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Curtis '50 Cent' Jackson
If you're not watching BMF on Stars, you're seriously missing out from executive producer Curtis 50 Cent Jackson. The new season is coming and Meech and Terry are leveling up. They're expanding their empire, launching a music label and even hitting the 1995 Source Awards. Oh, and did I mention Lamar is back. BMF is where drama, hustle and hip hop collide. The drama top tier, the stakes higher than ever. This is the season everyone's going to be talking about. Don't miss the season premiere June 6th only on Starz and the Starz app.
DJ Envy
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Charlamagne Tha God
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Katherine Townsend
Appointed seats are optional features over the years of making my true crime podcast Hell n Gone, I've learned no town is too small for murder. I'm Katherine Townsend. I've heard from hundreds of people across the country with an unsolved murder in their community.
Charlamagne Tha God
I was calling about the murder of my husband. The murder is still out there.
Katherine Townsend
Each week I investigate a new case. If there is a case we should Hear about, call 678-744-6145. Listen to Helen Gone Murderline on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Dan Flores
Why is a soap opera western like Yellowstone so wildly successful? The American west with Dan Flores is the latest show from the Meat Eater Podcast Network. So join me starting Tuesday, May 6th where we'll delve into stories of the west and and come to understand how it helps inform the ways in which we experience the region today.
Charlamagne Tha God
Listen to the American west with Dan Flores on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.
Carlos Miller
Wake that ass up early in the morning.
DJ Envy
The Breakfast Club Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy. Just hilarious. Charlamagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club Lolla Roses here as well. And we got a special guest in the building.
Drew Sidora
Yes indeed.
DJ Envy
You know her from Real Housewives of Atlanta, Ladies and gentlemen, Drew Sedora.
Podcast Host
Welcome.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, snap. Good morning, y' all.
Dan Flores
How you feeling?
Charlamagne Tha God
How are you? I'm good. I'm good. I actually have been in New York for a couple days, so the city's been showing me love. I'm not tired. I'm. I'm awake.
Drew Sidora
You are?
Charlamagne Tha God
I'm here with y' all.
Drew Sidora
Yes.
Just Hilarious
How's your energy? How's your energy?
Charlamagne Tha God
My energy is better. You know, I've been going through a lot, but I feel like where y' all have seen me for the past, what, two years? I'm definitely in a more healed place. Yeah.
Podcast Host
When did you get to that place?
Charlamagne Tha God
Honestly. Honestly, working on my album was, like, my therapy. So I think that just being able to get all of those emotions out and just do something productive and put it all on paper and leave it there, that was a big part of, you know, my healing journey for breaking.
DJ Envy
Down for people that don't know what you're talking about, because a lot of people might not watch the Housewives of Atlanta.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
DJ Envy
So she was on Housewives of Atlanta. You recently got a divorce, A separation.
Charlamagne Tha God
Well, it's not official yet. Separation is still going through the process.
DJ Envy
Which is a weird separation. Cause he lives in the basement.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yes.
DJ Envy
And you live upstairs.
Drew Sidora
Yes.
DJ Envy
And you're not allowed downstairs.
Podcast Host
Yes. And he's been there for.
Charlamagne Tha God
And he's not allowed to come upstairs unless I grant him access. It's just like, I've never heard of this. Like, I don't know anybody else that I can say. Girl, how did you deal with this? You know, I've never heard of this, and I did not know that would ever be something the judge would rule on. So it makes it extra complicated. It's already hard enough. Divorce is already tough enough. But, you know, to run into each other in the driveway or. You know what I mean? Like, it's a lot. You have to.
Drew Sidora
Well, how did it even come to that point that. Who said that this how it should be, like? Because I've never heard of that. Did he say, I want to live and I want to remain in the house? And, like, how did that happen?
Charlamagne Tha God
He was basically like, I'm not leaving. Like, his attorneys were like, yeah, he's not gonna leave the premises. And so. Have you seen that movie War of. Was it World of Roses?
DJ Envy
World of Roses.
Charlamagne Tha God
Thank you. Yeah, right. It's like that in real life, you know, where it's the asset in the marriage. And so what I've been learning through this process, like, you know, it's love, and it's like pure bliss. And we built this beautiful family, and we're building legacy, and then all of a sudden, we're going through a divorce. And now it's all business. It's like, you know, a negotiation of, so the asset being the house. It's a big deal, you know, and so I would love to just split everything, like, hey, 50, 50. Keep it simple. We can be done. But he's like, I want everything. I want the house. I want 40% of your business that I've had since 2005. It's my company, you know, and he's coming for that. And it's. It's just.
DJ Envy
How did y' all get there, though? What started the separation? People assumed it was cheating. People assumed it was so many different things. How did y' all get there?
Just Hilarious
Let's go, girl. I like when you get in your bag. I like when you get in your Real Housewives bag. I like when you get in your.
Charlamagne Tha God
Real Housewives bag, Daddy.
Just Hilarious
When you be scrambling and scrambling. Your Real Housewives bag.
Charlamagne Tha God
I like that in the housewife.
DJ Envy
All right, I'm sorry.
Charlamagne Tha God
Okay, so you know everything. So then you watched it.
DJ Envy
Explain to people. So what happened?
Charlamagne Tha God
Right? So a lot. So we lived in Chicago. I'm from Chicago originally. Born and raised. And we lived there for some time. And it was a lot of women, you know? It was a lot of women, you know, the whole finding things in your phone or finding. I got family. Like, it's family. Everybody knows we live here. People seeing you out. Sir. At dinner with women. So it was a lot of that.
Just Hilarious
So you were in his phone.
Charlamagne Tha God
I did at one point.
Just Hilarious
Why you so nosy?
Drew Sidora
Excuse me?
Just Hilarious
Why can't you let him and that. Why can't you let him and his women be.
Charlamagne Tha God
Wow. Charlotte man over there talking about, I need to ask you some questions. You know what?
Podcast Host
At first, I thought it was.
Charlamagne Tha God
Cause was.
Podcast Host
He just don't watch the show. Then I'm like, oh, no. He trying to get her.
Charlamagne Tha God
He being the. Aren't you from South Carolina?
Just Hilarious
Yes, ma' am.
Charlamagne Tha God
Cousins.
DJ Envy
Really?
Charlamagne Tha God
I think so. Oh, he. Oh, I think from downstairs. Oh, yeah.
Just Hilarious
Huge. Yeah.
Charlamagne Tha God
Hu.
Just Hilarious
Right by M's Corner. Oh, right by.
Charlamagne Tha God
You know, he got a lot of cousins. You remember cousin Courtney on the show?
Podcast Host
Oh, yeah. He don't. He don't know cousin Courtney.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, you see, I don't.
DJ Envy
So wait. So back up.
Charlamagne Tha God
So that was.
DJ Envy
That was in Chicago. You found out, but then y' all moved to Atlanta. You forgave him.
Charlamagne Tha God
I Did you know? Because let me tell you. So my parents were married for 60 years till my dad passed away. So I grew up in a household, you know, where I saw people choose each other every day. Fight, makeup, you know, that was just what I saw. So that's what I wanted for myself. So when I got married, it was like, this is what we go through. We're gonna talk about it, communicate and move forward. So, yes, I did forgive him. We moved to Atlanta and he left and went to Tampa for three days. Everyone saw that on national tv. But it was embarrassing, you know what I mean? Like, you leave your family and you don't tell us where you went. And it was more so because it was public, you know, and humiliation and embarrassment. And I think that was tough.
DJ Envy
That was the last straw. That was it for you.
Charlamagne Tha God
I mean, it was that. And it was just the continuous behavior of, like, dealing with other women and then coming on the show. And then there was women saying, oh, they were pregnant. It was a particular woman who reached out and said she was pregnant with this baby. And that was a big. That was a big thing. That was probably one of the biggest straws. And then it was the disrespect of my mom, you know, of my family, the disrespect of my son JoJo, my 14 year old. So it was just very layered. And finally he moved out of the bedroom. So we separated. And we were separated at the time, so it was a huge separation. We were trying to repair things, but ultimately it just wasn't able to be repaired.
DJ Envy
And I thought you cheated at one time.
Charlamagne Tha God
Well, that's what he says. You know, it was almost like, oh, she's hanging out and having fun. Oh, this is my moment. You know? And now it flipped to like a victim mentality when that really wasn't what it was.
DJ Envy
And it's Pride month, so they thought it was a girl.
Podcast Host
Oh, well, they thought that before this month. Oh, yeah. But I heard you talk about it on Carlos King.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Podcast Host
And that was my first time actually hearing you explain it the way you did. So he had alleged that you were dating a woman at the time and that's who you were cheating with. And you said at the time you were going through so much with him that you would have taken attention from a cardboard box. Please talk about that.
Just Hilarious
Is it cheating if it's eating?
Charlamagne Tha God
What are we eating?
Drew Sidora
What is the matter with you, girl? Lord.
Charlamagne Tha God
Just the comic relief of the situation that you need. I mean, you know, I wouldn't say there was eating you know, we were hanging out. That's still my girl to this day. Like, we're still friends, but I think it was extra sauce placed on it. I will say. Okay. Flirting. Yeah. Like, I'll be honest about that. A little nibble. A little nibbled on some food. We went to dinner. We was eating at the dinner table. But all of the extra stuff, I mean, you have to really watch the show and know who Ralph is. He is very much a narcissist. And that's who I married. That's who I chose to love. But at the end of the day, what happened, happened. People have actually witnessed it. The disrespect, so to say. Okay, I'm hanging with this woman, and now it's a relationship that just came out of nowhere. There was never any evidence. Where's the receipt? Like, you know, people can say things. Does it make it true? People say things about you, you know, is everything true?
Drew Sidora
Not everything, but a lot of things.
Just Hilarious
How do you balance healing in private when your pain is being monetized on reality tv?
Charlamagne Tha God
Honestly, you know, that time that we did not come right back on the show, I was actually grateful because that was the time I took just to self. Like, I spent my time alone. You know, I just completely shut down and I did a lot of praying. And like I said, honestly, people may not have understood why I said Dennis was my angel on earth, but really, it was. I was very grateful because it was a blessing at that time to have somewhere to go. A lot of times, like, I didn't want to wake up. I didn't get out the bed. It's like, you just don't feel productive. Like, overwhelmed. Depression is real. So it was just knowing that I have people supporting me, believing in me, and are rooting for me, and I had to show up, you know, for that. And when I got to the studio, it was like, okay, I made, you know, and then being able to compile all this body of work and have a productive outlet, like I said, it was exactly what I needed to get me to the other side, where I am now.
Podcast Host
Looking back, because your project is here, the music is here, but looking back on it, you brought up the Dennis angel on Earth comment and that the people had conversations about that for a while.
Charlamagne Tha God
Ugh. I know.
DJ Envy
It was crazy grimy. I'm not gonna lie. You look shady when it first came out, because it came out that you were working with Porsches.
Just Hilarious
Porsche's. Dennis? Yes.
Drew Sidora
What other dentist is out here? Yes. Portia's dentist is a Shock.
Charlamagne Tha God
For me, it's the utter shock.
Podcast Host
Remember, we had the conversation with Portia about this whole thing? Now, this is.
DJ Envy
And it was assumed that you did it behind Portia's back without having. Without talking to Portia. But that wasn't true.
Charlamagne Tha God
It didn't happen like that. See, there we go. See, we gotta talk about it. Cause that's not how it happened. So actually, you know, this is during the time Portia was living her African princess life. You saw it. She was in Dubai, she was in Nigeria. She wasn't checking for her girls. You know, I was calling her. So on the record, I called Portia a bunch of times to tell her.
DJ Envy
That you were gonna work with Dennis. Yes.
Charlamagne Tha God
Like, why wouldn't I? Dennis had been reaching out for years. Like, come be an ambassador for Nayak. Let's. You know. It was like, no, no, no. But because of what I was going through, this is my selfish season, okay? And the music was good. Cause I was like, dennis, hot dogs music. Like, I was confused like everybody else. Right? I was. But when he sent my team the music, it was like, this is really good. Like, I need to do this music. That's how it felt for me. So when I was calling her and I was texting her, I have the receipts. I show them at reunion. I was like, girl, I need to talk to you. Like, it's really, really important. Bunch of texts. She wasn't responding to your girl, like, at all. Crickets. So when she did come back and we did talk, we were in the studio, Dennis would be talking to her, and she's like, send me some songs. She's like, oh, this is my favorite song. This is my favorite song. So I'm like, okay, Portia. He told me he had a conversation, so she's cool. We talked two weeks before we started filming. And she was like, yes, girl, I know we're going through our divorces. We need to get together. I love the music. I was like, okay. Because, you know, I wanted to make sure, like, we're all family. It's all, yes, girl. I know. Like, it's all good. Let's hang out a week before we filmed. Oh, sorry I didn't come to your birthday party, girl. But let's turn up tonight. You, me, and Yandy, let's go out for drinks. That was the energy. So we go to Shamia's birthday party. That's why I was so flabbergasted. I was like, the cameras came on.
DJ Envy
You said it was a different story.
Charlamagne Tha God
What's that?
DJ Envy
I Said when the cameras came on, it was a different story.
Charlamagne Tha God
It was like a light switch.
Drew Sidora
It was like, why didn't Dennis tell her that?
Charlamagne Tha God
He did.
DJ Envy
He said she knew.
Drew Sidora
Oh, okay.
Charlamagne Tha God
And she never denied it. But if you notice, when we were at Shamia's party, it was like, I'm mad at you because you're working with Dennis. Then it switched to what you're filming with Dennis, and then it was like a go naked thing. So I was not clear on why she was upset and what the real beef was. But as you've seen the season, I just see, you know, the fans are smart. Like, shout out to the fans because they're seeing, like, no. You know, we kind of catching her up in some lies here. That's not actually how it happened. And it's seeming more like deflection, because you can't talk about a certain person. So she chose to talk about me, you know? Cause she couldn't. And she had said that she couldn't talk about that.
DJ Envy
You feel like she did it for the cameras.
Charlamagne Tha God
You need story, but, I mean, you need to have things going on in your personal life. Like, why is everything about what I got going on?
Just Hilarious
I never understand on this. It's hard to watch sometimes because you don't know if it's real shade, if it's real smoke, or if it's just a storyline.
Charlamagne Tha God
No, everything I do is real. I came on the show in an Achilles rupture boot. Like, I came on the show limping. Like, that's not how I would want to come on. I would want to come in with my, like, Louis Vuittons, you know, and be fabulous. And I wanted to show black love and marriage and all the beauty and all that. I didn't want to show this. So everything that I've shown has just been my real life. I've not ever produced anything or tried to give storyline. Cause, like, I've been working since I was 8 years old. I don't need to put on for cameras. That's not me. Some people may. Like, that's what some people may do. And I feel like in this situation, instead of Portia opening up about, like, her real feelings without talking about that particular person, she didn't need it to deflect it and make me her punching bag. I think that was probably the most hurtful part. Cause, like, I'm going through a lot too.
DJ Envy
Did y' all have a real conversation? Cause it made you look crazy to the public at first when she got on there and says, you supposed to be my friend, but you working with my ex, and I had no idea. Did y' all have a conversation after that?
Charlamagne Tha God
Um, we did. We had to sit down. It didn't go very well. It didn't go well.
Podcast Host
Which one are you talking about? Cause Grenada.
Charlamagne Tha God
No. Well, the sit down, when she walked out, when we were drinking tea.
Podcast Host
Yes.
Charlamagne Tha God
It escalated, so it wasn't really, like, true resolve, but. Yeah, no, it's like, Portia is not the person, as you have seen, that will, you know, she's gonna get up and walk away. She's going to cover with all of this happiness. Like, she got it, and that's not real. And I just. I think everyone was anticipating her to come back this season and was excited, but ultimately, she couldn't deliver on the story that we thought we were getting. You know, we thought we were getting Ms. Gwadia, and she couldn't bring that.
Just Hilarious
Oh, so you don't think Portia's been delivering this season, what you're saying?
Charlamagne Tha God
Um, I mean, that's just what I feel, you know, that's my personal opinion, is that this wasn't a real beef. So then what are we talking about? Like, let's talk about something real. You get, you know, two women together who are strong, who are bosses in their own right. Have a conversation. We're not going to agree on everything, but we don't need to make this the whole thing. We're talking about for the whole season. Me and Dennis. Yeah, the whole season. Aren't y' all tired about that?
Just Hilarious
That's why I hate reality tv. That's why, in a lot of ways, I hate reality tv, because they will monetize your trauma for pain, like what you might be going through with your divorce or what Portia might be going through. It's just like, damn. And then if they can't get that, they just want to pitch all against each other.
Charlamagne Tha God
I don't like it.
Just Hilarious
What's the point of doing it?
Charlamagne Tha God
That's how I feel. Like we're both going through a divorce. We could be talking about that, you know what I mean? And really come. Everything doesn't have to be like, a moment. And I think, you know, you see some girls that come on the show, and it's just like, I need a moment. Let me just say something to go viral or whatever. And it's like, no, just be yourself. And I think that's also how I've been able to be on now for four seasons, and that's just what I've learned, because there's been a lot of cash shakeups. Like, I don't even know how I'm still here, because there's been people that are. That were here, been here for a long time, and are no longer here. But what I've Learned from the OGs that have poured into me is just be yourself, you know, and the story will tell itself.
DJ Envy
So I just want another question. So you're not with her go naked hairline?
Podcast Host
I literally was about to ask. So that's not go naked hair.
Charlamagne Tha God
This right now?
Podcast Host
Yes.
Charlamagne Tha God
No, this looks good. The hair that I was wearing in the sit down where you saw the bangs. That.
Podcast Host
That.
Charlamagne Tha God
That's. I wore it in real time. Because when you put it through a 1, 2 edit, how I made it look, it looked great. But in person, y' all saw it, right? That was go naked there.
Drew Sidora
So are you an ambassador for go naked?
Charlamagne Tha God
No, no, no. I have a great vendor. She's melted. We're good.
Just Hilarious
So you don't like going naked head, what you're saying?
Charlamagne Tha God
I mean, it just didn't work for me, per se. When you go to bleach blonde, it. It just. It did something that wasn't right.
Podcast Host
Would you have said that prior to all this dentist stuff? Because I thought you were. So it was like a good partnership.
Charlamagne Tha God
It was.
Podcast Host
And in the beginning of the season, you said you thought you were doing numbers for Go Naked.
Charlamagne Tha God
I did do numbers. I did do numbers. That's why. Well, I just believe, like, as black women, we support each other, right? If you're my girl, I'm gonna support you. We have a great working relationship. It was fun, you know, it was fun to work with her at that time. And if that's your friend, you gonna hold your friend down. But it was just when all of this started to happen, it just became corny to me, you know? So I'm like, okay, well, now since we're gonna. You're gonna drag me. Well, I'm gonna speak my truth then. Because the truth is, like, I had your back, but if you don't have my back now, it's fair game.
Just Hilarious
You think the show.
Drew Sidora
No, you were saying. All right, let me be honest about this hair.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah, be honest.
Drew Sidora
Okay.
Charlamagne Tha God
I would rather go naked than to wear that hair again.
Just Hilarious
You think the show would still be interesting if you and Portia weren't beefing? Or is, like, tension just part of the paycheck?
Charlamagne Tha God
No, I mean, I came on the show. Let me make it clear. Cause I've been an actress since I was literally, like, in Grade school. Right. So I made a decision. Cause I was like, you know what? People know me from this role. They may not like me from this role or that role or that movie or whatever. I felt going through Covid, it was just an opportunity to be more vulnerable and let the fans really get to know me and see me as a mother and a wife and a friend and a sister. Like, I'm so many other things. And I wanted to show that. And so that was the reason for me joining the show, wasn't to do anything but just hopefully inspire other people going through what I'm dealing with and connect in that way. So it wasn't to show what is happening. Like, that was opposite of what I wanted to represent on this platform. So I've never subscribed to let's do this for a moment. You know, let's do this for storyline. I actually feel like when we used to watch Housewives and when it was nostalgic was because it was a group of women who were really friends. And when you saw them fall out, it was because I'm fighting you because I love you and I know you can be better. You can do so much more. So that was where the beefs came, and then they were able to resolve and move forward. And I feel like here, sometimes they just want to, like, kill you off, you know, they want to just, like, go below the bell. It's like, dang, like, do you like me or no? Like, what are we building or not? And so that's what I would like to see the show get back to. And I think this season, overall, it was refreshing. It wasn't dark, you know, as some of the fans have said, like, they felt like the show was going dark. So I think we're moving towards a more positive place, you know, I agree with that.
Just Hilarious
But so. So, like, if you do an interview, like now, you know, you wear a little shady sort of gold naked hairline, a little. A lot shady.
Charlamagne Tha God
Right. So.
Podcast Host
But I mean, it's your choice if you want.
Just Hilarious
But doesn't that kind of put fuel on the.
Charlamagne Tha God
Well, I mean, when you have to wake up and see people dragging you constantly, and I'm the type of person that'll just be like, okay, all right. You know, and after so long, I think now it's like, I gotta start standing for me. Because for so long, I have protected my husband, I have protected my friends. You know, people don't really hear from Drew too much. I do my job and I go to work. You know, I'm the girl that just. That just works. I have three children. I'm going through a divorce. And whether I'm on Housewives or a movie or whatever, I'm just working. But now it's just gotten disrespectful towards, like, okay, you know you want to throw your shade. Okay, well, I'm gonna speak my truth. And if it's shady, the truth hurts sometimes.
Just Hilarious
I mean, so you talking about where Portia said you was having sex with somebody or sleeping with somebody?
Charlamagne Tha God
She said so many things. It's like, what do you think, producer.
Just Hilarious
To take it out? What's the guy's name?
Charlamagne Tha God
The past present black. Oh, well, we were talking about her. Oh, she was dating the past present, but they believed it. But past, present, and you feeling. Yeah.
Just Hilarious
Got you, got you, got you, got you, got you.
Drew Sidora
So you don't see a resolve for you and this girl at all? You want Portia? You don't at all. Cause you said you want to see the show. Get back to, you know what? That was what it used to be. Women were able to have their arguments, go through it, talk it out, and then they're cool. You know what I mean? You don't ever see you and Portia, like, you know what? Let's just put all this shit behind us because it did get crazy. It did.
Charlamagne Tha God
But, hey, what up, y' all?
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Katherine Townsend
Over the past six years of making my true crime podcast Hell and Gone, I've learned one thing. No town is too small for murder. I'm Katherine Townsend. I've received hundreds of messages from people across the country begging for help with unsolved murders.
Charlamagne Tha God
I was calling about the murder of my husband. It's a cold case. They've never found her, and it haunts me to this day. The murderer is still out there.
Katherine Townsend
Every week on Helen Gone Murder line, I dig into a New case bringing the skills I've learned as a journalist and private investigator to ask the questions no one else is asking.
Charlamagne Tha God
Police really didn't care to even try. She was still somebody's mother. She was still somebody's daughter. She was still somebody's sister. There's so many questions that we've never gotten any kind of answers for.
Katherine Townsend
If you have a case you'd like me to look into, call the Helen Gone murder line at 678-744-6145. Listen to Helen Gone Murderline on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Drew Sidora
But. All right, we're women. We both bosses. We like. Yeah, you don't see that.
Charlamagne Tha God
I. I think in certain cases, it's hard to come back from certain things and just putting out falsities that's like damaging to my character, to me as a person. You know, I have kids, so I just feel like the line has been crossed one too many times. However, I feel like, you know, if there's an opportunity to have a real conversation and it may not happen on camera, I don't know.
Drew Sidora
Yeah, I mean, yeah, I mean, off.
Charlamagne Tha God
Camera, I'm really big on, like, resolution. I'm really big on gaining understanding and, like, moving forward. So if it is an opportunity that presents itself, I would be open to that. But it hasn't happened, and it's a year now. You know, how do you deal with the mental.
DJ Envy
Because, you know, they attack you a lot, right? They attack.
Podcast Host
They come for you. The Michael Jordan thing with him being your cousin, is he your cousin or not?
Charlamagne Tha God
That was clearly a joke. I'm like, my maiden name is Drew Jordan, but I'm from Chicago and everybody in Chicago wanted to be related to Michael Jordan. So we actually had the last name Jordan. So we was like, oh, yeah, that's.
DJ Envy
So you said that growing up. I ain't mad at you.
Charlamagne Tha God
I just said like the whole time, like, my brother in law is Craig Hodges in real life. So going to the games, it's like, where my cousin at? Right, Exactly. Big legend.
Podcast Host
Cause it's that I feel like they come for your outfits. They be trying to come for. They come for everything.
DJ Envy
They be killing your fashion.
Charlamagne Tha God
So I'm just supposed to take it, like, it's only so much a person can take where it's like, hold on, I'm from Chicago. At the end of the day now when I start firing, it's like, oh, my God, Drew. Oh, she threw some shade. Oh, they're so mean. And it's like, no, this is who I am, and this is what happens when you poke the bear over and over and over again. But no, like, my mom is on a Facebook group, the Michael Jordan family tree. And it's thousands of people in that chat. She been on there for a little girl, trying to connect it. I was like, I found a cousin that I think the niece is related to. My friend who we found my mama. Want to be related? We all want to. So it was clearly a joke.
Podcast Host
That joke created so many deep dives of trying to figure out your family tree.
Charlamagne Tha God
Right. Oh, man.
Just Hilarious
I wanna ask some questions about you, Drew. You've been in this game since you were a kid. How do you think Hollywood's perception of you has changed? And how has your own perception of yourself changed?
Charlamagne Tha God
Ooh, good. Well, you know, I feel like on the side of the theatrical, tv, and film, I'm proud of what I've been able to accomplish in my career. Sometimes I don't reflect enough, and, like, wow. I've been able to work with some amazing actors and some amazing projects and tell some amazing stories. But the game is, like, that's one project that I just feel like the public perceives me in that way, and I can't shake it. And it's like, what decade has it been? A decade?
Drew Sidora
Yeah.
Charlamagne Tha God
I mean, I still see the comments to this day, which is saying, okay, this was obviously something really big and a part of the culture, but I did see a hashtag where it was like, cancel the Drusador hate. And I just want to say, can we do that, please? Like, at the end of the day, this has gone on too long. Derwin lied to Drew Sedora. Like, did we not all watch the same show?
Podcast Host
You feel like they had carried from there?
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, most definitely. Like, I see the comments, I'm like, wow. And I've met people that's like, ooh, I'm mad at you because you broke up med school. And I'm like, you know, Tia was married, right? You know, pooch. Like, as a whole family. But people were very invested in the show, and I just think that's a perception people have of me, you know, despite all the various roles I played, which is why I did join the show, to try to change that narrative. And I think for myself, yes, my perception of self is I have so many things I want to do. I want to do Broadway. I want to direct. I produce my first film and continue to open the door for other young talent coming up. And so that's where I'm moving into of my contribution stage in life and wanting to really see others win as well in this business.
Drew Sidora
I think the thing with the game was, right, everybody else had fictional names, but you really went on there as Drew Sedora. Like you.
Just Hilarious
You.
Drew Sidora
Why was that?
Charlamagne Tha God
Shout out to Marv Rocket Kill.
Drew Sidora
Shout out to. We just had her up here. She was just here.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, my God. I missed.
Just Hilarious
Well yesterday, but we played it back.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, nice. I love that woman. You know, actually, so the story behind that is I booked Girlfriends. I did an episode of Girlfriends, and when I went on set, she remembered meeting me, coming to my home because my sister Alison has been my manager since I was like 8 years old. And so she came to the house to meet my sister. My sister was a writer on Amen Rock Martin worked from William Morris Agency. Yeah, like og, right. And so she came to my sister's house to see if she would share her Rolodex. Cause she was moving to Los Angeles to become a producer. And she's like, drew, when you were eight, you were running around the house talking about, I'm gonna be an actress and a singer. And she's like. And you really stuck with it. And so for that reason, let's talk about some bigger things. So she wrote me in the show the Game. So that's how it came to be. And it was really. Cause I'm like, you gotta be like a list, right? To play yourself. So to have the opportunity, I was like, wow. And to showcase my music. I think that was one of the first times that people took notice to me as an actual musical artist.
Just Hilarious
Salutha Mara, let me ask. Do you ever feel like people underestimate your range because they know you more from Real Housewives now than like your acting career?
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Podcast Host
Or your music career, even on the show. That was the narrative on the show. When you first came on the show, they were really playing with your IMDb expound on that.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah, I mean, I think that you get placed in a box just even just, let's say African Americans in the arts as a whole, we get placed in boxes really easily stereotyped. That exists. And for me, joining the show, wanting to show my real life now, it kind of took away from my actual skill, my passion, which is, you know, music and acting. So for me, it was important to balance it, which is why, you know, on off season, I go to la and really, you know, you have to get in people's faces and remind them, like, here I am continuing in my acting classes just to keep Showing myself approved. Because it's always changing. It's extremely competitive. And I think the industry has changed a lot. Where it used to be and not in all cases, but it is this now and it exists. They look at numbers too. So you might be. I've had producers, directors say you were the better actress, but this person had more followers, you know, than you. And so it's a balance now of talent as well as marketing yourself and being more appealing to buyers.
Podcast Host
Well, you got. I did it to me. Your. Your music is out. And I watched. You said that your music was like your healing when you were going through the divorce because you were in such a dark place.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Podcast Host
What song on your album was like? When you hear it now, it. You get tearful. It takes you there. It's your favorite.
Charlamagne Tha God
It's two. Definitely. I did it to Me and Love for a minute with Ciara. Shout out to Cierra Gates. She came and gate laid like an eight bar little situation. We was in a booth. Hillsberry.
Drew Sidora
Yeah.
Charlamagne Tha God
Sierra Gates.
Drew Sidora
I thought you were talking about Russell Wilson. Sierra.
Charlamagne Tha God
You talking about Sierra Gates?
Drew Sidora
Oh, girl.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, speaking.
Drew Sidora
I know Ciara was rapping.
Charlamagne Tha God
She was rapping. A lot of people don't know she came in. But it's a very emotional record. And that was the record that actually Dennis and I were in the studio and it was like, really emotional. He was over there crying about Portia and I was in there having my moment. But it is. It's an emotional record. But I did it to me as very representative of the project. Cause it's about taking accountability. And that's why I love that record. Because I can sit here and share, you know, with you guys, all the things that my ex did right. That weren't right. But it gets tiring after a while to keep blaming everything on the other person. So for me, it's like, no, I played a part, you know, there were things I could have done better, if I'm being honest. I. And so that's what the song is saying. Like, look in the mirror. It's not easy to do, you know, but you gotta sometimes look at yourself and say, okay, yeah, I made a mistake here, there, and I could have been better and then grow from that.
Just Hilarious
Do you let him know that?
Charlamagne Tha God
I have. Actually, I have. We have had conversations, you know, before we go to court. Cause when you go to court, that's when everything blows back up. But we've had conversations where we have stated, you know, we understand our differences now. And I can say, well, I could have Done this better. And he has said it, you know, and apologize in some areas. And yeah, like, we're humans and just being more gentle with ourselves and just forgiving each other doesn't erase everything and every pain that we cause. But, yeah, we can be honest and say, you know, I wasn't perfect. I can say that now.
DJ Envy
You've been in the business for. Since a child, right?
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
DJ Envy
What's the most cutthroat part? Is it Hollywood? Is it reality TV or the music?
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, that's a hard one. Oh, man. I mean, I've been able to have a consistent career, like, with acting, even though joining the reality show to what you were saying, Charlamagne, Like, I've been able to now create a space where I did, like, five movies, you know, last year, and I'm very proud of that. So I feel like the acting world has allowed me back in, you know, so reality or music? I feel like music. Cause I'm still trying to knock down this wall they got in the box.
DJ Envy
Cause they look at you as reality TV star. That's it's taking your talent because you can sing, so it's taking that talent away.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah, it does. And it's a constant proving, which is fine. Like, I never get to a point where I feel, like, entitled or like I should have certain things. I feel like it's important to keep working on your craft and just do the work. Put your head down and do the work. So that way, when the opportunity comes, you know, I'm prepared, and that's just really what I've been doing. So even though I haven't knocked down that door, I feel like having a project out is monumental for me. It doing as well as it's doing almost gold in streams, which is unbelievable to me. Without, like, a lot. A lot of marketing, it's just really grassroots word of mouth. And now getting out there and performing is next for me. So I'm just still on that journey of, like, really making it happen for myself in music.
Just Hilarious
Question. Was there ever a moment where you felt like reality TV saved you and was there ever a time where you felt like it broke you?
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah, I would definitely say. Because people try to say, okay, reality TV breaks up a lot of marriages and things like that. I can't say I blame my fallout of my marriage on it. I feel like what it did do was escalate it and put a magnifying glass. And it also held us accountable because, you know, you can fight with your spouse and be like, okay, you know what? I'M not even gonna say nothing. We just gonna roll past this or we're gonna put a band aid or we're gonna talk about it in private or not talk about it at all. But when you do it on cameras now, you gotta talk about it, and you have to go into counseling and they really hold you accountable. So I think for us, it made us more responsible and understanding, like, this probably isn't meant to be. So I think it saved me from dedicating my life to 20 years in this marriage and then it being over. We both have said that we believe that it wouldn't have lasted. Really? Yeah. So I think in that regard, it did save me, you know, to be able to get to this place and find my person, because I think my person is still out there. You know, I'm not jaded or bitter. And then did it break me? Oh, yeah. Because, I mean, this was my biggest storm. Like, depression is real. Mental health is real. Like, you never know your breaking point. And I can honestly say, like, I reached that. I completely lost myself. I lost my voice in this marriage. And having it play out on national tv, it was overwhelming. It was overwhelming because you're living it a few times, you're filming it, and then you're watching it. That's like reliving that trauma you relive. Can you imagine that? We relive it in our head.
DJ Envy
And an embarrassment. Because usually if there's a problem in your marriage, it's at home. But now you are. The whole world has an opinion. The whole world is leaving a comment, and they don't know what's true or what's not, but they just have an opinion.
Podcast Host
And every time I watch your interviews, you're breaking down in interviews every single time. And I'm wondering, like, why put more stuff out there like Michael B. Jordan. Have you spoke to him since the Carlos King interview?
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, my God.
Podcast Host
That was Michael Jordan. That was a big. So in Carlos King's interview, Carlos King asked her who's one of the most, like, famous people she's dated? And she mentioned that she used to date Michael B. Jordan back in the day. And that was everywhere. I'm like, whoa. She just be volunteering the info?
Charlamagne Tha God
Well, I get asked the question. I am. No, no, no, no, no, no. Not even a little bit. You know, I'm an open book and I just try to always remain that way because I think it's important to talk about your life and open up. I make that choice. I made that choice when I joined reality tv. Because I feel like it's important for people to see you as a human being, you know? And I feel like other people can see you as a real person and know, okay, you know, everything's not perfect in my world. I may overspeak or say too much or shade or whatever, but this is who I am. And I'm unapologetically me. But, yeah, I was asked the question, so I answered it. And he asked me on a date to attend the NAACP Awards. It was probably like, 2000, maybe six, when he was, like, still on the soap operas.
Podcast Host
Okay.
Charlamagne Tha God
And I met his mom and stuff. It was cool. We went out a couple of days. No, there was no, like, intimacy on the record. But still, he was very, very sweet guy. Very, very sweet, and he's been super successful. But, yeah, that's my truth. And it happened.
Just Hilarious
It's yours to tell.
Charlamagne Tha God
It happened.
Just Hilarious
You know, this is my last question. With all the healing that you've gotten right and what you know, now, if you could go back and whisper something to yourself during the hardest moment of your marriage, what would you say?
Charlamagne Tha God
The hardest part of my marriage, I think it was a couple of things, but for sure, Ralph moving out of the bedroom, you know, that it felt like abandonment. You know what I mean? It's different to go sleep separately, but him making the decision to move out when instead of fighting. Because people don't stay married forever without waking up every day and choosing each other. So when the person wakes up and doesn't choose you.
Drew Sidora
Yeah.
DJ Envy
All right, well, we appreciate you for joining us.
Charlamagne Tha God
Thank you.
Just Hilarious
Let's keep going, Drew.
DJ Envy
Let's get into your single. We're going to play your single right now. What you want to hear?
Charlamagne Tha God
Ooh, ooh. What should we do? I know, right? I was like, let's wake it up. Let's wake it up. It's early, you know, after you go through all the heartache and pain, you know, you gotta get outside. And so Good Girl Bad Bitch is my next single.
DJ Envy
Good Girl Bad Bitch.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yes.
DJ Envy
It's the outside record.
Charlamagne Tha God
I was like, can we curse?
DJ Envy
It's the outside record.
Charlamagne Tha God
It is. It's my outside record. And that's what the album is. You know, you may cry and fall in love, fall out of love when you're listening to my album. And this particular song is one that's empowering and getting outside with your girls and just living, you know?
DJ Envy
All right, well, let's get to it. It's Drew Sidora.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yes.
DJ Envy
It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.
Carlos Miller
Wake that ass up early in the morning.
Charlamagne Tha God
The Breakfast Club.
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Over the years of making my true crime podcast Hell and Gone, I've learned no town is too small for murder. I'm Katherine Townsend. I've heard from hundreds of people across the country with an unsolved murder in their community.
Charlamagne Tha God
I was calling about the murder of my husband. The murder is still out there.
Katherine Townsend
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Podcast Title: The Breakfast Club
Host/Authors: DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, Charlamagne Tha God
Episode: INTERVIEW: Drew Sidora Talks RHOA, Split From Ralph Pittman, Drama With Porsha Williams, Dennis McKinley + More
Release Date: June 5, 2025
In this compelling episode of The Breakfast Club, DJ Envy, Jess Hilarious, and Charlamagne Tha God engage in an in-depth conversation with Drew Sidora, known for her role in The Real Housewives of Atlanta (RHOA). Drew candidly discusses her tumultuous marriage with Ralph Pittman, the challenges of separating lives under the public eye, and the ensuing drama with fellow cast members Porsha Williams and Dennis McKinley. The conversation delves into personal healing, public perception, and Drew's aspirations beyond reality TV.
Charlamagne Tha God opens the conversation by addressing the recent separation between Drew and Ralph Pittman, highlighting the unconventional living arrangements where Ralph resides in the basement, restricted from accessing the upstairs living spaces.
Charlamagne Tha God (02:43): "I'm definitely in a more healed place... working on my album was like my therapy."
Drew elaborates on the deterioration of her marriage, emphasizing Ralph's refusal to leave their shared residence and the complications this brought to their divorce proceedings.
Drew Sidora (04:06): "Do you know anybody else that I can say... Girl, how did you deal with this?"
The hosts probe into the origins of the separation, with Drew dispelling rumors of infidelity and clarifying that accusations were exaggerated or misrepresented for dramatic effect on television.
Charlamagne Tha God (08:24): "That's not how I would want to come on. So everything that I've shown has just been my real life."
The dialogue shifts to how reality TV, specifically RHOA, magnifies personal issues, making private struggles public spectacles. Drew expresses frustration over how her personal challenges were portrayed and monetized by the show, leading to misconstrued narratives.
Charlamagne Tha God (15:25): "I think in this situation, instead of Portia opening up about her real feelings... she chose to talk about me, you know?"
Drew highlights the difficulty of maintaining authenticity on reality TV, where every action is scrutinized, and genuine moments are often overshadowed by manufactured conflict.
Drew Sidora (34:21): "I think it saved me from dedicating my life to 20 years in this marriage... It made us more responsible."
Amidst the chaos, Drew discusses her journey toward healing, emphasizing the therapeutic role of her music. She shares how creating her album helped her process emotions and regain a sense of self beyond her fractured marriage.
Charlamagne Tha God (09:30): "I spent my time alone... compiling all this body of work and have a productive outlet."
Drew reflects on her mental health struggles, including depression, and the importance of support systems in overcoming personal trauma.
Charlamagne Tha God (15:39): "What's the point of doing it? That's how I feel."
The conversation transitions to Drew's professional life, where she discusses the challenges of balancing her acting and music careers while under the constant gaze of reality television. She shares her ambitions to expand into Broadway, directing, and producing, striving to break free from the stereotypical perceptions imposed by her reality TV persona.
Charlamagne Tha God (26:48): "I want to do Broadway... produce my first film and continue to open the door for other young talent."
Drew addresses the industry's tendency to pigeonhole African American artists, advocating for a broader recognition of her multifaceted talents.
Charlamagne Tha God (30:53): "It's important to keep working on your craft and just do the work."
Drew candidly discusses her strained relationship with Porsha Williams and Dennis McKinley, elaborating on misunderstandings and miscommunications that fueled on-screen drama. She expresses a desire for genuine reconciliation and truthful dialogue outside the scripted chaos of reality TV.
Charlamagne Tha God (25:27): "We have had conversations... we're humans and just being more gentle with ourselves."
Despite attempts to resolve conflicts privately, Drew acknowledges the persistent tensions that continue to affect her public image and personal well-being.
Drew Sidora (24:46): "You don't see if it's real shade, if it's real smoke, or if it's just a storyline."
Towards the end of the interview, Drew shares reflective insights on her experiences, offering advice to others navigating public relationships and personal hardships. She underscores the importance of self-accountability, resilience, and the continuous pursuit of personal and professional growth.
Charlamagne Tha God (37:39): "When the person wakes up and doesn't choose you."
Drew emphasizes the value of authenticity and standing firm in one's truth, even amidst external pressures and misconceptions.
Charlamagne Tha God (19:25): "You gotta speak your truth. And if it's shady, the truth hurts sometimes."
Drew Sidora's interview on The Breakfast Club offers a raw and honest glimpse into the complexities of maintaining personal integrity while navigating the public realm of reality television. Her journey of healing, coupled with her aspirations for future endeavors, paints a picture of resilience and determination. The conversation serves as both a personal testimony and a cautionary tale about the intersection of personal lives and public spectacle.
Charlamagne Tha God (02:43): "I'm definitely in a more healed place... working on my album was like my therapy."
Drew Sidora (04:06): "Do you know anybody else that I can say... Girl, how did you deal with this?"
Charlamagne Tha God (09:30): "I spent my time alone... compiling all this body of work and have a productive outlet."
Drew Sidora (24:46): "You don't see if it's real shade, if it's real smoke, or if it's just a storyline."
Charlamagne Tha God (15:25): "I think in this situation, instead of Portia opening up about her real feelings... she chose to talk about me, you know?"
Charlamagne Tha God (37:39): "When the person wakes up and doesn't choose you."
This episode provides a deep dive into Drew Sidora's personal and professional life, offering listeners an unfiltered look at the challenges of balancing authenticity with the demands of reality television fame.