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Bryce
What if tomorrow's not promised? Because according to the Christian faith, Andrew would not be entering the kingdom of heaven.
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Tristan Tate
Yeah, it is a. A weight that weighs on my shoulders. I think it boils down to one factor and one factor only. Do you believe that he was actually dead for two days? And do you believe he actually rose again from the grave? I don't think you can consider yourself a Christian unless you believe that to be factually true. I struggle with women more so than anything else. I don't think you can ever feel more lonely than when you're in bed with a woman who you just don'. I don't care about at all. You can't lie to God. Pretending I'm something I'm not, you know, as though he doesn't know what I do in my private time. I would like to think that he knows that I didn't waste the opportunity he gave me and the platform he gave me to tell young men to be better, better people, stronger people, more disciplined people. I don't believe that. That God's gonna throw anything at me that I can't personally handle. Going to jail and having everything taken away from me was like a hard reset in my mind. My mother suffered a heart attack, had a triple heart bypass surgery. She a 10 or 15% chance of survival. I requested to the remaining authorities the permission to go visit England, and I was denied. My grandmother was sick in Alabama. She did die, so I never saw her again. So the things that were stolen from me by this process, I will never get back.
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Bryce
Hey, before we get into today's episode, I want to share two quick things with you. First, if these videos have meant anything to you, if they've encouraged your faith or helped you see the gospel a little bit more clearly, I just want to ask you to subscribe. A lot of people tune in every single week and haven't hit the button yet. It only takes two seconds, and it helps us keep putting these conversations in front of people who need them. And the second thing, this one I've honestly been really excited to say. I'm officially announcing our ministry's biggest live event to date, Open Heaven Live Podcast tour. It's happening November 8th this year at the Pavilion at Toyota Music Factory in Irving, Texas. This is going to be a night centered around worship, faith, real conversations, and genuine community. I believe God is going to move in a powerful way, and I would love for you to be in the room. Tickets are on sale right now. You can head to brycecrawer.org tour or just click the link in the description below. And please only get your tickets through my official site or that link below. I recommend not buying from random resellers online. I believe this is going to be a really special night, and I hope to see you there. All right, let's get into the episode. So, Tristan, you were an atheist for a lot of your life?
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Tristan Tate
Yes, I was.
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Bryce
And then you became a Christian.
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Tristan Tate
Indeed I did.
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Bryce
So what changed?
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Tristan Tate
Well, I've always been a bit of a. A nerd. You just gifted me this. This bible from the 1800s and you didn't know that I collect vintage and antique books before you gifted me this. So I always been an avid reader and avid, I mean, bookworm, let's say. And it was my love of European history, I think, that reawokened my interest in Christianity. I think it was through no fault of my own that I was forced to leave Indiana, which is a very Christian part of the world, Very Christian part of the United States, certainly. And I moved to a town called Luton in England as a young kid. Now, Luton, England, is famous for many things. It's famous for terrorist attacks. It's famous for being a hotbed of extremism, Islamic extremism, the July 7 bombings of the London Underground. You're probably too young to remember, but it's an event I remember very well. And those people came from Luton. They were trained in Luton and going to school there. I think there was just absolutely no culture of Christianity. So when it became obvious to me that all these different people had all this very. All these various different beliefs, I remember speaking to a Sikh who I went to school with, and I thought, what do you mean you don't believe in Jesus? What do you mean? What do you mean you're not a Christian? What do you mean you don't believe in God? Like, as I thought of God. And on the young mind, I think that can be quite a damaging environment, especially because I had no Christian role models in my life to really look up to. So atheism, I slipped into it more from a lack of interest in religion than a rejection of what I've been taught as a child. But, yeah, it was my love of European history, the study of European history, that. That made me, you know, reanalyze my position and look into, I guess, what I was missing out on. And I was. I was baptized into the Orthodox Christian church twice, in fact. Once about eight years ago, maybe nine years ago, and once last year again. But there's a reason I was rebaptized and we can visit that later.
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Bryce
Yeah, so. So you're Orthodox Christian? That was my next question.
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Tristan Tate
I am Orthodox Christian, yes. I'm Orthodox Christian mainly because of the culture of the environment I live in.
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Bryce
Yep.
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Tristan Tate
I'm Orthodox Christian because, you know, that's where I fell back in love with, with the church and fell back in love with the message of Jesus Christ. But I have absolutely no hatred in my heart for other Christian denominations. I feel like the days when we used to stab and kill and murder each other are over. And if somebody says to me they're an evangelical or a non denominational Christian or a Catholic, I'm very happy to consider them my brother, because we all believe in the same message.
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Bryce
Same here, you know, and I think it's so fascinating because right now, particularly like Catholicism and Orthod, right now in America, it's on a rise, like atheism is dying.
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Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
Agnosticism is becoming popular, which I like, because at least you're a little open minded.
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Tristan Tate
Indeed.
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Bryce
But, but Orthodoxy and Catholicism is arising. What do you think is that?
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Tristan Tate
Well, I think, and we can get into the, the Great Schism and exactly why these two faiths separated and my take on it, but I think that they are certainly beyond doubt the original church of Jesus Christ.
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Bryce
Everybody.
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Tristan Tate
You know, some people consider the Catholic Church the original church. I consider the Orthodox Church the original church. And I'm not sure how much history behind that. I'm happy to go into why, but they are widely considered by every single Christian in the world as the spawning point. These are the people who kept the lights on, so to speak. I know, I know non denominational Christians. It was actually a non denominational Christian who introduced me to your work and your podcast for the first time. He's my, he's my cameraman.
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Bryce
Oh, wow.
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Tristan Tate
He's from, he's from Texas. He says, you got to see this guy and that's the first time I ever saw your face. But I feel like we all understand that there was a time in the world where everything was very dark. People couldn't read, people couldn't write. You know, people, you know, only went to the church for, for knowledge. And you know, in these monasteries I visit in, whether it be a Catholic monastery in Italy or an Orthodox monastery in Romania or Greece, these are the exact same places that kept the lights on and kept the message alive, you know, for the torch to eventually, you know, arrive in the United States and give rise to everybody else. So I think it's just, I guess a Genesis thing where people really believe that this is the original church and they're looking into these denominations. I encourage anybody to look into it if you have time. However, I think being Christian today is enough in 2026.
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Bryce
Yeah. You know, I value a lot of things about Orthodoxy and Catholicism in the sense of, like, you have this deep respect for tradition where something that, like, Americans lost, I believe heavily, is we thought that, oh, in order to get people to start following Jesus or coming to church, we got to make church cool. Right. So we got to get the light package and the smoke machine. And I'm like, look like, okay, sure. Like, I'm not just going to, like, completely dog on it. But, you know, something that I love is I have a Coptic Orthodox friend. His name's Father Lazarus. And when I go to his church, there's no smoke machine, there's no lights. But there's a deep fear of the Lord in there. And I respect that aspect of traditional and that structure that it brings in. And you're just like, wow, you see this, this different beauty aspect of God, and it just makes you in awe, you know?
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Tristan Tate
Well, yeah, and it's the feeling I get, certainly, because I've been to churches here in California, actually. What's the name of it? I was in a place called Shingle Springs up near San Francisco, and it was called the Green Valley Church, run by a guy ironically named Mike Sinner.
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Bryce
Okay.
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Tristan Tate
And I went to one service there. I mean, that's just his name. I mean, but. And it was, it was a very cool experience. It was, you know, there was guitars on stage and drum and everyone was up clapping their hands and stuff. I went with two friends of mine who I'd met on the airplane over here, actually. And it was very interesting seeing this, like, nouveau American style church service. But when you go to an Orthodox service every Sunday, I go to. I don't actually go to a church. I go to a monastery every Sunday where they hold a service there. And you look around and if you take, you know, the cell phones away and maybe the modern clothing, you're looking at a Christian service that's, you know, been conducted the same way since way before the United States was even a country. So it's kind of like a time machine, you know, and you have all the paintings of the various saints on the wall. Yeah, you know, it's. It's something that you don't get in America, I think, with this. With this nouveau form of Christianity. But, you know, I'm glad it's thriving here nonetheless. But there is this Deep feeling of history when you go into these buildings that are one and a half thousand, 2,000 years old.
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Bryce
Yeah.
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Tristan Tate
And you see people conducting services in the exact same way that the first Christians did. It's. Yeah. It touches your heart.
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Bryce
It is very powerful. You know, something. Something that I'm thinking about right now. You're obviously Christian. Your brother Andrew is a Muslim.
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Tristan Tate
Indeed.
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Bryce
Tell me about that. Like, is. Is there, like, a lot of conflict with that? How does that make you feel?
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Tristan Tate
Well, I try to save it as a conversation that hopefully we can have when we're older. I feel like, as a. He's my older brother, by the way, so he's a year and a half older than me. He's approaching 40 years old. I don't feel it's my place to police him and his children and his family about what he personally believes. I'd like to, but at the same time, I understand that he has people in his ear telling him to preach to me, to bring me over to the Muslim side, let's say. And there's no way at this point in my life when Andrew and I have so much to do that I'm going to create conflict in mine and his working relationship and our brotherhood and everything we're trying to achieve in this world. I feel like these are conversations that when we're 45, 46 plus, we're going to sit down and really hash out in detail. Once I'm off the Internet, I. At this time in our lives, we certainly have to stand as a united front against everything we're up against. And we try not to create internal conflict. That's not to say that we don't discuss these things, because we do, but I never discuss them to the world. I never discuss our talking points and how we, you know, debate with each other to the world. And we certainly would never sit on a podcast together and, you know, me argue the truth of Christianity. Christianity and him argue Islam against me, because I just don't feel it's. It's pertinent to do it this. At this point in time. But, you know, he found we spent a lot of time in the Middle east, and he fell into the Islamic religion through some very good friends of mine. And I said the. The Gulf Muslims, I think, are the. Are the real Muslims in the world. And yes, there's a lot of toxic Muslims, but if we're perfectly honest, there's a lot of toxic Christians. I mean, the Rwandan genocide is the. Is the largest genocide ever to take place on the. On the continent of Africa and Rwanda is, is Africa's most Christian country. And these people were perverted by so called pastors on various radio stations and they rose up and chopped each other up with machetes for years and years. And you know, millions of people died. So there's, there's toxic people in every single religion in the world and there's toxic people who are atheists and there's good people all around. So yeah, he's just a full grown man who made his own decisions about which religion he believes in, as did I. And he doesn't try to police me. So I return him the same respect. For now. For now while we're young.
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Bryce
So you said like creating conflict in a sense. It's hard for me to imagine that even something like that could create conflict because, you know, granted, social media is just a view of someone's life. You know, you have 24 hours a day, you guys have your own problems, good things, bad things, everything in between. But I feel like you can tell from an outsider perspective that you guys are so close.
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Tristan Tate
We are.
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Bryce
It's hard for me to imagine something like a conversation like Jesus, is he God or is he just a prophet? You know, should you put all your poker chips in on. It's hard for me to imagine that that would create some conflict between you guys.
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Tristan Tate
I don't think it's conflict in the way that we'd actually physically argue. But if you take 100% of our time in the day and all the things we're working on and all the things we're trying to achieve, if he was as fervent as I was, and it came head to head, I think 25, 30, 40% of our working day would be, you know, spent discussing this one particular issue. And it would take away from everything else we're trying to achieve. I mean, Andrew still does a lot for the Christian community, certainly in Romania, I mean, when there was a story, I'm not sure if you picked up on it a couple months ago when a church had caught fire during a funeral and Andrew and I funded the entire reconstruction of the church. Now that's shared money. That's not my money and that's not his money. That's shared money.
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Bryce
Yeah.
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Tristan Tate
And when I said this, he said, yes, absolutely. He's a, he's a, he has massive respect for the, for the institution of Christianity in Europe. He gets in trouble with his, with some Muslim followers of his when he says that Europe is, is the Christian land and should remain Christian. Just as I'm sure you and I would, would, would agree that Saudi Arabia is Muslim then, and they could, they should remain Muslim. And I have no right to go over there and, you know, try to, try to mess with their culture and mess with their, mess with their foundation. So Andrew gets in trouble for defending Christianity and sticking up for it a lot as the foundation of what we understand to be the modern world. So, yeah, eventually Andrew and I are going to sit down and really hash this out, but, you know, with everything we have going on right now, it's simply, it's simply not the time.
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Bryce
Well, God forbid. I mean, obviously you guys have talked about it publicly. We were talking about it earlier. There's a lot of people that don't like you guys. There's threats on your lives and things like that. I mean, what if tomorrow's not promised? Because according to the Christian faith, right, if we're being real, if someone does not put faith and trust in Jesus, which we have talked about, you're damned for eternity.
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Tristan Tate
Indeed.
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Bryce
So right now, if we're looking at the cards plainly, according to the Christian faith, Andrew would not be entering the kingdom of heaven. So does that put a weight on your shoulders or.
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Tristan Tate
It does put a weight on my shoulders and I'm in a room now with a bunch of, I guess, Jesus believing Christians. I'd like to think so. All your cameramen have the crucifixes around their neck, which is all well and good, but from. As an intelligent man, I have to put myself in the shoes of other people. There is absolutely no doubt in the minds of Muslims who live in the Middle east that they are right and we are wrong. Now, I don't believe that, but they believe that. They're wholeheartedly. So. Again, when you know you're correct, it's very easy to be righteous enough to say, I should be doing this. But if him and his team and his friends say he's on a Muslim podcast because he gets asked the same question, they all believe they're correct too. So it's one of these what happens when an unstoppable force meets an immovable object questions. And, you know, he doesn't waste my time certainly trying to pull me over to the side of what he believes and what his friends, you know, believe. So I know tomorrow isn't promised. I'm fully aware of that. I have many good friends who are no longer with us who died, whether they be, you know, Muslim or Buddhist or Sikh or Hindu or whatever they were. And yeah, it is a weight that weighs on my shoulders. And I feel I am correct. I would say, I would go as far as to say I know I am correct, but I do understand that everybody who tries to pontificate to me also knows they are correct too. Sure. Which is why I avoid it at this point in time. And I guess I just have to stay alive for a little bit longer.
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Bryce
So it's just, it's not, it's not necessarily passivity. It's just more of like a respect thing. Like, hey, you know, you've, you've made your decision. All I can do is let my life be a testament to the goodness
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Tristan Tate
of God, basically, I'm sure. I mean, I assume you, you mainly hang around with Christian people, but I assume you have friends who are, who are Jews or Muslims or Sikhs or other religions. And I just feel like your time with them, if you were working with them on every single aspect of what you're doing in life, you know, them trying to convert you, you'd be like this again, you know, And.
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Bryce
Yeah, but maybe in a way I feel like I would kind of understand especially Islam in particular, because I mean that also. I mean, it's the fastest growing religion right now, indeed, in the world. So I wouldn't be surprised if my Muslim friends, they were like trying to get me to convert and things like that, you know. But I, I get what you're saying.
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Tristan Tate
And when I'm in the company of Andrew and Muslims do try to get me to convert, Andrew says, hey, leave him alone. He's a full grown man who can make up his own mind. That's what Andrew says.
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Bryce
Fascinating.
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Tristan Tate
So if Andrew were here now, I'd say, guys, leave him alone. He's a full grown man who can make up his own mind. You know, I've been accused online by people who've heard this argument of saying that I respect the, the, the material world more than I respect the afterlife. That's not what it is at all because I make my own personal religious decisions and my, my, my children are baptized. As I said, I wouldn't speak about my children, but I won't talk about who they are, et cetera, but my children are baptized into the church, etc. But I feel that's my prerogative as a father to lead my children into the way I want them to live. You know, my brother and I have disagreed on many things over our almost 40 years on this planet, and I don't see it as my, I don't see that I have any authority over him. Just as he doesn't have any authority over me. So hopefully we live a lot longer and hopefully these conversations will be had with my brother later on. But while I've got, you know, while we need to stand as a united front against the world, I mean, one of my favorite passages from the Bible is, and I'm not you, and I don't know the Bible as well as I should because I don't run a ministry. I'm just a hobbyist Christian. But it's, I think it's Psalms 133, verse 1, which is, behold how good and how beautiful it is when brothers stand in unity. Or something along those lines. I've probably butchered it slightly, but that's the core message of it. And now is the time that I stand in unity with my brother, no matter what he believes in, whether it be a Muslim or whether he be an atheist. And these conversations will come later on.
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Bryce
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Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
And like the true sign of a friend is someone that can wound you with their words for the sake of your soul. Right. Like, I know people love me because I don't. I try not to surround myself with people that are impressed by me, people that are too afraid to tell me, oh, you're doing this wrong, or hey, I'd watch out. Or I don't know if I'd make that decision because I think history would prove people that do that. They fall really hard.
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Tristan Tate
That is true.
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Bryce
And I just think that's fascinating. I guess another question on that, it comes to mind, I mean, do you believe the Bible talks about being equally yoked not just in literal romantic relationships, but whether it comes to friendships and business and stuff like that. And again, I have friends that are Muslim, atheist, agnostic, don't believe, all across the board. But have you seen like, I don't know, friction and maybe business because you guys in a spiritual sense don't fully agree?
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Tristan Tate
No, there's no friction between my, myself and my brother ever. Which I guess leads to my original answer, you know, the, the, the willingness to try to create it. He doesn't have and he won't start that with me. So for now I won't start that with him. I mean, I'm sure he thinks about my religious beliefs and maybe he wishes that I shared his religious beliefs just as I wish he shared mine. But we don't go at each other and we don't when we're sitting down in a board meeting, for example, discussing whatever work we're discussing. We don't drain the time away trying to drag each other across this line because I don't believe now for one, it would work. I don't believe that it would be fruitful. I don't believe that, you know, either of us would change our minds. And I do plan to retire in a few years and just hopefully we're both alive then. And then I will have all the time in the world to discuss these ideas.
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Bryce
Yeah. So what is faith for you? Is faith more of a conviction, a practice? What does it mean to be a Christian in your eyes?
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Tristan Tate
I think no matter what denomination of Christianity you are, I understand that there's, you know, differences in order of service and you know, and how you pray and you know, whether you recite the I see in creed or you don't. I think it boils down to one factor and one factor only, which is why I said I have no problem with non denominational Christians, evangelicals, etc. Etc. Is whether you in your heart truly believe in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. Do you believe that he was actually dead for three days? And do you believe he actually rose again from the grave? I think that is the core of Christianity, despite all the messaging and all the, you know, sins and how people act and how people conduct their lives. I don't think you consider yourself, you can consider yourself a Christian unless you believe that to be factually true. And I think that's the bedrock of any Christian denomination and all Christian faith. Certainly in my eyes, you said before
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Bryce
that discipline matters more than motivation, which I agree in a lot of instances that, like, you know, motivation can be cool. Right? But discipline is the consistency. Do you think that applies to faith too? And if so, like, how do you think that applies?
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Tristan Tate
Hmm. Do I think it applies to faith? Yes, it does. I, I feel like your conviction in that one fact matters more than what a lot of people do and you know, this, trying their best to prove they're the, the best Christian to the whole world, when maybe in their mind, what they don't do is, is research and, and tackle the actual evidence and the actual fact around Jesus resurrection. I think a lot of people are happy to go to church and sing their songs, and how much they sin in their personal life really isn't a concern for me. I don't try to police other people's lives, but I'm not sure if you walked into a church in, anywhere in the world that 100% of people could sit and argue compendiously about why they believe in the miracle of Jesus's resurrection. I don't believe they can do that. They just say it, they, they state it, but I don't think they could argue it.
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Bryce
Now, when you say, when you say, like, oh, I don't want to, like, police other people's lives when they sin, what do you mean by that?
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Tristan Tate
I feel like there are people in the world who are religious leaders, and you very much are, whether you like it or not, a religious leader. This is the cornerstone of everything that you're doing. I am not a religious leader. I'm a Christian in my own personal, personal life. But I'm not, I don't think, qualified, I guess, would be the correct term to run a ministry or to, or to, or to preach to other people. So I feel like the best a man like me can do, given my, albeit rather colorful past and, you know, my struggles with atheism, etcetera, Would be just to try to lead and live as an example and, you know, all of my followers and all of my fans and all the young Men over the world of all different religions do know what my religious beliefs are. And if they're encouraged to look into the Orthodox church because of the things I say, then good. But I don't have a podcast where I sit and preach and tell people that they must be Christian because X, Y and Z. Yeah, I think it comes down to qualification, you know, I think it comes down to, you know, I guess, knowing your place in the world. And some people live to be, live as an example, whether it be a good example or a bad example. And some people live to actually actively, you know, preach the gospel and convert people to the belief in Jesus. People like you. So I don't try to police people because I don't think it's congruent to my message and my mission.
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Bryce
When do you think it's right though, to, I guess, I don't know, call someone out on their crap? You know, like if you see someone doing something weird or, you know, or the person. Here's the prime example. Let's say you have a Christian brother that you're close with, you know, you're friends with, and they just, they, they keep willingly and knowingly falling into this one sin and it breaks your heart because you're their brother and you're like, oh man, I love you and I don't want to see you doing that. Well, on the contrary, you're like, okay, this guy has zero conviction about what he's doing. So do you have a line where you're like, okay, this is now where I decide to step in and maybe say something about it or something like that?
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Tristan Tate
Well, I do this all the time for everybody I care about and everybody in my life, but I don't necessarily. I try to correct bad behaviors. Even from the fans of mine that listen to me. I have preached since the first day I was ever on the Internet, probably 15, 14 years ago. A very powerful anti drug message. I've always preached things like this. And if there's a friend of mine who's in a bad place or doing something that I don't think is beneficial for his life, I will correct him. And I do that just out of love for my friends. I don't necessarily do it from a place of. This makes you a bad Christian? Yeah, because my group of friends is very diverse. My group of friends, I mean, I've got two or three Christians who are always with me all the time, my film crew, my camera crew. But besides that, you know, everyone comes from a different place and everyone believes in different things. But I think it is your duty, irregardless of religion, to try to lift your brothers up and try to point them in the right direction when they are living in a way that's destructive to themselves. And let's be honest, most forms of sin, irregardless of just being frowned upon by God, are destructive to oneself. So you correct it. Anyway, so you.
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Bryce
I like your anti drug message. You know about the DARE program. You ever seen that? Like with that lion that would come into school?
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Tristan Tate
No.
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Bryce
When you left, you left pretty early on.
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Tristan Tate
We had like, we had a different one. We had the just say no campaign.
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Bryce
Okay.
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Tristan Tate
And there was a bunch of celebrities on television back when we only had three channels saying just say no to drugs. And all those celebrities, it turns out in hindsight, were hooked on every single drug in the world. But I think. But I think the best anti drug campaign in my personal anti drug campaign was a bit old school. And maybe people disagree with this and my personal anti drug crusade because I've never tried a drug in my life, an illegal substance, because people are going to say cigarettes and alcohol or drugs. I understand. But my anti drug campaign in my life was my dad's gonna beat the out of me if I take drugs,
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Bryce
which I think is.
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Tristan Tate
Which I think is the healthiest. I mean, if you come from a household where, you know, if you're caught with drugs, the consequences are gonna be dire and your father's gonna kick, I think that's the best campaign you could possibly get. But tell me more about the DARE campaign. I'm older than you.
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Bryce
Well, I just. It's kind of like one of those things where they bring some people in, you know, and everyone's in the auditorium and it would say like, dare and it was like a drug awareness something program. But it was like the shirts were famous and it had this line on the front. You'd watch these videos and they'd bring in the mascot. But I actually did my own anti drug awareness thing my senior year. I volunteered to be Oliver, the safety owl at my school. And they gave me a bag of Smarties and I had to try to sell drugs to like, the kindergartners, but it was really just like a bag of Smarties to see if they would bite into it. So like I was the. The guy in the mascot costume trying to. Trying to dish it out to teach the kids a lesson, you know?
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Tristan Tate
Yeah, that, that's. That warms my heart to hear that. I'm glad more people are taking up the torch because I think that it used to be, at least we used to live in a world because drugs are worse than ever and they're out of control. Now every now everything's laced with fentanyl and everyone's dropping dead.
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Bryce
Oh, yeah.
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Tristan Tate
So now is definitely not the time to take drugs. I'm not saying you should have ever taken them, but if you lived in Miami in 1975 and you're sniffing cocaine, you're sniffing cocaine. If you live in Miami in 2026 and you're sniffing cocaine, you may well get a dose of fentanyl that stops your heart. So now is certainly the time to be more anti drug than ever before. But I feel like at least when I grew up there was this, there was this illusion that they sold to kids, this pretend idea that cool people don't do drugs. But if you listen to modern music, if you watch modern movies, I mean, most modern music, they literally talk about taking all of the drugs you shouldn't do all the time.
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Bryce
Yeah.
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Tristan Tate
And kids are listening this from age 5, 6, 7. So where is the anti drug messaging if it's not coming from people like you and people like me who have been gifted a very large platform? Yeah, I, I don't do it in a way that I'm gonna tell. If I see a man my own age and he says, I like to take cocaine, I'm like, cool, good for you, bro. I won't hang out with him because I don't hang out with drug users, but I'm not going to try to correct his behavior. I don't necessarily care. But I understand that with the platform. I have millions of young men, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 are watching what I say. So the best I can do with my platform is say, don't, you know, stay away from this crap. Yeah. So I'm happy you're, you're on the same page and I, I commend you for what you're doing.
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Bryce
Ah, thanks for saying that. Yeah. I had a co worker years ago because when I graduated high school, I worked on boats and I mean, he OD'd. Or sorry, not OD. He sniffed bag cocaine and got. It was laced with fentanyl and he died. Tipped over dead. And it's, it's honestly awful. You mentioned alcohol. What's your perspective on alcohol?
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Tristan Tate
So I actually used to drink a lot more when I was younger. I think the problem with alcohol is to have a one person, to have a universal policy on it is very difficult because it affects people in very different ways. I had a guy who Used to work for me. I'm not gonna embarrass him and say his name. But after three or four drinks, he'd, you know, start acting like a jackass, you know, falling over, throwing chairs around. I told him, I said, brother, you should. You should stop drinking. It's bad for you. He said, but you drink. I said, no, no, no, it's bad for you. You shouldn't drink. And I think it has such different effects on everybody else, and it destroys some people's lives. And to be honest, a lot of adults drink in a very healthy way, and it doesn't have any negative effect on their lives. Besides, they're a bit tired the next morning. So any kind of substance abuse is bad, you know, prescription pain medications, alcohol. Some people smoke too much. You know, maybe even I smoke too much, to be honest. But, you know, I. I would advise checking your own behavior and looking yourself in the mirror if you partake in any activity that makes your friends warn you about it. Because I think people can be very polite nowadays, and people can be like, hey, bro, you got a bit drunk last night, and like, kind of laugh it off. But I think you should have friends around you that if you are, you know, showing the signs of destructive habits, they should step in. I think community is a massive part of this. I think alcohol is very dangerous when you're isolated. I think if you're a streamer or a professional video game. Video game player, and you stay at home all the time and you, you know, you like drinking alcohol by yourself, I think that's a big red flag. So I don't really have an official policy on alcohol, but I live in Eastern Europe. I live in Romania, which is the most Christian country in the world. But they love to drink in Romania. Yeah, you know, the priests drink, the monks drink, the, you know, the government drinks. But, you know, everybody in Romania drinks, and it's a part of the culture. So I don't try to tell anybody what to do in terms of alcohol. Besides to make sure that you are not yourself in a destructive place or you're not causing any harm on others, that's the time to stop.
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Bryce
Yeah, that's such a. You know, that's so interesting because I think, like, in America, if we went to church on Sunday, and then after church, we saw the pastor, like, out at lunch having a beer. Yeah, it would be weird here, really, but I feel like it would be weird here. And then. But then if you go to Europe, right, it's like, oh, let's go to the pub and get a pint, you know, afterwards. And then you're like, whoa. Well, the culture is different. So I'm glad that you brought that up. I think that's interesting. I've never, I've personally never had a sip of alcohol before.
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Tristan Tate
I like.
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Bryce
I don't say that like prideful. I accidentally had a taste Christmas Eve by accident. My, My cousin lives in London now, but she came back and brought me and my now wife pre wedding gift. And it was like a box of chocolates and I ate one and it
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Tristan Tate
was rum or whiskey, right?
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Bryce
It was champagne. I had no idea. I would like cough and it would burn my throat. And I was like, dang, this thing's got a kick to it. And then I like ate another one. And then I like looked at her, it's like, why, why does it taste like this? And she's like, it's got champagne in it. And I was like, oh my gosh. Like, I don't, you know, But I always thought that was funny.
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Tristan Tate
Yeah. I think there's a big, big disconnected culture America's experimented with. I mean, the founders of America, a lot of them were Puritans. And if you're familiar with the Puritan movement, that was like, absolutely nothing that you know can lead you to sin should be permitted, including alcohol. I mean, I think the Amish still live that way today. But America has experimented with prohibitions. They have one of the highest ages of consent for alcohol in the world. I think it's 21 years of age before you can legally drink here. If you actually just look at the statistics, because I am an American, but I'm also European. A lot of countries have a lot less of a problem with alcohol than the United States. And I think it's one of these things where it's like, you can't do this, you shouldn't do this, you can't do it. And then when they turn 21 and they're off at college, they're binge drinking and, you know, going to these keg parties or, I don't know, those are still around, but. And yeah, people develop problems with alcohol. Whereas if you live in France, France, for all of its problems, don't even get me started on the politics of France. It's finished as a country. But the actual French culture, you know, 12 year olds, 13 year olds will have half a glass of wine with dinner every morning. And it's so normalized that people don't suddenly turn 18, which is the drinking age in France, and think, finally, I Can do this. Let's go nuts. So I think, to be honest, speaking as a European, the healthy introduction of alcohol into people's lives is better than not drinking at all, is the best for anybody, of course. But the healthy introduction of alcohol into people's lives as they grow up is a lot less congruent to having these chronic problems. Then, no, you cannot touch this stuff until you're 21, no matter what. I think that's the mistake America makes because America has more alcoholics and more. I mean, I just passed a gas station here. There's four people sitting around drinking out of brown paper bottles and their lives aren't really going too well, I can assume. But you don't get that in Europe.
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Bryce
Yeah, yeah. Like there's a passage of scripture I believe it's in, it's in one of Paul's epistles in the New Testament. But he says, do not be drunk on wine, but be filled with the spirit. And then the language is interesting in one of the translations, believe it's nlt, it says, for it is a waste, isn't it funny how we call it being wasted.
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Tristan Tate
Yeah.
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Bryce
When you get it, that's a very fascinating to me. But I love, I love in. In Proverbs 31, King Lemuel, he's like, you know, he's like, look, like I. It's probably wise if you're like a very important leader or someone like that to maybe not drink. He's like, he's like very like open handed. He's like, I'm not, I'm not trying to like beat y' all down, you know, but it's probably wise if you're a leader to not drink because you'll probably be swayed in your decision making and you want to be sharp and aware and understanding, conscious that your decisions that you make. And I really admired that because I was like, man, you know, so you're right. There's so many people that they just are like a loose cannon when they get a hold of alcohol, particularly in America. And I'm thinking of like maybe 10 people right now in my brain, you know, and. But you know, at the same time it's like, wow, what can we. You know, alcohol is such an interesting thing because you can't just label it and say all of it's bad. Like my tolerance for alcohol, like if I've never had a sip of alcohol. So if I had like half of a beer, I wouldn't be sober minded.
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Tristan Tate
Yes, exactly.
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Bryce
Whereas, like, I have like friends that they can have like two beers and then they're still sober minded, they're perfectly fine.
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Tristan Tate
But I think the best way of policing this, to be honest, is to police yourself and to lead by example. So for example, if you watch some of my content from eight, nine years ago, for example, I'm drinking, I'm having fun, I'm at parties, I'm at nightclubs. This was a very different life I lived back then. But I have rules for myself when it comes to drinking today. I do not. I do not. I never get drunk in public. I never get drunk around people I don't know very well. I never get drunk around women. I never get drunk around my kids. I never get like, if I am sitting in my house and we're playing a poker game and it's me and all my friends, I will drink as much as I like, I'll stumble over to my bed and pass out. But certainly when you know you are in a position where people watch your behavior and you're trying to set an example to the world, nobody is ever going to see me stumbling, stumbling out of a nightclub in this day and age. You're never going to see me falling over or throwing up or being drunk in public. You have to be, I think, very careful when you are in a position of authority to dissuade that behavior from the younger generation.
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Bryce
Well, it just sucks that that's what's described as like success now. Or maybe, you know, I use success as like a loose term. Yes, but if you go to university here in America, everybody's doing exactly that. And if you're not doing that, you're like the odd guy out in a sense.
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Tristan Tate
Well, universities in America have become the breeding ground for a lot of toxic behavior.
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Bryce
I agree.
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Tristan Tate
People will go to university in the United States particularly and they may be, you know, good Christian kids, like, like, like not quite like you because you're a different level. But they could, they could be for all intents and purposes, good Christian kids. And they can come out believing in, you know, radical ideas, what I refer to as radical dangerous ideas, ideas of transgenderism, etc. I mean this is the, this is where these ideas are implanted onto the minds of the young. And American universities are terrifying places. I'd rather my children remain uneducated than go to an American university. I mean, there are specific ones, of course, MIT to study. I don't know, advanced mathematics is probably a little bit different than, you know, studying gender studies or business at the University of Arizona. But it's, it's, yeah, those Places have been, I believe, purposefully infiltrated by Marxists, Communists, you know, the crazies. Because they know if you get hold of the youth and you can change their mind to believe in the absurd, then you can control the future. Which is, well, one of the reasons myself, my brother started our counter to that university.com, our own online school, which I'm not actually a teacher in, but we have professors just literally teaching people entrepreneurialship and wealth creation methods. Because modern day university is not just a toxic environment, but it's also becoming increasingly useless as more and more people leave the university with these degrees. And Microsoft themselves and Amazon in the last few weeks have just fired 30,000 people and everyone's being replaced with AI. I don't think these pieces of paper are worth four years of binge drinking and cocaine taking to get hold of.
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Bryce
I mean, you could say wherever someone goes to college, college, those four years are going to develop that person for the next 60.
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Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
And yeah, that's why I think it's so important. There are a handful of phenomenal universities out there and they're great. And obviously you can get your degree in many different things. I'm graduating from Liberty University, I'm getting my biblical studies degree and things like that. But in the fall we're going to start doing some campus dialogues and debates with students, particularly on the topic of faith because I think we need that at the core of it, right? And you know, I have a lot of respect for a lot of people that, and this may be bold, but I have a lot of respect for people that live that life. And they go, yeah, I'm not a Christian, I have a lot of respect for that versus the person that lives that life. And they go, well I'm a Christian and you can't judge me because I'm like, yeah. And then I'm like, well hold on a second, like what do you mean, what do we mean by following Jesus? What? You know, so. But yeah, it's very fascinating. Where do you see the world going in the next five, 10 years with the way you view the education system?
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Tristan Tate
I think that, you know, for the first time last year it was reported in the United Kingdom that people who are non university educated slightly overtook in terms of income, people who are university educated. So certainly when my parents were young and probably when I was very, very young, the university degree was very well respected because people went to college and university with a purpose. I think people now do it without a purpose. They just, this is what I'm going to do next. I myself have no higher education. I finished school when I was 16, and I haven't spent a single day in any educational classroom since then. So I. I think it's more about a willingness to be educated than an obligation to go to college. And I think that a lot of people in the world are adapting to the modern world a lot faster than people who go to university are reading from textbooks that are 10, 20, 30 years old. I think agency is going to be what divides the haves from the have nots in the future, more so than any type of qualification. Because, as I said earlier, like, mass layoffs are incoming. AI is replacing almost every single job you can think of to some degree. I mean, I've watched studies. AI is going to replace surgeons very soon. It's terrifying to think that, you know, I mean, it's not terrifying to think a machine's gonna do an operation on you. Machines do lots of things for us, but it's terrifying to think that all these people who spent all this money and all this time being qualified in this very specific skill are going to become obsolete. So I don't know what the world's going to look like, but I feel like the wealth divide is going to grow bigger. I feel like the middle class is going to eviscerate, evaporate what's left of it anyway, and you're going to have the haves and the have nots. And what's going to separate them is the agency to take action more so than what they know.
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Bryce
Yeah. Have you ever seen a Star wars before? No, I've never seen Star wars in episode 3. Sorry to spoil it, but no problem.
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Tristan Tate
I'm not gonna watch it anyway. I don't watch movies.
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Bryce
Okay, okay, well. Well, Padme's giving birth and she dies. But basically all the people in there are just like, robots and machines that are like, giving her giving that are like helping deliver the babies. And I'm like, that's what I imagine the future being unfortunate. Which, you know, there's like, aspects of which I'd love to know your thoughts on AI and the advancement of technology and things like that. But, you know, there's, like, some aspects of AI that I love. I think the hard thing that I'm not really enjoying about AI is so many people are replacing critical thinking skills while leaning on the robot. And I'm like, God has given us a unique, beautiful mind. We should learn to think and we should value truth. And that just goes to show you that. I mean, just because you go to, you go to university for four years. That doesn't mean that you know truth. That doesn't mean that you know that you have wisdom and that you have knowledge. Letting a robot think for you. And you know. But what are your thoughts on AI and stuff like that?
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Tristan Tate
Well, you see it every day on Twitter. It's the only social media platform I'm not banned from. And I will post something which is, which is conjecture. It's subjective. It's my opinion, or it's my take on something and at least 20 or 30 people underneath it. It's like at Grok. Is this true? At Grok? How correct is Tristan at Grok? If you had to disagree, what would you say? And I'm like, the hell's wrong with you people? Like, I don't, I don't do that. It's, it's, it's ridiculous. And yeah, I feel like. Well, the thing is about AI is, is, is this. People get it all wrong. They think AI is going to take your job, right? So let's say you're an accountant. People like AI is going to take my job. No. 1 guy who understands AI is going to take 50 of your jobs. So there's always going to be someone behind the machines. You know, we talk about AI as. It's a, as though it's an independent entity. But we can list the four or five companies in the world that own all the AI technology. Not the Chinese ones, because they keep it all secret. They may well be more advanced than the ones that, the models that we look at here, but we could see which companies and which people are in control of this technology. And I feel like throughout human history there's been different, you know, periods where people who held the strings to power had a different skill set. And this includes, you know, having the strings to faith. For example, the, the Pope has always been one of the most influential and powerful men in world history. For, for many of the centuries, I can, I can name as, as well as the, as well as the, the, the sultans of the, of the Ottoman Empire. So faith has been one. Armies, weapons, the printing press. You know, these people are now setting themselves up to be the next generation of the world's most powerful people because they control the technology that everybody's about to rely on and what's about to run the modern economy. So I pray that these people, you know, use that power responsibly. And I certainly trust people like Elon slightly more than I trust some of the others. I'm not trying to have any of them, you know, attack me online. So, you know, let's not name names. But yeah, I just, I just pray that the people in charge of this technology truly have the, the good for humanity, a hope for humanity in their hearts as they going about, going about this and not just a relentless pursuit in the technological advancement which could end, I think, very badly for everybody. Yeah.
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Bryce
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Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
Do you think that modern day Christianity today is weak or do you think that it is strong? What's your perspective?
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Tristan Tate
Modern day Christianity can mean a lot of things, but I do feel like a lot of the strength in the Christianity of the past came from unity and came from, I think, what, what I can describe as a healthy perception of outside threats. You know, Romania is a very interesting country. Not sure how well you know Romanian history.
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Bryce
Not really, but I know a little bit.
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Tristan Tate
Romania is the country in which every single Ottoman invasion into Europe, besides the, the Moors attacking Spain ran through. So all of Romania's heroes and all of Romania's greatest leaders and all the people who you see statues of in Romania, who are people who fought against the Ottoman Empire to try to keep the Islamic invasion out of Europe. And these people are labeled and painted in the media today by, I mean, people. You might know Dracula as a character who was. It was a real person. His name was Vlad Sepes. And yes, he was violent, and yes, he was. You know, you could describe him today as a bit of a psychopath. And, yes, he did things that people in the 14th century did, but at the core of who he actually was was he was a defender of the Christian faith, and he cared about Europe being a Christian, a Christian continent, and that's what he gave his life for, ultimately. And I think that Christianity in modern times, although you don't have to impale people and do the insane, he did. I think they should wake up a little bit and have a. A healthy attitude and a healthy. A healthy understanding of the threats that are attacking Christian nations, whether it be. Whether it be the LGBTQ agenda or the. Or the transgender movement or outside religions. But they don't. I feel like they've leaned too much on the Turn the other cheek. They've leaned too much on the we can all get along. Atheism, again, I think, is a massive threat. And, yeah, I think modern day Christians can be weak, and they do need to wake up a little bit.
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Bryce
So what does it look like to be a strong Christian in your perspective?
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Tristan Tate
I feel like we could take examples from other religions and other countries. We can say that if you go to Saudi Arabia and you insult their prophet and their religion, they'll lock you up in jail. Fine. Now America has freedom of speech, so that's a different example. So I'm speaking purely as a European now, but let's take countries that do make speech laws. A country that I have absolutely no love for anymore. The United kingdom, that arrests 12,000 people every year for speech violations. It's okay, you can get arrested in England for going outside an abortion clinic and praying quietly in your head. You know, if they think you're praying, you can get arrested. If you insult unvetted Third world migrants coming in on boats, you can get arrested, but you're perfectly fine to insult Jesus Christ, and you're perfectly fine to insult Christianity. And I'm like, well, how dare a country that is not just a Christian country, not just foundationally Christian, but also England is largely responsible for the spread of Christianity throughout the modern world, including right here in the United States. How dare you. If you're going to make speech laws, make them apply to absolutely everybody else in your country besides the Christians, you know, So I feel like they could be a bit stronger in. In that regard, or certainly not police speech at all, which, as the. As an American is the best way. But I feel like, you know, a natural hostility to. To outsiders is. I mean, very. Some very good and very strong countries to this day still has it. Still have this, and the British will call it racism. But a country like Poland, for example, I think Poland just officially named Jesus Christ as the King of Poland a year and a half ago. So the official king of Poland is Jesus Christ, by the way. And you're not allowed to insult Christianity there. And even if the law is on your side and you have freedom of speech, if you walk around the streets of Bucharest and you start screaming insults to the church or screaming insults to Jesus, people Christian or. I mean, whether or not this is the most Christian action or not, will probably come and punch you in the face because they love what they. They love their culture and their religion so much that they're naturally offended. Whereas, you know what I see in France when the. When the Olympic ceremony took place and they were mocking the Last Supper. I'm not sure if you saw this.
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Bryce
Yep.
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Tristan Tate
And with. With transgenders and, like, fat, grotesque women taking the place of Jesus and the disciples, etc. Which absolutely was a mockery of the Last Supper, by the way. Now they try to den. I feel like everyone in France was like, all right, cool. That was our Olympic opening ceremony. In fact, the next day, my brother and myself went down to the French Embassy in Bucharest and started a protest. This is all documented. And at the time, we were under some form of arrest. I'm not anymore, but we were under some form of judicial control. And if you commit any crime while on judicial control, you immediately get sent back to prison. Organizing a protest with eight or more people is technically an infraction of the law. So I knew when I went there, I was going to be thrown in prison for doing this protest. But I almost was playing chicken with the Romanian authorities because I thought we are in the most Christian country in the world. I know every Romania, every Romanian respects Jesus Christ. I'm going to go and start a protest, and I dare them to throw me in jail for it. So I started a protest outside the Embassy of France. And although I understand people were barking down telephones wondering what they could do about me, and My actions, no action was taken. I started the protest anyway alongside my Muslim brother, who was absolutely appalled at what the French did. So, yeah, I think we need to have some more. More backbone, some more balls, take some action, you know, and not. Not stand for the open degradation of our faith wherever it comes from.
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Bryce
Yeah, yeah, we need more. More men standing up and being firm and being bold for their faith. Okay, so you have Luke 23:34 in your X bio. Father, forgive them. What's the purpose of that being in there?
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Tristan Tate
You know, I wrote that on a whim. I think I put that in about a year and a half, two years ago, when I decided to. At the time, there was this legal case against me that went nowhere, by the way. The legal case got thrown out. So I was in jail, imprisoned, house arrest, for no reason. And I feel like I understood that the people doing this to me were not necessarily my persecutors. I've likened them recently in some proceedings I have going on as dogs that have been let off the leash to attack me, you know, and I. I don't know. One day I just. I was sitting there opposite my prosecutor who was telling me I'm a criminal and telling me he's gonna put me in jail. He failed to do so. And I just thought, you know, this guy is just a morally poor person for sure. But I didn't feel like he had any malice towards me. So I wasn't going to preoccupy myself with having any. Any malice towards him. So it was aimed specifically at the people who were persecuting me at the time. Just as a message of, you know, I don't hate you, and I'm not going to spend my time hating you and planning revenge on you and, you know, dreaming up scenarios where, you know, I can get one up on you. I'm like, okay, you were doing what you were doing. I couldn't put innocent people in jail that I knew were innocent. I couldn't take them away from their families. I couldn't do it. But these people are, like I said, morally poor, whether they identify themselves as Christians or not. And I put that in my bio just to let the people who persecute me know that I have no malice against them.
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Bryce
So when you were in jail, tell me about that experience. Were you, from what I understand and correct, everything that I get wrong right here. Are y' all including the house arrest in that jail time? Is that what you're including or you're saying jail was separate from the house arrest?
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Tristan Tate
Well, it counts as jail time, legally. But to clarify, I was in a physical prison for almost four months. A physical, actual prison for four months. And the total time I spent confined to my house was encroaching on two years.
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Bryce
It was like.
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Tristan Tate
And all the rest of the time before I was free, I was confined within the borders of Romania.
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Bryce
And when did you. When were you allowed to leave?
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Tristan Tate
February 26, last year. So just over a year ago, February 26, 2025. I was arrested on December 29, 2022.
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Bryce
So I was listening to your interview, Patrick, Beth, David.
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Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
And you were talking about how you were actually grateful for jail on the episode.
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Tristan Tate
Yeah.
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Bryce
What did you mean by that?
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Tristan Tate
I don't believe that God's gonna throw anything at me that I can't personally handle. And I feel it was a bit of a. A hard reset in my mind. And I will state without apology here that I was. I'd slowly become accustomed to things that I should have been grateful for. So if we take September 2022, I'm on a private jet every week going to somewhere new in the world. Money's flowing in. I literally don't have to worry about money at all. Everything in my life is going so well that it become normalized to me to the point where before I went to jail, the famous example I'm sitting, Andrew, like, what should we do for New Year's? He's like, ah, should we go to the Caribbean? I. Should we go to. To. To Courcheval in Switzerland? Or should we go to the south of France? What should we do for New Year's? I'm sitting there like, ah, that's boring. That's boring. That's boring. I found that exact New Year's Eve, I found myself locked in a prison. And I thought, you know, none of these things would have been boring, and I shouldn't have been so ungrateful for the life that I was living. But it crept up on me slowly because I'm not. I didn't catch a crypto pump. I didn't win the lottery. My. My wealth and success slowly crept up as the years, you know, went along. And maybe, you know, you're very young, so, you know, never find yourself in this situation where you have absolutely everything you ever wished, you know, for having, but you didn't appreciate having it. Going to jail and having everything taken away from me was like a hard reset in my mind where even now it's been years since I was inside of a prison cell. I appreciate everything so much more.
- [57:22]
Bryce
Wow.
- [57:22]
Tristan Tate
So I Think it was. It was good for me. Yeah.
- [57:25]
Bryce
You also said on that episode that you felt like God was giving you an opportunity to prove that you were who you said you were.
- [57:32]
Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
What did you mean by that?
- [57:34]
Tristan Tate
Andrew and I are not religious teachers like you, but we are teachers in. In one way or another. We. We do try to teach, you know, mental fortitude, discipline, self accountability, strength, you know, not caving into the pressures of society. Not, you know, we're very anti. You know, we're very anti people feeling sorry for themselves. I'm super. I'm really not a big fan of anyone who commits suicide. I feel like there's always a better way to get out than do that. And I hadn't really been through any hardship through my rise to Internet fame, besides the loss of my father, which was a difficult time. But for years and years, my life was so comfortable. And there I am in a, you know, in my million dollar house with my million dollar cars and my. My $20,000 suit, sitting there behind a camera saying, all right, guys, be strong and be mentally disciplined. And it's like, well, it wasn't until I was thrown in prison and I came out not broken, not upset, not. Not downtrodden that the world saw that maybe I was, in fact, the character that I was portraying. So, yeah, it gave me an opportunity to show my fans that I am who I said I am. And, you know, tests come in all various shapes and forms. I would say the two years of being locked in my house was harder than the four months in prison. But again, I have no mental damage for that, and I practice what I preach of. You know, you can't change the rules of chess, but you can always look at the board and understand what the next best move is. And, you know, that's all behind me now, at least for now. Who knows if the trustworthy Romanian authorities will take another swing at me, but I'm ready for it now, you know?
- [59:11]
Bryce
Yeah.
- [59:12]
Tristan Tate
Yeah. It was a good opportunity to prove that I was who I said I was.
- [59:15]
Bryce
Did you see something absolutely crazy in jail? Like, did you see something like just wild?
- [59:20]
Tristan Tate
Romanian jail isn't exciting like American jail. I think I'd rather go to American jail any day of the week because Romanian jail is very boring. It's very much the people you're in the room with affect your jail experience because you get put in a room and that is it. I know people who've been in those rooms for 18, 19 months, two, three, four years. There's no yard, there's no law library. There's no chow time where you go to a hall and interact with other people. You literally get put in a room and you are stuck there. So I didn't see so many crazy things because at first I was with a, I think a heroin smuggler, a burglar, and a murderer in my cell. And then I was put with Andrew into a separate cell. So besides hearing all their sob stories, etc, my first few weeks in jail, you'd hear more crazy things than you would see crazy things. So you'd hear people smashing their heads against the wall at night, trying to kill themselves. You know, just uncontrollable screaming. But you never really know what's going on because you're locked in your own personal room and you have a window about the size of maybe this small light over here. I had a view of a church, funnily enough. Wow. So, yeah, that gave me a lot of strength.
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Bryce
You probably had, like, the only good view.
- [60:33]
Tristan Tate
Well, I mean, it was mostly a wall and then like the top spire of a church in the top right hand corner and some very ugly apartment building. So I wouldn't say, I wouldn't say it was a good view. I've seen nicer views. You know, the, the Ritz Carlton Hotel, as a, as a, in Dubai has a better view than that. However, it was, it was what it was. And, you know, that was a long time ago now. That was the first three months of 2023. It was April 2023 when I got out, so they might put me back. Who knows what the Romanians will try. They're trying to save their reputation, and they're going to try and tell the world I'm a criminal again. But hopefully by this point, having their first cases dismissed, everyone's going to understand that it's a setup. And if they don't, that's fine.
- [61:15]
Bryce
I'll come bail you out.
- [61:16]
Tristan Tate
Oh, thank you. Well, there's no, there is no bail. Now. If I'm, if I'm in Romania, don't fly in as my known associate. They'll in there with me. But we'll have some interesting talks, I'm sure.
- [61:24]
Bryce
I'll bring a chessboard in there. If they take me in there and we can play some chess. I may not be as good as you, but we could play.
- [61:29]
Tristan Tate
I'm okay. I'm okay. I'm. I, I, I never, I never proclaim to be good at chess. I claim that I like chess and I like playing chess.
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Bryce
See, I'm the same way. Yeah, I'M the same way. I'm not good, but I like to play.
- [61:40]
Tristan Tate
Yeah, I'm a hobbyist player. Yeah, I never use my last name when I play online because I don't want to bring shame on my father's legacy because he was. He was unreal.
- [61:47]
Bryce
He was a wild chess player.
- [61:49]
Tristan Tate
Yeah, he was. He was.
- [61:50]
Bryce
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- [63:08]
Tristan Tate
Yeah.
- [63:08]
Bryce
How important is Yalls like loyalty and friendship to each other? I know we kind of talked a little bit about it earlier, but.
- [63:14]
Tristan Tate
Well, it's not just. I guess I could say it's the most important thing in my life, but that would not be necessarily true. It's the most important ingredient to the success that we've found. There I don't think. And he wouldn't mind me saying that there is an Andrew Tate today, as you imagine, without a Tristan Tate. And there's certainly no Tristan Tate without Andrew Tate. So I feel like, you know, always having a brother you love who cares about you, who wants the best for you, who. Who tries to motivate you. I think it was the extra momentum that we needed to escape the, quite frankly, horrible environment I grew up in. And I'm not sure anyone would know either of our names today if we didn't have each other. So that importance can never be understated.
- [64:07]
Bryce
Is there anything about following Jesus specifically that. That you wish Andrew would see that you don't think he has seen yet?
- [64:14]
Tristan Tate
You know, Andrew and I, in terms of morality, in the way we live our lives are very, very similar. Andrew doesn't even drink alcohol, by the way.
- [64:22]
Bryce
Wow.
- [64:22]
Tristan Tate
So, like, you could argue that he's less of a sinner than me. Cause I do occasionally get drunk, and alcohol isn't a sin, but drunkenness is. Of course, there are examples that, you know, we take from each other. I don't think morally we differ on many of our opinions and behaviors and the way that we live. So it's not like I have a brother who's a drug addict and he sees me not taking drugs and me saying, well, you know, preaching the Bible to him and him coming around. I feel like we both serve as examples for each other.
- [64:51]
Bryce
Yeah.
- [64:52]
Tristan Tate
And there's nothing specific about me being a Christian that's made Andrew alter his behavior at all. Because, you know, irregardless of what you might see in the media, which lies about me endlessly, I'm not the person that you'll read about in the BBC. You know, anyone who's met me face to face is always like, well, you're much nicer than I expected you to be. I said, what do you expect me to do, attack you? Like, but certainly the. The characters they write about in the BBC, the Tate brothers I write about there, I wouldn't want to meet those guys. But they don't exist. They're fictional boogeymen, created by the media to try and take away from our message. So, yeah, Andrew lives a very morally clean life, and he doesn't need me as a guidepost to steer him in that direction.
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Bryce
You know, something that I respect about removing you and Andrew from the picture, just in general, Muslims, just in general, something I respect is they pray a lot more than Christians do. They fast a lot more than Christians do. They give A lot more than Christians do. They do a lot of things more than Christians do according to their religion, which I greatly respect and I admire a ton because I think that's something that we need to adopt, particularly in Westernized Christianity, a little bit liturgies and stuff like that, and Catholicism and orthodoxy and all that jazz. I mean, I just love and respect that a ton. But the idea of Jesus being God, it's so fascinating that that's just the pinnacle of everything because everyone has a perspective of Jesus.
- [66:21]
Tristan Tate
Well, I think when I gave my explanation of what it meant to be a Christian earlier, I feel like that can be adopted by people who don't fast, don't pray, pray, don't go to church, don't give money to charity, for example. But if you were to ask a Muslim what does it mean to be a Muslim, they'll say adherence to the five pillars of Islam. The five pillars of Islam list exactly the things you said. Well, it's the original declaration of faith. Fasting during the holy month of Ramadan, Zakat, which is giving a percentage of your money away to charity, praying five times daily, and a pilgrimage to Hajj at least once in your lifetime. So three of the things that you named are literally in the description of what a Muslim will tell you it means to be a Muslim. Whereas when you asked me what it meant to be a Christian, I said, you know, faith and belief in the resurrection of Jesus Christ. But I didn't list all of the Christian, Christian virtues of which I do do. I mean, I do do charity, I do pray, I do, I do, I do fast. That being their cornerstone is, is why you see that behavior. And I have a lot of respect for Islam as well, for sure.
- [67:22]
Bryce
You know, I definitely, I love that you said that because if we don't have faith, like for here's my process. I was going to end. I had depression and anxiety from like 8th grade till I was a junior in high school. And when I was 17, I was planning on taking my life because I thought it was the only way to get the pain to go away. I'm glad you didn't and thank you. And I had an encounter with Jesus there, surrendered my life to Jesus. And you know, although I respect all those things about Islam, my thought process was if I can't even work to fix the hole in my heart, there's not enough self help books that can help me. There's not enough vices that I can do that can fix a hole in my heart. How could I ever work to perfection. And in my mind I'm like, it's impossible. I can't work to perfection. I'm broken. I can't even fix my broken heart. And that's why I love that pinnacle of if you don't have faith in Jesus Christ, or if you do have faith in Jesus Christ and what he did on the cross and trust in it, it's going to produce the most genuine aspect of prayer and submission to God because it comes from the heart. It's like, I'm listening to you because I love you, not because I feel like you have to. You know what I mean?
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Tristan Tate
I believe that too. Yeah, but what do you think? And I know you're the one asking the questions here, but what do you think about the demonization of Muslims and Islam, particularly by the United States? Because when I'm in the United States, if I'm in. I don't know if I'm all across the world. You can go to, you know, most countries in the world and they at least understand like what Islam is and what they stand for. But I feel like you go to a lot of places in America and you say the word Muslim and they're like, ah, terrorist. Like, they don't really understand. I feel like the media, especially in, to back up these, these wars in Afghanistan, these wars in Iraq, have really demonized the Muslim community. What do you think about like, the coexistence between Christians and Muslims? Can it happen? Should it happen? Is there any common ground?
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Bryce
Well, I have a couple thoughts. First thing is I believe I value highly freedom of speech and freedom of religion. So here in America, do I want everyone to be a Christian? Yes. But I'm not in the sense where I want to force everyone to follow Jesus, if that makes sense. You know what's interesting is right now in the Middle east, they're rejecting the Islamic caliphate right now. And that's something that you don't really hear. Like, we have contacts from like underground churches in the Middle east where we'll hear one thing in America from like American media and then they tell us a different thing from news sources that are coming in.
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Tristan Tate
I ran a lot of underground churches. Yeah, I know that.
- [69:54]
Bryce
Yep. So, so, so like things like that where you're like, oh, okay, they're rejecting the Islamic caliphate. Like, you don't really hear that here right now. Here, here's the, here's the issues. And you know, something that I've done a hard time with is like I've used some strong rhetoric in the past about particularly about Islam, because there's just things that blow my mind. Like you're telling me Muhammad's gonna marry a six year old and like, we're gonna be okay with it. Like, like, you know, like I'm just like, okay, like I'm caught off guard with that. That I just, I, I don't like that. It rubs me the wrong way. I don't think that his encounter in the cave is reliable on, on how Islam was created.
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Tristan Tate
Well, no, no, Christian does.
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Bryce
Right, right.
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Tristan Tate
Yeah. And as me, as a Christian, I do not believe that's the case. And I'll say that even though I live in a Muslim country.
- [70:39]
Bryce
Right. Rightfully so. You know, I guess when it comes to coexisting, yes, I think we can coexist. I just believe. And you kind of hinted at it earlier and the politics of France, I mean. You want to talk about the politics of France?
- [70:54]
Tristan Tate
Yes.
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Bryce
I mean, Islam has a lot of influence on that. And I think. Yeah, I don't know, I don't know how to. What do you think?
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Tristan Tate
Well, I can, as a European, I could deep dive that a little bit more for you. You. What you have to understand about Islam is where it comes from. So I think before this conversation, I said I live in the, the Gulf Arab states. And you said, oh, that's where the moderate Islam is from. And I said, no, that's where the actual Islam is from. And all of these cities, Mecca and Saudi Arabia, Medina, all the cities around the genesis and the origin of the Islamic faith are the Gulf Arab states. So Islam belongs to them.
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Bryce
Them.
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Tristan Tate
Islam does not belong to the Pakistanis, Islam does not belong to the Nigerians. Islam belongs to the Gulf Arabs. As far as I'm concerned, if you take, if you take third world nations and you import the people into the first world, you get violence and you get people who do not know how to coexist with modern day Europeans in any feasible way. So, yes, I understand that a lot of the terrorist attacks, for example, they say, oh, this guy's a Muslim and he did a terrorist attack. No Gulf Arab that I know adheres to any of these dangerous ideas. And if you were to give, in fact, I'll give you the choice. We're in America, right? Your next door neighbors, they're moving in, right? They are a family of six Rwandan Christians. Take it straight from Rwanda, right? Now, the same people who I said committed that mass genocide, very poorly educated people. That's, you know, no offense to the good Rwandans out there, but that is the status quo or 5,6 Emirati Muslim Arabs. Who would you rather have as a neighbor?
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Bryce
Well, see, that's the thing where I would probably agree with you in a sense where, like, I don't think all Muslims are terrorists. Like, that's like a very big stereotype. Like, I had, I had Muslim terrorists. I said Muslim terrorists. I had Muslim neighbors not that long ago. I had to clarify that I had Muslim neighbors not that long ago. And they were very nice people. And I, you know, so I see
- [73:00]
Tristan Tate
the problems with the politics in France, not so much about religion, but as a, as a attempt to integrate the third world into the first world. And you can't do that. You can't do that no matter what religion these people are from. So, you know, there was a time when I lived in London a long time ago, and people from a certain country in the world used to fly their supercars into London. London was the place to hang out before they flooded it with third world migrants. And you'd see Ferraris and Lamborghinis and everything on the street. And all of them had Arabic license plates. And these people would stay at their hotel with their wives, go to shop in Harrods, drive their cars around and basically just enjoy London. Nobody ever thought those people were a problem because those are people from a first world nation, or I mean, technically not, but extremely well developed nation. And I live in an extremely well developed nation. And guess what? I do. Every Sunday in the heart of the Middle east, in Dubai, I drive 33 minutes from my house to an Orthodox church which the Muslim state built for people like me who live there to go and worship in. And when we talk about coexistence, you can rank the various religions. And I do have prejudices against some religions more so than others. And although I believe the Muslims are wrong about Jesus Christ, of course I do, because I'm not a Muslim. I would say that if our foundation for our faith is a belief in Jesus Christ, then I should at least rank the other faiths who believe different things from me from a perspective of love and respect for Jesus Christ in one way or another. And I think by that metric you would have to argue that Muslims come in second place.
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Bryce
I think if we're talking about, in the sense, can, like, we as people, can just people in general coexist?
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Tristan Tate
No, the religions can't coexist in the way that we all believe. Everyone's going to heaven. That's not what I meant.
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Bryce
Gotcha. I meant gotcha.
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Tristan Tate
I live in a Muslim country and I go To a church that the Muslims built for me to go and worship in. And they're perfectly happy for me to go there and worship Christ. Yeah. France's politics, I'm telling you, it's more about Third World and First World integration. If you flooded Paris with Emirati Arabs, Paris would be perfectly fine today.
- [75:09]
Bryce
So then that's the question I want to ask you, is what kind of Muslims do you think are involved in UK politics right now? Do you think that they're. Would you consider them extremists or would you consider them normal Muslims?
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Tristan Tate
Many of them. Many of them are extremists. And I think it was the former. The former Minister of Culture to the United Arab Emirates, who is a Muslim man, gave a speech that's still on YouTube to this day. You should watch it. It's about 11 years ago. And he said, you are soon going to find that England and the other European nations are a hotbed of Islamic extremism. Because these people think they understand Islam more than we do. And this is a warning to the West. I mean, the Muslim Brotherhood, all of these violent terrorist organizations that come out of countries like Pakistan, these are all outlawed in the Middle East. You will go to jail if you're a member of these organizations in the uae, for example. But in London, it's perfectly fine because the. The British, they think they understand Islam more than the people who, you know, spawned Islam, the Gulf Arabs, which is a foolish, foolish mistake. And because they're there in such high numbers, and let's say in the way that I would argue, the people who committed the Rwandan genocide are probably the worst Christians of the modern day. The people who adhere to these terrorist ideologies out of countries like Pakistan are certainly the worst Muslims around today because they are in England in such high numbers, they have absolutely no problem voting in, first of all, local councillors, you know, who adhere to those dangerous ideas. And England's politics. I wouldn't say I've been corrupted by Islam, no. But they've been corrupted by these dangerous ideologies, because the people they're bringing in from the Third World adhere to these dangerous ideologies.
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Bryce
Okay, so with your relationship with God, is there a temptation or a vice in your life that you feel like is one that you struggle with the most?
- [77:04]
Tristan Tate
Ah, personal questions. I like personal questions. But I would say, yes, I would say that I struggle with. I struggle with women more so than anything else. And that's something that I've never been asked as a Christian. I don't really go on Christian podcasts, all that often. And despite the obvious, obvious Petro Patrick, Bet David's, etc. But, yeah, I probably struggle with, you know, religion and I. I struggle with religion. I struggle with women more so than anything else. And I was asked this by my priest, wow, in Romania once, and I said something to him that didn't change his mind. You can't change these behavior. I don't know if you've ever met Orthodox monks before, but their minds don't change. But I essentially said, like, look, whatever my relationship with women has been in the past, because I have children with more than one woman, I will say that without going into too many details. And I said to my priest, I said, you know, I know the abortion numbers in Romania and in the United States, they're terrifying as well. I think it's 21 million abortions since the year 2000. An entire generation, generation of people our age, your age, should. Should be in existence, and they're not. And I said to my priest, I said, look, yes, I may have kids with more than one woman. This may not be the, you know, biblical view of how male and female relationships should work, but I'm not a hypocrite and I don't lie to him, certainly, and I don't lie to God. And there's not a single abortion attributed to me or my life or the way I live. And there never will be if I can help it, because, you know, people go to church all the time and they have their wife and their three kids, and they'll look at people like me, for example, I'll say it and say, oh, look, he is kids with more than one woman, a horrible person. Okay, fine. But when that guy was sleeping with his secretary, she was having abortions. You know, there was literal, what I consider murder taking place. And there's none of that on my record, which I find to be a lot cleaner than the guy with the picturesque life. But in his heart of hearts, he's been telling women to. To kill babies. You know what I mean? And that doesn't make what I do okay or what I did okay. And I don't say it does, but, you know, I don't have. I don't make any apologies for having the kids that I have, and I never will because they're amazing and I'm glad they're here.
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Bryce
Yeah. What? Well, thanks for sharing that. That was really cool and I respect that a lot. I respect your vulnerability. Like what? You know, it's interesting because sexual sin, out of all the sin in The Bible, it says it's different than any other sin because it's a sin against your own body, which children are a beautiful gift. I love that you said that. Like, how cool is that? That God works all things together for the good that you get to see children and you're raising. Beautiful gift. When you think of that, when you think of that one vice that you struggle with, is that like something that you feel like when. When it. When confronted with it. Right. Or Satan brings it to your face, you just can't say no to it.
- [80:18]
Tristan Tate
No, I can absolutely say no. And when I was young, I chose not to. I was normal. I was not religious for a long period in my life. And I feel like when you're disconnected from God and you're disconnected from spirituality, you don't have a radar to detect things that you should be able to otherwise detect. I'm not sure if you've ever struggled with atheism or anyone in this room has ever had religious convictions, but let me tell you, that's a fact. It takes away certain senses that you should have. You have more than just the five. And when I was young, certainly 22, 23, 24. Your age.
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Bryce
Yeah.
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Tristan Tate
I mean, you give me a beautiful woman who wants to go to bed with me, hands down. She looks good. She's beautiful. I'm going to bed with this woman. That is absolutely not the case anymore. Absolutely not the case. Because as I slowly. Because it wasn't an overnight epiphany, as I slowly fell back into faith and fell back into Christianity, I feel like my radar for spiritually toxic things was slowly turned up over time. And I found myself next to these women who are undoubtedly beautiful, unable to sleep, you know, while they're sleeping next to me. I found myself uncomfortable with the situation I was in. And I don't think you can ever feel more lonely than when you're in bed with a woman who you just don't care about at all and know she doesn't care about you too. I don't think there's an emptier experience. I'd rather be by myself, quite literally. So I think my radar is much more dialed in than it used to be. So, no, it's not a situation where I can't say no. In fact, in my position, I can't fly to any city in the world. And I'm not. This isn't a boast, but without women basically soliciting me to meet them, and I say no to almost everybody all the time. So, yeah, no, it's not something that I can't resist. It's something I do resist day to day. But as a younger man, I certainly struggled with it because I didn't think there were any negative consequences to it, because I didn't have my radar dialed in enough to detect how spiritually bad it was for me. But certainly I live much cleaner today than I did in my past.
- [82:24]
Bryce
Do you want to get married?
- [82:26]
Tristan Tate
Well, you know, I. I was hoping the topic of marriage would come up because I think I'm going to share a perspective that you've never heard before.
- [82:32]
Bryce
Okay.
- [82:33]
Tristan Tate
And that is that I believe. I mean, we hear of all these instances throughout history of governments hijacking religion to make people behave in a certain way. And America is the hotbed of this debate. And by all means, most of them are hypocrites. You see these people pontificating online about, you have to have your good Christian marriage, and then two years later they're divorced. Or there was that famous scandal recently. I can't remember her name, that blonde woman, big trad Christian influencer who worked for some other big trad Christian influencer. It turns out she was, like, banging her boss on the side. This happens all the time. So these people pontificate, but they're not honest about their sin. Sin like I am. I like to be a very honest person because you can't lie from. You can't lie to gods. What's the point in lying to your podcast and pretending I'm something I'm not? You know, as though he doesn't know what I do in my private time. I feel like the institution of marriage and feel free to push back on. This has been hijacked by the political class. Interesting to make people do certain things and behave in certain ways. And here's the way I describe it. People say to me, well, Tristan, you're not married. I'm like, yes, you're correct, I'm not married. And they say, well, you know, the Bible says, because I'm an American and I'm married to my wife, and the Bible says this. The Bible says this and has to be one man, one woman, and you have to get married. Like, okay, well, that's very interesting. But I'll tell you what, the Bible does not say the Bible nor any religious book in the world. The Bible, the Quran. No book you will read describes a marriage as what Americans describe a marriage as a marriage. Today, if you get married in the United States is a covenant between you and your wife and the government. The Bible does Not say that's what marriage is, but the government has convinced people. Okay, Yep. You get married now I have a gun to the guy's head. Divorce court, divorce law. I know how much taxes you're paying. Together, I can survey you. I know everything about you guys because you're now married and filing joint tax returns. I know who's in a sexual relationship with who. Nowhere in the Bible does it describe a marriage to be between a government and a man and a woman. And that's exactly what is sold to you by the Christians in the United States. All the young men listening. And I'm not saying don't get married, by the way. I wouldn't use your podcast to. To. To preach something that, you know, you yourself would. Would disagree with. What I'm saying is when all of these people are saying you need to get married to your wife and have kids within that marriage, there is no passage in the Bible you could read to me right now, and you know the Bible better than me, that says it's a covenant between your government and the man and the wife. So I'm a big fan of marriages that take place only in church, that are contracts between you and your wife and God that your priest overseas and the witnesses at your wedding know you are married because they are there. I am absolutely not a fan of any marriage where you have to sign papers with the government because the government isn't listed as a party in marriage in the Bible or any other holy book. And they've hijacked the institution of marriage and they push it down young men's throat as a contract between a man and a woman in a government. And that. That's not biblical.
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Bryce
So. So I agree. There's nothing in the Bible that says it's a contract between man, woman, and the government.
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Tristan Tate
Thank you.
- [85:37]
Bryce
Question. Let's talk about. Let's talk about. I got so many thoughts. Okay, okay. Let's talk about. Because I like to call this exact word fallacy. Okay, we don't see that exact word. Okay, let's use another example. That has nothing to do in marriage. Jesus doesn't say grand theft auto is a sin.
- [85:54]
Tristan Tate
True.
- [85:54]
Bryce
He does that mean people shouldn't be punished when they steal someone else's car and take it for a joyride?
- [85:59]
Tristan Tate
Of course. Well, I mean, stealing is. You're not supposed to steal in the Bible. And I understand exactly what you're saying. And on this particular example, I don't think it's me finding a loophole, and I don't think it's me finding a loophole because up until 130, 140 years ago, marriage contracts between governments did not exist. Every single great Christian leader in European history that we've read about and that we know about, of which I know most of them, I'm a history buff, none of them got married and involved a contract between their government and them and their wife. Nor so did all the common Christian people. People. When Europe was 99 Christian, just throughout its entire history, every single peasant, every night, every lord, every king, they would get married. And it was a covenant between them and the witnesses, which had to be at the wedding and their church. There was absolutely no government contracts for marriage up until 140 years ago. So how can the Bible and the Christian faith, which. Which began. I mean, it didn't begin with Jesus, but the modern, the Christian faith, as I understand it, began with the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. How could it have been wrong about marriage for. For 1,850 years before suddenly people realize, ah, it needs government contracts in this. That's what we're missing. That's definitely what, you know, the Bible teaches. And I simply do not believe that to be the case, and no one will convince me otherwise.
- [87:22]
Bryce
So, yeah, I think that's the ultimate question is like, what is marriage? That's something that actually me and Chris and our friends have been talking about. It's like, what does it mean to be married? If I take this ring off and throw it over, you put it on, does that mean we're married? No. Do I want to get married to you? No. Do I want to be friends with you? Yes.
- [87:36]
Tristan Tate
Thanks, bro.
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Bryce
Yeah, but just, you know, you put on my ring, that doesn't mean that we're married. So it's like, well, what does it mean to be married? And things like that. So let's exclude your perspective of or like, you know, you can consider it. But let's side question onto. Okay. Marriage isn't man, woman, in a government contract. Do you still want to get married?
- [87:58]
Tristan Tate
I would. I would get married, yes.
- [88:01]
Bryce
Because I love. I just got married in January, so I've been married for like three months.
- [88:05]
Tristan Tate
Government contract.
- [88:06]
Bryce
And government contract sealed the deal. We got married in January 10th. And, you know, thank you so much.
- [88:16]
Tristan Tate
I really do mean that.
- [88:17]
Bryce
No. Thank you for saying that. And we. And you know, it's so interesting because marriage, marriage between a man and a woman coming under a covenant with God saying it, and whatever it may be, in sickness and health and riches and poverty, like, I'm going to be there for you. I'm going to commit myself to you. It is a newfound glimpse and perspective of Jesus that I don't think I would be able to have if I wasn't married. And I'm not talking government contract here. I'm just talking about marriage, a covenant with my wife.
- [88:45]
Tristan Tate
So you would be able to have this without signing those government papers that Uncle Sam makes you sign?
- [88:50]
Bryce
You know, I'm still trying to figure it out because I believe that a marriage, and this is actually something I've been thinking about literally within the past week. Let's say that a marriage is a covenant with God and a witness. God is omnipresent, he's always present. So we need a witness. Okay. Does that mean, mean you can get married right now? Because. Because I have a few buddies in the room.
- [89:12]
Tristan Tate
Well, I'm against same sex marriage personally, and I hope you are too, but
- [89:15]
Bryce
yeah, okay, so, so then it, so then what is marriage? Is marriage, is there an original design for marriage? I would say that God designed man and female to come together.
- [89:25]
Tristan Tate
Indeed.
- [89:27]
Bryce
And physically? We could say that, yes, we would be able to tell physically as well in that way. So honestly, something that we've been trying to figure out is like, what does it mean to be married? Because then it's, oh, well then does sex seal the deal as marriage? Because in covenants, bloodshed was a sign of a covenant. And you know, if you have two virgins that get married, a woman bleeds, is that a sign? But then it's like, well, what about two quadriplegics that get married? So going down the rabbit hole. So it's honestly something I've been wrestling with within the past week and conversations occasionally that we've been having.
- [90:02]
Tristan Tate
But well, there's a rabbit hole here. And I remember very much when I was falling back into Christianity. Some people will read Bible verses to you and they'll say how unchristian these Bible verses are. I'm sure you've dealt with this because you've spoken to atheists all the time. And there is a passage in the Bible and I'm going to misquote it for sure, that hints that, that if a man rapes a woman and she falls pregnant, that he has a duty to marry her. Now I've had this thrown at me by atheists all the time. Keep in mind that the world is a very different place today than it was when the Bible was first written and when the, when these, and these, when these old laws were certainly put into place. Because this is Old Testament. And I meditated on that for a while, and I thought, why on earth would something so horrible that can happen to a woman? Why on earth would the Old Testament say that he has a duty to marry her? And meditating on this, going down the rabbit hole. And again, this is just speculation from my various readings and my various interpretations, is that in this modern world, women can live on their own, exist on their own, work on their own, provide for themselves on their own, should they so choose. But in the ancient world, being a woman with child, without a man to provide for you and care for you meant death of you and your child at some point. It meant destitution, it meant poverty, it meant living on the streets, it meant a life of begging. And I feel like. And I feel like, although I would absolutely not advocate for this in this day and age, the people who wrote that understood marriage to be a duty of care over somebody, the love and the provision and the care over a woman where she is yours, and through sickness and through health, like you said, he takes care of her, provides for her. And I read that passage in deep confusion, and it still confuses me to this day. And I don't have the answers for exactly why that's written as more of an obligation than a bonus. It's not being rewarded for doing something heinous, it's being obligated for doing something heinous, and you're obligated to take care of that person. Now, I would absolutely never, whether it be by accident or on purpose, father a child that I turned my back on, turn my back on that child's mother, left her to fend for herself in the world. So this is definitely not the. The Christian view of marriage. But certainly in my own mind, I feel like if a man is with a woman and they have children together and he provides for her, provides the house, works hard, breaks his back to give her everything her and the child needs, whether or not they have a government contract or not. I would say that that couple and that family, family is living within a marriage to me. And I don't think there's any necessarily 100% correct answer on this. My only hard line on marriage, and I'm just brainstorming, is that it's definitely not a government contract. I think that's the only view I really stand by. But the short answer is I don't know.
- [93:22]
Bryce
So just out of curiosity, what exactly is your pushback on the government contract? I guess, like, you know, like saying, oh, we got married on this day to this location. Here's the minister, like, what, what exactly is the pushback?
- [93:33]
Tristan Tate
Oh, I'm against driving licenses. I'm against licenses to carry firearms. I'm against every government contract. Every time the government. Every time the government has the power to do anything, I will say abuse it. I will want the government to have, have rule over anything I do.
- [93:46]
Bryce
I have my concealed carry license from the town I'm from.
- [93:49]
Tristan Tate
Yes.
- [93:49]
Bryce
And because I'm from like a small country town, it was like the easiest thing of all time.
- [93:52]
Tristan Tate
It should be.
- [93:53]
Bryce
I literally just walked in, they took my picture and I got it. Which.
- [93:58]
Tristan Tate
Why should that, why should they be allowed to and have to take your picture for you to own a gun? I mean, your constitution guarantees you the right to bear arms. So what's the government putting extra steps in place for if it's not going to be a measure of control? And I'm just not a fan of any government measure of control. We were speaking specifically about marriage, but yeah, I'm against the government having control over any aspect of my life. I'm really that kind of guy, you know?
- [94:22]
Bryce
Yeah. So I'd love to. Man, I hope you get to. I really do hope you get to experience marriage one day. Because I love the. And marriage is such a beautiful picture because in the Bible, well, a typical Galilean wedding would be a betrothal. So, like the father of the mother, I mean, the father of the bride, and then the groom, they would come together and they'd like verbally vow, like, hey, we're gonna do this thing. And then the, the groom would leave and he would go build a room onto his father's house. And the bride would go and put on her white dress because she didn't know the day or the hour that he would get done, finish building and come. So once he got done, finished building, the groom would enter into the city blowing trumpets, being like, I'm here for my girl. Then he'd run in, whether it was 2am or 2pm and scoop her up and then he'd take her back to that room. And for seven days they would love each other very well in there for seven days. And then they would come out and they would have this marriage supper feast of both the family celebrating and. And you can see the imagery of the end times. Like, Jesus is like, I'm going to go and build a room on my father's house for you. And then when he returns, trumpets blowing in the sky.
- [95:31]
Tristan Tate
Indeed.
- [95:32]
Bryce
And coming on a white horse. And he's looking for a pure, spotless bride. And all these beautiful. Just the beautiful imagery of marriage and that understanding your relationship with Jesus. Like, I remember standing. Standing at the altar, and my bride's coming down in the white dress. And I had heard this analogy so much before, but it just hit me so much more. Like, imagine being a groom and you're at the end of the aisle and you're waiting for your bride to come, and the doors open, and she's got a beer in her hand and she's kissing another dude, and then the door's open and she's like, oh, shoot. And she, like, shoves the guy out of the frame and throws the beer away. You'd be like, oh, heck, no, I'm not marrying you.
- [96:13]
Tristan Tate
And that's maybe not the moment that the door swings open, but that's unfortunately, a lot of modern marriages anyway.
- [96:19]
Bryce
But we'll get into that, unfortunately, you know. And so then it's like, man, that's how. That's what Jesus. It costs something to follow him, you know, it costs my preferences. Comfort, maybe. Things that I'm used to, things that feel good to my flesh.
- [96:33]
Tristan Tate
I agree.
- [96:34]
Bryce
And it's like, man, I don't want to. And that really hit me on my wedding day was like, man, Mattie is full devotion to me walking down this aisle going like, I'm ready to commit myself to you.
- [96:44]
Tristan Tate
But I wouldn't see your marriage as any less valid if no signatures have been put to pass paper. I feel like if I were to get married, I would get married. I know the church, I know the. The priest who would conduct the ceremony. I know the witnesses I'd bring, and I know I wouldn't be signing any contracts, especially with the Romanian government, of all places. And I wouldn't see my marriage as invalid at all. Keep in mind, lots of places in the world Christian countries, certainly second and third world Christian countries, don't have this paperwork infrastructure, and they do get married in that way. My baptism. I reconducted my baptism last year. There's no government contracts to say I was baptized. And I don't think it's not valid because I didn't sign a government signature saying, I'm officially a member of the Orthodox Church. Now, I don't see the government paperwork as necessary. So I think that's just where. And I think you understand what I'm saying.
- [97:36]
Bryce
Yeah, I do.
- [97:36]
Tristan Tate
But when I say that the institution of marriage has been hijacked by governments, a lot of Americans will absolutely disagree with me and say, Nope, nope. If it's not on paper, it's not official and you're not really married, I'm like, well, I would say that you are and you would say that you're not. And that's just my opinion on it. Yeah. You know, yeah.
- [97:56]
Bryce
Interesting. I'm gonna look more into it. It's so funny that you brought that up because we were, we were talking about that not that long ago.
- [98:01]
Tristan Tate
So I have, I, believe me, I've deeply meditated all of these problems, especially when I look at the way my own life is set up. And I don't do it in a way that tries to justify the way that I, I live by the way. I really don't. I just search for answers and I try and search for what things actually mean.
- [98:17]
Bryce
So going full circle with talking about that vice of women and then marriage and all this full circle with women being like something that you feel like is a big vice that you currently struggle with or have struggled with, what do you think it would cost to fully close that gap?
- [98:32]
Tristan Tate
Well, that depends what you mean, fully close that gap. Because I mean, I do not watch porn and I do not masturbate. I think it's a very bad habit for men.
- [98:41]
Bryce
Amen.
- [98:41]
Tristan Tate
And I, I tell men all the time to stay away from that kind of content and to stay away from that kind of behavior. And when I do, you know, people quite rightfully bring up things that I did in my past and they say, oh, but you said this 10 years ago, you said this 12 years ago. I understand. I'm a 37 year old man. I've lived a very complicated life. And throughout my life I've learned all sorts of various lessons so I can live without women. I mean, I lived without women when I was in prison 120 something days. And no, I was absolutely not, you know, what's the word? I was not indulged in any self gratification, let's just say in prison. Absolutely not. It's a hard line that I draw in my life. So could I stay away from women entirely? Sure. The, the question is, at this point in my life, having lived the way I've lived, what does staying away from women look like? Does that mean telling the mothers of my kids, leave me alone, I'm gonna try and marry this woman and just stay pure for her. But then who provides for them and who takes care of them? It's, I think I've created a bit of a awkward situation for myself, if that makes sense. To be perfectly frank. And Perfectly honest with you. So the best I can do at this point in my life is, you know, know, continue to work my stuff. And, you know, I would say women is my only vice. Not one. Not a vice I've struggled with. And it's not even a vice anymore because I could take them or leave them, but it's certainly the only vice that I, you know, even have in my life. Yeah, but I wouldn't think, and this is personal, and everyone here can disagree, I wouldn't think that if I met a woman and married her and in one way or another, turn the backs, Turn my back on the mother of the mothers of my children, I don't feel God would be happy with me for doing that because, you know, this was a very. I was at a very different point in my life when I was. When these children were conceived. And I have a responsibility as their father to take care of them and their mothers. So, you know, I feel like I'm a husband to multiple women, I guess, because there'll never be a point in my life when I stop working and being the best version of myself I can be to give them an easy and a comfortable life. Sure.
- [100:55]
Bryce
Well, not that it matters, but, like, I wouldn't want you to do that either.
- [100:58]
Tristan Tate
And I'll never.
- [100:59]
Bryce
I don't think God would want you to just be like, yeah, just see you guys. Like, I'm going, you know, I've got
- [101:03]
Tristan Tate
a wife now, and I got officially married in the church, and I signed the government paperwork. So all of you just move on
- [101:07]
Bryce
with your lives, you know, and that's something that I really respect about you, is you're very, you know, so many people want to blame shit, and you don't blame shift. You take accountability.
- [101:19]
Tristan Tate
I did all the things that I'm
- [101:21]
Bryce
responsible for, and I think that's admirable. And God would obviously want you to take care of those children and things like that. So I think that's a beautiful thing. And, yeah, I respect that a lot about you. I respect the accountability and everything that you do.
- [101:34]
Tristan Tate
Thank you.
- [101:34]
Bryce
I mean, okay, you've been through an arrest, accusations, ongoing trial. Being a dad, being a businessman.
- [101:44]
Tristan Tate
Not ongoing trial, by the way.
- [101:45]
Bryce
Oh, it's done. It finished.
- [101:47]
Tristan Tate
Well, it's finished for now because I'm dealing with the most corrupt justice system in the Western world. So, yes, I have beaten the case I actually saw. Will they come back and try it again? Maybe. And will they do this for the next 20 years of my life? Maybe. But as of right now, I have absolutely no indictments in the court and no charges against me, and I'm free to do anything I like. Will the Romanians try again? Sure. But the Romanians told me you were a bad person. I wouldn't believe them. I see a lot of hate online, and I'm not going to get into the. The personal life of Charlie Kirk, God rest his soul, because I really liked the guy and I admired the guy very much, but I see, I'm not sure if you're aware of this. Erica Kirk was charged or at least accused of human trafficking in Romania. Did you know this? And I have always come to her defense irregardless of what people want to say about her on this one particular issue. I'm like, okay, so the Romanians called her a human trafficker and seized and stole all the money of the charity she worked for at the time and said that it was proceeds of human trafficking. No, Erica Kirk was not human trafficking in Romania. Absolutely not. This is the most corrupt justice system in the Western world, world. And when they accuse me of doing something, you have a small percentage of people who'd be like, well, you could trust the Romanians. But I'm like, erica Kirk, she was not human trafficking people in Romania. Exactly the same accusation they tried to levy against me. But, yeah, don't take anything the Romanian state says seriously ever is my advice to anybody watching at home. But as of right now, I have beaten the case. But they're going to keep this open for probably 20 years and keep trying to swing at me again and again and again with this.
- [103:29]
Bryce
Well, I saw a picture of Yalls lawyer I on social media.
- [103:34]
Tristan Tate
Which. Which lawyer?
- [103:35]
Bryce
I don't know. I just. It was like on my feed the other day, it was like him and Andrew and I don't know, it just made me crack up because he, like. He like posted a picture and he's like. He's like, beat this case onto the next one. Yeah, that's such a funny post. He just, like, looked really funny on there. Well, all I could do is laugh
- [103:52]
Tristan Tate
and lean into it now. It's just like, no matter how much I win or how much these cases keep getting beaten, people are going to still levy these accusations, accusations against me. But I understand what it really is. I understand that it's when people talk about me that they don't talk about my ideas. They talk about the accusations levied against me by the Romanian government. I mean, Romania, by the way, has the exact same level of judicial and integrity as Zambia. It's on the exact same level. And because it's in Europe, people seem to, you know, think that they actually had evidence against me at any point. But if you were accused by the Zambians of being a money launderer, I'd say, well, who cares what Zambia says? Says, you know. But we're talking about the exact same level of judicial integrity. And things will come to light in the next year or so that will open everybody's eyes, even those who dislike me, that I'm certainly not a criminal of any in any way, shape or form.
- [104:42]
Bryce
I mean, you've been through the arrest.
- [104:43]
Tristan Tate
Yep.
- [104:44]
Bryce
Prison.
- [104:44]
Tristan Tate
Yep.
- [104:45]
Bryce
Beat the trial, businessman, dad, everything in between. What is Tristan Tate chasing right now?
- [104:51]
Tristan Tate
That's very interesting. I think that over the next few years, you're going to see me disappear from the Internet. Not because I'm tired of it and not because I'm bored of it, but because I feel like I've shot most of my ammo. I think that most of the young men who follow me understand what I expect of them, what I want them to do, what I want them to be like, the change I expect them to try to make in the world. And when I walk down the streets, I can't go anywhere, anywhere without being mobbed by admirers. Not a single person has ever come up to me and said anything negative in public, no matter which event I go to, whether it be Hong Kong, Kazakhstan, Uzbekistan, Bahamas, all the country, Turkey, the countries I've been to. This year alone, I'm surrounded by fans, primarily young men, and I feel like they all understand my messaging at this point. So you are going to see me fade away from the Internet in the years to come, because I want to concentrate on raising my children. I think there is no greater mission in a man's life than that, and that's what I want to prioritize.
- [105:54]
Bryce
If this is too personal of a question, we can always bounce off. It just came over. I know when you were in prison, you had a kid was born when
- [106:01]
Tristan Tate
I was in prison. Yes. That did make the newspaper.
- [106:03]
Bryce
Yeah. One of your children was born when you were in prison. Was that hard for you not being there?
- [106:08]
Tristan Tate
There's lots of things that were stolen from me, more so than my freedom and more so than my finances. There are so many things that were stolen from me by this saga I went through. And all I can do because I can't go back in time and I cannot change these things, and I certainly can't reason with the animals who are attacking me. All I can do is do my best to try to, I guess, make sure that those responsible, you know, do face justice. And I can't talk more about that, but a lot of people know what I'm doing right now and to repair any damage done to my life, myself. I mean, these people are never going to apologize to me. The worst, of course, was when I was in house arrest. My mother suffered a heart attack, had a triple heart bypass surgery. She had, I think, a 10 or 15% chance of survival. And she was in hospital in England on what may have well been her deathbed. And I requested to the Romanian authorities the permission to go visit England, and I was denied. So, I mean, that was quite a bad one. My mother is still alive and with us.
- [107:17]
Bryce
Praise God.
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Tristan Tate
I remember I tweeted when I first got out of jail that my grandmother was sick in Alabama and that she was dying and that I needed to go see her because she's already lost my father. She already lost her son. And me and Andrew are his sons. And I was talking online about my grandmother and the haters or the people who think I'm responsible for any crime time were saying, oh, he's trying to use his sick grandmother to get out of jail and to get to the United States to run away. And I was released on February 26, 2025. On February 11, just a few days before that, she did die. So I never saw her again. So the things that were stolen from me by this process I will never get back. But all I can do is continue to live my life and. And hold those who did this responsible as best as I can.
- [108:06]
Bryce
Yeah, so before you were a Christian, you were atheist. And I mean, assuming that as an atheist, when you die, the perspective is like, oh, it goes all black. We go into the fertilizer pit, whatever.
- [108:18]
Tristan Tate
Yeah, that was the perspective.
- [108:20]
Bryce
And now it's heaven. Eternity with Jesus. All of the above. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being absolutely certain, 1 being not certain at all, all. How confident are you that you'd go to heaven if you died right now?
- [108:33]
Tristan Tate
You know, I don't think it's my place to give a number, which sounds like a cop out, but I'm doing my absolute best. I'm doing my absolute best to do good in this world. I have absolute faith in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, which I quoted earlier as the cornerstone to Christianity. I don't feel like I go to church on Sundays to try to move my point score along. I don't believe I pray to move my point score along. I'm very careful when I pray not to ever ask for anything personally for myself, just to ask for things like strength and wisdom to help me deal with the situations that I find myself in. I don't live in a way that I'm trying to shift this needle. So I've never thought about what my position on it is going to be, because I feel like God knows the truth of all of our hearts and it's his place to judge us ultimately.
- [109:24]
Bryce
So I personally feel like a 10. 10. And I.
- [109:27]
Tristan Tate
But if I were to guess your number, I'd probably say 10, too.
- [109:31]
Bryce
Okay.
- [109:31]
Tristan Tate
I'm talking about me. Like, my life hasn't always been so perfect.
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Bryce
Well, I said, oh, me either. I've made a lot of mistakes and I'm broken. And the reason. The reason why I ask and said that is because you said something. You said something that. So I. I like to ask that question to everyone under the sun, whether we're in the street or whatever. And, you know, the typical answer is like, oh, I'm a seven. A seven. People always land at seven or six or eight. And I'm like, why is that? And they go, well, I've just made mistakes and whatever I've done wrong. And I noticed you saying I don't go to church because I'm trying to move the needle and things like that. And the reason why I say I'm a 10 is because neither of us can do anything to get into heaven. It's about what Jesus has done. That's why. That's where I get my confidence from, is Jesus and me doing good things are a byproduct of my love for him. Like we talked about earlier, there's a cool analogy where it's. I don't know if you're a big sports guy, but not all of us will surprise you. Well, let's use sports as an example. Let's say we had two courtside tickets to the Los Angeles Lakers basketball game. And I gave you those two courtside tickets, and you went to Crypto arena and you scanned the tickets and you went up there, and the security guy's gonna stop me. He's gonna like, wait a second. Like, why are you trying to get courtside? And you're gonna be like, well, I got tickets. And you're going to be like, well, where'd you get those tickets? And you're going to be like, well, Bryce gave them to me. They were a gift. And that's why I get to sit courtside. And I'm like, in the same way Christ is the ticket. I can't look at God at the heavenly gates and go, oh, well, I prayed a bunch. And, oh, look at all the podcasts I did for you. And look at all this. That's Matthew, chapter seven. And Jesus says, depart from me. I never knew you. Because people put so much faith in the things that they do rather than in the one who has done it.
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Tristan Tate
Well, I'm on the same page as you there. I'm on the absolute same page as you.
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Bryce
Come on.
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Tristan Tate
I think we covered that earlier when I. When I did say, like, people go to church, etc, however, they cannot explain in two or three sentences why they have faith in Jesus's resurrection. I'm like, well, that's the cornerstone.
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Bryce
Y.
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Tristan Tate
So forget everything else. Yep.
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Bryce
If you. If you stood before God tonight, what do you think he'd say to you?
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Tristan Tate
I don't know. I can't possibly know. No, of course, is the answer. But I would like to think that he knows that I'm trying to make a positive change in this world. I'd like to think he knows that I've done my absolute best to instill at least some good qualities and good attributes in every single young man who listened to me. I'd like to think that he would tell me that I didn't waste the opportunity he gave me and the platform he gave me me. I mean, for example, right now, as we see here, right now, I could be in a meeting right now that could make me a lot of money, and here I am instead, which, as fun as this is, isn't going to make me any money. I like to feel that he tell me I didn't waste the platform he gave me and the opportunities that he gave me to tell young men to be better, better people, stronger people, more disciplined people. Everything that I do preach. Or maybe he might say something completely different, I don't know. But neither of us know that. Yeah.
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Bryce
Yeah. Well, I'd love to preach, pray for you before we close out, if that's okay. I'd love to. You know, I've really enjoyed our time together. I love you a lot. I knew I'd like you, but I really do like you a lot and I appreciate you a ton. So I'd love to pray for you before we close. Jesus, we thank you for today. God, we thank you for Tristan. We thank you for his life. God, thank you for allowing us to get to sit down and talk together. Lord, would you just continue to bless him? Bless his family, bless his business, bless him and his brother God, would you just continue to use him in a mighty way. Speak to him daily, convict him of things, bring more things in his life. And thank you for who you are, Lord. Lord, we just lift you up. We thank you, thank you for the ability to have a conversation. And God, we love you. We thank you. In Jesus name, Amen.
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Tristan Tate
Amen.