Podcast
The Christian Dating Coach
Hosted by Michelle Joiner · EN
Most single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.
On one side, silence —
Pray. Wait. Don’t want it too much.
On the other, overexposure —
crude, transactional,
disconnected from God.
This podcast exists because there is a third way —
one that is intelligent, reverent, and real.
And one that actually leads to marriage.
We don’t offer scripts.
We tell the truth.
About singleness and marriage.
About covenant sex and holiness.
About what draws men and women together — spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
We also pull back the curtain on the systems shaping modern dating.
This is for women who are no longer interested in vague advice —
and are ready for wisdom, direction, and marriage.
Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating coach who works privately with women to move from singleness into marriage through high-level positioning and discernment.
If you’re ready to be seen clearly — and marry well —
you’re in the right place.
Apply for private mentorship at:
www.thechristiandatingcoach.com
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Ep. 116: What Marriage to a Boaz is Really Like
1w ago00:12:38Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this episode, Michelle shares the truth married women know but do not always say out loud.What is marriage to a Boaz really like?It is beautiful.It is tender.It is chosen.It is sexy glances in the kitchen, grocery-store whispers, and being seen as beautiful when real life changes your body.But it is not easy.And that is exactly why the man’s character matters.If you desire marriage, children, family, intimacy, legacy, partnership, and a man of God beside you, send an email to michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com with the word BRIDE, and Michelle will send you the details for Kingdom Bride Unlocked.
Transcribe →Ep. 115: Criticism and Chaos: They're Keeping You from Your Boaz
2w ago00:13:26Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIn this episode, Michelle talks about two patterns that keep Christian women stuck in dating: criticism and chaos. If you keep blaming men, dating apps, your church, your city, or God’s timing while showing up inconsistent, overwhelmed, and hard to pursue, you may be blocking the very love you’re praying for. Through the story of Ruth and Boaz, Michelle shows why wise counsel, humility, steadiness, and strategic movement matter for women who want to marry well. Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.To learn more, visit:thechristiandatingcoach.com
Transcribe →Ep. 114: How Do I Recognize He’s a Boaz?
2w ago00:06:31Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailHow do you know if a man is worth continuing to talk to?How do you know if he is faithful, serious, godly, and someone you should not let get away?In this episode, Michelle offers a wiser, more graceful way to think about discernment. Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.To learn more, visit:thechristiandatingcoach.com
Transcribe →Ep. 113: There Are Men Who Don’t Look at Other Women
3w ago00:05:17Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhat if the kind of man you want actually exists?In this episode, Michelle speaks to the woman who has quietly lowered her expectations because faithfulness, clarity, tenderness, and godly pursuit started to feel unrealistic.But there are men who do not like other women’s pictures. There are men who do not look at other women. There are men who pray, read the Bible, and are waiting for marriage.And maybe the issue is not that he does not exist.Maybe the issue is recognition.Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating strategist for discerning Christian women. She helps successful single women become unmistakable to the kind of godly, high-caliber man who is ready to choose a wife.Her clients do not just get dates or attention. They become chosen, cherished, and married well.To learn more, visit:thechristiandatingcoach.com
Transcribe →Ep. 112: An Engineer’s Take on Dating Fatigue
3w ago00:06:31Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailMore time does not fix a process that keeps producing disappointment.In this episode, Michelle draws from her background as an engineer to explain why repeated disappointment in dating is not neutral. It wears on your hope, your confidence, your softness, and your ability to believe that marriage is still possible.If you have been deleting and redownloading the apps, trying to stay open, hoping the next attempt will be different, and still finding yourself disappointed by the same kind of men, this episode will help you consider whether your current process is worthy of your desire. New episodes every Monday and Thursday for discerning Christian women who are done waiting and ready to marry well.Learn more at thechristiandatingcoach.com.To inquire about private mentorship, email Michelle at michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com and share what has been the hardest part of your struggle to marry well.
Transcribe →Ep. 111: Waiting is Settling
4w ago00:08:47Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhat if settling is not just choosing the wrong man?What if settling is also allowing yourself to keep living a life beneath the desire God placed in you?In this episode, Michelle reframes what it means to “never settle” and speaks directly to the Christian woman who is successful, capable, grateful, and still honest enough to admit: I want marriage.If you have been waiting, hoping, praying, and quietly wondering why nothing is changing, this episode will help you tell the truth about your desire and consider whether your current process is worthy of the life you actually want. New episodes every Monday and Thursday for discerning Christian women who are done waiting and ready to marry well.Learn more at thechristiandatingcoach.com. To inquire about private mentorship, email Michelle at michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com and share what has been the hardest part of your struggle to marry well.
Transcribe →Ep. 110: Women Aren’t Allowed to Want
May 1200:30:46Tap to summarizeSend us Fan Mail You’ve been told to be content. To wait quietly.To make sure you never look desperate.But what if the desire you keep trying to silence is not the problem?This is a bold, tender word for the Christian woman who wants marriage and is tired of apologizing for it.You’re also invited to Come and Pray this Saturday, May 16th, 2026.No teaching. No coaching. Just prayer for women who desire marriage.To receive the invitation, email michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.com with the word PRAYER.
Transcribe →Ep. 109: You’re Still Settling
Apr 1400:06:34Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailThis is for the Christian woman who is no longer available for an “almost” life and is ready to leave the wrong path behind.In this episode, I’m talking about what changes when a woman is truly done settling—not just for the wrong man, but for any path that is not leading to the life she desires.Go to thechristiandatingcoach.com and move toward marrying well.
Transcribe →Ep. 108: The Man You Want Has Already Met You
Mar 1000:13:22Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailMany extraordinary women quietly come to the same painful conclusion:The kind of man I want must not exist.But what if that isn’t true?What if the man you want has already crossed your path… and simply didn’t recognize you?In this episode, Michelle Joiner shares a surprising insight about modern dating, recognition, and why the strategy most women use to find love may actually be working against them.Stop looking.Be findable.If you’re ready to become unmistakably recognizable to the kind of man you’re looking for, you can request a private consult through the link below.www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/consult
Transcribe →Ep. 107: You Can Buy Roses. You Can’t Buy This.
Feb 1000:06:49Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailReal love isn’t roses. It isn’t candlelight dinners. It isn’t Instagram.It’s quieter than that.It’s someone doing the dishes. Jazz in the kitchen. Being chosen on an ordinary Tuesday night.In this episode, Michelle shares a small moment at home — and the truth most women don’t realize until years have already passed:Delay isn’t neutral.If you’re ready to stop waiting and marry well, Michelle will show you the path.Book your call below: 👉 [link]Old-fashioned love stories begin here. 💙
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