Podcast
The Bridge Between Us: Loving Your LGBT Identified Child Without Compromising Biblical Truth
Hosted by Melinda Patrick · EN
When your child embraces an LGBTQ identity, it can feel as though the ground beneath your feet has shifted.
You love your child deeply. You love Jesus deeply. And now you're asking questions you never expected to face.
How do I stay faithful to God's Word while keeping my relationship with my child?
What does it really look like to walk in both grace and truth?
Is there anyone who truly understands what I'm going through?
You are not alone.
The Bridge Between Us is a podcast for Christian parents navigating one of the most difficult and deeply personal journeys of their lives. Each week, we offer biblical encouragement, practical wisdom, and honest conversations that help you build lasting relationships with your child while remaining firmly anchored in Scripture.
You'll hear from Christian parents who have walked this road, pastors, counselors, ministry leaders, and individuals who once identified as LGBTQ and now share how Christ transformed their lives. Together, we explore how to respond with compassion, wisdom, and unwavering faith in a culture that often tells us we must choose between truth and love.
You don't have to compromise your convictions to love your child well.
There is a path forward—one marked by grace, truth, hope, and enduring relationship.
Whether you're a parent, grandparent, pastor, counselor, or someone walking alongside a family on this journey, you'll find biblical encouragement, practical guidance, and the reminder that you don't have to walk this road alone.
Helping Christian families build bridges of love while remaining anchored in God's Word.
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Still Faithful: Naming The Pain Without Losing Faith {Eps 118}
Jan 800:08:53Tap to summarizeIf you've ever whispered, "God, what do I do with this grief I can't even name?" — this episode is for you. So many parents are trying to stay faithful… while quietly carrying spiritual pain no one else sees. Grief that doesn't have a name. Disappointment that feels "un-Christian" to admit. Anguish that lingers, even when you're doing all the "right" things. In this episode, we talk honestly about the kind of pain that doesn't fit into neat categories — and the courage it takes to stay when your heart feels like it's breaking. What we cover: Why unspoken pain doesn't disappear — it just goes underground The difference between doubt and honest faith How lament can actually be one of the most faithful things you do Naming grief when your child is still alive What to pray when you're too tired for long prayers Why your sorrow does not disqualify your faithfulness Take this with you: You are not just a parent in pain. You are a parent in position. And God is still working in the dark. Mentioned in this episode: Last week's episode on releasing shame (Ep 1: "It Wasn't Your Fault") Scripture-based reflections on grief and lament A simple practice of honest prayer you can begin this week Resources for you: Morning Worship Text Series (Free) This is something I personally use to start many of my weekdays. It's short, simple, and it grounds my heart before I ask for anything. The time of worship includes a song and Scripture read aloud. You'll get a morning text with a link to worship — you can listen whenever it fits your rhythm. Here's the link: https://sing.theworshipinitiative.com Devotional Recommendation: The Hidden Face of God: Finding the Missing Door to the Father Through Lament by Michael Card This book will meet you in the deeper place. If you're craving more intimacy with the Father — especially when He feels quiet — this is for you. {This is an affiliate link - it doesn't change anything for you on your end but helps support my ministry if you decide to purchase through this link} Let's stay connected: If today's episode spoke to you, would you take a moment to share it with someone who's navigating a similar journey? You're not alone — and neither are they. 💌 Subscribe, review, or send me a message with what stood out. I'd love to hear from you. You can connect with Melinda: melinda@melindapatrick.org
Transcribe →Still Faithful — Looking Back Without Shame {Eps 117}
Jan 200:09:07Tap to summarizeAs we begin a new year, many parents are carrying more than they expected — unresolved relationships, unanswered prayers, and the quiet weight of loving a child through pain, distance, or deep disagreement. In this first episode of the Still Faithful series, we slow down together and begin with something essential: releasing shame. This episode is for parents who are questioning themselves, their faith, or what faithfulness looks like after a hard year. It's a grounding invitation to look back honestly — without self-blame — and to begin moving forward with steadiness, clarity, and grace. This is not about fixing your child or forcing outcomes. It's about strengthening you. In this episode, we talk about: The difference between faithfulness and outcomes How to look back at the past year without self-condemnation What you may be carrying that was never meant to be yours Why faithfulness can coexist with heartbreak How to begin a new year grounded rather than striving Reflection questions to sit with: Where have I been harder on myself than God has been? What did faithfulness look like for me this past year — even if it felt quiet or unseen? What responsibility or guilt do I need to release as I move forward? A gentle reminder: You can be deeply faithful and deeply heartbroken at the same time. Faithfulness does not require resolution — only presence. As we move through this series, we'll continue to explore how to stay spiritually anchored, emotionally steady, and rooted in love — even when the story isn't finished. About the Series: Still Faithful Still Faithful is a season created for Christian parents navigating painful, unresolved parenting journeys — including estrangement, distance, and moments when a child's choices challenge deeply held beliefs. This series is designed to help you: Stay grounded when parenting hurts Discern next faithful steps without pressure Love well without losing yourself Trust God even when outcomes are uncertain
Transcribe →The Best Way To Show The World That Transformation Is Possible {Eps 65}
Sep 14, 2024Tap to summarizeIn episode 62, I shared ways we can be like the LGBTQ community, and I touched on what we can do to be more like Jesus. (I'll link the episode in the show notes if you haven't listened in yet.) I briefly talked about Pride, broken identity, disordered desires, and spiritual disappointment. Today, we will examine pride and unpack it a little more. We are also going to look at steps we can take to replace pride with humility and look more like Jesus. Previous episodes mentioned: Episode 62 – Four Ways Christians Can Be Like the LGBTQ Community And What To Do To Be More Like Jesus Episode 37 with Lindsey Kiser Part One– Piercing The Night: Stretigic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free Episode 38 with Lindsey Kiser Part Two: Taking Territory Back – How To Release The Power Of God In Your Prayer For Your LGBTQ Loved One Scripture verses mentioned: 2 Chronicle 7:14 Psalm 25:8-9 Isaiah 66:2 James 4:6 Psalm 18:27 Proverbs 11:2 John 6:68 Links to books: Humility: True Greatness by C. J. Mahaney TransFormation: A Former Transgender Responds To LGBTQ by Dr. Linda Seiler Piercing the Darkness: Strategic Intercession To Set The LGBTQ Captives Free by Kathryn Lindsey Kiser The Daring Rescue: Joining Jesus Christ In His Pursuit Of Your LGBTQ Identified Child's Heart by Melinda Patrick Upcoming conferences: ReStoried24 Conference (In-person ONLY) October 4-5 in Indianapolis, Indiana *These show notes contain affiliate links. If you purchase a book through one of these links, I will make a commission at no extra cost to you.
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