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Lauren LaRosa
I know in yesterday's just with the mess, we talked about Tank saying that he wants to retire.
Angela Yee
Yeah. Yes, Tank the boxer.
Lauren LaRosa
Tank. Yeah. Davis. For all of us that are close to Baltimore, Delaware, Philly, Jersey area, some of us call him Tank. My bad, y'all. Javante Davis. Now, a lot of people were like, you know what? That's Cap. He is not retiring. It's not happening. But he talked a bit more about why he is making the decision after a few fights to step away from boxing. Let's take a listen.
Javante Davis
That's why I don't want boxing more. I want to do therapy, right? But I feel as though if I do therapy, it will lose the fire that I have inside me. I want everything out of me. West, though, I don't never think about fighting again. I don't think about even getting angry, you know what I mean? Because I have two girls, two daughters. I wanted to be much softer, you know, I mean, be more humble and things like that.
Lauren LaRosa
I've always actually thought about that just in general, like. Like when you go to therapy. I feel like when people go to therapy and it's successful, you see the difference in them just by their demeanor, their tone, their patience. And I always thought like, when you do things like where you have to be like sharp and kind of like aggressive a bit. Do you, do people avoid therapy because of that? Boxers?
Angela Yee
That's some people.
Lauren LaRosa
Broadcasters, like.
Angela Yee
Yeah, that's some people. Because, you know, a lot of people just feel like boxers are very, very aggressive. But if you ever talk to Mike Tyson or you talk to Floyd Mayweather, you see them with their kids. They're very calm, very sensitive, very mild mannered when it comes to their families. Well, maybe Tank might be different.
Charlamagne Tha God
No, I think even with Mike Tyson, like, you know, Mike Tyson has done a lot of work on himself, so you getting a different version of Mike Tyson. But you know what? People probably don't understand sometimes when it comes to those sports, especially like boxing, a lot of the times when you got that pain in you or that hurt, you haven't dealt with that trauma. That's why you're able to go in there and.
Angela Yee
Yeah.
Charlamagne Tha God
You know what I mean? You're able to go in there and project that on other people. So, yeah, if you do go to therapy and start smoothing off them rough edges, I can see where you. I can see what Tank is talking about, where you could lose that.
Angela Yee
Yep.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, I even thought about that, like, for, like, actors and music artists and stuff like that, too. Like, people that get in a creative space because of their trauma. I always think about that as well. Now I do know. So yesterday that what you guys were talking about was the presser he did with Roach Jr. Yep. But he has talked about wanting to possibly get back in the ring or just the option of whether he will do it or not with, like, Shakur. He doesn't want to do Shakur. Right. He says no point to it.
Charlamagne Tha God
Teofima Lopez, Lomachenko, Devin Haney, Shakur. Those are all great fights for Tank.
Lauren LaRosa
Well, I don't know how many of them he will or will not take, but I just. I mean, I think it's a great thing he wants to do therapy, but I just. I'm thinking about, like, life after boxing for him if he does. If it does make the change that he thinks is going to happen. But I think it'll be good for his family and his kids. So now, moving on. Speaking of therapy, Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, you know, she's been up here. She's a friend to the room. She sat down with her show that she has on FOX Soul, and it's called Truth Talks on Fox Soul. She's a part of that cast, and on that show, she's a life expert. So they talk about different people's lives and different things that are going on. And they got into the conversation of Neo, and, you know, Neo now lives a relationship where he's able to be with multiple women at one time. They started discussing that. Let's take a listen. What is neo to you, Dr. B?
Dr. Cheyenne Bryant
He's a womanizer. He cheated on his wife, and that's why she left him. He didn't cheat once. He cheated over and over again. He's a womanizer. He's gaslighting himself and that wife to make it seem like he wants polyamorous when you never wanted polyamorous. From the beginning, you wanted to be married but didn't have the discipline to do it. And your wife left you because she didn't tolerate that baby. And so she pivoted from you, and now you're going, and he's making these Other women pay for the heartbreak that he calls to himself by saying, I want to be polyamorous. That's bs. You want to be married. You don't have the discipline. You don't have the tools to do it. So now you want to make sure you put out into the world. Look at me. I want to be polyamorous because I cheated. No, you failed in your marriage. You're effed up. And that's the problem. Now you need to heal from that and not have these self project your pain onto these women about your messed up decision making period.
Lauren LaRosa
Okay, I couldn't even say the word because I would never be in that type of relationship.
Angela Yee
But I wonder if it was Polynesian sauce.
Lauren LaRosa
Polynesian, Polyamorous, Poly, whatever. Ain't nothing about me. Poly nothing.
Angela Yee
But I wonder if it's the opposite, if he thought he wanted to be married, but he's actually happy and not married. You know, I wonder if he thought that he could. Could be married and he wanted to be married. He didn't like it. I wonder if it was the opposite type of thing, because everybody's relationship is different, you know?
Carlos Miller
Yes.
Charlamagne Tha God
And I would like to offer a third opinion. Neo got how many wives now?
Lauren LaRosa
They're his girlfriend, his girlfriends.
Charlamagne Tha God
Girlfriends.
Lauren LaRosa
There's two, I think two or three.
Angela Yee
Yeah, two or three.
Charlamagne Tha God
So it's his wife and two girlfriends.
Angela Yee
No, he doesn't have wife.
Lauren LaRosa
The wife left him because he got.
Angela Yee
He got divorced.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, he was cheating and.
Charlamagne Tha God
Okay, so. All right, I understand that. So you was with your wife. Your wife wasn't on. What type of time you on? So y'all ended up getting a divorce and now you doing what it is you want to be doing.
Angela Yee
Correct.
Charlamagne Tha God
If it's working for him, I don't see the issue.
Angela Yee
Yeah, it could be. Like I said, it could be the opposite of what she said. It could be he tried marriage, he didn't like it, it wasn't for him, and this is where he's happy.
Lauren LaRosa
I. Yeah, I totally agree. So I hear what you guys are saying, and I think that that could be true. It also could just be guy math, because as a woman, I think on one end it's like, if that is for him and that's what he wants to do, great, go do that and be honest about it. But on the other end, I have encountered, and I think that there are other women that can speak to this too, men who cop out of full commitment by saying things like, I don't believe in monogamy. No, you're just Afraid to fully commit and be vulnerable. Because that takes a lot of work to lock.
Charlamagne Tha God
That's not like that. Sound like you're trying to tell that man what it is that he should feel. But if that's his reality, if his reality is, hey, he don't believe in monogamous.
Angela Yee
Works better for me.
Lauren LaRosa
These were the same men. That's why I said be honest. Because the men I'm talking about will be the same man that is trying to be monogamous with you. But then when they mess up, it's like, oh, I don't think I really believe in monogamy. But they. They're trying to be monogamous with you. It doesn't make any sense.
Charlamagne Tha God
Well, he was trying. That's the whole point of trying. And then you realize that I can't do this. Like, it happens. Like, I see the issue here.
Lauren LaRosa
Once you realize it, then you should go live that lifestyle and stop trying. Correct. That's what I'm saying. It's good for him that he realized that he was being honest and he moved forward. Because a lot of men don't. A lot of men lock in.
Angela Yee
I'm sorry, what you did.
Charlamagne Tha God
What you did just triggered Lauren. No, it triggered Lauren.
Angela Yee
Sorry, Lauren.
Charlamagne Tha God
I'm sorry.
Lauren LaRosa
It did not trigger me.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yes, it did, because you started talking to whoever that guy was that did this.
Angela Yee
What's his name?
Charlamagne Tha God
I am so sorry that happened.
Angela Yee
What's his name? Is he from Delaware?
Lauren LaRosa
Of course he's from Delaware. First of all, I don't date people in Delaware.
Angela Yee
You know when people start getting nervous, you start grabbing my cup, start moving my cup around.
Charlamagne Tha God
And she be telling lies that can easily be disproven. Oh, you don't date men in Delaware. Now every man in Delaware looking like in life when they were standing in the line, I'm the Pepe. I dated Lauren. La Rosa. I dated Lauren.
Lauren LaRosa
I lived in Delaware for a majority of my life. So yes, I've dated men in Delaware. But why would you lie and say.
Charlamagne Tha God
You don't date men in Delaware?
Lauren LaRosa
You see how right now. Right now, I'm not dating anybody in Delaware right now. Okay. All right, Envy. You done with that cup?
Angela Yee
I'm done with that. Coming. We can clean up around Brad.
Lauren LaRosa
You got charlamagne. You need something cleaned over there? We gotta get out of here.
Charlamagne Tha God
That's just salute to Neo.
Lauren LaRosa
Let him live his life, I think.
Charlamagne Tha God
But Neo did exactly what it is you say you want guys to do.
Lauren LaRosa
Be honest. Be honest.
Charlamagne Tha God
That's it. That's right.
Lauren LaRosa
Dang, that took the whole time.
Angela Yee
No, that is just with the Mess with Lauren LaRosa.
Charlamagne Tha God
Wake that ass up early in the morning.
Angela Yee
The Breakfast Club.
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Charlamagne Tha God
The holidays are here. It's that time of year to think about, yes, gifts, but not only gifts. It's the guests, the party planning and the true meaning of the season. Spending time with family and friends. We know it's a lot, but we're here to ease your mind and share some tips so we'll make it through together. With the season getting underway, now is the time to shop early for amazing holiday deals at Amazon. Amazon has a wide selection for all your holiday needs. I don't care if you want to get your people's laptops, gaming screens, whatever it is they need. Amazon got it. And please remember you can find the best holiday gifts on Amazon. Shop great deals now on Amazon and visit Amazon.com black effect podcast for my favorite picks.
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Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club
Episode: Dr. Cheyenne Goes Off On Ne-Yo, Gervonta "Tank" Davis Announces He'll Be Retiring From Boxing + More
Release Date: December 5, 2024
Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts
Introduction
In this episode of The Breakfast Club, hosts Charlamagne Tha God, Angela Yee, and Lauren LaRosa delve into significant topics ranging from Gervonta "Tank" Davis's announcement to retire from boxing to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's candid discussion about Ne-Yo's personal life. The conversation is interspersed with lively debates, personal anecdotes, and insightful commentary, providing listeners with a comprehensive look into the lives and decisions of prominent personalities.
Gervonta "Tank" Davis Announces Retirement
The episode kicks off with Lauren LaRosa revisiting yesterday's announcement by Gervonta Davis, a well-known boxer from the Baltimore area, expressing his intent to retire from the sport.
Davis elaborates on his decision, emphasizing his desire to pursue therapy and focus on his family.
Discussion on Therapy and Personal Growth
The hosts engage in a thoughtful discussion about the stigmas surrounding therapy, especially among athletes known for their aggressive personas.
Lauren LaRosa [03:25]: “I've always actually thought about that just in general... Do people avoid therapy because of that? Boxers? Broadcasters, like.”
Angela Yee [03:42]: “That's some people... But if you ever talk to Mike Tyson or you talk to Floyd Mayweather, you see them with their kids. They're very calm, very sensitive...”
Charlamagne adds his perspective on the importance of addressing personal trauma and how therapy can lead to personal transformation.
Potential Comeback and Future of Tank Davis
Lauren touches upon Davis's reluctance to return to the ring, despite suggestions of potential matchups with prominent fighters.
Charlamagne lists possible opponents, highlighting the competitive landscape Tank Davis would navigate if he chose to fight again.
Reflections on Life After Boxing
The conversation shifts to contemplating Tank Davis's life post-boxing, emphasizing the positive impact on his family and personal well-being.
The hosts agree that embracing therapy and stepping away from boxing could lead to significant personal growth and happiness for Davis.
Dr. Cheyenne Bryant Critiques Ne-Yo's Relationship Choices
The episode transitions to Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's critique of Ne-Yo's personal life, specifically his approach to relationships.
Lauren LaRosa [05:45]: “Dr. Cheyenne Bryant... they got into the conversation of Neo... Let's take a listen. What is neo to you, Dr. B?”
Dr. Cheyenne Bryant [05:45]: “He's a womanizer. He cheated on his wife... He's gaslighting himself and that wife to make it seem like he wants polyamorous when you never wanted polyamorous... You want to be married but didn't have the discipline to do it... you need to heal from that and not have these self-project your pain onto these women...”
Debate on Polyamory and Commitment
Lauren expresses her discomfort with polyamorous relationships, aligning with Dr. Bryant's viewpoint.
Angela speculates on Ne-Yo's true feelings about monogamy, suggesting that his actions might reflect deeper uncertainties.
Charlamagne challenges Lauren's stance, prompting a broader discussion on honesty and commitment in relationships.
Lauren reiterates the importance of honesty in relationships, emphasizing that individuals should live authentically based on their true desires.
Personal Anecdotes and Lively Banter
The conversation takes a humorous turn as Charlamagne and Angela tease Lauren about her dating history in Delaware, leading to playful exchanges that showcase the hosts' chemistry.
Charlamagne Tha God [08:33]: “What you did just triggered Lauren...”
Lauren LaRosa [08:50]: “First of all, I don't date people in Delaware.”
Charlamagne Tha God [09:09]: “I lived in Delaware for a majority of my life...”
The banter concludes with a mutual agreement to let Ne-Yo live his life authentically.
Lauren LaRosa [09:30]: “Let him live his life, I think.”
Charlamagne Tha God [09:37]: “That's it. That's right.”
Conclusion
The episode concludes with a blend of humor and affirmations as the hosts wrap up their discussions. Charlamagne emphasizes the importance of authenticity in personal choices, while Angela and Lauren reflect on the conversations about therapy, retirement, and relationship dynamics. The lively interaction among the hosts underscores the essence of The Breakfast Club—engaging, candid, and thought-provoking dialogue.
Notable Quotes
Gervonta "Tank" Davis [03:00]:
“I don’t want boxing more. I want to do therapy... I have two girls, two daughters. I wanted to be much softer, I mean, be more humble and things like that.”
Dr. Cheyenne Bryant [05:45]:
“He's a womanizer... You need to heal from that and not have these self-project your pain onto these women...”
Lauren LaRosa [08:21]:
“Once you realize it, then you should go live that lifestyle and stop trying. Correct.”
Charlamagne Tha God [09:37]:
“That's it. That's right.”
Final Thoughts
This episode of The Breakfast Club offers listeners a deep dive into the personal transformations of public figures and the complexities of modern relationships. Through insightful discussions and relatable conversations, Charlamagne, Angela, and Lauren provide valuable perspectives on navigating life changes, the importance of mental health, and the pursuit of authentic relationships.