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Greg
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Greg
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Allie
Welcome to After Hours, our little Easter egg podcast that we drop into the Clay and Buck feed from time to time. I'm producer Allie.
Greg
And I'm producer Greg.
Allie
You never know what you're gonna get in the After Hours podcast. It's kind of random, but that makes it fun, right, Greg?
Greg
It does. It does. And it's appropriate that this is an Easter egg because Easter is right around the corner and you don't have to hunt for this one.
Allie
That's right. It's right in the Clay and Buck podcast feed. Well, on this episode, we wanted to focus on Buck having his first child, because that's a big deal. We're going to air some talkbacks that didn't make it on the show because. Greg, how many did we get?
Greg
I can't even count. Just. I stopped counting at a certain point. There were just so many.
Allie
Ditto on the emails. We heard from so many people that wanted to send in their congratulations, but also give Buck and Carrie, well, mainly Buck, some advice. We also heard from a couple of our Clay and Buck podcast network hosts, Carol Markowitz, who has two podcasts in her feed, the Carol Markowitz show and also Normally, which she hosts with Mary Kathryn Hamm. Tudor Dixon of the Tudor Dixon show, also sent in a message. Let's listen to that one first, Greg.
Tudor Dixon
Hey, Buck, this is tutor Dixon, and I wanted to share with you what I know about being a parent. First of all, it's the best job you will ever have. So enjoy those baby snuggles and that beautiful baby smell. Every phase of your James life will come with beauty and wonder, but also some challenges. So focus on the beautiful parts of parenting when you're in the midst of something tough. Remember, each phase is fleeting. Love the sweet smell and sleepy afternoons of babyhood. Soak up the puddle splashes, frog jumping, and hand holding of the toddler phases. Never turn down reading a book together in elementary school and step away from everything to help build that horrible Rube Goldberg machine in the 8th grade science class. Go on as many field trips as you can and try your hardest to make every single sports game do these things because you love James with everything you have and be intentional with your love because you won't notice the last time they ask you to read that book. And night until phase is over, because you, being present in every phase, will shape James life more than you will ever know. And then one day he's going to look at you and he's going to say, he had the most wonderful childhood because he always knew you were there for him, you were safe, and you loved him. Enjoy fatherhood, Buck. It's the best and most important job you will ever have.
Allie
Tutor Dixon with a mama mic drop. I just love that message, Greg.
Greg
Tudor Dixon's a mom. She's got four kids, so she knows. And any kind of wisdom like that is always perfect. So it's nice to hear someone from the podcast network like Tudor Dixon always.
Allie
And you know what occurred to me, Greg? One day, when sweet baby James is all grown up, Buck can play this podcast for him. How cool would that be? Like an audio photo album.
Greg
That'd be very cool.
Allie
And it would be advice to him as he becomes a parent. And let's listen to what Carol Markowitz said.
Tudor Dixon
Hi, Buck and Carrie. It's Carol Markowitz. Congratulations on the new addition. I cannot wait to meet him. My baby advice is actually more like relationship advice. Always remember that you're a team. There will be hard times when sleep is scarce and emotions are fraught. But the best way to be a good parent is to nurture your own relationship first. First, prioritize each other, support each other, love each other, openly, hold hands, kiss at red lights, let your kids see that. And all of that will help you be great parents who come to parenting from a place of stability and sanity. I love you both. Congratulations again. You're going to be amazing at this.
Allie
Best of luck, Greg. I really love this because it kind of reminds me of the whole oxygen mask thing. When you get on an airplane, put it on you first before dealing with everybody else.
Greg
Absolutely. That is great advice, because your relationship with your spouse can fall to be secondary because you're so focused on intently on the child, and it becomes such a focus of attention that you sometimes, with all the best of intentions, end up neglecting one another. And you can't do that. It really is important to maintain that relationship, that spark that you had before the child arrived. And that's not taking anything away from the child, because the child is going to get so much love and attention. Look how much love and attention this child is getting already from the listeners, from us, from everybody else, the families. And the baby's not even here yet, so.
Allie
That's true. That's true. Well, Greg, you're a parent.
Greg
When we're recording this, the baby's not even here yet.
Allie
I should say that Is true. Greg, you're a parent. So what piece of advice would you give Buck? And in addition to your advice, what are your top three book recommendations? Kids book recommendations?
Greg
Well, I think, and I've actually said this to Buck, the best advice I ever got was sleep when the baby sleeps. Because the baby's on its own schedule and it's going to do. You know, sometimes it'll sleep for three hours and especially once it. Until it gets on the circadian rhythm where it's dark and it sleeps and then it's light, it's awake. So if the baby goes down at 2 in the afternoon, you go down at 2 in the afternoon as well, because Lord knows you might be up at four in the morning or one in the morning and you might be up for six hours at that point too. So sleep when the baby sleeps is the best advice.
Allie
That's very good advice. I've heard that from people as well. And what about your favorite? Like, I mean, there's so many. But what are your top three kids books that you remember from childhood?
Greg
Yeah, the things that I remember from raising my own child. Goodnight Moon is probably one of my favorites. We had to read that every night. It didn't matter what all other books we chose. Goodnight Moon was always the one that we had.
Allie
That's a class, it's a classic. And they've done so many iterations of it now. There's all kinds of good night moons out there.
Greg
There are. There are. It's gotten fun. Another one that I really liked and we still refer to my wife and I, and it's a book. I don't remember the author. It's called where's the Green Sheep? And it's just teaching you about different animals and finding colors and that sort of thing. And oh, there's the blue sheep and there's the green, you know, the red sheep, but where's the green sheep? And it's a good way. It's just fun. It's just a nice, simple way of getting the child to understand what the colors are a little bit. And I think my favorite, though is probably where the Wild Things Are.
Allie
Oh, that's a great one.
Greg
I always related to Max, you know, having a little bit of imagination and have your walls disappear in your room and having the jungle appear. Just something I always related to. It was always a lot of fun.
Allie
I would agree with you on those two. Definitely. Goodnight Moon, where the Wild Things Are. I had not heard of the sheep one. I'm going to have to check that out. But I would also add. And this one is sort of. It's one of my favorite books, but it's actually very sad, but beautiful. And it's the Giving Tree.
Greg
Oh, yeah. Shel Silverstein.
Allie
Yes. I mean, whenever I read it, I literally cheer up every time and I'm like, I know where this goes, but I'm still gonna tear up every time. One of my all time favorites and another one is called Frederick the Mouse.
Greg
Oh, I don't know that one.
Allie
Yeah. Frederick the Mouse. Leo Leone.
Greg
Oh, really?
Allie
Yes. It's all about finding your place in the world. And it doesn't have to necessarily be what is expected of you or what everyone else is doing.
Greg
I love that.
Allie
It's about individuality. I really like that.
Greg
That's great.
Allie
And I think my advice would be for Buck and Carrie is to just give yourself grace because everything is going to be a first. And you've never done this before, so no one expects you to be an expert. So. So don't put that pressure on yourself. And as cliche as it sounds, every child is different. That's what makes them unique. The guys kind of talked about that on the show on Baby Day about Clay was saying how he was amazed how each personality was dramatically different from the other. So you kind of can't control that your child's going to be your child. So just give yourself grace. Love them. And that would be what I would say.
Greg
I think that's great. And we're gonna play some of your talkbacks as well. One of the talkbacks that came in that I definitely wanna include, that we're definitely going to include is one from a listener who said, buck, the best advice I could give you is to stop asking for advice because. And just have faith in your abilities, your instincts. Your instincts. Exactly. And you'll figure it out. And, you know, it goes along with what you were just talking about, with picking up on the different styles of each child and that sort of thing. You'll figure out what's right for you. And again, that's the best thing. I think you're gonna hear a lot of different advice. And that would be the other, the second piece of advice. You're gonna hear a lot of different.
Allie
Advice, some of it unsolicited.
Greg
Take what works for you and leave what doesn't.
Allie
And also, I just think people want to give advice because it's such a connection point.
Greg
Absolutely.
Allie
And they want to share their experiences. It's as a common thing to bond over for people. And I mean, you're gonna make mistakes too.
Greg
So we're only human. Absolutely. We've all made our share.
Allie
Be patient with yourself too, is the other thing I would say. Hey, Greg, you wanna hop into the Wayback Machine and revisit some clay? And Buck, archival content from the first.
Greg
Year or so of the show, if I'm not mistaken.
Allie
Right, right. They were talking about Tony Dungy and some comments he made on fatherhood and how if someone else had made them, they would have been received much differently. I thought it was a really important conversation.
Greg
I'm a big fan of the coach and his post football focus has been on fatherhood and that sort of thing. So yes, it was an excellent conversation. Yeah.
Allie
Let's take a listen.
Buck
Buck, One of the things that is probably the most frustrating about the power of social media is when there is an effort made to disallow things that everybody knows to be true. Right. And you're not allowed to say them somehow. And Tony Dungy, former coach of the Tampa Bay Buccaneers as well as the Indianapolis Colts, he was with Ron DeSantis at a press conference. We played that press conference audio, I think yesterday, about $70 million being given to help forward fatherhood initiatives. And Tony Dungy spoke about the importance of fathers and how so many kids who were in prison did not have strong father figures at home. And he said, he tweeted out this morning. Two days ago, I spoke on behalf of a Florida bill that supports dads and families and it offended some people. Fourteen years ago, President Obama said the same things almost verbatim. I'm assuming people were outraged at him too. I'm serving the Lord, so I'll keep supporting dads and families. And Buck, what he cited here was the statistics are, and this is from Obama, which is basically what Tony Dungey reiterated, is that kids who grow up without a father are five times more likely to live in poverty and commit crime, nine times more likely to drop out of schools and, and 20 times more likely to end up in prison. We have a crisis in many families around the country when it comes to fathers, relationships with their kids and responsibilities. And Tony Dungy, credit to him, credit to Ron DeSantis for being willing to say that because it is one of the primary causes of so much of the crime that exists in this country.
Clay
You know, the left takes an approach that almost tries to replace the father with the state, or maybe you could say the state as father. The state sends checks. The state, you know, steps in and says that they're going to provide for you, they're going to do things for you. But there is no replacing a father, right? There is no replacement for one's father that can exist. And all of the data, all of the actual research you can compile on this shows that it's very damaging to children of any race, of any religion, of anywhere, to be abandoned by a father at the earliest stages. And anything that we can do as a society to try to encourage, I mean, it's from all over the place, right? I mean, Ron DeSantis is trying it with government policy, but also, you know, culturally, you know, there should be a real celebration of being a dad. There should be much more effort to say, I mean, you are a dad. I'm not. But I know what it's like out there for people who have grown up without fathers. I know what it's like for people whose fathers left when they were very, very young. They have challenges for the rest of their lives. And a lot of people overcome it and deal with it. And we've all got our issues and our hurdles, but dads who stay around, I mean, that's. Who was it? I think someone very wisely said, first rule of being a good dad is stay, be there.
Buck
It's true. It's 100% true. And I've got three boys and Buck. What the data reflects is that boys are far more impacted in a negative way by absent fathers than girls are, which is kind of a fascinating study. And it's not even close. Young girls who grow up in single parent households do infinitely better than young boys who grow up in single parent households. And by the way, there are people out there listening to us right now that are raising their kids in single parent households. Good for you. I know how challenging that is because I've got three kids and my wife and I can't imagine being a single parent, how challenging it was. And it doesn't mean that your kids are not going to grow up and be successful. The larger statistical numbers, though, are true. And we don't talk enough. I don't believe, as a society about the struggles that boys are having. Right. With absent fathers, but also schooling. Go look at any elementary school. We got a lot of teachers, got a lot of moms and dads out there. Girls are dominating when it comes to educational levels over boys. The percentages of people who are graduating from college now, Buck, it's right around 60% of all college graduates are women. Doesn't get talked about a lot. Men are not having the same level of success in modern education environments as women are. Why is that? What's going on?
Clay
There's a war on manhood that the left is. Remember, there's a war on gender. Of course, the separation of gender is the distinction between men and women that we all know exists.
Greg
We're all very aware.
Clay
All of human civilization, all of history has known about this. Biology proves it as a reality. But there's a war on gender that's going on. There's also a war on manhood and masculinity that is waged by the left. They talk constantly about toxic masculinity. What's always fascinating is if you ask a leftist, and I've unfortunately been on a few dates with leftists in recent enough years, not recently, but in recent years where this will occasionally start to veer into the conversation. And masculinity that is defined as describing yourself as a male feminist who announces his pronouns and cries a lot and is a huge proponent of soy milk. Yeah, I said it, Libs, I said it. Come after me on the soy milk. That's actually not constructive for society. Masculinity that's focused on honor, keeping one's word, keeping one's obligations, prioritizing one's family, treating women a certain way, treating one's, you know, creating a family, being a good husband, being a good father. Those are all ideals that people almost suggest, Clay, that it's not only old fashioned, that it's out of date, out of touch. That's what the left says. And there is a movement against this. Jordan Peterson is an international phenomenon because he talks to people about what does it mean to be in an actual relationship and be a good person and what does it mean to be a dad.
Buck
He talks to boys who are lost. I mean, I think that's a lot in young men who are lost. And I think there's a huge number of those people out there. Buck, I'll just point this out. You're talking about toxic masculinity. Have you ever heard the trait, the phrase toxic femininity? Because we get so used to using the phrases that have become popular. And there are a lot of people out there who have bought into the idea that toxic masculinity is a huge thing, but there's never the flip side, right? Like there's no suggestion that femininity can be in some way toxic. It doesn't even exist. It's an attack on men.
Clay
I mean, toxic femininity usually displays itself with somebody who has blue hair, a nose ring, looks to be perhaps in need of, of some basic grooming and meaning, brushing up one's hair and stuff and hates men. Toxic femininity looks could also be the view.
Buck
If you were having to summarize in media toxic femininity, you might say it's the ladies on the View.
Allie
Wow, that was really powerful. And I'm glad he has the guts to stand up and say something like that. Cuz it was very unpopular at the time. He received a lot of flack for that.
Greg
He did. And I'm glad that Clay and Buck were willing to talk about it as well. And I think Buck will be able to now look back on that and just be able to maybe, you know, take a piece out of that and say, you know, I didn't have any kids then. And he might be able to draw on that at that point for now on what he was talking about then. That's all I'm trying to say. And Rachel Campos Duffy came in to talk to Clay. One of the things that he talked to her about, turns out she has nine kids. Yeah, I didn't realize she had that many. So she's an expert in, in being not just a parent, but a mother and motherhood. So Clay talked to her about Baby.
Allie
Sexton and wanting to get some advice from her about that. And he also. We don't have this part of the clip, but he also reminded her that she was part of the reason Buck and Carrie are together in the first place. She played matchmaker early on. So in a way, this baby by proxy is her doing too.
Greg
Auntie Rachel is always going to be very important. The little baby James.
Allie
Yeah. So let's listen to that conversation.
Buck
What advice would you have for new parents? I've got three. My wife and I. Obviously you've got nine. So you've been through this a ton of times. What advice would you have for new parents out there?
F
I always tell new parents that the first one is the hardest. And it is the first one, so don't stop. Because it was hard. Because the first one is the hardest. It interferes with like, I mean, it just your whole like freedom thing, like ends right. And that's a hard adjustment. And you're learning how to do things with a baby for the first time and how to figure them out once you get past three. It's so easy. It's great. And you know, obviously every kid has challenges. Everything. You know, nothing is ever perfect. But as far as the baby phase, that gets easier. And I would say this, this is the best advice I ever got. Clay and I give this to every single mom. I talk to. And they always want to ask me about how many they should have and how do I have so many. I have a lot because I'm Catholic. I'm Hispanic and Catholic, and Sean is Irish and Catholic, and the number just happens. But the best advice is don't plan how many you want right now. Don't think about, oh, my God, I'm going to go into diapers right now. Think. Give yourself a pause and think 20 years forward, how many do you want around the Thanksgiving table?
Buck
That's great advice. That's great. That's how we ended up with three. My wife was like, not. I managed to convince her to go for three. And I think she would say that that's the best decision she's ever made. So I think that is great advice.
Allie
I really like what she said about thinking about everyone that's going to be around the Thanksgiving table.
Greg
Yeah. And deciding how big you want your family based on that. And I thought that that was a great decision or a great way to judge on how you want to proceed. It works for her. And it sounds like it worked for Clay as well.
Allie
Absolutely. Well, why don't we end this, Greg? Kind of like rolling the credits. Let's just string together a whole bunch of audience talk backs. And like we said, we got so many of them that we could not possibly air them all on the show, much less even on this podcast. So we're just gonna pick out a whole bunch and just roll them, and we'll kind of let the podcast end with you, our audience.
Greg
Thank you for all of you who sent in the talkbacks and the emails and the calls. And I'm sorry if we didn't get to yours. It's just the nature of things, unfortunately. Everybody was so interested. It was so overwhelming.
Allie
Yeah. And the volume of what we received was really heartwarming to Buck. And I know that meant a lot to him that everyone was so excited, enthusiastic, and I think it kind of maybe even calmed his nerves a bit, knowing he's got his big extended clam Buck family rooting for him and Carrie.
Greg
Absolutely. And if you want to send in your favorite book, suggestions for kids, books, and that sort of thing on the talkback, go to that iHeart app, mash that little microphone button on the Clay and Buck portion of the Iheart app, and. And send us that talk back. And who knows, it may get included next time. You never know.
Allie
And you can even include one for Ginger. We can't forget about Ginger.
Greg
Send Ginger some love.
Allie
Yeah. I already told Clay or I Already told Buck that him and Carrie should bring a blanket home from the hospital and let Ginger sniff that thing all over the place so that Ginger becomes used to the smell of the baby before baby enters the house.
Greg
That's a great idea.
Allie
Kind of get her used to it.
Greg
That's a great idea.
Allie
Brace.
Greg
One thing I would suggest for Buck, because he's going to need a lot of energy before we wrap this up and head on to these talk backs. He's going to need some chalk. I don't know about you, but as a new dad back in the day, I could have used it. I could have used that extra boost of energy. And he's already doing the Chad mode for his workouts anyway. But I think a little extra energy for Buck wouldn't necessarily be a bad thing. And it could help you, too. So check out chalk.com, c-h o q.com.
Allie
You can put Clay and Buck's name in for a discount and subscription. Absolutely.
Greg
They've been a longtime sponsor of the show. We're really big fans of theirs. And I recommend heading on over there and checking them out, because if they can help out Buck, they can certainly help you out as well.
Allie
I would concur. All right. Well, Greg, I think that is a wrap on our random after hours podcast. Actually, Buck Baby Edition, we can call this one. And until next time, you never know where we're gonna end up or when we're gonna end up in the feed. So you gotta check back from time to time.
Greg
Keep checking.
Allie
We will try to keep it entertaining.
Greg
Here go those talk backs. Thanks again.
Allie
Thank you.
Greg
Hey, Buck, the fact that you think you're gonna sleep through this is hilarious.
Clay
Good luck with the new baby, but.
Greg
I guarantee there will be no sleeping.
Clay
Just make sure you stock up on your Crockett coffee because you are going.
Allie
To need it, my friend.
Clay
You ain't going to be sleeping very much. And just make sure you're very supportive of your wife. That's the biggest thing.
Allie
She's the one who's going to have.
Clay
To do the hardest parts of everything, from feeding to, obviously giving birth.
Greg
So good luck.
Allie
You'll be good. I'm telling you, if you put in that air in that mattress in the labor room, you'll be in trouble the rest of your life. What you need is a bed of nails. And that might come close to what your wife will be going through. Look, the main thing you need to.
Greg
Know, you need to become a master swaddler.
Buck
Master swaddler of wrapping the baby in that little cloth nice and tight and snug.
Greg
You can wrap that baby up tight.
Allie
You'll be the man of the house.
Clay
This is Dan calling from North Texas. Huge fan. Listening to you guys every day. Buck, I just wanted to tell you as a new dad that the number one piece of advice I can give you is to do the sleep training around five or six months. Absolutely do it. I'm an older dad, I'm 50 years old than I have an about to be four and about to be two year old. And both my kids sleep through the night and it's glorious. Absolutely. Make sure that you do the sleep training. And good luck to you and your wife. I wish you the best with your.
Greg
Baby healthy and happy. I'm rooting for you. I'm rooting for you, man. Hey, Beck. I just have to say when I gave birth to my first child, my husband put all his focus on that baby afterwards, which is normal.
Clay
But after a day or two, you need to kind of embrace your wife.
Greg
So don't make that mistake that your whole focus is the baby. I mean, mom just went through a whole lot. So that's a little postpartum information.
Allie
Hi, Buck. Congratulations on this coming baby. This is Randy from Tucson. What you're not going to believe is when it's time to leave the hospital and you're gonna think to yourself, they're letting me take this baby in my car. And you're just not gonna feel prepared. And it's gonna be the scariest drive of your life. You're gonna be so careful and nervous. But it's gonna be so great. It's a great blessing. Congratulations.
Greg
Best advice I can give you for your new little one. She's fussy. Give her to mama. Just give her to mama and run.
Clay
The only dadvice you're gonna need is just take it easy. You know, Take a little bit of time, relax. It's really not that hard. You're just.
Greg
It's a kid, you know.
Clay
Don't cut the umbilical cord too quick. Do some skin to skin. Other than that, you know, just. Just relax and enjoy your kid. I mean, it's really that simple. It's not hard or anything. It's gonna be fun though. Hey guys.
Buck
Love the show.
Clay
Congratulations, Buck. The best advice I can give you.
Buck
To get through the next 90 days.
Clay
Is stop asking everybody for advice.
Buck
You will be just fine.
Clay
You're going to be great at this.
Buck
I think you've gone through enough life.
Clay
That none of these things are going to be difficult for you to deal with. Please enjoy it. It does not last long. It goes by so quick. Just be there and have fun, man.
Podcast Summary: The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show – "The Buck Baby Edition"
Release Date: April 12, 2025
In "The Buck Baby Edition" of The Clay Travis and Buck Sexton Show, hosts Clay Travis and Buck Sexton celebrate Buck’s journey into fatherhood. This special episode diverges from the traditional format, focusing on Buck’s experiences as a new parent, incorporating heartfelt messages from listeners, seasoned advice from fellow network hosts, and insightful discussions on the broader implications of fatherhood in today’s society.
The episode kicks off with Allie and Greg introducing the After Hours segment, positioning it as an Easter egg within the main podcast feed. They set the tone for a heartfelt and celebratory discussion surrounding Buck Sexton’s first child, emphasizing the outpouring of support and advice from the podcast community.
Notable Quote:
Allie [00:39]: "We wanted to focus on Buck having his first child, because that's a big deal."
The show features a compilation of listener messages offering congratulations and parenting advice to Buck and his wife, Carrie. These messages are chosen for their warmth and practical insights, aiming to support Buck in his new role as a father.
Tudor Dixon, a respected network host, shares an extensive and poignant message highlighting the joys and challenges of parenthood. Her advice centers on cherishing every moment, being present through the tough phases, and building a strong, loving relationship with one’s child.
Notable Quote:
Tudor Dixon [01:24]: "Remember, each phase is fleeting. Love the sweet smell and sleepy afternoons of babyhood... being present in every phase, will shape James’ life more than you will ever know."
Carol Markowitz emphasizes the importance of maintaining a strong partnership between parents. She likens the relationship to prioritizing one’s own oxygen mask before assisting others, ensuring that both partners support each other to create a stable environment for their child.
Notable Quote:
Carol Markowitz [03:22]: "Always remember that you're a team. ... nurture your own relationship first. ... that will help you be great parents who come to parenting from a place of stability and sanity."
Rachel Campos Duffy, another seasoned network host with nine children, provides practical advice based on her extensive parenting experience. She underscores the significance of embracing the challenges of the first child, remaining flexible with family planning, and envisioning the future familial gatherings.
Notable Quote:
Rachel Campos Duffy [18:35]: "The best advice is don't plan how many you want right now... think 20 years forward, how many do you want around the Thanksgiving table."
Greg and Allie delve into a discussion about cherished children's books, sharing their favorites and explaining why these books hold a special place in their hearts. This segment offers Buck and listeners alike a curated list of literature that fosters imagination, emotional growth, and individuality in children.
Greg’s Top Picks:
Allie’s Favorites:
Notable Quote:
Allie [07:23]: "When I read 'The Giving Tree', I literally cheer up every time... It's one of my all-time favorites."
A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to a reflective conversation between Clay and Buck about the role of fathers in society and the challenges posed by evolving gender dynamics.
Buck highlights alarming statistics on the negative effects of absent fathers, emphasizing the heightened struggles boys face compared to girls in single-parent households. He underscores the societal neglect of the issues boys encounter due to the lack of paternal figures.
Notable Quote:
Buck [14:56]: "Young girls who grow up in single-parent households do infinitely better than young boys who grow up in single-parent households... men are not having the same level of success in modern education environments as women are."
Clay criticizes the left for what he perceives as an attack on traditional masculinity and the undermining of fatherhood’s role. He argues that the left attempts to replace the role of fathers with state interventions, which he believes fails to address the fundamental needs of children for paternal presence.
Notable Quote:
Clay [15:06]: "The left takes an approach that almost tries to replace the father with the state... there is no replacement for one's father."
Buck raises the concept of "toxic femininity," challenging the prevalent discourse that focuses primarily on "toxic masculinity." He notes the absence of conversations around potentially negative aspects of femininity and suggests that societal narratives often lack a balanced view.
Notable Quote:
Buck [16:27]: "Have you ever heard the phrase toxic femininity? ... there's no suggestion that femininity can be in some way toxic."
Throughout the episode, Buck and Greg offer practical advice drawn from personal experiences and listener contributions to help Buck navigate the early stages of parenthood.
Greg shares his foremost piece of advice: "Sleep when the baby sleeps." He stresses the importance of aligning one’s sleep schedule with the baby’s to manage exhaustion effectively.
Notable Quote:
Greg [05:16]: "Sleep when the baby sleeps is the best advice."
Both hosts underscore the necessity of nurturing the marital relationship amidst the demands of parenting. They caution against neglecting the partnership in favor of focusing solely on the child.
Notable Quote:
Clay [23:32]: "Just make sure you're very supportive of your wife. That's the biggest thing."
Advice includes practical steps like bringing a familiar blanket home from the hospital to help pets adjust to the new baby’s scent and becoming adept at swaddling.
Notable Quote:
Allie [21:57]: "Gardening a blanket home from the hospital and let Ginger sniff that thing all over the place so that Ginger becomes used to the smell of the baby before baby enters the house."
The episode concludes with Allie and Greg rolling out a series of listener talkbacks, reinforcing the community’s overwhelming support for Buck and Carrie. They encourage more listeners to share their advice and book recommendations, fostering a sense of extended family within the podcast community.
Notable Quote:
Greg [21:02]: "Thank you for all of you who sent in the talkbacks and the emails and the calls... Everybody was so interested. It was so overwhelming."
In a lighthearted and supportive closing, Clay and Greg offer humorous and genuine advice to Buck, reminding him of the unpredictable yet joyous journey of parenthood. They emphasize the importance of being present, supportive, and adaptable as Buck and Carrie embark on this new chapter.
Notable Quotes:
Clay [23:34]: "Just make sure you're very supportive of your wife. That's the biggest thing."
Greg [23:39]: "Brace. One thing I would suggest for Buck, because he's going to need a lot of energy... check out chalk.com."
Clay [26:36]: "Please enjoy it and have fun, man."
Conclusion
"The Buck Baby Edition" serves as a heartfelt tribute to Buck Sexton’s new role as a father, weaving together personal anecdotes, community support, and thoughtful discussions on the evolving landscape of fatherhood. Through shared experiences and collective wisdom, the episode not only celebrates Buck’s journey but also provides valuable insights for listeners navigating their own paths in parenthood.