Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club – "DONKEY: Ray J Apologizes To Sexyy Red After Claiming They ‘Slept Together’"
Release Date: June 9, 2025
Hosts: DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, and Charlamagne Tha God
Introduction
In this episode of The Breakfast Club, hosts Charlamagne Tha God, DJ Envy, and Jess Hilarious delve into the recent controversy surrounding Ray J and Sexyy Red. The discussion centers on Ray J's public claims about his relationship with Sexyy Red, the ensuing backlash, and his subsequent apology. The episode is marked by candid conversations, sharp critiques, and a deep dive into the implications of public figures' behaviors on social media.
The "Donkey of the Day" Segment
Timestamp: [02:16] – [05:49]
Charlamagne Tha God introduces the segment titled "Donkey of the Day," designating Ray J, whose real name is Willie Ray Norwood Jr., as the day's subject. Charlamagne reminisces about Ray J's history with The Breakfast Club, noting that Ray J was the show's very first guest and a significant part of its early legacy.
Charlamagne Tha God:
"Donkey of the day for Monday, June 9 goes Dwilly Ray Norwood Jr. Professionally known as Ray J... that should be a teachable moment for us all."
[02:23]
Charlamagne criticizes Ray J for his recent actions on social media, where Ray J claimed to have slept with Sexyy Red, sparking controversy and backlash.
Charlamagne Tha God:
"Ray J was on his live stream this weekend and he had this to say about Sexyy Red... Now, Ray JJ, you are 44 years old, getting online, bragging about people you slept with. You going the superhead route in 2025? Are you that desperate for relevancy?"
[04:00]
Ray J's Initial Claims and Public Reaction
Timestamp: [03:26] – [05:03]
Ray J makes a bold claim on his live stream, stating that he slept with Sexyy Red.
Ray J:
"I slept with Sexyy Red. By playing with me. Talking about our party with Sexy Red. I slept with Sexy Red. Ask her. That's on the Dead Homies. I slept with her."
[03:26]
This statement causes immediate backlash from both the public and Sexyy Red herself.
Charlamagne Tha God:
"The lie that Ray J slept with Sexy Red went around the world twice. While the truth is still putting on issues, Ray J did do a more formal apology."
[05:03]
The Apology from Ray J
Timestamp: [05:49] – [06:38]
Following the uproar, Ray J issues a formal apology aimed at clarifying the misunderstandings surrounding his statements.
Ray J:
"So this what you doing playing with people name on the Internet?... I'll make it clear right now on my main page. Sorry, if you mad at me, I'll make it right now."
[05:03]
Sexy Red also responds via Instagram, addressing the situation and expressing her discomfort with Ray J's claims.
Sexyy Red:
"I slept with Sexyy Red... So we just went to sleep just like we would sleep with anybody else that was sitting next to us on the plane."
[05:49]
Charlamagne’s Critique and Mental Health Insights
Timestamp: [05:49] – [09:14]
Charlamagne uses this incident as an opportunity to discuss broader issues related to men's mental health and the pitfalls of seeking attention through deceptive behaviors.
Charlamagne Tha God:
"June is Men's Mental Health Month. If you feel the need to get online and be a chronic and compulsive liar at the age of 44... you might be dealing with an underlying condition that you need to sit with a mental health professional about."
[06:38]
He emphasizes the importance of emotional maturity and accountability, especially for public figures like Ray J who have a significant influence on younger generations.
Charlamagne Tha God:
"At this point, Ray, you should be teaching the next generation how to move. They should be looking to you to know how to move, but instead, you got them looking at you like you washed you."
[08:30]
Charlamagne urges Ray J to seek professional help to address his attention-seeking behaviors, suggesting that such actions may stem from deeper personal issues.
Continued Discussion and Host Reactions
Timestamp: [09:14] – [10:12]
The hosts continue to dissect the situation with Ray J, expressing disbelief and disappointment over his actions. They discuss the impact of his statements on his reputation and relationships.
DJ Envy:
"You stupid."
[09:14]
Charlamagne Tha God:
"Has a man ever lied on your poom poom? He said he hit when he didn't."
[09:20]
Jess Hilarious:
"Please don't push it."
[09:37]
The conversation underscores the hosts' disdain for Ray J's behavior, highlighting the disconnect between his business achievements and personal conduct.
Conclusion
In this episode, The Breakfast Club hosts provide a comprehensive analysis of Ray J's controversial claims about his relationship with Sexyy Red and his subsequent apology. Charlamagne Tha God leads a critical yet empathetic discussion, emphasizing the need for personal accountability and mental health awareness among public figures. The episode serves as both a critique of Ray J's actions and a broader commentary on the pressures faced by celebrities in the age of social media.
Notable Quotes:
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Charlamagne Tha God:
"If a man is 44 years old still lying for attention, it might not always be a clinical diagnosis, but it's almost always a sign that he hasn't healed something."
[08:30] -
Ray J:
"Sorry, if you mad at me, I'll make it right now."
[05:03] -
Sexyy Red:
"I went out of control and I said that I slept with Sexyy Red. And that's just. That's as insensitive and it's not okay."
[05:49]
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