Podcast
The Happiness Coach
Hosted by Judy O'Neill, MSW · EN
Are you ready to get unstuck from depression and improve your relationships? With warmth and an irreverent sense of humor, Judy O'Neill, MSW is a Harvard grad, social worker, and a life coach. Having gotten through many years of her own depression, she offers practical advice on how to get back to feeling like yourself again. Want to increase peace, respect, and fun in your relationships? Judy will give you clear, effective tools. The episodes are super short to fit easily into your days. Judy sees clients remotely and in Boulder, Colorado. She can be reached at judy@helpingyougetunstuck.com
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Overcoming The Winter Blues: You Can Address Seasonal Affective Disorder
Nov 20, 202400:06:35Tap to summarizeAs the days grow shorter and gloomier, have you noticed a dip in your mood and energy? You're not alone. I'm Judy O'Neill and in this episode we tackle the winter blues head-on. Join me as I share how to fight Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD), a common yet often overlooked condition that affects many during the fall and winter months. We'll explore practical strategies to lift your spirits, from maximizing exposure to natural sunlight to incorporating light therapy into your daily routine. For those grappling with severe symptoms, I'll discuss the benefits of seeking professional help and the potential role of antidepressants in restoring balance. Whether it's learning how to manage cravings or understanding the timing of when to seek help, this episode equips you with tools to thrive, even when the skies are gray. So let's brighten your winter days together.
Transcribe →Finding Peace: How to Reduce Stress and Avoid Drama
Jun 28, 202400:08:03Tap to summarizeCan you imagine a life with less stress and unnecessary drama? On this episode of The Happiness Coach, I'll be guiding you through practical steps to help you achieve just that. As a social worker and coach, I've seen firsthand how certain behaviors can either fuel or extinguish the flames of chaos in our lives. Learn why trusting your intuition, seeking support, and setting healthy boundaries are essential actions for maintaining balance and serenity.We tackle real-life scenarios where taking proactive steps can make a world of difference. From addressing a loved one’s addiction to having those tough but necessary conversations about health concerns, this episode offers actionable insights that bring you closer to your goals and dreams. Discover how joining a support group like Al-Anon or urging a family member to see a doctor can prevent major crises. Tune in to transform how you handle life's challenges and reclaim your power with practical advice that can increase resilience and grace in challenging situations.
Transcribe →You Can Overcome Fear of Conflict and Have Connecting Conversations
Jun 14, 202400:13:54Tap to summarizeYou can stop avoiding hard conversations. Join me as I uncover the profound transformations that can occur when we have simple, non-dramatic, honest talks. In this episode, we'll explore why so many of us dread conflict, from the primal fear of social rejection to the practical worries that hold us back. Discover tips to having conversations that go well, and learn how to gauge whether a challenging conversation is worth having by asking one key question: Is the person workable?Let's also navigate the landscape of personal boundaries and communication within relationships. We'll discuss the importance of respecting each other's histories and the damaging effects hurtful comments can have, especially around sensitive topics like education. Understand how sincere apologies can mend rifts and how mutual satisfaction is crucial in intimate relationships. By embracing honest and courageous communication, you'll find ways to enhance your happiness and strengthen your relationships. Tune in to learn how facing these difficult conversations can lead to more authentic and fulfilling connections.
Transcribe →How to Build a Supportive and Happy Partnership
Jun 7, 202400:17:25Tap to summarizeWhat if the secret to a thriving romantic relationship lies in treating your partner as your teammate rather than your opponent? Discover transformative insights and actionable tips from Judy O'Neill, as we explore the core elements that make up a healthy and fulfilling partnership. Learn how to foster mutual respect and care by making significant decisions together, and understand the importance of holding each partner's wants as equally vital. We also delve into practical strategies for open and honest communication, addressing simmering resentments, and requesting changes without unnecessary drama.In this episode, we cover crucial aspects of relationship maintenance. Get tips on setting boundaries with extended family, improving sexual connection, and coordinating social plans. Financial harmony is another key topic, with advice on making joint financial decisions and finding a balance between financial freedom and relationship well-being. Tune in for a comprehensive guide to creating a peaceful relationship, grounded in teamwork and open communication.
Transcribe →Breaking Free From People-Pleasing
May 30, 202400:10:07Tap to summarizeWhat if you could transform your relationships and boost your mental well-being by simply being true to yourself? In this enlightening episode of the Happiness Coach, social worker Judy O'Neill promises to equip you with practical steps to break free from the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing. We focus on four essential pieces of relationship wisdom. Your feelings matter. it's safe to ask for what you want. Setting limits is healthy. And trusting yourself is crucial. These can help you have healthier and more satisfying relationships.Meet Michelle, whose tumultuous upbringing pushed her into a pattern of people-pleasing that led to unsatisfying relationships. Through her story, we offer actionable advice on changing these habits, from recognizing red flags early in romantic relationships to staying honest with yourself and communicating openly with your partner. Discover why it's essential to share your concerns with a trusted individual and how making specific requests for changes can significantly impact your relationship dynamics. By shifting your focus from pleasing others to being honest with yourself, you'll learn how to pursue relationships that genuinely align with who you are and what you want. Tune in for valuable guidelines and support, whether it's self-help resources or professional counseling. Your can transform your relationships and mental well-being.
Transcribe →How to Stop Ignoring Your Red Flags
May 17, 202400:10:32Tap to summarizeHave you ever felt the inner tug of your intuition nudging you away from something that didn't feel right? Judy O'Neill, MSW sheds light on why those gut feelings are your most reliable navigation tool for a fulfilling life. Weaving personal experiences with professional wisdom, Judy delves into the signals our bodies send to guide us toward making choices that align with our deepest values and long-term happiness.As we unravel the threads of decision-making, Judy shares her own story of patience and alignment in her relationship, illustrating the power of pausing to ensure our choices resonate with our true selves. From reevaluating healthcare providers to switching counselors, Judy imparts the courage to trust your instincts. Her insights offer a pathway to a lighter, more authentic existence, empowering you with the confidence to navigate life's challenges. If you've been searching for the encouragement to trust yourself more, Judy's warm guidance will leave you feeling ready to embrace your intuition with open arms.
Transcribe →You Can Stop Coping and Start Living
May 10, 202400:07:06Tap to summarizeStruggling with depression and anxiety often feels like being trapped in a relentless tide, barely keeping your head above water. I'm Judy O'Neill, and I've navigated these stormy seas myself. Join me as we chart a course from the deceptive comfort of coping mechanisms—be it alcohol, food, or screens—to the liberating journey of recovery. Together, we unpack the seductive nature of numbing behaviors and the powerful potential of setting the intention to actually get better.I explore practical strategies for nurturing both your present and future selves. Discover how to establish routines that soothe the brain, create memories that last, and build connections that fill the soul. This episode offers you compassionate steps to embrace recovery and truly flourish. With these insights, you'll learn to honor yourself in the here and now, while paving a path toward a future where you do more than just cope—you thrive.
Transcribe →Breaking Free From the Dieting Roller Coaster
Aug 5, 202300:12:52Tap to summarizeAre you tired of being on a dieting roller coaster? Let's put an end to that. I'm Judy O’Neill, and in this episode, I share the story of someone whose experiences with traditional dieting and calorie counting reflect a nationwide crisis. Together, we explore a unique approach to weight loss that gives precedence to feeling good. I also open up about my personal journey with emotional eating and how I found balance and freedom. Imagine becoming one of those people who don't worry about food and weight - it's possible, and I'm here to guide you through it. The focus isn't on restriction, but rather maximizing pleasure. Embark on this journey towards a healthier relationship with food and weight with us - you won't regret it!
Transcribe →How We Can Use Anger to Be Happier
Aug 5, 202300:06:25Tap to summarizeWhat if anger, often stigmatized, is actually a hidden treasure guiding us to create a life where we can thrive? You're about to discover that anger, when harnessed properly, can be a powerful tool for personal transformation and growth. Join me, Judy O’Neill, social worker and your ever-passionate Happiness Coach, as we navigate the potential gifts of this strong emotion. We'll explore various reactions to anger-provoking situations, helping you discern which responses are the most beneficial for your future wellbeing. We'll also shed light on how you can transform your anger into power, setting clear boundaries and expectations. This isn't about pointing fingers, but about leveraging your free will to dictate what behaviors you'll accept. Anger, as uncomfortable as it may be, can lead us to a life where we can confidently say no to harm and yes to true happiness. Uncover how you can wield anger to enhance your relationships and, ultimately, your life. For more insights about my private coaching practice, navigate your way to my website helpingyougetunstuck.com.
Transcribe →Busting the Myth that Everyone Else's Lives are Better
Aug 5, 202300:06:43Tap to summarizeEver felt like your life is more of a mess than anyone else's? Welcome to being human. This episode of the Happiness Coach challenges the pervasive myth that everyone else's life is perfect, exploring the universal truth that each of us has a part of our life that causes us pain. From marital woes to financial struggles, Judy O'Neill, unpacks the truth that we all have our own mess to sort through. Reflecting on my personal battle with compulsive eating and depression, we debunk the notion that challenges make us less valuable - in fact, they just make us real.This isn't your run-of-the-mill "cheer up, it gets better" episode. Rather, it's an invitation to embrace life with compassion. I delve into the heart of what it means to be human and the challenges that come with it. Whether it's the fear of having married the wrong person, the regrets we all live with, or the loneliness of empty nest syndrome, these struggles don't make you less. So, let's dispel the myth that life should be "all good" and open the door to genuine conversations about life's highs and lows. Listen in, share with someone who might be having a tough time, and remember - you can do this.
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