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Bobby Bones
Wake up, wake up in the morning. Steve Red habit trying to put you.
Peter Tilden
Through M Riding his wigs.
Bobby Bones
Next bit now.
Peter Tilden
Poppy's on the mic.
Bobby Bones
So you know what this is. Let's go. This is the Bobby Vaughn show. We have 90 seconds to get as many of Amy's jokes correct as possible. Investigative Morning corny. Here we go, the morning corny.
Eddie
What do you call an angry carrot?
Bobby Bones
Carrot. Carrot. Say carrot.
Eddie
Carrot. Carrot. That's how I said carrot.
Lunchbox
Blood diamond.
Eddie
The orange thing.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, you said it weird.
Eddie
Carrot.
Bobby Bones
That threw us off. Yeah. A veg. Angry vegetable.
Lunchbox
Mean green. Mean orange.
Bobby Bones
Fired up. Angry orange juice. Juice.
Eddie
Veggie.
Bobby Bones
Okay.
Eddie
What do you call a cat lover who puts things off?
Bobby Bones
Feline. A procrastinator.
Jason Alexander
Procrastinator.
Peter Tilden
Right.
Bobby Bones
Procatenator.
Lunchbox
Procatenator.
Bobby Bones
No, no, don't. It's not right. Don't give it to us, feline. Ask it again. Ask it again.
Eddie
What do you call a cat lover who puts things off?
Bobby Bones
Pretty good, though. Fascinator. Put things off. Later. Do it later.
Eddie
What'd you say, Eddie?
Bobby Bones
Say it. We hate ourselves if you give us hints, but we already don't like ourselves in this.
Lunchbox
What did you say, Eddie?
Bobby Bones
Well, I don't know. What'd you say? Put things off.
Lunchbox
But Procatenator.
Bobby Bones
Put things off. You know, I can't even use that word, though. I can't either. That's why I was like. It can't be that. She wouldn't give us that.
Eddie
What word?
Bobby Bones
Other cat word.
Eddie
Oh, no.
Bobby Bones
Okay, good.
Eddie
I would never.
Bobby Bones
Catter day.
Lunchbox
Cat.
Bobby Bones
Later. Cat. Now. Catty litter. Catty litter. Per cat.
Lunchbox
Percolator. Who.
Bobby Bones
What's. What do you. What puts things off? Somebody lazy. Somebody. Procrastinator.
Lunchbox
Forgetful.
Bobby Bones
We got one. I don't know.
Eddie
Saying it, though. You're saying.
Bobby Bones
What's the answer?
Eddie
Procrastinator. But it's.
Bobby Bones
It's.
Eddie
It's a cat lover, so it's procrastinator.
Bobby Bones
That work? No, we didn't get. Guys, we didn't get it. And that's. That's a good one. We missed the purr. We missed.
Eddie
That's why.
Bobby Bones
That's, like. If it's pirate, you know it's gonna be R. We should have got the. That's on us. She said carrot. Wrong. Which threw us off. But the cat one was good.
Eddie
I said carrot.
Bobby Bones
No, you said K Rod. We're like, what rock station are you on?
Eddie
Okay, I need to pull the tape on the K Rod.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, we'll pull it. We got one. No music, Eddie. We don't do it. Let's not do it.
Lunchbox
I mean, New Year, New us, Struggle bus.
Bobby Bones
That's. That's a good rhyme. He didn't mean to rhyme. Dr. Seuss nailed it over there. Yeah. We don't get it. Today. Matt still is on. Newly married. Matt still. Hey, you're the talk of the town. The whole town. I was all in town yesterday, and everybody's like, matt still got married. So talk of the town for sure. Mostly it was because you go, hey, I'm engaged. Also, we got married a day later, which was news. But I'm assuming everyone thinks that she's pregnant.
Lunchbox
Everybody does think that. It seems like. But she's not.
Bobby Bones
Not.
Lunchbox
Not yet, then.
Bobby Bones
Oh, okay. Well, yeah, okay. But he just said it like, okay, so give me the story, then why propose and get married the next day? How long did you know you were gonna do this? Was she cool with it, et cetera?
Lunchbox
I just. So what happened was, you know, I was. I was going down to Mexico with. With my buddy and some. With a bunch of friends, and I knew I was going to do it while I was down there. And so I arranged for her. Her parents to come in, to fly in to surprise her for my. My mom and stepdad to. To fly in and surprise her for. For the engagement part. But probably about a week before that, I got to thinking. I was like, you know, I'm ready to, like, I'm ready to skip over all the, you know, ready, set, go, like the set part. I was ready to go from. Ready to go on life and stuff like that. So I hit up my. My buddy Will, and I was like, hey, man. I said, I don't know that this is going to be something that happens, but I'm going to ask her. I'm going to see if she wants to get married. While we're down there, will you get ordained? You know, as a. As a minister, you. I go online and get ordained just in case. And he was like, absolutely. So he. He did it. And so after, you know, after we, you know, after I pop the question and got engaged, I asked her right there. I was like, hey, I'm gonna spring this on you. I said, but I'm. I'm ready to, you know, I'm ready for all this. I think fiance is the dumbest word in. In all of English language, and I don't want to be one for very long. I'm ready to. I'm ready to be your husband. And so I asked her right there. She was like, yeah. I said, you want to sleep on it? She said, yeah. So we slept on it. We were at the pool, hanging out, talking about it. She said, you know what? I'm ready. Let's do it. She said, we'll throw some parties, sort of receptions when we back. We'll do some vows when we get back at her family place in. In Ocean City. She said, but I want tomorrow to be our anniversary that we celebrate because this. And. And that's why we work, because she thought it was a great idea, too. So we had her parents there, my parents there, had my best friend officiate it, and we did it right there on the beach. And yeah, man, I. It's. It's. It's wild.
Bobby Bones
Hey, me as a woman, I hear this as A man. And go, awesome. Love it. What do you think about that?
Eddie
Well, I guess I'm just curious. He gave her the. She had time to think about it. And obviously she could have said, I'd rather wait because I've been dreaming about my wedding since I was a little girl, and this is what I want. But I do wonder, did she ever indicate, like, yeah, I don't. I don't really care about what kind of wedding, because now you proposed, and then you put this other idea, so then you're kind of in the moment. Like, I just wonder, like, is anybody gonna look back and be like, oh, man, wish I would have done it this way?
Lunchbox
Well, and you know what? I thought about that. But two things. One, she. She hadn't ever really been. Like, we had talked about. You know, we had talked about the future and stuff, and she was nep. She was always like, yeah, I want to have a thing with just my family there, do some vows, and then just really celebrate as a party. She said, I'm not. She said, I'm not really trying to. To walk down the. You know, to have the. The dress and a bunch of, you know, folding chairs and. And a bunch of schedules and a bunch of, you know, all this stuff. She said, you know, I want to be about us. So. But my thought. I was thinking that. Exactly. So when I asked her, I didn't want to catch her right in the moment where everything sounded like a good idea, you know, So I hit her up. You know, she kind of said, yeah, let's do it right there when I. Right after I proposed. But I was like, well, let's. Let's sleep on it and see if you want to do that, because if it still sounds like a good idea. And it. It did. So, yeah, I'm. I'm obviously pumped about it, and I'm pumped about it because she thought it was special, so that's crazy.
Bobby Bones
He's married right now.
Eddie
Yeah.
Lunchbox
So did you. Did your wife. I mean, did she wear a bikini during the ceremony?
Bobby Bones
Is that what we're talking?
Lunchbox
Because you got married on the beach.
Bobby Bones
What kind of question.
Lunchbox
It was. It was a new. It was a nude beach, so that's even better, man.
Bobby Bones
What he's doing is being funny with your funny. But you aren't being funny.
Lunchbox
Yeah, I wouldn't be. I was being serious.
Bobby Bones
So what did you guys wear for. For your wedding?
Lunchbox
Well, so I packed. Yeah, I wore the same thing. I proposing because no one who cares what I look like. It doesn't matter. And she Happened to have, like, I asked for the same thing. I was like, this is a beach wedding. How do you want to do it? And, you know, would you want to do, like. I don't. You know, I just kind of asked her that and she had. She was like, you know what? I actually bought this. This white, little white number that I think I want to wear. And it just works out. Like, I don't. I don't know, like, that part of it was. That part I didn't probably execute the best in terms of like, you know, had. Had she not had something with her that she would want to wear. And then b, like, I forgot to get myself a ring through all this, so I had to borrow one until yesterday I got mine in the mail from Amazon. So those two little things from. From a loose end standpoint, I probably could execute it a little bit better. But it ended up working. Ended up working great.
Bobby Bones
So Matt, like, traditional weddings, you know, you. You know, you'd go get engaged, you get married, and then you do honeymoon. Like, did you already do that too? Good question. He did it at the same time.
Lunchbox
Yeah, we did it all as a package deal. No, we're gonna. We're definitely, definitely gonna take this opportunity to. To go and do something somewhere. And we're gonna, like, we're gonna throw some parties. We're gonna. We're gonna do like a reception like back in Arkansas, one here, one where she's from in Maryland and stuff like that. And then we're going to go, I don't know, wherever she wants to go. She gets to. She gets to pick everything since that. But yeah, that's what we're going to do.
Bobby Bones
Matt still on with us? Full absolute disclosure from me. I text Matt. Matt owes me like $4,000. Oh, yeah?
Eddie
For what?
Bobby Bones
Don't worry about it. Gambling. Yeah. Yeah. And so I did what now I think I'm at four about. Yeah, Matt owes me. Like, he'll owe me like $4,000 for sure. And so I hit him up and I'm like, hey, I'm not like a bookie, but, like, just checking, you know, like, what's up? And so he's like, by the way, I got engaged and I got married. I'm friends with Matt, like, real life friends. Like my birthday party, Matt came to the birthday, and my heart hurt because I was like, I didn't get invited. And then I found out it was like, who even knew if they were gonna do it? So I was like, I just wanna let you know I forgive you.
Lunchbox
I Appreciate that, number one. And number two, the funny thing is. What you. So. Not to bog anyone down in our. In one of our NFL pools, but Bobby's up $4,000. I'm up $8,000. I'm up $9,000 in that. I'm having the greatest year in the history. And a couple. And a couple of the other guys, but a couple. One of the other guys in the pool that's having one of the worst years ever hit me up and said, yeah, y'all be able to take this trip with all the money I owe you? And I said. I said, yeah. I really do need to thank my sponsors for this opportunity, so we're excited for you.
Bobby Bones
I'm excited for you. I didn't know, you know, I didn't know if the little squirrels are ever gonna find, like, a little squirrel to travel, you know.
Eddie
How long were y'all dating?
Lunchbox
A year and a half. Maybe a little bit more. Yeah, she going on to you. She moved to Nashville from San Diego. She was out there, but she moved to Nashville, like, I guess a little over three months ago, going on four months. And. And so we. It was, you know, we. This was a surprise when I did it, but it wasn't a surprise that it was going to happen. You know what I mean? We had talked about the future, and. Yeah, man, I don't mean to get all. Whatever, but. But I didn't really ever think that I'd be in this spot either, necessarily. And, you know, I just. Yeah, man, I found that. I found the. I found the gravy to my biscuits, you know? So it's pretty cool.
Eddie
Matt, when did you know, like, at what point y'all were together for a year and a half, two years. But at what point did, you know, oh, wow, this is someone I think I could spend the rest of my life with, especially being that you didn't think you'd find someone.
Lunchbox
Yeah, we were doing long distance for a while, but I knew that if the time and ever, you know, lined up, that. That. That she would. That. That. That would be it. Like, I knew that. I knew pretty early on that if. That if we ever, like, if, you know, if we ever. The timing was. Was the issue and the distance was the issue, But. But I knew that if. If we. She'd be the one for sure. Early. Pretty. Pretty early on.
Bobby Bones
Congratulations, buddy. Love you. And as Rihanna say, matt better have my money, money, money. You know what I mean? Oh, by the way, we're gonna announce something soon. Matt and Eddie and myself raging. It is we're doing some stuff together out on the road. But that'll be happening soon. We'll do that soon, Matt, thank you. Congratulations and I'll talk to you soon, buddy.
Lunchbox
Thank you all very much. I'll see you soon, brother Matt.
Bobby Bones
But I have my money. Money. Four grand.
Eddie
Sounds like he does. He's up.
Bobby Bones
Well, he's up too. Yeah. All right, let's do it. What's wrong with people? What's wrong with people? A guy in St. Louis helped free a stranger's car after it got stuck in the snow on Sunday. And then once it was unstuck, he pulled out a gun and demanded their keys to steal their car. Carjacked them.
Lunchbox
Wow.
Bobby Bones
So basically he didn't even help. He helped him steal the car. Oh my gosh. That's great, cuz. A lot of places nailed by the snow. It's always nice to see people helping people because this is the time when that 32 year old guy got his car stuck in St. Louis trying to get out of the parking garage. A guy in an SUV showed up to help him and that same guy immediately robbed him as soon as he helped him.
Eddie
That's crazy.
Bobby Bones
That's crazy.
Lunchbox
That's terrible.
Bobby Bones
That's from ksdk. What's wrong with people? What's wrong with people? We gotta say something there.
Eddie
Yeah, just. I can't believe it. That might be one of the worst what's wrong with people's ever.
Bobby Bones
Here's another one that's pretty bad. This one's from TikTok and I saw that Lexi was on TikTok and she was talking about this person who was like, hey, I'm raising money to go buy clothes for kids at Christmas. And he would go to Walmart, buy the clothes and then get the kids. Except he didn't. He and she ended up seeing him take the clothes back to get all the money back. So this is from TikTok and here she is talking about what happened according to the Walmart employee. And she told me that two days.
Peter Tilden
Ago a gentleman came in and purchased.
Bobby Bones
All of these and made a Tik.
Peter Tilden
Tok video about purchasing them for his community.
Bobby Bones
And two days later she was outside.
Peter Tilden
Having lunch and she saw the same gentleman send an older gentleman in to return them. So I just want to give you guys a heads up.
Bobby Bones
Some of these videos and some of.
Peter Tilden
These influencers that you're following, seriously.
Bobby Bones
So he said, I need money, I'm going to buy the stuff. He proved he bought the stuff, did a video of him buying it and then after the video, took it back, returned the money. Kept all the money that people gave him. Wow. There's a place for people like that.
Eddie
Who's worse?
Bobby Bones
St. Louis. Because they all live. They're robbing people with cars.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
What's wrong with people?
Lunchbox
What's wrong with people?
Bobby Bones
Next one up. The woman in Ohio with the last name Gamble is facing charges after she allegedly left two children alone in a car. Below freezing temperatures to go in a casino. Casino gambling. A real last name. Yeah. A Toledo woman faces charges after police say she left two kids alone in a car that was not running or locked. And below freezing temperatures in a casino parking lot.
Eddie
Oh, well, she's the worst.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's the worst.
Eddie
We have to vote on who's the worst.
Bobby Bones
Wasn't gonna vote, but okay, we'll. We'll do it. She's definitely the worst.
Lunchbox
Definitely the worst.
Bobby Bones
Carjacker number two.
Eddie
Terribly sad.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. And then tick tocker. Yeah. I didn't really plan to rank them. I'm with that. We can tear him. 22 years old and charged with, like, real life stuff, endangering children. But the reason it's a story, a big story, is because she went to a casino and her last name is Gam. That's from wtvg. What's wrong with people? What's wrong with people? What's wrong with people?
Lunchbox
What's wrong with people?
Bobby Bones
What's wrong with people?
Lunchbox
What's wrong with people?
Bobby Bones
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Bobby Bones
Here we go on the Bobby Bones Show. Now, Richard Goodall. Richard, I'm telling you, man, I loved you. Like, and I found you on Tick Tock. Obviously, like, that to me is when it was super, like, viral. And, like, you come out and you're. You have no expectation and then you cr. Like, I love that story. What's that first moment like, Richard, when you walk out and see those four judges in their face?
Peter Tilden
Total fear.
Bobby Bones
And do you remember it or. Because I did Dancing with the Stars. And I don't remember my first dance. I kind of blacked out for most of it because I was so nervous. Do you remember all of you walking out there and singing, or is it a blur?
Peter Tilden
I do. There's a small story about that. As I'm getting ready to walk out on stage. First off my interview, I was like, I don't want to talk to Simon. And they were like, okay. Of course they make me talk to Simon. I'm heading out on stage. Senior producer, her name is Meg, comes up to me just before I hit Terry Crews and get my microphone. And she says, if they ask whoever's interviewing you, whoever that if they ask what song you're gonna sing, don't tell them. I'm like, I'm already nervous. I'm like, so what do I say? And she says, I don't care. Just make it up. And, yeah, so I. I walk from there to Terry Crews, say our little bit there. And then I get the microphone, and I walk out there, and I'm all by myself. I've never been on a plane, never been west Missouri. And it's that fight, grind, repeat thing that. That made me just walk out there. Give me the confidence to say, you know, here I am.
Bobby Bones
How nervous were you walking out right before you sang? Was it. Could you feel it physically?
Peter Tilden
Yes, absolutely. And you can tell by the time I'm talking to Simon and then that first beginning piano riff starts. And then after I'm done with singing, I pat myself on the chest back up, and I'm back into shell mode. But when the music's playing, I'm good. I can. I can do just about anything.
Bobby Bones
So you feel comfortable. You actually felt comfortable singing. It was the pre and post that made you most nervous.
Peter Tilden
Exactly. Right. Yeah.
Bobby Bones
And you.
Peter Tilden
Absolutely.
Bobby Bones
Your kids at the school, they really are the ones that encourage you to.
Peter Tilden
Sing between them and my wife. Yes.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's the hero right there. Your wife. Tell us about.
Peter Tilden
My wife said, soon as they. If they put plane tickets on your phone, you got to go. And I'm just like, but I don't have any. I won't have you with her, with me. She's like, just put your big boy pants on and get out there and do it. You know what you're. You're capable of.
Bobby Bones
How did you get on the show? Did you do the online or did you go in person? I guess you didn't go in person.
Peter Tilden
Because initially in 2009, I tried out for the show, and it was what they call cattle calls. I'm sure you know about that. Whereas you just stand in line with everybody and you just tell your story, you sing your song. And so I didn't make it past the first round on that. But just like I said before, I'm a fan of your books. I've read your second. I read your second one first. And I'm about a little over halfway through your first one. The fight, grind, repeat mantra is. Is. Is key. I didn't know it until I read your books, but I still kept singing. I kept doing what I always do. And whatever happens, no expectations. You just go out there and you give it your best. And absolutely.
Bobby Bones
Is there a moment where. Because the key to this show is the crowd. When the crowd gives you that feedback, they like you. Then the judges are like, well, we may or may not like them, but if the crowd loves them, that could be the factor. Where, like the Voice, they flipped chairs. When I was on Idol, you know, everybody was different. But this one is about the crowd coming alive when you're singing. You know that because you've watched the show. When they start to cheer, are you like, okay, now we got this.
Peter Tilden
First of all, we're talking about the audition round. Nobody knew what to expect. And when I watch that video back, it kind of. It kind of makes me have. Have chicken skin. And so, yeah, when I hear the people screaming when I'm done at the end of the audition round, it just. I mean, I just have to. Have to take it in because, you know, I don't think I'm capable of all that stuff. And to see myself, it's. It's kind of like seeing myself in the third person. So. But I've been singing to the kids for years. Everything. Just about every single year. I've worked as a janitor, custodian singing for years and never dreamed that I would be blessing people. Making people, having people come together the way they are, it's just mind boggling to me.
Bobby Bones
There's a point in the show where they go, okay, you've made it, because you did have to go sing. Then it got real. It wasn't just the audition round, but now they, like, take care of your clothes, they make sure you get good food to eat. Like, that's a whole shift, right where you're working all the time, you're practicing and you're tired, but they're taking care of you. That's pretty cool.
Peter Tilden
Yeah, it's pretty. It's pretty wild to see yourself in that.
Bobby Bones
Did you have a Say on, like, clothes. They bring you clothes and you get to pick. Like, how did it work for you, especially wardrobe and style wise?
Peter Tilden
Well, for me, it was. They. They took me downtown in Koreatown in Hollywood area, and there's a guy in a little shop who made my last three shirts. And I didn't want to be flashy. I'm just a regular person and I'm not fancy, and I proclaimed it. And so they kind of gave me the working class rock star treatment. And the guy turned out to be a really good tailor. And he does all the. He does all the clothing for Dancing with the Stars, by the way.
Bobby Bones
I know him.
Peter Tilden
That's pretty well.
Bobby Bones
I know him well, and he does. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's same guy forever at an old, old shop.
Peter Tilden
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
You walk in, it's everywhere. Pictures of everybody he's ever. Oh, yeah. Oh, I've been there many. Yeah. Richard and I are coming from the same cloth. No pun intended. So, Rich, the show goes, and you're doing the real competition. You're singing now. You're singing against folks, basically, the final episode before they announced that you won. Did you feel like you had a good shot?
Peter Tilden
No expectations. I've never had any expectations. Every time I saw myself getting through each round, I know I had no expectations. I didn't. I didn't think I was all that in a bag of chips. Still don't. I'm just a regular person who happens to sing. Okay. I think.
Bobby Bones
What about performing? Growing up, like, did you ever have dreams of being a singer? And did you ever play, like, bars and clubs?
Peter Tilden
I wasn't really that person until I've always done, like, karaoke contests. I did country music contests. I've done. I did gospel music in a gospel trio, Southern gospel for about eight years and two different gospel trios. And then when the video that sparked all this came out, I had people in my area wanting to have me, you know, be the lead singer for their band. And so I finally got one good together, and I mean, we were good and tight, and then the show kind of took off and we kind of got separated for a little bit. So we're trying to regroup plus do other things.
Bobby Bones
Zach Morrison. Zach Attack. You gotta go do your own thing now, Richard. You know, I mean.
Peter Tilden
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
So what happened? So you come back to school? What happens? Or have you gone back to school? And what does everybody say? How everybody reacting?
Peter Tilden
Absolutely. I went back every single time in between shows. I worked, and now the kids are. I mean, it's just like, oh, that's Mr. Richard. But after the first audition, yeah, I was signing sneakers and cell phone cases and doing all kinds of stuff. And then I started touring the elementary schools and middle schools here in town and. And the kid. I mean, just the kids memorizing Don't Stop Believing. And I'd quit singing, and they'd keep singing. If you've seen some of those videos, it's amazing because we're still. I'm still keeping this music alive.
Eddie
When you would be at school singing and the kids were like, hey, you actually really have a great voice, what would you be singing? Was it casual? You kind of, like, whistle while you work, and they pick up on it. And what were you singing?
Peter Tilden
From about 6am to 7am the school belongs to me. And about. Around 7am that's when teachers start coming in. So I'd be belting out every morning, not thinking that, you know, this is me warming up for a big moment. When I turn 54 years old and get on a TV show, I'm just doing what I've always done for the kids in this area, and it's usually God bless USA. And in 2022, it just happened to be Don't Stop Believing because the teacher said, hey, pick whatever song you want. And I'm just like, okay. So. And that's what sparked the whole. It took two years, but I finally. I finally made it.
Bobby Bones
It's weird when it's all over because you're like, it's hype, hype, hype, hype, hype, hype. And then it's back home in normal and, like, the adjustment process. So are you working now again? And are you going to tour? Like, how do you balance being Mr. Richard and, like, fricking Richard Goodall?
Peter Tilden
You know, I think the corporations got enough good press out of it. I'm. I'm completely out of sick days, vacation days and everything, but whenever I leave to go do these shows, I'm. I'm making money. But no, I'm still at the school. I'm still a school employee, still on their health plan. I'm the same guy. I just got to be on tv. And now people are asking me to go out and sing on a more grander scale with a Vegas band. So, you know, I mean, wow.
Bobby Bones
A lot of people reach out that you hadn't heard from a long time.
Peter Tilden
Not really. And those that have, I mean, I've talked to them, but I understand kind of why they're reaching out, too, so. But no, I've not had any long Lost relatives come up, Nothing like that.
Bobby Bones
Do you get the money immediately?
Peter Tilden
It took about a month or so. They expedited it pretty, pretty well.
Bobby Bones
They tax it.
Peter Tilden
I took the lump sum. I took lump sum. Yeah, taxes. Taxes kind of took over there. But, yeah, I mean, I'm. We paid cash for our house. We got a new roof on our house. We were very frugal with. With our money and how we spent it and, yeah, internally grateful. Angela and I are both eternally grateful. So happy and yeah, just amazing.
Bobby Bones
So people can audition. If you're listening to this and you're like, I saw Richard sing and that motivated me. So you can actually audition and submit a video. So AGT auditions.com is the website where you can do that. So AGT auditions. You can also do it in person in LA. Rich, what would you tell somebody who wants to try out for the show?
Peter Tilden
There's absolutely no better time to try out than now. Because, I mean, proofs in the pudding if somebody regular Monday through Friday janitor for 23 years can get up there and try out and make it and then end up winning the whole doggone thing. I mean, anybody can try out, but they could before. But, you know, this it. To me, I think it's more of a letting people know that it's not. It's not all about professional because, oh, my gosh, I was as raw. Still am. In a lot of ways. I was as raw as could be. So if I can try out and win it, anybody can audition. Anybody.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. AGT auditions.com and you can the January 12th in LA if you want to do it there. But AGT auditions and then if you guys want to see Richard, you can go to the singing janitor.com. january 17th, Troy, Ohio. The 19th, Greensburg, Pennsylvania. And April Anderson, Indiana. Doing some other Indiana dates. Go to thesingingjanitor.com. yeah, I, you know, TikTok, I found you and then was obsessed. It was awesome. And I just. And so once I watch like the first after you auditioned, it knows to feed me more Richard videos. My algorithm was like, So I got every performance and I was rooting for you, so. And then my final thing is here are my keys and I have kind of. I have a lot of keys and I kind of get made fun of. But do you have a lot of keys since you're a janitor? Is your ring bigger than mine?
Peter Tilden
I. I do. Mine is bigger than good. They make fun of middle school. So you got more keys.
Bobby Bones
Good, good. Because they make fun of me for all my keys and now I'm not the most key man on the show right now. Richard, thank you so much. Congratulations guys. Go follow Richard on Instagram Richard at Goodall and tell your wife we said hello. I know you credited her as being your biggest cheerleader and advocate. So tell her we said hello and congratulations and hope to see you again soon, buddy.
Peter Tilden
Thank you. I'm a big fan.
Bobby Bones
Thank you very much. Really good to talk to you. Bye, Richard. Are you ready for the ultimate country throwdown? It's the I Heart Country Festival presented by Capital One Bigger Bolder. Packed with your favorite stars plus Capital One cardholders. It's your moment. Snag tickets before anyone else and grab an exclusive access pass to a private show pre event with one of the night's performers. Tickets and access passes go live January 21st for 48 hours or while pre sale supplies last. Be sure to mark your calendars. You don't want to miss this. Head to iheartradio.com capital1 for all the details.
Jason Alexander
I'm Jason Alexander. And I'm Peter Tilden. And together on the really Know really podcast, our mission is to get the true answers to life baffling questions like why they refuse to make the bathroom door go all the way to the floor. We got the answer. Will space junk block your cell signal? The astronaut who almost drowned during a spacewalk gives us the answer. We talk with the scientist who figured out if your dog truly loves you and the one bringing back the woolly mammoth. Plus, does Tom Cruise really do his own stunts? His stuntman reveals the answer. And you never know who's going to drop by.
Bobby Bones
Mr.
Jason Alexander
Bright Cranston is.
Bobby Bones
What are you.
Jason Alexander
Hello, my friend Wayne Knight about Jurassic Park. Wayne Knight, welcome to really. No, really, sir.
Bobby Bones
Bless you all.
Jason Alexander
Hello, Newman. And you never know when Howie Mandel might just stop by to talk about judging.
Bobby Bones
Really? That's the opening? Really?
Jason Alexander
Not really.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, really. No really.
Jason Alexander
Go to reallynoreally.com and register to win 500 a guest spot on our podcast or a limited edition sign. Jason Bobblehead. It's called really?
Bobby Bones
No really.
Jason Alexander
And you can find it on the I Heart Rate radio app on Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Bobby Bones
And glued to the TV because of the California fires. I see TV glued to Tick Tock. Glued it anything?
Eddie
Oh, I actually was watching the news last night. Glued to it.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. Tens of thousands have flee the deadly fires. Some of my family that lives in California, they've had to evacuate too. So I mean, it's. I Was talking to a friend that lives there, and I've never been around wildfires. I've never lived in a place where that's been prevalent. And in certain parts of the country, because of the landscape it is, where I grew up, there are tornadoes everywhere. And that's so foreign to everyone. I've been in 20 tornadoes, close to about four where we thought it was really going to hit it. So we had tornadoes. Some people have hurricanes. The wildfire thing is so new novel because I've never actually been around one. I've seen houses and know people who've lost their houses to fires, but never seen it like this before. So it almost seems like a movie until you get to the real human element of it and you see the people talking, lost their stuff. And I was talking to a friend that lives there, and I said, hey, what's up? Have you guys had to evacuate? He said, nah, they're like 10 miles from where we are because they're all. They're east, west, and a new one was in the middle of Southern California. And I said, because we've talked about them and done charity stuff for them in different parts of the country where you are in California, there have been some big ones, but is this the biggest one ever? Because I don't know. They're all massive and they're all. They take forever to control. And he's like, no, this is the worst one.
Eddie
Yeah. History ever.
Bobby Bones
And because it's in places where so many people are living, even to hear that made it more. Not that it never wasn't real, but again, it feels like a movie because I've never been in a place where that's happened. And that is la. Is that la? Yeah. Yes.
Eddie
Yes.
Bobby Bones
So LA would be like West Malibu. That all. It's all up there. Over to the other side. It's where, like, where Mike D. And I live. And I was doing Dancing with the Stars, like Glendale in the middle. Now there's Scuba. You could talk. You lived in la. Yeah. So last night when I was talking to a friend, another fire popped off right by my cousin's apartment in Runyon Canyon, which is a very popular tourist attraction for, like, great pictures and stuff. And it is rough to see people have lost houses that I know that I've worked with and that are friends. And it's scary because you have three fires that are almost connecting in a sense, where you have all individual, but they've gotten so big, they're almost touching, which connects. And it's scary because of all the Ashes and the embers. So that flies with all this wind, it gets picked up and you start a new fire somewhere else. And it's just. It's. It's devastating to watch and see. I watched a guy on TikTok. There was a palm tree that was on fire and right next to his house and just. Palm tree. So he was on his roof with the water hose spraying his roof. So if any of the embers fell on it and then trying to spray the tree, the individual tree, and he was just going back and forth, back and forth, and the tree was really on fire, but it was an isolated tree on fire. But he was just trying to keep his house wet and the tree. Because as soon as that stuff falls on the house, the house catches on fire. Most destructive fire in LA history. Everything, I mean, everything's closed, everything's stopped.
Eddie
The part that was just really wild to see, too, is like the. Them having to, like, bulldozer cars out of the middle of the road. That seemed almost like a movie because people abandoned their cars in the middle.
Bobby Bones
There's one way in and one way out to that first. Like the. And I have a very limited knowledge of LA just from going out there to work. But that. That Pacific Coast Highway. That's what it's called, right? Pch. Pch, yeah. There's like one way on the far west. And so people couldn't get out because there's like one way and one way out. So they would leave their cars and just run on foot. Yeah.
Eddie
But then emergency vehicles needed to get through, so they started just like bulldozing the road. The cars, like, off the road and out of the way. And that just seemed so like, I never seen anything like that.
Bobby Bones
Well, and what's unfortunate is the headlines are massifier. Here's all the celebrities that lost their house, but most of the people are losing their houses aren't celebrities. But because the headline is here's all the celebrities, most people are like, well, they're super millionaires. I don't even really care that much about this fire because it's really affecting all the celebrities only. But the celebrities are just the ones making the headlines. The real people that are losing their house aren't making the headlines because people aren't going to click that. So it makes it feel like it's a celebrity fire when that's just a fraction, a very, very small fraction. Fraction of it.
Eddie
And then also they're human too, and they have children and they have memories and they have. They're still.
Bobby Bones
Yeah. People don't care if they have 50 million bucks. People don't care as much.
Eddie
I know I'm thinking of the, the family stuff and things they're losing, but also the story of the There's a nurse that ignored the evacuation to go to her 90 year old parents house to try to save their house because their insurance was recently cancelled I believe because of the fires that have been breaking out. Just a lot of policies have been canceled lately and it was so heartbreaking to see her have to ignore that. And she was on the news and she's like, what am I supposed to do? They're 90 years old, this is their home we have and they have no insurance. So she was trying to do what she could to save it and that was totally heartbreaking.
Bobby Bones
What I just feel the worst about is because obviously a lot of people are going to need a lot of help, but this has been assigned as a la celebrity wildfire when that's like 3% of what it is. But that's what makes all the news. So that's what we who've never experienced this, who don't live close to their feel like, oh, it's just a bunch of rich celebrities. House on fire, sucks for them, but they'll be okay. No, yeah, but it's not that. Yeah, but that's not sensational. So that's. So people aren't going to click that. I mean like Paris Hilton lost her house and I clicked the story, but they're not going to click. John Smith, who lives again right at Runyon Canyon, who has a normal house, You've been there for like 70 years, works at a bank. I know, right?
Eddie
I know. And some of these people, because they've evacuated, they have no idea like if their house is still up and they're watching the news and watching the sky cam and finding out that way, they're like, oh my gosh, there's my house on the news right now, burning down.
Bobby Bones
It sucks. It's still happening. It was zero percent contained at one point yesterday and still growing. I don't have any more info but I did want to make sure I didn't not talk about it. Other news, a little lighter here. A screaming flyer causes an hour long flight delay after refusing to wear a seat belt. Shut up. And never fly again. You know that song Lincoln Park? Shut off.
Lunchbox
Shut up while I'm talking to you.
Bobby Bones
Shut up. Didn't want to wear the seatbelt. It's all of it. It's the screaming, the seat belt. Now I would assume there could be some medical reason. They could be drunk. There could be a medical reason they don't have their medicine. Who knows? But I'm going to be so irritated if it's just somebody that's being hard headed. So a mom, they call her a hell raising mom. Caused an hour long flight delay after refusing to buckle her seatbelt. And even screamed when flight attendants tried to calm her. As seen in the video, the disruption occurred on the flight. Crew members have been conducting the cabin checks. No seatbelt. And they were like, hey, seatbelt. She threw a tantrum. She threw another passenger's phone. The whole thing apparently. This from the New York Post. Oh, I'm so mad. I didn't do anything about it. But I'm so mad. It feels like everyone has a stomach bug. A new norovirus strain might be to blame. This from the cdc, I'm fairly certain. Had a little version of the neurovirus. Not neuro as in brain. That's a little architectomy. Noro. I always thought it was neuro. The way you're pronouncing, I probably have that too.
Eddie
Noro.
Bobby Bones
But this is Noro. Yeah. Hey, it's my accent. The new strains been linked to and they go through. But if you got a stomach bug, it could be one of four things. The quad. They say Covid. Could be that norovirus. It could be that rsv. I know adults who have rsv. I thought it was just a baby thing. You have that. And there's another one I'm forgetting about.
Eddie
Gosh, you just taught us the quad yesterday.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, I know. I forgot. Fourth one.
Lunchbox
Flu.
Bobby Bones
Flu. Oh, okay.
Eddie
That's the easiest one.
Bobby Bones
The OG The OG and the most hardcore. Like if you get the real flu. Yeah, it's bad. Full wolf moon. Amy, you know about the full wolf moon?
Eddie
No, I don't.
Bobby Bones
I would think that would be a your thing.
Eddie
Okay, well, tell me more about it. Like do I need to. When there's a full moon, do I need to be out in.
Bobby Bones
How? Yeah, okay.
Eddie
What's it gonna do for me?
Bobby Bones
So the full moon on the 13th, which today's the 9th, tomorrow's the 10th, so it'll be Monday, right? Yeah. It's called the wolf moon. It's called wool. Wolves are more likely to be howling at the moon this time. Specifically, it has nothing to do with the appearance of the moon. Howling is heard in the wintertime. And this will be the moon where more wolves howl. That's cool. Which is kind of cool unless you have a teenager all of a Sudden looks like a wolf. And if he's really good at basketball and surfing.
Eddie
On your car.
Bobby Bones
Yeah, that's Teen wolf. That's from almanac.com country singer Riley Greene lands in the emergency room after being impaled on a hunting trip. Riley Greene impaled. He shared a video on social media of him in the emergency room as he explained how he ended up in the hospital. At the emergency room. Because I stepped on a nail, impaled my foot, and when I took my boot off, corn fell all over.
Peter Tilden
The lady came in here, wanted to.
Bobby Bones
Know where all the corn came from. It was from my boot. You don't want me to take this other one off either. Hey, Riley. Get well soon, buddy. Yeah, man. Good luck. That nail on the foot, that's what happened to. But I roofed houses for a while and it would happen about once every season. Somebody would step on a nail through their foot. Because if I go right through the shoe, would you have to get that tetanus shot for sure. I wouldn't. I never did it.
Eddie
Are you, like, easy to hunt with? Like when you would go hunting, would you. Were you good at being quiet?
Bobby Bones
I just go to sleep. It just depends. So they're still hunting. Dog hunting. 2.2 type that we would do if we were still hunting. Butt crack early. Either. Get in a tree stand. Mostly I would just sit at the base of a tree because I don't want to climb up. I don't want to. I didn't feel comfortable falling asleep in a tree stand because I felt like I'd fall out and die. Sure. So I would just sit at the base and then it's just still. And you just sit there. And then I would just fall asleep.
Eddie
Yeah.
Bobby Bones
I don't know.
Eddie
I just got curious what kind of hunter you would be because Riley Green, speaking to him, I saw him talking about who he wouldn't hunt with.
Bobby Bones
Yeah.
Eddie
And he said jelly roll. Cause he's too jovial, like too loud.
Bobby Bones
Laughing the whole time. I liked hunting with dogs. We would. Would. We would use dogs and they get. They pick up scent. They chase the deer. So you have to stay ahead of the dogs because you know they're running a deer. So you're trying to predict where the dogs are going by listening to the sound. That was more fun because you're trying to get ahead of everything, including the deer. And hopefully they run it up to you. That was better for me because I didn't fall asleep. Yeah. Yeah. Also, one final thing. I mentioned yesterday that I signed a deal with the NFL. A lot of people thought I was a player. I'm not. I haven't jumped on any teams in the playoffs. I know a lot of people are. No, trust me. A lot of people are like, wow, are you playing? No. I signed a deal with the NFL to me and former quarterback Matt Castle. And we're doing a show called Lots to say. And Tim McGraw is our guest today. And go check it out. Go search for Lots to say. And I was talking to Tim McGraw about how if I do a show, like a stand up show or music show, and Arkansas's playing football or basketball, I have it on stage and sometimes people don't know it. I have it on my phone in front of the monitor so I can still watch the game as we're going. And so this is us talking about that. If there is a big LSU game, Tim, and you are on stage, how are you getting information fed to you? Through my ears, through my inner monitors. My guy Heath on the side is always telling me to score.
Jason Alexander
And he also used to do that.
Bobby Bones
When my kids were in high school and one of my daughters was a cheerleader. So when I happened to be on.
Peter Tilden
Stage and there was a game going.
Bobby Bones
On, I was getting fed scores right in the middle of songs. So if I dropped a word now.
Peter Tilden
I mean, it's because I was feeling.
Bobby Bones
Happy about the score. So if you ever heard him go, I'm an Indian outlaw. Oh, crap, that's what he's doing. Game wasn't going so well. Check out Lots to say. It's our, our new podcast. Tim McGraw is the guest today. That's the news. Those were Bobby's big stories. Bobby Bone Show Bonehead story of the day.
Lunchbox
This story comes to us from Missouri. A man with driving his Nissan Sentra down the road and all sudden he.
Bobby Bones
Hears.
Lunchbox
He pulls over and cop goes, hey man, you know why I pulled you over? And he's like, no, officer, I don't. He goes, you're going 107 miles an hour. Is there a reason you were going 170? Goes, oh man, sorry. I just got really into my video game. Didn't realize I was going 107.
Jason Alexander
Oh, wow.
Bobby Bones
Wait, what?
Lunchbox
Yeah, he was playing a video game. My hero Ultra Rumble.
Bobby Bones
Why he was writing it down. Must be fun. Wow. Sounds doing that. That's. I didn't know a Nissan Sentra went that fast. 107. I have no desire to go fast. And then it feels very dangerous. Play video games while also going fast.
Lunchbox
No, no, he didn't even know he was going fast. So how are you going 107.
Bobby Bones
Okay. Sometimes a good song comes on. I go a little faster than I know I'm going. Right. Like Love Shot comes on and you go, push the gas a little more.
Eddie
Okay, well, a Nissan Sentra can go up, up to 120.
Bobby Bones
Oh, there were kids in high school that used to take those Nissans and like, oh, soup them up big time. And they had a name for it that. I won't say what they're called because I think now it's a bad name. Oh, no. I'll tell you off the air, I think, what do you know I'm talking about. No, it's the first word. The second word's rocket. Never mind.
Lunchbox
Oh, I know, I know. No, no, that's a motorcycle.
Bobby Bones
I was thinking motorcycle. Doesn't matter. Tell you off the air. All right, thank you. Lunch.
Lunchbox
I'm Lunchbox. That's your bonehead story of the day.
Bobby Bones
Bone. Here's a voicemail we got last night.
Lunchbox
Morning studio.
Bobby Bones
I was calling. I have a vet school interview this weekend, and I was calling for some good luck on it and to ask.
Lunchbox
For any tips regarding my interview.
Bobby Bones
Thank you, guys. I don't know you. So I'll give you the most basic elementary tips that work every single time. Maybe not to get the job, but it will improve your performance. Number one, smile. It's so basic and generic that we forget to do it or we're so in our heads about, I don't want to mess up. Pressure's on smile. People want to work around and with people they like or people they like being around. Number one. Because if it's even you and somebody else, they're going to go, which person like being around the most? Smile. Now, don't hold the smile all the time. You look at the joker, so there's a fine line that's creepy. But smile, be pleasant because people want to be with people that make them feel good, number one. Number two, ask questions. Questions. Inevitably, there's going to be a time in the interview where they go, do you have any questions for me that's asked every single time I ask it? Every single time. You need to have questions for that. Even if you don't really mean them. You need to have questions for that. Oh, you can't say, no, I'm good. You can. That's what most people do. And I go, but if you have some, I go, they didn't spend any extra time, like, educating themselves on what their goals could be, what their growth can Be what our growth can be. I will ask that question going, I sure hope they ask me a couple questions.
Eddie
Can you buy time with where'd you get that shirt?
Bobby Bones
That's not a question.
Lunchbox
That is a good question.
Bobby Bones
If you're being funny. If you're being funny, it's not like, no, just eat a Snickers. If you need time, get away. They ask you. Yeah, hold on.
Eddie
Questions.
Bobby Bones
Have questions.
Eddie
Have them ready because you don't want to have to filibuster.
Bobby Bones
And one of the best questions to ask back is like, what do you think I could do immediately to help X, Y or Z? Like, if I got this job, what can I do immediately that would help? Whatever the bit is, they're gonna go, oh, let's go asking a question. And that's the easiest one. So smile and ask questions and have a firm handshake. Don't be sweaty and clammy. Make sure you wipe your hand because first impression is. Then the first impression happens. But the first. First impression, tough. So you better be smiling and non clammy and have questions. That's it. That's all I can give you generically. Otherwise you probably got it or they wouldn't be interviewing you. As far as, like, you know what you're talking about. May not get the job, but I have a new NFL podcast called Lots to say, which was Matt Castle, the quarterback. Please check it out. We'd love for it to be a success. Then I'll. If not, I'll lose my contract to the NFL. Your big contract. I'm signed to the. I'm with the NFL. Amy. Yes, I'm signed to the NFL. It's called Lots to say. Check it out. Tim McGraw is our next guest. That's cool. That's pretty cool. All right, thank you, guys. See you tomorrow. Bye. The Bobby Bones show theme song written, produced and sang by Reid Yarberry. You can find his Instagram @reedyarberry. Scuba Steve executive Producer Raymundo Head of Production. I'm Bobby Bones. My Instagram is Mr. Bobby Bones. Thank you for listening to the podcast.
Jason Alexander
I'm Jason Alexander. And I'm Peter Tilden. And together, our mission on the really Know really podcast is to get the true answers to life's baffling questions, like why the bathroom door doesn't go all the way to the floor. What's in the museum of failure? And does your dog truly love you? We have the answer. Go to reallynoreally.com and register to win $500 a guest spot on our podcast. Or a limited edition sign. Jason Bobblehead the Really no Illy Podcast. Follow us on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Release Date: January 9, 2025
Host: Bobby Bones
Guest: Matt Stell (also referred to as Lunchbox)
In this compelling episode of The Bobby Bones Show, host Bobby Bones sits down with Matt Stell to delve into his extraordinary journey of getting engaged and married within a span of just 24 hours. The episode offers an intimate look into Matt's spontaneous decision, the planning behind it, and the impact it had on his life and relationships.
Spontaneous Decision-Making
Matt Stell shares the impulsive decision-making process that led him to both propose and wed his partner within a single day. He explains, "I was ready to skip over all the, you know, ready, set, go, like the set part. I was ready to go from ready to go on life and stuff like that" (05:00). This mindset propelled him to act swiftly during a trip to Mexico with friends.
Planning the Surprise
Originally, Matt had planned to surprise his fiancée with an engagement proposal during his trip. He arranged for her parents to be flown in to witness the moment. However, as the trip progressed, Matt felt increasingly certain about taking the next big step. He reached out to his friend Will to get ordained quickly, stating, "I hit up my buddy Will, and I was like, hey, man… he was like, absolutely. So he did it" (05:07).
The Wedding Ceremony
After proposing, Matt didn't stop there. He decided to get married the very next day. Despite the initial surprise, he sought his fiancée’s input to ensure it was mutually exciting. Matt recounts, "We slept on it. We were at the pool, hanging out, talking about it. She said, you know what? I'm ready. Let's do it" (05:40). The couple then orchestrated a beachside wedding, complete with both families present and Matt's best friend officiating the ceremony.
Logistical Challenges
Matt was candid about the logistical hiccups he faced, including forgetting to purchase a wedding ring initially. He humorously notes, "I forgot to get myself a ring through all this, so I had to borrow one until yesterday I got mine in the mail from Amazon" (09:28). Despite these minor setbacks, the wedding proceeded smoothly, reflecting the couple’s commitment and adaptability.
Community and Family Support
The episode highlights the overwhelming support Matt received from his family and friends. He elaborates, "She thought it was a great idea, too. So we had her parents there, my parents there… It ended up working great" (05:25). This collective support played a crucial role in the seamless execution of their rapid nuptials.
Personal Insights
Matt reflects on the rapid progression of his relationship, sharing, "I found that I found the gravy to my biscuits… pretty pumped about it" (12:11). He emphasizes the depth of his connection, stating, "I knew pretty early on that if the timing was the issue and the distance was the issue, she would be the one for sure" (13:25).
Financial Considerations
A humorous yet honest conversation emerges when Bobby Bones mentions, "Matt owes me like $4,000 for sure" (10:54). Matt's lighthearted approach to personal finances adds a relatable layer to the discussion, showcasing the couple's ability to maintain humor amidst life’s significant moments.
The episode concludes with heartfelt congratulations from Bobby Bones to Matt and his new spouse. Bobby remarks, "Congratulations, buddy. Love you. And as Rihanna says, Matt better have my money, money, money" (07:11), blending humor with genuine well-wishes. The discussion not only celebrates Matt's remarkable expedited journey into marriage but also offers listeners valuable insights into making bold life choices with confidence and support.
Matt Stell: "I was ready to skip over all the, you know, ready, set, go, like the set part. I was ready to go from ready to go on life and stuff like that." (05:00)
Matt Stell: "We slept on it. We were at the pool, hanging out, talking about it. She said, you know what? I'm ready. Let's do it." (05:40)
Matt Stell: "I knew pretty early on that if the timing was the issue and the distance was the issue, she would be the one for sure." (13:25)
This detailed summary encapsulates Matt Stell's whirlwind experience of engagement and marriage, highlighting the emotional depth, logistical planning, and personal insights shared during the episode. Listeners gain a comprehensive understanding of Matt's journey, making the summary both engaging and informative for those who haven't tuned into the full episode.