DONKEY: Man Kills Ex-Girlfriend's Boyfriend While Waiting To Surprise Her With Flower, Money & Cocaine

Summary

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The Breakfast Club – Donkey of the Day: Man Kills Ex-Girlfriend's Boyfriend While Waiting To Surprise Her With Flowers, Money & Cocaine

Episode Date: October 29, 2025
Hosts: DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha God
Segment Focus: “Donkey of the Day” with Charlamagne Tha God

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Episode Overview

In this "Donkey of the Day" segment, Charlamagne Tha God highlights the tragic and bewildering story of Shiatique Deshawn Wilson, a 23-year-old from San Antonio, Texas, who killed his ex-girlfriend’s new boyfriend after breaking into her home. The segment zeroes in on the absurdity and sadness of the case, using it as a springboard to discuss deeper themes of emotional impulse, the impermanence of material pleasure, and the consequences of poor decision-making. The tone mixes dark humor, compassion, and streetwise philosophy.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction to the Story and Donkey of the Day Selection

• Charlamagne introduces the Donkey of the Day: Shiatique Deshawn Wilson, age 23, San Antonio, TX.
  “Now, I know folks say, why don’t we call these young men young kings, young gods? … They have the potential to be, all right? But some people have chosen to submit their will to the devil in them and not to God in them.”
  Timestamp: 02:47

2. The Story Breakdown

• Reported Crime: Wilson is accused of breaking into his ex-girlfriend’s house, hiding in the closet, and eventually killing her new boyfriend.
• NBC5 News Clip Recap:
  • Wilson entered around 1 a.m., hid with flowers, money, and cocaine, and waited, drinking and watching videos.
  • When the ex and her boyfriend (Noelle Miller, 35) returned, several gunshots went off. The boyfriend was found fatally shot in her son’s bedroom.
  • Wilson claimed “self-defense,” stating the boyfriend pulled a gun first.
  • He took his ex’s phone to prevent her from calling for help, but was tracked down by police shortly after.
    Timestamp: 03:58

3. Charlamagne's Reaction and Moral Analysis

• Charlamagne's commentary on the absurdity:
  • Questions the logic of claiming self-defense after hiding and ambushing someone in their home.
• On bringing ‘flowers, money, and cocaine’:
  • “Flowers say I love you. Money says I value you. Cocaine says we both make bad decisions.”
    Timestamp: 05:56
  • Lampoons Wilson’s belief that these items could reconcile the relationship or express true emotion.
• Relationship insight:
  • “When this woman told you she wanted someone to make her heart flutter, that wasn’t a cue to buy her an eight ball of that booger sugar.”
    Timestamp: 06:14
  • Argues that real connection is about “shared values, mutual respect, and effort,” not fleeting pleasures.

4. The Permanent Cost of Temporary Feelings

• Charlamagne reflects on emotional impulse:
  • “Don’t make permanent decisions based off temporary emotions.”
    Timestamp: 06:38
  • Notes the lethal consequences: a man killed, another going to prison, all over fleeting emotions.
• The symbolism of gifts:
  • “Flowers, they die. Money, it gets spent. Cocaine, it gets sniffed. Three symbols of temporary happiness.”
    Timestamp: 07:10
  • Emphasizes the moral:
    “Temporary feels good till it don’t.”

5. “Donkey” Sound-Off and Closing Remarks

• Charlamagne delivers the “hee-haw” and final word:
  • Urges listeners to stay away from the destructive behaviors embodied by Wilson.
  • Sends condolences to the victim’s family and gasps at the senselessness:
    “Rest in peace to Noel Miller, sending his family healing energy.”
    Timestamp: 04:52

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Notable Quotes & Moments

• On Accountability and Self-Perception:
  “It’s not what you’re called, it’s what you act like. I can call you a young king, a young God, but if you’re not behaving like one, what’s the point?”
  Charlamagne Tha God, 02:47

• On Pleasures and Consequences:
  “Temporary joy often comes with permanent consequences. If it fade fast, it probably wasn’t meant to last.”
  Charlamagne Tha God, 06:38

• On Relationship Misunderstandings:
  “Shared values can’t be a cocaine habit.”
  Charlamagne Tha God, 06:20

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Timestamps for Important Segments

| Time | Content Description | |-----------|-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 02:47 | Introduction of Shiatique Deshawn Wilson and discussion about names/labels | | 03:58 | CBS5 News report on incident details | | 04:52 | Charlamagne’s initial reaction and reflection; condolences to victim’s family | | 05:56 | Breakdown of the symbolism behind the flowers, money, and cocaine | | 06:38 | Reflection on the dangers of acting on temporary emotions | | 07:10 | Moral of the story: all gifts represented impermanent, fleeting happiness |

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Summary Table: Takeaways

| Theme | Key Point | Quote/Example | |----------------------------------|--------------------------------------------------------------------------|------------------------------------------------| | Accountability vs. Potential | Actions matter more than intentions or titles | “It’s what you act like.” (02:47) | | Dangers of Impulsiveness | Acting on temporary emotion can yield permanent, tragic consequences | “Don’t make permanent decisions…” (06:38) | | Symbolism of Gifts | Material offerings cannot replace mutual respect and healthy connection | “Flowers say…Cocaine says we both…” (05:56) | | Calling Out Absurdity | Critique of using self-defense after ambushing someone | “You gonna jump out on another man and claim self defense?” | | Relationship Misreadings | Love is not rekindled by drugs and cash | “Shared values can’t be a cocaine habit.” |

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Tone & Style

• Charlamagne keeps his trademark blend of streetwise humor, exasperation, and poignant social commentary.
• The tone is both cutting and compassionate, aiming to highlight the tragedy but also ridicule the sheer recklessness and lack of self-awareness at play.

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For Listeners

This segment offers a mix of dark comedy, relationship advice, and a sobering reminder about the stakes involved when people let fleeting emotions or obsessions control their actions. Charlamagne’s analogies—flowers, money, cocaine—are both memorable and morbidly insightful, hammering home the theme that temporary pleasures often come with permanent costs.

If you only catch one part, listen to Charlamagne’s breakdown from 05:56–07:10 for the essence of his message: “Temporary feels good till it don’t.”

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Transcript

[Charlamagne tha God]

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[Charlamagne tha God]

I might not have the song of the day, but I got the donkey.

[News Reporter]

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[Charlamagne tha God]

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[Michael the Bull Laminsoft]

Who's Donkey of the Day today?

[Charlamagne tha God]

Well as Sharon Donkey of the day for Wednesday, October 29th goes to Shia T. DeShawn Wilson, okay? He is 23 years old and he hails from San Antonio, Texas. Now, listen, I was born in 1978. So when I see the age 23, that is an adult. But also it's what the streets call Hawaiian, okay? Now, I know folks say, why don't we call these young men young kings, young gods? Well, the answer to that is because all of them. Not that, okay? They have the potential to be. They have the potential to be, all right? But some people have chosen to submit their will to the devil in them and not to God in them. And that's why the appropriate term for them is y N. Okay, see, once I heard someone say. I once heard someone say, it's not what you say, it's not what you're called, it's what you answered. Okay, that may be true, but I could also say it's not what you're called, it's what you act like. All right? So I can call you a young king, a young God, but if you're not behaving like one, what's the point? You don't agree? Well, let's go to exhibit A. Shiatique. Deshawn Wilson. Okay? This young man has been accused of killing his ex girlfriend's new boyfriend. In fact, let me read you the headline. Man accused of killing romantic rival after hiding inside ex girlfriend's home. Let's go to CBS5 for the report, please.

[News Reporter]

23 year old Shatiq Wilson told deputies that he went to his ex's home, hid inside their daughter's closet and waited to surprise her with flowers, money and cocaine. And deputies say that Wilson broke into the home around one Sunday morning when Wilson was hiding. He admitted to investigators he was drinking and watching videos, waiting for his ex to return. Deputies say Wilson's ex and her partner, 35 year old Noelle Miller, got home an hour later. The woman told deputies when she and Miller got home, she heard several gunshots while in the bathroom. She told bcso Miller was shot in her son's bedroom, lying on the ground, and Wilson was there with a handgun. The arrest affidavit says Wilson then took her phone and said, don't call on me, before returning the phone, leaving the area. Miller later died from his injuries. Investigators were able to track Wilson down at a friend's home a mile away from the scene on Chestnut Manor.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Rest in peace. To Noel Miller, sending his family healing energy. Going to take my phone. Talk about don't call on me. I'm. I'm. Boy, I done dialed 911 already. Is you serious? It's so much wrong with this story. First of all, Shiatique is claiming self defense. Okay, Young man, you broke into your ex girlfriend's house. You told police you were hiding in the closet, drinking and watching videos and waiting to surprise her with flowers, money and cocaine. Okay, sidebar. The sooner you realize people be on coke, the less you take things personally. But this brother shyatiq was hiding in his ex girlfriend's closet and you gonna jump out on another man and claim self defense? The affidavit said that Shiatique said Noel Miller, who is the victim, pulled a gun on him. Duh. What else you supposed to do if you scrapped at your girlfriend's house and some man jumps out on a. Jumps out of closet on you? Okay? I wish the brother Noel was quicker on the draw and would have got you before you got him. Also, I just want to know what's the dynamics of you and this young lady's relationship. What did y' all used to do together where you thought it would be okay to sneak into her house, hide in her closet and surprise her with flowers, money and cocaine. Flowers say I love you. Money says I value you. Cocaine says we both make bad decisions. Okay? All right, Shia t, when this woman told you she wanted a man to make her heart flutter, that wasn't a cue to go buy her an eight ball of that book of sugar, okay? She meant she wanted a healthy, long lasting connection built on shared values, mutual respect and effort. Okay? And shared values can't be a cocaine habit. All right, now listen. One common theme in donkey of the day that I tell you all the time is don't make permanent decisions based off temporary emotions, okay? It's true. Temporary joy often comes with permanent consequences. If it fade fast, it probably won't. Won't wasn't meant to last. Okay? Temporary pleasure always costs more than lasting peace. This brother Shiatique made so many permanent decisions based off the premise of some temporary pleasure. Okay? Number one, he took a life. All right? That brother Noel not coming back, that's permanent. You know, rest in peace. Again, again to him and Shiatique going to prison permanently. Charged with murder. But I want y' all to look at the symbolism of temporary in this story, okay? Flowers, they die. Money, it gets spent. Cocaine, it gets sniffed. Three symbols of temporary happiness. Okay, what is the moral of the story then? Well, the moral of the story is temporary feels good till it don't. All right, please give Shia teak desean Wilson the biggest he haul. Stay out these y ends way it's a crazy ass story. Y' all stay out day way.

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[Charlamagne tha God]

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