my gosh.

[Bobby Bones]

This is hard, dude. Okay, time. I'm gonna go with Nobody knows it but Me. Tony Rich Project. Nobody knows it but me. Wow.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Eddie]

You pulled that one out of nowhere.

[Bobby Bones]

Wait. Nobody knows it but they said that the night the night's but the days are so. I keep thinking about the days that we had and I miss yeah But Nobody Knows by Tony Rich Project Nobody Knows I'm not getting crap. I just didn't want to get poop. That didn't make sense. I'm not getting crap. I didn't want to get pooped.

[Eddie]

We know what you're saying though. Okay, Eddie, I think this is what it's called. Bruno Mars Bob. Nothing on you. No, no, no. Nothing on you.

[Bobby Bones]

Is that what it's called?

[Eddie]

I don't know.

[Bobby Bones]

It is.

[Eddie]

Oh my gosh. Thank Goodness. No one's gonna know that, though.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, go ahead. Time to start it. Now, Morgan.

[Amy]

I'm saying with the nevers.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm never gonna get it.

[Amy]

No, you're never gonna get it. No, not this time. Never.

[Bobby Bones]

Never gonna get it.

[Eddie]

Never gonna get it.

[Bobby Bones]

But we're struggling. We're struggling. Okay. It's not what it's called. Oh, dang. Is that. She got hit with poop. Okay. Lunchbox. Yep.

[Lunchbox]

Golly. How do we not know any of these?

[Eddie]

Let's speak for yourself.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay.

[Lunchbox]

Sorry, Eddie. You do. I'm sorry. You're right. That's it. You're the only one that seems to be getting these easily.

[Bobby Bones]

Songs to start within. You have 12 seconds left.

[Lunchbox]

Yeah, I got it.

[Bobby Bones]

Go ahead.

[Lunchbox]

Ready?

[Bobby Bones]

Yep.

[Lunchbox]

November rain.

[Bobby Bones]

Great one. Whoa. Maybe the best one.

[Lunchbox]

I don't even know who that. Who what that song is.

[Bobby Bones]

It doesn't matter. It's Guns N Roses.

[Eddie]

Good job, dude.

[Bobby Bones]

Amy.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

Nothing.

[Amy]

Nothing, Nothing compares to you.

[Bobby Bones]

Great one. Nothing compares to you. Is that your answer, Sinead o'? Connor?

[Amy]

Yes.

[Bobby Bones]

That's good. All right, you're up again.

[Amy]

Me again.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, my God.

[Amy]

Naughty.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, boy, here we go. She's like naughty nuts.

[Amy]

Naughty by nature. That's the group, though. Not.

[Bobby Bones]

Can you read me Amy's first two songs? Yes. Neon Moon and Nothing Compares to you. That's a great first two songs. Yeah, but I think even a poop gets you through on the third one.

[Eddie]

So just do that.

[Amy]

10 seconds.

[Eddie]

You need to.

[Amy]

No, no.

[Lunchbox]

Yeah, just do poop.

[Bobby Bones]

Five seconds. Time.

[Amy]

Never.

[Bobby Bones]

What?

[Eddie]

Never. Never.

[Amy]

Never.

[Bobby Bones]

Is there a song called Never Never?

[Eddie]

It's got to be a song.

[Bobby Bones]

Never. Should we put the artists with these songs? Sure.

[Eddie]

Yes. That would help a lot.

[Bobby Bones]

That would help. Mike. What do you see? There are a few songs called Never. Which one, Amy, are you talking about?

[Amy]

I don't know. Tell me.

[Bobby Bones]

Which one am I talking about? Which artist are you referring to? All right. Never by unknown. Okay.

[Amy]

Well, really? But is there anybody popular part Has.

[Bobby Bones]

A song called Never? Okay, let's go with that one. Yep.

[Lunchbox]

All right.

[Bobby Bones]

Lunchbox.

[Lunchbox]

You know why I did it?

[Amy]

Did what?

[Lunchbox]

I did it for the nookie. The nookie, the cookie. Nookie.

[Amy]

Does that start with a K or N?

[Eddie]

Either.

[Bobby Bones]

It's a silent K. And nookie.

[Amy]

Well, there's a sign. K and knuckles.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay. But nookie, there's not. It's in and it's nookie. Okay, Lunchbox. Good one. What's his. What's his. Total team night. The Lights went out in Georgia. November, rain and nookie. I believe he said that's the night the lights went out in that state called Georgia up there yesterday or something like that. All right, Morgan.

[Amy]

I feel like I'm making up song.

[Bobby Bones]

Titles in my head that I don't.

[Amy]

Even know that they exist, but I already honestly have Poop, so, you know, I don't feel super strong about this team.

[Bobby Bones]

What does she have, Mike? She has Never Gonna Give youe Up and Poop. Yeah, Never Gonna Give youe Up was great.

[Amy]

Oh, but that was, like, all I had. And now I keep thinking Never Everything.

[Bobby Bones]

I have two. I have two good ones.

[Amy]

There's lots of Never songs.

[Bobby Bones]

There are five seconds. Yeah, no, he said there were lots of songs called Never.

[Amy]

That's what I mean.

[Bobby Bones]

Randomly.

[Amy]

She could do Never by the other artists. Surely there's a song.

[Bobby Bones]

I. I think there's. Morgan.

[Amy]

Northern Lights.

[Bobby Bones]

What?

[Amy]

Northern Lights.

[Bobby Bones]

Northern Lights. Let's see if there's a song. Now we're playing, like, Scrabble where we put a word in and hope it is weird. Look it up. There is a song called Northern Lights. By who? Teddy Swims. Okay. Nice.

[Eddie]

That works.

[Bobby Bones]

We love that one. Eddie. Dude, I got Timer started again.

[Eddie]

Two to choose from.

[Bobby Bones]

He has nothing but a G thing and nothing on you. Pob.

[Amy]

Bruno Mars, you need another nothing.

[Eddie]

My favorite Beatles song is Nowhere Man. I don't know if anyone knows that.

[Bobby Bones]

Foreign.

[Eddie]

I'm gonna go Nowhere Man.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay.

[Eddie]

By the Beatles.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. We should put the artists up. Okay, so I'm the last one. I have two. And I have two that I. I have that are good. I know the words too. The first one is and I won't tell them your name. Oh, it's called Name by Goo Goo Dolls name.

[Eddie]

That's so good.

[Bobby Bones]

But I have a better one. No Scrubs. Oh, by tlc.

[Amy]

I don't want to know. Scrubs.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

I think I lose this one.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm going with tlc. You don't. You don't poop.

[Eddie]

I don't have poop, but, I mean, I have two unknown names.

[Bobby Bones]

Mike, Water. My. My second one's so weak, though. Yeah. Need you now. Nobody Knows. And no Scrub. Nobody knows about Tony Rich Project. Nobody Knows. That is like, literally nobody knows. I will put all these up. You can vote bobbybones.com vote for our songs that start with in. That was a difficult letter.

[Eddie]

I also had nothing left to lose. Matt Carney. But I don't know if anyone knows that one.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, That's a good one. Okay. Bobbybones.com. go vote. So you went to a basketball game?

[Amy]

Yeah, it was kids playing and, you know, parents in the stand.

[Bobby Bones]

How old were the kids?

[Amy]

Like, 13.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay.

[Amy]

14. 12. Like, at that range.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And there was one player in particular, felt bad for him. We'll call him Larry. Not the best player. Right. So you already feel for him because he. He just, you know, fumbles the ball up. You can tell they're trying to put him in basketball.

[Bobby Bones]

Basketballs. Yeah. Just let it go. It wasn't very good.

[Amy]

I know that football is more fumbling, but I feel like when you mess with the ball and drop it a lot.

[Bobby Bones]

Fair enough.

[Amy]

Double dribble.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay. Okay.

[Amy]

Stuff like that.

[Bobby Bones]

I like how you just came in words. I respect it, but go ahead.

[Amy]

Yeah. Shooting a miss. Like, poor Larry. Well, there was this one dad in the stand, and it's not Larry's dad. He's some other kid's dad. But he would yell at Larry.

[Eddie]

No way.

[Amy]

Not like. Not like, larry, get it together. Not like that. But he'd be like, oh, my gosh, Larry. You know, like, unbelievable Larry. And even sometimes under his breath, like, oh, my God, Larry, get it together.

[Bobby Bones]

And you're sure he wasn't the uncle? The dad?

[Amy]

I know he wasn't because other parents around us were like, oh, gosh, this is awkward. Now, I don't know specifically who Larry's parents were, but even with him mumbling about Larry under his breath, like, what if Larry's family is nearby? Like, it just was awkward. And I just wouldn't, as a parent, gel out the other kid. That's like playing poorly.

[Bobby Bones]

If Larry's dad was an aggressor, I could see Larry's dad going over and punching that dude. Because parents get crazy at those games.

[Amy]

Yeah, they do.

[Bobby Bones]

I can't. If it's not your kid, don't be.

[Eddie]

Yelling unless you know the kid.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, well, I said that. I said.

[Eddie]

I'm saying if Larry's been part of the team for 10 years.

[Bobby Bones]

No, I don't think you can do that. You're embarrassing Larry.

[Eddie]

Oh, really?

[Amy]

Yeah. Poor Larry.

[Bobby Bones]

But Larry's also 12, Eddie. So he was two when they started playing.

[Eddie]

Maybe. Man, they start young these days.

[Amy]

I don't know why I picked the name Larry, but.

[Bobby Bones]

But I don't think there's a kid named Larry.

[Amy]

It. It just. It just was uncomfortable, and I felt bad for the kid, and then I felt awkward for the dad. Like, it just was so weird. Who behaves that way.

[Bobby Bones]

Did you find Larry's dad in the stands.

[Amy]

No, I don't know who Larry's parents were.

[Eddie]

Oh, maybe he took Larry. You know, maybe he's the guardian of the day.

[Bobby Bones]

You're trying to make this right, Cuz.

[Eddie]

I've done it before.

[Bobby Bones]

You've yelled at other kids?

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, like not by name though.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah, I know. Like Henry's been on the team forever, so.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, different names, different name. Big name.

[Eddie]

So if Henry messes up, I'll be like, Henry, come on, dude, let's go. I know Henry. He's been on the team for, you know, eight years, since they were little kids. So there are like maybe three kids in my kids basketball team.

[Amy]

Yeah, but I know, yeah, come on, Henry, let's go. Is very different than. Oh my God.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, so what?

[Amy]

This was a little awkward, a little weird, and I, it stood out to me. I mean, actually even held on to this story for a little bit because.

[Bobby Bones]

You didn't want to put.

[Amy]

I'm not trying to put Larry on blast. Or, or, or Bob. Yeah, yeah, we'll name the dad Bob Arthur.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay then, then let's make a rule. And then any of our listeners who are listening, if they ever get into a situation like this, this is the rule you should follow.

[Amy]

The rule is like, just focus on your own kid.

[Bobby Bones]

Got it. Is that general across all?

[Amy]

I mean, I feel unless you're the coach.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

I find it very uncomfortable. Or you can make sure that Larry's not gonna hear you or Larry's parents are not gonna hear you. Then like, do what you want. Because I mean, I've been at games with my boyfriend before. He's been frustrated with like something another player is doing, but he'll do it in a, like only I can hear him kind of way. Like, oh my God, we gotta get number 12.

[Eddie]

Do you yell, do you yell at his son?

[Amy]

No, positively. But they have, yeah, like I'll cheer. They have a sound that, that they're.

[Bobby Bones]

Let's go, Willard.

[Amy]

No, but there's something my boyfriend does. He goes like. It's some noise of his kids know and they know to listen for it. And it's crazy because that noise would get lost in the mix with me. But every time he does it, no matter what's happening on the court, his son will find him right away and then he like, will give him some hand motion or whatever. But it's like. Do you have that?

[Eddie]

No. That's amazing.

[Amy]

Yeah, no, it's pretty legit.

[Bobby Bones]

Would you get annoyed when you were coaching your kids when other parents would yell down at their kids and tell them what to do, even though you're the coach.

[Eddie]

Well, I. I did get annoyed at first, but then what I would do. Strategically place them on the other side. We're like, they can't hear me anyway. So, hey, if you're gonna tell them, will you sit on that side?

[Bobby Bones]

No.

[Amy]

He's, like, supporting what the coach is doing. He's not trying to, like.

[Bobby Bones]

No, no. But Eddie was different. Eddie was coaching a team.

[Eddie]

Yes. I was the coach, and I wondered.

[Bobby Bones]

If there were parents that were contradicting what you were telling them and their kids, like, listen to the parent and not the coach all the time.

[Eddie]

And even me as a parent, I have to restrain myself from coaching as the parent, not the coach. Because of that, I'll sometimes be like, you know what? Just listen to your coach. Just listen to your coach.

[Bobby Bones]

That's it. That's the move.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Yeah. I'm. I'm not saying my boyfriend's not coaching.

[Bobby Bones]

We can tell what kind of guy he is. Secret sound. Run your own plays.

[Amy]

No, no, no, that's not it. He's not fumble shooting a miss.

[Bobby Bones]

Double dribble, double dribble.

[Amy]

He's not countering the coach. He's more reminding his son to freaking hustle.

[Bobby Bones]

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[Amy]

No, it's my peripheral vision when I'm going really slow.

[Bobby Bones]

So much so her boyfriend won't let her drive his nice car.

[Amy]

Oh, well, it's because of y'.

[Bobby Bones]

All.

[Amy]

I'm convinced y'.

[Bobby Bones]

All.

[Amy]

You hear it enough, you start to believe it.

[Bobby Bones]

No, no, it's not hear it. We have seen you run into things.

[Amy]

Say it enough, and people start to believe it. And here's what happened. I needed to go run an errand, but I didn't have my car. I was at his house, and I was like, oh, well, I'll just take this car. And he's like, why don't you take. He has this old, like, 2004. It's his Tahoe from 2004, and he loves it. He'll never get rid of it, but, yeah, it doesn't. If it gets dinged here and there, it's not a big deal. So he's like, why don't you take the Tahoe? And I was like, what? Like, then it became a thing where I'm like, why do you want me to take the thought? Why can't it. Because he just got a new car this year. I was like, why can't I take that car?

[Bobby Bones]

Did your antennas go up immediately?

[Amy]

Yes, because, I mean, I went with him to pick out the new car.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, and it was just sitting there.

[Amy]

It's just sitting there. He's not using it. It's actually easier to pull out. Like, it. I'm sort of still speechless about it. Like, don't even get me worked up. Has he seen you drive like it was the thing?

[Bobby Bones]

Did he credit the show for giving him that attitude? Because I think she's wanting to blame it on us. Right, but he's just been with her driving.

[Amy]

No, no, he.

[Eddie]

There's no way that he quoted us.

[Amy]

He didn't, but I think you can't blame us. I said, so his kids are in the living room, and they they're like, dad, you're not gonna let. Like. And then I'm like. I look at him and I look at them and. And I'm.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm.

[Amy]

I'm angry, but.

[Eddie]

What did he say?

[Amy]

But the kids are there, so I can't really. Yeah. So I can't really tell him how I feel. But I am just perplexed because he was. At first, I kind of thought he was kidding. And I'm like, I'll stop giving the keys. And he's like. And he gives me the keys, and.

[Bobby Bones]

It'S to the top.

[Amy]

I'm like, okay, cool.

[Eddie]

What did he say?

[Amy]

So guess what. Guess what. I go run the errand in the Tahoe. Which is fine. Like, it has no sensors.

[Bobby Bones]

It's so old.

[Amy]

It has no sensors.

[Bobby Bones]

Tell me that's not so funny.

[Amy]

Cameras.

[Bobby Bones]

But it's not unfair to us, because he did not say. We led him to think that. Amy just doesn't want to believe that somebody independent of us also thinks that she's a bad driver.

[Eddie]

Correct. It's not us, Amy. We've all been in the car with you, and it's been the adventure.

[Amy]

You've been fine.

[Bobby Bones]

But that's not what you should say to somebody after they've been in the car with you.

[Eddie]

You're still alive.

[Bobby Bones]

It's like, you're good. We didn't get in a red. Yes, it can feel dangerous. Also, I would like to say on. In your defense.

[Amy]

Thank you.

[Bobby Bones]

When we did the driving course, we did the test, Amy thrived. It's not, can she do it? It's her ability to focus. She loses it at different points. And when driving, she's hit poles and. And rails and basketball garages.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

She's left it running in the garage for hours at a time.

[Amy]

All true. I think you're right. When. And that is very common for people with adhd. When it's time to shine, you get it done. And that's what.

[Bobby Bones]

I probably lean on ADHD a little bit too much.

[Amy]

No. I'm letting you know that if I was able to hyper focus on that test and do really well, like, I can show up. What do you mean, do I lean on it?

[Bobby Bones]

Well, sometimes it's like something like if.

[Amy]

No, I don't know. I'm not blaming my driving on my adhd. I'm blaming my peripheral vision on that.

[Bobby Bones]

A sock that keeps falling in your. Like, it's my adhd. It's like every.

[Amy]

No, I wouldn't do that. When? Do how often? What? Oh, is this. Another thing we need to talk about. When do you think I. When do you think I lean on my adhd? When it's.

[Bobby Bones]

No, I'm just asking because I would.

[Amy]

I lean, but I don't. Do you think I do?

[Bobby Bones]

I don't know.

[Amy]

You wouldn't say that if you didn't think that there was something.

[Bobby Bones]

We're just doing content. I just.

[Amy]

I actually was sharing a positive about my age.

[Bobby Bones]

Do you think that she uses. Uses it a lot? Yes. Lunchbox. Do you think she used it a lot? Yeah.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

Regarding what?

[Eddie]

We've heard you say it a lot.

[Amy]

That's fair. Regarding.

[Lunchbox]

Calls you out. You're like, oh, sorry, my adhd. I was. I was doodling or.

[Amy]

I forgot that's what happened.

[Lunchbox]

My adhd, you know, whatever the heck it's called. I don't know what you call it, but yeah, you do lean on a lot. Like Eddie. It's real.

[Bobby Bones]

It's real. It's. We're not saying.

[Amy]

So there's.

[Bobby Bones]

That they often.

[Amy]

They often go hand in hand.

[Bobby Bones]

She's Annie. It's a hard knock life for her.

[Amy]

Also, Lunchbox. I forgot my wallet in, like 2008. And we still bring that up.

[Bobby Bones]

He's. We're just using examples. And also, it's not that big of a deal, but it is. It is brought up a lot. Anytime anything doesn't go, like, in a way, you're like, oh, I think it could be because my adhd, that's not.

[Lunchbox]

No, I was actually back to tests in high school. You say, oh, that's why I struggle in high school. Adhd, it is real.

[Bobby Bones]

I feel like that's a real excuse. But. But I see what he's saying.

[Eddie]

That was a long time ago.

[Lunchbox]

And you go back just like the wallet, like.

[Bobby Bones]

But that's one instance versus, like, she was built.

[Amy]

No, when I go back to that, it's because I went through school.

[Bobby Bones]

You guys are crazy.

[Amy]

Diagnosed. I. I wasn't diagnosed with you on this until an adult.

[Eddie]

So do you understand your. Your boyfriend now? Like, a little bit.

[Amy]

Yeah. But can we go back to when I brought up ADHD just now? It was a positive. I was saying. I think I was.

[Bobby Bones]

And I was saying it in a positive way. Thank you for bringing it up again as you do a lot.

[Amy]

Fine. I it up again.

[Eddie]

No, we.

[Bobby Bones]

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's. See, now you're distracted by what we were really talking about.

[Amy]

Okay. I. Yeah. Will ask him his true feelings about my driving and if they are Influenced.

[Eddie]

We just told you. We know he's seen you drive and he doesn't want you to mess his car up.

[Amy]

He actually hasn't seen me drive that much cuz he always drives.

[Bobby Bones]

He bought an old beater just for her to drive, but she doesn't know it. He didn't have one in 2004. He bought that in case she wanted to drive something. Okay, we're rooting for you, though. It's time for the good news producer, Eddie.

[Eddie]

Joel Marsh. He owns Noly's Pizzeria in Omaha, Nebraska. And he decided to do something really cool. He decided to start a program where people can eat for free. No reason. If you need to eat, you can't afford it. You struggle with food insecurities. Whatever, they'll feed you. And last week, they gave over $20,000 worth of free, free food. They had to shut down because the staff was exhausted. They had to restock. But they want to start back up. They have a crowdfunding campaign going on so they can keep doing this.

[Bobby Bones]

I saw a video on Tik Tok where there was a sign, and it was outside by a dumpster. And it was like, hey, if you're eating this food, like, you can come and all. You have to just walk up and say these words and we will give you food. Like, we don't want you to be embarrassed.

[Amy]

And I bet the words are like, not.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

They wouldn't give away that.

[Eddie]

It's not like, America.

[Bobby Bones]

I was digging. It's not. I was digging in the dumpster. Right. It's like, hey, how's your day going? Or something like that.

[Amy]

So I love Peter Pan.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, that's weird, dude.

[Eddie]

If it was, how's your day going? I mean, I'd probably get free food.

[Bobby Bones]

But I don't think it really is. I'm just saying it was something that is. Isn't specific to their needs. Got it. So it's not embarrassing. They used to. They used to make us stand. All the free lunch kids.

[Lunchbox]

Kids.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh. They used to make us stand on a different line in school. It was so. It was so embarrassing.

[Amy]

Yeah, we've evolved. Thank goodness.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. If you're a free lunch, it means you can't afford lunch. So they would stick us in a different line, and so we'd go stand. But there would be times I was like, I can't do it today. So I just wouldn't eat. I was like, I'm not getting big fun of for being the poor kid that can't afford lunch, but I'm glad they don't do that anymore.

[Amy]

Yeah, let's hope.

[Bobby Bones]

Unless that was. Unless that was like a motivation thing, like a driver.

[Amy]

Look at you now.

[Bobby Bones]

Look at me now. Yeah, a good story. That's what it's all about. That was. Tell me something good. Wake up. You wake up in the morning is riding his wigs. Next bit. And Bobby's on the mic. So you know what this is? This is the Bobby V. Now time for the morning corny.

[Lunchbox]

The morning corny.

[Amy]

What is a turkey's favorite dessert?

[Bobby Bones]

What is a turkey's favorite dessert?

[Amy]

Peach gobbler.

[Bobby Bones]

That was the morning corny.

[Amy]

Bobby Bone.

[Bobby Bones]

Show story of the day.

[Lunchbox]

This story comes to us from Syracuse, New York. A 27 year old woman decided, oh, you know, it'd be funny to play a prank on Halloween. I'll post a piece of candy on Facebook and say, guys, check your candy. There's needles in it. And so people start freaking out. Oh my goodness. Police respond to her house because of the post. Turns out she didn't even go trick or treating. She put the needle on the candy herself.

[Bobby Bones]

I would think people would think that was a joke. If the needle was massive. Let's say you put a massive needle into like a very tiny gummy bear. Like, that's funny.

[Eddie]

Funny?

[Bobby Bones]

How is it funny? Like if it's one tiny gummy bear and you put a big needle in it. That's just so absurd that. That would be funny, man.

[Eddie]

I would totally believe that.

[Bobby Bones]

No, you wouldn't. If it was. If it were like just the needle. I'm talking about syringe and needle and everything.

[Eddie]

Oh, okay, that's great.

[Bobby Bones]

That's.

[Eddie]

That's ridiculous.

[Bobby Bones]

If it's a small gummy bear, you put the needle through the syringe coming out of the back and you're like, guys, watch your gummy bears. You never know what's in it.

[Eddie]

Gotcha.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, I need to see the picture. If it's a small needle that you can barely see for sure, but if it's like one of those Blink 182, all the small things, you know, then that's a whole different. That's a joke. Have you seen the picture?

[Lunchbox]

I haven't seen the picture.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, okay. Well then I don't feel like. Let me see. Oh, yeah, that's. That's a needle. That's like the one.

[Eddie]

It's like a sewing.

[Bobby Bones]

That's not the one. That's not funny.

[Eddie]

That's a sewing needle.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay.

[Amy]

So not funny.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, but there was a funny way to do it. She just didn't embrace the joke fully. No. Yeah. No, she literally. It looks like a bag of the hair bows. Yeah.

[Eddie]

Oh, the gummy bears.

[Bobby Bones]

And she put a really small needle in the hair bows. Yeah. That's not good. We almost had a good one. That's not good.

[Lunchbox]

Okay, I'm lunchbox. That's your bonehead story of the day.

[Bobby Bones]

All right. A couple voicemails. Number one, I'm not sure if we ever got an update, but I was curious about when Bobby bought the drone to check out what was above his neighborhood. I don't know if he saved the world, but just. Just curious about that. We did have a drone flying over our house all the time, and so I would do videos of it, and I bought a drone to go and track it. And then it got to be winter, and it got to be cold. I didn't feel like being outside. But the drone doesn't come around anymore.

[Eddie]

You haven't seen it.

[Bobby Bones]

We look. No more drone. So whatever experiment they were in the middle of, they stopped doing or they. Or they completed.

[Amy]

Who's they?

[Bobby Bones]

Who knows?

[Eddie]

Whoever.

[Amy]

Like the city or.

[Bobby Bones]

Or the government or extraterrestrials.

[Eddie]

Or them.

[Bobby Bones]

Could be any of them. I do not know. But there are no more drones.

[Eddie]

The ETs wouldn't have a drone drone.

[Bobby Bones]

It may not have been a drone drone. It may have been, like.

[Amy]

Could have been a little spaceship they live in.

[Bobby Bones]

Exactly.

[Amy]

They could be really tiny and didn't think about that.

[Bobby Bones]

Exactly. And you're stupid for not thinking about that, because that's what everybody thinks about. Right, Right. Also with the drone. I don't know where that drone is. I bought it, and I don't even know where it is.

[Eddie]

I bet that wasn't cheap.

[Bobby Bones]

It wasn't, now that I think about it. Where is that?

[Eddie]

You got to find that thing.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Okay, so there's that. And here's how you know that wasn't a bit. There's no good ending. People were asking me, are you doing a bit? Is this, like, some. If it was a bit, I'd have had a start, a middle, and an end, and we'd have concluded the bit.

[Amy]

I also can confirm it's not a bit, because your wife posted about it, and she doesn't do bits with you.

[Bobby Bones]

She doesn't. She hates doing bits. Bits. Not her favorite thing. All right, next one.

[Lunchbox]

This year's Amazing Race is composed of Big Brother contestants.

[Bobby Bones]

I wonder if he's watching it, keeping.

[Lunchbox]

Track, or if he was even aware of that.

[Bobby Bones]

I'd just like his take on it. Have a good one. I'm assuming he means Lunchbox or possibly Ray.

[Eddie]

You know it's Lunchbox because Ray watches.

[Bobby Bones]

Big Brother more than Lunchbox, but Lunchbox is Amazing Race more. So Lunchbox, you go first. Yeah.

[Lunchbox]

I haven't caught up on Amazing Race yet. I was a little behind some things that I've been trying to catch up on. So Amazing Race is in the portal. It is sitting there waiting to be started. But right now we are binging the challenge, trying to catch up on that Ray anything.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, hopefully they're not choosing people from this year is A lot of them were out of shape. The endurance competitions were pretty bad. So maybe go for if you're going to do a Big Brother, see if they can lift and run and do stuff like that before you pick them. Amazing Race, you don't have to be in great shape, do you? There's sprinting, there's the competitions to see if you can get time off and get to the mat on time. But Lunchbox isn't mostly about physical ability in Amazing Race. Thought it was just like being smart and getting places.

[Lunchbox]

It's a combination of both because there are activities where you have to run or you have to do, like stacking hay bales or. You know what I mean, like put a puzzle together and you got to run from place to place to get the puzzle pieces. So it's different things. It does take a lot of smarts. You don't have to be the most physically gifted to win. But if there's a race to the mat, man, if you're the slow one, you out.

[Bobby Bones]

Did dumb people ever win Amazing Race?

[Lunchbox]

Ooh. Not that I'm not. Not really dumb people.

[Bobby Bones]

No. So intelligence is key in that more than anything else.

[Lunchbox]

Yeah. And knowing how to drive stick because they go overseas. And you'd be shocked how many stupid people go on this show and do not know how to drive a stick shift. Unbelievable.

[Bobby Bones]

Would that be your advice to anyone going on Amazing Race? Learn how to drive stick?

[Lunchbox]

Yes, 100%. Learn how to drive a stick shift because it gives you a leg up when you're in these foreign countries and learn how to read a paper map.

[Bobby Bones]

Here's the thing. I love a leg up. It's one of my favorite things, getting a leg up up. Because once you got that, you're good to go. So that's what I do. All right, we're done. Thank you, guys. Hope everybody gets a good leg up today.

[Eddie]

That sounds so weird.

[Amy]

I don't know how to drive stick. But I mean, I don't know, you.

[Bobby Bones]

Can'T even drive though, legally, so what's the difference?

[Eddie]

And you hit things all the time.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

No, not all the time. Yeah, whatever.

[Bobby Bones]

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[Amy]

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[Bobby Bones]

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