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Brittany Broski
What's your dream night in? Mine is rewatching the instant cult classic fan favorite HBO original series, House of the Dragon, with a giant Diet Coke, french fries and a Caesar salad delivered through Doordash. It's the American dream, if you think about it. Or more specifically, my American dream. Sign up for Dash Pass annual Plan and get Max included at no extra cost. It's your door to more. Terms and conditions apply. Max is now included with your Dash Pass annual plan. Stream Max with ads up to $120 value, included at no extra cost. Terms apply. See doordash.commax for details. Direct from the Broski Nation headquarters in Los Angeles, California, this is the Broski Report with your host, Brittany Broski. Ok, ok, enough. Settle down, settle down. I don't want to hear it. Guys, seriously. Can we get this meeting started already? Hey. One, two, three, eyes on me. Thank you. Silent Coyote. Y'all remember that one, Silent Coyote. I used to love that as a kid. Or how about Catch a Bubble? You catch a bubble in your mouth, you have to get inventive to get kids to shut the fuck up. You know what I mean? Silent Coyote. Me, like, I want to be the first one to be Silent Coyote. Just my silent Coyote. He's beautiful. He is a blue, blue coyote with a fluffy tail. He's been hit by multiple vehicles, but he has lived. He walks with a limp. He's missing teeth. But this is my Silent Coyote, okay? Because they silenced him. Okay, guys. Hello? So much has fucking happened. So much has happened. Things are always happening, okay, in my life, specifically, because that's all I can really talk about. Jesus Christ. A lot has happened. But here's. Here's something real quick. That's real, real cute, actually. I'll get into it. I'll get into it later, okay? There's something on the forefront of my lobe, okay? My lobe is pulsing with this information that I have to get out, y'all. And albeit I am late, I am late to this whole sort of debacle, but I feel the need to speak on it. I watched Love island usa, Okay, I don't really. I gave Love Island USA a chance, like, two, three years ago. And I was like, this bullshit sucks because nothing in my mind beats uk. Dude, the one of the guys who does my hair recommended that I watch it because I was like, I'm not watching that bullshit. And he was like, trust, diva. You will love. And I was like, okay, fine. And so I started watching it and, oh, my God, I'm addicted. I'm Addicted. I understand. Because here's the thing. All you Bravo girls, all the reality TV hoes, I understand. That's just never been my universe. You know what I mean? I've been more so in the house of the Dragon. Game of Thrones, succession, universe. That's what I'm like. Oh, tv. Okay, Love island, it's on par. Love island might as well be Succession. Season five. Okay. Season six. That shit. Oh, my God. I just can't even. Maybe it's not that good. And I'm just like. I love drama when it's not mine. You know what I mean? Here's what I wanna say. If you haven't watched it, you should start. But for all the people who have or who are familiar, I have some thoughts. Okay. I'm going to ruin it for the winners because, I mean, it's been out for a while. I'm just going to go ahead and tell you who wins. Serena and Cordell win. I'm obsessed with Serena. I'm obsessed with Serena in a way that's like, I have got. I have got to go to a concert with her now. I have got to have two glasses of wine on an empty stomach with Serena now. From when she walked into the villa, I was like, I know a Texan when I fucking see one. She looks like a time. I love her because here's the thing, I see myself in Serena, which is the beautiful thing of shows like this, where it's like, oh, look at all these people coming on this dating show. Right? It's a dating show. But no, you can see through to the heart of some people. Humans are very easy to read, I would say, for the most part, Serena is such a genuine person. And when she had her little crash out, understood, right? Like, I would have reacted in the same way. And the person I was watching it with, we were talking about it because they were like, I think she acted out of pocket. Like, that is so. I don't understand. And I was like, are you out of your fucking mind? Because. Let me validate Serena really quick, okay? So essentially, let me give some context for people who don't watch Love Island. There is the villa, okay? There's the main villa that people come into, that the islanders come into. There's like the main girls and the main guys, and throughout, they introduce bombshells, okay? So, like, when there's a recoupling, you have to couple up with someone if you want to stay into the end. And if you don't get picked or if someone kicks you out of A couple. Because there's a new bombshell coming in. It's drama, okay? Halfway through the season, there's something called Casa Amore. Casa Amore is a separate villa where the boys get sent off to Casa Amore and five new women are introduced. Mind you, all of these men are in a couple, okay? So it really tests the relationships that are budding and forming. Also, I just had a cup of coffee, and my doctor told me to start putting whole body collagen in that. I feel like my eyeballs are. They've been doing circles around this room, okay? I feel exhausted, but I also feel like, okay, so if you see me, I'm like, the sweat from my neck down is something crazy, crazy work is happening under this table, okay? So Casa More. That's. That's how it works, okay? And while the boys are sent off to Casa More, the girls are left in the villa freaking the fuck out, right? They're like, is he going to cheat? Is he going to. Whatever. But it's not really cheating because they're not together. You know what I mean? Some of the couples got close to being like, it's my boyfriend. But, like, girl, you've known him for three weeks. What do you mean, that's your boyfriend? Me. Literally, me. Meanwhile, while the boys are off at Casa Mor doing whatever, the women are back in the villa, and five new men are introduced there as well, okay? So all the relationships are being tested. New connections are blossoming. But, you know, the OG girls are in the villa, and they don't want any of these new guys. The new guys suck. Like, they miss their old. They're OG men. So Serena is one of them from Houston, Texas, and I loved her from the jump. Her and this guy Cordell had coupled up, okay? And it's real cute. It's real, real cute. At this stage, it was so, so cute because they'd kind of been. You know, it takes her a moment to be like, do I really like this person or do I just feel forced to couple up? Is there a real connection? Could I see this Working on the outside, but the clips they would show of them. And I know, obviously this show is so heavily edited, we don't get the true story. Everything's, you know, a construct. But they're so cute. They're so cute. The way they banter and they do little voices back and forth. And he makes her laugh, and he really likes her, and it takes her some time to come around to him. By the time Casa Moore comes around, she really likes him, okay? Cause it took her some time. She really likes him, okay? He goes off, couples up with someone else. Bitch. Couples up with someone else, okay? I'm devastated. We're. Obviously the viewer is watching this happen. And Serena has no. They get sent a video of Cordell kissing another girl, okay? Freak out. Crash out of the century. Cordell comes back, brings the other girl with him to the villa. Oh, my God. When they're recoupling, they're like, serena, are you coupling up with any of these new boys or are you waiting for Cordell? And she was like, I'm going to wait for Cordell. Because here's the thing. You're fucking humiliated if you stand there and you're like, yeah, I want to recouple up with them. I was thinking about them the whole time they were gone, and I missed them. And I really see future. And then they bring back another person. Oh, oh, you've just disrespected my bloodline. You spat on my bloodline by bringing back another woman from Casamore, okay? So everyone recouples up. There's other drama, whatever, okay? I'm only really locked into Serena and Cordell. I only really give a about them. He comes back, he feels bad, okay? And here's the thing. I do believe to my core that men are stupid. Men are weak, spineless creatures. Does that mean that they are absent or lacking in affection and love? Maybe in the case of Cordell, I don't think so. Okay? Cordell really liked her, and this girl in Casa Moore came onto him hard. And again, when you're in Love island, it's like, we're not dating, okay? In the real world, you'd probably be seeing other people as well, like going on multiple dates with multiple people. But there's also this silent understanding of, like, come home to me. You know what I mean? I am just like Serena, where it's like, I'm only entertaining one person. And I love myself. Here's the thing. I love myself more than any man could ever love me. And at any weight, at any job, at any point in my life, I have done so much work on myself. I love myself. I am my biggest advocate. And this has not always been the case. You have to work to get to that point, okay? And for me, that strength comes from a lot of the women in my life. When you have a support system like that. So these islanders are separated from their support systems, okay? All they have is each other, and they're all making kind of shit decisions sometimes. And so it's easy to feel very alone and feel very like, what the fuck am I doing? Who am I? Why did I let this happen? Serena's standing there at the fire pit. Cordell comes back with another woman. It's immediate, like, fuck this. Fuck this, dude. She gets so fucking mad. She's like, I don't want to talk to you. Like, fuck you. You made your decision. That is so hurtful. Like, wow. After that sort of thing. And as it continues to progress, you know, like this whole confrontation between her and Cordell, I'm watching it with my friend, and they're like, I don't understand why Serena would do that. Like, she's. She's mean. You know what I mean? Like, I really lost a lot of respect for Serena when she did that. And I looked at him and I said, what? Because what men don't understand is what I am now coining the lemonade effect, okay? It's the lemonade response. When something like that happens to you, where your trust has been betrayed, or when you have put all your eggs in one basket with this person and they have made it clear that they don't feel the same. It's the chronological order of how Beyonce structured lemonade, okay? It's anger, actually. It's disbelief, then it's anger, then it's apathy, then it's sadness, then it's resolution, okay? And that's the condensed version. But that journey that a lot of women go through, I've gone through it, and it's how I process things. It's. It's. She's processing it, like grief, honestly, when you get cheated on or when someone dies or when anything in your life happens like that, where you feel that you've lost something or that you have been disrespected. Because that's all it is. It's disrespect, okay? Let's call it what it is. When you've been disrespected in that way, the gut reaction at first is like, he wouldn't do that. Like, this is a joke. Like, come on. And then it's anger. How the fuck could you do that to me? After everything we built in here, after all the time, after everything that we talked about and I told you my sister's name and where my mom is from and all this bullshit, you know, all this shit about me and you did that. You did that. Own it. It's anger, okay? And there's this scene where all the girls are getting ready and Serena's at her little glam station. I love her. She's at her little glam station. And I'm not saying that this is right, but I'm saying when I saw it, I was like, oh, yeah, I get that. Cordell tries to bring her and the new girl breakfast the next morning. Are you out of your mother mind? Are you out your mind? Tries to bring both of breakfast in the same room. This is what I'm saying. Men are stupid. Like, the intention, I guess, was sweet. But, girl, think about it for more than 15 seconds. How. How do you think that's gonna play out for you? If you know Serena as well as you say you know Serena, how the fuck do you think that's gonna play out for you? And so here he comes up the stairs holding these two breakfast plates, gives one to Daya. Daya, the girl who he brought back from Casa Moore, and one to Serena. Serena flipped that shit back in his face. She's get the fuck out of here. Flipped it on his. It like went down his chest. It fell on the floor. And everyone's like, serena. And in my head, I'm like, I get it. I'm not saying it's right. I'm not saying that that was the correct thing to do. It is rude, okay? It was meant. But she. You know, there probably was a more mature way to handle it, but. Bitch, I understand. I get it. I get it, okay? Then after that, they argue, they talk. It's a bunch of conversations after that of, like, you disrespected me in a way that I did not think you were capable of. And that fucking sucks because we have been through so much in this villa already, okay? I'm locked into Love island, bitch. Like, trust, trust, believe you me, okay? It's the anger. It's the initial anger where she's yelling at him on the dock, and then the next morning, that shit. She flipped that shit in his face, and it was like, you know, let him sit in this for a second. You have to really understand that you may have lost her. And I hope it was worth it. But in the end, after the anger comes some sadness and then acceptance, okay? And then resolution. So they end up working through it because there's really no one else in the villa. I mean, even when he brought that girl back, he was like, I was thinking about Serena the whole time, okay, does that matter? No, because you still brought her back. So why did you bring her back? You didn't have to do that if you were thinking about Serena the whole time, come back alone. You know what I mean? So I'm watching this whole Serena Cordell thing play out. And I'm like. I think I'm more like Serena than I realized because I watched her whole process of that happening, her processing it, A, alone, and then, like, in the confessionals, and then B, with the girls and, you know, just. I just love girls. Like, just the support from your friends through anything. You're like, I support a. Women's rights and wrongs, that sort of thing, where, of course, they're there for her. Even when she acted out. Even when. Whatever. It's like, I completely understand. And it was a. It's such good television. Sorry. Because I've had friends who've gone through something like that. I've gone through something like that, and it's like, there's no correct way to handle it because you're hurt, and hurt people lash out. And fuck you for bringing two breakfast plates. Intuitive. Anyway, they worked it out. They ended up winning, period. Okay. They ended up winning, of course, because they're. Because they're really sweet for each other and they have fun together. And he makes her laugh. She's got the cutest little laugh. And they met each other's families and they're just giddy. So here's the thing. If this were my friend, if Serena were my friend in real life, I probably would have told her, don't take him back. Right? Like, don't take him back. But in this scenario, because it's not real life, it's Love Island. We saw everything, you know, like, okay, okay, yeah, I take him back. That's fine. I was just. I just love her to pieces because I see myself in her a lot. And it's so human, the way that she reacted. Like, it wasn't for a TV show. You know what I mean? Like, these are real people with real emotions and real lives. And, yes, they audition for the show, but it's to find love. It's to find love. And then she found love. I love Serena. Okay. Anyway, we'll move on. I have a confession that I don't really know, you know, what this says about me, what to do with it, but I just need to sort of get it off my chest. I am addicted. Addicted to Leah. I don't know why. I don't agree with a lot of the shit she did on the show. I think she loves a toxic man, but I'm addicted to her. I. After I finished Love island and I watched the reunion. Fucking tea, by the way. Holy shit. We'll get into all that in a second and I'll explain it for all the people who haven't watched it because it's motherfucking tea, bitch. When Leah was on the reunion, there's this unspoken, like, hierarchy, I guess, of the OG girls who entered the villa versus the people who they introduced after the fact. And again, that's not the later girl's fault that, like, they didn't get as much screen time or, you know, we don't know that much about them, so we don't like them as much. Not that we dislike them, it's just that I don't really. I didn't get to see a lot of you, so of course I'm gonna be more emotionally attached to, like, Leah and Serena and Janae and Nicole, but I just think that Leah just gives good tv, first of all, because I've had friends like Leah in the past, and there's always something happening. There's always something happening in those girls lives. And it's. It's fun, you know, to be around sometimes, but it gets exhausting and then you start to realize, like, oh, they kind of like it. And for me personally, I'm too. I'm too emotional. Like, I can't deal with that, truly, Like, I can't deal with it. But Leah and Miguel, I think, are good for each other. Miguel, like, worships the ground that she walks on, which is how it should be. And they're together all the time. So. Hold on. Okay. In the villa, Leah recoupled with like, what, four different, five different people? Because she's obviously so gorgeous, she's so likable, she's so just like girl's girl. Like, I don't really love her. In the end, she ended up with Miguel. They're still together outside of the villa for shits and gigs. I followed her on Instagram, okay? And then I was like, oh, she's posting vlogs. So I go on TikTok. I watched her entire account from top to bottom. It took me like, four hours. I'm addicted to her. I'm addicted to Leah. I literally want to buy her merch. I don't give a fuck. I'm going to buy Leah's merch, okay? And I'm going to wear it out. People are going to be like, is that Leah from Lava? Yep. Yes, it is. Yes, it is. I'm addicted to her. And her and Serena and Janae are all best friends, duh. Okay, Leah, I don't know what it is. I honestly was sort of consulting y'all to try to explain, like, why is it that I'm Addicted to her. Why do I love her so much? I think about her throughout the day. I think I'm just intrigued. Like, it's just pretty girl stuff, you know? Like, I think she's very sweet and, like, can be funny and it's just so likable. I'm just addicted. I don't know. I think I need to get drunk with her too. So I've been addicted to her. Yeah, I'm in a trance. I don't know, girl. Aaron and Caylor. So Erin and Caylor on the show were like the season's mom and dad, you know what I mean? There's always that couple in these sort of shows where it's like they've been together from the beginning. They just knew that they were made for each other and, like, they're probably going to get married in the outside world. It was just like, truly, this show is so beautiful. Like, that sort of shit, girl. Oh, my days. Oh, my days. When I say. When I say, like, toxic. Gossip train. When I say toxic. And here's another thing I'm gonna say, okay, so in the whole time they're in the villa, right? Kayla and Aaron, Kayla and Aaron, everyone's like, oh, they're. They're as solid as. As anything. Like, they're in love. Like, they. He asked her to be his girlfriend, whatever. Cheated on her at costum or bad, okay? Like, fingered another girl. Okay? All this comes out the reunion, by the way. They go through it in the villa. Like, break up, back together, break up. I can't stay mad at you. Like, toxic. Like, he is a toxic manipulator. And I will say this. Kaylor separated from her support system, right? These men. And she said this in the reunion. And I was like, period, bitch, you better say that she was separated from her support system. Those sort of men will smell weakness in a woman like that and just beat her down. Beat her down. And this is verbatim. It's her words from the reunion. And she was so on the money. Just beat her down, beat her down so that she takes him back every time. No matter what he does. She will take him back because he love bombs her. Because he'll fuck up and then ask her to be his girlfriend. He'll fuck up and then, you know, plan some sweet surprise. He'll fuck up or he'll say something fucked up and then, you know, do something sweet for. It's like this weird pain reward system. And it's almost like a Pavlovian response where you are constantly in this state of like, okay, well, I know he loves me because he tells me he loves me. And look, he, like, planned this date night, but then he said this fucked up shit, or he yelled at me or he stormed off the set, which he did at one point because everyone was ganging up on him because he's a shithead, okay? And then you take him back. And it's also like, here are these women in the villa that, yes, they're your friends, but they don't know you. They don't really know you the way that your friends and family from back home do. So you're weak in there. You are at a weakened state. They didn't even make the top four because people saw through the toxicity and they saw through the like, oh, I just love him and I love you. We said the L word and he planned a date with so and so's help. And it's like, girl, who gives a fuck if all we're seeing is you crying in every confessional? He's not good for you. I just wanted to hug her at some point. She cried so damn much on that show. I was like, mama, stand up. Get up. Tell him to off. Truly, it's so hard when you are unplugged from the people who help you find your self advocacy. It is so hard. And those people like Aaron prey on that. They prey on women like that. And it's awful. And I just, you know, I think he. He has probably done some reflecting in the reunion. He was tail between his legs, okay? I know he's been getting shit online. And that's the risk you run when you audition and get cast on a show like this is like, none of this is private, okay? Even the shit that happens after your time in the villa is like, girl, it's up for debate because your relationship is now public discourse. And if that's okay with you, then, you know, you have to be okay with. If all the opportunities that come from being on a show like that are appealing to you, then you have to be willing to deal with the negative as well. 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What's your dream night in Mine is rewatching the instant cult classic fan favorite HBO original series House of the Dragon with a giant Diet Coke, French fries and a Caesar salad delivered through doordash. It's the American Dream, if you think about it. Or more specifically, my American Dream. Sign up for Dash Pass Annual Plan and get Max included at no extra cost. It's your door to more terms and conditions apply. Max is now included with your Dash Pass Annual Plan stream Max with ads up to $120 value included at no extra cost terms apply. See doordash.commax for details.
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Brittany Broski
Self advocacy is a learned skill. Some people, it comes more naturally too. And some people, you have to work it out like a muscle. And it is possible and it has everything to do with who you surround yourself with. Okay? And this is the sort of segment of every show where I'm gonna shout out Drew F. Wallow because that's my fucking bitch and that's my sister. And she for me and for so many women and femmes have been that because she comes. And so this is what I want to talk about. Here's what people like Drew and a lot of my. My other woman friends have opened my eyes to is. And this is a simple concept, but it's hard in practice. If what you're going through was happening to your friend and your friend came to you and asked for advice, what would you tell them to do? You know, would you tell your friend to stay with someone who doesn't make them happy or doesn't fulfill their needs, or stay with someone who they have a toxic past with? Would you tell them to stick around? And if the answer is no, why would you give yourself any different advice? Why would you tell your friend to stay in a situation that does not serve them, that is not allowing them to flower, that is not allowing them to blossom into the fully realized woman that they could be? Why would you not give yourself the same care and love? And so, you know, being friends with Drew and my friend Katie and a lot of people like this in my life, it's like it suddenly becomes so clear to me. This is also a practice in people who really struggle with anxiety is you get so deep in your own head for 15 minutes, pick one person and think about them. Think about them and their lives and what they want and what they're probably doing and their favorite things and their family. It pulls you out of your head and it grounds you. It puts your feet on the ground. Because we are so navel gazing as creatures. As human beings, we are navel gazing creatures. We think it's all about us all the time, and the fucking universe revolves around us. And that is also an American individualism thing. Okay? It's. It's a very American experience. And oh my God, it's just a spiral. And so that's related to what I'm saying, of course, of like, think about yourself as someone's friend. And would you want that to happen to someone's friend? To your friend? No. God, no. So why are you letting it happen? So back to Love Island. That was. It's just. It was. Oh, my God. It was so. It's entertaining, but it's also interesting to talk about because these are real people. Okay, moving on. I think Connor was too normal for the show. Let me just say that. I think he was too normal. Again, he might be a fucking freak weirdo, so I'm not going to sit up here and defend him. But him trying to talk to these women or just anyone, any of the dudes too, they're all stupid. I was like, Connor's too. Like, why are you on this show, dude? Why? Okay, next. This isn't really that funny, but I want to talk about it because it's very interesting to me. And on a podcast like this, you know, you have to realize that you're sort of in the cultural zeitgeist. And so I want to talk about this because I find it interesting and important and I want to sort of open an eye in the general populace to this concept. If you. I know a lot. The majority of my followers are very, very intelligent people. Okay. On the other hand, there are some that are so chronically online it literally could be diagnosed as an illness. And something like this is very important. I feel that it's very important to talk about if you've never thought about this in this way, because it feels very. To me, this feels very like, duh. But let's talk about it. I want to talk about this. TikTok by this creator, Arca. So it's called you're lonely because you're overconnected. And she's referencing an article from a substack by Sherry Ning wherein she says social media has transformed us into each other's supervisors. We post like we know we're being watched. Many of us don't have friends anymore. We have followers. We don't deeply care about each other's lives. We consume them as content. We're in constant contact with people. But to what end? They're not meaningful connections. Don't let social comparison let you lose sight of what you care about. Don't let social media blur your sense of what matters to you. How would we express ourselves online if we didn't consider the audience? So to me, this is very you are your own voyeur sort of thing, which is. Is that Virginia Woolf? You have to look at yourself through the lens of that one in particular is you have to look at yourself through the lens of men. You know, you are your own voyeur. We watch ourselves through the eyes of men. Are we pretty in how we're doing this? You know, are we poised? Is our posture straight, Are our legs crossed? All of these things. It's like we're looking at ourselves through a fucking security camera lens all the time. That's that. This is something a bit different when it comes to digital voyeurism, you know, self voyeurism, auto voyeurism. I think all of these are incredible points. You know, we talk a lot about this loss of a third space where people can come to connect, community can be built. That isn't a church. Okay? We talk a lot about the loss of identity for in favor of trends. You know, there's this joke online of the micro trend final boss and it's someone with the shirt with the bows on it and the weird Wavy checkerboard from 2020 and all these weird short lived fashion nova fast fashion trends that just are cyclical and they're as soon as they're in, they're out. And here's something else. And here's blueberry milk, nails and fucking coffee makeup. Shut up. Shut up, okay? I don't give a fuck what Bella Hadid is doing. What do you like? Okay, my question for all of you today is what do you like? And if you don't know how to answer that question, I recommend you take a break from social media for a while. Delete the Instagram app off your home screen. Okay? Maybe take a week break off of TikTok. And I want you to sit with yourself and I want you to think, who am I and what do I like? Who am I? Might be too daunting of a question. Throw that one out. What do I like when I was little? What did I gravitate towards? What did I play with? What were some of my favorite toys? What were some of my favorite movies? My favorite TV shows? Who did I like in those TV shows? Who are my. My favorite crushes? You know, what did me and my Friends talk about and how has that evolved into who you are as an adult? Can you carry some of those things with you? I used to love doing arts and crafts with my nana as a kid. I'm 27. I recently just bought fucking air dry clay and I've been making clay figurines and it brings me so much joy. There are positive things, 100% to come from TikTok and social media. For example, the air dry clay stuff came. A lot of that inspiration for me came from TikTok because it started coming across my feed and I was like, I used to love stuff like this and I just don't make time for it and instead I make time to sit on the couch or lay in bed in the dark and scroll TikTok for five hours. Genuinely, at least five hours. That is so much of my day gone. When I could be creating art, I could be talking to friends, I could be calling my grandma. It's things that, like, I am at a point in my life where I am trying to let go of things that do not serve me. Actually, I'm going to cry and that's okay. And actually I'm gonna cry and my eyes are burning and that's okay. I'm going to let go of things that don't serve me. And letting go of some of that stuff, I'm going to leave claw marks on it because I love some of that stuff and I love some of those people that those people and those things are not good for me and that's okay. And in that time, you can be sad, but you can also think to the future. And who am I going to be in six months after I've let this thing go? And that's so exciting and it's so beautiful that I am constantly meeting new versions of me and I don't know who I'm going to be in six months, but I know I'm going to like her. And I know that who I am right now will always be a part of who I will be. And it's very exciting. And so I just. It makes me really sad to think that we're all a part of this culture. That's just. It's addiction. I'm addicted to my phone. I'm doing. I'm not joking. 15 hour days on screen time, 15 hours on my phone. That is a clinical addiction to my iPhone. And it doesn't feel good and it hurts my eyes. I literally turned on that accessibility thing. That's like when your phone is too close, it literally tells you to back the fuck up because it's hurting your eyes. Like this has infiltrated every single thought I have. I don't know who I am without this fucking phone. And it's a horrible feeling. And as I just did that look, my fucking mic is on and it's tracking everything I say. All that to say this is a practice in self reflection and hanging out with yourself. And I know that's scary for some people. We are bred and conditioned to not like ourselves and to want to change ourselves. And there's so many things that I could touch on. There's so many like, you know, sub points, bullet points of the way that we change our bodies and the way that we change our speech patterns and the way that we change our aesthetics and the way that we are around people. Because this is what the Internet tells us to do. This is what social pressure and socialization urges us to do. And it's not necessary. Because who loses in that process? You. Who do you lose in that process? Yourself. And who's gaining something in that process? Mediocre men. Shitty friends. This is what Drew always says. If being the cool girl means having to lose yourself to impress the most mid guy in the room, fuck being cool and fuck being chill. That is directly from Drew's book, which you should go listen to. And it's like, if you've never thought about this in a really literal way that we are acting, you know, we are acting out the version of ourselves in here. And if you deeply dislike the version of yourself in here, who are you trying to impress? And that is a fruitless endeavor. If you are performing the ritual of yourself for people that don't give a fuck about you or men that only want to use you as a sex object, you are the only loser in that situation. So get up. Stand up. Fuck. God damn. Stand up. Hello, ladies and germs, boys and girls, the Grinch is back again to ruin your Christmas season with Tis the Grinch Holiday Podcast. 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Brittany Broski
Your homework for tonight is to do some reflection. Who am I to my core, what do I love and what have I let go to be this watered down version of myself? This is why I think a lot of young women, specifically young women and femmes and all my gays out there are sort of attracted to what I've built here because I am out loud living and loving the things that 14 year old me loved and I do it out loud. And I think that that is an encouragement for a lot of young people and you know, millennials, older millennials. I mean if you're I've got followers well into their late 30s and I get really cute messages sometimes of like I forgot I used to love this and like the way that you love things makes me want to love this shit too. And I don't care if it's cringe or I don't care if I get made fun of or whatever. I like this thing and that's a beautiful thing because life is too short to water yourself down and dilute yourself to appease people. I don't give a fuck. So that's your homework is to really sit with yourself. I want you to have a conversation with 14, 15 year old you or even 8 year old you. What are they doing, you know, what are they enjoying, what are they listening to, what are they watching, what are they playing with? And how can you honor that past version of yourself as you are right now? And I know that's hard, you know, if you live, if you work all the time or if you work a shit job, if you're miserable at your job, been there trust, where it feels like you don't really have time to do those things that you love. You can find time trust all the time that you spend on your phone or on TikTok or comparing yourself to other people or trying to change things about your appearance. Can I? I just can't even It's a rabbit hole, honestly. Of all the things I want to say about how little appearance matters, truly, how little appearance matters in the real world, because people who are impressed by those sort of things, are those really people that you want to keep around you, who don't see you for your soul and your heart? They see you as someone who needs lip filler or needs cheek filler or has too much filler. You know, it's like these things are so who cares? Who cares? And I know that that is. It's hard to unlearn that. You know that I need to change myself. I need to change how I look, and then the world would treat me better because there is truth to that. The world does treat you a certain way depending on how you look. And that's an it is a shitty reality. One second, I think it's raining and I have to go look because I like the rain. Hello, ladies and germs, boys and girls, the Grinch is back again to ruin your Christmas season with Tis the Grinch Holiday Podcast. After last year, he's learned a thing or two about hosting, and he's ready to rant against Christmas cheer and roast his celebrity guests like chestnuts on an open fire. You can listen with the whole family as guests try to persuade the mean old Grinch that there's a lot to love about the insufferable holiday season stars like jon Hamm, Danny DeVito, and surprise me. But that's not all. Somebody stole all the Children of Whoville's letters to Santa, and everybody thinks the Grinch is responsible. It's a real Whoville whodunit. Can Cindy Lou and Max help clear the Grinch's name? Grab your hot cocoa and cozy slippers to find out. Follow Tis the Grinch Holiday podcast on the OneDry app or wherever you get your podcasts. Unlock weekly Christmas mystery bonus content and listen to every episode ad free by joining Wondry plus and the Wondry App, Spotify or on Apple Podcasts.
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Brittany Broski
Okay, it's not raining. It's sunny in 70. It was just bugs hitting the window. Ew. By the way, anyway, yeah, I want you guys to do some self love practice tonight because life is too short and I'll be damned if I let anyone rob that happiness from me. So I'm trying to decrease my screen time and I'm trying to give that time to myself and to people that I want to spend time with. And here's the flip side of that too, is the more time that you work on being a good friend to yourself, you can be a great friend to others. I have such great, rich, beautiful friendships in my life and sometimes I beat myself up because I don't think I'm as good of a friend to those people. But life ebbs and flows, you know, those periods, ebb and flow where you might need a little bit more love and a little bit more attention. And then when your friend does, you will be there for them, you know, and some people are stronger than others. They can handle things that other people can't. But that's the beauty of friendships, you know, is that you're good for each other. You're good for each other. And you can, even if it's not advice, even if it's not helping them solve their problem, you can be there for them by just being there, you know? And you can't be there if you're on your fucking phone or if you're canceling hangouts because your phone made you feel sad. It's just shit. I mean, we are destined for so much more. We have so much potential. But if you don't act on it and if you don't fully realize who you are by the end of your life, that's all that it is. It's just potential and it's wasted potential. Okay, that was heavy. Shout out to that creator though, and the author of that substack. Because that shit changed my life for real. I mean, these are things that I've thought about, obviously, but to have them condensed into an article, great. You know, it really is. It paves the way for self reflection that to be cringe is to be free. That's basically what I'm saying. Okay. And I have one more thing, actually, two more things that I want to touch on. Thanks for letting me cry. That I want to touch on before we wrap up. And one of those things is in this vein of doing things that I like and honoring things I like, which one could argue that's all this podcast is. It's just talking about what I love and what I like to do. But I still get those pressures, you know, of like, you should care about this. You should talk about this, bitch. That's the biggest fucking thing is in the comments you said, why isn't she talking about. Where are you going? To address. How about, I don't want to. How about I don't want to. You know what I mean? How about, this is what I want to talk about. I've been watching a lot of art history documentaries, which, of course, I've always had a blanket interest in art history. But, dude, in recent times, it's just like, I. Again, my time and attention has been stolen by a lot of different things. And it's not that I regret giving my time and attention away, but I'm glad to have it back now, if that makes sense. And everything I just said, I have been practicing, you know, in the comfort of my own home. And it's been emotional and it's been challenging, but it's been heartwarming, and it's been really lovely to spend that quality time with myself. And one of the things that I realized recently is being productive makes me feel good about myself. It makes me feel really good. And I need to be productive to feel accomplished. And I think maybe that's. I'm a Taurus. Maybe that's. What am I? I'm an enfj. All these things point towards. I've been denying those parts of myself. And, you know, I'm realizing that. That. That shit does not serve me. So I need to feel productive, to feel good, and I also need to feel smart. And the intersection of feeling productive and smart is learning and quizzing myself. And the best way to learn is to teach. So I've been watching a lot of art history documentaries, specifically about Michelangelo. Okay, Michelangelo, not Michelangelo. Okay? That's going to be the American pronunciation. Michelangelo. We're not doing that. He's Italian. Michelangelo was born, I want to say, 1478, around then. 1478. We're still talking about, bro. Okay. Michelangelo is arguably one of the most important artists to ever live. And his impact on the art world and on the world in general is it will stand the test of time, and it's important to study it. And here's what I Want to say about Michelangelo. Okay. We throw around the word genius a lot. I think we have bastardized what a true genius represents. To be the best at your craft to the point where you are recognized by the Pope. Okay, Is something to be said. Michelangelo's life, he lived a full life. I think he died at like 90. He lived to be 90, which is crazy during the Renaissance because they were shitting in the street. It truly, like, I can't overstate enough how world changing his art and his life were on culture and on history. A lot of you know that Michelangelo painted the Sistine Chapel ceiling as well as the altarpiece called the Last Judgment. Okay, let's pull those up. This is a Sistine Chapel ceiling. I visited this when I was 18 years old and I damn near fell to my knees. I've always loved art history. I've been sort of on and off studying art history since I was 15. And this truly to me represents the pinnacle of what it is to be an artist. To be like artist with a capital A. He was commissioned to do this. Michelangelo was a sculptor, by the way. He was not a painter. He was not a muralist. He was not a fresco artist. He was a sculptor. The Pope himself commissioned Michelangelo to paint the Sistine Chapel ceiling. Scaffolding up to the. I mean, think about that. Really take a second to think about this. Do you know how fucking high these ceilings are? To build scaffolding that high to lay on your back by candlelight and paint this, the entirety of the ceiling and some of the walls and the altarpiece. Let's look up how big the Last Judgment is. The painting covers almost 2,000 square feet and features 400 distinct characters. 13.7 meters tall by 12 meters wide. That is crazy. Like, we don't. This shit just exists. And we don't. I mean, people marvel at it, but like, we don't marvel at it the way that we should. I just feel like I'm screaming from the rooftops for younger generations to give a fuck about art in this way. Like, this was life changing. This tells a series of biblical stories, okay? From the creation of Adam to the crucifixion of Jesus to the Last Judgment, which is, you know, Judgment Day. This was his magnum opus, you know, you could argue. And compared to one of the first very famous, notable genius works that he did, called the Pieta, okay, When the Pieta is the scene of Mother Mary holding Jesus dead body after it's been removed from the cross. This is done in marble. And around this time. Oh my God, I could talk about this for hours. Marble quarries back during the Renaissance were these giant marble deposits in mountains and in the sides of hills that they would cut with different tools and whatever, and they would need to be fully intact. There couldn't be breaks or tears or cracks in them. They need to be solid chunks of marble. And sometimes in marble, there will be those little, like, air pockets. Can't have that. It has to be the perfect chunk of marble. They would cut these and transport them by ox, by ox into the city. The marble. These are tons, hundreds of tons worth of marble that these artists would bring into the studio and sculpt. And you have to practice before you do something as revolutionary as the Pieta. The pieta, which I will pull up, it shows a mastery of the human form. Around this time, we're transitioning from the Middle Ages, from medieval times, where it's very, very religious, the society is very religious. Every piece of art honors God. Around this time that we're transitioning from the Middle Ages into the Renaissance, there is a movement called humanism where we're focusing more on humanist qualities, you know, like the material nature of mankind, that we are physical beings, that there are things to marvel at and revel at in. In our grasp that don't just honor God. Okay, so around this time, there's this new interest in anatomy and correctly portraying anatomy, because in the past, it's been, you know, idealized versions of 2D paintings of Jesus. Let me show you. This sort of stuff is what we're looking at, okay? Very 2D paintings that represent biblical stories. They represent biblical figures, and they were displayed in churches, but they weren't things to gawk at. And marble at it was more so because the public couldn't read. Okay. A lot of it, with murals and with stained glass as well, told biblical stories because the population of a lot of these towns were illiterate. They couldn't read. So they relied on their worldview and their understanding of religion to come from, you know, the monks. That's why monks were the ones that transcribed the biblical text or religious texts, and they were housed within the monastery. These were not really available until we start getting into the printing press and things like that, where people could have a copy of the Bible in their homes. Before then, you had to go to church to get the word. So the Pieta around this time, this is the intersection of, like, humanism and the Renaissance and relieving these medieval values in the past. And here is a marvel of understanding, an academic understanding of anatomy and Unfortunately, a sort of weird, grotesque fact of all this is that to properly understand how the human body should be portrayed in these sort of figures. The Church heavily condemned studying dead bodies. So artists in the night will go dig up bodies from the graveyard and take them to their studio, dissect them, do a lot of drawings. This is why we see a lot of Da Vinci sketches are of male nudes. He was also gay, but that goes without saying. They were of male nudes and they were of muscle. Muscle. Muscleature. That's not a word, surely. Muscle. Chir. Musculature, yes. Musculature is used to refer to all the muscles in your body or to a system of muscles that you use to perform a particular type of action. Da Vinci sketches Muscles, anatomy. I'm sure you've all seen the Vitruvian Man. This is a very famous one. These are his studies in anatomy. And you have to do this. Here's more of how skin stretches across muscles on different body types. The really muscled figures are going to look differently than the soft picture of what Mother Mary should be represented as. You know, this soft, feminine form that won't have rippling muscles. This also. This is my question too, that I. When I'm watching these documentaries and I'm, you know, taking notes on what I find interesting, I have questions and I almost wish this. We talk about this a lot. I miss school. I wish I could ask questions. This mastery of anatomy compared to Greco Roman statues, I think. Because my question is, what's the difference? Because it feels like we already had a mastery of anatomy and then we lost it. Return to the Dark Ages, and then here's the Renaissance, which means rebirth. Okay? That to me, feels like an idealized version of the human form. When we're sculpting gods and goddesses, this is what they should look like. You know what I mean? Not so much what the average body would look like. So here we see a difference in how he's sculpting Jesus's veins and his arms and the outline of his abdomen and his rib cage and the angle of his jaw. All of these are such attention to perfect detail. This is the only work that Michelangelo ever signed. He signed it right across the little sash that Mary's wearing. Because after this, he didn't need to. After this piece of work, his touch was clear. He didn't have to write his name on the pieces of marble that he worked on. It was evident. So we go from the Pieta to, of course, the statue of David. That's a Michelangelo where that was such a feat because for so many different reasons, I feel like we're sort of blinded by how much we've seen these figures in pop culture. The statue of David is so iconic in so many different ways, and it's been referenced in a bunch of different movies. And it's just one of those things. It's like the Mona Lisa, where this is one of the most famous pieces of art ever to be made. But we don't think about it actually, of why did he pick David from the story of David and Goliath to portray? Why are the proportions kind of off? If you look at his eyes, their heart, he actually sculpted little hearts into the pupils of the statue of David. And this, to me, when you get down to the nitty gritty. Also, when you look at his hair up here, the hair that sits on his forehead, this is marble, by the way, the hair that sits on his forehead. He knew that this statue 7ft tall, was going to be looked at from below, naturally. And it's up on a pedestal as well. There are little pockets that he left to sort of emulate the darkness. The shadow of when curly hair sits on the forehead. You know, there's space in there, but you can't make him look bald, and you can't give him too much going on on the forehead. It's just so expertly done. I can't. Like, I find it hard to articulate how important these works are that it's 20, 24 and we're still marveling at how impressive this is. Okay, so we have the Pieta, we have the Michelangelo, we have the David. Excuse me. And then towards the end of his life, we have Sistine Chapel, and then we have the Last Judgment. The Sistine Chapel took four years to complete, which, yeah, by the way, he had. Which. They don't really say this a lot. He had upwards of about 13 assistants help him with this, but those were all just, you know, go get me new candles and help me mix this paint. It wasn't the actual process of painting that we know of, the actual, you know, paint onto the ceiling, onto the wall was him. And this was done with egg tempura. And it was actually pretty sad. When he first started painting this. He painted it. I'm not sure with what material, but it. The conditions in the room and the materials that he used and the speed at which he was going, it started to mold. And because the paint molded, he had to scrape it off and start again. Devastated. Devastated. You know, how fucking hard that is to get up there and do that, and then it molds. But this is the thing, too. When I was watching this documentary and I had heard that before, I was like, you know, when anyone, if anyone, has sat down to ever do a craft or paint something or draw something or work on something creative, that in the end, you know that there is that innate desire to create something perfect, knowing that it is impossible. It is impossible to create a perfect work of art. In the artist's eye, there will always be something because our taste levels outmatch our capabilities. I think that's the case for every artist. As you progress in your artistry, your taste level will always be one step ahead, and you just keep getting better and better and better. And to the average eye, it's, holy shit. But to the artist's eye, it's, nah, I could have done that a little better. I could have fixed that. I wish I didn't do that. You know what I mean? And so when I look at something like this, I'm like, I'm sure he finished this and was like, I'm just reading. You get this fucking done with. Even though he was a perfectionist, so what was I talking about? Oh, yeah, he had to scrape it off because he fucked up. And if you're going to do it right, you got to do it actually. What's that saying? My brain just stopped. My brain just fully shut off that. That noise when something powers down. That's what my brain just did. It took him four years to finish the Sistine Chapel ceiling. The Last Judgment, which is the piece on the far wall. This is the Last Judgment. This is Michelangelo's interpretation of what will happen on Judgment Day. Which Judgment Day is when Jesus will come back and decide everyone's fate. It's the Rapture. It's, if you have given your life to Christ, you go to heaven. If you haven't, you go to hell. Okay. What a simple concept, but not so simple an execution. Got a lot of qualms with this as well, but we can talk about that on a different episode. What I like about this painting, amongst a lot of things, is that. And I heard an art historian describe this, and I was like, that is such a good take. There's no clear instruction in this. In, these people were good, they go to heaven. These people were bad, they go to hell. If only it were that easy. If only it were. If human nature could be simplified as such. It's unclear in this painting why and who goes to heaven up top and who is cast down to the bottom. It could be a saint, it could be a sinner, okay? It could be you, it could be your neighbor. You have no idea. Because ultimately, it's not up to us. We think that we've taken redemption and salvation into our own hands and we've come up with the equation for salvation. We haven't. We don't fucking know. Religion is man made. And religion as it pertains to this period, I mean, we're talking about. What was that called? Penance. Penance or tithing. Not tithing. There was a word for it where if you sinned, you could just pay the church to absolve you of your sins and you'd be fine. All you gotta do, all you gotta do to go to heaven is be rich, okay? Cause the church needed money. The church was the end all, be all of a government. It was a theocracy around this time. And so it's scary to think about, what were they? What did these people believe and how incorrect was it, or how off the mark was it? So I find this painting very interesting because it's not clear who goes where and why. Here we have God in the middle and we have around 400 figures surrounding him. And down here gets real scary. Okay, here's the river of Souls. There's the river of the Damned. We've got some demons. And interestingly enough, right here, I think. I forget, I forget where exactly. Essentially right in front of where the Pope or the priest would stand. It was this really gruesome depiction of hell. And Michelangelo, of course, did this on purpose to sort of prove a point that even these righteous figures who are telling us how to live and how to live in a way that honors God, they're human. At the end of the day, they're mortal. Just because you're the Pope doesn't absolve you of anything. You know, we don't know how this shit works. We have an idea, but we don't know. So down here in the. In the bottom right is really terrifying depictions of, you know, serpents and demons and being cast down this river of hell with a demon, you know, paddling the boat and just very frightening. And then up top, if we move a little bit up right here, this is the famous one that everyone, if you've ever studied our history, everyone knows this, that Michelangelo painted himself into the Last Judgment in this skin suit right here. And I don't really know, I mean, we could write a whole thesis, a whole, whole essay on what this could possibly mean. It's been Done. It's interesting to research. I don't really have an answer, but very interesting to immortalize yourself in that way. Again, I just don't want to understate how massive this painting is. It is the biggest thing I've ever seen in my life. It's huge. This is a marvel. So that's the Last Judgment. Michelangelo was a very tortured soul. We assume, based on letters and records and biographies that have been done of him, that he was, of course, a closeted gay man. I believe he married a woman at one point, but he got into a fistfight with someone in a studio when he was a young boy, I want to say, like, 14. And it disfigured his face. I think it broke his nose. And he forever from that point on, considered himself ugly. And he put that sort of beauty that he was missing into his art. All of his energy, all of his focus went into his art. And he was world renowned. He was one of the Medici's favorite commissioners, commission commissionees, one of the Medici's favorite artists. The Medici family was a very famous, rich patronage. They were patrons of the arts. And a lot of the art we have from this period was commissioned by the Medici family. So we have them to thank now. Were they ruthless and cruel and all of it? Yes. Yes, they were. But goddamn, they love the arts, and they ended up being murdered. It's actually tea, the Medici family's tea. But to this day, the way that they conserve and preserve this art, because when it's in a building like this, you know, this isn't a painting or a canvas that you can take from one museum into a studio, restore it, and then take it back to the museum. Museums are also climate controlled. You know, they monitor and limit how many people can enter in one day so as to preserve the paintings more. Because this is. I mean, this egg tempera, it's very delicate. And when you have millions, tens of millions of tourists coming in and out of this building every year, carbon dioxide can damage these paintings. There's no glass. There's no bulletproof glass over this stuff. This is the building. This is the walls of the building. So it's very interesting how they conserve this. It's the perfect marriage of science and art history, of you have to understand what materials they were using at the time and how they are vulnerable to certain atmospheric conditions. And then on the flip side, with modern science, how we can regulate and preserve these even further. I think this was restored in the 80s, I want to say, as recently as the 1980s, and today. There are multiple filtration systems throughout the entire Sistine Chapel. I think six. There's six. Throughout the day, the air in this building is filtered six times. There is a temperature gauge. Only a certain amount of people are allowed in the room at one time. It's very, very scientific, the way that they have gone about ensuring that this art can be enjoyed and will be enjoyed by humans for, you know, centuries to come. So. I love this shit, dude. And I'm. I'm. I'm back. I'm back in it. And it feels good because this stuff makes me feel connected to life. It makes me feel alive, and it makes me feel tethered to everyone and everything that's come before me and everything that will come after me. From ashes to ashes, dust to dust. You know what I mean? What's that quote? Let me find it. I've talked about it before. From my rotting body, flowers shall grow, and I am them, and that is eternity. That's how I feel about this shit, dude. It makes me emotional. I come from the earth, and I will return to the earth. And we make art like this to honor the earth and to honor our lives and whatever we think God is and how such a beautiful but devastatingly tragic existence can be so finite and so delicate and so short. But you can make something like this that will affect generation after generation, centuries after you have died, you have created something immortal, and you have immortalized yourself in the process. It's amazing. And it's not about you. It's not about me. It's not about, you know, immortalizing oneself. It's about creating something that humans value and see themselves in and are impressed by. This is. This is humanism, I think. Okay, that's all. Be sure you're registered to vote@headcount.org I'm doing a fun little, little thing with Headcount. If y'all are going to ACL Austin City Limits weekend, too, I'm gonna be there. And you can enter if you are registered to vote through headcount.org you can enter to come meet me. Okay. I don't know who wants to do that. Probably. Probably nobody, but you can do it. Okay. That's an opportunity there. So you just got to prove that you're registered to vote. Go on the website, check that shit out. If you want Merch, we've got Roski Shop. 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Podcast Summary: The Broski Report with Brittany Broski – Episode 65: Love Island & Michelangelo
Release Date: September 17, 2024
Introduction
In Episode 65 of The Broski Report with Brittany Broski, host Brittany Broski delves into two seemingly disparate yet profoundly interconnected topics: the dynamics of reality TV, specifically Love Island USA, and the timeless artistry of Michelangelo. Throughout the episode, Broski intertwines her personal experiences and reflections with broader cultural observations, offering listeners a rich tapestry of insights on relationships, self-advocacy, social media's impact, and the enduring legacy of classical art.
Broski opens the episode by discussing her evolving relationship with Love Island USA, a reality TV show she initially dismissed but grew to appreciate over time.
Brittany Broski [03:45]: "I was like, okay, fine. And so I started watching it and, oh, my God, I'm addicted. I'm Addicted. I understand."
Serena and Cordell's Journey
Central to her discussion is the relationship between Serena and Cordell, the winners of the season. Broski expresses admiration for Serena's genuine personality and her ability to navigate the tumultuous villa dynamics with grace and self-awareness.
Brittany Broski [08:22]: "Serena is such a genuine person. And when she had her little crash out, understood, right? Like, I would have reacted in the same way."
Broski details the challenges Serena faced, including the introduction of new contestants through the Casa Amore twist, which tests existing relationships by separating the men and introducing new women to the villa.
Brittany Broski [12:10]: "Casa More. That's how it works, okay? And while the boys are sent off to Casa More, the girls are left in the villa freaking the fuck out."
The Lemonade Effect: Processing Betrayal and Anger
Introducing the concept of the "lemonade effect," Broski parallels Serena's emotional journey with the stages outlined in Beyoncé's Lemonade—anger, disbelief, apathy, sadness, and resolution. She emphasizes understanding and validating one's emotions when faced with betrayal.
Brittany Broski [21:15]: "When something like that happens to you, where your trust has been betrayed, or when you have put all your eggs in one basket... it's the chronological order of how Beyoncé structured Lemonade."
Conflict and Resolution
Broski recounts the intense confrontation between Serena and Cordell, highlighting Serena's powerful response to Cordell's perceived betrayal. Despite initial anger and hurt, their relationship ultimately triumphs, reinforcing the show's theme of love overcoming adversity.
Brittany Broski [29:40]: "So they end up working it out because there's really no one else in the villa. They ended up winning, period."
Transitioning from reality TV, Broski addresses the pervasive influence of social media on self-identity and mental well-being. She references a TikTok creator, Arca, and an article by Sherry Ning from Substack, exploring the paradox of feeling lonely despite being hyper-connected online.
Overconnected but Alone
Broski critiques the superficial nature of online interactions, where followers replace friends, and meaningful connections are often lost amidst constant digital engagement.
Brittany Broski [37:05]: "We have followers. We don't deeply care about each other's lives. We consume them as content."
The Loss of Self Amidst Digital Oversight
She introduces the idea that social media transforms individuals into their own supervisors, constantly curating their personas for an audience, leading to a loss of authentic self-expression.
Brittany Broski [39:50]: "How would we express ourselves online if we didn't consider the audience? So to me, this is very you are your own voyeur sort of thing."
Encouraging Self-Reflection
Broski challenges listeners to disconnect from social media periodically to reconnect with their true selves, reminiscing about childhood interests and passions that may have been overshadowed by digital distractions.
Brittany Broski [42:30]: "If you don't know how to answer that question, I recommend you take a break from social media for a while."
In a surprising yet seamless transition, Broski immerses herself in the intricacies of Michelangelo's artistry, drawing parallels between the meticulous craftsmanship of Renaissance art and the authenticity she advocates for in personal relationships.
The Mastery of Michelangelo
Broski provides an in-depth analysis of Michelangelo's renowned works, including The Pieta, the statue of David, the Sistine Chapel ceiling, and the Last Judgment. She emphasizes his exceptional understanding of human anatomy and his ability to infuse emotion and realism into marble and frescoes.
Brittany Broski [58:15]: "Michelangelo was a very tortured soul... All of his energy, all of his focus went into his art."
The Sistine Chapel and The Last Judgment
Delving into the monumental task of painting the Sistine Chapel's ceiling, Broski marvels at Michelangelo's perseverance and perfectionism, despite facing immense challenges such as harsh working conditions and material failures.
Brittany Broski [64:40]: "He had to scrape it off because he fucked up. And if you're going to do it right, you got to do it actually."
She further explores The Last Judgment, highlighting its complexity and emotional depth, questioning the simplistic portrayal of morality and salvation within the artwork.
Brittany Broski [70:10]: "It's unclear in this painting why and who goes to heaven up top and who is cast down to the bottom. If only it were that easy."
Legacy and Preservation
Broski reflects on the enduring legacy of Michelangelo's work, discussing the modern efforts to preserve these masterpieces and the intersection of art history with contemporary science.
Brittany Broski [73:00]: "It's the perfect marriage of science and art history, of you have to understand what materials they were using at the time and how they are vulnerable to certain atmospheric conditions."
Throughout the episode, Broski intertwines her discussions with personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections, encouraging listeners to engage in self-love and authentic living.
Addiction to Authenticity
Broski candidly shares her struggles with screen time addiction, acknowledging the pervasive grip of technology on her daily life and the emotional toll it exacts.
Brittany Broski [24:00]: "I'm addicted to my phone. I'm doing. I'm not joking. 15-hour days on screen time, 15 hours on my phone."
Homework for Listeners: Embrace Self-Love
She assigns listeners a reflective "homework" task, urging them to reconnect with their past selves and prioritize activities that foster genuine happiness and self-fulfillment.
Brittany Broski [74:50]: "Your homework for tonight is to do some reflection. Who am I to my core, what do I love and what have I let go to be this watered-down version of myself."
Honoring Past and Present Selves
Broski emphasizes the importance of embracing one's true interests and passions, resisting societal pressures to conform or dilute one's identity for external approval.
Brittany Broski [75:54]: "Life is too short to water yourself down and dilute yourself to appease people. I don't give a fuck."
Broski masterfully weaves together the themes of Love Island, social media's impact, and Michelangelo's art to underscore the importance of authenticity, resilience, and creativity in both personal and societal contexts.
Connecting Reality TV with Self-Advocacy
By analyzing the genuine emotions displayed by Love Island contestants like Serena and Cordell, Broski draws parallels to her advocacy for self-love and personal growth, illustrating how media narratives can reflect and influence real-life introspection.
Brittany Broski [30:25]: "These are real people with real emotions and real lives."
Art as a Reflection of Humanity
Her exploration of Michelangelo's work serves as a metaphor for the human condition—striving for perfection, enduring struggles, and leaving a lasting legacy. Broski relates this to her listeners' journeys towards self-actualization and the creation of their own "masterpieces" in life.
Brittany Broski [72:15]: "This is what humanism, I think."
On Love Island Addiction:
"I was like, okay, fine. And so I started watching it and, oh, my God, I'm addicted. I'm Addicted. I understand."
— Brittany Broski [03:45]
On Social Media's Supervision:
"We are now transforming into our own supervisors. We post like we know we're being watched."
— Brittany Broski [38:10]
On Michelangelo's Perseverance:
"He had to scrape it off because he fucked up. And if you're going to do it right, you got to do it actually."
— Brittany Broski [64:40]
On Self-Reflection Homework:
"Your homework for tonight is to do some reflection. Who am I to my core, what do I love and what have I let go to be this watered-down version of myself."
— Brittany Broski [74:50]
In this multifaceted episode, Brittany Broski successfully bridges the gap between contemporary reality TV and classical art history, offering listeners a nuanced perspective on personal growth, emotional resilience, and the pursuit of authentic living. By dissecting the intricate relationships within Love Island USA and drawing inspiration from Michelangelo's artistic legacy, Broski encourages her audience to embrace their true selves, navigate modern challenges with grace, and leave their own indelible marks on the world.
Listeners are left with a profound understanding of how diverse cultural elements can intertwine to inform and inspire personal development, underscoring the timeless relevance of self-awareness and authenticity in an ever-evolving societal landscape.