In this episode of The Broken Pack: Stories of Sibling Loss, Dr. Dean talks with Earla Legault, a surviving sibling, grief advocate, and co-author of Living with Sibling Grief: Imagining a Way Forward. Earla lost her younger sister, Leigh-Ann, to pancreatic cancer after serving as her caregiver for three months at home. This episode explores what sibling loss looks like when you're also the caregiver, how a surviving sibling navigates the grief no one talks about, and how Earla found her way forward through writing, drawing, and a grief buddy.

Earla and Dr. Dean also discuss why sibling grief is so often unspoken, what it means to lose the person who was the glue in your family, the difference between acknowledging a death and accepting it, and how continuing bonds show up in birds, pink skies, and grief dreams. Earla shares how she and co-author Monica Murphy went from strangers on Facebook to grief buddies to published authors, and why she believes finding your nature is more useful than any coping mechanism. In this episode you will:

Hear Earla's story of sibling loss, their long goodbye, and what she calls the learning times of caregiving.
Learn why sibling grief goes unspoken and how family dynamics shift when the glue is gone.
Be inspired by how a surviving sibling found a grief buddy, co-wrote a book, and built a community around saying their names.

Connect with Earla Legault:

Instagram: @sibling.grief.buds

Book: Living with Sibling Grief: Imagining a Way Forward

Grief Matters: https://griefmatters.ca/blog/drawing-through-the-grief-of-an-adult-sibling

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