Podcast
The Divorce Revolution
Hosted by Amber Shaw · EN
You’re divorced. Now let’s make your next chapter your best one.
Welcome to The Divorce Revolution with your host, Amber Shaw—THE business coach for divorced women who’s been exactly where you are. After my own divorce, I was lost, broke, and had no idea what came next. But instead of letting my circumstances define me, I turned my own post-divorce journey into a path of financial freedom and reinvention. Now, I'm here to help you do the same.
This podcast is for moms who are ready to turn “moving on” into moving UP. Divorce isn’t the end—it’s your launchpad. Whether you’re rediscovering who you are, taking control of your money, or even exploring how to start an online coaching business, this space is here to help you build a life that’s fully yours.
Each episode dives into mindset, money, relationships, co-parenting, identity, personal power, and building financial independence—because this isn’t just about starting over, it’s about leveling all the way up.
If you’re ready to reclaim your life, create financial independence, and step into your most powerful chapter yet—welcome to the revolution. Let’s do this.
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425. From Lurker to Buyer: What Every Coach Should Know About Client Behavior
Oct 2700:13:54Tap to summarizeEver wonder why someone watches your Stories every day, likes your posts, maybe even replies to a few but still hasn’t signed up to work with you? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m walking you through the exact journey your ideal client is on—from the moment she first discovers you to when she finally decides to say yes. I break down the three key stages of the buyer’s journey (Awareness, Consideration, Decision), how to tell which stage your audience is in, and how to use that insight to create content that actually moves people forward. If you've been feeling invisible or stuck wondering why no one's buying, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist What I Discuss: 00:20 Why understanding your client’s buying journey matters more than ever 02:18 Stage 1: Awareness — the point where your client starts realizing there’s a problem 04:03 Stage 2: Consideration — the stage where they’re exploring options (but still hesitant) 06:34 Stage 3: Decision — what content helps them say YES 11:31 How to apply this journey to your messaging and content strategy 13:05 A reminder that knowing where your client is helps YOU sell with more ease Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →424. “How Does She Do It All?” Juggling Work, Motherhood, and Divorce Gracefully with Sarah Armstrong
Oct 2300:47:09Tap to summarizeEver looked at another mom and thought, “How the hell is she juggling all that without falling apart?” In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Sarah Armstrong—author of The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce and The Art of the Juggling Act. Sarah is a powerhouse corporate leader, single mom, and author who knows firsthand what it means to manage two households, raise a daughter, keep a thriving career, and stay sane in the process. We go beyond the fluffy “you can have it all” advice and dig into the real strategies that make balance possible even when life feels anything but balanced. Resources Mentioned: The Art of The Juggling Act: https://thejugglingact.com/ The Mom’s Guide to A Good Divorce: https://www.momsguidetogooddivorce.com/order The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification Join the waitlist for ReNewU: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ What We Discuss: 03:44 The self-care non-negotiables and friendship boundaries that keep burnout at bay 07:04 The surprising daily habits that make “juggling it all” actually work 09:54 What inspired her to write The Art of the Juggling Act—and why it’s not just for working moms 13:29 Navigating two households with grace (and minimal chaos) 19:19 What Sarah calls “The Great Consolidation”—and how it helped her reframe post-divorce life 22:13 Where your time really goes and how to get some of it back 23:59 The mindset shift that helped her stop feeling guilty about working 25:31 “Decompression zones”: what they are and how they can transform your evenings 27:26 The real challenges of working from home as a single mom and how to manage them 29:25 How she handles those school volunteer requests without drowning in mom guilt 42:52 Practical, realistic advice every single mom needs to hear Find more from Sarah Armstrong: Website: https://thejugglingact.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →423. The Easiest Way to Land Clients (That Most New Coaches Ignore)
Oct 2000:15:03Tap to summarizeMost new coaches pour all their energy into social media—posting, tweaking their bios, trying to grow their following—yet still struggle to land clients. Here’s the truth: your next client might already know you. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m sharing one of the most underrated ways to start signing clients fast without relying solely on Instagram. We’ll talk about how to confidently tap into your personal network, ask for referrals without feeling weird or salesy, and create a client experience that naturally leads to word-of-mouth growth. If you’ve been feeling stuck trying to grow online and just want a simpler, more natural way to attract your first few clients, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Loom: https://www.loom.com/ What I Discuss: 01:01 How to leverage your personal network without feeling awkward 05:18 Simple ways to create a referral system that actually works 08:55 What makes a coaching experience “referral-worthy” 13:55 Next steps to start signing clients and build momentum fast Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →422. Why Divorce Recovery Takes Longer Than You Think with Leah Mazur
Oct 1600:48:57Tap to summarizeEver catch yourself wondering why you’re still healing, even years after your divorce? There’s a reason for that and it goes deeper than you think. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with divorce recovery coach Leah Mazur to unpack what really happens after divorce—the hidden emotional and physical toll that lingers long after the paperwork is done. We talk about how to move from survival mode to feeling safe again, tools to manage co-parenting triggers, and how to make self-care realistic when life already feels full. If you’ve been feeling frustrated that healing is taking longer than you thought it would, this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: The Next Chapter Membership: https://www.samandleah.com/services The New Woman Within Course: https://www.mindfullyready.com/newwomanwithin Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 00:44 Why your nervous system stays in survival mode long after divorce 05:04 How to protect your peace when your ex still triggers you 06:39 The truth about self-care when you’re a single mom doing it all 11:04 How Leah became a coach 27:54 Why journaling can help you uncover what still needs healing 28:40 How AI can actually help you process emotions and get unstuck 30:43 Why you may never be “fully over it” 32:48 What healthy co-parenting really looks like 38:43 The wake-up call every divorced woman needs about money 43:32 What it really takes to start a coaching business after divorce 46:15 Resources and communities that help women rebuild with confidence Find more from Leah Mazur: Leah Mazur’s links: https://linktr.ee/mindfullyready Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →421. The 3 Types of Posts Every Coach Needs to Start Getting Clients
Oct 1300:18:52Tap to summarizeAre you showing up on social media but not getting any coaching inquiries? It’s not because your content isn’t good enough. The problem is that most new coaches don’t have a system. They’re posting what inspires them instead of what actually moves their audience to become clients. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down how to use social media strategically so you can finally start getting clients instead of just likes. You’ll learn how to define your content pillars, what type of posts actually build trust, and the three kinds of content every coach needs to create a social media strategy that works. Resources Mentioned: Content to Clients: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/ctc Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist What I Discuss: 00:23 How to use social media as your main mechanism for getting clients 02:56 Why defining your content pillars is the foundation of your business 12:26 How to create a balanced content strategy using the ABCs of content: attraction, believability, and conversion Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →420. Can You Really Change Your Attachment Style? Dr. Judy Ho Says Yes
Oct 900:44:41Tap to summarizeDo you ever wonder why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you know better? Or why you feel totally secure with some people but anxious, avoidant, or distant with others? The truth is, your attachment style might have more to do with it than you think. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Judy Ho to talk about her new book, The New Rules of Attachment. We break down how your attachment style shows up in every area of your life—not just relationships—and what it really takes to move toward secure attachment. Dr. Judy and I talk about how to reparent your inner child, nurture your authentic self, and finally create the kind of security and connection you’ve always wanted. If you’ve been stuck in the same emotional cycles and want to feel grounded, secure, and confident in your relationships again, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: The New Rules of Attachment by Dr. Judy Ho: https://drjudyho.com/books/the-new-rules-of-attachment/ Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/ What We Discuss: 00:22 What attachment styles are and why they matter more than you think 05:58 The four main attachment styles and how they form 15:34 How attachment styles connect to love languages 18:47 What reparenting your inner child really means 25:33 How to nurture your inner child’s unmet needs 26:11 Why your authentic self and inner child are deeply connected 27:37 Can you really change your attachment style? (Dr. Judy says yes!) 34:58 How parenting style and temperament affect your child’s attachment 42:13 How to find balance in your parenting style Find more from Dr Judy Ho: Website: https://drjudyho.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjudyho/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →419. How to Turn “I Love Your Content” Into “How Can I Work With You?”
Oct 600:12:17Tap to summarizeAre you getting likes, comments, and DMs on your posts but no actual clients? It’s one of the most frustrating parts of building a coaching business online. The truth is, engagement feels good, but likes don’t pay the bills. Without a system to turn those conversations into conversions, you’ll stay stuck in the “almost” phase. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down the three simple shifts you can make to turn engagement into paying clients. You’ll learn how to lead conversations naturally (without feeling pushy), how to use your Instagram Stories to create connection and build trust, and how to make it easy for people to understand what you offer and take the next step. If you’ve been stuck in the “people love my content but no one’s buying” loop, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist What I Discuss: 01:26 The 3 simple shifts that turn engagement into clients 04:12 Why you need a clear system behind your content 06:37 Practical tips to start turning likes into paying clients Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →418. You Built a Beautiful Life But Is It Still Yours? with Kute Blackson
Oct 200:55:31Tap to summarizeHave you ever looked around at the life you've built—the family, the job, the routines—and wondered, “Is this really what I want?” Not because anything is necessarily wrong but because something deep inside you is whispering that it’s no longer right. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by the incredible Kute Blackson, a transformational teacher and bestselling author of The Magic of Surrender. We dive into what it really takes to get honest with yourself, let go of the identity you've outgrown, and step into the next version of your life even when it’s terrifying. If you've been feeling stuck, uncertain, or like you're outgrowing the life you worked so hard to build, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 01:23 Why you might feel stuck, even when life looks “good” 03:06 How fear and ego keep you from moving forward 06:18 What happens when you keep suppressing your truth 15:51 The sneaky ways we self-sabotage (and why we do it) 19:00 Digging into the unconscious reasons you stay stuck 30:04 Kute’s advice for women who feel like something’s off 31:31 A personal story about attracting the wrong partners 38:58 Kute’s surprising morning routine 39:41 How relationships are mirrors for growth 53:04 Who The Magic of Surrender was really written for Find more from Kute Blackson Website: https://kuteblackson.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kuteblackson Boundless Bliss Event: https://www.boundlessblissbali.com/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →417. Is Your Coaching Offer Too Complicated? Here’s How to Simplify It
Sep 2900:17:09Tap to summarizeHave you ever tried explaining your coaching offer—only to find yourself rambling, overexplaining, or feeling like it’s not landing at all? Here’s the truth: if your offer feels complicated to you, it’s definitely going to feel complicated to your potential clients. And confused people don’t buy. In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m sharing why simplicity sells and how to strip away the overwhelm so your coaching offer actually makes sense. You’ll learn the three signs your offer might be too complicated, why your promise matters more than your deliverables, and how to get back to clarity so that your ideal clients see exactly how you can help them. Resources Mentioned: Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist What I Discuss: 01:08 Why keeping your offer simple makes it easier to sell 04:16 Three signs your offer is too complicated 06:36 Why adding “more” doesn’t make your offer better 12:51 What goes into creating a magnetic and irresistible offer Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
Transcribe →416. How to Stay Connected When Your Tween Shuts You Out with Bridget KerMorris
Sep 2500:49:35Tap to summarizeDoes the thought of parenting a middle schooler make your stomach drop? In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I sit down with Bridget KerMorris, parent coach, associate therapist, and mom of seven to talk about how to build connection during the messy middle school years. Bridget shares why common parenting advice often backfires, the two questions every tween is silently asking, and how her Steady + Connected Parenting™ framework helps moms—especially single and divorced moms—stay grounded and present. If you’ve been struggling with how to stay close to your tween or teen when they shut you out, then this episode is for you. Resources Mentioned: Download 50 Ways I'm Staying Close to My Middle Schooler: https://kermorris.myflodesk.com/50waysguide Join the waitlist for ReNewU, my signature group program for divorced moms ready to launch a coaching business that actually pays: https://products.ambershaw.com/signature-waitlist Nail Your Niche: https://ambershaw.samcart.com/products/nail-your-niche Higher Infrared Sauna Blanket use code AMBER 15: https://higherdose.com/products/infrared-sauna-blanket What We Discuss: 03:54 Parenting tips that actually backfire with tweens 05:03 Why connection matters more than ever in middle school 08:04 How to set healthy boundaries without losing trust 13:54 Bridget’s Steady + Connected Parenting™ framework 23:50 Simple ways to connect through your kids’ interests 25:52 Reframing the questions you ask your kids 28:18 Why non-face-to-face conversations are powerful 30:18 Intentional parenting strategies for divorced moms 34:10 Helping kids manage tech responsibly 45:12 Resources for parents navigating middle school Find more from Bridget KerMorris: Website: https://kermorris.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bridget.parentcoach/ Find more from Amber Shaw: Instagram: @msambershaw Website: ambershaw.com
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