Heir Time Ft. Reginae Carter

Summary

The Breakfast Club (Poor Minds Crossover): Heir Time ft. Reginae Carter
Original Air Date: April 9, 2026
Hosts: Lex P, Dre Nicole (Poor Minds), Guest: Reginae Carter

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Episode Overview

This vibrant crossover episode sees Reginae Carter join Lex P and Dre Nicole for an unfiltered, funny, and insightful conversation about life as a celebrity child, growing up in the public eye, confidence, relationships, and hustling for your own dreams. Reginae—daughter of Lil Wayne and Toya Johnson—opens up about forging her path as an actress, influencer, and new podcast host ("Airtime"), dispelling misconceptions about "industry kids," and sharing hilarious stories from her own life. The hosts serve their signature mix of candid girl talk, games, and blunt advice, keeping it real and relatable throughout.

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Main Themes & Discussion Highlights

1. Identity & Public Perception as a Celebrity Child

• Reginae describes being known as everyone’s “internet niece” and reveals how fans’ familiarity sometimes crosses boundaries (kissing her as a child) (05:01).
• While appreciating the love, she shares the challenges of people not wanting her to grow up and the pressure to fit certain expectations.
• Quote:

  "They really think that I’m their family. Plus, I think Rihanna is my sister, so can’t nobody tell me different." — Reginae Carter (05:28)

2. Transitioning from Child Star to Adult

• Hosts praise Reginae for her graceful transition, contrasting her positive trajectory with other child stars.
• Reginae talks about her new show "Airtime" and the inspiration behind it—offering a platform for young people raised in the spotlight to express their truths (06:26).
• She highlights how their “normal” is misunderstood:

  "We still feel like we’re regular kids. We feel like our life is just regular because this is what we grew up in." — Reginae Carter (06:34)

3. Colorism & Confidence

• Reginae reflects on colorism and public attempts to humble confident women, especially darker-skinned women (09:19).
• Credit to her parents for instilling self-worth and classiness in her.
• Standout exchange:

  "They hate it when you’re a dark-skinned woman. But talk about it though. The melanin popping and I am, too." — Reginae Carter (09:45)

4. Family Legacy, Nepotism, and Hustle

• Reginae discusses her time in the OMG Girlz group and the reality of opportunities and expectations given her lineage (11:07).

• She confronts the misconception that industry connections guarantee roles:

  "People think, girl, you could just get on that show, or you could call N. You could call. That is annoying. Like, not everybody know each other in the industry." (13:56)

• Hosts and Reginae reflect on the privilege and pressure of having famous parents, but also the need to earn her accolades and live her own narrative.

5. Vulnerability vs. Mystery in the Social Media Age

• The trio explores how being too open (or too mysterious) is judged online (27:18–33:44).
• Reginae admits it's hard to be mysterious; she prefers telling her own story before others do (30:55).
• Quote:

  "I have to talk. I have to tell how I feel. And then it’s like, people gonna find out anyway. So it’s better it’s coming from my mouth... All my life, I’ve been having everybody else tell my story." — Reginae Carter (30:55)

6. Expectations Around Dating, Money & Independence

• Hosts and Reginae dissect expectations placed on rich or famous women dating men—especially about finances and "provider" roles (34:44).
• Reginae sets personal standards and independence:

  "I’m the type where I gotta have my own. I cannot. I feel like if a man give you so much, they feel like they could hold something over you." — Reginae Carter (35:52)

• The group criticizes materialistic relationship goals and celebrates women supporting themselves.

7. Motherhood, Family Pressure, and Setting Boundaries

• Reginae shares her views on having children in the future: wants marriage and stability first, and feels no pressure to rush (50:10).
• The hosts agree about the importance of waiting for the right time and not succumbing to external pressures (52:23).

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Games & Pop Culture Moments

Lil Wayne “Tunchy Trivia” (15:10–20:00)

• The hosts challenge Reginae with her dad’s lyrics—mixing fun, humor, and nostalgia.
• Funny moment: Reginae struggles to finish or name Lil Wayne bars, despite being his daughter.
• Standout banter:

  "Wheezy F, baby. And the F is for Phenomenal." — Dre Nicole (17:04)
  "She always says the F is for something in every song." — Reginae Carter (17:04)

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Relationship & Sex Talk

Being Yourself in Relationships

• Discussion centers on expectations, transparency, and how social media impacts relationship sharing.
• Reginae admits being in the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship, but likes to keep some things private (28:29).

Sex & Duration (62:04–75:16)

• Playful debate: what’s the ideal duration for sex (10–15 min for most, longer only if it’s actually good)?
• Hilarious tangent about "Henny dick," drug-fueled sex, and the importance of quality over duration.
• Quote:

  "10 amazing minutes of sex or 45 that’s average?... I’d rather have the 10 amazing." — Reginae Carter (72:19)

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Advice Segment: “Pour Your Heart Out” (87:12)

• Letters from listeners prompt advice on tricky situations—e.g., “Am I wrong for having a baby by a man I barely even knew?”
• Reginae and the hosts advocate for self-reflection and therapy:

  "Just go to therapy…You have a lot of things to work on within yourself, especially if you’re trying to raise a child." — Reginae Carter (88:30)

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Lighthearted & Memorable Quotes

• On being open:

  "As long as you’re nice to people, you can overshare, you can do—but you can share your experience. As long as you’re a good person at heart, that’s okay." — Lex P (32:32)

• Parenting and discipline:

  "One time I went to school and I just paid for everybody lunch with it...Lunch said, 'Wayne, listen…You better stop giving her all that money.'" — Reginae Carter (48:34)

• On selling feet pics:

  "Would you ever sell your feet?"
  "I would overly. I would overly sell my feet on Assassin." — Dre Nicole & Reginae Carter (82:35)

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Notable Timestamps

• 05:01 — Reginae on “internet niece” and fan boundaries
• 06:26 — Inspiration for her show “Airtime”
• 09:19 — Colorism, self-image, and confidence
• 13:52 — Misconceptions of industry kids
• 15:10–20:00 — Lil Wayne Trivia game
• 27:18–33:44 — Vulnerability vs. mystery in public life
• 34:44–41:00 — Dating, money, and independence
• 50:10–53:04 — Motherhood: pressure, plans, and priorities
• 62:04–75:16 — Sex talk: duration, quality, and playful debates
• 87:12 — Advice segment (“Pour Your Heart Out”)

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Tone & Atmosphere

The episode is warm, unapologetic, and full of sisterly energy—balancing raw honesty with hilarity and genuine insight. The hosts keep it “real,” mixing intellectual takes on womanhood, independence, and social media with riotous storytelling and supportive camaraderie.

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Conclusion

This episode is a compelling, multi-faceted look at growing up famous, choosing your own path, and balancing openness with autonomy—delivered with humor and heart. Reginae Carter debunks myths about celebrity kids, discusses her own journey to self-ownership, and reminds young women of the value in telling their own stories, embracing authenticity, and building independent legacies. Listeners will leave inspired to walk in their truth, ignore outside noise, and maybe even trivia-battle with a Lil Wayne fan.

Transcript

[Reginae Carter]

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[Dre Nicole]

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[Lex P]

I think as long as you're nice to people you can overshare you can do but you can share your experience. As long as you're a good person at heart, that's okay. But yeah, I do feel like I'm being fake. If I'm not being honest, I be telling my stories. Yeah, that's why they know I had that $3 wig on.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, well, they seen it.

[Lex P]

You didn't have to say that.

[Dre Nicole]

You could think all episodes are still up.

[Lex P]

We gonna delete them photos just for that. Cause they gonna look right now.

[Reginae Carter]

We gonna start deleting them one by one.

[Lex P]

We gonna start deleting them one by

[Dre Nicole]

one so they don't even notice we seen.

[Lex P]

What's up, y'?

[Reginae Carter]

All?

[Lex P]

It's your girl Lex P. And it's

[Dre Nicole]

your girl Dre Nicole.

[Lex P]

And you are tuned in to another

[Dre Nicole]

episode of Poor Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thought.

[Lex P]

We got a guest today.

[Dre Nicole]

We got a guest today. Now. I just love when we have guests on the show. The number one everybody been asking for, but that me and Lex are just both personally excited to have on the show. So I just feel like we all have watched this young lady grow up into a beautiful woman, and she has created Elaine and a presence on her own. She grew up in the spotlight, but she's also a entrepreneur. She's also an influencer, an actress, a reality TV star. All the things my girl be in her bag. So let's give it up for reginae Carter.

[Lex P]

Hey, Mr. Carter. Jenna. Where have you been? Period? Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

So glad to have you here today.

[Reginae Carter]

I'm so glad to be here. And the intro was like.

[Lex P]

That was tea.

[Reginae Carter]

Thank you.

[Lex P]

You that girl, though. You are.

[Reginae Carter]

You are. Y' all that girl.

[Lex P]

Thank you.

[Dre Nicole]

Y' all are those girls. We appreciate that. I want to ask you, though, like, how do you feel when be calling you, like, their Internet niece? Cause I'm sure a lot of people say that. Like, how do you feel when people say that about you? Do you be like, girl, I don't know you.

[Reginae Carter]

Honestly, it's been so many years. Like, literally, I'm used to it. It's been times where people done came up to me and, like, kiss me on my cheek?

[Lex P]

No.

[Reginae Carter]

When I was younger, like, literally, like, I've always been. Everybody needs. So I'm used to it. People still don't want me to grow up. Yeah, it's annoying, but it's like, at least I know people that really care about me. They really think that I'm their family. And plus, I think Rihanna is my sister, so can't nobody tell me different.

[Lex P]

Oh, hey.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Okay. But I think that's a thing, though. But I'm glad you said that, because I always feel like I'm auntie and I call everybody my niece, but kissing is a little scar.

[Dre Nicole]

That's far.

[Lex P]

But I understand, though, because like, you grown. You are a grown woman. And I honestly. Okay, we gonna talk about it, though, because, like, kids, stars, or people who are popular as children, sometimes that transition don't be too smooth, you know?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, they don't.

[Lex P]

But you have done it gracefully, beautifully, like, very much still that girl, like, for me. So I think, like, it's a good thing, like, everything that you do, we should be clapping for and celebrating, because I'm not gonna say no names, but we see how a lot of child stars have grown up and what's happened.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

And I agree. And that brings me to, like, asking you, how is that where you got the inspiration for your new show from? Because you just felt like people who grew up. A lot of young kids who grew up in the spotlight, y' all are so misunderstood.

[Wheezy]

Yes.

[Reginae Carter]

That's definitely why. And y'.

[Lex P]

All.

[Reginae Carter]

Y' all understand me, and I really. I really fuck with y' all for that, but a lot of people don't.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

So I made. I also created this show for people to understand that, you know, growing up in a limelight, we're still, like. We still feel like we're regular kids. We feel like our life is just regular because this is what we grew up in.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

So, yeah, we know. Like, okay, your dad is not in the industry, touring, doing all of this. But this is my norm, so I'm not thinking of it as, oh, I got little. Even though I did pop my shit when I was younger.

[Lex P]

Oh, you are, baby. I like you.

[Reginae Carter]

You was always as you should.

[Lex P]

I learned real fast.

[Dre Nicole]

But it was.

[Reginae Carter]

But it's like, that's what I was used to.

[Lex P]

Right. But I do wanna ask that because I do feel like sometimes we see, like, child stars and be like, do you know who your family is? Why are you acting like that? When did you realize, like, okay, my daddy looked Wayne. Like, when did you understand what that meant?

[Reginae Carter]

I feel like my mom was on reality TV as well, so I was getting stuff from her to, like, teach me just how to come into this world. Like, don't put too much out there. Like, you know. Yeah, your dad is who he is, and a lot of things aren't gonna be broadcasted.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

But try to keep yourself, you know, a little private. It didn't work.

[Lex P]

It didn't work.

[Reginae Carter]

But my mom did try to teach me that.

[Lex P]

She tried.

[Reginae Carter]

She tried.

[Lex P]

I just.

[Reginae Carter]

It's just like, I'm so cool. Like, I don't really like to live the whole private life because I'm so vulnerable. Like, I really like to talk. I do what y' all do.

[Lex P]

Yeah, y' all like to talk, too.

[Dre Nicole]

We like getting people's business and that's what we love.

[Reginae Carter]

So that's me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, but I like that you embrace that, too, because I think a lot of times we're gonna talk about that a little later, too. I think we need to just embrace who we are and stop trying to be what people expect us to be.

[Dre Nicole]

Oh, you're supposed to be mystique.

[Lex P]

Girl, shut up. I got something to say. Let me tell you what this nigga did last week.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, Yeah.

[Lex P]

I got to let y' all know, you know, but I think that's good that you embrace that and you kind of let go of the expectations, you know what I'm saying?

[Dre Nicole]

And one thing I just really love about you, too, is that you just have always really been yourself and you stay true to who you are. You don't care about. Cause I sometimes I do be feeling like you, like my little Internet needs, like, watching you grow up. And I feel like people be so mean to her all the time on the Internet. Like, I just think it's so unnecessary. And I think a lot of it stems from, which is something that I feel like I can relate to you on. Like, you're confident. Like, you're very confident in yourself. And I feel like I don't know what it is about a person is very confident, but people just want to humble them really, really bad. And I'm glad that you never let that get to you. And you just still shine your light and you don't let nobody dim it. No matter what.

[Reginae Carter]

No matter what. And my parents are the number one. The two people that taught me that. My dad was on one side telling me, hey, listen, you're beautiful. There's nothing like, can't nobody tell you different. Like, you, like, always complimented me. My mom always big me up, showed me how to be this classy woman. So can't nobody tell me that I'm not that. And then they hate it when you're a dark skinned woman. But talk about it though. The melanin popping and I am, too.

[Dre Nicole]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

And you know what's crazy? I feel like I'm aging myself. I remember when you were born, Chad.

[Reginae Carter]

I do.

[Lex P]

Well, I don't remember. I do. Cause y' all gotta realize. I do. But the reason is because I told y'. All. Exactly. But I grew up watching E. News. I grew up watching. No, I didn't watch. I mean, I used to watch a little Pokemon, but put on Oprah what is she saying? Yeah, watch E. News. So I remember it was like, it was such a big deal, and it was like a thing. So it was never, like, you never had a normal life. But during that time it was. And I think that's something that still goes on is like, the colorism. So it's just like, people be thinking that you have the audacity, but it's like, yeah, she's beautiful, but she.

[Dre Nicole]

Right. Cause if she was lighter skinned, it

[Lex P]

wouldn't have been all.

[Dre Nicole]

It wouldn't be all of it.

[Reginae Carter]

Just be like, oh, yeah, pretty privileged.

[Dre Nicole]

That's what it be.

[Reginae Carter]

It would be pretty privileged.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying?

[Dre Nicole]

But it's very cockiness when it come from us.

[Lex P]

Now, I do have one more question. Cause we gonna move on to a little fun thing. I have one I gotta ask. Cause you know, I'm a little messy. Cause this is old. This is old. But I remember. Cause I was in college. By the time OMG Girls was a thing. Did you ever feel like, oh, I should have stayed or I regret leaving or whatever happens?

[Reginae Carter]

So when I was in the OMG Girls and I got pulled out the group, I feel like I was young. So of course I was, like, mad.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Like, wanting to be, like, in this group. Like, asking my parents, like, what are y' all doing? Like, I am a star. I need to be in this group. But, like, the older I got, the more I understood where it was. Like, it was business. And also, me and the girls never, like, broke apart. We always both. We all been popping, you know, Even after the group, I'm still popping. They still popping. So it's like, it never was a chance. It never was a thought of me when I was like, damn. Now that's like, damn, I should have been in this group. Because I feel like I still was a part of that group, you know? Like, I am OMG girl. Still. But it's like, we family, so I.

[Lex P]

So y' all still cool?

[Reginae Carter]

Hell, yeah.

[Lex P]

I know that's right.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, I went on a tour. Like, I really rock with them. Like, we're like sisters.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

So I root for them everything that they do, and it's bomb. So.

[Lex P]

Oh, I love. They came on the show before, so

[Dre Nicole]

I had to ask. They did.

[Lex P]

Yeah. So we had a time child now.

[Reginae Carter]

But when I was younger, of course I was like, damn, I wish I was still in a group.

[Lex P]

I know what you're doing. Being young and you feel like, oh, my God, my dreams are slipping away. And everything's about to end.

[Reginae Carter]

But then later, not too long after that, it didn't go really crazy. But my dad, me and my best friend that was also in the group, Lourdes, we started naying low.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

And we did a little something, too. So it was like. It was never, like, a kind of thing. Cause I started my own stuff.

[Lex P]

And your dreams were fulfilled. And then you probably realized, like, mm, is this what I really wanted to do?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, you gotta feel, you know, a groove. Like, it just all, like. And also, I don't really like music. Doing music. I'm more acting. You know, I'll get on. On the little song.

[Lex P]

But I'm glad that you said that. Cause I feel like when famous people have children, like, we are expecting Serena's child. You better play tennis. Get out there. That tennis skirt.

[Reginae Carter]

That's another reason why I started airtime. Because I want people to sit down and tell. Like, sit down and say, hey, I wanna be. I sat down with Jermaine Dupri, daughter.

[Dre Nicole]

She wanna be.

[Reginae Carter]

She's a veterinarian. She's going to stuff for that. Like, I also started the show for that. Because we don't all have to be the Stinger, the rapper, the this, the that.

[Dre Nicole]

Right?

[Lex P]

And then the rapper your daddy is. Man, I don't wanna see a mic.

[Dre Nicole]

Right?

[Lex P]

I'm cool. Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

I be telling him to write everything. They gonna be like, damn, that sound just like little women like that.

[Dre Nicole]

It run in the blood. It run in the blood.

[Reginae Carter]

What?

[Dre Nicole]

I do have one more question that I wanna ask you before we move on to the game. So I do wanna know what's the biggest misconception that you think people have when it comes to growing up in the spotlight or being a celebrity kid?

[Reginae Carter]

I would say kind of like what I said earlier. Our norm feels like our norm is our norm. So the things that we do. Like, a lot of people think that I feel like I'm better than everybody, or I'm this or I'm that. But I feel like I'm a Sagittarius. I would have probably been like this with or without the right. It's just like. It's stuff that. It's like I can't pop my. My shit because it's like people. Oh, she got there because of Lil Wayne. Even with me acting like it's been so many roles that I didn't get or so many things that I wanted, and I'm like, damn, why I'm not in that show? But I gotta work for it. I gotta audition for it. But People think, girl, you could just get on that show, or you could call N. You could call. That is annoying. Like, not everybody know each other in the industry. Not everybody. So it's little stuff like that. But I'm very humble. I definitely got humble the older I got. But I can't thank nobody but my mom for that too. Cause she always kept me humble. My dad is the one that's like,

[Lex P]

you better pop it, Poppy. Yeah, you better pop it. You can have whatever you want. That's a good balance. Listen.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, I like that.

[Reginae Carter]

That's definitely a good balance.

[Lex P]

Okay. Okay, Jerrell, you ready for the game?

[Dre Nicole]

I'm ready for the game.

[Lex P]

We finna play a game.

[Dre Nicole]

So the first game that we gonna play is called Tunchy Trivia. So obviously, we know your dad is the greatest rapper alive.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

And I want to see how well you know the lyrics to his songs. But not, like, mainstream some. Because I used to be a really, really big Lil Wayne. I mean, I still am, but, I mean, like, when I was in college and when I was in high school, that was when he was, like, in his mixtape era, and I used to be deep in my mixtape bag. So I want to see some, you know, mainstream songs within some mixtape songs to see if you know the lyrics. Okay, let's see.

[Lex P]

Wait, wait. So she has to. You gonna read the lyric, and she has to finish it or she has to guess.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, some of them. She can guess the name of the song. And then some of them.

[Lex P]

Oh, look. Cause I'm bad with lyrics. I don't know nothing.

[Dre Nicole]

Yes. Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

So you gonna be surprised.

[Lex P]

I'm gonna sit back and relax. No, you got it.

[Reginae Carter]

I don't know nothing about nothing.

[Dre Nicole]

So the first one. Life is a beach. I'm just playing in the sand. What song is that?

[Reginae Carter]

Life is a beach, I'm just playing in the sand. Ooh, hey, Mr. Carter.

[Lex P]

That's what I would say. That's what I would have said.

[Dre Nicole]

What is it? No, but I'll give you another shot.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, okay, okay.

[Lex P]

Or if you can finish. I think we should give her either. Or finish the bar or name the song.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Cause that's hard.

[Reginae Carter]

I don't even know the next bar.

[Dre Nicole]

She said, I don't know either one.

[Reginae Carter]

See?

[Lex P]

See, that's why. Cause all I got is.

[Reginae Carter]

It's a beach.

[Dre Nicole]

I'm just playing in the saying finish the bar.

[Lex P]

Dr.

[Dre Nicole]

Right above it is the song she like.

[Lex P]

What is it exactly? I don't know that song. Baby, y' all too deep in. Y' all Bad.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, to be honest, I didn't write this.

[Lex P]

See? See, Dre, you gotta do one that you know.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, I do this one. Wheezy F, baby. In the F is for Phenomenal.

[Reginae Carter]

She always says the F is for something in every song. Cuz that's what I.

[Lex P]

You know, that's why I got that Necrolex P. And the P for I don't know that in the shirt.

[Reginae Carter]

I know the song when he said the F is a finisher. But Phenomenal.

[Lex P]

Uh oh.

[Reginae Carter]

I thought Phenomenal knows the song with

[Dre Nicole]

a P. It do. That was the irony.

[Lex P]

Okay, wait, Dre, can you fix the bar for her?

[Reginae Carter]

Maybe that'll help with that.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, wait, she don't know.

[Lex P]

That's why I said, you gotta give the bar. You gotta give a bar that you know. Cause they made this shit too hard.

[Reginae Carter]

It's for phenomenal.

[Lex P]

Cause I'll say this. Let me give you one.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, I got one.

[Lex P]

Okay, Go ahead.

[Dre Nicole]

Safe sex is great sex. Better wear a latex.

[Reginae Carter]

Want that late text that I think I'm late text. I still don't even know the song.

[Lex P]

But you finished it.

[Reginae Carter]

I know the lyric.

[Dre Nicole]

It's lollipop.

[Lex P]

Okay, let me give you one. This off the dome. This ain't even on the card. I'mma do the one I know. Yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

Like a cop

[Reginae Carter]

she played Ms. Officer,

[Lex P]

we gotta give you something. Please.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay. Got 10 bathrooms I could all day

[Reginae Carter]

Got 10 bathrooms I could all day and we don't want no problems. Okay. You're a goon with a goon to a goblin yeah Came on a beat

[Dre Nicole]

I around and even leak the brains

[Lex P]

on the street it don't matter though. But you feel it's Daddy Robin

[Reginae Carter]

Steady Marvin.

[Lex P]

That's how I be like I know the words or something. Well, no, I don't be knowing the words or nothing. I'm bad. I be struggling.

[Reginae Carter]

Probably like 10 years ago, I probably would have known all of this.

[Lex P]

Oh. Cause you know, that used to be the thing. They would record her at the backstage of a concert.

[Reginae Carter]

So crazy.

[Lex P]

Oh my God.

[Dre Nicole]

I told you.

[Reginae Carter]

I remember when she was born. I do.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, I feel like you should know these lyrics, Reginae, because it was referencing you.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, I do.

[Dre Nicole]

Sillier than Vic said. Soulja Boy and Arab you should I

[Reginae Carter]

call that Nae Nae dance? Something like that. Something about my daughter. Do the Nene's dance. Proud to be Nene's dad.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Watch my shoes. Yes.

[Lex P]

Okay. I thought that when you mention nae, she said.

[Reginae Carter]

She said.

[Lex P]

I know that when you mention nae.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

What was that? That one. Okay. Okay, we gotta do this one. This is a good one. This is a good one. Real GS move in silence like lasagna.

[Dre Nicole]

This is the.

[Reginae Carter]

This is like the main one.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Like, these moving silence like lasagna.

[Lex P]

They still use this as caption.

[Dre Nicole]

They do still.

[Lex P]

I know

[Reginae Carter]

it's not sky is the Limit.

[Lex P]

No, no, it's not. But I'm not mad at you for guessing that because it had the distinctive sound and the beat.

[Dre Nicole]

Mm.

[Lex P]

Real.

[Reginae Carter]

Real G's moving silent like lasagna.

[Lex P]

Mm.

[Reginae Carter]

Six foot seven. Oh, father, I'm so sorry.

[Dre Nicole]

Oh, my God.

[Lex P]

But shoot.

[Reginae Carter]

All of the songs. He done did so many.

[Lex P]

I'm not going to lie. Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

He done did so many songs, like,

[Reginae Carter]

literally, he spoke the same way.

[Dre Nicole]

I knew your dad was famous, too, back in the day for, like. He would always say he never really wrote down the lyrics. He would just go in the studio,

[Reginae Carter]

sitting right here, right now, y' all asking these questions. He'll be like.

[Dre Nicole]

He'll be like.

[Reginae Carter]

I said, I. When someone doesn't write, they just go in the booth and just say, how could you know what you.

[Dre Nicole]

Everything.

[Lex P]

Yeah, I love it.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, I do too.

[Reginae Carter]

Not yet.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, we got one more and we gonna move on to the topic.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

How do you do, motherfuckers? It's wheezy, baby. Niggas bitching and I gotta tote the cannon.

[Reginae Carter]

This is when I was one, right?

[Dre Nicole]

Seriously?

[Reginae Carter]

Cause I ain't too bad.

[Lex P]

I never hear this one before.

[Reginae Carter]

This may be before I was born

[Lex P]

and I was 16 at Wall. I still don't know what that is. What's that one?

[Dre Nicole]

I got duct tape and rope. I leave you missing like the fucking obannings.

[Lex P]

No, we don't know that.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, He's a song called Candle.

[Dre Nicole]

It's a mixtape. When I tell you DJ drama.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, baby. That's probably when that was.

[Lex P]

Baby, you should have did. What was the song that he had with Drake? It was a lot of. Now she want a photo. One time. One time. You should have did the yolo.

[Dre Nicole]

Now she won a photo.

[Lex P]

You already know that. When I came on the strip club, that's when I knew I wanted to be a stripper.

[Dre Nicole]

That is Drake's song.

[Lex P]

It was. No, no, that's what I'm saying. But his verse was fire. Yeah, that's why I said once.

[Dre Nicole]

Cause I'm like, yeah, we should have

[Lex P]

did something a little.

[Reginae Carter]

A little bit of that at it, though.

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[Lex P]

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[Reginae Carter]

It's okay, you should la la. I know that one.

[Lex P]

Okay. Lala.

[Reginae Carter]

She cares about me.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Again, she loves the lyrics about herself.

[Dre Nicole]

Richard I could never get.

[Reginae Carter]

Never forget that one.

[Lex P]

No, that's right. Okay, let's go on to the second topic, let's go. But you didn't. I think you did good, too, because Draya is like, the person who gonna rap and rap and rap.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, I'm like.

[Dre Nicole]

Like a lyrics encyclopedia. Like, I know a lot of lyrics now. Some of these I didn't write down. So some of those I didn't know. But I did know a good amount of them.

[Reginae Carter]

Yo, wait, hold up. Pause. This drink is really good.

[Lex P]

It's so. Oh, you know what?

[Reginae Carter]

Speaking of.

[Dre Nicole]

Go to the drink, Ty, you right.

[Lex P]

I'm glad you said that. Ty, what we drinking today?

[Reginae Carter]

Okay?

[Lex P]

Cause we over here having a ball. You know what I'm saying?

[Dre Nicole]

Y'.

[Lex P]

All.

[Dre Nicole]

Are y' all already cutting up?

[Reginae Carter]

I already see it happening. So for our guest, Ms. Regine Carter today, this one is gonna be called Airtime, all right? Named right after her podcast. And this one, she loves some reposado tequila. So we have some repo tequila in there. We have some orange blossom water, some grapefruit bitters, and some dragon fruit syrup that's floated at the bottom. And then we topped it off with a sparkling pompomousse. Sparkling water. So it's grapefruit still sparkling grapefruit. And then we have it garnished with

[Dre Nicole]

a lime and a cherry.

[Reginae Carter]

So just giving us a little bit of that Orange blossom is giving us some of those floral notes in there, and that's what's opening it up.

[Lex P]

What kind of cherry is that?

[Dre Nicole]

That's not a Randy. That is a Brandy cherry.

[Reginae Carter]

I'm so glad you asked. So that's been marinating.

[Lex P]

Yeah, it's Brandy. I'm on the olive.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Y' all be watching them Fruit AI videos.

[Reginae Carter]

What?

[Lex P]

The Fruit AI videos on TikTok. And they have the same music. Huh? She does. Oh, my gosh. I'll be like. She be like, banana Rita, how dare

[Reginae Carter]

you leave me strawberry. Oh, she be hot.

[Lex P]

They be mad. Cause we not supposed to support AI y'.

[Dre Nicole]

All, but the we not.

[Reginae Carter]

The fruit be getting so many fat. I love the fruits. And the cats.

[Lex P]

Oh, they got cats, too.

[Dre Nicole]

They do. Got the cats I love.

[Lex P]

Oh, I'm glad I'm going alone. Cause Strawberrita cuts up. She's a cheater.

[Reginae Carter]

Did you see Instagram, Rita?

[Lex P]

What?

[Dre Nicole]

What is Instagram, Rita?

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, yes, it's Instagram Rita. Tiktokita.

[Lex P]

That's how I need to turn off my phone. Either it gets juicy. It gets juicy in the field.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, Lord.

[Lex P]

Okay, okay, okay. Cause I wanna go back to the topic that we was talking about earlier. Okay. Because I struggle with this so bad. And I'm glad that you said, like, it was something that you were just kinda, like, on your own about. Do you have a hard time being mysterious? Like, I feel, like, one thing about beautiful women, and honestly, too, I hate to say that, but, like, having nice. They feel like, how did you get that Chanel bun? How did you get your hair done? Who are you messing with? What do you do in the mornings? Like, it's something about them tying in mystery and sexy in the same thing. So do y'. All. Oh, I know you don't have a hard time being mysterious. How do y'. All? Do you have a hard time being mysterious? And how do you, like, deal with that?

[Reginae Carter]

Um, I do have a hard time kind of being mysterious.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Hence, like, everything that kind of be out about my life. I really.

[Lex P]

It's.

[Reginae Carter]

That's what I say. I'm very vulnerable.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

And I really, like. I did YouTube. I did Twitch, so it's like, I really let my people in.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

And even, like, this time, I feel like, me right now. I'm kind of being mysterious right now. You are.

[Lex P]

It's going.

[Dre Nicole]

It's going.

[Reginae Carter]

It works. So it's working right now. But I do have a hard time doing it because I swear, I just. I just put an X on the pictures. I was just about to go up on my Snapchat with a little chest. I'm like, no.

[Lex P]

Oh.

[Reginae Carter]

Cause, you know, he might got a.

[Dre Nicole]

He got this tattoo.

[Lex P]

They might fall. They gonna know. Yeah, they're gonna know. They already, like, figure I wanna see the picture. Cause I'm gonna put it in Google search.

[Dre Nicole]

Cause Google search will tell you everybody whose chest is.

[Lex P]

Oh, so that means you're talking to somebody right now.

[Reginae Carter]

Damn.

[Lex P]

Okay, so how long has it been? How do you feel? What's going on?

[Reginae Carter]

It's going on, what?

[Lex P]

Like,

[Reginae Carter]

almost five months.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay.

[Lex P]

So y' all in, like, the good stage of, like, y' all are still in that honeymoon stage. Having fun.

[Dre Nicole]

Having fun. You know? But you can see it going somewhere.

[Reginae Carter]

I really like him.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex P]

I really just see you like me. That was a test. You wasn't being mysterious. I got you. Gotcha, bitch.

[Reginae Carter]

Gotcha.

[Lex P]

You see how I treat you like that? That was a test.

[Dre Nicole]

You say you supposed to be, like, right now.

[Lex P]

No, I'm fine. I'm messing with you. I'm messing with you. But no, but I think that it's important to have a balance, especially being in the spotlight.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I think it's important to have women who are. Cause honestly, that's why I think. And I'm not making this about us, but I think this is why like, like, poor minds, like, people will look at Draya and she's dealt with this her whole life being like, you're so perfect. You have it together. How can I reach that? And how can I. And then you got me on the other side of the couch falling apart. But so I think that it's important

[Dre Nicole]

for women to be like, we both be falling apart.

[Lex P]

Right.

[Dre Nicole]

I just feel like I don't show as much.

[Lex P]

But it's important for women to see you can have your shit fall apart and you can still show up poised and put together, but you can also fall apart. And still it's a balance, I think.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, it is, it is.

[Dre Nicole]

And I mean, I think it's okay to be somebody that overshares. I think when people are not that way, it's just because they're naturally that way. Like me. I don't try to, like, be like, oh, let me try to be mysterious.

[Reginae Carter]

What's your sign?

[Dre Nicole]

I'm a Taurus.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, yeah, Y' all good?

[Lex P]

Yeah, you a fire sign. You? My. My best friend. Both of our best friends. Yeah, both of our.

[Dre Nicole]

I love Sagittarius women. Yes. My best friend is a Sagittarius. And like. And she's the same way. Like, she's just naturally very open and vulnerable.

[Reginae Carter]

I'm sorry, can I take my jacket?

[Lex P]

It off, girl, Take it off.

[Dre Nicole]

Take it off, girl.

[Lex P]

We.

[Dre Nicole]

We know it gets a little hot in here.

[Lex P]

It does, it does.

[Reginae Carter]

Cuz with the lights.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you're good. You're good.

[Dre Nicole]

But yeah, I don't think anything is wrong with that. And I think it's a misconception when people think that, like, oh, I need to try to be mysterious. I need to try to be more sexy. I need to try to be this or try to be that. Like, no, just be yourself. And the people that are supposed to gravitate towards you will. I almost kind of think that's what I was going to ask both of y'. All. Cuz I do feel like you're very vulnerable as well. Do y' all ever feel like you're almost being fake, though, when you try to hold back? Like, you not being authentic to who you are?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, like, yeah, sometimes I do. Because it's like, when I don't. When I don't.

[Lex P]

Go ahead. Go ahead.

[Reginae Carter]

When I don't be myself, I feel like it's just like, I'm not like, I'm not me. I have to talk. I have to tell how I feel. And then it's like, people gonna find out anyway. So it's better. It's coming from my mouth when I'm at the mall and get posted with somebody, or I'm here and get posted. I would like you to hear from the horse's mouth than anybody else. And all my life, I've been having everybody else tell my story. That's why I do reality TV. That's why I did YouTube. That's why I did Twitch. So people can not just tell my story. I can tell my story as well.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay. That makes a lot of sense.

[Lex P]

I think for me, I've talked about this before. When I moved to Atlant, I got in an awful relationship, and I was with somebody who tried to silence me. And during that time, I did feel fake. Cause I was trying to portray what people wanted to see from me. Even now, like, I have to be open. I have to tell y' all what's going on. Because I remember being 25 and looking at these girls, and then now I'm older and I'm seeing. I was like, oh, you was faking. You was lying. And I'm sitting up here looking at other people. So I feel like it's my duty to be honest and tell my truth. I don't take being in front of the cameras lightly. But I can also respect somebody's story like you. Like, you probably had on Chanel diapers. But that's okay. But that's okay.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, shit.

[Lex P]

But there's nothing wrong. That's what I'm saying, though. So it's like, people want to be like, ugh, she's so out of touch. But guess what? That's the legacy that her father and her mother built for her.

[Dre Nicole]

And that's a beautiful thing.

[Lex P]

And that's a beautiful thing. So sometimes people may. I think as long as you're nice to people, you can overshare. You can do. But you can share your experience. As long as you're a good person at heart, that's okay. But, yeah, I do feel like I'm being fake. If I'm not being honest, I be telling my stories.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

That's why they know I had that $3 wig on.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, well, they seen it.

[Lex P]

You didn't have to say that. You could say that.

[Dre Nicole]

The old episodes are still up.

[Lex P]

We gonna delete them post just for that. Cause they finna gonna look right now. We gonna start deleting them one by one.

[Reginae Carter]

We gonna Start deleting them one by

[Dre Nicole]

one so they don'. But no, I think everybody wants what other people have though, too, to a certain extent. Like, I think people who are naturally oversharers, they look at people that are mysterious and they like, damn, I wish that I wasn't so much of an overshare. And I think people who are naturally just more selective about what they tell you, wish you were more vulnerable. Like, sometimes I admire the vulnerability that Lex has and that you have as well. Because I do think that when you're open, you're more open. You don't realize a lot of the time people can relate to what you're going through, but they'll never know unless you share it with them.

[Reginae Carter]

Exactly.

[Lex P]

How do you feel like sharing your relationships? Cause I think it's obviously more. I think people now have expectations of us, but people never had expectations of me. Cause I'm just a bitch from Orange Chase's. But, like, how do you live like that? Like, people having expectations of you because of who your parents are and who you were raised around, like, oh, my God, Nicki Minaj, you're like, so how do you live like that?

[Reginae Carter]

Honestly, I have a really great relationship with God. I have a great relationship with my village that I have, where it's like my family, my friends, my manager, my people that I know that have my back. So I don't need validation from the world or people that I don't know that never met me a day in my life. So I just keep. I stay true to myself and just be 100% me. That's all I can be. And if everybody. And if somebody got a problem with it, it's that, like, say, for instance, it's like this clip going around with me saying that a man like my type is like, a man has to. First of all, I said one. I don't count people pockets. Cause I don't. But also, they asked for a number, so I was like, okay, like, I guess 500k above. I don't know, whatever. A year or like a year.

[Lex P]

A year.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay. And it's like a problem with. But my thing is, like, my parents raised me to not count people pockets. Where it's like, as long as you see what I'm doing for me and you can do for what I'm. You could do for me, you could do for yourself, you could do for whoever's around you. That's what it is. Like, I'm not. I don't have no kids. I don't have no, like, so it's like. It's not kind of like I'm dating. I'm having fun. Like, you know, and if I do find somebody, I feel like we can grow and we can figure that out, you know, Like, I don't have to. You don't have to make a hundred million and this. No, because that's your money.

[Lex P]

That don't have nothing to do with me.

[Reginae Carter]

Unless you gonna trick off, girl.

[Dre Nicole]

I say the same thing all the time. Because, like, who cares if women always be like, oh, a man has to have certain amount of money to date me. What does that have to do with you? Unless he doing shit for you. That's his money.

[Reginae Carter]

It's his. And also, I'm the type where I gotta have my own. I cannot. I feel like if a man give you so much, they feel like they could hold something over you. Like, they could take that back at any time. You can't take shit back of mine.

[Lex P]

I'm sorry.

[Dre Nicole]

Hello?

[Lex P]

And then let's get into it.

[Dre Nicole]

A lot of these niggas who be having money, they be stingy anyway, so

[Lex P]

it don't matter how they do.

[Reginae Carter]

And it's different times. I understand why a man's stingy nowadays. Shit, it's hard out here. Like, people gotta really make living for themselves. And my thing is a Chanel bag, a Birkin or this or that. And what you doing? You're getting cheated on. You're getting mad. You're taking them back. You're getting you another Birkin. At this point, people gotta go through. Kids gotta go through college.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, you gotta go.

[Reginae Carter]

Like, it's not like it's getting real now. Like, government shutting down.

[Lex P]

Shit is happening. We gotta get to the airport three days before we gotta fly out. That's what I'm saying.

[Reginae Carter]

I feel like it's different times.

[Lex P]

Times are different. And I'm glad that you said that because I think it's important that we, as women who, like, are successful on our own. Because we used to talk about that all the time about BDB and dealing with men with money. But I think that, honestly, the way people have policed women's bodies, they police what we can do. It is vital and it's very serious. I don't wanna get political, but it's very serious that you be able to take care of yourself. So I'm glad that you said that because I think that that era is. It is kind of dying out. The girls are awakening, but it's still the people out there that are still trying to be like, oh, if he can't do this, he can't do that. But what can we do for ourselves? That's the thing.

[Reginae Carter]

Now, if you come through and could do that shit for yourself, and that's how you feel. You feel like, you know, my father spoiled me. He literally gave me whatever I want, and I respect him for that. But he also, when I got to a certain age, also taught me how to work for what I want as well, and my mother did as well. So it's like, I know what it feels like to. Yeah, nigga, listen, this is what I do for myself. So you gonna have to come and do something. But I'm not trying. I could also do it for myself. Can you do it for yourself? These girls don't be doing nothing for themselves. And expecting a man to just get him everything.

[Lex P]

And I mean, that's a testament to your mom, because your mom, when her and your dad broke up, never fell off.

[Reginae Carter]

Never.

[Lex P]

Yeah, she could go get her own, you know what I'm saying?

[Reginae Carter]

Because a lot of New York Times bestseller.

[Lex P]

Come on.

[Reginae Carter]

I could go on.

[Lex P]

It's because we do see, unfortunately, a lot of rappers, baby mamas, you know, they break up, we never hear from them again, or they be online doing crazy stuff just to, you know, make ends meet. But I think that, you know, you did have a good example, because honestly, your mom came up in the Times where it was like, oh, get you

[Reginae Carter]

one, get you one.

[Lex P]

And she was like, okay, that wasn't. They was together when they were young.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah. Fact. 12.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Very young.

[Lex P]

Very young. So it wasn't like she was. Got pregnant with him. He was like, oh, let me get you a Birkin for a push kit.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

He was like, I love him.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, that's my man, babe.

[Dre Nicole]

And that's what I was gonna say, baby. That's my baby.

[Lex P]

That's my baby.

[Dre Nicole]

But no, that's what I was gonna say, though. Do y' all ever feel like. Though the expectations that we have these days, though, is rooted in our parents and grandparents to a certain extent. I think a lot of us were raised to feel like you gotta be with a man that's a provider. He needs to be able to provide. He needs to be able to take care of the household. But I just think that the difference is the expectations were different back then. It was like women back then was only really expecting they men to, like, pay the bills, go to work, work a 9 to 5, make an honest living. Long as you can provide for me and these kids, that's cool. We done took that shit and took

[Lex P]

it to the moon. Do y' all know how bad it is?

[Dre Nicole]

You gotta pay the bills. You gotta be a provider. You gotta buy me a G wagon. You got to take me on trips every month. You got to buy me Birkins and Chanels and all the jewelry. Need to hit up wifey. Like, it's a lot.

[Lex P]

You know who wy is. Your nigga got money. But

[Dre Nicole]

it's just that Russian ain't laughing, cuz.

[Reginae Carter]

He know in Atlanta.

[Dre Nicole]

So it's like. It's just a little ridiculous, though, these days, the expectations.

[Lex P]

It's very ridiculous. If I hate to take up for men.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, me too.

[Lex P]

I don't like taking up for men.

[Dre Nicole]

I don't like it either.

[Lex P]

But it has gotten a lot out of hand because I say this with love in my heart. A lot of the women that y' all be looking up to that are showing, oh, I just blew a hundred bands at Chanel. Or I just. He just spent this money on me. If y' all knew the men that they were talking to, it was a lot of them that we passed up. We was like, I can't do it. I can't do it.

[Reginae Carter]

You said something. Hey,

[Lex P]

we literally passed up on her. Even me with my hooting and hollering ass.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Cause them n they be, they will

[Dre Nicole]

fuck a snapping turtle if he got some money straight up.

[Lex P]

Just like that. What? You know what I'm saying? So going back to the topic at hand, when we were talking about being mysterious, I think us being vulnerable and being open, it helps women because I talked about my experience dating men with money and my bdbs and things like that. And I was like, you know what? Honestly, I will be 37 this year, and my dating experience is like, this. Somebody 37.

[Reginae Carter]

You look. Call up.

[Lex P]

We're gonna talk about. I see you.

[Reginae Carter]

I was wondering.

[Lex P]

Dude, off. I'm just playing. Yes, you.

[Reginae Carter]

You look so good. Well, 37 is still young.

[Dre Nicole]

It is.

[Reginae Carter]

But, like, I really thought that you was, like, at least 32.

[Lex P]

No, but the reason I say that. And I'm open. Cause people be like, oh, my God. Cause I don't mind sharing my age. I don't mind sharing my experiences. And I keep saying that because even with dating now, do y' all know how good it feels to date somebody you want versus somebody you need? Like, yeah, y' all felt that. That was. I'm telling you, like, it be. It feels so good. And then I can walk away anytime I can. I love to walk away, child.

[Dre Nicole]

This no longer serves me.

[Lex P]

It no longer serves me. So that's why I say it's so important. Not only, like I said, politically, of the things I was talking about earlier, but just for your. You can be selfish. I can be selfish. You know, I don't have a child yet. I don't have kids yet. Will I have a kid one day? Maybe, maybe not. I don't know. But what I know right now is I can do what I want with my money, with my time, with myself, and that's what's important. I think that it's important that we all share that message, no matter what age. And I think that's good that. Cause you're younger, you're still in your 20s, and you're letting them know, this is my life, and I'm living it. And even if you do have a man with money, whether it's your dad or a man that you're dealing with, you still doing a pod. This podcasting ain't easy. It ain't. And you still doing it. You know what I'm saying? You're acting, you're getting out there, and it's so important for people to see that, like, a man with money is cool, but you still gotta do your own.

[Reginae Carter]

Yes.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, for sure. And we always have so much respect, too, for other women in this space who start podcasts and stay consistent, because we know how difficult it is to stay consistent. Girl, you ain't got to.

[Lex P]

So, yeah, I know.

[Dre Nicole]

It's probably even more difficult.

[Lex P]

For the love of the game is crazy.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

For the love of the game.

[Dre Nicole]

Yes.

[Reginae Carter]

Do it all without, like, okay.

[Lex P]

Yes. How many episodes? Like, what's the most episodes you've recorded in a day?

[Reginae Carter]

I would say four. Ooh.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. So you in there.

[Dre Nicole]

You be doing more than us.

[Lex P]

Girl, we did four one day, and I looked at Dre at the end of the day, I said, we're never. I don't give a fuck. We're never doing this again.

[Dre Nicole]

It was when we was in London.

[Lex P]

Yes.

[Reginae Carter]

I probably did four. Probably, like, once or twice. And I told my manager, like, okay, maybe three. Yeah, maybe let's just do three.

[Lex P]

Four.

[Dre Nicole]

It's a little crazy.

[Reginae Carter]

Honestly.

[Lex P]

I don't.

[Dre Nicole]

Because after a while, it's like you get tired of hearing yourself talk. You be like, I just want to be quiet.

[Reginae Carter]

And then, like, you know, I know y' all have drinks, too. You can give them drinks.

[Lex P]

You can drink.

[Reginae Carter]

It's like, okay. At some point, you like, okay.

[Lex P]

Now in 20, 26. I'm more than 2. I'm not doing it. Yeah, if we have to do three episodes we probably gonna have to come in another day.

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[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, see, that was, like, this was my first season, so I really was, like, trying to get the feel and stuff like that. So now next season, I'm definitely gonna, like, do a lot of things different.

[Lex P]

Okay, so what are your goals with podcasting?

[Reginae Carter]

Like, I wanna do a lot. Like, I want to. I just. I wanna get on Netflix.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

That little podcast Netflix section.

[Lex P]

I wanna get on there. Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

I want, like, I want people to know me for me from my podcast. Like, you know, like, oh, I've been getting so many people come up to me. Like, I love your podcast. I love, like, I love airtime. And that's all it's about. Like, all I. My whole dream in life is just to make my name shine. Like, I love my parents. Like, I love that they did all that they did for me for me to have this light to keep it shining. But, like, I want people to know me for me, whether it's my podcast, my clothing line, me up, acting like that's all.

[Lex P]

Well, I'm gonna tell you right now, we know you. Cause you done it. Trying to tell you, you have done it. Now, before we move on, I got one more. Do your daddy. Do you get an allowance?

[Reginae Carter]

No.

[Lex P]

No. Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

No. When I was younger, like, my dad used to just send me with just money. My mama called him, like, hey, listen, stop sending this girl with money. Cause one time I went to school and I just paid for everybody lunch with it. Oh, my God.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

He just thinks you would stay.

[Reginae Carter]

She said, a thousand dollars chicken. Nothing for everybody.

[Lex P]

You want an extra milk?

[Reginae Carter]

Lunch said, listen to him. You better stop giving her all of that money. She said, nathan went to that school and paid for everybody lunch

[Lex P]

at home. Oh, okay. So what was the amount? Can we ask, like, what was the most, like, he sent you, like, at a young age. At a young age.

[Reginae Carter]

Well, his set price was like 1000.

[Lex P]

Okay?

[Reginae Carter]

Every time I would go to his house, like, 1,000. A thousand. Now, what he sent, he wasn't sending me it. Like, I was young, right?

[Lex P]

Right.

[Reginae Carter]

I was sending my mama. But if he would give Me, money, It would be a thousand. My mama was like, stop.

[Lex P]

That's a lot of money for a young child.

[Dre Nicole]

It is.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

With $1,000, even though I had, like, I had people to fly me there and back, like, I was never alone. Like, I had his people with me. But if I would leave to go back to my mom, I'm definitely flying back with like 1,000 just on hand

[Lex P]

as an 8 year old.

[Reginae Carter]

As an 8, 9, 10 year old.

[Lex P]

That's crazy.

[Reginae Carter]

My mom was like, listen, Wayne, you better stop now. She don't need all of money.

[Dre Nicole]

That is insane. That is crazy. I don't think I seen $1,000 in cash, bro.

[Lex P]

I just saw $1,000 for the first time two years ago.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay.

[Lex P]

I said, I got a comma in my account. Six foot, seven foot, eight foot. Excuse my caress, Mom. My caress. I'm so serious. Times is hard, baby.

[Dre Nicole]

It's crazy.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

I want to be a little nosy.

[Lex P]

Go ahead.

[Reginae Carter]

So do you.

[Dre Nicole]

Do you want to have kids? Is that something that you want to do? Because I know you grew up for a long time being the only child, and then you have so many siblings. So are you like, okay, I'm a big sister. I kind of help raise them.

[Lex P]

I don't know.

[Dre Nicole]

Or do you want to have some of your own

[Lex P]

one day?

[Dre Nicole]

I do want to have one day.

[Reginae Carter]

I definitely do want to have kids, but I want to be married.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

I want to have my stuff together. Kind of like, I feel like I'm not gonna say, oh, when you have kids, everything just gotta be real. Because I already know kids. It don't matter how together I am. And the kid is always gonna shake up your life.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

So I just want to just be what I like, where I'm at and like, what I wanna comfortable in just what I am. Like, probably 30, maybe 28, 29. Like one of them. 28, 29, 30. That's my. That's my years. I'm 27.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

I got like a year or two.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, you got a little spot. I definitely.

[Reginae Carter]

But I'm trying to figure. It's just. It's all. And I'm just so careful on just who I do.

[Lex P]

I'm just glad you're taking your time.

[Dre Nicole]

But you should be, though, girl.

[Reginae Carter]

You know who get this, baby.

[Lex P]

Y' all don't know. That's what I'm saying. I'm so glad that you take your time.

[Dre Nicole]

It is an heir to the throne.

[Lex P]

Oh, my gosh. That's gonna be the next podcast. Heir to the Throne, you gonna be talking to the baby and the Chanel diapers. Exactly, exactly.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, that's. But I definitely do want kids.

[Lex P]

Okay, good.

[Dre Nicole]

I like to get good that you don't feel pressure.

[Reginae Carter]

No, I don't. You want kids?

[Dre Nicole]

I do, but like, I think that we're at that age cuz I'm 34, I'm going to be 35 this year. And I just think people expect us to have kids already. So like you be feeling the pressure. But I remember even when I was your age, like almost 30, like I still felt the pressure because people start asking around that time. So I was wondering. Cause like, yeah, I think when you get to your late 20s, people kind of start asking like, where is it?

[Reginae Carter]

My group, my family group message. And literally, I'm literally the last one that don't have no kids. And I kind of was just like, this is my first time in forever. I was like, oh my God.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, I don't have the kids.

[Lex P]

But girl, my last cousin.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, like the one that was like, yeah, we gonna do this together. Yep, you got a baby.

[Lex P]

But don't succumb to the pressure. I'm telling you, you're gonna be so happy that you waited.

[Reginae Carter]

Just wa. Right.

[Lex P]

Because I think like we don't take the family unit serious anymore because although it is good for us to be independent and stuff, it's another side to it. As much as we enjoy being independent, once we bring a child into it, cool. We can both exist on our own. But it's about a child now. It's not about the money. It's about a family unit. And I think that we have, you know, normalized just being like, oh, if I'm not happy, da da da. There's a lot of times, you know, this situation is not good and a baby shouldn't be brought into it, you know. So I'm glad that you waited because again, a lot of young girls look up to you and you know, you having fun, you still having fun and doing your thing. You know what I'm saying?

[Dre Nicole]

Take your time, girl. It's not.

[Lex P]

No.

[Reginae Carter]

Real stressed out with dogs.

[Lex P]

Yeah. You have dogs?

[Reginae Carter]

Well, I gave them all away.

[Lex P]

Exactly.

[Dre Nicole]

Cause they were too stressful.

[Reginae Carter]

They were stressed. Yeah. But I am good with kids.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

I do love them.

[Lex P]

But why did you give your dogs away?

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, so you wanna know?

[Lex P]

I do.

[Reginae Carter]

So my last dog, they sold me her with like something with like her limbs were like shorter than one, so she was limping.

[Lex P]

They gave you a four.

[Reginae Carter]

Crazy. And I paid $10,000?

[Lex P]

Oh, fuck, no.

[Dre Nicole]

And they didn't tell you?

[Reginae Carter]

No, no. I paid $10,000 for the dog to get. Get the leg fixed. Like 9,000. Almost 10. But I paid a lot of money, $10,000 to get this dog fixed. Aw. And she still was limping.

[Lex P]

Oh, you wanted us.

[Reginae Carter]

And then I moved to la, so I was like, I cannot have all of this. So I gave my dog to someone who I really, really cared about. And I mean, who I knew that would really care about her.

[Lex P]

Let me ask you.

[Dre Nicole]

I can't have these limping ass dogs.

[Lex P]

It was just a dog. Wait, let me ask you something. Was everything okay with the dog and it was just limping?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, everything was okay. She just. But, like, she had a little gimp lens. I didn't want her to do all of that moving. I wanted her.

[Lex P]

Yeah, you not ready for that. You could have kept that damn dog. I thought it was like something was wrong. It was having to go to the doctor every month. No, she just.

[Reginae Carter]

She just was limping and I just felt like she deserved to be set still. Why would I bring her five hours

[Dre Nicole]

away or to just be limping?

[Lex P]

She was home already. Not too happy. You said, I want a healthy motherfucker. He was home already.

[Reginae Carter]

And then my friend's mom loved dogs.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, okay.

[Reginae Carter]

Love taking care of dogs. So I'm like, listen, if I bring her with me, I know I'm not gonna be able to give her the great care out here. Out there. It's la.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

My first year moving out there.

[Lex P]

I can't take you down Rodeo Drive and you limping, bitch. It don't feel headache. Walk straight, bitch. The fuck? I got you in a Louis Vuitton bag. Walk straight home. Oh, you really got a Louis Vuitton?

[Dre Nicole]

I know a Louis Vuitton collar.

[Lex P]

Oh, wow. Walk straight home. You hoes can't be gimp leg in a Louis Vuitton bag, bitch. Okay, but how's the dog doing today?

[Reginae Carter]

She is doing great. She still limps.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay. But she's doing great.

[Lex P]

$10,000, bitch. You better walk. You better fly off.

[Dre Nicole]

But is she still limping the same or has it improved since the surgery?

[Lex P]

Cause you could have been without the surgery.

[Reginae Carter]

That's what I'm saying. But they were trying to amputate her leg and I told her no. I told them no. So I was like, you're just gonna have to limp. I would rather you limp. Thank you. And amputate a.

[Lex P]

Well, no, sometimes you can amputate and

[Reginae Carter]

they put it in a Stroller, but

[Lex P]

they put that little stick on it and got a ball at the end and they roll on it.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, I feel like that's so.

[Dre Nicole]

That's miserable, though. I wouldn't want the dog to have

[Lex P]

to go through it as a human. I wouldn't want a limp.

[Dre Nicole]

I wouldn't want to be rolling on one leg.

[Lex P]

She be gone. Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

She be moving. Baby limping crazy.

[Lex P]

Okay. Okay, good. But as long as she. She's happy and she's not in pain. Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

No, no, no.

[Lex P]

I feel like me. If I was, I think I would rather roll.

[Reginae Carter]

That's why I got her the surgery. Cause she was in pain after surgery. She's cool now, but she just limping.

[Lex P]

But as long as she's still healthy and happy and. You did the best thing as a mother. As a mother. You made a great.

[Reginae Carter]

And it's hard a mother first.

[Lex P]

You know what? I give your props. I take that.

[Reginae Carter]

I take you was a mother first.

[Lex P]

You did what you had to do.

[Dre Nicole]

I did. You do.

[Lex P]

That's all right.

[Dre Nicole]

See, but having kids, I would say having an animal is. It's just too much like having a kid.

[Lex P]

It is, but she about to drop

[Dre Nicole]

them off at daycare. You gotta town, you gotta feed them.

[Reginae Carter]

Gotta take them off when you leave them at the house.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, yeah. I used to leave the TV on, so. Don't feel lonely.

[Lex P]

$10,000.

[Dre Nicole]

You do.

[Lex P]

Just put it.

[Dre Nicole]

She be doing that with her dog. She be playing Gracie's corner when she leave.

[Reginae Carter]

You have to so they don't feel so lonely.

[Lex P]

$10,000. Put it down.

[Dre Nicole]

Put it down.

[Lex P]

Put it Down. $10,000.

[Dre Nicole]

That is fucked up, Lex. What the.

[Lex P]

All dogs go to heaven, bitch.

[Dre Nicole]

They did say this.

[Lex P]

They did say that.

[Reginae Carter]

You. What's your sign?

[Lex P]

I'm a Leo.

[Dre Nicole]

Leo.

[Lex P]

Oh, don't do that.

[Reginae Carter]

No, I'm good people. When is your birthday?

[Lex P]

August 17th. I'm on the cusp.

[Reginae Carter]

Yes, definitely. You do not give Leo. You're so tired.

[Lex P]

You ain't on the circle a little bit. Virgos are like, on the 20th.

[Reginae Carter]

You give very much. Virgo, my best friend.

[Lex P]

People always say that. They all. I don't know what on the cusp means.

[Dre Nicole]

You know what it's like a day before.

[Lex P]

Oh, okay.

[Reginae Carter]

You think she give Virgo. She do not give Leo.

[Lex P]

I think she. What is Leo.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay. As an Earth sign. As a fellow earth sign. I don't think she gives earth signs.

[Lex P]

So that's why I. What does Leo give, though?

[Reginae Carter]

Leo gives, like, very, like, to themselves to me, like, Very, like, you know. So Leos can talk, though.

[Lex P]

Oh, I can talk.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But you know what's crazy?

[Reginae Carter]

But she's hard.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But I will say honestly, on my everyday life, Dre knows about me. I do be to myself. I'm a homebody. I love being at home.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

I am at home. Like, when people be like, oh, they'll invite me somewhere, and they'll be like, last minute. Oh, I can't make it.

[Dre Nicole]

I'm like, she be excited.

[Lex P]

So I am a homebody. I really. I'm not as extroverted as people think. You know what I'm saying? But, I mean, I am. It depends how comfortable I am.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, so I'm a true sag.

[Lex P]

You give me sag vibes.

[Dre Nicole]

I am such a true sag. You do give sag vibes.

[Lex P]

What day is your birthday?

[Reginae Carter]

November 29th.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

You know.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, my God.

[Dre Nicole]

My best friend birthday is November 28th.

[Reginae Carter]

That's the day that I was supposed to be born.

[Dre Nicole]

Really?

[Reginae Carter]

But I was born a real, like, midnight type shit.

[Lex P]

Okay. I love that. See, we gotta have you back with you and your mama.

[Dre Nicole]

We do. And that would be fun.

[Lex P]

I would love to. Cause I love her. You know what's crazy, though?

[Dre Nicole]

She has a great personality.

[Lex P]

She does. I'm not gonna lie. Y'. All. Y' all know I hate an Instagram skit. But when I tell you her shit be funny as fuck. She did a video and he was like. He was like, niggas always tell you when they got a shit, he got a car. He was like, I got a shit. Cause n be doing that.

[Reginae Carter]

I be like, dude, especially if they comfortable with her skits be so funny.

[Dre Nicole]

They do. Cause they remind me of when it, like, it was like, if he can't find me, then I'll be quiet or something like that. And she was, like, literally standing behind the door, and he looks back and he just act like he didn't see her.

[Reginae Carter]

They be so funny.

[Lex P]

It be so funny. Cause it be real lifestyle.

[Reginae Carter]

They really do be doing funny ass. They do love that for her.

[Lex P]

You better find true love. Okay, let's move on. So now it's time to get into the big bow.

[Reginae Carter]

The big. About the big bow.

[Lex P]

Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow.

[Dre Nicole]

Now, per usual, y' all know that the best segment is sponsored by soic. So y' all know we are always talking to y' all about Soxo products. Lex and I both use them religiously. We love them. I personally love the coochie wash. I have been using it for Years now. And I also love that they have it in a travel size now. It's going to have you feeling so refreshed, so clean. PH balance down there. And on top of that, that, it's all natural.

[Lex P]

Do you use feminine wash? You don't. I be so shocked. No. But it's okay, though.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Cause I was not a feminine wash, girly. I started using it, and I was using another brand, and it was cool, but I was like, okay, cool. But when I started using this. Cause Draya put me on, I was like, it's good.

[Reginae Carter]

Is it, like, good with sensitive skin? It is.

[Dre Nicole]

They have sensitive skin, so they so sensitive.

[Lex P]

Every time I touch my.

[Dre Nicole]

She spit it out. Okay.

[Lex P]

She gonna spit it out. Cause she don't like none of that.

[Dre Nicole]

That makes me nervous.

[Lex P]

She do.

[Dre Nicole]

She be.

[Lex P]

That's what she do. She don't like it. She don't like it. And so I was like, okay, I think that a sensitive wash works if you can use it every day.

[Dre Nicole]

Absolutely.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

And so my wash that I was using before, I was like, I couldn't use it. I was like. But I didn't realize it was rejecting it. This one, she eats some seeds up.

[Reginae Carter]

It does.

[Lex P]

She chews on them and it's naturally.

[Dre Nicole]

She swallows them.

[Lex P]

She likes it.

[Dre Nicole]

It's naturally scented. She only use, like, peppermint oil, tea tree oil, things like that.

[Lex P]

We going to send you home with some. They can try this little one. You're going to. I promise, every time I get in the shower, be like, come on, girl. Hey.

[Dre Nicole]

And then they also have other products too, that are good for the vajayjay. Like the rejuven oil is really, really good for if after you wax or if you a shave. It's gonna help keep those razor bumps ingrowns at bay. And it just smells.

[Lex P]

It smells so good. It helps with, like, hyperpigmentation. Because tea tree oil in there. We gonna send you home with little ones too.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay. Thank you.

[Lex P]

So you can give us an honest review next time you come back. So you let us know. Okay. What's the topic, Dre? What we talking about?

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, so for the bad topic, we're gonna talk about how long are people actually having sex? Like, what is an ideal time for you? Because I think that we've all been in situations where you was like, okay, that ain't last long enough. And then sometimes it's like, okay, well, when the fuck is this shit gonna be over? And that's usually with like the henny dick and shit.

[Lex P]

I hate Henny dick.

[Dre Nicole]

That's usual. I get a drunk nigga, a long night of drinking. You be like, when this shit gonna be over.

[Lex P]

I love a nigga that get drunk and pass out. Yeah. I don't want that Hennessy dick. It just be too much. It be too long. I think a good. Are we okay if we're not including, like, the foreplay? I think, like a good sex session or we're talking pure. Really.

[Dre Nicole]

Cheeks clapping.

[Lex P]

Cheeks clapping. Good. 10 to 15. 10 to 15. That's all I need. That's all I need. Cause honestly, when I'm by myself and I got my hot 30 seconds. Okay. Yeah. That's why n be mad when you use toys. I be like this. They can't hang with that. They can't hang with it. They can't hang with it. But I say all that to say, I think for me, 15 to 20, that's good. Anything less than that, I'm not there yet. Anything more than that, I done draw it up.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah. Yeah. I would say, like, a good.

[Dre Nicole]

Like.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah. 10, 15.

[Lex P]

See? Cause you young, though. The young girls, y' all a little different.

[Reginae Carter]

It depends. Like, it really depends.

[Dre Nicole]

Because, like.

[Reginae Carter]

Like, if I'm lit.

[Lex P]

Okay. Oh, see, I'm opposite. Okay.

[Dre Nicole]

Like, really?

[Reginae Carter]

We been like, bet. Yeah.

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

I like that.

[Lex P]

I like that. See, when I'm drunk, you ready to go to sleep? Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

I will literally cuss my nigga out

[Lex P]

if he go, oh, see, you toxic. She, like.

[Reginae Carter]

She's getting at me.

[Lex P]

A little girl.

[Reginae Carter]

I would be so mad.

[Lex P]

Okay, that makes sense, though. Cause I think I was like that when I was younger, though. Yeah. I feel like after the club or after we go out and have a good night, like, you have to have sex now. I'm like, I'll see you in the morning, sweetie.

[Dre Nicole]

I still want to. I still want to after we go out. But, like, let's wrap this shit up.

[Lex P]

Wrap it up.

[Dre Nicole]

Let's make it quick.

[Lex P]

Yeah. I think most of the time when men are drunk, though, it be going too long.

[Dre Nicole]

We be up till five in the morning.

[Lex P]

But sometimes. Sometimes, if you going too long, I think you done cheated. Where that nut at? Where that fucking nut at? Give it to me right now. Or you was cheating on me. And I wanna. Let me tell you this. I don't know.

[Reginae Carter]

Cause I be like, what if you

[Lex P]

take too long to nut? I think.

[Dre Nicole]

Cause he shouldn't take this.

[Lex P]

Shannon, if you're taking too long to nut, you fuck somebody else. Who's the bitch? Who's the bitch? And I know she ain't used that, saw that.

[Dre Nicole]

So.

[Lex P]

So I know that pussy foam.

[Dre Nicole]

No, it ain't snapping, baby.

[Lex P]

I know it stank. I know it.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, okay.

[Lex P]

I hate these hoes. Stop fucking my men.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah,

[Dre Nicole]

but you be thinking that even when y' all been together all day and stuff and then he take a long time.

[Lex P]

Yeah, yeah. I don't trust these niggas. I don't put nothing past you be

[Dre Nicole]

like that nigga yesterday.

[Lex P]

A nigga will. A nigga will go to breakfast and be like, with my family. He fucking the hole for breakfast. And what you about like? That's how they do. Yeah, I done seen it be done before. I done eat it before. I done had a nigga for breakfast, lunch and dinner. Three different ones.

[Dre Nicole]

Hey, life was a ball. See, I never did that before.

[Lex P]

We had it. We had it. A ball was had.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, okay.

[Lex P]

You know, so I feel like if a nigga is not nutting, what's the problem? Yeah, what is the problem now? Certain amount, but like I said, Hennessy dick. They're drinking too much. Some stress.

[Dre Nicole]

Maybe he don't got a good firm reserve.

[Lex P]

Don't get me started on that perky dick. Get your high.

[Reginae Carter]

It will be the perks.

[Dre Nicole]

It be the perks.

[Lex P]

It definitely do.

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[Lex P]

Are you kidding me?

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[Lex P]

change away from me. And you can tell when people on perks, y' all want to know how people, you know, people on perch, they be yelling, they voice be raspy. Yeah, they voice what's up, girl?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, so how you doing?

[Lex P]

Damn, nigga, you straight voice be raspy.

[Dre Nicole]

You need a little beaks.

[Lex P]

And it's a difference between my hooting and hollering. My hooting and hollering. This tequila hooting, hollering. Yeah, I don't seem irrational. I just seem like a drunk bitch.

[Dre Nicole]

Depends on the day.

[Reginae Carter]

Hey, hey, hey.

[Lex P]

You see, this is the second time you gave too much information.

[Dre Nicole]

I'm just saying, hey, they can see it.

[Lex P]

But I do feel like perky dick. I don't like perky dick. But you can tell when somebody be high. And let me tell y' all something right now. You and you, y' all being in Atlanta high as and we can tell. And I'm talking about y' all because I'm a messy that lives for drama.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, they be in the club high. They do be high.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

But I think we need to step away because It's a dangerous drug. Cause it's a pill, and you know they be lacing that shit. You don't know what you drink. Just take a little tequila shot, smoke a little weed. What happened to smoking weed? I mean, people still smoke weed, I think. Nah, I mean, they still smoke weed, but they ain't popping themselves.

[Reginae Carter]

Weed.

[Lex P]

But what about weed dick? I think weed dick kind of, like, elevates it. They can feel everything.

[Reginae Carter]

I don't think. I don't think weed do nothing.

[Dre Nicole]

No, me either. I don't think you do anything.

[Reginae Carter]

Maybe when niggas leave tired. Shrooms.

[Lex P]

Shrooms, they feel everything. They want you to touch every hair in them balls. You know what I'm saying? They like to.

[Dre Nicole]

How do you know when somebody on shrooms. Can you just tell?

[Lex P]

Yes. Yeah. I told you, Niggas on shrooms be kind of trippy. No, Red.

[Reginae Carter]

I feel like when people on shrooms, they look like zombies, too.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

They go through, like, episodes or something.

[Lex P]

I think drugs is just a. And mushrooms are counted as drugs. Honestly. They are. I think it's just a very.

[Dre Nicole]

They be trying to say psychedelics.

[Lex P]

Psychedelics. Yeah. It's a very thin line, right?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Because they try to make it seem like, oh, this is. It comes from the dirt. It's natural, girl.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah. I don't really, like.

[Lex P]

See, they sell something like that with Dre because she love health shit. What? They be like, it came from the ground. It's natural.

[Reginae Carter]

Dre be like, well, I love the white guys.

[Dre Nicole]

I do. I'm really into, like, health and wellness and stuff. I'm not vegan. No. I don't think I could do that, girl. I done tried. I done went through my little periods where, like, I stopped eating meat for a few months, then I started back. I don't know. I just love some chicken and steak.

[Lex P]

But as little shrimp. She eats all of it. She got them abs.

[Dre Nicole]

I do.

[Lex P]

But what I say. What I say is that they'll try to sell you on it, like, oh, it comes from the ground, but you got to talk about the chemical imbalance that he creates. You know what I'm saying? I'm sorry.

[Dre Nicole]

I would rather. I want to ask y', all, would you rather like, 10amazing minutes of sex or 45? That's like trash

[Jana Kramer]

10.

[Dre Nicole]

But it lasts.

[Reginae Carter]

I mean, well, not trash. Let's not.

[Dre Nicole]

Let's not say trash. Average. 45 average minutes versus 10amazing minutes.

[Reginae Carter]

10amazing.

[Lex P]

I agree. I can't do. I'm struggling to get through a 45 minute episode. I can't do nothing for 45 minutes. Do you know I will eat a whole plate of beans, toast, eggs, everything in five minutes? 45 minutes. Who is. I don't wanna do.

[Dre Nicole]

Why are you eating beans, eggs and toast at the same time?

[Lex P]

I'm British. I was about to say bitch.

[Dre Nicole]

Where are we in Atlanta or are we in London?

[Lex P]

British.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah. 45 minutes is way.

[Lex P]

45 minutes for anything is a long time. People don't realize.

[Reginae Carter]

Four play count.

[Dre Nicole]

Four play counts.

[Lex P]

Okay, four play counts. Hold on, hold on. Now you done mixed it up on my head.

[Dre Nicole]

You gotta do a little razzle that.

[Lex P]

Okay, so 10 minutes of sex or 45 minutes of foreplay? In sex, yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

But the foreplay in sex is average.

[Lex P]

Ooh.

[Reginae Carter]

Cause I like getting that thing a couple minutes, right?

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, foreplay be about, you know, 10 minutes.

[Lex P]

Oh, duh. Cause I like getting that thing eight. Yeah. I might have to take that 45 though. If you eating it in the 10 minutes. You not eating it.

[Dre Nicole]

Cuz the 10, he just.

[Lex P]

I need that thing eight up. I need it eight up.

[Dre Nicole]

The 10. He just jumping in there.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Give me that 45. The 45. Give it to me.

[Reginae Carter]

I like to get it eight up is definitely the.

[Lex P]

You going for the 40? Are you going for the 10 or you going for the 45? If you. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Jana Kramer]

Yes.

[Dre Nicole]

I don't know. I think the quality matters more than the duration. Like you want it to be a nice little session, but I care more about it being good than I care about it lasting real long.

[Lex P]

But what about him eating it?

[Dre Nicole]

Oh, he gots to eat it.

[Lex P]

But then the 10 minutes he not eating it.

[Dre Nicole]

It's a pig's pussy pork.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Hello. Oink, oink.

[Dre Nicole]

She gots to eat it.

[Lex P]

Come on, give it up.

[Dre Nicole]

It's not negotiable.

[Lex P]

That's what I'm saying. You know what?

[Reginae Carter]

So every time. Time.

[Dre Nicole]

Not every time. Cuz I do think sometimes, you know, you have those moments where it's like a quickie. It spur of the moment. It's spontaneous. You ain't always got time for him to eat it.

[Lex P]

Like I a suck every time. Move that dick out the. I ain't sucking no dick every time.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah. Hell no.

[Dre Nicole]

That dress up sometimes go back and I'm not.

[Lex P]

You got me up.

[Dre Nicole]

Good night.

[Lex P]

I'm not sucking dick every time. Get that motherfucker out my face, bro.

[Dre Nicole]

You gonna get locked off.

[Reginae Carter]

Not every time.

[Lex P]

I don't want that dick in my mouth. Move around so I'll give him A break. But you gotta give me a break. Ho, Edna.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

One bone for bone.

[Dre Nicole]

We going bone for bone.

[Lex P]

Okay, y' all, come on now. We gots to move on. Cause Ratchet'. Nae. Thank you for talking about that with us. Cause I know you are a nice young lady and you don't usually talk about sex. We was nervous when we did the rundown of that. Is she gonna. But she did say 45? Yeah, we got that out of her. Okay. Okay. It's a good 10.

[Reginae Carter]

But definitely, if it's a 4, play 45.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, yeah.

[Reginae Carter]

See, the aunties gotta be good, though.

[Lex P]

Your aunties gonna be mad at you.

[Reginae Carter]

I know they all having it, too.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

Where did I put my.

[Dre Nicole]

Hey, that's how we all got here.

[Reginae Carter]

That's how that is.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? Okay, so now it's time to get. Get into the bop. Hey, the bop. Hey, the bop. Bow, bow, bow, bow, bow, bow. So our bop of the week is like songs that we've been jamming this week, Whatever we've been listening to.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay?

[Lex P]

So y' all know usually for my bop, I'll go first. So think about what song you want to have. So usually, y' all know for my bop of the week, I have, like a indie song or something like R and B that nobody's heard. But I'm not going to lie. I have been, you know, in the gym lately working out. And did I make. I don't know if I made this my bop of the week before. So I have two. So auntie has been getting into the kids music. Okay. Pluto and NBA Youngboy, they have a song called Two Crash Outs. And when I say that's my shit,

[Reginae Carter]

I have never heard it.

[Lex P]

I know you haven't. It's called Two Crash Outs. Cause period, we gonna crash out.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay.

[Lex P]

Yeah. And I think it's just. It's a good workout song. Sometimes when I back my raggedy ass car in my car raggedy girl I ain't buying a new one And I back my raggedy slab in that's how I feel in a moment. But you know what? I'm not gonna lie. Like, I always felt like NBA YoungBoy was too young for me and I couldn't get into his music. But the more I listen to his verses, like, he's got a new song with Coi Leroy that I heard recently. I was like, I get it. Sometimes you gotta understand. Because you know what?

[Reginae Carter]

I feel you understand it.

[Lex P]

I understand. Cause the kids. Sometimes the kids don't understand Lil Wayne. And when we talk about Lil Wayne, y' all be trying to play. So one thing about being a real musical person, you have to understand what the new generations love, what the old generations love. You know what I'm saying? So I was like, okay, I get it.

[Reginae Carter]

Oh, you're talking about music wise. Music wise of the. The females. That's what I thought.

[Dre Nicole]

She was like, I get.

[Lex P]

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. See, see, see, see, see, See how she misses? See how she do. It's going to be air time in the video. Going to be air time.

[Dre Nicole]

They're gonna get what?

[Lex P]

Uh huh. You know, I had. I had to hit that untan you on them. Uh huh.

[Reginae Carter]

No reconnaissance.

[Lex P]

But yeah, this is my bop of the week, Pluto. NBA young boy crash out. Yeah, y' all listen to it. It's about. Okay, you don't like it, Y' all work. You work. You gonna work out. I know you work out. I know you do.

[Dre Nicole]

You got nice legs, too.

[Lex P]

Like, you got legs.

[Dre Nicole]

Like you work.

[Lex P]

Body is teeth.

[Dre Nicole]

Yes, thank you.

[Reginae Carter]

I love my legs.

[Lex P]

You do.

[Dre Nicole]

You have really nice legs.

[Reginae Carter]

They say, you know, I could crack like a watermelon with.

[Lex P]

Ooh, a walnut. I was gonna say a walnut. Bitch said a watermelon.

[Dre Nicole]

They're nice and tone.

[Lex P]

They are body Ben. Teeth. Body ben.

[Dre Nicole]

Te.

[Lex P]

Yeah. Okay, so you gonna listen to. To it? Yep, I am. No, you know, I'mma send it to

[Dre Nicole]

you in the DMs.

[Reginae Carter]

I'll be like, listen to me. Send it to me.

[Lex P]

Yeah, listen to this track.

[Dre Nicole]

Not with a park voice.

[Lex P]

Oh, I done got too lit the time. Yeah, I'm over here.

[Reginae Carter]

What's your song?

[Lex P]

Okay.

[Reginae Carter]

It get hot Hunter. It Get Hot feeling. I really like that song.

[Lex P]

So, you know, they.

[Reginae Carter]

It's a good workout song.

[Lex P]

Okay. Cause you know, I don't like what they doing to hunt, y' all right now.

[Reginae Carter]

What are they doing?

[Lex P]

Y' all know I'm a TikTok scroller. And they're talking about his birthday song. They said, she eat it's her birthday.

[Dre Nicole]

I like that song.

[Lex P]

I did too.

[Reginae Carter]

Everybody loves that song.

[Lex P]

And I said, don't she eat? It's your birthday. You eat on your birthday.

[Dre Nicole]

You eat every day.

[Reginae Carter]

But they mad at you on your birthday that he's saying, she eat.

[Lex P]

Well, they said, like, that's not the real lyrics. They were like, it's basic and it don't sound good. You know, this is what I have. I love TikTok. Cause I think it's funny and it lets people Be creative. But it's so scary, though, because you can create something that you feel so passionate about, and they're gonna make fun of it. Like, if you act in something. Like, if you make a song, somebody's gonna create a parody of it. Yeah, it's horrifying, but I like that

[Dre Nicole]

parody of sixteen Carriages by Beyonce.

[Lex P]

You know? She love this shit. Go ahead, Dre. She love this shit. Go ahead. Give it to him. Come on, now. Say it.

[Dre Nicole]

It was this gay dude, and he was like 16n canceled on me while I douched my ass to the water sleep.

[Lex P]

What? Yeah, sing it.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, that's was catchy, though.

[Lex P]

It is.

[Reginae Carter]

It was like, why was overly catchy?

[Dre Nicole]

You were overly catchy to me.

[Lex P]

But that's the horrible. I'm not gonna lie.

[Dre Nicole]

I know you not talking. You was on TikTok. Talk about, you know it's tea when you see them two n fucking.

[Reginae Carter]

Ooh, ooh.

[Lex P]

No, that's the third time you need to shut. I wasn't even gonna say that. I did. I got drunk and I said, that's. I thought that was the lyrics. I did.

[Dre Nicole]

I'm surprised you ain't see it, Richard. It was all up.

[Lex P]

It went. I did. I messed up the lyrics. I can't get drunk. I get drunk and get on live. So I blocked myself from getting on live, okay. Because I feel like I have ruined myself and my image. I'm mysterious. I'm mysterious.

[Dre Nicole]

You was cutting up.

[Lex P]

So I blocked myself from getting on live. Cause, yeah, I got on live, and I said that, and I didn't mean it.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Lex P]

So, yeah, you gotta clean up the image sometimes. Yeah. So Draya. Oh, you got your bop. Honcho was her bop. Dre, what's your bop?

[Dre Nicole]

I like that. I like Honcho.

[Lex P]

I feel like that needs to be

[Dre Nicole]

a hard on him before I get into my bop. Did y' all see? He said he was about to stop rapping?

[Lex P]

Cause there's so many. That's what I was saying.

[Dre Nicole]

He done.

[Lex P]

They're so mean to him and Honcho. That's a beautiful man. To make beautiful music.

[Reginae Carter]

Honcho Huncho. I died in a car accident Then been called fat, ugly, all types of crazy. They gonna be mean to you, baby. Don't.

[Lex P]

Never said I was dating boss Mandela. What? Oh, yeah, they sure did. They did. Why would they say. Because I was so live and I said emotion party. Yeah. This about you could not get in my julio. I'll drink it gin babby the little bit dang. Like a little shit. Rich like a fat boy.

[Reginae Carter]

Really like that.

[Lex P]

I just like the song. They said I don't fuck it. And the girls was in the comments. It was one I'mma talk about. I don't give a fuck. It was one hoe in the comments like, bitch, everybody done fucked him in Miami.

[Dre Nicole]

You need to.

[Lex P]

First of all, ho, I looked at your page. Ho, you is popping that pussy and showing them feet. You got bunions and selling feet pictures. Go. Go get a job. What?

[Dre Nicole]

But ain't a demographic of people that like. I thought people like the bunion P.

[Lex P]

I guess they do.

[Reginae Carter]

They do. Well, I just know that people love feet.

[Lex P]

They do love feet.

[Reginae Carter]

They love feet. They get a lot of money from selling your feet.

[Lex P]

Would you ever sell your feet?

[Reginae Carter]

I would overly. I would overly sell my fee on Assassin.

[Lex P]

Reginae. I'm not gonna lie to you. You could probably sell your feet pictures. They have anonymous pages.

[Dre Nicole]

They gonna know it's version. They feet, they gonna go on Google search.

[Reginae Carter]

I'm gonna be like, what feet is this?

[Lex P]

They gonna getty. Getty them feet.

[Reginae Carter]

Like what? I would definitely sell my feet. Mm.

[Lex P]

See, I can't sell mine. They too long. No, hell no. My feet uglier than a bee.

[Reginae Carter]

They not that bad and they ugly.

[Lex P]

She said they not that bad. They're not that bad.

[Dre Nicole]

Girl, don't say they not bad.

[Lex P]

This looks like, girl, your feet is pretty, bitch. She said they're not. I love poor minds.

[Reginae Carter]

But you know what I love?

[Dre Nicole]

When people don't let their intrusive thoughts, you know, that's all right.

[Lex P]

But I know what I got. Cause I would've been like, oh, I'm a big bitch. My feet is. They long and they strong and they down to get the friction off. Did you give us friction? You never heard that song?

[Dre Nicole]

No.

[Lex P]

Okay. What's your bop of the week, man?

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, so I can't remember if I said this before, but I like Tim's song, what you need. It's a really, really good song.

[Lex P]

Okay. I like Tim.

[Dre Nicole]

It's like a. It's a ballad. And, like, depending on what you going through in life, like, if you're going through a breakup or something, it really will make you cry.

[Lex P]

What's that word?

[Dre Nicole]

It's real deep she's talking about. She basically is just saying, like, you love the person, but you know that you're not what they need in their life, and they're not what you. You need. And it doesn't matter that y' all want each other. Y' all just. It's deep.

[Reginae Carter]

Girl, do you have, like, some truth to, like, do you love somebody a little bit?

[Lex P]

Cuz that's a song.

[Reginae Carter]

So you going through a little.

[Lex P]

You feel it a little bit, girl.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, all right.

[Dre Nicole]

And I got these little. Cuz I just finished 75 hard. So I wasn't drinking for 75 days, really, but I was still, like, drinking little, like, THC drinks and stuff. And so one night I was at my house and I drunk too much of the little THC drink, and I was high and. And I just was listening to the song and I just kept crying and

[Reginae Carter]

I was like, oh, my God.

[Dre Nicole]

And I cried myself to sleep. It was sad. But it's a really good song, though.

[Lex P]

Sometimes I feel like she's not really from here, but she gets it and she knows it.

[Reginae Carter]

She's not from here.

[Lex P]

You know what I'm saying? No, I didn't mean that. I mean, we are not the same. I am a Martian, technically. You know what I mean? I was trying to reference your daddy. We are not the same. I am.

[Dre Nicole]

And Janae said she not from America.

[Reginae Carter]

She's definitely not from here.

[Lex P]

Oh, yeah. You know what I mean? I think sometimes lyrically and. Okay, so y' all remember on Sinners, when he was singing the songs, it. It summoned things, I think, you know, Tim's voice is just different. You know, she. She summons you.

[Reginae Carter]

She summons you.

[Lex P]

Yes. Lil Wayne used to summon me. That's why I started popping that part. Excuse me. Him and two chains did that. That's why I went and I shaked some ass. Damn. She just when.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, what was the song that summoned you?

[Lex P]

Oh, it was so many. What was the song that Lil Wayne sang that made me be like, you know what? I can pop some. Oh, what is a popping song that he had? Oh, you know what? I'm not going to lie. The mainstream song that he had, because this was a song that went over to the white clubs. It was Lollipop. That's how Call Me is. I can get it. He can call me and I can get it juicy for him. For a price.

[Reginae Carter]

Like what?

[Lex P]

For a price. I'll get it juicy for you. Shady.

[Reginae Carter]

What a f. I know.

[Lex P]

And I did Bottles in the Club.

[Reginae Carter]

Do you have a boyfriend?

[Lex P]

I have. God. Let's move on. All right, Fresnay, this is your. We are interviewing a year.

[Dre Nicole]

You bitch.

[Lex P]

Y' all asking me all these questions. Where is y'?

[Reginae Carter]

All

[Lex P]

Bottles in the Cloud? Shadijuana.

[Reginae Carter]

Whoa.

[Lex P]

All right, Drea, we got get a

[Reginae Carter]

support

[Lex P]

so I can get it.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, so now it's time to get into our favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out. You know, if you have any questions, send them to ask poor minds gmail dot com. That's a S k P O U r M I n D S Gmail dot com. Send us your questions. Send us your testimonials. Reginae, do you feel like you give good advice?

[Reginae Carter]

Yes.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay. Okay, we gonna test it out, cuz, girl, they be asking us some crazy sometime.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, here we go, girl.

[Dre Nicole]

Okay, so question number one. Am I wrong for having a baby by a man I barely even knew? Okay, so I was basically in a relationship with a man, but while we were together, I was cheating on him with multiple men. Almost a year after my baby was born, me and the man I was dating at the time had found out it wasn't his. To keep it short, he went to jail. I had about five men get DNA tested. The man that was the father, I don't really know anything about him, was a sneaky link, but now he doesn't want to be in the baby's life. Am I wrong for pressing him to step in as a father? Even if he told me from the beginning when I told him I was pregnant, that he didn't want anything to do with it? What should I do? By the way, I put him on child support out of backlash.

[Lex P]

You need to put your baby on antibiotics. Oh, Lord, it was born with a clap. That baby came out. What?

[Dre Nicole]

What?

[Lex P]

That baby came out lumped up. All right, here. Hey, five. No, you letting five niggas. I don't care. It's time to shame.

[Dre Nicole]

Well, Richard Knight. What do you think? What show? Yeah, what you think, Cece?

[Reginae Carter]

I would say definitely. I would say therapy. Just one. Just go to therapy. Just because you can't blame any of the five men that you slept with because you actually put them in that situation to be questionable about who's the father anyway. So I would say just go to therapy because you have a lot of things to work on within yourself and then especially if you're trying to raise a child and bring a child in this world, too.

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[Lex P]

Are you kidding me?

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[Reginae Carter]

You know, potentially raising one day if that's a girl following your footsteps. So start with therapy first. I can't give you no time. Damn. Nothing else. Therapy now is crazy.

[Dre Nicole]

Are you an advocate for therapy? You go to you therapy girl? Me too, yes. I love the little therapy.

[Reginae Carter]

I love therapy. I feel like it's a really good outlet to be in and to sit down and really not have a bias, you know, opinion or by anybody biased telling you things. Also it have you questioning certain things that you do. Like asking yourself questions that you free really probably never even thought about asking yourself.

[Dre Nicole]

Yeah, I agree. It definitely hold the mirror up girl. Like you can't hide from it when you're talking to the therapist.

[Lex P]

What's your advice for her?

[Dre Nicole]

Well, I definitely agree. I think she should go to therapy for sure. But I don't know. I just think when it comes to pressing people to do things, it just never really work out. Like unfortunately you put yourself in a situation, a vulnerable situation where the possibility is that you were sleeping with numerous men. You didn't know who the father was going to be. And the man who ended up being the father, he doesn't want anything to do with the child. It's not like y' all were in a relationship and it's not like y' all agreed upon having this baby and then he switched up on you. You put yourself in a messed up situation from jump. So I just think if he doesn't want to be a part of the child's life, you can't really press him to do that. You just got to make your peace with the situation and is it up?

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

Cuz I think who don't want to be in their children lives are weird as like you're a weird ass. I just think being creating a child and not wanting anything to do with them is just strange as to me.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah, I think strange as well because you're. You're sleeping with five different men. Do you even want a family? Hello?

[Lex P]

He wanted that nut she wanted. He wanted that nut she needs to go to jail.

[Dre Nicole]

She did want that nud and she

[Lex P]

got it too much.

[Dre Nicole]

She got a little too much nut

[Lex P]

actually when Luther Vandross said never too much, he wasn't talking about that bit.

[Reginae Carter]

Yeah.

[Dre Nicole]

So I just think that like she can't be upset that the, that the man doesn't want to be a part of it. I mean you put him on child support she said out of backlash. So it's like at least he's contributing financially. And at the end of the day, I mean that's just what it is. I feel like eventually though she'll find a man who it's. Men love single mothers.

[Lex P]

They do they really do.

[Dre Nicole]

A baby ain't never stop nothing, but

[Reginae Carter]

just don't leave with the five men.

[Dre Nicole]

Right?

[Lex P]

Yeah. Don't tell nobody. And don't write into no more pot. I would take that to the grave, baby. Okay, we have reached the end of the episode. Let us know what where everybody can find you. Find your podcast. What you got coming up. All that good stuff.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay. So you can find me on IG Isregene Carter. My podcast is airtime on YouTube and Spotify, and I'm issrejanacarter on. Well, actually, that's hacked. Yeah, my Twitter's hacked.

[Lex P]

But don't by be on there no more, girl.

[Reginae Carter]

Nobody be there.

[Lex P]

Nobody. I mean, people be on there, but it's not like how it used to be. I be on there just being messy.

[Reginae Carter]

Okay, so.

[Lex P]

But they didn't mean on there.

[Reginae Carter]

So other than that, stay tuned to everything that I'm doing. And I had a great time.

[Lex P]

Oh, we know. This was fun.

[Dre Nicole]

This was such a fun episode.

[Lex P]

It was. I love when we have the girls on. We always have the girls.

[Dre Nicole]

I was like, we gotta come on your show. But we in heirs.

[Lex P]

Yeah, well, you know, I am. I am an heir. Exactly. Y' all know that. Those.

[Dre Nicole]

That's your auntie.

[Lex P]

Really? Yes.

[Dre Nicole]

You ain't nailing the wig.

[Lex P]

Look at the wigs. Look at the wigs.

[Dre Nicole]

Now by wigs, y' all could be related.

[Lex P]

All right, thank y' all so much for tuning in. We coming on airtime.

[Dre Nicole]

Dee, delete that part.

[Lex P]

Delete that shit. It is y' all related, though.

[Reginae Carter]

It's crazy.

[Lex P]

We'll see y' all next time.

[Dre Nicole]

Not played.

[Lex P]

Reginae and the Carter. I'm a Carter. How you doing? My name Lex Carter. Lexi in the building. See, baby, little secret, secret, secret I

[Dre Nicole]

want and that's how we got to keep keep it see, baby, you my little secret secret, secret you won't tell

[Reginae Carter]

I won't tell the necessary gotta keep it did anybody see you coming to

[Dre Nicole]

my house last night when I got

[Reginae Carter]

your message in my beeper that you want to do everything I like all right, all right. Like being in the same room with you and your girlfriend the fact that she don't know that really turns me on should never guess in a million years that we got this thing going on they don't really know you're my little secret and that's how we should keep it Never let no, never let him show, you know, like I know that he never let him go Rich

[Dre Nicole]

and a show solo.

[Reginae Carter]

Anybody new it. It was you in my house that I was creeping to all the time I promise you do it cuz I find it hard to keep you off of my mind baby I like me to stay real with you and your girlfriend the fact that she don't know it really turns me on she'll never guess in a million years that we got this thing going mommy everybody's my about you and I they think so

[Dre Nicole]

but they don't really really know

[Reginae Carter]

secret and that's how we should keep it never let them know never let it show cause you know like I know

[Dre Nicole]

that we should never let it go

[Lex P]

everybody yeah but you got to know how you got to know we you got to know why my infatuation with you is taking me on an emotional.

[Dre Nicole]

Go ahead K. We tried our best

[Lex P]

I thought it sounded good to me

[Dre Nicole]

we need a that's what we had

[Lex P]

Shout out to Reginae and the car I see y' all for Thanksgiving.

[Reginae Carter]

Thank you.

[Lex P]

See y' all next week. Bye y'.

[Reginae Carter]

All.

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[Reginae Carter]

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