Bless Your ‘Hardt with Jamie Goddard: From Best Friends to “Dodging” Dale Jr.

Summary

Episode Summary: Bless Your ‘Heart with Jamie Goddard: From Best Friends to “Dodging” Dale Jr.

Release Date: February 27, 2025

In this lively episode of The Dale Jr. Download, hosted by Dirty Mo Media and SiriusXM, Amy and her best friend Jamie Goddard delve into their experiences of cohabiting while Dale Earnhardt Jr. is under the weather. The episode is a blend of heartfelt discussions, humorous anecdotes, and interactive segments that offer listeners an intimate look into their friendship and daily lives.

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1. Living with a Sick Dale

The episode opens with Amy and Jamie addressing Dale’s current health situation. Dale has been battling a persistent fever, leading him to stay in the guest bedroom to rest. Jamie shares insights into Dale’s behavior during his illness, highlighting his subdued demeanor.

Jamie [01:18]: "I think he's a little too sick to even be aware of what's happening today."

Amy adds that the girls in the household were the first to bring the flu home, prompting Dale to maintain distance to avoid re-infecting the family.

Amy [01:44]: "The girls had it first and brought it home. That's just how it happens, right?"

They discuss the challenges of caring for Dale, including administering medications and ensuring he stays comfortable.

Jamie [02:26]: "I need to do something a little bit better that's bigger for his face."

2. Origins of Amy and Jamie’s Friendship

Amy and Jamie reminisce about how their friendship blossomed through mutual connections with Kelly, a central figure linked to Dale. They recount their initial meetings and the natural progression of their bond without the pressures of Dale’s NASCAR world.

Jamie [04:08]: "No, I don't know anybody. And so, like, I'm moving. I want to move closer to Dale so that it's a little easier to see each other."

Amy [05:04]: "I knew Kelly first, and honestly, I was just through another mutual friend."

Their decision to live together was influenced by practical considerations, such as proximity and affordability, leading to a harmonious shared living arrangement devoid of typical roommate conflicts.

Jamie [10:35]: "He felt that, like, that was weird. We're like. They had picked up."

3. Humorous Living Situations and Dale’s Antics

Amy and Jamie share numerous humorous stories from their time living together, particularly focusing on Dale’s quirky behavior and attempts to intrude despite being ill.

a. Dodging Dale

They describe playful strategies to avoid Dale when he tries to join their activities, leading to funny interactions where Dale tries to assert his presence.

Jamie [13:17]: "He used to get so mad, but then he'd come in and then, like, take over and fall open my eyes."

b. Pet Shenanigans and Neighbor Stories

The duo recounts incidents involving their pets and eccentric neighbors, adding layers of humor and warmth to their narrative.

Amy [15:20]: "She was telling me she was standing on the piano bench at one point and jumped at me to say hello."

Jamie [15:58]: "Gracie Lou would come over and hang out, and that one day you let her out the back, you did not have her on a leash."

4. Interactive Games Segment

Midway through the episode, Amy, Jamie, and Brad engage in interactive games to entertain their listeners.

a. Priorities Card Game

They play a card game where they guess each other's priorities based on drawn cards. The game reveals personal preferences and humorous misunderstandings, showcasing their playful rapport.

Jamie [35:50]: "Sharing feelings, conspiracy theories, swearing, which I don't love, but I don't hate."

b. Millennials and Conspiracy Theories Discussion

The conversation extends into light-hearted debates about generational traits and conspiracy theories, further cementing their camaraderie.

Jamie [36:46]: "I like knowing all the conspiracies, whether I can buy into them or not."

5. Ask Amy: Listener Questions

Towards the end of the episode, Amy and Jamie address questions from their audience, providing advice and personal insights.

a. Caring for Sick Dale

A listener inquires about Dale’s recovery, and Jamie provides an update on his condition and ongoing care.

Jamie [51:08]: "He's still very under the weather. He's been fighting a pretty bad fever off and on for the last two days."

b. Becoming the Fun Uncle/Aunt

They offer tips on how to engage with children effectively, emphasizing the importance of attention and play.

Jamie [55:25]: "Playing with them. Don't overdo it because then you set the expectation bar pretty dang high."

c. Best Trips Together

Reflecting on their travels, Amy and Jamie share memorable moments from trips to places like New York and Miami, highlighting their adventures and mishaps.

Amy [59:05]: "We went to New York, and it was a special trip for your 40th."

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6. Heartfelt Moments and Supportive Friendship

Throughout the episode, Amy and Jamie display a deep sense of friendship and support, especially during emotional moments such as commemorating Amy’s late father. Jamie shares a touching gesture of celebrating the anniversary of her father’s passing, underscoring the strength of their bond.

Jamie [23:17]: "We’re gonna cheer to Tom. And I was like, oh, my gosh. I just want people to know, like, that's the kind of friend you are."

7. Closing Remarks and Upcoming Plans

The episode concludes with discussions about future plans, including Jamie’s upcoming girls' trip to Miami, organized by Dale to ensure Amy and Jamie have a well-deserved break.

Jamie [55:45]: "He set me up with a girls trip, so he knows I'm not gonna do it. And he's like, I want you to do this because I know you need it."

The hosts remind listeners to subscribe to their YouTube channel and engage with their online presence, fostering a sense of community among their audience.

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Notable Quotes:

• Jamie [01:18]: "I think he's a little too sick to even be aware of what's happening today."
• Amy [05:04]: "I was friends with Kelly first, and honestly, I was just through another mutual friend."
• Jamie [15:58]: "Gracie Lou would come over and hang out, and that one day you let her out the back, you did not have her on a leash."
• Jamie [23:17]: "That's the kind of friend you are."
• Jamie [55:25]: "Playing with them. Don't overdo it because then you set the expectation bar pretty dang high."

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This episode of Bless Your ‘Heart with Jamie Goddard offers listeners a blend of humor, heartfelt moments, and practical advice, all wrapped in the authentic and candid dialogue that Amy and Jamie are known for. Whether sharing the trials of living with a sick Dale or reminiscing about shared adventures, their genuine friendship shines through, making the episode both entertaining and relatable.

Transcript

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[Jamie]

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[Amy]

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[Jamie]

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[Amy]

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[Jamie]

For $65 less per month than [e-mail] hi, guys. Welcome back to Dirty Moe Studios. We're here for another episode of Bless yous Heart and I have my best friend Jamie Goddard here. Dale is out sick, so we have some fun stories about living together, shenanigans we've gotten into and just general silliness. The following is a production of Dirty Mo Media. Bless your heart. Oh, yeah. This is the way it's going to be, girl. We're going to hang out. Oh, you look amazing. I can stare at you all day. Are you kidding me? I couldn't believe it. What's going on? The world is not your trash.

[Brad]

I slept till 2, smoking cigarettes and drinking amp energy.

[Jamie]

Lord have mercy.

[Amy]

How does Dale feel that I've taken the spot today?

[Jamie]

Well, I think.

[Amy]

Is he scared?

[Jamie]

I think he's a little too sick to even be aware of what's happening today.

[Amy]

Perfect. Sorry in advance, Dale, he was still.

[Jamie]

Pretty out of it when I left this morning. He's been in and out of having a fever, so been relinquished to the guest bedroom. And I've stayed away from him as much as possible, besides feeding him a little Advil and some vitamins and voodoo and all the other things and, you know, making sure he gets all of his. All of his meds. But other than that, I've been trying to stay away from him.

[Amy]

How about the girls?

[Jamie]

The girls had it first and brought it home. That's just how it happens, right? Isla's in the first grade, so she and her whole class ended up having the flu or whatever.

[Amy]

Are they giving him his distance or.

[Jamie]

Are they like, he basically doesn't exist right now? Even last night we're going to bed and I'm giving him his last dose and giving him like a cold towel for his forehead. I rolled up towels and put them in the refrigerator. I'm like, here you go. Put it on your forehead. Gave him the little tiny, like, you know, the dinosaur Ice pack we have for the kids. Oh, yeah, yeah. He had that on his forehead at one point yesterday. So, like, I need to do something a little bit better that's bigger for his face.

[Amy]

He.

[Jamie]

So anyway, I'm giving him all of these things before bed and trying to get the girls to tell him good night. And he. Nicole's just like.

[Amy]

She's like, what are you doing with my dinosaur?

[Jamie]

He's so weird. I'm like, wait a second, he's sick. Just say I love you. It's going to make him feel better. I don't want to. They don't act like that usually. So I don't know. It's weird. They don't really know what's going on. It's weird that he's sleeping in the guest bedroom and so they probably just don't know how to act.

[Amy]

But they're just keeping their distance. They don't want the sickness back.

[Jamie]

Even though they brought it, they don't want it back. Can you get it back?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

If you've had a virus, I'm sure, yeah. Really? I don't know the rules on that.

[Amy]

But it runs course and then it comes back to you for sure.

[Jamie]

Oh, I thought once you had it, kind of like having a flu shot, like, you can't really. You're supposed to not get it. I don't know the rules. I don't even know what he's got or what they had. So that's. I don't know.

[Amy]

I don't know.

[Jamie]

But he's. He's not doing well. Hopefully he's feeling better in the next couple of days. So. Yeah, we have some champagne this morning because that's what we do. Cheers.

[Amy]

Cheers.

[Jamie]

It is our favorite thing to do in beer mugs. What have you been up to?

[Amy]

I'm getting over a sickness.

[Jamie]

Oh, you are?

[Amy]

Myself.

[Jamie]

Thanks for telling me now.

[Amy]

Yeah, I'm getting over it. We're past it.

[Jamie]

What did you have?

[Amy]

Just so it's weird. I just have. I'm nasally, runny nose and that's it. And I just feel. I was feeling run down.

[Jamie]

That's kind of what I've got going on.

[Amy]

Yeah. So I've talked to a few people and everyone's like, everyone has something. It didn't have a cough, didn't have a fever. Maybe a little bit of chills back on Sunday, but that's it. I went and got an IV, though. I swear. IVs or the.

[Jamie]

That's pretty genius. I was too scared to get that.

[Amy]

Involved for being Sick. The doctor I go to, she was like, I'm just gonna give you what I would give myself if I was sick. And I'm like, perfect.

[Jamie]

Nice.

[Amy]

She came in with this IV bag, and I felt better.

[Jamie]

Didn't ask questions. You just, like, yesterday.

[Amy]

Yeah, I didn't ask questions. You know this. I'm just like, oh, you want me to do that?

[Jamie]

Okay, sure. Sure.

[Amy]

Yeah. I'm down.

[Jamie]

All right. Just so everybody gets to know who you are, I want you to kind of. I can. I can try, but I feel like you can probably do a better job telling me how you met Kelly, because that's how you and I met was through Kelly.

[Amy]

Yeah. Yeah. So I knew. Gosh, I don't. The years run together, so there's that. I don't remember.

[Jamie]

I know you and I met in 2010. I did the math this morning.

[Amy]

You did the math?

[Jamie]

Yeah. Had to count backwards.

[Amy]

Yeah. So, yeah, I was friends with Kelly first, and honestly, I was just through another mutual friend. I met Kelly. I had no idea who she was.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Oh, really?

[Amy]

No. She was Kelly Elledge.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Okay.

[Amy]

I don't know. It was my friend's. It was her mom and dad's neighbor, and they all just always hung out, and so we just started hanging out. Yeah. And we just hit it off. And then as I got to know her, obviously, I got to know who she was, but I still didn't know. I wasn't in the NASCAR world.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Like, that was unfamiliar to me.

[Jamie]

Did she have Carson already?

[Amy]

Yes, she had Carson. And Kennedy was just a baby.

[Jamie]

Okay.

[Amy]

I mean, she might have been, like, a year old, and Carson was, like a spitfire. That's all I remember.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Like, she was just.

[Jamie]

She just came out like that. Oh, yeah.

[Amy]

She's been like that from the get go. So Kelly and I just. I mean, I think that's why we became good friends, is because I didn't know anything about.

[Jamie]

Yeah. There were no expectations.

[Amy]

Yeah. Like, I was just like, she's a fun girl to hang out with, and we just hung out.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And then. Yeah, then I guess 2010 is when I met you. I remember the first time I met you. I don't know if you remember this.

[Jamie]

I don't.

[Amy]

It was Charlotte race weekend.

[Jamie]

There's so much about that whole time frame of life I don't really remember.

[Amy]

I don't remember. It was Charlotte race weekend, and I was watching the girls for Kelly, and so I don't remember if she was driving out or getting on the helicopter with Dale, but I Remember coming into the house and you and Dale were sitting by the piano or. Yeah, you were sitting by the piano or Carson was playing the piano. She was. Carson was entertaining.

[Jamie]

Yes.

[Amy]

And I was like, oh, Dale has a girlfriend.

[Jamie]

So it's funny because I don't remember you being there. I do remember Carson and she was this tiny little meatball.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

And she was telling me she was standing on the piano bench at one point and jumped at me to say hello. She's like, I'm gonna just be Taylor Swift. I just want you to know I'm gonna be Taylor Swift one day. I was like, I love that for you. Yeah, of course you are.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

But when I came into the house, I think that Dale had just had another girlfriend that was blonde and about the same size.

[Amy]

So I wasn't gonna say that, but like, the weekend before, I had saw.

[Jamie]

His new girl and other girlfriend, and.

[Amy]

I was like, oh, wait, that's not her.

[Jamie]

Such and such.

[Amy]

But I do remember Carson saying to you guys, and I don't know if you or Dale remember this. She was like, uncle Dale, you're gonna marry her?

[Jamie]

She did.

[Amy]

And we were like, it was so bizarre. Carson. And she was like, no, he's gonna marry her.

[Jamie]

Yep.

[Amy]

And she like, be bopped out of the room.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And she was. She wasn't wrong.

[Jamie]

She wasn't wrong. She just foreshadowed the whole thing.

[Amy]

She did.

[Jamie]

That's kind of funny. The first time. So we used to hang out partying. I remember Kelly bringing all of her girlfriends over. Everybody was always kind of around each other. And so it's 2010, I had lived by myself up here. 2009, I moved up from Florida and I lived by myself, which was no fun.

[Amy]

I think I remember this story.

[Jamie]

I don't know anybody. And so, like, I'm moving. I want to move. I want to move closer to Dale so that it's a little easier to see each other. You at the time, were also looking for a new place.

[Amy]

Yeah, I was living in Kelly's pool house.

[Jamie]

That's right, the pool house. How did you get into the pool house to begin with?

[Amy]

So that's another fun story. I lived in an apartment, and it was just a one bedroom apartment in Cornelius. And then I was like, talking with another girlfriend, and we're like, let's save money. She's like, well, you should move in with me. We'll save money. I was like, yeah, let's do that. So I go to my apartment complex and give my notice because you have to Give like a six months or something.

[Jamie]

Something like that.

[Amy]

It was maybe at the time. I don't remember, I gave my notice and then, like, that same week, she was like, so I'm actually gonna move in with my parents. And I was like, what a beat. I was like, oh, okay. And I was like, no big deal. Like, I'll just go back.

[Jamie]

I was about to hit the streets.

[Amy]

So I was like, well, I'll just go back. I just told them like, a couple days ago, like, thinking it's not a big deal. And they were like, that's fine. Well, you can redo your lease. But now we're increasing because I don't know if they still do that.

[Jamie]

Price jumped you.

[Amy]

Yes. Like a couple hundred dollars. And at the time, I was like.

[Jamie]

No, not doing that.

[Amy]

I was like, I can't afford that.

[Jamie]

No.

[Amy]

And I was like, no.

[Jamie]

Out of principle, too. That's just so wrong.

[Amy]

I was like, I just told you, like, a couple of days ago. And Kelly was like, moving to my pool house. And I was like, that's bigger than my apartment.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And I was always up there anyway. So I was like, okay. So I had moved into her apart or her pool house. And then in that time. So when you were. You're. I think your lease was up.

[Jamie]

My lease was up, but I was trying to figure out what to do.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And.

[Amy]

And Kelly had just gotten engaged to lw.

[Jamie]

That's right.

[Amy]

And I was like, do they really want me living in their pool house? Like, they're getting ready to start their life together. Like, do they want me in their pool house?

[Jamie]

So Kelly wasn't even saying anything to you really, about it?

[Amy]

She was just.

[Jamie]

No, she was fine with it. But it was kind of up to you to make that choice.

[Amy]

Yeah. But I was like, yeah, they're engaged. Like, do they really want. Like, I was like a third child.

[Jamie]

You're like, I kind of feel weird about it now. Yeah.

[Amy]

And you were looking. I remember we were in the basement.

[Jamie]

We were.

[Amy]

And we were like, dale, can we.

[Jamie]

Or.

[Amy]

No, I think he said it. He was like, I'll be your landlord.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

We were like.

[Jamie]

He saw we should live together, but we didn't. We wanted to rent from him. And he didn't like that idea. He felt that, like, that was weird. We're like. They had picked up. Do you remember where, like, yes. We were building Mimi's house down in. Close to Whiskey River. They picked up the house that they had down there, which was like, all the boys rented at one point. Moved it out to the outside of the property, which was great. We were, like, a little bit farther removed at our own space, so we thought. And we had cows in our front yard. Yeah, we did. Cows and corn and. Anyway, so they picked that house up and moved it, and that's where you and I proposed that we would stay.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

And he's like, I don't really like that idea. That's kind of weird that my girlfriend's going to rent a house for me. I was like, you don't have to charge me. He's like, well, I'm like, yeah, it's fine. I'm working. I'm gonna pay rent anywhere. So, like, I'll pay rent. It's no big deal. At least we'll all be closer and, like, it won't be so hard to see each other in and out of town and doing all the things. Yeah, he's not gonna drive 20 miles to see me.

[Amy]

No, but he would drive.

[Jamie]

Yes.

[Amy]

Five.

[Jamie]

He would drive five. So anyway, that's how we met was, like, very quick kind of friendship. And then we just decided to live together and then became like sisters pretty quickly.

[Amy]

I always say, you're. You're younger than me, but you're my older sister.

[Jamie]

That's funny. I'm not younger than you by much. Two years, but still younger. Well, it always felt like a good, easy friendship. It was moving in with anybody's always hard. And ours. We didn't have fights. We didn't argue over who got what in space or anything like that. We had a really.

[Amy]

I remember you're like, take the master. And I was like, what? I was like, you take the master.

[Jamie]

Like, no, you're going to be home more than I am anyway.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And it's downstairs. Like, you'll have your space.

[Amy]

It's a fun house.

[Jamie]

It was a fun house, except all.

[Amy]

The guys would come over that had lived there previously and tell us where things needed to be or what they.

[Jamie]

Or what they did in what corner.

[Amy]

We had a pool table here.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Well, this is where we had the trash can.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Nobody asks you.

[Amy]

It's not there anymore.

[Jamie]

Go home.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Speaking of the boys coming over, we had a routine. We both had day jobs. We would come home, cook together, and it didn't matter if we had a bunch of groceries.

[Amy]

We'd figure something cooked together was more Amy cooking.

[Jamie]

Yeah, I'd cook, and you'd taste. Even if I made. You tried something that was really gross, like beets. But Dale would try to come over or he'd text and all the time. I mean, he did not want you and I getting close enough where he got less attention because you and I were such close friends.

[Amy]

He would. I would come. There were times we'd come home and he'd be there.

[Jamie]

Yeah. We wouldn't be there sitting on the couch.

[Amy]

He's just sitting on our couch or.

[Jamie]

Sleeping on the couch. Just napping.

[Amy]

A lot of times he was sleeping. That's when he was nocturnal. Yeah.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

His little sleep. His sleep cycle was a little off. And he would be sleeping and we'd be tiptoeing around.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

We're like, what is he doing here?

[Jamie]

I always thought it was kind of funny because just the game of it was funny. But you could hear him coming out of the back gate, too. And at that point, I don't know what he was driving, but it was loud.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And we could hear the gate. Or we could hear the gate open. I can't remember.

[Amy]

It was. I called it the Fast and Furious car.

[Jamie]

Oh, the Holden. It was loud. It was. Yeah, it was pretty loud. So he still has that car, but he hasn't driven it in forever. But if we were in there cooking or. And mind you, the back part of the house, it's like a sun porch almost. There's, like, windows all along one wall, and there's a big sliding door on the other side.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And then, like, a window over the kitchen sink. So there's a lot of glass. So.

[Amy]

And the curtains we had were, like.

[Jamie]

They were just pretty sheer.

[Amy]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Jamie]

So if you're in there in the evening and the lights are on, you could see straight into the house. And if we're in there cooking, hanging out as we did, there was not really a good place to hide. So I remember sometimes as soon as.

[Amy]

You pulled in, like, you could see even pulling into the. Cause it was like a gravel road off the main road. But our house was right there. So as soon as you pulled in.

[Jamie]

You could see everything.

[Amy]

Everything.

[Jamie]

Yeah. So we would try to hide from Dale. And I remember a couple times him pulling in, and we would hit the.

[Amy]

Deck, like, we would literally just fall down.

[Jamie]

Fall down in the kitchen because they had a big wraparound island, like, we could hide from. And he'd just stand there knocking and be like, I can see you. I see you in there. I can see us.

[Amy]

We're like, no, you don't.

[Jamie]

He used to get so mad, but then he'd come in and then, like, take over and fall open my eyes, think about it. And you and I couldn't chit chat or anything if we did.

[Amy]

If our boyfriend did that to us, we'd be mad too.

[Jamie]

I know it's funny looking back, but.

[Amy]

At the time, we were like, ha, ha. He doesn't see us. Like, yeah, he'll go home. You won't come in.

[Jamie]

He didn't. He never gave up. He always found. And he can pick a lock too. He would get in that back door by the laundry room if we didn't let him in the back door.

[Amy]

I forgot about that.

[Jamie]

Y'all are dumb. You know, I can get in here.

[Amy]

I own this place.

[Jamie]

Yeah, well, no, we're renting it, Dale.

[Amy]

And that was one of the worst things was. Ever. Every month, writing him a check.

[Jamie]

I thought it was. I don't know. I got satisfaction over that.

[Amy]

I was like, Dale Earnhardt Jr. You do not need my money.

[Jamie]

Yeah, there was a little of that. But for the most part, it was gratifying. That house was cool, though, because it was out in the middle of the country. And then we had a neighbor, too, that was one of Dale's friends, was David Neal. And he and his family lived there. So they had chickens. And you used to babysit your sister's dog, which is a giant doodle.

[Amy]

Doodle? Yeah.

[Jamie]

Gracie Louis. Is she a golden doodle kind of doodle?

[Amy]

She was a rescue. So we weren't really sure what kind of doodle she was.

[Jamie]

Well, she was a great dog.

[Amy]

She played Tina Turner.

[Jamie]

What's that?

[Amy]

Tina Turner.

[Jamie]

You call her Tina Turner?

[Amy]

Yeah, because of her.

[Jamie]

Curly.

[Amy]

Yeah. The color of her hair.

[Jamie]

I used to call her Gracie Lou Freebush. But anyway, Gracie would come over and hang out and that one day you let her out the back, you did not have her on a leash. And she took off after the neighbor's chickens.

[Amy]

Oh, my gosh. That was the worst day.

[Jamie]

Straight murder. The kids, chickens.

[Amy]

And the kid was the. The little boy was outside.

[Jamie]

Yeah. He watched it happen.

[Amy]

And we're, like, screaming. We're like Gracie Lou very much.

[Jamie]

She didn't scare her out of her.

[Amy]

No. And that poor chicken tried to hide. And I think, if I remember correctly, like, it tried to hide and she couldn't find it. And then it, like, perked up and she was like, oh, attack. Yeah.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

That was horrible. That was the worst day.

[Jamie]

Yeah, we kind of felt bad about that. It was really hard to say you're sorry when the chicken's still laying in there dead and the kids crying. It's.

[Amy]

And the dog's so proud.

[Jamie]

She Was very proud.

[Amy]

She was so proud. She was like, look what I did, guys. I hate you right now.

[Jamie]

Damn it.

[Amy]

Yeah, like you put us in an awkward situation. They're neighbors.

[Jamie]

I know. I wanted a chicken coop for a while and every time I think about it, I think about Gracie Lou Freebush because Gus isn't gonna allow that either. Gus would kill them all.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And really the only space I have to put a chicken coop is kind of in the backyard with Gus with his space. So it's a lose, lose there.

[Amy]

What kind of neighbors can we talk about? Do you remember? I don't remember her name. The blonde haired lady.

[Jamie]

I don't know what her real name is.

[Amy]

I don't either.

[Jamie]

What do we used to call her? The Cat lady.

[Amy]

Cat lady or Kelly would know.

[Jamie]

Kelly would know her name. She hung out at Whiskey River Charlotte religiously and she would wear cat suits, which is why we called her Cat Lady. She didn't otherwise look like a cat. No, but like black and white checkers.

[Amy]

But she lived like a good two miles from us.

[Jamie]

She did. She lived about two miles.

[Amy]

And then once she realized it was us that lived in that house, she would walk. Remember? She would walk.

[Jamie]

She had a Pomeranian. She would walk.

[Amy]

That's right. She carried it.

[Jamie]

That dog does not need to be walking that far down the road. Yeah, she would walk and then walk down the gravel road all the way to the owl farm.

[Amy]

I remember that. She kind of creeped me out.

[Jamie]

She's not there anymore. I haven't seen her in years.

[Amy]

I wonder what happened to her.

[Jamie]

I don't know. She said that she was working for or dating John Travolta.

[Amy]

Working for.

[Jamie]

Is that right? John Travolta.

[Amy]

I thought about that.

[Jamie]

So she would fly back and forth to Florida to meet with John, which. I don't know if that's true or not.

[Amy]

I mean, if I had to guess, I'm going with that.

[Jamie]

She stuck with her story, so I.

[Amy]

Felt like she stuck with her story.

[Jamie]

No reason to doubt her.

[Amy]

But she was always in VIP at Whiskey river too.

[Jamie]

She was very nice. We chatted with her a few times down at the bar. But it's been a long time since I've seen her. It did used to creep me out a little bit that she used to walk that far. Yeah. Just to like, try to get into the.

[Amy]

That was crazy. Hey, everybody.

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[Jamie]

Sims, I have a question for you. Do you have any fun IT names for like components around your house or like, like wifi? Your wifi?

[Brad]

I don't, but my neighbors definitely do.

[Jamie]

What's your neighbor's name?

[Brad]

It's like giggly wiggly 94.

[Jamie]

Giggly wiggly.

[Brad]

I don't know what it means and I don't really want to ask.

[Amy]

Don't.

[Jamie]

So that's the thing. You should totally ask. It's a conversation starter.

[Brad]

Every time I try to connect to it, it's like, what is that?

[Jamie]

Well, we had Martin Friedrich put our WI fi in when we lived in that house and he likes to give everything like a fun name. So it's very obvious what it belongs to. But we had him name our wifi router Jugs and it was an acronym for just us girls. But, you know, considering curves.

[Brad]

That's not what I thought it would be.

[Jamie]

Yeah, well, it kind of played into both.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And so we thought that was funny. And Martin got blushed every time he had to come and update it or mess with was funny. But it was funny. Anyone came. Anytime anyone came over to to ask for the WI fi and the password, we had to.

[Amy]

Do you remember that when I moved?

[Jamie]

Yeah. So you took the router with you.

[Amy]

So I took the router with me. Because obviously you moved in with Dale and you were like, just take the router. I was like, okay, I move. Move into my new place.

[Jamie]

Which is a condo building.

[Amy]

Yeah, condo. Set it up. I don't Think anything of it. I know that drugs is mine. Just us girls. But it's just a girl now. Yeah, not a big deal. Probably a year or so after living there. I was talking to my neighbor, like, down in the parking lot, and he was. I don't remember how it came up, but he was like, yeah, someone's WI fi in here is Jugs. He's like, I wonder who that is. And I'm like, oh, it's not me. I was like, that's me. I was like, but it's just us girls. And he was like, okay, sure. And I was more like, I'm standing there by myself with no one to back up my stuff.

[Jamie]

And I'm like, actually, it is. But, you know, I remember I texted.

[Amy]

You, and I was like, how do I change it?

[Jamie]

I'm like, you just need to lean into it, Jamie. Don't even worry about it.

[Amy]

I was like, yeah. So I'm sure he told everybody in our condo building.

[Jamie]

Do you still have it?

[Amy]

No, it unfortunately died. And when it did, so did Jugs.

[Jamie]

So did Chugs.

[Amy]

Died with it.

[Jamie]

Chugs died with it. Oh, my gosh.

[Amy]

It's been replaced by the dog.

[Jamie]

Franklin.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

Your WI fi is Franklin now. Of course, your dad.

[Amy]

Yeah, my dad.

[Jamie]

I have a strong belief that. I mean, I don't totally believe in reincarnation, but I don't not believe in it. Like, it's kind of up in the air for me. And the reason I feel validated in this comment is because I think her dog is her dad, and her dad passed away. What year?

[Amy]

Oh, gosh, 2006.

[Jamie]

And you got Franklin.

[Amy]

Franklin. I didn't get Franklin until.

[Jamie]

14. How old is he?

[Amy]

He. I got him, like a year after Gus. He is so.

[Jamie]

He's 9, 8. So. 15.

[Amy]

15.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

But his. He's got some tendencies that are like, your dad.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

And he's not like a normal dog. Like, you can talk to him. And he's got emotions.

[Amy]

And he's obsessed with my mom.

[Jamie]

He's obsessed with her mom.

[Amy]

Like, anytime he sees I say grandma, and that dog loses his mind, like, running, looking for her. I actually feel bad saying it now. I used to tease him and be like, where's grandma? Just to watch him, really. And now I'm like, I feel bad. Cause he gets so excited.

[Jamie]

I feel like there's two other things I told her. So we do a cheers for Tom on the anniversary of his passing with Miller Lite because that was his favorite drink. And I've teased her that she needs to put some Miller Lite down in the dog bowl just to see if he'll slurp it, which I know is not a good thing to do. And we haven't done it.

[Amy]

We understand that.

[Jamie]

I feel heavily like Franklin is your dad.

[Amy]

So going on that. Can I tell you, I don't know how I'm trying to think of the best way to say this. First year we lived together, so, I mean, I think it's known my dad's passed away. I don't talk about it frequently. I mean, it's not something I'm like, oh. And the first year we lived together, it was the anniversary of my dad passing. And I know that I had mentioned to you Miller Lite and, like, when he passed, but not, like, great detail. And I'll never forget that day. We were having a bonfire.

[Jamie]

Oh, with the cabin.

[Amy]

Yeah. Up at the cabin. And you literally walked in. It caught me off guard. You walked to my bedroom, and you had two Miller Lights, and you handed me one, and you were like, we're gonna cheers to Tom. And I was like, oh, my gosh. I was like that. I just want people to know, like, that's the kind of friend you are. Like.

[Jamie]

And we're gonna do it every year.

[Amy]

And we have since. But, like, that first year just took me by surprise because I was like, I can't believe she remembered that.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

And she remembered the date and the beer, and, like, that was huge.

[Jamie]

Well, I feel like it was the least I could do. So Dale lost his dad. You've lost your dad. I remember trying to get Dale to talk about that and how hard that was, and you were very open to talking about it. It was emotional. Yeah. I don't know. I just felt like that was what I was supposed to do.

[Amy]

I mean, it was amazing. I'll never forget that.

[Jamie]

Every single year.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And every time I see a Miller Light, I. I grew up, my grandparents drew up. Like, Miller Light's kind of a choice for my family, too. But every time I see a Miller Light now, I think of you, which is good.

[Amy]

Yeah. Now, you've always done amazing things like that. Yeah. Our house was either. My mom was Bud Light.

[Jamie]

Oh, she was.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah. Like, every time I went to the grocery store, there was a pack of Bud Light and a pack of Miller Light. Because if one was. Mom, that's hilarious.

[Jamie]

The house divided.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

Well, they weren't that far off, so at least there's that. So another thing that happened quite a bit when we were hanging out was Just being goofy. Do you still have the video from the Walgreens parking lot?

[Amy]

Oh, yeah.

[Jamie]

So we had a funny outing. We were sent to Walgreens to get pool noodles and whatever else.

[Amy]

I think it was just pool toys.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Because we didn't have any at the house.

[Amy]

Because I think it was like early in the year. Like it was spring and just it was like a nice day maybe.

[Jamie]

Listen, it's hard to tell from the video. We were.

[Amy]

I think we were still.

[Jamie]

We were hungover.

[Amy]

We were definitely hungover. And I think we might have still had some in our system. Well, what even started that?

[Jamie]

I don't know. To be honest, I feel like you.

[Amy]

Probably hit me with a noodle first.

[Jamie]

Maybe that's really likely. We had asked a man that we found in the Walgreens parking lot to take a video of us having a noodle fight with our noodles. And bless his heart. Or maybe he did it on purpose. The whole first half of the video is him just filming himself watching us doing that, just chuckling. And he's like. Eventually he's like, oh, man, I'm feeling myself. And then he turns it around and we're having a full on and we're still going in war in the middle of the Walgreens parking lot. The 1 on 150 right there in front of us.

[Brad]

Oh, really?

[Jamie]

Main intersection in town.

[Amy]

I'm just like doing this. Amy's jumping like a ninja and like kicking her leg out, coming at me.

[Jamie]

That was four kids. I was pretty sprightly. We had a lot of fun like that. I feel like that's what I mean. We're like sisters. You can be as goofy and as silly as you want.

[Amy]

And I feel like when we went back to the house to tell everybody we had a.

[Jamie]

Nobody cared.

[Amy]

No. They were like, well, did you get the noodles?

[Jamie]

Did you get it?

[Amy]

We're like, yeah, but we had a noodle fight in the middle of Walgreens.

[Jamie]

And they're like, great.

[Amy]

Grow up.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Ironic. Ironic. Yeah. So we had a lot of fun. There's one story that you've written down that you want to talk about with Brenda. So we used to hang out with Brenda, like every single Sunday. Well, for the most part it was like Saturday.

[Amy]

Yeah. That was the one thing about going to Brenda's. We never left hungry or sober.

[Jamie]

No, you never left Sad.

[Amy]

No. You felt so good leaving there, cuz you just. I mean, you literally just laughed the entire time.

[Jamie]

Yeah, we had a lot of fun at the lake house, but once you move out to the farm. It was a different story because we were all in the same place.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah. We were within just. I mean, like, we could walk to each other's houses.

[Jamie]

Yeah. So what happened with the golf cart? So I don't remember this as much as you do.

[Amy]

I just remember we were going for a golf cart ride, and Brenda's like, I'm driving.

[Jamie]

Was it daylight?

[Amy]

No.

[Jamie]

Okay.

[Amy]

It was pitch dark. Like, I don't know if the race had ended. Like, it was late night, and we all got on this golf cart.

[Jamie]

But Dale wasn't with us.

[Amy]

No, he was. No, I think he was at track. And so I'm up front with Brenda. You and Lauren are on the. I think it's Lauren, but you guys are on the back, and we're cruising around, right? And all of a sudden you're like, ah. And you, like, jump off. And I look back, and the two of you are rolling. And Brenda and I are like, oh, my God. And we, like, get off. You're laughing so hard, and we're like, what are you laughing? Are you okay? Lauren's like, I'm hurt. And you're like, I am, too.

[Jamie]

And you're like, damn, I pulled her off.

[Amy]

No, you talked her into jumping with you.

[Jamie]

Oh, well, that's her fault.

[Amy]

Like, you were like, it'll be funny. Let's do it.

[Jamie]

And mind you, Lauren's very tall.

[Amy]

Very tall. Like, And I was like, why would you listen to her? Yeah, she was like, it sounded like a good idea.

[Jamie]

It did. I mean, I was fine. Tuck and roll, Lauren. Tuck and roll. I am surprised neither one of us got hurt. For real?

[Amy]

Yeah. Brenda and I were like, so.

[Jamie]

That was so stupid.

[Amy]

And you were just laughing, and you were like, I planned it all. You were laughing so hard.

[Jamie]

Was Brenda mad?

[Amy]

No. I think she started cackling after that. Like, once we knew you guys were okay, but, like, we like, oh, my God, they fell off, and this is horrible. And they're gonna be hurt.

[Jamie]

Well, that's always the thing that's gonna get us all in trouble is if we get hurt out there doing something.

[Amy]

Stupid I'll just never forget, like, you were rolling on the ground, laughing. We're like, why are you laughing? Are you hurt? Are you okay? You were laughing so hard you were trying to get out that you planned it.

[Jamie]

Well, thank God I've grown up.

[Amy]

But I just remember being like, why? I was like, why did you jump? And Lauren's like, she told me to. And I was like, why would you listen to her?

[Jamie]

So Speaking of consequences and choices, we went to a Jimmy Buffett concert.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah.

[Jamie]

Right after we moved in together. So I had never been to a Buffett concert. Bubba Brandon wants to take everybody. It's his favorite thing. Blaine goes, you and I go. And we pick up J.R. rhodes.

[Amy]

Yep.

[Jamie]

We had partied the night before hard, and I was in really rough shape. And I almost didn't go to the concert. Where you're like, no, you have to go. This is going to be so much fun. So we get in Cowboy's van. Cowboy is, like the local lake driver. And I don't know where he got the nickname Cowboy. It wasn't for me to ask questions. I just would get in the van and go.

[Amy]

And mind you, the van had a recliner in the back and a potty, and a potty and a potty.

[Jamie]

Oh, my gosh. But so, yeah, the van itself is like a monument. But we get into the van, and we're going to pick up JR who lives on the other side of the lake. And driving over there was rough. I literally.

[Amy]

I didn't know that you were going to.

[Jamie]

Worst ride. And so we get into the driveway, and Cowboy's like, what's wrong, darling? He's got a real heavy accent in, like, in a good way, Southern accent. And I'm like, oh, Cowboy, I feel terrible. And he flips down his visor, and one little packet of white powder and wax paper falls out. And I looked at him. I was like, cowboy, I do not party like that. And everyone in the entire car roars in laughter because it was nothing more than a goody powder. And I had never seen that before in my life. And so J.R. gives me a Gatorade and pours a goodie powder in it. Because I was like, I don't think I can just stick that powder in my mouth. And it brought me back to life. And so that was the first day I had a run in with both Jimmy Buffett goody powder, and.

[Amy]

Well, then we went to the Rudder and the Rudder. By the time we got to the Rudder, she's. She's back up.

[Jamie]

Yeah. The whole concert had happened. We have a great picture from that night, too.

[Amy]

Do you remember the. You were like. Because you were back to life, and you were like, I need to eat. You're like, I'm gonna get the burger. And I think that's when you fell in love with the Rudder burger. Yeah.

[Jamie]

I love a cheeseburger.

[Amy]

Yeah. You were like, this is so good. She's back. She's back.

[Jamie]

We went to the rudder before we went to the concert.

[Amy]

Yes. I think that was like the meeting spot because we lived so we lived pretty far away from everybody. Like it was a hall to meet up with Everybody.

[Jamie]

It took 30 to 40 minutes to get anywhere.

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[Amy]

What's that?

[Dale]

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[Jamie]

Okay. Should we play our game? Priorities?

[Amy]

I think we could, yes. I'm kind of. Kind of nervous.

[Brad]

Have you ever played Jamie?

[Amy]

No. I've never even heard of it.

[Brad]

Okay, I'll explain it to you. So one person will draw five cards. So we'll have Amy go first. She'll draw five cards and she's going to listen from her highest priority to her lowest priority, what those five cards are. And you have to guess what.

[Jamie]

You just have to guess what my list is. The order of my list.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Oh, okay. Shuffle that deck. How do I know you didn't look?

[Jamie]

I didn't look. They showed me how to play earlier, but I didn't look. About to play 52 card pickup.

[Amy]

Here's the game.

[Brad]

Once you have five you like, you can read them out loud too.

[Jamie]

Oh, these are. These are fun.

[Amy]

Can I cheat?

[Jamie]

So it's in order of things that you like the most, the least favorite. Like, things you. Yes.

[Brad]

Yes.

[Jamie]

Okay.

[Brad]

So like, love to hate.

[Amy]

I will feel so little if I get them all wrong.

[Brad]

You keep going till you get them right.

[Amy]

But I know she'll get mine right. That's what's first try.

[Brad]

You think?

[Amy]

Yeah, like, that's how she is. She'll be like this.

[Jamie]

Like, some people call that paying attention.

[Brad]

She. Maybe she throws you off. Maybe she throws one of you call.

[Amy]

Me out for, like, not paying attention. Maybe.

[Jamie]

I feel like I am very in tune with people.

[Amy]

You are like, do you have a friend that, like, they know you better than you know yourself?

[Brad]

Oh, yeah, that's her 100.

[Amy]

She'll be like, you're not going to do that. Like, she even knows how to get me.

[Jamie]

I can order for her at a restaurant.

[Amy]

Order food for me. And I. Let's just say there's. I'm not big at trying new food. And I'll be like, oh, she's got four food.

[Jamie]

She's got four foods. I eat like meat, cheese, towards like a grain and green peppers and onions are. They're basically the only vegetables that she'll eat.

[Brad]

If you go to a restaurant you go to often, do they know exactly what you're getting? You don't veer off that.

[Amy]

Oh, yeah. Like, is it sabor? Is that how you say it?

[Brad]

Sabor?

[Amy]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. They're like, hey, Jamie, they know how I make my bowl.

[Brad]

Yeah, I'm the same way.

[Amy]

Like, I eat like her children. Like, she can feed Isla, Nicole and myself.

[Jamie]

You have the same food groups as TJ Majors. He eats the same vegetables that you do. Okay, cards.

[Amy]

Okay.

[Brad]

What five we got. Read them out.

[Amy]

You can.

[Jamie]

You can lay them out here.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Clean laundry, swearing, sharing feelings. Karen's and Conspiracy theories, Karen's.

[Jamie]

Ooh.

[Amy]

So I feel like the. Are we going top to bottom?

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Top is like swearing.

[Jamie]

You can just put them in order and I'll tell you if you're right. When you get them all laid out, you get one chance to redo.

[Brad]

You can lay them on that table too, if you need to spread them out.

[Amy]

Okay. There.

[Jamie]

Okay. She's got them in order of swearing, sharing feelings, Karen's conspiracy theories. And then clean laundry.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

None of them are in the right.

[Brad]

Oh, no.

[Amy]

Oh, wow.

[Jamie]

You get one more shot to shuffle around things I like to. Things I specifically don't like.

[Amy]

Oh, well then. Oh, I was. I was thinking of it a different way. I thought I was talking about Karen's got to gossip.

[Jamie]

That's just straight gossip.

[Amy]

Oh, now I'm so nervous. Ah, just take it.

[Jamie]

Okay. You got the first one right. And the third one right.

[Amy]

Sharing feelings, clean laundry, swearing, conspiracy theories, Karen's.

[Jamie]

Actually, you got Karen's right too. So two of them are wrong. Oh, yes. There you go. So that's my order. Sharing feelings, conspiracy theories, swearing, which I don't love, but I don't hate. Apparently nobody likes me swearing, but it happens. I don't get to swear at home, so. By the way, that's why I swear in here.

[Amy]

Swearing can just be fun.

[Jamie]

Nobody likes a Karen I could like. I literally just.

[Amy]

I had Karen's different because I was thinking of it a different way, but knowing that it's Karen. Yes.

[Jamie]

I just remove people like that from my existence.

[Amy]

This is what we do with people that are Karen.

[Jamie]

There you go. Bye, Karen. So I like sharing feelings. I like. I don't love. I don't think I'm as good at sharing feelings as I like to have other people share their feelings.

[Amy]

But you're good at listening people sharing.

[Jamie]

I try to be. I'm not always that great at it, but I try to be. I think that that's just important conspiracy theories I'm all about.

[Amy]

Oh, I love them.

[Jamie]

I like knowing all the conspiracies, whether I can buy into them or not. I feel like there's always a little bit of truth and something to buy into with.

[Amy]

There's a little bit.

[Jamie]

Your turn.

[Amy]

Oh, okay.

[Brad]

Let's see if you could beat three out of five. Right.

[Amy]

Well, this is. This is the embarrassing part.

[Jamie]

Tims, do you have conspiracy theories? Are you into that?

[Brad]

The JFK one is so interesting to me.

[Jamie]

Yes. I've recently heard, too, that people think that he's still alive. JFK junior JFK Junior. Oh, but that's. I love that.

[Brad]

The whole family and, like, their. What happened, Their tragedy or whatever. It's. But it's a rabbit hole. You can get lost it.

[Jamie]

Yeah, that's true. There's all the. So I've seen a lot on the Internet, too, about people thinking that other celebrities that have died are still alive. Like Elvis, especially.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Amy]

I don't know what it is.

[Jamie]

Yeah, you can put it back. I really want to believe that that one's true because we're major Elvis fans. Our guest bedroom is Elvis themed.

[Brad]

Oh, really?

[Jamie]

Yes. We. We. We. I would love for that to be true.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

But are you. You got two that you don't know.

[Amy]

Well, no, I know what it is.

[Jamie]

I think you just don't like your cards.

[Amy]

Well, no, one of them. I just don't know what context it means. So I'm scared where I'm gonna put it and what you're gonna say. But we're gonna try this.

[Jamie]

Don't be scared. Go for it.

[Brad]

Where do you fall in the whole aliens thing?

[Jamie]

I think they're totally real.

[Brad]

Really?

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

I think they'd be better than some of the humans we have.

[Jamie]

I don't know if I buy into that. Aliens are here amongst us because people say that or they've been here before, and some of, like, the celebrities are aliens. I don't think that that's true.

[Brad]

Like, they're in a human.

[Jamie]

Yeah, I don't think that's true, but I definitely feel like they're real. I have a Nostradamus book.

[Brad]

Oh, really?

[Jamie]

And I have looked at it just a little bit. It scared the sh. T. Out of me, so I put it under the. Under the side of the bed.

[Amy]

Like, I think with these. These are all, like, kind of low for me, so I don't know where to put them.

[Jamie]

They're all a number five.

[Amy]

Yeah. Not all of them, but.

[Jamie]

Well, that's gonna make it harder for me. This is a good challenge.

[Amy]

Yeah, it's four or five.

[Jamie]

Jamie happily brought up the. This morning that with my revelation of the clippers.

[Brad]

Oh, yeah.

[Jamie]

She was like, wait a second. I thought you waxed. I'm like, well, oh, we have a whole.

[Amy]

Can we tell that story?

[Jamie]

Yeah. I'm like, well, I did. He gotta put the microphone up.

[Amy]

Yeah, yeah. Sorry.

[Jamie]

Wait, I only have four cards. Is that over there?

[Amy]

Oh, got lost in the.

[Jamie]

You want to tell them about our wax story before we get into this?

[Amy]

Yeah. So now, remember, this was a while ago, but do you guys remember were you Guys around when they had Groupon. Do they still have Groupons?

[Brad]

Yeah, I think they still have Groupon.

[Amy]

But they used to be, like, released, like, on a Wednesday or, like, it came out once a week. And, like, you would go on and be like, what are we gonna do?

[Jamie]

What do I need today?

[Amy]

Yeah, what do I need? So we're going to Phoenix for the race, and we have been talking about getting waxed. And so Amy's like, I found a Groupon. We're gonna do it. And I'm like, buy. Let's buy it.

[Jamie]

Let's go do it in Phoenix where nobody knows us.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Brad]

Smart.

[Amy]

First of all, the lady was. She was older.

[Jamie]

She was older. She was European. She didn't speak very good English, and she was very kind, but she was not very gentle.

[Amy]

No, she was just very, to me, very aggressive.

[Jamie]

We went in one at a time. Who went first? Because I went first. I went first.

[Amy]

I wasn't going first. Yeah, looking back, Groupon's not the way to go.

[Jamie]

No, it's not. I did that with a couple of things I regret, and that was.

[Amy]

Was it yours? Lasik?

[Jamie]

No, Lasik. I actually did. Brenda took me to do Lasik.

[Amy]

I remember Brenda took you.

[Jamie]

Oh, that's another good Brenda story. So Brenda had Lasik years ago. And I've been wearing glasses my entire life since I was 7. And Dale had gotten tired of me not being able to see, especially at night when we're watching tv. He's like, this is ridiculous. Just go get Lasik. I was like, I'm terrified. That doesn't sound like anything I want to sign up for. And he's like, you're going to do it? My mom had it done, and she had a great experience. And so we set it up, and Brenda takes me down in her red Corvette all the way into Charlotte to have my eyes done.

[Amy]

She drove that Corvette she drove? Yes, and she drove whatever had good tires on it. If you remember, she didn't want to get paid to get new tires on her BMW, so she drove the Vet.

[Jamie]

We rode the Vet all the way into Charlotte, and she drove me back. Mind you, I'm in these, like, big, giant goggles, like blue blockers. And instead of walking me in, she just drops me off the back door. That same slider that Dale used to knock on. She dressed. She pulls up, drops me off. I army crawl into the house. All the way upstairs. I couldn't see anything, so I had to feel my way all the way upstairs to my bed.

[Amy]

And your bedroom was across the house. You had to crawl across the room.

[Jamie]

Yeah. So I'm in bed, I fall asleep, and I wake up in the middle of the afternoon and Jamie had come home from work to bring me lunch. It was very sweet. And she brings me a sandwich and the only thing that I ask her not to put on it is a condiment that I don't love very much. And it was covered in said condiment. Said condiment. And so I.

[Amy]

And I literally gave it to her and left.

[Jamie]

I didn't give a. I ate the whole thing. And I'm like, this is the worst sandwich my entire life.

[Brad]

That's the worst.

[Jamie]

Oh, my gosh. But between Jamie and Brenda's care, she was awesome.

[Amy]

You guys nailed it.

[Jamie]

Absolutely nailed it, everybody. But I always say that Lasik was one of the best decisions that Dale's ever made for me because I would never have done that without him getting so annoyed about my eyesight. But okay, I have. Did you mix these up?

[Amy]

Yeah. Because one fell.

[Jamie]

So you only mixed one up?

[Amy]

I don't know. Yes, they're mixed.

[Jamie]

I have breakfast in bed, reclining your seat back on a plane, Personal hygiene, rednecks.

[Amy]

That's the one I was like.

[Jamie]

And Star Trek, things you like to things you don't like. All right, I'm going to put breakfast in bed is one, rednecks is two, rednecks is two, personal hygiene third. Maybe I should mix those two up. Star Trek, she thinks I'm dirty. And then reclining your seat back. No, this isn't necessarily you. I mean, right?

[Amy]

Is this your final answer?

[Jamie]

I'm going to switch these two. I'm going to put rednecks in the middle because I feel like you. You really like a redneck, especially if he's tall. All right. Is that right? I've got breakfast in bed, personal hygiene, rednecks, Star Trek, and reclining your seat back on a plane.

[Amy]

You did not get any correct.

[Brad]

Wow. Wow.

[Amy]

And you thought you knew it. I'm shocked right now. You had one of them, right? And you moved it.

[Jamie]

That was the only one I moved.

[Amy]

Right, so put it back where you found it. There you go.

[Jamie]

Smart ass. All right, here we go. Personal hygiene has to be first. You're not a Trekkie. All right. Did I do that right?

[Amy]

So now you have them all but two.

[Jamie]

All right, well, I've put it. Personal hygiene, rednecks, breakfast in bed, reclining your seat, flack on a plane in Star Trek. You don't like breakfast in bed. Is it because of the crummies don't.

[Amy]

Want crummies in my bed here. Yes.

[Jamie]

Okay. Right answer is personal hygiene. Rednecks. Reclining your seat back on a plane. Which that would piss me off more than any of this. Breakfast in bed. In Star Trek, I like to do.

[Amy]

It, but I don't want to piss. The only time I ever do it is if I'm in first class because I feel like they don't get as mad.

[Jamie]

Well, there's way more room.

[Amy]

Yeah, Rednecks was a toss up. I almost put it first.

[Jamie]

I don't think that's a negative. I think that term is somewhat negative, but I don't think there's anything wrong with a good old country.

[Amy]

There is nothing wrong with a redneck. I'll be the first one. I'm from West Virginia.

[Jamie]

Yeah, that's true. Yeah. If there's a lumberjack listening, Jamie wants your number.

[Amy]

If you're tall and have a beard, that's her style. But you have to come with 20 red flags, too. These are funny. Sorry. Let me get my lady leg over here.

[Jamie]

Whatever. Yeah, grab your leg.

[Amy]

All right, are you ready? An awkward silence. Facebook, noisy kids, farting, Millennials.

[Brad]

Oh, this is really good.

[Jamie]

It's gonna be really hard. Okay.

[Amy]

What sense of millennials do you know?

[Jamie]

I'm a millennial. I'm on the Last Cusp. Yeah. 82. I don't really feel like if. I feel.

[Amy]

You don't identify that.

[Jamie]

I don't identify as a millennial. Kind of. I kind of like it for myself. When I feel old, I'm like, yeah, I'm still a millennial.

[Amy]

What am I?

[Jamie]

Gen Z? Ax. What? What went before?

[Brad]

Anyone know? I think it's Gen X. Gen X before, and then gen Z's after 96 or something.

[Jamie]

Oh, really?

[Brad]

I'm just on the cusp of millennial. Right, Dalton? That's not. That's it. Yeah.

[Jamie]

So you're on one cusp and I'm on the other end. Well, that cute?

[Amy]

I really don't know.

[Jamie]

I don't know.

[Brad]

I don't know.

[Jamie]

I don't know.

[Amy]

Don't look at my whiteboard.

[Jamie]

I can't. I ain't cheating. I like a challenge. Just to reiterate, we have farting, Facebook, millennials, noisy kid, and awkward silence. So I know Jamie does not like awkward silence or farting. Who does?

[Brad]

Dale.

[Jamie]

Dale Jr. All right, I'm gonna say things you like. This is hard. All right.

[Amy]

It is. Because I. I didn't even really know.

[Jamie]

I'm going Facebook, millennials, noisy kids, Farting in awkward silence.

[Amy]

Oh, you almost had it.

[Jamie]

Did I miss.

[Amy]

Nope. Nope, nope, nope, nope. It's the last two.

[Jamie]

Really?

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Farting is more than awkward silence.

[Amy]

Yeah, it was a. I actually, when I said I had to rearrange, I.

[Jamie]

Thought awkward silence kind of gave you anxiety.

[Amy]

It does. I had it last at first, and then I switched it because I was like, farting's just so gross.

[Jamie]

It is gross. It's like, literally, like.

[Amy]

It's just gross.

[Jamie]

Facebook, millennials, noisy kids, awkward silence and farting.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

All right, so if you're a lumberjack out there and you want to date Jamie and you don't. Don't fart and talk, hopefully you don't have a bunch of noisy kids either.

[Amy]

Well, that's in the middle. We can.

[Jamie]

Yeah, it's negotiable.

[Amy]

Don't forget about red flags. We gotta have red flags.

[Jamie]

Where do you find these people?

[Amy]

They're the ones that don't have awkward silence.

[Jamie]

I've never seen you hit on anybody. I've never seen the. I've never seen the thing. Jamie in the Wild.

[Amy]

No, it's not.

[Jamie]

You kind of do it on your own. Do you have a secret situation that you do? How do you find boys? Are you on dating apps?

[Amy]

No. I refuse.

[Jamie]

Okay.

[Amy]

But I am. Have you guys seen on Facebook, Are we. Are we dating the same guy? Charlotte?

[Jamie]

I've heard about that. Oh, yeah, you heard it. Are you on it?

[Brad]

I'm on it, but I know people.

[Amy]

That have been on it, y'all. It is pure.

[Jamie]

You know people that are on it.

[Brad]

Yeah, A lot called out. A lot of it's like, just a star drama, though. It's like.

[Amy]

I will say a lot of it. Like, the girls have gotten very, like, I'm meeting this guy. Anyone? Like, they're looking. They're looking. They post a picture of this guy and his first name and initial, and they're like, anyone know any tea on him? Like, go out.

[Jamie]

To be honest, that feels like a red flag, too. Like, quit doing that.

[Brad]

A lot of it's. They've been on one date, or they just match with them on a dating app, and then they post it immediately. And it's like, yeah, he's talking to four other girls on that same dating app.

[Amy]

It's a dating app.

[Jamie]

That's what life looks like. That's how it works when you're dating.

[Amy]

But I will say on that note, one of my friends, her ex husband has been there, like, 12 times.

[Brad]

Oh, my God.

[Amy]

And he's in racing so it makes it even better. And I'm like, oh man. And it's kind of funny when the same repeaters come up because the girls are like, girl, he's been on here 10 times, don't go out with him. Like, pay attention.

[Jamie]

You don't listen. It's all on you now.

[Amy]

Yeah, yeah. You've been told. Yeah, he's a serial offender on there. But I agree. A lot of, a lot of girls, like I'm like, go out with a person.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Get to know them before you start blasting them. Like. And everyone has a past. Right?

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Like if you put my picture, I'm sure someone will be like, whoa, she's cray cray.

[Jamie]

Yeah, fine. I, I, I can't imagine. Yeah, no thanks.

[Amy]

But apparently they have one for girls.

[Brad]

Do they really? I didn't know that.

[Amy]

I've heard that. I've heard from a few guys. They're like, well they have one on girls too, so that one's got to be hilarious.

[Jamie]

Be funny. We need to look at that.

[Brad]

You got to go to different cities too. That I, I've seen. I have like girlfriends that have really funny.

[Amy]

The Charlotte one, it cracks me up cuz there's people from like Raleigh. Like I didn't realize people dated that far.

[Jamie]

Like people drive two hours for a date.

[Brad]

Some people will.

[Amy]

I'm not even, I'm not driving 30 minutes.

[Jamie]

I can't imagine like, so I always equate everything back to Texas timing. Like that's like me driving from Victoria to Houston.

[Amy]

No.

[Jamie]

For a date. No, that's a vacation.

[Brad]

A lot of it's like you can like see them when you want. They're not like constantly in your space. You don't gotta see them out. Like if you wanna go out with your friends. I've heard that's the reasoning. But I wouldn't.

[Amy]

Two hours is, oh, that's actually good.

[Jamie]

So like if I'm on, I can see you twice if I'm on a business trip in Raleigh.

[Brad]

Yeah. But like, like a weekend trip, you go, you can go to Raleigh and see them, but then you have your whole week by yourself. You hang out with your girls or your guys. Like you could do whatever and it's.

[Amy]

Like a little, it's actually not a bad secretive.

[Brad]

I don't think it's a long term solution.

[Jamie]

I think, no, definitely not a long term solution. But it's still a lot of work.

[Brad]

It's a lot of work.

[Jamie]

Is it time for Ask Amy?

[Brad]

It is time for Ask Amy.

[Jamie]

Sweet. Let's do it.

[Brad]

And we are live.

[Jamie]

Hey, guys. We're here at the Bless yous Heart episode number three. We're doing Ask Amy in the Dirty Moe Studios. If you haven't subscribed already to our new YouTube, please do that. And so we're ready for Ask Amy. Guys, what are your questions?

[Brad]

Yes, we are. Our first question is from Harper. She wants to know, since Dale was feeling under the weather on Tuesday's episode of the Dale Jr. Download, how's he feeling? And is he like most men, that he's very dramatic when he's sick?

[Jamie]

Yeah. So, yes, he's still very under the weather. He's been fighting a pretty bad fever off and on for the last two days. So he has been relinquished to our guest bedroom. So that I don't get. I feel like a head cold, but I don't feel as near as bad as he did. So, yeah, he's typically pretty mopey. I need you to help me. I can't think for myself when I'm sick. He hasn't actually been as fussy this week, though, as he usually is. I have fed him a mountain of vitamins and I call it voodoo, but it's all the holistic things and Advil and try to make sure he's taken care of. So he's been okay, but he's. I honestly think that he feels so bad that he can't be fussy, so he's not feeling good at all.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Hopefully he gets turned around here in the next couple of days because he's got some work to do.

[Brad]

More of those mild, like, sicknesses where.

[Jamie]

You'Re like, yeah, mild sickness. Like, care for me. You know how most men do that?

[Brad]

I'm like that, too.

[Jamie]

I know that he's worse than the children. He even said that yesterday. He's like, if this is how the girls felt, surely they didn't feel this bad because they were not acting like they felt this bad. Like, I don't know if that's a kid thing or if that's just a you thing, but I just. I was like, yeah, sure, honey. Surely I hope that's the truth, that they didn't feel as bad as you do. It's for adults to feel so bad, not for kids, you know? Yeah, well, no.

[Brad]

Sandra in the YouTube chat, she wants to know how has Dale taken the girls grocery shopping yet? I think I saw something on your Instagram story. He.

[Jamie]

So Dale and I took the girls grocery shopping that weekend together, but he has not done it by himself.

[Brad]

By himself.

[Jamie]

No, he hasn't really had the time to be honest.

[Brad]

But yeah, he was looking for grapes. I saw that.

[Jamie]

Yeah. So lately there's no grapes in the grocery store. If I do an instacart pickup order, the grapes are not. I can't even put them in my cart. So. Yeah, sometimes you'll have that during the winter months.

[Brad]

Yeah. Bad season for them. Joanne would like to know. Last year, Amy, you and Dale did cryotherapy or ice baths. Might be two years ago actually. What should they try this year which has Pilates, Yoga. We talked a little bit like Hot Works was one that we.

[Jamie]

Yeah, so I like, I like sweating. I feel like when I sweat and work out it makes me feel the best. I did get to where I was cold plunging a little bit and I figured that out. So I couldn't do that. When I tried to get Dale to do it, I couldn't get myself in the cold water. But I figured out how to mind over matter that. But I feel like now I'm more into like that's just detox and sweat it out. And I do hot yoga every week and I do have a Hot Works account and I go in there every once in a while into the sauna and just do my own little workout. But I haven't gotten Dale to do hot yoga yet. I think he would do well. Yeah, it's not as intense as like the core workout I made him do, but he's used to being in the heat anyway with race cars and so I think that it's not going to bother him like it would.

[Brad]

He could thrive underneath that.

[Jamie]

What's that?

[Brad]

He could thrive like that?

[Jamie]

Yeah, he could drive like that and think so he'd probably do yoga pretty easily.

[Brad]

Yeah. Do you think he'd do like Pilates or anything?

[Jamie]

Yeah, yeah, I think so.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

He's done yoga with me on the beach in Mexico.

[Brad]

Oh really?

[Jamie]

It was amazing. Katie and I took him to do yoga right on the beach and it was awesome. I have pictures of that too.

[Brad]

That's funny. Coming up, our next question is from John and he needs some advice. He's watching his best friend's kids for the first time. It's a five year old girl and a three year old boy. He doesn't have kids, not sure if he wants them. So he has no idea what to do with these kids. What should he do?

[Jamie]

Has John been around his these kids before?

[Brad]

I think he's been around them, it seems like, but never watched them by himself.

[Jamie]

How many days, John?

[Brad]

I Don't know. Hopefully he's in this chat.

[Jamie]

John, are you there? John, please help us. Okay, first off, have their mom make a hard list of things not to do.

[Brad]

Not to do.

[Jamie]

Yeah, that's the best way to start. Knowing where the boundaries are is always the best way. I always told Jamie, like, these are the things you can't do. Everything else is free reign. Just make sure that they don't get out of hand. There's plenty of places surely around where he could take them to play. The weather's good, take them outside, wear them out, make sure that they eat, make sure they brush their teeth. And that's all your responsibilities are. I think it's gonna be easier than he thinks.

[Brad]

Yeah, you think so? I don't know. Jamie, got any advice for him?

[Jamie]

No. YouTube.

[Amy]

Take him to a playground.

[Jamie]

Take him to a playground. Wear them out.

[Amy]

If it's nice outside, just take them. Like every time I keep the girls, anytime we go to a playground, they're golden.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Like, if you're like, hey, you want to go to the park? They're like, yes, let's go. For kids.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Amy]

What did you like to do? You just wanted to run around?

[Jamie]

Well, we were outside. We played outside.

[Amy]

And they like, you know, Chick Fil.

[Jamie]

A. Chick Fil A. All the kids love Chick Fil A. Ice cream, Chick Fil A. Whatever.

[Amy]

As long as they're allowed to have it.

[Jamie]

Whatever is not in their mom's hard no list. You should be fine.

[Brad]

That's funny. That's good. Then there's another one from Kenny. He wants to know, is there any advice on how to become the fun uncle or aunt, maybe?

[Jamie]

Listen, you're either fun or you're not. Kenny. Sorry. I think that if you are funny to your friends, you'll be funny to the kids. Fun means paying attention.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Play with them. Play outside with them. Jamie and I have had a few conversations with being. She's the fun aunt and she's got nephews. No nieces. So when she was around all these little girls, like, all of our friends have little girls.

[Amy]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

And she'd poke at him sarcastically. I'm like, don't teach my kid to be a smart Alec. Please quit that. And I'm like, you don't understand. She's gonna get her feelings hurt and cry. She's not a boy. She was like, what? I don't. We talk to each other like that. I'm like, yeah, we're adults. So as. As long as you learn quick. Yeah, you learn quick.

[Amy]

How to just Play. That's one thing I've learned about all kids, boys or girls, is the. If you play with them, if they want you to do, like, they want you to color with them, if they.

[Jamie]

Want you to be pretend. Pretend dragon.

[Amy]

That's all they want. They just want you to be on their level.

[Jamie]

Undivided attention. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Brad]

He was. He put some, like, you know, should I take them, like, mini golfing or bowling? And I think, like you said, just play with them.

[Jamie]

I think playing with them. Don't overdo it.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Because then you set the expectation bar pretty dang high. You know, outings are a lot. Do that occasionally, but that's a good point. Yeah.

[Brad]

There's a couple people in the chat wanting to know what the surprise was from last week.

[Jamie]

So the surprise, which I am overwhelmed by was a trip with my girlfriends. And so we're gonna go to Miami and have a weekend away. He has scheduled all the dinners. He set up spa appointments for all of us. And it's a really amazing gift. But immediately when he showed it, he had this, like, printout of the whole weekend. And I'm overwhelmed immediately, trying to figure out what the pictures are and looking at this list of things. It took me a minute to, like, absorb it. But, yeah, he set me up with a girls trip, so he knows I'm not gonna do it. And he's like, I want you to do this because I know you need it, and I take my trip, so you should go. So he went ahead and just did it for me, which I'm really excited about. Hopefully we all feel good enough where we can do it, because he's got the kids and the dogs. Yeah. And it starts, like, the first week of spring break that weekend. And so he's supposed to drive down to the beach with all of them. Fingers crossed that he feels better, hopefully.

[Brad]

Yeah, that's good. That's good.

[Amy]

Godseed, Dale.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Godspeed.

[Brad]

Our next question is from Bill. And this kind of dates back to, I think, a couple weeks ago. Somebody asked, what title would you and Dale's rom com be? He wants to know what actors or actresses would play you guys in that rom com. You don't know? You don't have, like, a. You never thought of that?

[Jamie]

Like an actress? I don't think like that. I mean. So a question a couple weeks ago was, if we had a romantic comedy.

[Amy]

Oh, I saw that.

[Jamie]

Yeah. What would the title be? And we landed on Amy and her Three kids.

[Amy]

Yes.

[Jamie]

Which was someone's. But who would play us as Actors for me, maybe Reese Witherspoon. She's, like, southern, and that's a good one.

[Amy]

That is a good one for Dale.

[Jamie]

Who would play Dale? Bradley Cooper.

[Brad]

Bradley Cooper is pretty good.

[Amy]

That could be a good one.

[Brad]

I don't know.

[Jamie]

He's got to be funny.

[Brad]

I'm trying to think.

[Jamie]

He's got to have some, like, real humor because Dale's witty.

[Brad]

Like, you know, I was thinking someone a little red hair, too.

[Jamie]

Yeah. See, Dale refuses to believe he's ginger.

[Brad]

He's got. The beard is more.

[Jamie]

I think he's now, like, salt and peppery. His hair has changed colors quite a bit, but he refuses to believe that at any point in his life he had a ginger vibe. He refuses it.

[Brad]

Yeah. Back when, like, the latter part of his career, like, you could tell he had a little bit of ginger beard.

[Jamie]

His beard and everything.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

It's still a little bit.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Brad]

That's funny.

[Jamie]

Yeah. I don't know.

[Brad]

I don't know.

[Jamie]

Somebody tell us who they think Dale should play.

[Brad]

Dale Hoping the chat would spring some ideas, but nothing right now. Our last question is from Lisa, and I think she is talking about you and Jamie.

[Jamie]

Oh, it's Lisa Backer.

[Amy]

Is it our Lisa?

[Brad]

I don't know. There's just. It's just Lisa.

[Jamie]

What's its name? Oh, it doesn't have, like, a. Yeah, just Lisa.

[Brad]

What is the best trip y'all took together?

[Amy]

Ooh, that's hard because, like, there's a ton of Key west trips that are ethically fun. Yeah.

[Jamie]

I think that going to New York was probably one of my favorites, because I remember it was a special trip. It was for your 40th, and you got us tickets. She took us on a trip for her 40th, and it was Laura and Lisa and you and me, and we went to see Phil Collins.

[Amy]

Yes. That was a good.

[Jamie]

That was a good trip.

[Amy]

It was too short, I think.

[Jamie]

Yeah. We had one more day, one more night, but everyone had.

[Amy]

But you guys had little babies, and I didn't want to be like, I know. Take. Take away time from that.

[Jamie]

It was so fun. We rented a hotel room that was the size of a Cracker Jack box. We had to change. We'd get in there, and Jamie and I were, like, shoulder to shoulder, touching the walls, like, shimming wall. Jamie, Amy, bed. Wall bed. Nowhere to sit. Your luggage.

[Amy]

Wasn't the bed a bunk bed, maybe?

[Brad]

Oh, wow.

[Jamie]

We had to switch rooms, and the other one was, like, just barely bigger.

[Amy]

But, yeah, they're like, okay, well, switch To a bigger room.

[Jamie]

It's the janitor closet. There's no freaking way you expect people to sleep in here.

[Amy]

This is much bigger for us.

[Jamie]

That's just like New York, but we weren't there. No, it wasn't. We didn't sleep in it long, but it was impossible.

[Amy]

I have a video of Amy playing the piano from Big.

[Jamie]

Yes. So we went to FAO Schwartz, and I got to jump around. I was basically dress. The dude from the Big Lebowski had, like, this big sweater coat on. It felt very much like my glasses.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Jamie]

Yeah. Jumping around on the piano keys. That was fun.

[Amy]

New York was fun. That was a good trip.

[Brad]

That's really cool. There's a couple people that said Matt Rife, the comedian.

[Jamie]

Oh, yeah.

[Brad]

Dan for Dale. I don't know if I see it.

[Jamie]

But, yeah, he's funny, but I don't know if I see it. He's a little too.

[Brad]

He's young, too.

[Jamie]

He's, like, sharp. Yeah, he's a little too young.

[Brad]

He's young. Maybe the young Dale. I don't know.

[Jamie]

Baby Dale. Baby Dale is definitely more ginger.

[Brad]

Yeah.

[Amy]

Except when he had the blonde lips.

[Brad]

Yeah. Josh Lucas is another one, too, from Sweet Home Alabama. I don't know who that is. Joshua Josh Lucas.

[Amy]

I don't.

[Jamie]

I'm too old to know these people.

[Amy]

Sweet Home Alabama. We saw that.

[Jamie]

Sweet Home Alabama. Oh, yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I love that movie.

[Brad]

That's. Yeah.

[Jamie]

So that's basically the same team, Reese and Josh.

[Brad]

Is it really? I didn't know.

[Amy]

Oh, yes. Sweet Home Alabama.

[Jamie]

They did pretty good arguing and bantering with each other. That's basically how Dale and I talk to each other.

[Brad]

That's it. That reasonable? We Spetherspoon and Josh Lucas.

[Jamie]

Yeah.

[Brad]

That's who play you. But that's all we got for this. This week's episode.

[Jamie]

Awesome. Thank you, guys. All right, guys, that's it for today. Thank you, Jamie, for joining me on Bless yous Heart. If you haven't yet, leave us an Apple review and subscribe to our new YouTube channel on Bless yous Heart through the Dirty Mo Media line. Thank you so much. Check out Dirty Mo Media on Twitter.

[Brad]

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[Jamie]

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