Podcast Summary: "Definitely A Roast" – The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly
Release Date: January 10, 2025
In the "Definitely A Roast" episode of The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly, hosts Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly delve into a myriad of topics, blending humor with candid conversations. This episode offers listeners an inside look into Big Jay's recent experiences, the dynamics of their friendship, and the unpredictable nature of live events.
1. Opening Banter and Pivens Discussion (00:01 – 05:22)
The episode kicks off with playful exchanges about guitar playing, highlighting Robert's aspiration to master the instrument quickly. This segues into a humorous conversation about Pivens—a reward system they use to engage listeners.
Notable Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [01:03]: "When I watch someone play guitar, especially, like, really good guitarists, you're like, I don't know what it is even to learn there. They just know."
2. The Piven Dilemma and Listener Engagement (05:22 – 11:59)
Big Jay and Robert discuss their challenges with managing Pivens, particularly focusing on Robert's overzealous distribution. This leads to a lighthearted scolding from Big Jay about maintaining balance.
Notable Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [09:08]: "You don’t want to be the one asshole not getting pivens when everyone’s just getting nailed with pivots left and right."
3. Big Jay’s Nashville Experience and the Roast Misunderstanding (12:04 – 27:38)
A significant portion of the episode centers on Big Jay's recounting of his unexpected experience attending the Roast of Jelly Roll in Nashville. Initially under the impression that it wasn't a traditional roast, Big Jay navigates the event with limited preparation, leading to amusing and tense moments.
Key Highlights:
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Invitation Confusion: Big Jay details his initial reluctance to attend, believing it was a non-roast event focused on sharing positive anecdotes about Jelly Roll.
Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [14:03]: "I was thinking of things. I'm like, oh, I'll say something funny. They said, Kid Rock's probably going to be there. Oh, I'll say a little something."
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Arrival and Realization: Upon arrival, Big Jay discovers it's a full-fledged roast with a structured lineup, which was communicated only at the last minute.
Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [16:54]: "But the day before, so I was like, I don’t even know how to, like, quietly get out of it."
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Interactions with Other Comedians: The hosts discuss performances by fellow comedians like Tony Hinchcliffe, John Crist, and Adam Ray, highlighting both successful and awkward moments.
Quote:
- Robert Kelly [24:55]: "Nobody wants to hear that. Who bombed, Jay?"
Big Jay Oakerson [25:00]: "Nothing for me."
4. Tension with Cole Hauser and Event Aftermath (27:38 – 37:30)
Big Jay shares his frustration with Cole Hauser’s disruptive behavior during the roast, describing an uncomfortable interaction where Cole acted out of line.
Notable Quote:
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Big Jay Oakerson [40:05]: "He was being a drunk jerk off in a balcony of a fucking roast. And I didn’t know it was a roast."
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Reflection on Relationships: The conversation touches on the complexities of friendships within the comedic community, emphasizing loyalty and the impact of fame.
Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [42:14]: "They’re best friends until that fame wears out."
5. Netflix Special Frustrations (37:30 – 44:21)
Transitioning from live events to career aspirations, Big Jay discusses his ongoing struggle to secure a Netflix special. Despite efforts and support from his agent, Netflix declines his proposals, leading to a mix of frustration and humor.
Key Points:
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Agent’s Support: Big Jay explains how his agent has leveraged connections to try and get his material picked up, but Netflix remains uninterested.
Quote:
- Big Jay Oakerson [26:27]: "They owe us one. And that didn't even do it."
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Persistence and Hope: Despite setbacks, there’s an underlying optimism about future opportunities and the potential for his work to eventually gain recognition.
6. Humorous Recaps and Behind-the-Scenes Insights (44:21 – 52:54)
The episode wraps up with more humorous exchanges about the roast's documentation, including group photos and videos that omitted Big Jay’s presence. The hosts poke fun at the situation, highlighting Big Jay’s frequent absences from official recordings.
Notable Quote:
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Big Jay Oakerson [47:17]: "I didn’t know this picture was taken at all. And I’ll tell you what. No one came. Just I’d say five feet away is the door to outside."
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Robert Kelly [49:13]: "The video of the picture of you not in it. There's a video of you not in the picture. You. You are cabined again, baby."
Conclusion
"Definitely A Roast" offers a blend of personal anecdotes, professional challenges, and the camaraderie between Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly. From navigating unexpected live events to grappling with industry hurdles, the episode is a testament to their resilience and friendship. Listeners are treated to a rich tapestry of humor, insight, and the unpredictable nature of live podcasting, all while gaining a deeper understanding of the hosts' experiences and perspectives.
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