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So I'm here to sort of help you with that. Song of Achilles is like I said, a modern retelling of classic Greek mythology with a little twist. Okay. This is a romance book, but it's also fucking devastating. And I'm gonna try to talk about it without revealing the end. I feel like everyone knows Achilles dies, right? That's kind of like his thing. He. He dies every story. Okay, Bro's gonna die. Bro died. That's sort of his legacy. But he was a hero. He was supposed to be this never before seen, you know, Hercules level hero. And someone commented some bullshit under this TikTok I posted of me crying about it where they said, I'm a comic. Freak out. They said in another life it was love, not rage that killed Achilles or something like that. No, he. They said in another lifetime it was love, not rage that motivated Achilles or something like that. And I had completely fucked up the quote just now, so I ruined the moment. I'm sorry about that. She probably don't even want to read the fucking book now. Sorry. Anyway, I'm really not, you know, I've never been a Greek mythology girl. I've never been like, oh yes, Helios, the brother of. I don't give a fuck. I've never. It's been too much. Anytime I sit down to watch one of those four hour YouTube videos where I'm like, time to lock in, time to learn. They're like. And then Athena is the sister of a fall asleep. Because it's always those, like the cadence of those videos is. And then in the hundredth century bc, Athena. It's just like I'm. They don't even try to make it interesting. It's almost like a spitting off, spewing off facts about it. Tell it to me like a story. So I, I know these, these gods and goddesses and these nymphs in the story. Like I want to be involved. Song of Achilles is the first ever retelling of, of a story that's made me have a personal stake in these characters. You know what I mean? And of course, because it's a modern thing anyway, Song of Achilles is about the companionship and by that I mean homo, homoerotic gayness shared between Achilles and his companion, Patroclus. Okay? It is told from Patroclus's perspective of how he comes to meet Achilles. They were boys together and he loved him through his whole life till the very end. And it is a beautiful, beautiful story and it's devastating. And I really like Meline Miller's writing. I think it's very straightforward, it's very to the point and it's very packed with emotion. I found myself wanting to get through the story really quickly. Not because, you know, I was bored or I wanted to finish, but because I was excited. Like I needed to know what happened next. And in doing that, I found myself missing some of these really impactful, beautifully worded, straight to the point sentences. She would end a paragraph with just something that was so profound and you miss it if you're just like, okay, get on the next fucking. Okay to Trojan War. When does Trojan War start? Like Zoom out or actually zoom in. Take a second to sit with some of the prose that she's created. And it made it even more enjoyable and even more heart wrenching towards the end where these small little statements like, I would know the sound of his feet pounding the pavement with my eyes closed. Like, I would know it's him. I would know him in any lifetime. Just. It's devastating, like the attention to detail. Because, you know, if you've ever been in love with someone, infatuated, with someone, obsessed, addicted to someone, it is the little things like that that you revel in. You know what I mean? Like when you. Maybe this is just me talking about from a. A lover girl's perspective. Keep that in mind. I'm a lover girl to my core. It's the small things like that of the shape of their eyelashes and how the eyelashes rest against their cheeks, you know, the curl of their hair, the smell of them in the morning, things like this that are so intimate and so mundane, and therein lies the precious beauty of it is that is something that is adding to this heaping treasure of little things that endear you to this person more when you're really, you know, in the thick of it. It's those things that. That make up the larger sentiment of love, you know, or of infatuation or of care. When you care for someone, it's because you pay attention to those little things, you know, little mannerisms, whatever. I think Song of Achilles perfectly encaps it. Is that to a te of when you love someone with all of your being. Those little things are everything. And he just. Patrick Patroclus loves with everything he is. And he is, dare I say, the better part of Achilles. Okay, Because Achilles, you can be this hero, this famous, you know, son of a goddess and whatever, but like, Patroclus is the best part of you and you realize it too late and, oh, God, it's just. It's hauntingly beautiful. I am going to think about it for a long time. I'm very glad, though, that I have a book to jump back into to quell the. The book Hangover, so to speak. Circe so far is. I'm like 20 pages and sad and there's a lot of context. This one feels like there's a bit more world building in terms of, like, I'm having to Google more, you know, who is Helios and who was he the son of? And you know, the Titans. Like, I'm very loosely familiar with all these things because I studied it on what's that app Nibble. Y'all know. Y'all know about Nibble. I had this phase where I was like, I'm gonna be an academic paid for this app for a year. It was like a hundred something dollars for the year. And I was like, I scrolled too much. I doom scroll. I'm gonna feed my brain. I fell for one of those traps. I used this app maybe four times. Never used it again. And good thing I still pay for it. That's awesome, because it's just like, you know, in my. When I'm feeling brain dead, the last thing I want to do is go learn something. I want to scroll and I want tea. You know what I mean? Say you know what I mean one more time. You guys don't know. You know what I mean? No one knows what I mean because I'm saying it for the first time. I don't even know what I mean. So when I did one lesson on Nibble, it was because I wanted to learn about the Greek gods. And it's also super confusing because the Roman gods, that they literally stole from the Greek gods and renamed and made it worse or made it mid. Is like, you learn one story and then you hear it in another name, and then you're like, well, who the fuck is that? Oh, it's the same. Oh, but it's slightly different because it's Roman. It's just too much. So I'm very loosely familiar with the Titans, the story of Kronos. Everyone's seen that painting. Let me pull it up. Of Saturn eating his son. See, like our Saturn and Kronos the same. Yes. The Roman God Saturn is the equivalent of the Greek Titan Cronus. See what I mean? Kronos. Both representing the same figure in their respective mythologies. In Greek mythology, Kronos was a Titan, the father of Zeus and other Olympian gods, and the ruler of the cosmos before the Olympians. Okay, so keeping that in mind, Saturn Devouring His Son by Goya. I'm sure y'all have seen this painting before. I think I mentioned it in my. That old YouTube video I did of. Why were Goya's paintings so dark? He painted this one kind of later on in his life when he was descending into madness. And this is the story of Kronos, originally the. The Greek Titan devouring not only one of his sons, but multiple of his children because he feared his sons were going to usurp him or kill him and take his power. And. And he would not stand for that. So after, you know, this, doing this three Four or five times. His wife, Rhea, took the last son, swapped him for a stone and gave the stone to Kronos. And he swallowed the stone and, you know, whatever. So she took the last boy, raised him outside of the sort of view of Kronos, built him up to be a hero. Bro came, killed Kronos, okay? Killed his father. And this is in a succession, a successional line of, like, generational trauma of the same kind. Because Kronos, you guessed it, killed his dad to take power. And his dad was Uranus. Uranus? In Greek mythology, Kronos's father was Uranus, the primordial God of the sky, and his mother was Gaia, the goddess of the Earth. Okay? So, yeah, boom. Cronus was a Titan, the leader of the Titans, and he overthrew his father, Uranus, with the help of his mother. And so it only makes sense that. Who. Who overthrew? Who overthrew Kronos? Zeus. Let's go. That's right. In Greek mythology, Kronos was defeated by his son Zeus, who, alongside his siblings, overthrew the Titans and established the Olympian gods as rulers. And now that was tea, because when Zeus killed Kronos, he freed all of his siblings that were in his father's stomach. Okay? Right. It's actually really interesting. Well, duh, it's interesting. But to study all this, because primordial means, like, foundational making of, you know, the elements, the Earth, the world as we know it, any of these gods who are fundamental in the creation of life and forces of nature. So this is really, really cool to think. I mean, who fucking knows? But the origins of these stories, which, keeping in mind, were all told orally. Really, really cool. And there's so much fucking lore. There's so much lore. That's why it intimidates me. This is one of the few lessons I studied on Nibble that actually stuck with me. Which is cool, because now I'm reading Cersei, and she's. Her. Cersei's dad is Helios, and Helios is the sun God, or I guess the God of the sun, who every morning rides his chariot across the sky. And that is the sunrise and sundown. And Helios is a cousin of Oceanus, who is not Poseidon, Okay? And here's another factoid. The Trevi Fountain in Rome, it's the big, big ass fountain, right? All marble, beautiful. I mean, it's astounding how big it is, because you see photos and you're like, oh, it's some dinky little fountain. No, motherfucker. It is so tall and so wide. It's not Poseidon at the middle. Let me pull up a picture of Trevor Fountain. Damn, big as hell. Okay, so this is the famous Trevi Fountain, by the way, on the back of a government building. Just. This is just on the back. This God right here. Not Poseidon. That is Oceanus. And these two figures down on the bottom left and bottom right, let me say this, and then I'm going to fact check it, okay? One of them is to represent the calm nature of the sea. It's a horse or it's a. What are those called? Like, sea horses. There's a name for it. It's like the. The front half is a normal horse and the back is a tail. One is to represent the calm nature of the sea, and the other is to represent the violent, turbulent, unpredictable nature of the sea. Let me see if I was right. The central figure, Oceanus, the God of water, is a powerful representation of the might and bounty of the sea. Flanked by tritons and horses, the composition symbolizes the contrasting moods of the sea, from calm to turbulent. I am a fucking genius, dude. Moreover, the fountain's history is deeply intertwined with Rome's ancient traditions. The practice of building monumental fountains at the termini of aqueducts dates back to the Roman Empire, and the Trevi continues this legacy. Okay, so back to whatever the hell I was talking about. Circe is the daughter of Helios. Oh, that's what I was saying. Oceanus and Poseidon are two different gods. So let's look up the difference. In Greek mythology, Oceanus is a Titan God of the freshwater river that was thought to encircle the earth, while Poseidon is an Olympian God who ruled over the seas and earthquakes. Oceanus was considered the source of all rivers, springs and seas, and the father of all waters. He's often depicted as a powerful old man figure, sometimes with a long beard and flowing robe. Poseidon is the powerful and often volatile God, known for his trident and his ability to control the ocean and cause earthquakes. He's often depicted as a bearded man with a trident, sometimes with a crown or a long robe. Here's the difference. Oceanus is a Titan, an older generation of gods, while Poseidon is an Olympian, a younger generation. Oceanus ruled over freshwater, while Poseidon ruled over the seas and earthquakes. Oceanus is often portrayed as a more calm and peaceful figure, while Poseidon is known for his temper and violent nature. See, the more you know. Anyway, so Circe is the daughter of Helios, the sun God, who is a cousin to Oceanus. And they've just introduced a character called Prometheus, right? Who? Prometheus. I'm learning so much, y'all. It's so fun to share it with you. Prometheus was punished by Zeus because Prometheus gave fire and quote, unquote, civilization to mortals. To humans. So back when humans were in the cave doing whatever and they couldn't cook and they were eating each other, doing, well, I don't fucking know, cavemen, Prometheus gave them the gift of fire and organized society. Zeus punished him forever for this, because it wasn't his will, and banished Prometheus to the Underworld, where he is trapped forever. And we're coming back in this. Where I am in Cersei right now is Prometheus is now facing a new trial where I guess he's gonna. It's his eternal punishment. I don't fucking know. So that's where I'm at. And it's really interesting because Madeline Miller explains the backstory pretty well. Like, it's pretty understandable. There's a lot of characters. But then again, any fantasy novel or Game of Thrones type book is, like, there's so many characters and there's so many lineages and family trees that, okay, you know, I can keep up. And she includes an appendix in the back for if you forget who so and so is or whatever. So, yeah, that's. I'm enjoying it. And after I finish Cersei, I'm gonna go back to Clytem. Clytemnestra, whatever the her name. And who is she? The daughter of Clyde Nestra, wife of Agamemnon. No way. The king of my. My Cine, my Sinna, and the half sister of Helen of Sparta. That's big T. Because in Song of Achilles, if you've read Song of Achilles, you know about King Agamemnon. This is so ridiculous. Okay, I wanted to talk about some of my favorites because that's the fucking point of this podcast. At the end of the day, I want to talk to y'all about some of my favorite things right now. Here are some of my favorite things as follows. I can't get enough of dried figs and dried apricots. Apricots. I'm loving them. They always put them on those dinky little charcuterie boards. I eat them bitches raw. I eat them out the bag. I love a dried apricot. I love a dried figure. And I made. I think I mentioned this briefly last time I made charcuterie nachos. Delicious. So good. And then on the side, you put a little dried fig, dried apricot, a little bit of honey. Okay. Wow. Really? Really yum. I've been loving that. I've been trying to eat more whole Foods. I'm not doing Whole 30 and all that horseshit, but because my diet is so strict, I'm trying to do you know what I mean? Oh, my ears just started ringing. That's cool. Am I dying? Ahoy, all ye listeners. This episode be sponsored by Galatea. A good book is great, but what if you had an endless library of delicious romance at your fingertips? With Galatea, you don't just read. You get swept away. 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Acorns Advisors LLC and SEC registered investment advisor. View important disclosures@acorns.com Broski okay, it stopped dying averted for now. Charcuterie nachos. I'm doing the dried fruit and I like a green juice. I never thought I'd be one of those. It's like I make my own green juice and I don't. Okay, I buy the green juice, but I enjoy it and it makes me feel good about myself. Do you know what I mean? Do you know what I mean? I. I watch these. I need y'all to know this. I watch these episodes back and I'm like, you sound like a babbling idiot. You know what I mean? Like, like, like mine, mine, mine. Shh. I. I'm at my wits end with y'all. I'm serious. I cannot deal with it. I'm so sorry. I'd like to apologize a hundred million times. Anyway, I've been loving green juice and what the else. This right here. I literally brought it because I wanted to show you. I think I've talked about salt and stone before and I tried their deodorant. That did not work. And I'm so sorry to whoever was around me that day that I. I tried it out. That did not break. It did not make my bo go away. I would just say it sort of made my B.O. smell like vetiver. Anyway, this shit right here, it's the hand cream. Bergamot and hinoki get into this girl, I love this. I'm addicted to it. I'm not someone who typically is like, I carry around hand cream and cuticle oil and whatever, but this makes me feel so soft. And I've got eczema real bad on my hands. And it doesn't fix the eczema, but it definitely keeps it at bay. This really. I love this. I love how it smells. I love how it makes my hands feel. I wash my hands a lot. So that's been in my bag a lot lately. What else has been in my bag? Oh, I've got a. I've got my. My rashes back. Next episode I'm going to open it openly smoking. I'm going to be like, well, my rash is back. Something's growing on my. What are we doing? What are we doing? Oh, I had a dream last night about my ex situationship as well. Will I ever be free? Free me. Fuck. Seriously, I bet US dollars that he paid an Etsy witch to do that to me. I'm. I am livid. I'm livid. I can't believe you permeated my dream space to send me that fuck ass message and let me. Hold on. I don't know if I've ever told you all this. So this young gentleman, when we had our little whatever, brought me a gift. I couldn't give it back to him when we broke up because that's meant, right? I'm not going to be like, thanks for this, whatever. I just kept it. And I was like, I'm going to give it to Goodwill, right? Like, I don't. It's bad energy to keep it in my house, but I'm not going to throw it away to have it be in a landfill. I'll just give it away. Well, it's sitting on my little chair in my room and I'm cleaning my room. This. We have just broken up. Like literally the day of. And it's nighttime and I'm crying and I feel like, oh, did I just make a mistake? Like, what if that's the best I could do? Like really going through it and I go to pick up this fucking stuffed animal and I pick it up and there is a giant red spider under the little hoodie that this stuffed animal was wearing. And I said, oh my God. And I dropped it. I freaked the fuck out. I have never. There are spiders in my house all the time. Okay? It's an old house. I've got a lot of vegetation around. It's not uncommon, but I Just take my little vacuum and I suck it up and it's normal. Spiders, you know, like household spiders, wood spiders, whatever. A big ass red spider. I've lived here for two years. I've never seen anything like that. Knock on wood. And so I start freaking out and it makes me cry harder. You brought a bad omen into my house. I go and get my vacuum, I suck it up and then I sit down and I'm like, maybe this is a sign. And I look it up and sure enough. Let me read what this says. Seeing a red spider holds powerful spiritual significance, symbolizing passion, energy and transformation. Okay. I didn't even know how much my life was about to change. It felt like my life was ending, girl. A whole new season of bountiful blessings and friendship and love was about to reveal itself to me. And I don't want to be one of those woo woo, trust the universe girls. But ultimately I am. Ultimately that is who I am. This was crazy. I cried for about 15 minutes. It was just really emotional. And like to go through all that and a breakup is just, it just sucks regardless. Like, remember when I came on here and cried after it happened? It was just like. I learn so much about myself through every situationship, every fucking whatever that I have and I learn about what I will not tolerate and how I can work on myself better. But here's this conversation, right, that we always circle back to. It feels like in this grand discourse of how women are more comfortable being single now, more women are going to college more than ever, more women are in the workforce. Like women, we're on top. And men are just becoming incels and they're not voting and they're voting red. And it's just like there's never been a, a starker gap between the gender binary right now. You know what I mean? And, and I hope you do know what I mean by that. Like, of course there's way more to include in that. But I'm saying between a straight man and a straight woman, there is a very clear distinction right now of culturally where both of those groups are heading and it's not in the same direction. So keeping that in mind, and I'm always getting videos about this phenomenon, right, of like, it's not because you need to work on yourself or it's not because you are not putting yourself out there enough or this that the other. It's because this generation of men really is at a loss for how to deal with women. Because I'm talking about me. Like me, you know what I mean, where. Look at everything that I am and that I have to offer and how confident I am in myself, what I've managed to build by myself, what I represent of in terms of like a bilingual, intelligent, college educated, business owning. Like, I. I'm really doing my shit. I'm freaking my shit. What do you have to bring to the table? And I don't want to sound like a femcel, but fuck me, dude. What do you bring to the table? Next time you see me, I'm bald and it's everything stripped away and I have another girl here, we're both bald and we're like, yeah, bringing the table. High value male. I'm a high value woman. Like, I'm joking, of course, but am I? Because this. Oh, my God. It was that question. And I mean it, girl. What exactly do you have to offer? Quickly, quickly. Nothing. Nothing. And so I would rather be alone. I say that all the time. I say it all the time. But it is very interesting in the grand scheme of things that this is not just happening to me. Every single one of my friends that's single and like, has their own job, is college educated, having a horrible time dating. It is a cesspool. It is a. It is a zero sum game. No one wins. And it's miserable because it makes you feel undesirable. It makes you feel like there's something wrong with you. Mama. There's nothing wrong with you. There is nothing wrong with you. And while I do think that there's nuance to that statement of you can always work on yourself and you can always realize, you know, the more experience you get in relationships or whatever, I mean, I'm to totally bear my. My soul to you. I didn't date in high school. I really didn't date in college. And whoever I talked to in college hit me because I was plus size. Okay? Hey, not a new phenomenon. I'm not discovering the cure to cancer here. We know this happens. Men love a bbw. They love a big, beautiful woman, and then they're embarrassed that they like a big, beautiful woman. Y'all need to go to therapy. Okay? That was my experience in college. I was the fat friend. I was this. I was whatever. And I was funny and I was smart. And so men liked that. They liked to banter with me, but behind closed doors. I remember this one time. Oh, my God. It was devastating and I will never forget it. I think I've told the story. I was in love with this guy. I was in love with this guy in college. And we had the best witty banter. And I would go over to his place, he'd come over to mine, and we'd hook up. And then I'd be like, do you want to spend the night? And he'd be like, no. Or we'd hook up, and then I'd be like, do you want to go to breakfast in the morning? No. Like, all right. And then I'd see, like, he would be with his bros at breakfast the next morning. Oh, okay. 100%. It's just that, like, I have so much bubbling under the surface of the way that men have made me feel or the way that I've felt. My relationship with my. Not sexuality, but I guess sexiness like that shouldn't be dependent upon your partner that you're with, even though your partner should make you feel sexy. That was very rare for me. And even this fucking ex situationship over the summer, it was. Nothing's ever been more true. I've never felt unsexier than this fuck ass anyway. All of those things inform your experiences. And while I feel a bit behind the curve in terms of dating experience, truly. And, like, it's gotten worse because how the fuck am I supposed to meet people in this job? I do. You know, it's. It sucks. And it's like an invade. You can't trust people to respect your privacy. That's happened to me before. I've been on. I was on a dating app in, like, 2019, and someone screenshotted the message and tweeted it. Hey, I'll kill myself. Holy shit. I can't trust people. It's just. It's very isolating. But at the same time, in the vein of this red spider story, when one cup feels empty or when one cup feels overfilled, like, I have so much love to give romantically, I'm just going to pour that into other cups because there are no men, and there never have been any men that have been deserving of the love that I have to give, period. So I'm going to take that love and pour it into my platonic friendships, into my relationship with my siblings, with my parents, with my grandparents, and work on the things that are unconditional versus whatever the fuck bullshit a romantic relationship looks like in 2025. I say this with, like, my chest. I have no interest as of right now. This experience over the last summer, fall was enough for me to be like, I'm done. I'm done for a hot second. It was too much, and it distracts me from doing things that actually bring me joy. And I'm too busy worried about, why hasn't he texted me back? Did I do something wrong? Oh, he's gonna leave just like all the other ones. Not in an abandonment way, but, like, I almost come to expect it. Where my life and who I am at its core is very intimidating, and I don't need a man who's intimidated by that shit. Leave me alone. Truly, leave me alone. And what I. What boggles the mind about these people that I've entertained in the past is upon further reflection, you don't want to be with me. You want to be me. Oh, you're sick. You want to wear my skin like a fucking suit. Y'all are weirdos. You're weird. That's been the last three dudes I've talked to. You're fucking weird. And I just. It is such a hollow feeling. Like, you see everything that I've. I've built for myself or everything that I am because I've worked on myself and I love myself. And you want that because you're insecure and you have nothing to show. You have. You have nothing. You're a loser. Lehu, his sir. I'm done with it, dude. So this red spider was crazy to see because I've never seen anything like that in my life. And when I looked it up and I saw transformation, I said, oh, my God. And it's been true. It's been true, and it is lovely. And it's good. I have this recurring thought every couple days where I'm like, I'll be in my kitchen alone, cooking, listening to my music. The temperature's where I want it. No one's bothering me. No one's. Whatever. I sleep in my bed alone with my rain sounds on, with my scent plugged in. No one's snoring, sucking wind behind me next to me. No one's in my bed touching dirty butt on my sheets. No one's leaving skid marks in my toilet. No one's. My house is serene. I do things how I want it. It's. It's lovely. It's awesome, dude. And so I have this recurring thought of, like, I'm very happy. I'm very happy alone. And I never thought I'd get there. And it's wonderful. So in that vein, I just kind of want to encourage you guys to just be okay alone, because you will be fine. You will be fine alone. Truly. And not only that, so many women don't give themselves. So many people don't give themselves the opportunity to be alone. So many people are so hellbent on being desired, being wanted, that they never spare a moment for themselves because they cannot be alone. And that's a hard wall to break through when you're a serial dater. You know, when you're a serial monogamist, it's just like, if you cannot be by yourself, that's concerning. So that's kind of my. Sorry. I just needed to rant about that for a second. Let's move on. You best believe this episode be sponsored by Tinder. Did you hear? A recent study found 80% of women find having a hobby sexy. So I made this completely scientific ranking of hobbies from hot to not. And trust me, some of them might surprise you. Let's start with one of the hottest hobbies. Anyone who owns a pirate ship and sails the seven seas. Instant match. How about fishing? Knot tying. The core strength alone. 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Looking for someone to sail the seven seas with versus I am a pirate. Okay, there's this conversation starter somewhere in there. And when you match, your hobbies are literally the perfect conversation starter. Trust me, talking about something you're passionate about is way more interesting than hey, Tinder is perfect for showing off who you are through your interests. It's not just about looks. It's about finding someone who vibes with your hobby. Explore all the possibilities for yourself. Tinder. It starts with a swipe. Download the app today. Okay, let's talk song of the week. And let's talk music. Song of the week is Dandelion by Ariana Grande. Yeah, of course it is. We're so back we're so back. I haven't watched the short film yet. I can't. I literally. I need to be like, locked in tissues on hand. It's too much. She posted that teaser of her as an old woman. I can't do it. I can't do it. Remember how it took me six months to watch Pedro Pascal on Hot Ones? I couldn't do it. I can't deal with it. That's how I feel about. I'll watch the Eternal Sunshine movie in about three months and I'll be like, why is no one talking about. Because I couldn't do it now. It's just too much, like, when you love someone like that, when you love an artist, or when it took me so long to listen to Cowboy Carter too, because I'm like, it's such a beautiful, well done body of work that I feel like unless I can give it the absolute time of day that it deserves, I can't listen to it yet. Do you know? Does anyone else have that experience? I just. I have to give it my utmost attention. And so that's how I feel about the Eternal Sunshine movie. Because I know she put so much effort and direction and references packed into this 26 minute short film that I need to be able to soak in everything and, like, take away my own conclusions. Which, by the way, not to always bring it back to Hozier, but do you fucking mind? Does anyone mind? I was returning to Unreal Unearth because of course I was, and Holy shit, came out in 2023. Why does that feel like not long ago? Why does that. How is that almost a year and a half ago? That's nuts. Anyway, I returned to Butchered Tongue from Unreal Unearthed, which is, in my opinion, in my opinion. But I also think it's real. It's about the loss of the Irish language. The sort of intentional dissolution and colonization and disintegration of the Irish language. That was a very direct and intentional thing done by the British Empire. Butchered Tongue. I'm gonna pull up the lyrics. And again, this is from Unreal Unearthed, which is based on Dante's Inferno. Right. Isn't Dante's Inferno or Dante's Divine Comedy is Unreal? Well, I know that Inferno is part of the Divine Comedy. It was like Paradiso something. And then Inferno is Unreal Unearth based on Dante's Inferno? Yeah, just in Inferno. Oh, that's right. Because it's the nine Circles of Hell. I knew that. Divine Comedy, Dante books. Oh, that's right. Paradiso Purgatorio Inferno. So it's paradise, Purgatory, Hell, witches. T. I feel like Purgatory is scarier than Hell. Well, hold on. Let's talk about this. Is Purgatory meaning you're stuck between inns, stuck between worlds? Is that limbo state scarier than the torture of Hell? Like being a lost soul? Let's see what Dante has to say about Purgatory. Dante Purgatorio Summary In Dante Alighieri's Purgatorio, Purgatory is a mountain where souls are purified from sin and prepare for heaven, guided by Virgil, and consists of terraces that spiral upwards. The mountain has terraces that spiral upwards, each representing a different level of purification, where souls are cleansed of specific vices and virtues. Dante, guided by the Roman poet Virgil, travels up the mountain of Purgatory, encountering souls who are undergoing purification and learning about the nature of sin, vice and virtue. Dante and Virgil meet repentant, excommunicate souls, including souls who delayed repentance and souls who died violently. The journey through Purgatory is a quest for freedom and a preparation for entering paradise, where souls can finally achieve eternal happiness. Okay, T. When I think of Purgatory, I think you're trapped there. You are a wandering soul who will not and has not been laid to rest. Purgatory meaning? In the Roman Catholic doctrine, this is what purgatory is. A place or state of suffering inhabited by the souls of sinners who are expiating their sins before going to heaven. Oh, so it's an in between. Oh, like a toning. Expiate. Expiate. Great word. Purgatory is also referred to as mental anguish or suffering. Is Purgatory a good or bad thing? Okay, this is from Corpus Christi phx, the Corpus Christi Catholic Church in Phoenix, Arizona. Purgatory provides us with hope because God in His justice, does not simply cast us out of his presence for all the messes we've made. Rather, in his mercy, he gives us an opportunity to cooperate with the redemptive work of Jesus and together with him, we can clean up those messes. Why can't you do? Isn't the point of you do that while you're alive, Right? Because if you wanted to convert, you'd do it while you're alive. Well, what if you weren't given the chance? What if you died before you would give it a chance? I don't know, dude. I'd rather be in Purgatory than Hell. But what is involved in purification? What is involved in purification? Purgatory. What are we googling the purification involves suffering and a sense of fire. But the exact nature of this cleansing is not fully defined by the Church. The pain of purgatory is a pain of love, a purifying suffering that atones for sins and re. Establishes holiness and justice. See this is where y'all start to lose me. Pain is not the way to. I don't. I just like that shit makes my skin crawl. I don't know. I'm not the one. The souls in purgatory are conscious of their personal responsibility for the delay in seeing God. But this is right. This is the eternal philosophical question. If you have never been exposed to God or to Christ or to any organized religion and you die that way, you live and die never knowing who Jesus Christ is. Are you damned to hell and is that your fault or is that the missionaries fault? The missionaries never got to you, then they should be punished. I just have never understood this idea. I remember someone saying that to me when I was still going to church of like, yes, they're going to hell, but they have an opportunity to. An opportunity? What are we fucking talking about? It's. It's this sort of dumbass lacking like not all encompassing doctrine that really makes me question. Like how can you dedicate your whole life to something like this when there are such big plot holes? There's plot holes in the religion. This feels so exclusionary in an a religion that is by definition inclusionary. I will never understand it. And I've tried. I've tried to understand it anyway. Back to Hozier. Back to Hozier. Okay. Butchered tongue. This is about the Irish language, I think. And then we're going to go through genius as a child. It was the place names singing at me is the first thing. How the mouth must be employed in every corner of itself to say these are three Irish words. A promise softly sung of somewhere else. And as a young man blessed to pass so many road signs and have my foreign ear made fresh again on each unlikely sound. But feel at home hearing a music that few still understand. A butchered tongue still singing here above the ground. I have chills all around my body. The ears were chopped from young men if the pitch cap didn't kill them. They're buried without scalp in the shattered bedrock of our home. You may never know your fortune until the distance has been shown between what is lost forever and what can still be. Let me just go ahead and take that from the top. You may never know your fortune until the distance has been shown between what is lost forever and what can still be known Holy shit. Holy shit. So fu. You may never know your fortune until the distance has been shown between what is lost forever and what can still be known. Like reclaiming the remnants of the Irish language and the Irish heritage and culture that are left the strongest. I have chills everywhere so far from home to have a stranger call you darling and have your guarded heart be lifted Like a child up by the hand in some town that just means home to them with no translator left to sound A butchered tongue still singing here above the ground oh, my God. I think especially as someone. Well, I. This is so striking in an infinite way. But I think what really connects with me about this song, other than an obvious, like, outpouring of empathy for what the Irish, the nation of Ireland, has experienced and gone through as a collective trauma. What endears me even more to this song in particular is how much I love language and how much I enjoy studying language and the origins of language and etymology and how language is human history. And it's breathing. It has a pulse. This just strikes at the heart of me because there is nothing more devastating than permanently losing a language. When you talk about a dead language, when you talk about assimilation that is 100% effective. When you force a culture to assimilate and they lose the last remaining bits of their culture, it is truly dead forever. And that sends a chill down my spine that that is able tothat we are able to inflict such horror where we forget. That's what strikes me about this song, is that's exactly what he's singing about, is that small comfort of seeing road signs. In original Irish, when you get off the plane at the Dublin airport, it is in English, and then it's in Irish. It's beautiful. Those things are more important than ever, especially now. I think that a song like this, that honors the history, the current, and warns against the future is such a beautifully done, a beautifully arranged and inclusive body of lyrics. It's just. It's ridiculous. He is ridiculous. I will never stop singing his praises. I think he is the mo. He. Okay, this is how I'm gonna liken this next statement. Okay. You know how you can have multiple best friends, but they're all your best friend? Like, you can have two or three best friends, and there's not, like a ranking system. That's how I feel when I say my favorite artist. My favorite artist has always been Beyonce. Beyonce, to me, is the greatest living entertainer. She is revolutionary in her existence. Everything about her is just excellence. She is number one and she always will be okay. She is just the artist of all artists. My other favorite artist is Hozier, and I love them for different reasons. Hozier, to me, is that soul bond of artistry, lyricism. His melodies are crazy. His. His guitar instincts are crazy. And there is something so spiritual about when I listen to a Hozier record, when I go through his lyrics, when I sit with the body of work. Even after fucking 10 years. They're celebrating 10 years of self titled coming out. His first album came out 10 years ago. It's just. I still listen to some of those songs and I hear something new for the first time. There are so many layers of artistry that I hope to keep becoming acquainted with. And Unreal on Earth is still an album that I'm unpacking. A year and a half later. I'm still addicted to it. I keep coming back to it. And that is just the mark of. It's just. It might be just me. It's just me and all the other Hozier girls of. You don't get him the way I get him. I get it and I appreciate it and I see it and I connect with it. And by proxy, it's through that that I feel connected to him. I love him. His brain, who he is, what he stands for, his. I just. I just love him to goddamn death. And I think that this song is. It came on shuffle the other day and I was driving and I started bawling in the car. I was like, there's no. He keeps getting better. And it's because it's intentional. Everything he does is intentional. That's why. Anyway, sorry. Fucking forgive my obligatory Hosier glaze session every fucking episode, okay? I have to glaze and then we move on. Okay? I think that'll do it for me, this episode team. I have to go to bed. It's about 11pm I love y'all to goddamn death. There's another something dropping this week, okay? So you guys need to fucking lock in. Something's happening in 48 hours that I need everyone to. I need you to be all hands on deck. Just keep your eyes peeled and that's sort of all. I just need everyone to pay attention because Big Brother is watching. I'm Big Brother. I'm Big Sister. I'm Big Mama. Big Mama is watching. So I need y'all to watch my Instagram. Anyway, Merch Broski shop. Go ahead and get you some Moo Moos. If you need a Moomoo. If you need a Broski Report shitty, go ahead and grab you one of those cuz they're still up there. Okay. You need some slippers. They're still up there. You need some stickers for your laptop. I got those too. Hey, and I'll see you guys next week, okay? Keep your eyes and ears peeled. Goodbye. These hairpins are my sock box. When was the last time you needed to go to a doctor but you pushed it off? You made the excuse I'm too busy, I can't find my insurance card. Getting health advice from the latest social media trend or influencer is enough. I think we've all been there. Booking a doctor's appointment can feel so daunting, but thanks to Zocdoc, there's no reason to delay. 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