Dating as a Catholic—especially in college—can feel overwhelming, confusing, and high-pressure. Between time constraints, expectations, fear of temptation, and the desire to “do it right,” many people end up stuck or avoiding dating altogether.

In this episode of the Catholic Coaching Podcast, Matt and Erin coach through real survey responses from Catholic college students who shared their biggest struggles with dating. Using a mindset-coaching lens, they unpack the thoughts and beliefs that quietly block freedom, clarity, and authentic connection.

Topics include:
• Time management and the belief that relationships are “too much work”
• Unrealistic expectations of holiness and “being on fire for God”
• Disappointment, rejection, and hearing “I’m not ready for a relationship”
• Fear of temptation, lust, and avoiding dating altogether
• How unspoken rules and internal manuals create pressure and anxiety

Matt and Erin explore how to approach dating not as a problem to solve or a finish line to reach—but as an opportunity for formation and encounter. They also discuss how processing emotions, clarifying expectations, and surrendering control can lead to healthier, more virtuous relationships.

This episode is especially helpful for Catholic college students, young adults, and anyone preparing for SEEK or navigating dating with faith and intention.

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Catholic Dating in College Part 2 | What’s Blocking You