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DJ Envy
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Morgan
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Charlamagne tha God
Yo, yo yo yo yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo yo.
DJ Envy
Just hilarious. Good morning, Charlemagne the guy.
Charlamagne tha God
Peace to the planet. It's Monday. Good morning. How y'all feel out there? I feel blessed, black and highly favored. Happy to be here Another day to serve our beautiful listeners. What's going on?
DJ Envy
What's going on? How you feeling, Jess? How was the weekend?
Charlamagne tha God
Good.
Lauren LaRosa
The weekend was great. It's. I did a lot of. We didn't have kids this weekend, so me and hubby just went out like every day. He just likes to do, you know, like the farmers market and stuff like that. Like really, really natural things.
DJ Envy
Nature.
Lauren LaRosa
So we. Yes. Nature walks. Do y'all celebrate pollen? Oh, Christmas, birthday?
Charlamagne tha God
No.
DJ Envy
Single de Mayo.
Lauren LaRosa
Absolutely. We are celebrating single.
Charlamagne tha God
You didn't even know Cinco de Mayo. You ain't even wish none of your in laws nobody single de before you.
Lauren LaRosa
Left out in the morning.
Charlamagne tha God
You supposed to do that at midnight.
Lauren LaRosa
Not like a new year. What are you talking about? It's not giving that.
Charlamagne tha God
It is day New year. Right. I know. It's independent. I don't.
Lauren LaRosa
It's an excuse to go out and drink.
Charlamagne tha God
Independence.
DJ Envy
Independence, Right.
Charlamagne tha God
But I thought there was a Mexican Independence Day too, though.
Lauren LaRosa
It's definitely not Cinco de Mayo.
Charlamagne tha God
I don't know. Salute to all the Cincos out there.
Lauren LaRosa
That's that excuse to drink another day to drink.
DJ Envy
Not a person for black people. Wait, Cinco is not a person. Right?
Lauren LaRosa
Cinco is a five in Spanish.
Charlamagne tha God
Okay.
DJ Envy
Yeah. He said so in.
Lauren LaRosa
In other words, it's May 5th and it's Chris Brown birthday. Drop a clues bomb right now.
DJ Envy
Wow.
Charlamagne tha God
You got way more energy for Chris Brown than your Mexican brethren.
Lauren LaRosa
That's because I'm black first.
Charlamagne tha God
Okay. Yeah.
Lauren LaRosa
Thank you.
Charlamagne tha God
That's true.
Lauren LaRosa
And Chris Brown is from Virginia, which is a part of the DMV. So I have to celebrate him until 12 noon. And then we can switch over to the Mexican holiday.
Charlamagne tha God
The Mexicans are gonna remember that when the race war break out. They don't care. No, no, no. They gonna see what you in like. No. Remember you black first. Smaller. You come with us. Not you come. Bye.
Lauren LaRosa
How was your weekend?
DJ Envy
Salute to everybody. I was out in first. I was out in Atlanta. They had Tequila Fest. Nice tinker to Mayo. No, but you know, they had a Tequila fest, which I DJed. It was like 6,7000 people, which was fun. And then I went to Illinois. It's my own. My own Illinois. I've never been there before. I didn't even know planes actually go there.
Lauren LaRosa
You are butchering it. You were just in that city.
DJ Envy
Yeah, I was in the city.
Lauren LaRosa
I didn't even ask nobody how to say it.
DJ Envy
No, Quad City is what they call it. It's like right near Iowa.
Lauren LaRosa
Oh, okay.
DJ Envy
I didn't know where I was pronouncing.
Charlamagne tha God
It like it's Mexican. What did you say?
DJ Envy
Mayan M. Yes, I was out there as well. And then this week was my kids last dance competition.
Lauren LaRosa
Nice.
DJ Envy
Last dance competition. Yes. Now I could relax on a week is now. No more traveling from city to city to city, which was great. So what about you, Charlemagne?
Charlamagne tha God
I do nothing but pay for them whack ass fights that the Zone gave us this weekend. I paid that 90. Was it 89 bundle? It was like 90. 89 bundle. 90 bundle. A bunch of whack ass fights Friday night and Saturday night. Damn.
Lauren LaRosa
You weren't pleased.
Charlamagne tha God
No, I mean it is what it is though. I'm a boxing fan. So you know, every. You know, you won't get that from time to time, but God damn. Every fight, every fight was born.
Just Hilarious
Every fight was.
Charlamagne tha God
Was lame. Did you enjoy it, Radden?
DJ Envy
He said he enjoyed him.
Shanti Das
Yeah.
Lauren LaRosa
Nice.
DJ Envy
Well, today is also National National Silence to Shame Day. Shanti Das will be joining us.
Charlamagne tha God
Indeed.
DJ Envy
She comes each and every year for this. She's a music industry vet and mental health advocate. So we're going to talk to her.
Charlamagne tha God
Because, you know, it's Mental Health Awareness Month.
DJ Envy
That's right. And also the Ellis's will be joining us. Deval and Kadeen Ellis hosted a podcast. Ellis.
Deval Ellis
Hey.
DJ Envy
All right. Previously known as Dead Ass. They'll be joining us as well. All right, well, let's get the show cracking. We got front page news, so don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front.
Charlamagne tha God
What about Happy Cinco de Mayo to your Chris. We not going to do this all day. Okay, I will not sit here and watch Chris Brown get more love than your Chris.
Lauren LaRosa
Oh my God.
DJ Envy
Okay, okay, let's start off with some quick sports. Now, last night the warriors beat the Rockets. 10389. The Rockets lost. Golden State. Warriors. Warriors. Move on. They won that series four three in game one versus Cavaliers and Paces. The Cavaliers lost last night. The paces beat him 121 to 112. Now you talked about the boxing thing quickly. We could just go through them real fast. Ryan Garcia lost, right?
Charlamagne tha God
Yes, he did.
DJ Envy
To Rolly Romero.
Charlamagne tha God
Dropped him in the second round and then Ryan just tucked his tail the rest of the fight. But something was up with Ryan though, because now that I think about it, Ryan wasn't even trolling or making no noise before the fight or nothing either. He was eerily quiet for. For a person that's been off for.
DJ Envy
A year right now. David Haney also won Friday night as well. He was really horrible. Now, what about Canelo Alvarez? He fought Saturday.
Charlamagne tha God
Extremely boring fight, but not because of Canelo, because of Scully. Scully was running around the ring the whole goddamn time.
DJ Envy
All right. Well, morning, Morgan.
Shanti Das
Hey, y'all.
Morgan
Hey, Good morning and happy Monday. How we feeling?
Lauren LaRosa
We good up, girl. It's Chris Brown birthday and Cinco de Mayo.
Shanti Das
Okay.
Lauren LaRosa
All right.
Just Hilarious
All right.
Morgan
So let's get into it. First on front page, President Trump had a lot to say about a lot. In recent interview with NBC's Meet the as, he was asked about Kamar Abrego Garcia, who was deported to El Salvador in what the White House is calling an administrative error, but has since walked back those comments saying he is a member of the MS.13 gang. In the interview, Trump expressed concerns about clashing with the court, saying that the judges are in his way in these deportations. And he also said he doesn't know if he needs to uphold the Constitution and give Abrego Garcia due process. Let's take a listen to those comments.
DJ Envy
No, I have to respond by saying.
Charlamagne tha God
Again, I have brilliant lawyers that work.
DJ Envy
For me and they are going to.
Charlamagne tha God
Obviously follow what the Supreme Court said.
DJ Envy
What you said is not what I.
Charlamagne tha God
Heard the Supreme Court said. They have a different interpretation.
Morgan
So he's saying that his administration is interpreting the Supreme Court ruling of facilitating Kilmar Abrego Garcia back here differently than, I guess, the rest of us. So this week on May 9, the administration is facing a court order deadline to provide an update on the steps that they've taken to return Garcia. So we will see what happens as a result of that deadline.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah. The fact that people are just breathing by, he says he doesn't know whether he needs to uphold the Constitution is insanity to me. Okay? Presidents are constitutionally obligated to uphold the Constitution. That is the oath of office, okay. It requires the president to preserve, protect and defend the Constitution of the United States. Now, if you are ready to live in a post constitutional society, you need to ask yourself what that's going to look like.
Morgan
It might look like us having a military parade, you know. So the president plans to hold a big military parade in Washington, D.C. this summer. When he was asked about the cost, this is estimated to be about $45 million, he called it peanuts compared to the value. Let's take a listen to the president's comments on his military parade that he expects to have in June, we have.
DJ Envy
The greatest missiles in the world. We have the greatest submarines in the world. We have the greatest army tanks in the world. We have the greatest weapons in world. And we're going to celebrate it.
Morgan
So that parade he wants to be in honor of Flag Day, which ironically enough falls on his birthday, which is June 14th.
Charlamagne tha God
And how much is that supposed to cost?
Morgan
So this time, 45 million. In his first administration, he projected or he wanted to have one and that one would have been about around 90 million. So this is interesting.
Charlamagne tha God
And that Meet the Press interview yesterday, you know, he was just talking about his trade policies and he said his trade policies may mean children may have fewer toys that cost more. He said, you know, kids don't have to have 30 toys, they can have three. What about him and his parade?
DJ Envy
That sounds crazy.
Charlamagne tha God
You know what I mean? If you want kids to have less, shouldn't you have less?
Morgan
Yeah, it's giving Doge. Where's Doge when you need it? Right?
DJ Envy
When's the last president to do that? Who was the last president to do that to have a quote unquote, military parade?
Morgan
I am not sure. Let me double check on that one for you. Just before we get into that, I will say that he does appear to be okay with short term recession due to tariffs. If it means creating the strongest economy economy ever. That's what he said. Trump insists that any short term pain will far outweigh his long term goals. He says the tariffs will be manu will bring manufacturing jobs back to the US and it means more jobs for a stronger US I just don't understand.
Charlamagne tha God
How American citizens have to sacrifice. But he doesn't like he shouldn't be throwing a parade that costs 45 plus million dollars of tax.
DJ Envy
That's not needed.
Charlamagne tha God
So if you want American citizens to sacrifice. And he should sacrifice as well.
Morgan
Absolutely. It looks like the last military parade that we had was in Washington D.C. in 1991 to celebrate the conclusion of the Gulf War. So that would have been the. Oh, excuse me. I'm like, what presidency was that? That would have been Clinton. The first Clinton administration or the last Bush. Okay, I'm like the last Bush. I'll clarify that at 7:00am but yeah, that's the front page news for 6:00am we'll continue this conversation that the President had with NBC's Meet the Press 91.
Charlamagne tha God
That was definitely George Bush senior.
Morgan
Okay, the old, the old Bush, Yes.
DJ Envy
All right, everybody else, get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent Let us know how your weekend was. What you did again. 800-585-1051 is the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Charlamagne tha God
Ray, Ray, Ray.
Just Hilarious
Yo, Charlemagne.
DJ Envy
Envy. What up?
Shanti Das
Are we live?
Charlamagne tha God
This is your time to get it off your chest.
Shanti Das
I got it.
DJ Envy
Indoor pool, outdoor pool.
Charlamagne tha God
We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club.
Just Hilarious
We can get on the phone right now.
Charlamagne tha God
Here.
DJ Envy
Tell you what it is.
Charlamagne tha God
We live.
DJ Envy
Hello? Who's this?
Charlamagne tha God
Yes, sir. Good morning, Breakfast Club. J A from India. J A, what's up?
DJ Envy
Get it over your chest. J A, so, Jeff, particularly for you.
Charlamagne tha God
I know you just had a baby. You can relate to this. But I had a bad one night stand with a lady that I did not know had just had a baby.
Lauren LaRosa
You had a one night stand with a lady who you didn't know just had a baby? So you was, like, really Correct.
Just Hilarious
She agreed.
Lauren LaRosa
Going hard in the guts.
Charlamagne tha God
Nah, she was top heavy.
Just Hilarious
So I just assumed that's how she was shaped.
Charlamagne tha God
And when I went in to make.
Just Hilarious
The moves, you know, she kind of started up top.
Charlamagne tha God
Can I say that?
Lauren LaRosa
Yes.
Charlamagne tha God
Up top. She's milk lactating.
Lauren LaRosa
She was lactating.
Charlamagne tha God
Okay. Yeah. Hey, hey. I don't know any of that. I met my son when he was 2, so I ain't have to go.
DJ Envy
Through all those things. Okay, so I'm going in.
Charlamagne tha God
And it started coming out. So it came to my senses, I was like, I will never try that again on somebody else.
DJ Envy
Because men, we kind of get a.
Just Hilarious
Little unique and whatever, and we like.
Charlamagne tha God
Hey, let us shoot it here. Shot on my face, man. Ruined my whole night. The milk shot on your face.
Lauren LaRosa
The milk and you.
Charlamagne tha God
Correct.
Lauren LaRosa
Well, you know, there are some great things, some great wonders that breast milk works. Like, it makes your hair grow. It makes your skin look good. It makes you smarter. If you were dumb and it seemed like you didn't have enough of it. Cause you're scared of it.
Charlamagne tha God
I just wasn't ready. I ain't never been shot in the face before, so now I know how I feel. Oh, God damn.
DJ Envy
Goodbye, aj. Have a good one, bro.
Charlamagne tha God
I don't know why we so scared of humans. Breast milk. We drink cow milk and almond milk and all kinds, but not the human milk that raised us.
DJ Envy
Hello? Who's this?
Charlamagne tha God
Hey, Breakfast Club. This is your boy, Dingo. What's going on, y'all? What up, Dingo? We ain't heard from you in a minute. I know, man. It's been a minute, y'all. It's been a crazy year. I'VE been working, though. So what's good with y'all?
DJ Envy
What's up with you?
Lauren LaRosa
Ain't nothing.
DJ Envy
Oh, man. Shoot.
Charlamagne tha God
It's been. Well, this last week has been pretty crazy. I lost my dog of five years, so that was pretty depressing. So rest in peace to my dog, M.J. or your homeboy? No, it's my pet. Oh. It's my dog, all right. You got to make sure now. Yeah, no, you're right. You're right. But, yeah, for about five and a half years, man, it was unexpected. End up eating something that it couldn't pass through. So all y'all watch out. Pets, man, you never know. So that's pretty crazy. But besides that, you know, I've been blessed. Been trying to follow in y'all footsteps, man. I did a real dope interview with Chicago's home. Katie got bands, and I got the full interview on my page. I want y'all to check it out, give me some pointers, see how y'all like it.
DJ Envy
I think it was a real crazy.
Charlamagne tha God
Conversation that, you know, nobody's really sat.
DJ Envy
Down and talked to her about.
Charlamagne tha God
Y'all remember Katie got bad. No, no, dang. Katie got bands. Yeah, she a drill artist. Y'all don't remember the drill artist? Katie got bands.
Lauren LaRosa
You know what?
Shanti Das
Probably.
Lauren LaRosa
If we hear. Probably.
Charlamagne tha God
I just go. I just googled it. I just googled it, and I'm still not familiar, but Salute to Katie got banned and. Fair enough. Fair enough. Well, hey, y'all want to check out Chicago's own Katie Got Bands? Y'all go check out the interview that I did with her. It's on the Mr. Dingo page. DNGO. Just look it up. Y'all see it right there. That's pretty crazy, though.
DJ Envy
Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. If you need to vent, hit us up now. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Charlamagne tha God
This is your time to get it off your chest, whether you're mad or blessed.
DJ Envy
I hate the way that you walk.
Charlamagne tha God
The way that you talk.
DJ Envy
I hate the way that you dress. Everything with me is blessed.
Charlamagne tha God
Call up next. 800-585-151.
DJ Envy
Not just me, I'm with the culture feeling. Hello? Who's this?
Charlamagne tha God
Yo, yo, what's happening? DJ Envy. Good morning, Charlie. God, Jess. Hilarious. Good morning. Good man. I just want to calm. Get off my chest. I started to call maybe about two weeks ago after watching the preview of Sinners and say, hi. We, as black people, didn't want to See those fights and passing, you know, no lunatic type movie like that. And I went and saw it this weekend, and I want to give that brother y'all had up there who produced the movie. I want to give him a round of applause. Man, that was a good movie, man. I. I liked it a lot. Never judged the book by its cover, and if you haven't seen it, I recommend everybody go see it, man.
Just Hilarious
Okay.
Charlamagne tha God
What you mean, never judge a book by its cover, though? What was. What was the. On the COVID that you. That you judged? Like, from the preview they gave me, like, one of them. What's that movie called? When they had, like, all the weird. Like, all the weird stuff going on, and you just didn't know the gist of it. You didn't know the meaning of it because it was just so, like, biopathic. Yeah, it was like.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, what you're saying.
Charlamagne tha God
I really don't. I really want to understand the message of this. Why vampires?
Lauren LaRosa
Right?
Charlamagne tha God
You know, I didn't know if it was like they said Ku Klux Klan was really evil demons around that time. So, you know, I'm trying to get determined knowledge of it.
Lauren LaRosa
But you should definitely.
Charlamagne tha God
It was very interesting.
Lauren LaRosa
I get what you're saying. I understand your sentiments. You should definitely go see it again, though, too, because that's what I had to do. But not just from watching the trailer. You ain't gonna get like, you need to go see the movie.
Charlamagne tha God
Most definitely. Yeah. One thing I saw that they said the vampires, they weren't really portrayed as purely evil monsters, but just as flawed humans that were grappling with the consequences of their past.
Kadeen Ellis
So is that.
Charlamagne tha God
Is that how all the people were dancing, you know, at the end, around. You know what I mean? When they walked out, when they were dancing at the end? Yeah, when they all left after. I believe the brother got bit, you know, by the one white girl who was in the club.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, right. Yeah, I get. I don't know. You just got.
Charlamagne tha God
I mean, Jeff, what's up? You're a comedian, so you could catch this joke. Ain't that many black people finna get bit walking out no club, is it?
Lauren LaRosa
Man, I'm like, Cornbread was dumb as hell. You ain't had to walk that far to go pee, bro.
Charlamagne tha God
In Cornbread's defense, he done peed in the woods a million times. He wasn't expecting no vampires to be in there.
Lauren LaRosa
You know what I'm saying?
Charlamagne tha God
Like, there's a lot of things you going. If you. If you're from the country, you Go in the woods and pee. You expect to see a lot of things. Vampires.
Lauren LaRosa
Three weird ass white people walk up to the club and you. And they say they going. You know what I'm saying? Just in case we change our mind. I'm not going out there by myself. I don't care how big and black it's not.
Charlamagne tha God
That's most definitely.
DJ Envy
Thank you, brother. Y. Hello, who's this?
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah, good morning. This is Leon from Miami.
DJ Envy
Leon from Miami.
Just Hilarious
Yeah, I'm good, man.
Charlamagne tha God
Good morning.
DJ Envy
Who that?
Charlamagne tha God
Josh? Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
How are you?
Charlamagne tha God
Good morning, Judge. Good morning, Charlemagne. Good morning. Breakfast. Envy. Peace, Peace. I'm just calling. I just wanted to give a shout out to my wife. She had a birthday yesterday.
DJ Envy
She just turned 41.
Charlamagne tha God
And we got the anniversary coming up in about a week and we got Mother's Day. So this month is pretty much packed up for me. I wanted to call and give her a shout out on the radio and all that Mother's Day is this weekend, this Sunday.
Lauren LaRosa
Happy birthday, wifey.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah, I know, man. It's about to hit my pockets real crazy.
DJ Envy
I can hear it all in your voice.
Lauren LaRosa
No, that's why I said, what's wrong?
DJ Envy
You must have got married on Mother's Day. You must have got married on Mother's Day a couple years ago. Years ago, right?
Charlamagne tha God
I got married. I got married May 17th. Her birthday's May 4th. And then we got Mother's Day coming up.
DJ Envy
Damn.
Lauren LaRosa
So every week that's getting hit cha ching.
Charlamagne tha God
But yeah, man, just call it enough. Glad I got through. Give her a shout out for a birthday yesterday. We celebrated that.
DJ Envy
Well, have a good one.
Charlamagne tha God
All right, y'all, man. Be easy, man. Have a good morning.
DJ Envy
You sound so down. Get it off your chest. 800-585-1051. We got the latest with Lauren coming up. What we talking about?
Shanti Das
Yes, we do. Today is the first day in the Diddy trial. Jury selection starts today and I will be there. So I want to talk about, like, what to expect and how it's all going to go down. We'll have some exclusive insight.
DJ Envy
Yeah. And I would love to know who are they looking to pick? Because I was hearing old white people. I don't know why they said that this morning on 1010 WINS, but they was like, they looking to pick old white people.
Shanti Das
We'll get into it.
DJ Envy
Okay. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Charlamagne tha God
Morning, everybody.
DJ Envy
It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlamagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the latest one.
Lauren LaRosa
Lauren Lauren becoming a straight fat.
DJ Envy
She gets them from somebody that knows somebody.
Charlamagne tha God
She gets the details.
Shanti Das
I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
Charlamagne tha God
She'd be having the latest on this, the Latest with Lauren LaRosa. Sometimes she has facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes she have a little bit everything. Well, it's the lady on the Breakfast Club.
Shanti Das
So Diddy's trial is kicking off today in New York. Diddy, who's been locked up since September, will begin jury selection today. So that's the process where they find the 12 drawers who will sit down. Now, the charges for those who do not remember because it's been a long time since the initial charges dropped. He is being charged currently with sex tracking, sex trafficking, racketeering, conspiracy, and transportation to engage in prostitution. Now, Diddy has pled not guilty to all of these charges, but if convicted on all accounts, because he turned down the plea before going to court, he could face up to life in prison. Now, CNN is reporting that based off of documents that they've looked at, there's going to be several different topics that potential jurors will be questioned on it to see if they fit, including their views on sex with multiple partners, drugs, and hip hop. They me. They also might be asked about their feelings, beliefs, or experiences related to intimate partner violence, cheating and relationship prostitution, the distribution of illegal drugs, the music industry. Because they're trying to figure out how can they actually find people who are not fans of puff to the point where it'll, you know, distort how they make the decision. But for.
Charlamagne tha God
It's gonna be very hard.
Shanti Das
Exactly.
Charlamagne tha God
I mean, this is gonna be very hard to find people on this jury who have. Don't know anything about this case, who haven't been influenced by anything outside of what the actual case is about.
DJ Envy
That's why they were saying older white women, I guess, this morning on the news.
Shanti Das
So when you're talking about the older white women, it's the prosecution team that is all white women, and it's actually led by Comey's daughter, James Comey, the old FBI director. And I'll get into that. But that's what you're talking about. That's the.
DJ Envy
Oh, no, no, no. They said that when they were looking for jurors, they're gonna be looking for older white women. People that probably don't know much about Didd. Probably not in that. That hip hop world that might not have seen that video.
Charlamagne tha God
That's what Diddy wanted them. Crossover people.
Shanti Das
Yeah.
Charlamagne tha God
And it has been that for a long time.
Shanti Das
Yeah, 100, according to other reports. You know, the biggest thing here is exactly what you said is that Diddy is such a huge celebrity and everything with this case, especially in the beginning with that Cassie video has been everywhere, everywhere.
Charlamagne tha God
Broke on cnn.
Shanti Das
Yeah. So that, that's going to be one of the issues and that's why Puff's team was trying so hard to get that. That video not at. To be used as evidence in this case whatsoever. But that was denied. So, yeah, that's going to be one of the things. Now, the jewelry selection should last only a week, so it'll only be this week and then Monday the 12th is when the actual, like, opening statements, which is, you know, when they get into all the stuff, stuff will begin.
Charlamagne tha God
I thought you had to have a jury of your peers, though. Wasn't that. Am I making that up?
Shanti Das
When they said jury of your peers? Normally that means by like, normally it's like, who. Like just everyday people. So they want people that like, look like the world you live in. Remember in asap, Rocky's case, they were upset because they were the. Joe Tekapina was upset because there wasn't really any black people in the jury. Jury of your peers normally just means that it want, you know, we walk out into the world every day. They want white people, black people, women, men of everybody. Yeah, a little bit of everybody. So that it's fair.
Charlamagne tha God
Are you going to the courthouse? I thought you was going.
Shanti Das
I am going to the courthouse. I will be there this morning.
Charlamagne tha God
That's what you went through, the courthouse?
Shanti Das
Yes. This is Romeo Hunt, an amazing black designer. Thank you, sis.
DJ Envy
They let anybody in the courthouse.
Shanti Das
Y'all don't like my outfit or something?
DJ Envy
It's very limited space. So I was just asking, how do.
Charlamagne tha God
They figure out this first come, first serve? Right?
DJ Envy
Yeah.
Shanti Das
So it is first come, first serve for, you know, people of the media. And yeah, I mean, they're going to check you and stuff when you come in, but it's first come, first serve. I did hear that there was like a special media credential that you have to request in order to be able to bring in an actual laptop. And I've tried to reach out on that, but I haven't heard back on that yet. But I'll have my phone. So as much as I can anyway.
Lauren LaRosa
So you like Kim Possible, you can get any goddamn way. I don't know if I even know.
Just Hilarious
How you end up in there.
Lauren LaRosa
They just like, I saw Lawrence, you.
Charlamagne tha God
Know, this is a Diddy trial, not a Diddy party, right?
Lauren LaRosa
I know.
Charlamagne tha God
Don't.
Lauren LaRosa
She gave.
Shanti Das
But it looks good, though.
Charlamagne tha God
It's court, not the club.
Shanti Das
If you guys are looking to see the outfit that Charlamagne is just so critical of, make sure you follow me on Instagram @lauren larosa. Twitter. Lauren larosa, you're on video right now, Lauren. I know, but for everyone that's actually listening in, because I want them to know where to go find me after this video, and they can't see the full outfit. And there's a jacket that I will also have on that makes it a little bit more conservative for the people.
Charlamagne tha God
Nothing about that outfit is conservative. It's just crazy how anything with Diddy folks still feel like they got to.
Lauren LaRosa
Dress like they're going to a party in a cape.
Charlamagne tha God
I'm getting alcohol sprayed on your head.
Shanti Das
Keep getting his haircut every single day. Looking crazy coming here.
Charlamagne tha God
Keep fixing that wig every single day and still looking crazy.
Morgan
Oh, my.
DJ Envy
You set yourself up for that one.
Shanti Das
Exactly. Now, I did want to mention, too, that today is the first Monday in May.
Kadeen Ellis
Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
And it's Chris Brown birthday.
Charlamagne tha God
What does that mean? The first Monday.
Shanti Das
It's Met Gala Monday.
Lauren LaRosa
So today, so many things going on.
Shanti Das
Chris Brown as well. Yes. Today the Met Gala will kick off the theme.
Charlamagne tha God
What about the Mexican gala? It's Cinco de Mayo, y'all. Y'all worried about all the wrong things. I know you should be worried.
Lauren LaRosa
Right now.
Shanti Das
They got a Mexican gala at this place called Ice Donuts.
Lauren LaRosa
They trying to chill.
Charlamagne tha God
No, for real. If they throw a Mexican gallery, that's a trap. I just want y'all to know.
Shanti Das
If it's open. Tequila bar.
Just Hilarious
Do not go.
Charlamagne tha God
Don't go to the Mexic. The Mexican. All our Mexican brothers and sisters. The Met Gala is a trap.
Shanti Das
Well, the Met Gala is. Is, you know, being highlighted and talked about so much this year because the theme is tailoring black style. It's an old to black dandyism and all of its refined and sophisticated glory. It's based off of a book written by a professor. Her name is Monica Miller. And that book, you know, just talks about how in the beginning days of slavery, we use things like dandyism and tailoring our style to, you know, assimilate away from certain things and certain, you know, just.
Charlamagne tha God
What is dandyism? I never heard that.
Shanti Das
So dandyism. I actually printed out pictures for you guys.
Lauren LaRosa
Hey, what up, y'all?
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Jess Hilarious
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Shanti Das
Dang, I forgot the photos. So you know how, like, Tiana Taylor dresses down in the suits, or you think about a dapper Dan or Colman Domingo. That is what people look at as, like, dandyism. It is, like, fine. It's tailored. It's.
Lauren LaRosa
It's like Janelle Monet.
Shanti Das
It is very rich. So there's a. There's an exhibit in the Met that they're going to celebrate tonight that is all about tailored, you know, style and the old to the black dandyism eras and what that has evolved to come to become and look like.
Charlamagne tha God
It says refined taste.
Shanti Das
Yes.
Charlamagne tha God
Meticulous grooming, attention to detail in dress and behavior.
DJ Envy
And Pharrell is the one that's hosting us tonight, right?
Shanti Das
Yeah. Pharrell is one of the hosts. We also on the co chair committee have asap. Rocky Coleman, Domingo, Lewis Hamilton, Lebron James. People are really excited to see Dochi tonight.
Charlamagne tha God
Lebron gonna be there today.
Shanti Das
He ain't got nothing else to do.
Charlamagne tha God
Lakers got their ass bust.
Lauren LaRosa
Damn.
DJ Envy
He's off. He's off. He's on little vacation.
Shanti Das
Oh, my God. He's one of the co chairs. So I'm hoping that he will show up, him and his wife Savannah. But Dolce, you know, people are really excited for her in this moment because, you know, she's one of the new girls. But she gives the dandyism vibe in her suits often.
Lauren LaRosa
And yeah, what about Jonathan Majors? He gives.
DJ Envy
That's definitely his style.
Shanti Das
He would definitely be on brand and maybe I'm sure he's on the invite list. You know what I'm saying? But yes.
Lauren LaRosa
Smoking Stack from Sinners.
Shanti Das
Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
Oh my Jordan 1 and 200.
Shanti Das
You must have been on Twitter because that was one of the predictions on Twitter.
Lauren LaRosa
Actually, I'd never be on Twitter, but I'm glad to know that people are thinking like me on there.
Shanti Das
People feel like Michael B. Jordan is going to show up at dressed as Smoking Sack because that's that gives dandyism that whole era. People also are predicting that maybe Rihanna, if the rumors are true, might reveal a surprise.
Charlamagne tha God
So why you ain't do no dandy did them dandyism at Diddy Trout.
Shanti Das
I have a dandyism fit that I will be wearing. Also sponsored by Romeo Hut. Tonight when I'm out, I've been invited to several things I will bring back. I'm not going to the Met Gala, but I'm going to a few of the after events.
Lauren LaRosa
I can't wait to see this.
Charlamagne tha God
This he going walking you here to testify. We got to wrap up.
Shanti Das
We get out of here.
Charlamagne tha God
All right, all right.
DJ Envy
That was the latest with Lauren. And keep your eye on future the artist future tonight because I heard he has something that he's doing tonight that's gonna be a little crazy.
Shanti Das
So Future tonight he's going and it streams live at 6 o'clock. You can watch it. There's going to be like YouTube streams and you know, major news outlets will also be covering Met Gala and the Diddy situation as well too.
DJ Envy
All right, now when we come back, we got front page news. So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Charlamagne tha God
Wake up. You're locked into the Breakfast Club.
DJ Envy
Morning, everybody. It's tee check Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get back in some front page news. What's up, Morgan?
Morgan
Yeah, so we were previously talking about President Trump's interview with NBC's Meet the Press. And in the last segment, we were trying to figure out the last president who had a military parade. And in fact it was George H.W. bush who had that last military parade in 1991 and the conclusion of the Gulf War. Just to wanting to confirm that that for the listeners and for you guys as well. But moving on, President Trump in that interview, he said he will not remove Jerome Powell as the Federal Reserve Board chairman before his term ends, of course, he made those Comments again on NBC's Meet the Press. Trump described the central banker as a total stiff and called for the Fed to lower interest rates. Now the President said Powell is not a fan of his but he expects the Fed to lower interest rates at some point. The funny thing is that also came up in the interview is whether or not this whole 2028 run is a real thing. He was asked about his organization website selling 2028 gear and here's what Trump had to say in regards to being having a potential extra term. Even though we know that it's not possible. Let's take a listen to President Trump's Comments on that 2028 Ryan.
DJ Envy
There are many people selling the 2028.
Charlamagne tha God
Hat, but this is not something I'm looking to do.
DJ Envy
I'm looking to have four great years. So many people want me to do it. I have never had requests so strong as that. But it's something that to the best.
Charlamagne tha God
Of my knowledge you're not allowed to do.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Morgan
So Trump added that he said he will only be a two term president and said he's only looking forward to four great years. Trump also noted that there are a good, a lot of good Republicans that could be president in 2028. He mentioned J.D. vance, Vice President J.D. vance, but he also said he is not endorsing anyone at this current time. What do you guys think he said?
Charlamagne tha God
Marco Rubio as well. I mean the thing that I found interesting about that statement is he said when he said that he goes, I don't know if that's in the Constitution or not or something to that effect.
DJ Envy
If it's even possible. I think he said something like that.
Charlamagne tha God
And it's just interesting that, you know, it's some things he knows he can't do and there's some things he, he claims he doesn't know he can do. Yes.
Morgan
And he gonna push that line and see what's happening with the courts. You're absolutely right. Let's switch gears. Former National Security Adviser Mike Walsh, he will face a tough confirmation hearing to become U.S. ambassador to the United Nations. That's what Virginia Democratic Senator Mark Warner told CNN State of the Union. Let's take a listen to his comments.
Charlamagne tha God
I think it will be a brutal confirmation hearing.
DJ Envy
Waltz at least acknowledged a bit of a mistake. I think he's going to have tough questions not only from Democrats but from Republicans.
Morgan
Yes. So the administration is saying that he was not fired but instead promoted in a sense Now, Waltz faced scrutiny and backlash for mistakenly adding a reporter to the that Signal Group chat that discussed plans for a military strike in his former role as national security advisor. And that has seemingly has happened more than once. Not to his fault, but, you know, just hex up. Anyways, moving on, Trump said that in the interim, Secretary of State Marco Rubio will serve as national security advisor while continuing his strong leadership at the State Department as the Secretary of State.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes.
Morgan
So, and just wrapping things up, I think this is an important story. I mentioned it last week.
Deval Ellis
Week.
Morgan
But it is in effect. Well, I would say effective immediately, effective today, according to this. Federal officials say government. The government will begin collecting defaulted student loan payments starting today. So if you need those tequila shots, those Cinco de Mayo shots, you might want to go ahead and take those early on and then get your coins together. So the collection efforts will be the first since the start of the pandemic. The Trump administration said the debt will be collected through a Treasury Department program that withholds holds payments from tax refunds, wages, and government benefits. So they're coming for all the pockets. Okay. The U.S. department of Education has not collected loan payments since March of 2020. Officials say that in the last five years, student debt has risen over $1 trillion. So if you got student loans, maybe try to make those payments, make arrangements or do whatever you can to figure this part out. Because in the midst of what's happening with this administration, I can't, can't but help to think, and this is just my opinion, that this could also be one of those things that call for punishment or unnecessary punishment down the line. So just keep that in mind. And that's your front page news. You guys can follow me on socials at Morgan Media. And for more news coverage, follow at Black Information Network. Download the free iHeartRadio app and visit us@binnews.com thank y'all. Make it a great win. Make it a great Monday. Monday. Make it a great Monday. Have a great week.
DJ Envy
Thank you, Morgan.
Lauren LaRosa
Thank you.
Shanti Das
I never know what day it is.
Charlamagne tha God
Good Lord.
DJ Envy
All right, now when we come back, we have the Ellis's Dval and Kadeen Ellis. And we're gonna talk to them next. So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Charlamagne tha God
The Breakfast Club.
DJ Envy
Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Lon Laros is here as well. And we got some special guests in the building. We have Deval and Kaden Ellis.
Charlamagne tha God
Good morning, my people.
Deval Ellis
Good morning.
Charlamagne tha God
How's everything. I'm blessed, black and highly favorite. How y'all feel?
Lauren LaRosa
I love that.
Deval Ellis
Feeling good, Happy to be back, back home.
Just Hilarious
Thank you.
Deval Ellis
It's a glow that I feel like I have the minute I hit LaGuardia Airport. It's just being back home in Brooklyn. I feel like it brings us to life again.
Charlamagne tha God
Now, y'all are here for a bunch of different things, but y'all rebranded the Dead Ass Podcast to Ellis Ever After. Discuss the growth of that title.
Just Hilarious
Yeah, well, it was. It was a lot for us when we first started Dead Ass Podcast. It was Jess. You know, it was like we were joking about men versus women and what husbands feel versus wives feel. But over the course of six years, we watched how that kind of exploded on the Internet. And we don't want to take credit for being a reason why there's a man versus woman debate, but is annoying. We kind of just feel like we want to put out content that people can say, let's elevate and move forward. So let's talk about topics that really affect us. For example, we. We will take credit for this. In 2017, we vlogged our third son being born at home, right. And we vlogged the whole process for about six months. And a new study came out that, as in of 2018, home births in black community have gone up. And we feel like that's a direct correlation for us, showing young black girls like, there's a different option. And the reason why that happened was because with our first child, we almost lost K and she had to have 24 stitches.
Deval Ellis
27.
Just Hilarious
My bad. Let me not take my more scars.
Charlamagne tha God
You know, we had babies.
Deval Ellis
We know what it is.
Charlamagne tha God
But no, you're right.
Just Hilarious
Yeah. She had to have emergency surgery right after pregnancy. And we did a lot of studies on black maternal health, and we was like, let's just use our platform to focus on positivity. So we said, ellis ever after is the change, because this is us after we've evolved as humans, gone to therapy, worked on being a better couple, working on being a better people. So that's what it's about.
Charlamagne tha God
So it had nothing to do with moving out of New York and not even using the term dead ass no more? No, we still use dead ass. Use it. We still use that.
Jess Hilarious
We sure did.
Deval Ellis
We sure did. And the crazy part about it, we had to fight for the name Deadass initially because, you know, if you're not from New York and if you're at the companies that have, you know, mostly white folks, that's just like, we don't know what that means. How will we ever get ad dollars behind a name like that?
Shanti Das
They're not gonna subscribe to that.
Deval Ellis
So there was a lot of explaining that had to be done, but we stayed true to it. I think part of us really didn't want to detach from that New York Persona for a long time, but it's been. It's time.
Lauren LaRosa
I do like Ellis Ever after, though. Who. Who made that up? Do y'all collectively or who. That was you.
Deval Ellis
It was me.
Just Hilarious
I'll take credit for it. But we always do everything collective, even dead ass. Like, we sit down, talk about it, and we like, what you think about this? What you think about that? We had a couple other options. We also liked House of Ellis, but we liked Ellis Ever after because it was the evolution of. After what? After all the bull, you know what I'm saying? After all the talking about what we had to do to get to this point and if. If you ever followed us. That's what we're known for. We're honest about what we've been through and what we've done. We don't hold back. So we want to keep doing what.
Deval Ellis
23 years in the game. Almost 15 married.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
You know, people have literally watched us over the past maybe, what decade? Yeah, on social media, just. Just putting our life out there, sharing with people, you know, hoping people can relate.
Lauren LaRosa
Y'all are definitely the roughest point for a lot of people, because even my son's dad, Rome. Oh, my God. My first son. My first son's dad, man, he. Man, you ain't. You gotta listen to what this one was dead ass like.
Charlamagne tha God
Look, y'all.
Lauren LaRosa
And even y'all shows, he follows everything y'all do. And he has five kids by five different, you know, moms, you know, and he'll listen to one of y'all podcasts and he'll be calling them, telling them, no, no, no. Because what Develle and Kadeen said they was, you know, and wow, he gets hung up on a lot, creates a lot of arguments, but he ain't. He ain't the Devel type.
Charlamagne tha God
I would love to know how Room can even relate.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, you should just tell them. Listen to the podcast. Don't try to preach. You ain't the.
Shanti Das
But it's hard cuz y'all real life, though. Like, y'all. The way y'all be going through stuff on y'all. I watch y'all channel a lot. The way y'all deal with stuff. Y'all Were the first time that I saw a young black couple that was so, like, regular. Like, yeah. I was like, oh, they probably hang where I would go at and stuff like that.
Deval Ellis
And we still do.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
We walk around and people be like, why y'all? Without security? Why y'all? And I'm like, cause it's my hood. Like, what you mean?
Shanti Das
You know, I felt like he could, like, relate to y'all because that's like, a big thing for your audience.
Just Hilarious
I will say this about Rome. Like, Deval now, wasn't the Deval when I first started. Started. Okay, The Deval when I first started was probably closer to Rome. I was. I don't know him, but I was immature. I lacked emotional intelligence. I didn't understand. But I. I take pride in showing the growth because I don't want anyone to ever be like, I gotta be perfect to be accepted. Nah, I was never perfect. I'm not perfect. I may again. Hopefully y'all give me grace if I up. You know what I'm saying? And that's what I want. People to walk around the earth feeling like, you don't gotta be perfect for people to just accept you. And if you expecting everybody to accept you, that's a problem anyway.
Deval Ellis
And to be honest. Yeah, no, to be honest, we almost just didn't do the podcast anymore. So last February, we had a bunch of live, sold, sold out shows. Apollo. It was, like, historic. It was great. So we're like, you know what? Why don't we go out on a high?
Just Hilarious
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
You know, we did all we've done. I feel like we've spoken aloud, you know, dealt with our issues publicly as a form of therapy through the podcast. Right. And we felt like we've done all we had to do in the podcast space. And people literally like, you guys cannot do this. And to your point, we meet people on the regular in the airport, random places, and they're like, y'all can't stop doing this because you have saved my marriage or you've showed me that I'm able to open up to my partner and bring up these topics that are one taboo or uncomfortable to discuss, you know, and people say if they want to devalue, have to be a Kadeen and vice versa. So tell Rome. Make sure that he's on the straight and narrow.
Charlamagne tha God
Exactly. I think one thing that that is great about what y'all do is it's just open lines of communication.
Just Hilarious
That's it.
Charlamagne tha God
Now, regardless of you're in a. You want to start a podcast that's what you should have with your partner. If y'all want to just sit in your living room every day and say, okay, we're going to talk for two hours, but we're going to talk. We may not record it and put it out, but we're going to talk.
Deval Ellis
It's just about communication, education, encouraging that.
Kadeen Ellis
Absolutely.
Just Hilarious
And you know what's funny? Most people, when we first started the podcast, thought it was so crazy. Y'all talk to each other, and I'm like, we married. You talk about sex, you talk about money.
Charlamagne tha God
You talk.
Deval Ellis
Or how. How could you talk to her like that? Like, people were offended.
Shanti Das
For me, real upset.
Deval Ellis
I don't remember.
Shanti Das
They used to. Yeah, let me tell you. They felt like you were, like, the super controlling, like, arrogant, this is all about me guy.
Just Hilarious
They did.
Deval Ellis
And that was the first farthest thing from it from my perspective. But I get it right, And I.
Just Hilarious
Had to accept that, because you have to show people over time.
DJ Envy
Right.
Just Hilarious
You can't expect people, when you first put something out to say, know who I am. Yeah, it took years. We did our podcast for seven years, 15 seasons. Won a Webby Award, but it took time. In the beginning, it was so much like, pushback. Oh, devour Arrogant, the valid ass he always talks down. But what I realized, they weren't used to seeing an educated black man speak about his emotions. And it triggered a lot of women, you know what I'm saying? Like, that's the fact, like, I'm not gonna sit back here and not say what I need and require, because I'm also gonna ask her what she needs and require, and I'm going to deliver on that. But now this is my turn to talk about it. And a lot of people didn't like it, but now it's come more normalized. Like I used to. When we lived in New York, I heard Charlamagne every morning, talk about mental health. My sons now know about mental health. It's not taboo anymore. And they speak their feelings. Mom, I don't feel good about this. I'm nervous about that. And we want to keep showing young men, like, that's okay. You know what I'm saying? To be like that.
Deval Ellis
Especially when within our community, Black men and women are always pitted against each other. And if we want our black men to open up to us, why not create a space for them to do that? So I'm like, deval, I want you to be honest with me. It doesn't have to be a brutal honesty, but I want you to be honest. And transparent about how you feel, because I'm not trying to guess. Like, the good thing about devale and I, for the years that we've been together is that we've always given each other a choice.
Morgan
Choice.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
And the choice happens because we are fully communicative about the things that we want and need. So every morning, I wake up with the choice to be here, and I decide to be here. And it's been working for us.
DJ Envy
All right, we have more with Deval and Kadeen Ellis when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking in with the Ellis's, Deval and Kadeen Ellis, Jeff.
Lauren LaRosa
I love how transparent y'all are with the public. And even with y'all fans. Like, you know, y'all built such, like, a fan base for, like, marriages. And, you know, people who been even divorced, like, look for y'all for. To y'all for advice, because y'all put it out there. The highs and the lows, right? How do y'all handle disagreements in front of your kids, though? Because if y'all. Y'all real with us, right? How is it? And then, you know, parents, you got two types of, like, situations like that. A lot of parents don't like their kids to see them disagree. Like, that's not realistic, though. So we.
Just Hilarious
We handle disagreements as a family. Spot on. If we disagree on something and the kids are there, we gonna have a discussion. And the minute we have a discussion, I will go to Jackson and say, you see how I spoke to your mom? You see how I don't gotta be disrespectful? You see how I don't gotta raise my voice? Do you understand what it means to have empathy towards someone who thinks differently than you? And they be like, yeah, I see it. And I'm like, now understand this. Me and your mom may disagree, but that's my wife. Because they gonna be somebody's husband someday. They have to see what is. So I never wanted to put my kids in a situation where I was. My parents never argued in front of me. But then they would go in the room and be screaming and hollering. I'd be like, yo, what is going on? Then your pops come out. You like, dad, why you talking to mom like that? He looking at you like, boy, that's my wife.
Lauren LaRosa
Right?
Deval Ellis
I'm checking.
Lauren LaRosa
I'm like, no explanation.
Just Hilarious
But then that didn't give me any emotional maturity to deal with my wife for the first five years, right? So there was a couple of days where I came home and, and I was making money. She wasn't working and the food wasn't ready. Cause she had Jackson. And I'm like, what's going on? Cause I'm thinking that this is what a man supposed to be. And she was like, she from Brooklyn.
Lauren LaRosa
I'm talking to.
Just Hilarious
I'm like, well, that's not the response my mom gave my dad.
Deval Ellis
You see the neck and the shoulder starts to go in, right?
Just Hilarious
I just started to realize like, that wasn't the way the stuff that we saw growing up and we just felt like, if I emulate this, I'll be successful. Wasn't making me feel good.
Charlamagne tha God
We didn't know no better. We didn't. I mean, that's what you was learning from just, just observing. Like, no, there's no manual that comes with any of this. That's why, you know, I, I give my, my father a lot of grace because when me and my father had a real conversation and he told me about his mental health issues and I knew about his substance abuse, it just made me realize, oh, he's just a man trying to figure it out.
Just Hilarious
Like I was in talk about it charlamagne.
Charlamagne tha God
That's it.
Kadeen Ellis
That's it.
Just Hilarious
Two months ago, my dad stayed with us to help with the.
Deval Ellis
Oh yeah, that's a good story.
Just Hilarious
And I'm gonna try to talk about this without crying because my, I watched my dad and my mom came and it was the same thing happening. My dad was kind of short with my mom. Mom. And I was in the car. Now I'm grown, so I'm driving. My dad gets short with my mom, and I'm like, yo, you having a little tantrum for no reason. I need to chill, right? And my dad looking at me like, I'm still your pops. But he's still like, you know what? We talk about this later. We go in the living room and we have like a three hour conversation. And just like your dad, he was telling me all the things he'd been through, all his fears, all his worries. And for the first time, I saw.
Charlamagne tha God
My father as a human.
Just Hilarious
And I said, yo, you were just trying to do that. You got married at 21, you had me at 22 to my brother at 24. Like, who taught you? My, My grandfather was an army guy, didn't talk much. You know what I'm saying? Do as I say, not as I do. Follow my lead. Like, nobody spoke. So after speaking to my Father, man, my heart got so big because I saw him as a person. Like now he my dude. Now like, yo, pops, let's talk. And here's the funny part. He said to me at the end of it, I got to be better for your mom. I was like, that's why I'm trying to do another cry. Cause my mom is my heart.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Just Hilarious
You know, you grew up in the house and you. Well, my mom's small in statue. She's five, two. And my dad is six foot. He big, right? And I see sometimes my mom just be like, I'm not even dealing with him today. And I told her, my mom don't have a voice in this house because sometimes you don't give her a voice. And he looked at me and said, I'm gonna do better for your mom. And for the rest of the, like the week, I saw him try. Now he still had his slip ups, like we all do. Like I do, you know, but he tried. And I was like, this is making me feel good. Cause it's not always about paying it forward. Sometimes you gotta pay it back. Teach that generation how do things now. And he's open to it.
Deval Ellis
Our podcast, even we meet people who are older than us and they will be like, wow, you guys, you guys are younger, but you guys have. Are talking about things that I've experienced my entire life. We've actually opened up the gates for discussions too, with my side of family as well. Coming from a Caribbean household, like, having discussions about how you feel about things, like, that wasn't really a thing. And my mom has opened up to her son in ways that she hasn't even opened up to me. And I feel like as a family unit, intergenerationally, we're starting to just heal. So that way we can pass that down to our boys, you know, and to piggyback off of Deval with your question, Jess. They see sometimes the disagreements, but there is such an abundance of love in our house that we sometimes get flack for Deval, you know, grabbing my ass or, you know, walking past and kissing. And, you know, Kyra, our second son, will be like, get away from each other. But the love is so abundant that the moments that we may have disagreements, it far is like outweighed by what they see between mom and dad and the love that we share.
Shanti Das
I watched y'all on Lovers by Shan.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah.
Just Hilarious
Yes.
Shanti Das
One of the things that y'all talked about, I was like, you guys are so honest about this. The conversation when he wanted you to dress up like the maid?
Deval Ellis
Yeah.
Shanti Das
It was a maid, right?
Deval Ellis
Yeah. It'd be a different character.
Kadeen Ellis
Yeah, yeah.
Shanti Das
Cause I don't know why I thought Freddie's in it, but when you said that, you, like, y'all were talking about the fact that when he asked you to do it, you was like, I don't really know about that, but we can meet in the middle. And he was like, no, this is what I want, though. I'm. Yo. If I had that conversation in my group chat, my friends probably would hate my person after that because they would feel like, hold on, what's going on here? Because you should be able to make your choices. But for you, it was like, well, I want to make sure that my man. You know what I mean?
Deval Ellis
Like, because who are we trying to appease? The group chat or my man?
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
You know what I'm saying?
Shanti Das
But even talking about that publicly, I was like, oh, like, they. Y'all be really getting to.
Lauren LaRosa
Well, Lauren don't. She don't have a man. So, like, the.
Charlamagne tha God
The group chat, not even a piece of potential.
Shanti Das
You're so cute.
Deval Ellis
Look at you.
Charlamagne tha God
Thank you.
Shanti Das
She's lonely and looking.
Charlamagne tha God
She was with girls in Atlanta. We had the Black Effect Podcast festival. She was surrounded by studs. Then she went to Magic City, got with a script.
Shanti Das
Do you guys discuss how far you're gonna go in those real conversations? Because getting into the bedroom, I was like, dang, nothing's off limits.
Deval Ellis
Everything's pretty much been on the table with us. Like, there's nothing that's. And we feel like if we show up as our true selves, nobody could hold nothing against me. Nobody. There's no room for you to create a narrative. You know, it's funny. We have, with the evolution of the podcast now, a new segment that we've introduced that people are loving so far, and it's called OP or no op. And it's pretty much, do you have an opinion about this better or do you not? So we've realized that with social media, everybody got a phone, everybody got an.
Shanti Das
Account, so everybody got an opinion.
Deval Ellis
Sometimes about things you have nothing. No knowledge about, no facts, no expertise. But everybody wants to comment on something. So we're trying to now push forward. Now the battle of sexes is done. Now we're trying to push forward, thinking to myself, am I of sound mind? Do I have the facts to be able to comment on something and have an opinion? Or can I just let some things go? You know, like, let's start that as a culture. Like, we don't always have to have an opinion about something.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah. Like, you don't. I don't need to know if you think you can beat a gorilla. Right.
Jess Hilarious
Yeah.
Deval Ellis
So that's not doing that. Like, what do I think about? I don't know. What's the scenario that's happening right now? Current events.
Just Hilarious
Any. Anything in current events.
Shanti Das
Michelle Obama and the Barack Obama stuff.
Lauren LaRosa
Oh, and Kanye said, you know, he was cousins pe.
Just Hilarious
How you feel about that? I don't feel about.
Charlamagne tha God
How do you feel about Kanye?
Lauren LaRosa
Somebody asked.
Just Hilarious
That's how it be. I'll go do interviews. I'll go do press.
Lauren LaRosa
Press, yeah.
Just Hilarious
And it'll be press about the book. Right. And the first thing I sit down is like, so I'm actually. You have a book coming out. Kanye west said. And I'm like, what does that got.
Shanti Das
To do with my book here?
Charlamagne tha God
Right, Right.
Just Hilarious
And they like, well, what you think about it? I don't think about it. I didn't until you told me about it. I didn't know what happened. So I don't have an opinion on it. And then just like, you don't get.
Shanti Das
From your family that he was.
Just Hilarious
Because let's think about the world.
Kadeen Ellis
Exactly.
Shanti Das
I wouldn't even do that.
Deval Ellis
So we don't even entertain.
Just Hilarious
See how they try to correlate it.
Shanti Das
Yeah. I would come in on the family tip, like, well, Kanye said he can't see his kids because he came out. I would have, actually.
Just Hilarious
Well, I mean, that's. That's how they tried the light, but ultimately it's clickbait. Cause what they wanted was to be like, Deval talks about Kanye.
Charlamagne tha God
Yep.
Just Hilarious
That's ultimately what they wanted.
Shanti Das
Right.
Just Hilarious
So we're trying to create a trend where it's like, say, for example, Charlamagne just asked, what do you think about it? And then the interview goes, I don't have an opinion.
Lauren LaRosa
And then now you're disappointed you didn't get your nose. Nobody want to hit. Yeah. Nobody.
Deval Ellis
Yeah.
Just Hilarious
Like, I don't want to talk about that. I don't want to talk about any of that.
DJ Envy
All right, we got more with the Ellis's when we come back. Deval and Kadeen Ellis is the Breakfast Club.
Charlamagne tha God
Good morning.
DJ Envy
Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking it with Deval and Kadeen Ellis, the host of the podcast Ellis Ever After Nap. Deval, you said you wanted to bring up something on air.
Just Hilarious
Yes. Lauren brought up the sex thing.
Charlamagne tha God
Right.
Just Hilarious
And I do want to bring up this point Right.
Shanti Das
Okay.
Just Hilarious
If a man says, this is what I require, this is what I want, the first thing in the group chat, all the girls is, nuh. You should be able to have a choice to da, da, da, da, da.
Lauren LaRosa
Right?
Just Hilarious
But as her husband, I ask her, what do you want? What you require? And the minute she says what she wants and require, there's no negotiating. So for us, what we're trying to show people is that there doesn't have to be a battle of the sexes.
DJ Envy
Yeah.
Just Hilarious
She said that her man want this, she gonna do it. He said his wife want this, he gonna do it.
Deval Ellis
And why would we not want to do that for each other? Because who else am I doing it for?
Just Hilarious
I'm not pledging allegiance to my gender. Gender. I'm pledging allegiance to my partner. Like, this is.
Charlamagne tha God
That's a ball there.
Just Hilarious
I'll make sure y'all get that on camera. You know what I'm saying?
Shanti Das
Do this right, do this.
Just Hilarious
Make sure you got to that one. I seen that. I'm not pledging allegiance to my gender. Pledging allegiance to my partner.
Deval Ellis
Put that right here.
Just Hilarious
Partner, partner, partner. You gotta learn. But no, but seriously, though, that's why it's easy for me to just be honest. Because it's just like, if your boys are upset, man, you said that. Yes. So, like, when you're not going to do nothing for me. So. Yeah, so my wife wants this. This what I'm doing.
Charlamagne tha God
I could. If you let me. Do you like Kanye did.
Lauren LaRosa
Never miss a moment.
Shanti Das
What happens in those moments, though, where you or her are like, yeah, nah, but I'm just sitting on it. I don't want to do that.
Just Hilarious
Then we talk about it, and, like, seriously, there's been times. There's been times. Like, I'm like, yo, like, yo, you ain't going to dress up on that night.
Charlamagne tha God
She just like.
Just Hilarious
I'm like, word.
Deval Ellis
Rain check. I'm a rain. I'm a rain check queen, honey.
Shanti Das
I'll be like, let me rain.
Deval Ellis
Can I rain check that?
Just Hilarious
But then in the morning, I'm gonna wake up, and I'm gonna be. Go get a tap. And I'm gonna open my eyes, and she gonna be in that nurse outfit or something, because sometimes she's not in the mood.
Deval Ellis
We get it.
Just Hilarious
And then you gotta understand that as.
Deval Ellis
A man, businesses, this stuff going on, you ain't trying.
Kadeen Ellis
Okay?
Just Hilarious
They always tell me we got the rest of our life, bro. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's never a deal breaker. Like, if you ain't doing this to tonight, there's gonna be a problem. Nah, you don't want to dress up tonight, fine. Well, sometimes she'll be like, you know what? I ain't dressing up tonight. But I'm gonna bless you though, and I'll dress up tomorrow. You know what I'm saying?
Shanti Das
We talk about it, you know.
Lauren LaRosa
Has there ever been a role that you ain't want to play? You like, I ain't doing that.
Charlamagne tha God
That's not.
Just Hilarious
Nah, I got, I got stories, bro.
Lauren LaRosa
Or anything like kinky. Like you ever dress up like a white girl and he dress up like.
DJ Envy
The black guy and children like Dr. Umar.
Charlamagne tha God
She was a white girl.
Just Hilarious
I was Dr. Umar. And my bad Dr. Umar. I know that's not sacrilegious to you. I don't want to go there.
Charlamagne tha God
But that would actually be a really good role play. You know what I'm saying? Take this back.
Just Hilarious
Sorry.
Deval Ellis
This was up in California.
Just Hilarious
Yes, I know. That's where he was going, bro. So I was very specific.
Deval Ellis
He was specific. What did you ask for? It was like down to a detail. I had color contacts and I think I had done like a photo shoot or something.
DJ Envy
This is fun.
Just Hilarious
This is funny, right? She had. Did a photo shoot with Janelle where she had on these hazel color contexts. She had this big curly like.
Deval Ellis
Yeah, it was like a big wig. I look like different.
Just Hilarious
She didn't like herself like somebody else. I was like, yo. I was like, yo, I want you put on a cheerleader outfit.
Deval Ellis
That's what it was.
Just Hilarious
Bomb, right? So now she's like, I got you, babe.
DJ Envy
This was.
Just Hilarious
This was New Year. We were at our parents house. We was having quiet sex for a couple days. So we was over it, right? I don't want. No, I'm trying to back that.
Charlamagne tha God
You know what I'm saying? All that.
Just Hilarious
So we get home in Cali, right? I'm ready. I'm sitting at the edge of the bed. I'm waiting. She come out, out. There's no weave. There was no contacts and she had on the leotard.
Deval Ellis
It was this real cute savage. It was a vibe. I had a little thigh high to go with it.
Charlamagne tha God
And I was like, this is not what I asked.
Deval Ellis
And he was like, yo, this is literally what happened. That's not what I asked for.
Just Hilarious
She walked over all seductively like she had music. We had a fireplace. She put the fireplace on.
Charlamagne tha God
She's.
Deval Ellis
I was sitting in the room.
Just Hilarious
She's sexy, right? I'm sitting straight, face like this, right? So she get down. She got her hands on my knees. She going down right there and she get to the bottom and she like, what's up? Like, this is like, what's this?
Deval Ellis
Nothing for you, sir.
Just Hilarious
I'm like, where the context she like devout. I'm downstairs right now handling business. And I said, no weave, no contact. And you got on this dirty ass leotard that said.
Jess Hilarious
Dustin.
Just Hilarious
I said Dustin.
Deval Ellis
This dusty ass leotard. I'm like, first of all, it's not a leotard, it's a teddy.
Lauren LaRosa
And I had a stained up.
Deval Ellis
It was no.
Lauren LaRosa
Hey, what up y'all?
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Just Hilarious
I was just mad. I was just mad.
Deval Ellis
And I was like, so because you did not get exactly what you asked.
Lauren LaRosa
For, it's a problem.
Kadeen Ellis
I'm still here to do the job.
Just Hilarious
And she didn't even have heels on, so I got mad. So I got up and I go in the bathroom, right? But it just so happened. When I walk in the bathroom, I seen all her heels lined up in the closet. And we had just moved to this big house. I said, you got all these heels here. You ain't put no heels on. So I go in there and I throw all the heels out the closet.
Morgan
What the.
Deval Ellis
He sure did.
Charlamagne tha God
Now this is the funny thing. And I'm getting.
Deval Ellis
I'm standing up. I was like, you gotta pick every shoe up. Are you kidding me?
Just Hilarious
She says to me, look at your stupid ass in there throwing heels around. And you're still hard. Yeah, that's what broke me out of it.
Charlamagne tha God
That's what broke me out of it.
Just Hilarious
I looked at her, I started laughing. And we started laughing after that. It was a rap. It was just like, yo, look.
DJ Envy
Yeah, it was like, look at us.
Just Hilarious
Like, look at.
Charlamagne tha God
Like, look at us.
Deval Ellis
I can pick all the shoes up.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah.
Just Hilarious
So this is shoes. We sat there, we picked the shoes up. Then we got one time.
Deval Ellis
It's like he asked for one thing and I was like, here, I'm doing something else cute. And he was like, sound like y'all was role playing.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah, he was.
Lauren LaRosa
Y'all never.
Just Hilarious
If it's marriage, yo, that's fun.
Charlamagne tha God
You sound like a Tyler Perry scene. You throwing the heels. Look at you throwing these heels and you still hard.
Lauren LaRosa
No. Did y'all. Y'all never thought about doing a reality show?
Deval Ellis
We've turned out sad.
Shanti Das
We turned down don't do it on your YouTube channel. So why not why we control everything.
Just Hilarious
Everything. One. One thing I fear because we sat down with. And I don't want to put producers out there. We've sat down with number of producers, right? This is always the first thing. This. Come on. So and so. I know. I know y'all. You're perfect.
DJ Envy
I get it.
Just Hilarious
Right? So there's nothing. You don't have anybody. Like, she's not. And I'm. I'm like, the first meeting, you're coming to me and asking me things. Disparaging things that I could say about my wife. Like, I'm not doing this.
Lauren LaRosa
I get it.
Just Hilarious
I got four sons, and that's what you want me to do, right? No, I. Personally, I know this is gonna get some slack, but I love Bill Cosby. Right? Not for the things that he did, but for what he represented. This man was so brilliant in the fact that he had a black psychologist on the set of the Cosby show every day to make sure that everything they put out didn't show black people in a disparaging way. Right? Like, when you think about the Cosby Show, a different world. Lil Bill. This is the content we want to create. We have a cartoon series that we've been pitching for about our kids called the Ellis's in the Time Machine, because we wrote a book called the Ellison the Time Machine. Why do we have to say Black Lives Matter and it's an animated series about history? These are the things I want to do. I don't want to get on television and argue with my wife about trivial stuff. I'm also not going to include my. Right. For example, you friends with Jess. Hilarious. What's she like? I know that's the stuff they ask, and I'm like, I'm not doing that. So we're not doing the reality show thing unless we own it.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Charlamagne tha God
Listen, man, Duvall and Kadeen Ellis. I love talking to y'all because growing as individuals is a lot by itself, but growing as a couple is insanity. If you're not constantly communicating, you know, you might wake up one day and not know who that person is. So we can learn anything from y'all. You have to constantly communicate with your partner.
DJ Envy
Yes, sir. Indeed.
Deval Ellis
And thanks for growing with us, too, Charlemagne. I mean, we've been on the Breakfast Club a couple times. Our third time. I appreciate you for always rocking with us, and it's so great to meet y'all in this space. Congratulations.
Lauren LaRosa
That's work that y'all making other people.
Just Hilarious
Same thing here. Like the things y'all are Doing here talking about mental health. I can't stand politics because it gets on my nerves. But bringing the information to people is all we can do. Right. The greatest thing you can get give humans is inspiration.
Charlamagne tha God
That's right.
Just Hilarious
And the Breakfast Club is inspiring people. I hope y'all know that. We appreciate y'all, man. This has been a part of our lives living here.
Lauren LaRosa
Thank you.
Just Hilarious
Yes. And my kids know y'all, too.
Charlamagne tha God
The kids listen.
Deval Ellis
We keep them still very, very New York.
DJ Envy
Let's get to the latest one.
Lauren LaRosa
Becoming a street F. She gets to.
DJ Envy
Do somebody that knows somebody.
Shanti Das
I'm the homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
Charlamagne tha God
She be having the latest on the Latest with Lauren LaRosa. Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes she have a little bit everything. What was the latest on the Breakfast Club?
Shanti Das
Michelle Evans, who has come out and claimed in now a civil suit that Shannon Sharp sexually assaulted her, has spoken out in an interview interview about the allegations. Let's take a listen to Michelle speaking on her alleged rape.
Jess Hilarious
What happened that day?
Kadeen Ellis
It was fighting. It was the biggest argument that we ever got in. You know, he. He was manhandling me beforehand, and he wanted to have sex, and I told him no. Because you gave it to somebody else. I didn't only tell him no. I told him why. He wouldn't take no for an answer. So he overpowered me, put me to my knees, put his penis in my mouth. And after he got enough of that, he put me on the bed. And, you know, this was all a struggle, so I had said no. It was the hardest. Yeah, this is too hard. I remember he got dressed. He knew what he did, and so, you know, I just kind of escorted him out the door.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah, you just. Melanette?
DJ Envy
No, I was talking about the smell, but go ahead. Oh, I smelled it earlier, though. I know what you're talking about.
Shanti Das
And then she talks about. Because I think a lot of people have a question of why didn't she go and file a police report at the time. She talks about that as well. Let's take a listen.
Kadeen Ellis
He started coming at me. If I tell anybody, he'll use everybody he knows to destroy me, which he basically has. Then he started making other threats, threats against my life. He just was so worried that it would get out and I wasn't gonna do anything. He told me he was watching me and all that. I just went and got a protective order. Unfortunately, shortly after, he doxed me and my address got out. And I had somebody stop by my apartment and somebody Came up to my door and said shut up. Screamed it at the top of their lungs. And I had my daughter in there, right there. And I was like, oh no. And so I went and I dropped it because also at my house somebody came and sat out front of in the driveway while my daughter was there a lot alone.
Jess Hilarious
Why didn't you file a police report when he raped you?
Kadeen Ellis
Because I was scared for my life. Everybody he knows and he knows lots of police officers. So I, I didn't know that if I went down there that that would be one of the people that he knows.
Shanti Das
Now this, this has been interesting conversation following the claims that have come from the 50 million dollar lawsuit that was filed by the only fans woman that Shannon Sharp also named. Because even in this interview she speaks directly to her and she like, I know what you're going through because I've. The same thing happened to me. She, you know, she mentioned that her address allegedly was leaked. She also talked about a time where, you know, she was working at CNN and Shannon Sharp had, you know, gotten an interview with the job and during the interview he talked about the fact that the protective order was dropped, but it was centered allegedly at that time as if it was dropped because it wasn't substantial.
DJ Envy
Right.
Shanti Das
She said that it went a different way. Let's take a listen to this last audio.
Kadeen Ellis
Then he started going on television. He came to my job, job, Turner Broadcasting, went on TV at cnn and it was my job to put the videos from up to YouTube for CNN. So I'm putting up this video and here I see Shannon at my job talking about domestic violence. And the co host mentioned that, oh you, you had one that was just totally dropped, made it look like the police dropped it, you know, not that I had gone down and withdrawn it. It created a picture that wasn't accurate.
Shanti Das
Now she, she's called.
Charlamagne tha God
So she had press charges against Shannon back in the day.
Shanti Das
She had asked for a protective order which would make it where he can't come within, you know, like a certain radius of her and things of that nature.
DJ Envy
And she did it back then. Oh, she didn't.
Shanti Das
She did it back then. But she said that she. So according to Michelle Evans, she went to, you know, police and said, can y'all just drop this? I wanted to go away because she alleges that she was basically being like taunted, like people would pop up and her daughter was around. So she didn't want her daughter like, you know, anything that happened. She feared for her life, allegedly. Right. But when Shannon, she Sharp's team responded to this. They called her claims ridiculous and completely without merit. They say that, you know, and then they point to the fact that this case is still ongoing. The. The defamation suit that she filed in 2023, and that a judge denied her request for order of protection. And he had mentioned this in the beginning, probably like a couple weeks ago, he dropped a statement that I received. And they called this, you know, just people coming out of the woodworks to try and share a connection with Shannon Sharp and attempt to profit off of a relationship. Relationship. They say it's, you know, her alleged targeting is purposeful designer create a fabricated narrative. But, you know, when this video came out, people were. Because we were trying to figure out who Michelle Evans was. I think a lot of people didn't remember that suit back in 2013. I'm 2023.
DJ Envy
So this is all familiar, Pretty much.
Lauren LaRosa
That white lady name is Michelle Evans.
Shanti Das
Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
So is that the Michelle in the lab?
Shanti Das
She hasn't confirmed that she was or was not the Michelle in the lab, but I doubt it because they've been. They've been going through legal litigations for almost 15 years now. So I doubt that he would have been on Live with Homegirl. I hope not.
DJ Envy
Well, you said 2020 23, but this.
Shanti Das
All, like all of their issues began in 2010.
DJ Envy
Got you.
Shanti Das
Yes. And that's when the. There was. Since 2010 to now, there's been a protective order that was then not a protective any order anymore. And a defamation lawsuit.
Lauren LaRosa
She was cheating on her husband with. With him.
Shanti Das
Yes, that's what she says. Yep. Monique over the weekend, too, has something to say about the Shannon Sharp stuff on stage. I believe she was in Indianapolis. You know, she's still torn and hitting the stages. Let's take a look. Listen.
Charlamagne tha God
What she say?
Shanti Das
She said.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, we can't really hear White Shalom.
Shanti Das
Yeah, she. She was talking about the clip from her on Club S.H. shay where she's telling him to leave the young girls and the white women alone. Yeah.
Lauren LaRosa
Crazy.
Shanti Das
So all of this is like one thing after the other with the Shannon Sharp situation, but he still is denying all allegations?
Lauren LaRosa
Of course.
Charlamagne tha God
Have you said it, he said anything recently?
DJ Envy
No.
Shanti Das
So the last statement that he dropped, it was a. It was like last week, early last week, which was what I would just read from. They basically gave this long statement that said all of this is purposeful. These women know what they're doing. Allegedly. It's a shakedown. We're not going to keep addressing these things because these are fabricated. Stories. And every time I reach back out for any additional statements. I did do that today because of the interview, and I did it on Sunday. They normally point to this statement, but I'll see if they give me anything additional.
Lauren LaRosa
But Michelle Evans is still married, right?
Shanti Das
Oh, I don't know if she's still with her man or not.
DJ Envy
Didn't she say something in an interview like, I, I don't know if I was cheating at the time or something like that. It was a weird line that was kind of weird.
Shanti Das
She couldn't remember. I thought that that was weird too. She couldn't remember whether she actually broke up with because she said. She alleges that Shannon Sharp wanted her to break up with her husband, but she got upset because he had a girl in his house that he moved out and then moved another girl in. And she didn't know. So she didn't want to have sex with him, allegedly. The day when he showed up and allegedly raped her because she was mad because he was dealing with other women but wanted her to himself. Allegedly. But she couldn't remember whether she cut it off with her husband or not.
DJ Envy
Yeah. All right. Well, that is the latest with Lauren. Sh. Man, who you giving your donkey to, man?
Charlamagne tha God
Four after the. Four after the hour. Speaking of distressed white women, we need Shiloh Hendricks to come to the front of the congregation. We like to have a word with her, please.
DJ Envy
All right, we'll get to that. Next, it's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Charlamagne tha God
You're checking out the Breakfast Club on the main. Say the gang.
Just Hilarious
Don't get other.
Lauren LaRosa
Sh.
Charlamagne tha God
Man, you are a donkey. It's time for donkey of the day. Donkey of the day does not discriminate.
Just Hilarious
I might not have the song of.
Charlamagne tha God
The day, but I got the donkey today. So if you ever feel I need to be a donkey man, hit it with the hero. Yes, the Breakfast Club.
DJ Envy
Who's donkey of the day today?
Charlamagne tha God
Well, Ed Sheeran, Donkey of the day for Monday, May 5, Cinco de Mayo goes to a stink ass Mayo named Shiloh Hendricks. Okay. Oh, the mayonnaise is heavy with this one, ladies and gentlemen. See, there is a human jar of Hellmans amongst us and her name is Shiloh Hendricks. Now, from what we've gathered, Shiloh appeared to hurl a racist slur at a black child. Okay. She appeared to call a five year old child the N word at a park in Minnesota because she said the five year old took her son's stuff. Now, according to the person who recorded the video, Shar make Omar, he said the little boy is on the autism spectrum. So she called this five year old little black boy the N word because the little boy allegedly took her son's stuff. Let's go to KTTC News for the report, please.
Jess Hilarious
The woman accused of using racial slurs against a boy at a Rochester park captured in a now viral video appears to have identified herself publicly in a sizable crowdfunding effort.
Morgan
Effort?
Jess Hilarious
A user on a crowdfunding site identifying as Shiloh Hendricks has increased her fundraising goal to $1 million. Regarding the incident at the park, the user writes, quote, I recently had a kid steal from my 18 month old son's diaper bag at a park. I called the kid out for what he was, end quote. KTTC reported yesterday that Rochester police are actively looking into the viral video showing a woman holding a small child making racist slurs in reference to another child.
Deval Ellis
At the playground who she claims had.
Jess Hilarious
Taken something that belonged to her child. The person recording the video alludes to the child being targeted as having special needs. On its fundraising page, the NAACP acknowledged the woman in question's fundraising effort, writing, quote, many of the comments from her supporters celebrate and justify her hate, end quote.
Charlamagne tha God
So much to unpack here. First of all, completely unnecessary, okay? Excessive use of racism. Listen, there's going to be times that the bigger than us rears its ugly head, okay? There are going to be times when random acts of racist thoughts pop up in your mind, okay? That doesn't mean you can act on them. I'm not gonna sit here and lie to y'all and act like I haven't thought about these things, okay? White man cut you off in traffic, you're gonna think to yourself, cracker, ass, cracker. Okay? That was at Universal Studios last weekend. Literally about to get on the elevator with my family. And in this couple, a man and a woman, I believe they were Mexican, they came running and cut in front of us and just jumped on the elevator and closed the door. The first thing that came to my mind was, now, see, if I call lice, I'll be wrong.
DJ Envy
Why do you think they were Mexican?
Charlamagne tha God
What you mean? I got eyes. Hell's wrong with you? But listen to me, everything I told you was thoughts, okay? I didn't act on anything because I'm not that kind of person. Regardless of what my mind tells me from time to time, I attempt to be the change I want to see in the world. I believe in equality for all. So there's no reason on God's green earth other than the mental illness called racism for Shiloh to be calling this little five year old boy the N word. Out. Like out. Okay. Now, Sharma Omar asked Shiloh a valid question. He said, and I'm paraphrasing, does this child taking your son's stuff merit you calling him the N word? She replied, if that's what he's gonna act like. Let me tell you something. We all know that N s gonna egg. But this little boy is five, okay? His behavior is simply that of a five year old. What do you mean, Shiloh? If that's what he's gonna act like, he's five life. Okay? Five year olds act like five year olds. At five, they're just beginning to understand social and emotional development. So if he took something from your son, then you simply find his parents, tell them, and then they can tell their child, don't do things like that. That's not yours. It's simple. But you were racist, so you was just looking for a reason to let the N word fly. Now, would you like to hear the actual audio from the park? Yes. Let's listen.
DJ Envy
Nobody dig into you.
Jess Hilarious
A little kid just did.
DJ Envy
You d that little kid. You call him the little child. Are you about to hit him?
Charlamagne tha God
You chase him here?
Just Hilarious
He took my son's stuff. So you.
Deval Ellis
So that gives you the right to.
Just Hilarious
Call the child 5 year old and N word.
DJ Envy
If that's what he's going to act, that's what you're going to call him. That's what he's going to act like. You know that's a hate speech and you can be that.
Charlamagne tha God
I don't give a. Lord have mercy. Now let's talk about the fundraising. Shiloh decided to become the victim. Okay? She set up a fundraising page for herself which she titled help me protect my family. Okay. In case you missed the news report, she claimed in the page description that she is now in a dire situation. She says, I recently had a kid steal from my 18 month old son's diaper bag in a park. I called the kid out for what he was. Then she claimed that members of her members of her family are being attacked. Attacked. And her personal information, including her address and phone number, has been leaked. You aren't being attacked, Shiloh. You are being called out and held accountable because you called a little five year old boy the N word. And accountability feels like an attack when you're not ready to acknowledge your toxic behavior. Now, Shiloh concluded her message by asking for funds to assist in protecting my family and potentially relocate. Yet another example that free speech ain't Free. Why are you using words that you can't afford to use? Shiloh. Shiloh. Now, Shiloh's fundraising goal was originally set for 50 grand. But as you heard in the news report, it was increased to $1 million after that initial amount was reached. And as of yesterday, Sunday, May 4, she has raised over $624,000 because she called a little five year old boy the N word. And you wonder why some people spell America with three K's. Now, first thing I did was look into the fundraisers policy, policies and Gibsongo, that's the name of the platform. Gibson Go. Gibson Go said the company does not endorse or condone the personal views are actions of individual campaign organizers, audience supporters, nor do we control the motivations of donors. Basically is nothing they can do about it. Okay. There is no violation on their end. But you do know, Give, send, go. That you are complicit in rewarding racism. Call it what it is. They are rewarding Shiloh's racism. Only in America can you call a five year old boy to entertain word. Okay. Get called out on it and then play victim and raise almost $700,000 because of your bigotry. That's crazy. Well, this is a free country, ladies and gentlemen. And there is such thing as freedom of speech. Even though we know there is a cost to every word that comes out of your mouth, some people are willing to pay that price. And in the case of Shiloh Hendricks, she didn't pay the price. She actually ended up getting paid. Just always remember though, freedom of speech works both ways. So with that said said, please let Chelsea Handler give Shiloh Hendricks the biggest hee haw.
DJ Envy
He haw.
Jess Hilarious
Hee haw.
Charlamagne tha God
That is way too much, Dan Mayonnaise. Let Kathy Griffin get in on that too.
Kadeen Ellis
Please give this giant jar of mayo.
Charlamagne tha God
The biggest hee haw. What about my guy, Chris Rock? You got something to say, cracker? Ass cracker. Is my girl still working the drive thru? She work in the drive through today. Oh, okay. Just making sure everybody gets the right to express their freedom of speech.
DJ Envy
All right.
Lauren LaRosa
That's crazy disgusting.
DJ Envy
All right. Thank you for that donkey today.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes, indeed.
DJ Envy
Now when we come back, today is national silence, the shame day.
Charlamagne tha God
Shantae Do.
DJ Envy
That's right. Shanti do will be joining us. We're gonna talk to her next. She's a mental health advocate, ex music industry vet. She has so much to do with our outcast and those early days. We're gonna talk to her when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club. Good Morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy with are the Breakfast Club. It is Mental Health Awareness Month. What we do each and every May, May 5th, to be exact. Silence, the Shame Day. And we have a very special guest, Shanti Das.
Charlamagne tha God
Welcome back, Shanti.
Lauren LaRosa
How are you, boo?
DJ Envy
How you feeling?
Kadeen Ellis
I'm feeling good, actually. So 10 years ago, I almost took my own life. Well, it'll be 10 years in September, so this is like my year of rebirth. That's what I'm calling it. And I'm in such a good place.
DJ Envy
Amen.
Kadeen Ellis
In space. And I have really accepted being, like, this mental health advocate and doing this work and not being stressed about going back in the music industry, even though I'm still proud of my boys. Like Outkast, you know, gonna be inducted into the hall of Fame. And so it's just. It's good. I'm feeling really good. So thanks for asking.
Charlamagne tha God
Before we get into Silence, the Shame Day, and Mental Health Awareness Month, I do want to ask you, what does Outkast being inducted into the Rock and Roll hall of Fame mean to you? Because you was there from day one.
Kadeen Ellis
It means everything.
Charlamagne tha God
Day zero, actually.
DJ Envy
Yeah.
Kadeen Ellis
Play as well was the first record I ever worked. And so shout out to Andre Big, the late Rico Way organized noise. It's like the holy grail right, of music. And so they finally achieved that. And I couldn't be more proud and just to have been there passing out, like, cassettes, doing Freak Nick and, you know, the southern playlist that could be on.
DJ Envy
The documentary, the freak documentary. I did see you on there when they were talking about you were giving out, you'd have to go there.
Kadeen Ellis
It's crazy. Like, whenever I see Too Short, he was like, yo, you gave me that cassette. And was like, yo, check out my new group, Outkast. They're gonna be dope. And he laughed. We laugh about it all the time.
Charlamagne tha God
Did you know that Outkast would become the global iconic superstars that they became?
Kadeen Ellis
I mean, you never know, right? But I had the O on my chest, right? The L on my chest. LaFace Outkast. And I just was really committed and dedicated because I knew that the A was gonna support them. It was a different sound. And like, you know, in Atlanta, we grew up supporting east coast rap, west coast rap, but we didn't really have our own. Even though we had people like Shaadee, they hadn't really received national attention, right? And we would always wear, like, dodges hats or Yankees hats. But finally we could wear, like, the Falcons, you know, logo gear and the brace gear, because big boy Andre made that cool. And they really brought, like, Atlanta to the world, like Usher's doing now on his tour.
Shanti Das
Right.
Kadeen Ellis
He bringing the A to the world. But outkast set that up initially and really transformed hip hop.
Charlamagne tha God
Absolutely.
Kadeen Ellis
I know they transform Southern hip hop, but look at, like, a lot of the artists that are still influential, they're still from the South. And so to have been at the forefront of that and been right there with them, like, I can't explain it. Like, it kind of solidified even just me and my journey and what I've been able to contribute to the music culture.
Charlamagne tha God
Outkast is arguably the greatest hip hop group of all time and one of the greatest groups, period, in music of all time. Yeah.
Kadeen Ellis
100. Yep.
DJ Envy
You know, so when you started the show, you were talking about your rebirth, right? You thought about committing suicide 10 years ago. Now, with this day and age, what do you tell somebody that's possibly thinking the same thing? You know, it's stressful. You know, they looking at the price of everything going up. It's hard to get a job. They're looking at politics, and they might feel left out. They might feel like there's no place for them. So what do you tell that person? Especially in this social media world where nobody wants to be your friend and it's a very evil place, what do you tell that person, that individual?
Kadeen Ellis
First of all, it's like, honor your feelings. If you're not feeling good, you gotta acknowledge that. Right? I coined this new little acronym, rap. Rapping through your problems. The R is being able to recognize those unfamiliar feelings. The A in rap is acknowledging and accepting. Right. That something. Right. I don't feel like myself. And the P is being able to process through those feelings with a licensed professional counselor or someone, you know, that can actually help you. Even if you call your pcp, your primary doctor, say, I'm not feeling like myself. So you got to be able to recognize, accept, and acknowledge those feelings and understand that you got to protect your peace at all costs. You got to be unapologetic right now more so than ever, because like you said, like, we're getting hit in a lot of different directions, and people be like, oh, yeah, we all in this together. Not really. We might be in the same storm, but we ain't in the same boat.
Charlamagne tha God
That's real, right?
DJ Envy
And we're.
Kadeen Ellis
Whether it's socioeconomic factors, lack of access to care, like, it's not the same and we can't pretend that it's the same. And I know we have people that, you know, want to help and do more. But you got to dig deep inside yourself. Because even when I was going through my suicidal ideation, I had to dig into my faith and my spirituality, and I had to also talk to people and let people in. So that's truly important. And then I tell people, you got to remove things that aren't serving you anymore. You can't just be a people pleaser, like, let go of the scrolling, the doom scrolling and all of that and really focus and be present with yourself. And sometimes therapy isn't for everyone, but doing, like, sound baths or getting out walking, immersing yourself in nature, like, all of that really matters. And like, for me now, if I'm not feeling good, because I still go through my moments, yeah, I'll just get up and go outside and take a walk or I'll tell people, like, hey, I need a minute. And it's okay. That's your time, that's your mind, that's your body, that's your spirit. So you got to really take ownership of your mental health and wellness. Because every day y'all is something different. Like, I'm like, am I in a movie? Like, did I get scripted into something I didn't sign up for? Because it's really scary. I know you can't believe everything you see on social media, but I try to go to reputable outlets, right? Like the Breakfast Club. But I saw on one of the other outlets that federal government is considering, like, canceling $1 billion of funding for mental health for students, being able to provide additional counselors and that sort of thing in school systems across the nation. And that's really scary. And we know how mental health is affecting young kids because of this little thing right here, right? And I don't just only blame. I don't only blame social media, but it's a lot of pressure, and these kids need the support. So, y'all, we gotta fight back and fight back in terms of protecting your peace, getting the help you need, reaching out to organizations like Silence of Shame. There's a super dope lady I met last week at the Accelerate Her Con conference in Miami. Her name is Ashante, and she does a lot of healing. Healing. And so she just talked about the importance of, like, really immersing yourself in these healing practices with everything that's going on, right? And so I'm recommitting myself, right? To whatever I'm doing is giving time for Shanti. If I gotta set an appointment at 3 o'clock during the day for Shanti to, like, step away and take a moment and breathe or get a massage or do something like, you just gotta do it, y'all.
DJ Envy
What do you advise for people to find their happy place, right? So I realized, like, my biggest happy place is my family, right? I can cut off. I. I enjoy watching my daughters dance. I enjoy watching my son play soccer. I enjoy talking to the kids cooking. So I. I found my happy place, right? How do you tell somebody to find their happy place where, you know, how do you do that? Because it has to be a place where they just let go and release 100%.
Kadeen Ellis
But think about some of the most joyful times. And I know everybody's life wasn't the same, so let me start with that. Some people did not have a happy upbringing. And I'm sorry for that, right? If. If that was your truth in your journey. But if you did have fun when you were growing up, go back to when you were like 8 years old. Like, what, you want me to play with Legos, whatever. No, but, you know, what do you. What did you used to do to make you happy?
Charlamagne tha God
Playing outside. That's why I love grounding so much. I tell adults that all the time. Take your shoes off. Especially now that it's won't take your shoes off. Take your socks off. Go walk around barefoot in the grass. Just run around the yard. Ride your bike. Like, think about how joyous you felt as a kid when you simply played outside.
Kadeen Ellis
I was over my cousin's house the other day, and I started playing with the Ruby's Cube, and I was like, yo, I forgot how much I love this. And it had me going for like an hour. But just find things that used to bring you joy.
DJ Envy
Get your Barbie doll, Jess.
Lauren LaRosa
Period. Oh, I'm already happy and overjoyed, so I don't need to go.
Kadeen Ellis
You got to find that inner child that is so important.
Charlamagne tha God
Absolutely.
DJ Envy
All right, we got more with Shanti do when we come back. Today is National Silence, the Shame Day. So don't go anywhere. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning. Good morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlamagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We're still kicking with Shanti Das. Today is National Silence, the Shame Day Charlemagne.
Charlamagne tha God
I want to ask you this Shanti Boss suicide, like, sometimes. I'm sure you're familiar with the Mel Robbins let them theory, right? Which is basically let people make their own choices.
Kadeen Ellis
Like, whatever it is they want to do.
Charlamagne tha God
So sometimes you hear adults complaining, you know, nothing is ever going right for them. They all, they always telling you, you know, about all the bad that's happening in their world. They talk to you about wanting to commit suicide side. And you strangely start to understand where they, where they're, where they're coming from.
Kadeen Ellis
Oh, yeah.
Charlamagne tha God
You know, and you realize encouraging them to, to get help isn't working. So do you just let those people make their own choices?
Kadeen Ellis
Like, that's a, that's a really great question. It's a tough question. At the same time, you know, the thing about it, the reason why with silence, the shame. We try to provide as many resources as possible, but you can't make someone do something right that they don't want to do. But you can try to be a positive influence in their lives. And so I've talked to people, people, you know, who have been contemplating, and I've shared my story. That's why I think storytelling is so important. People have to speak up and share their stories around it. I don't think you just kind of like, relinquish everything and let it go, but you try to be there for them and keep encouraging them as much as possible and putting resources in front of them and showing them how other people have survived. Because, you know, the last thing you want to do is kind of wash your hands of it and then, you know, a week or two later or something happens.
Charlamagne tha God
But then, yes, you're right. But then we also got to protect our people.
Kadeen Ellis
Oh, 100.
Charlamagne tha God
So it's just like.
Kadeen Ellis
So you do it to the extent, to your point that you are kind of protecting your peace. Because again, you know, people have choices, right? God. God gave man and woman choice. So you can only do so much. But. And then, you know, our faith comes into play. You know, I'm a woman of faith, and so I'll continue to pray for that person. So, yeah, do what you can as much as possible. Put the resources in front of them and, you know, let's hope and pray for them the best. But a lot of times when people aren't.
Lauren LaRosa
Hey, what up, y'all?
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Kadeen Ellis
They don't know how to get the help right or they need somebody to say, hey, I'll go to the doctor with you or I'll. I'll help y'all walk with you through this process and you can only do what you can do.
Charlamagne tha God
And you were right. So Trump administration did discontinue $1 billion in school mental health grants and the grant supported hiring school psychologists and counselors and it was funded by bipartisan legislation that was passed after the 2022 to massacre at Uvalde, Texas.
Kadeen Ellis
Yeah cause see a lot of schools sometimes they might have one counselor for like 10 schools and it's like the number of kids that are in crisis, like that's just not enough help and support and sometimes they're not licensed professional counselors. They just may be social workers, which. Social workers are great. But oftentimes, if these kids need to learn how to get through the crisis that they're in, they need someone that's licensed.
Morgan
Right.
Kadeen Ellis
And more of a professional counselor. So, you know, y'all gotta call your legislators, you know, talk to your senators, talk to your congressmen and women. And, you know, we. We got to push back on this because we need that funding, right? We need to keep pouring into our kids.
DJ Envy
I was going to ask, do you see the suicide rates going up and depression going up, or do you see a stabilizer? Do you see it coming down with all the mental health talk and all the, you know, platforms and places where people have to go now? What do you see?
Kadeen Ellis
So from what I think the last study that I saw was, like, from 2021 or either 2022, and suicide rates, particularly for Black youth, were up 30%. You know, a lot of those studies, they. They don't happen every single year. Right. Those large pool of research studies. But there has been an uptick, rather even just two weeks ago, there was a young man in Atlanta who happened to have gone to prom two years ago. And then some of my other friends, cousins, knew him. He took his own life. You know, so I still see. I'm still getting texts and comments about these young people, like, taking their own lives. And so. So it's still prevalent.
DJ Envy
Are they blaming it on social media? Is that what they're saying? It is. Are they saying lack of resources in the school? Like, what are they saying? The reason is, I'm always curious because I just feel like when we were growing up, we were just as bad, but we just didn't have that social media element where people were constantly going at us.
Charlamagne tha God
I don't think we had the language, nor do I think we had the same spaces to even express those issues. My dad was dealing with all types of mental health issues that he never talked to me about until I was 40 years old.
Kadeen Ellis
And we didn't know how to name it or what to call it either. Right.
DJ Envy
But even with all that, it's getting worse. It should be getting better now that your dad could talk and that I can talk and be open and just could talk. But I feel like it should be getting better, but it doesn't seem like it is.
Kadeen Ellis
Well, you know, I don't know if I can pinpoint it on one particular thing, envy. But I do think it is still a lack of resources in some areas, because still in Underserved communities. People know about it, but they aren't taking that next step. That's why I'm proud. I have an announcement. So we created this PSA campaign, and it was around black men's mental health, and it was called Healing the Spaces Between Us. And so it was a grandfather, a father and a son. And we just got nominated for a Southeast Emmy, y'all.
Charlamagne tha God
Oh, nice.
Lauren LaRosa
Congratulations.
Kadeen Ellis
So shout out to Megan Shorjo Pringle, who is our creative director in Oak Films, who put it together, but nice. You know, we're really trying to push that narrative, especially to, you know, young black men and their grandparents and their fathers. Y'all get together and talk about it. Nothing to be ashamed about, but you gotta put your cars out on the table and talk about it.
Charlamagne tha God
Last week was Black Children's Mental Health Day, right?
DJ Envy
Yep.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes.
Kadeen Ellis
So two years ago, Senator Anderson in state of Georgia wrote a resolution designating May 1 as Black Children's Mental Health Day in Georgia. On behalf of Silence of Shame. We'd love to do that in New York. So maybe we could partner with the Mental Wealth Alliance.
Charlamagne tha God
Let's do it.
Kadeen Ellis
And designate May 1st in New York State, because, again, we're trying to just bring awareness to the problems that's going on. So we can try to, you know, cut off those. The numbers. Right. That keep increasing for suicides among black people.
DJ Envy
Absolutely.
Charlamagne tha God
And, you know, this is mental health awareness this month, and there's always a lot of focus on raising awareness.
Just Hilarious
Right.
Charlamagne tha God
But how do we move past just awareness and start, like, action steps for actual healing?
Kadeen Ellis
Again, I think, you know, you got to meet people where they're at. Again, you talked about the uncertain times, like part of our. We have a mental health toolkit on silence of shame.com A number of things that you can do to honor the month and to push resources out to the community. So one of the areas we're focusing on is fire and rescue, because we've seen all these natural disasters and things happening in the world. So we're pushing out resources that are targeted to the firefighters and to people that are out there on the front lines. Also, we did a toolkit for the federal workers. A lot of people that have been let go. I think maybe half of the people that got let go were due to the cuts within this administration. And so we want to talk directly to those that are suffering from a federal employee perspective, letting them know to establish a routine. Even though you got let go, get your daily routine going, even if it's like looking for that next job, like, establish a routine so you can protect your peace and practice mindfulness and reach out if you need support. So we're trying to target specific subgroups and people within the community. And so you just gotta. You gotta be forceful in a way about it so that we are unapologetic about healing and getting help that we need. But looking at specific groups of people, because we can all say, we're all in this together. Mental health is important. We know we got to take care of it. But when you talk directly at a specific group of people, I think that's when you start moving the needle and getting people to listen.
Charlamagne tha God
Absolutely.
DJ Envy
Well, how can people. If they want to tap in and they want to hear or more information or they want to help, how can they get involved?
Kadeen Ellis
First of all, Visit our website, silenceashame.com Again, today is national Silence to Shame Day, and we have a campaign. It's May 5th. We just want people. People to get $5. You know, the $5. I will say, if it's too difficult for you, please save your money, pay your rent. You do whatever you got to do. But if you can spare $5 or more, you can text the word silence to 707070. Also understand that 988 is a free resources out there. We recently partnered with the city of Atlanta. Shout out to Mayor Dickens and Courtney English, who came together with us, and we're pushing 988 out to everybody that's in, you know, the city of Atlanta and beyond, and, you know, just really trying to make sure that we're pushing as many resources to the community as possible. So please support us. Y'all talk about it. Don't just, you know, if you're a young person and you listen to the Breakfast Club and you are, you know, going through something with a friend, talk about it. Don't just, like, throw some foul stuff on social media about that person. You know, be the bigger person. You know, be unapologetic about healing and letting go the things that don't serve you anymore.
Charlamagne tha God
All right, Absolutely. And one more question, Shanti. There's nobody that protects their Peace more than Andre 3000. Do you think he's even gonna come to the Rock and Roll hall of Fame?
DJ Envy
What's the under oval ceremony? I say he gonna be there.
Kadeen Ellis
I think he's coming. I will say. I called both Big and Dre after, you know, the announcement came out, and Andre, both of them were so excited. Dre was really excited. Okay, so we gonna. We gonna keep hope alive.
DJ Envy
Ashanti, Dallas. Ladies and gentlemen, today is Silence, the A Shame Day. Mental health awareness month. Of course, we appreciate you for joining us.
Kadeen Ellis
Thank y'all.
DJ Envy
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. Now let's get to the latest with Lauren.
Lauren LaRosa
Lauren becoming a straight fat.
DJ Envy
She gets them from somebody that knows somebody.
Charlamagne tha God
She gets the details.
Shanti Das
I'm the home girl that knows a little bit about everything.
Charlamagne tha God
She'd be having the latest on the Latest with Lauren LaRosa. Sometimes you have facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes she have a little bit of everything. Well, it's the latest on the Breakfast Club.
Shanti Das
All right, y'all. So Beyonce, y'all know how we have been talking about the Cowboy Carter tour? Well, she was just recently hit with a cease and desist lawsuit. Because according to the cease and desist. I'm sorry, she was just hit with a cease and desist, sis. Because according to the letter, she used a image of the Sphere in Vegas.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah.
Shanti Das
And she wasn't supposed to, according to the owners. So there is a man named James Dolan. He's the CEO of Sphere Entertainment, and he basically is saying that Beyonce, at one point, because do you remember or anybody remember when Beyonce was supposed to have that Las Vegas residency? It's. It's been rumored for a while.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah.
Shanti Das
And she was, like, in conversation, and then they said that the conversations dropped, like they just didn't go anywhere.
Lauren LaRosa
I never heard of that.
Shanti Das
Yeah, so it was supposed to happen. People were saying that it was rumored. Then it was rumors that she was in conversations with the Sphere in Vegas to do it there, but it didn't come. It didn't work out. So basically, she has this interlude video that she plays in the opening of one of her songs on the tour. And in that video, you see her walking. She's in Vegas. She goes all these different places, but she's in Vegas. In one of the scenes, she's walking past the Sphere. So fans, you know, they always trying to put two and two together together, started tweeting as if this meant that she was letting people know that the residency was finalized and would be happening in Vegas. So the Sphere, you know, their team, they're like, you can't use that. Like, you cannot allow your fans to think that something's gonna go down here that is not gonna go down. They also pointed to the fact that there were other properties in this video that she allegedly got permission to use, but she had never gotten Permission to just use that. It was such a quick shot too, like the visual of the sphere. So. So since then, it's been reported, based off of videos from people from the tour, that she's changed that opening interlude and that that visual of the sphere is not in there anymore.
Lauren LaRosa
But so was it creating, like, trouble or problems? Like, why was it such.
Shanti Das
Like, it was causing confusion.
Lauren LaRosa
Bother to them.
Shanti Das
It was causing confusion. Yeah. So according to a statement that, you know, the team on the opposing side released, their issue was that it was causing confusion amongst fans and amongst people who, you know, spend money at their business.
Lauren LaRosa
So basically, the fans were leaving a bunch of beehive emojis on Twitter and it was kid and said, look, don't shoulder spear.
Shanti Das
Maybe that's what it was. I'm not for sure. But they. They wanted it down.
Charlamagne tha God
I. I cease and desist. All right.
Shanti Das
Yeah. Yeah. But a lot of people feel like this was a petty shot from their behalf from James Dolan and their team. Because when all of the rooms know.
Charlamagne tha God
Who James Dolan is, right?
Shanti Das
Yes. He. Isn't he, like, head of scg. Yeah, but that's scg.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah. Nick's Ranger.
Shanti Das
Yeah. So people are saying that this was a petty shot from his side of things, because when the Beyonce negotiations that we don't really know the. The full gist of. So, you know, this is all alleged when they allegedly fell through, they're like, he's just upset that he couldn't get Beyonce to do, you know, this residency at one of his venues. So they're. They're doing any little thing to take a shot at her. That's how the fans feel. But, you know, I think as a business, I understand, like, they don't want the confusion, because anything with Beyonce, especially a Las Vegas residency, fans are going to make news.
Charlamagne tha God
The hardest thing to do is discuss business with people who ain't got nothing. Like, it's just. That just sounds like business to me. I don't. Could have been petty, maybe, but it just sounds like business.
DJ Envy
It did sound a little petty because it was a promo. So I would figure that you would want the spare in your promo when she's walking through Vegas, because it is part of Vegas now.
Charlamagne tha God
Right.
DJ Envy
When you pull up in Vegas, that's the first thing you see when you're on the plane. Yeah. So I figured that wouldn't be a problem, but I guess it was.
Shanti Das
Yeah. And she had. She actually was given a deadline. I believe the deadline was actually today to change things. So, you know, according to the Newly posted videos. That has changed. But over the weekend, like, her tour was the talk of the Internet and it was because of, like, just little mishats that were happening. And I'm like, with the tour going so viral, for all the good reasons. You seeing roomy? You seeing blue Ivy come out?
Lauren LaRosa
Blue has been what, baby? Blue is lil Beyonce.
Shanti Das
She's the one.
Lauren LaRosa
Hello.
Shanti Das
But there were a couple things that happened on stage. So there was one point where, like, Beyonce came out on stage and she couldn't find her mark. Like, the ex wasn't on the floor, which is really dangerous because she has this one scene in her tour where, like, these two, like, really big frames come down and, like, swing around her. So if she's not in the right.
DJ Envy
Mind, just gonna blow it up for people that hasn't been there yet.
Shanti Das
It's all over the Internet, by the way.
Charlamagne tha God
I did not see that at all.
Lauren LaRosa
That was the first time I ever saw her.
Shanti Das
I've never seen her nervous like that.
Lauren LaRosa
She was literally looking around like, hold up, you gotta stop singing.
Charlamagne tha God
But. But we also live in an era where people always look for the worst of the worst. They look for the negative. Because the only thing I saw was roomy and blue and everybody gives.
Shanti Das
I love them on the tour. But I think it was because. Not that people were, like, talking about her or her performance. We've never seen Beyonce, like, just not like you could tell. She was like, what the heck is going on? Like, why is this happening? Like, she was visibly, like, confused.
Lauren LaRosa
They forgot to put her mark down.
Shanti Das
Yep.
Lauren LaRosa
And she was looking at for it.
Charlamagne tha God
But we didn't see Beyonce fall. We don't see the fan almost snatch Beyonce wig off.
Shanti Das
I feel like this. These last, like, what was the. Even the couple of hiccups. There was a little hiccup on the Renaissance Store where she was on top of. I think it was that truck. But that came and went. But like, this happened. And then there was an issue with her glove. They were trying to put her glove on. She was annoyed with that as well. But I don't know. I think it's all good press. Of course, you know, as of right now, her team has not responded at all to the reports of the cease and desist, as they normally don't do. So not surprised.
Lauren LaRosa
Are you going to Cowboy Carter?
Shanti Das
I don't know if I plan to. I'd be down to go, though.
Lauren LaRosa
Okay.
Shanti Das
You going?
Lauren LaRosa
I don't know. I might go. There's so many tours going on. I know I'm gonna go See Chris Brown. It's his birthday. Happy birthday, Chris. And also it's Adele birthday. And Craig David. Y'all remember Craig David?
Charlamagne tha God
I do. He inspired Drake. That was Drake's big homie.
Lauren LaRosa
I don't know how we got here.
Charlamagne tha God
That was Drake's big homie.
Lauren LaRosa
I don't want to be like, and we be making love on Wednesday and on Thursday, Friday and Saturday. We staying on Sunday.
Shanti Das
Inspired Drake.
Charlamagne tha God
Because Craig David is from Toronto. If I'm not m. If I'm. If I'm remembering this correctly, Drake said that one of Craig David's albums was inspired.
Shanti Das
I love that.
Lauren LaRosa
You know, a Drake fact.
Shanti Das
And it's not a hater one either.
Lauren LaRosa
It's not. I love that.
Shanti Das
Crazy.
DJ Envy
It's about to go there, I'm sure. Watch this. Go.
Charlamagne tha God
Oh, there's no step.
Lauren LaRosa
Okay.
Shanti Das
And real quick, before we close, because I know he's such a friend to the show in front of you guys. Fat Joe posted over the weekend that his mom had passed away away at age 77. So, you know, just send him some love as they, you know, get through that hard time. He posted a really nice tribute to her on his Instagram. So go and check that out. Just talked about how amazing she was. They didn't have much, he says, but he made. She made sure that they had everything.
Charlamagne tha God
So salute to Joey Crack Show.
DJ Envy
To Joey Crack. Yeah. And you know, the sad thing about crack is, you know, Joe, Fat Joe lost his pops like a month ago. Remember we reported that he lost his brother, I think, like four months ago. So if you know Joe, give him a call, give him a hug, send him some love. Love. Love you, Joe. If you're listening.
Shanti Das
Absolutely.
Charlamagne tha God
And listen, I just want everybody to know that this building that we're currently in stinks.
DJ Envy
It does.
Charlamagne tha God
I don't know what the hell is going on. Okay. But it really, really, really smells in here. It smells like a retainer in the morning. You know when you sleep with your retainer, you take your retainer out.
DJ Envy
It smells like they haven't taken the g. They took the garbage out in a couple days.
Charlamagne tha God
Exactly what it smells like. Yeah, it smells like something backed up. That's what it really do smell like.
Kadeen Ellis
Really?
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah. That's.
Lauren LaRosa
I don't know, maybe the edibles just cut everything off for me, cuz I'm like, I don't know. I've been smelling.
Charlamagne tha God
Oh, you are celebrating single de mayo, yo.
Shanti Das
Eating edibles has nothing to do.
Lauren LaRosa
What you mean single de mayo? I haven't drinking anything.
Charlamagne tha God
Oh, okay.
Lauren LaRosa
Yeah, no, I'm not. I'm not doing that.
DJ Envy
Yo.
Lauren LaRosa
I'm not Mexican, yo. I don't do that.
Shanti Das
They, like a couple times this morning.
Lauren LaRosa
I know, cuz. They be like, underlay.
Charlamagne tha God
Salute to everybody. Salute to everybody who does smell their retainer in the morning, man. That keeps you humble.
DJ Envy
All right, well, let's get to the mix. Of course, we're gonna play a lot of Chris Brown in the mix, because.
Lauren LaRosa
Today it's Chris Brown birthday.
Charlamagne tha God
Jesus Christ. All right, that's the call to ice. That's the ice bat signal. Keep it up. Wake up, wake up. You're locked into the Breakfast Club.
DJ Envy
Morning, everybody. It's the J Envy. Just hilarious. Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. I want to salute to everybody. I seen out in Tequila Fest in Atlanta, had such a good time. It was like 7,000 people out there. So I just want to salute to everybody that came out and promoted Compton. And then I went to.
Charlamagne tha God
It's called Tequila Fest.
DJ Envy
Tequila Fest.
Charlamagne tha God
And Mexicans, they were getting sneaky this year. They don't want to just call it. They don't want to say it's a Cinco de Mayo celebration.
DJ Envy
They said, tequila Fest. Tequila Fest. And then I went to Moline and else Illinois, which is like Quad Cities. I did. I seen Booy out there. Booy said he wants to come to the show and talk a little bit to us. I see. I seen Ric Flair.
Charlamagne tha God
Yeah, you did.
DJ Envy
Rick Flair, you know?
Lauren LaRosa
Yes, yes.
DJ Envy
When he saw you, it was more like, ric Flair's tight.
Charlamagne tha God
Okay, first of all, Rick Flair is. Goddamn. How old is Ric Flair? Ric Flair is 76 years old, man.
Lauren LaRosa
Better not be walking up. Nobody's up all the oxygen.
DJ Envy
Yeah, I was like. I walked up. Salute to Ric Flair.
Charlamagne tha God
You do realize it is a bunch of ICE agents today looking to ruin people's day. Y'all do know that I'm not even joking. I know. We've been making jokes all morning.
DJ Envy
What's wrong with you?
Charlamagne tha God
Because it's Cinco de Mayo. They waiting.
Deval Ellis
Oh.
Charlamagne tha God
All of these gatherings and they waiting for, you know, everybody to just pop.
Lauren LaRosa
Out and celebrate to the mall. They better not roll up at nobody.
Charlamagne tha God
Definitely. I guarantee you, tomorrow you're gonna hear about raids that happened at Single de Mayo parties because of ice.
Lauren LaRosa
I pro.
Charlamagne tha God
I'm telling you. You.
Lauren LaRosa
One thing about Mexicans, though, they real small and they already know they sitting in the bushes waiting to see.
Charlamagne tha God
Because, look, that's why they called it the Cuba Fest.
Lauren LaRosa
Waiting to look at the trucks and look at the ICE agents going because they. They know they sitting out outside of all the bars.
Charlamagne tha God
Damn.
Lauren LaRosa
So they just in the bushes waiting, like, look, we see you. We see you before the UCs.
Charlamagne tha God
All right? Okay.
Lauren LaRosa
Oh, look, real quick. Random Chris Brown fact or whatever, yo. What?
Charlamagne tha God
Never mind. Go ahead.
Lauren LaRosa
Random Chris Brown fake. Remember he was in Stomp the Yard, and everybody was. Maybe because he died within, like, the first 10 minutes of the movie, they couldn't afford to keep him for the whole movie, so they just. They killed him off. But the selling point for Stomp the Yard was Chris Brown, and that's the reason why everybody wanted to go see it. But that's how we found out that Columbus Short was a good actor.
Charlamagne tha God
Okay, Okay. I like random Chris Brown facts. That's cool.
Lauren LaRosa
Thank you.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
And since y'all wanted to be quiet about it and anyone care about the Chris Brown fic, go to my YouTube for never before seen footage.
Charlamagne tha God
Y'all.
Lauren LaRosa
Y'all can see the Jess with the Mess there before anybody else gets to see it. Y'all can see clips of my daughter and things that y'all didn't even know about me behind the scenes of the Breakfast Club. And then me editing behind the scenes of Jess with the Mess and just fix my mess and all of that. So, yeah, run it up and subscribe to jessaluria's official Official Baldy. Yeah, just the Lars official. Not just the arts Official Baldy, but just the largest official on YouTube.
DJ Envy
It's time to get up out of here, Charlemagne. You got some positivity for the people.
Charlamagne tha God
I do, man. And I want to tell folks, too. Make sure you go out there and pre order the icon living, man. Her name is Don Staley. She's got a book coming out on May 20th called Uncommon Favor Basketball North Philly. My mother and the life lessons I learned from all three. I am holding the book in my hand. What I love about this book. Book. The back cover is literally made from the skin of a NCAA Wilson basketball.
DJ Envy
Dope.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes.
Lauren LaRosa
Damn.
Charlamagne tha God
Not.
Lauren LaRosa
It is dope.
Charlamagne tha God
Yes. So make sure you go out there and pre order Don Staley's new book. It'll be out on May 20th. Salute to Don Stanley. Happy born day. To Don Stanley, too. Yesterday was her born day. I'd be belated.
Lauren LaRosa
And wait a minute, guys. For Mother's Day weekend, I will be in Detroit at One Mic Comedy Club this Saturday. We got three shows. We have an 11am brunch, an early evening show at 7, and then a late night show at 9:30. Your girl Jess. Hilarious. And your guy Desi Alexander will be there. Get your tickets@JessalariusOfficial.com bring your mothers, your aunties, your grandma, your sisters. All that because it's Mother's Day weekend. So can't wait to see y'all. Detroit. What up though?
Charlamagne tha God
Oh, and the positive note is simply this. Your body, okay? Your body. What are you laughing at? Could you shut the hell up? Your body doesn't just reject food, it also rejects energy. If your body starts rejecting certain places, people are thinking things. Trust it and listen. Have a great day. Breakfast Club Bitches when things get intense, stress sweat can't be far behind.
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Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club – FULL SHOW: Shannon Sharpe’s Ex Speaks Out on Assault Claims, Beyoncé Hit with Cease-and-Desist Over Vegas Sphere + Devale & Khadeen Ellis & Shanti Das Interview Release Date: May 5, 2025
1. Introduction and Weekend Recap
The episode kicks off with hosts DJ Envy, Charlamagne tha God, and Jess Hilarious sharing their weekend experiences. DJ Envy discusses his participation in Atlanta’s Tequila Fest and his first visit to Illinois for his children's dance competition. Charlamagne reflects on attending numerous boxing matches, expressing disappointment with the quality of fights, while Jess briefly mentions participating in events related to National Silence to Shame Day.
Notable Quote:
Charlamagne tha God [02:12]: "I feel blessed, black, and highly favored. Happy to be here another day to serve our beautiful listeners."
2. Front Page News: President Trump's Controversial Statements
The hosts delve into recent statements made by former President Donald Trump in an interview with NBC's "Meet the Press." Trump expressed uncertainty about upholding the Constitution regarding deportation cases and announced plans for a grand military parade in Washington, D.C., coinciding with Flag Day on his birthday.
Notable Quotes:
Charlamagne tha God [08:25]: "The fact that people are just breathing by, he says he doesn't know whether he needs to uphold the Constitution is insanity to me."
Trump [08:47]: "We have the greatest missiles in the world... And we're going to celebrate it."
The discussion highlights Charlamagne’s criticism of Trump’s stance on constitutional obligations and skepticism about the necessity of a costly military parade, likening it to past actions by former presidents.
3. Diddy Trial Updates
Shanti Das provides insights into the trial of music mogul Diddy, who faces charges including sex trafficking and racketeering. The jury selection process is underway, with efforts to find jurors impartial to Diddy's popularity in the hip-hop industry.
Notable Quote:
Charlamagne tha God [21:13]: "This is gonna be very hard."
Shanti explains the challenges in selecting a fair jury, given Diddy's high-profile status, and discusses the potential impact of evidence showcased during the trial.
4. Guest Segment: Deval & Khadeen Ellis on Ellis Ever After
Deval and Khadeen Ellis join the show to discuss their podcast, formerly known as "Dead Ass Podcast," which has been rebranded to "Ellis Ever After." They elaborate on the evolution of their content from lighthearted discussions to addressing serious topics like black maternal health and relationship dynamics.
Notable Quotes:
Deval Ellis [37:30]: "Ellis Ever After is the change, because this is us after we've evolved as humans, gone to therapy, worked on being a better couple."
Khadeen Ellis [44:40]: "Our intergenerational conversations are starting to heal our families and communities."
The Ellis brothers emphasize the importance of open communication and vulnerability in fostering healthy relationships and community growth.
5. Controversy: Beyoncé’s Cease-and-Desist Over Vegas Sphere
Shanti Das addresses the legal conflict involving Beyoncé, who received a cease-and-desist order for using an image of the Sphere in Las Vegas without permission in her tour promotions. The Sphere’s CEO, James Dolan, claims that Beyoncé’s promotional materials may have created confusion about her Las Vegas residency.
Notable Quotes:
Charlamagne tha God [105:16]: "We didn't know no better... It just sounds like business."
Shanti Das [104:38]: "Her team wanted to avoid any confusion among fans regarding the Vegas residency."
The hosts discuss the implications of intellectual property disputes in the entertainment industry and speculate on the motivations behind the legal actions.
6. Shannon Sharpe’s Ex Speaks Out on Assault Claims
The episode features an interview with Shannon Sharpe’s ex, Michelle Evans, who alleges that Sharpe sexually assaulted her. She details the incidents, including threats and intimidation that led her to drop the protective order, fearing for her safety and that of her daughter.
Notable Quotes:
Michelle Evans [68:25]: "He wouldn't take no for an answer... He overpowered me, put his penis in my mouth."
Michelle Evans [69:50]: "He started making threats against my life... I had somebody stop by my apartment."
Charlamagne addresses the impact of these allegations, highlighting the ongoing defamation suit filed by Evans and the challenges victims face in coming forward.
7. National Silence to Shame Day and Mental Health Advocacy
Shanti Das discusses National Silence to Shame Day, emphasizing the importance of mental health awareness, especially within the Black community. She introduces the "Healing the Spaces Between Us" campaign, aiming to support individuals facing mental health challenges through storytelling and resource accessibility.
Notable Quotes:
Kadeen Ellis [86:40]: "Honor your feelings. If you're not feeling good, you gotta acknowledge that."
Charlamagne tha God [91:33]: "Take your shoes off... ride your bike... just find that inner child."
The segment underscores the necessity of open conversations about mental health and the role of community support in healing.
8. Closing Remarks and Final Discussions
The hosts wrap up the episode by addressing recent incidents of racism, including a viral video of a woman using racial slurs against a Black child. Charlamagne critiques the societal handling of such events, advocating for accountability and empathy.
Notable Quotes:
Charlamagne tha God [77:11]: "Freedom of speech works both ways. With that said, please let Chelsea Handler give Shiloh Hendricks the biggest hee haw."
The show concludes with promotional messages for upcoming events, including mothers' day celebrations and special guest appearances, maintaining a balance between serious discussions and entertaining banter.
Conclusion
This episode of The Breakfast Club navigates a spectrum of topics, from high-profile legal disputes and personal assault claims to mental health advocacy and community-focused podcasts. The hosts and guests engage in candid conversations, offering insights, support, and critical perspectives on pressing societal issues.
Disclaimer: All quotes are attributed as per the provided transcript and are for summarization purposes only.