Are Kids Today Really Worse Off?

Summary

The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos

Episode: “Are Kids Today Really Worse Off?”

Release Date: June 15, 2026

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Episode Overview

In this episode, Dr. Laurie Santos dives into one of today’s hottest debates: Are young people and college students actually worse off than previous generations? With the help of historian and college student mental health expert Alexis Redding and psychologist Adam Mastroianni, Dr. Santos examines the widely accepted “youth mental health crisis” narrative. The episode uses archival research, original student interviews from prior decades, and contemporary psychological theory to challenge conventional assumptions, arguing that much of what we perceive as decline is an illusion fueled by cognitive bias.

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. The “Kids These Days” Narrative

• Dr. Laurie Santos’s Backstory
  Laurie sets the stage by recounting her original concerns about the deteriorating mental health of college students, describing the widespread anxiety, stress, and lack of resilience she observed since 2018 ([02:38–05:56]).

• Quote:
  “They were more stressed, less joyful, more overwhelmed, less happy, more depressed, way less resilient, and way more anxious.”
  — Dr. Laurie Santos ([02:38])

• The Common Wisdom:
  Laurie notes that the media and academia frequently describe today’s youth as fundamentally more fragile and less happy, often referring to a “mental health crisis” ([05:00–05:56]).

2. Digging Into History — The Perry Study Rediscovered

• Alexis Redding’s Discovery
  Alexis, whose father was an archaeologist, draws parallels between her own “adventure of discovery” and her father’s work. She stumbles onto a forgotten trove of research in a Harvard attic: hundreds of audio-recorded student interviews from the 1970s – a lost replication of Dr. William Perry’s famous earlier study ([06:35–13:17]).

• Quote:
  “You are primed to go on a grand adventure of discovery. And that seems like a typical thing to do.”
  — Alexis Redding ([10:14])

• The Long Search
  Alexis spends nearly a year searching through archives and basements before finding the tapes, which provide a rare “archaeological peek” into student life across generations ([36:16–37:00]).

• Quote:
  “It took me almost a year, but I found them.”
  — Alexis Redding ([36:47])

3. The Results: Surprising Continuity Over Generations

• The Big Surprise
  Alexis and her collaborator Dr. Nancy Hill expected the interviews to reveal a dramatic difference between student generations. Instead, they were stunned by the “level of continuity” with today’s students:

  • Feelings of loneliness
  • Pressure to have life figured out
  • Comparison with more privileged peers
  • Struggles with depression, social anxiety, and confusion about the future
    ([37:09–39:39])

• Quote:
  “We both had the same just jarring realization that what we were actually hearing sounded no different than what our students were talking about in our office hours, in our classrooms.”
  — Alexis Redding ([37:09])

• Student Voices (Reenacted Quotes)
  “I remember walking through the dining hall many times then just not seeing anyone that I felt comfortable with, to sit down with. And I would just go off and sit by myself.” ([37:57])
  “I went through a period of depression between January and February. I'm getting to the point where I don't know what I want and I don't know. I'm not even sure how to deal with people.” ([38:55])

• Modern Student Reactions
  When current students were asked to compare quotes from the 1970s and today, they almost always misidentified the era, believing the struggles sounded modern ([40:34–46:57]).

• Quote:
  “I think that simple activity really opens our frame to better understanding.”
  — Alexis Redding ([44:40])

4. Why Do We Fall for the Illusion of Decline?

• Expert Insight: Adam Mastroianni
  Adam discusses how almost everyone — regardless of age or politics — perceives a moral and social decline over time. His research demonstrates that this is a cognitive illusion ([17:17–23:50]):

  • Negativity bias: We focus more on bad news/narratives in the present.
  • Fading affect bias: Negative memories from the past lose their sting faster than positive memories lose their pleasure, making the past seem better by comparison.

• Quote:
  “If you just divide how much moral decline they've seen over the number of years that they've had to see it, you get the same number if you're younger, you're older, and you do get the same number.”
  — Adam Mastroianni ([22:23])

• Objective Measures Tell a Different Story
  Huge meta-analyses show that, contrary to popular belief, people have not become meaner, less kind, or less honest over the decades. In fact, experimental games show people have become about 10% nicer to strangers since the 1950s ([24:56–25:55]).

• Quote:
  “Even when you pay people to get the answer right, they will tell you that people are meaner when, in fact, they're nicer.”
  — Adam Mastroianni ([25:55])

5. Decoupling “Developmental Struggles” and Clinical Mental Health

• Two Tracks Explanation
  Alexis stresses the importance of distinguishing between:

  • Track 1: Students with clinical-level, urgent mental health needs (which have increased and do require intervention)
  • Track 2: The vast majority facing normal, developmental challenges — stress, loneliness, self-doubt, and transition struggles — which were present in past generations ([41:31–42:35]).

• Quote:
  “There are students who are having very real mental health crises ... And then the vast majority of students are those who are just struggling with typical developmental challenges of transition.”
  — Alexis Redding ([41:31])

• The Harm of Combining the Two
  Lumping all students together as being in clinical crisis pathologizes normal growing pains and may increase stigma and panic among students and adults ([43:22–43:47]).

6. Generational Empathy and Rewriting the Narrative

• Changing Perspectives
  Hearing their own 1970s college voices shocked original study participants. They realized how much they had forgotten about their own struggles, and many wished they'd remembered sooner so they could relate better to the next generation ([48:19–49:41]).

• Quote:
  “They had to accept the null hypothesis that there was no difference between generations… And here we were looking back to 1975 saying exactly the same thing. There’s no difference.”
  — Alexis Redding ([50:39–51:51])

• Tool for Connection
  Alexis and Laurie both use quotes from old student interviews in classes to demonstrate cross-generational commonality, helping current students feel less alone and adults feel more empathy for youth struggles ([43:47–44:40], [45:15–46:57]).

• Student Reflection
  “It gives me a sense of like common humanity that like, everybody goes through the same things.” ([46:42])

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Memorable Moments & Notable Quotes

• “Turns out, the kids today are actually alright, or at least as alright as the kids in any generation have ever been.”
  — Dr. Laurie Santos ([05:56])

• “We always think that the world is getting worse, especially when it comes to kids — and we’ve always thought that.”
  — Adam Mastroianni ([21:16])

• “We put such a false barrier between us and current students with the kids these days narrative… If we can just take some of the bricks out of that wall... It's incredibly meaningful.”
  — Alexis Redding ([47:32])

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Major Timestamps for Important Segments

| Timestamp | Segment | |-----------|---------| | 02:38 | Dr. Laurie’s initial observations of college student distress | | 06:35 | Alexis’s childhood and the archaeological approach | | 10:14 | The adventure to find the lost research tapes | | 17:17 | Adam Mastroianni on the myth of decline | | 22:23 | Analysis on age, politics, and perceived decline | | 24:56 | Data: People have become more generous over time | | 37:09 | Listening to the rediscovered 1970s student interviews | | 40:34 | Modern students attempting to distinguish old/new struggles | | 41:31 | The need to separate clinical from developmental issues | | 43:47 | Teaching generational empathy through archival quotes | | 46:42 | Realization of shared humanity across eras | | 50:39 | The researcher's disappointment at finding “no difference” |

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Takeaways and Conclusions

• Much of our belief in young people’s decline is an illusion—shaped by the negativity of news, fading negative memories, and biased comparisons.
• Normal growing pains and anxiety about the future are constants of late adolescence and early adulthood, not unique to our time.
• Distinguish between acute mental health needs and typical transitional struggles, so as not to pathologize normal college experiences.
• Recognizing cross-generational similarities builds empathy, combats alienation, and opens more supportive conversations between adults and young people.
• The “kids these days hot take”: The kids today are, in fact, all right—just as all right as kids have ever been.

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For anyone who believes things have never been worse for young people, Dr. Santos’s episode offers a powerful, research-driven challenge: when it comes to navigating life’s messiness, we’re more alike across generations than we ever imagined.

Transcript

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[Alexis Redding]

My childhood dog was named Indiana Jones. The reason why my childhood dog was named Indiana Jones is that my father was an archaeologist.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Having an archaeologist's dad during the Indiana Jones era would come to define a lot of Alexis's childhood. Every afternoon after school, Alexis would head to the museum where her father worked. She'd find ways to entertain herself as her dad spent hours methodically trying to figure out stories of the past that were hidden in small bits of bone and pottery. But Alexis real introduction to archaeology came when she turned 8 years old and got a chance to travel to her father's field site at the Great Pyramid of Giza.

[Alexis Redding]

He and his team spent several decades actually running the Giza Plateau Mapping project, which was unearthing the workers village of the human beings who raised the pyramids and telling the stories of their lives. Up until that point, what my father did was a little bit vague. I didn't understand what it meant to be in the field. I hadn't seen that up close. And it was eye opening to see how meticulous the work was. You know, literally using paintbrushes and toothbrushes to move bits of sand away. And the amount of enthusiasm he had over finding a trash dump because that was such a treasure trove of information when you're an archeologist of the layer after layer of human life and what is left behind.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

The fictional character Indiana Jones famously fell in love with archaeology when he first visited his father's Egyptian field site. Did that visit to Giza set Alexis onto a similar path?

[Alexis Redding]

It was fascinating and entirely not for me.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Archaeology involved dealing with a lot of dust, and Alexis was not a fan of dust. But she did inherit her father's passion for figuring out hard academic puzzles. And the hard academic puzzle Alexis took on is the subject of today's happiness. Hot take the mental health of kids.

[Alexis Redding]

These days, I study the experience of young adults navigating transitions. The transition from high school into college, from college into the work. And I specialize in mental health and well being during those processes.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis is the faculty co chair of Higher education at the Harvard Graduate School of Education and the editor of a new book entitled Mental Health in what Research Tells Us About Supporting Students. Alexis is therefore very well versed in the way that adults typically talk about the kids today.

[Alexis Redding]

There is a narrative that somehow this generation is so decidedly different than the generation that came before.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis bought into this narrative herself when she was beginning her doctoral studies. She knew about all the data showing that rates of depression and anxiety were on the rise in modern students. She, too, wondered what was wrong with them. But Alexis take on the kids today changed back in 2016 when she got an unexpected call from a Harvard administrator offering $3,000 for a somewhat unorthodox summer research project.

[Alexis Redding]

As a doc, students money offers you $3,000 to do any sort of intellectually engaging work. You say yes.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

What was this unusual project? Well, that Harvard administrator and her team had been cleaning out the attic of the university's Bureau of Study Council building when they stumbled onto something unexpected.

[Alexis Redding]

They had found this recessed bookshelf that they had forgotten was there. It was behind an old dusty tapestry, and it was behind these locked glass doors.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

On that hidden bookshelf were boxes and boxes of old research materials.

[Alexis Redding]

And what she told me is that they had these old conversations with students, recordings of student interviews with young people who were navigating the college years. And they didn't know what to do with them, but they felt like there was something interesting there.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis also thought there might be something of interest there. One of the most foundational studies in Alexis's field of college student development was published back in 1968 by famed Harvard psychologist Dr. William Perry. The project involved extensive interviews with university students from the 1950s that sounded suspiciously similar to what the Harvard administrator had stumbled across. Could the conversations in those old boxes be Perry's original interviews from his foundational paper? Could they offer a glimpse into what college student mental health was like back in the day, and, by comparison, how bad things had gotten today.

[Alexis Redding]

You know, being the daughter of an archaeologist means that you are primed to go on a grand adventure of discovery. And that seems like a typical thing to do.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis's first visit to that attic archive did indeed feel like a grand adventure. When she pulled back the tapestry, she found piles and piles and piles of old research materials. But it was a mess.

[Alexis Redding]

It was like you ask a kid to clean their room and everything goes into the closet, like that had happened over maybe 20 years.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

The attic space also featured the very thing Alexis most detested when visiting her dad's field site.

[Alexis Redding]

It was dust filled. I spent part of my three grand on, you know, Claritin and an air purifier so that I could spend time up there.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Dust. Why'd it have to be dust? But pack of Claritin in hand, Alexis Got to work trying to make sense of the mess. She began organizing all the random papers in those boxes. She discovered card catalogs of old interviews, outdated training materials. And then one day, Alexis stumbled upon a sheet of paper that didn't match the others.

[Alexis Redding]

Everything about it looked and felt different. Like the paper felt different. It had purple mimeograph ink. The font was like a little thicker from an old school typewriter.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

The purple inked page appeared to be a transcript of a student being interviewed about his mental health struggles. Could this be a conversation from Perry's foundational 1950s study? The only way to find out was to locate the rest of those pages. As weeks and weeks of searching passed, slowly but surely more of those strange purple pages turned up.

[Alexis Redding]

And then I found page 18. Right in the middle of the page said President Nixon and the Vietnam War. This was supposed to be from the 50s and 60s.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

My history's bad. But that's later, right? That's later.

[Alexis Redding]

I had this moment in the attic of like, I'm not a presidential historian, but I feel like that's off.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Tricky Dick was president from 1969 until 1974. That was more than a decade after Perry had concluded his foundational study.

[Alexis Redding]

Which means that I didn't have something from the original study. I had something from a replicated study from the 1970s. Now, this is my field. I know the literature. I know that this study was never published.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Had Perry conducted a second study with a new group of students from the 1970s? One that he had never published or even told other scholars about? That seemed unlikely, but Alexis needed to know for sure. So she tracked down several people who had worked at the Bureau of Study Council back in the day. And those former staff members said, oh Yeah, I remember. Dr. Perry did try to redo that original study. Oh, and it took forever. They explained. It turns out that Perry had spent 10 painstaking years collecting hundreds and hundreds of hours of student interviews from the 1970s on reel to reel tapes. Alexis was floored. She hadn't found the interviews behind Perry's original publication, but in some ways, she'd stumbled across something even more remarkable. A completely forgotten follow up study filled with unpublished student voices from the 1970s. Somewhere out there were hundreds of tape recordings of data that could provide a never before glimpsed peek into the mental health of her father's generation. Those lost tapes could be the key to finally understanding what was so different about the kids today.

[Alexis Redding]

And now we just needed to find them.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Adam Mastroianni]

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anytime people see something bad in the world, they're like, well, that didn't used to be there.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

We'll get back to Alexis Redding's adventure in just a moment, but before we do, I want to introduce you to a different psychologist, one who also spends a lot of time thinking about how people have changed over time. His name is Adam Mastroianni.

[Adam Mastroianni]

There's some horrible murder on the news. It's like, you know, they didn't used to do that. Some politician does something unethical, you know, they didn't used to do that. It seems like we have all this stuff in the present that I just don't think we used to have in the past. And I think part of that is because, like, no one really knows what the past was like, even the people who were there for it.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Adam's an expert on what our minds get wrong when we think about how people used to behave back in the day, especially when it comes to their moral goodness.

[Adam Mastroianni]

I feel like I had spent my whole life hearing people say, like, you know, you used to be able to leave your door unlocked at night and everything would be fine. You used to be able to trust a man's word and now you can't. You know, this fallen, sinful, evil world we live in is not the world we used to live in. I can remember a world, or at least I've been told about one that wasn't so mean and nasty.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

People love making sweeping claims like these. Back in my day, people were better. Society these days is going right downhill, or perhaps more relevant for Alexis's work and today's happiness. Hot take discussion. The kids today, they're so much more sensitive and fragile and depressed than my generation was. Claims like these kind of piss Adam off. He often finds himself wondering, do we have any real evidence that people are actually getting worse over time?

[Adam Mastroianni]

It's like, things can get better and things can get worse. I think it's merely that the standard of evidence for things getting worse is so much lower than the standard of evidence for things getting better. It's like you don't really need to provide any proof to feel convinced or to be convincing that, like, something new and bad has happened.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

And Adam is quick to point out that whether people think other people's behavior has changed matters a lot. Take, for example, what we think about how nice the average person has become over time.

[Adam Mastroianni]

If you think you used to live in a nice world and now you live in a nasty world, like, what difference that must make for the way that you conduct yourself? Because, for one thing, you might be a little more licensed to be nasty if you think, like, well, it's kind of what we're doing now. Like, the rules are out the window, so I can't trust other people. Therefore, I don't have to be a trustworthy person either. Everybody else is cheating, so I should cheat too.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Our beliefs about people's moral decline can also have big political consequences.

[Adam Mastroianni]

If someone's like, hey, man, things used to be great, now they're bad. Wouldn't it be awesome if they were good again? Just, like, put me in charge and I'll do it. And, like, by the way, if you could turn off all the rules and, like, give me unlimited power, that'd be really helpful. But you should do that because we live in these unprecedented times where things for the first time have gotten really bad. That means we should take unprecedented measures to turn them back around. So, like, this is a favorite refrain of aspiring dictators and autocrats everywhere.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But do we really believe that people today are worse than they were decades ago? Adam wanted more than just anecdotes, so he surveyed a nationally representative group of subjects and asked them to rate how kind, honest, nice, and good people are today versus in the past.

[Adam Mastroianni]

In Every survey we did, people were like, today is the worst time. And when you ask me about the past, it gets better. You can even tell the difference between today and four years ago. It just gets a step worse each time we get closer to the present.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But have we always thought that the kids were worse back in the day?

[Adam Mastroianni]

Here we had a major head start in that other people had asked other people these questions for a very long time. So we have all this archival survey data gathered for decades and around the world, where people are asked questions like, do you think things are getting worse? Do you think people are less respectful than they used to be? Less ethical, less kind, less friendly?

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Adam was able to gather lots of data from these archival surveys. He amassed more than 200,000 data points, testing people all over the world going back as far as the 1940s. And in more than 80% of these archival surveys, most people said, yep, people today are worse than they were in the past.

[Adam Mastroianni]

So we can see that not only do people, a majority of people, believe this in the US Majorities of people believe that morality is declining in every country that's ever been surveyed.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But Adam wondered, who are the folks driving this effect?

[Adam Mastroianni]

The suspicion that, like, it's a certain kind of person who says that people are less good than they used to be. It's probably a conservative, and it's probably an older person. And we found that neither of those things are fully true. They're somewhat true. So it is true that people who report themselves as being more conservative or more on the right side of the political spectrum do say this more, so they see a bigger change. But even if you go as far left as you can go in our survey population, they too perceive decline over the same periods of time. So it's not like being on one side of the aisle turns the effect on and off. When it comes to age. It's actually a little more complicated. So it is the case that older people say there's been more decline in their lifetimes, but they have a longer lifetime in which to witness that decline. So what we really want to know is, do they perceive a greater rate of decline? So if you just divide how much moral decline they've seen over the number of years that they've had to see it, you get the same number if you're younger, you're older, and you do get the same number. So it's not just conservatives and it's not just older people who are saying this. Everybody, regardless of age and political persuasion, can agree, like, people are worse now than they once were.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But is everybody right? Is Adam smart to be skeptical? Or has there really been a continuous and steep decline in people's kindness, honesty, and niceness over time?

[Adam Mastroianni]

If that's true, like, that's the biggest effect in all of social science. Like, that's the most important thing we should figure out. Because if people used to be nice and now they're nasty, they're like, well, how did that happen? When did it happen? Is there a way we can reverse it?

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Unfortunately, figuring out if people have, in fact, gotten less nice over time is kind of hard.

[Adam Mastroianni]

There's no, like, great objective measure of this, Right? We can't go into the Arctic and, like, drill for ice cores that tell us the historical amounts of niceness in 1750. But what we can do is look again at all this archival research we have where people are asked about the state of their moral worlds at that time. So questions like, have you looked after someone's male plants or pets while they were away in the last month? Have you given up your seat on the bus? Did people treat you with respect all day yesterday? If it is the case that people are getting worse and worse over time, we should be able to pick it up on these questions. People, like, surveyed back in 1985 should say, I was treated with respect all day yesterday. And then people in 2025 should say, I wasn't treated with respect all day yesterday. Instead, we find that in all of these questions, they're flat. Over and over again, flat, flat, flat. People give the same answers every year

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

across more than 100 surveys testing more than 10 people worldwide from the 1960s until today. Adam found that people report seeing exactly the same levels of niceness, honesty, and kindness over time. But those are just surveys. Is there any way to measure whether people's actual moral behavior has changed across time?

[Adam Mastroianni]

So another way of looking at how people treat each other interpersonally is to look at what economists have been doing in their labs for the past 50 years. They do these economic games. And games is, like, a strong word for what these are. I'd hate to hang out and play games with economists. But basically, people come into the lab, they play, like, the Prisoner's dilemma or a common goods game. These are games where essentially you have the option of being generous or selfish with a stranger.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

A team of economists put the data from all these different do you want to be nice or mean to a stranger? Games together into what's known as a meta analysis. You can think of a meta analysis as one big statistical test that mathematically combines the results of lots of studies on one topic. And the meta analysis Adam found included more than 500 different generosity experiments running all the way from the 1950s until today.

[Adam Mastroianni]

And what they wanted to know was, are people more likely to be generous or selfish with a stranger? And the researchers themselves tell us that they went in thinking that people were going to be more selfish over time. They expected to find that finding. Instead, they found the opposite. People were 10 percentage points more likely to choose the generous option in these games than the selfish one.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Not only have people not gotten meaner over the last 70 years, they've actually gotten 10% nicer. Adam guessed that most laypeople would find these results shocking.

[Adam Mastroianni]

We just took those findings and asked another sample of people to predict them. We describe the games, we tell them the period of time we're looking at, and we said, we'll pay you extra money if you get this right. Like, just where did it go over time? And people say, much like the researchers, they expect that people got more selfish over time, when in fact, they got more self less so. Even when you make the question really specific, even when you pay people to get the answer right, they will tell you that people are meaner when, in fact, they're nicer.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Adam calls this strange effect the illusion of moral decline. We think people are getting worse over time, that everybody is less honest and kind and nice than they used to be. But Adam's work shows we're just wrong. But where does the illusion of moral decline come from? Adam thinks it arises because of the combination of two common cognitive biases. The first bias is one that we talk about a lot on the happiness lab. We don't notice the good stuff in life nearly as much as we notice the bad stuff.

[Adam Mastroianni]

It's just a negativity bias. We pay more attention to bad things than good things. This is why, you know, if it bleeds, it leads. You're more likely to be served a negative news story. You're more likely to click it. But that's enough to make it seem like the world's always bad. I don't think that's enough to make it seem like the world was once good. For that, you need an additional effect. This one comes more strictly from the memory literature. It's called the fading affect bias, which is just the observation that the pleasure of good memories does not fade as fast as the pain of negative memories. So, like, if you got turned down for your high school prom, that feels pretty bad at the time, but 20 years later, it's Maybe a funny story or maybe a relieving story, right? I found my person and like, so glad I didn't end up with that one. Whereas, like, if you had a great high school prom, probably was fun at the time, when you remember, it's like, it's not as fun as it was to experience, but it's still pretty good. And those two tendencies are what happens in memory. On average, the good things lose some of their goodness, but generally remain good. The bad things lose more of their badness, and they sometimes flip to becoming good. And so if you combine these two phenomena, the fading affect bias and the negativity bias, you can create this perception that the world is now bad, but it was once good.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Let's do a quick recap. Why do people mistakenly think that people today are worse than they were in the past? Reason number one is the negativity bias. When we look out at the world as it is today, we naturally notice people doing lots of bad stuff. But we don't tend to notice all the people doing good stuff. This starts us off on the path of thinking, hey, people today are kind of crappy. Then our minds get hit by bias number two, the fading affect bias. All the bad stuff we noticed about people in the past starts to slowly seem less bad. As time goes on, the past becomes rosier and rosier. Ergo, we come to believe that people today suck more than they did back in the day. Adams says that these two biases can cause illusions of decline more often than we realize. Take for example, another situation in which people often say things were better in the past with music. Think about the newest song you've heard recently. Is that song better or worse than the music that was on the radio when you were in high school? If you're like most people, you probably think that today's music is just worse than when you were a teenager. That today's music ain't like that old time rock and roll, as it were. But notice how the same two cognitive biases are at work when we evaluate how music has changed over time.

[Adam Mastroianni]

You hear both good music and bad music. The bad music feels worse than the good music feels good. And then you get this feeling of like, you know, back on the radio in Whenever you were growing up, we only had good stuff. It was like mainly hits. But it's because you've forgotten and now don't care about all of the bad music. You forgot about the number one hit of Disco Duck by Rick Deez and his cast of idiots. That's their literal band Name, like, no one remembers that. That was in a, you know, a brief moment of hysteria, a number one hit in America. They remember the Beatles and the Rolling Stones. Music that's lasted.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

I've had this phenomenon when I go on road trips. Sometimes I'm, you know, listening to whatever's on the radio because my phone sucks

[Alexis Redding]

and it doesn't talk to my car.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

And so I'll hear, like, oh, it's Casey Kasem's, like, you know, top Countdown. And they do these retro countdowns. And my husband and I were driving one time, and it was like the 1987 Casey Kasem Countdown. And I was like, oh, my God, 1987 was the best there was. Like, the Cure, like, this is gonna be amazing. Oh, my gosh, it was terrible. So much terrible stuff. I'll respect yourself. And I was like, oh, my God. None of these exist in my memory anymore. It's just that one amazing Cure song. But actually, like, the top 100 was just as bad in 1987 as it was today, even though my memory does not believe that at all.

[Adam Mastroianni]

It's so funny. I've had the exact same experience driving with my dad, listening to, like, those SiriusXM stations where they play verbatim top 40 countdowns, because it's a rare peek into what the past was actually like at the time. No one today is picking these songs for you. This is like what America picked on that day in that year. And I think there's actually so few ways of really peeking into what it was like to be a person back then. But, like, no, that was the radio people listened to.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

I want to highlight the point that Adam just made, because I think it's super important to know if people are really getting worse over time. We have to have an accurate way to peek into the past. But reliable windows into earlier eras are super rare. Adam had archival data sets, so he had the receipts to show that people were nicer in the past than we remember. I had the actual KC Kasem countdown from 1987, so I could hear that my beloved old time rock and roll was just as bad as the songs of today. And that gets us back to today's happiness. Hot take. For years, I and so many other scholars have assumed that kids mental health today is more messed up than it was in previous generations. But could I and so many other scholars be falling prey to yet another illusion of decline? The only way to find out would be to find an accurate archaeological peek into what college students were really like back when Casey kasem did that 1987 countdown or when our parents parents generation went to college. For decades, researchers like me assumed that no such accurate peak existed. But that was about to change.

[Alexis Redding]

The idea that there might be these materials that could change the story of what it means to grow up in this pivotal moment in time. I was going to find them.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Adam Mastroianni]

hey everyone, it's Kal Penn. I'm the host of Irsay the Audible and iHeart Audiobook Club. This week on the podcast, I am sitting down with Ray Porter, the narrator of Andy Weir's audiobook project, Hail Mary Massive sci fi adventure about survival and science and what happens when you wake up alone, very far from Earth. I really had to make the decision because I caught myself getting that frog in my throat and starting to get teary as I'm narrating some of these sections. And it's like, okay, yo yo yo, is this indulgent? And I really thought about it. I was like, no. At this point it would kind of be betraying the trust the author and the listener have in telling this story if I don't go through it. But there's places in this book that that deeply, emotionally affected me. And I left it on the mic. That's great because it served the story. People will say like, oh my God, I cried at the end. It's like, yeah dude, me too. Listen to Irsay the Audible and iHeart audiobook club on the iHeartradio app or wherever you get your podcasts.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

seem to age slower? Like they figured out some secret the

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

rest of us missed. Well, it turns out someone actually did. And it starts with a melon. Yep, a melon.

[Alexis Redding]

There's a rare French melon that stays stays fresh four times longer than the

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

Scientists discovered it produces an extraordinarily high

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

the kind that helps defend skin from

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

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[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

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[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

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[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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[Alexis Redding]

Are you really buying a car online on autotrader right now?

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Really? At a playground?

[Alexis Redding]

Yeah, really. Look at these listings from dealers. Wow, your search can really get that specific.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Really? And you just put in your info and boom. Cars in your budget.

[Adam Mastroianni]

Mom needs a second.

[Alexis Redding]

Honey, you can really have it delivered.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Really? Or I can pick it up at the dealership.

[Alexis Redding]

One sec, sweetie. Mommy's buying a car. Mommy, I think your kid is walking up the slide.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Kyle.

[Alexis Redding]

Again?

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Really? Autotrader? Buy your car online. Really? College student mental health expert Alexis Redding spent her formative years watching her Egyptologist's father piece together stories of past generations with small bits of bone and pottery. Now she was poised to put together her own story of the past, One that could tell us something really important about the present. That is, if she could find the lost data tapes of a mysterious unpublished 1970s study.

[Alexis Redding]

I dug through the basements. I climbed through the other things in the attic. I at some point pried open the drawer of a rusty file file cabinet in the basement that had, like, been sitting in water. I was able to find meeting minutes and the old letters to funders and confirm that the study had taken place. It had been rigorous, but I couldn't find the tapes.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

After smashing through all the rusty file cabinets she could, Alexis turned to her last hope. The university archive. That spot where institutions stick all the historical stuff that they're not sure what to do with.

[Alexis Redding]

Month after month, I was sitting in the archives opening box. After boxing, I Told one thing, lifted up the top of a box, and there was the first set of them. It took me almost a year, but I found them.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis finally had her long lost archaeological peek into what student life was like when her father was in college. She was finally ready to analyze the data.

[Alexis Redding]

So I enlisted the help of my colleague, Dr. Nancy Hill. And as we were framing what it was that we were hoping to hear on these recordings, we started from a kids these days place. Our idea was, oh, this perfect time capsule of interviews from the 1970s. Obviously it's going to help us figure out what is so different about being a college student today. And we both sat down to listen independently and we both had the same just jarring realization that what we were actually hearing sounded no different than what our students were talking about in our, you know, office hours, in our classrooms. That there was this level of continuity that we had absolutely not expected.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Give me some examples.

[Alexis Redding]

The loneliness that they were struggling with, the challenge of finding friends, finding their people.

[Adam Mastroianni]

I remember walking through the dining hall many times then just not seeing anyone

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

that I felt comfortable with, to sit down with.

[Adam Mastroianni]

And I would just go off and sit by myself.

[Alexis Redding]

The pressure to have life figured out by graduation in the sense of the ticking clock, you know, it just seemed really huge and sort of overwhelming. And I was afraid of the courses and I was afraid I wouldn't do well. And all that things that students come into my office to talk about today were exactly the things that those students were talking about.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis wasn't able to share the students actual recordings because the 1970s researchers didn't think to ask for podcast usage in their original consent forms, which makes sense because podcasts didn't exist in 1975. But Alexis was able to share the actual quotes from student recordings. And that's what you're hearing now. I think I compare myself to other people too much. When I first came, you know, like a lot of kids came from money. And I started to compare that to what I had, and I worry about that.

[Adam Mastroianni]

I went through a period of depression between January and February. I'm getting to the point where I don't know what I want and I don't know. I'm not even sure how to deal with people.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Listening to these reenactments was so shocking for me.

[Alexis Redding]

We are all sort of pessimistic and

[Adam Mastroianni]

cynical about everything when we think about

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

our chances of getting a job. These are the same kinds of worries that my Yale students share. In my happiness class today, I really collapsed one day.

[Alexis Redding]

I just Was I felt like I was gonna cry all the time. And that had never happened to me before because I've never been a crier and I've never been that unhappy. I always kind of believed in myself. Now I would sit on my bed and listen to music and feel like,

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

what am I gonna do?

[Alexis Redding]

It was so remarkable to hear those parallels. And then every so often there would be these peppered in details of like a student on the recordings asking for the ashtray or a lighter or something that was like so anachronistic. But the, the core developmental who am I? What do I want? How am I going to find my place? That was so beautifully connected. It was really disorienting for us as researchers to be so wrong about our hypothesis.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis analyzed the results every way she could think of. Each new analysis revealed the same finding. The mental health of the 1970s students on those tapes was simply no different from the mental health of the kids in the 2000s. As a last ditch attempt to confirm her original hypothesis, she enlisted the help of a new group of research collaborators. The Kids Today.

[Alexis Redding]

So I set up some focus groups with current students and I was fully transparent. These are interviews that took place in the 1970s. I need you to help me figure out what is similar and what is different. And I gave them two highlighters. Green was what you identify as similar, and pink was anything that was different. And in focus group after focus group, I just watched the transcripts turn green with highlighter ink.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

The kids today could not see any difference between their own mental health problems and those faced by their grandparents generation. The typical student's happiness struggles just hadn't seemed to change in over 50 years. I first heard about Alexis's findings at a workshop at Harvard over a year ago. For weeks I couldn't get her results out of my head. They simply didn't fit with all the studies I'd read and all the results I'd talked about in my own interviews. All those findings showing increasing rates of depression and anxiety in kids today. I asked Alexis where she thought the discrepancy came from.

[Alexis Redding]

I think the first thing is really to begin to decouple these two trends of what is happening simultaneously. One, to understand what is a clinical challenge and what is a typical developmental challenge. There are students who are having very real mental health crises where they need intervention from clinical counselors. And then the vast majority of students are those who are just struggling with typical developmental challenges of transition, of what does it mean to leave home, move to a college campus, be asked to answer these big questions about, what do I want out of my life? How am I going to get there? And we conflate these two things, which means that, number one, we all panic. So the second a student comes to us and they tell us that they're lonely or that they have anxiety, we leap to, this is a clinical problem. So we're really trying to have a different kind of conversation about what's really going on, what is typical, normal, developmental, and hard about being a young adult, about being in college, and to recognize the clinical challenges that are happening on a separate track.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

I resonated with Alexis's idea of these two tracks because research shows that there definitely are more college students on that first track today than there have ever been in the past. Students facing clinically significant levels of mental health issues that require urgent professional treatment. Students facing acute symptoms like panic attacks or suicidality, or a level of anxiety that requires medication just to function. But there are also lots of other students in track, too, college students who are having a hard time because college life has always been hard. That second group is simply reacting normatively to the typical developmental stresses that come with being 19 years old, no matter what generation you're in. Alexis worries that we might be hurting this second group of students when we inadvertently lump them in with the first.

[Alexis Redding]

We are so scared that we are going to underreact to a severe challenge, that we tend to overreact.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Alexis also worries that kids today are starting to own the narrative that adults typically tell about them, that they're just so different than previous generations. And that's why she's begun a new intervention with the students in her classes, one aimed at teaching them just how similar their current generation is to previous ones.

[Alexis Redding]

And so I give them a series of quotes, and I tell them, these either come from the 1970s or these are from the 2000s. And I ask them not just to tell me which generation they think it's from, but why. And so we'll put up a quote, like, a student who couldn't get out of bed, and it feels like he's wasting his time because he doesn't want to go to class because he doesn't know what's going on in class, and he doesn't know to ask for help, so he just doesn't show up. And my students will tell me, oh, I've done this, or this is bedrot. He's probably scrolling on TikTok and will build this strong case and will even tell me, there's no way that this is A student from another generation. And then I reveal, one after the next, that indeed this is a student from another generation, from your parents generation or from your grandparents generation. And I think that simple activity really opens our frame to better understanding.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

I couldn't help but try out Alexis's intervention with my own students at Yale. So this is for this episode that we're doing about how mental health has changed over time. And I'm gonna do an exercise with you guys that Alexis Redding does with her students. She was the one that found these recordings from the 1970s. So these are Harvard students, class of 1975. And also she was doing qualitative interviews with students from 2025. And so the game is just like, can you tell which is which? Whether this is a student from 1975 or a student from 2025. Does that make sense?

[Alexis Redding]

Yes.

[Adam Mastroianni]

Yeah.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Here is quote number one. I remember walking through the dining hall many times, then just not seeing anyone that I felt comfortable to sit down with. And I would just go off and sit by myself. This is a student talking about his first year on campus. So 2000s or 1970s.

[Alexis Redding]

That just kind of sounds like me my freshman year.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

My Yale students seem to get it wrong too.

[Alexis Redding]

I'll say. That's totally in line with the 2020s experience.

[Adam Mastroianni]

Yeah, 100%. 2020. That is like peak undergrad social anxiety.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Turns out, Nope, it was 1975.

[Adam Mastroianni]

What?

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

They too, were shocked by what they were hearing. Okay, next one. I went through a period of depression between January and February. I'm getting to the point where I don't even know what I want to. I don't know. I'm just not sure how to even deal with people anymore. 2025.

[Adam Mastroianni]

I think there's something about the language of, like, pausing and not finishing a

[Alexis Redding]

sentence that I'm like, oh, gen zer.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

They were just more articulate in the 1970s.

[Alexis Redding]

Yeah.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

I think the phrase I don't know

[Alexis Redding]

how to deal with people and talking about, like, people scare me and stuff

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

like that, that's very much like a

[Alexis Redding]

2020ish type of thing to say.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

They too assumed that their grandparents generation was different.

[Adam Mastroianni]

In my head, like 1970 students are all, like, happy and congregating and they know exactly what they want to do and they're going to get jobs and whatever, and they don't have to worry about any of these things. That's my stereotype, at least.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

1970s. Again, I lied. They're all from the 1970s, as you probably figured out. But how does it feel hearing that they're so similar. Oh, well, it gives me a sense of like common humanity that like, everybody goes through the same things.

[Adam Mastroianni]

The first thing to come to mind, like what this feels like to me is, you know, those ancient graffiti at Pompeii or whatever, where it's like people talking about bathroom humor kind of stuff. I feel like looking at that always makes me feel like, aw, they were just like us. And I feel like we think of ourselves as like this unique, special thing where we're dealing with bad mental health or whatever. But yeah, I guess it probably was this universal experience and people in the 1970s probably were feeling the same way. I think that's like, kind of cool.

[Alexis Redding]

I mean, there's something definitely validating about it.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

So it's nice to hear that it

[Alexis Redding]

really doesn't matter what time.

[Adam Mastroianni]

You're probably gonna go through the same

[Alexis Redding]

sorts of questions, insecurities and whatnot. I think we put such a false barrier between us and current students with the kids these days narrative, because naturally, what do they conclude from that? The grownups in my life aren't gonna listen. They don't respect me, they don't understand what I'm going through. And if we can't, you know, just take some of the bricks out of that wall and build that connection, it's. It's incredibly meaningful to sort of see that generational similarity and to lead with a sense of empathy of I was there too. And if we can tap back into that and we can, we can have a much more humane, grounded conversation with young people that is a lot less kids these days and a lot more, I know what you're feeling. I experienced it too. Now that I've sort of tapped back in, I can relate differently.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But there was a second group that Alexis realized might benefit from hearing the details of these old interviews. The 1970s participants themselves. With permission from the university, Alexis was able to track down 20 of the original participants. And her question for them was, do you remember how tough it was to be in college? And then she offered them the chance to hear the recording of their original interviews. How did the 70 year old participants react to hearing the struggles of their 19 year old selves more than 50 years later?

[Alexis Redding]

They would tell us like, I remembered the broad strokes, I remembered generally what was happening, but I didn't remember how it felt.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

These former students had succumbed to the same cognitive biases that psychologist Adam Mastroianni had described earlier. They heard the same negative stuff that we all do about kids today in the news at the same time, their memories of their own college days slowly got muddled by the fading affect bias. They simply didn't remember how bad things often felt as a college student. All those moments of loneliness and job worries and academic stress were clear as day in the recordings. But the participants couldn't remember just how bad those moments felt at the time.

[Alexis Redding]

And that, to me, was so, so interesting. Indeed. What they started to say is that they wish they'd heard the recording sooner, so that when they were raising their kids or teaching their students or talking to their grandkids, they could have related better.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

But there's still one archaeological mystery from Alexis's adventures that we haven't solved yet. Dr. Perry spent 10 years painstakingly collecting hundreds of interviews with students from the 1970s on those reel to reel tapes. Why had he decided to replicate his original study 20 years later with a new group of students? And why did he choose not to publish those findings? How did all his data end up in unmarked boxes on some random attic bookshelf? The answer to this mystery was buried inside that wet, rusty file cabinet that Alexis described smashing into earlier. Sitting at the bottom was a sheet of notebook paper covered in scribbles of what seemed to be the minutes of a random research meeting. Only later would Alexis discover that the notes from this particular meeting were important. They were. From the conversation in which Perry's team made their fateful decision to abandon the new study, Alexis finally had her solution not only to why the study had begun, but also why it was shelved.

[Alexis Redding]

There was a researcher who said in these like, poignant words that they couldn't believe, that they had to accept the null hypothesis that there was no difference between generations. The study was replicated because they wanted to see what was different about kids these days, that they had done their work in the 50s and 60s, and by the 70s, with everything that had changed in society, they had decided kids these days were so different they had to do the study again.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Perry's team had exactly the same hypothesis about their contemporary students that so many of us have about the kids today. Those adult researchers who grew UP in the 1950s looked at the college students of the 1970s walking around with their weird bell bottoms and speaking so anxiously about the Vietnam War and post college job prospects. And they asked themselves, what the heck is up with kids today? There's got to be something that's so different about them.

[Alexis Redding]

And the researchers in 1979 felt like they had failed after 10 years and literally thousands of hours worth of work. And that was why the study was sent off to cold storage because they hadn't been able to prove generational difference. And here we were looking back to 1975 saying exactly the same thing. There's no difference.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

That's a nice way to sum up this week's Happiness Hot take There's no difference. Gen Z College students today are going through the same sorts of struggles as college students face in their parents parents generation. And again, I want to be super clear here. I'm not saying that there aren't college students today who are facing real mental health struggles. Sadly, there are far too many. And surveys show that the rate of those clinical level mental health struggles have indeed gone up over time and over generations. But we also have to remind ourselves to be a little skeptical whenever we start thinking that the kids today are so much, much worse than how kids used to be. Our lying minds are prone to seeing an illusory decline whenever we think about how things have changed over time. Whether that's what we believe about people's kindness or the kids mental health, or the crappiness of music in the latest top 10 chart. So the next time you hear someone say something disparaging about the kids today, I hope you will ever so gently hit them with the hottest of happiness hot takes. The kids today are actually alright, or at least just as alright as the kids have ever been. And be sure to tell them that you heard that happiness Hot take here on the Happiness lab with me, Dr. Laurie Santos.

[Adam Mastroianni]

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Hi, it's Karen and Georgia from My Favorite Murder. We cruised around LA in the Hyundai Ionic 5 and dove into the fascinating life of actress and inventor Hedy Lamar.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Want the full story? Take a listen.

[Alexis Redding]

She starts dating Howard Hughes, and in fact, she helps him design a faster plane. So she finds the fastest bird and the fastest fish and sketches out a drawing of what the two would look like as a plane. And that becomes the plane that we know today. And he calls her a genius. Check out our new episode spotlighting groundbreaking innovators like Hedy and Lamarr and Billie Jean King.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

Presented by the Hyundai Ioniq 5.

[Alexis Redding]

Goodbye.

[Dr. Laurie Santos]

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