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Hey, it's Kathy. I just wanted to share a bonus episode from the workshop that we're doing right now. It's been so much fun and so good in there, such good energy. And there's more live calls, so. So you can still join us. Don't miss out. It's free. You can go to Kathy Heller.com workshop and take a listen to what we did in day three. All right, so today we are going to dive in and we're going to talk about two big things. We're going to talk about purpose. You are here because you've been assigned. You are needed. God doesn't make extras. There are no extras. You are deliberately created to do something that only you can do. And so we're going to talk about purpose. And we're also going to talk about money because we spend way too much bandwidth on the conversation around money. And we've got to clean that up, heal that relationship a little bit and allow more abundance to come into Your life, Right? Like, I think every girl can. Can say that we spend too much energy on thinking about food or our body or our summer body or whatever. It's like there's just too much bandwidth around that. And it'd be really nice, right, to just heal that, just clean it up. So we eat when we're hungry, we take care of ourselves, we let ourselves have a piece of cake, and we just call it a day, right? Like, we just need to heal some of this stuff. And so I find that I have coached thousands and thousands of people, and I've gotten some dms and people like, how do I get into your coaching program? I really do think it's the best one out there, if I'm being so bold. But the reason I'm talking about money is because after coaching thousands and thousands of people, mostly women, there is just so much healing that needs to be done with money. And it can be done. That's the thing. It actually can be done. So let's talk a little bit about money and let's see if we can start to make sense of what this whole thing is and how to right the ship. Because you can't have more of something that you have a bad relationship with because you don't realize that you are the block. You are sabotaging it. You are in the way. And there's no good reason for that. So, number one, the Hebrew word for money, okay, is shefa, okay? That is the word for abundance. Now, this is something important to know. Money, okay? Shefa is a divine flow. What does that mean? It's not limited. It's not a limited resource. Okay? Some of you have heard the expression of mana from heaven. There is so much mana. There is so much divine flow, and it's always flowing and it never stopped flowing. And it's the reason why there is gravity and it's the reason why there is so much abundance in the. In the nature there. It's the reason why the market is the market. And we're going to keep unpacking this, but we have been told so much through culture, through movies, through books, that actually changes the way we see abundance, and it actually keeps us from accessing it. And we're going to unpack that a little bit now. So one thing I want you to understand is that on a kabbalistic level, whatever abundance is flowing in, it doesn't come through other people, right? Your abundance is not determined by somebody else. It's determined by your connection to the divine. Right? You are an energetic being. Atoms are what? They're 99% an atom. Everything is made of atoms, and atoms are 99% energy and 1% particle. So if the whole world is made of atoms, that means that 99% of the world is not physical. It's energy. It's spinning molecules, okay? The world is energetic. So when it comes to life force, right, when somebody, God forbid, passes away in an ER and they want to bring the person back, what do they do? They try to revive the person by creating an electric circuit to bring the energetic of the human back into the body, right? It's energy, okay? So everything is energy. So when it comes to money, as well as all kinds of energy, that is an unlimited resource that is flowing constantly. And where is it flowing? It's flowing from the energy source of all energy, right? The sun is never going to stop beating down. All right? So you are not trying to get this thing because you have to try to find it somehow. You're just learning to receive it because it's flowing all the time. It is already here. There is energy, this kind of abundance. I'm telling you to suspend your disbelief. There is an energy of abundance, abundance flowing down from the divine all the time. And you are what, what is the Hebrew word for vessel? The Hebrew word is klee. You are meant to be a vessel. You are meant to be open and aligned and to be a clear channel so that abundance is something that you can receive. But when you're constricted by guilt or fear, right? Then the flow is not able to enter. Has anyone ever done acupuncture? What does acupuncture do? Why is it a Chinese medicine remedy that's been around for thousands of years? Because it works. Why does it work? Because what does this little needle do? What is the needle made of metal? What does it do? It changes the flow of the energy. Because when energy gets blocked, then we are not in flow. We keep going back to all of these different rivers leading to the same ocean. We are an energetic being. We are an energetic being. And when we're carrying the energy of guilt and shame and fear, we're blocked. Our vessel is not open and there's no way that we can receive more because we have like a thimble sized vessel that's a. That's all that we could receive. Because we have become so much more identified with our body, with being somebody. We're not a body. We're so much bigger than a body. You're nobody. Because what are you? You're someone. You're some of the one you're a soul, right? And we're going to do exercise in a couple minutes, which is going to help you see this. But when you identify so much with your story, with your ego, which by the way, your ego has changed a zillion times, you had a different haircut in sixth grade, you had different backpack in fourth grade. You had different friends in ninth grade. You like different music. That's always changing. Your story, the Persona, it's always changing. But what has never changed is the essence of who you are. And that was you from conception. That was you from the moment you took your first breath, from the moment your parents laid eyes on you. That is you. Pure, divine, divine, conscious, golden, beautiful, light, wisdom, kindness, energy, energy for days. Babies come in the room, they give everybody energy. They're not trying to earn it, they just give it because they're so potent and present, right? So who you are is not this ego, this identity of ego is now filled with a racket. It's filled with fear, it's filled with shame. It doesn't feel worthy. We've got to get that out of the way. Because so much of the reason you're not receiving the abundance that you would like to receive is because the ego has become e egocentric. And we've got to become soul centered, not self centered. Okay? So the Kabbalah explains, Judaism explains that when God created the world, right? This infinite endless light actually created space in all there was was light. And we know there was a Big Bang. Kabbalah talks about the Big Bang thousands of years before science agreed upon that there was a Big Bang. There was a beginning to time. And the cabal lays out every single thing that happened in the Big Bang. And it knew that before it had a microscop, it just knew the whole story. It said that at one point the universe was smaller than the pupil of an eye. It expanded, expanded, expanded. It was all this light. And one day the light burst and shattered into a million pieces. This is exactly what it says in the science, which matches exactly what it says in the in Jewish wisdom. So what we understand is that what happened is when there was a shattering of all this light, right? God in God's infinite wisdom, made space for us. To do what? To receive this light. And then all of these things that were made, human beings and trees and planets, are all spinning because they're receiving from the source, they're receiving energy, right? If you had a waffle iron and you put it on your desk, I would say to you, well, that's an interesting paperweight. But what would be even better is if you take the plug of the waffle iron. And what do you do with it? You plug it into the what? What do you do with the plug of the waffle iron? You plug it into electricity. Exactly. And what happens? All of a sudden it becomes a vehicle for electricity. Right. When you have a lamp, whether it's a small lamp or a big lamp, or an expensive lamp or a non expensive lamp, what's doing the heavy lifting? The electricity that's pouring through the light bulb, which is a receiver for the light. Right. But without electricity, it's just sitting there, right? It's just collecting dust. So we are all connected to the energy, to the divine. We can feel it so often. Have you ever gone to a concert and have you ever had the experience where everybody puts up their lighter or now they turn on their phones? That experience is such an incredibly gratifying experience. Why? Because in that moment, we all feel like we're one. And we have this sense that there is something so much bigger than us, that unites us all. And our hearts become in sync with one another's. And the energy in the collective of that stadium feels like it could power a city, it could power the world, because our hearts parts are coherent. There is so much data on this, there is so much to be said. There are so many studies about how when we sync together, it's connected now to something bigger than ourselves, and we pour that into the world, we actually can change what's happening in the city. They've done studies where they get a thousand people to meditate like that. The crime rates go down, things are changing, traffic patterns change. Why? Because we're all connected. Each one of us is like a wave in the ocean, and we are the ocean itself. When this wave moves, move, this waves moves. And what is happening? The ocean is connected to all the waves because we are each an extension of the ocean itself. So we have to understand first and foremost that this divine light wants a vehicle to pour through. So our job is to get out of the ego and to allow ourselves to be the light bulb and let God be the light and just allow for as much abundance to flow through as possible. Okay, all right. So what we want to understand about flow, what we want to understand about abundance, you know, the number eight is like the abundance symbol. Why? Because it just gives and receives an equal amount. It gives and receives. And what is this? This is circ. This is a circular motion. Right. And so in Kabbalah, the idea Is that what we receive? Let me say this 10 times now. I'll just say it a few times. What we receive, we circulate. What we receive, we circulate. The more you have, the more light you share, the more you allow in. The more you receive, the more you just share, the more you become a conduit for this divinity. You are giving what you are receiving on impact, instantaneously. When you have a high vibe and you walk into Starbucks to order your coffee, you are generating high vibe, good vibe to everybody. You just gave that away instantly. When you have money just by having money in the bank, you think it's sitting there. No, it's being used. When somebody now needs a loan for a house, your money was just helping them. Great. Good job. You having money just helps somebody have money just by you having it. Just having it helped other people be more abundant. That is how the market works. It is a beautiful oneness. It's all oneness. It's all oneness, and it's all oneness. Okay, so now let's pause for a second. First of all, how good does it feel to kind of take like a shower? It's, like refreshing to think about and understand abundance and money. You're starting to connect it to something that's bigger than the way it's been talked about, and it starts to feel really beautiful and it starts to feel really good. Okay, so now let's go a little bit into some of what the. Some of what the muck is. Some of what the static is. Okay? So we can undo it. So I'm going to tell you a few things. Okay? And again, you don't have to write this stuff down. If you want to, you can, but we're going to send you these notes. Well, if you're signed up for this workshop, which you are, we will email you these notes. And if you're in the VIP room afterwards, which you can still join, we can coach and we can talk more about it and pull it apart in a deeper way. If you want to join that, it's kathyhuller.com VIP all right, so here's a few things for you to know. Money is not. It's not dirty and it's not greedy, and it's not separate from the divine. It's actually just neutral. And it has the capacity to become powerful. When you give it power, money has no value. You give it value. If you choose to take money and you choose to spend it on that acupuncture, you just gave it value. If you choose to take money, and you send your daughter to sleepaway camp, and she has the best time, her life. You just gave the money value. You're what's in charge of giving value to the money. That's how powerful you are. But money is this neutral tool, right? You can use your. You can use the Internet for good things, or you can use it for bad things, right? And you can use it for great things. Look what we're doing with the Internet right now, right? And some people will sit here all day and just, like, leave nasty Yelp reviews. It's not the Internet's fault, right? It's how you bring value to it. Okay? So money is circular, just like oxygen, just like sunlight. What happens with photosynthesis? The trees are doing their way of breathing, and what do they do then? Let us breathe better. Right? It's electricity, and it's meant to do something powerful, flow through you, not stop at you. And so all the time, I hear people with this conversation around what they're worth. Well, I don't know. I mean, am I worth it? It's like, it's not about you. It's about us. Us. There's no you and me. It's us. Truly. Truly. Okay? So when you. Right, when you allow yourself to know what it is to be a vessel, to be a steward, now, you, on behalf of the collective, are creating more possibility for the collective. So as they say in the musical Rent, I saw that show the first week it came out on Broadway with Adam Pascal and Idina Menzel. And there's a song, and she goes, there's only us. There's only this. Forget regret. Anyway, there's only us, though, you guys. There's not you and me. We're not separate. We don't live in a separate universe from each other. But there is this one universe, this one world. And when I have something going on that's positive, I just affected everyone. You know, a family shares one nervous system. So if I'm at peace, my kids are at peace. If I'm stressed, my kids are stressed. If I have five best friends and I start to walk with abundance and be generous and eat healthy and drink green juice, what do you think my five best friends are going to start to do? Feel good, drink green juice, and be generous. Right? I started my business, my friends started a business. We're one. What happens when I have money? I go and get myself a massage, and then I go and invest in this person's nonprofit, and then I go into the market and I buy myself Some grass fed, whatever. And I'm helping all these people because we're all one, okay? So the money you receive, the more of it you receive, the more you circulate. So you're not taking anything. You are not capable of taking it out of circulation. You're not taking it. So what are you doing? The more you become a vessel, you are amplifying it. Ah, yes. It's like, it just keeps picking up steam, right? It's like doing the wave at Dodger Stadium. It just keeps picking up steam. You're just amplifying it and you're needed and you can't sit it out on behalf of the rest of the world. You've been assigned to receive on behalf of the collective. Let's go. So your soul, it's. It doesn't have a limit, okay? It was made in the divine infinite beingness that it is. Okay. And you were taught perhaps to feel guilty or shameful or some fear around money, or you were. You were told to believe that money is what makes people great. That is all garbage. You know, part of the reason you can't get into money is if someone told you that somehow people with money were better or people with money were horrible. Either way, it's bad. Because if someone told you the more money you make, the more significant you are, a part of your soul rejects that because we know that's not true. And we're like, oh, I want to prove to myself that I'm great without that thing. That's not true. And also, if you're. If someone told you people with money are the worst, then all of a sudden you feel like, well, I don't want to be the worst, so I guess I'll just stay poor. It's like, what does that mean? That doesn't mean anything. You're not doing anything good for anybody by being in that state of mind. Right? Because we all have the capacity to be amazing stewards and to be circulating this. Okay, so do you have a pen and paper? We are going to do an exercise, so let's talk about what we're going to do now. I'm going to have you take out a pen and paper. And again, I'm really the best artist you've ever met. I know you can compliment me later, but I want you to draw yourself a check. Okay? So can you take a check? Can you draw a check? So I want you to make a box on your piece of paper with a. You know, you're gonna. And you're gonna write it to yourself. Okay, so I'm now filling in. I'm putting my name here, and then you're going to sign it at the bottom. Okay. And in the middle, you're going to choose a number. You're going to write yourself a check. I want you to choose a number, an amount of money, a sum of money. This is your moment. Just go for it. Write yourself a check. What amount of money would feel amazing? What amount of money would you like to see deposited into your bank account? Write that amount of money right now. Okay? Do you got it? Tell me when you got it. And then you're gonna write out the words. So whatever the amount of money is. All right? So I want to give you the opportunity. You do not have to share, but if you feel like sharing, share the number you wrote down. If you don't feel like sharing, fine. Keep it to yourself. No problem. Okay, so here's what we've got. 11 million, 25 million, 22 million. A million. 888,000. $888. 10 billion. 22K. I think that's 22,000. 5 million. 20,000. 2 million. 8 million in euro. 300,000. 5 million. 5 million. 10 million. 100,000. 144 million. 20 million. 70 million. 2 billion. 1 million. Infinity. 5 billion. Not about money. 1.3 million, 900,000. Okay, so first of all, how does it feel? I want my team to choose three of you and give you Starbucks for participating. Thank you. First of all, how does it feel to read this? How does it feel to read this? Feels so good right now. Is there any part of you that when you read other people things, you hate them or you judge them, like, oh, my God, you're the worst. It's actually interesting, isn't it? Makes you feel good. You're like, receive. Have it. Why? Why do you think it's so interesting? Do you know how many books, books and movies and TV shows and things in culture from Shakespeare and beyond have told us that people with money are horrible? Do you have any idea how often you have gotten that message? And then here it is. You're in this moment, and you're like, I'm happy for all these people. Like, right. I'm happy for all these people. Like, good. It actually feels exciting. Why does it feel exciting? Because it actually, even in that moment of just seeing that, we all benefited from that. We all felt like, oh, my God, there is all this here. It's just energy. There is all this possibility right now. Have you ever in your life found yourself and you could be honest because you're a human being, where you found yourself judging someone, you're like, oh my God, he got that car, or oh my God. Right? So what the hell is that about? What the heck is that about? Well, I'm curious. Let's just peel back the curtain for a second. And again, there's nothing wrong. There is nothing wrong with having well meaning parents. But did you have a mother or a father who ever told you anything about money that is less than ideal? Did you ever have a parent who maybe said something about people with money? What is that about? Right? What is that about? And what about other things that they said? Forget the way they judge people with money or they judge themselves for being less than if they didn't have it. It's all the same, right? It's all the same. But what about people who say things like, money is a sacrifice, you know, you have to be depleted. You know, you have to choose between either your kids or money. You have to choose between money. I mean, it's just we limit God so much, we limit the possibility of reality with a capital R that we go into such scarcity consciousness and we hand this to our children whether we know it or not. And it gets passed down. And did you know something about the way limiting beliefs pass down? There is a. There's so many studies that show this, but they took fleas and they put fleas in a jar and the fleas, you know, couldn't get out. Then they took the cap off the jar and the fleas were so conditioned that it only still jumped as high as the cap. But here's what's even crazier. The babies then didn't even try to jump out because it was like passed down not to even try. Is that wild? There's a story about elephants. I'm sure you know this when they take elephants into the wild, in order to sort of like put them in a habitat, they tie a rope around their leg, they put the rope on some kind of post, and at first the elephant tries to get out. And so it goes as far as it can go, the whole circumference, and it's really trying to get free. And eventually it learns that it can't get out. And then eventually it's so sad, they take the rope off its foot and it never tries to leave because it still believes that there is a perimeter, even though now there's not. It's like it doesn't even try again. And then it has a baby and the baby doesn't Try, because it's been modeled. So do you understand that? It's so. It's so unconscious, but it's so insidious that we learn to either judge people with money or think that money is not available to us, or think that we're only significant if we have it by what our parents modeled for us. And guess what? That is something you can change. And when you change it, right, when you change your own energy, when you change the way you see the world, what happens? The world changes. You change your capacity to literally be okay, be. Your nervous system actually becomes safe to receive. And next thing you know, you have more coming in your life. You have better friends, you have better opportunities. There's reciprocity in your life. You give a lot out and you receive a lot back. And life feels good. And it's available that way. You guys, this is the real work, right? It's an energetic world. You know, when we were growing up, we had a TV that had like rabbit ears on it and we used to actually go over to the TV and bend so that actually could get the signal. Well, what if they're all like crumpled into themselves? They can't receive it, right? If the world is truly atomic, which it is, it's made of molecules, it's made of energy, and everything's trying to move, just like your body. What powers your cell mitochondria, what actually updates your mitochondria, the bioluminescence in your cells has to do with if you're in a state of rest. If your nervous system is at ease, your mitochondria can do its job well. When we're in fight or flight and we're in stress, we actually make ourselves sick. We create inflammation and static in the body. So similarly, if you're walking around and your nervous system is just not available to receive, it's not at ease. It doesn't feel safe to receive. It's caught in the ego, it's caught in fight or flight. It's like the rabbit ears can't pick up the signal. And it's all around you all the time. It's all around you all the time. The money is all around you all the time. It just is. Like, it literally just is. It's all around us. There's trillions and trillions and trillions in this market. And you just have to hook plug into the WI fi by being available and you're going to go, Kathy's right. It's wild, but my whole world is changing. And so I teach people how to Change this within yourself and then your whole life changes. And that's why I do a year long coaching program. Because you change. After 30 days, the receiver is bigger. After 90 days, the vessel is bigger and on and on. All of a sudden your whole life is changing because the dial is changing, because the radio is changing. Okay, so now here's what I want to say next. I want to go back to your check. Okay? Now I want to ask you whatever your, whatever your number is that you wrote down, why did you choose that number? Let me just hear it. Feels expansive. Feels right. My favorite number. It feels safe. Felt good. I like the number seven. Felt like a stretch. It get me out of debt. These are all your reasons. All right. It's interesting, right? It's like, it's just interesting because it's so arbitrary. I just said pick a number and write on a piece of paper. But there was a reason. It felt safe. I felt like I could live and have what I need. I couldn't say a bigger number that felt realistic. Okay, fine, feels generous. But it doesn't feel like I'm being too much. I can't earn more. There wasn't a reason. I just saw it pop up. Okay, fine. So here's what I want you to do now. We'll let the, we'll let the chat, like kind of finish scrolling and then I'm going to have you close your eyes. I'll have my team choose three winners who are participating. I want you to close your eyes for a second and I want you to just tune in to the you of you, the part of you that's really you. The part of you that. The part of you that is your truth is your essence. The part of you that's really coming from your soul. And I want you to ask that part of you, how much capacity does that part of you have to give to be loving, to find compassion, to care about people in the world. You see things about people you've never even met. And you care. You're there for your friends. You, you like seeing people you love thriving. You want people to be happy. How much capacity does your heart, does your soul have to give to just be loving? Because it feels good to do good? Is there, is there a limit, is there a limit to your heart to how much you could give? Is there, is there a feeling of like, well, if I meet one more person, I won't be able to smile at them because I'll be all out of smiles. I'll run out. There's a limit I can't love everyone. Does your heart feel like, no. If there's one more person I meet, even if she's really nice, I'm all filled up with friends, I can't have another one. No, your heart's like, yeah, anytime I'm available. Available to make a conversation with the Uber driver, with my waitress, love, my. My. My sister's new boyfriend. I mean, it's just. There's no end to how much you can love. There's no end, right? Okay, now, this part of you that can love like this, can give like this, can show up like this. Your soul. How much of a capacity does your soul have to give to receive? How much? Can it receive a small amount? Or can your soul just keep receiving how much support how much love how many new people? Is your soul saying, sure, I'm happy to receive. I'm happy to receive that hug. I'm happy to receive this beauty in the world. I'm happy to look at a sunrise and just take it in. I'm happy to just take a bite out of a crispy apple and just enjoy it. And just enjoy savoring this gorgeous life. I love listening to the rain. I love meeting somebody new. I love smiling. I love just receiving a beautiful song. I can receive. Or is there a limit? Does your soul say, well, I can't receive anymore? It's endless. It's infinite. Your heart has the capacity to give an infinite amount and receive an infinite amount because it's divine. Because it's bigger than your body. It's bigger than your story. It's timeless. It's beyond time. It's beyond space. It's at the center of who you are. It's what makes you magnetic. It's why people love you. It's why you love them. It's why people connect to one another. There's something deeper that's happening. Okay, when you're ready, you can open your eyes. You know, the heart itself is a great metaphor, the actual heart, because what does the heart do? It pumps blood through the body. And so what does it do? It takes in all the blood, and then what does it do? Circulates all the blood. It's like that figure 8. And so we want to go back into identifying with the truth. You are here to be a vehicle, a lightning rod. You know what a lightning rod does? A lightning rod goes in the ground. And then what does it do? It conducts energy to it and through it to it and through it to it and through it to it and through it. And so when you realize that you are here to draw down and receive as much energy in order to what? Be a conduit for it? All of a sudden you're like, I want to be the healthiest version of me. I want to be the happiest, most loving version of me. And I want to be the most abundant version of me. Because with everything I receive, I've just generated more into the collective. And that is the way it goes. It comes through, doesn't come for you to hold and feel burdened by this. No blood in the body. What does it have to do? Keep moving? What happens if it stops? It's a blood clot. It's dangerous. What about water? You ever see water that gets stuck and stagnant? It's poison. It's death. Instead, we want to see water. What does it do? It just keeps moving. What does that Colorado river look like? Life. It's alive. It's glistening. That's what you do with abundance. You become a vehicle for it. How does it feel when you realize you are safe to receive fully? Because you are a connection point, the whole. So can you live the life you really want to live from the old identity? Yes or no? No. What you want is to step into who you really are. And it's not about doing more things. It's about being more. It's about being more right. Because the truth is, your real self remembers this divine light. You can feel it. What did I say to you when we first started last Thursday? I said, if anything I say feels true, it's because you knew it. It's a remembering. It's a walking back home to the truth. So I'm realizing two things. Number one, I'm so excited that we're coming back tomorrow because I have a whole lesson to share with you on purpose and your divine assignment. And because we're running out of time, I want to give time, make sure we have time for that. Come back tomor and I'll teach you all about your divine assignment. Because I even brought props. And I'll explain why I brought this tomorrow. And I don't want to run out of time and I don't want to rush through it. So we're going to do that tomorrow. And I also want to do the homework giveaways. And I'm going to remind you that on Tuesday, I'm giving away an imac to those of you who do your homework. And I'm giving two of you a thousand dollars for leaving a review for my book and podcast. If you feel so inclined. And don't do it if you hate the book or podcast, you don't have to do it. If you like it, leave a review. Okay, so the other thing that I want to do is give away the homework winners because people today won, I believe, $500 and there's three of you. So we'll do that in a second. The other thing I'm going to do is I'm going to tell you something so freaking cool. How many of you, you're like, I'm really, really curious how the hell I can work with Kathy Heller. And some of you, you're like, you're just not my person. And you, you don't hurt my feelings. I get it. By the way, we're not all for everybody. You know, like, there's certain kind of music that I don't like. There's certain kind of food I don't like. Like, I like Penang curry. And some people like, I don't like Indian food. I'm like, that's okay. Some people are like, I don't like Broadway show tunes. I'm like, I do. So I get it. If somebody's not with me, you're not, you're not doing anything wrong. Like, some people, I talk too fast. Some people, they don't like my Invisalign. Some people, I don't make any sense to them. And that's fine. Okay, well, I do want to tell you this, that we have the most delicious, incredible, amazing transformational coaching program. It's the most amazing community. And the reason why I created this program is because everything that we're doing is so good and it's so important and there's so much deeper to go. And it's because this is the real thing. Believe that the self help industry and all of that stuff, in a way, it's really broken. And here's why. Because there's so many well meaning people that will buy the book and be like, I do want to change my relationship with money. I do want to change my relationship with food. And then they read the book and they're like, but I, it didn't work. Well, why not? Because you have to be first and then do, and then you'll have a different result. What does that mean? It's the changing of who you know yourself to be. What does James Clear say in Atomic Habits? I said to James Clear, he wrote this book, Atomic Habits. I said, what's the most important habit? And he said, kath, it comes down to this. Who you tell yourself you are. If you, if you have the identity of saying, I am a healthy person, then you don't have to force yourself to drink water and get your steps in. You tell yourself, I'm a healthy person. A healthy person puts their shoes on, gets their steps and drinks water. But if you tell yourself, oh, I'm just lazy anyway, or who, it's the identity, right? And so what I know to be true is that I see so, so, so, so, so many people. And they come to me and they're frustrated and they're struggling, and I'm like, I want to walk you back home to your soul, right? Because when you're connected to who you really are, you change. You. You change your whole life by changing the energy within you. And all of a sudden, everything turns on. So just so you know, I'm going to tell you really quickly, and then I'm going to give away the winners. When you go to kathyheller.com join there's all the information, but we basically have two programs. There's this abundant life, which is the foundations of all of this work, but deeper, right? And you hang out and you transform. Because what I know is that you actually don't want more information. We've all had information up to our ears. The Internet is filled. Information. Great. What, what do you want instead of information? Transformation. You actually want transformation. So this is a transformational coaching program where over the time in it, you will just keep transforming. You'll be more and more in your power. You'll see wider, you'll collect more possibilities. You will be in the music, your radio will be on and it will be blasting. And people will say, did you cut your hair? Like, what happened? Why are you glowing? Because the music is in you. The energy is tuned in. What people will do is they'll listen to my podcast and they'll love it. And then they'll go, but I need to stay. Like, I get this little inspiration. And then I go right back down. And then my day feels stagnant or nothing's being manifested. And I'm like, in order for you to manifest best, in order for you to be herald in the purple crayon, Mary Poppins snapping her fingers and opening the drawers. You need your energy to be so coherent. And this is the dojo, right? This is where I'm basically helping you do yoga for your energy by teaching you Kabbalah and mindfulness, right? Part of what I do, my background is teaching mindfulness and meditation and also teaching Kabbalah. And you put those two things together and we help you to literally have a practice to where you wake up in the morning with this practice and you are, are tuned in, the radio is on and your whole life starts to change, everything starts to grow, everything starts to feel like synchronicity. And we all need that. That is imperative. You can't afford to live four days or four years or four weeks with the radio off because you have so much in you that wants to be expressed and you want to feel the feelings. When we did that sun, we did that sun exercise two days ago, you want to feel equanimity, you want to feel abundance. And then you want to see how powerful you are and how quickly the universe responds. When you are walking abundance and you feel connected and you're in that divine flow and you're skipping through the world and you're making a difference for the person at the bus stop and you're feeling alive and you're in your creative flow. So this abundant life is our foundations program. It's amazing. You can get all of the information@kathyheller.com join and then abundance Mastery is our sort of full on platinum program and it has about 10 times the amount of coaching in it. And you get to choose which one is for you. And some of you are going to be like, I don't want either of those. And I hope that this workshop is filling and it's exciting and that's great. But if you don't have a practice, think about how quickly our energy can change. It's like if you're not, if you're not projecting this energy so strongly, you get on the phone with the wrong person, five minutes later you're like, I need a nap path. You get spun out, you start looking at your phone and next thing you know, you're like, I'm not manifesting things. Something isn't working, something isn't moving anymore. And so you don't have to do this work with me because a lot of people out there do this work. But find the person who's your person, find the practice and then do that. Like that's what I would say. Don't go through these three days, start feeling so excited, so invigorated, so lit up, and then decide to do nothing with it. Get it, remember who you are, feel into the part of you that's activated right now and say, what is going to be my insurance policy? That I'm going to stay in this. And so I created that and we've done it now with thousands of people and the community is incredible and so supportive and so deep and the conversations are so lit up and people are changing their lives and that is worth everything. And so most of the time, if you want to find a really good coach or a really good therapist, it's more than $297 a month. It's usually a lot more. But if you want all of this and you feel like, I think Kathy is my person and this might really change my life, you can get inside the Foundations program or you can get inside Abundance Mastery. I will tell you this. For the next 48 hours, we give you all of these extras because we want you to say yes to yourself and we want you to invest in yourself. And we know how hard it is to do do. Like if your kid asked you for tennis lessons and they were $50 a lesson, even if it was a struggle, you'd be like, I'm gonna do it because it's for my kid. But for yourself, you're like, I don't invest in myself. That's part of what I do. I just don't do the things for myself. So we're like, oh, what can we do to make it extra juicy so that you might actually see that you deserve right now to invest in yourself? So for the next 48 hours, if you sign up, I have two incredible courses, right? This program is a coaching program. You get coached. Coached by me. You get to be with me getting coached. But I have two incredible courses that were each $3,000 a piece. One's called the Abundance Method and one's called Made to do this. Made to do this helps you get paid to do what you came to the world to do, helps you make money. Both of those courses are included for free if you sign up in the next 48 hours and also if you pay in full, if you join the Foundations program, this abundant life, you get a half day private, one on one coaching with one of our three amazing coaches. And if you jo Abundance Mastery, you get that half day of private coaching with me and one of our coaches. That's something to keep in mind if you painful. Also, if you join Abundance Mastery, There is a $3,000 coupon right now for the next 48 hours and it's either 3,000 off for the year or it's 300 off. And I feel like, Jennifer, can you put your camera on in case there's something that I just forgot to say? Because I feel like, you know, all the things. Jennifer's our lead coach, the person who is coming on camera or maybe not yes, you are. What did I forget to say?
C
I'm attempting to get myself up here. Here I am totally up here.
B
You look pretty in your lacy top. What did I just forget to say? And then we're going to do the homework. Giveaway winners.
C
You said everything. You said all of the things. I'm so proud of you. The bonuses, I could repeat them if that's helpful.
B
You can repeat them. You could also, by the way, if you have any questions about this, we can answer some questions. But we're going to come back tomorrow, I'll just say, and we're going to talk all about how you find your divine purpose. I feel like even more than money, I feel like the Maslow's hierarchy of needs, by the way, is like being in purpose. I don't think the opposite of depression is happiness. I think it's purpose and being your authentic soul, who you came here to be. We're going to talk about that tomorrow. But we will also answer questions about the whole workshop and also about this program. If you have and if you have other questions and you urgently want them answered, you can DM me on Instagram, Athy Heller and either I can answer the question or Jen or Esgy or Emma or Charlotte, one of our coaches will answer your question. So if you have a question that you want answered before tomorrow, you can do that. Oh, and also the first hundred people that join, we're sending you $25 to Starbucks because why not? Okay, Jennifer, what else?
C
What you didn't dive into is a couple of the bonuses that are available. This is available to you for the next 48 hours. Two of Kathy's signature programs, the Made to Do this and the Abundance Method, and she mentioned them. What I want to share about each of these is that the Abundance method breaks down everything that you've been learning with Kathy in these three days. It's a full, robust 12 week program where she breaks it down step by step. Each of these steps that she's been sharing with you a lot of information. She goes and dives into how you stay in the vibration of abundance, how you really tune your receiver, the Kabbalah. She really goes deep into that in the Abundance method. And you get that when you join now within the next 48 hours. And her signature program with lots of the people who are on this call can tell you how good Made to do this is. It's her program that helps you make income from your passion. If you feel like you're lost in your purpose and you don't Know what your purpose is, it helps you to find that purpose. Or if you already know what it is, helps you to make money from it. You can end that program making thousands of dollars. Plenty of people have. It's so, so, so, so good. And you get both of those programs if you sign up. So I just can't underline how amazing that is on top of if you pay in full getting one on one coaching. So if you know that a one on one approach will help you, that's an incredible deal.
B
I mean, the bottom line is I feel like, Jennifer, what I love to do most, that I really, and it's been something that is easy to do my whole life, is people will say like, I'm a dog person or I'm a cat person and I do love cats, we know that. And dogs. I even thought I was going to be a vet when I was a kid. Can you imagine? I would never have been a good vet in terms of all the math and the science. But as much as I would say I'm an animal person, really I'm a people person. Like, I love people. It's so easy for me to love people. And so I think what I do is hold up a mirror to your soul because I don't see the version of you that's anything other than the most magnificent, powerful version. And I think that we have played a part that's not us our whole life. And what I'm here to do is help you rise into who you really are. And I think the reason it's time to do this program is if you're ready to stop circling the same blocks and just be like, no, I'm going to go live my calling now. Or you've given so much to others and you're like, why don't I receive? Why don't I receive? Or because you realize your energy is the strategy, your light is the strategy, your resonance is the strategy. And this helps you master that. This helps you turn it on and tune it in. And I've coached thousands of women and watch them literally show up for themselves, show up for the world and become the happier, most happy version of themselves, which changes the way our children see us, which changes our communities. And it's really freaking fun. It's really, really fun. And I don't teach anything surface level, I don't know if you can tell, but I'm teaching you identity, frequency, embodiment and coaching because I've had it with courses. I feel like you don't need courses, you need a Coach, you need me to show up. So in my programs, it's not like, okay, bye. You're not going to see me. Like, like, first of all, am I nuts? I love this. I love doing this more than going shopping. I love doing this more than a date night. I like to do this. This is what makes me happy. So if you want to coach with me in this abundant life, you're going to coach with me every other week. We're going to do a session, right? And then you also get our coaches. Jen is our lead coach. She's also a breathwork facilitator. She's also a business coach. Right. We have Charlotte, we have Shirnice. You have all these other coaches, but you have me. Me and the community and the other coaches. And if you're in abundance mastery, it's nuts. Like, there's business coaching, okay? I'm really, really good at business. I love it. I like geeking out on it. So you get business auditing with me. You also get a session with the guy who's my healer from India. He zooms in and does coherence healing with you to help you unlock literally whatever is being held somatically for you. And then there's also. My hypnotherapist comes in and does hypnotherapy with you guys once a month. And then there's. There's all the other coaching that happens with our coaches. And so that program, you see me every single week, and then you see other coaches throughout the week, and you're literally in a energetic vortex, and it's pretty amazing. So this program changes your relationship with money. Money just starts to flow into your life because you change your vessel. It gives you spiritual tools and energetic practices that actually track and work. And it connects you to other women that are rising alongside of you. And it gives you a container of real coaching, real support, real expansion. So you can either you. We always get to choose, right? Freedom arrives every moment at our door in the form of a choice. You can stay where you've been, or you can step into who you really are. And I believe your soul is ready. And I. Again, if you. If I'm not your person, don't do it with me. Do it with somebody else. Find a coach. You're like, no, this is my person. Because it doesn't help to be with someone who doesn't speak your language. And it's like, square peg, round hole. But if I am your person, and you're like, I don't even know how to put it into words. But something is changing for me right now. Then this is the moment to be like, okay, this might really be something to consider. And if you join in the next 48 hours, you get all these bonuses. So should we say the bonuses again? If you have any questions, if you have any questions, you can DM me on Instagram. I'm going to come back tomorrow, though, because the teaching isn't over. And we're going to go into the VIP room after we give away the homework winners and we are going to do some coaching today.
C
Can I also share, Kathy, just a couple of the breakdown so that to understand what this coaching is and how it works. Kathy is live with you two times a month. So you're always getting live coaching with Kathy on the regular. And this is for. When you, when you sign up for this, this is for a year. So that means you have her in your back pocket continuously providing that support, continuously providing what you need, going deeper and deeper and deeper on this. And you've got a whole crew of other people who are doing it with you. And in addition to that, you have live coaching. I'm there every Wednesday providing Q and A. Live Q and A. And you have breakouts where you get to talk and meet other people who are doing the same work. So there's multiple calls, there's multiple coaches. We also have group coaching sessions as well. And we've got them at different times of the day. We've got 9am, we've got 1pm, we've got some 5pm so there's, there's that specific time. So we've got them at different times of day so that no matter where you are in the world, you've got access to our live coaching and you're available, you can ask questions. We're there, we're present.
B
Yeah, it's true. I mean, at the end of the day, I feel like we all create what we needed. And in going through my life and having work, I'm always working with whoever is the next mentor because I want to always change more of what's happening within me because I know that's how we change what's happening around us, us. And I created this because I knew that this is what was needed. Like, when they zig, we zag. Like, this is not about. You know, I had a friend who said that when he was in college, he used to hire a personal trainer and his friends were like, how can you afford that? That's so ridiculous. And he's like, because I actually get the Transformation. When I'm working with a trainer, if I'm just watching videos on YouTube or saying I'm going to go to the gym, but I don't go to the gym gym. So we show up and we're there for the transformation. And I, I often think like, what is cheap is actually expensive. It's a waste of money. A lot of courses just sit on people's desktops. But when you're with a coach for a year and the coach is there and you're there and there's real accountability and support and real coaching, things actually shift, things actually change. So those two programs made to do this, we've literally helped thousands of people. Probably approximately like 3,500 people have taken that program and gone from idea to Inc Income. So if you want to be able to make money doing something that you love and literally being on purpose, that program is so good for anyone, whether it's a side hustle or you're scaling your current business. And I work with both. People who are just starting as well as multiple seven figure CEOs will hire me to coach them. And there's always something for both of them. But made to do this covers a lot. And in abundance mastery, we're really going to go deep into really growing your business. If that's something you want, it's in abundance mastery. I think if somebody made a million dollars doing something once, you could say, well, maybe they got lucky. But if someone's made a million dollars doing many things, I think you have to say there must be some, there must be some method to the madness. Tomorrow we're going to talk about purpose. Tomorrow we're going to talk about purpose and how you can get paid to be in purpose. And I'm going to break down down some of what I think will really be helpful to you. Whether you're joining the program or not, you're going to love that session and we'll help you make all of that make sense. But I really do feel like at the end of the day, people just don't step into their power. They just have dimmed their light for so long that they got so used to it. And I think the most exhausting thing in the world is not 100% being lit up and being yourself. And it deprives you and the world of your magic. And life was not meant to just be a grind. It's magnificent and it's magical and it's a mystical path. And when you have somebody who sees it, they'll keep pointing you toward it. And you will start unwinding all the old static. Next thing you know, it's just going to fully click and you're going to say, kath, even when I'm not with you, I feel it and I see it, and here's what's happening. And here are the doors that are opening because it's all responding to your coherence, to your power, to your energy. And all of a sudden, so many more possibilities are on the buffet and you're enjoying them. So I want you to think about, where will you be this time next year? And what do you want to see change for you? And what, what can you feel might be the way for you to get on a different path, to get the radio to turn itself on? So this is exciting. This is. Here. Those two courses that you're going to get included with the program are $3,000 each. But if you join for the next 48 hours, you get both of them, which is great. And if you join Abundance Mastery in the next 48 hours, you're going to save $3,000. And it's a year. Like, you get to work with me and be in the dojo for a year. Just, just imagine if you were in this energy for a year and you have this kind of support and the kind of people who choose to be in this, that's. That's in and of itself who you become by being around those people. It's amazing. Okay, we're going to go into the VIP room. Let's announce our homework winner, and then we're going to come back tomorrow and we're going to do a whole class on purpose. And we'll also do some Q and A coaching. Okay, tomorrow, but we'll go to the VIP room in a second. Jennifer, do you have the winners for our homework?
C
I believe Ezzy has got the winners for us. Let's have her share them again real quick. And I just wanted to remind, too, that the first hundred people who sign up do get Starbucks. So everybody gets to win Starbucks who signs up. So if you didn't get chosen for the homework, you still have a choice to chance to choose yourself and get that Starbucks gift card.
B
It's. It's amazing, right? It's amazing when we make a decision to go all in on ourself, it's amazing what starts to shake out and what starts to change. If you're like, I'm already joining, I'm just curious. I want to congratulate you. That's so fun. Because we want to, we want to hang out with you. And then we do all these other things, guys. Like, we do retreats in person and we do summits and people come together in live events and they literally can't stop smiling. And they make their best friends. Friends. Okay, homework winners. Ally Anand, Karen Balak and Aaron Hughes, you guys all won 500 gift cards to Nordstrom. Plus you each want a Marc Jacobs tote. That's super cool. If you want any of these things, you have to just email helloathyheller.com so that we can get your address and we can make sure that we're emailing it to the right place. And on Tuesday, I'm giving away an imac and I'm giving two people a thousand dollars each for leaving a review for my podcast or my book if that feels like something you want to do. That's so lovely. We want to say thank you. There's so much more that I want to get into. And so tomorrow we'll be back and we'll talk about purpose and we'll talk about your assignment. We'll talk about clarifying that. And the first hundred of you that join will be celebrating you tomorrow as well and giving you guys some Starbucks. You can go get yourself a nice coffee and be like, oh, I'm going into the looking glass this year. Here we go. Can I trust myself that something really magical is brewing inside of me and I'm just gonna go bet on it? It. That's wild. That feels good. We'd love to have you and we love you no matter what you choose to do. If you have any questions though, you can DM me on Instagram and me and Jen will be standing by to answer your questions. And also just remember, if you sign up for if either either place, if you sign up for this Abundant Life or Abundance Mastery, if you do the painful option, you get a half day of one on one coaching. And the Abundance Mastery, I'm in that one with you, which is pretty cool because usually a VIP day with me is it costs $1,000, so you're getting that just to have it. Okay. We love you so much. We're going to jump into the VIP room and I will be back tomorrow. And thank you for this session and I hope that you're starting to feel how much is here and really mostly how much is in here.
Podcast: The Cathy Heller Podcast
Host: Cathy Heller
Guest(s): Jennifer (Lead Coach), Workshop Participants
Date: May 23, 2025
This episode is a live workshop segment from Cathy Heller's abundance and manifestation series, focusing on healing your relationship with money and stepping into your role as a vessel for divine abundance. Cathy weaves together spiritual wisdom (especially from Kabbalah), energetic principles, practical exercises, and community interaction to guide listeners toward more wealth—internally and externally—and a greater sense of purpose.
The conversation centers around:
Money’s Energetic Nature:
Energetics, Not Scarcity:
Receiving as a Vessel (Klee):
Cultural and Familial Conditioning:
Transcending Ego Identification:
Oneness, Circulation, and the Symbol of Eight:
Money Is Neutral:
Visualization and Healing:
Exploring Limiting Beliefs:
Celebrating Abundance for All:
Guided Visualization:
The Shift from "Doing" to "Being":
The Need for Deep, Sustained Work:
The Role of Coaching and Community:
On Divine Assignment:
“You are here because you’ve been assigned. You are needed. God doesn’t make extras. There are no extras.” (02:40)
On Receiving and Circulating Abundance:
“When you have money just by having money in the bank, you think it’s sitting there. No, it’s being used. When somebody now needs a loan for a house, your money was just helping them. Just having it helped other people be more abundant.” (18:30)
On Money’s Neutrality:
“Money is not… dirty and it’s not greedy, and it’s not separate from the divine. It’s actually just neutral. And it has the capacity to become powerful when you give it power.” (20:55)
On Family Influence:
“Did you know something about the way limiting beliefs pass down? ...The babies then didn’t even try to jump out because it was like passed down not to even try. Is that wild?” (33:30)
On Soulful Capacity:
“How much capacity does your heart, does your soul have to give? …Is there a limit…? No, your heart’s like, yeah, anytime I’m available.” (40:20)
On Stepping into Your True Self:
“Can you live the life you really want to live from the old identity? Yes or no? No. What you want is to step into who you really are. And it’s not about doing more things. It’s about being more.” (43:00)
On Community and Coaching:
“I love people. It’s so easy for me to love people. And so I think what I do is hold up a mirror to your soul because I don’t see the version of you that’s anything other than the most magnificent, powerful version.” (46:07)
| Timestamp | Segment | Notes | |-----------|---------------------------------------------|----------------------------------------------| | 01:16 | Episode begins, Cathy frames the workshop | Focus: Purpose & Money | | 08:00 | Divine abundance & the word “shefa” | Introduction to energetic money concepts | | 14:20 | Ego vs. Soul-centered living | Critical for receiving abundance | | 18:00 | The importance of circulating abundance | Symbolism of the number 8 | | 20:50 | Money is neutral | Assigning value by intention | | 26:50 | “Write yourself a check” exercise | Listeners participate live | | 28:40 | Group responses to abundance | Observations on collective joy/expansiveness | | 33:00 | Family & generational beliefs (experiments) | Examples: fleas in a jar, elephants | | 38:30 | Reflections on ‘why this number?’ | Deeper dive into internal blocks | | 40:00 | Guided “infinite soul” visualization | Heart/circulation analogy | | 43:00 | “Being more” and identity | The true shift for abundance | | 46:07 | Cathy on coaching & community | The power of transformation over information |
This workshop segment is a powerful blend of Jewish metaphysics, practical manifestation, group energy work, and radical self-inquiry. Cathy’s core teaching is that abundance is our natural state—but cultivating it means releasing the ego’s limitations, celebrating wealth as a collective good, and stepping courageously into our soulful, infinite nature.
Listeners are left with the challenge to not only “do” the work, but to allow deep inner shifts, aided by community and coaching, in order to become the plugged-in, abundant vessel they were always meant to be.
“Life was not meant to just be a grind. It’s magnificent and it’s magical and it’s a mystical path. And when you have somebody who sees it, they’ll keep pointing you toward it. And you will start unwinding all the old static. Next thing you know, it’s just going to fully click and you’re going to say, ‘Kathy, even when I’m not with you, I feel it and I see it.’”
(51:38, Cathy Heller)
Cathy promises the next session will focus on aligning with your divine assignment and purpose—"even more than money," she suggests it’s the real key to fulfillment and abundance.
For those interested in community, support, or working with Cathy, details are provided for her coaching programs (but this summary omits overt sales/advertisement details).
This summary captures practical exercises, spiritual wisdom, and the resonant, uplifting tone of Cathy Heller. Suitable for listeners new to her work and those seeking a rich entry point into abundance consciousness.