DONKEY: Man Who Paid OnlyFans Model $11K For BDSM Ends Up Brain Dead

Summary

Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club - Episode: DONKEY: Man Who Paid OnlyFans Model $11K For BDSM Ends Up Brain Dead

Release Date: March 20, 2025
Host: The Breakfast Club (DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha God)
Description: The Breakfast Club is known as the world's most dangerous morning show, featuring candid conversations and hard-hitting discussions among its hosts.

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Segment Overview

In this episode, Charlamagne Tha God delves into a tragic and shocking incident involving a man who paid an OnlyFans model $11,000 for a BDSM session, which ultimately led to his brain death. The story raises critical questions about consent, responsibility, and the inherent dangers within the BDSM community when boundaries are overstepped or misunderstood.

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The Incident: A Costly Misstep in BDSM

Timestamp: [02:07]
Charlamagne introduces the main story, highlighting the significant financial and physical risks involved in BDSM practices when not conducted responsibly.

Key Details:

• Participants:

  • Michaela Brashe Reilersdom (Performer Name: Ashley Kai): An OnlyFans model with no prior experience in BDSM.
  • Michael Dale: A 55-year-old man with $11,000 in disposable income dedicated to BDSM activities.

• The Arrangement: Michael Dale hired Michaela to perform a BDSM act, specifically requesting intricate mummification with saran wrap and the bizarre addition of gluing a pair of women's boots to his feet. Michaela, inexperienced in BDSM, proceeded with the session, which tragically ended in Dale's brain death.

Notable Quote:

“This man wanted to be treated like some leftovers. He wanted to be wrapped up like uneaten food. Keep me fresh, baby.”
— Charlamagne Tha God ([02:20])

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Charlamagne’s Commentary: Trust and Responsibility

Timestamp: [05:35]
Charlamagne critiques Michaela’s lack of BDSM experience and the dangerous consequences of entrusting such a high-stakes session to a novice.

Key Points:

• Lack of Experience: Michaela had never engaged in BDSM before, paralleling the folly of hiring an untrained individual for a critical role, such as cooking Thanksgiving dinner.
• Financial Implications: The substantial fee of $11,000 underscores the seriousness with which Dale approached his BDSM exploration, but also highlights the risks of investing large sums in unverified practitioners.
• Fatal Mistakes: Michaela’s mismanagement during the session—applying excessive restraint with saran wrap and duct tape—led to Dale's suffocation and subsequent brain death.

Notable Quote:

“You don’t let the person who can’t cook but wants to learn make Thanksgiving dinner... No, no, no.”
— Charlamagne Tha God ([05:50])

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Legal and Ethical Implications

Timestamp: [04:30]
A Mercury News reporter provides an in-depth look into the legal ramifications of the incident, emphasizing that consent does not absolve responsibility in cases of extreme harm.

Key Details:

• Charges: Michaela Brashe Reilersdom was charged with murder after the death of Michael Dale.
• Consent: Legal experts clarify that while consent is a crucial component of BDSM, it does not protect individuals from liability in cases where consented acts result in severe injury or death.
• Police Findings: The affidavit detailed Dale’s unusual requests and the hazardous methods employed by Michaela, highlighting the lack of proper safety measures during their session.

Notable Quote:

“While legal experts say a victim's consent to take part in dangerous acts is not a defense to homicide, some said it might be a mitigating factor.”
— Mercury News Reporter ([04:45])

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Charlamagne’s Reflections and Moral Takeaways

Timestamp: [06:56]
Charlamagne reflects on the broader implications of the incident, urging listeners to exercise caution and due diligence in all aspects of life, especially when engaging in high-risk activities like BDSM.

Key Points:

• Accountability: Emphasizes the importance of being responsible and ensuring that all parties involved in BDSM are adequately trained and experienced.
• Trustworthiness: Highlights the danger of placing blind trust in individuals without verifying their expertise, comparing it to hiring an inexperienced cook for a significant meal.
• Consequences: Stresses that actions have serious repercussions, not just physically but also legally and morally, urging listeners to think carefully before engaging in potentially dangerous activities.

Notable Quote:

“You always got to think about things before you do them, because you might die.”
— Charlamagne Tha God ([07:30])

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Closing Thoughts

The episode serves as a sobering reminder of the delicate balance between exploration and safety within BDSM practices. Charlamagne Tha God effectively uses this tragic tale to highlight the critical importance of experience, responsibility, and clear communication in ensuring that all parties remain safe and consensual. The story also underscores the legal boundaries that exist, emphasizing that consent has its limits when it comes to causing harm or endangering lives.

Listeners are left with a profound understanding of the potential dangers inherent in high-risk activities and the necessity of taking every precaution to prevent such tragedies from occurring in the future.

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Additional Information:

• Sponsorship: The "Donkey Today" segment is sponsored by renowned personal injury attorney Michael "The Bull" Laminsoft.

  • Quote:

    “Don’t be a donkey when you need a fighter on your side. If you’re ever injured, go to MichaelTheBull.com.”
    — Charlamagne Tha God ([07:50])

• Final Note: The hosts remind listeners to always prioritize safety and responsibility in all endeavors, whether personal, professional, or recreational.

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Keywords: The Breakfast Club, Charlamagne Tha God, BDSM, OnlyFans, Michaela Rylarsdom, Michael Dale, Consent, Legal Implications, Tragedy, Responsibility, Safety, Trust

Transcript

[Hey Martinez]

Hey, it's hey Martinez. The news can feel like a lot on any given day, but you can't just ignore las noticias when important world changing events are happening. That is where the Upverse podcast comes in every single morning in under 15 minutes. We take the news and boil it down to three essential stories so you can keep up without feeling stressed out. Listen up first from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Ed Helms]

Prohibition is synonymous with speakeasies, jazz flappers, and of course, failure. I'm Ed Helms and on season three of of my podcast Snafu, there's a story I couldn't wait to tell you. It's about an unlikely duo in the 1920s who tried to warn the public that prohibition was going to backfire so badly it just might leave thousands dead from poison. Listen and subscribe to snafu on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

[AJ Andrews]

What's up y'all? I'm AJ Andrews, pro softball player, sports analyst and the first woman to win a Rawlings Gold Glove. On my new podcast, Dropping Diamonds. We dive headfirst into the world of softball by sharing powerful stories, insights and conversations that inspire and empower. It's time to drop bombs and diamonds. Dropping diamonds with AJ Andrews is an iHeart women's sports production in partnership with Athletes Unlimited Softball League and Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to dropping diamonds with AJ Andrews on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcast.

[Ed Helms]

Brought to you by Novartis, founding partner.

[Hey Martinez]

Of iHeart Women's Sports Network.

[Hitcham]

Have you ever wondered if your pet is lying to you, why is my.

[Hey Martinez]

Cat not here and I go in.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

And she's eating my lunch?

[Hitcham]

Or if hypnotism is real, you will use the suggestion in order to enhance your cognitive control. But what's inside a black hole?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Black holes could be a consequence of the way that we understand the universe.

[Hitcham]

Well, we have answers for you in the new iHeart original podcast Science Stuff. Join me or Hitcham as we answer questions about animals, space, our brains and our bodies. So give yourself permission to be a science geek and listen to science stuff on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcast or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Oh man, Charlamagne. You giving donkey the day to who now? Well, Busta Rhymes Donkey today for Thursday, March 20th is a double donkey. It goes to 31 year old Michaela Brashe Reilersdom and 55 year old Michael Dale. Now Michaela Is an only fans model. I guess that's an actual job title nowadays. Her performer name is Ashley Kai and she was hired by Michael Dale to perform a BDSM sex act. Now, you all know what BDSM is, correct? Bondage, discipline, dominance, submission. You know, all types of bondage. You got handcuffs, you got role play, you got blindfolding, you got mummification. Different role play scenarios. For example, teacher, student, boss, employee envy was doing Barack and Michelle last night. You can do diddy and anyone on making the band. You get the picture. Well, Michael had 11,000 in disposable income recession where, okay, he had 11,000 to spend on BDSM. So he decided to order some mummification with a side of what seems to be a power exchange and a role play scenario. Because Michael wanted to be mummified in saran wrap and he wanted a pair of women's boots glued to his feet. Yes. This man wanted to be treated like some leftovers. He wanted to be wrapped up like uneaten food. Keep me fresh, baby. Okay, this man wanted to know what it felt like to be a sandwich, wrap me up and eat this d for lunch later. I hear stories like this and I just think to myself, I'm just not that freaky. And why would he want the woman's boots glued to his feet? Well, I did some research, and by research, I mean I asked chat GPT why do men like women's boots as a fetish? And chat GPT said because of sensory stimulation. Okay. Women's boots, especially those made of leather or latex or suede, provide unique textures and sensations that can be physically or psychologically stimulating. Okay. It says the act of zipping, zipping up, or lacing or feeling the snug fit of high boots can be pleasurable. I also asked chatgpt, why would someone glue the woman's beat the woman's boots to their feet? And it's just a fetish. Okay. Kink related behavior. Some individuals enjoy being physically restrained and permanently securing the boots could heighten that experience. I guess this is where the term kinky boots comes from. But this is what Michael ordered. Little did he know that order came with an all expense paid trip to the afterlife. Let's go to Mercury News for the report, please.

[News Reporter]

A 31 year old woman has been charged with murder after a man who paid her to engage in fetish acts died after he'd had a bag on his head secured with duct tape. During their encounter in an Escondido home. She recorded the interactions to use as content for her OnlyFans site. The incident allegedly occurred between two consenting adults during what appears to be bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism, more commonly referred to as bdsm. While legal experts say a victim's consent to take part in dangerous acts is not a defense to homicide, some said it might be a mitigating factor. In the document, police said Dale first reached out to Rylarsdom after spotting her ad on a website police said was commonly used for escort or stripper services in texts and phone calls. In March and April of 2023, the affidavit states, Dale made some unusual requests, including that she wrap him like a mummy in saran wrap and glue a pair of women's boots onto his feet as he lay unresponsive. She was performing a sex act nearby, apparently creating content for her OnlyFans page. The document alleges.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Now, look, man, if I'm gonna pay 11,000 for some BDSM, I'm not paying no rookie, okay? This woman, Mikayla, according to the news report, never engaged in BDSM sex before. You don't let the person who can't cook but wants to learn make Thanksgiving dinner. No, no, no. You can learn to cook one random Thursday in March, but we not trusting you with one of the most meaningful meals of the year. That's not happening. There is a reason rookies don't get max contracts right out of the gate. You gotta prove yourself. 11,000. That's the reason. This is a double donkey. I don't kink shame, but 11,000 to a woman who's never done this before? No. Imagine paying the person who Never cooked before 11,000 to cook Thanksgiving dinner, and then they burn up all the food. You gotta blame yourself because you knew this person never cooked before, but you trusted them and paid them 11,000. And McCann, Michaela, the reason you getting donkey is because you put duct tape over this man's mouth. You put Saran wrap and a plastic bag over his head, and you sat there and watched this man suffocate on the floor. You watched the turkey burn, but you don't realize it's burning because you don't know what you doing, okay? Just like this woman. Michaela had no idea Michael was suffocating on the floor. Michaela was too busy busting it open, performing sex acts on the floor. Meanwhile, the macaroni and cheese is burning to a crisp. Now, there is a video. You like that? Oh, yeah.

[Hitcham]

You like that?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Oh, my God. He's dying. He's dying. There is a video that shows this man was wrapped in Saran Wrap for eight minutes and Ashley Sinkai, real name Michaela, finally realized that something was wrong. So she rushed to call 91 1, but it was too late. Dale was unresponsive and was declared brain dead at a hospital and days later removed from life support. All because he trusted a rookie with a pros job. Please give Michael Dale and Michaela Rylousdom the biggest he haul. Rest in peace, Michael Dell. You are killing this girl's name. I know. What is it? I can't. I don't want to say it anymore. Try Mikayla. No. What's the last name? Bryce Rollers. Bryce Rollersdale. Bryce Rollersdale. Now say judicial. Is she what? Say judicial. Oh, yes. I thought she was asking me was she Jewish. I was like, I don't know. I have no idea. I said, now say judicial. Judicial. Can you imagine having to explain this in the afterlife, though? No. Yes. I wouldn't want to either. That's why you always got to think about things before you do them, because you might die. And do you want to die doing something like that and have to explain that in the afterlife? Think about it. All right. Well, thank you for that. Donkey today. Donkey Today is sponsored by renowned personal injury attorney Michael the Bull Laminsoft. Don't be a donkey when you need a fighter on your side. If you're ever injured, go to Michael the Bull dot com. That's Michael the Bull Dot com. And when you mess with the bull, you get the horns. Wake that ass up early in the morning. The Breakfast Club.

[Hey Martinez]

Hey, it's. Hey, Martinez. The news can feel like a lot on any given day, but you can't just ignore las noticias when important world changing events are happening. That is where the Upverse podcast comes in. Every single morning in under 15 minutes, we take the news and boil it down to three essential stories so you can keep up without feeling stressed out. Listen up. First, from NPR on the iHeartRadio app.

[Ed Helms]

Or wherever you get your podcasts, Prohibition is synonymous with speakeasies, jazz flappers, and of course, failure. I'm Ed Helms, and on season three of my podcast, Snafu, there's a story I couldn't wait to tell you. It's about an unlikely duo in the 1920s who tried to warn the public that prohibition was going to backfire so badly it just might leave thousands dead from poison. Listen and subscribe to snafu on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[AJ Andrews]

What's up, y'all? I'm A.J. andrews, pro softball player, sports analyst and the first woman to win a Rawlings Gold Glove on my new podcast, Dropping Diamonds. We dive headfirst into the world of softball by sharing powerful stories, insights and conversations that inspire and empower. It's time to drop bombs and diamonds. Dropping diamonds with AJ Andrews is an iHeart women's sports production in partnership with Athletes Unlimited Softball League and Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to dropping diamonds with AJ Andrews on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Ed Helms]

Brought to you by Novartis, founding partner.

[Hey Martinez]

Of iHeart Women's Sports Network.

[Hitcham]

Have you ever wondered, if your pet is lying to you, why is my.

[Hey Martinez]

Cat not here and I go in.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

And she's eating my lunch?

[Hitcham]

Or if hypnotism is real, you will use the suggestion in order to enhance your cognitive control. But what's inside a black hole?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Black holes could be a consequence of the way that we understand the universe.

[Hitcham]

Well, we have answers for you in the new I Heart Original podcast, Science Stuff. Join me or Hitcham as we answer questions about animals, space, our brains and our bodies. So give yourself permission to be a science geek and listen to science stuff on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.