The Dylan Hour with Dylan Mulvaney: Episode Summary – "Therapized with Nori Reed"

Release Date: April 2, 2025
Host: Dylan Mulvaney
Guest: Nori Reed
Podcast Platform: Lemonada Media

1. Introduction to the Episode

In this engaging episode of The Dylan Hour, Dylan Mulvaney welcomes her friend and colleague, Nori Reed, to discuss the theme of therapy. Dylan shares her personal journey from traditional therapy to employing a celebrity life coach, setting the stage for an in-depth conversation about mental health, personal growth, and the challenges faced by the trans community.

2. Therapy and Ketamine

Transition from Therapists to Celebrity Life Coach

Dylan opens up about her evolving relationship with therapy. Having been in therapy for much of her life, she transitioned to working with a celebrity life coach in recent years. She humorously reflects on the cost and exclusivity of traditional therapy, stating:

Dylan Mulvaney (03:03): "I'm going to give her the opportunity to tell me everything that she thinks is wrong with me, not only on her behalf, but on behalf of the entire trans community."

Role of Ketamine in Therapy

The duo delves into the use of ketamine as a therapeutic tool. Dylan shares her positive experiences with ketamine, highlighting its benefits for mental health:

Dylan Mulvaney (05:38): "I do [ketamine]. It helped me so much."

Nori expresses skepticism about the legitimacy and cost of such treatments, leading Dylan to explain the therapeutic process:

Dylan Mulvaney (05:47): "It's very legitimate... They make you have a friend present because they are very safe."

They discuss the method of administration and the importance of a supportive environment during treatment, with Dylan emphasizing the controlled and safe use of ketamine under medical supervision.

3. The "Bitter and Sweet" Segment

In their signature segment, Dylan and Nori share their week's highlights and challenges.

Nori's Bitter and Sweet:

Nori Reed (08:25): "My bitter is the absolute camel toe that I'm getting in romper... My sweet is I'm going to the Hiltons tonight."

Dylan's Bitter and Sweet:

Dylan Mulvaney (10:23): "My bitter is I'm so tired... Sweet is meeting really nice people."

This segment showcases the hosts' candidness and humor, touching on personal fashion choices and social engagements.

4. Career and Moving to LA

Transition from Therapist Student to Comedian

Dylan recounts her decision to leave her marriage and family therapy program due to ethical conflicts and a desire to pursue stand-up comedy. She shares a pivotal moment:

Dylan Mulvaney (19:49): "She needed something. And I thought to myself... listening to women like Michelle."

Stand-Up Career and Influences

Highlighting her comedic journey, Dylan talks about receiving an invitation from Amy Poehler to open for Clusterfest, a performance that significantly boosted her career:

Dylan Mulvaney (24:39): "I performed for, like, 10,000 people, and that's what changed my life."

She expresses her passion for writing and performing, aiming to create authentic trans characters in media.

5. Discussion on Trans Representation

Challenges and Insights

Dylan and Nori discuss the complexities of being trans in the entertainment industry. They touch upon the stereotypes and the scarcity of nuanced trans characters:

Dylan Mulvaney (25:12): "I'd love a trans character who is, like, kind of sucks."

Writing and Acting in TV

The conversation shifts to Dylan’s aspirations in television writing, emphasizing the need for diverse and realistic portrayals of trans individuals to break stereotypes and promote understanding.

6. Social Dynamics and Relationships

Dating as a Trans Woman

Nori and Dylan engage in a playful discussion about dating norms, referencing the problematic “Rules” dating book from the 80s. They critique its outdated advice and explore modern approaches to relationships:

Nori Reed (37:39): "It's deeply problematic... You can't go up to a guy first."

Their light-hearted banter highlights the evolving landscape of dating within and outside the trans community.

7. Segments and Games

Rapid Fire: "Overshare, Don't Care"

The hosts participate in a lightning round of rapid-fire questions, revealing personal preferences and quirky habits. Examples include:

• Pre-show Ritual:
  Nori Reed (45:17): "McDonald's and then curl up in bed."

• Favorite Platform:
  Dylan Mulvaney (45:35): "TikTok. I hate Instagram."

These quick exchanges offer listeners amusing insights into the hosts' personalities and lifestyles.

8. Audience Interaction: Last Call Confessions

A listener shares their experience of a heartbreaking breakup and seeks advice on moving forward. Dylan and Nori provide compassionate and practical guidance:

Dylan Mulvaney (51:33): "Make a decision and then make it the right decision."

Nori Reed (53:00): "Don't overthink... Don't rush into the next relationship."

Their supportive responses underscore the podcast's commitment to addressing real-life issues faced by listeners.

9. Closing Remarks and Future Plans

As the episode wraps up, Dylan and Nori express their excitement for future segments, including plans for a trans-centric singles cruise. They encourage listeners to connect via social media and subscribe to The Dylan Hour for more content.

Nori Reed (56:38): "Want even more of the Dylan Hour? Now is a great time to subscribe to Lemonada Premium."

Notable Quotes with Timestamps:

• Dylan Mulvaney (03:03): "I'm going to give her the opportunity to tell me everything that she thinks is wrong with me..."
• Dylan Mulvaney (05:38): "I do [ketamine]. It helped me so much."
• Nori Reed (08:25): "My bitter is the absolute camel toe that I'm getting in romper..."
• Dylan Mulvaney (19:49): "She needed something. And I thought to myself..."
• Dylan Mulvaney (24:39): "I performed for, like, 10,000 people, and that's what changed my life."
• Dylan Mulvaney (25:12): "I'd love a trans character who is, like, kind of sucks."
• Nori Reed (37:39): "It's deeply problematic... You can't go up to a guy first."
• Nori Reed (45:17): "McDonald's and then curl up in bed."
• Dylan Mulvaney (45:35): "TikTok. I hate Instagram."
• Dylan Mulvaney (51:33): "Make a decision and then make it the right decision."
• Nori Reed (53:00): "Don't overthink... Don't rush into the next relationship."

Conclusion

In "Therapized with Nori Reed," The Dylan Hour offers a heartfelt and humorous exploration of therapy, personal growth, and the journey of being a trans woman in the entertainment industry. Through candid conversations, engaging segments, and supportive advice, Dylan and Nori create a space that is both entertaining and meaningful for their audience.

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