WEDS PT 2: Amy And Her Boyfriend Talked Marriage + How Amy’s Hormones Made Her Crazy + Big Update On Our Cruise! + Celebrity Mom Drama?!

Summary

The Bobby Bones Show

Episode: WEDS PT 2: Amy And Her Boyfriend Talked Marriage + How Amy’s Hormones Made Her Crazy + Big Update On Our Cruise! + Celebrity Mom Drama?!
Date: January 7, 2026
Host: Bobby Bones (with Amy, Eddie, Morgan, and guests)

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Episode Overview

This multi-segment episode of The Bobby Bones Show brings a blend of true crime intrigue, behind-the-scenes team updates, listener advice calls, and lively group banter. Major highlights:

• Amy discusses a true crime story that has captivated her and the internet.
• The team gives updates on their upcoming country cruise, adding a new member to the roster.
• Candid group conversation about relationships, hormone-induced drama, and giving/receiving compliments.
• Morgan covers viral Hollywood “mom group” drama featuring big-name celebrities.
• Several listener calls prompt open discussions about workplace leadership challenges, substance use in public, relationship trajectories, and more.
• The hosts keep the mood entertaining and authentic, with memorable jokes, personal stories, and their signature mix of humor and sincerity.

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Main Discussion Points & Timestamps

1. True Crime Story: The Murdered Dentist Couple (02:48-07:28)

Amy shares an Ohio murder case that has grabbed her attention:

• A young dentist and his wife were found shot dead at home, their children unharmed.
• Unusual elements: No signs of robbery, mystery suspect with an obscured face caught on snowy street cameras.
• Internet sleuths speculate using YouTube analytics and walk comparisons from wedding videos, though the team (esp. Bobby) is skeptical of comment section "facts."
• Possible motives discussed: Domestic incident, random homicide, or a hired hit.
• Amy’s fascination with true crime is gently ribbed by the team.
• Quote - Amy (04:42): "This is reminding me of...when they had surveillance on Osama bin Laden... watching how he was walking and compared it to a news interview he had done where he was walking with the journalist."

2. Country Cruise Update & Big News (08:04-10:21)

Bobby shares an exciting update on the upcoming country cruise:

• Details: 7 days, Feb 27 departure from Fort Lauderdale, with performances by Keith Urban, Lee Brice, Parmalee, and more.
• Breaking News: Raymundo, another show member, is officially joining the crew.
• Logistics discussed: Drink packages, cruise experiences, safety.
• Quote - Bobby (09:14): “Breaking news. Raymundo is now going to join the crew. Did you know? That is awesome.”

3. Miscellaneous News Bites (10:25-13:24)

Quick stories and reactions:

• Knife incident at a grocery store; how a bad day plus a weapon is a dangerous mix.
• The world’s oldest Twinkie turns 50—would anyone eat it?
• Theft of valuable collectibles (Hot Wheels, Warhammer figures) and Logan Paul’s million-dollar Pokémon card going up for auction.
• The group reflects on their own collectibles and the gamble of unopened card packs.
• Hilarious fortune teller story where the “prediction” is carried out by the fortune teller themselves.

4. Celebrity Mom Group Drama (15:06-17:54)

Morgan dives into viral drama involving Ashley Tisdale, Mandy Moore, Hilary Duff, Meghan Trainor, and their husbands:

• Ashley Tisdale writes about breaking up with her "toxic mom group," sparking widespread online reactions.
• Hilary Duff’s husband mocks the article with a parody photo, calling Tisdale "self-obsessed and tone-deaf".
• The team reflects on mom group/dad group drama and the universality of group tensions, celebrity aside.
• Quote – Amy (17:40): “How bold. If you’re in a well-known celebrity mom group and then you decide to... do an article completely about it. The title of it is ‘Breaking up with my Toxic Mom Group.’ Like, that’s...”

5. Viral Parenting Moments & Cultural Parenting Differences (20:01-25:11)

• TikTok story where a mom entrusts her baby to a stranger during a bathroom emergency; debates on safety, “it takes a village,” and cultural comfort levels.
• Comparison to Nordic parenting: Babies left to nap outside in strollers for health reasons—a cultural norm there but shocking in the US.
• Related discussion: Trusting babysitters from apps, hiring strangers for home care.
• Quote – Bobby (21:05): “I think if the mom wouldn’t have come back, there would have for sure been an update. What I thought was this mom had some bad diarrhea type stuff and just needed somebody quick, desperate. And listen, I don’t think you should be handing your baby to people. However, it does take a village a lot of times.”

6. Relationship Real Talk: Compliments & Hormones (34:26–71:12)

Amy’s Hormone Spiral (63:18-71:12)

Amy recounts an emotional overreaction brought on by PMS:

• Feels slighted because her boyfriend didn’t tell her about basketball game plans.
• Realizes next day it was hormones and not relationship issues.
• Honest advice for men: Sometimes, it's just hormones—give it a beat!
• Quote – Amy (65:44): “...If sometimes you’re the female in your life is just like not making sense. Like, give it a beat. Because they will likely start their cycle or something hormonal and it too shall pass. But I was. So I had to leave and Hudson and I went and got in the car and he physically could tell, like, I was not right.”

Caller Advice: Managing Older Coworkers (34:36-38:24)

Caller seeks leadership advice as a younger manager:

• Bobby advises on setting boundaries, maintaining professionalism, and being consistent.
• Throws in a “kill one” joke for classic Bobby exaggeration.
• Quote – Bobby (36:50): “And then if they don’t, you kill one of them so they can all see it…”

Giving Compliments: What Works, What’s Creepy? (38:24-59:59)

• “You enchant me” as a suggested compliment—panel agrees it lands creepy.
• Listener calls and hosts muse over alternatives: “You fascinate me,” “You complete me,” “I can’t get enough of you,” etc.
• Discussion expands into attraction (“funny but not hot/hot but not funny”), how men and women rate compatibility factors, rehashing the age-old “crazy-hot” scale (with comic touch).
• Jerry Maguire and One Direction references surface as pop-culture examples.
• Quote – Bobby Bones (39:06): "If I tell somebody you fascinate me, they’re going to think I’m gonna eat them..."

7. Listener Calls: Parenting, Substance Use, and More (40:41-63:16)

• Listener wonders whether to call police on neighbors smoking weed in a car; group debates what kinds of “impairment” trigger actual action.
• “Would you call the cops if…” scenarios: Open containers, restaurant drinking, texting and driving, etc.—team mostly steers toward “not my business” unless there's erratic/dangerous behavior.
• Quote – Bobby (42:23): “I don't think I would call the cops if I saw three guys handing a beer to each other while driving. Are they driving erratically? That's different.”
• Relationship/attraction calls: How “funny” can get someone a second look (if they're "funny but not hot"), the experience of being drawn to someone’s positive qualities.
• TV update: Will Stranger Things return? Panel says probably not, fans just coping with a polarizing ending.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Amy (04:42): Reminiscing about how US intelligence used gait analysis on “a blurry walk” in both surveillance and now in internet crime sleuthing.
• Bobby (36:50): “And then if they don’t, you kill one of them so they can all see it…” (on managing older coworkers—a running joke).
• Amy (65:44): “Give it a beat... if sometimes you’re the female in your life is just not making sense.”
• Morgan (15:09): “There’s some mom drama in Hollywood… Ashley Tisdale... breaking up with my toxic mom friend group.”
• Eddie (39:31): “What's a good, simple one? Like, I like...”
• Bobby (39:46): “I think you say what feels normal to you.”
• Amy (57:37): “She needs to hear that, too…”
• Bobby (66:58): “...You weren't included in the communication in the community. Then you thought he was hiding it from you. Possibly.”

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The Show’s Tone

• Conversational, comedic, and candid. The hosts joke freely about themselves and each other, sharing personal anecdotes, sometimes poking fun but always circling back to genuine advice and support.
• Real-world relatability even in celebrity topics: Relationship tension, workplace awkwardness, viral parenting moments.
• When tackling sensitive issues (hormones, safety, relationship anxiety), the team remains honest but compassionate.

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Key Takeaways

• The world loves a good true crime puzzle, but don’t trust internet “comment section” detectives.
• Group dynamics—whether cruise ships or celebrity mom clubs—always have drama, and it’s universally relatable.
• Sometimes, hormones drive reactions; understanding and patience go a long way in relationships.
• Compliments need to be heartfelt, not forced or movie-scripted; “enchant” probably isn’t it.
• Parenting, trust, and safety are seen very differently across cultures and situations.
• Open debate is welcome on the show; not every situation has a clear-cut right or wrong.
• The Bobby Bones Show continues to be a mix of humor, honesty, and human connection—plus a little country heart.

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• 02:48-07:28 — Amy’s True Crime Deep Dive
• 08:04-10:21 — Country Cruise Update & Raymundo Joins
• 15:06-17:54 — Celebrity Mom Group Drama
• 20:01-25:11 — Parenting, Trust, & Cultural Differences
• 34:36-38:24 — Caller Seeks Leadership Advice
• 38:24-59:59 — Relationship Talk: Compliments & Attraction
• 63:18-71:12 — Amy’s Hormone-Induced Drama

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For fans, this episode is a quintessential Bobby Bones experience—something for everyone, with updates, advice, confessions, and lots of laughs.

Transcript

[Amy]

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[Bobby Bones]

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[Amy]

So I've just sort of been enamored with this dentist story and his wife, you know. Okay, so they live in Ohio, and on December 30, they were shot dead in their home. And it was not murder, suicide or anything. They're treating it as a homicide. And their kids were also in the house, but they were left unharmed. And he's a dentist. And what happened was on December 30, he didn't show up for work. And that is very uncharacteristic of him. So the. The dentist that owned the practice was like, we need to send. Send somebody to the house. Because they also couldn't get a hold of the wife either. And so they're a very young, like, real handsome couple. And now they've released footage of a guy, like, with a hood on, like, you know, walking in the alley, like, where the trash cans are.

[Bobby Bones]

He steal anything? Was anything stolen from the house?

[Amy]

No, but this is the person of interest, which it's hard to tell anything about the person. But that's the latest update because I have bad vision.

[Bobby Bones]

It just looked like a blacked out.

[Amy]

A guy walking a snowy street, like, with a hood up. And you can kind of see, like, when I was watching it on the news, I was like, trying to be like, okay, you know how some people have a very distinct walk? It's like, maybe someone will know something that way, but it's just very freaky and very bizarre. And then I made the mistake of when I was reading a certain article, maybe it was on tmz. I think I went down to the comment section and. And someone commented that someone on YouTube broke down.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm a mistake of going to the comments, though.

[Amy]

I know. But broke down the analytics of their wedding video, which was posted on YouTube. And like, during a certain time frame, like, I didn't know you could see.

[Bobby Bones]

They saw a similar walk. No, no, I thought someone walking down the aisle. Similar walk.

[Amy]

No, now I'm just giving you another.

[Bobby Bones]

Detail that's a part of a crime movie.

[Eddie]

Yeah, the walk.

[Bobby Bones]

The walk. And they go back and watch a wedding video, and it's like one of the groomsmen walking.

[Amy]

Oh, I feel like this is reminding me of Else. Whenever they were sir had surveillance on Osama bin Laden, like, wherever he was hiding out, but they couldn't tell that it was actually him. They just had, like, night vision. Of like. Or a heat sensor of someone walking and they were watching how he was walking and compared it to a news interview he had done where he was walking with the journalist.

[Eddie]

Because he would walk the garden like.

[Bobby Bones]

Every day, slow and tall and sometimes with a cane.

[Amy]

So, side note, but down in the comments, like, so I guess Someone on YouTube had realized that their wedding video had been watched a certain amount of times by the same person. Like, over and over and over. And so I don't know if, like, I didn't know. You could.

[Bobby Bones]

How do you tell that?

[Amy]

I. I don't know. I'm just telling you the comment I saw. Like, I thought Mike D. Might know. Like, that's possible. Like, you can get into the data of YouTube.

[Bobby Bones]

Unless you're in their YouTube page, but even then you can't tell who's watched it a bunch of times, you know, like their IP address. You'd really have to get in there. That's why you don't trust the comments.

[Amy]

Yeah, well, that part really freaked me out. But, like, if someone was stalking them, you know, because their wedding, like, I think was at their house, like, where they.

[Bobby Bones]

So what do they think? Someone randomly broke in and was robbing them and killed them? That's what I was asking about.

[Amy]

The motive remains totally unclear. It's wild. I. I don't.

[Bobby Bones]

Who knows about this story?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Morgan]

There was also a phone call, I guess, to 911 from this house a few months prior. About a domestic incident.

[Amy]

Yes. And then they. She was like, never mind. They did. They didn't want to look further into it. But it didn't say if that was specifically from the wife. It was a female at that residence, but we don't know if it's the wife. But then that made you think, oh, maybe there was a domestic thing and it was murder, suicide, but now it's homicide. But then I'm like, well, did they hire somebody to come and do something, or is this random?

[Bobby Bones]

I've not seen that. Didn't happen.

[Amy]

This is the couple.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I mean, I. I get it.

[Eddie]

But, I mean, yeah, Amy loves this stuff.

[Bobby Bones]

What do you mean?

[Amy]

I love it? I don't love it.

[Eddie]

You love stories like this. You love documentaries, true crimes.

[Bobby Bones]

Sure. I think what he means to say is you are compelled by these stories.

[Amy]

Yeah, it feels like I. Yes, I. Thank you.

[Eddie]

But you love these stories. Like these.

[Amy]

But his name's Spencer Hermit. Her name is Monique, and gosh, a GoFundMe has been set up for their kids. And I think it's at over $160,000 so far donated, because now they're orphans, just like that. So thankfully, whoever was there, you know, spared the children for whatever reason. But, I mean, the whole thing is just tragic. And, yeah, I didn't know these. That's all Morgan. That's the same update. Like, this is all we know, unless anybody else knows anything else. But y' all didn't even know about them.

[Bobby Bones]

Go back in the comments.

[Eddie]

You know, speaking of comments, do you remember the Idaho murder? Murders, the four college students or whatever He. The murderer.

[Bobby Bones]

Brian.

[Eddie]

Brian Kohlberger or something? He would go after the murder was done, he would go into chat rooms and, like, comment and ask questions like, how do you think he did it?

[Amy]

And he'd love to see in the Facebook groups.

[Eddie]

Yeah, he'd love to see how people.

[Bobby Bones]

Thought he did it.

[Eddie]

And he'd be like, there's no way that could work. You know, like, ooh, eerie stuff.

[Amy]

That's creepy.

[Morgan]

See, that's why I want an updated Mindhunter, that show on Netflix that was.

[Bobby Bones]

So, like, good about COVID Got it canceled.

[Morgan]

And it was so good about going in the minds of these people.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, it's a good one. Still on Netflix. And the first season is individually different. I don't remember. But there was always a part at the beginning, and then that ended up paying off, too. It was a whole different crime. He has a good one. I have an update here. So we're going on a cruise starting February 27th. Eddie and I will be performing as the Raging Idiots. Keith Urban will perform. Lee, Bryce Parmalee, Scotty McCurry, LeAnn Rimes, Amy Lunchbox, Eddie Morgan. All coming. You can still come if you want. There are still a few cabins available, or I guess staterooms is what they say. Go to topshelfcountrycruise.com to reserve your cabin. Breaking news. Raymundo is now going to join the crew. Did you know? That is awesome. You didn't know? That is news to me. That. Yeah.

[Eddie]

And breaking news.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, let's book that flight, baby. Yeah. Seven day cruise. Hold that boat. On a luxury ship leaving from Fort Lauderdale, Key West, Nassau. Bimini, Bimini, Bimini, Bimini. Thank you. Cruise sets out February 27th. So you got over a month. If you guys want to come, you can still come. And now we're adding the great Raymundo.

[Eddie]

Is it all you can drink?

[Amy]

You mean all inclusive?

[Bobby Bones]

I've never been on a cruise. I would assume it is. No.

[Morgan]

So you can buy drink packages.

[Bobby Bones]

He'll get a free one where he.

[Eddie]

Can drink as much as he wants.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay.

[Morgan]

Yeah, I was gonna say I don't know about us, but yeah, for the people.

[Eddie]

Ray, please be careful. Dude, it's a boat.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, no. You think you'll go over?

[Eddie]

Well, you know how he is.

[Bobby Bones]

A couple drinks and he does get sloppy after a drink. Now, you guys have not drank around me in probably a decade. I am 40 now.

[Eddie]

So what's different, even weaker?

[Bobby Bones]

Well, it's typically no brown before noon. And if you're gonna do that, it's late at night, but you can still fall off the boat late at night is my point. Uh huh. They got great deck cruise. There's all kinds of deckhands on there.

[Eddie]

All right, Just be careful.

[Bobby Bones]

Have you been on a cruise ever? Yeah, we did one the year ago when we went all over. Yeah, it was. It was great. Are you excited you're going? Yes. This is. This is the reason I joined the Bobby Bones show.

[Eddie]

Oh, the cruise.

[Bobby Bones]

I thought that's all you did was go on cruise and party with people and do unlimited drinks. Well, I thought that's what radio was. If you guys want to come, it's topshelfcountrycruise.com but breaking news, Raymundo. I thought. I thought I could get him on. I thought I'd get him on. We got him on.

[Eddie]

Pull some strings.

[Bobby Bones]

Pull some strings there. Okay, let's go over to Eddie out of your story.

[Eddie]

Yeah. This guy had a bad day. He was at the grocery store and he was in the customer service aisle at the line waiting to be attended to, and somebody cut. So he pulled a knife on him. He's like, you're not cutting. Get back. He pulled a knife on him. The guy's like, try to fight a little bit, you know? And then security stepped in. Guy forgot about the guy that he was fighting with. Went to security, is like, I'm gonna stab you too. Started calling them names, spit on.

[Bobby Bones]

Anybody get stabbed.

[Eddie]

Nobody got hurt, thankfully. But they said that this, his fighting with everyone happened all the way down to the police station.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, it feels like he was having a bad day, like said.

[Eddie]

And he's got like.

[Bobby Bones]

And when someone has a bad day and they also have a weapon, that's a bad mix, dude.

[Eddie]

The charges are crazy. It's like assault on an officer, public intoxication, disorderly conduct.

[Bobby Bones]

He's also drunk.

[Eddie]

Aggravated assault with a deadly weapon, assault of a law law enforcement officer. That's three counts of that.

[Bobby Bones]

There is a Twinkie that's 50 years old.

[Eddie]

Ew.

[Bobby Bones]

And it still exists. The world's oldest known Twinkie turns 50. Would you eat it?

[Eddie]

Oh, like it's still in the package.

[Bobby Bones]

For money.

[Amy]

For how much money?

[Bobby Bones]

I don't know. Thousand bucks?

[Amy]

Yeah. The whole thing or take a bite?

[Bobby Bones]

The whole thing.

[Eddie]

Amy, this is an old Twinkie.

[Bobby Bones]

In 1976, a student spoke up during a lesson on food, chemistry and preservatives, asking how long a Twinkie snack cake would last. Little do they know that 50 years later, the Twinkie is still sitting proudly in the case that they put it in. It's kind of white, it looks kind of gross, but it's still there. It's said to be the oldest known Twinkie on planet Earth.

[Amy]

Yeah, I don't know that I want to risk it. What if you end up with some.

[Eddie]

Yeah, like, I'm sure it's all.

[Amy]

You get sick from it.

[Eddie]

Bacteria.

[Bobby Bones]

Twinkie's underrated, though.

[Eddie]

Great. Great dessert.

[Amy]

I think they're pretty good.

[Bobby Bones]

I like Twinkies.

[Eddie]

Can you. Oh, you probably can't have a Twinkie anymore, huh? Is that even dairy?

[Bobby Bones]

They don't make them anymore. Do they make.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah, yeah, they make them.

[Bobby Bones]

They shut down for a while and sold the company. Yeah, I think they came back.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Man, you guys act like they stop. No, they stopped making Twinkies for a while.

[Amy]

You're right.

[Bobby Bones]

They did. You guys act like I was crazy. Oh, you're stupid. Hundreds of Hot Wheels and Warhammer figures are stolen from a Washington state storage unit. And so it's just a bunch of money. Somebody just must have known where the collectibles were. You guys see Logan Paul's Pokemon cards up for auction? He paid five million bucks for it. It's a one of one. It's an illustrator. Pikachu Illustrator. Yeah. And I don't know much about Pokemon cards, except I get some of the runoff from, like, the collectibles that I read about. Baseball cards, football cards, basketball cards. He used to wear it around his neck and with, like, a diamond case. And so Ken golden paid him some money, a bunch of million or so. A couple million to just be a part of the auction. And then they're doing this big auction. This is one of the cards. But he gets a piece of everything auctioned, including his own card. He's gonna make a ton of money. But it was a card that he paid $5 million for. And now it's going up for auction. I think there's 40, 60 days left, and it's already at a couple million, which means it's Going to probably sell for 10, 12 million dollars.

[Eddie]

What about our. Like, didn't we invest in some cards, Lorcana, that what we did. Same thing we did with the palette, but we did cards.

[Bobby Bones]

Mike D. Has the cards. Yeah, we have. They've increased a little bit in value. Just a little. Just a little bit. Are they still in the packages? Yeah, we have one that we have not opened at all. We opened some of them, but one of them is completely sealed.

[Eddie]

All right.

[Bobby Bones]

Do you think we'll know you whenever we finally sell them? Yeah. Like, will it be like 20 years? I'm saying, I mean, when they go up to, like, really good value? Yeah, probably like 20 years.

[Eddie]

Yeah, but I mean, we're. I mean, you.

[Bobby Bones]

But a little bit. We gambled on those. To open them.

[Eddie]

Not to. No, we. I think we collectively decided not to open it.

[Bobby Bones]

No, we opened some of them because we went through them on the air.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

My point is, whenever you buy cards and you open them, if the value is not in there, you lose value. You're looking to see if there's value in there. So we bought it and looked to see, and then there wasn't. But we left some of them unopened. So we're already at a negative because we got selfish and went in them because we couldn't. Couldn't help ourselves, even though we didn't know what they were. That's why we bought two. Yeah. So it's a full box. Yeah, full box. A fortune teller predicts a woman would have possession stolen, and then she stole her phone.

[Eddie]

Okay, well, that would be the fortune teller.

[Bobby Bones]

She's looking out for her business. A fortune teller in Thailand took their prediction and stole a client's phone just to prove that they were right. Police arrested the 38 year old after they swiped a 19 year old woman's iPhone while she was praying. Earlier that day, he had warned her that she would face bad luck and lose a valuable item soon. And then said he'd prevent it. And then I guess he followed her and then stole the phone just to prove that something would be stolen.

[Amy]

Oh, gosh.

[Bobby Bones]

But that's doing work. You know she's gonna come back if she believes. If you get away with it, you know they're gonna come back. All right, Morgan.

[Morgan]

All right. There's some mom drama in Hollywood.

[Bobby Bones]

I saw this story. It's now. Cause husband's now stepping up.

[Morgan]

Yeah, there's a lot of drama. So first it started with Ashley Tisdale. She was on High School Musical, and she did a Bunch of stuff on Disney. And apparently she was part of a mom friend group that had Mandy Moore, Hillary Duff, Meghan Trainor and Ashley Tisdale did an article in the cut and was like, breaking up with my toxic mom friend group. And then now it's just like snowballed in so many different directions. Now Hillary Duff's husband went online completely mocking the article.

[Amy]

And then he did a full, like exact photo. Yeah.

[Morgan]

Like put his head on her and like put a new.

[Amy]

I thought it was still his body.

[Morgan]

At least in the article it says he did that. It could have been his body.

[Amy]

Okay. I don't know. But yeah.

[Morgan]

So now there's like just. I guess I didn't realize there's this much mom drama.

[Bobby Bones]

I think there's always this much mom drama. But this is a famous group and one of the famous people decided to say something. So it blew up.

[Amy]

Well, the dad is like. Or the husband. Sorry, the husband that's now inserting himself in a Matthew Comer.

[Bobby Bones]

Right. He's the producer of Hillary Dutch Hudson.

[Amy]

So he said something like, you know, when you're really self centered, call her out.

[Bobby Bones]

What was the drama?

[Morgan]

So they had.

[Bobby Bones]

The fire happened and like Mandy Moore went and stayed at somebody's house where they bought it. That's what I heard the first part was.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Morgan]

And I've seen mixed things on this. Apparently, like, Ashley didn't do that. And she wasn't very kind during the.

[Bobby Bones]

Fight, but didn't take someone in. Yeah.

[Morgan]

Or like didn't offer and she kind of like secluded herself from that whole situation. But I don't know that that's true. But around that same time, she had unfollowed Hilary Duff and Mandy Moore. So clearly something happened. And then there was like, things over, I guess she made a comment about Charlie Cook and there was something in there. But none of this is like Charlie Kirk.

[Amy]

Kirk.

[Morgan]

Did I say that weird?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, Charlie Cook. Kirk.

[Morgan]

Sorry.

[Bobby Bones]

And then Crook and Chase.

[Eddie]

That's what I thought. Did Charlie Crook Charlie?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Morgan]

So yeah, I mean, they have it. Like the only news that's really come out is like the unfollowed each other. And then there was this drama around the fires. And then now this article comes out and it's a whole spot.

[Amy]

Yeah, he called her. He called Ashley Tisdale self obsessed and tone deaf.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, this is happening everywhere, all the time. We're just seeing this because it's famous people. And one of them decided to leak it out. So don't feel alone if you're in a toxic group. Yourself. Because this is happening everywhere.

[Eddie]

High school shows up in like different ways.

[Bobby Bones]

I think we're adults. That's just life that happens in high school and just keeps happening. It just happens first in high school. But also.

[Amy]

So how bold. If you're in a well known celebrity mom group and then you decide to.

[Morgan]

Do an article completely about it.

[Amy]

The title of it is Breaking up with my Toxic Mom Group. Like that's.

[Eddie]

Yeah, that's intense.

[Amy]

I mean you're asking for it.

[Eddie]

That doesn't happen like in a regular neighborhood. Like the word doesn't get out that big to where the whole world knows.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Morgan]

And it is him. It's his body. And he says when you're the most self obsessed, tone deaf person on earth, other moms tend to shift focus to their actual toddlers. And he's like posing the same way she is. It's a full like mock up.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, you're not alone out there, everybody. If you're in a little, little situation.

[Morgan]

Drama between mom, like I guess even.

[Bobby Bones]

Dads, I think just group dynamics in general.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

This always happens, especially if it's not families. But even families are dynamics where, you know, just. It mostly just stays in house. So yes, I would say if you're in a group, pta mom, group coaches, there's always drama.

[Eddie]

Book club.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, there's always drama. Put people together, there's going to be drama. Let's see. Anybody not go? I have a bunch. Everybody gone?

[Eddie]

We gone.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay. People are betting on the return of Jesus.

[Eddie]

What are the other. What are the options?

[Bobby Bones]

It's just a 2% chance that Jesus will come back. And before 2027.

[Eddie]

Before 2027.

[Bobby Bones]

But you can bet it.

[Amy]

But then you're not here.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, so that's the point. Like if he does come back, you're not going to get your money.

[Eddie]

All right. Yeah, that's stupid.

[Morgan]

Is this also the same thing as like the rapture was happening at one point? Is this on the same level?

[Bobby Bones]

People just over and over are creating these. But this is. You can actually bet on it. You can put money into one of these apps. But yeah, if it does happen, you're not going to get your money. And if it doesn't happen and you win, you just gave them a loan for two years.

[Eddie]

Yep, that's a good way of thinking of that.

[Bobby Bones]

You just gave them money to make very little interest. You could have put it in somewhere and even in a checking account and made more interest on that and the money that you would win.

[Morgan]

Is there other lifestyle things you can bet on.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh no. A lot of these prediction apps have it. All kinds of stuff. A 19 year old guy in Florida got caught driving 154 miles an hour on wet roads. That's just fast. Regardless, dry, wet. I have no interest to drive that fast. 154. Any reason whatsoever?

[Eddie]

Fastest you've gone though?

[Bobby Bones]

Well, I drove a race car once and I wouldn't go over like 70 on the track.

[Eddie]

A race car? Yeah, built to go fast.

[Bobby Bones]

I put in a suit, climbed in the window and I was like, you know, I'm good. It's fun, I'm good. That is from Fox 13 News, right? Do you have the clip of the guy getting handed the baby? Yep. On TikTok. Did you guys see this tick tock where the guy was like this woman just handed me this baby.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Bobby Bones]

Going to the bathroom.

[Amy]

Hit it. Yeah. Like at the.

[Eddie]

The lady handed me the baby and.

[Amy]

Said I gotta use the bathroom to hold my baby.

[Eddie]

And I said sure, I love babies. And she handed me the baby and I think he likes me.

[Caller]

Where's the mama?

[Eddie]

In the bathroom. Did she go check on her?

[Caller]

I think.

[Eddie]

I don't know.

[Caller]

Wow.

[Bobby Bones]

Your thoughts? I have a couple.

[Amy]

It kind of seems like maybe they're in like, like a Walmart Southern smaller town. Yeah, like I was picturing like an academy or bass sports or something.

[Bobby Bones]

Best pro shop. You just combine two stories. But we like it.

[Amy]

Thank you. Thank you. So I felt like he looked like a nice guy, but maybe we really have to go to the bathroom. I'm not gonna do it. But the thing is they. I never saw an update if the mom came out of the bathroom. And so then I kept wondering like, did she just say she's going to the bathroom and this is her way of ditching her baby?

[Bobby Bones]

I think if the mom wouldn't have come back, there would have for sure been an update. What I thought was this mom had some bad diarrhea type stuff and just needed somebody quick, desperate. And listen, I don't think you should be handing your baby to people. However, it does take a village a lot of times. And I think if you were just to randomly pick someone, the odds are they're gonna be a decent person that's gonna take care of the baby for five minutes. If you have an emergency, you shouldn't have to do that. But if you just throw a rock into a pile of people, the person you hit is probably gonna be somebody that's gonna. Yeah, sure. And they're not gonna do anything bad to the Baby. And that's only if it's an emergency. But then I wondered, if you have diarrhea, do you just hold the baby while you have diarrhea? Yes.

[Eddie]

Yeah, just hold the baby. Hold it. It's like a football.

[Bobby Bones]

While you have diarrhea.

[Eddie]

Let's go. Do your thing. Hold the baby and then you're done. And then weird that she picked a guy. Like, I just.

[Bobby Bones]

I think she picked whoever was closest and looked safe. Like, old enough and closest. I don't think it was that she looked for a guy. I don't think you look for someone in that situation because it is something that is done in an emergency.

[Amy]

Okay. But once you hear this guy talk and his action. He's real nice. He sounds nice, but, like, just looking at him, he's not the first person I'm gonna go to. Didn't hear him speak because once he spoke, he sound. He's like a gentle giant, but he's like a big, burly man.

[Bobby Bones]

You look for another mom. Yeah, that's why it's an emergency. They weren't looking for somebody. They weren't, like, walking around, finding the right person. There was an emergency, and they were like, oh, my God, would you please hold my baby? And they went in. Yeah.

[Eddie]

No.

[Bobby Bones]

She probably also was kind of irritated that that went viral because it wasn't her proudest moment when she had diarrhea. And I don't know if she had diarrhea, but who knows? She could have been vomiting and not be able to hold the baby.

[Eddie]

But luckily, she's never shown in the video.

[Bobby Bones]

Right.

[Eddie]

So no one knows who she is.

[Bobby Bones]

His wife or whomever the woman is comes into the video.

[Amy]

Yeah. And then their kid.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And they're like, where'd you get that baby?

[Eddie]

I never thought of doing that.

[Bobby Bones]

I thought it was a joke at first. I thought they were doing. I thought it was his baby and they were just doing a joke. Yeah. But it wasn't a joke.

[Amy]

Who knows?

[Bobby Bones]

But I think most people are honest. And if you needed somebody, there are 100 people in a room, 99 of them are actually going to go like, yeah, I'll hold the baby before you.

[Eddie]

No, I get it. That's just that 1% wouldn't do it.

[Bobby Bones]

You wouldn't do it. But I'm saying if. Let's say she's vomiting her brains out. That's okay.

[Eddie]

Hold the baby like.

[Amy]

Yeah. Because what are the odds you're handing your baby to someone that's like, yeah, that 1%.

[Bobby Bones]

Kill a baby. It's not one. It's 0.001.

[Amy]

But kidnap maybe.

[Bobby Bones]

Anything. Eat it.

[Eddie]

You said one out of 99 in that 100.

[Bobby Bones]

No, I'm saying it's way less than 1%. But you can't go less than 11 1% room with 100 people.

[Eddie]

Yeah, I just wouldn't take that risk.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't think she wanted to take the risk.

[Eddie]

No, I'm telling you, there is no situation you put me in where I'm not. I'm letting go of my baby and give it to a stranger.

[Bobby Bones]

Never. Fair.

[Amy]

That's why I thought maybe she never came back.

[Bobby Bones]

Fair.

[Eddie]

Oh, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm just trying to.

[Eddie]

Now they have the baby.

[Bobby Bones]

See it with a bit of empathy and that there must have been something going on that she felt like she had to do that. I don't know what. I just don't know what it was.

[Morgan]

This reminds me. Have you guys seen in like Nordic countries where they leave the baby sleeping outside in the stroller?

[Bobby Bones]

When they go inside restaurants, they leave them out. They're warm.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Morgan]

They're all like bundled up.

[Bobby Bones]

They're snow falling, covered in the crib, though.

[Eddie]

Why are they left outside?

[Bobby Bones]

To acclimate them to the environment.

[Eddie]

Oh, because they're in the Nordic, like Sweden.

[Morgan]

And it's really good for them, I guess, for babies to be out like that. But yeah, there's like lines of strollers out just with the babies all bundled up in them.

[Bobby Bones]

And they go over to the map door and they pull the thing back because it's snowing and the snow's all over the crib, but the baby's just in there and it's warm, just chilling.

[Amy]

Wow, that seems like a cool place to live.

[Eddie]

Interesting.

[Bobby Bones]

Why do Finnish parents do better? Nordic people leave their babies outside to nap due to a cultural belief in. I don't know that word, but it's called open air living. And the perceived health benefits of fresh air leading to better, longer sleep, stronger immune systems, and reduced exposure to indoor germs.

[Amy]

Yes, super flu.

[Bobby Bones]

Though safety precautions are taken for extreme temperatures. The tradition helps children adapt to cold climates and fosters radiation resilience with parents often ensuing babies. But that's it. Yeah, it's a good one. I've seen those two. Interesting. And also they can trust leave their kids out.

[Eddie]

Yeah, well, I guess there's a lot of other kids too.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay. That makes it even easier for somebody to steal one of the kids if there's 100 kids.

[Eddie]

No, yeah, yeah, I get it. I get it. I Wouldn't do that either.

[Amy]

Yeah, but if it's part of your culture, you might.

[Eddie]

Yeah. Yeah, I guess if we all did it.

[Bobby Bones]

There are probably some cultures that are like, I would never let a person I don't know babysit my kid. And they found them on the Internet.

[Eddie]

Yeah, that's weird. Dude. There's apps on that.

[Bobby Bones]

No, but even that.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know, I know. It's just like, we're leaving our kid with.

[Bobby Bones]

Have you ever done that?

[Eddie]

Yeah, we've had babysitters.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Amy]

From an app or, like, care.com.

[Eddie]

No, I don't think we've ever done the app.

[Bobby Bones]

But someone you didn't hire?

[Eddie]

I have someone that we didn't know. Like.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I mean, there are probably people that would hear that and go, there's no way I would do that. Leave my most precious things with someone I don't know.

[Eddie]

I know. It's weird, dude. It is weird to do that.

[Amy]

I would leave my dad with people I didn't know.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm not judging him for doing it.

[Eddie]

I'm just saying, you leave your dad with people.

[Amy]

At the time he needed care. Yeah. I was finding people on care On. I think it was care.com. i was like, okay. I mean, they're vetted.

[Eddie]

Yeah, but what are they gonna do to your dad?

[Bobby Bones]

I'm not gonna kidnap him. Arguing pro or against, I'm just saying, where Eddie was going, I could never do that. Yeah, there are some people that will look at you the same way. Or you just hire somebody you've never met to watch your kids and go, I can never do that. In the same way that you look at someone handing their baby to a person they don't know.

[Eddie]

I just know that you have all control with handing the baby, like, to someone that you don't know in any situation. Right.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, but you don't know who's coming to watch your kids. They can murder them.

[Eddie]

Yeah, but you know, like, you know someone that knows them. They're not.

[Bobby Bones]

But you don't know.

[Eddie]

Dude, my parents are the ones that got a lady to stay with us.

[Bobby Bones]

At a hotel in Vegas.

[Eddie]

That was crazy.

[Amy]

That is crazy.

[Eddie]

Luckily, she was nice.

[Amy]

Yeah, that's pretty.

[Bobby Bones]

My only point is, you don't really know.

[Eddie]

You don't know.

[Bobby Bones]

Bobby, I trust the goodness of man.

[Amy]

I started that show you told us.

[Eddie]

Oh, the Chuck?

[Bobby Bones]

No, no, that's the movie.

[Amy]

No, the night of.

[Bobby Bones]

How many episodes in. Are you one? Yeah, it's good, huh?

[Amy]

I'm not even done with even.

[Bobby Bones]

Just one is Good.

[Amy]

But it just makes me think how your life can change like that.

[Bobby Bones]

Yep.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

So it's crazy.

[Amy]

Be careful.

[Bobby Bones]

Especially if you hand your baby to somebody.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Immediately.

[Amy]

Yeah. Or you leave your baby to the people that left their baby in the hotel room while they went to go eat or whatever in the foreign country. And then they're on the cruise. No, not the cruise.

[Bobby Bones]

Madeleine McCann. She was taken from Right. When they went to go eat down the hall.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

They abducted her at the hotel. Never saw her again.

[Amy]

I mean, yeah, there's the cruise.

[Bobby Bones]

I think there's a lot of these.

[Eddie]

Yeah. My wife tells me, like, even you're going to the gross. Even you're going to the convenience store. Don't leave the kids in the car. Because I've thought about it, like, it's real quick, man. I'm just gonna get. Just gonna get in the. Go in there, get milk. I'll come right back out.

[Bobby Bones]

And you know what? 999 times out of a thousand, it's gonna be okay. Yes. That chance. But you could find somebody out by the gas and be like, hey, will you watch my kids?

[Eddie]

They're just in the car, man. Will you watch them for me?

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, man, I ran them here. You're good, dude. We watch them for one second. All right, that's it. Your Tick Tock order ever come in?

[Amy]

Yes.

[Bobby Bones]

Your what? Leggings.

[Amy]

I ordered leggings from TikTok shop, and I was gonna buy these leggings from their website, full price. And then I saw some girl putting them on. On TikTok and then being like, click here, because right now they're 50% off. And so I was like, no way. And so I thought, after I talked to y', all, I thought, well, maybe I'm getting some, you know, generic ripoff version. Like, they're not going to be as high quality. They came in. These are. These leggings are amazing.

[Eddie]

Really?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

So are they just, like, the authentic?

[Amy]

They seem to be. And the only reason why I ever started to look these leggings up is because I saw this girl in Pilates wearing them, and I was like, those leggings are so cute, but I've never seen that logo before. And it's just a little triangle on the back. So then I Google leggings with triangle on the back. And then that's when I went to their website, and I was going to pay full price. Well, then. Then it showed up in my TikTok half price. So instead of paying, you know, $90 for the leggings I paid 45.

[Bobby Bones]

Hit us back in a few weeks.

[Eddie]

See, they're still together.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, it's just 50. 50 TikTok shot has a lot of great stuff, but there's a lot of stuff I get too, from like, oh, this is cool. And then it just randomly falls apart.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

But it could be right.

[Amy]

I mean, I get it. I still haven't, like, you know, washed them a bunch or worked out on them a bunch, but I just was like. And it came in the bag of the company. Like, the, The. The bag was the brand. So. But I mean, I know people can rip that stuff off, too.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Anything graphics.

[Amy]

Yeah. Like, all you do is, like, printers and stuff, put it on a bag. But I'm like, this is just crazy. 50% off.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, we'll take a break. If you go over today and listen to the Bobby cast, Eddie and I have an episode where we're talking about mtv. You know, they. They cut mtv. It's dead as a channel.

[Amy]

Right.

[Bobby Bones]

Did you know that?

[Amy]

I didn't. I guess I didn't know it was officially dead.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, it's dead as there's no more music ever. Like, they cut every one of their music channels.

[Amy]

What about the skater guy who.

[Bobby Bones]

So they. The brand still exists and they just do all shows, which they were kind of doing anyway, but they used to do like MTV 90s, MTV World Music. All those channels are done, and there's no music ever on mtv. So it was the official death of music on mtv.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

And all their side sub channels. And so we talk about that and we talk about the things we remember most about mtv. What's your biggest MTV memory? What comes to mind first?

[Amy]

Trl.

[Bobby Bones]

That's what I said to. Is my number one. Eddie went once. He talks about it.

[Eddie]

Yeah, that's cool. I was in New York. I mean, I didn't go in, but I saw him, you know, from the street.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, like when he was in high school.

[Amy]

Yeah, but that's crazy. It's still cool.

[Bobby Bones]

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[Bobby Bones]

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[Bobby Bones]

The Bobby Bone Show. Everybody roll. Yeah. Let us go over and talk to Samantha in Illinois. Samantha, you're on the show.

[Caller]

Hi there. Morning, studio.

[Bobby Bones]

Morning.

[Caller]

So I just needed some advice. I say this humbly, but I've been in my company for eight years and I've moved up pretty fast. And so I have quite a few people that are under me that have been in the company for 20 to 40 years and I'm struggling getting them to take me seriously. But also like be professional at the same time because I get a lot of jokes of, oh, I was in the company when you were born, so just kind of like knowing how to navigate that.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, it's awkward being younger than people you manage. I've had situations like that before. So first they're just kind of testing boundaries with you when they make the jokes. So they're also probably unsure of how formal to be with you because you are younger. And it's awkward for them as well. And there's probably a little bit of jealousy within them and that's how it manifests. So it's all of that. So first of all, know that, that it's awkward for you, it's awkward for them, and they don't really know how to handle it. And then I say this a lot, I preach this a whole lot. It's just all about consistency. So decide who you are at work and be super consistent, period. So they know what to expect from you. Also, don't make jokes back about it if you're uncomfortable with the jokes they're making about it because all that does is open up the door for them to make more jokes about it. So. And you can, you know, diffuse that with something like, hey, let's just keep it professional and move on. So don't apologize for it either because that would be like you did something wrong. But it's awkward for everybody. Also, don't feel like you got to be part of the group at first while these new boundaries are being established. Like, if they're having a hard time accepting you as a boss or a leader for whatever reason, it could be that you're a woman, that you're younger, that you're seven foot tall, that you're a dude. Who knows why don't integrate yourself within, like, the super peer group until the boundaries, because you'll never be a super peer with them again, sadly. So that's what I would say. It's awkward for everybody, but you do have to be so consistent in that this is who you are at work, and they have to respect that. And then if they don't, you kill one of them so they can all see it.

[Eddie]

Oh, wow. As an example.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Like, okay, one of you come forward.

[Amy]

And then they'll know.

[Bobby Bones]

And then they'll know. No, it's really about consistency. And they don't know how to react to you because it's awkward for them as well. So it is awkward. But you deserve that awkwardness because you deserve that job. And sometimes there are tough things that come with really cool circumstances.

[Caller]

No, I really appreciate that. I think that's great advice. So thank you very much. And also, I am a part two er, and I've listened to every single podcast for eight years since I got this job, actually.

[Bobby Bones]

So I drive a lot every podcast.

[Amy]

Wonder if there's a correlation.

[Bobby Bones]

Listen, I get tired of me, and I am me. I can't imagine someone that's listened to every episode for eight years. Thank you very much. And we do a second show on the podcast is what Samantha's talking about. So we do this radio show, and then we go over to the podcast feed, and we do a second show pretty much every day. So, Samantha, thank you. Good luck at work. You deserve that job. And with the good stuff comes the other parts you deserve. You know, what you're going through now. It's a bit awkward, but you'll get through it, and they will respect you more once it's over.

[Caller]

All right, thank you so much. You guys have a good day.

[Bobby Bones]

See you later. And then again, you have to kill one of them. Do it sometimes. People got to know, got to do.

[Eddie]

What you got to do.

[Amy]

That's how we learned here.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Remember Ron?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Oh, Ron.

[Amy]

Rest in peace.

[Bobby Bones]

I didn't want to put. I don't want to put him down.

[Eddie]

But that changed everything. It did.

[Bobby Bones]

You guys. You all stood up a little straighter didn't you? Let's go to Christy in Dallas, who's on. We were talking about earlier, this article said women want to hear the compliment. You enchant me. We talked about that. But, Christy, you're on.

[Caller]

Hi. Morning.

[Bobby Bones]

Morning.

[Caller]

Yeah. Okay. And you enchant me is. That's just creepy. I agree, but how about you, like, you fascinate me. I like that word. Fascinate me. I mean, there. There can be a situation, I think a very intimate situation where, you know, your enchanting might work, but you enchant me is. That's creepy. And complimenting people all the time, you know, if I hear my significant other complimenting everybody, it kind of takes away from the compliments it gives me.

[Bobby Bones]

I feel like if I tell somebody you fascinate me, they're going to think I'm gonna eat them. Like, that feels.

[Amy]

I want a wellness check.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, that feels. Or whatever it's called, what a stalker would be. I'm so fascinated with you that I'm gonna watch your every move, and then at your most vulnerable, I'm gonna take you, kill you, and eat you.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm jumping far on that. But if someone said that to me, fascinate feels a bit unhealthy. Enchant feels weird, too. I'm not arguing for that one. I just thought that was a weird, weird compliment to give somebody. You enchant me.

[Eddie]

What's a good, simple one? Like, I like.

[Amy]

What about. What about from Jerry Maguire? You complete me.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, that's from. That's so from a movie.

[Amy]

Okay, well, I try.

[Eddie]

Yeah, but you automatically go to Jerry Maguire.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, that's so from a movie.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

I think you say what feels normal to you.

[Amy]

I'm enamored with you.

[Bobby Bones]

Again, you're gonna eat me.

[Amy]

I'm obsessed with you.

[Eddie]

See, that's too.

[Bobby Bones]

How about this?

[Amy]

I can't.

[Bobby Bones]

You're really fun to be around.

[Eddie]

Yeah, but that could be friend friendly.

[Amy]

Yeah, like, just, like, cool.

[Eddie]

We can be friends then.

[Bobby Bones]

There's not a perfect one that we can generically assign. But I would rather go on the side of not so enamored, not so obsessed. And I think if you're just torn. I really like being around you.

[Amy]

I get lost when I'm with you.

[Eddie]

I don't know what that means.

[Bobby Bones]

Is that what you say when you're late? I got lost. I was coming to you. Christy, we appreciate the call. Thank you very much for listening.

[Caller]

Okay, bye, y'.

[Bobby Bones]

All. Bye. You guys. Call us if you want. We'd Love to hear from you. It doesn't have to be about that. It can be a question or comment about something you've heard or about the show. 87777, Bobby. That's the number. 877-77-B O B B Y.

[Caller]

There are three people, three men in the car beside me that are smoking pot. I am very sure it is not just a cigarette because I can see the joint and their car is on. They're not moving or anything. So my question is, would you call the police on them so that they're not impaired? Because I am in the car with my baby. So what would you do?

[Bobby Bones]

Nothing.

[Amy]

Huh.

[Eddie]

Interesting.

[Amy]

I mean, yeah, I probably wouldn't do anything, but she does make a point. Like if you saw three people sitting in a car drinking beer.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. With tall boys, but not moving.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

What does she mean by that? Like, are they like a. Parked at a. Like a red light? It's about to be green.

[Amy]

Right.

[Bobby Bones]

There are three men in the car behind me.

[Eddie]

Like, where she is. She parked.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't really if she could be in a parking lot.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

But she says they're not moving. Again, this is one of those. That ain't your chili. They're also not moving. And also, you don't know what you're looking at.

[Eddie]

She said a joint, man.

[Amy]

But if you saw beer, wouldn't.

[Bobby Bones]

If they were driving. Would I probably call the cops? No, I'm telling you, that can make me a bad person. But I don't think I would call the cops if I saw three guys handing a beer to each other while driving. Are they driving erratically? That's different. If I see someone driving way erratically and there is no beer, I see no beer, I'm calling the cops. But I think it's based on what I'm seeing that they're doing illegally and. Or that I'm sure of they're doing it. I just don't feel like cops have so much to worry about that if they're. They're not in danger, endangering anyone at that time. I don't know. I don't think I would. I could be totally wrong. I don't think I would call the cops. Go ahead.

[Amy]

Yeah, I don't. I don't think I would either.

[Bobby Bones]

You were making me feel guilty that I wasn't.

[Amy]

No, I'm. Because that's the question I'm asking myself. It's not to make you feel guilty. I'm like, I probably wouldn't if I saw them smoking. However, I'd probably think about it longer if I saw him drinking. And I don't know that that's right because they. It impairs you. Either way.

[Eddie]

I'd have to get a little more confirmation. Roll the window down.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, okay. What if you smelled it?

[Eddie]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

You would call the guy.

[Eddie]

I mean, again, like I don't understand the situation here. If the car was moving.

[Bobby Bones]

The car's not moving the car.

[Eddie]

They're just in the parking lot. No.

[Amy]

Maybe then you clarify. Are you just taking one hit?

[Eddie]

Excuse me, but if I'm driving and there's a. There's a car of dudes but you.

[Bobby Bones]

Don'T know what you see. They could be passing something else around.

[Amy]

Oh, like a. Oh, a hand rolled cigarette.

[Bobby Bones]

A black and mild. I just am not going to jump in. It ain't my business. They're not doing anything that looks dangerous. As far as the car is not erratic, it's not driving erratically. I wouldn't call the cops. Yeah, I could be way wrong about that. So not right, but I wouldn't. But thank you for that. Let's go with voicemail number one.

[Caller]

Okay. So I heard that Bobby met Amy's boyfriend. And I was not impressed, Bobby, by your reaction. Sometimes things are just a must lie situation. But a good way to get to know someone's. Maybe like go on like a little weekend trip and then the girls can go do something and then you and the guy can do something. I know you hate that idea, but be nicer. Be nicer to him.

[Eddie]

Nicer.

[Bobby Bones]

Amy. I thought I was nice, but I also was giving my honest recollection of the event. When Amy brought her boyfriend to our house the first time we met, all I said was we didn't talk a whole lot, meaning we were all sitting together and most of the conversation was Amy and my wife and we jumped in a little bit, but it really wasn't our time to shine. Therefore I said he seemed like a kind guy. I don't.

[Amy]

Yeah, no, I mean, I think the goal was to meet. To me it felt weird that we had gone that long and y' all hadn't met yet. So I just wanted that to happen. So it felt good. Goal accomplished.

[Bobby Bones]

You also know me that once I have a streak of something going, I don't like to break the streak regardless.

[Eddie]

Of whatever it is.

[Amy]

Weird.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

And the streak was not meeting him.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, I had it and I was like, dang, we've done six months.

[Amy]

Yeah, let's see if I can go nine. Yeah, he's like oh, maybe we can go two years, maybe. The first time I ever meet him is if they were to get married, which I don't.

[Bobby Bones]

Dang. Well, no, I was going far.

[Amy]

If we were to get married. No, no, no, that's not. I mean, obviously dating, as long as we have those conversations happen, but I think we've. We sort of went sort of stepped a little bit backwards, I think. Me and you or you and him in that conversation? Oh, no, me and him. Like, just. Just some life things that have happened and stuff with our kids. Like, we're like, why would. We don't need to rush anything at all. And so.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, good for you. Thanks for sharing that. Yeah, I didn't really make it mean you had to share that.

[Amy]

Well, I hadn't really shared that with anybody. I'm just, like, letting me know, well, everyone's getting engaged around here, and I. Dude, I know.

[Bobby Bones]

It's like a virus.

[Eddie]

Yes. Everyone.

[Bobby Bones]

You're not getting caught up, are you? You're seeing them.

[Eddie]

Oh, yeah. Don't do that, Amy.

[Amy]

No, no. I have been married, so I think that if. If. If I had not before, I probably would be itching a little more.

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, I saw Maddie and Tay were still out touring doing shows, and the Internet was mad at them because they said they were breaking up. But they're still doing shows. Those shows are shows that they've agreed to do. They probably agreed over a year ago, and they don't want to leave the venue or if they're supporting another artist leaving them high and dry. Also, Internet, you suck. Find something else to be mad at. But they're upset. How can you announce you're breaking up but you're still doing shows?

[Eddie]

That's interesting. I didn't think about that. The contracts probably are like, Maddy and Tay, the band was supposed to play here, so they're fulfilling that contract.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes. And you often book shows or tours 6, 9, 12 months out, so leave Matt Ante alone. They're awesome. And it just shows you they still like each other.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

That dissolving of the entity isn't because they hate each other, that they're still friends. And I think they just want to do different stuff.

[Eddie]

So.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, get off. Matty and Tay. That's all I have to say, Bones. All right, over to Beth in Texas. Hey, Beth, you're on the show. What's going on?

[Caller]

Hey, y'. All.

[Eddie]

Hey.

[Caller]

I just wanted to let y' all know what my husband did that attracted me to him in the beginning.

[Bobby Bones]

All right.

[Caller]

He was funny. He was Hilarious. He was fun to be around. So that was. It was inviting, you know, it was just fun to hang out with him. He was very. He's very kind. He gives compliments. Something else that y' all said about, like, not cussing and not. And people not knowing. Oh, I noticed. We all notice because of my religion. It keeps us from cussing and doing certain things and we notice when people cuss and when they don't.

[Bobby Bones]

Was your husband ugly?

[Caller]

He's not ugly, but he's not like super attractive either.

[Bobby Bones]

Well, I wonder, because I know some really funny guys that people would consider not. And they don't even get a second look because they're funny. Because you gotta somewhat. You have to be somewhat attracted to the person before you take their humor and use that as part of the attraction. Because you can think some people are funny and you're just not attracted to them. You're like, that person's hilarious. But I want to see him naked.

[Amy]

Right.

[Bobby Bones]

But I just wondered. Just wondered.

[Amy]

Yeah, like, how did he get his foot in the door with her?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, like what? Because him just being funny. If he was a troll, probably not going to work, you know, but sounds like he's okay, right, Beth?

[Caller]

He's okay. Yeah, he's okay. He's not somebody that I would have like. It was just because I was in a group with him with friends, you know, that's how I met him. And. And he was just. He was hilarious. He was also a little dirty. So I was single at the time. We were young, you know, and that kind of attracted me to him.

[Amy]

Dirty, like how? Because you just said, you know, like.

[Bobby Bones]

Pig pen on Charlie Brown or.

[Amy]

Oh, so her relationship.

[Caller]

Same things that he was capable of in the bedroom.

[Bobby Bones]

How about that?

[Amy]

Whoa. Okay.

[Eddie]

But not cussing.

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, religion didn't factor in early on as much.

[Amy]

As long as they were married.

[Bobby Bones]

I'll say this. I think women have the ability to be attracted to longer term positive qualities than men do. Than men do. Yeah. With us, yes. We have to be visually stimulated before we allow any other stimulation to happen with you guys. You can actually see. Oh, I don't have to have it. Just visual. It can be other things. It has to be something there.

[Amy]

But then. Yeah, but to give y' all some credit, it's like y' all might be initially attracted to people, but sometimes you may go out with a girl and realize, like, okay, yeah, she's hot, but her personality is.

[Bobby Bones]

We would never go out with them if we weren't attracted to them.

[Amy]

Right. But you Will end it.

[Bobby Bones]

Just depending. Just depending. Yeah.

[Eddie]

Yeah. There's a level of hotness.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Oh, we've talked about this.

[Amy]

I sent Eddie a video about crazy. I'm not talking about crazy.

[Bobby Bones]

I played the video I sent you the other day.

[Eddie]

Which one? Remind me.

[Amy]

Okay, well, while Bobby finds the video. I'm not talking about the crazy hot scale. I'm just talking about her overall personality. She's rude or.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, but the conversation was initial attraction and.

[Amy]

Right. So I was just giving y' all some credit.

[Bobby Bones]

We don't deserve it.

[Morgan]

Why?

[Eddie]

Trying to think.

[Bobby Bones]

It shouldn't curse.

[Eddie]

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

So the video is called Life Advice to Younger Men. I don't know if he curses here or not.

[Eddie]

Yeah, I don't think he does.

[Bobby Bones]

Also, it's podcast. We'll bleep it if so. And the guy's name is Noah Reedy. And I sent this to Ed.

[Eddie]

Oh, he does curse. He does curse.

[Bobby Bones]

He does. Okay, let me rewind this. Here's some life advice I wish my dad would have told me when I was younger. Just date a hot chick. Okay. People are gonna tell you that personality matters. And, like, maybe. But here's what happens when you date someone for their personality. You're dating a woman, eventually you're gonna get chewed out for some. That's not your fault. And if you're dating someone for their personality, you're just gonna be sitting there thinking to yourself, am I getting yelled at by a.

[Eddie]

Right now?

[Bobby Bones]

This is the worst day of my entire life. You did. I mean, you get yelled at by a hot chick, it's like, I don't. I don't care if you told me the moon landing's fake. I'll change. I don't give a.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

I wish my dad would have told me when I was younger. There you go.

[Amy]

No, I mean, I'm not. I'm not even okaying the customers. I'm okaying what he's saying. Like, no.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, well, I can stand by that.

[Eddie]

So I shouldn't have showed my kids.

[Bobby Bones]

Then he said, I'm gonna have to talk with the kids about this tonight. Tonight.

[Amy]

So at the end of that, did he say, like, his dad told him that or he wished?

[Bobby Bones]

No, he wished. His dad really wished.

[Amy]

He wishes. Okay. Okay. That's stupid.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I was stupid. Yeah, that's totally stupid. Yeah. That's the stupid thing ever. I never heard anything stupid as that.

[Eddie]

It's the dumbest video ever. Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Beth, thank you very much for your call. We appreciate that you're welcome.

[Caller]

Thanks for taking me.

[Bobby Bones]

All right. Bye. Bye. Let's go to Lisa in Virginia. Hey, Lisa, you're on the show. What's going on?

[Caller]

Hey, guys. Morning, studio.

[Eddie]

Morning.

[Caller]

You all were talking about the compliments that you enchant me and all of that. I had the most genuine compliment given to me back over the holidays. And I'm a woman. She bought me a gift and she wanted me to have this gift and wanted to see me open it. She says, I've gotten to know you as a friend and that is a gift. I know you are genuinely beautiful on the outside, but you're twice as beautiful on the inside.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't. I don't feel like that's as weird going woman to woman, being friend, If a dude did that to you, I feel like it's a bit weird.

[Amy]

Okay. Was she hitting on her?

[Bobby Bones]

No. I feel like that can be said as a friend. Oh, she might have been, but I feel like that can even be said.

[Amy]

As like a. I agree. But I guess I'm just curious if Lisa.

[Bobby Bones]

Did she want more with you?

[Caller]

She was just like, I want you to know how beautiful you are, truly.

[Bobby Bones]

But was she. Was she romantically approaching you? No. Okay. I didn't think so. Yeah, I didn't think so.

[Amy]

Okay, well, just clarifying, but yeah, that's really sweet.

[Eddie]

A dude that'd be.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, be tough.

[Eddie]

Like, you're beautiful.

[Bobby Bones]

That said, romantically, you're beautiful, but I want to be on the inside.

[Amy]

Wait, no, you said, I need you to know that on the inside, you are twice as beautiful.

[Eddie]

Oh, that doesn't.

[Bobby Bones]

Twice as beautiful. I want to feel you on the inside. That is not good. Do you know what that reminds me of?

[Amy]

No.

[Bobby Bones]

I wanna feel you from the inside. Don't.

[Eddie]

I want to.

[Bobby Bones]

You like an animal. You know that song?

[Amy]

What's that?

[Eddie]

Nine Inch Nails Closer.

[Amy]

Is that what he's singing about?

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, yeah.

[Amy]

Oh, I did not know. I mean, it sounds familiar, but I didn't know that's what he was.

[Bobby Bones]

They played that electric cowboy referencing.

[Eddie]

Yeah, he kind of just says it. Like, he doesn't.

[Amy]

Yeah, yeah, I get it now.

[Bobby Bones]

Do you remember the song?

[Amy]

It sounds familiar. Yes. And I guess I just never really fully paid attention to what it literally goes.

[Bobby Bones]

I want to.

[Eddie]

That kind of gets your attention.

[Amy]

Probably heard the I want to feel.

[Bobby Bones]

You from the inside.

[Amy]

The clean version.

[Eddie]

No chance.

[Bobby Bones]

I want to feel like an animal.

[Eddie]

Yeah. He yells louder yeah. Yeah. Like. Like you didn't hear me the first time.

[Bobby Bones]

That's classic rock scoop Steve.

[Amy]

Yeah, but that's not playing on the radio.

[Eddie]

No, we play it on the radio.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, we do.

[Amy]

He says the F word on the radio. No, exactly.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. You get enough of it. It's a massive song.

[Amy]

Right, but what's the radio edit?

[Bobby Bones]

I want to. You like. Yeah, they do that. But the club, they'd play the Electric Cowboy too, because it was in the middle of, like, Neon Moon and then you'd hear. You may you let me violate you. That's how it starts. Yeah. You let me desecrate you.

[Eddie]

You should listen to Amy.

[Amy]

Yeah, that's not my vibe.

[Bobby Bones]

It's a love song, that one. And then it goes. You let me penetrate you.

[Eddie]

Yep.

[Amy]

I get what that means.

[Morgan]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

So it's funny. You heard that whole song and you didn't listen to the words.

[Amy]

Maybe I didn't listen to the words.

[Bobby Bones]

She's more of a melody person.

[Amy]

Sounds so impulsive.

[Eddie]

You can't miss those words.

[Amy]

But I'm like, okay, yeah, I get. Wasn't totally dialed in. But like, what if a guy. What if that's his compliment? Like, hey, I wanna.

[Bobby Bones]

That's not a compliment so much. I wanna fill you from the inside.

[Amy]

No, I don't.

[Bobby Bones]

It's mostly just him looking for some gratification.

[Amy]

Okay, I get it. Well, our caller just now, she said she liked it. Her.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm with it now.

[Amy]

Husband was a little dirty.

[Bobby Bones]

That's the last call, that one. Last caller.

[Amy]

The last caller.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Lisa, who we're talking to now.

[Amy]

Oh, Lisa. Still. Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

Still on. Yeah. It was just a friend. I like that. If you feel like. I feel like. That's as genuine as can be if meant in the way it's said. I. Yeah, like beautiful on the inside.

[Amy]

Maybe you don't know how beautiful you are.

[Bobby Bones]

That is One Direction.

[Amy]

Like. Like, as a friend, you want to encourage your friends and, like, have you shared with her, like, anything that would portray that you're struggling with self confidence?

[Bobby Bones]

Lisa.

[Caller]

No, believe me, she. She knows me well. I sing, I perform in front of people. And she's like, you have no lack of self confidence, but you are just so sweet and so genuine.

[Bobby Bones]

And I want to say from the inside.

[Amy]

Oh, she didn't say that. Okay, help me.

[Bobby Bones]

The One Direction song is you're insecure. Do. You don't know what for? Doom. Doom. You know that song, you're turning heads when you're walking through the door. Dum dum.

[Eddie]

Is it she done that doesn't sound too familiar.

[Bobby Bones]

Let me look it up. Well, say it's beautiful, baby. You light up my world like nobody else. You. The way you flip your hair gets me overwhelmed. Yeah. It says, you don't know you're beautiful because that's what makes you beautiful.

[Eddie]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

That's what she's saying.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

Same thing.

[Amy]

So, I mean, it's basically the same song.

[Bobby Bones]

You let me violate you.

[Amy]

Y' all are married. What?

[Bobby Bones]

We are. Thank you for acknowledging that.

[Amy]

Share something you've said as a compliment that's been genuine and gone over well for you.

[Eddie]

I didn't want to say this, but I told my wife. She enchants me.

[Amy]

No, you didn't.

[Bobby Bones]

Tried it.

[Amy]

No.

[Eddie]

When we first met. No, I don't. What did you tell your wife? Like, I just said words like, I.

[Bobby Bones]

Like you, like me, like you. How would I compliment my wife now? I think it would be based on whatever thing that she did or provided, just generally.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

You know, it's the minutiae when you're just with each other all the time. I don't think I would just be like, baby, you enchant me. She'd slap me. She'd like, what do you want? What pill did you take? Like, what medicine?

[Eddie]

Started drinking?

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Eddie]

I told my wife the other day that she's a strong woman, and she liked that. Like, you're.

[Bobby Bones]

That's good.

[Eddie]

Strong woman.

[Bobby Bones]

That's good.

[Amy]

That's good.

[Eddie]

And I don't think I've ever told.

[Amy]

Her emotionally strong or physically strong.

[Eddie]

No, no, no. Emotionally.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Bobby Bones]

Joining squats or something.

[Eddie]

You're like, dang. Is that 220?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

You're a strong woman.

[Amy]

Right, right, right. Yeah, that's. That's a good women. We need to hear that, too.

[Bobby Bones]

My. I think a compliment that I give my wife a lot is she's very funny, and I get annoyed, and I hope it comes across as a compliment. It probably does. That I still think she is so funny and that she doesn't think I'm that funny at all. And I'll say that.

[Amy]

So you tear yourself down in the compliment.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm not tearing me down because I. I can see she doesn't laugh that much at the stuff that I say is pretty funny. And when I'm like, it's so annoying to me. That's what I say. So annoying to me that I still think the stuff that you do is so funny. And you don't think I'm funny at all.

[Amy]

Wait, that's your confidence. You enchant me.

[Eddie]

Did she ever think you were funny? Like, at the beginning oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

I think I'm probably like a two trick pony, though. And she has extreme versatility.

[Eddie]

She's like, all right, I already got your humor.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, she can predict the jokes. Got it halfway through. Lisa, thank you for the call.

[Caller]

Thank you. Bye.

[Bobby Bones]

Bye. Let's go to Corey in Illinois. Corey, you're on the show. What's going on, Corey?

[Caller]

Hey, Bobby. Good morning, studio.

[Eddie]

Morning.

[Caller]

Hey, I was just calling in. I wanted to comment on the call that came in a little bit ago about the lady who saw some individuals she believes smoking in the car behind her about calling the cops on them or not.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Caller]

And my general consensus is, I agree with you guys. I do not believe that's worthy of. Of a. Of a phone call to the police department. But I do also think, you know, just to comment about it, if. If you go to any restaurant or establishment and you see anybody having a glass or two of wine or maybe a couple drinks at the bar and then they get up to leave, do you immediately think, oh, I've got to call the cops on that person because I've seen them drinking and now they're going to go drive?

[Bobby Bones]

No.

[Caller]

You know, for me, for me, I completely agree. You know, there should be no call. But, Bobby, I will disagree with you on the fact that if you see somebody driving or sitting in a car that's not moving and passing around a drink, an open container, to my knowledge, I believe an open container is illegal in any state, regardless of the person's alcohol limit or an impaired driving. So just wanted to give a different perspective and see if you guys agree. If you're sitting in an establishment and see somebody that, you know, has had three, four, maybe, you know, really put it on five and gets up to leave and has keys in their hand, you know, they're not Ubering or something, somewhere like, you immediately call the law being like, oh, that that person is getting ready to drive somewhere.

[Bobby Bones]

I think you bring up some great points. However, I don't watch people enough to know how many drinks they've had. I also, if I see someone stumbling out. Yes. I don't think I'm even following them to see if they get into an Uber or their car. I'm just not so invested in other people. So me personally, I'm not paying attention.

[Amy]

The real twist would be if you ended up leaving around the same time and they ended up hitting you.

[Caller]

Whoa.

[Bobby Bones]

Be the real twist.

[Eddie]

Hitchcock could have done something about it.

[Amy]

Yeah, it's like, Hitchcock, thank you.

[Bobby Bones]

So, no, because I'm not paying attention to people. And also if I see somebody taking a drink or two in a car, that doesn't mean that they've hit the alcohol limit. I see people drunk, public, in talks. That's illegal. I don't call the cops. I see people jaywalking, although not the same. That's illegal.

[Amy]

What if you see someone texting and driving?

[Bobby Bones]

I don't call the cops. No.

[Eddie]

I see that all the time.

[Bobby Bones]

And they say that's worse than drinking.

[Amy]

And driving or equivalent.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't call the cops. So I'm not even saying I'm a good person. I'm just telling you what I do. Because if they were passing around a drink, what they would be doing illegally is having an open container. But that's not enough for me to call the cops because I'm not going to call the cops if I see somebody walking down the street drunk either or peeing on the road. That would be also public in talks. Again, it's not. I'm not. Right. I'm just telling.

[Eddie]

Question was, would you call the cops?

[Bobby Bones]

No.

[Eddie]

Your answer is no?

[Bobby Bones]

My answer is no. If the car was driving erratically, I don't care if there's alcohol or not, I would call the cops because I feel like that is an imminent danger. Somebody's probably going to get hit by that car or they're going to hit something and hurt themselves.

[Amy]

Yeah. And maybe they're having a medical emergency.

[Bobby Bones]

Sure.

[Eddie]

And a medical.

[Amy]

A medical emergency.

[Bobby Bones]

But you bring up some great points, Corey. And this isn't a right or wrong situation. I feel like. I just wanted to know.

[Amy]

Some might say it is.

[Bobby Bones]

Some might not all.

[Amy]

Like we're. We're sort of like in the gray.

[Bobby Bones]

But I think it's a gray thing. I think there's not a rule that says you have to call the cops if people are. You see somebody take a drink in a car.

[Amy]

I know, but I just think there's some people out there that would.

[Bobby Bones]

That's why it's gray.

[Eddie]

It depends on the mood you're in too. Like you're in the mood a couple of times.

[Bobby Bones]

And if that's the thing, it's. It's great. If it's all about the mood you're in.

[Amy]

I was kind of thinking like, huh. It really might just depend on my window of talk tolerance that day.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. And that factors into judges. The mood they're in affects people's lives and how judges rule on cases.

[Eddie]

So didn't you say like some people, like, I don't know who it was like lawyers or I don't know. But there's a certain time of day where they want to.

[Bobby Bones]

Near the end of the day is bad. On a Friday is kind of bad.

[Amy]

Just like, get out of here.

[Bobby Bones]

You just gotta hope the judge is in a good mood or not sick.

[Amy]

I think if I was going before a judge, I'm thinking maybe, like, a Tuesday morning would be good.

[Bobby Bones]

Tuesday?

[Amy]

Yeah, because it's like, not Monday, you.

[Bobby Bones]

Know, I don't know if you can really pick, but I hear you. That'd be the best.

[Amy]

Yeah. I feel like it's not like open.

[Bobby Bones]

Table where you can look for a square that's open and take it.

[Amy]

Maybe not the first case, because they're still waking up and getting, you know, situated.

[Eddie]

But maybe the second case is really bad and it made him so mad. Next.

[Bobby Bones]

Or it's so good.

[Eddie]

See, it's a risky man.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, Corey. I appreciate the call, man.

[Caller]

Yeah. Thank you, guys. Have a great day.

[Bobby Bones]

See you later.

[Amy]

I had a little bit of a crazy moment. I just remembered from over the break.

[Bobby Bones]

All right, feed it to us. Okay. So.

[Amy]

This is where it's like, okay, depending on my mood or how I'm feeling. And it's hormones. This was 100% an example of hormones. Because I started my cycle the next day, the next day, and I'm like, thank God it made so much sense. So I guess my boyfriend was going to the Vanderbilt basketball game with his kids. But, like, he hadn't told me. Not that he has to tell me, but, like, in my mind, I'm already thinking, like. Cause it's break. We have not, like a Christmas break. There's not a lot else going on. So we'd been spending all of our nights and, like, figuring out our plans. And I showed up over at his house because his daughter and I were gonna go work out together. So I went to go pick her up, and they're all talking about their plans. And she was like, oh, can I invite so and so to go to the game with us? And I was like, oh, that's cool.

[Bobby Bones]

You didn't know about the game.

[Amy]

I didn't know about the game. And I was like, oh, that's. Her friend's gonna. She gets to take a friend to the game. But I thought, who knows? She's going with her grandpa. Clearly, she's not going with Alex, because, like, I would know about it.

[Bobby Bones]

Let's not be there. Yeah, of course.

[Amy]

Well, not that I would have to be there, but I would, like, know. So then I Looked at him and I was like, well, so what are your plans today? And he was like, well, I think I'm gonna go by work for a little bit. And I was like, oh, you're gonna go into the office? He's like, yeah, just for a few hours, but then nothing else. I was like, okay, I guess he's not going to the game. And so then we carry on.

[Bobby Bones]

You're waging war in your head at this point?

[Amy]

Yeah. Cause I'm thinking like, is he going to the game or not? You're not saying. And so then he's like, yeah, just work for a few hours. And after I'm like, ok, I guess I need to figure out what we're going to do for dinner. And I'm like going through my plans in my head. And then I was like, so you're just going to work? Because, like, I feel like I'm not getting the full story. And he was like, well, obviously I'm going to the game. And I was like, well, you hadn't said you were going to the game. And he was like, well, how did you think the kids were going? I was like, do you know how many things they go to with other people? Like, lots all the time. And all of a sudden I just start. I'm like, we need to leave. Hudson, get in the car. Like, we need to go because I'm about to start.

[Bobby Bones]

You gotta tell us who Hudson is. You just do a main character in and we don't know who it is.

[Amy]

That's his oldest daughter. And we try. I. We were going to work out. So I'm like, I just need to leave because I'm gonna start crying. Like, this is.

[Eddie]

You got really mad.

[Bobby Bones]

So physical. But you're horribly.

[Amy]

Like, I couldn't control it. Like it. Now thinking back, this is like not a big deal, but I'm sharing this story is like for any guys out there, like, if sometimes you're the female in your life is just like not making sense. Like, give it a beat.

[Eddie]

Oh, no, no, no, you're not making sense.

[Amy]

Give it a B. Because they will likely start their cycle or something hormonal and it too shall pass. But I was. So I had to leave and Hudson and I went and got in the car and he physically could tell, like, I was not right. So when we got back, he was like trying to like, apologize, make sure stuff is good. And I was like, I don't really want to talk about it. But I. Because I was like, I'm going to start crying and Then like a few days later they were gonna go. Now he's like giving me all these heads up. He's like, hey, just so you know, like, I think tomorrow I might go to the Vandy game. And he's like talking me real slow. I'm like, hey, we're good.

[Eddie]

Like it's in your calendar.

[Amy]

I'm like, this doesn't bother me anymore. That was because of my period. Like, it just was so crazy. Like I was gonna.

[Bobby Bones]

Looking back, it's crazy how crazy you felt without realizing that you were feeling crazy. It felt normal. It. I'm saying you felt. You felt odd off. You took offense to something. You created an offense.

[Amy]

Yeah, but like I physically could not control that. Like I was going to cry over this, over him taking his kids. Like he got the ticket. Like he didn't even buy. Like a friend gave them the tickets.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't think that's why you're mad.

[Amy]

No, no, no.

[Bobby Bones]

Even unfairly, you were just mad. You weren't included.

[Eddie]

No.

[Bobby Bones]

And you weren't the prince. Yeah. You weren't included in the communication in the community.

[Amy]

Yeah. Like I just.

[Bobby Bones]

Then you thought he was hiding it from you. Possibly.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Eddie]

By saying he was just gonna go to work for a couple hours. Yeah, I get, I get it.

[Amy]

So then I'm like, so who's you taking to the game? Like, I like there's this whole other thing and I guess I'm just saying, you know, after a day passed, I was so embarrassed and I was mortified and I had to make sure that he knew. Like, thankfully, you know, he was married for a long time. So he's like, I've been around women before. He has a teenage daughter, she gets hormonal. Like, he's like, I get it, but how many like I get it's. Do y' all allow.

[Bobby Bones]

You know, what I don't do anymore whenever I feel it's a possibility that that could be happening. What my go to was not the healthiest is what is today. Oh, you know what? You're probably hormonal. Not the thing to do because I would just do there I now if that's the case, there's just an understanding. Oh, this could be what it is. So sure. Because I'm sure she does it for me when she doesn't even tell me if I don't get enough sleep, if something isn't right and I'm reacting in a way. I think she now knows my habits and patterns where she can be somewhat predict. She can predict somewhat what's happening. And I think I can do that a bit too. But I used to just outwardly go, are you hormonal today? It's the 17th.

[Amy]

Yeah. Yeah. Depending on how I feel at the moment, I either might be grateful for that, because I might be like, aha, this makes sense. You're right. Or I might get annoyed that you're pointing out that I'm hormonal. Anyway, the fact that I started the next day, it was. It was relief for all of us. But sometimes we don't start right away, and then it's like, well, what's the excuse? You know, like, so now I'm just crazy. I don't like that either.

[Eddie]

Well, no perimenopausal.

[Bobby Bones]

Right.

[Eddie]

Isn't that all part of it?

[Bobby Bones]

But I don't think that's. I think it's completely attached to perimenopausal. I think that can be.

[Amy]

This one was definitely a pms. Like a Right before my period. Crazy. But Eddie's right. The perimenopausal stuff, like, I just feel like sometimes I just snap and.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, but my point is that happens to. I think, hormonally, what you just described happens to a lot of people to where you're not realizing exactly right when it's happening. But you do have a. Yeah.

[Amy]

Because at the moment, it felt like I was like, I'm about to cry. I need to leave. But it felt justified. Like, I was like, you're not gonna go.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm sorry. I'm being hormonal. Because you're just. Your reactions are. Your. Your brain is. Is reacting, not responding.

[Amy]

I'm like, unbelievable. I cannot believe you. Like, I felt valid. And then now, like, thinking back, I'm.

[Bobby Bones]

Like, oh, it is valid.

[Amy]

I know.

[Eddie]

I guess it's beyond your control. What can we say?

[Bobby Bones]

Like, because don't say, oh, is it the 17? You must be hormonal.

[Amy]

Bobby has learned from experience what not to do.

[Eddie]

Don't do that.

[Amy]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Eddie]

But can we say anything? Because I was just like, he just.

[Amy]

He was quiet. Like, he.

[Bobby Bones]

Honestly, you just got to move to the next thing.

[Amy]

Maybe he's older and wiser, guys. Because I think he. He handles it well and things diffuse a lot. Yeah. He is older, so I do. Do think maybe he has some experience.

[Bobby Bones]

With someone he can say is older. I think Eddie has found that's so the one thing he can go to because he's always been the oldest.

[Amy]

Eddie's like, I'm gonna go.

[Eddie]

I don't know. Ask Amy's Boyfriend. He's older.

[Amy]

Yeah. Like, things just diffuse a lot faster because, like, he doesn't. He doesn't escalate things, and I guess I should appreciate that more.

[Bobby Bones]

So it's like, who has time for bull crap?

[Amy]

Right?

[Bobby Bones]

Also.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

If you're a busy person, you don't have time for bull crap.

[Eddie]

Yep.

[Bobby Bones]

Unless you don't get sleep. And that's the only time I have time for bull crap is when I'm just triggered and I'm all in bull crap. If I'm triggered and I don't get sleep or I haven't been eating right. Like, my ankle is finally starting to heal back, but I haven't. I haven't exercised really consistently in four months because I haven't been able to. And I can feel my body being off, even hormonally at times, and that's problematic for me. And sometimes I get in the bull crap because my hormones are off. But for the most part, I don't get. I don't. I don't want any drama. I don't like drama. I don't want to hear people's drama. Keep the drama away from me. Sometimes you want the drama because you're ready to get in that bull crap.

[Amy]

You know what I'm saying?

[Bobby Bones]

But when you get older and you're healthier and you understand, you've been through it, you don't want the bull crap.

[Eddie]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Let me do one more call. Andrew in Mobile, Alabama. Let's go over to Andrew real quick. Hey, Andrew, you're on.

[Caller]

Hey. How are you?

[Bobby Bones]

Pretty good. What's going on?

[Caller]

Buddy Morris video.

[Eddie]

Morning.

[Caller]

Hey, I just want to know if Movie Mike had heard about Conformity Gate with Stranger Things.

[Bobby Bones]

Mike, we talked about it. There's. Is there a new episode coming out? There's not an episode supposed to drop today. What do you think about that, Andrew?

[Caller]

I don't believe that.

[Bobby Bones]

Okay, you don't? Wait, what do you not believe?

[Caller]

I do not accept that as the last episode.

[Bobby Bones]

Because. Okay. Because you didn't like the ending then, right?

[Caller]

No, negative.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I can understand now. Do you think there will be another episode, or do you just hope there will be another episode?

[Caller]

I mean, if there's a way, I could bet money on it, I would.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, maybe.

[Eddie]

There's got to be a way.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. So you think there will be another episode? Oh, yeah. Okay. Mike. I think people are just coping that they didn't get what they wanted in the finale, and they were like, there has to be another episode. That can't be the way it ends. Good job by them then for creating conversation beyond just a finale. They're playing into it because they have the documentary coming out on Monday. So they're like, let's feed the monster. All right, Andrew, I appreciate the call. For now, there is not. Mike doesn't think there is. I didn't watch it and you do. So I guess we're all 33% right now. All right, Andrew, see you, buddy.

[Caller]

Okay, thank you.

[Bobby Bones]

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