Notes and Links to Donna Minkowitz’s Work

Donna Minkowitz is a writer of fantasy, memoir, and journalism lauded by Lilith Magazine for her “fierce imagination and compelling prose.” Science fiction great Terry Bisson called her writing “rich and wild, dark and funny, as fearless as her legendary journalism and as scary as a fairy tale.” And she’s proud that Kirkus has praised the “defiant and playful energy” of her work.

Her memoir Growing Up Golem, a finalist for both a Lambda Literary Award and the Judy Grahn Nonfiction Award, is being republished by Indolent Books after 13 years!

Donna Minkowitz's Website

Review of Growing Up Golem from Kirkus Reviews

At about 1:30, Donna and Pete highlight the pending reissue of Growing Up Golem

At about 2:30, Pete asks Donna about how she sees Growing Up Golem 13 years later, and she gives a summary of the book

At about 4:10, Donna expands on the idea set forth in the Writer’s Note that the book is “88% true”

At about 7:15, Donna talks about the general idea of the “golem” and the providence of the book’s conceit

At about 9:00, Donna reflects on the idea of “memory” and the science behind it, as well as the memoir as a “work of art”

At about 10:10, Donna responds to Pete’s asking about the book’s opening referencing Donna’s mom and her creating a “Donna Doll”

At about 12:40, Donna expands on ideas of guilt and selfishness and psychosomatic pain that came with her Repetitive Strain Injury

At about 14:40, Donna responds to Pete asking about her mother’s health struggles and ideas of impending death

At about 17:00, The two talk about Donna’s mother’s artistic prowess and Donna’s feelings of “twoness”

At about 19:45, Donna examines the idea of her mother that lying could be correct, and what the philosophy said about her mother and her morality

At about 22:40, Donna expands on feelings of “twoness” in connection to W.E.B. DuBois

At about 24:10, Donna reflects on her early writing with The Village Voice and her motivations and mindset in writing for the publication

At about 27:00, Donna outlines her mother’s health problems and connections to her sexuality and sensuality

At about 29:00, Pete asks Donna how she balances the fact that her mother was a victim of sexual violence

At about 32:05, Donna expands on The Village Voice and her reporting around ACT Up and its advocacy and activism, as well as Queer Nation

At about 34:35, Donna tells Julio Rivera’s story, as she did for the publication

At about 36:20, Donna talks about her father’s death and his “scari[ness]” before his death and the “strange dynamic" of him as a “scapegoat” and her mother’s behavior after his death

At about 39:20, Pete wonders about a sort of "competition" between Donna and her mother, particularly with regard to a 1991 Thanksgiving interaction

At about 41:45, Donna responds to Pete asking about her mother’s often making fun of her mother's body

At about 44:25, Donna speaks about the “competing therapists”

At about 48:15, Donna speaks on the idea of the golem as being built and possibly destroyed by the same person, as well as the classic legend of the golem

At about 51:30, Donna talks about a familial way of acting when threatened and confronting that reaction

At about 52:25, Pete cites some “beautiful moments” from her therapist and mother, and Donna reflects

At about 53:20, The two reflect on ideas of control and freedom in Donna’s personal life and connections to therapy and her mother’s influence

At about 55:25, Donna talks about connections between early and later relationships and the ways she was treated

At about 58:20, Pete and Donna discuss the book’s juxtapositions and her concerns and struggles with her chronic pain

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