INTERVIEW: Mandii B & WeezyWTF 'Decisions Decisions,' New Book 'No Holes Barred,' 'Traphous' Pilates + More

Summary

Podcast Summary: The Breakfast Club Featuring Mandii B & WeezyWTF

Episode Title: INTERVIEW: Mandii B & WeezyWTF 'Decisions Decisions,' New Book 'No Holes Barred,' 'Traphouse' Pilates + More
Release Date: January 24, 2025
Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts
Guests: Mandii B & WeezyWTF

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Introduction

In this vibrant episode of The Breakfast Club, hosts DJ Envy and Charlamagne Tha God welcome special guests Mandii B and WeezyWTF. The duo, renowned for their popular podcast Horrible Decisions, delve deep into their transformative journey, including their rebranding efforts, entrepreneurial ventures, and personal narratives that intertwine themes of sexual exploration and empowerment.

Rebranding Horrible Decisions to Decisions Decisions

Mandii B and WeezyWTF begin by discussing their strategic decision to rebrand their podcast from Horrible Decisions to Decisions Decisions. This shift aims to reflect their growth and the evolving nature of their content, moving beyond purely sexual themes to encompass broader conversations about relationships and personal development.

Mandii B [03:13]: "We're leaning more into the conversations around relationships. So non-traditional relationships, non-monogamy... because growing up, what is it? Get married, have kids, live happily ever after. That's not everyone's reality."

Fan Reactions and Audience Growth

The hosts highlight the positive reception from their core audience, who appreciate the rebranding and deeper content. However, Mandii B notes that some casual listeners may initially react with confusion.

Mandii B [04:24]: "I think the core fans are happy. I think the casual fans just found a way to get angry at you. People get very excited if they think something bad is going on."

Navigating Non-Monogamy and Personal Relationships

A significant portion of the conversation centers around the hosts' personal lives, particularly their experiences with celibacy, non-monogamous relationships, and defining their own relationship dynamics outside societal norms.

Jess Hilarious [10:10]: "I feel like for the people that don't know us, everybody that is in the podcast world understands our evolution. And I think that's when we started to gain our respect... but a new person, I feel like they'll be like, how."

Unveiling the New Book: No Holes Barred

Mandii B and WeezyWTF introduce their forthcoming book, No Holes Barred, described as a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. They share insights into their personal journeys, touching on topics like past traumas, sexual assaults, therapy, and the evolution of their sexual identities.

Mandii B [21:12]: "No holes barred. It's a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. We each dive into our journeys as women... I talk about my abortion when I was 16."

Launching Traphouse Pilates

Expanding their entrepreneurial horizons, the duo discusses their innovative venture, Traphouse Pilates. Combining hip-hop music with Pilates workouts, they aim to create an inclusive and culturally resonant fitness environment that breaks traditional stereotypes associated with Pilates.

Jess Hilarious [35:37]: "I went to a Pilates class and was like, this bitch. I really was like, I'll make that shit. And that's dope."

Diversifying Business Ventures

Mandii B and WeezyWTF emphasize the importance of business diversification. From podcasting and book sales to Patreon support, merchandising, and fitness studios, they outline their multifaceted approach to building sustainable income streams.

Mandy B [43:13]: "We have five different means of income just for the podcast. Even though we're not in the write-ups like the other white podcast, talking about $100 million deals, our business and what Horrible Decisions does make seven figures a year."

Legacy and Empowerment

The conversation takes a reflective turn as Mandii B discusses her desire to create a lasting legacy through her business ventures, emphasizing empowerment and providing opportunities for others.

Mandy B [44:03]: "The things that I'm creating are going to outlive me... my legacy is what I'm leaving are the things and businesses that I'm creating."

Conclusion and Announcements

Wrapping up the episode, Mandii B and WeezyWTF announce the release date of their book, No Holes Barred, set for June 24th. They also tease upcoming tours and encourage listeners to pre-order the book and engage with their content across various platforms.

Mandy B [46:30]: "The book No Holes Barred, the dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power, will be in stores June 24th."

Notable Quotes

• DJ Envy [10:43]: "Do y'all want a monogamous relationship?"
• WeezyWTF [12:00]: "I want to throw that word in there. So that's consensual. There's communication..."
• Jess Hilarious [22:37]: "I've always felt that toys... it's not that sexy, it's not that pretty."
• Charlamagne Tha God [43:19]: "Decision is a business that generates money and I love how y'all use that money to build other businesses."

Final Thoughts

This episode of The Breakfast Club offers an intimate look into Mandii B and WeezyWTF's evolution as content creators and entrepreneurs. Through candid discussions about their personal lives, business strategies, and creative projects, they provide listeners with valuable insights into building a multifaceted career while staying true to one's authentic self.

For those interested in exploring non-traditional relationships, personal empowerment, and innovative business ideas, this episode serves as both an inspiration and a practical guide.

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Transcript

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[Tank]

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[Jess Hilarious]

Yes, sir.

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[Charlamagne tha God]

Wake that ass up early in the morning. The Breakfast Club.

[DJ Envy]

Morning, everybody. It's DJ Envy.

[Jess Hilarious]

Jess.

[DJ Envy]

Hilarious Charlemagne, the guy. We are the Breakfast Clubs. We got some special guests in the building.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yes, indeed.

[DJ Envy]

We have Mandy B. And Weezy from Horrible Decision, but they change the name.

[Mandy B]

Thank you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Podcast Possible.

[Jess Hilarious]

No.

[Mandy B]

Yes, it is not. It is absolutely possible.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You can delete your wholeness.

[Mandy B]

You grow up. You can move to a different city where no one knows you and then want to change your Instagram.

[Jess Hilarious]

Work the grocery store. They said, hey, you can't delete it.

[DJ Envy]

Well, good morning, ladies.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Good morning.

[Mandy B]

Good morning.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Why did y'all change the name for the coins?

[Mandy B]

Sharla? Oh, not only that. When we started Horrible decisions, we were 26 years old. Uh, I was still in college. I was in my last year of college. Wheezy. We were both in corporate, and we was kind of living life, doing. Doing all the things, and we just kind of.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You was in your whole phase.

[Mandy B]

We was in our whole phase. I think everyone has a whole phase. Um, and now we're out of it.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

And we just, you know, are growing with our audience.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

And growing with the. With the dollars.

[Jess Hilarious]

To be fair, doing this book, though, you know, I was telling people, like, I want to do Drew Barrymore. I want to do this and that. And I just can't see them saying whore.

[Weezy]

Especially not Drew Barrymore.

[Jess Hilarious]

She.

[Weezy]

Not both of them.

[Mandy B]

Drew Barrymore gonna still rub our knee, though.

[Weezy]

And I now she.

[Jess Hilarious]

She might be like, and why did you guys feel the need to change?

[Weezy]

It's okay to be a.

[Jess Hilarious]

But no, I mean, with growth and with also wanting to be respected as an author, I feel like for the people that don't know us, everybody that, like, is in the podcast world understands our evolution. And I think that's when we started to gain our respect, to know that, sure, we talk about sex, but it lasted so long. We've been able to catapult into all these different ventures, but a new person, I feel like they'll be like, how.

[Weezy]

You felt about your fan, like, how you think the fans took it. Like, did y'all took the horrible?

[Mandy B]

I think the fans love it.

[Jess Hilarious]

I think the core fans are happy. I think the casual fans just found a way to get angry at you. Like, people get very excited if they think something bad is going on. You know what I mean? Like, literally, the second they saw that, horrible would be going behind a paywall. It's like, oh, they fight. And Charlotte don't want that. I heard them with them. Like, you know, it's. They can't wait to feel that. And Mandy and I being that we've been colleagues for so long, we've had on air mess and things like that, I feel like that was the sexiest part of the story. When really now we're so much older, it's like, okay, girl.

[DJ Envy]

Mandy's celibate, right? You still celibate?

[Mandy B]

Oh. Oh, yeah. Nah, it's over. Uh, I started the year off, you know, I just seen you a couple of months ago. I was celebrating. I seen her in the club.

[DJ Envy]

She was like, yo, E, I'm celibate. Fuck that. I'm starting over.

[Charlamagne tha God]

That wasn't even a couple months ago. That was a.

[Mandy B]

It was a couple weeks ago.

[Jess Hilarious]

That was your Magic City moment.

[Mandy B]

Yeah. I love how you said club. You could let them know we were in the city.

[Jess Hilarious]

It was in Magic City.

[Mandy B]

It was in Magic City.

[Jess Hilarious]

Tell them to see a magic City.

[Mandy B]

Yo.

[DJ Envy]

That's the first thing she told me. It wasn't like, e, how's your family? She, yo, what up, E? I'm celibate now.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I was like, what made you break the celibacy, Vi?

[DJ Envy]

I saw somebody cute, so it wasn't even relationship.

[Jess Hilarious]

Jesus.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Like that you was already with sitting.

[Weezy]

Up there, tired of wholeness. Can't be deleted.

[Jess Hilarious]

Jesus Christ.

[Mandy B]

It is. I mean, it was intimate. It was sensual. We kissed and cuddled.

[DJ Envy]

Have you seen him since?

[Mandy B]

He doesn't live in my state. So he's flying to see me? Yes.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Wow.

[Weezy]

All right.

[Mandy B]

So I put it on him.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Was it a one night stand or something?

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no. We're about to go to the second stand.

[Charlamagne tha God]

No, I'm saying when y'all would be the one night stand.

[DJ Envy]

The second stand? What's the first stand?

[Mandy B]

The first stand was great. It was when I saw him.

[DJ Envy]

So y'all didn't date. Y'all just.

[Mandy B]

You seen him. Okay, now.

[DJ Envy]

Now you gotta explain it.

[Mandy B]

I'm just not celibate anymore. Okay.

[DJ Envy]

All right.

[Mandy B]

And this is what about. About liberation, Growth as women. Getting what you want.

[DJ Envy]

Did you meet him at. At Magic City that night?

[Mandy B]

No, I met him on an island. Oh, so you know when.

[Charlamagne tha God]

What island?

[Mandy B]

St. Croix. Which was.

[DJ Envy]

So you was on vacation.

[Mandy B]

Uhhuh.

[DJ Envy]

And you let one of them island boys.

[Mandy B]

Yes. Don't do that. But now I do see why women go to islands. And it was. It was great. How you see D. Let me tell.

[Jess Hilarious]

You, they booked us to go to Hedonism. If no one's ever heard of this.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I've been there.

[Mandy B]

We know you've been there. We know you've been there.

[Jess Hilarious]

I had, didn't. I wasn't dating at anybody at the time. So I'm like, let me just bring somebody. Fine. I know. So there was a ball player that I knew and I was like, just come. He was in Europe, he was off season. He got there, he wasn't even. He's not crazy basketball player at all, but he was 6, 5, dark skinned and fit. When I tell you every white woman with her husband found us to breakfast.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

Before we.

[Mandy B]

In the bushes.

[Jess Hilarious]

In a bush.

[Mandy B]

In a bush.

[DJ Envy]

But no, that's.

[Jess Hilarious]

What.

[Charlamagne tha God]

If you like. I went to Hedonism breakdown trips. When I used to work for Wendy Williams at wbls, they used to do radio station trips to Hedonism. So Hedonism is a nudist resort. Parts of it. And they have like hammocks hanging from the trees. You can have sex in hammocks. You can have sex all over the whole facility if you want to. Is it a lot of mirrors on the ceiling?

[DJ Envy]

No disrespect, but is it a lot of like, overweight white women?

[Mandy B]

No, no, we. Well, we went.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

There's different things that you could go. Like I'm hosting Heato Labor Day weekend with black travel.

[Jess Hilarious]

So when a group takes over it, like, we got lucky. But then there was a few parts of the place they were like, we come every weekend. It was like, oh, yeah.

[Mandy B]

The white couples definitely go to get Jamaican. Jamaican people.

[Jess Hilarious]

By the way, the funniest part of this, I always tell this story because. So first of all, he's already having sex in the bush. We just check in. I'm like, I'm done with him already. So there's a nude side and a prude side, right?

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yep.

[Jess Hilarious]

So we.

[DJ Envy]

Someone goes, yep, yep, that's right.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's a prude side. Means you can keep your clothes on. So you know when you're at a resort, you know how to be having the buffets or whatever. So I'm hungry. I Go to get a pizza. I'm already irritated with him because all he doing is sleeping with people in the bush. And I'm trying to get some pizza. I'm ordering his pizza, and the security guard comes up and said, ma'am, you have to be naked on this side. I'm like, I gotta get naked just to eat. He's like, yeah, how long is your food gonna take? I had to literally take off my pajamas, hold them in my hand, and sit there naked and wait for food. I was like, this is the worst.

[Mandy B]

Place ever when I say I loved it.

[Weezy]

So when does it become.

[Jess Hilarious]

When it become what?

[Weezy]

Trafficking.

[Jess Hilarious]

I know the trafficking booked for it. Like, you know, like, we were out there and just like. And we had a great time.

[Mandy B]

But, oh, I've gone out there with friends.

[Jess Hilarious]

When you're going out there, you can't.

[Charlamagne tha God]

And they pay you. Like, these couples be paying. Like, you might be out there and you might holla at a woman, and she might be like, hold on, I'm gonna go get my husband. They might come up to you and be like, y'all give you 500 if you let. If. If you let my husband watch us have sex.

[Mandy B]

Now, see, we didn't get offered for those type of things. Charlotte, were they.

[Weezy]

Oh, yeah.

[Mandy B]

So maybe it's the men. The men should go out there and make some money then.

[DJ Envy]

So lady came up to you and wanted to see you smash her husband.

[Charlamagne tha God]

First of all, let's put this in context. This was like 2006, 2007, I was on the balcony and I was like, yeah, you know, girl. Yeah, like, y. Y. And she like, hold on, let me go get my husband. And then she was like, yeah, we can do it. But my. But my husband gotta watch.

[Mandy B]

Oh, wow.

[DJ Envy]

So after you knocked it off.

[Charlamagne tha God]

No, I didn't knock it off.

[DJ Envy]

Okay.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I did not knock it off. No.

[Jess Hilarious]

So that's the thing that really kind of makes that whole thing beautiful. As much as I'm joking about it, all of this is normal for these people in this world. You know what I mean? Like, a lot of the things we talk about, even as normal to us, if I say my man and I are going on a date with somebody, people looking at me like I'm crazy, But this is normal for me. So when I'm in hedonism and I'm watching cuckolding going on, which is really what it is, this is normal for them, and they like to be amongst they people. I just happen to be one of the people that wanted to get Pizza with clothes on. Excuse me, but yeah, no, it's a no for me.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Y'all ain't changed nothing but the name.

[Mandy B]

Don't do that.

[DJ Envy]

That's it.

[Jess Hilarious]

We're growing. We're growing. I'm trying to think mine.

[Mandy B]

What?

[Jess Hilarious]

Besides this blazer, what's the biggest rebrand thing of me? I will say this. I think now I'm so over communicative. We're in the beginning of horrible decisions. I wasn't talking about exactly what I wanted. My feelings, even the type of sex that I wanted to have, like, situationships, I was falling into them all the time. I think as you evolve and you get more comfortable with yourself and who you are, that's when it hits. I actually don't think that could happen before 30, if I'm being honest. I think you could try to get close to it, but there's something that happens at 30 where it just clicks. You're like, oh, no, this is no 30.

[Mandy B]

You. You look better, you feel better, you make more money, you know, a little bit more of what you want. You done dealt with enough men in your teens and twenties that now you can be like, okay, I don't want that, but this is what I want.

[DJ Envy]

Do y'all want a monogamous relationship?

[Mandy B]

No.

[Weezy]

Do y'all want marriage? Anybody want marriage?

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

I don't.

[DJ Envy]

Do you want a monogamous relationship?

[Jess Hilarious]

Not monogamous, but, I mean, of course I want marriage. I'm like, what is it? If we're not gonna have sex with a nanny, what's the point?

[Mandy B]

No, I mean, yeah, go ahead. I mean, I don't.

[DJ Envy]

But why, why, why.

[Jess Hilarious]

Why not monogamy?

[DJ Envy]

Both of you?

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yeah.

[DJ Envy]

Why start with you?

[Jess Hilarious]

Just doesn't fit my lifestyle. Like, I. I've. I've been known for having a boyfriend and a girlfriend since I've been 20 years old. Like, it's. It just. It's.

[Charlamagne tha God]

It doesn't matter what you're known for or what you want, though. It's a difference.

[Jess Hilarious]

We had a conversation about this last night. I did a podcast where I mentioned that I believe Mandy and I have done this so well because we really live this life. And a lot of times what's kind of hurt me from the public is people say, oh, you're just doing that to keep him, or you let your man have sex with someone else because you want to keep them. And it's like, you think I'd be doing this for eight years if I really didn't enjoy this. I honestly have fun with it and I feel like when I'm dating someone that's more monogamous. Mainly when I date religious men, they look at me like I'm trash and I know, oh, you date religious men?

[Mandy B]

Why would you do that?

[Jess Hilarious]

You know a little Jesus, I'll never do that again.

[DJ Envy]

What about you, man?

[Mandy B]

Ethnomonogamy. I want to throw that word in there. So that's where like it's consensual. There's like there are boundaries. You are communicating and it's under the umbrella where you could be poly open, like there's, you could be swingers. There's all these different labels underneath. Ethical non monogamy. For me, I like men and women and I don't want to not be able to experience both. Gotcha off of that.

[DJ Envy]

So we got bisexual men. And the reason I asked that who was up here and they said that it wouldn't bother them.

[Weezy]

Damn.

[Mandy B]

Dochi, dochi.

[DJ Envy]

I heard doji talking about, would y'all mind?

[Mandy B]

It wouldn't bother me.

[DJ Envy]

No, I don't want to see it.

[Jess Hilarious]

For me it's a caveat. So the thing that attracts me to women is their femininity. Like I've never dated a stud, right? No disrespect to studs.

[Weezy]

I just hating on the studs.

[Jess Hilarious]

Punky came on horrible. I was like, oh no, is she.

[Mandy B]

Cooking Britney Griner, the only stud.

[Jess Hilarious]

We all got one.

[Mandy B]

I want Brittany Griner.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's it.

[Mandy B]

That's the only.

[Jess Hilarious]

As far as men. I love the masculinity in men. And so if I was dating a bisexual man that maybe like a homo thug I could do.

[Mandy B]

That's what I'm saying. Like they're so masculine.

[Jess Hilarious]

Give me one of them atl like.

[DJ Envy]

So you wouldn't mind. But he just got to be a thug. You want to thug on the thug.

[Jess Hilarious]

There's also levels to it, right? So I really truly believe every man has had some sort of experience.

[Mandy B]

I think everybody a little gay. For real? For real.

[Jess Hilarious]

Even you and your kid watch A little gay.

[Mandy B]

Like what does that mean? There, like there's a, there's a, there's a spectrum. The Kinsey scale. Everyone is not all the way fully straight or fully gay. Yes. K I N S D Y A little gay. Like a little gay. Like you can, you can even. And it could be as little as you can actually admit that another man is attractive or a good looking man.

[Jess Hilarious]

Or you could have a big.

[Weezy]

Why does be classified as gay? Why can't.

[Mandy B]

Well, because it's, it's the attraction. Attractive is different, but.

[DJ Envy]

But no can say a man is handsome. But attractive means you feel something towards you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Take that back. Say a man is handsome. You did. You did.

[DJ Envy]

I was a little gay.

[Jess Hilarious]

Because you do have men that won't even do that then I think, you know, there's so many men that would say they ran trains in high school. There's another man that wouldn't get naked in.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I never like trains.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah, trains. Threesome. Like there is levels. I don't think that's gay, by the way. That's why I said a little.

[DJ Envy]

If you don't stick your penis in a male, that's not gay.

[Jess Hilarious]

But why you and another man are enjoying.

[Weezy]

Oh, y'all got your dicks out.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Did you hear what he was just saying?

[DJ Envy]

It's not gay if you stick your.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Penis in a man.

[DJ Envy]

No, I said it's not gay.

[Weezy]

No, you're not sticking your penis in the mail.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You hear what you want to hear. It's not gay if you stick a penis.

[Mandy B]

So if you. As long as it's oral, then.

[DJ Envy]

No, it's fine.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[DJ Envy]

No.

[Mandy B]

A hand job?

[DJ Envy]

No.

[Mandy B]

Okay. I just.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay. I'm looking at the Kinsey Scale.

[Mandy B]

See, it's a real thing.

[Charlamagne tha God]

It says X. No social. No socio. Sexual contacts or reactions. 0 is exclusively heterosexual. 1, mostly heterosexual, only slightly homosexual. 2, mostly heterosexual, but more than slightly homosexual. 3, equally heterosexual and homosexual. 4, mostly homosexual, but more than slightly heterosexual. 5, mostly homosexual, but only slightly heterosexual. And 6 is all homo.

[DJ Envy]

Sh. About a 5.

[Weezy]

I swear, just like the days where you were straight or gay. That's a lot.

[Mandy B]

That's a lot.

[Jess Hilarious]

By the way, I have a friend of mine. His name is Christopher. And on New Year's, five, six years ago, I'll never forget, I kissed him. Like, oh, my God, he's gay. Kiss him. He looked at me and he was like, you bitch, I am gay. Gay. And now you ruined it.

[Charlamagne tha God]

He's a six.

[Jess Hilarious]

He's a six.

[DJ Envy]

He'S a six.

[Jess Hilarious]

When I tell you he was really upset with me, I was like, I'm so confused. I just thought you were having fun. He's like, no, no, no, I am not gold star. He's like, I didn't even have. I came from a C section. I'm platinum. He was like, you kissed me.

[Mandy B]

You ruined this.

[Weezy]

You messed him up. Now he felt a little straight.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's who I would define as a six.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I know one thing. Toronto might have to re six that six thing. Knowing that six is the highest on The Kinsey scale.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's funny.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Exclusively homosexual if you're a six. That's what it says on the scale.

[Jess Hilarious]

I feel like you all the way gay. No, wait, you hear me? Hot straight girl that got one lesbian friend. And she be doing that. She'd be like, nah, bitch, that.

[Weezy]

Yeah, that's me. But I ain't gonna lie. Back in the day, yeah, I had a couple gay experiences. Yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

Like, kiss.

[Weezy]

A little bit more to kiss, but you know. Yeah. I dated a stud for, like, a little minute until I found out she was married, and she ended up being a clown.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Oh, you're number two.

[Weezy]

And then.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yeah, mostly heterosexual, but more than slightly homosexual.

[DJ Envy]

It might be a little three. Because she was.

[Jess Hilarious]

She dated a stud. So that always tells me, like, you kind of are the straight girl. That's, like, where you can dive into.

[Weezy]

Because I don't. I don't find, like, the. The femmes to be like, yeah, you're beautiful to me, but I'm not. I wouldn't be attracted to a feminine girl. Like, it's like, I get it.

[Jess Hilarious]

No, no, for me, I like that.

[DJ Envy]

But y'all have the same crush, too. Y'all too Mandy. You and Manny have the same crush.

[Mandy B]

I think a lot of people have a crush on her. Yeah.

[Weezy]

Until I call. Until I heard her call herself Pops. I'm like, damn.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, no.

[DJ Envy]

What's wrong with Pops?

[Weezy]

Ah, nah.

[Jess Hilarious]

There's certain things you can say that make you just instant corny.

[Weezy]

It's like no energy.

[Jess Hilarious]

You see what I mean? I know. I'm saying, like, well, she already got.

[Weezy]

The voice of God. I mean, but I mean, I just, you know, she. She ain't. Like when she was doing an interview with Shane, like, when somebody was like. The girl was like, oh, you about to be a mom. You about.

[Mandy B]

You know.

[Weezy]

She was like, nah, Pops, like, serious.

[Alex Canceroitz]

I remember that.

[Weezy]

Damn. But I wouldn't just assume that. If I never heard her say that. Like, I wouldn't. Congratulations, yo, your mom. I wouldn't just be like, yo, congratulations. Like, you, Pops now. Cause I think that that would offend her, but she was offended at her being called a mom.

[Jess Hilarious]

Gotcha.

[Weezy]

I told Brittany, dad, yeah, Brittany looked good.

[Jess Hilarious]

I would. Let me tell you something. When all that stuff was going on, I was like, we gotta get her out. We gotta get her out.

[Weezy]

But I'm okay with still having the crash. I'm okay with letting her go. Mandy can't have her. Cause my boyfriend looked just like her.

[Mandy B]

So that's crazy. That is crazy.

[Jess Hilarious]

Sorry. Chris, listen, as someone that also has a pretty boyfriend, I know how it feels. I went and took him to a show, and it was a lesbian show. It. It like, literally, like a queer comedy night. And she was like, oh, yeah, I saw you were there with your girlfriend. I was like, that's a man. He just got dreads and he pretty. See, it sucks, but it's great.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You man give flight shooter, though.

[Jess Hilarious]

No, he do give shooters.

[Mandy B]

Slight shooter, right?

[Charlamagne tha God]

He gets slight shooter, too.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah, but he's a hotel. It's weird. Like, he looks like he's a.

[DJ Envy]

What?

[Jess Hilarious]

He's a hotel.

[DJ Envy]

A hotel.

[Mandy B]

A hotel.

[Jess Hilarious]

He makes.

[Weezy]

I'm.

[Jess Hilarious]

We're fasting right now. I'm so. I'm about to die on this table. He's. We fast. The is a hotel.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay?

[Mandy B]

That is what it is. That is not what it is, by the way. Envy. This is.

[Jess Hilarious]

There's no way that this hadn't crossed over to you.

[DJ Envy]

A whole tap.

[Jess Hilarious]

What?

[DJ Envy]

The is a whole tap. I've been with Charlamagne. I feel like with a hotel.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I know what a hotel is. I don't know what a hotel is, but I know what a hotel is.

[Mandy B]

It's a hotel.

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay, I'm being facetious.

[DJ Envy]

What's a hotel?

[Jess Hilarious]

A hotel is like, you know, one of them, like, oh, meditative. Like, all pro black power to the people. Like, we can't be doing xyz, but.

[DJ Envy]

Like, the fuck hoes.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yo.

[Weezy]

We still on the whole part.

[Alex Canceroitz]

Oh, no.

[DJ Envy]

Whole part of it.

[Weezy]

That's it.

[Jess Hilarious]

To be fair. Do you know who 19 Keys is?

[DJ Envy]

Yes, I know. 19 Keys.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's my favorite hotel. I joke.

[Charlamagne tha God]

It's an Egyptian word that means to be at peace.

[Jess Hilarious]

It does mean at peace, which was what?

[DJ Envy]

But y'all said whole taps. I'm just thinking something.

[Mandy B]

Of course you are.

[Jess Hilarious]

Of course you are.

[Weezy]

Everything that they talk about.

[DJ Envy]

Together.

[Weezy]

So with decisions, decisions, is it less sex talk? Like, is it less.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah, yeah.

[Mandy B]

We're leaning more into the conversations around relationships. So non traditional relationships, non monogamy. All the ways that you don't have to go about the traditional way of dating and pursuing love, essentially, because us growing up, what is it? Get married, have kids, live happily ever after. That's not everyone's reality.

[Jess Hilarious]

But it's cool because we're diving into history, which we always kind of did during horrible. But now it's fun. Like, we're talking. We talk about the history of romance. The first date, even. The history of romance is dope. I was. When we were talking about, like, how the first date was different. There had to be a male caller at your home, knocking on the door, asking, your parents. They were supervising you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Oh, I'm an idiot. I thought you meant, like, y'all documented the first date ever in history. You said history.

[Jess Hilarious]

I was like, oh, the first date.

[Mandy B]

We ended up in a time machine.

[Jess Hilarious]

Charlotte. How it evolves over time, Even the history of romance. How, you know, you marry for, like.

[DJ Envy]

Talking to some dumb hoes right here.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I'm not a hoe, okay? I retired a long time ago.

[Mandy B]

Me too.

[Jess Hilarious]

Just.

[Mandy B]

Duh, me too.

[Jess Hilarious]

Now, the history of the romance shit was crazy because it basically. Romance was a sickness. And they believed when people were in battle or in war, they would start a war over love. And they were like, oh, yeah, you can't fall in love. So that's why you would marry for agriculture, socioeconomic stuff. And it's just fun to dive into this because we already have been talking about sex and dating so long, so now we just get to go back and people enjoy learning about stuff with us, and we're not scholars, so that's what makes it fun to me.

[DJ Envy]

Not now, also. So now you got a book coming out as well?

[Mandy B]

We do. We do. Under Charlemagne's imprint.

[DJ Envy]

What's the name of the book?

[Mandy B]

No holes. Borrowed. It's a duo.

[DJ Envy]

Any hole.

[Mandy B]

No holes barred.

[DJ Envy]

Listen.

[Mandy B]

All of them. It's a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. And so we each dive into our journeys as women. I did a lot of diving in therapy, like, going all the way back to, like, my childhood, as to maybe why I date, the type of men I date, what type of men I date, my views. I mean, everything that's not. My daddy so non short Jamaicans. Jesus. Jesus. But I go into that, and even as early as me, like, talking about my journey of having anal sex and how I used to think any man that wanted it was. Was gay because I was like, well, why would you want the back hole when there's another hole? And so I was five.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, that was funny.

[Charlamagne tha God]

The Kinsey style.

[Jess Hilarious]

I thought you ain't, like, just mid.

[Mandy B]

No, but it was. It, like, goes through my journey of even, like, having to relearn and unlearn the things that aren't true. And then we even get deep and we talk about, like, our sexual assaults. I talk about my abortion when I was 16.

[Jess Hilarious]

The book is broken down is cool because, like, when we get into that stuff, so it's pleasure, pain, progression and power. So, like, in the pain section, that's when abortion and sexual assault comes up. But there's also a story of a dude.

[Mandy B]

Bdsm.

[Jess Hilarious]

Bdsm. Like, tying me up, spanking me, choking me. Like, Mandy getting electrocuted. That's my favorite.

[Mandy B]

I love electrocuted.

[Jess Hilarious]

It was great.

[Mandy B]

I went to a dungeon with my ex, and we agreed to both do two things that we had never done before. So he agreed to put. Allow me to put him in a chastity belt, which took some time because he kept growing and he couldn't grow in order to lock him in. And then I allowed him to do electroshock inside of me with a tool.

[Weezy]

What happened to me? What do you mean, inside of you?

[DJ Envy]

It was a dildo.

[Mandy B]

Electric.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah.

[Mandy B]

And so, like, it, like, spawned all of these electrocurrents inside of me. And it was the best feeling. It felt like almost like an alien. I was like, I'm never gonna feel this again. It felt like eight tongues inside of me giving me oral at once. It was. It was the best feeling. I was like, this ain't a normal feeling you gotta get. It was great, though.

[Weezy]

So that's why you can't be one person. One person can't just be one person.

[Mandy B]

And to be honest, I don't ride. I don't ride. So I would love for my partner to be able to experience everything he wants to experience that I'm not downing.

[DJ Envy]

What you mean, don't ride?

[Mandy B]

I don't get on top. Mm.

[DJ Envy]

Mm.

[Mandy B]

Let me go get you somebody acrobatic.

[Jess Hilarious]

It.

[Weezy]

You mean you can be electrocuted, but you can't.

[Mandy B]

But I ain't getting on top. But I ain't getting on top. Nope.

[Weezy]

Dang.

[Jess Hilarious]

It takes more effort, I guess.

[Mandy B]

Oh, yeah. I just came back from Carnival, and the way them girls were winding their hips and doing all the splits, I said, my man deserves to experience a woman that flexible. It ain't me, though.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Isn't that a position of power for women, though, when they wake up?

[Weezy]

When.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, when they're what?

[Weezy]

In my opinion.

[Jess Hilarious]

And it's the strongest orgasm.

[Mandy B]

That's great that y'all receive it that way.

[DJ Envy]

You ain't got no rhythm.

[Mandy B]

No. Oh, me, I'm half white. No.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Half Jamaican.

[Weezy]

I knew.

[Mandy B]

I know. So it goes. It goes both. It goes both. It goes both. You know, I do a little bit of everything.

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay. All right.

[Weezy]

Well, what. What makes you have an orgasm?

[Mandy B]

Oh, penetration. Which is why I can't be fully gay. Like, and I want. I want a member with a. With a pulse.

[Jess Hilarious]

That is literally gayness. This is what we do?

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no. I want, I want right here.

[Jess Hilarious]

I don't want nobody chances.

[Mandy B]

I'm not like that.

[Jess Hilarious]

I want had a right girl.

[Mandy B]

But I like a man body. There's just so many things I like about man.

[DJ Envy]

A girl could knock you off with a strap on though, right?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, no, it needs to have a pulse. I like the finishing.

[DJ Envy]

What comes girls have pulses or you mean the strap on?

[Mandy B]

The strap on. It's just what she said though. She likes the finish and I like the. I like straps either.

[Jess Hilarious]

Like when I had a girlfriend, we maybe once in a blue used them for fun and after a while we was like, nah, it just something about it maybe because her and I both slept with men before, it's just like no, that's not what we hear.

[Mandy B]

Oh yeah, no. And I like the finish.

[Jess Hilarious]

I've always felt that toys. So something I talk about in the book even is like I realized after having a girlfriend that gay sex as far as lesbian sex is that we see is really for the male gaze. It's not that sexy, it's not that pretty. Sometimes you be rubbing your coochie be on the neck arm. It's like you start rubbing stuff everywhere. It's not exactly what we think it is.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Nothing crazier than watching two lesbians with a scrap on and one of them sucking the scrap on. And the person that got the scrap on is Monique.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, that's a form of mental illness because sex is. Sex is actually 90 psychological scrap on.

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

So no one moans when they suck you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

But it's a strap on.

[Mandy B]

But I'm not feeling anything by giving it to you.

[Weezy]

And I'm. I may.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I got the scrap on.

[DJ Envy]

What the younger may tell you.

[Mandy B]

Right now.

[Charlamagne tha God]

But I'm just saying it just seems.

[Weezy]

As cause you right after you finish sucking it, I can take it off and throw it in the closet. So I think that's what he's saying. Like how.

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay, but it's like you can be having phone sex and you moan and like she said you could be giving and you moan. There's something about the action. And also keeping in mind this is.

[Mandy B]

Powerful because it's sexy watching you do it.

[Jess Hilarious]

This is all bdsm, right? So you're being in the dominant position. That's how people wearing it get off. It's like they know that you're on your knees, you're being submissive, humiliated, whatever the word is. So that's where they're getting a turn off from.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Got you.

[DJ Envy]

So what was your Crazy sexual experience. If that was hers getting electrocuted, what's yours?

[Mandy B]

Hers is nasty.

[DJ Envy]

Oh, hers is nasty.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, wait, no. It actually can't go on radio, But.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I'll just say we'll put it behind the Patreon. Go ahead. Okay. You for real?

[Mandy B]

Y'all got a Patreon?

[Jess Hilarious]

This ain't going on YouTube.

[Mandy B]

No, they don't have a Patreon.

[Charlamagne tha God]

She said, okay, it'll be on. On YouTube.

[Mandy B]

She got something about blood, girl. Yeah, see?

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay, here's what happened.

[DJ Envy]

Oh, boy.

[Jess Hilarious]

My man was just like, I think I was having a bad day. And I was like, oh, my God, you don't love me. I feel fat. You know, just be complaining. I've dated them, so I know. And he was like, why are you feeling like that? Why do you feel like just cause you're on your period, I don't love you, I'm not attracted to you. And I was like, I just feel that way. And we were in the car, and he put the car in park and he said, put your fingers inside of yourself. I'm like, no. And then he did it. He ate it. And he said, you think I love you now? And it was like. It was like, saltburn vampire.

[Charlamagne tha God]

And now this motherfucker is nowhere to be.

[DJ Envy]

Now you broke up with that man.

[Charlamagne tha God]

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[Mandy B]

Hey, y'all.

[Charlamagne tha God]

This is Reed from the God's country podcast. We had the one and only Bobby Bones in the studio this week and we cover everything from his upbringing to his outdoor experiences with his stepdad, AR Keith, to the state of country music. We may even end the episode with a little jam session led by Bobby himself. Y'all be sure and listen to this episode of God's country with Bobby bones on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast.

[Mandy B]

Don't go shopping at Target with khaki pants and a red shirt on. Don't go shopping at Target with khaki.

[Jess Hilarious]

Pants and a red polo shirt on. Switch up song. An old lady came up to me.

[Mandy B]

She said, how much for this cream of wheat?

[I]

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[Snoop Dogg]

Well, I'm in the details.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Let me just say this.

[Snoop Dogg]

I actually stay in the details of the product.

[I]

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[DJ Envy]

I'm putting it up.

[I]

Three emoji red flags.

[Jess Hilarious]

They told me they're gonna fix Siri.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I dreamed.

[Jess Hilarious]

I dreamed.

[I]

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[Jess Hilarious]

What you mean he my man right now.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Damn, man, you ain't gotta put him out there like that.

[Jess Hilarious]

She said we blood brothers now. Hey, yo, but why?

[Charlamagne tha God]

God damn. I would say he from Brooklyn, right? Vampire from Brooklyn, vampire from the Bronx, then. God damn it.

[Jess Hilarious]

But you know what it is that's really dope about. Yes. You're listening to this right now, watching this. You're like, this is disgusting. But I think it's just that when you have no boundaries with someone, it's sexy.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Y'all got to get married.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, of course.

[Charlamagne tha God]

We got. You just told everybody on the radio. I hate you out on your period. We got to get married now.

[DJ Envy]

Not just 18.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You said it was blood trickling out.

[Mandy B]

That is not what she said. That's what she did.

[DJ Envy]

She was like. Like a little bit.

[Jess Hilarious]

But I did put that in the book, cuz. I was like, yo, every time we re like, you think you reached a level sexually?

[Weezy]

You know something else?

[Jess Hilarious]

So many things on our list. But listen, I'm not judging. We definitely live a wholesome life. Like, we. We had a threesome with this woman, went on a date with her. It was a wild night.

[Mandy B]

So wholesome.

[Jess Hilarious]

And my father, he's in a nursing home right now, and we had to make sure we were there in the morning to go see him. We got up, we're sitting there, he's playing checkers and stuff. We looking at each other like, we really just fuck this bitch last night. We really here having this family moment. It's like our sex life is our sex life.

[Charlamagne tha God]

We ain't bring your daddy no hoes. That's what he really need.

[Weezy]

Daddy, my dad was so married.

[Mandy B]

Oh, okay.

[Jess Hilarious]

That's what's funny about it.

[Charlamagne tha God]

And your mama fine.

[Jess Hilarious]

Thank you. And she would love to hear that. She knows she loves you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

She is.

[Jess Hilarious]

She went to go to Charlamagne's book tour, and she was like. He was looking at me, and I was like, Is it because he knows who I am or he's looking at me, girl.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay, both.

[Jess Hilarious]

Happy birthday.

[DJ Envy]

He likes all the women.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Oh, happy born days.

[DJ Envy]

Happy birthday.

[Jess Hilarious]

Happy birthday. 13th. Oh, sorry. It's 14.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Jess Hilarious]

Whatever date is. I don't know.

[Mandy B]

We're hoes.

[Jess Hilarious]

We don't know.

[Weezy]

Have y'all ever been sexually?

[Mandy B]

Never.

[Weezy]

Okay, never.

[DJ Envy]

Yeah, you said that so fast. Like, I don't even look at her like that.

[Weezy]

Have you all ever had sex?

[Mandy B]

We've never. Okay, never.

[Weezy]

Why would you really about to ask me? Why do people think that? Are you. Are you serious?

[Jess Hilarious]

To be honest, I don't feel like Mandy and I give the energy. Like, we've never.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I've been listening to harbor for a long time. There was a point where I was like, yo, they gotta be some sexual.

[Weezy]

Definitely bumping.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I did feel like that for a second.

[Mandy B]

No, no.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, my God. It's just. Yeah.

[Weezy]

I mean, no, no. Y'all don't seem like lovers at all or nothing like that, but, I mean, with all this y'all got in. In common and how y'all just so.

[Jess Hilarious]

Well, Manny did watch me have sex, and she reminded me. So we're sitting with.

[Mandy B]

I didn't really watch. I was just on the bed.

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay, if.

[DJ Envy]

No, he was that horny, you couldn't say. Mandy, can you leave?

[Jess Hilarious]

No, no. I'm scared. No, no, no.

[Mandy B]

She was scared because she met him at the club. We was like, 16, using fake IDs down in Miami, Memorial Day weekend. She found a guy she liked at the club.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yes.

[Mandy B]

Yes. Let me tell you what's crazy about 20 years.

[Jess Hilarious]

I forgot this story, right? So we're talking about our co, Arthur, and she's trying to dig stories out of us. So I said, you know, it's crazy. I've never had a one night stand. Mandy's like, that's a lie. I'm like, no, it's not. She said, I was right there on the bed, and I was like, oh, now anything pre titties, I feel like don't count.

[Mandy B]

See, this is why. See, the wholeness can be deleted. She talking about pretty tits.

[Weezy]

That's like saying you can take miles off a car.

[Mandy B]

You can't do that. No, it was like, yeah, literally. I mean, that was kind of back in the day, you know, like cell phone. I think we had sidekicks back then. Like, it wasn't to where, you know, you had so much access. So she wanted to fuck him. So I was like, okay, I'm gonna sit at 16.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, yeah.

[DJ Envy]

So y'all go to Miami.

[Mandy B]

We drove to Miami. We lived in Orlando.

[Jess Hilarious]

We had no teen pregnancies. We lived.

[Mandy B]

No, we were lying. I had an abortion.

[Jess Hilarious]

I said, we didn't have a teen pregnancy. Oh, yeah.

[Mandy B]

I got rid of it.

[Charlamagne tha God]

How old were the guys?

[Mandy B]

Clearly he was.

[Jess Hilarious]

Maybe they were 18. I think it was like, when I'm.

[Weezy]

Not trying to be.

[Mandy B]

Not in Miami, at least 21, bro. To be in a club in Miami is 21 and up for guys. We have fake IDs.

[Jess Hilarious]

You think they ain't got fake IDs, Mandy?

[Mandy B]

Nah, they were some jits.

[Jess Hilarious]

They were staying together.

[Mandy B]

Girl, you didn't even remember him. Don't try to sit here and get.

[DJ Envy]

Back then. Everybody was staying with each other back then. Nobody had no money. It Was like nine of us.

[Jess Hilarious]

And it was no shame.

[DJ Envy]

No shame.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Now you can't do that.

[Mandy B]

He had money, so he wasn't 19 because he had his own room. He wasn't sharing with nobody.

[Jess Hilarious]

That wasn't no courtyard.

[Mandy B]

It don't matter.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yo, let me tell you.

[DJ Envy]

Oh, my goodness.

[Jess Hilarious]

When I was really reflecting, this is chaos.

[Mandy B]

I thought this was going to be way more different. You in with a blazer. I have on plaid. I don't understand how we're taking it here.

[Jess Hilarious]

Y'all wanted us to spice up your mind and see, like, let's go back to being okay.

[Weezy]

So what is trap house?

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, girl, explain. So I've been going to workouts in New York for almost a decade, and I love Pilates inspired movement and I love lifting. And so literally, I went to a Pilates class. I'm not even joking. It was February this year. And I was saying to the instructor, like, oh, my God, girl, that was such an amazing workout. Thank you. Like, I needed some, like, some trap or something. She's like, I'd never play that here. And made me feel so small, like. And I was like, this bitch. Like, I really was like, I'll make that shit. And that's dope. I. And it's funny because someone said to me when I made it, do you know Envy wants to do hip hop Pilates?

[DJ Envy]

Who told you that?

[Jess Hilarious]

It was just. Maybe it was just someone I mentioned. I thought about it because I don't.

[DJ Envy]

Tell nobody, especially not him. But I go to Pilates, right?

[Charlamagne tha God]

Why do I care if you go to Pilates?

[DJ Envy]

Because I don't want you to pull up on me licking my ass when I'm out there.

[Weezy]

But anyway, looking at his ass.

[DJ Envy]

I said, looking. What's on your mind? So you look, he might be a.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Three or four, but when you go.

[DJ Envy]

To Pilates, there's never no music that you. There's no hip hop music.

[Jess Hilarious]

And it's hard. You're shaking. You know what I'm saying? So literally, my favorite genres of music of all time, and I listen to everything is trapping house music. So I was going to buy an apartment in New York, right? I had money. I was like, I got 150k, I'm going buy a million dollar house. And I was like, nah, it's either that or start a business. So because I'm not a fitness trainer, I had to, you know, partner with someone. And so I found my favorite instructor in New York, black dude. His name is Jeff Blue. And I was like, yo, I want you to make this. And he literally was like trapped in Pilates. I'm like, I'm telling you, dog. And he did everything. We flew him to LA to learn Legree. That's the really hard kind. And like training these instructors to do things that people have never done. So. And it's funny because you'll see buff ass dudes coming in. They come in and they shift in like crazy. And then they go in the other one and they're shaking. And then the little girls that are super tiny can't do the lifting. So everybody's doing something different. But even as I've evolved, my partner Breonda, she's like, all right, who's making the music? I'm like, me, I got good music taste. She's like, that's not enough. So I had to get a music director. And every step of the way, I've tried to make this elevated just so a bitch can't knock. You know, when it's a black owned business, they'd be like, you ain't got this. Even the candles. I wanted five dollar candles. I'm like, gotta be Lilabo. Every single thing. I made that. I wanted to be luxury. Especially because you walking in there and you hear Jeezy talking about hot Cheetos. Like, it. It get real ghetto.

[Charlamagne tha God]

It looked like business is booming, though, from what I see on Instagram.

[Jess Hilarious]

I haven't been able to take a class because it's been so busy.

[Weezy]

I wait because of no relations, though. That's what's up.

[DJ Envy]

As I said, I want to do a group trip there. Right. And. And you got to come to Charlemagne.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I don't want to be sexually harassed.

[DJ Envy]

But I want to take a deep trip there and put everybody in Pilates for 50 minutes.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, my God.

[Mandy B]

Oh, it's hard, especially for the people that haven't done Pilates.

[DJ Envy]

Oh, I know.

[Mandy B]

Oh, it's.

[DJ Envy]

I go.

[Mandy B]

It's not.

[DJ Envy]

I used to go four times a week, five times a week. My wife and my daughter, we go together.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, so you're gonna be good. It's mega performer, though.

[DJ Envy]

Yeah, yeah.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Okay.

[DJ Envy]

Yeah, that's, that's fine. We do it all. But I. I enjoy it. People don't know how difficult it is, but how it helps you as well, as far as strength is concerned. Yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

Why they don't either? The look of Pilates is skinny blonde, white.

[Weezy]

Yeah. Honestly, I'm sitting here like I ain't never had a desire to do it.

[Jess Hilarious]

So I was making jokes like, oh, we gonna open. We gonna have these White girls, and they gonna be like, oh, what is Gucci mane break? Like, I really thought that was gonna happen. When I tell you all black women, and it's mind blowing to me. I actually wasn't ready for that. But just TikTok, we were literally working out when I was in there the other day, and it was none of my coochie. I was like, this is crazy.

[Weezy]

None of my coochie. Oh, okay.

[Mandy B]

I do like her.

[Charlamagne tha God]

How did you promote it? How did you get the word out so fast?

[Jess Hilarious]

Okay. So I truthfully was really worried about strategy, because I didn't know. So I posted myself making something cool. You know, when you can have a tastemaker vibe. Like, people know I like to party. They know I like music. I thought that would work. It literally was just people tiktoking. We've never made one TikTok. It's just genuine. A girl's like, listen.

[Mandy B]

That's why. Listen. That ain't going away on a night she about to hurt a whole lot. It's gonna affect the economy. Like, there's a lot of people that make money off of their shit.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Frank McCourt's gonna buy it. Frank McCourt and Project Liberty, everybody.

[DJ Envy]

It's nothing like that. And I always say the. The biggest business is what makes people rich is to have something that nobody else has, right? And there's so many minorities that love Pilates. I'm the only black guy when I go. I'm usually the only guy when I go. I'm black. But when I do go, I hate the music. So the fact that I was there, the first thing I said, where is it? I want to go. You know what I mean? Because I want to try it out. Because I would love to do it. Because it's already painful, right? You already trying to focus. But if I had the music that I enjoy, it makes it fun now, and I can really go through it. So we gonna do a family trip there. Charlamagne, you come.

[Jess Hilarious]

I made a code for Everybody. Breakfast is 10 bucks off. Even if you've already been. You can still use it, but with the house music. By the way, my mom is a Studio 54 girl. She's a black woman. I've been listening to house music my whole life. I've always thought it was black. I feel like all we know is show me love, but house music is black.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Hell, yeah.

[Weezy]

Yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

I mean, I'm not playing that. I'm playing that.

[DJ Envy]

Follow me.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Why'd you spell it H, A, U, S?

[Jess Hilarious]

Because I'm Bougie.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Oh, okay. Okay. Because, I mean, it can still read as trap hose is what I'm saying.

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, here you go.

[Charlamagne tha God]

So that's something. Like, why. Why did you spell it like that?

[Jess Hilarious]

To be honest, it was because I feel like when we see the year or, like, a different version of House, we always think, oh, this is, like, kind of, you know, and then I felt like, house. If someone Googled it, they might find, like, a weed store.

[Weezy]

Yeah, Trap House.

[Jess Hilarious]

Now, by the way, I wanted to call it Trap Pilates, but shout out. I don't know who they are, but, you know, the trademark was taken in Atlanta, so. But we already know Atlanta got trapped a lot.

[DJ Envy]

I'm sure they probably did.

[Jess Hilarious]

But, I mean, my goal, like, people be asking me to franchise. We've been open six days. People like, oh, can we franchise it? I'm like, oh, yeah. Like, I gotta learn from everybody.

[DJ Envy]

That's a stuff for good man. Congratulations.

[Jess Hilarious]

But, yeah, you know, give me your money when you're ready.

[Charlamagne tha God]

People don't talk about your entrepreneurial ventures enough. You know what I'm saying? You got WTF Media, Mandy. You had the studio.

[Mandy B]

I still have it over there. Yeah. It's just now need to Know Studios. Yeah. Yeah. But I. I relocated to Atlanta. I have other opportunities professionally down there, but, yeah. And right now I'm working on scripts and pitching those. I just wrote another proposal for a book. After writing the book with you, I definitely just love the process, so want to continue doing that. And, yeah, I think over the last eight years, I think that's why we've been able to keep this going, because we've both been able to just branch out individually and do the things that we really like to do.

[Jess Hilarious]

So turning over your money that you make, like, when we got our first Black Effect check, it was so dope, because to be on salary for a podcast is just, like, unheard of. And we were making. We quit our jobs before, you know, so, like, we were in this, doing this. But it's just mind blowing that we've been able to take that business acumen and flip it, because a lot of people think when you're a podcaster, people really don't know how I make money. Like, I think so many people think I have only fans when they meet me, which I get it. I feel like I could have the look, my titties already out, like, okay. But content creation is one thing, and then it's like, business is another. Business is another.

[Mandy B]

Not only that, it's just diversifying as well, how you bring in money. So between Black Effect, now the book with Charlamagne as well. Then we have Patreon, then we tour, Shout out to Justin and merchandising. We have five different means of income just for the podcast. So even though we're not in the write ups like the other white podcast, talking about $100 million deals, our. Our business and what horrible decisions does make seven figures a year. We are a seven figure podcast. We're not 100 million. We are, but we, we have seven figures, like, and we make that yearly.

[DJ Envy]

That's right.

[Mandy B]

So I love that. And then again, that's just one form of income again. She has her studio, I have my studio. We have other things that we do as well outside.

[Charlamagne tha God]

So decision is a business that generates money and I love how y'all use that money to build other, other businesses.

[Jess Hilarious]

I honestly want every podcaster to start considering building another business. It doesn't have to be brick and mortar, but like literally. Oh yeah.

[Mandy B]

Shout out to you, what is your. You got into brick and mortar. Even having the studio, like dealing with an actual location and staffing. I'm like, oh yeah, that ain't for me.

[Jess Hilarious]

Do you know the owner of the building that WTF is SoHo. So we got three buildings, four different studios. Right. The Soho dude hits me up about how someone filed an insurance claim and I'm like, what? They're like, yeah, they filled my bathroom.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

I was like, I'm so sorry to hear that. He was like, it's good. Like, he has huge buildings. He's like, I've already got this covered. But like, that's what's happening.

[DJ Envy]

Break a building. Yeah. That could break a business.

[Mandy B]

Yeah.

[Jess Hilarious]

I spent trying to make sure this fitness studio got a. Yeah.

[Charlamagne tha God]

The right insurance house at your house too.

[Mandy B]

It's crazy to me. All the businesses though, all the projects, everything that we do creatively, those are my babies. As a woman that doesn't want kids. And when people talk about what legacy looks like and things, the things that I'm creating are going to outlive me and my kids, if I had any, their kids. So to me, my legacy and what I'm leaving are the things and businesses that I'm creating. And I think Weezy and I talk about it as well. I think it's wonderful that we're able to like provide salaries and pay people. Like even our horrible decisions team is like 10 people. And then she has her studio team, I have my studio and it's just like, it's great.

[DJ Envy]

How do y'all tape with you in Atlanta and you here in New York? How do y'all take the podcast?

[Mandy B]

We bulk record, and she was just in Atlanta. I go to la. Whenever we're in the same city, we find a studio and record.

[DJ Envy]

Gotcha.

[Jess Hilarious]

It's honestly too, like. I mean, shoot, you wasn't even.

[Weezy]

Do you live here now? I do.

[Jess Hilarious]

Now you do. But, yeah, like, different places. You make it work. You know what I'm saying? I remember when I first heard that just didn't live here. When she was first working, I was like, wow. But, like, you got your home, is your home. Like, what are you going to do? Your job, I think, should be secondary. So, Mandy, I felt the Atlanta coming, and I was like, oh, my God, she's going to do it. She's going to do it. She's always going to Atlanta.

[Mandy B]

I wanted to move to Atlanta years ago, but I had another show that kept me here that thankfully I ended. And it was amazing ending it. And so now that I don't have to be here weekly to do a current event podcast. Yeah. As soon as I ended that, I was like, yeah, I'm out.

[Jess Hilarious]

Which, by the way, Mandy and I have lasted so long. When that show ended, what show are y'all talking about?

[Mandy B]

We all ain't gotta say. See, the thing is, it was another show that I had.

[Jess Hilarious]

People. We've been together so long, so if someone is a casual listener, they're thinking, it's Mandy and I. I woke up to all these texts. It was my birthday, I think when it happened, I was like, what the fuck are they talking about? And then my mother called me. Cause Mandy made a video.

[Mandy B]

That's what made our rollout so good. When everyone thought we broke up, they was like, oh, of course I became, I'm the villain, whatever. And they made it seem like, oh, she can't keep a partner. She can't keep a podcast up. She can't. And it was like, we played into that, especially with me ending the part.

[Jess Hilarious]

Last year, my mom called me, like, mandy is on the Internet going off on you. And when did you do this?

[Weezy]

I'm like, when did you do this?

[Jess Hilarious]

It wasn't me. I'm like, it's another light skin.

[DJ Envy]

I'm on back.

[Mandy B]

But yes, I'm glad to be in.

[Jess Hilarious]

That damn real celebrity drama.

[Mandy B]

A mess.

[Jess Hilarious]

You running naked in the halls. It's on the news like it is something. You know it is titty serious.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Well, I'm proud of y'all, man.

[Mandy B]

Thank you. Thank you.

[Charlamagne tha God]

The book no holes Bar, the dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power, will be in stores June 24th.

[Mandy B]

June 24th.

[Weezy]

That's right. You got them nails. Them two short nails so you can play with your.

[Mandy B]

It's for men and women. No, it's for. I'm thoughtful. For other people.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Jess Hilarious]

All right.

[Mandy B]

Uhhuh.

[Weezy]

Cuz I was know just one.

[Mandy B]

I'm right handed.

[Weezy]

Purposely. Okay.

[DJ Envy]

When you go to the nail salon and you be like, no, no, no, no, not. These two open and they. They have to ask why? And you tell them they don't because.

[Mandy B]

You do hair, right? It's either I braid hair or I type a lot.

[Jess Hilarious]

They do the next day.

[Mandy B]

No, they do ask. They do ask, why you shorts? They do. They ask.

[Jess Hilarious]

By the way, Jess, I cannot wait till your auntie age when you say, oh, shit, I'm auntie age now. No, you not.

[Weezy]

I'm not.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Or 40.

[Jess Hilarious]

You have an undertone as auntie when you just said, so. That's what you do. All right.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Auntie age is 40, but she's not 40.

[Jess Hilarious]

Don't let you have a lesbian niece. You're gonna be like, so you and that girl be kissing your sister?

[Weezy]

Yeah, my little sister, she just. She too new, though. She ain't get out the trial period yet. My little sister, she gay.

[Jess Hilarious]

I do believe that. It's a tri. It's a phase.

[Weezy]

She's 21, though, so, you know, she. She.

[Jess Hilarious]

She.

[Weezy]

She still could be, you know, trying. I'm not saying that she won't be gay forever, but she still. When she said, look, she got a little twinkle in her eye for these little guys out here, so she can't be fully gay yet.

[Charlamagne tha God]

So she had three.

[Jess Hilarious]

And she gonna be straight.

[Weezy]

Right, Right. Because she don't like to sexually engage with men, but she still like to look at them and. But she like having sex with girls.

[Jess Hilarious]

Girls.

[Weezy]

So that's.

[Jess Hilarious]

What?

[Weezy]

I don't know. Is that a seven? That's gay.

[DJ Envy]

Okay, but she put you on the new music.

[Weezy]

She put me on it, yeah. It's his new song. Y'all ever heard this song? I forgot his name, but it'd be like, can be gay too. Can begin. Like, you never hear that.

[Charlamagne tha God]

You mean like black?

[Jess Hilarious]

Yes.

[Weezy]

You know, they talking about black men like it's.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yeah, we didn't need that reminder.

[Jess Hilarious]

Young man told us that already. Already? Rebrand who?

[Mandy B]

Oh, oh, he didn't. I like his new song.

[Jess Hilarious]

Who?

[Mandy B]

Y'all gotta have lil Nas X up here to talk about. Oh, man, no, I'm sure he's still his sexuality, but his music is different now and it's really good. I really like him.

[Jess Hilarious]

Him. Lil Nas X Steve Lacy. I love.

[Weezy]

I do like Steve Lacy.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah, bro.

[Mandy B]

Tyler can't be gay all day.

[Weezy]

Ever since my little sister played me.

[Jess Hilarious]

That is crazy.

[DJ Envy]

I walked in, she was playing it.

[Charlamagne tha God]

I'm like, trump gonna ban that record.

[Jess Hilarious]

Vote for Trump. Trump gonna be like, not if you're trans.

[DJ Envy]

Oh, my goodness. That's what Trump on Mandy weaves. We appreciate y'all joining us. Decision Decision podcast. Go pre order the book.

[Mandy B]

Go pre order the book. And make sure you listen to us wherever you listen to your favorite podcast. But also on the I Heart podcast app because we are there under the Black Effect network. It's decisions, decisions. And if you do want. If you do want the X rated things where we do talk more about sex, Horrible decisions did not leave. We're just behind a paywall. So join us on Patreon. It's patreon.com horribledecisions.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yeah, that. That story you got, that was $5.

[Charlamagne tha God]

The whole hive is so active that when the book first was announced, it was number one.

[Mandy B]

We hit number one. They went ahead and immediately were pre ordering their books. So we're really excited. And of course, we will be touring. We'll announce that later. But you guys will be able to see us do this live.

[Jess Hilarious]

I know we gotta go. But just to tell you about Jorge, there was a girl that's a really big fan of yours at the live show we just had and she was taking a picture. Oh, yeah, I know. She's taking a picture of me. And I'm like, oh, I know you will go to all his book tours. Did you see him? She's like, yeah, he whorehive. He always here. Wow, that shit almost made me tear up.

[Charlamagne tha God]

But I know y'all said no. King Shaming.

[Mandy B]

Yes.

[Charlamagne tha God]

What if the kink is animals?

[Jess Hilarious]

Oh, no.

[Mandy B]

So. So we have rules. No kids, no animals, no dead bodies. Those are the three.

[Jess Hilarious]

And consensual.

[Mandy B]

And of course consensual. Like everything consensual. But we absolutely zero tolerance for PDFs, for bestiality and for necrophilia.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Gotcha. Because there was a guy in Florida who I gave donkey today to this morning. He put his penis in the horse's nose.

[Mandy B]

That is. That is. That's also animal abuse.

[Jess Hilarious]

But also.

[Mandy B]

That's crazy. That's crazy.

[Jess Hilarious]

And what color was he?

[DJ Envy]

What color you think?

[Mandy B]

I mean, but Florida. In Florida. I don't even go based on color. It's just.

[Jess Hilarious]

Are y'all watching Florida Man?

[Charlamagne tha God]

I do on hbo.

[Mandy B]

Florida man is good.

[Jess Hilarious]

Florida man is good. Eating them.

[Charlamagne tha God]

It's good. It ain't as good as the regular Florida stories we read in the news though, but it's good.

[Jess Hilarious]

Nah, that black man and a white dude with no teeth and he burned a house on. But they were still together.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Yeah, I didn't see that one maybe yet.

[Jess Hilarious]

It's good, but it's reenactments of Florida man stories. But I think what's so crazy about Florida? We from there.

[Mandy B]

So we from Florida and we be. It's embarrassing.

[Jess Hilarious]

Why you think we was doing vampire shit? Hello? People be like, oh, it's cause you.

[Mandy B]

Got Florida, not we. Sometimes you have to speak for yourself.

[Jess Hilarious]

First of all, you gotta like get it.

[Mandy B]

Anyways, all right.

[DJ Envy]

Decision Podcast. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Wake that ass up early in the morning.

[Jess Hilarious]

The Breakfast Club.

[Charlamagne tha God]

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[Snoop Dogg]

This week on the R and B Money podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg.

[Tank]

I wanted to be here personally to come get y'all y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job.

[Jess Hilarious]

Yes sir.

[Tank]

I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I love how y'all speak to the realization of R B music and R B money.

[Snoop Dogg]

Snoop Dogg on R B Money. Listen to this episode on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Alex Canceroitz]

Jon Stewart is back at the Daily show and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with the Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports and movies. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors, and with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Mandy B]

Hey y'all.

[J]

Nimini here. I'm the host of a brand new history podcast for kids and families called Histor Historical Records. Executive produced by Questlove, the Story Pirates and John Glickman, Historical Records brings history to life through Hip hop, Smash, slam.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Another one gone Bash bam, another one gone the crack got a bat and.

[Mandy B]

Another one gone A tip of the.

[Charlamagne tha God]

Cap'Cause another one gone.

[J]

Each episode is about a different inspiring figure from history. Like this one about Claudette Colvin, a 15 year old girl in Alabama who refused to give up her seat on the city bus nine whole months before Rosa Parks did the same thing. Check it. Get the kids in your life excited about history by tuning in to Historical Records. Because in order to make history, you have to make some noise. Listen to historical records on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.