Podcast Episode Summary: "Crying Over A Country Song"

Podcast Details:

• Title: Crying Over A Country Song
• Release Date: April 10, 2025
• Podcast: The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly
• Host/Author: SiriusXM

Overview: In this engaging episode of The Bonfire, hosts Big Jay Oakerson and Bobby Kelly delve into personal experiences with Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT), exploring its benefits, side effects, and the impact on their daily lives. The conversation is a blend of candid discussions, humor, and listener interactions, providing listeners with an unfiltered look into the lives of these comedians beyond the stage.

1. Introduction to Testosterone Replacement Therapy (TRT)

The episode kicks off with Bobby Kelly sharing his journey into TRT, aiming to regain his youthful energy and vitality.

• Bobby Kelly [01:52]:
  "I started taking it to get my Testosterone back to where it's normal. Where I can feel like I'm 20 something again, so I can get up and work out and I can do the day and I can, you know, crush."

Bobby explains that his testosterone levels were significantly low, prompting him to seek medical intervention to improve his overall well-being and physical performance.

2. Personal Experiences and Side Effects

Bobby recounts his unconventional visit to a "witch doctor" in Stanford, Connecticut, highlighting the lengths he's willing to go for TRT.

• Bobby Kelly [03:14]:
  "I went to this witch doctor in Stanford, Connecticut, and he had a monkey that came up and picked my boogers. Oh, my God."

This humorous anecdote underscores the sometimes bizarre paths individuals might take in pursuit of health and wellness.

Administration of TRT: Bobby discusses the practical aspects of TRT—whether it's administered via pills or injections and the frequency required to maintain optimal testosterone levels.

• Bobby Kelly [03:37]:
  "This is the weird part about it. This is what I didn't want to do... date. Game day."

He emphasizes the importance of regular blood checks to monitor hormone levels and adjust dosages accordingly.

3. Health Professionals and Wellness Centers

The conversation shifts to the legitimacy of various health treatments, particularly criticizing chiropractors.

• Bobby Kelly [11:31]:
  "Chiropractors are scams. I'll tell you what they actually, the guy I'm seeing up in where I'm at this. Microphones, limp. Is my..."

Contrastingly, he praises Sports Massage services for their effectiveness and genuine understanding of muscle and ligament connections.

• Bobby Kelly [12:32]:
  "I found a sport. This guy Frank up right down the street from my house, Sports Massage guys, the guys who work on athletes."

4. Coping with Depression through TRT and Exercise

Bobby opens up about his struggle with depression, highlighting how TRT and physical exercise serve as coping mechanisms.

• Bobby Kelly [09:23]:
  "I've been in a little depression the last couple months, but it only lasts for a couple hours... and I'm just like, fuck it. I'll just lie there, maybe get some."

He emphasizes that staying active, like walking on the treadmill, helps alleviate depressive episodes.

5. Listener Interaction: John's Experience with TRT

A caller named John shares his positive experiences with TRT, reinforcing the hosts' discussions.

• John [13:35]:
  "Testosterone. I'm feeling pretty. Goddamn. I'm up to 400 on my testosterone now."

Bobby Kelly [14:49]:
"...the testosterone... it's supposed to help you with working out because it takes a lot for me to work out."

John’s testimony adds credibility to the benefits of TRT, while Bobby underscores the necessity of medical supervision to avoid adverse effects.

6. Humor and Banter on TRT Side Effects

The hosts humorously discuss potential side effects of TRT, such as gynecomastia (man boobs) and emotional fluctuations.

• Jacob [20:21]:
  "Gynecomastia."

• Bobby Kelly [20:24]:
  "Gynecomastia. I do not want gynecomastia."

This light-hearted exchange brings levity to the serious topic of hormone therapy, showcasing the hosts' chemistry and comedic timing.

7. Impact on Relationships and Personal Life

Bobby reflects on how TRT influences his personal relationships, particularly his marriage.

• Bobby Kelly [30:33]:
  "I'm always. I mean I'm actually proud of myself of being a father and a friend and a husband piece of. I don't. I like myself good."

He discusses balancing treatment routines with maintaining a healthy and loving relationship with his wife, despite occasional challenges.

8. Musical Segment: Crying Over A Country Song

As the episode progresses, the focus shifts to selecting and discussing a country song titled "Crying Over A Country Song." The hosts blend humor with sincere reflections on emotional vulnerability, tying the song's themes to their personal experiences.

9. Conclusion and Upcoming Events

Wrapping up the episode, Big Jay announces upcoming events, including performances in Nashville and promoting Bobby’s comedy special on Punch Up Live.

• Bobby Kelly [45:47]:
  "Enjoy Jay's Day Gay crying songs, too."

The hosts end with more playful banter, reinforcing their camaraderie and deepening the listener’s connection to their personalities.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps:

• Bobby Kelly [01:52]:
  "I started taking it to get my Testosterone back to where it's normal."

• John (Caller) [13:35]:
  "I'm feeling pretty. Goddamn. I'm up to 400 on my testosterone now."

• Jacob [20:21]:
  "Gynecomastia."

• Bobby Kelly [20:24]:
  "Gynecomastia. I do not want gynecomastia."

• Bobby Kelly [09:23]:
  "I've been in a little depression the last couple months, but it only lasts for a couple hours."

Conclusion: "Crying Over A Country Song" offers a candid and humorous exploration of Testosterone Replacement Therapy, interwoven with personal anecdotes and interactions that highlight the complexities of seeking medical treatments for hormonal imbalances. Through laughter and authenticity, Big Jay Oakerson and Bobby Kelly provide listeners with both entertainment and insightful discussions on health, wellness, and personal growth.