Podcast Summary: The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly - Episode: "Female Prostate with Che Durena"

Release Date: July 3, 2025

Introduction to the Episode

In this lively episode of The Bonfire, hosts Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly navigate through a series of humorous and unfiltered discussions centered around a recent Pride brunch at SiriusXM’s New York City lobby. The episode seamlessly blends comedic banter with candid conversations about sexuality, pop culture, and personal experiences, setting the stage for an engaging dialogue with their guest, Che Durena.

Discussion on the Pride Brunch and Lobby Anecdotes

The episode kicks off with Big Jay and Robert humorously addressing the aftermath of the Pride brunch. They joke about the lingering smells in the lobby, attributing them to the festivities:

Dan Soder [01:20]: "But I suspect also it could be the sweet lingering smell of buttfuck."

This light-hearted banter leads to a playful speculation about the events that transpired during the brunch, with Big Jay attributing the Pride movement's origins to mafia involvement in protecting gay clubs:

Big Jay Oakerson [03:02]: "The mafia. Back when being gay in New York was very bad... Because we're making so much money on this place because all these gay people, these, you know, secret gay guys could go down there and have fun."

The hosts delve into the complexities of organizing events like Pride in corporate settings, blending historical insights with their trademark blunt humor.

Exploration of Sexual Themes and Humor

As the conversation progresses, the hosts and their guests engage in a candid and humorous discussion about various sexual topics, including squirt vs. pee, preferences in sexual acts, and personal experiences. This section is marked by a series of comedic exchanges that highlight the show's unfiltered nature:

Dan Soder [49:15]: "When you have a girl you're not attracted to at all... it really strikes you how not sexy it is."

Big Jay Oakerson [50:46]: "He'd rather have a pretty girl with gross piss. Just awful piss."

These exchanges showcase the hosts' ability to tackle intimate and sometimes taboo subjects with humor and honesty, making the conversation relatable and entertaining for listeners.

Introduction and Conversation with Che Durena

Midway through the episode, the hosts welcome their guest, Che Durena, a comedian set to perform at various venues including the Just for Laughs festival. The introduction is met with comedic remarks about Che's involvement in explicit content creation:

Christine [37:37]: "What's up? Thank you, man."

Dan Soder [37:39]: "I was about to ask Ralph the thing I saw you on a social media thing with a porn star that I follow."

Che Durena discusses his experiences in the adult entertainment industry, emphasizing authenticity in his work:

Robert Kelly [38:18]: "I talked to her, so I interviewed her once, and she's very... super authentic."

The conversation delves into the technical aspects of creating adult content, such as the distinction between squirting and urination, highlighting Che's analytical approach to his craft.

Comedic Skits and Interactive Segments

Throughout the episode, Big Jay and Robert engage with their co-hosts and guests through various comedic skits and interactive segments. These include playful challenges, humorous hypotheticals, and light-hearted debates about personal preferences and experiences related to sexuality.

For instance, the hosts creatively discuss the mechanics of a "squirt catcher," blending technical discussion with humor:

Big Jay Oakerson [59:35]: "How am I going to collect the pee in a respectable way and get as much as I can."

Che Durena [60:00]: "Which is... pretty good of you."

These segments not only entertain but also showcase the hosts' ability to infuse humor into technical or sensitive topics.

Closing Remarks and Final Thoughts

As the episode nears its conclusion, the hosts reflect on their discussions, reinforcing the show's commitment to candid and humorous conversations. They express appreciation for Che Durena's insights and contributions to the episode, wrapping up with a final round of jokes and light-hearted comments.

Robert Kelly [62:35]: "It's so different."

Dan Soder [52:05]: "Feel bad that we made you feel terrible about not liking Squirt."

The episode concludes on a high note, leaving listeners with a blend of laughter and thoughtful reflections on the topics covered.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Dan Soder [01:20]: "But I suspect also it could be the sweet lingering smell of buttfuck."

• Big Jay Oakerson [03:02]: "The mafia. Back when being gay in New York was very bad..."

• Dan Soder [49:15]: "When you have a girl you're not attracted to at all... it really strikes you how not sexy it is."

• Big Jay Oakerson [50:46]: "He'd rather have a pretty girl with gross piss. Just awful piss."

• Robert Kelly [38:18]: "I talked to her, so I interviewed her once, and she's very... super authentic."

• Big Jay Oakerson [59:35]: "How am I going to collect the pee in a respectable way and get as much as I can."

• Che Durena [60:00]: "Which is... pretty good of you."

Conclusion

This episode of The Bonfire exemplifies the show's unique blend of unfiltered humor and candid discussions. Through humorous anecdotes, interactive segments, and insightful conversations with guest Che Durena, Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly deliver an engaging and entertaining episode that resonates with listeners seeking both laughter and honest dialogue.

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