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Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com There's something most people feel but almost no one talks about. You perform around others, you amp yourself up, you say what you think people want to hear. Then you get home and collapse... exhausted from being "on" all day. You tell yourself that's just life and it works. It's not. That exhaustion has a root. That feeling of "if people really knew me, they wouldn't feel the same way..." that has a name. And once you see it, you can't unsee it. In this video I'm breaking down: What's actually causing the exhaustion 3 signs this is running your life One exercise to start closing the gap Fair warning, this one goes deep! But it might be the most important topic we'll speak about all year. Chapters: 00:00 The thing that messes us up. 01:05 PART 1: what this is 04:36 My story 05:51 PART 2: three signs 06:07 Sign 1 08:22 Sign 2 12:12 Sign 3 14:50 Try this next The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

hey crew, back with another book video! Maybe you feel like you're starting over, or maybe you're just questioning everything. Either way, these 5 books helped me when I was going through transitions and I know if you're looking to reinvent yourself, even just ONE of these can shift how you see yourself in the next 30 days. Which one are you starting with? 00:00 Your 30-day reset 00:37 Book 1 04:23 Book 2 08:07 Book 3 11:04 Book 4 15:10 Book 5 The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, CLark

Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com Limited time: (use code "YOUTUBE50" at checkout) Time for the ultimate guide to keeping a journal! This has been our end-of-year tradition for over 8 years now, and I couldn't be more excited to share it with you again. In this video, I'll show you why journaling is hands-down the BEST thing you can do to change your life in 2026. We'll break it down into these parts: 00:00 The one habit 01:01 Why 03:12 What 04:05 How 04:21 Front cover 08:28 Back cover 12:12 Middle Hope you dig it, and happy new year! The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... 2025: • The Ultimate Guide to Journaling: Change Y... 2024: • The ULTIMATE guide to keeping a Journal 2023: • the ultimate guide to keeping a journal 2022: • the ultimate guide to keeping a journal 2021: • The Ultimate Guide to Keeping A Journal MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com Dry January starts in a few weeks. It's the time of year when millions of people quit alcohol for 30 days. Most go right back February 1st. Four years ago, that was my plan too. But when I quit drinking, I liked the benefits so much that my 30-day challenge turned into 60, then 90, and now here we are: 1400 days later. Maybe you've noticed the drinking creeping up. Used to be weekends. Now it's most nights. You're wondering if that's concerning. Maybe you're getting older and starting to take your health more seriously. Maybe you're not a big drinker, but you want a challenge. I know a lot of you are into self-improvement. This is a habit that actually delivers. So in this video, I want to walk you through what happens when you quit. Day by day. Day 0 to 365. What the science says, what I actually felt, and most importantly, the stuff I wish someone told me before I started. Heads up: If you're a heavy drinker, check with a doctor first. Alcohol withdrawal is one of the few that can actually be dangerous. I'm just a guy who quit and wants to share what helped. Not a doctor. Andrew Huberman Podcast: • What Alcohol Does to Your Body, Brain & He... The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com Quick Note: We got a deep one today, guys. I'm fully aware some people will see this and think "total first-world problems." But I'm making this video because burnout and losing your sense of purpose doesn't care how successful you look on paper. If you've ever felt lost even while things looked good from the outside, I know you can relate to this story. This is a story about two years that tanked my mental health, and how I finally got it back. I hope this helps you see your new future differently. THANK YOU Refusing to Settle, Clark

Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com Over the last 10 years, I've read over 400 books that all claim to change your life. Truth is, 50% you could probably skip because they're marketing tools for the author and will eat 8 hours of your life. 48% had some decent ideas. But then there was the 2%. These 2% books had such a deep impact that never left even after the first read. Those 2% books are sitting right here. And I want to walk you through the 10 books I would definitely recommend you read that'll change your life. I'm going to go over the big idea from each, what phase of your life I would recommend you read it in, who it's for, and how they changed my perspective on achievements, staying present, and how they prevented some expensive mistakes. Beautiful day here in Arizona. Let's go get some fresh air and kick it off with book number one. Timestamps: 00:00 10 Books from 400 00:46 1 03:59 2 06:28 3 08:23 4 11:02 5 12:42 6 14:53 7 16:20 8 18:18 9 20:20 10 23:21 Do this next Book Breakdowns: Dopamine Nation: • The Hidden Dopamine Debt DESTROYING Your M... Same As Ever: • The Book That Changed My Thinking Forever The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle Clark

Free newsleter + gift - https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Free shadow work Qs - https://www.clarkkegley.com/shadow-work My Best Journal Program - https://www.mybestjournal.com The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Most people think they're self-aware. They're not. If you're stuck in the same patterns: same relationship dynamics, same money plateau, same habits you can't shake... there's a reason. And it's not what you think. So in this video, I'll break down the 4 layers of your mind and the blocks keeping you stuck at each level. Once you understand how deep this goes, everything shifts faster. Watch if you're ready to actually move forward. Stoked to announce, the NEW My Best Journal program is officially LIVE! It's your complete framework to coach yourself, create the 2.0 you, and actually change your life. Want more growth in 1 month than most people get in a year? Check it out here: https://www.mybestjournal.com Timestamps: 00:00 The Subconscious Iceberg 01:03 Level 1 03:04 Block 1 04:25 Level 2 07:25 Block 2 11:00 Level 3 13:43 Block 3 14:29 Level 4 / Block 4 16:30 Strategies 18:43 Recap 19:28 Do this next The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Videos on... SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley Refusing to Settle, Clark

Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Why do we self-sabotage? Ever feel like you're stuck in a cycle—doing great for a few weeks, then crashing, only to start over again? That’s self-sabotage at work. It’s like driving with the parking brake on. You push harder, but something invisible keeps holding you back. Whether it’s procrastination, addiction, binge eating, or even relationship patterns, self-sabotage shows up in all areas of life. Carl Jung called it the 'shadow self'—the part of us working against our best interests. In this video, I break down the four types of self-sabotage and how to stop them for good. 00:00 Why this video's for you 01:14 The Cycle Controlling Your Life 03:42 Pattern 1 07:56 Pattern 2 12:17 Pattern 3 15:14 Pattern 4 19:06 Your Action Steps The Best of Series | 10-years In The Making: • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey, I'm Clark. Creator, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and the dude helping you create a life that’s less ‘meh’ and more ‘hell yes.’ My job is to help you reinvent yourself… but not in the way you might think. Most advice treats you like a self-improvement project that needs fixing—you’re not broken, and you never were. Real change has nothing to do with complicated productivity hacks or perfect 5AM routines. It’s not about becoming someone else… it’s about unlocking the 2.0 version of you that’s already inside, waiting to be set free. Because when you shift who you are, everything else—your confidence, relationships, and career—falls into place. Ready to step into your 2.0 self? Let’s make it happen for you. P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark

Have you joined our NEW Join our Refusing to Settle Newsletter yet? (It's free). I'm sending you life-changing ideas and tools to you every Saturday morning. Let's shift your identity and design a life you love 👊 https://www.clarkkegley.com/free-ques... Relationships today feel like navigating a minefield. Open your phone, and it’s hot takes everywhere—love bombing, gaslighting, narcissists… It’s like everyone has an opinion. Even something as simple as texting back has become a mental game: “Should I wait 2 minutes? Will I seem needy?” In this video, I’m cutting through the noise with 10 brutally honest pieces of relationship advice that no one ever told you. We're talking about real, no-fluff insights like: Stop looking for the right person—start becoming the right person. The myth of 'the one' is ruining your love life. Your ex doesn’t exist (seriously, delete them). The internet is keeping you single (watch whose rules you’re following). Relationships aren’t 50/50—they’re 100/100. Plus, we’ll dive into why love addiction is a real thing, how 'therapy-speak' might be sabotaging your relationships, and why outside opinions can mess with your connection more than you think. If you’re ready for some straight-up, no-nonsense advice that’ll actually help you build better relationships, this one’s for you. 00:00 The state of modern dating 00:41 1 01:43 2 03:25 3 04:23 4 06:20 5 08:20 6 09:42 7 10:55 8 12:10 9 13:42 10 New here? Check out or "Best Of" Series • THE BEST OF - Clark Kegley | Top Vide... MY FAVORITE TOOLS 🟣 Book List - read if you want to grow - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/best-books... 🔴 YouTube Gear - how I film my videos - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/youtube-gear 🔴 Studio Gear - make filming easier - https://kit.co/clarkkegley/studio-gear SOCIAL / clarkkegley / clarkkegley / theclarkkegley WE'RE HIRING Apply to join the team: https://forms.gle/bQsQqqrJfiCU31nYA WHO AM I Hey, I'm Clark. Creator, entrepreneur, YouTuber, and the dude helping you create a life that’s less ‘meh’ and more ‘hell yes.’ My job is to help you reinvent yourself… but not in the way you might think. Most advice treats you like a self-improvement project that needs fixing—you’re not broken, and you never were. Real change has nothing to do with complicated productivity hacks or perfect 5AM routines. It’s not about becoming someone else… it’s about unlocking the 2.0 version of you that’s already inside, waiting to be set free. Because when you shift who you are, everything else—your confidence, relationships, and career—falls into place. Ready to step into your 2.0 self? Let’s make it happen for you 👊 P.S. Some of the links in this description are affiliate links, meaning I get a commission if you purchase through them. It's a great way to support the channel at no extra cost to you 👊 Refusing to settle, Clark