Podcast Summary: The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly – Featuring Stephen Wilson Jr

Episode Title: Stephen Wilson Jr
Release Date: December 17, 2024
Host: Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly
Platform: SiriusXM’s Faction Talk, Channel 103

Introduction

In this episode of The Bonfire with Big Jay Oakerson and Robert Kelly, the hosts welcome Stephen Wilson Jr., a multifaceted individual who seamlessly blends his background in microbiology with his passion for music. The conversation delves deep into Stephen's unique journey from the corporate world to the music industry, exploring his creative process, emotional songwriting, and the challenges and rewards of his dual careers.

Guest Background: From Microbiology to Music

Stephen Wilson Jr. begins by sharing his academic and professional background. Armed with a degree in microbiology, Stephen spent years working as a food scientist for Mars in their Research and Development department. However, his heart always leaned towards music, leading him to balance his scientific career with touring as part of an indie band.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([06:11]): "I was a seasonal scientist. I played in indie bands and then would moonlight in a lab for a couple of months before heading back to complete nerdery. And then I would be a broke musician again."

Making the Leap: Leaving a Stable Career for Music

The hosts explore the pivotal moment when Stephen decided to leave his stable job to pursue music full-time. Stephen recounts a profound conversation with a coworker who questioned his place in the scientific field, planting the seed for his transition.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([11:03]): "I had this really nagging feeling... 'You're not supposed to be here.' And as the years went by, it got louder and louder."

Faced with the metaphorical "golden handcuffs" of corporate security, Stephen chose to follow his passion, despite personal sacrifices, including leaving behind his family.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([12:32]): "I left my wife. Jeez, that poor kid. Poor Henry."

Songwriting as Therapy: Channeling Grief into Music

One of the episode's highlights is Stephen's discussion about his song "Grief Is Only Love." The song emerged as a therapeutic outlet following the death of his father, and it resonates deeply with listeners for its raw emotional honesty.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([14:08]): "I'm gonna play a pretty sad song. So this is called 'Grief Is Only Love.'"

During his performance, the song's poignant lyrics evoke strong emotional responses from the hosts, underscoring the therapeutic power of music.

Robert Kelly ([18:40]): "That was good."

Franklin Becker ([19:04]): "You know, my father passed away... that song actually made me feel. Miss him and remember him."

Performance Insights: Creating an Engaging Live Experience

Stephen demonstrates his involvement in every aspect of his music, from writing and composing to producing music videos. His dedication to crafting a unique sound is evident in his live performances, where his interplay with guitars and heartfelt vocals captivate the audience.

Franklin Becker ([28:54]): "You have a unique sound, man, your voice. I haven't heard anybody who sings like you."

Stephen also shares anecdotes about his beloved guitars, each with its own story and character, reflecting his hands-on approach to his craft.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([30:10]): "These are 70s era Takaminis... They're just being good to me, and I don't want to really do that."

Balancing Dual Careers: Navigating Science and Music

Stephen candidly discusses the challenges of balancing his scientific expertise with his musical aspirations. He emphasizes that his scientific background provides a stable foundation, allowing him to pursue music without the pressure of financial instability.

Stephen Wilson Jr. ([36:58]): "But, yeah, it's been a lot to adjust to because none of this was really supposed to happen. I'm kind of living within an anomaly."

Emotional Resonance: The Impact of Stephen's Music

The hosts reflect on how Stephen's music has personally affected them, highlighting the authentic emotion and relatability in his songs. Stephen's ability to convey deep feelings through his lyrics and melodies creates a profound connection with his audience.

Franklin Becker ([25:00]): "When I first heard it, it really did... it’s a powerful song, man."

Conclusion: Embracing Authenticity and Passion

The episode wraps up with heartfelt appreciation for Stephen's contributions to music and his inspiring journey. The hosts encourage listeners to support his debut double album, Son of Dad, and attend his live performances.

Big J. Okerson ([43:56]): "The debut double album Son of Dad is out now via Big Loud Records. Make sure you check it out."

Robert Kelly ([44:16]): "Science country. Baddest man. Thanks for coming in, man. Get his album. Go see him live."

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Stephen Wilson Jr. ([11:03]): "You're supposed to be doing something else, but you're here. And I don't think you're supposed to be here."

• Stephen Wilson Jr. ([14:08]): "Grief is only love."

• Franklin Becker ([19:04]): "My father passed away... that song actually made me feel. Miss him and remember him."

• Robert Kelly ([25:07]): "We felt, I think, a few pounds lighter that day. Both of us did."

• Stephen Wilson Jr. ([36:58]): "The trees ain't going nowhere. At least not anytime soon."

Final Thoughts

Stephen Wilson Jr.’s appearance on The Bonfire offers a compelling narrative of pursuing one's passion against all odds. His seamless integration of science and music, coupled with his emotionally charged songwriting, makes him a standout guest. Listeners are left inspired by his dedication, authenticity, and the healing power of music.

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