In this second episode of The Lies We Believe series, we’re going deeper into identity lies and the beliefs many women quietly carry about themselves.

Lies like:

I don’t belong
I’m not lovable
I’m broken
There’s something wrong with me

These thoughts don’t just affect your emotions. They shape your relationships, your confidence, your habits, your leadership, your boundaries, and how you show up in the world.

In this episode, we talk about:

Where identity lies often come from
Why repeated thoughts start feeling true
How practiced thinking creates patterns in the brain
Why you are not broken
What scripture says about your identity
How to begin replacing lies with truth

This episode is honest, practical, faith-rooted, and deeply personal.

Key Takeaways

Identity lies are often formed early through repeated experiences, rejection, criticism, comparison, and pain
Familiar thoughts are not automatically true
Practiced thinking creates emotional and behavioral patterns
You will struggle to act consistently against the identity you believe you have
Your identity cannot safely be rooted in your past, emotions, mistakes, or other people’s opinions
God designed you for renewal, growth, and transformation
Humility is agreeing with God, not agreeing with lies about yourself
You can practice new ways of thinking and create new pathways of truth

You do not have to keep agreeing with thoughts that are keeping you stuck.

You are not broken.

And you do not need to become a different person overnight.

You just need to begin noticing the identity you’ve been rehearsing and start practicing truth on purpose.

If this episode resonated with you, schedule a Right Fit Call through the show notes. Let’s talk about what it would look like to work through these patterns together in coaching.

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