Podcast
The Christian Dating Coach
Hosted by Michelle Joiner · EN
Most single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.
On one side, silence —
Pray. Wait. Don’t want it too much.
On the other, overexposure —
crude, transactional,
disconnected from God.
This podcast exists because there is a third way —
one that is intelligent, reverent, and real.
And one that actually leads to marriage.
We don’t offer scripts.
We tell the truth.
About singleness and marriage.
About covenant sex and holiness.
About what draws men and women together — spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
We also pull back the curtain on the systems shaping modern dating.
This is for women who are no longer interested in vague advice —
and are ready for wisdom, direction, and marriage.
Michelle Joiner is a Christian dating coach who works privately with women to move from singleness into marriage through high-level positioning and discernment.
If you’re ready to be seen clearly — and marry well —
you’re in the right place.
Apply for private mentorship at:
www.thechristiandatingcoach.com
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Ep. 107: You Can Buy Roses. You Can’t Buy This.
Feb 1000:06:49Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailReal love isn’t roses. It isn’t candlelight dinners. It isn’t Instagram.It’s quieter than that.It’s someone doing the dishes. Jazz in the kitchen. Being chosen on an ordinary Tuesday night.In this episode, Michelle shares a small moment at home — and the truth most women don’t realize until years have already passed:Delay isn’t neutral.If you’re ready to stop waiting and marry well, Michelle will show you the path.Book your call below: 👉 [link]Old-fashioned love stories begin here. 💙
Transcribe →Ep. 106: Something Has Changed
Jan 1300:05:49Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailMost single Christian women feel quietly trapped between two unsatisfying extremes.On one side, church silence and simplification — Pray. Wait. Don’t think too much.On the other, secular overexposure — crude, transactional, dopamine-driven explanations of sex, attraction, and desire.This episode marks a shift.There is a third way — one that is intelligent, reverent, and real.My private work guides women from singleness into marriage — through strategic counsel and exquisite, biblical guidance.In this brief reflection, I share what has changed in my work, why this podcast is returning in a new form, and the kind of conversations we’ll be having moving forward.These are not how-to episodes.They are monthly, unrushed reflections on singleness and marriage, covenant sex and holiness, discernment, polarity, attraction — including the biology behind what draws men and women together — and the technologies shaping how modern couples now meet.This podcast is for women who don’t want to perform holiness while waiting for marriage, or outsource their understanding to secular voices that feel misaligned — but who still desire clarity, wisdom, and real guidance.If you’ve been looking for a quieter, wiser conversation about love, marriage, and becoming — you’re in the right place.
Transcribe →Ep. 105: Is Surrendering This Desire to God Keeping You Single?
Nov 1700:10:05Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailIs surrender keeping you stuck? You might be surprised. If marriage is a holy desire God placed inside you, then it’s time to treat it like the calling (and priority) it is. Your husband is real. Your story is written. The only thing missing is your participation.And for a short time, when you purchase Kingdom Bride Unlocked: The Course, you’ll receive a free 1:1 “Call In Your Husband Now” strategy session with me. We’ll map out your exact steps, your messaging, your strategy — personalized to your life and season. CLICK HERE to CLAIM YOUR BONUS CALLChoose it. Claim it. And go call in your husband.
Transcribe →Ep. 104: Stop Waiting to Be Chosen — Give Yourself What You Want
Nov 1300:05:01Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailWhat if the only thing standing between you and your godly husband… is you? In this episode, Michelle delivers the truth that changes everything for single Christian women: the women who get married don’t wait to be chosen—they choose themselves. Hear how one client went from single to ring shopping in just seven months, and the mindset shift that made it happen. 💙 Apply for private coaching at www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/apply
Transcribe →Ep. 103: Relationship 101: Purpose — 3 Steps That Get You Engaged Faster
Nov 600:10:44Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailYou don’t need a complicated plan to build a relationship that actually leads to marriage—you need purpose. In today’s finale of Relationship 101, I share the simple framework my clients use to go from “this is good” to “we’re engaged” in months, not years. If you’re ready to stop drifting and start moving, this episode is your map.At the end, I’ll show you exactly where to meet marriage-minded men, how to write a profile that attracts the right one (and repels the wrong ones), and how to create pure, magnetic chemistry—so you can move from texting to commitment with confidence. I help Christian women get married. If your heart’s beating faster, apply for private mentorship. Link below.https://www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/applyLet’s get you married, sis.
Transcribe →Ep. 102: Relationship 101: Problems – Don’t Let Them Cost You a Godly Man
Nov 300:25:26Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailEven the best, most godly men will come with problems. Not red flags… just real life, two humans learning how to love. But here’s the truth no one tells you: it’s not the problems that end most love stories — it’s the way we respond to them.In this episode, we talk about how a Kingdom Bride handles problems. No drama. No chasing. No shutting down. Just holy desire, respect, and emotional maturity that keeps love growing instead of dying.💌 If you’re listening and thinking, “I want this, but I don’t know how to do it…” email me at michelle@thechristiandatingcoach.comIf price is the only thing in your way, ask. I will always do my best to make a way for a woman who’s ready to move.God opens the door — but you have to walk through it.Let's get you married, Sis.
Transcribe →Ep. 101: Relationship 101: Pleasure — Holy Sizzle That Leads to Marriage
Oct 3000:19:38Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailHigh-caliber, godly men are all around you. If they’re not proposing, it’s because you don’t know this secret: they want to feel pleasure — holy pleasure.Do you feel like pleasure is off-limits as a Christian woman? Well, it’s not.In this episode, Michelle Joiner shows faith-filled, ambitious women how to cultivate holy sizzle — the chemistry, warmth, and joy that make a man feel admired, respected, and safe to pursue you.If you’re ready to stop being the woman men date and start being the woman they commit to and marry, this episode will open your eyes to what’s possible.💍 Inside Kingdom Bride Unlocked, Michelle helps women learn how to communicate like queens, attract godly men, and move from waiting to walking in covenant love.👉 Click here to book your consult call today and discover the holy pleasure that leads to commitment.
Transcribe →Ep. 100: The 4 Heart Postures of My Clients Who Marry High-Caliber Men
Oct 2700:09:01Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailAfter 100 episodes, hundreds of coaching calls, and more weddings than she ever imagined, Michelle has seen the pattern — the women who get married think, believe, and show up differently.In this milestone episode, she reveals the 4 heart postures that define her most successful clients — the ones who attract high-caliber, godly men and build lasting, covenant marriages.This isn’t a pep talk or dating advice. It’s a roadmap for transformation.If you’ve ever wondered what makes love “click” for some women while others stay stuck, this episode will show you exactly what separates the breakthrough from the burnout.💍 Faith. Ownership. Alignment. Transformation. Let’s get you married, sis. 💙
Transcribe →Ep. 99: Behind the Scenes: So Much Love Is in the Air. Are You Ready for It Too?
Oct 2300:05:27Tap to summarizeSend us Fan MailLove is in the air—holy, romantic, life-changing love. 💙In this short behind-the-scenes update, Michelle shares what’s been happening inside the Kingdom Bride Unlocked coaching program and in her own home.Clients who once started single are now in relationships. They’re glowing from makeovers and photo shoots that have them saying, “I feel like Beyoncé. I feel like J.Lo.” 👑Others are being pursued by godly men who plan romantic, Spirit-filled trips and even holiday family visits. And on Michelle’s end? There are corn-maze walks with her kids, haunted-house dates with Caleb, and gratitude for the way God restores the years the locusts have eaten.She’s also unveiling what’s next: Relationship Success Secrets — a brand-new series drawn straight from the lessons her clients are learning about confidence, connection, communication, and holy chemistry in real time.If you’re ready to feel that same movement in your own love life, join Michelle for the Swipe. Match. Marry. Masterclass — happening this Sunday, just in time for the holidays. 🎄👉 Reserve your free seat: www.TheChristianDatingCoach.com/masterclassYou’re not behind. You’re being prepared. Let’s get you ready for love. 💍
Transcribe →Ep. 98: Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language
Oct 2000:11:57Tap to summarizeSend a textIf you’ve ever wished a man could just know what you need — this episode is for you.In “Mind Reading Isn’t Love — Learn to Speak His Language,” Christian dating coach Michelle Joiner reveals the secret to creating real connection: not through hints or pressure, but through communication that inspires. She shares her own long-distance story with her husband Caleb, the moment she stopped wishing he’d read her mind, and how learning to speak King’s Language transformed everything.Discover how to express your heart with clarity, call out the hero in a godly man, and experience the kind of love that feels safe, warm, and secure.🎓 Join the Swipe. Match. Marry. Masterclass this Sunday, October 26 — and upgrade to VIP for Male Language Secrets.👉 www.thechristiandatingcoach.com/masterclass
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