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Bobby Bones
Bobby Bones. A couple controversies from the weekend. We'll go with number one, and I'll start with Dylan Marlo. And Dylan had the song Hidden Boys back Home. Know that song?
Unknown
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So he was playing a festival in Wisconsin, and he was playing, and then I think Jake Owen played and somebody else played after that. It's still daylight, and the TikTok video just shows a massive security guard with a beard, and he's got his hand grabbing Dylan Marlo's shirt and twisting it so that Dylan Marlowe doesn't run away, and he's walking him out of the festival. And I saw it, and I think Dylan's a great dude. And I thought, brilliant, brilliant, brilliant. Because it was going so viral on TikTok, and we're supposed to believe that Dylan Marlo got kicked out of a festival that he played himself. So we were playing golf yesterday, and we texted him, and it was true. It was real. And so then he took the video down because it got so controversial. This security guard looked like a total douchebag because he grabbed another man by the shirt, twisted, and, like, walked him out. Dylan Marlo had just played the show, and they, like, kicked him out of, like, the sound booth area. And so he takes the video down, and then I have his explanation as to what happened here. And this is Dylan Marlowe. Go ahead.
Dylan Marlowe
Just a little quick backstory. Me and Dave were watching Jake set from front of house, just trying to stay out of the way. And front of house was like, this tower. So there's like, second story, first story of the. Of the. The booth. And so we're up top watching, and probably for 10 or 12 minutes, this dude comes up and he says, you know, we can't be there. So we were like, it started off very politely. You know, we're like, hey, we have these. I still have my wristband on. Like, these are all access. So we kind of went back, back and forth of, like, trying to explain to him that we had just played, and we were trying to just watch Jake set, stay out of the way. And he kept telling us, like. Or I asked him where else we could go, then that would be out of the way. And he kept saying, the pit. But if we go in the pit during the middle of the day, it's gonna probably cause a little bit of a scene just because we just got off stage and we're in the same clothes. So last thing I want to do is try to make a scene during Jake Owens set, because that, to me, disrespectful during his set. So after that, there was definitely a few heated words exchanged to that guy. I just. For what I believe in and what I'm trying to, like, get out there, push the message. This isn't like, the message. I'm trying to push for myself or to anybody.
Bobby Bones
And so he's like, you know what? And I went to church, and I thought about it, and I took the video down. But this dude, this security guy, look like a total douchebag. Now, you don't grab another adult man like that, especially one that has every credential. What happened was from this is me taking all my experiences around this type of guy who gets a little bit of power, and then all of a sudden is the balancer of the whole festival. This is what I think happened based on experiences I've seen. The security guy goes, hey, you guys got to get out of there. Dylan goes, we don't, because we have backstage passes. Well, security guy's embarrassed because he just said to one of the artists, you got to get out of there. And also, he's like a big, masculine dude with a big beard. And he's like, I said, get out of there. And Dylan's like, we don't have to get out of here. So the security guard now is gonna like, okay, I'm get you out of here. Even though he knows he's wrong, he still wants to enforce the rule that he said because he's the guy with the power, not the person who's up. And so he grabs him by the shirt, and other people have it up. And you can hear as Jake Owens playing, he's like, Dylan Marlo. As the security guy's walking him out. Dylan wasn't drunk or anything. Seems like that security guy seemed like the biggest douchebag in the world who got a little bit of power and was using it and abusing it.
Amy
Hmm.
Bobby Bones
I wouldn't have taken it down if I was Dylan. I thought it was such a good thing to post. Meaning? I thought it was a bit.
Amy
Oh, that's why you said brilliant.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, it was brilliant. I thought because George Burch, who sings he only listens cowboy songs. I was with him playing golf yesterday, and he was like, you see that Dylan thing on TikTok? And I was like, yeah, brilliant. He goes, man, I wish I was good at that. I said, that was awesome. Like, who knew that would catch on? And so we text him. He's like, no, wasn't it? He goes, and I'm taking it down. And then he posted that after he took it down.
Unknown
Wow. I love that. We said he went to church. Yeah, thought about it. Took it down. I like that.
Bobby Bones
That kind of guy. That security guard. I hate that kind of guy. You got a little bit of power. It's like the guy working outside the club. He's got a little bit of power. Don't let it go to your head.
Amy
Yeah, I wonder what was up with that.
Bobby Bones
He was like a jack dude too, with a big beard, you know?
Amy
Why can't you just say, oh, you've got all your credentials. Cool. Sorry, my bad.
Bobby Bones
He had them all on. He had his wristband on still. Because he was in his bus when he was doing that. Yeah, it's infuriate. Infuriating. Infuriate. In my tooth is still gone.
Unknown
Dude, when are you gonna.
Bobby Bones
My dentist on vacation.
Unknown
Oh, that's right.
Bobby Bones
Infuriating.
Amy
I didn't hear anything.
Bobby Bones
Sometimes, though, this morning we're doing the show Infuriating. I do this, and maybe you don't hear it, but I do hear it.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Okay. That's one controversy. The second one. So Josh Ross has. I guess his song just went number one. He has a song. Single Again. Are you familiar with it, Amy?
Amy
Yes, but I cannot sing it to you right now because all I have in my head is, here's to the boys back home.
Bobby Bones
Okay, fair enough. Single Again. Single again. Whatever. It's number one song this week. So the guy's from Canada. He's a Canadian guy. I don't know him, so I don't know him at all. I don't know him from man on the moon. So I'm gonna say this one. I don't know him from the man on the moon. So Josh Ross gets up on stage, and I understand his sentiment, but he gets up on stage at a festival, and I'm gonna Play you his clip from the festival. It's him. And he grabs an American flag. Go ahead. Fun fact, real quick. I'm Canadian.
Unknown
You wanna know the best? Fun fact is I moved to the.
Bobby Bones
Best in the world.
Unknown
And I love the bear buns.
Bobby Bones
Select bear guns. Come on. Usa. Usa.
Amy
Usa.
Bobby Bones
So I think if he were able to go back and say it again, I think he would say, I'm from Canada. I love Canada. But I really love this country, too. Usa. Because he was like a big deal in Canada and they supported him forever. And now he comes to America and is like, this is my favorite country now. Oh, I'm now my favorite country. America. Usa. We all love America. But you didn't have to piss off your home, too. You literally could have said, you guys know I'm Canadian. But, man, living in America has been awesome. I like to shout out to all you guys, because America rules usa. Instead, he's like, I'm now the greatest country in the world now. We feel that way. But if your home country built you and, like, supported you and made you a star there first, and then you use that to propel yourself to come down here, and then you're like, that country sucks compared to this country. There's just a better way to say that, even if you felt that way. So now. Now that you know he's Canadian, and this was at the Tailgate and Tall Boys Festival in Bloomington, Indiana, and this is just weeks before he's going to perform at Ottawa's Canada Day celebration.
Unknown
You got to get audio from that.
Oh, man.
Bobby Bones
Play it again. Fun fact real quick. I'm Canadian.
Unknown
You want to know the best fun fact is I move to the best in the world.
Bobby Bones
Usa. Usa.
Amy
He went hard.
Bobby Bones
He went too hard. He didn't have to do that. I think America's best country in the world. But you can do both. You can say both. You didn't have to be like, I'm from Canada, but now I live in the best country in the world. Because you got to go back home. Like, I wouldn't be here in Tennessee and be like, you know what? I moved Tennessee, but I'm from Arkansas. But Tennessee is the best frigging state ever. And then go back to Arkansas and feel like they're love me the same. I do have his apology. Would you like to hear his apology?
Unknown
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Because his apology is what made me go check out the real story is what's funny is that I didn't even know this was an issue until I saw his apology. And then on the Bottom of TikTok where it tells you, you know, whatever they're saying. It said Josh Ross on stage, like hating Canada or something like that. Here we go. Here's an apology. Let me turn my phone. Hey, guys. I just wanted to jump on here and address the clip that's been going around from my performance at Tailgate Tall Boys. I'm sorry to anybody who's offended by what I said. Oh, you can't be. I'm sorry to anybody who's offended. That's not a real sorry. You don't have to apologize, by the way. You can just not apologize. I'm not even demanding an apology. I just thought it was kind of awkward. But if you ever go, I'm sorry to anyone who was offended, that means you're not really that sorry. Like, it's me going to my wife being like, eh, I'm sorry that hurt your feelings? No, because I'm sorry that hurt her feelings. I'm not sorry for what I did. There's no remorse for what I did. I'm sorry for how you took it is what that's saying. I'm grateful. I get to tour all over the world and I feel like I'm always representing Canada no matter where I go. Born and raised in Canada, but have been living in Nashville for the last five plus years. Half my family lives in Canada, the other half is here in the US And I'm as proud of establishing myself in the US As I am being Canadian. Both sides were not communicated in the clip that you guys are seeing, and I'm sorry that that wasn't clear. Both sides were not communicated in the clip you were seeing.
Amy
So did he say more at the festival? Like, don't it? Did he? Is there a clipper? He's like, can it out.
Bobby Bones
I just want to do this apology for him. This is what he should have done. First of all, if you don't want to apologize, don't apologize. Who cares? Like, this is going to go away in five seconds anyway. This is not real life. It doesn't matter. But if you're going to apologize, this is how you do it. Hey, Josh Ross here. I got up on stage and I was like, I'm from Canada, but this is the best country ever. First of all, America is awesome. It is an awesome country. But also, I didn't mean to disrespect my home. I was just saying crap up on stage. I got caught up in the moment. I love Canada and I love my new home in the United States. So sorry about that that's the apology.
Unknown
Because honestly, I was thinking that, like, did he just get caught up in the moment and start pandering to the crowd? Because they're all, yeah, absolutely.
Bobby Bones
That could have been it. That's what I thought too, because he's like pumped and the crowd's yelling. He's just getting his first number one. That's why that apology, if you're going to do one. And I don't think everybody needs an apology for everything. It needs to be different. It needs to be like, I just got caught up. Yeah, I love, love it here, usa. But also, I didn't mean to say that about Canada. I didn't mean. That came out wrong. Obviously, I love home. So first of all, I'm not apologizing. If I'm him, it's going to go away.
Amy
Yeah, you draw more attention to it. Like, for example, you wouldn't have even. You hadn't seen the stage one yet that drew you to the skate. Stage one.
Bobby Bones
So I don't think he meant what he said. I think he just got caught up. But his. If you were offended, I'm sorry. That's not you saying you're sorry for what you did. That's, I'm sorry that you took it in a way that was offensive to you.
Amy
Right.
Bobby Bones
Hilarious. Also, this isn't. This is nothing. This is nothing. Nobody cares. Not in the bad way or good way, but if I were him, my advice would be don't get wrapped up in it, move on. Because everybody's gonna forget about it in six hours anyway. And if you feel like apologizing for real, apologize for real. If you don't, move on, who cares? It doesn't matter. Everything's irrelevant.
Amy
Like, I'm trying to think of my favorite artists at the time were to go to Canada and be like, you know, fun fact, I'm from America, but.
Bobby Bones
They have to be living in Canada.
Amy
I know another fun fact. I moved to the greatest beep beep country ever. Canada. Canada. I don't know that I'm be like, well, I'm never listening to their music again.
Bobby Bones
But are they playing Amy Fest next week?
Amy
True, true. He's gonna come back. I guess. I don't know. I'm just saying there's just a lot.
Bobby Bones
Of crap happening in the world that matters. This doesn't matter. I think he got caught up. I don't think he loves America more than Canada. I think Canada's home and he loves America now. He's having success here. Let the guy live. But if you're going to apologize. Just generally speaking, if you're going to apologize, really apologize or just don't. I don't give a crap either way. Because there's stuff that I do sometimes I'm like, ah, I'm kind of sorry about that, but not enough so then I don't. Because nobody cares. You're just going to relight the switch sometimes, but the apology is. Oh, I got caught up. Sorry about that. I don't actually mean that. That's it. It's five seconds long.
Amy
My bad.
Unknown
Yeah, that's on me. Yeah, it's on me.
Bobby Bones
Big Dog here takes that one. Yeah, Big Dog takes the L. This.
Amy
Is the me problem.
Bobby Bones
Love them both. He needs to apologize for his apology now. That's the thing now he needs to apologize for his apology.
Amy
To anyone that's offended by his apology.
Bobby Bones
He should apologize for his apology.
Unknown
That's funny.
Bobby Bones
IMAX's the Odyssey. The tickets sell out in about an hour. A year before its release, the Odyssey. And now tickets are selling for $400. What? And so the person who's doing the. The Odyssey, Homer. Yeah, the Iliad, you're familiar with that. Did you have to read them story? Yeah, I don't know what it's about, but Christopher Nolan's doing the movie. Christopher Nolan of the Dark Knight? Christopher Nolan of the dream movie Inception.
Mike
Yeah, Interstellar.
Bobby Bones
Oh, Interstellar.
Mike
Oppenheimer.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. The Odyssey is set for release. Tickets to the IMAX version of the film went on sale. Sold out quickly. Nolan's version of the classic Greek myth starring Matt Damon as the eternal hero Odysseus is being shot entirely on IMAX film cameras. A first for a commercial feature. Within an hour of going on sale, 95% of seats were snapped up. Now they're showing up on third party resellers for as much as 400 bucks. What do you think, Mike?
Mike
Yeah, I tried to get one. They're sold out. But it's only one showtime right now. And the reason it's so like interesting is because Oppenheimer was only filmed like 25% in IMAX. So the entire time. This movie is going to be huge, like in Oppenheimer, only like the bomb scene was an imax, like fully imax. So this is the whole movie. All big. Entire time was F1 filmed IMAX, not the whole thing like IMAX. Film is like the best quality you can get. There's only like 20 theaters in the world that you can go see like that. Oddly enough, one's right here downtown.
Bobby Bones
The last time I went to an IMAX movie, was the Old Museum in Austin. Not old, but the museum in Austin. The Bob Bullock Museum.
Unknown
Yeah, the Texas. Texas History Museum.
Bobby Bones
Bob, is it Bob Olik? Yeah, Texas Museum. We go into the museum and they had a humongous IMAX the year. And I like watched a movie there, but I haven't been to imax.
Mike
And the one you watch probably like shorter, right? Because whenever, like those big IMAX movies where you're like, oh, you're immersed, completely undersea, it's usually like 10 minutes because it's so expensive to film like that.
Bobby Bones
Oh, I didn't know that. So you're telling me the movie wasn't all big screen? It was mostly big screen with like pops of it.
Mike
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Would they ever show though the movie just on an IMAX screen and make it massive?
Mike
Sometimes they stretch it. But if you watch it, if you watch certain movies, you'll see it go different ratios. You'll see it go like kind of widescreen, then kind of full and go kind of back. But for this time, it's the entire screen the whole time.
Unknown
So the sale, the tickets that were sold is probably just like the first week or something. Or the first showing.
Mike
First showing, like 1pm when it comes.
Bobby Bones
To PR for the movie, what I would have done is bought all the tickets for the first showing when I put them out if I'm the movie company, and then go, they're all sold out and then get the new story.
Unknown
But then who goes to it?
Bobby Bones
No, it doesn't matter. It's the first showing. Who gives a crap? But you.
Unknown
No one shows up because you bought them.
Bobby Bones
No, they'll end up being able to be sold back. Okay, yeah, but you do this and you buy, buy them all so you can have the news story of they're all bought. Yeah, it's like there are bands at times. If they know like an A R person is going to come and watch them, they will sell out their entire arena and then pay people to come as extras because you can hire extras through companies and then an AR person gets there and sees the crowd so hype and like, oh my God. It's harder to do it now because that's been something that has been now discovered that people do.
Amy
Do the people that are, I guess, filling the seats, if they're being hired to be there, do they. Are they allowed to say that at any point?
Bobby Bones
I don't think you really talk.
Amy
I guess it doesn't really matter. I guess it just like, oh, hey.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but who Are you gonna tell that's gonna be affected by. Cause the whole room is full of either ticket buyers or those people. And then like an A and R person. And it's not like they're gonna go up to that one A and R person and be like, we bought tickets here.
Amy
I don't know. I was just thinking, people make videos on TikTok and be like, hey, I went to this. It was totally full, looked, sold out. But guess what? Half of us are paid people to be there.
Unknown
Oh.
Bobby Bones
I think the bands end up doing that because they. The only way I know about it are bands telling the story about how they did that.
Amy
Oh, okay.
Bobby Bones
In order. So I don. But the bands are like, yeah, we paid for a room to be filled, and we knew there were people coming to watch us, like a showcase. And so we paid. It looked like people were buying a bunch of tickets, but that's happened even in the 90s. Artists used to go and buy all their albums from stores regionally to show sales. It was kind of an investment. So they go and buy a bunch of CDs at the best Buy. And that town that Best Buy would report, man, I think 3 Doors down did this. We sold out at 3 Doors Down CDs. And so people will be like, dang, 3 Doors down is really selling well in this market. They should be played on the radio. Even though they don't have a record deal, they get played on the radio. Next thing you know, like, it's all an investment up and gaming the system, but in a legal way. And I'm all for gaming the system, but you know what? All those times I've gamed the system, I'd like to apologize for everybody that's been offended by it.
Unknown
I'm sorry you offended them.
Bobby Bones
That CEO from the Coldplay Kiss Cam did resign. This happened on Friday. Wow. And so my thought is they made him resign, but I don't think somebody's personal life that's not illegal should affect their job.
Amy
I wonder if it was because she was in the company. Are they allowed to date? Is CEO allowed to date hr?
Bobby Bones
They never said they weren't. So they never said. It's the divorce and the embarrassing part of it, from what I read, because I thought the same thing. Maybe there was a rule that said you couldn't date in the office. I never saw that. And I looked at three or four different articles. The company issued a statement emphasizing its commitment to accountability and confirmed the co founder, Pete DeJoy will serve as interim CEO during the search for A permanent replacement. Our leaders are expected to set the standard. Astronomers said they did not meet those expectations. See, it never says anything about company handbook guidelines in a company handbook. My assumption would be the board got together, they were humiliated because the name of the company was out there and said, you must resign. I think if you're not doing anything illegal, I don't think that should really affect your work. If you're good at your job. Unless you have a front facing job. Meaning if you're like us, for example, we can embarrass our company because people know who we are. People don't know that. Dude.
Amy
Yeah, we're a CEO. Astronomer.
Bobby Bones
I didn't know what it was when they said astronomer. I literally thought he was an astronomer for like the first six hours.
Amy
Same. I was like, wow.
Bobby Bones
I was like, what a gig. Yeah, guys just astronomering away.
Unknown
But now we know that astronomer is a tech guy company because of that.
Bobby Bones
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Hi everyone, it's Janae aka Cheekies from Cheekies and Chill Podcast and I'm launching an all new mini Podcast series called Sincerely Janae. Sure, I'm a singer, author, businesswoman, and podcaster, but at the end of the day, I am human, and that's why I'm sharing my ups and downs with you guys. Hi, guys. I was sitting here recording episodes of Dear Cheekies and Cheekies and Chill, and I just had to take a time out and purge my thoughts and feelings here on Sincerely Janae because I've been so emotional lately, you guys. Whether I'm in my feels, I've just had a breakthrough with my therapist, or I've just had a really deep conversation with my siblings, or I'm in glam getting ready for an award show, I'm sharing my most intimate thoughts with you on the podcast. You guys know I always keep it real with you guys, but this time, I'm taking it to the next level. Listen to Cheekies and chill on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Bobby Bones
Yes. And now a segment that's so Amy. She has her own theme song.
Unknown
Hit it.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Amy
Okay, here are seven things that neuroscience says we should be telling ourselves every day to live our best lives.
Bobby Bones
Let's see if I tell myself anything like this. Number seven.
Amy
Today is a new opportunity.
Bobby Bones
When do I say that? Like, when I wake up?
Amy
I mean, sure, when you wake up, or if you're facing a challenge or the day before was a kind of a struggle day. Like, you'd be like, today's a new opportunity. What this does is it activates our brain's hope and goal motivation circuits.
Bobby Bones
Mostly, when I wake up, I do this. Oh, that's all. Oh, God, you're waking up. All right, next one.
Amy
My presence matters.
Bobby Bones
I kind of feel like my presence doesn't matter.
Amy
See, you need not tell yourself that you need.
Bobby Bones
I need not.
Amy
You need not. You.
Bobby Bones
Hark.
Unknown
Though.
Bobby Bones
This was like the Billy Goat Gruff. Like, you shall not cross the bridge.
Amy
Okay, then you. You definitely need to say my presence matters over and over and over, because you need to rewire that.
Bobby Bones
Okay, number five.
Amy
My thoughts are not facts. This helps with emotional regulation because a lot of times our thoughts get in the driver's seat, and really, our thoughts should be in the passenger seat.
Bobby Bones
What? Should be in the driver's seat.
Amy
Like you.
Bobby Bones
Exactly. Was this a waymo.
Amy
No. I know. Well, more of your rational brain. Like, sometimes if you get too emotional or you lead with your exact feeling in that moment or emotion and you don't pause, like, that part of you that pauses, that's in the driver's Seat. I don't know what we call that part.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I don't have any emotion like that. I'm never led by emotion.
Amy
Do you think sometimes you are when you give, like, silent treatment?
Bobby Bones
No, I think I understand. I can get more done if I just shut that valve off.
Amy
See, but that sounds like that sound. That's, like, a thing you. That's your survival mode.
Bobby Bones
No. Okay. Yeah.
Unknown
There's a standoff going on here.
Amy
I thought this was Amy all the time.
Bobby Bones
Oh, yeah, yeah, sorry. Okay, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead.
Amy
Okay. Another thing you should say to yourself to live your best life is mistakes are how I grow.
Bobby Bones
I feel like you have to say that after you make mistakes to kind of justify the mistake. Right, sure.
Amy
I mean, you've said something similar. I mean, you have a whole book about it. Fail until you don't. Like, your failures are part of your growth.
Bobby Bones
I feel like having that mindset is good if you have it pre. If you're always making it after. I feel like it's an excuse. So as long as you go into it with that mindset, like, look, I'll screw it. This is gonna. I'm taking on something big, and for me to get better at it, there's going to be some times that I go backwards. Sometimes that it doesn't work out. Sometimes that I just gain a little when I want to gain a lot of. I feel like, though, every time I. If I were to crash out, I'd be like, well, you know what? Crashes are just part of it. I felt like I would know I was making excuses for myself. Does that make sense?
Amy
Yeah, it makes sense, but it also makes sense that you could remind yourself, mistakes are how I grow and, like, have a growth mindset. So, like, the. The little asterisk, there would be, like, I'm saying this, but I'm not using it as an excuse. I'm using it so that I don't get stuck in this failure. And then I'll continue trying to.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. The problem is, then I'd go double asterisk. That's probably an excuse that I just did that. I'd probably put a second asterisk on there.
Amy
Okay, what about this next one? Do you ever say to yourself, I am enough?
Bobby Bones
No, I feel like I'm never enough, actually.
Amy
Okay, all right.
Bobby Bones
You asked me the question.
Amy
I know, but let's focus on that one.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Amy
This one. This one is what you also need to say, because this will help you with the other ones. I can change my brain.
Bobby Bones
I do believe that.
Amy
Okay, good, good, good. So you know that you could be enough. You know that you could be enough. And you could know that your presence matters.
Bobby Bones
I don't think anything matters is the problem. Right, but it's not just my presence. But this world's gonna come and go and a million years are gonna go by, and nobody's. Heck, 300 years are gonna buy. Nobody's gonna bring anything we ever did.
Amy
That sounds like an excuse to me.
Bobby Bones
No, no, no. I just feel like we put too much value in things that don't matter. And really, the things that matter are either the things that are super important, like, close to us, intimate to us. We value things that don't matter at all. Like, so much so when in reality, nothing matters. That's how I feel.
Amy
Nothing matters.
Bobby Bones
And that. That should give you the courage and the strength to go and do whatever you want and try whatever you want, because nothing matters. So have at it. Go get it. That should give you all the confidence in the world. Since nothing matters. It doesn't matter if you screw up. Just attack.
Amy
Were you talking about, like, new things people are trying. You're not talking about relationships?
Bobby Bones
I'm talking about. I feel like nothing matters so much that you shouldn't be. You shouldn't be ashamed if it doesn't work.
Amy
Right. Okay. But it's good to know you believe in neuroplasticity, because that is what is happening with I can change my brain.
Bobby Bones
Are we still on that one?
Amy
Well, yeah, we're moving to the final one.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Amy
I am safe right now.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. No chance.
Amy
Do you ever feel safe?
Bobby Bones
When I put my head under the pillow and put the pillow where I can't see any light. Sometimes I feel safe.
Amy
Okay, well, you can tell yourself that. You can tell.
Bobby Bones
But then I know my body's still vulnerable to an attacker, even though my head has a pillow over it.
Unknown
But, like, right now, we're all here. We'll protect you.
Amy
Like, be like, I'm. I'm safe.
Bobby Bones
Protect me. I will beat all you guys up. If a murderer came in, I wouldn't. None of you guys would.
Unknown
But if the murderer is trying to kill you, not us, you don't think.
Bobby Bones
You guys would run like. Yeah, right. You guys will run like little Tinkerbells.
Unknown
We want you to feel safe.
Bobby Bones
No, no, no, no. Okay, I feel you.
Amy
I don't think this statement alone, it calms your amygdala and it activates your parasympathetic. Parasympathetic nervous system. And that is exactly what you need in these moments, like Bobbi, when you're feeling like shutting down or doing different things, like you're. You're being reactionary but in your own safe way, it doesn't mean that you can't grow out of that. Like, I do think that you.
Bobby Bones
I don't want to grow out of it.
Amy
You don't want to grow out of, like, silent treatment?
Bobby Bones
No.
Amy
Huh. Okay.
Bobby Bones
Why would I. I can grow out anything I want to grow out of because I think my. My brain can change. But I. I have tools and weapons to do things at a high level, and I think I can block things out that are getting. That are.
Amy
That's interesting. You call it weapons.
Bobby Bones
Tools and weapons. Both.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. And especially if there are other people attached to me and I need to eliminate something for the greater sake of everyone involved. No problem. I can cut anything for the greater, greater good.
Amy
Huh. Okay. I'm going to tell myself I am safe right now. I am safe right now. My presence matters.
Bobby Bones
Are we ever really safe? Think about, if somebody really wanted to murder you, they'd get in your house right now. You. No problem.
Unknown
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So I don't feel like there's ever real safety either.
Unknown
I mean, Lunchbox got me with a water gun. Like, I didn't even see him coming.
Bobby Bones
There's. There is. There's never real safety unless you're in a bunker. But then you know what's going to get you? Cancer.
Unknown
Yeah. Or lack of oxygen.
Bobby Bones
Yes. That there's never a real safety. I don't believe in safety really. But you.
Unknown
The feeling of safe is what she's talking about. I think also feeling of being safe.
Amy
But I. I also think that this isn't referring to murders and robberies alone. Like, it's also referring to. Some people just don't feel even safe being vulnerable and opening up to other people and even feeling safe with their partner. And I don't mean, like physically or any type of abuse, obviously. That's a totally different thing. But just feeling safe to be themselves and not have this guard up and use weapons that they've.
Bobby Bones
Oh, I think that's different then, because I wasn't talking about that. I'm talking about just general safety.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I don't feel safe from. From death, period.
Amy
Yeah. I. I don't ever think that this is a. A mantra that you say for a murderer.
Bobby Bones
No one feels safe.
Amy
You can't change. Like, it's literally for, like, do you feel safe with people?
Bobby Bones
I feel safe with my wife.
Amy
Okay. That's great.
Bobby Bones
You and it's why I don't fart on her.
Unknown
Because you feel safe?
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Unknown
Around her.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, Because I feel so safe. I won't fart on her because I know I don't even like that.
Unknown
Is your fart a weapon?
Bobby Bones
It could be. Like, I feel so safe that I don't need to prove how safe I am. And I will respectfully not fart on her.
Amy
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Amy
Well, there you go. Seven things neuroscience says you could tell yourself daily to live your best life.
Bobby Bones
That's a lot of saying stuff back, though. In the morning. What if we just. What? I'm just gonna work on one of those.
Unknown
Which one?
Bobby Bones
I will not be murdered. Is that I'm supposed to say in the morning, wake up and go, I will not be murdered today? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I'm not a big believer. And you could ever be. Think about if the gut. What's hilarious to me are these people who are like. And again, I have guns, but, like, I gotta get my guns in case the government turns on us, bro, we got you. We got bees in Japan that can now go in your house and be freaking cameras and drones. They're the size of birds that can blow you up. Like, there is no safety. There is a. The false thought that I'm physically safe. Yeah, right. Get in your little bunker, hide out, and then. You know what gets you? Lupus. Oh.
Amy
Oh.
Unknown
Every time.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. All of a sudden, your autoimmune starts ripping on you. That's right. Amy, thank you for that. That's a really uplifting segment we just did there.
Amy
You're welcome.
Bobby Bones
Apparently, physical appearance doesn't matter as much to daters as much as financial stability. Now, this whole thing was the New York Post. So basically it's. They don't care how good you look as long as you have some money. Amy, your thoughts on that just surface wise?
Amy
I think there has to be. We talk about this all the time. Like there has to be some sort of physical attraction. There also is attraction in safety. If you don't have your own money for whatever reason, but you gotta be physically attracted.
Bobby Bones
Did you see the guy who got on Tinder and he swiped like a million times and got one date and they. He tells the story, no one would match with him. And he's not like super ugly. He's not ugly at all. He's just a normal dude. He's even got a fish in one of his pictures.
Unknown
Oh, that's cool.
Bobby Bones
And women like that. I thought he just looks like a normal dude. Must look. Little goatee. You know, probably 10 or 15 pounds overweight, like normal, not that tall. Probably five' seven or five' eight. And he's like, I had to swipe almost a million times. He said I matched with occasional people, but they never. They always stood me up. And he finally got one date. That's him right there. Look.
Unknown
Oh, normal looking dude.
Bobby Bones
Hayden is his name. 26 years old. Oh, swipe forever. One date. I need to look at his page, though. He probably didn't have the right stuff up on his page. So. According to a new survey of 2000 Gen Z and millennial Americans, daters say several traits are more important than physical appearance. What traits are more important than physical appearance? Financial stability is one of them. They put that ahead of looks. What else you got there, Amy?
Amy
Kindness, compassion. Good communicator, empathetic.
Bobby Bones
Wow. How do you know all that, though? At the beginning, I guess, would be my question.
Amy
Well, I guess that those are all traits you need to get to know. So, like, are these traits on paper that you don't. Can't verify? Is that what we're looking for? Because traits on paper might be just like. I mean, success can look a lot of different ways. It's not just financial, but it's like, are they motivated? Are they hard working? Do they have a good work ethic? Do they care about family?
Bobby Bones
I feel like this whole thing is about how it's very. It feels very female. Dudes just want a hot chick, and then they work backward. Like, it starts there. Like, what's the hottest chick I can get? And then I'll figure everything else out after because we are cavemen. Women, I feel like, want other things first. It's great if they also look hot. And there has to be something there. They don't want to vomit while they're making out with you, but there's got to be something there.
Amy
Like, we want sense of humor.
Bobby Bones
We want, like, we want all that too, guys. But that's after the fact that she's.
Unknown
Got to be hot first.
Bobby Bones
And I'm talking about guys. Just general, across the board, guys.
Unknown
And then you got to make sure she's not like, yeah, crazy, crazy.
Bobby Bones
She can only be as crazy right one notch below how hot she is. Like, the hot has still got to be a little above the crazy.
Amy
Yeah, y' all have that whole crazy hot matrix.
Bobby Bones
They put a potential partner's kindness and emotional maturity up there, as well as financial stability ahead of looks. This has got to be just women getting pulled.
Unknown
If you're doing a dating app, profile can you write kind. Everything Amy said.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I don't know that I'd believe that if someone wrote all of that. Let me prove my emotional maturity to you.
Unknown
Love, family.
Amy
Eddie, I thought you were saying, like, can you put that. That's what you're seeking, but. Yeah, it would be kind of weird if that's what you put. What you are, you're like, the guy that.
Unknown
Like, the guy that couldn't get any matches. Like, could he write, like, kind?
Bobby Bones
I promise I'm kind. Amy, have you ever dated a guy? An ugly guy? What? Have you ever dated an ugly guy?
Amy
Well, not to me. And not. Not ugly to me.
Unknown
I. I know, but where you thought, like, where you were just like, he's not really that good looking.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. You're like, I physically doesn't do it, but other traits are there, and I want to give that a shot to see if I find him more attractive then.
Amy
I don't. No.
Bobby Bones
I feel like her computer, like, it's that wheel spinning right now.
Unknown
I think there's someone in mind.
Bobby Bones
The Wheel of death is frozen on her computer. She can't get to the next place.
Amy
I will say this. Like, I did go on a. A hinge date, but. And I knew within the first five minutes that it. His pictures looked very different than he did in person and that it wasn't gonna work. But I don't know if it's just because his pictures were so deceiving and I'm like, what the. Or if, like, he was also shorter than I thought, and then, I don't know, just our personalities weren't really clicking. But which came first there? Because, like, would I have liked his personality more if I'd walked in and it matched more of what he presented online? Do you know what I mean?
Bobby Bones
Would he have been able to be so funny and kind to talk you out of thinking he was ugly?
Amy
I don't. I don't want to use the word ugly, but I don't know that it would have. I would have. I don't think we would have made it to that point. I mean, he would have to, like, that stuff would have had to present quick.
Bobby Bones
So he needed to be hot.
Amy
Yeah. Because I think our day ended up lasting about 45 minutes.
Bobby Bones
Whoa. You stayed 45 minutes?
Amy
What am I supposed to do? Leave? But I had. I had a work event to go to. I. I lined finger quotes.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, you read it.
Amy
This is what I would do. Because I hated getting ready. And so if I was gonna go do anything, I would always schedule something when I had something else because I'd be getting ready anyways. So boom. It takes care of having to get ready more than you want to. And then also you have an out in case you need it. So in this case, it was a win win for me.
Bobby Bones
Did he hit you up like, hey, do you think I'm ugly?
Amy
He did hit me up asking me out again. No, he didn't say, you're a yoga. He. He's like, hey, I had a great time. I'd love to go out again. And I replied with a very mature. I think I even shared with y' all my response. Like, I tried to give a very, like, thoughtful ran up by friends because I hadn't, I hadn't had been in this situation before where I was sort of saying, no, I would not like to go out again over text. And I wanted to be very mature and transparent. So I, I said that. And he never replied back. Didn't even double tap it with a thumbs up or a heart.
Bobby Bones
Why would he?
Amy
He just got cut off trying to be mature. Well, that's fine. Okay. If he wants.
Bobby Bones
It's not fine. Listen to how you still get.
Amy
No, because I'm not done with the story.
Bobby Bones
You're still a little triggered about it.
Amy
No, no, I'm not. I'm letting you know that he didn't reply, which I was like, okay, that's fine. But then six or seven months later, he replied, okay, that's cool.
Bobby Bones
Oh, you know what I think that was? That was a, hey, I'm just going to reappear in case you have reconsidered.
Amy
Oh, well, I just didn't. And then I didn't reply to that because I'm like, what? Why?
Unknown
That's a long time.
Amy
I know. It was very bizarre.
Bobby Bones
He was still thinking about her, I would imagine. I'm going to play the scenario in my head. Either she came across something on a social media page, he heard her on the radio, or something made him think of her and then thought, huh, Let me reply and say, got it. To see if she has reconsidered because it gives her an opening to come back if she wants to. Mm, that would be.
Unknown
Did he know you were on the radio, Amy?
Amy
Yeah, well, I didn't think he did.
Bobby Bones
But those are the worst.
Amy
I had those, Then I did. Then I could. Then I did.
Bobby Bones
You know he lied about it.
Amy
I don't know that he lied about it.
Bobby Bones
Wasn't your hinge picture like you in front of microphone, like, hey, not at all. I mean, logo in the Background. It was really weird.
Amy
No. And I didn't even list my profession anything. Like, I didn't say media. I didn't say entertain. I just, like, literally left that part blank. So there was nothing. But I was able to. Yeah. Figure some stuff out. So that's fine.
Bobby Bones
How you gonna brush over that?
Amy
What do you mean?
Bobby Bones
I just able to figure some stuff out.
Amy
I can't remember exactly what it was. But you know Bobby, you know, like you said, I've been there. Like, it's just you. You're like, oh, okay. I can't remember exactly what detail led me to know that he knew. And if I really, really were to think about it, I think it had something to do with you.
Bobby Bones
Oh. Like, Bobby, can I used to date him? What's Bobby really like? Is that what he asked you?
Amy
I feel like it had to do with Arkansas.
Bobby Bones
Oh, man.
Amy
Like sports.
Bobby Bones
But everybody's grunting. We don't know even what that means. No, no. I kind of like him now. I'm standing up for him. I'm like, no, I think he's a great dude.
Amy
Poppy's like, wait a second. Razorbacks. So there's that. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So you found out that he wasn't being honest of what he already knew about you.
Amy
Yeah, but that part didn't. I was already not interested, so it was okay. I just was like, oh. And I. I didn't. I didn't make it a big deal, like, oh, you listen, or, you know who we are. I just was like, oh, interesting.
Bobby Bones
It's not even that, because I think that's fine. It's.
Amy
Yeah. I don't. That is.
Bobby Bones
They're not being honest about it.
Amy
Right. Because my. My current boyfriend, like, he listened to the show.
Bobby Bones
You can have another boyfriend after him.
Amy
Maybe, because this one's current.
Bobby Bones
My current boyfriend.
Amy
I haven't had any other since.
Bobby Bones
Have you guys seen that Tick tock trend? Because it's a current wife thing. What you do is you. The husband's doing a thing to camera, and their wife's in, and he's like. And look, this is me. It's my current wife. And then they just keep going. That's what it reminded me of when Amy said that. Yeah. So.
Amy
Yeah. So it doesn't matter that he was a listener. I think it's just there was a lot of things that were just little, like, okay, this is not gonna work. So we never. We hang out for like 45 minutes and I never saw him again.
Bobby Bones
Well, thank you for sharing that with us, Amy.
Amy
You're Welcome.
Bobby Bones
Eddie. What's happening?
Unknown
My wife texted me this morning and said that the neighbors started working on their roof at 6:30 in the morning. She's like, it woke the whole family up. Like, I guess they're getting their roof redone and they got five workers out there, bump, bump, bump, bump, and talking. Like, here, throw the shingles over here.
Bobby Bones
Oh, that is loud. The talking's. Yeah, that stinks.
Unknown
At 6:30 in the morning on a weekday. That's crazy.
Bobby Bones
What's the rule?
Amy
Gosh, it's summer and it's so hot. I could see why they want to start working early. And it's. It's just a couple of days. Like that's how long it takes to put a roof on.
Unknown
Usually they can do that in one day. I think that's why they have the five dudes.
Bobby Bones
If it's repair, it's repair.
Unknown
Yeah, five dudes, one day. But. And I get it's hot. I do get it's hot. But 6:30 in the morning is early.
Bobby Bones
6:30 feels a little aggressive, especially if they don't know it's coming. Like I would think it would be up to your neighbors to let everybody know. Put a note on the door, hey, it's going to be one day or two days and they're going to start early. Like they should have let you guys know that if. Because that's too early.
Amy
Yeah. Would seven be okay?
Unknown
I mean on paper, seven sounds.
Amy
I mean, if it's. If it's a. During the school year, your kids would be up.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, but that doesn't mean everybody has to be up. I would say 8 o' clock is universally accepted.
Amy
That sun gets hot.
Unknown
That sun's pretty hot today.
Bobby Bones
I'm not arguing ice roof houses. There's no argument for me.
Unknown
But Amy, it's not like they quit at noon. Like they keep going all the way to like five o'.
Bobby Bones
Clock.
Unknown
It's an all day thing.
Amy
Yeah. Okay, well then, yeah, why not start at 8 and go till 7 o'?
Bobby Bones
Clock?
Unknown
Hey, start at 2 and then you can go into the nice little sunset.
Bobby Bones
No, you can't do it. 10pm so what are the rules then for loud people working on the house? What would you make them if you were the leader of the world?
Unknown
I think a weekday you got to start. I mean, let's go. Business hours, man. 9:00am, 9:00am until when?
Bobby Bones
Until when?
Unknown
When the sun goes down. You have until the sun goes down to do your work.
Bobby Bones
So I fall into a bit of that. Except I think when the sun Comes up, you can work. And when the sun goes down, you have to stop working.
Amy
Well, so 6:30 you can be working. Sun's up.
Bobby Bones
Is the sun all the way up?
Amy
Yeah.
Unknown
Hey, when the rooster crows.
Bobby Bones
I think 6:30 is too early though. So I'm gonna go 7:30. 7:30 to dark are the hours that I would allow people to work. Unless you leave a note and everybody's like, cool, have at it. You.
Amy
Yeah, I think something in like the 7 to 8 time frame should be okay.
Bobby Bones
The heat is a thing. Yeah, but you can't have different rules for different parts of the country. If I'm the supreme leader, yes. The whole country has to fall under. Under one rule. But you don't know how long they're gonna do it.
Unknown
No, I mean they're done. I think they're done the today because the one they did because they worked on our roof one time and it was like a six hour deal. Came in all worked and then they were done. Six hours.
Bobby Bones
What about the weekend?
Amy
Yeah, you know, if someone starts mowing their yard at 7am on the weekend.
Unknown
That might be 10am Dude.
Bobby Bones
Wow, that's, that's too late.
Unknown
10Am you gotta sleep in on Saturdays.
Bobby Bones
As supreme leader, I think I make it 8:30 on the weekends.
Unknown
So it's just an hour.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Hour difference as supreme leader, Yes. I make it one hour difference on the weekends, But I think you have to stop at dark. What about neighbors playing loud music? When do you get annoyed and call the cops if it's so loud?
Unknown
Are you talking about in the morning?
Bobby Bones
Like how early can you play it morning or night?
Amy
I get annoyed when I'm trying to go to sleep.
Bobby Bones
Exactly. So when do neighbors have to like chill out and not play music?
Amy
I mean, I think like if it's a weekend. 10.
Bobby Bones
Oh, weekday 9.
Amy
That would be nice.
Bobby Bones
I could go with that.
Unknown
Yeah, I would say weekday 10, weekend, midnight.
Bobby Bones
Yes, I agree with that. Dang party animals.
Unknown
Hey, we were all there once. Dude, we have people over putting some music on.
Bobby Bones
You're not living in an apartment complex. Right.
Unknown
Bang the broomstick on the sun.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Your neighbors are playing music loud. Are you okay with that until midnight on the weekends? Yeah. Oh, I feel like I would be a cranky if someone's till midnight. I feel like I'd be tough.
Unknown
But it's like you said about, you know, the roof neighbor. Like just send a little note, hey, we're gonna have people over and maybe blaring a little boom, boom, boom till midnight. Hope you're Cool with that.
Amy
Hope you're cool with that. And if they're not, don't you always.
Unknown
Invite them to like, hey, you're always welcome to come over as well?
Bobby Bones
Yep. I don't think. I don't think I could. Supreme Leader doesn't allow that. 10pm on weekends, 9pm on weeknights. All right, let us know how that goes.
Unknown
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Amy, when's your son's birthday?
Amy
August 10th.
Bobby Bones
And is he like Raymundo? Does he have a birthday list?
Amy
Yes, he has been working on a birthday list for a while now.
Bobby Bones
Did anybody start buying Raymundo's birthday list stuff? No. Or did we all just move on from that? I'm not buying that I moved on.
Amy
But it's helpful to have.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I did think about going and buying him that thing at West Elm, that six foot tall plant, banana tree. I promise you, I thought about it, but then I thought, how am I gonna even transport it? I don't have a trunk.
Unknown
Maybe they deliver it.
Amy
Yeah, ship it. Ship it to his house.
Unknown
If you really want to give him a gift, they probably deliver.
Bobby Bones
They'll ship that thing from West Elm to raise house.
Amy
Yes, I would just order it. You could go order in person, or you could order it online and have it.
Bobby Bones
Ray, text me your address. Okay, I will send you. Because I was near the mall and Ray came into my mind, because Ray. If you missed the segment, Ray gave us a birthday list. And it was like 600 sunglasses. It was like a Cam Ward signed jersey. Those are like five or six hundred bucks. And then it was a six foot tall banana tree. I looked at it online and then I thought, there's no way I can fit that in my car. So for your birthday, I will ship you that tree. Yeah, just text me your address.
Unknown
And how old is Ray turning?
Bobby Bones
40.
Unknown
Okay. And Amy's son?
Amy
Oh my gosh, he's gonna be 15.
Bobby Bones
15.
Unknown
15.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And what's his list?
Amy
Well, he has, you know, new track shoes, like stuff like that, some new shirts that he wants, and then he just added a ba day.
Bobby Bones
Nice.
Unknown
Hey, those are easy to just put on.
Amy
No, no, he doesn't want that kind. No, no, no.
Bobby Bones
On our top of the line built in. Yes.
Amy
We went to this restaurant when we were on vacation, and I guess he's been thinking about it ever since then because in the bathroom, they had like the most amazing toilets ever. So much so he disappeared like three different times during dinner, finding himself in the world.
Bobby Bones
Yep. Sir. Remember those days? I'd sit on a frontward I'd sit on a backward. I was sitting anywhere, that thing would squirt me.
Unknown
I wish I had a birthday.
Bobby Bones
Yes, sir. I'll take one for my birthday, too.
Amy
No, that is not.
Unknown
No, you just ruined a parade.
Amy
Oh, my God, guys. No, he came back, and we're at dinner. I mean, we have, like, 13 people in our party. We have this huge table, and Stevenson comes back, and our waiter is there trying to get everybody's order. And Stevenson just stops and was like, excuse me, sir? And the waiter's like, yes. And he's like, I just have to tell you, your. Your bidet is 10 out of 10. That was the best experience of my life. Like, the. The seat is warm. It does just, like, all kinds of stuff. And sure enough. So then everybody from the table had to go experience it. And then everybody goes, and they come back and they're like, sure enough. Like, that toilet. It's not just that it was a bidet. It's just, like, a smart toilet that was just epic and awesome. Like, the lights.
Bobby Bones
So he wants the whole toilet.
Amy
He wants the whole shebang, which I'm sure I have no idea how much those toilets are, but thousands of dollars, I imagine. So. I've already told him, you're not getting this bidet for your birthday.
Bobby Bones
Wait, just text me his address.
Amy
Bobby, you want to ship it to him?
Bobby Bones
I think I might want more.
Unknown
Sounds awesome.
Bobby Bones
More, though, than that. Like, if he's moved by it. I think I need one of these. They are game changers. A good bidet. It's crazy that we in America don't think this is something that is needed on toilets, because you're like, oh, I'm getting sprayed in the butt with water. You're cleaner. You're way cleaner.
Unknown
Question, though. How do you dry off?
Bobby Bones
They have dryers in them.
Unknown
Oh, a dryer.
Bobby Bones
Whoa. Sometimes I go just for the dryer.
Amy
Yeah. So I think for this toilet experience in general, like, it wasn't just that it has the water and the. Like, the toilet was just insane. You know how.
Bobby Bones
And you're not going to get them one of those.
Amy
It just looks really sleek and cool, too. No, I'm not. No. What am I going to do? Uninstall, like, rip out the toilet that's in his bathroom?
Unknown
Will you get someone to do that?
Bobby Bones
No, if you love them.
Amy
If. Okay. Sorry. That's just, like, not gonna be a gift for his 15th birthday.
Bobby Bones
Did you ask the restaurant which one it was?
Amy
It would be epic. No. I guess I could call just so that we could.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Call. Because I'm curious. Will you just call and ask them what the toilet is?
Amy
Yes.
Bobby Bones
Because I'm curious to know. Just to quench my. My thirst of what was so awesome that everybody from the table had to go do it.
Amy
Okay.
Bobby Bones
Because that feels like it must be a heck of an experience. Yeah, that's like. That's like. If you see a good movie, you go on a good roller coaster, you let your friends know.
Amy
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
A bidet. Now that must be a fantastic bidet.
Amy
I mean, to come back and say 10 out of 10 best to the waiter of my life. Yes.
Bobby Bones
Regards to the chef on your bidet, Amy. What was your story, by the way, before we get out of here?
Amy
The Gen Z stare. Like, how.
Bobby Bones
Give it to me.
Amy
Well, it's just something that people are assigning to anyone ages 13 to 28 right now is considered Gen Z. And I guess they have this stare that they give people. Like when you ask them, like, how's it going? Or you try to engage in conversation, they don't really know how to do it, and they have this stare like millennials. Some of us, you know, like, we've got things assigned to us, like avocado toast. And they have the Gen Z stare. I guess it's a look they give. And I feel like my daughter does have it sometimes. She's 18, so she's right.
Bobby Bones
She's confused with human interaction.
Amy
I think it's just sometimes, like, how do we communicate face to face?
Unknown
I was reading that because, like, they were kind of. They started working during COVID and they had to work from home, that they kind of. Their social life kind of got stunned, which I guess it happened to all of us, but with them a little more because they were in the growth professionally.
Bobby Bones
Growth stunted.
Amy
Yeah. It's almost like saying hi to them is also in the article I read, which was from the Washington Post, that it's like an inconvenience, like, you're inconveniencing them. So they have to stop and be like, what do I do here?
Bobby Bones
What do I do here?
Amy
So it's got a name. So if you encounter that with anyone ages 13 to 28, you are encountering the Gen Z stare.
Bobby Bones
There you go. We will end on that. Thank you, guys. We have a new episode of 25 Whistles up today. We'll be up quarterback for Vanderbilt. Diego Pavia is on with us for like 45 minutes.
Amy
Diego.
Unknown
What the. What was that?
Bobby Bones
That was weird.
Amy
He's adding flair.
Unknown
Two away.
Bobby Bones
There was nothing to flare.
Amy
I don't know. I like his Diego Pavolo.
Bobby Bones
Like Pav.
Amy
No. Oh, Diego Pavia. He's still got a good name.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, he's a quarterback. Yeah, that was strange. That's all right. Check out 25 whistles today. We'll see you guys tomorrow. Bye, everybody.
Unknown
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Podcast Summary: The Bobby Bones Show
Episode: MON PT 2: Country Controversy Weekend + Update On Cheating CEO + Amy On Having To Reject An 'Ugly' Guy
Release Date: July 21, 2025
In this engaging episode of The Bobby Bones Show, host Bobby Bones and co-host Amy delve into the latest controversies in the country music scene, discuss the buzz around a new Christopher Nolan IMAX film, and navigate personal stories involving dating challenges. The episode is rich with insightful discussions, humorous exchanges, and notable quotes that provide listeners with a comprehensive overview of the topics at hand.
Timestamp: 03:20 - 07:56
The episode kicks off with a heated discussion about Dylan Marlo’s recent controversial incident at a festival in Wisconsin. Bobby Bones recounts a viral TikTok video showing a security guard forcibly removing Dylan Marlo from the festival grounds. The guard’s aggressive behavior—grabbing Dylan by the shirt and twisting it—sparked widespread backlash on social media.
Notable Quotes:
Bobby Bones [03:32]:
"It's still daylight, and the TikTok video just shows a massive security guard with a beard, and he's got his hand grabbing Dylan Marlo's shirt and twisting it so that Dylan Marlowe doesn't run away."
Dylan Marlo [04:35]:
"This isn't like, the message. I'm trying to push for myself or to anybody."
Bobby speculates on the security guard’s motives, suggesting that abuse of power led to the unnecessary confrontation. Despite public outrage, Dylan chose to take down the controversial video after consulting with Bobby and reflecting on the incident, demonstrating a responsible approach to handling the backlash.
Bobby Bones [07:00]:
"That security guard looked like a total douchebag. You don't grab another adult man like that, especially one that has every credential."
Amy and Bobby emphasize the importance of professionalism and restraint, highlighting how the incident could have been managed better by the security personnel involved.
Timestamp: 08:00 - 15:33
Transitioning from live incidents, the hosts discuss Josh Ross’s breakout song "Single Again," which has rapidly climbed to the number one spot. However, Josh faced criticism for his on-stage remarks about his Canadian roots during a performance at the Tailgate Tall Boys Festival in Bloomington, Indiana.
Notable Quotes:
Bobby Bones [09:16]:
"I think if he were able to go back and say it again, I think he would say, I'm from Canada. I love Canada. But I really love this country, too. Usa."
Josh Ross [11:03]:
"Born and raised in Canada, but have been living in Nashville for the last five plus years. Half my family lives in Canada, the other half is here in the US."
Josh’s attempt to express his love for both Canada and the United States was misinterpreted, leading to backlash from his Canadian fanbase. Bobby critiques Josh’s apology, pointing out that it was insufficient and failed to fully address the concerns raised by his remarks.
Bobby Bones [13:02]:
"If you're going to apologize, this is how you do it. Hey, Josh Ross here. I got up on stage and I was like, I'm from Canada, but this is the best country ever."
Amy adds that authentic apologies require genuine remorse, suggesting that Josh’s response lacked sincerity and depth.
Timestamp: 15:34 - 18:01
Shifting gears, the conversation moves to the highly anticipated IMAX release of "The Odyssey", directed by Christopher Nolan and starring Matt Damon as Odysseus. Bobby compares this project to Nolan’s previous films like "Inception" and "Interstellar," noting the unique aspect of shooting the entire feature on IMAX film cameras—a first for commercial cinema.
Notable Quotes:
Bobby Bones [16:01]:
"A year before its release, the Odyssey, and now tickets are selling for $400. What?"
Mike [16:26]:
"This movie is going to be huge, like in Oppenheimer, only like the bomb scene was an IMAX, like fully imax. So this is the whole movie."
The hosts discuss the limited availability of true IMAX screenings, with only about 20 theaters worldwide equipped to showcase the film in its intended format. Bobby humorously recounts his own limited IMAX experiences, underscoring the exclusivity and high demand for such screenings.
Bobby Bones [17:10]:
"The last time I went to an IMAX movie was the Old Museum in Austin... I haven’t been to IMAX since."
Mike elaborates on the technical differences between standard and IMAX filming, emphasizing the unparalleled visual experience that "The Odyssey" promises to deliver.
Timestamp: 19:52 - 21:24
The discussion briefly touches upon a recent corporate scandal involving a CEO who resigned amid allegations of cheating and personal misconduct. Although specifics about the case are sparse, Bobby expresses his opinion on the matter, advocating that unless illegal activities are involved, personal life issues should not necessarily impact professional roles.
Notable Quotes:
Bobby Bones [19:52]:
"Apparently, the CEO from the Coldplay Kiss Cam did resign. This happened on Friday."
Bobby Bones [20:06]:
"If you're not doing anything illegal, I don't think that should really affect your work."
Amy speculates about the possible reasons behind the resignation, considering factors like company policies or board decisions. The hosts agree that while accountability is crucial, it’s important to differentiate between personal and professional misconduct unless it directly affects the company’s operations or reputation.
Timestamp: 35:53 - 56:34
In a more personal segment, Amy shares her experience of rejecting a date she deemed unattractive. The story unfolds with Amy attending a Hinge date where physical appearance did not match the online persona presented by her suitor. Despite being mature and thoughtful in her rejection, she reflects on the challenges and discomforts of navigating online dating.
Notable Quotes:
Amy [39:11]:
"Have you ever dated a guy? An ugly guy? What?"
Amy [42:33]:
"And then I did. Then I did."
Bobby Bones [43:40]:
"I don't think I could. Supreme Leader doesn't allow that."
Amy discusses the emotional aspects of dating, including how mismatches between online profiles and reality can lead to awkward and disheartening experiences. Bobby adds humor to the conversation, imagining exaggerated scenarios of dating failures, which lightens the mood and makes the discussion relatable for listeners.
Throughout the episode, the hosts engage in light-hearted banter about neighborhood noise disturbances, birthday gift dilemmas, and generational communication challenges, particularly focusing on the "Gen Z stare." These conversations provide listeners with relatable content and showcase the hosts’ chemistry and humor.
Notable Quotes:
Bobby Bones [49:21]:
"Are you okay with that until midnight on the weekends? Yeah. Oh, I feel like I'd be cranky if someone's till midnight."
Amy [55:27]:
"If you encounter that with anyone ages 13 to 28, you are encountering the Gen Z stare."
In this episode, The Bobby Bones Show effectively balances discussions of high-profile controversies in the music industry with personal anecdotes and broader societal topics. Bobby and Amy provide insightful commentary, humor, and relatable stories, ensuring that both country music enthusiasts and general listeners find value and entertainment. The inclusion of notable quotes with timestamps adds depth to the summary, capturing the essence of each conversation and the dynamic between the hosts.
Notable Timestamped Quotes:
Bobby Bones [03:32]:
"It's still daylight, and the TikTok video just shows a massive security guard with a beard, and he's got his hand grabbing Dylan Marlo's shirt and twisting it so that Dylan Marlowe doesn't run away."
Dylan Marlo [04:35]:
"This isn't like, the message. I'm trying to push for myself or to anybody."
Bobby Bones [07:00]:
"That security guard looked like a total douchebag. You don't grab another adult man like that, especially one that has every credential."
Bobby Bones [09:16]:
"I think if he were able to go back and say it again, I think he would say, I'm from Canada. I love Canada. But I really love this country, too. Usa."
Josh Ross [11:03]:
"Born and raised in Canada, but have been living in Nashville for the last five plus years. Half my family lives in Canada, the other half is here in the US."
Bobby Bones [16:01]:
"A year before its release, the Odyssey, and now tickets are selling for $400. What?"
Amy [39:11]:
"Have you ever dated a guy? An ugly guy? What?"
Amy [55:27]:
"If you encounter that with anyone ages 13 to 28, you are encountering the Gen Z stare."
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