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The Bobby Bones Show
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This is an iHeart podcast, the Super Secret Bestie Club podcast. Season four is here and we're locked in. That means more juicy cheesement, terrible love advice, evil spells to cast on your ex.
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No, no, we're not doing that this season.
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Oh, well, this season we're leveling up.
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Each episode will feature a special bestie and you're not gonna wanna miss it. My name is Curly.
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And I'm Maya.
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Get in here.
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Listen to the Super Secret Bestie club on the iHeartrad podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
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I just normally do straight stand up, but this is a bit different.
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What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where a comedian finds himself at the center of a chilling true crime story.
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Does anyone know what show they've come to see? It's a story. It's about the scariest night of my life.
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This is Wisecrack, available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Jenica Lopez, and in the new season of the Over Comfort podcast, I'm even more honest, more vulnerable, and more real than ever. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? Join me for conversations about healing and growth, all from one of my favorite spirits spaces, the kitchen. Listen to the new season of the Overcomer podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
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I'm Dr. Scott Barry Kaufman, host of the psychology podcast. Here's a clip from an upcoming conversation about how to be a better you. When you think about emotion regulation, you're not going to choose an adaptive strategy which is more effortful to use unless you think there's a good outcome. Avoidance is easier. Ignoring is easier. Denial is easier. Complex problem takes effort. Listen to the Psychology podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
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Hi, it's Honey German, and I'm back with season two of my podcast. Gracias. Come again. We got you. When it comes to the latest in music and entertainment, with interviews with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition.
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No, I didn't audition. I haven't auditioned in, like, over 25 years.
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Oh, wow. That's a real G talk right there. Oh, yeah, we'll talk about all that's Viral and trending with a little bit of cheesem and a whole lot of laughs. And of course, the great bibras you've come to expect. Listen to the new season of Gracias. Come Again on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcast.
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Here we go.
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Come on, Bobby. Transmitting across America.
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This is the Bobby Bone Show. Let's go. Welcome to Thursday's show Morning studio. Morning. There's a story about 11 year old that was shot. He did ding dong dips.
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Oh, I saw that. That's terrible.
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This story sucks. I'm going to play it. Go ahead. A witness said someone ran out of that house and was shooting at the kids running down the street. And unfortunately and sadly enough, the one of the boys who was 11 years old was shot in the back. An 11 year old boy died after being shot while playing ding dong ditch with friends. The shooting happened on 11pm when the boy and his friends were ringing doorbells and running away as part of the prank. According to police, someone came out of the house with a gun and opened fire. So whomever this is, that's murder. Yeah. Because that's not protecting your house if you shoot anyone running away even if you're back. Even. Yeah, even if you're in a castle law state, which Texas is. According to police, they have detained one person for questioning. Yeah, that sucks. They had to do the bullhorn it like get the person to come out of the house. Oh, like come out like swat. Yeah. Houston homicide detective Michael Cass of the circumstances don't appear to support a self defense claim. Yeah, no crap. A kid and in the back. And I'm sure there's stuff in the same road happening that scares them but you can't come out. Guns ablazing. Noting the shooting wasn't close to the house which could possibly result in a murder charge. ABC News. I don't hate ding dong ditch but. And kids aren't going to listen. But maybe like tell your kids don't do ding dong ditch at night. Like super late at night. We've had to tell my kids just not to ding dong ditch because they were just going it's all over. Tick tock. I know. But they were going around the whole neighborhood and then people they don't even know. Like you could pick the wrong house like this. This person did. So they were. And also everybody has a ring cam now.
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Yeah.
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Some sort of. It's way different than we were kids. They were just doing it all, man. Every neighborhood. Every house in the neighborhood. And then they ran into some houses where, like, the neighbors were upset. Like, do it one more time. We're going to call the cops. And I said, guys, just please do it to your friends houses. That's it. Like, don't do it to random people's houses. It's more fun to do it to random people, though. I get it. But it's not.
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But at night, like, late.
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No, it's dangerous. So I want to do this. These are tips that could be making your insomnia worse, or if you just get in a bad kick where you're not sleeping well, these are things that you. You're doing that could be making it worse or things you're not doing, they can be making it worse. Number one, people will say, go to bed earlier if you can't get sleep. They said, that's wrong. Don't stay in bed longer if you can't get enough sleep. It does seem logical to go to bed earlier. But the thing is, the more time you spend in bed awake, the more your brain associates it with stress instead of sleep. So it's not a thing where if you just lay in bed longer and just lay there, it'll make you go to sleep. Number two, you don't have to cut screens out completely. It's my favorite part. It's the only reason I'm bright on the story. It's the only reason.
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Okay, explain it.
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Because we've all heard there's blue light coming off our phones. It's not even really blue, by the way. And I have to put the dimmer on mine. My wife's like, put your blue light thing on. Because it's a setting on the iPhone now, too. But what's going on in your head, and I think this happens to me might be a bigger problem than what the screen is doing. Like, my screen helps me. And so lying in bed, for some people without something to focus on is even worse than just laying there going raw dog nothing. Because it leads to overthinking. It leads to your brain being stimulated in ways, because it has. I need to listen to something to get me off of thinking about everything I'm worried about the next day. And so that's what this says, too. When you have something to distract your thoughts. If you're that type of person, it can be extremely helpful. So get on screens is what I say.
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Or read a book.
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Get on no screens swearing off caffeine. You don't necessarily have to give up caffeine. It depends on how your body handles it. Caffeine does nothing to me. Nothing, Nothing. It doesn't amp me up. If I drink. I don't. I don't drink a lot of caffeine, but if I drink it at night, doesn't do anything. It doesn't keep me up. My brain does that. That's why I need my screen.
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Yeah. Like, I'm good there.
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And then things like expecting sleep consistency because age, stress, hormones, weather is a factor. Some nights sleep just gonna be easier than other nights because of things that you can't even control. So you're not always gonna get your solid hours. Like, I have this I wear aura ring now to track my sleep. I'm very much a sleep obsessed person. Look at my sleep last night. Wonder if I can show it to you. Well, it went off the screen. There's like a hole in the middle of it because it shows you how you're asleep. A straight line. And it's like two and a half hours. Massive hole for like three hours. Two and a half hours.
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So what's the massive hole?
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Me waking up. He's awake.
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Oh, yeah.
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That's a weird question. Hey, so what's the massive hole?
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Well, I didn't know if that indicated, like, maybe you're still sleeping, you're just not in your room. Like, do you ever even make it to remember?
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Occasionally. Yeah, occasionally. But, yeah, that's it. So what we learn. Screen, screen, screen, screen, screen, screen, screens, screen, screens. All right, thanks. Question to be. Hello, Bobby Bones. Is getting my wife involved in golf a mistake? I love my wife. I don't spend as much time with her as I'd like. We have three young kids. Golf would be great. To add to our list of things we could do while vacationing together. My concern would be the feelings of being left out on the inevitable times. I can make it work to golf with friends, but she cannot. My wife is athletic. I think she would get good. I feel like the common sentiment is that golf is cherished but is also a much needed time with my guy friends. Should I invite her to play golf? Signed golfing husband. Amy, you're shaking your head because, yes.
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You should invite her, especially if she would enjoy it and it's something y' all can do together. And I think she'll be reasonable and understand that you also might golf with your boys sometimes. Like, don't be crazy thinking we want to spend every minute with y'. All.
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Okay, I'd like for you to elaborate on that.
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I don't think we. I mean, sure, y' all have a lot of activities that take a lot of time. And sometimes if you overdo golf, it can be annoying and excessive.
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No such thing as overdoing golf, but go ahead.
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There is.
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No.
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No, there is. If you're doing 18 holes multiple times a week. Like, it's very time consuming. That would be awesome and extensive. So I would just say you're jumping to conclusions that if you invite her to golf and she likes it, that she's going to automatically want to play with you all the time. What if sometimes she wants to play with other people?
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But I think it's not a conclusion to jump to if you know her and know her personality, and he's probably only basing this on he knows how she is because she knows how he is. I would say this is not something that she probably even wants to do unless she's expressed it. You're looking for a way to play more golf is what it sounds like. And you're thinking to just invite her along as a way for you to play more golf without being guilted or saying, hey, don't play as much golf. I don't think this is the move unless she has expressed that she wants to play golf. I don't think you start getting her involved in golf because I don't think she's gonna like it. And then also there is the underlying, does she want to come all the time? And both of those kind of suck. I tried to get my wife in golf. She fooled me. She was like, yeah, I'll play. So I played a couple times, and she was oddly good for a newbie, and golf is the hardest sport. She was good, and I was like, awesome. She's gonna play more. And she's like, I'm over it. She's like, if I play two holes and I'm not feeling it, I want to go home. I'm like, that's how golf works, right? So I've tried this. Didn't really work out for us. I would say, don't you just want to play more golf? And you think asking her to do it's going to allow you to. You want to have your cake and eat it, too? You want to ask her to play golf so you can play more golf, yet you don't want her to jump in when you're already playing golf? That's unfair.
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Okay.
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Typical guy. Typical, typical guy. Bad idea all around. What I say. All right, thank you for the email. Close it up. We went to the Cubs game last night in Chicago and had a couple hot dogs. They were awesome. And I was Like, Eddie, you want a hot dog? I didn't even think about it. He was like, I'm good. Can't do it. He was hungry.
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Smell him.
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Still had PTSD from trying to eat 70 hot dogs.
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Yeah, I would too.
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So even a great hot dog at a baseball game he can't get involved in because he's scarred. And that's like, you can't go to a baseball game and not have a hot dog. That's what I was thinking. But as soon as I saw yours, I'm like, blah, I can't do it. I was like, dude, you want one? You're good. Yeah, I don't think so.
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What'd you do? Like peanuts now?
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I just had a beer. He literally just had a beer. Yep. The Powerball, it's still there. $1.7 billion. Nobody hit it again. That tells you how hard it is to hit. You know, we talked about the whole thing where it's like you have a 1 in 242 million chance. You have better odds of being the President of the United States than actually winning this. And the fact that millions of people play it and still they don't hit it shows you how hard it is to hit it. So it's 1.7 billion. When is the next one? Saturday night. That's crazy. If you win, you can elect to receive annuity payments of over 5 million annually for over 30 years. Or you can take the one time lump sum of 770 million. That's before taxes.
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Oh, yeah, lump sum.
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That and the odds of winning are 1 in 292.2 million. So I'm sure somebody from California is going to win. They often do. The biggest ones ever. In 2022, there was a 2.04 billion from California. In 2023, there was a 1.7 billion from California. In January of 2016, there was a 1.586 billion from California. Yeah. Top three of California.
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So do we need to go there? Can we go there and get tickets now?
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It's just weird to fly to California to buy a $2 ticket. The fact that all these people in California are winning. A couple things are happening. One, it's a big state with a heavy population, so you would think they would win at least a little more than other states because again, you have major metropolitan areas. You got Los Angeles, San Diego, San Francisco. Yeah, like two of the top 10 media markets. That being said, it is fishy because the state gets a part of it.
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Yeah.
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Like the taxes. So, yeah, it does feel a little Weird. I saw a story about the Publisher's Clearinghouse, and when we were kids, that was a thing you saw on television, and they'd, like, show up with a big check because you'd get this envelope in the mail, and it would be like, do you want to do Publishers Clearinghouse? And you do stamps on it, and you send it back in, and maybe you win. It was like a lottery. And so it went bankrupt. And the people who won and were getting Forever money no longer got their money because they didn't have the money to give away. Right. And so there's a guy in Oregon who won a Publishers Clearinghouse sweepstakes back in 2012, which was to pay him 20 grand a month. He was gonna get 5,000 bucks a week forever. So you're looking at over 200,000 bucks a year forever. Good job. The checks just stopped coming. They filed for bankruptcy, and at least 10 former winners of Forever Prizes no longer get their payments. Wow.
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Oh.
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And you could think, well, that sucks. They got some free money. But this guy says he can't even find a job because he's been out of the workforce so long because he just stopped working because he was getting money forever. Yeah. They didn't have a. That. Listen. That sucks.
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That does.
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It's hard. It's a weird. It's. It's hard.
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Mm. That's why you got to keep your job, I think, when you're getting a chair.
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I don't know. That's true. If I'm, like, 56, I'm, like, 10 years away from retirement, and I'm getting $260,000 a year, and that's what I was making anyway. I'm not. I'm not working anymore.
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Yeah. But I'm saying we learn from this.
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I don't think the company's going to go bankrupt. That promised me money forever.
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But now we know it might.
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Yeah. If I win now, I'll keep working. Could this be for the lottery, though? Like, if the lottery goes bankrupt in 20 years, could you, like, just not get money? No.
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Sure.
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If you elect to do the payments. Most people don't. I think there's some stat that, like, 88% of people do lump sum. Okay. So you get all your money. Then they can't come back and get it unless you want, like, a scratch off. That's one of those that specifically pays you per week or per month forever or 20 years or 40 years. Yeah. It's kind of a crappy story. It's hard to feel super sorry for them because they like, they won something, right? They won. That's cool. See? Yeah. We just suck.
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I know every state has different things that they give to, but, like, when it gets this big, like 1.7 billion, and people are just buying lottery tickets like crazy. Like, our education system should be getting a bump, right?
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You would think we'd be the most educated fools in the world. These things have been going billions of dollars, Right?
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Because I hear commercials all the time. They're like, oh, yeah, you've done this for the education here. Da, da, da. And I'm like, but have we really? Like, yeah.
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I feel like we're dumber. I'll be honest with you. I feel like we're getting dumber. Yeah, that's a great point. I don't know. Or like, I don't know where that money goes. Teachers, how do we know where money goes?
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Yeah, Yeah.
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I don't hear teachers going, you know what? Ever since the lottery.
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Yeah. Things have been great.
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I got money coming out all the holes. Yeah. Weird. Yeah, that's a good point. Maybe we should ask our politicians, like, where's our money going? You say it's going to these places, but we can't really track it.
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Yeah. And who's really running everything, you know?
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Here we go. Let's go. I'm in. I'm in.
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I should not be rewatching Scandal right now, but I am.
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And let me tell you, watch those fictional shows.
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You think the president's in charge? He's not.
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He's not. It's a. It's. It's a body of individuals.
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Yeah. You cut the head off the snake.
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Another one will come up who remains constant. What are you guys saying? They're just saying things we've just heard in, like, script of fictional television shows. Yeah.
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Shonda Rhimes brain.
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Yeah. So here's what we're gonna do. You guys want to call us? We'd love to hear from you. 877-77-Bobby. That's our number. 877-77-B O, B B Y. Hit us up. Let's play the Bobby feud. We asked 2000 Bobby Bonesho listeners, just name a famous rock band. That's the category. Now, Eddie, you're out because you finished last last time. This one. Amy. We rolled the dice backstage. You'll go first. We asked 2000-Bobby Bone show listeners. We just said, name a famous rock band. Top 10 answers are on the board, Amy.
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Go Guns N Roses. What?
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Show me.
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Are they not on there? Oh, Guns.
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There's no way you can't wait. You said it.
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I know.
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Incorrect. Wow. Okay.
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Just kidding.
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That's wild.
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But they're not on there. That's what I went with.
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Both. No, that. You went with that first. Okay, Lunchbox. Rolling Stones. Show me the Stones. Correct. And your favorite Rolling Stone song would be. Highway to Hell. That's acdc. That's a good one, man. Dang it. All right, you're up. Acdc. I shouldn't have said that. That's what I'm written. That's on me. Yeah. Number 10 answer. ACDC. What's your favorite ACDC song? Highway. Hell. Okay. Yeah. Next up, Metallica. Show me Metallica. Number nine, answer. He's getting the big points. What's your favorite Metallica song? Inner Sandman. Correct. Good job. For Whom the Bell Tolls. Yeah. That's all I got. We asked 2, 000 listeners name a famous rock band. So far, Lunchbox has 21 points. Big points. Yeah. Red Hot Chili Peppers. Show me the Chili Peppers. No. Under the bridge. Didn't ask for a song. All right, Morgan. Name a famous rock band.
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I'm gonna go with the Eagles.
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Show me the Eagles. Wow. Good job. Number eight answer.
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Nice.
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Name a song.
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Fly. Fly Away Eagle. I don't know. I know.
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Fly like an Eagle. Is that what Accepted. Hotel California. That have been one. That's a cool song. Okay, next one up, I'm gonna go.
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With Eddie's favorite band. Pearl Jam.
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Show me Pearl Jam. Oh, dang. That's shocking. Okay, after One round, Amy, zero. Lunchbox 21. Morgan, eight points are now doubled in round two of three, Amy.
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Aerosmith.
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Good. Show me Aerosmith.
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Okay. This is not my game.
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Over to Lunchbox. A rock band. Oh, man. I don't know. If the Eagles are rock, then give me the Beatles, because it's another living creature. I feel like they're the same. Kind of sound like. No, no, no, no. Nice and easy to listen to. And I don't know if they rock. Show me. What's your favorite Beatles song? Abbey Road. Interesting. Is that one. Show me the Beatles. Number one answer. Okay, for two points. And Abbey Road's an album. Got it. Got one. Kiss. They rock. They're rock. Show me Kiss. Can you name a song? I am Gene Simmons. Not a song. What's in the band? He's a guy, right? Like, I wanna rock and roll all night. Their song is I want to rock and roll all night. And they're not a rock and roll band. No one said they're not a rock and roll band. Oh, All Right, Morgan.
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I'm gonna go with Queen.
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Show me Queen. Number three answer.
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Nice.
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Any song there is.
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We will, we will rock you.
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That is it. Correct. Is that them? You have 14 points now. Yeah, there are. And I'll walk the listeners through what we've already covered. The Beatles at 1, the Rolling Stones at 2, Queen at 3, the Eagles at 8, Metallica at 9, ACDC at 10. There are four answers still left on the board. We asked 2000 Bobby Bunch of listeners, name a famous rock band.
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My next one, I know because of Kurt Cobain. I'm gonna go with Nirvana.
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Show me Nirvana. That.
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Wow.
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Number seven answer. 14 points. And your favorite Nirvana song is?
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I have no idea.
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Come as you are, as you were As I want you to be. Yeah, I didn't. I didn't get. Morgan takes the lead with 28 points.
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Okay, they've been. Well, some of them have been in the studio. I feel like this is a major one. I don't know if they're considered rock, though. I think they would be three doors down.
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Show me three doors down.
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A
Are they a rock?
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Yeah. Okay. Points are tripled. Amy, you have a zero.
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Yeah.
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Now you can still win the thing. There are three bands left. Four, five, and six. Okay, you two, show me you two. Number six answer worth 18 points.
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A
Okay. Is there anybody left?
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B
It's close. Amy's got 18 points now. Lunchbox, 23. Morgan, 20.
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Is this and Rock.
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There are two left or more.
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A
What do they call that? Like, okay, fine. Coldplay.
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B
Show me Coldplay. Good guess, though. They're rock band. They count. All right, Lunchbox. Amy, by the way, you're last place. No one can be fall behind you. You'll be sitting out the next round. Lunchbox, you got to get one of these to win. Yeah, I know, man. I know, man. When you think of rock, what do you think of, Bobby? Guitars. Okay, like, do you think, like, heavy metal? Like. Like hair band, like back in the day? Or you thinking, like, more current? Man, I don't think anymore. Like, do you think, like. I don't think anymore. Oh, is it like, someone you think I'd listen to or. Five seconds. Linkin Park. Show me Linkin Park. Morgan. Stupid.
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A
I mean, I don't need anything here, but.
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B
Oh, dang. She won it in two rounds. Go ahead.
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So I'm just gonna guess this because it's a controversial pick, but they are a massive rock band. It'd be Nickelback.
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Nickelback. The other two answers are. Hey, you wanna take a guess there? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Go ahead, Foo Fighters. Show me Foo Fighters. Mr. Cocky over there. No, I'm just giving. Just guessing. Give another one. ZZ Top. And at number five, Pink Floyd. There you go. Morgan is a winner.
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Hi, I'm Jenica Lopez, and in the new season of the Overcomer podcast, I'm taking you on an exciting journey of self awareness, reflection. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? I wanted to be successful on my own, not just because of who my mom is. Like, I felt like I needed to be better or work twice as hard as she did. Join me for conversations about healing and growth. Life is freaking hard, and growth doesn't happen in comfort. It happens in motion, even when you're hurting. All from one of my favorite spaces, the kitchen. Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcome for podcast as part of the Michael Tura Podcast Network on the I Heart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The Super Secret Bestie Club podcast. Season four is here, and we're locked in. That means more juicy cheeseme, terrible love advice, evil spells to cast on your ex.
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No, no, we're not doing that this season.
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Oh, well, this season we're leveling up.
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Each episode will feature a special bestie, and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here. Today we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret bestie is the diva of the people. The diva of the people. I'm just like Texturex. My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it. Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay, that's us. What the heck? That's us. My name is Curly and I'm Maya. In each episode, we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men, and of course, our favorite secrets.
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Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club as a part of the Microtura Podcast Network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
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B
My name is Ed. Everyone say hello, Ed. Hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer and my mum is a cousin. So, like, it's not like, what do.
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A
You get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago.
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B
I just normally do straight stand up. But this is a bit different.
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A
On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear.
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B
On 22 July 2015, a 23 year old man had killed his family and then he came to my house.
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A
So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where stand up comedy and murder take center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Dr. Joy Hardin Bradford, and in session 421 of Therapy for Black Girls, I sit down with Dr. Afia and Billy Shaka to explore how our hair connects to our identity, mental health and the ways we heal. Because I think hair is a complex language system, right, in terms of it can tell how old you are, your marital status, where you're from, your spiritual beliefs. But I think with social media there's like a hyper fixation and observation of our hair, right? That this is sometimes the first thing someone sees when we make a post or a reel is how our hair is styled. We talk about the important role hairstylists play in our community, the pressure to always look put together and how breaking up with perfection can actually free us. Plus, if you're someone who gets anxious about flying, don't miss session 418 with Dr. Angela Neal Barnett, where we dive into managing flight anxiety. Listen to therapy for black Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Get fired up, y'. All. Season 2 of Good Game with Sarah Spain is underway. We just welcomed one of my favorite people and an incomparable soccer icon, Megan Rapinoe to the show and we had a blast. We talked about her recent 40th birthday celebrations, Co hosting a podcast with her fiance Sue, Bird watching former teammates retire and more. Never a dull moment with Pino. Take a listen. What do you miss the most about being a pro athlete? The final. The final and the locker room. I really, really like you. Just you can't replicate, you can't get back showing up to the locker room every morning just to sh. Talk. We've got more incredible guests like the legendary Candace Parker and college superstar AZ Foote. I mean, seriously, y', all, the guest list is absolutely stacked for season two and you know we're always going to keep you up to speed on all the news and happenings around the women's sports world as well. So make sure you listen to Good Game with Sarah Spain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Capital One, founding partner of iHeart. Women's sports.
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B
It's time for the good news with Amy. Tell me something good.
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A
So there's a teacher, Julie Bugola, who has been dealing with a lot of health issues. She's had five heart surgeries just to keep her body functioning properly. Well, then her liver started acting up, and she needed help, so she turned to Facebook and put up a post. Well, a fellow teacher, they teach at the same school, Lucha Swindig, saw the post and was like, wait a second. What do you need? Like, I'll see if I can help out. So, sure enough, she was a match, and she gave 60% of her liver to Julie.
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B
Wow.
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A
The surgery happened. Everyone is doing well. In fact, it says in the article that they are thriving. And Julie is especially grateful. Like, she wakes up every day just with such gratitude, reflecting on their relationship. And it's just kind of crazy because they were teachers together, and she had no idea she was in this crisis until she saw the Facebook post.
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B
Oh, Facebook. Doing something good. I never believed it. This story has convinced me. Facebook's still got a little good to it. All right, There you go. That's what it's all about. That was. Tell me something good, Bones. It's time to reveal my favorite, favorite lifetime NFL. Favorite team.
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A
Life. Lifetime, starting now.
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B
Lifetime. My favorite team all my life. Oh, my God. Okay. Started with four teams, which, by the way, I never had a favorite NFL team growing up. I grew up in Arkansas. We don't have pro sports. That's why I'm a big Razorback fan. Massive. The biggest in the world. And everybody was a Cowboys fan. But when I was a kid, they were winning so much, I was like, I'm not jumping on a bandwagon. I'm a natural born loser. And so I never had a favorite team. Massive NFL fan in general. I started with four teams. Those teams were. Amy.
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The Minnesota Vikings.
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B
Correct.
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A
The Carolina Panthers.
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B
Correct.
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A
The Denver Broncos.
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B
Correct.
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A
And the Dallas. Oh, Cowboys.
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B
Oh, yeah.
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A
And the Dallas Cowboys.
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B
I eliminated the Cowboys and the Vikings. Okay, I'm down to two teams. It's either this one.
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A
Let's go. Broncos.
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B
Broncos. It's a nice blue color. It's a good color. It's a nice blue. Or the Panthers got the black with the till on it.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Which hat do you think looks better on me?
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A
The Broncos.
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B
Now are you just rooting for the Broncos?
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A
Yeah. I mean, that's so. I don't Know if, like, subconsciously I'm choosing that hat because of that, but I do think it looks better on you. Nothing against the Panthers.
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B
The Broncos definitely have more of a history, and they're probably gonna be better this season. All right, which one am I gonna pick, Amy?
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A
Well, the Broncos.
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B
You think I'm picking the Broncos?
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A
You're gonna pick the Broncos, Eddie, which.
- [31:16]
B
One do you think I'm pick? I really wish you would go, like, I'm just kidding. I'm going back to the Cowboys. But that's not gonna happen. So I think. I think you're gonna do the Carolina Panthers because you like North Carolina. You like North Carolina. I like Colorado too. There's a lot of stuff. What'd you say? There's everything you want in North Carolina, including a football team that you're gonna like.
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A
Morgan, last time I was thinking you're going Denver Broncos. I do think there's some leaning towards Carolina because it's closer, it's better weather. You had the listener who brought you all the stuff for it.
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B
She's on the Carolina Panther medical team. That's cool.
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A
That's pretty cool. But I think I still got to stick with Broncos.
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B
Abby, you're Broncos, cuz you're a Bronco, right? You grew up Bronco fan, for sure.
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A
That PowerPoint, I think it did it.
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B
So three Broncos, one Panther lunchbox. Oh, this is easy, guys. Bobby doesn't like to travel. Flying all the way to Denver and back, cross time zones. It's such a long flight. A 50 minute flight to Carolina to watch a Carolina game, be home that night in his own bed. It's simple. The weather, everything points to. The Carolina Panthers is Bobby's new team. He doesn't want to go where it's snowing. He wants to go where there's sunshine. He's going to the Panthers.
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A
This is.
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B
I agree. Lunchbox. Take the Panthers. All right, I'm now gonna take the hat. Oh, man. Oh, man, what a moment. And then just think about this, like, every week. You don't want Abby after a Broncos game being like, hey, Bobby, let's talk about that Broncos. I wouldn't like that. I mean, how annoying is that gonna be? Like, oh, my God.
- [32:51]
A
When the Broncos play, they play games they don't only play in Colorado.
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B
Yeah, but she's gonna be texting Bobby during the game. Hey, did you see that? Touchdown Bo Nicks. What a pass. Oh, my gosh, Bobby, you do not want that. All right, the winner is.
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A
Oh, but that's it. This is. This is how you're doing it.
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B
You're wearing the Panthers. Is that. Oh. What happened?
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A
Broncos. You.
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B
What do they say? Pound them. Pound them. Pound them. Pound them. Pound him.
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A
Pound it.
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B
I think. I think it's pounded. We should do this. Keep pounding.
- [33:34]
A
Keep pounding.
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B
Hey, you pulled a switcheroo. You threw that out on the ground. That was awesome.
- [33:40]
A
Hey, well, congrats. How does it feel?
- [33:42]
B
I've been my fan my whole life, so it feels like any other day normal.
- [33:45]
A
So now we just. We switch. That's the storyline. Like, now that this whole, like, thing has happened, we just switch to, like, oh, my gosh, you've been a loyal fan your entire life.
- [33:54]
B
Switch. There's no story to switch.
- [33:56]
A
Okay, so we've already switched.
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B
Nobody. She's right, though. People ask us on the streets, like, so how long has Bobby been a Panther family? Like, his whole life. What street are you on where people are asking you that? Yeah. I don't know. Hypothetical question. Can you tell us why, sir? Yeah, a couple reasons. One, they haven't won, and they're. They're really. Did you. I need to hop on a team that I feel like has a. A few. A bright future. I like Bryce Young a lot, too. Spend a little time with him, and I. I feel like the Broncos are ready to freaking go to the Super Bowl. I don't want to be there year one when they go to the Super Bowl. Interesting. So they do have the cooler stadium, the Broncos, cooler vibe. There wasn't so much that the weather wasn't a thing or even distance. I really don't want to do anything.
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A
Do you like the color you can watch on tv?
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B
I like the colors less. You like the colors less? Yeah. Yeah. I just don't want to be part of a winner. Sure. That's really what it's all about. Well, maybe we went a little bit. We're rebuilding, though. Anyway, pound it up. No, no, keep pounding. He. Pound it. Let's go. Abby. Sorry to break your heart.
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A
It's okay. Can I have that hat?
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B
Yeah, you can have it for sure. Was part of it. Because of what Lunchbox was saying that you don't want to. I said no, no, no. I said that being close was important. When I first started talking about this, it was a factor, but it had nothing to do with you, Abby.
- [35:11]
A
Okay. I might still text you during Broncos games.
- [35:13]
B
Please don't. Please don't. Anyway, I'm a Carolina Panther fan. Been one my whole life. Let's get pounding. Let's get him. Let's pound it. You'll get there. All right? We'll get there, Bones. All right, Morgan, walk us through the drama.
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A
Okay, so we were in line at a grocery store, and this woman was standing in front of us the entire time. She didn't have a cart or anything. We just assumed she was holding some items. And it was a long line. This was a Sunday. You know, grocery stores are packed on Sundays. And we're about to come up to the cashier, and as soon as we go up and she's. She's putting her stuff on the thing, her husband, like, swoops in with this full, overflowing grocery cart.
- [35:56]
B
Oh. So she was holding the spot for him, who was still shopping, who then shows up with an inordinate amount of stuff.
- [36:04]
A
Yes. Oh, a whole thing. And I. I kind of looked at my boyfriend. I was like, wait, did we just get cut? And he's like, I think they're together. And I was like, that doesn't feel.
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B
Oh, that's a bad person.
- [36:14]
A
Yeah, I. I've never. That's a bad person, right? I mean, I guess it's not totally wrong.
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B
Do you believe you can hold a spot? No, she was just holding the spot. I bet her one thing of mustard and some jelly beans. They weren't even really on the list.
- [36:27]
A
No, it's definitely wrong, because you choose which line you're gonna get into based on what the people ahead of you have.
- [36:32]
B
That's correct. Okay, so what did you say? Did anybody say anything?
- [36:38]
A
Oh, I. I had to bite my tongue. My boyfriend kind of held me back because I. I about was like, I. You. And he was like, no, no, no. Just don't. It's not worth it. And I was about to.
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B
Like, you would have said something?
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A
Yeah.
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B
What would you have said? I don't know if I believe you would have said something.
- [36:51]
A
No, I really. I. I was like, hey, you weren't in line. That's. You just cut all of us. And there was a whole line. They didn't just go, nobody said anything. Nobody. And I kind of looked around like, is somebody else going to do something? And when I saw nobody else was. I was like, okay, I'm just going to bite my tongue.
- [37:06]
B
I hate a line cutter. I'm not a guy that's up for confrontation. I don't mind. Just for the sake of com. I don't mind confrontation, but I'm not trying to get beat up or shot. However, a line cutter. I will say something, and I'll probably.
- [37:17]
A
Get beat up, but not if it's like, Say she was there with a big cart and then her husband comes running up with three items. That's.
- [37:25]
B
That's all good.
- [37:26]
A
It's just that it was reversed. That's. I.
- [37:29]
B
No, that's her gaming the system. And everybody else could have tried to game the system, but they went and shopped and then came with their full cart and stood in line like normal people do. Is it smart, though, to pull up to the grocery store and be like, gosh, those lines are long. Why don't you stand in it? I'll shop and I'll meet you there and we check out on time. So by smart, is it smart to skip the line on the highway when you know you're going to pull off later and just go cut everybody off? Oh, it's so smart. It's so smart when you're running late, same time.
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A
Yeah, I have to do that sometimes.
- [37:55]
B
Smart isn't the word I would use.
- [37:58]
A
It's awful.
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B
Is it? Is it, Is it deception? Yeah. Is it efficient? Is it wrong? Probably. Is it integrity based? No. Is it cheating? Yes.
- [38:07]
A
Yeah, but sometimes you get that gap and the gap is a gift and you just get right in there.
- [38:11]
B
But is it legal? Yes. Yes, it's legal. Especially on the road. How do you feel about line holders?
- [38:17]
A
No, I'm not for it.
- [38:19]
B
Should someone at the store, I mean, step forward to say like, no, I'm.
- [38:22]
A
Probably not going to say anything, but I am not for it.
- [38:24]
B
I saw that happen once and I did say something at Zara, everybody's in line and I got like two shirts and there's a person with like a shirt. And the line is in the mall wrapping out and somebody comes up with like all two armfuls of stuff. I was like, okay, and just gets in line. And I was like, whoa, you can't cut. And they were like, what cut? I was like, you can't. All this stuff. We've all been in line. I mean, she was like 17.
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A
So.
- [38:50]
B
And they went to the back of the line.
- [38:51]
A
Oh, they did? Yeah.
- [38:52]
B
Good man. You showed those kids heard the voice of this adult man and they moved. But yeah. I hate a line cutter that bad people. And they're gonna have that repaid to them somehow. Yeah, that's a bad person.
- [39:02]
A
I'm hoping karma gets them.
- [39:03]
B
How bad, though? Like, car accident? No, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. They hate in her heart? No, no.
- [39:08]
A
Just maybe, like somebody cuts them someday and they don't do it again.
- [39:11]
B
So you want it done Back to them.
- [39:13]
A
Yeah.
- [39:13]
B
Would you do it, though?
- [39:14]
A
No, I would never do that.
- [39:17]
B
Yeah, that sucks. So I'd like to be on the record to say you cannot hold a spot in line if whatever the store you're in is super crowd in, the line is long. That's wrong. You're a bad person. And I wish a mild car accident on you. A mild one where no one gets hurt, but just a little damage. A mild car accident, which is a little damage to your car. That's it.
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A
Okay.
- [39:35]
B
That's what I wish upon you.
- [39:37]
A
More like, next time you want something from the grocery store, you go to get it, and it's sold out.
- [39:41]
B
Ah, that's weak. A mild car accident with no damage to humans, only slightly to the car bones. I want to be sensitive because there are younger ears that could be listening. So again, I'd be very sensitive here. There's a woman who went to the spa for a Brazilian wax. So Brazilian is the sensitive part. Yeah. And somebody comes out with meta glasses that record to do it.
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A
Oh, my gosh.
- [40:02]
B
Here's our. The cameras and the glasses. Here's the clip.
- [40:06]
A
The girl that was giving me the wax or the esthetician, she was wearing meta glasses.
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B
And I didn't notice it at first because we were talking so much. We had good banter.
- [40:18]
A
She was very nice. Maybe like halfway, like, five minutes in or.
- [40:22]
B
So are you wearing meta glasses? And she's like, oh, yeah, I am.
- [40:26]
A
But, like, they're not charged.
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B
They're not on.
- [40:28]
A
Like, I promise, what if she has that video? And what if, like, there's been multiple.
- [40:33]
B
Videos she's taken of, like, waxing people? And, like, that can go into a whole other thing of where those videos could be.
- [40:41]
A
That is freaky.
- [40:42]
B
That's freaky. Doesn't a light turn on or something? Yes, but you can't always see it because I would do it in this room. You guys would not see the light come on. Oh, yeah. Because I would record us doing this, and you guys would never be like, hey, are you speed lunking? You're in a cave. No, but the light does come on. But if there's light around it, you.
- [40:58]
A
Don'T really know where is the camera. Near the light, or the light is somewhere else, because.
- [41:01]
B
No, it's near, but it's up on the edges. I don't have mine on now.
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A
Okay.
- [41:04]
B
But I would wear them a lot. You guys would never notice. Yeah, but she's down deep in there, man, and she basically is.
- [41:10]
A
That's disgusting.
- [41:11]
B
Wow. Yeah. Yeah. You know what I'm saying? What would you do? She comes out, she's gonna, like, wax her stuff, and she's wearing.
- [41:19]
A
I'd be like, take them off. Stop.
- [41:20]
B
But she's like, the prescription.
- [41:21]
A
Okay. And they can't see somebody else.
- [41:24]
B
Mine are. Okay. So I need them. Yes, but I wouldn't. For that job. You should not have those glasses.
- [41:30]
A
No.
- [41:31]
B
Morgan, your thoughts?
- [41:32]
A
I mean, unless she does other things besides the brilliant glasses before you get.
- [41:36]
B
Down to the jungle juice. You know what I'm saying?
- [41:38]
A
Yeah. I mean, but that's the only way I can justify. Like, maybe she films, like, her other. Like, she does brow waxes and, like, other waxes, and that's what she's filming, and then she doesn't film that. But I wouldn't trust that she wasn't filming that. I would ask for somebody else. Yeah, definitely.
- [41:53]
B
And would a woman be filming, like, if a guy was wearing. I don't think.
- [41:56]
A
Oh, I'm not going to a guy. Brazilian.
- [41:59]
B
Oh. Are there guys that do that?
- [42:01]
A
I have no idea, but I don't. I would not go if he did.
- [42:05]
B
Like, you could have nefarious motives and you're down and you turn it on and you record it. Like, let's say you. There's like a barrier or something, and you're recording it. You could. You can sell that to people. If people pay top dollar for foot, imagine what they'll do for Brazilian wax video.
- [42:19]
A
Yeah.
- [42:20]
B
Anyway, that. I thought it was a crazy story. I would. I would not go back there. Once I thought I was getting recorded naked. A tannin. Tannin bed thing. Why? As years ago, when I used to go tanner beds. Because that place I was going got busted. Oh, yeah.
- [42:34]
A
Filming people.
- [42:34]
B
Yeah. Oh, yeah.
- [42:35]
A
Oh, then they. For sure.
- [42:36]
B
They probably have you there. Yeah. Yeah.
- [42:39]
A
But would you keep your shorts on or take your shorts off?
- [42:41]
B
Well, back in the day, because I put the little bunny on me and I said I would. I would do the thing and I'd put it on me, and I turn around it and be like, see, I like my money. Yeah. So I think it just never made the Internet because I'm gross. You make the cut. Yeah. I wasn't, like, hot enough for the videos of me.
- [42:58]
A
Yeah. No, but it made some. Wherever they load that stuff up for creepers.
- [43:03]
B
Probably sitting somewhere on a server.
- [43:04]
A
Yes.
- [43:05]
B
It's just naked me at 24 with a bunny on, just laying in the Tanner bed, all gross, ribs all protruding out of my body. Yeah. The metaglass thing is weird. It's time for the good news with Bobby. Tell me something good. Last week in Florida, a guy wearing Batman pajamas stopped a burglary suspect before Police could arrive. 2am his name's Kyle. His home security system went off. He went outside, found a 20 year old suspect rummaging through his truck before moving on to his neighbor's garage. So he jumped in. By the way, again, it's in full Batman pajamas. He grabs a suspect by the shirt and the rest said, hey, don't try to get away. Police later confirmed the suspect had broken into multiple vehicles, stole sunglasses, a wallet, gift cards, the cape, coral. Police credit his quick action. And it's it that sucks. You're out, your alarm goes off and you have to go and do something about it. And then you make the news because of your pajamas. You're Batman. It's not just that you stop somebody with your bare hands. It's man wearing Batman pajamas stops burglars. So big shout out to Kyle for, for stopping him. Also risky just to grab another adult man who, who knows if he's got a weapon on him or if he's on something, right? But it's obviously not in a good place. And also if I'm the guy that's robbing, I ain't. I'm not stopping. I'm not letting him hold me down. I'm wiggling like crazy until I let get him to let me go. But yeah, Batman, pajama man, not even his name is the guy. A big shout out to him. That's what it's all about. That was. Tell me something good, Bones.
- [44:38]
A
Wake up.
- [44:38]
B
You wake up in the morning, then you turn the radio on and the dial just keeps on turning. This week's next bit. And Bobby's on the mic, so you know what? This is live. We have 90 seconds on the clock. How many jokes can we get right? It's time for the investigative Corny. The morning Corny.
- [45:16]
A
What's Harry Potter's favorite food delivery app?
- [45:19]
B
Uber Eats. Grubhub. Grubhub. Broomer Eats Hogwarts. It's got some doordash. Oh, doordash. Broom, dash door or which grumble board. Ash. Dumbledore.
- [45:36]
A
Dash Dumbledore.
- [45:38]
B
Good job, dude. Wow.
- [45:40]
A
Okay, how do bees get to school?
- [45:43]
B
The buzz buzz. School. The school buzz.
- [45:45]
A
School buzz. Okay, what's the worst kind of tea on a hot day?
- [45:50]
B
Hot tea or sun tea? The worst kind of tea on a hot day. Spill tea. Burnt tea. Hot tea. The worst kind of tea on a hot day. Hottie. Worst kind. Tea. Broken tea. Temperature, tea. Temperature tea time. Hot, sweaty green tea. Humid, humid, humid tea. Humidity.
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A
Humidity.
- [46:17]
B
Good job, dude.
- [46:18]
A
What do you call coffee that meditates?
- [46:21]
B
Calf. Decompressed depressed coffee. Depressed coffee. Coffee that meditates. Nirvana. Starbucks. What are the meditation stuff like? Chill, Crisp, cross. Chilled coffee. Chill coffee. Medit. Relax. Coffee. Dang, man. I don't know how much time we have left. Can't be much. Oh, there it is.
- [46:50]
A
It's grounded. Grounded.
- [46:53]
B
Is that part of meditation coffee?
- [46:55]
A
Yeah, you're grounded.
- [46:57]
B
Yeah, I'm on that culture enough to get that one.
- [46:58]
A
But I mean, y' all got Dumbledore Dash. Well, that was clutch.
- [47:01]
B
I fought for that one. That was awesome. I was digging around. I was in the dump, picking stuff up, looking under the garbage.
- [47:08]
A
The Super Secret Bestie Club podcast season four is here and we're locked in. That means more juicy cheeseman, terrible love advice, evil spells to cast on your ex.
- [47:19]
B
No, no, no. We're not doing that this season.
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A
Oh, well, this season we're leveling up.
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B
Each episode will feature a special bestie and you're not going to want to miss it. Get in here. Today we have a very special guest with us. Our new super secret bestie is the diva of the people. The diva of the people. I'm just like texture.
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A
Exactly.
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B
My theory is that if you need to figure out that the stove is hot, go and touch it. Go and figure it out for yourself. Okay, that's us. What the heck? That's us. My name is Curly and I'm Maya. In each episode we'll talk about love, friendship, heartbreaks, men, and of course, our favorite secrets.
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Listen to the Super Secret Bestie Club as a part of the Michael Tura Podcast Network, available on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast.
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B
My name is Ed. Everyone. Say hello, Ed. Hello, Ed. I'm from a very rural background myself. My dad is a farmer and my mom is a cousin. So, like, it's not like.
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A
What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? I know it sounds like the start of a bad joke, but that really was my reality nine years ago.
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B
I just normally do straight stand up, but this is a bit different.
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A
On stage stood a comedian with a story that no one expected to hear.
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B
On 22 July 2015, a 23 year old man had killed his family and then he came to my house.
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So what do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack where stand up comedy and murder Take center stage. Available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Jenica Lopez, and in the new season of the Overcomer podcast, I'm taking you on an exciting journey of self reflection. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? I wanted to be successful on my own, not just because of who my mom is. Like, I felt like I needed to be better or work twice as hard as she did. Join me for conversations about healing and growth. Life is freaking hard, and growth doesn't happen in comfort. It happens in motion, even when you're hurting. All from one of my favorite spaces, the kitchen. Honestly, these are going to come out so freaking amazing. Be a part of my new chapter and listen to the new season of the Overcome for podcast as part of the Michael Tura Podcast Network on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Dr. Joy Hardin Bradford, and in session 421 of Therapy for Black Girls, I sit down with Dr. Afia and Billy Shaka to explore how our hair connects to our identity, mental health, and the ways we heal. Because I think hair is a complex language system, right? In terms of it can tell how old you are, your marital status, where you're from, your spiritual belief. But I think with social media, there's like a hyper fixation and observation of our hair, right? That this is sometimes the first thing someone sees when we make a post or a reel. It's how our hair is styled. We talk about the important role hairstylists play in our community, the pressure to always look put together, and how breaking up with perfection can actually free us. Plus, if you're someone who gets anxious about flying, don't miss session 418 with Dr. Angela Neal Barnett, where we dive into managing flight anxiety. Listen to therapy for black Girls on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Get fired up, y'. All. Season 2 of Good Game with Sarah Spain is underway. We just welcomed one of my favorite people and an incomparable soccer icon, Megan Rapinoe, to the show, and we had a blast. We talked about her recent 40th birthday celebrations, Co hosting a podcast with her fiance, watching former teammates retire, and more. Never a dull moment with Pino. Take a listen. What do you miss the most about being a pro athlete? The final. The final. And the locker room. I really, really like you just. You can't replicate. You can't get back. Showing up to the locker room every morning just to talk. We've got more incredible guests like the legendary Candace Parker and college studio superstar AZ Fudd. I mean, seriously, y', all, the guest list is absolutely stacked for season two. And, you know, we're always going to keep you up to speed on all the news and happenings around the women's sports world as well. So make sure you listen to Good Game with Sarah Spain on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts, presented by Capital One, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports.
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B
We got an update on my fence situation. So the neighbors have this massive tree that fell onto the fence that divides our yard. I was wrong about who had the top level. Top layer. You don't have it, and it's their side. Oh, doesn't matter. Doesn't matter. I don't know how to get a hold of them except to go knock on their door.
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A
It's not really your style.
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B
Not really my style. I don't really like to do anything like that. But their tree fell, and I wasn't angry. I was like, well, who pays for it? And I'm gonna tell you, I got the best legal advice from every listener. And the legal advice was all over the board. They're gonna pay. You're gonna pay. Nobody's gonna pay. Act of God, sue them. Run it all. All. So Amy actually knows my neighbor, which is weird because I don't. That is weird. Yes. One time, Amy was at their pool in the backyard.
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A
Yeah. And I was looking in your backyard to see if you were there to be like, hey.
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B
I was like, that's weird. So Amy messaged them. And what'd you say?
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A
I said, I just sent a note basically saying, hey, I just found out that Bobby has this huge hole in his fence because a tree in your yard fell over. And I didn't know if y' all knew that it was there. Oh, yeah, I got a reply. Okay, I can read you the. What she sent back. Yes, we have seen it and have called our guy to come fix it. We will take care of it, but we didn't have their number to tell them.
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B
Yeah, we don't know each other.
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A
They obviously didn't want to come over and knock on your door either, but they're on it, so you should be good.
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B
And I'm happy to even split it. You can say that like I don't want. No. No, dude. I don't want to be the guy, though. That's like, oh. Because there's going to be a time where I'm going to need, like, shelter and I'm have to go to their house, so.
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I didn't put you in that light, by the way. I didn't. My text to them wasn't you complaining. It was just like, y' all realized it happened once your dog got out and the tree was there. I just was basically like, hey, did y' all know this got it? I didn't say. He's trying to figure out who's supposed to pay for it. Like, is it him? Is it you? I didn't give any of that information.
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B
And you don't think they think less of me? Because at some point, neighbors need each other. At some point, there's a crisis.
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A
Always. I'm telling you. They are so kind.
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B
Sugar? Yeah.
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A
If you. Honestly, if you were to need anything, they would be there. They're. They're a very nice couple, and their kids are cute and sweet as can be.
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B
Dang. Thanks for letting me know about neighbors.
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A
Yeah. You've got good neighbors. Well, I mean, you never know.
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B
I agree. So there's always going to be a time when you need them. I'm just not the kind of person that, like, does stuff with your neighbors at all. At all. It's just if they need anything from me. What do you need?
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A
Well, I mean, now I was thinking, so.
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B
Oh, no.
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A
Back in the day, something that I have a party. What? No, I'm not going to do that. No. I was thinking how back in the day, my sister's house in Austin, they loved their neighbors so much that when they put up a fence, because they did want to put up something, but they. The kids would run back and forth, and they hung out all the time, that in the fence, they built this big, wide open gate that they could open at times when they wanted to, like, co mingle and stuff. And so I was thinking this is the perfect opportunity for y' all to maybe build something to co mingle.
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B
I don't like coming with anybody.
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A
Yeah, I know. But just putting it out there as an option.
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B
Thank you. Thanks for handling that.
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A
No problem.
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B
Let me go over and talk to Julie in Texas, because that powerball is at 1.7 billion. Julie, you're on the show. What's going on?
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A
Yes. No, I was just calling because I had to say that I agreed with Amy in the aspect of I would not stop working completely if I were to win some type of money like that. I joke around with my coworkers all the time that I just. I feel like that's not like the smartest decision because like you had said, like the Publisher Clearinghouse had went bankrupt. And not that I think that the lotto is ever gonna go bankrupt anytime soon, but I just, for safety reasons, wouldn't want other people to know that I won that type of money because I live in a small town in Texas. So if I were to stop working my 40 hour a week job because I won the lotto, they would know.
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B
Listen, I. I would imagine you're a good person, hardworking person, but you would have what they would call screw you money. And the first time you got a little fed up with your boss or your situation or you couldn't get off and you had all this money, you're not going to be like, you know, I just kind of want to keep it secret. So I'm going to keep dealing with this real pain in the butt. You're kind of like, you know what? I got money. Screw you. You have screw you money. So I don't think you would. I think in your heart you're that kind of person that you would. In your heart when it's a situation that isn't real. I think I would. I probably, I probably would. Well, but mine wouldn't be about safety.
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Mine is like just about your.
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B
Yeah, like, I enjoy.
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A
You enjoy it. And like, what would you do? Like, you get.
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B
I just walk around. Everybody screw you for no reason. Yeah. I wouldn't even be angry. I'd just be like, screw you all the time.
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A
Because I guess you money volunteer.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You got to do something. You can't just like, sit around and shop all day.
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B
I hear you. But the first time that somebody gets a little pissy with you at your job when you have screw you money, you know what you say? Screw you. I don't have to deal with this because I only needed this job for the money.
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A
Well, isn't that like you say sometimes? Well, oftentimes money brings out the true side of people. Like, what if that's just not your natural. You're not like a screw you type person.
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B
It doesn't matter. You're somebody who doesn't want to deal with angry boss, a mean boss, not getting days off because your kid's sick or you have a vacation you want to go do. Like, it's not even about that. It's about, oh, I don't have to deal with this.
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A
Okay.
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B
Like, why am I dealing with this when I don't have to deal with this? Right? So screw you. Okay, that'd be awesome to have screw you money. Oh, dude. Yes. Just like you said, dude, Whenever you have like one bad day. Well, you know, it's not about one bad day. It's about a situation that presents itself and will probably always present itself if happened again. And you can be like, I don't have to deal with this. It's not about having a bad day. But I'm telling you, you're thinking about that bad day though.
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A
Okay, but back to the money magnifies who you are. These guys, it's one bad day and.
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B
They'Re one bad day. And then Amy, I think one midday in there, I even think it's got to be a bad day. One bad minute. Yeah, like, like one situation. They're looking for a reason to quit if they have money. And then Amy's like, oh, what are you going to do all day? Amy, stop, man. You have to do anything.
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A
I just think you would get bored. You would get bored. And you, you have to have purpose.
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B
I did nothing last weekend for a day. Awful. Oh, really? Terrible.
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A
I mean, I think I could handle one day.
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B
I am terrible.
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A
I'm just saying over and over, nothing.
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B
I started yelling, Caitlyn, I don't know what to do. Ah, this sucks. She's like, go outside and play.
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A
Go for a walk, Read a book.
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B
She's like, you can go do whatever you want, but I don't know.
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A
So is that an intentional? Like, I'm gonna practice this one day trying to do nothing?
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B
Here's the thing. I just got some screw you money. And so like I'm starting to get, starting to like practice it out a little bit.
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A
When did that happen?
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B
What?
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A
When did you get screwed? I just got it. Like, are you talking about what you have had? Oh, I know that part. I just didn't know if like a new batch rolled in.
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B
Yeah, no, no new batch. No new batch. Hey, Julie, I really appreciate the call. Thank you for listening and thank you for being a part of the show.
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A
Thank you.
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B
All right, have a good day. You guys. Hit us up if you want. 877-77-Bobby. That's our number. Bobby Bone Show Bonehead. Story of the day. This story comes to us from Tampa, Florida. A 49 year old man had some narcotics and he wanted to deliver him to a house a few neighborhoods over. And so he's like, you know what? I don't want to drive. I'll just Take my drone and drop him off. Dang. So he puts him on the drone, flies it over there. Only problem is he lands at the wrong house and someone takes it inside. Oh, no. So he shows up at the house like, hey, man, can I get my drone back? It has something on there. I need it. They took the whole drone? Yeah. Not just the drug. Okay, that makes more sense. Okay. And then the person that got the drugs and the drone called police and the guy was arrested.
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A
Wow.
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B
They thought it was that new Walmart delivery, dropping off stuff. Okay, I'm Lunchbox. That's your bonehead story of the day. I'm not really a man. There's a good movie coming out. Guy don't really care about movies that much generally. I know movie Mike does, but there's this movie coming out called Bugonia. It looks awesome. So what's her name? Emma Stone. Got it. Red hair, La La Land. Yeah, yeah, yeah. She shaved her head bald for this movie. And apparently in the movie, she plays a CEO that these two conspiracy guys think she's actually an alien. Yeah. And so they hold her hostage. That's cool. It looks awesome. And my favorite actor, my new favorite actor of all time is in. I can't think of his name right now, but he's married to Kirsten Dunst. Oh, Jesse Plemons. Yeah. Jesse Plemons. My favorite actor. Yes. Yes.
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A
He's your favorite.
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B
Yeah, yeah, I love him. Everything he's in I love now him and Keanu Reeves. Two for different reasons, though. But, yeah, this movie looks awesome. So. And it comes out. What? Oh, not till Halloween. Oh, no. Wow, that's a long time.
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A
I feel like it's like, guys, time is flying. It's not that far away.
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B
Two conspiracy obsessed young men kidnap the high powered CEO of a major company, convinced that she's an alien intent on destroying planet Earth. And then I saw a clip of it where she's like, I'm bald. You shaved my head. And they're like, yeah. So you can't communicate with your homeland. Oh, my gosh, they got you on that one. That's awesome. Mike, does it look good to you? I love it. That's gonna be such a good movie. And I never care about movies coming out. I might actually volunteer to go to the theater for that one. Like, we went five times in five weeks. I don't know if you guys heard or saw the news story. Yeah, we saw it.
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A
Yeah, we did.
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B
Okay. My wife and I went to five movies in five weeks. We haven't been back but what a run that was. We may have to go back for Bugonia. How does it already have reviews? Mike? They premiered it like a couple weeks.
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A
Or maybe last week at the film festival, right?
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B
Yeah. Then why not just release it? You gotta wait till Halloween. Did you see the rock got a 15 minute ovation at whatever film festival. The Smashing Machine. Yeah. And he plays what, an old wrestler. UFC fighter. Oh, cool. And he was like crying. But those have to be the most awkward things. Whenever they stand up and clap for you for 12 minutes, 15 minutes, sometimes they're like they got a 40 minute standing ovation. How does that happen? A lot of it is because all the people there are like, all critics and like people who work in the industry who would stand up and do any clapping for 15 minutes and keep going.
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A
Yeah. Like somebody just gotta stop.
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B
If we were just to clap right now. If we all stood up and just clap. We can't do it. After like 40 seconds, our hands hurt. Yes. We start to get tired. Yes. And is the Rock being like, no, stop, please. Sit down, please. He starts crying. You see him, because he's next to his co star, Emily Blunt. Oh, yeah. John Krasinski's wife. Yeah. Maybe he has, like sensory overload or something. Is that movie supposed to be good? It's supposed to be good. It's the same guy or one of the same guys who did Uncut Gems. So it's really like raw and gritty. And we haven't really seen the Rock do a very dramatic role like this before. He lost what looks like 60 or 70 pounds. He rock thin. Oh. Or thinner. Considered what the Rock was, you know, one of the conspiracy theory. Yeah. He stopped doing steroids because he was getting too old. It was starting to be hard on his body. So now he's gonna. He dropped a bunch of weight because of that. Oh, that's the conspiracy theory. Yeah. And then also at that film festival, he was like, I'm gonna start taking on more dramatic roles. This is what I wanted to be doing for a long time. So it's like his body's changing. Maybe he's kind of shifting his perception of what the roles he wants to take. He does look more like accountant the Rock than the guy. Cause he would, like, travel and build a gym everywhere he would go, like a massive gym. But he's like, so big and old that even if he's not doing steroids, he's doing a lot of work on putting stuff in his body to stay that big and that strong at that age. And People think I'm doing the same, but I'm not. No. Oh, people don't think that's the conspiracy theory. It's a conspiracy theory, but I'm not. I'm still doing the same, but yeah, those movies look pretty good. The Smashing Machine. What's it called? Yeah, the Smashing Machine. Yeah, man, I'll watch that. Comes out, I think October 3rd. Some good TV shows coming out in September as well.
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A
What?
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B
I saw a whole list on Tick Tock of all them that come out September, but the new V comes out, which is the boys. But the spin off, season two, Gen V. Yeah, Gen V. That's a good one. Yeah.
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A
I need something. Well, I'm re watching Scandal right now. It's just so good. But I feel like there's nothing like new to start. I mean, now I made a note for Ballard, but Survivor, L.A. law.
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B
Yeah, that's a good one. Law and Order.
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A
Oh, my friend did just start that.
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B
West Wing.
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A
Law and Order svu.
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B
I know, I know. I'm just kidding. Is that Marisha Gay?
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A
Like he.
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B
I think Marissa hard.
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A
Whatever it is, he went all the way.
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B
She's the daughter of like. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Jane Mansfield. Yeah, yeah. My mind just connects stuff and I don't ever connect it truly. But goodbye, everybody. Bobby Bones. The Bobby Bones show theme song written, produced and sang by Reed Yarberry. You can find his Instagram reedyarberry Scuba Steve Executive Producer Raymundo Head of Production I'm Bobby Bones. My Instagram is Mr. Bobby Bones. Thank you for listening to the podcast. This episode of the Bobby Bones show is brought to you by Chase Sapphire Reserve. Traveling is one of life's greatest joys. Honestly, can anything be more exhilarating? Yeah, it can. With Chase Sapphire Reserve, it's your getaway to the world's most captivating destinations. First, you'll earn eight times points on all purchases through Chase Travel. And the card gets you into the Sapphire Lounge by the club at select airports nationwide and access to one of a kind experiences. Whether you are booking a once in a lifetime trip or your next weekend escape. Discover more with Chase sapphire reserve@chase.com Sapphire Reserve cards issued by JP Morgan Chase Bank NA member FDIC subject to credit approval terms apply.
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A
Hi, it's Honey German and I'm back with season two of my podcast. Gracias. Come again. We got you when it comes to the latest in music and entertainment with interviews with some of your favorite Latin artists and celebrities. You didn't have to audition.
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B
No, I didn't audition. I have an audition in Nico 25 years.
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A
Oh, wow. That's a real G talk right there.
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B
Oh, yeah.
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A
We'll talk about all that's viral and trending with a little bit achievement and a whole lot of laughs. And of course, the great beavers you've come to expect. Listen to the new season of Dashes. Come again on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. Hi, I'm Jenica Lopez. And in the new season of the Over Comfort podcast, I'm even more honest, more vulnerable, and more. More real than ever. Am I ready to enter this new part of my life? Like, am I ready to be in a relationship? Am I ready to have kids and to really just devote myself and my time? Join me for conversations about healing and growth, all from one of my favorite spaces, the kitchen. Listen to the new season of the Overcomer podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. The super secret Bestie Club podcast. Season four is here and we're locked in. That means more juicy cheeseman, terrible love advice, evil spells to cast on your ex.
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B
No, no, we're not doing that this season.
- [67:04]
A
Oh, well, this season we're leveling up.
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B
Each episode will feature a special bestie and you're not going to want to miss it. My name is Curly.
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A
And I'm Maya.
- [67:12]
B
Get in here.
- [67:14]
A
Listen to the super secret Bestie Club on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
- [67:20]
B
I just normally do straight stand up, but this is a bit different.
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A
What do you get when a true crime producer walks into a comedy club? A new podcast called Wisecrack, where a comedian finds himself at the center of a chilling true crime story.
- [67:35]
B
Does anyone know what show they've come to see? It's a story. It's about the scariest night of my life.
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A
This is Wisecrack, available now. Listen to Wisecrack on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is an iHeart podcast.