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Everything Is Energy with Cathy Heller
The Deeper Truth About Abundance, Divine Timing & The Law of Reception
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I love that you listen to the show week after week and you leave feeling energized and ready to take on the world. But if there's something in your heart that wants a next level beyond the podcast, I want to share a space where this work is actually being lived. It's called this Abundant Life. This is my community for people who are ready to stop forcing and start living this. Where every single day you are tapping in, you're dialing in to that higher level vibration and you're gonna find inside the community daily meditations sessions with me where I'm coaching a supportive community that helps you come back to yourself and fully let abundance be your way of living. You don't need fixing, you just need a space where you can tap into the truth, where your energy really becomes alive.
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If that feels like a yes, you.
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Can learn more and join us@kathyheller.com gift.
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Or through the link in the show.
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Notes you can try it for a dollar. Let life meet you differently because everything is energy. Hey, it's Kathy Heller. Welcome back to Everything is Energy. Today I'm sharing with you such a special episode. You're going to be hearing a live talk that I gave at my dear friend Samantha Skelly's event. It was just a couple months ago and I wanted to share this with you because the energy in that room was pure magic and I feel like this talk embodies my favorite things to talk about. We're talking about how you step into your truest relationship with your soul, walking with the divine where life is such an incredible gift because you have reclaimed the music within you and you are truly in flow and you feel whole and you become such a blessing to everyone around you. This conversation is not just about what abundance is, it's really a deeper truth that you know and you've heard me say it so many times. You are already a masterpiece. You're a piece of the master. You're already built to be a receiver. You are already and always have been connected you to the infinite. You're going to hear me today talk about things like why doesn't manifestation work from lack? How do we stay aligned when life gets a little bit challenging or a lot challenging and how do we trust that we're always at the right place at the right time? This was one of my favorite talks and I hope that you let yourself enjoy and fully receive what you need to receive from this. I love you I let's dive in.
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I'm going to quickly share with you guys the reason Why I was so stoked to bring Kathy to this event. Kathy has been since the day I met her. It was love at first sight. It really was. Like, I met you, and I was just like, who are you? We are.
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I felt the same.
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It was just the moment. And I appreciate her so much for not only the range that you have, but your commitment and dedication to abundance at all costs. And not only does she live that through and through, breath by breath, moment by moment. Like, there's not an ounce of scarcity in this woman's body. Like I'm telling you. Like, there is not. There is not. But she's also the greatest permission slip for other people to activate their abundance. Like, you are in your cells, an abundance activator. Like you don't see any other reality. And every single time I hang out with you, my bank account grows.
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Whoa. Love that. Like, serious. Like, actually, do I get 10%? Obviously.
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Such a good business model.
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Actually, I just hang out with you and then there's money and Venmo me later. That's such a beautiful thank you. I received that. Such a beautiful thing to say. I'll tell you why I think that is. So we think that what we want is, like, piles of things. We think that what we want is some level of a big business or some amount of followers or some amount of bestsellers. But what we actually want is the real abundance that we came for. We have way bigger dreams than all of those things. We want the abundance that lives within us. We want to feel connected to the divine. We want to have every moment be a walking conversation with. With our soul. What we're really looking for is the channel that we are. What we're really looking for is to be on assignment all the time. And that is why I don't see anything but the full abundance of everyone. Because I'm not looking at you as the Persona. Right? It's like Ram Da says, at some age, somebody hands you a somebody suit and says, here, wear this. This is what you will be known for. Or this is who you are. But that's all an identity that is still so separate and so tiny compared to who you are, right? And so Kabbalah says, like, each of us are a vessel, and each of us have the capacity to be emanating the light of God, which is pure abundance. And so when you tune into that, do it right now. Close your eyes for a second. Close your eyes for a second and just try this on. Okay, first of all, take a deep breath. You're really good. At that, Samantha is definitely the person to go to if you want to remember how to actually breathe. But what I want you to do is just bring the awareness to the energy, like about 8 inches above your head. And you're gonna feel that there is this electric force that is shining right through you, that is beaming electricity through you. This is God's light, the divine right. And your heart is literally electromagnetic. And you are electromagnetic. And wherever you go, you are resonating. And depending on how tapped in and turned on you are, that's how much you are beaming and emanating this divinity through you. And that is the most impressive thing in a room, is how much light a person emanates, how much unconditional love, how much presence, how much grace they give to themselves and others. That's abundance. Feel it. That's who you are. That's you at your. At the first thought of you. When God first dreamed you up, you had the capacity, you're totally overqualified, to be the most impressive thing, which is love itself. Feel that. That's abundance. And now I want you to try this on. And you are hearing the deepest part of you reminding you that you are a masterpiece because you're a piece of the master. And you are someone because you're some of the one. Okay, now open your eyes. So we're not looking for anything out here. We're looking for what wants to move through here. And it is abundance upon abundance upon abundance upon abundance. And here's how cool the world is that God made. When you are in that level of wholeness, you print in the 3D, you're a 3D printer. When you are in that level, that much of a channel, and you don't walk into a room needing anything because you walk in to give something. You just start printing every version of abundance, you become a steward for more. Because the word Kabbalah means to receive. And a radio is a receiver. So it's a good metaphor. So right now, what are you receiving? What are you tuned into? Are you tapped into love? Tapped into scarcity, Tapped into self doubt? You're going to play static, but you were put here. Every one of us can tap into the channel of that divinity. And you walk in a room, what do you play? A love song? What does everybody want? They just want to be around you. What do they say? You have great energy. What happens next? You didn't even need anything. You already had it. Because you are a custodian of this light. And that is the most uncanny thing, is that when you are in wholeness. You create in the quantum field because consciousness creates matter, energy creates matter, and that's the abundance, and that's what you want, and you already have it. But you're looking outside of you so often, you forgot that it's inside of you. And we don't see with our eyes. Why is it that when we meditate, we close our eyes? Because you actually have vision with your eyes closed. Because that's where God's lens comes on. That's the strategy. Use your soul. You haven't even scratched the surface. Okay, good night. Good night, everybody. No, I'm just kidding.
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But it's truth. The reason why we're all like, ugh. And Sam's crying is Cause she's speaking truth. She's speaking to something in you that already knows that is true. And she's cutting through the illusions. Okay, keep going.
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Dance, monkey. Going. Say more.
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Dance, monkey.
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Dance, monkey. Okay, so here's the story. Here's the story. So when I was 19, I went on a trip to Jerusalem. It was supposed to be three weeks, and I wound up staying for three years. So I lived in Jerusalem for three years, and I wound up meeting my teacher, Rabbi David Aaron, who I talk about in my book. I bring him into my podcast very often and into my community. He's amazing. And it's, like, so amazing how just when you think you're lost, you're completely found because you're on God's time and everything's a divine order. And it's like, so much better because you didn't even know what you wanted. Like, it's so much better than what you would have ordered. So I wound up hanging out there learning. And I learned enough to know how much I don't know. So that's a good place to be. And I've been studying Kabbalah with him for, oh, my God, it's like 26 years. That's insane. It's crazy. Anyway, so through that, I started to actually see the world through the lens of something really truthful and lasting. And he's the one who said to me, you are a masterpiece. You're a piece of the master. You're someone. You're some of the ones. So I love that I get to repeat that, because that's so beautiful. And so here's the metaphor. Let's take it a little bit further, because everyone in this room is here. Because the reality you have, you know, is just a fraction of what you can manifest. True or not true?
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True.
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So let's Go further. Some of you already know this, but we learn through repetition. So I'll say it again, maybe even if you've heard me say it, you'll learn a different way or you'll. It'll hit you deeper this way. So what? One of the things that he taught me, right? We talked for a second when I had you close your eyes, about how the word cabala literally means to receive. Le cabel means to receive. That's what that Hebrew word means, by the way, on my finger, somebody just sent this to me. It's a ring, and in Hebrew it says. It says there's nothing but God. Okay? Which is just so amazing, you know? The idea, by the way, is that you're some of the ones. Because all there is, if God is infinite, then God is everywhere, including right here. Not over there, here. Oneness, right? That's the divine. That's the infinite quantum field. We're all. Every wave is a wave in the same ocean, right? So he taught me that we as receivers, just like a radio. If you had a radio in this room and you turned it on, you'd hear music. The question is, where was the music before you turned the radio on? It was here. It was hidden in plain sight. So this idea of the law of attraction, what I've learned is it's really the law of reception. Because a radio doesn't have to go attract anything. It just receives it. It's right here, hidden in plain sight. It's already in escrow. You just have to hit receive. It's here. Now, here's the thing about a radio. If you turn on a radio, you could hear jazz music. You could hear. I can't believe that Celine Dion is now like, oldies. It's like, what? What happened? What's happening to me? Anyways? But whatever music you'd want to hear, whether it's hip hop, it's jazz, it's. Whatever it is, it's there. In fact, there's so many options on the radio, and they're all aware, hidden in plain sight. When? Now. In this moment. So then you think to yourself, okay, so the life that you're living, let's call that the broadcast, the music, who's choosing it? You are. It's where you tune the radio to. So if you wake up in the morning and you let your mind hijack you, which is what minds do, because the survival, fight or flight instinct is like, I have to protect you. So let me, like, send you into a fog of the amygdala, right? If you go There, then what are you tuned to? You're tuned to the static. But if you took 10 minutes before you picked up your phone, before the world tells you what somebody suit to put on, and instead you go, forget the somebody. Because you're not a body, you're a soul. You're a someone. Some of the 1. If you spend 10 minutes in the morning and you tune to the radio of I want to be a receiver. I want to tune to the truth. I want to tune to my soul. Then all day long, what do you get back? You're tuned to love. What does the world look like? Love. So many people come to me and they're like, here's what I want. I want this big business. I want this amount of money in my bank account. I want this, this, this, this, this. And I'm like, I have news for you. You're telling me that you want all this success, but you want something so much bigger than success. You know what? You want significance. You want to know that by the time you go to sleep tonight, someone's life is better because of you. You want to know that you had a divine conversation all day long and you were always at the right place at the right time because God was speaking to you through the people you met, through the things that happened. You want synchronicity in your life. You want to feel energy. You want to feel connection. And they're like, yeah, actually, I would prefer that than everything I just said. Like, yeah, and you can get it in spades. I was just telling a few of the cutest girls who I was talking to backstage what happened this morning. So what happened this morning is me and my friend Kim came down here together and I was like, okay, are we going to drive? Take a train from Union Station from la? What are we going to do? Long story short, we're like, you know what? It'll be more relaxing. We'll take the train, we'll get to talk, we won't have to drive. Blah, blah, blah. Fine. So we take a Waymo to Union Station. And the train was leaving at 8, 10. Okay? And I'm looking at the Waymo and she had never been in one before. We take them every day and I freaking love them. I'm like, what more proof do you need?
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They terrify me.
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No, I freaking love it. Nobody talks to me. No one has bad cologne. I'm like, all day. Yes. Waymo. Anyways, so we get to the train station at 8:13, not 8, 10, and I'm like, well, maybe we'll have waited five minutes. I don't know. I don't know a lot about taking these trains. We run, like, in a rom com. Like, we're running for the train, and we get there, we're running right toward it. And I say to this guy, do you know where the 8:10 train is to San Diego? And he goes, you just missed it. And she goes, oh. And I go, oh, no, no, this is gonna be so fun. Like, it's divine timing. Let's just see. And she's like, really? You're not upset? You're not? I'm like, no, this is it. Like, this is such a Kathy thing. Such the best. I'm like, no, it really is the best. And she's like, okay. I'm like, ooh, let's see. Are we gonna, like, now take an Uber, meet someone cool? Or, like, are we gonna stop somewhere in Dana Point and have a coffee? Like, what are we gonna do? It's so fun. Like, God makes all my plans, right? So then she goes, wait, she goes, there's a train to Oceanside that's kind of close to San Diego. Let's just take that one. So I'm like, okay, great, we'll take that one. So we buy a ticket and we get on the train, and we're sitting there and we're talking and we're having the best time talking, and we realize the train hasn't left, and we're just, like, talking and. And then this guy comes on the loudspeaker and he's like, sorry, there's a little delay, blah, blah, blah. Then he does it again 10 minutes later. Sorry, there's a little delay. And she's like, it's been now, like, we've been on the train for 40 minutes. She's like, do you want to get off and take an Uber? And I'm like, yeah, let's just do that. Sure. Great. So we get in the Uber, and for some reason, instead of it being three hours from LA, it says it's going to be two hours and seven minutes. Which it's never two hours and seven minutes unless you leave at like 6am so we save the hour that we waited, but it gets better. Then I get an email from Amtrak for the original tickets that I bought that I still hadn't done anything with, because they think I'm on that 8:10 train, right? And they send me an email and say, we're so sorry. And they explain that everyone who was on that 8:10 train, nothing really bad, but they were stuck on the tracks in Riverside for hours. So I wouldn't even have been here. They were on the tracks for hours. And the reason that other train hadn't taken off is cause all the signals blew out for the entire thing. So I was right on time because God made me three minutes late because I was supposed to be here with you guys. Do another high kick. Do it. Go ahead, do it.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Wait, it gets better. Like my whole life is like this. Okay, so I came to LA a few weeks ago because I had my book launch and my daughters are 9 and 12 and 13. And so the 12 and 13 year olds literally have a bar or bat mitzvah every single weekend. And so since they lived in LA for so long, literally every weekend. So we came in LA for my book launch, plus a bunch of close friends, kids, parties. Anyway, so I'm checking in on a random day at 1:40. When we came in a few weeks ago, I'm in L Hermitage Hotel in Beverly Hills. And I go to check in and I'm at the front desk and I'm like, oh. And they know me because like we stay there before. And I just finish up and I say to my kids, here, take the key, go to the room. And I'm going to get the rental car. So I'm talking to the concierge about the rental car and I look to my left and this person's looking to her right and it's Marianne Williamson. And she goes, kathy Heller. What the hell? She's like, we're checking in at the same time. It was so funny. She goes, can you catch up? Can you get a coffee? So we sit down because we're friendly and we catch up. And then as she's leaving after, she tells me all these things. She's like, there is no accidents. I meant to tell you this. Like she wrote something for the back of my book, which is really nice, but she's like, there's no accidents. I was supposed to meet you today because I wanted to tell you, you're up, kid, you're next. And I was like, okay, got it. Thank you so much. Like what? That, like, it's like, you know, it's really, really fascinating. Like, I don't make any of my appointments. I don't make any of my appointments. Like, you're always at the right place. And I want to tell you another story. So some of you heard me share this story. Cause I shared it on my podcast. So a friend of mine, he's a rabbi and he was saying that he Was telling his congregation, like, how good it feels to do good for us. Like, it feels so good to do good. Like, that's the reward, is doing good itself. Like, my kids and I, we play this game when the gardeners come. Like, who's going to run out and give the cold drink? Who gets to do it the fastest? And. And because it feels good, honestly. And they're like, I want to do it. Like, actually, my daughter's birthday is on Saturday. And some of you heard me say this. Maybe if you're in my community. I shared it this week. She was crying. And I said, why are you crying? And she's like, I don't know. I feel like there's something about birthdays, the expectation of it. I just wish it was a normal day. And she's like, part of it is, you got me for my 13th birthday because it was her Bat Mitzvah. She's like, you got me this Van Cleef necklace. So now it's like, anything is a letdown, but it shouldn't be a letdown. Cause I don't even need anything. But then it's, like, disappointing because you asked me what I want, and it's like, I don't even want anything. I don't even need anything, but I should want something. So then it gets me all screwed up in my head. And I was like, well, you can still get something. She's like, no, I totally will. And then she's like, and I don't know why I'm crying. And then I said, because. I said, do you ever notice that there's, like, a dopamine that wears off when you've already bought a few nice things? And she's like, yeah, that's it. It's like I'm kind of desensitized now to it. And I was like, well, first of all, part of that is my fault, because I've gotten you a few too many maybe nice things. Seriously, it loses its luster, you know? I said, but also because doing. When we buy stuff, it's like, as you drive off the lot, two days later, it wears off that you bought the nice car. Do you know what I mean? It's like, fine. I said, but what really feels good is, like, do something for someone just because. And I go, so who do you care about? Like, what in the world breaks your heart? And I thought she was gonna say, like, homelessness or save the ocean. And she goes, that woman, that woman in the hair salon, she's been there 37 years. And, like, she Washes hair. And she's so sweet. And there's not even a window in the hair salon. She just washes the hair. And I'm like, oh, my God. Let's go find Anna. Let's go. So we went and she gave. She wasn't even there. But the woman who was there said, she comes in tomorrow. My daughter said, mom, can I give her whatever you're going to buy me? Can I take the 100 bucks and give it to Anna? And she was so happy that she did that, right? So I thought that was just so touching. So this. This rabbi friend of mine tells this. He told me this story and it was just blew me away that he told his congregation, like, just do the next good thing. Cause it'll feel so good. Just stop. Like, all day long your ego's like, you need your. This is what's happening. All day long your ego's like, you know how much you better do to prove that you're worthy? You need to make more money. You need more stuff. You need a bigger something. You need something to post on Instagram because you're worth, right? Your soul's like, do you know how much you have to give already? Do you know how much an overflow you are? Oh, my God. Like, you don't need to prove anything. You're just here to give. Now. You are an extension of the light of the Creator, right? If God was the sun, you're a ray of that light. Just beam. You don't need to prove anything. You're here to give. You're here to walk into a room and be the light bulb. So he was sharing this. So this woman, he told me the story that this woman was like, okay, the next good thing I see, I'm going to do it. So she was walking out of like a Coffee Bean, like a coffee shop. We have a place called Coffee Bean in la. And there was a bulletin board with all these little phone numbers that you could grab, right? Different things. And it was a volunteer thing. And it said, N O D A, no one dies alone. Like, you could volunteer to be with someone if they don't have friends and family. And she thought, oh, my God, this is the hardest one. Why did I just say the next good thing? I see couldn't have been tying my daughter's shoe. What is this? So she rips the number off and she calls and she's like, hi, I want to volunteer. And the woman was like, okay, we'll place you with somebody. We'll call you. So a few days later, they're like, we found someone for you. If you could just show up at Cedar Sinai, Whatever. So she goes to the hospital. They place her with this man who's in hospice. He's dying. He doesn't have kids. He doesn't have family. He's alone. So this is such an incredible thing you could do for someone, right? Just be there with them. So she's there for two and a half weeks, and he's mostly in and out of, like, consciousness. Sometimes she's holding his hand, sometimes she's giving him, like, ice, whatever they tell her to do. And he dies. And she said that she was literally beside herself, like, sobbing. And she called her mom. She's in her 30s. She called her mom a few days later. And she's like, mom, I did this thing. It was, like, so moving. Her mom's like, what's his name? And she's like, why do you want to know his. I mean, she's like, just what was his name? And she told her mom the name of this man who passed away. And she said, oh, my gosh. Her mom starts crying on the other end of the phone. She's like, mom, why are you crying? She's like, he's the OB GYN who delivered you. What? Yeah. She goes, what are you saying? She goes, yeah, we moved away, and I had a different OB GYN for your brother and sister. But she said, I can't believe. Believe the way God orders things around. Because she said, when you were born, I didn't want to plant this in your head, so I never told you, but you went straight to the nicu. You were really sick. He saved your life. He brought you into this world, and you repaid the favor. What? Yes. Now, I am telling you that I could literally sit here and tell you stories from my own life. And you have a few stories like that. But every day when you wake up in the morning, your mind's going to say, I have an assignment for you. You better make as much money as you can. You better have this. And it's like your soul is like, I have a way bigger assignment.
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Right?
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Because what do you actually want? Moments like that. What do you actually want? Moments that take your breath away. Moments that make you feel so connected to something so much bigger than yourself. Because that's abundance, right? And the most amazing part of it is I can show you the evidence that when you're living that way, God says, have it all, right? Have an infinite amount of unbelievable spiritual experiences. And I provided for you an unbelievable Physical reality. Enjoy it. Have it. You know, there's a line in the Talmud that says that the first question you're asked when you get to the heavenly gates is to answer for every incredible thing in this world that you denied yourself because he made it for you. So you're not supposed to choose. It's not supposed to be a choice between having amazing, beautiful food and incredible, nice towels and gorgeous friends. Like, abundance is abundance. Right? The issue is when you're walking around in lack, like, I need all of these things so that I feel like I'm actually someone somebody when you're really already a someone. Some of the ones you can't even manifest that way. But when you understand that you're the daughter of the king, why would you not have. Out of humility, right? The concept that you are meant to be a steward of all of it. Love, blessing, compassion, and wealth. Why would you not get that? Right? It's because we don't understand our truth. We're walking around like we're in lack. And we need all of these things around us, and we need all of this stuff to prove our existence. It's so not the foundation of it. Right? So just coming back to this is why I teach this in my community, like, every single morning. Just go have a meeting with God. God is your cfo. God is your business partner, and there is no budget there.
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Okay, pause.
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Yeah.
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Okay, I want to circle back to the first story that you told about the train about getting there at 8:15 or 8:13, and the train going and her going, great. That moment's important because how many of us are in a pattern of something like that happens, and we're like, oh, God, why is this. And then we're in that energy, and then we just create that energy. Create that energy. Create that energy. Create that energy. And we talked about this this morning, right? When things aren't going well, rather than following the energy of the thing not going well, how do we get above it? How do we rise above it? So how did you practice that? Oh, gosh. That's your train that you missed.
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True.
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So who do you have to be, Kathy, to embody that? It's like, no matter what happened, and I've seen you do this so many times, like, no matter what happens, Kathy's like, cool. Okay, that's amazing. This is great. Okay, so here's what we're gonna do. Like, you just have that. What is that? Can you just marinate sprinkles? Yeah, yeah. Just like, throw that everywhere.
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Because whatever that Is I think what I know. You know, there's kind of what you think you know, but what you really know is that we're always at the right place at the right time. Because there, for me, the agenda is not some outcome. It's like, am I having the conversation my soul is meant to be having, period? I don't know. Whatever I'm meant to be doing, I know that that's what I'm meant to be doing. And so I think when we are confused, that we're supposed to control it. I mean, I've seen so many people, and I think you can probably think of examples like this, who they work so hard to create a life, and then they do, and it's not even the one they're meant to be living. It's like, what are you even doing? It's so amazing when we make our life. Jazz. The reason jazz is so fun to listen to. You don't know the next note. Neither did Miles Davis. Like, let's fricking go. Like, it's so hot. When you're just, like, letting your hips sway and God's your dance partner, you're like, you lead. Let's go. Like, you can operate on the level of the linear plane, or you can operate on the level of miracles. It's up to you. So what's amazing is that we tend to keep looking at the world through the 1%, which is this physical illusion, when it's 99%, right? I tell this story about my best friend who she did a deal with Mark Cuban on Shark Tank, and these stories are everywhere. But essentially, she had created this vegan deli business, making vegan corned beef, vegan roast beef, all of this stuff. And she had $10,000 in total revenue. And her husband was like, you should send in a video to Shark Tank. And she's like, sure. When. Like, you know a little bit about that. But like most people, we don't have to go there right now, but most. She's like, how many hours do you have?
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I have ptsd.
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I know. That's what I said. But most people don't go on Shark Tank when they have $10,000 total in revenue. They go on when they have an established business, but for whatever reason, she's like, I'm going on. So she goes on the show, and she asks for whatever she asked for, whatever percentage in exchange, whatever money in exchange for a percentage of her company. And not only does she get one offer, she got two offers, right? Mr. Wonderful. And Mark Cuban gave her an offer. But Mark Cuban offered her twice what she asked for. And she was like, oh, my God. Anyway, long story short, he gets on stage afterwards, and he's like, mazel tov, Congratulations. Blah, blah, blah. And they're backstage talking, and it turns out that her grandfather had a deli, and his grandfather had a deli. And they were friends and they knew each other. And it turns out that there was a debt, there was a loan, and it had never been repaid. And her grandfather had said, don't worry about it. Well, it got repaid on that stage. So there is a chessboard that you see, which is nothing. Oh, yeah, it's nothing, right? And then there's actually the 99% of the vision that you can't see with the naked eye, which is what's actually moving the needle for you. Some of you know this story. My dad died last year in July, and I wear not this man cleeve blue bracelet. That'd be weird if he wore that. But this one, this was his bracelet. I had it cut down. It's like I feel him with me all the time. So he died in July of 2024, and he left me and my sister his house. It was across the street from the ocean. If anybody read my book, or if you're going to read the book at the end, I actually put his essay. It's called Lessons from the Jetty. He used to walk to the ocean every day and pray. And I actually found that essay when I was with him in hospice. And I called Simon and Schuster and I said, please don't kill me, but could you include this in the back of the book? And they were like, okay, fine. And they had to, like, reset the whole typing and whatever, but they put it in there, which is, like, perfect. So anyway, long story short, he wanted my sister and I to have his house that was, like, right in front of the beach. And he mentioned it for 20 years, every day, all the time we would see him. I'm like, dad, it's too much. It's like, stop mentioning your death. Like, okay, one day you'll leave us this place. I get it. Long story short, he died, and their house was put on the market, and it sold within three weeks. And so when I finally heard about it, I was like, do I, like, get involved or do I put a lien on it or do I do nothing? And I got the hit. I talked to God about it, and he was like, don't do anything. Your dad said he'd leave you a house. He's gonna leave you a house. I'm like, okay, cool. So we decide that we're gonna buy a property in Florida. And for whatever reason, I see this house and I'm like, I'm putting an offer on this house. And I put an offer. You know the story.
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Okay.
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I put an offer on this random house, and my last name is Heller. That's my dad last. My dad's last name was Heller. And I put an offer on this house, and I put an offer lower than asking, like, a decent amount, low hundreds of thousand dollars lower just to see. Because I figured, like, in la, the counter will wind up. No, no, no. They accepted it right away. And I was like, that's like, weird. So I get a call from the realtor. Within an hour, they accepted your offer. I'm like, they're not countering. Why don't they? Is something wrong with the house? Like, that's so crazy. So he says, no. He says they have higher offers, but the people selling the house are really sad to leave that house. And they asked. They just told me, he says, against my better judgment, because I told them to go with the higher offer, but they just told me that the wife prayed for a sign because they were having a hard time parting with the house. And they said their last name is Heller, the sellers. And they knew that that was a sign that that is your house. So I get to the door, and on the door it said the Heller home. Like, it's like on the door. I was like, got it, dad. Thanks. And the address is 8. 8. 8. That's the address. Not joking. That's my address. So I moved into that house.
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Yeah.
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And I was asking God, like, give me a sign that I'm supposed to move. And this, it's like, yeah, okay, that's a clear sign. So you get to decide, right? You get to decide if you want to make God your business partner, your life partner. Right. Your realtor, or if you're just like, I got it, I got it. Right? And, like, you're disconnected from all the source of your power. And everything has to come anyway through flow state. What happens in flow state? We now have the science to show this something bigger than you is moving through you. Why wouldn't you want to live that way all the time? And when you think about the things that you want, the Range Rover, the $10 million, the speaking, the whatever it is that you want to do, why do you want it? Because of how you believe it's going to make you feel. So why wouldn't you just feel that way now? Why wouldn't you do everything that you want to feel that way and not then have to wait on layaway for this other thing outside of you to show up to make you feel that way? Right? The whole idea of the radio metaphor is that you can turn on that music. You can literally be having that dance party and RSVP to the day with God that is like waiting in escrow for you every single day. And you can turn that on whenever you want. And from that place, you're now operating on the level of the mystical. You're operating on the level of all that was in escrow, hidden in plain sight, that you denied yourself when you were focusing on this, like, 1% of reality. And there's so much more that where all of your abundance really is, right? And that's what it means to be a receiver. That's what it means to open up and to receive.
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And two things are happening simultaneously. Number one, you're just feeling amazing. Like, when you decide. When you decide to get in alignment and you decide to raise your vibration, it just feels incredible. And then the byproduct of that is you start attracting at that level. So it's like double whammy.
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And I want to just say this to you too, which is pretty cool, because it's. We can have these conversations and they start to feel really activating. And then you're like, but what do I do with it? How do I actually. What's the mechanism? And she teaches it. And some of you now teach it because she's taught you how to be facilitators of it in one way, which is. I mean, she's so amazing at it. I said to Sam, I've done breath work with so many people, but the amount of light years that I am transported when I've been held by you in breath work, it's your imprint. So good. And your playlist is on fire every time. Anyway, that playlist. Oh, my God. So here's another piece of technology. Okay, you have breathwork, but here's another one which is. If you look at the chakra system, it's actually really interesting how it's exactly mirroring the spherot, which is the kabbalistic energy centers. What's amazing is that these two very timeless, lasting traditions, no one got on a Zoom conference call, and yet they're the same. No, it's really wild. Like you're talking about thousands of years old. And we say there's the crown chakra, right? And the word for this center in Hebrew is keter. Keter means crown. It's literally identical. How did they know?
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Right?
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It's because the truth is always the truth. Isn't that cool? Pretty cool. So one thing that I would say is this. When you say to yourself, okay, I get this. I actually do want to be a receiver, but I'm so much in the fog of the mind, right? And remember that there's two levels of mind. There's thought, which is, like, really not you. There's actually no wisdom in the mind. All the wisdom is in the heart. So there's a level of thought where there's no wisdom. I'm going to say that again. Don't believe anything. You think it's all fake news. And then there's the level of consciousness, which is not actually even in the mind. They just did a bunch of fmris on monks and found zero brain activity. They were like, are they alive? Yeah, they're alive. But all their wisdom isn't in here. It's in here. Then this literally has an antenna to the field, right? We download from the field, the field of infinite intelligence, which is where God hangs out. Okay, so this doesn't get you any answers. So do you ever notice the more you. You're. I'm going to think about that. You know, you're overthinking. You're just getting it worse and worse and worse and worse away from wisdom. Okay? So one of the ways for you to get out of this, which is really, we're talking about the mind, but the prefrontal corte is actually better than where it really is, which is the amygdala part of your reptilian brain, where all of these habitual neural pathways have just dug in and dug in. And it's all these stories of lack and scarcity and it's all trying to protect you, and it's just so not good in there, right? When we want to activate the part of us that can get into flow state, this idea of being a receiver, right, Being a radio. Let's actually go into that for a second. So in your energy centers, you actually have literal antennas. Okay? Antennae, antennas. So your crown chakra, right, which is the keter, which is the spherot, the energy center, right here. Just check in right now. Close your eyes. Let's see if we can do this. Because we want to be great receivers, right? We want to receive abundance in our life, right? We want to be able to receive what we want to manifest. So let's just check in how much Are you receiving right now? So from, let's like place your awareness on your crown chakra, on this keter center, right above your head. Are you receiving? Are you receiving? Because you know what? This part of you receives real vision. This is your third eye. This is your crown chakra. This is where you're actually receiving the real vision. Just make sure it's actually on. And now we're going to do this quickly so we can just kind of get a scan. I want you to, we're going to move through a few centers. Move into your throat chakra. Okay? Right here. Is it actually on? Do you actually allow yourself to say and speak what is true? Are you receiving? Are you actually in flow channeling what actually needs to be said by you? And what would be said if you actually let yourself say it? What would you receive? What would that receiver pick up that you were meant to speak into this world the way only you can speak it? Now move into your heart chakra in this lev. In this heart. Lev is the Hebrew word for heart. You're opening up this. Now how turned on is this heart? Because this heart that you have is capable of generating enough love for everyone in this room. And it actually has the capacity to create an infinite amount of love. And while it has the capacity to create an infinite amount of love that could literally, you could see just in your mind's eye, visualize the earth spinning on its axis and your heart loving this entire world into life. Just notice how you have the capacity to love strangers, to want such good for people across this globe that you've never even met. And it's sincere. That's how powerful you are. And while you have the capacity to love like that, the heart that you have has the capacity to receive that level of infinite love. Now just see if you could open your heart 10%, 20% more. How often do you actually let yourself receive the love from the person right in front of you? How often? When you walk in a room, do you remember that the most impressive person in the room, it's not where they went to college or what shoes they're wearing, it's how loving they are. How present, how non judgmental. Now, moving down to your gut, what does your intuition want you to know that you keep pushing down? What are you not receiving? Because you keep turning off the dial. And what if you're not responsible for the way people receive your intuition? You're only responsible to speak what's true for the highest and best of all concerned. And your gut has been screaming at you to receive this wisdom. Turn it on, feel it. And now moving down one more into this root, the place where desire is born, how much more actually wants to be desired by you? But you find a way to keep a lid on it, because you tell yourself it's not possible, or you tell yourself you're not allowed to have it. Put it with a capital D. It's hot. Open it up. What does it want to receive? How good does it want to feel? And now when you feel that, What if you let go of the guilt and the shame? What if it was put in you because you were meant to be a receiver at maximum, and so you're made to receive? Because we don't receive for the self alone. We receive on behalf of the collective, because we're some one, some of the one. And when we receive fully, everyone in the room is in receivership. Because abundance creates abundance. Because a vibe is a vibe and it's a wave. Now open your eyes for a second. We say, oh, my God, yeah, I want to receive. Want to receive. The best relationship, all this money, blah, blah, blah. It's like your capacity to receive is your capacity to receive. So in any moment, how much are you receiving right now? Can you be a better receiver? And one other thing about it is, you can't manifest from lack. You can only manifest from wholeness. So I often ask people, how often do you feel whole? How many times a day do you stop and feel fully? Boy, damn, I am totally satisfied. Because if you're not feeling so deeply satisfied, you can't manifest. We manifest from wholeness. Consciousness creates form, energy creates matter. When two people come together and they create so much energy that they have an orgasm, their brain goes into gamma. It's beyond the speed of light, it's faster than the speed of light. They're in such overflow, boom, they create another person. If you want to create in the quantum field, if you want to create in your business, in your life, in the love, in any way, you gotta be in overflow, not in lack. So when you show up for your day and you're like, I feel like. But I'm just gonna muscle my way through this. I'm just gonna post something on Instagram. It's like, not gonna work. It's resonance, right? If you throw a stone in the water, it makes a small ripple. If you throw a boulder, it makes a huge ripple. When you are in wholeness, you will manifest. You will start printing like a 3D printer. But what do most people do? They're like, God, I really, really, really, really wanna manifest all this stuff. Cause I feel so bad, and I feel like. And I'm in so much lack. And all this stuff will make me feel better. Thank God. God didn't set up the world to make it work that way. It's the opposite. The world is not working like a vending machine. It's a mirror. It's a vibrational match. So we're working toward turning on all of these chakras, turning on all the Spirot. Right? Turning it all on. Being such believer that we move in the quantum field, right? And wherever we go, you're just like Elsa, turning everything from thought to thing. From thought to thing. Don't freeze anybody. But it's like, right here. And so what mostly we're doing is spending all day looking outside of ourself. All day looking outside of ourself. It's like taking the plug and plugging it in. So we're not resourced to. To the divine. We're trying to resource ourself in all these things outside of us, which don't have any electricity.
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Everyone take a deep breath. Okay, let's talk about momentum, because I feel like we can get here and we can get high on Kathy Heller. I'm really bad. And then what happens? 10pm tonight. How do we consistently create momentum in the vibration of abundance so that we don't let it drop?
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We'll say more. Keep calling.
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Okay, so life is lifey, right? And, like, we're all so plugged in right now and on the edge of our seat. Because what Kath is speaking to is truth. It is undeniable truth. Our bodies are hearing it, we're feeling it. It's resonating. Our vibration is increasing. It's like, of course. Like, how many moments today have we all been like, of course. Oh, my gosh, why was it. Why was I doing it any other way? Of course. Of course. Of course. Life gets lifey. Things in our 3D world happen, and then we make a conscious decision to drop the energy to be at that level of the thing happening. Right? So how do we constantly, like, rev the engine of abundance that allows us to be in momentum? So when life is lifey, it doesn't actually impact the vibration, so the momentum can keep moving.
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Such a good question. I mean, first of all, the thing about it is that we are addicted to feeling, like, literally. No, we literally are, because cortisol is more addictive than nicotine. Fact. So there's something called disintegration anxiety, which is when you are starting to feel so good. It's for your brain. It's like you just decided to just go off cigarettes. And your brain is like, whoa, whoa, whoa, what are you doing? Why are you feeling this good? I'm freaking out. Like, where's my shot of shame? Where's my hit of self doubt? Because I'm used to cortisol and I don't know myself without it. So I have disintegration, anxiety. Your brain is literally freaking out. So Dr. Joe talks about this. He's like, when you leave here, you're going to have dispenza influenza. And it's true, because you felt so good that then when you go back to life, your brain says, hang on, I was trying to keep you safe. And in order to do that, I kept trying to ground you with these levels of cortisol that would take you out of joy. Because here's the thing Brene Brown talks about, joy makes you feel vulnerable because you can't. You have a choice. You either can try to control someone or love them. So joy means I'm taking my hands off the wheel. I'm not in control, right? The people who are the most scared of life are very controlling. When people are controlling, it's fear. So the brain and the soul do a little bit of a dance. Because the brain is like, I need to lower your vibe because you're out of control. But where do you really want to be not in control? I was in Switzerland this summer and I couldn't believe I have not been out of the country since 2006. How is that possible? I don't understand. Crazy, crazy town. Anyways, so I was in Switzerland with my kids. It was so fun, so beautiful. So I wake up in Switzerland one morning and I said, I often remember to do this and every once in a while I forget. But when I remember, it's a good thing to do. I promise it works every time. I woke up and I was like, hey, God. I was like, I want you to show me that I'm exactly at the right place at the right time today. Just like, I just want to have like a date with you. Like, make it so obvious. It's so fun because it will just always show up. So my girls, my daughters and I, we go out for the day and we go on this, like, really big funicular, like going up this mountain, I think it's called Top of Europe. It's like in the Switzerland. It's really high up. And as we were going up, I was like, this is A really great idea. Oh, my God, it's really high. And the guy's like, can you believe they built this 100 years ago? And I'm like, amazing. Great. Don't look out the window. What the. Did I. How are we going to get down? Because we're not taking this piece of shit down. I was, like, freaking out. Anyways, we went up. It was so, so beautiful. And was it worth the ride? Not sure. No, it was fine. It was pretty. Anyway, we come down and we're finally down, and we're getting off of the little funicular thing, and it leaves, like, every 11 minutes from this, like, base camp. And we're getting off. And at the moment that we're getting off, this woman goes, kathy Heller in Switzerland, right? And I'm like, who said that? And I look and I see this woman walking towards me, and I say to my daughter, I'm like, I don't know who this is. Like, says. And then I notice who she is. She's like one of these amazing members of our community. Jill. I'm like, what are you doing here? She goes, you don't understand. She goes, I just went through chemo, and I was listening to you the entire time through chemo. And I told my husband, like, if I make it to the other side and I ring the bell, I'm taking that trip of a lifetime to Switzerland. And she goes, and he was saying, it's so expensive, and blah, blah. And she said, I promise there's going to be a sign that tells me I was exactly at the right place at the right time. And she goes. And I said to him yesterday, what if I just see Kathy Heller in Switzerland? And she tells me, see, you made it. I knew you would make it through chemo, and I knew you'd be on the Swiss Alps. And she goes, and you're literally standing in front of me in Switzerland. And the fact that it's every 11 minutes a train goes up and down. Like, she could have been on the train that was going up while I was coming down. I never would have seen her. And I was like, how. How awesome is it when we're not in control, right? It's almost all worth it for those moments. It's just so amazing how it all. Like, my book came out last week on 11 11. Like, Simon and Schuster doesn't. I'm sorry, but they don't, like, think about this quantum. I don't think.
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They're not like us.
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I was like, do you realize that you guys picked 11? 11. She goes, oh, cute. What does it mean? Why? I'm like, my whole book is about this. Did you even read it? You didn't read it? Great. No, I'm just kidding. So typical. That's so typical. Fine. But it's like, what? It's just when we're not in control. So you get to choose, right? You get to choose if you want to be in control or you get to start. And here's what's really. It really does work. You can tell your body, which is what you teach about the nervous system. You can tell your body it's safe to feel this good and just tap it out like it's safe to feel this good. But when something's not familiar, your body goes, mayday. So if you've never felt this good and now this good, your body goes, not safe to feel this good. It's like, no, it actually is. This is how God intended it. And then, you know what's helpful is to remember that. You know why it gets to feel this good? Cause it doesn't even last that long. Cause even if you lived till a hundred, it was a blip. So just enjoy it, all right? Cause you're gonna go to the next life or the next thing, and it's like. Then you go, oh, yeah, why am I even saying that? Like, the whole thing is set up to feel that good, right? Cause you're here to learn the lessons you're here to learn and then take them with you to whatever the next dimension looks like anyway. So why are you getting in the way of just feeling so good? Just feel it. Just enjoy it. Just have it, right? But it is scary. And you do have that disintegration anxiety. And so it is a really normal phenomenon. But did you ever consider this? And my friend Kim and I were talking about this today, and we were talking about it the other day. We kind of like, geek out on this stuff. So Einstein talked about how time is not linear, but you just experience it that way, right? Time is not linear. And so we experience the past and the present and then the future. But the reason that you can taste this future is because you're already there. You've already been there. I explain this to people sometimes, and they're like, I don't get it. And I'm like, yeah, God doesn't experience 24 hour days. 24 hours is the sun and the Earth's rotation, right? But if you went to Jupiter, a day is. Anyone know a day Jon Jupiter is 9 hours and 58 minutes, because it has A different relationship to the sun. But if you went all the way to Pluto, I don't even know if that's still. Is it a planet? Is it not a planet?
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I think it got dropped.
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I got dropped.
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I got out of here, canceled it.
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Well, if you go all the way out there, right, then an hour is 26 seconds. They've measured that. So that's crazy, right? An hour is 26 seconds. So then 24 hours is 24 times 26 seconds. That's a day. Isn't that crazy? And then if you go just beyond our solar system, what happens to time? It's amazing how much we know about our apps and we don't know this. If you go just beyond our solar system, time evaporates. There's no time. So if you were from God's lens, it's all just now. He's seen the whole movie, right? So when you're in divine timing, you're, like, nothing to freak out about, because I've been to the future and I've been to the past, and everything's actually okay up here, right? And so you experience all this bumpiness because you're still plugged into here. But what's so cool, this is what's so amazing. I've sat with so many people in meditation and in breathwork, and I talked to Jon Kabat Zinn about this, and he was like, it's amazing. Like, everyone. Everyone I've ever worked with can get to that place where they feel that thing that's, like, the real truth of who they are, and they feel like that's the part of them that's beyond time, right? So while you're partly experiencing this disintegration anxiety because this ego wants to hold on to this cocktail of cortisol, whatever it is, there is a part of you that says, we're good. Just breathe, right? Because the mind is always in fight or flight. I told you, there's no wisdom in the mind, but the heart is always in equanimity. Always. I sat with my dad in hospice. In hospice. He's knowing that the moments are, like, precious, and they're going. I've never seen him so dropped in. And he even said he had all his family around him. He said, if I had to come to Earth just for these six days, I would do it again and again. The heart is wise, and it's always, always not attached to what the mind is doing with the jumping jacks, because it's attached to God. It's in that divine surrender. It's in divine order. I'll tell you this one more thing. So my meditation teacher used to say that we are like the ocean, right? If you were to look at the ocean, you see the waves, it's frenetic, right? It's always choppy, it's always reactive. But the ocean, if you go down in the ocean, you can go down 10ft, it's still what happens if you go down 50ft? It's like glass. If you scuba dive, it's like a fish goes by and it's like you see every detail because it's so still. So we have within us this still deep, wise sovereignty, but the mind is this like non stop choppiness. So when you step out of the blizzard of the mind and you just look up at it from the part of you that's wise, you find the sovereignty again. You meet up with the divine GPS again, the radio turns on again. It's just that all the time, everything around you is reconditioning you into the mind and that identity and all that stuff. And so you have to pull over to the side of your life and breathe or meditate. And when you are CEO of your business from that place, it's a completely different day, right? It's a completely different day. And that's where you turn it all on. And that's when you move into wholeness and that's when you collapse space and time and just the most amazing things happen. I'll tell you one last thing because he just texted me. So I just got a text from my friend Steve, who used to be head of Apple Podcasts. And I tell this story because it's just like another one of these stories where I started my podcast when my daughter was three weeks old and I have three girls, so my older one was four and a half. And then I have a middle one who was three and a half, and then she was three weeks, my youngest. I had this wild idea to start a podcast. And I start the show, this is 2017, and six months later, I'm breastfeeding. It's like I'm exhausted. I'm bone tired. My friend's like, oh, you should go to this podcast conference. And I'm like, I don't have the time or the energy. But like, oh, you know what? It feels like a yes. So I'll just go. So I go, I bring a pump, like into the, like, you know, my room. I'm like pumping every, like four hours running down to the conference. Anyway, one of the. It was like, it was Only a two day thing, but one of the moments was like a networking thing. And my friend says, did you bring business cards? And I'm like, are you kidding me? Do I look like I'd have business cards? Like, I didn't prepare anything ever my whole life. I'm such a C student. I'm like, shoot. I know. She's like, well, the whole thing was for networking. I'm like, great. I don't have anything like that. So we go downstairs and I find that it's like so tense because everyone's like, hi, I am being fake. And it's like so annoying. So I say to my friend, I go, what is the even point of this? And she goes, well, everybody wants to meet the Apple people who are. Because Spotify wasn't yet as it wasn't really yet a podcast thing. It was really more Apple podcasts. So she's like, they all want to meet the Apple podcast team. And I'm like, you know what? I can't. I just can't do it. I can't be that person. So I'm like, I'll meet you back in an hour when the panels and the things actually starts. So I leave this networking cocktail, whatever, go across the street to a different hotel. It's quiet in the lobby. I order an iced tea. I'm like, oh, thank God. I'm just like, can breathe, sit down, order nice tea. There's a nice guy sitting there and he is wearing the same badge as me from the conference. And he's like, were you in there? He's like, crazy in there. I'm like, I just can't. I just don't know how to do that actually. Anyway, he tells me he's from the Midwest and we start talking about Chicago and how nice Midwesterners are. And then 45 minutes later, he hands me his card and he goes, listen, I'm the head of Apple podcast. He's like, you should come to Apple. And I'm like, great, let's do that. Then I'm looking at his card and I don't want to reveal, but it says the address, okay? It's the offices in Culver City. I'll give you that much. Because I feel like they're gonna be like, why'd you get on stage and tell everyone the Apple address? I'll tell you why. So he shows me the. I see the address and I go, my daughter's. My four and a half year old's preschool is across the street and there's a building that's unmarked with valet parking. And I'm like, that's you. I've always wondered, what the hell is that bougie building? All these people, like, Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. People go in, nobody comes out. But the. Is it like, what's happening in there? What are they doing? And I'm dropping her off. So he goes, yeah, when are you going to be there next? This was a Sunday. I go, tomorrow morning. He goes, great. Come have breakfast with me. I'm like, oh, my God. So the next day, I dropped Gabby off at Pre K and literally, like, leave the car in that parking lot, walk across the street, and Apple is like, right there. I had been there every single day. I had been there. And then they took me under. He's like, make you a star, kid. I'll put you on my arm. He took me under his wing. They featured me nine times. Apple chose my show five years in a row as the number one show for the new year. New youw New and Noteworthy. It was literally like, they chose my show as one and Oprah's show as two. That's a joke. That can't even be possible. Me. Hello. Hey. Like, I didn't even wear my Invisalign. Like, how are you choosing my show? Like, I was a C student. What are you doing? So five years in a row, and it's really like. I don't know. My show then was like, 55 million downloads later. Because I left. No, I left. Did you catch that? I left the conference. I didn't even. It wasn't like, what's the strategy? Who do I talk to? It was like, bye, Peace out. Because God's got me, right? And because here's the real thing. Because I didn't need it to feel good. I wanted the iced tea to feel good. And that's when it gets so good. That's the point. Get it.
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They get it.
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They get it.
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They do get it.
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They get it.
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They do get it. They do get it. You get everything that you desire when you stop needing it. It's crazy the way the universe works like that. It's the best wholeness, though. It's like, I am whole and complete. I have absolutely everything I could possibly need and wants to, et cetera, et cetera. And the universe is like, oh, my gosh. Amazing. Here's more money, here's more connections. Here's more stuff. Here's more stuff. Here's more stuff. And then you remember you brought Steve to your house in LA and then invited all of us over and Then Steve poured into all of us and told us how to blow up our podcast, which was so amazing and valuable and so generous of you. Just so great. The better it gets, the better it gets. Better gets.
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Yeah. By the way, that is a whole strategy for life. It's like just being nice and being there for other people. It's amazing how that always gives you.
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Back whenever you're feeling scarcity or lack. Just literally go out of your way to figure out how I can help people. How can I help you reach your goals quicker? How can I help you? That is the way the universe works. And then somehow, some way, there's this invisible jet fuel that then allows you to meet your goals. It's just like, it's so beautiful and you feel so good doing it last.
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Last summer. My dad died in July last year, 2024. And so we went through the funeral and then we went through. In Judaism, we do something called Sitting Shiva, which for seven days you just like. It's really actually a gift because you just sit. You don't do anything. You literally stay home and feel your grief. Like it's actually really important. And then it's real. The re entry is really hard because you, like, go out in the world. You're like, the cars move really fast. Doesn't this person know, my dad just died? Why is she asking me for my order so quickly? You know, it's like, it's. The world feels weird after you've gone through something so that breaks you open, but it's so beautiful. So it was a couple weeks after my kids were like, mom, this summer has been so hard. We were in the hospital, then we were in hospice. They're like, we want to go to the. There was like the Minions movie or something had just come out. Like, can we go to the Minions movie? I'm like, you know what? I'm not up to it. But I'm going to take you guys because you've been such troopers and it's been such a few weeks for you. Let's go. So we go, and before that we stop to get sushi. So we go to the sushi restaurant. And the best ones are the ones that are like jam packed, like, hole in the wall, right? So we're sitting at this table like this, and there's a table right next to us. And I can hear their whole conversation. Cause they're like, right here, right. Not even this part. Like, right here, right next to me. So I'm listening to them and I say to my kids, I'm like, they're on a first date. And they're like, how do you know? I'm like, I can tell they're on a first date. She's like, what do you do? And he's still like, you know, trying to impress her. I was like, they're on a first date. So I was feeling really sad because I had been sad for the last many weeks. And I was like, you know what's going to make me feel better? I'm just going to do something for someone for no reason. So I turned to them, and I'm like, are you guys on a first date? And they're like, yeah. And my kids are like, mom, this is so embarrassing. Like, not cool. Not cool, Mom. Cringe. Like, so cringe. I'm like, it's okay, bro. It's fine. Anyway, six, seven. It's fine. I just learned what that means. Yeah, welcome.
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It means nothing.
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Yeah, it means nothing. We'll talk about that. That's a whole other hour. We'll do an hour on that afterwards. Anyways, six, seven. So I say to them, are you on a first date? They're like, yeah. And I said, can I, like, buy you dessert or something? And they're like, sure. Weird lady.
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No.
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They're like, yeah, sure. So we got up and we left, and they ordered, like, the fried Japanese ice cream or whatever. And she says to me before I left, she goes, what's your, like, social media? She's like, I want to say thank you. I want to stay in touch with you. I was like, okay. So we leave, we go to the movie, and it's kind of boring. So I'm like, pick up my phone because I'm like, can't watch these boring movies. And she DMed me. And she's like, thank you so much. And I was like, dude, like, are you going to go on a second date? And she's like, I don't know. But he was really nice. And it was so nice of you. You. She said, because what you don't know is she said, I am a widow. She's only 45. She goes, I'm a widow. I lost my husband six years ago. And she said, this was my first date. And so she said I had asked God for a sign that it's like, okay to open my heart. And then you did that. And she goes, and no one's ever done that for me. And I go, you know what's so crazy? I said, this was my first date out of the house since I lost my dad a few weeks ago on July 3rd. And she goes, my late husband died five years ago on July 3rd. Yeah. So I feel like what happens is, all day long, there's these little breadcrumbs, these little winks from the divine. But when we're just, like, nothing's working out, it's like we miss the moment, right? And those moments are the most exhilarating things in the world. And I was like, oh, my God, I was crying. And my kids were like, just. The Minions movie's not sad. Why are you crying? I'm like, because Steve Carell. Look at him. He should be. No, the point of it is that when moments like that happen, I was like, dad, I know you're here. Like, you're talking to me. Like, I was the first time I went out and I did something nice for somebody else. And it was like, it led me right back to what I needed. Right? And it's like, what we really want is love and connection. Like, would you rather have a stack of cash or love like that all the time? That's just always bumping into you all the time, where God's, like, leaving you love notes. No, you want that. And by the way, you get to have both, right? You get to have both. But when you have that first one, it's amazing how that lights up the grid. And that's when all the other stuff fills in, because that's what you really wanted, and you put first things first.
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Give her a round of applause. You are amazing.
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I hope you got something from that. I would love to hear, by the way, if you want to DM me on Instagram in my DMs. I read them all. I'm just curious if there was something that really spoke to you about this episode. By the way, I want to say an extra special thank you to Samantha for inviting me to that event and letting me share this with all of you. She's actually doing a free workshop next Monday, live, February 23rd. It's all about breath work, and it might be something that you really want to check out. If you go to kathyheller.com Samantha, you can find all the information. Here are the takeaways from today's episode. Number one. What we actually want is the real abundance that we came for. We want the abundance that lives within us. We want to feel connected to the divine. We want every moment to be a walking conversation with our soul, to be on assignment all the time. Number two, you are a masterpiece because you're a piece of the master. You're someone because you're some of the one. You're always at the right place at the right time. God is making all your plans. Number four. You're the daughter of the king. You are meant to be a steward of it all. Love, blessing, compassion and wealth. Number five. Every single morning have a meeting with God. God is your cfo. God is your business partner and there is no budget. Number six. You can turn on that music. You can literally be having that dance party RSVP to the day with God that is waiting for you in escrow every single morning. Number seven. If you want to create in the quantum field, if your business, your life, love, all of it, you need to be in overflow. When you're in wholeness, you will manifest. You will start printing. Your energy becomes a 3D printer. The world is a vibrational match. Number eight. The heart is wise because it's attached to God. It's in that divine surrender. It's in divine order. Thank you so much for listening. I know that you have a million things on your plate, so I really appreciate that you're here and we have great episodes coming out. So follow along on Apple podcasts or sponsors, Spotify, wherever you're listening. And if you really love this show, please leave us a review. Here's a review that we got on an episode from last week. I just wanted to share it. There is so much in this conversation I'm halfway through and keep replaying different parts to absorb it all. Rudy gives some practical work to do that can be applied and Kathy asked all the questions I've wanted to know. A thank you so much.
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Elisa.
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Thank you for that review. Rudy is amazing. I hope you all get to listen to that episode from last week. It was really one of the best conversations I've ever had on this podcast and I just enjoy reading your reviews so much. So if you haven't left us a review, please go ahead and do that. And last thing, if you want to join me live, if you want me to be your coach, if you want to hang out and get my meditations and activations, you can join us inside my community and you can try it for a dollar. If you want, go to kathyheller.com gift we're doing a special welcome party next week and we would love to see you there. I love you. Talk to you soon.