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Mary Katharine Ham
Hey, guys, we are back on normal. Your show with normal it takes for when the news gets weird. I am Mary Kathryn Haney.
Carol Markowitz
And I am Carol Markowitz. How are you doing, Mary Kathryn?
Mary Katharine Ham
We're doing all right. We're having quite a week. Two kids with croup. One dog had surgery because the allegedly smartest dog on the planet ate a microfiber towel. So he lost his crown. He lost his crown.
Carol Markowitz
Sometimes smart people and dogs do not so smart things.
Mary Katharine Ham
It's fine. We're fine. We're getting through it. We're getting through it. All right. Well, the dog's doing well, so we got that going for us.
Carol Markowitz
We're rooting for the dog. Hoping the kids feel better soon. And hope you're doing. Hope you're holding up over there.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah, we're all right.
Carol Markowitz
Well, we've got sort of a California heavy episode. Both of our first topics touch on it. Katie Porter is the front runner to be the Democratic nominee for the governor of California. She's poised to take over from Gavin, and she was having what could only be described as a fairly softball interview at CBS when she completely lost her mind. Let's roll that clip.
CBS Reporter
What do you say to the 40% of California voters who you'll need in order to win who voted for Trump?
Katie Porter
How would I need them in order to win?
CBS Reporter
Well, unless you think you're going to get 60% of the vote. You think you'll get 60% all everybody who did not vote for Trump will vote for you.
Katie Porter
That's what you're in a general election? Yes. If it is me versus a Republican, I think that I will win. The people who did not vote for Trump.
CBS Reporter
What if it's you versus another Democrat?
Katie Porter
I don't intend that to be the case.
CBS Reporter
So how do you not intend that.
Mary Katharine Ham
To be the case?
CBS Reporter
Do you. Are you going to ask them not to run?
Katie Porter
No, no. I'm saying I'm going to build the support. I have the support already in terms of name recognition. And so I'm going to do the very best I can to make sure that we get through this primary in a really strong position. But let Me be clear with you, I represented Orange County, I represented a purple area. I have stood on my own two feet and won Republican votes before. That's not something every candidate in this race can say. If you're from a deep blue area, if you're from LA or you're from Oakland, you haven't, you don't have an experience.
CBS Reporter
You just said you don't need those Trump voters.
Katie Porter
Well, you asked me if I needed them to win, so you don't. I feel like this is unnecessarily argumentative. What is your question?
CBS Reporter
The question is the same thing I asked everybody, that this is being called the Empowering voters to Stop Trump's power Grab. Every other candidate has answered this question. This is not correct.
Katie Porter
And I said I support it.
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CBS Reporter
And the question is, what do you say to the 40% of voters who voted for Trump?
Katie Porter
Oh, I'm happy to say that it's the, do you need them to win? Part that I don't understand. I'm happy to answer the question as you have it written and I'll answer it.
CBS Reporter
And we've also asked the other candidates, do you think you need any of those 40% of California voters to win? And you're saying no, you don't.
Katie Porter
No, I'm saying I'm going to try to win every vote I can. And what I'm saying to you is.
CBS Reporter
That, well, to those voters. Okay, so you, I don't want to keep doing this.
Katie Porter
I'm going to call it. Thank you.
CBS Reporter
You're not gonna do the interview with us?
Katie Porter
Nope, not like this I'm not. Not with seven follow ups to every.
CBS Reporter
Single question you ask every other candidate has answered.
Katie Porter
I don't care. I want to have a pleasant, positive conversation which you ask me about every issue on this list. And if every question you're gonna make up a follow up question, then we're never gonna get there and we're just gonna circle around.
Mary Katharine Ham
Ever.
CBS Reporter
You've never had to have a conversation.
Katie Porter
With, to end an interview.
CBS Reporter
Okay, but every other candidate has done this.
Katie Porter
What part of I'm me, I'm running for governor because I'm a leader, so I am going to make.
CBS Reporter
So you're not going to answer questions from reporters. Okay, why don't we go through. I will continue to ask follow up questions because that's my job as a journalist, but I will go through and ask these. And if you don't want to answer, you don't want to answer. So nearly every legislative.
Katie Porter
I am, I don't want to have an unhappy experience with you. And I don't want this all on camera.
CBS Reporter
I don't want to have an unhappy.
Carol Markowitz
Experience with you either.
CBS Reporter
I would love to continue to ask these questions so that we can show our viewers what every candidate feels about every one of these issues that they care about. And redistricting, it's a massive issue. We're going to do an entire story just on the responses to that question. And I've asked everybody the same follow up question.
Carol Markowitz
Hidden in that insanity was a normal answer that she couldn't limit herself to. It's crazy.
Mary Katharine Ham
It's so embarrassing. This, this person is so insufferable and so soft. The question is, the question is simply 40% of Californians voted for Trump. You're running to be governor. You might end up in a head to head with a Republican. But regardless what, what do you think about reaching out to those people? It's just analyzing her own race and she can't do it.
Sophia Bush
Yeah.
Carol Markowitz
She's like, don't need them. Don't need them. And you know what? I sort of get what she's saying. She's like, why would I need 40% when I can get the 60%? Because, ma', am, you might not win that whole 60. Like, hello. And that's what this very nice reporter was trying to explain to her. Like, then you're going to need the entire 60 in order to win. And she's like, I'm gonna get the entire 60. You know, I was telling this story to somebody today and they were like, oh, is that the new cbs? Like, no, it's the old cbs. It's not very ycbs. This is like also, come on.
Mary Katharine Ham
I, I think this is so revealing of the world in which California Democrats, Democrats generally, but California Democrats, one state, one party rule in a state type of people in which they live. Which is. She sees this reporter as her PR person.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. She's like, why are you messing up my moment?
Mary Katharine Ham
She says, and she says, I've never had to do this.
Carol Markowitz
Never, ever. Mm.
Mary Katharine Ham
You've never had to answer follow up questions. A clarified follow up question to a very easy question to start with. So that that's betraying something. She then says she wants to have a positive interaction with this person. That's not the reporter's job. She, she's being perfectly pleasant, but that is not her job. And then she says, I'm calling it. Ma', am, do you know how a camera works? I know you can't call it.
Carol Markowitz
What are you talking about? She I don't want to do this on camera. You already did. You did it on camera.
Mary Katharine Ham
It's too late. Too late. I. This is just. I said this on Fox this morning. This is the bare minimum for doing politics. It's just, you have to think about all the voters and you have to just at least entertain how you might talk to all of them.
Carol Markowitz
They just don't know at all. And it's so bad for them. I know we talk about this all the time. It is so bad for the Democrats that they are never challenged because when they are challenged in the most peaceful, calm way, they lose the plot. I will say, though, she is not known for being peaceful or calm.
Mary Katharine Ham
No, no.
Carol Markowitz
Katie Porter's ex husband, who, by the way, filed a restraining order against her, says that she poured scalding mashed potatoes on his head. Now, I know people say all kinds of things when they're getting divorced, but that's pretty darn specific.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah. She also famously berated at least one staffer for having, quote, unquote, given her Covid. And she goes real hard in the texts on this poor woman who I think was bereaved at the time or something. There was something going on in that staffer's life, and it's just brutal. Yeah. And then I think we noted that our friend Yashar got two, I think, two responses from former Katie Porter staffers who were like, hey, imagine what she's like with the cameras off.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. That lady, I mean, good luck, California. Because she is the front runner.
Mary Katharine Ham
I do, I think, like, I always tell my kids that a good attitude is like a huge part of succeeding in life. And, you know, you gotta put a smile on your face. You gotta.
Carol Markowitz
Turns out, maybe not.
Mary Katharine Ham
And then they're gonna pull this video on me someday and be like, mom, this woman became governor of California.
Carol Markowitz
But who knows, when we get President of the United States, you know, like, who knows how far she will soar?
Mary Katharine Ham
She was in the house, by the way. Shame on that purple county for not sniffing her out.
Carol Markowitz
Like, come on, where was that 40%?
Mary Katharine Ham
And like, by the way, this is a real Iraq, Iran situation. But I enjoy that Adam Schiff snaked her out of the senator position, which is the last thing she ran for. So she has lost before. We'll see how it goes.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. I mean, look, I've always had a warm spot for California. I, you know, I like, I always like to tell people what used to be my plan B. Like when New York, if New York were to go to shit, I'd Go to California. Like what?
Mary Katharine Ham
That's a sweet thought, you summer child.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. So I love California. I would love to see it be a normal place with normal people. Yeah. Living normally.
Mary Katharine Ham
And it has so many normal people. And Steve Hilton is the gop. I don't know if there's other people in that primary as well. It's a jungle primary, which means everybody vote for anyone in the primary, Democrat or Republican. Steve Hilton is in there. Former Fox. Fox.
Carol Markowitz
He's great. Yeah.
Mary Katharine Ham
Host and he's great. So that was the point that this reporter was trying to make is like, you might not necessarily be up against a Republican.
Carol Markowitz
Right.
Mary Katharine Ham
And then you have to do more work.
Carol Markowitz
Right. And she was like, you might be up against a Democrat. And she's like, well, I'm going to make sure that doesn't happen. Like, how are you gonna.
Mary Katharine Ham
Probably by being super mean to everyone and putting mashed potatoes on them.
Carol Markowitz
Threatening them with like hot mashed potatoes.
Mary Katharine Ham
I just, I. I know this is where we are, but. Woo. What a.
Carol Markowitz
Do better California. Come on.
Mary Katharine Ham
What a peach. What a peach that lady is.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. Well, we're gonna take a short break and be right back with more on normally.
Mary Katharine Ham
Ugh.
Carol Markowitz
Come on. Why is this taking so long? This thing is ancient.
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Carol Markowitz
Welcome back to Normally, where our second topic is political violence. There seems to be a lot of it lately and you know, people are kind of losing the plot a little bit. And I know this is the second time I've used that phrase in the last two segments, but it really feels like people are losing it. Yeah, a few days ago, a judge's home exploded on a South Carolina island. She's a liberal South Carolina judge, Diane Goodstein. Her home burnt to the ground, her family barely escaped. Apparently she had gotten threats, although we don't really know if that's true. A friend of mine who I like him a lot and I'm not going to call him out by name, but wrote to me and said a Jewish judge's home is burning in an explosion that's been labeled arson. Less than a day after Stephen Miller tweeted that liberal judges are shielding an insurrection by left wing terrorists. Now you know, use your considerable platform to condemn this. I was like, we don't even know what happened yet. I'm like, it could be a pre Palestine lefty. We have no idea, like literally no idea what happened here. I'm going to hold off and wait. To my friend's credit, it turns out that it's not arson. It looks like it's not arson. And he apologized, which is the correct thing to do in that situation. But this rush to judgment, none. Everything that happens to political figures is going to have a political motive. And I think we're in a moment right now where the left is really hoping that some right wingers do some crazy things so that they can point to it and be like, see, you guys have a problem too. But it is all mostly coming from one side. And while you guys wait to find that, here's a story from Mary Katherine about yet another leftist.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah, it does. It does seem at the moment this month the demand for right wing violence is outstripped, is really outstripping the supply. And like, look, like you said we could see something different in the future. But this one, this is from D.C. and I heard about this story and much like you in the early going, I was like, I'm not going to comment on that because it looks suspicious, but I don't know what happened. Here's what happened. A man arrested outside the annual Red Mass ceremony held at St. Matthew's Cathedral in D.C. had over 200 explosive devices in a tent on the church's stairs. According to police, Lewis Gary, 41, touted homemade explosives when officers approached him on the step ahead of the service, typically attended by Supreme Court justices to ring in a new term. Devices were found inside his front pocket in a backpack he was carrying on the scene, in addition to a tent encampment set up in close proximity to the cathedral. Which side of the aisle likes tent encampments? It turns out he's anti scotus, anti Jew, anti Catholic. It just like when we don't know a right winger. When we don't know. Pause. Yeah, when we do know, let's deal with it. Exactly. And this one seems particularly scary as I believe last year at the Red Mass, at least three conservative justices attended that mass. So if you're looking to do damage, as we know that at least one other would be assassin has been looking to do and has now been sentenced to Only eight years in prison.
Carol Markowitz
Yep.
Mary Katharine Ham
By the way, just a little idea. Maybe you're incentivizing more of this by not punishing it very dramatically.
Carol Markowitz
Exactly.
Mary Katharine Ham
So that's what's going on there. And I, I want to add this to it. Nancy Pelosi was on Dana Bash's show this week, asked about Jay Jones's texts. And let's just hear the, the rousing condemnation she had for that.
Katie Porter
Should he get out of the race? That's up to the people. The leaders in Virginia, they have said he has apologized. What I understand is they say that on balance, he's the better person to be at home, Attorney General, but that's up to them. But I wish there would be enough fuss. Of all the times that people have said they were going to put a bullet in my head right in public, in the public.
Carol Markowitz
I think it's because of that.
CBS Reporter
That's one of the reasons I wanted to ask you that.
Mary Katharine Ham
You are somebody who knows all too.
CBS Reporter
Well in a horrific way, we have.
Katie Porter
To get rid of that kind of language. I mean, it's just not appropriate.
CBS Reporter
If you were Abigail Spamberger, who's the.
Katie Porter
Democrat running for governor, would you call on him to step aside? She has to do what she has to do. She's going to be governor. She's running very well. Everybody's very proud of her candidacy. And her race is her race and her state is her state, and it's up to her. I really don't get involved in other people's races that the mayor of New York, that this, of that. It's up to the people in that state. I respect their judgment and wish them well.
Mary Katharine Ham
So, yeah, Nancy just says, like, on balance, I think he's probably better than the normie Republican ag. That's what I've heard. Yeah. It should be fine.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah, I mean, it's totally fine. He just wants to murder the children of his political opponents because the parents were nice to moderate Democrats. I mean, it's just bananas. As we're recording this, a man has been arrested for setting the fires in California. A Florida man. Sorry, guys, but we don't know his politics yet. Although they are chomping at the bit to be like, well, he's from Florida, so he must be a conservative. But it really also betrays the whole climate change set this fire. And I want to hear some people maybe apologize for that or, you know, have some thoughts about not immediately jumping to your issue of the moment. In order to lay blame for any natural disaster or horrific event. Take A pause. Take a beat, Think it over. Wait for facts. These are all normal things to do when things go badly.
Mary Katharine Ham
Take a pause. 20. 24 hour rule.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. 24 hour rule should actually be applied to everything. Like when you, when you get any kind of news, just give it 24 hours. You don't have to run with your immersion of events. Right.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah. This happens on so many immigration stories too, which I look into all of them. Right. Because I am concerned with ICE overstepping. I am concerned with Trump doing things he shouldn't do. And at invariably, outside of like, two of them, you come across so much more pertinent, pertinent information. Oh, by the way, two lefties were arrested for ramming ICE vehicles.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah.
Mary Katharine Ham
In the Chicago area and they were let out on bail.
Carol Markowitz
Just Right. And there's a story that Chicago police, that's what they didn't, didn't step in to help ice. And that is really a misuse of, you know, government officials telling police to stand down because they're anti ice. Your political opinion shouldn't be involved with who the police step in to help. I think it's just atrocious. Governor Pritzker is using the police in a manner that I think people are afraid that Donald Trump will use the police. And, you know, there's some irony there as well.
Mary Katharine Ham
Wait for your info.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah, not that crazy. All right, we'll be right back with more on normally where a Supreme Court case should be wrapping up in the next day or two on the question of conversion therapy. But who's doing the converting? We'll be right back. Ah, come on. Why is this taking so long? This thing is ancient.
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Carol Markowitz
We are back on normally, where the Childs vs Salazar case is winding its way through the Supreme Court. You know, it's funny. Why is Colorado the place where court cases involving free speech and religious freedom seem to be the norm? I mean, there's the Masterpiece cake shop case where of course, Jack Phillips was forced to or, you know, they wanted to force him to bake the cake. There was also a website designer who didn't want to make websites for same sex marriages because it violated her religious freedom. Supreme Court ruled in her favor on that. And now Kaylee Childs is a therapist in Colorado and she's at the center of this case because she's a devout Christian and people seek out her services because of her faith to talk to their children who are having gender dysphoria.
Mary Katharine Ham
It's disturbing that the people of Colorado, people of faith in Colorado, which like, used to be a normie state, they have to go to the Supreme Court.
Carol Markowitz
Like every time things settled. Yeah.
Mary Katharine Ham
He's like, can I do my job? I don't know, let's go to the Supreme Court and figure it out. No, I think this is like, this is one of those tricky issues where a lot of places banned, say like faith based conversion therapy for young gay kids. Right. Or for, for gay minors. Right. And they would say that you can't do that anymore. And it is an unpopular opinion. But I've always thought that was a First Amendment issue. Because if you aren't allowed to talk about this possibility versus another possibility, isn't that viewpoint discrimination? And doesn't it cut against people of faith in particular?
Carol Markowitz
Absolutely.
Mary Katharine Ham
So now we're going to be testing it, at least in this, in this gender related area.
Carol Markowitz
Yeah. You know, I have a column on this. I think it should be out today, Thursday in the New York Post. But I actually say that there is not a lot of evidence that you can convert people out of being gay. So it really is a different thing because there's a lot of evidence that you can convert kids or not convert, but basically talk to them into accepting them, their bodies as is. And there's a lot of evidence that, that kids do outgrow that gender dysphoria. Kids don't outgrow when, when they declare themselves gay, they generally don't outgrow that. So those are really two different things. The other thing is, I think when people hear conversion therapy, I, I picture the electroshock therapy of the 60s and 70s.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Carol Markowitz
Which also didn't work. So it's, this is not that she's talking to kids and making them accept their bodies as is, which is really what we should want. Right. I mean, so in, in this case, Justice Sonia Sotomayor compared it to a dietitian telling an anorexic patient to engage in more restricted eating, but in my view, it's a dietitian. In this example is are all the therapists who are telling these children that they are not in the correct body and that they could take hormones and they could have surgery and they could do all these things to change their birth gender. You can't Change that. And no matter what you do, no matter how much you try, you remain the gender that you were born into. It doesn't matter how you dress or how much makeup you wear or any of it, you stay what you are. So to me, the example here is Chiles is the dietitian from that example.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah. No, this is, it's disturbing to me as a mom. And I know you guys wrote about this in Stolen Youth, which is yours in Bethany Mandel's book.
Carol Markowitz
Love that you mentioned the book like.
Mary Katharine Ham
And Abigail Schreyer writes about it as well, and Bad Therapy. But there is this concern, and I have it as a normie. Right leaning mom of faith, is that these professional associations that license therapists or states in this case, require that they go down certain therapeutic paths.
Carol Markowitz
Exactly. Yeah.
Mary Katharine Ham
When maybe my kid just needs to talk to somebody. But as soon as I send my kid in there, if your solution to their problem is that they might be another gender, that's going to be a problem for me.
Carol Markowitz
Right.
Mary Katharine Ham
But if the, if the professional association you're working with or the state that you live in requires that that's how you treat issues, then you're in a bind and the whole profession is in trouble.
Carol Markowitz
That's right. Yeah. That's the thing. All these licensing organizations, they make them handle problems in a certain way. And I understand a Christian family in Colorado would want to talk to a Christian therapist who would have their same values and their same kind of ideals and how she treats their child. The fact that this has to get to the Supreme Court, like you said, it's bananas that Colorado just keeps pushing these people into it. Masterpiece Cake Shop is in another court case where this time he didn't bake a cake for a transgender, I believe, wedding. It just goes on and on and on and on, and it's really wrong. I remember when Colorado was a normal state. I worked in Colorado on the Bush 2004 campaign. It was a red state.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yes. So there's so many great things in Colorado, including friend of the show Kelly Maher, who does, who does great work out there. But the idea that these totally normal people have to drag themselves to the Supreme Court and thank goodness there are good organizations like Alliance Defending Freedom that take up these cases so they don't break themselves having to do it. But you know, the emotional toll and the financial toll and the toll to their actual business that they're trying to conduct on a day to day basis is very, very high. To get through these battles and to be like a semi public figure which they never planned on being before. Right. We chose this life. They did not.
Carol Markowitz
Oh totally. Yeah, we chose the stupid life. She's just a therapist. She just wants to help kids. She just wants to talk to people and help them with their problems. And there has to be more than one way to do that. And it is a free speech issue. Talk therapy should be the way that it gets solved in in these therapists office. It can't be one way or no.
Mary Katharine Ham
Other way when it feels like an extension of sort of the lefty college take on speech in general, which is like the truth is already decided. Yeah, the solution is already decided.
Carol Markowitz
End of discussion. Somebody might say that's Mary Catherine's book with Guy Benson.
Mary Katharine Ham
Yeah, we can't talk about it further. And the truth is both in a doctor's office, whether it's Covid vaccines or gender dysphoria, or in a college setting, you need to talk about it.
Carol Markowitz
Thanks for joining us on Normally Normally airs Tuesdays and Thursdays and you can subscribe anywhere you get your podcasts. Get in touch with us@ normallythepodmail.com thanks for listening. And when things get weird, act normally. Ah, come on. Why is this taking so long? This thing is ancient.
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Date: October 9, 2025 Hosts: Mary Katharine Ham and Carol Markowitz
This episode of "Normally" (a segment of The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show) dives into three main topics: California politics with a focus on Katie Porter’s controversial interview, the recent increase in political violence and the media reactions to it, and a significant Supreme Court case on free speech in therapy involving faith and gender identity. Hosts Mary Katharine Ham and Carol Markowitz provide sharp analysis, candid opinions, and a dose of humor as they dissect news and current events through a "normal" lens.
Timestamp: 03:54–12:53
Timestamp: 16:35–23:39
Timestamp: 27:16–34:00
This episode provides a lively, critical take on the current state of politics and culture. By shining light on media biases, legal battles over free speech, and the challenges of navigating public discourse in a polarized climate, Mary Katharine Ham and Carol Markowitz encourage listeners to embrace skepticism, patience, and—most importantly—"act normally" even when the news gets weird.