Podcast Summary: We Talk Back: As A Woman Thinketh, So Is She
Podcast Information:
- Title: The Breakfast Club
- Host/Author: iHeartPodcasts
- Description: The World's Most Dangerous Morning Show, The Breakfast Club, With DJ Envy And Charlamagne Tha God!
- Episode: We Talk Back: As A Woman Thinketh, So Is She
- Release Date: January 11, 2025
Introduction
The episode titled "We Talk Back: As A Woman Thinketh, So Is She" from The Breakfast Club features hosts Tammy and AJ Holiday from the We Talk Back podcast, a production of iHeartRadio and the Black Effect Network. The discussion revolves around New Year reflections, personal growth, relationships, societal standards, and the power of visualization and manifestation.
New Year Reflections and Resolutions (00:30 - 06:38)
Tammy and AJ Holiday kick off the episode by sharing their New Year's experiences and resolutions. Tammy emphasizes the importance of feeling "new" every January as a starting point for personal growth.
- Tammy (02:50): "Every January 1st, I do feel new. I got a new start. I got a new 12 months to do some shit."
AJ reflects on their New Year's celebrations, mentioning attending church online, eating grapes as part of a viral TikTok ritual, and setting off fireworks.
- AJ Holiday (02:50): "My mom and my sister, we watched church. We watched the brook online and we brought that into 12 o'clock and then we ate grapes under the table."
They discuss their approaches to resolutions, with AJ focusing on lifestyle changes rather than temporary diets.
- AJ Holiday (06:35): "We're not even dieting. We changing. It's a lifestyle change."
Celebrity Relationships and Age Gaps (06:38 - 14:37)
The conversation shifts to celebrity relationships, specifically Mariah Carey's new relationship with Anderson .Paak, highlighting societal perceptions of age gaps.
- Tammy (06:50): "Mariah Carey has a new man, Anderson Pacquiao. People are assuming because they've seen them out to dinner twice now and holding hands."
They delve into the double standards surrounding significant age differences in relationships, defending Mariah's choice and questioning societal judgments.
- AJ Holiday (07:58): "It's not the same. The maturity level is not, and that is the difference."
Divorce and Family Dynamics (14:37 - 16:07)
Tammy and AJ discuss high-profile divorces, notably Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt, exploring cultural differences in how Black and white communities perceive divorce.
- Tammy (09:45): "Black people really don't get divorced. Maybe it's because they're ready to marry other people."
They share personal anecdotes about their parents' marriages, emphasizing different cultural attitudes towards separation and remarriage.
Social Media and Race Relations (16:07 - 22:01)
The hosts touch on interracial relationships and societal expectations, debating the authenticity and challenges faced by Black women dating outside their race.
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AJ Holiday (14:37): "I'm about to start dating outside my race."
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Tammy (16:07): "You try to be yourself for real with others. Black men probably like that too. They don't have to show up a certain way."
They discuss the dynamics of interracial dating, societal pressures, and the importance of authenticity.
Predictions for 2025 (22:01 - 35:04)
Tammy and AJ share their predictions for the year 2025, ranging from economic forecasts to technological advancements.
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Tammy (16:21): "Baltimore Ravens are going to the Super Bowl."
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AJ Holiday (19:34): "Quantum computing is here. Imagine the iPhone 40."
They express optimism about America's future, forecasting advancements in technology and personal success, while also humorously predicting unexpected events like "zombies."
Visualization and Manifestation Techniques (35:04 - 49:42)
The core of the episode focuses on the power of visualization and manifestation as tools for achieving personal goals. Tammy introduces various techniques to effectively visualize and manifest desired outcomes.
Key Techniques Discussed:
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Mental Imagery: Engaging all five senses to create vivid mental pictures of goals.
- Tammy (26:27): "Visualize yourself in a relaxed place. Use your sight, smell, touch, taste, and hearing to help you visualize your goals."
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Affirmations: Positive statements to reinforce self-belief and intentions.
- Tammy (28:18): "I am successful. I am confident. I am powerful."
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Vision Boards: Creating visual representations of goals using images and words.
- Tammy (28:41): "I subscribe to Canva. You can get old magazines, cut up some pictures, put some shit together in a book."
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Guided Meditation: A structured approach to meditation focusing on visualization.
- Tammy (24:24 - 35:04): Leads listeners through a guided meditation session, encouraging them to visualize their goals and anchor positive emotions.
Notable Quotes:
- Tammy (22:52): "Visualization bridges the gap between your desires and reality."
- AJ Holiday (37:03): "I'm about to get me a new car. I visualize myself driving it."
- Tammy (39:17): "I am who I say I am, period."
Guided Meditation Session (49:42 - 48:36)
In the latter part of the episode, Tammy leads a guided meditation to help listeners manifest their goals for 2025. The session includes steps like finding a quiet space, deep breathing, clarifying goals, and engaging all senses to create a vivid mental scene of success.
- Tammy (49:00): "Find a quiet place, close your eyes, and take a few deep breaths."
Listeners are encouraged to amplify positive emotions and anchor their visualizations with affirmations, reinforcing their commitment to achieving their goals.
- Tammy (49:05): "Repeat an affirmation tied to your goal, such as, 'I am deserving and capable of achieving this.'"
Conclusion and Closing Remarks (48:36 - 50:44)
Tammy and AJ wrap up the episode by reinforcing the importance of manifestation and visualization, sharing their excitement for future live shows and encouraging listeners to stay engaged.
- Tammy (49:12): "We made it. We living, we breathing, we healthy, and we getting all the things we want this year."
They promote upcoming live events and urge listeners to follow them on social media for more content and updates.
- AJ Holiday (49:41): "We appreciate y'all. We gonna be coming to you live real soon."
Advertisements and Promotions
Throughout the episode, there are intermittent advertisements and promotions for other podcasts, products, and services, notably:
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"Really No Really" Podcast: Hosted by Jason Alexander and Peter Tilden, promoting registration for prizes and guest spots ([00:01 - 00:24], [24:01 onwards]).
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Amazon Prime Promotions: Charlamagne tha God endorses Amazon Prime features, emphasizing its multifaceted benefits ([23:59 - 42:24], [50:52 onwards]).
Summary
"We Talk Back: As A Woman Thinketh, So Is She" is a dynamic episode that blends personal anecdotes, societal commentary, and practical self-improvement techniques. Tammy and AJ Holiday offer listeners valuable insights into setting and achieving goals through visualization and manifestation, all while navigating discussions on relationships, cultural norms, and future predictions. The episode serves as both an inspirational guide and an entertaining conversation, encouraging women to harness the power of their thoughts to shape their realities.
Notable Quotes:
- Tammy (22:52): "Visualization bridges the gap between your desires and reality."
- AJ Holiday (37:03): "I'm about to get me a new car. I visualize myself driving it."
- Tammy (49:12): "We living, we breathing, we healthy, and we getting all the things we want this year."
Timestamps Highlighted:
- 00:30 - 06:38: New Year Reflections and Resolutions
- 06:38 - 14:37: Celebrity Relationships and Age Gaps
- 14:37 - 16:07: Divorce and Family Dynamics
- 16:07 - 22:01: Social Media and Race Relations
- 22:01 - 35:04: Predictions for 2025
- 35:04 - 49:42: Visualization and Manifestation Techniques
- 49:42 - 50:44: Guided Meditation Session
This comprehensive summary encapsulates the essence of the episode, providing a clear and engaging overview for those who haven't listened. It highlights key discussions, insights, and memorable moments, ensuring readers grasp the full scope of Tammy and AJ Holiday's conversation on personal empowerment and societal issues.