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Leetra Tate
This is an I Heart Podcast. If you're looking for another heavy podcast about trauma, this ain't it. This is for the ones who had to survive and still show up as brilliant, loud, soft and whole. The Unwanted Sorority is where black women, femmes and gender expansive survivors of sexual violence rewrite the rules on healing, support, and what happens after. And I'm your host and co president of this organization, Dr. Leetra Tate. Listen to the Unwanted Sorority. New episodes every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Steve
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Leetra Tate
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Steve
But I had nothing but faith in her.
Leetra Tate
I think I was put here to save souls by getting people out of prison. The Girlfriends Jailhouse Lawyer Listen from July 14th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Steve
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Leetra Tate
I get right back there and it's bad.
Steve
Listen to Absolute Season 1, Taser Incorporated on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The best bits of the week with.
Leetra Tate
Morgan, part one, behind the scenes with.
Steve
A member of the show.
Leetra Tate
What's up, everybody? Happy weekend. Scoobs is joining me, or as you know him, Scoob. Steve, what's up?
Steve
Yeah, what is this? The question answer, or is this the talking one?
Leetra Tate
No, we're talking. We're checking.
Steve
We're talking. Okay.
Leetra Tate
Life. We're seeing how things are going.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
I need updates.
Steve
Okay, I got them for you.
Leetra Tate
You have your new show.
Steve
Yeah, I just thought I could do.
Leetra Tate
It for like an hour.
Steve
I can hold it for a minute.
Leetra Tate
I feel like that was gonna go a while. How is it going?
Steve
So far so good. I think it's great. It's, you know, working things out. I've mostly been focused on, like, connecting with the community and taking calls because a lot of shows don't do that anymore and because that's mostly. Cause people are all over the place and recording from different places and whatever. And so I was like, let me just go back to the basics of radio, especially because it's a rock station. It's classic rock, and they like old school radio. And that was kind of just founded on the connection and phone call. So I was like, let me just go, day one, do the basics. Play music. I even pick some songs and throw them in. Take, like, legitimate requests, which my program director, who's the boss, hasn't said anything yet, so.
Leetra Tate
So he's liking it so far.
Steve
So. So I think he's fine with that. But I think just creating that connection and taking phone calls has been the best formula so far. I had my first guest on this week.
Leetra Tate
I love that. Chase Matthew.
Steve
Yeah, he texted me week one. He was like, dude, you're going live. And I was like, yeah. He's like, so, dude, I'd love to come in and take phone calls with you and hang out. I was, all right, you just let me know what date works. And so, yeah, he came in and we hung out for an hour and a half. We took phone calls. We played one of his favorite songs growing up. We prank called his dad. We did it. We played a game. Yeah, it was fun. Yeah. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
That's awesome. Chase is such a good dude.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Does he like rock music too, I would assume.
Steve
Oh, yeah. He's from Nashville. His dad used to be in like a classic rock type band.
Leetra Tate
Okay.
Steve
And so, yeah, he has roots in the city, which I think is cool because it's a local show, local station, and he likes rock music. So it just made sense for me to have him on the show.
Leetra Tate
And you're calling it the Scuba Steve Show.
Steve
Yeah, I thought about some other names and I even pitched some ideas and people like, no, your name itself is a thing, so just call it that. And I was like, I kind of wanted to call it something else, but. And not have my name attached to it for many different reasons. But then they'd be like, no, no, just, just go with Scuba Steve Show. I'm like, all right. So that's what it is.
Leetra Tate
Okay. Scuba Steve Show. Are you sleeping well? Like, how is the sleep going at this moment in time?
Steve
So the good thing was the first couple weeks when I started it, my family was in San Francisco, so it was just me by myself here. So for me it was easier because I didn't have to worry about taking care of the kids and, you know, being involved with the family and my wife and everything.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. So you had like an adjustment period.
Steve
Yes. So it was great because I got to hit the ground running pretty hard. And so what I would do is I would do this morning show with you guys and then I would go home, I take like a 30 minute power nap, then I would have like a light dinner and I'd come right back and just do it again. Yeah, I get here around like 6:30 central time. And then I'd be here until after it's over, after, you know, 10 o' clock. And then I go home.
Leetra Tate
Are you doing it fully live? Is that the goal? And that's the plan?
Steve
That's the plan. At least for now. It's a little tough because it is nights. At some point I want to shift the time earlier to like an afternoon slot or something so I can do.
Leetra Tate
It right after working for the show. I also don't know if that's also your plan to keep doing both. Ideally I would think you would just want to do your show.
Steve
Yeah, I mean, long term. And I've talked to this with Bobby. It's not. That's the first person I went to. I don't know if we ever talked about this is I went to him because, you know, one, I have a lot of trust and faith in him. And I also envy someone like him who is kind of like similar roots, you know, trying to achieve something that's a dream and Going for it. And then he achieved the dream. And so I'm like, all right. And I never. I've never burned bridges in my past from any of my previous jobs within this radio industry and shows. And so I've always seen a better benefit as a human to just have the people around you also support you and be there for you versus being like, screw you. I'm gonna do to my own and not tell you about it. I've seen people do that, and it doesn't work out.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
And so I've learned from the people around me, like, it's better to just have people on your side. And why not? You know? What does that hurt? So I went to him first, like, a year and a half ago, and I told him what my idea was. And he's like, all right, well, if we go forward on this, he goes, you got to commit. Like, this is. This is it. And I was like, all right. And I knew there was a hole in the rock lane. There aren't many people aspiring to be rock personalities. I feel like everyone's so focused on country and top 40 pop and all that. And so I was like, well, I'm a rock kid. I grew up on rock. I used to be in a rock band.
Leetra Tate
I was going to say, you have the rock vibes in general, too. Like, you literally did Screamo.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
I don't think there's anybody that could be more rock centric than you.
Steve
Yeah. And I got into radio to get my band on the radio, so it's like, it's just a full circle moment. And so I went to him for support, advice, ideas, whatever. And he's like, look, I'll help you. Almost like a mentor and coaching and how to. And what to do and how to do this. And it wasn't easy. I mean, it's been a. A 19, 20 year journey in general to get to this point. And then it was a solid year of working with him and the company to figure out how and where and what we can do. And then finally there was like, all right, we're going to do it. We're going to put you on nights. And it's a station here in Nashville. 10, five, nine. The rock. And they're like, we'll put you on nights. We'll see how it goes. There definitely is a need for rock personalities. And the. I guess the Bobby Bones or the Ryan Seacrest of that format is the Big Show. Big Show. John Bourne. Belay. They've been around forever. I used to listen to them growing Up. And I loved them, but they're now at, you know, they're at the, they're at the Sunset. So they've been around for 30 plus years. And, you know, they used to have hundreds of affiliates and now they're down to a smaller number than they used to have. It's just because they're older and they're about to retire. And so I'm like, man, there's an opportunity here. I need to jump on it. You know, I'm not even. I don't. I'm not, I'm not old, I'm young. So I'm just like, I might as well jump on it. I'm never gonna say my age.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. Even though we don't know your age, I was supposed to be like, sure, you're young, Scuba. We have no idea.
Steve
Exactly. I'm a Vampire. I'm always 37. So it's like, I don't know. So I was like, this is an opportunity and if I don't jump on it now, then it'll go to somebody else. And I'll be sitting there going like, why the hell didn't I just speak up? And so to answer your question, long winded. My long term goal. Yes. Is to eventually have my own show and do my own thing and peel away at some point. I don't know if that'll be a year, two years, three years, four years, I don't know. But I do want to do my own show and I have the full support of Bobby and the company to work towards that. So I'm excited.
Leetra Tate
That's awesome. I mean, you're setting your future self up for, for success and that's what it's all about.
Steve
Yeah. And I'm chasing my dream. This has been a dream I've been going after for almost 20 years. And I kind of did it the reverse way where everyone's so gung ho, like, I gotta be on the air. I want, I want a show. And I was like, well, I want that. But I also understand the value in learning everything about the business. And then when you're ready for it, then you're ready for it. Kind of like you told me off air one time, it's like, hey, don't be waiting around. Like, get yourself ready for it. I'm like, well, yes, I have, but I see what you're saying now. I should really get ready for it. So I started planning out logos and ideas and whatever.
Leetra Tate
Um, so then when this time came, you were ready.
Steve
Yeah. So you're also a Huge instrument in this process of like. Cause I could have just sat there and then they said, hey, in one week you're starting. And I'd be like, oh, crap. I didn't even like, well, you had.
Leetra Tate
A really frustrating time period. Because I think something that's really easy to get lost in when you're chasing dreams, especially in the entertainment industry in general, you're grinding for a really long time. And you were grinding for a really long time trying to figure out what this was gonna look like and trying to get answers and just understanding. And I think there was a period of time where it was super frustrating for you. And I went through something similar with doing my podcast. And I was like, okay, well, at the worst case scenario, I just need to be ready whenever it is. Finally time.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And it helped me so much that that felt like it was important for you to also have that information. And that was the only way I even knew. Right. I mean, but it was learning that, like, so much of the grind is in the sit and wait, which is not fun.
Steve
No. Because it feels even longer than the grind to getting to that point like that. That one year felt like 20 plus years. Cause I'm like, oh my God, I've done everything. I'm ready. Why are we not just doing this already?
Leetra Tate
Yeah. And when you look at it like you are ready, like mentally, physically, emotionally, but like all of the assets and things you need for it to be a full, like the next day launch, I was like, okay, maybe I'm not 100% ready. So that's what prepared me. But I'm excited for you that you had all of that. Because it also probably allowed you to brainstorm for yourself and figure out what do I actually want this to look like? Instead of having to last minute be like, okay, let me throw together a logo, let me do this. And that you actually had a plan.
Steve
That's some time. And then I officially got a date and I was like, cool. Now I spent the last six months, whatever, figuring that out. And that's okay. Now I got two weeks to then take that and then really polish it to a certain degree to what it is. And yeah, it's here, it's happening.
Leetra Tate
What does it feel like after so many years? Because you mentioned a little bit, but you after 20 plus years, this moment is finally here and it's happening. What does that, like, feel like, especially the first show, and you're like, okay, this is no longer just a conversation. I've been working for this. That first show happens. What's like your feeling that you're having in this whole experience.
Steve
I think part of me, the sick and twisted side of me is like. Is like, oh, this is only last, like, couple weeks is going to fail.
Leetra Tate
Insecurity speaking insecurity.
Steve
Exactly. You're like, ah, just whatever, dude. Who cares? This isn't going to last. But then, like, the real true side of me is like, oh, my God. Like, here we are. Like, holy crap. And I actually wasn't even nervous going into the first day because I was talking to my wife and she wasn't even here. She was in San Francisco. And normally I have her with me to be like, talk me off the ledge and give me a hug and just kind of like, push me forward. Like, you're being stupid. Get out there and do it. You trained your whole life for this crap. What do you. What? And so, because it's been so long and. And it really hit me this week when I had Chase in studio and we were talking off air about the 20 years and his management and, you know, he's. He's younger in this industry, and I think they hear and he's like, you've been doing this for like 20 years. He looked at me and they're like. And his two guys back there were like, see? Like, it takes time. And he's like, holy crap. And I was like, yeah, man. I didn't just wake up a couple days ago. And I was like, I think I'm gonna do this. Or even a few years or five years, 10 years. Like, it was a grind of learning everything from being a promotions person to being. Learning sales, to learning the production side of things and being an intern, I mean, all the way up in all the steps. So I think because I had all that behind me, and I was like, okay, I'm confident because I know I can do everything, and I have done everything. So that is what kind of gave me this feeling. I guess the overall, the key word I would say is it gave me. I had peace going into it. Like, oh, yeah, I could do this. I wasn't even nervous. I didn't even have, like. There's some moments where you get like that feeling in your stomach where you can't even breathe and you still get through it, but. But I didn't even have that. Cause I was just like, oh, I feel at peace because I know this is what I'm supposed to be doing. And I've trained my whole life for it. I've been working out for this, and this is my chance to do it. And I'm going to do how I want to do it. And if things fail, it's whatever. I'll just try it a different way or try something else out. And I've also even had the support too, of, you know, we talked about Bobby. But I also had the support of the people here in the local market of, you know, being like, hey, dude, just. It's nights. You can do whatever the hell you want. You could within. Within reason. Say whatever you want.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. You don't, you know, break some laws. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Steve
Don't say things like, no, I'm just kidding.
Leetra Tate
Like you like to drop your case.
Steve
No. S words, none of that. But you can be a little bit more risky with it. You can try more things, you know, you can talk to the callers, you know, and then when I talk to a caller, you know, we may talk on air for 90 seconds, 2 minutes, but then off air, it's 8 to 10 more minutes of just building relationships and just figuring who these people are and where they're at and what they're doing and just kind of figuring out the audience. So again, I think the overall theme of it is just at peace because it feels right, you know?
Leetra Tate
Yeah. No, I love that. I love that that's what you're getting to experience. Cause it's always. It's crazy to think about. You get to that mountaintop and you just wonder what it would be like, you know, like when you're chasing it for so long and now you're finally here.
Steve
Oh, yeah.
Leetra Tate
And you're at like your peak. Yeah, Peak is happening in this moment.
Steve
But it's the beginning of the peak now because now there's more goals within it of, you know, I don't want to do a show by myself. You know, I've always been a part of a morning show and a part of a cast. So I want to build my own show and build my own cast and have people to feed off of and have the different personalities and that kind of stuff. And then obviously take on more markets and build the show to be, you know, based out of Nashville or wherever I end up living. But it live across the globe is the long term goal.
Leetra Tate
I'm excited for you, Scuba. This is awesome. Yeah, it does feel like we've been talking about it for years now, but like off air, not, you know, on best bets. But I'm really excited for you. This is exciting.
Steve
Thank you.
Leetra Tate
We are in rock era Scuba Steve.
Steve
Scuba Steve nights, or as I call them, Scoovs.
Leetra Tate
Rock.
Steve
Scoobs Rock.
Leetra Tate
I like that. Scoobs Rock.
Steve
Scoobs Rock.
Leetra Tate
That should be the name.
Steve
Scoobs Rock. And then something. Now, another thing, too now is like figuring out another thing that makes you more, I guess, credible within the company is revenue. So now I'm also striving to figure out, you know, clients how to make.
Leetra Tate
Money and what that means.
Steve
How to make money, how to make money for them and for myself and that kind of thing. Because, you know, it doesn't pay a whole lot. But I'm not worried about the pay because it's not about that for me at this moment. It's more about getting it and I got it, and everything else will come after that.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
Yeah. And I think my. My message to. To you is. And not necessarily you, but you listening is. You're like me.
Leetra Tate
What?
Steve
Here's part here. It's like. It's dreams. They're a thing. You should chase it. Whether it be. You may think it's silly, stupid, small, whatever, but if it's your dream, you should chase it. How? However you can and however you want. You only get to live here on this lot, on this earth, at least I know of, unless you're reincarnated. You only get. You only get one shot to do this crap, so why not just do it? And it doesn't matter your age, you know, like, Steve Carell, you know, grinded at acting and finally really made it in. In his late 30s, early 40s. You know, he didn't make it when he was 10. He wasn't a childhood actor. You know, he had small roles here and there that again, got him to where he needed to be. But then he finally got that real big break with doing the Office, which then snowballed into movies and other things. So there is no age to your dream. It's just, you know, can you chase it? Do you have the. You still have. Do you want it that bad?
Leetra Tate
You know, it's funny, I had just posted a clip from the podcast episode I did with all the seniors, and I was talking to Sandra. She's 83 years old, Sandra, and I think she's 84 now, but okay. She always wanted to be an author. That was always her goal. And she was very big in, like, education, and she was a teacher and all these things.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Well, at 83 years old, she published her first book.
Steve
Oh, it's awesome.
Leetra Tate
She's about to publish her second one at now 84.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And just hearing her talk about that truly gave me so much life because when you think about the way that we've put timelines on people, like, you have to do this, this, and this by this age and that age and this age, when, truthfully, as long as you're here and you're just doing all the things that you want to do, there is not a timeline that actually matters. If you accomplish all the things that you want to accomplish, that is the timeline.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
There is no age. There is no certain. Like, sure, society believes in certain things, but that doesn't mean you have to.
Steve
Exactly. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Because if Sandra did, Sandra never would have been a published author at 83 years old. If you listen to that, you would have never had your own show on a rock station.
Steve
Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So I think it's cool to look at life from that perspective. So it's funny you say that. It just is super front of mind for me lately, listening to her and now listening to you, it's like a double whammy.
Steve
Oh, yeah, totally. Yeah. Everyone's dreams comes when they come, but she trained her whole life. She was in education, so it just made sense. In writing, you can write whenever at any age, really. And then she just needed that one push, and then she finally did it. And that's really cool.
Leetra Tate
See? It's awesome. The age does not matter.
Steve
It does not. It's just a number.
Leetra Tate
Okay, we're gonna take a quick break. We'll be right back. All right, Scuba. Let's talk vacation. I know you went to Hawaii on a different timeline on ours, but I don't think you've been on Best Bits since you went to Hawaii.
Steve
I don't think so. I think last time we talked, I was about to go that week or that. I think I was going that weekend. I was going.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. We had j. Just, like, talked, and you're like, okay, we might do all this. So I want to talk about both of our vacations that we went on. So tell me about Hawaii. What did you guys actually end up doing?
Steve
So we went to Kauai, which is the one we go to every time. It's that furthest island. They call it the. They call it the Garden island or whatever. The island of paradise or whatever. I don't know, because it's so lush. It's like.
Leetra Tate
Does it look like the island in Moana?
Steve
Moana? Yeah, I believe so. Yes. Yeah. Where it's more. It's definitely much more rural and more chill. They, like. They have roosters running around everywhere.
Leetra Tate
See, that's so cool.
Steve
Yeah. Country music is in every restaurant, bar, Hotel, like everyone, it's almost the way I would describe it is a small town outside of Nashville, but on an island. Because, okay, everyone. And it has a Costco and a Walmart, so. But there's no.
Leetra Tate
That's all you need, let's be honest.
Steve
Seriously, because you go to Oahu, which Honolulu is at. That's where the capital is. It's like. It's like Miami. There's massive skyscrapers, there's a huge mall. There's all the big chains there. There, you know, it's the Waikiki Beach. It's beautiful, but it's. It's just a little bit too much. If you're looking for a true vacation.
Leetra Tate
Does Maui fall right under that?
Steve
Maui? I would say it would probably be maybe the third one, because then the big island is where like all, like the most of the locals will live where the volcanoes are. And it's more of like the, I guess, like the local island.
Leetra Tate
Isn't it funny to think about that there's just a volcano on one of those.
Steve
I know, right?
Leetra Tate
It's this whole state. Right. And they're separated by islands, but just only one of those islands holds like this monster volcano.
Steve
Yeah, Well, I think if you look at the geographics of it, like underneath the water, they may all connect. Yeah, but like, that one comes up higher because of the volcano and it builds more of the land when it erupts and stuff.
Leetra Tate
I was gonna say where the actual, like lava spout and where it would erupt would happen.
Steve
But yeah, anyway, so that's where like all, like the town, like the local. Local people will live. And then Maui is the next one where it's a little more, you know, more the next level of chill where there aren't any. Well now, because the fire, unfortunately, it's even less. But there are like, no high rises. There's none of that kind of stuff. But. But there's a lot of money on Maui.
Leetra Tate
A lot of resorts and stuff.
Steve
A lot of resorts. A lot of, like, celebs will go there, like a Listers. A lot of those kind of people will go to Maui and the islands around Maui. And then Kauai is the most chill, most relaxed. That's where they filmed Jurassic park back in the 90s. So it's very lush and green and beautiful and waterfalls. And there's a beach called the Nepali coast that you can't even get to. Unless, of course, you take a boat around to it or you hike to it, which is like the most deadliest trail, I think on earth to get to it because of all the landslides and the steepness of it. But, yeah, so fun to me, it's so beautiful. If you haven't been to Hawaii, anyone hasn't been to Hawaii, I always recommend go to Kauai first, especially because if you. Especially if you're looking for a, like, a tranquil, relaxing, chill vacation, which is what we did. We weren't all about, like, we didn't have, like, anything on the schedule, really. Like, we gotta be here by 10, I gotta be here by 11:30, and we gotta be here by. No, this is a place where you literally. Like, I think we're going to go to. I don't know. Let's go to Hanalei Bay today. All right, cool. Let's try to Hanalei Bay. And then along the way. Oh, stop there. Get shaved ice. Hey, on the way back, we'll get that. We'll get poke over there. Or we'll do it's whatever. There isn't any schedule of any sort. The only thing we had scheduled was on our last full day, I got us a cabana at one of the hotels so we could spend the whole day just chilling on the beach, getting served food and relaxing and going back and forth from the pool to the ocean. That was the only, like, real true plan of the vacation.
Leetra Tate
Dang, that's impressive. I can't do things that aren't planned. Like, I can be spontaneous, but I have to have some version of a plan.
Steve
Really. Okay.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
But this is an aisle you don't want to plan, though.
Leetra Tate
Well, I think it's because I want to see everything. I'm just somebody who really wants to see all the things that I can possibly see. I'm not a very big relaxer.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
I'm not good at that.
Steve
Well, this island has so much to offer that Even in the 13 years we've been going there, I still haven't seen everything. Because there are some places we'll revisit or we'll discover a new spot. Or like, hey, I really want to go to Poipu and check out whatever. Like, oh, we have time this time. We'll do it next time. And there are some things in the list we want to go back and revisit every time, like we always do. Waimea Canyon, because it's so cool. And every time you go there, it's different with the weather. We like Poipu area because there's some shopping down there. But, yeah, you can't go there with.
Leetra Tate
A plan for making A joke there, but yeah.
Steve
What's that?
Leetra Tate
I refrained from making a joke about.
Steve
What the name Poipu.
Leetra Tate
Because I know it's like it's a cool. It's probably a cool name. Like it means something cool. But yeah.
Steve
Poo.
Leetra Tate
Hearing it.
Steve
Yeah, yeah.
Leetra Tate
I said it like twice and I was like, okay, so give me your five highlights.
Steve
Five highlights. I would say one of them. I'd never done this before ever, on a beach. It was the coolest thing we ever did. And it was spontaneous. We're at Hanalei Bay and we got there. And we got there late. I think we got there on like four and sunset was around eight. And then we started seeing people set up fires on the beach. I was like, we could do a fire on the beach and. And they're like, yeah, everyone's doing it. I was like, all right. Hell yeah. So we just started picking up and collecting a bunch of dry firewood and we put together a little makeshift like Survivor style type thing.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, like it wasn't set up for you.
Steve
No, not at all.
Leetra Tate
Pre fires on a, on a beach?
Steve
No, not at all. No. It's just we like. All right, kids, go around grabbing up. We need dry wood. So go grab a bunch of dry wood on the beach. Put in this pile right here. We dug a little hole and then I got like coconut shaving. What do we call it, like skin or husk? Put it down there.
Leetra Tate
Outside of it.
Steve
Yeah, put it down below. I lit it. I had like a torch type lighter and I lit that up. And then we started putting oxygen to it and adding more fuel to the flame. And then we had a freaking fire on the beach. And we had never done it before. It was the coolest thing ever. And we were the last ones on the beach because we realized I was, I almost said it at the end.
Leetra Tate
You always pull back. This is me.
Steve
I was, oh my God, no one else on the beach. I think we need to go. And I was like, oh yeah, the sign said it closes at dusk. I was like, oh crap. You can't see anything anymore now because it's so dark. Especially once you put the fire out there, you can't see a damn thing. So yeah, we did that. That was, that was a major highlight. Never, never did a fire on a beach. And I've been going to beaches my whole life. Yeah, I grew up in Florida and California.
Leetra Tate
That feels very movie esque.
Steve
It was like that. Yeah. And all the kids are there. So it was my kids and then my brother in law, my Wife's brother and his kids were there, and it was just. It was so cool.
Leetra Tate
Oh, that's fun. Okay.
Steve
Cool to experience that. The other one, I would say we got to see Waimea Canyon in a way where. Because. Because the weather is always different. So Waimea Canyon is like the Grand Canyon of the Hawaiian Islands. I think it may even be deeper.
Leetra Tate
How do you spell that?
Steve
I think it's W, A. Oh, my God. Waimea. W A M E A I, M, E, A.
Leetra Tate
State park.
Steve
Yeah. State park. Yeah. So you have to pay for parking to go and do the whole thing.
Leetra Tate
Oh, yeah, for sure. Gives Grand Canyon vibes.
Steve
Yeah. And it was cool because we get to see it super clear this time. Or there have been times where you go there and it's so foggy, you can't see a single thing. Or it's so windy and the sand's hitting your face, you can't really enjoy it. But this time we went. It was crystal clear. No fog, no wind. And as we're sitting there, we saw these goats walking up the mountain. Like, I'm like, oh, my God, there's mountain goats. I've never seen a mountain goat before. And there's like, two or three of them, like, walking on this, like, steep, nine, 10, pitch. Like, I don't know how they're even doing it, but they're walking. And. And I'm like, this is so cool.
Leetra Tate
That's fun. I love seeing wildlife. I think wildlife is just so cool.
Steve
It's really, really cool. Yeah. And it was so random. So I've never seen a goat walk up a mountain. And there they are, a bunch of.
Leetra Tate
Them, and they just scale mountains. And you're like, yeah, how are you doing that without anything?
Steve
They're the very top of it, so they could easily trip and fall thousands of feet and die, which I'm sure it happens.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, it does. I've seen videos.
Steve
Oh, yeah.
Leetra Tate
I don't know if they actually die, but, like, you see them drop, and I'm like. Like, I. I know people are laughing at this, but, like, are they alive? I need to know.
Steve
Yeah, yeah.
Leetra Tate
They never show them, like, the aftermath. Oh, yeah, yeah. Don't put that on my. I. I had a thing because there's a video that was on social media, like, super viral, of sheep's, like, falling off a mountain. And I had, like, a whole emotional moment over. I'm like, are they alive?
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Nobody knows. Okay, three.
Steve
Three, I would say go into near that area. If you keep going up, there's a place called. It's called Cokea Lodge. I have it on my laptop because I always. I always wear the hats and I have the shirts and stuff. And so it's up at the very top of that mountain. And not many people know about it because they go to Waimea and they're like, all right, we've seen it all. And they go back down. But up there. And I've always wanted to do this. My wife's like, no, we're not going to do that. We stay at the same place, but they have cabins up there. And so we've been going there when we randomly found that, I think eight years ago. And so I make that a point. Like, whenever we're up there, I want to go to this place. And we go there and we have breakfast, because they have a lodge there. You can do breakfast. And then they have a little gift shop. It's so cool. And so it was cool for me because I have a picture of my son when we first went there and we only had just my son. And then it was my son and my daughter. And then now it's my son and my third child, my second daughter, her first time going. And so for me, it was a cool moment to have the evolution of, like, all right, the first time you were there with 1, 2, and now 3. And then we brought my wife's family. They usually don't come with when we go that far out because it's like an hour and a half from where we mostly stay. And so they came this time and got to see it. So that was fun for them to see it and for us to have all three kids see it. We went up there and just spent, like, hours just chilling in the park and hanging out with the roosters and eating good food. So that was fun.
Leetra Tate
That is fun. I always love when you find, like, just a really random local spot and it's just totally impromptu, and it ends up being one of your favorite places.
Steve
Oh, yeah.
Leetra Tate
That's a cool experience.
Steve
And you tell people about, like, I've never heard of that. And I'm like, good.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. You're like, okay, you. I kind of want you to. Because, like, I need it to stay open because I really like it. But also, please don't overwhelm it. Yeah, I want to be able to go.
Steve
Exactly. I don't want to be oversaturated. And. Yeah, okay. That was really cool. And then the fourth one would be the Cabana Day. That was really, really cool, where we just kind of chilled and enjoyed that. And it was awesome because it was in a bay area, so they had a cruise ship in the dock at the moment we were there, so it was kind of cool to see. And we stayed there all day from morning tonight, so we got to see the cruise ship leaving and the whole. So loud. It was fun. And it was great to swim in the pool and in the ocean and my kids running back and forth and enjoying. That whole day was the last day, so that was really cool. And then the final one.
Leetra Tate
Did they. Did the kids love being, like, getting food to the cabana?
Steve
Did you love.
Leetra Tate
For food? And it was like, the whole experience.
Steve
This is so cool. They come, they serve it. They go, wow, this is awesome.
Leetra Tate
I can imagine kids being like this as an adult. I'm like, yeah, that's cool. I don't have to move. They just bring me stuff.
Steve
It's pretty sick.
Leetra Tate
Feel really, like, rich and famous vibes.
Steve
Totally. Yeah. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
I'm sure the kids were like, this is amazing.
Steve
This is amazing. We're putting on the credit card. We're gonna pay it off over the next year.
Leetra Tate
Like, really cool, but also really expensive, so don't get used to it.
Steve
Yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And then. So that was fun. And then. Yeah, then you get the drinks and stuff. The fun part, or the funny part was we were drinking pina coladas, which I only would drink on the ocean. And then my daughter wants to grab the strawberry or pineapple or whatever that's in there. It's been soaking in it. I didn't realize. She grabbed it and she's eating the pineapple, and I'm like, oh, my God.
Leetra Tate
Okay. I drink all the time with my parents drinks.
Steve
You're the party girl. You're family, though, right? So my middle child will be my party girl.
Leetra Tate
I'm not gonna say no, but I would. It wasn't like, the fruit that was so. Because back at. Back when, you know, I was a kid, I don't think they put real fruit in any of those drinks.
Steve
Yeah, probably not. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
But I always like to lick the salt off the rim.
Steve
The rim. Okay. Get a little buzz at 7.
Leetra Tate
I like every time. Cause my dad loved to get, like, a margarita or something like that. And every time I would just be, like, sitting there like, l. Licking. He's like, where's all my soul?
Steve
I'm like, oh, sorry. You can ask for more if you'd like.
Leetra Tate
You know, I was like, seven years old.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
All the time. So, you know. Yeah, I turned out fine.
Steve
Yeah, yeah.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, I may be in a partier, but I turned out fine.
Steve
Yeah, yeah. Nothing wrong being a partier.
Leetra Tate
That is funny. Okay, number five.
Steve
And then the final one would be seeing my. My middle child, Seeing her, like, finally learning how to swim. Because we don't have a pool here. And I grew up in Florida, so swimming for me was, like, almost like, in my DNA. We would swim from birth on. And then my oldest son learned a couple trips ago how to swim, and it was just kind of like riding a bike. He got back on. I was like, oh, I remember how to do this. And then she had always had to wear the swimmies. And she was, like, you know, vocal about, I don't want to wear this. And I'm like. I was like, oh, you kind of need to still wear it. You haven't really learned it. So at the beginning of the trip, she wore it a lot. And by the middle of the trip, towards the end, we started, like, taking it off and, like, watching her how to swim. And of course, she didn't quite get it, but she was getting it. So that was a cool moment to see her learning how to swim. And it was like one of those moments of like, oh, my God, she's growing up.
Leetra Tate
It is. That's a huge. That's like riding a bike for the first time. It's when they, like, they take their first steps. It's one of those monumental shifts that happened.
Steve
Yeah, it really was. It was really cool.
Leetra Tate
Oh, wait, so was that in the pool or in the ocean?
Steve
It was in the pool, but then we tried it in the ocean we went to, because all the beaches there are different as far as, like, how they are with the waves depending on just where you're at on that island. Some of them, it's like. It's dangerous because it's really, really, really. I mean, the waves are, like, crashing early and crashing hard. So those ones, I wouldn't even let them in the water because it's not strong swimmers.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
And the ones that were medium, she always had to put her floaties on because what it was. But then we went to Hanalei Bay, which is way more chill and almost like glass, where the waves are not too bad for the majority of it. It's almost like a. Like a sandbar reef type deal for a while. That one, I let her take them off, but then if she went further out, I'm like, you gotta put it back on, you know? Cause you're still not there with the swimming. And it's the ocean, so it's not like it's a pool where I could see her and jump down and grab her.
Leetra Tate
I was gonna say, I feel like you would be a little bit more nerve wracked over that because I'm thinking of the ocean.
Steve
Yes. Ocean scary.
Leetra Tate
Ocean scares me. And I know how to swim. I was on the swim team when I was in and I get scared of the ocean.
Steve
Okay. Yeah. I don't think about it. I mean, I get scared a little more now than I did when I was a kid because I had no fear of anything.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, when you're a kid, you don't. There's no repercussion all the way out.
Steve
We didn't have a crab. You couldn't even see me, I was so far out.
Leetra Tate
No, but when you're an adult and you can look out into the ocean and you can see nothing on the other side, I'm like, I know that means that it's really far away.
Steve
Totally. And what is underneath the ocean? Nobody knows exactly. So I don't know. I'm a conscious now.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, yeah.
Steve
So yeah, I'd make sure she'd put them on just to make sure she was safe. Just again, because you can't see the bottom. So.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Did you guys see any like sharks or whales or dolphins? We didn't see down there at that time. I know they migrate in different places, but they do.
Steve
A big whale migration usually is in the winter. Like if you were to go in like November, December, January, I believe that's the big whale time. I didn't see any sharks. We saw a lot of fish. There was dogs at one of the beaches we went to. Going out towards a Nini beach. I think it was a Nini beach, but one of the ones around near Princeville area. Some guy brought his dogs and I was like, why are they. They're having so much fun in the water. And I realized, oh, they're hunting for squid and fish and. And then they would, they would put their face down and then I was like, oh my God, he just caught a squid. And then one of me would catch a squid. But he like didn't fully catch it, but he like killed it or stunned it. So I picked it up for him and I fed him squid. So that was kind of cool to hold. I've never had one before.
Leetra Tate
Don't squid squirt? Like, don't they like squirt.
Steve
Squirt ink and stuff? Yeah, but it didn't squirt ink or if it did, I didn't see It. So that was kind of cool thing.
Leetra Tate
The movies lied to us.
Steve
Yeah. Like. Like as a defense mechanism. But maybe it did. I don't know. But yeah, I was. We saw squid. We saw sea turtles. We saw turtles. Yeah, Turtles. We saw those. Usually they randomly swim by. You'll see them.
Leetra Tate
One of my. One of my coolest experiences when we were down in Hawaii when we went to Maui. I've only been one time.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
But we snorkeled and I got to be right next to like three different sea turtles.
Steve
Oh, that's cool.
Leetra Tate
And they were so big.
Steve
They're massive.
Leetra Tate
Oh, my gosh. Yeah. And of course, we didn't touch them. You're not supposed to, even though, like, they come right up to you. Yeah, but they were so cool. It was. It was such an. I felt like I was in Finding Nemo, like, with all the turtles. Turtles, like in there.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
It felt like that moment and I was like, I just want to give you a fin.
Steve
I know. It's so cool that we. There was one beach we were gonna go to, but they wouldn't have time. Where it was turtle season. To where there's a specific beach that I think they've called Turtle beach, where they lay all their eggs. And at that moment, that's where all the babies were going into the ocean. I know, but again, there's so much to see that you can't fit it all in. It was one. I was like, oh, we should go see that because it is turtle season and this didn't work out well.
Leetra Tate
Next year.
Steve
Exactly.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, you just swap one of the things you go for. Turtle season.
Steve
Exactly.
Leetra Tate
That would be really cool to see.
Steve
It'd be cool. I think next year, though, we're doing Disneyland maybe.
Leetra Tate
Oh, you guys are not going to do your traditional Hawaiian.
Steve
Yeah, we usually do it every other year, so, like, we do it every other year because then the second year or the other year, we end up doing something like a Disney or Disneyland or World or something.
Leetra Tate
Okay.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Well, I'm going to. On. On our, like, vacation at a later point. Yeah, the new Universal Disney World again.
Steve
I heard you.
Leetra Tate
So cool.
Steve
You're going to.
Leetra Tate
I know. I'm so excited.
Steve
So pumped.
Leetra Tate
Okay, well, we got to talk about this vacation, so we're going to take a quick break. We'll be right back. Scuba Steve, we drove over a day and one hour on this entire road trip.
Steve
I saw you were all up and down the frickin country.
Leetra Tate
And I don't think. Listen, when I put together like little. Itinerary ideas.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
I just think about A to B.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
I don't really think about, like, A all the way back to F. Okay. Does that make sense?
Steve
Yeah. I know. I got a following. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So I'm like, okay, well, A to B was Nashville to Chicago.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
Seven hours. Not bad. We were in Chicago for two days. Technically, three nights. Two days. And I love Chicago. I'd never been so.
Steve
Oh, my gosh. I was one of my favorite cities.
Leetra Tate
I ate so much good food.
Steve
Yes.
Leetra Tate
I don't think I can ever eat pizza again because I had so much pizza.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Like, because everybody gave you all these different deep dish things. I'm like, well, I have to try as many as I can go on these.
Steve
Do this. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And Luminaris was the one that we didn't make. We had three on our list. We had Pequods, Luminati's and Geno's East.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
And those were, like, our three. And Luminati was gonna be the last one. I literally looked at my boyfriend the last time. I was like, no more pizza. I am stuffed. But Geno's east, between all of them, was my favorite so far. I loved it. The homemade, like, crust was insane, But I just loved their riverwalk. I. I didn't expect that river to be so clear.
Steve
Oh, yeah. Yeah, it is.
Leetra Tate
It's insane.
Steve
And then that lake is. It feels like an ocean because it's so fricking big. It's vast.
Leetra Tate
And there's a beach. Like, they walked up and down. You're literally on a beach.
Steve
Oh, yeah.
Leetra Tate
No idea. In Chicago is a city of runners.
Steve
Yeah. A lot of people running and walking.
Leetra Tate
Oh, my God.
Steve
Yeah. Big time.
Leetra Tate
You can't even go anywhere. There's like 50,000 people running all the time, running.
Steve
And then a lot of people that. They love to drink there. There's even in the grocery stores. And if you went to a grocery store. No, but the grocery stores, they have a bar in the grocery store. They do two things. So I forget the name of the grocery store because my friend David Bone, I think he met him once maybe. Anyways, he moved to Chicago and was supposed to just be there for a couple years and ended up living there for almost 10 years because he loved it so much. So there's a grocery store he took us to, and you can go grocery shopping, but before you start grocery shopping, you can stop at a bar and grab a beer, and they even have a cup holder on the shopping carts to put your beer so you can drink while you're Shopping. And then while you're shopping at the end, you can get like, if you want steak or whatever, you can bring that steak back to that bar and they'll cook your steak and have more beer while you're at the grocery store.
Leetra Tate
That's crazy.
Steve
The coolest thing ever.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, Chicago's wild.
Steve
It is wild.
Leetra Tate
Like, I love. I love the vibes. I don't think I could live there.
Steve
It's really. Gets really cold.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, that really cold. And just. I don't. I just don't think at this point, I think had I moved there instead of Nashville in my early 20s, I think I could have done it. I don't know. At this point in my life, I'm like a big city girl.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
I think I've gone out of that range. I really like the idea of like being close to a city to go and have the option but not living in it.
Steve
Yeah. Cause Nashville is like a mid city, but Chicago's like a big, big city.
Leetra Tate
But I loved it. Like, I love New York. And I was like, this would be so cool to live here. It's that vibe. And we ate at a dinner place called Trevoli Tavern, which looks so European. We sat out on the patio. They had great Christmas lights up everywhere. And it felt like I was back in Paris and Barcelona. And I was like, this is. This is so cool. But we're in Chicago and then you walk around the corner and you get ice cream or deep dish pizza.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
It was so cool. So we. That was our first stop was Chicago. Loved it. We did all the things too. We saw the Bean and walked on the Riverwalk.
Steve
Did you Macy's and see that big ass Macy's that's there?
Leetra Tate
I think we saw it. We didn't go in.
Steve
It's near the Bean. Okay.
Leetra Tate
We were walking with Remy. We also saw. He went in the Starbucks Big Star reserve place thing. I'm not a coffee drinker, so I. Yeah, yeah. But he went inside. He said it was really cool.
Steve
Did you do Sears Tower and all that? Hancock Tower?
Leetra Tate
Is that the one where you see. At the very top you see the whole city?
Steve
Yeah, it's like a. It's like an elevator. It's such a. It's almost like the Empire State Building where I think you have to transfer elevators because it's such a large tower.
Leetra Tate
No, you know, I didn't. So I did the Empire State Building in New York and I also did in Seattle, the Needle.
Steve
The Needle, Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And both of the times I was like, okay, this Is fine.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
But I wasn't like, I need to do that again.
Steve
But Sears Tower is the one too, where you can walk out on, like, a glass block. And if you walk out, you look down and then there is the floor.
Leetra Tate
Okay. That's how the needle is.
Steve
Okay. They have. Okay.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, it did. I don't think you, like, lean like you do on the. This one in Chicago, but similar vibe.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
So I didn't really have a deep design.
Steve
Yeah, I've already done it. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Like, I see the city. This is cool.
Steve
True. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So we did that. Then we drove all the way up to Two Harbors.
Steve
Did you go to a Cubs game or see Wrigley Field?
Leetra Tate
We went out in Wrigley Field.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
So we were bopping around bars over there, and we saw Wrigley Field. Like, we saw it at night, which was really cool.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Everything's all lit up, and we didn't go to a game. Another thing I don't have a deep desire to lunchbox yelled at me for that. He said it was unamerican. I was like, I hear you, but I just don't.
Steve
That's not like my boyfriend doesn't care about.
Leetra Tate
He loves sports. And, like, I think had. We, like, if there was a game or something and it worked out. Yeah.
Steve
He'd go, yeah.
Leetra Tate
But it wasn't like a. He was like, I have to do this.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
It's not one of his teams, so.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
That's what it is.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
But it was cool to see. We did go out and reallyville is really cool to go out in.
Steve
Yeah. There's a lot of cool, fun bars around there. Karaoke bars, everything.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. We were. It was bumping everywhere.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And then so from there, we went to Two Harbors, Minnesota.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
And that was like our first stop. And we went basically all up the coast of. It's called the north shore of Minnesota, Basically all the way to Grand Marais, which is the entire, like, north coastline of this. And we were in Grandma Marais. We were like 15 miles from Canada.
Steve
Oh, wow.
Leetra Tate
That's how high, like, north it all is.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
I had no idea that this existed in Minnesota.
Steve
Yeah. I've never been there myself either. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Like, all I. All you really hear about is like, the Mall of America.
Steve
Yes. Yeah. Minnesota Twins.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. Like, that's what you hear about.
Steve
Or it's like super Cold Prince is from there.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. And they have, like, the northern accents. They say A and.
Steve
Yeah. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Like in the O's. That's all I've known of Minnesota. And so when I went up there and we're seeing this, I'm like, I just had no. It looked like I was in Maine or Portland. Oregon was the type of coastline with Lake Superior right there.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And Lake Superior is monstrous, so you can't see. It looks. It might as well be an ocean.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And the coastline is, like a west coast where it's super rocky. They had a black sand beach that we went to, which was.
Steve
I saw pictures. That's really cool. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. Like, all black. And I don't even think the pictures did justice, because when we walked up, I was like, oh, it's black.
Steve
Oh, yeah.
Leetra Tate
Dark.
Steve
I've seen that. Maui has one of those. And if you saw Maui, the black beach, it's like. It's trippy. You're like, what?
Leetra Tate
Yeah. It throws you off.
Steve
Does. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And it wasn't, like, hot on your feet, which also threw me off.
Steve
Yeah. You think it's really hot, cold.
Leetra Tate
Lava.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Lava.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And then we saw this really cool split rock lighthouse, which was, like, one of our favorite moments, because that's pretty cool. Really pretty old lighthouse. And you are, like, sitting at the rocks below it, and it's just, like, out there.
Steve
Surreal. It doesn't even feel real. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Yeah, it didn't. And so that was, like, one of our favorite stops. And from Two Harbors, we ended up staying in Grand Marais and I. And Grand Marais is, like, a place that I, like, want to own a summer house someday. Like, if I ever get a lot of money in my life, I want to own a house there.
Steve
Yeah. I know a lot of people who live in Chicago will get, like, cabins or lake houses out there in Minnesota or Wisconsin because it is so beautiful.
Leetra Tate
I think everything along Lake Superior is beautiful. Just insane.
Steve
Who did most of the driving, or did you guys split?
Leetra Tate
He did most of it.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
I think I drove maybe five hours.
Steve
He's like, you ain't driving, girl.
Leetra Tate
It was only when he got really tired, I was like, you know, because we were driving the Bronco.
Steve
Okay, cool.
Leetra Tate
The Bronco has adaptive cruise control, which is great for a road trip.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And so I was. He was like, this is awesome. He was like, I want to drive. I was like, okay. But, like, it's my new car. I want to drive it, too.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
No, no.
Steve
You just say you're good. Yeah. I've seen you drive. I love you, but. Good. Go.
Leetra Tate
He does not make fun of my driving. Only one time, so. Yeah. No, he did most of it.
Steve
That's Good.
Leetra Tate
But so, yeah, Grandma, favorite, favorite part, like, highlight was Grand Marais. Second was the Split Rock Lighthouse in, like, kind of Two Harbors. Ish, Minnesota. And then third was Riverwalk.
Steve
Yeah. Okay, cool.
Leetra Tate
All associated with water.
Steve
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Leetra Tate
But what was cool about, like, Grand Marais is like, if you look to one side, there was mountains and waterfalls, and then the other side was this whole coastline.
Steve
That's really cool.
Leetra Tate
And you're just like, you're in Minnesota.
Steve
You're like, yeah, where am I? Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And it's this cute little town that's like a very vibey of, like, a lake beach town.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
And it's just everything's right there. We went to breweries and we were having fun, hanging out and trying different, like, breweries all up and down the coastline. It was just cool. I just like, Minnesota is now, like, one of my favorite places to go. And I just never would have anticipated.
Steve
It was the cost, because, I mean, you're in a different place. How was it comparative to, like, here or, like, Los Angeles or whatever? More affordable for things like a beer or for sandwiches or whatever?
Leetra Tate
There were definitely some spots that we went to that were cheaper and some that were just more expensive because it was a lake town.
Steve
Gotcha vibe. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So it just depends on where we were at along that coastline.
Steve
What was gas? A gallon. I know that's a random question if.
Leetra Tate
You remember that we were paying, like.
Steve
50 bucks to fill up.
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
Okay. It's not bad.
Leetra Tate
And we get like 350.
Steve
Oh, 350.
Leetra Tate
Whatever the math is on that.
Steve
Yeah. Okay. I'll figure it out later.
Leetra Tate
And sometimes the. The mileage went a lot better when we were, like, cruise controlling for a long time.
Steve
Yeah. Depending if you're going up a hill or downhill. Okay, gotcha.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. All that also math. So there are some times that it would last longer or whatever.
Steve
And then after Minnesota, did you then come back down or what?
Leetra Tate
Yeah.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
We came all the way back down. We stopped in Minneapolis because my uncle lives there. So we went and visited my family for, like, an hour, saw him. And.
Steve
Did you go to the mall? America. Oh, damn it.
Leetra Tate
I couldn't be the stereotype, you know?
Steve
Yeah, I want to be the stereotype.
Leetra Tate
Well, I thought about the dream of mine. We got Universal and stuff coming up.
Steve
Like, you know, we got the Nickelodeon theme park inside there.
Leetra Tate
Okay. But that's a you thing. You love Nickelodeon.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
That's your whole thing.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And I had a lot of people who wrote me and were like, don't do It. It's overrated.
Steve
Yeah. But they did it though. They got to do it, so screw them.
Leetra Tate
Probably that's where it came from.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
They just.
Steve
They don't. They don't like to have fun. Okay.
Leetra Tate
Probably. We didn't stay there. We literally just popped through. I did get the biggest cinnamon roll the size of my face in Minneapolis.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
That I had seen on Instagram. And it was so worth the hype.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
I'll Buns and coffee. Al bun and coffee. And this was the most bomb cinnamon roll.
Steve
I love cinnamon rolls too.
Leetra Tate
So if you do go to the Mall of America, you have to go get a cinnamon roll. And they had. And I got a chocolate chip cookie because that also looked really good. Both. Both bomb.
Steve
Okay. All right, cool. On this bucket list of places that I hope I can go to at.
Leetra Tate
Some point, Mall of America and out Bunny coffee.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And then, yeah, we've stopped back through. We went to Dubuque, Iowa.
Steve
Dubuque, Iowa. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. And Galena, Illinois. They're like right next the river. And that was really cool. Iowa also shocked me. It wasn't like my favorite part of the trip. I think more just because it reminded me a lot of Kansas. There was a lot of cornfield, but there was so much more to Iowa. Like, we did a Mines of Spain hike where these insane rocks are out there. We also did one at Pikes Peak State park, which showed you the entire Mississippi, like river, like out there, which was a cool view. And seeing the Mississippi river from that perspective was awesome.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So I was shocked how cool Iowa was. Like scenic wise, you know, how close.
Steve
You were to that Axe Murder House. That lunchbox went to the sill.
Leetra Tate
Let me see. Where is that on the map?
Steve
Yeah. So Axe Murder House, I think it's in Vasila, Iowa.
Leetra Tate
Axe Murder House on a map. Show me it.
Steve
Yeah. I'm curious if you were close enough where you could have stopped by there.
Leetra Tate
Just for gone and. Hey, did you guys ghost lunchbox?
Steve
No, not close enough.
Leetra Tate
So they. That is in the south west corner.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
We were more in the northeast corner.
Steve
Gotcha. Okay.
Leetra Tate
And like all. Basically all the way down the border and then through illinois back to St. Louis.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
The route we came.
Steve
Maybe next time we go there.
Leetra Tate
I also don't have a deep desire for that one.
Steve
No, I wouldn't either. Not at all.
Leetra Tate
In Galeno is really cool. Illinois, it's like this cute little out of nowhere town in Illinois. It's 20 minutes from Dubuque. They're like right next to Each other. The Mississippi river is crazy because you can see Wisconsin at one point and you can see Illinois all while you're on Iowa.
Steve
But did you go over the Mississippi river on a bridge?
Leetra Tate
So that's how. So we were in Dubuque, Iowa. That's where we stayed.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And then we went over the bridge to go to Galena, Illinois.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
Because everybody's hyping up, like, said this really little town was awesome. It was. There's shops up and down this huge main street, and we ate at, like, a cute little ice cream parlor, and.
Steve
I love those kind of places.
Leetra Tate
Oh, it was so cute.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Cute small town. If you're ever driving through there, that was worth it. The stop, for sure.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
And then we came back.
Steve
That's cool. How long was the drive back? Once? So Glean, Iowa, was your last, like, stop, stop, and you went straight from there back to Nashville.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. Which I thought was gonna be another seven hours, but it was nine.
Steve
But you didn't have to drive it, so who cares?
Leetra Tate
I did it. Not a single bit of that.
Steve
That's awesome.
Leetra Tate
And I was like, I really thought that was seven. He's like, it's fine. We're already here. We just have to get home now.
Steve
Was there any, like, when you're doing the road trip parts of it and you weren't stopping for, like, cities, but there any. Cool. Like, I'm so obsessed with, like, random gas stations or rest stops along the way because they always have, like, weird sodas or snacks or something.
Leetra Tate
Okay. So this is my shiny moment.
Steve
Okay.
Leetra Tate
Because after going from Chicago to Minnesota, we drove all through. All through Wisconsin.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
What is Wisconsin known for?
Steve
Cheese.
Leetra Tate
Okay.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
He really had to go pee. And I'm like, dang, we have to stop again. And as soon as they were, like, pulling off, I'm like, it says cheese. And he's like, okay, well, we'll just go there. And I'm like, heck, yeah. We drive up. It's Cheese Chalet. Oh, it's an entire house of cheese.
Steve
That's awesome.
Leetra Tate
So of course, we went in.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And I bought cheese.
Steve
Yeah. You have to. That's so badass.
Leetra Tate
It was so awesome. Like, that was, like, a really cool pit stop. And I was just like, you would have thought that I just saw the shining, like, thing that I've wanted to see my entire.
Steve
Totally. That was Santa Claus right in front of you right there. It was granting whatever gifts you wanted.
Leetra Tate
I was, like, in shock. I was like, how do I bring all of this cheese back home?
Steve
Well, it's cheese and fudge, which is like a lot. Lactose intolerance. Worst nightmare. It really is.
Leetra Tate
It's probably not great for me either, but I was so. I was in heaven.
Steve
Who cares? Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. That was a really cool bit. Stop.
Steve
That's awesome.
Leetra Tate
And it was cool. Like, honestly, the whole drive pretty much. Besides, like, really at the beginning and right at the end, all the rest of that drive was pretty hilly and scenic and really lush and green. So it was a cool drive.
Steve
Yeah. It's not a drive you've ever done before. So it's. It's all new and. Which is like, oh, this is really cool. You get to see all this undiscovered.
Leetra Tate
You. Well. And when you go from Chicago up to, like, Minnesota, you like, once you get to Minnesota, Duluth is where we, like, we went out a little bit in Duluth, but that entire Duluth to Grand Marais, which is like two and a half hours stretch.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Is like the Pacific coast highway. But theirs.
Steve
Okay. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
So you're all along Lake Superior Lake the whole time.
Steve
That's really cool.
Leetra Tate
And that was a cool drive.
Steve
That is really cool. So how many miles did you put on your Bronco?
Leetra Tate
Oh, over 2,000.
Steve
Okay. Wow. Okay.
Leetra Tate
Yeah. It was crazy. It so was. And the Bronco was awesome to drive.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
And we had all the, like, bells and whistles on that, which made the road trip easier.
Steve
Yeah. Oh, my gosh. Yeah.
Leetra Tate
It was so good. Like, I. I would love it. I would recommend it to anybody. I'm. I'm wild, though. And I do random.
Steve
Yeah.
Leetra Tate
Road trips.
Steve
It's almost like. You got that car for this trip.
Leetra Tate
Oh, yeah. I got a car that would be great for road trips because that's what I do.
Steve
That's what. Yeah, that's what you're known for. Yeah. You're walking the road trip, girl.
Leetra Tate
Exactly. All right. We're going to get out of here, but scuba. Thanks for sharing yours.
Steve
Heck, yeah, I appreciate it. Thanks for sharing yours.
Leetra Tate
And I'm excited about this new season of life for you.
Steve
Me, too.
Leetra Tate
It's crazy things happening. Okay, so tell people where they can hear that. Listen to that.
Steve
Yeah. So they can listen to it Monday through Friday, depending on where you're at in the world. It's 7 to 10 central, so if you're on the West coast, it's 5pm is when it starts. So 5 to 8. West Coast Mountain, it's 6 to 9. Central, it's 7 to 10. And East coast, it is 8 to 11. And if you're in Hawaii it is 2pm to 7pm okay.
Leetra Tate
But if you go on the iHeart app, can you listen to it?
Steve
Yeah. To make it less confusing, it's 77 to 10pm Central. If you're in Nashville, you can listen to it on your physical radio. It's 105.9. But if you're, you know, not in Nashville or the proper area, you could, yeah, download the iHeartRadio app. It's free Escortis and then just type in 10, 5, 9 the rock. Maybe, I think maybe Nashville, but you'll see it there. Or if you just follow me on Instagram. Scuba Steve Radio. It's in my bio and then I always put up a link and stuff.
Leetra Tate
Scuba's going to be posting more on social media too. I know it.
Steve
Oh, I'm so excited. I love social media. It's my favorite thing in the whole world to do.
Leetra Tate
You have to. This easy means you have to post.
Steve
That's the one thing I loathe is having to post crap on Instagram.
Leetra Tate
Well, this is where you are now.
Steve
Yeah, I know, I know.
Leetra Tate
Chasing dreams, baby. Bye, everybody.
Steve
That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks for listening. Be sure to check out the other two parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social platforms. Bobby Bones show. And follow at Webgirl Morgan to submit your listener questions for next week's episode.
Leetra Tate
If you're looking for another heavy podcast about trauma, this ain't it. This is for the ones who had to survive and still show up as brilliant, loud, soft and whole. The Unwanted Sorority is where black women, femmes and gender expansive survivors of sexual violence rewrite the rules on healing, support and what happens after. And I'm your host and co president of this organization, Dr. Lea Tritate. Listen to the Unwanted Sorority. New episodes every Thursday on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Steve
Smokey the Bear. Then you know why Smokey tells you when he sees you passing through. Remember, please be careful. It's the least that you can do.
Leetra Tate
Just to what you desire.
Steve
Don't play with matches.
Leetra Tate
Don't play with fire. After 80 years of learning his wildfire prevention tips, Smokey Bear lives within us all. Learn more@smokeybear.com and remember, only you can prevent wildfires. Brought to you by the USDA Forest Service, your state forester and the ad Council. Hi guys. I'm Andrea Gunning, host of Betrayal. I'm excited to bring you all season four, a story of a cop and his double life. I wanted to let you know that you can get access to all episodes of betrayal season 1, 2, 3 and betrayal weekly and every single episode of betrayal season 4 ad free with an iheart true crime plus subscription available exclusively on Apple podcasts plus, you'll get access to all episodes of betrayal season 4 one week ahead of everyone else, available only to I Heart True Crime plus subscribers. So don't wait. Head to Apple Podcasts, search for I Heart True Crime plus and subscribe Today. The Girlfriends is back with a new season, and this time I'm telling you the story of Kelly Harnett. Kelly spent over a decade in prison for a murder she says she didn't commit. As she fought for her freedom, she taught herself the law. He goes, oh God. Harnett Jailhouse Lawyer and became a beacon of hope for the women locked up alongside her. You're supposed to have faith in God.
Steve
But I had nothing but faith in her.
Leetra Tate
I think I was put here to save souls by getting people out of prison. The Girlfriends Jailhouse Lawyer Listen from July 14th on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Steve
I know a lot of cops. They get asked all the time, have you ever had to shoot your gun? Sometimes the answer is yes. But there's a company dedicated to a future where the answer will always be no. This is Absolute Season one, Taser Incorporated.
Leetra Tate
I get right back there and it's bad.
Steve
Listen to Absolute Season 1 Taser incorporated on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Leetra Tate
This is an iHeart podcast.
Podcast Summary: The Bobby Bones Show – "Scuba’s New Gig & He Goes To Hawaii, and Morgan’s Road Trip Up North"
Release Date: July 12, 2025
In this episode of The Bobby Bones Show, host Leetra Tate engages in an in-depth conversation with Steve, popularly known as Scuba Steve, about his exciting new venture in the radio industry. Steve unveils his transition from being a part of a morning show to launching his own nighttime rock-centric radio program.
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Steve shares his nearly two-decade-long journey in the radio industry, highlighting the challenges and perseverance required to reach this pivotal moment. He discusses his strategic approach to creating a unique rock show amidst a market dominated by country and pop formats.
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The conversation delves into Steve’s personal sentiments about finally realizing his dream. He expresses a profound sense of peace and confidence, attributing his readiness to years of diverse experiences within the radio business. This segment underscores the importance of patience, preparation, and maintaining strong professional relationships.
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Steve recounts his recent vacation to Kauai, Hawaii, emphasizing the island’s serene and lush environment. He describes spontaneous adventures, such as building a beach fire and witnessing unique wildlife, which enhanced his family’s vacation experience.
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Leetra Tate narrates her road trip from Nashville to Chicago and then north to Minnesota. She highlights Chicago’s vibrant food scene, particularly its famed deep-dish pizza, and her exploration of Minnesota’s stunning Lake Superior coastline. The trip included visits to picturesque towns like Grand Marais and memorable pit stops such as Cheese Chalet in Wisconsin.
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Throughout the episode, both hosts emphasize the importance of pursuing one’s dreams regardless of age or societal timelines. They share inspiring stories, including that of an 83-year-old author, reinforcing that it’s never too late to achieve personal aspirations.
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Wrapping up the episode, Steve provides listeners with information on how to access his new radio show. He highlights the show's schedule across different time zones and encourages listeners to follow him on social media for updates.
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This episode serves as both a personal milestone for Steve and a source of motivation for listeners to pursue their passions relentlessly. Through engaging storytelling and heartfelt conversations, The Bobby Bones Show delivers an uplifting narrative that celebrates perseverance and the joy of achieving long-held dreams.