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Dylan Mulvaney
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Aaliyah Chanel Scott
In your car, in the shower, on a walk through the Dylan Hour. Feeling sweet, feeling sour? I feel nothing. The Dylan Hour. My couch is open. It's better than therapy. All you soccer moms, all your they's and thems, all your bottom boys, My bisexual femmes, come one and all disassociate with me. It's free, grab a drink or two or three. You have no friends. All good. You got me. It's the deal hour. Love ya. Is this an okay time, honey? It's a big day at the Dylan Hour because it is our theater girl interrupted episode because we have one of my favorite theater girls whose life was also interrupted when we were doing a musical together called the Book of Mormon. We were touring with it, and then the pandemic hit, and she became a TV film star. She was also the person that convinced me to, like, start making TikTok videos, which is absolutely insane. She's one of my closest friends. And I'm also really excited because as we walked in the studio, we found out we're going to the same event tonight, which is very convenient that I get to now see one of my best friends all the time around the town. It is Aaliyah Chanel Scott.
Dylan Mulvaney
Hi, Aaliyah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Hey, Aaliyah. We know you from the sex lives of college girls. You play Whitney Chase.
Dylan Mulvaney
I do.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We know you from Reboot Timberly.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, yes. What a time.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What a time. And now you're directing. Directing. You're producing theater. We're gonna get all into it.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm so excited. This is amazing, by the way. Thank you. That you have this entire. It's really a production. I'm so excited.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Would you ever have a podcast?
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know that I have that much to say.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think you do.
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay, well, maybe I will.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay.
Dylan Mulvaney
I love it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
First to start out, I think we do should do a Playbill show.
Dylan Mulvaney
We need to acknowledge this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Thank you to Playbill for our gorgeous pajamas.
Dylan Mulvaney
We love them.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This is a special sleepover episode here at the Dylan Hour, which we've had a few of those.
Dylan Mulvaney
They're very usually awesome.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And we have mugs with water to hydrate. But sips on that adorable. But more importantly, our drink of the week for Ms. Aaliyah Chanel Scott is a. Surely we're getting a drink after the show tonight because we're feeling flirty. Temple. Cheers. We've. This is vodka, grenadine and Sprite.
Dylan Mulvaney
This was your drink on tour.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This is my. But still is my drink. I had one. I know, last night.
Dylan Mulvaney
That's terrible.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And do you get them? Like, I never do.
Dylan Mulvaney
This may be my first or second. I maybe had a sip of one of yours on tour, but this is like. This is rare for me.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay, first sips. Sweet.
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know why you like that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, no, it's like you really tasty.
Dylan Mulvaney
Syrupy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You usually like tequila, right?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, I like tequila. Like, no juice, just.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You just want straight up.
Dylan Mulvaney
Just straight up. If I'm going to drink it, it's not going to taste good.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You know, there's ever a place you're drinking a sweet drink, it's going to be at the Dylan Hour.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's so true.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay, let's talk bitter and sweets of the week. What's your bitter and sweet?
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay. My bitter is. I'm having a problem with finding a good therapist. And I. I went to dinner the other night with a friend and I realized that I'm the problem. So that's not great. It's her.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
She. She is the problem.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm the problem. It's me. No. Yeah. I just don't give them a chance. Is what I've learned from my friend. Reflecting on me. She was like, well, what's the problem? And I was like, yeah, I feel like I have one to two sessions. And then I'm like, that wasn't it. Bye.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And she's like, how many of you tried?
Dylan Mulvaney
Like, four.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, honey.
Dylan Mulvaney
Then she was like, you know what you're not doing? You're not setting the expectation of what you want from them. Like, basically you're just judging them based off of the advice they're giving you and you're not liking it. Or you're saying like, that's not what I need. And then you're ghosting them without telling them, like, giving them chance. I was like, okay, girl.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This also feels like when I would send you to psychics, also, the same kind of energy of like, you're just trying to. You're trying to catch them in.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yes, I. I basically talk and then I'm like, so what do you think? And if what they think isn't what I want, then I'm like, bye. Well, not necessarily what I want, but if it's not, like, worded in a way that, like, I've read all the books. I'm like, you know, you want to be challenged. I want to be challenged. But I also like what I've learned from a friend because she's very similar type of person to me. She's also a producer. She was like, I basically go in and I say, I don't want advice, I want an ear. And I want you to recognize patterns in my behavior and call them out to me. And I was like, that's so true. Because I think sometimes when people are like, well, you should do this. I'm like, well, go fuck yourself.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Should you just go to my life coach?
Dylan Mulvaney
You always say this. And I'm going to tell you the answer is no, because she's so expensive.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay. But also, like, it's an investment in your mental health, in your overall career, everything. It's going to be amazing. Just do one.
Dylan Mulvaney
I think I have. No, that was with a psychic.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That was a psycho. Which that's also a thing we're going to get into. If there's ever woo, woo to be had, we bring it out in each other.
Dylan Mulvaney
No, it's true. So that's my better of the week, but we're moving on.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Sweet.
Dylan Mulvaney
My suite of the week hasn't happened yet, but my show comes out in two days. That's very exciting.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Well, now when the episode's out, it will be out.
Dylan Mulvaney
It will be out.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Season three, right. Sex lives of college girls.
Dylan Mulvaney
Finally.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What is. What was kind of the. What can people expect from this season that's different than maybe what they've seen from you before?
Dylan Mulvaney
Well, we're sophomores this year on the show, so we're a little bit more confident. And you go further into, like, our lives and our worlds, which I am excited for.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah.
Dylan Mulvaney
And there's some, like. I feel like it's the season I'm most proud of for myself as an actor. Just like, I feel like I finally got the thing. I don't know if that makes sense. Like, it. I got the thing about, like, oh, right. This is the tone of the show. This is how we sit in this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I want to talk to you a lot later about sort of being a musical theater kid, then getting thrown onto this set, having to, like, figure that out. But I think that's such a sweet. And I think a lot of people watch your show and love it. Like, so proud of you.
Dylan Mulvaney
Thank you.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think my bitter is that I don't get to see you as much as I would like. I think that it is crazy as we're becoming adults. I don't know. I think we were better at, like, having fun and carving out time for fun and making it a priority. And now I think it's like we like tonight, us going to an event to. We didn't know which. It'll be fun, but that's still work technically. And I wish. I think even outside of our friendship, I wish I was a little bit better at like, carving out time for. For silliness.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think my. Honestly, my sweet is just getting to see you. It's. It's. You are. You ground me back to, like, who I am. And you're one of the first people I ever came out to as, you know, trans and not like even. I remember the first time that I called you, you were like one of the first people I called to be like, hey, I think I might be non binary or something's going on. And so there I will say us finding success and. And it being so crazy to have someone that knew you before, not only in my transness, but before career, stuff like that is one of my favorite parts of being friends.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's really special to, like, watch also to see what's happening in your life.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Retweet.
Dylan Mulvaney
Wow, I cannot believe that. And when I tell people I've known you for something, they're like, what? It's almost like we people think we didn't exist before. From the very beginning.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We met at Michigan.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yes.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I was visiting. Well, I did not go to that school.
Dylan Mulvaney
No, you went to ccm. Yes, but we were neighbors and like, always played with each other.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Always. I mean, every. I feel like we were in a lot of basements drinking jungle juice at football games.
Dylan Mulvaney
Exactly.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yes. But last night, Ashley park did. She was like, I've been telling everyone you went to Michigan because it's so, so funny. Basically. This is actually crazy because a lot of the Dylan Hour viewers might not know the lore of musical theater colleges.
Dylan Mulvaney
Right?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So I think there's. There's many incred. You can go to a lot of different BFA musical theater programs, discovering the bases, but There are some very prestigious ones, which includes your school, Michigan. I went to the Cincinnati Conservatory of Music. Carnegie Mellon's also very good. I did get confused. I wanted to go to Juilliard so badly for musical theater, which does not exist.
Dylan Mulvaney
They don't have it. Right.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Don't have it. And then when I found out that there was only acting and that you had to do Shakespeare, I still auditioned, but I was like, this is not for me.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm gonna get it. No, I didn't know anything about anything for colleges, like, at all. I had a friend who went to, like, a school in a town over that was like, hey, this is what I did when I auditioned for schools and gave me all of her packets and information, and I copied it to the T. Like, I was like, this 16 bars. Like, like, copied it and copied the schools and was like, this is what I'll do. And I was gonna go to Unifieds. Do you remember that? Like, oh, which.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Which town?
Dylan Mulvaney
Chicago.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay. I did la.
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay. Of course you did. And my flight got canceled because it was Southwest and it was snowing, and so I missed the Unified flight, and all my auditions got canceled, and I freaked out for, like, a second. And then I was like, you know what? Screw it. Like, I'll just go to school for engineering or something and call it a day. And then the next day, my mom was like, we should call the schools and see if you could reschedule. And I called First Michigan. And then after that, my mom was like, just kidding. We can't afford to fly to all these places, so we'll just do the one. And so I auditioned for only schools in, like, Texas and one in Oklahoma and then Michigan.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No way.
Dylan Mulvaney
Isn't that crazy? Yeah. And that was it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then what. Do you remember what your audition songs were for college?
Dylan Mulvaney
Well, he liked me from she Loves Me.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, sweet.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's very soprano. And then I did. Oh, my God. What did I. Maybe something from Beauty and the Beast.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Which is just home. Oh, but you did that in high school. I've seen videos.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was trying to tie it together.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Is it true? Isn't your mom, like, an aerospace engineer?
Dylan Mulvaney
She works for NASA.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Was there ever a world when. If you were like, well, if I don't get into this musical theater school, I guess I'll become an astronaut.
Dylan Mulvaney
I wish. No, I was not that cheerleader. I was. Yeah, I was a cheerleader, but I also wanted. I wanted to be a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader for a while. Oh, still might do that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You could have done. Did you do that trend on TikTok?
Dylan Mulvaney
No, I didn't, but I did grow up doing competitive cheer in Texas, which is very real. You've seen the docu series.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, it was my. You know, it was my favorite. You know.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Do you remember the last week of.
Dylan Mulvaney
In Arizona? We watched it on tour. Do you remember this?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We were. I was so addicted. And then. Do you not remember me coming back to LA when we were at the Ahmanson and I started taking gymnastics classes?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yes. Because I thought I was obsessed with this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I thought I was gonna be the first Tumblr. A male Tumblr. That would be a flyer.
Dylan Mulvaney
I remember us watching that now in.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Our Airbnb and somewhere TBT now, but. So you were never gonna be an astronaut, Maybe a cheerleader?
Dylan Mulvaney
No, I was gonna be an engineer. That was, like, the backup plan. Because I really liked math, which is weird, but, yeah, good at math. I'm good at math.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Also good at math.
Dylan Mulvaney
Love that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Now that you did get into Michigan, you're like, I'm gonna go there. Like, God, so many of your classes, like, on Broadway right now, doing insane.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's crazy because when we were in school, we didn't, like, know each other.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Like that, but some of our best friends were each, like. Like MacKenzie.
Dylan Mulvaney
MacKenzie Kurtz, who was Glenda and Wicked on Broadway last year.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So good.
Dylan Mulvaney
She's amazing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But I think it was because I remember you got Mormon. Like, did you before you graduated?
Dylan Mulvaney
Before I graduated, yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then I got it, like, the week after.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And I remember it was sort of like a. Well, I guess we're gonna go do this thing.
Dylan Mulvaney
So crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But what I will say is that, like, when we showed up, I think it was kind of assumed, okay, we're gonna figure out. We're gonna be friends. And you really came in, though, with, like, this insane work ethic. You were like, I'm showing up. I'm here for a job. And I was kind of like, yeah.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm gonna do it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But you did have. I think you had an extreme amount of pressure. Cause you're. And I had a little bit less being in the ensemble. But then I think we found a way to, like, work hard, but play even harder, I was gonna say.
Dylan Mulvaney
Also, I feel like we learned very quickly how unserious it was.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yes.
Dylan Mulvaney
I just feel like we. You expect something to be, like, the most scary.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We always showed up, though.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, we did. We fully did our job.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We sinking through. We definitely probably had Covid before we knew what Covid was trying to do.
Dylan Mulvaney
That show, really scary.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Do you feel like you got the work ethic from college?
Dylan Mulvaney
For sure. I don't know if I'll ever get that work ethic back.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But I also think we did learn how to, like, be able to drink and have fun and tailgate on the weekends and then still be able to sing all the songs.
Dylan Mulvaney
I just went back, and those kids, it's crazy what they do. Like, just the amount of tailgating, the amount of drinking, and the amount of, like, actually showing up and doing their work. I'm like, I don't actually think I can handle this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No.
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know how we did it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No. But now I have, like, one cocktail and I'm like, on my ass. And then I can't do anything the next day.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. I, like, hardly drink anymore.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I know we're not. Where did. What time go? I guess I'm going to be doing a lot of singing on this one. You are?
Dylan Mulvaney
I love you.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But then I also feel like we traveled the world together. We lived together in a lot of these places. What do you think was your favorite city that we toured? We did the Book of Mormon. You were Nabulungi? Yeah, I was Elder White. Also played, like, Yoda and like. Oh, God.
Dylan Mulvaney
Making things up again.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, yeah.
Dylan Mulvaney
Up again.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Making things up again. Are you? Yeah, they would have been. They didn't audition me. They didn't ask me to do that before. And so it had been fucked if I couldn't do it.
Dylan Mulvaney
So crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But what was favorite city for you and least favorite city?
Dylan Mulvaney
I loved when we were in Mexico City. I thought that was so fun.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Just like, we lived there for, like, a month.
Dylan Mulvaney
We were there for a long time. We all got sick, which was.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, two times for me.
Dylan Mulvaney
Really sad.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That was bad.
Dylan Mulvaney
It was nasty what was happening in that theater. It was.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And we were so careful, but it was. I think it was some fish after.
Dylan Mulvaney
A while, like, yeah, you're eating in restaurants. Like, whatever. It's gonna happen. And. But just being in that city was so fun. We did so many silly activities, and we went and visited, like, all these random things. Tequila tastings. Like, it was just a fun time. Least favorite city. I don't know. I skipped Peoria. I went on vacation.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
My least favorite.
Dylan Mulvaney
I planned my vacation. When I got into where I saw the list of cities, and I was like, that week I'll be gone.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Well, and, you know, I'll eat, like, I. I kind of just eat junk food. But it was almost Emporia was a new level of Junk food that, like, didn't even satisfy me. Like, I was like.
Dylan Mulvaney
It was like, all you eat is Domino's Pizza.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I know. And I don't think they had a Domino's. I think it was only Carl's junior And I think for me, maybe the. Well, I was actually going to say us going to Disney World, but that wasn't us. We, like, took time off to go do that.
Dylan Mulvaney
We did that a lot. We would, like, finish a show on a Sunday night, and we'd be like, let's rent a car and we're going to drive two hours to Sedona or.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Whatever and spend our day vortexes.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. Or we'll drive it an hour.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That's where you, like, discovered Joni Mitchell, right?
Dylan Mulvaney
On that road trip? Yes. We were in Arizona. I forget what city. But we. After Sunday night show, Dylan was like, you have to come to this place called Sedona. And I was like, you know what? I have nothing else to do. Let's go. And we drove at, like 10pm till like, midnight and stayed at this really shitty motel.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What were we thinking?
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know. We didn't know what we were doing. And so on the road trip, Dylan played Joni Mitchell. And that's when I heard Joanie for the first time. And I was like, what is this? This is amazing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then we just went, like, a little while back to see Joni's concert at the Hollywood bowl together.
Dylan Mulvaney
And I got so sick.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, you. Yeah, honey, what's going on with that? Are you feeling better now?
Dylan Mulvaney
Of course.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Good.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was supposed to do this the next day.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This was so meant to be because we look glam.
Dylan Mulvaney
We do look glam today.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So I just. I feel like that was my fifth year of college with you. I feel like I. In a way, we were like kids becoming adults. And then us. That was also us figuring out what we wanted to do next. And. And I. I think that.
Dylan Mulvaney
What did you feel like you got out of that time? I've always wanted to, like, pick your brain about.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I feel like I. I learned how to rely on myself. I think my body became like, kind of like a tank. Like I could. You know, I showed up eight shows a week. I really learned how to coexist with a lot of different kind. We were really lucky, though, because usually sometimes in musicals there's some drama. There's some people there who maybe aren't always the easiest to work with. We got really lucky.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. We had a great cast.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Such a. And the producers really tried to make it a fun space. We always had activities and parties. I think that I learned. Oh, I know what it was. I think I learned that that's what I was supposed to do with my life, because I had never. I think you go to school for it. I had been dancing since I was three years old, and to finally be like, oh. I proved to my parents and to myself and to everyone that this is what I'm supposed to do. And I was right.
Dylan Mulvaney
Wow.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What did you get?
Dylan Mulvaney
The opposite, maybe.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, really?
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know. I think I was like, is this it? You know, I had a moment of just being like, oh, I'm like, killing myself. My body. This is so hard. It's a lot of work. And I have. I learned that I really have to believe in the thing, like, the piece and the character for. To justify, like, putting myself through that level of. Because it wasn't just doing eight shows a week. It was like doing eight shows a week and then on your one day off, getting on a plane and, like, flying to. There was no day off or going on a bus. Yeah. There was no time off and there was no space. And, like, being sick back then was like a stigma, you know, it was like, you're not gonna do the show. You can't just, like, so look down upon call out. It was just like, you push yourself to these places. And then I was like, oh, I don't know if I actually, like, can do this forever if it's not something that I really love.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then I even remember when the tour was gonna still continue, and you were like, deciding if you were gonna stay or if you were gonna go. And then you're like, yeah, I think I'm gonna go. And I'm like, you can do that. Like, I mean, I was ready to be on that thing for another 10 years if they let me. And I think also. But a huge part of that was, like, I wasn't in my right gender yet. And so for me, this was, like, the next best thing. And I do see how, like, a sense of complacency could happen and, you know, like, it could get kind of monotonous. But it was like, we're dancing and singing every day. Yeah.
Dylan Mulvaney
We were so lucky to be able to just, like, experience that right out of school and be like, oh, this is what we worked for.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But I now still to this day, wonder because one of my favorite moments as well was us being in la. We're supposed to be there for, like, two months here. And about, like, week two into it. We were like, wait, I think we want to live here eventually. Which was crazy because, like, everybody else is like, yeah, it's nice, but we all need to live in New York. That's where people.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. We were like, this is it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And. And then we went. This is really silly. We went on the celebrity homes tour and. And it's so crazy.
Dylan Mulvaney
You planned it, by the way.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I did. I'll take that. I'll take that. But it's just so funny to think about us driving around these houses that people.
Dylan Mulvaney
Tyler Perry's home. And I was like, oh, who knows if these are actually their houses or not? They probably weren't.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then the COVID shut us down. You went back to Texas?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, I went home.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I went to San Diego. I think we were a little like, what do we do now?
Dylan Mulvaney
And was the one thing that we knew we could do or wanted to do, like, didn't exist. Like, it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And it was going to be the last thing back. Like, theater, obviously, with, like, thousands of people in the seats. Like, there was no world where that.
Dylan Mulvaney
Was social distancing on stage. Like, it just didn't make sense.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Like. Yeah, but when were you auditioning? While you were back at Texas, In Texas with your family? Yes.
Dylan Mulvaney
Weirdly, I was doing a lot of theater auditions.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Really?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yes. And I was like, I. Thinking back on that now, I'm like, why was. Why were they doing that? What were they thinking? And then I started to get some TV stuff and I was like, yeah, I've never thought. Thought about this space. Really?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Did you study it in college?
Dylan Mulvaney
I took one on camera class. I wish we had more, but it was like, you know, there was like an acting program in musical theater, and we were. Musical theater, and we took one Acting for the camera class. And so I was. Started taping for things, like, not getting anything. I taped for College Girls initially when I got the, like, breakdown, though, it said, like, nudity was required. And of course, like, I didn't know anything at the time, so I was like, well, then I can audition.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I remember that conversation. Like, I just. And I was like, if they really.
Dylan Mulvaney
Want, you can audition then, if that's what they want.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Like, that was a big.
Dylan Mulvaney
It was like a really big thing in my head. And my agents were like, well, just do it. Like, just tape. You don't know if you're gonna get it. And I was like, oh, you're right.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You're like, read me.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, no, for sure. So then I auditioned, and then as I was doing the tape, I Was like, damn, this sounds really close to the way that I speak. Like, her cadence. Like, I found her very easily. And I was like, well, that's cool. Doesn't always happen with auditions. Sometimes I feel like I'm, like, putting on a thing. Like, I auditioned for the Gossip Girl reboot, and I kept getting notes back from casting, like, can you just be more like this or more like this? And I was like, clearly I'm not the girl, so just like, let me be. But this was one that I was like, I get it. And then I did it and didn't hear anything for a while. And then finally they came back and they were like, so can you get on a zoom with, like, somebody and do a zoom callback? And so I did, and I sat in this, like, orange wing back chair that I had at the time in this apartment that I was in. And I learned after the fact that they talked about that chair after I left the zooms in LA that you already. It was in la.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Wait, you had an apartment in la?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, because of the time that. That we lived in. Because Simon, my ex, was doing Hamilton at the Fantasias, and so he lives in that apartment right next to it. So I moved there. It's all coming back to you, babe. So anyway, I sat in this random chair because I didn't know what. I didn't have a backdrop. We didn't know how to tape at the time. And so I sat in this chair, did this audition, didn't hear anything about it. And then two months later, they were like, hey, so, you know, can we do a screen test for you? And I was like, oh, okay, this is real. And I remember thinking about, like, should I tell my parents now or later? Because, you know, they were. They're very. Yeah, they're very religious people, Southern Christian folk. And even them saying Book of Mormon was like, shock, because we do say F you, God, in the song in the show. So I was like, I'm not going to tell them until I have the job. Because, you know, you never know what's going to happen. I probably won't get it. And then I got it, and I was like, hey, Mom.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Well, it does. I will say that the title of the show sounds more severe than the content.
Dylan Mulvaney
Because at the time, we didn't have any content. We had one episode which was pretty sexy. The pilot's pretty sexy. And then, you know, sex in the title and hbo, which is notorious. You're like, okay.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, I thought you were fully doing girls.
Dylan Mulvaney
Game of Thrones, like, Tits out. Like, yeah. So I. But in doing it, I had my team. I was like, so I'm not gonna do nudity. Let's have the conversation again. I just don't feel like it's right for me. Whatever. And they were like, okay, we'll tell them. And if you know they don't want you, then they don't want you and that's that. And I remember being like, this is so stupid. I was like, well, if that's not. If they don't want me because I won't get naked, then that's not the show for me.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I'll get something else.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'll get something else. Of course they were like, okay, girl, whatever. It's what you want. And so it ended up like, happening, which is crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Has there been a lot of nudity on the show?
Dylan Mulvaney
There has, yeah. Girls, they get naked. I love that for them.
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Dylan Mulvaney
It's the dealing hour.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then I feel like directing kind of. Was the. Was it producing or directing that, like, kind of hit your slate next?
Dylan Mulvaney
I think directing, I was very. I've always been this way, but I'm, like, very obnoxious when I'm on a set, just being like, and what do you do here? Like, what's your job? Tell me about focus pulling. And so I just love learning how the thing happens. And also, I found myself, like, when some directors would come in and, like, give notes, I would try in my head to, like, translate them for people. Because I was like, oh, okay, this is how they said it. And I think what they're trying to get. You have to do that anyway, as an actor. You have to be like, they said this. They said energy to me. But what they're missing is that, like, the pace is too slow.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You've always been like that, though, because I'll even say, like, a musical tour that has been running for, like, 12 years. You still were like, but what is she feeling like here? And I'm like, everybody else is like, hey. So I think that that has always been a part of you.
Dylan Mulvaney
Sure.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
The way that you break things down.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, I guess. And so I think being on a set and watching other directors come in and out, and some of them being, like, directors who came from an editing background and didn't necessarily know how to, like, talk to actors very well or, you know, people who, like, everyone comes from a different way. And that was reassuring to me because I was like, oh, you don't have to necessarily be a director. That I, in my mind, was, like, technically correct about all the things. Like, some people are very good at one lane, right? And I was like, if I can be very good at one lane, what is that lane? Is it like working with actors? Is it like, scene work? Is it like. And if I can figure out the camera stuff, like, how, you know, how does this all come to be? And so I was very curious about it and just trying to, like, take in information and learn, like, you know, as they're setting things up, like, what. Why they set up things a certain way. And being on a set, there's no better way to, like, learn.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And then was Snow Angel, Renee Rapp's music video, the first, like, big directing moment.
Dylan Mulvaney
That was the first one. And it was funny because she started doing music stuff and was having to start come up with, like, concepts for music videos. And there was a song in the kitchen, which was like, one of her first single. Yeah. And she was, like, getting pitched by directors, and she was like, people were saying, you know, this. And I remember just being like, well, if it was me, you know, like, I would just probably, I don't know, do it like this. And I, like, gave her the pitch, and she was like, can we do that? And I was like, oh, yeah, sure. Go, you know, do it. And watching that happen was crazy because I was like, oh, wow. That was, like, a silly idea that just became a music video. And then the same thing with the second with the album. She was like, I think we're gonna do this, and I want your help to, like, figure out how to do it. And I just thought, like, concept wise, I was like, sure, I'll, like, throw out ideas and then.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Bitch, you're a creative director. You are like. Like, the way that you do your house. Even, like, you every.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm a control freak, Dylan. That's the pro. It's a problem.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You're good.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's not. It's not. I, like, like things a certain way, so.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But. And then did the that shoot go the way that you wanted it to?
Dylan Mulvaney
That was crazy. That was an insane. First of all, it wasn't even supposed to be Snow Angel. It wasn't even supposed to be that song that changed 48. No, 72 hours before we shot the video, we were gonna do Talk Too Much, her other song. And then we were listening through the album, and she was like, I think Snow angel just has a vibe. And I was like, you're right. And she was like, I think I'm gonna change the entire album to be called Snow Angel. And the whole thing creatively shifted, like, in 24 hours. She called. Adam was like, this is all changing, and we're going to shoot the video to Snow angel, and Aaliyah's gonna direct it. And I was like, I'm sorry, what? So then it was very quick process of me being like, what is this?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And just having to say yes.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, like, say yes. And then, like, let's find a location and let's, like, figure out. Figure out concept and hire dancers and choreography. Like, it was, like, a thing. Yeah, it Was a very quick, almost.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Maybe better that you didn't have all that much time.
Dylan Mulvaney
Totally better. Totally better. Except for, like, I didn't sleep for four days because I was. I do remember, like, I bought books. Like, I was like, fully, like, just reading everything I could read because I don't want to. I was very afraid of, like, showing up in the moment and letting my friend down. And this is the same with your show365 that we, like, worked on together. Working with friends is so great, but it's also the most terrifying thing because you push. You want to do good work regardless, but you especially want to do good work when it's like your friends and you care about it so deeply. And it's. There's this other pressure that you put on yourself. They're not putting it on you. They have ultimate trust in you, but yours just sort of like, I cannot mess this up. Because if I mess this up, that's.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Not just so then you producing, your partner is Thomas, who is a dear friend of ours, and you went to college with the production company is Runyon Land. Production Land. And how did. How did that come to be kind of similar?
Dylan Mulvaney
It's like, I have these thoughts and I voice them to, like, my dear friends, and then one day they are like, okay, so do it. And that was. That was that in Thomas. I was asking him a ton of questions about, like, what he did. He was like, he was already producing in the city. He was co producing and producing his own things. And I was very fascinated by it, but pretended to be, like, kind of put off by the idea of, like, handling money because I was like, that's so capitalistic. But also, how does it work? Yes. And so I would ask him questions and he'd be like, you just need to do it. I think you have a brain for it. And I'd be like, I don't know. I think I'm an actor director. By.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Because if you could like, tell people that, like, a general thesis on, like, what producing for theater is, what would it.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's a million things. It's essentially like making a startup business for a show and like, getting it to opening night, you're raising investment, you're hiring creatives, you're like.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And there's usually a giant list of producers. But there's a difference between being like a lead producer, a co producer. What are those differences?
Dylan Mulvaney
There's usually like two to four lead producers who make a Broadway show. On the Broadway show, they make all the, like, logistical decisions about what happens with the show. And under those lead producers are co producers who help raise investment for the show and then also get. Are involved with.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Co producers are finding money.
Dylan Mulvaney
They're finding the money, and the lead producers are deciding what happens with the money. Basically, on a very basic level, it's much more complicated than that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And you've done both.
Dylan Mulvaney
We. Yeah. Thomas came up co producing. I started co producing with Thomas, like, learning what was happening. And then very quickly, we got asked to lead produce on Gutenberg by our.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Mentor musical with Andrew Rannels and Josh.
Dylan Mulvaney
Gad, which is crazy. And so we said a very quick yes, and we're just like, we'll do whatever.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That went well. Oh, and I made my little Broadway debut in that.
Dylan Mulvaney
You did make your little Broadway debut in that? Yeah, there was a little bit part at the end that Dylan did and fabulously well.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And a lot of, like, got so many great people for that. But I think that I really was. The crazy part about you is, like, I feel like I'm the type of person. I'm telling everybody I'm doing this. I'm doing this. You are, like, under the radar. And then all of a sudden you post like. Like, won a Tony Award or like, like, oh, you know, directed this thing, and everyone's like, what the. Like. But I actually think is. That's one of my favorite qualities about you is, like, you. You just, like, do the damn thing, and you kind of, like, you make sure you do it as, like, well as you can, and then you talk about it.
Dylan Mulvaney
That is. I love that that's the way you perceive it. I.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That's what I see.
Dylan Mulvaney
I am just operating in fear. And then I'm so quiet, and then something happens, and everyone's like, you should probably tell people that this happened. And I'm like, okay, I guess. No, I think someone said this. I think it was eli Rallo on TikTok, and I've been repeating it ever since. But it's like, if you want to be seen succeeding, you can't be afraid to be seen trying. And I'm so scared to be seen trying. So I don't say anything until I'm succeeding. And then I'm like, hey, so. By the way. Which is so unfair and not the reality at all.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I was just talking with someone about this this morning about, like, especially, I think if you get successful or you're good at, like, one thing being really good at it, then you go to try other things, but you're supposed to be as, like, equally good at those things. Because you're also good at this other thing.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. Which is not the reality. It doesn't happen that way. You have to learn. You have to start from. I still feel like I'm learning how to be a producer. I still feel like I'm learning how to be a director. Like, even though you've done the thing, Like, I remember winning the first Tony and I was like, to Thomas, I was like, I don't think I should tell people, like, this doesn't feel like mine. He was like, but it happened, you know, it's just.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What was that first Tony?
Dylan Mulvaney
The first one officially was Parade. We were co producers on. And then the first one I feel like was real. Was appropriate this past year because we were actually like. I don't know. It felt like we kind of worked for it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Aren't the Tonys the best event of the year?
Dylan Mulvaney
I love the Tonys.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
It's all that.
Dylan Mulvaney
I mean, it's exactly what you think it is when you're watching it from your couch as a kid. Like in the moment, it's that. Except everyone kind of, like, knows each other and you kind of know people, too, and you feel like, oh, this is like a real community.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Right. And now I. We've. We've gone to a lot of different kinds of events. That's my favorite kind of event. But I think the fact that, like, you taking this kind of the. The energy and the trajectory of, like, what you've done in tv, film, and then now getting to bring it into producing has been insane.
Dylan Mulvaney
I think what's helpful in the approach, I think, to producing, having been an actor, is how much you want to take care of artists. And I think the perception of producers is often that they don't care about artists and they only care about, like, money.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I felt so taken care of by you when we were working together, because I love that. Day 365, I had. They did the show at the Rainbow Room. We did it for the Trevor project. I had never even written a show before anything like that. You believed in me enough to help me do that.
Dylan Mulvaney
Of course.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And I think that. What was it like? What did you find from that experience?
Dylan Mulvaney
It was great because I needed something to push me into the role, I think, a little bit more because Thomas was like, you are a producer. And I was like, no, I haven't done it. And then on day 365, she was like, so you can't say you haven't done it because now you've done it. And I think you being there Made me be like, I need to be present and I need to make sure that this is going a certain way or that we have the right people in the room for this thing, or we have an ensemble that's all trans or gender non conforming. And, like, I need to make sure that this is. We're putting. I'm putting you in a position where you're comfortable and safe. And I actually was in a position where I could do that. So I was like, oh, yeah, let me take this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And there were. There were so many hoops to jump through, but, like, we did it. And what it taught me was like, you can do the right things and you can work in, like, a place of empathy and kindness. And like, I had such amazing conversations in. In those rooms and. And I just feel like that leaving that experience, even that night, I was like, oh, I can do this now. Like, whatever. Like, I can create a show. I can lead a room. You can. It was so special to do that together.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. I think there is that idea that, like, there's an idea that, like, you have to be perfect at something in order for it to be something that you do. But just because you do something does mean that it's something that you do, even if you don't feel great about it. It's like you've learned something from it and you have done it, and that's okay.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We, like, not everybody knows what, like, they're doing. I've really discovered, like, even people that are, like, super high up, whether it's an agency or.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You know, casting or like, everybody's just kind of still trying to figure it out.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. And I love being someone that, like, doesn't know what's going on. I think it's like one of the. About the way Thomas and I work. Cause he's so with it. And I'm like, so tell me how it's happening.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah, it is crazy now to like. Because I really believed in college, like, that was the. We were only. That was all I was here to do was to do musicals. And now it's still piece of my life. But I do all these other things. And I do think that, like, a musical theater degree is great because it makes you good at so many things.
Dylan Mulvaney
And if you're not, you can fake it very well.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What do you mean?
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know. I feel like half the time it's just like you're learning on the fly. And so some of the time before you know what you're doing, you kind of have to like, pretend and, like, feel it out.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
The one thing that I wish they taught in musical theater school is networking, because I do think so bad.
Dylan Mulvaney
You're amazing at that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No, but we're getting better together. I. I love talking to people. I love the art of conversation. I love learning how to match people's energies. Yeah, but that was something at school that I don't think they gave us, that I wish they would have.
Dylan Mulvaney
I am too much of an introvert to know how to do it. Well, I think I can, like, hold up, but afterwards I need, like, silent time sitting in a dark space by myself.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But I think it's almost more important here than it is like, in. Because musical theater is still in some ways kind of straightforward of, like, you go into the audition, you show up to the open call, or you get, you know, what's it called when you get just like, brought in for something?
Dylan Mulvaney
An appointment.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
There you go. You get an appointment for.
Dylan Mulvaney
You get an epa.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And. But here it feels so connection based. And I think that is the tricky part of, like, trying to.
Dylan Mulvaney
Well, I moved here to do the show and, like, was thrown into a very, like, young Hollywood. Like, it was the energy around it made me feel like I needed to take myself more seriously than I did. And I was like, this is actually. I reject the feeling of what this feels like to walk into a room and be like, I'm part of the next gen. Like, it just felt so. I was so unserious about it in a way that I think I was meant to be more serious about it. And I just.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Just.
Dylan Mulvaney
I shut down and, like, didn't go to anything for like a year and a half. And you were like, why aren't you doing anything? And I was like, I just can't. I can't go in those spaces and try to be like myself because I just feel like they expect something from me that I'm not.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Well, it's also crazy. Back to the whole you getting me on tick tock thing, because I remember we were in Albuquerque, New Mexico, and you were starting to do these little dances.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was doing the dance dancing, which I've scrubbed from the Internet, but I'm sure someone has.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think I probably have.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was doing, like, this is so cringe. I was doing, like, I'm doing the Book of Mormon national tour. Like, I'm gonna do this dance in costume.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Like, you did the co. You did the dances in costume. And I was like, what is going. And then you were like, you're really funny. You should, like, make these videos.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was like, dylan, this is the thing. And you were like, that's for kids. I was like, no, no, no, it's not. I swear.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This just feels like it could be like, I just don't know why you're doing this. Like, we're doing a musical, honey. And then we kind of went in opposite directions. Like, you stopped posting anything. And then I started, yeah, do.
Dylan Mulvaney
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Aaliyah Chanel Scott
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Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What's your relationship to social media now?
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm trying to be better at, like, taking the pressure off of myself. I feel this immense pressure when I'm on social media for some reason. But I had a friend say, like, social media is now becoming like, another form of, like, media. It's not even social anymore. Most people exist on there and, like, don't post, they just consume.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah.
Dylan Mulvaney
And so, you know, in order to, like, exist in the world, you do sort of have to be someone that puts things out for other people to consume. Otherwise you're just an, like, you're floating in this nowhere space. And I was like, oh, that's so true. Because in my mind I'm like, this happened with Eli Rallo. I was like, I know this girl so well. And then I realized I was like, we've never met. I mean, we went to college together, but we don't. I know everything about her life, but it's so parasocial. And you know nothing about mine because I don't post anything about my life, but I want you to know.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Right.
Dylan Mulvaney
But I get scared of so many.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
People knowing, and then the only perception people really have of you is, like, a picture of you at a fashion show.
Dylan Mulvaney
Totally. And that's not who I am. And so then I'm like, well, how do I tell people who I am?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I love when you lean in a little bit and do, like, oh, speaking of, like, I want you to be making baking videos and things. You did make. What are these?
Dylan Mulvaney
Pumpkin muffins.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, thank you, Aaliyah. That's. You're very. You're, like, very homemaker.
Dylan Mulvaney
I. You know, I'm obsessed with Martha Stewart. That's like, she's my.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Did you watch the doc?
Dylan Mulvaney
I've watched every doc of hers. I, like, truly have seen everything. I've got her new book. Like, I'm obsessed with her. Oh, love gloomy and want to be her. And every time I tell people this, I was in, like, a meeting with my team the other day, and they were like, what do you want to do? And I was like, I think I want to be like Martha Stewart. They're like, sorry, lifestyle. Like, is that something you do? And I was like, oh, yeah, that's something I do. They're like, we had no idea. And I was like, that's because I don't tell anyone.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think that, like, later in life, it's like, you on, you know, doing, like, a home and garden show. Me probably having a little talk show. Us meeting up on the weekends in, like, Santa Barbara or something.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, I'm gonna move to, like, North Carolina.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We need a farm.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. I also think I'm moving to New York.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You want a little bite of this?
Dylan Mulvaney
Talked about this.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Wait, you're actually moving New York, honey?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Why?
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm never here. Okay?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Broadway.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. I'm only here when I'm filming, and otherwise, I'm truly there, you know?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, a boyfriend.
Dylan Mulvaney
Boyfriend's there.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Is that also crazy for you? I will say now, like, a lot of people that you love, I think assuming you love me, are, like, chronically online in many ways. Like, Reese makes a lot of content.
Dylan Mulvaney
You know, we met because of day 365.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yes.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Shut the fuck up.
Dylan Mulvaney
You know that. I didn't. I feel like I told you that.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Hello?
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay. Yes, he had, like, we'd, like, followed each other for a while, but we'd never interacted. And then I was posting about your show, and he was like, oh, I know Dylan from, like, stuff online. We were like, mutuals. Like, what is this? Also, like, you look nice. And I was like. Like, he, like, slid to my DMS to talk about day 365, but also to be like, hey, that's how we met.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That is tea.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, my God. You're. You're with your boyfriend right now because he's an ally. You're an ally, and that makes me really happy.
Dylan Mulvaney
We're allies together.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But is it, like. It's just funny because I feel like we now go to these events sometimes. You're with Reese at the events. He's, like, working and, like, making the content. Are you ever, like. Like, I'm gonna whip my phone out and I'm gonna do a little talk to the camera.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's honestly made it a lot easier. Like, I used to work it up in my mind to be this big thing to, like, make content. And it is in some ways, but he's so good at it that it's made it to me be like, oh, yeah, okay. This isn't as big of a thing as I thought. He's. He's so efficient. He just knows what he wants and knows how to get it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
How I feel about Chris Olsen, like, when I'm around, like, the way that their minds work. And I. I will say I used to be way more like this until, you know, last year, I got so beaten down by the public and the media, I felt like then that kind of put, like, a fear almost in a different way than of, like, your kind of pushback from being online. But it's, like, crazy when you can literally look at someone and watching their mind work and, like, how they want to create something in that moment. But we did just run amok at the Wicked premiere.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, my God.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We made it. Honey, hold my hand. Hold my hand. We went to Wicked together.
Dylan Mulvaney
We did. And it was at, like, ctg, like, the area that we did Mormon right.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Across from where we did Book of Mormon.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. And this is just, by the way, the visual of us holding hands in.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Her pajamas, talking about us going to the Wicked Premiere. Wow. That I just had a weird, like, yeah, but you got, like, best dressed. I swear to God, every TikTok I saw of you, like, people were like, wow, this is a really good outfit for them.
Dylan Mulvaney
No, I saw one TikTok, and it was from Nikki, and it was like, I like the concept. And I was like, I guess it's not an insult, but it's certainly not a concept.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Nikki just looked at mine and said.
Dylan Mulvaney
No, which I think is so crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But, like, you know, I kind of live for it.
Dylan Mulvaney
I do, too. It's really fun. But that's the only TikTok I saw of myself. I didn't see any others.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I saw others.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, wow.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I'll send. I'll send. And then. But then, like, I love how we move about those rooms. Like a crazy little musical theater couple.
Dylan Mulvaney
We're like, I basically follow you around, and you run around and say hi to everyone you know, And I'm like, I don't know any of these people.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I love talking to people.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm very good at exiting conversations, though. It is one of my special skills. No, truly, I can get out of any conversation.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What do you do to get out?
Dylan Mulvaney
A million things. I just, like, know how to. Reese is so bad at it. We've learned that this is our why we work. He knows how to, like, be in a conversation and have it for 45 minutes. I'm like, I got six minutes. And at the six minute, I'm gonna say, so good to see you. I'm gonna run and say hi to the host. Like, whatever. I just, like, make something up. I'm very good at it. It's a special skill. I also do love an Irish exit. I will go home.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You always. You're always leaving unannounced. I'm okay with it as long as I get to see you again. Okay, now we've reached what a girl wants. What a girl wants. It's what a girl wants here at Dylan Hour. Okay, Aaliyah, what do you want?
Dylan Mulvaney
Well, I already talked about the therapist thing, and I really do think I need a new therapist, and that's a very high up on the list of wants. Just because I've gotten to this place of self sufficiency in a way that is probably unhealthy, and it's definitely unhealthy. And I just think I need someone to be like. Like, let's check ourselves here. And it's okay to ask for help.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
My life coach. Yeah, I really think you should.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'll maybe see your life coach.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Let's talk about it.
Dylan Mulvaney
That's what I want.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So what I want is on theme for our episode, I would like a Broadway musical version of Practical Magic with you as Sandra Bullock. Me as Nicole Kidman.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, my God. How did you. That's amazing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I've been thinking about it for years.
Dylan Mulvaney
No. Yeah, I can tell.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So. Cause it's one of my favorite.
Dylan Mulvaney
Practical magic needs to happen.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
It would be so good. I think that, like. Cause I was Also trying to decide which one of us would play which character.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm definitely Sandra Bullock.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yes. And I just think, like, that that would be such a sweet friendship, sisterhood type. It's. It's like not too big of a cast.
Dylan Mulvaney
So good.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
It, like, it's witchy, which feels very on theme.
Dylan Mulvaney
Like do the Harry Potter cursed child. Like a lot of fun magic things like design wise singing this really amazing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Victorian house on stage. Okay. Call Thomas.
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Thomas.
Dylan Mulvaney
Thomas is gonna make it happen.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We actually. You know what? I am proud of you so far.
Dylan Mulvaney
What?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You've overshared, I have overshadowed.
Dylan Mulvaney
I was gonna say you said you wanted me to do the podcast. I was like, I'm probably not gonna be a good guest. Because I don't.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No, because this just feels like we're in, like, in our car right now.
Dylan Mulvaney
I love it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But it's now over. Share, don't care. It is a lightning round of questions. Okay, you ready?
Dylan Mulvaney
No, there's gonna be. But it's happy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
60 seconds on the clock and we are gonna go as fast as we can. Ready? Go. Favorite musical.
Dylan Mulvaney
Into the Woods.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Least favorite musical.
Dylan Mulvaney
Ooh, you're in town.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Favorite play.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, my God. I'll say appropriate as of now.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
On stage. Mishap.
Dylan Mulvaney
We used to play pass the penny in Book of Mormon and we had dropped the penny many a time.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh. Favorite thing to bake a cookie.
Dylan Mulvaney
A chocolate chip walnut cookie.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Favorite Renee rap song.
Dylan Mulvaney
Snow Angel.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Favorite memory of us.
Dylan Mulvaney
Sedona.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Dream duet partner.
Dylan Mulvaney
You.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, profession you would be if you.
Dylan Mulvaney
Weren'T in the arts, an interior designer.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Mary Kill. Acting, directing, producing.
Dylan Mulvaney
That's terrible. Mary producing because we'll be very wealthy together. Buck acting because it's. It's crazy. And wait, Kill directing. That's crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No, you don't have to kill her.
Dylan Mulvaney
No, you can be.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
How about a mistress?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, directing is my mistress.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Deal. Dream show to produce. We're big on manifestation here. It could actually happen here at the Dylan Hour. We're going to put on the vision board. Oh, you don't want to say it.
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't want to say it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay, deal. Is it. Does it exist already?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay, we'll take it. What? My dream show is to produce. I would. Oh, I want to do Legally Blonde as a trans production.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. I thought that was happening.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
The rights, honey. The right. That's what's crazy too. Have you learned. So. Okay. Good job, honey. You got a few things.
Dylan Mulvaney
I just didn't answer your dream because I don't want anyone else to do It.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That's fair. Well, but that's the thing. I think sometimes you have to tell people what it is you want. And here's what I will say about going on the record about things is if you say it now and then somebody else goes to do it, you have proof that you wanted to first.
Dylan Mulvaney
You wanted it first. That's so true.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
It's like, like, even what's crazy about, like, my show, Fag Hag was like, I was like, if anybody else has a show called this, I will be so upset. So I need to make this thing now.
Dylan Mulvaney
I promise you, no one else is gonna have a show with the same title as me.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I don't know. You're right. But the, like, learning the back end of, like, the rights and trying to be able to, like, make these things happen. And how crazy that now we know, like, if one person doesn't want something happen or one person doesn't think you should be in a show, like, it won't happen. It won't happen.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Every. Every single star in the sky has to be in alignment, for it's a true miracle.
Dylan Mulvaney
That's why I say, like, it's a miracle that any show happens ever. So I hate that we don't let some shows succeed because we just don't like them. Like, the fact that it's on a stage is a miracle. And so many people worked so hard to make that happen. I will never now, like, diss a show because it is.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Right.
Dylan Mulvaney
A huge thing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Theater people cannot eat each other alive.
Dylan Mulvaney
I know. We need each other.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
We need each other so bad. We need more music, movie, musicals. We need.
Dylan Mulvaney
I love that you say that because most people say the opposite. Oh, movie, musical as in stage to screen. Like Wicked or movie musical as in screen to stage.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I was gonna say stage.
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay, then yes.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, because you were gonna. You think the opposite.
Dylan Mulvaney
People don't like when it's screen to stage because they think it's been done too much. But you've proved that original musicals don't get supported. So what do you want us to do? What do you want us to do? Do you want us to keep putting, like, maybe happy ending on stage and then you not going to see it and then it's not doing well.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What do you think is the future of, like, commercial theater and Broadway?
Dylan Mulvaney
Like, I have no idea. You.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I'm scared.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's. It's exciting because I feel like people. More people are getting excited about theater, but at the same time, it's becoming so competitive to have an Original show that has no stars in it. Like, you just won't make it anymore because it's just. It's an anomaly. Stereophonic is an anomaly. That's not the norm. That's a rarity. And it. It's buzzy because it's so rare. It's the only thing that, like, nobody knows anything about. There's no ip, there's no, you know, stars. It's just like. Like, you know, lightning in a bottle. But it's possible.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
And that's. What do you think that's enough for people to chase the dream?
Dylan Mulvaney
I think it's. That's what. Why we keep doing it where otherwise we're crazy. I think we are also crazy.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But a lot of money being lost.
Dylan Mulvaney
A lot. So much.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
But so much fun.
Dylan Mulvaney
But it's like, yeah, you're making art. That's like never a bad thing.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
No.
Dylan Mulvaney
And listen, they have the money.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Somebody. We have a segment, Aaliyah, here at the Dylan Hour called Last Call Confessions. So we have a call from a viewer. Oh, my God, I love it. That we're gonna give a little advice to.
Dylan Mulvaney
Okay.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You down?
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm so down.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Let's do it. Hello? Honey, hi.
Dylan Mulvaney
You have to call. Just talk. I'm having trouble getting over an ex.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
She.
Dylan Mulvaney
Didn'T break things off in the best way and went and got another girlfriend while we were still doing stuff. And this was seven months ago. And it's still really hard. And I don't know how to get through it. Some days. Some days are better than others. And I just. I don't know. Everyone's saying I need to just. She's not good for me and this and that, and I should cut contact. And I do agree with them. It's just. It's hard imagine. I don't know. I just wanted to let that out. That's so sweet. Maybe if you have advice. I've taken a lot of it, but I haven't actually taken it. I've heard a lot. I just don't know how to move past and actually put myself first. But anyway, I love you. You're amazing. Keep doing you. Very self aware.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah. I love you. And I'm so sorry that this is happening.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What do you think?
Dylan Mulvaney
I mean, as someone who's had a very bad breakup before, there's this pressure you feel to move on in an acceptable amount of time. Acceptable amount of time. And I had friends being like, have you gone on a date? Like, what are you doing? And I just was so not in that headspace. I was mourning this thing that was, like, so familiar to me and a part of who I was. And this is not gonna feel good, but, like, give it time. Like, just take your time and don't feel rushed to be in a better place than you are. Like, obviously do things that make you feel good. Spend time with people that make you feel better about, you know, the world and yourself and listen to their words, not your own, because sometimes your own will lie to you. But, like, also take that time. That time is so special and necessary. And there's a reason your body is going through what it's going through and just let it mourn.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Agreed. And I also think when you're the one that's either being broken up with or being cheated on or kind of being on one side of it versus being in more of a place of power, it sounds like you might be on the more submissive of this situation of, you know, having this person that you're still loving and caring about and wanting to be with, but they are with another person. I think that, like, you can't let that person have the. All the power. And I think letting yourself be sad, not forcing, you know, I feel like we've all got the friends that are like, the Samantha Jones is like, get back out there, baby. But if you're not there yet, you don't have to do that. But also, I think sometimes when we get our egos bruised by someone that we cared about, we kind of, like, want it to be restored in a way of, like, oh, I'm gonna make them jealous, or I'm gonna, you know, do this, this, and this. So they want me more than this other person that they're with. And I think I haven't been in, like, a super serious relationship, so I can only speak on this in certain ways. But like, a situationship for me recently was where, like, I did not. I was like, dylan, do not find out who this other person is. So if you know who this other person is that they're hooking up with, do not, like, try to learn everything about them. Because I think there is also this, like, what does that person have that I don't? And I think that's really unhealthy and unfair to yourself. And I think just trying to keep. What's it called, where you, like, a little dignity. Yeah, keeping your dignity.
Dylan Mulvaney
Because I know that it was nothing about you. Like, and if you're having this sense of longing to be with this person and they don't want to be with you, that's not your person. It's just not like they. They wouldn't put you in a position that would make you feel that way. And there are people in your life, hopefully, that love you and care about you and listen to their words and, like, if you can't see yourself in that way, like, love yourself through them loving you. I feel like that's what I did.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah. And I. I've gone through, I think a lot of these periods were like, either I'll really try to break down, like, how someone feels about me or why they don't like me or how to change myself so that they will. And then, like, if they liked me, they would like me. And. And there. There shouldn't need to be this super crazy chase. I do think it's unfortunate sometimes when, like, if somebody does really like you, you're like, oh, why do you like me so much? And then do you ever. Did you ever feel that?
Dylan Mulvaney
100%. We talked about this with my current boyfriend. I was like, I don't know, he likes me a lot. And you were like, okay, like, that's probably good.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I know. Good to maybe try something that we have. But you've always liked really sweet people.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, yeah. That's like the most attractive thing to me. If you're, like, kind and like, gentle and maybe like, soft spoken and have a really specific interest that that's. You're obsessive over. I'm there.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I like people that don't like me.
Dylan Mulvaney
You do? That's gotta stop.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That's gotta stop. But I hope that wherever you are and whoever you are, that you find someone who really loves you.
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah. And you love yourself.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yeah. What shows are you excited to see soon?
Dylan Mulvaney
Well, we are producing. Oh, it's Sadie Sink's show. John Proctor's the villain. Sadie Sink on Broadway. It is an incredible play. It's been done for years, like, regionally in schools, and now it's coming to Broadway for the first time. It's very exciting.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
That's crazy when, like, things that were once then actually make, like, a Broadway.
Dylan Mulvaney
It's very exciting. And she's incredible.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Well, I did see a video of her on Tick Tock of her as Annie. And did you see that video?
Dylan Mulvaney
I haven't seen that video.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So. She's so good. Like maybe the Tuts or something.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, yeah. She's a Houston girl.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Yes.
Dylan Mulvaney
I forget that she's talking to her yet. No, I forget that she's where I'm from.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So exciting.
Dylan Mulvaney
She's from where I'm from. Right Right.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I'm excited to see death becomes her.
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm so excited to see death becomes her.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Big Gage Gamboree. Big G. Did you work on that one?
Dylan Mulvaney
Yeah, that's us.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, my God.
Dylan Mulvaney
Very excited.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I'm addicted to Marla Mendel.
Dylan Mulvaney
She's incredible.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I love what she does. And then. Where do we retire?
Dylan Mulvaney
I'm going to North Carolina. I feel like I keep saying it.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Where. What's your tie to that?
Dylan Mulvaney
You know, I grew up in, like, a small town in the south in Texas.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You've been to North Carolina?
Dylan Mulvaney
No, never. But Thomas and Renee are both from there. So to me, that's, like, a vote of confidence that that's, like, a good place to grow up.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Okay.
Dylan Mulvaney
I don't know if that's real or not. In my head, it is. And it's away from everything. And it's in the south, but not, like, Southern.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What about Sedona?
Dylan Mulvaney
That's too much. Wow. That's too much for me.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Fair. Okay, I'll visit. Maybe I'll live there.
Dylan Mulvaney
Where are you going to retire?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think maybe, like, the countryside of England or. Oh, I love, like, by Yosemite.
Dylan Mulvaney
Like, Lake Tahoe isn't, like, Republican, though.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Oh, honey, I don't know. We gotta check.
Dylan Mulvaney
We're never gonna retire. Also, just to be clear, we're gonna work until we're dead. Yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I think about, like, Carol Channing, Diane Keaton, hybrid of, like, Betty White is what I want.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, yeah.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
What do you want? Who do you want to be?
Dylan Mulvaney
Martha Stewart.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Martha Stewart.
Dylan Mulvaney
And she's still insider trading and all. Like, let me have a journey.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
So fun.
Dylan Mulvaney
She's incredible.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
All right.
Dylan Mulvaney
And scary.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
This one's. Let's take a last sip. To Martha.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, God.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Aaliyah.
Dylan Mulvaney
A first. Oh, my God.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
You had lit. What the.
Dylan Mulvaney
I did it more for, like, the vibes and the memories and less for the taste of it. Okay.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
Fair. And you know what? We do have to. To go to something tonight, so it's. I'm glad that we don't. We didn't sip too hard, but thank you for having. You. You. You take one sometimes. For the team. For me. Big Ally.
Dylan Mulvaney
What?
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I don't. You. You decided to drink a dirty Shirley.
Dylan Mulvaney
Oh, yeah. Always. I'll do anything for you, baby.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
I love you. All right, everyone, well, go watch Broadway. Go support theater. Go buy some playable pajamas. Go watch Sex Lives of College Girls and everything else that this girl does. And we love you.
Dylan Mulvaney
We love you.
Aaliyah Chanel Scott
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Release Date: April 9, 2025
Host: Dylan Mulvaney
Guest: Aaliyah Chanelle Scott
Produced by: Lemonada Media
In this engaging episode of The Dylan Hour, Dylan Mulvaney sits down with her close friend and fellow performer, Aaliyah Chanelle Scott. The episode, aptly titled "Theater Girls Interrupted," delves into their shared experiences in musical theater, the impact of the pandemic on their careers, and their personal growth alongside their professional endeavors.
Dylan and Aaliyah reminisce about their time touring with the acclaimed musical The Book of Mormon. They discuss how the pandemic abruptly interrupted their tour, leading Aaliyah to transition into television acting, while Dylan found herself inspired to explore directing and producing.
A significant portion of their conversation centers around the sudden shift from theater to television and the ensuing career changes. Aaliyah shares how her role in the TV series Sex Lives of College Girls marked a pivotal moment, while Dylan reveals her growing interest in directing and producing.
The hosts delve into the challenges faced during the pandemic, including health scares and the emotional toll of an interrupted career. They discuss the resilience required to adapt to new roles and industries amidst unprecedented global circumstances.
Dylan shares her journey into directing, highlighting her hands-on approach and the learning curve involved in transitioning from acting to production roles. Aaliyah commends Dylan's natural aptitude and dedication, emphasizing the strength their friendship brings to their professional collaborations.
Throughout the episode, Dylan and Aaliyah underscore the importance of their friendship in navigating the ups and downs of the entertainment industry. They reflect on how their mutual support has been instrumental in their personal and professional successes.
The conversation shifts to the role of social media in their lives. Dylan discusses her cautious approach to content creation, influenced by her desire to maintain authenticity and avoid the pitfalls of parasocial interactions. Aaliyah highlights the benefits of social media as a platform for connection and expression.
In an emotional segment, Dylan opens up about her struggles with a past relationship, seeking advice on moving forward and prioritizing self-care. Aaliyah provides heartfelt guidance, emphasizing the importance of self-love and the healthy boundaries necessary to heal from heartbreak.
To conclude the episode, Dylan and Aaliyah engage in a lightning round of rapid-fire questions, revealing personal preferences and dreams. This segment adds a lighthearted touch, showcasing their camaraderie and shared passion for theater.
Dylan and Aaliyah wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to support live theater and engage with the arts. They express mutual appreciation for their enduring friendship and collaborative spirit, leaving the audience with a sense of warmth and inspiration.
Resilience Amidst Change: Both Dylan and Aaliyah exemplify adaptability, transitioning seamlessly between different facets of the entertainment industry despite unforeseen challenges like the pandemic.
Power of Friendship: Their deep-seated friendship serves as a cornerstone for personal and professional growth, illustrating the importance of mutual support in high-pressure environments.
Authenticity in Content Creation: They emphasize the significance of maintaining authenticity on social media, advocating for genuine connection over curated personas.
Personal Growth and Self-Care: The discussion on personal relationships underscores the necessity of self-love and healthy boundaries in overcoming emotional setbacks.
Dylan on Directing Inspiration (26:15): "I found myself trying in my head to translate directors' notes for actors because I wanted to understand their vision deeply."
Aaliyah on Personal Support (07:11): "You are one of the first people I ever came out to as trans... it's one of my favorite parts of being friends."
Dylan on Social Media Pressure (40:47): "I feel this immense pressure when I'm on social media for some reason."
This episode of The Dylan Hour offers a rich tapestry of experiences, insights, and heartfelt conversations, making it a must-listen for enthusiasts of theater, personal growth, and authentic dialogue.