DONKEY: Ray J Apologizes To Sexyy Red After Claiming They ‘Slept Together’

Summary

Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club – "DONKEY: Ray J Apologizes To Sexyy Red After Claiming They ‘Slept Together’"

Release Date: June 9, 2025

Hosts: DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, and Charlamagne Tha God

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Introduction

In this episode of The Breakfast Club, hosts Charlamagne Tha God, DJ Envy, and Jess Hilarious delve into the recent controversy surrounding Ray J and Sexyy Red. The discussion centers on Ray J's public claims about his relationship with Sexyy Red, the ensuing backlash, and his subsequent apology. The episode is marked by candid conversations, sharp critiques, and a deep dive into the implications of public figures' behaviors on social media.

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The "Donkey of the Day" Segment

Timestamp: [02:16] – [05:49]

Charlamagne Tha God introduces the segment titled "Donkey of the Day," designating Ray J, whose real name is Willie Ray Norwood Jr., as the day's subject. Charlamagne reminisces about Ray J's history with The Breakfast Club, noting that Ray J was the show's very first guest and a significant part of its early legacy.

Charlamagne Tha God:
"Donkey of the day for Monday, June 9 goes Dwilly Ray Norwood Jr. Professionally known as Ray J... that should be a teachable moment for us all."
[02:23]

Charlamagne criticizes Ray J for his recent actions on social media, where Ray J claimed to have slept with Sexyy Red, sparking controversy and backlash.

Charlamagne Tha God:
"Ray J was on his live stream this weekend and he had this to say about Sexyy Red... Now, Ray JJ, you are 44 years old, getting online, bragging about people you slept with. You going the superhead route in 2025? Are you that desperate for relevancy?"
[04:00]

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Ray J's Initial Claims and Public Reaction

Timestamp: [03:26] – [05:03]

Ray J makes a bold claim on his live stream, stating that he slept with Sexyy Red.

Ray J:
"I slept with Sexyy Red. By playing with me. Talking about our party with Sexy Red. I slept with Sexy Red. Ask her. That's on the Dead Homies. I slept with her."
[03:26]

This statement causes immediate backlash from both the public and Sexyy Red herself.

Charlamagne Tha God:
"The lie that Ray J slept with Sexy Red went around the world twice. While the truth is still putting on issues, Ray J did do a more formal apology."
[05:03]

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The Apology from Ray J

Timestamp: [05:49] – [06:38]

Following the uproar, Ray J issues a formal apology aimed at clarifying the misunderstandings surrounding his statements.

Ray J:
"So this what you doing playing with people name on the Internet?... I'll make it clear right now on my main page. Sorry, if you mad at me, I'll make it right now."
[05:03]

Sexy Red also responds via Instagram, addressing the situation and expressing her discomfort with Ray J's claims.

Sexyy Red:
"I slept with Sexyy Red... So we just went to sleep just like we would sleep with anybody else that was sitting next to us on the plane."
[05:49]

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Charlamagne’s Critique and Mental Health Insights

Timestamp: [05:49] – [09:14]

Charlamagne uses this incident as an opportunity to discuss broader issues related to men's mental health and the pitfalls of seeking attention through deceptive behaviors.

Charlamagne Tha God:
"June is Men's Mental Health Month. If you feel the need to get online and be a chronic and compulsive liar at the age of 44... you might be dealing with an underlying condition that you need to sit with a mental health professional about."
[06:38]

He emphasizes the importance of emotional maturity and accountability, especially for public figures like Ray J who have a significant influence on younger generations.

Charlamagne Tha God:
"At this point, Ray, you should be teaching the next generation how to move. They should be looking to you to know how to move, but instead, you got them looking at you like you washed you."
[08:30]

Charlamagne urges Ray J to seek professional help to address his attention-seeking behaviors, suggesting that such actions may stem from deeper personal issues.

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Continued Discussion and Host Reactions

Timestamp: [09:14] – [10:12]

The hosts continue to dissect the situation with Ray J, expressing disbelief and disappointment over his actions. They discuss the impact of his statements on his reputation and relationships.

DJ Envy:
"You stupid."
[09:14]

Charlamagne Tha God:
"Has a man ever lied on your poom poom? He said he hit when he didn't."
[09:20]

Jess Hilarious:
"Please don't push it."
[09:37]

The conversation underscores the hosts' disdain for Ray J's behavior, highlighting the disconnect between his business achievements and personal conduct.

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Conclusion

In this episode, The Breakfast Club hosts provide a comprehensive analysis of Ray J's controversial claims about his relationship with Sexyy Red and his subsequent apology. Charlamagne Tha God leads a critical yet empathetic discussion, emphasizing the need for personal accountability and mental health awareness among public figures. The episode serves as both a critique of Ray J's actions and a broader commentary on the pressures faced by celebrities in the age of social media.

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Notable Quotes:

• Charlamagne Tha God:
  "If a man is 44 years old still lying for attention, it might not always be a clinical diagnosis, but it's almost always a sign that he hasn't healed something."
  [08:30]

• Ray J:
  "Sorry, if you mad at me, I'll make it right now."
  [05:03]

• Sexyy Red:
  "I went out of control and I said that I slept with Sexyy Red. And that's just. That's as insensitive and it's not okay."
  [05:49]

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Transcript

[Charlamagne Tha God]

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[Ray J]

Damn the Hee Haw again.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

It's time for Donkey of the Day. I ain't trying to be donkey today. No, they should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm not making these people do these.

[Ray J]

Things called Donkey of the Day and it really caught me off guard Damn Charlemagne. Who got the donkey of the day today?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Well, just hilarious. Donkey of the day for Monday, June 9 goes Dwilly Ray Norwood Jr. Professionally known as Ray J. Now, if you know anything about the history of Breakfast Clubs, then you know, once upon a time, Ray J was woven into the fabric of this illustrious hall of Fame radio show. Ray J was our first guest ever. Okay? The first person who ever stepped foot into the Breakfast Club studio and sat down with us for a conversation was Ray J. That is the answer to a Breakfast Club trivia question, if anyone needs it. The first ever huge viral moment we ever had was when Ray J called in and threatened to put the Booty Goons on Fabulous. Okay, these are all facts. Nobody up here will ever deny the history we have with Willie Ray Norwood Jr. But Donkey of the day does not discriminate. And I saw something this weekend that should be a teachable moment for us all. See? See, Ray J was on his live stream this weekend and he had this to say about Sexyy Red. Let's listen.

[Sexyy Red]

I slept with Sexy Red. By playing with me. Talking about our party with Sexy Red. I slept with Sexy Red. Ask her. That's on the Dead Homies. I slept with her.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

No one man on the Dead homies, though. Yeah, no one man should have all that corny. Okay, Ray JJ, you are 44 years old, getting online, bragging about people you slept with. You going the superhead route in 2025? Are you that desperate for relevancy? Ray J, you should be way past the do anything for clout era. I remember Ray J calling me one time and expressing how he has the desire to be seen as a businessman. He said that we should be focusing more on what he's doing in the tech world. And I agree. Okay? Ray J has had some success with those scooty bikes. When Ray J was with Raycon, they had a valuation of like 85 to $100 million to. That's no small feat. That's big business, okay? It's an amazing thing to see a black man be a. Be a part of something like that. Then he sold his stake in Raycon and opened up the Tronics Network. He allegedly put like $5 million of his own money into the Tronics Network. That, too, is big business. But I don't even hear him talk about the Tronics Network anymore. Okay? My point is, Ray J has done incredible things in the world of business, but his antics like this always overshadow it. Okay? Willie Ray Norwood Jr. You will never get your Just due for what you've done in the business world. If you online still, still moving and talking like we were in our 20s. Now, what did Sexy Red have to say about this? Well, she took to Instagram to say, calm ball ass lying on your meat is weird. Playing your ass not with me.

[Jess Hilarious]

What?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Then she said even to be saying we slept on the plane together. I said hi and kept it pushing. Is you cuckoo? And she reposted a screenshot of her sending Ray J the video saying, so this what you doing playing with people name on the Internet? Ray J replied, I said right after we slept on the plane again together. You know I'm playing. I'm always trolling and you know I love you. I'll make it clear right now on my main page. Sorry, if you mad at me, I'll make it right now. The problem with the apology, though, is the apology is never as loud as the offense. The truth is never as loud as the lie. The lie that Ray J slept with Sexy Red went around the world twice. While the truth is still putting on issues, Ray J did do a more formal apology. Let's listen.

[Sexyy Red]

I want to apologize to Sexyy Red because Sexyy Red is one of my favorite artists. And Sexyy Red and I was on a plane and we were both flying somewhere, randomly saw each other. She was sitting by me. She had her space. I had my space. She had her own blanket, her own pillow. I had my own blanket and my own pillow. And we had a long flight and we both were tired. You know what I'm saying? So we just. We went to sleep just like we would sleep with anybody else that was sitting next to us on the plane. I went out of control and I said that I slept with Sexyy Red. And that's just. That's as insensitive and it's not okay. And it's. It's trolling at the highest level. And I want to say Sexyy Red, my bad.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Here's the teachable moment. June is Men's Mental Health Month. If you feel the need to get online and be a chronic and compulsive liar at the age of 44, okay? Lies that are manipulative and damaging, that could hurt relationships with people, could hurt careers, even yourself, then you might be dealing with an underlying condition that you need to sit with a mental health professional about. I'm serious, my brothers. We got to do better, okay? Ray J is 44. Sexyy Red is 27. At this point, Ray, you should be teaching the next generation how to move. They should be looking to you to know how to move, but instead you got them looking at you like you washed you. Moving like you on the corner with a Starbucks cup in your hand dancing to Wait a minute, Hoping somebody gives you a couple of dollars. And you can't tell me you just doing this to build up your chat, okay? You can't just tell me that, because in the screaming world I don't even see the scream was moving like this, okay? Not the ones I watched. The ones I watched got very high emotional IQs, Kai. So not, of course. And little Reggie, Duke, Dennis. I don't see them resorting to lying on their beef whistles, saying they slept with certain celebrities to garner attention for their chats. Ray J, you got a daughter, you got a niece. Would you want somebody playing with their name like that? Would you want somebody playing with your sister's name like that? Huh? The answer to those questions are no. Okay, Ray, I know you want to be down with this new screaming world, okay? You be sitting up in your room in front of that laptop trying to keep up with them youngsters. But if I had one wish, Ray, that wish would be for you to grow up. Okay, I'm not saying anything right now I haven't told you before. Grow up at 44, there is a level of emotional maturity you supposed to have, okay? You need to sit with a therapist or some mental health professional and ask, what is this attention seeking behavior you constantly display? Is it learned from childhood? You didn't grow up in a toxic environment as far as I know. What is it? Okay, look, I'm no mental health expert. I've never claimed to be. I'm just a man who's had some experiences, and I'm a man who had to confront my own emotional immaturity. And it comes to a point in our lives when we have to look in the mirror and stop avoiding accountability. Our uncomfortable truths about ourselves. And the truth is, if a man is 44 years old still lying for attention, it might not always be a clinical diagnosis, but it's almost always a sign that he hasn't healed something. Whether it's fear, insecurity, or trauma, something deeper is driving the behavior in. Willy Ray Norwood Jr. I sincerely hope you heal. Please let Remy Ma give Ray J. The biggest he hawk.

[DJ Envy]

You stupid.

[Ray J]

Are you dumb?

[Charlamagne Tha God]

No, just hilarious. Has a man ever lied on your poom poom?

[Ray J]

Oh, absolutely.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

He said he hit when he didn't.

[Ray J]

Yes, absolutely. And I don't know why the gentleman did that, but he did that.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's recently, too.

[Ray J]

Yeah.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Oh, recently.

[Ray J]

Absolutely.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Damn.

[Ray J]

Like a couple months ago.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

What a clown. Wow.

[Ray J]

Somebody that I wouldn't even think would be a clown. Somebody. All y' all know, we know and we talk about this person.

[Jess Hilarious]

Don't push it.

[Ray J]

Rather frequently.

[Jess Hilarious]

Please don't push it.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Don't. Don't do it.

[Jess Hilarious]

Don't push it.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

In the world of entertainment.

[Jess Hilarious]

No, don't push it. Please, please.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

Comedian, musician.

[Jess Hilarious]

Jess, don't stop.

[Ray J]

No, not a comedian, not a musician.

[Jess Hilarious]

Lord, please don't let Jess say no names.

[Charlamagne Tha God]

A spiritual leader, a pastor.

[Jess Hilarious]

Lord, please don't let Jess say no names. We'll get back 800-585-1051. Has somebody lied on you before? Lied on your poom poom. Lied on your meat. Let's discuss 800-585-1051. We'll do it when we come back. Don't play with just please. This morning. Please, I'm begging you. I'm begging you. All right. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

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