'The Hidden Power,' Host Dr Susan Koruthu
Everyone loves to talk about love, but no one likes to talk about hatred.
Love is a word that is one of the most spoken words in the world. Everyone wants love and no one wants hatred, but the reality is without understanding hatred, you cannot understand love.
To know love, you should know hatred. There are many shades for love, but hate has only one shade. Love has many purposes, but hatred has only one purpose. Love has many dimensions and hatred also has many dimensions, but it doesn't get manifested easily. Love is socially accepted; hatred is not. Love is always respected; hatred is not. Love is welcomed; hatred is not. Many books are written on love, but I have not heard any book written on hatred. Love can lead to hatred but hatred turning in to love is not easy.
Once you love a person, there is a possibility to hate that person easily, but if you hate a person, you find it difficult to love that person. Hate and love are two different emotions, but then why love has given the hype.
If anything is given the hype, people tend to fake it. It is the same with sins; you hype too much about sins and people tend to fake a sinless life. You make hype about doing only the right things and never talk about the wrong people tend to fake right behaviour.
You can see much fake love around you but no fake hatred. In that case, hatred is pure than love. Pure love is a rare phenomenon. But pure hatred is not.
The best way to make a balance is not to give any hype to any particular emotions. If people were allowed to talk about hatred and learned skills to manage or express hatred in the right manner, they would not have faked their love covering hatred. There would not have been cheatings and manipulations this much.
As humans, we all experience different emotions and we must understand and accept the nature and the affect of these emotions in our lives. Learn the skills to manage and express them right. Then you will never require faking to anyone or anywhere.
Dr Susan Koruthu is a multifaceted life psychologist and mind wellness coach, and author who helps build healthy and successful lives. Through her 'The Hidden Power' podcasts, she gives you insights into various vital areas of life and creates a magnificent life of your choice.
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Episode 43 – Love is a hype word and Hate is a hate word