
In this episode of The Home Service Expert podcast, host Tommy Mello interviews Leo Pareja, CEO of eXp Realty, discussing his journey in real estate, the impact of technology and AI on the industry, and the importance of branding and visibility in...
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Leo Pareja
When a lead converts through ChatGPT, it closes at like 600 times better than Google. Welcome to the Home Service Expert, where.
Tommy Mello
Each week Tommy chats with world class.
Leo Pareja
Entrepreneurs and experts in various fields like marketing, sales, hiring and leadership to find out what's really behind their success in business. Now, your host, the home service millionaire, Tommy Mello.
Tommy Mello
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Leo Pareja
Thanks for having me, Tommy. I'm excited and like you said, this, this was a happy coincidence.
Tommy Mello
I really appreciate you being here, brother. You want to just tell us? I always like to start with a story about how you made it and what you're. Where you're at today and what you're interested in. The future.
Leo Pareja
Sure. So I'm. I'm born and raised into real estate. Even though I didn't come from a real estate family, most, most people enter the residential real estate space as a second or third career, I, I feel lucky enough that I fell into it at 19 years old while I was in college, I got my license and sold. My first transaction was to myself at 20 years old. I bought a property with an FHA loan. My dad was my co signer. I used my commission as my own down payment and rented out three rooms and house hacked before it was a thing. And then that summer I ended up selling my fraternity brothers and any sorority girl who take my call 11 homes during my summer vacation and made $60,000. And as they say that that was, that was that tipping point in my brain where I said this is what I'm going to do with the rest of my life. I then went on to have a pretty awesome couple of years, thought I was special and thought I was, you know, God's gift to real estate and realized I had a license during the greatest bubble in the history of the world. Got my ass handed to me, lost everything. And the financial crisis turned out to be one of those very important educational processes of my life because that's where I went from being a solopreneur, a self employed person to a business owner. And I scaled and I learned how to win government contracts and do RFPs and became one of the top agents in the world. Then I went on to do a lending fund and then I did a tech fund where I ended up raising close to $50 million of venture and private equity and scaled that business to be 80% market share in the United States from a different distribution standpoint to real estate agents. And after I exited those businesses, I got a cold call from the founder of exp and this is my first job in my 40s that I've ever had and I lead a publicly traded company and we're, we're about 4 billion in revenue, about a $2 billion market cap company, but NASDAQ, you know, S&P 600.
Tommy Mello
Oh, that's great. Where's the real estate market? What are you excited about?
Leo Pareja
I like, I've been a really big advocate for transparency. I think if you have a consumer first strategy and again this is agnostic of industry.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
You know, I think if you do what's absolutely best for the consumer, in the end you win. And that's been my philosophy whether I've been in real estate, tech or finance.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
I think the goal of capitalism is to remove as much friction as possible so they pick your product and service over everything else.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
I think human beings go for the path of least resistance.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Whether, you know, it's, it's my Apple watch and my Apple phone and my Apple wallet and my AirPods that are in my pocket. It's like four pieces of technology. And it's not that I'm obsessed with what Steve Jobs built as a human being versus the frictionless ecosystem he designed. And Right. Think about your favorite products and services. That's like the reason Jeff Bezos is one of the richest men in the world is because he made it painless for us to get what we want when we want it, as soon as possible with the least amount of friction. So real estate is one of the most frictionful experiences American consumer makes. It is not simple, it is not painless. There's a ton of complexity from title and mortgage and all the other things. So I don't, you know, I believe that consumers will still over index on having an expert advisor help them through a super expensive, highly infrequent, highly emotional thing that they only do on average three times in their whole life.
Guest or Panelist
Wow.
Leo Pareja
But where, where I think of the future right now, I think AI is going to fundamentally change everything. And that's not just hyperbole. I, I actually founded and scaled a tech company, so I'm, I'm, I'm, I'm more technical than the average CEO. That's not, that's not a, an engineer. But where I think everything's about to shift is the gatekeeping of technology is not what it used to be. So once upon a time, when I founded a tech company, I relied solely on engineers to build everything. Versus, with the advent of large language models where you can vibe code, even if it's just like the first wireframe and the layout and I can verbalize with context what I want it to look like and then give it to an engineer. That's a game changer. The speed at which we can do stuff. And I believe that in the next three to five years, most B2B SaaS products will no longer have the UI experience that we're used to.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Most B2B SaaS products are an interface that sits on top of a data layer. And I think what it's going to look like is more like that little talking bubble where you either type into it what you want to know. Like, tell me how many garage doors we have in inventory.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
You don't actually now need to go to a display that has these predetermined visuals like you like how many customers did inbound calls did we get? You know, who have we not talked to in a while. Like what supplier? Like pick your industry and pick your KPIs and you'll be able to contextually talk to it. And so I, I spend, you know, I speak at conferences often and most as of late. I feel like I have anxiety, I can't go fast enough. I have anxiety that everything is moving at a speed that I haven't felt before.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
I'm 43 and I've experienced two gigantic tech jumps in my professional career. One was high speed Internet.
Guest or Panelist
Yep.
Leo Pareja
And again, I grew up in the real estate business but prior to high speed Internet I actually had to drive into the office physically to look up listings.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
Like Zillow didn't exist.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
It was like this gatekeeping of information. I had to physically drive somewhere and then print stuff out and give it to you if you wanted to buy a house. And high speed Internet democratized that. And then the, the next giant step that changed everything in my industry was mobile.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
I went from having to print maps on MapQuest, like that's how old I am.
Guest or Panelist
Oh yeah, yeah.
Leo Pareja
And, and we'd drive around with those like multi page books that, I remember those days. And so that what both of those technologies did was actually compress time.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So if it, it, it used to take me, you know, three to five days to schedule appointments and you know, get information to people back and forth fact stuff, I can do it in minutes now.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
And then mobile, you know, made it even faster because I didn't have to go back to the office to look stuff up. I could just do it on my phone. I could schedule an appointment, I could get a, instructions on how to show property from my car. And so if something used to take days or weeks, I could now do it in minutes or hours. That's, that's the gigantic leap forward that I'm seeing with AI and I, and I. Something I'm hyper aware of is everything's overhyped in the short term and everything's underhyped in the long term.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So like I think everyone's, it's, it's exhausting to hear AI as much as we do, but I think over the next five or ten years it'll be more impactful than we ever dreamt. And so it's this balance of staying in curiosity and testing and trying and not getting kind of lost in the hype.
Tommy Mello
You know, we spent millions and millions of dollars building probably one of the more advanced data lakes with power of AI and pulling in from APIs. And I just went through 20 hours of advanced AI training and learned a lot more. Like, I use ChatGPT 80 times a day. It knows me. I do complex IRR all this stuff. But now I'm starting to give it way more complex things. And you've heard of NA N8N. And we're going in and I'm hiring the top minds. I can't pay $100 million to get one guy, but I'm paying the top minds that I could get. Because speed is everything. Speed of implementation, who's going to go first, who's going to fail faster. And my, my. We're building ChatGPT Enterprise over the top of all of it. And that's, you know, I know a lot of private equity. I know a lot of these guys doing venture capital, they're looking at this stuff, but lawyers are going to be out of work. That I'm so glad. 20 years ago I fell into garage doors. I didn't know that it was going to be because everyone is going be a developer, go into dentistry, da da, da, da. And I'm like, man, I really like what I do. But now we're essential. I mean, during COVID we were essential. Now everybody I know that's a developer, most of my real estate buddies, a lot of the people even doing SaaS products are like, we want to go into HF, we want to go into roofing, we want to do this. Because I don't think even though Tesla is going to have the robots next year, they're not going to be doing skilled labor anytime soon. But that's what's scary to me. And I'm not considered the smartest guy in the room per se, but when I just heard Elon might be doing a home service fund, those aren't the type of guys I'm used to going against. So I gotta move quick, quick, quick. The one thing I found in our industry that you'll really appreciate is private equity guys can never build this company. They, they don't know. They kind of look down upon blue collar people. They don't know how to keep the culture.
Leo Pareja
I would argue that private equity looks down on operators because they're not. And so they, they still. Private equity doesn't exist with the practitioner who's an operator.
Tommy Mello
And that's you'll want. I was at this panel and there's five of the top PE guys in the world and they said, what we've learned is you got to figure out how to keep the founder in the business and still excited. And I think that they think well let you can't cut your way to higher profit margins and ebitda. And I think that that's what they just said hey, how hard could it be replacing garage doors and H vac units and mowing lawns? You know we could hire anybody out the street and they're not, if they're not on time, fire them. And it's like no, there's a lot more to this. Some of our people that didn't have a mom growing up, you know, some of them didn't pass 10th grade but they're really good, faithful, like hardworking, loyal people. But you're right, I'm very nervous. I'm skeptically I guess I'm cautiously optimistic. I was at the founder of Service 10 he goes I'm so sad because my kids won't have a purpose like I do to build something from nothing. Like what do you think's going to happen? I mean AGI, when is this happening? Nobody knows what's your speculative and what happens to society and wanting to grow yourself?
Leo Pareja
That's a very you know, open ended question that no one actually knows the answer to. So the one thing that I do know and again I'm an optimist and I think we have to be to be entrepreneurs. Like it's not a Choice, it's a DNA thing. So one is I would go back over 2000, 5000 years of recorded human history and you know the printing press fundamentally changed society and knowledge was gatekept by scholars and the church and when the first books were printed it, it allowed for literacy at scale, right. And then the, you know, the railroad and the, the, the engine, right. There's been these dramatic jumps in productivity. If you actually read headlines from you know the eras of when this happened it was the Carnegie, it was the end of the world as we knew it because these jobs were being eliminated. So one is, I think we're a tribal species and what that means is we crave human interaction. So I, I think as, as certain repetitive jobs go away and when you look at any advancement in technology it's normally that it's some logical process. So I think over time we will over index on human experience. And I was recently about six months ago at an event with a bunch of private equity and some of the biggest direct to consumer brands in the world. It was super interesting because the capital allocators were investing in, in real life events from sports teams to arenas to non replaceable human experiences and then the direct to consumer brands were actually Investing in similar opportunities that had direct to consumer live events. Meaning that it doesn't.
Tommy Mello
People are going to want to gather.
Leo Pareja
People well and do stuff that machines just won't be able to do, like live venues, live music, live performances, what.
Tommy Mello
You'Re having this week.
Leo Pareja
Exactly, exactly. And, and you know, let's talk about the last couple of hype cycles you and I have been a part of. I live in Miami. That's the epicenter of the crypto hype.
Guest or Panelist
Oh yeah.
Leo Pareja
And five sailor five, six years ago I couldn't go to anything in Miami and have some tech crypto. Bro, tell me about how everything was going on. Chain NFTs were going to replace all smart contracts. And, and like again, I live in the epicenter of it. And like six years ago I was like, oh, this is happening definitively. Someone would come up to me and be say title insurance and settlements won't exist because everything's gonna be a smart contract. And again, kind of like you just said, just fire them. I'm like, do you realize that titles kept across 3,500 disparate municipalities in this country with different rules and states and do you know that that's all like government regulated and like there is no magic button wand, anything. And so when, when, when I hear, you know, we won't have a purpose like a. I don't see it from a technology standpoint and to like.
Tommy Mello
We.
Leo Pareja
Design the stuff and we built it and I think we'll still crave certain parts of the human experience. So I have a habit of not worrying about stuff I can't control.
Tommy Mello
Well, that's smart. I mean it is. It's tough. I mean when you think about AGI, when you think about this code is smarter than all humans combined. And people think it's 10 years. Some people think it won't happen in our lifetime. But I still feel like it's the best opportunity I've ever had. 10,000 baby boomers a day retiring. 12% of them own a business. Most of them don't have a next of kin. There's so much opportunity. But it is to me is like I enjoy myself. I go on vacations, I do fun stuff with my fiance. Never been married, no kids, so haven't started that chapter yet. But it's a race and it's speed and I'm out learning all the time. That's why I love this podcast because I'm learning so much from you. Have you see all that show about Uber?
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Tommy Mello
Is they had to cheat. What do they call it the gray, gray zone or whatever where they used to get around regulations in Portland, some other areas. Like you got to break glass to get these things through. But somebody's always going to figure it out. I was watching this investment panel, some of the smartest people in the world on AI they said I wouldn't invest in what's hot today. You're not probably going to rebuild ChatGPT, but there's something next coming. And that's what venture capitalists do. They take a 20 shots and hopefully one of them score. And those are.
Leo Pareja
Well the way I verbalize it to someone this morning when we were talking about AI, I said listen, we're playing with Napster and MySpace. I don't believe Instagram and YouTube have shown up yet. And so what I'm encouraging everybody is to stay in curiosity, try taste, right?
Tommy Mello
Like I like that, I like that analogy.
Leo Pareja
Like look, MySpace was first and Facebook improved upon two or three things. And like, you know, my kids and folks that are Gen Z have no idea what I'm talking about when I say Napster, MySpace or LimeWire. And let's, let's just go down to that analogy. LimeWire, Napster failed because they didn't understand copyrights, right? It was simple stuff like and then YouTube basically write a distribution of, of content came up about and said he we're going to only do it with unique stuff that you give us the rights to. And then boom. But LimeWire and Napster were first before YouTube and then you know, Facebook and Instagram. MySpace was first. So Tom, go, go back to the end of the 1800s with the gilded Age in the United states, we had 118 railroads within like 30, 40 years we had three, right? So there's, there's this like crazy boom in opportunity, right? I like to say that capitalism, I said about the removing friction. But the goal to create opportunities or a lead funnel in any business is to have an outsized return on effort or dollars, right? Meaning if I spend a dollar and I can make $5, whatever a funnel is, whatever customer acquisition channel you go after, you do it for as long as possible. And to quote Gary Vaynerchuk, marketers ruin everything, right? Because if you do it very successfully, every other competitor goes, well, Tommy's crushing it with this one strategy. And you will be able that for 3, 6, 12, 18, 24 months and then everybody else will catch up or, or the platform will monetize it differently, right? Like you can sell data.
Tommy Mello
That's what I think of Pizza Hut 20 years ago. Said they make most their money off of data.
Leo Pareja
So I, I heard this, this stat yesterday that when a lead converts through Chat GPT, it closes at like 600 times better Google than Google. And the reason, intuitively, people trust it more. Intuitively, we trust it more because as of right now, they haven't put sponsored ads right.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
But they will. I promise you they will. Why wouldn't they? They haven't figured out how to make money yet. So when, when you look at almost every product, go to market, you know, land and expand, get as much reach as you can, and then you try to figure out the optimization for monetization. But I'll give you a sample size of one question. In your sphere of influence, Facebook and LinkedIn, probably the two most prolific ones. For this example, have you noticed in the last six months, friends that, you know, couldn't string a sentence together are now Shakespeare?
Tommy Mello
I have noticed that.
Leo Pareja
And instant, like, intuitively, right? Like you can, you can, you can see the person's name and then all of a sudden you read the first two sentences. You, you maybe see the EM dash or you see the emojis and.
Tommy Mello
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Leo Pareja
How quickly do you go. You just skip. Like, you don't actually read it.
Tommy Mello
Well, the way you do that is right. You, you teach ChatGPT how to write like you.
Leo Pareja
No, no, no, but hold on, hold on. I'm going somewhere with that.
Tommy Mello
Okay?
Leo Pareja
Immediately you invalidate the robotness. You're right, exactly. So right now, the reason leads convert so much higher from a ChatGPT response is because we still trust it. Like, we will build a reaction. So 1999 email open rates was ridiculous. It was like 20, 30, 40, 50% on a. We loved email so much. Tom Hanks made a movie about it.
Tommy Mello
Yeah, no, 100%.
Leo Pareja
And do you remember how excited you were when you got a phone call?
Tommy Mello
Oh, man.
Leo Pareja
Like in 2002 or, or even the doorbell rang. The doorbell. Text message email. Like, you know, we're over bombarded right now. We're, we're, we're like elder millennials.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah, right.
Leo Pareja
Like they said, we were the first generation not to see the sidebars in a browser.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Because to the left and top were the ads in Google.
Guest or Panelist
Right?
Leo Pareja
So this is a moment in time. Nothing lasts forever. No, you know, funnel conversion metrics. Because what happens is if somebody hacks it and figures out how to get a 5 to 1 return, that's called arbitrage. Everybody runs towards it. Either the platform monetizes at a better clip, right? Facebook ads, YouTube ads, Instagram ads, or everybody does it. And you'd get down to like a 1 to 2 return, a 1.5 return and then that's different. Diminished insurance kick in?
Tommy Mello
Well, yeah, you know, in the garage door industry, you know, I studied 2017, I decided I'm going to go study H Vac because it was a $250 billion market cap. Garage doors was a 10 at the time. And I said who has, who's got all the private jets that I know? They're all H vac guys. So I went to every hundred million dollar shop in the country. I learned what financing meant, I learned service agreements. I really studied arbitrage and ebitda. Ebitda, ebitda. And that's. So we built in the same framework, but now we're building all these tools like AI dispatch. Like now it could do regression testing, it could actually dispatch for dollars, put Tom Brady in the super bowl at the right time. It could understand the best person to run that job. Like if you're an elderly person that was a vet and we can match that up, we know we're going to be more successful. It's really not, not bad things to do. This isn't like black hat, wrong things to do. And I'm trying to stay above board with everything we do. And it's a race, I think. And, and you're right. A lot of people try to rip off and duplicate, but it's very hard to. I always say we're a technology company that does garage doors. The problem I have with most of my vendors is it's very hard if you think about a garage door, how many different variations, permutations and just you can get different sizes, different insulation, different styles, different window sections, different radius track. So a lot of it's made on demand and you can't. There's no small machine that like to make your gutters. Like these are massive. 25, 30 each machines, a $30 million machine. It's got to be warehouse. Somebody might come up with something to keep it a little bit closer like Amazon did. But that's why I like this industry because the combinations and everything else. So it's like how do you get the product quicker, better, faster for your clients? These are all the things I'm thinking about. This is like right up my alley.
Leo Pareja
I've always loved industries that have a higher barrier of entry or legal complexity. A higher barrier of entry, a high barrier of entry.
Tommy Mello
That's the problem is anybody could start a garage door company off the streets.
Leo Pareja
There's not much licensing, but maybe for the installers, right, versus the manufacturers, versus how much you can vertically integrate.
Tommy Mello
There's not a lot of great manufacturers that can compete. What I like, what we're trying to build right now is systems to talk to their systems. I want to know what's on hand. Did you have a mess up order? Like then I could call my client, be honest with them and say this was a order that messed up with the manufacturer. I could get this in the ballpark. You were thinking, because they're selling it to me for pennies on the dollar and those are like the advanced thinking. I love this stuff. Have you ever heard of a guy named Greg Hag? 72. Sold.
Guest or Panelist
Yes.
Tommy Mello
So Greg lives down the street in Paradise Valley. Known pretty well. He's starting a, he's all over the tv. Only here I think he used to be mostly.
Leo Pareja
Yeah.
Tommy Mello
But he's like, you know Tommy, he's like, the way I'm running this is, I'm not going to take any fees to sell a house. He goes, I own the title companies. Most of the time they don't have to use my title companies. I also now own, you know, the pest control companies. When you move in, I got access to the pool company. He's like, I'm playing the long game. But he goes, I'm making it a lot easier. You know, sometimes they'll use my lender. And so, and he's like, even if they don't, he goes, eventually someone's going to do it. What are your thoughts on that?
Leo Pareja
Yeah, no, I believe in capitalism, if you build a better mousetrap, good for you.
Guest or Panelist
You, right.
Leo Pareja
I, I, I think especially like specific to our industry, we actually had multiple forms of doing things right. There's companies that do it for a flat fee, there's companies that do per for percentage. There's companies that will do it a la carte fee. It's pretty straightforward in business. And, and this applies to your business. If you are too expensive, you go out of business, right. If you do it for too cheap and don't have that magical I word that neither one of us can pronounce. Well, yeah, you go out of business, right? And, and there is a happy medium between the product and service. You're willing to render a consumer for the product and service they're willing to accept, right? So both Walmart and Whole Foods will sell you a head of lettuce or blueberries or paper. And you know, at Whole Foods it's going to be like organic and you know, disintegrate when you're trying to wipe your hands. Versus Bounty and Walmart. And both are phenomenally multi billion dollar businesses.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
They serve a different consumer sector. It's a different experience level.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Front of the bus or a PJ versus Spirit and Frontier.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Both get you to where you're going. They service a different customer. And I think the argument of like I'm playing the long game, I'm like for a certain segment of the market and this is the one thing I love and it's, it's, it's very an American ethos.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So Canada, the top four banks in Canada service 80% of the purchase mortgage business in Canada. Wow. Four banks, 80% of the market. Number one in the US is Rocket.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
We all know who Rocket is.
Tommy Mello
Yeah, My cousin works there.
Leo Pareja
They have 8.6% market.
Tommy Mello
Are they out of Detroit?
Leo Pareja
Out of Detroit, yeah. That's where I'm from by the way. Remind me if you want a tour of their campus. It's, it's Disneyland for entrepreneurs. It's one of the coolest, beautiful physical campuses.
Tommy Mello
I haven't been there, but she gives me the. Well, I can't even say but.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah, yeah.
Leo Pareja
Well I remind you, but let's us, right. 88.6% is number one in market share.
Tommy Mello
Yes.
Leo Pareja
We have thousands of lenders and then it goes down from there.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So no real estate company, no garage door company has 100% market share.
Tommy Mello
No. Would be a monopoly.
Leo Pareja
Well, forget that. We have the Sherman Act. But by the way, which is 70%.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Tommy Mello
Is that's why you need a strong competitor. That's why Bill or Steve Jobs gave Bill or Bill Gates gave Steve Jobs the money.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And, and when. I don't know if you know the, the story of Japanese cars in the US but like when Honda was growing so fast, they actually launched Acura as a sub brand to create a competitor. So it's, it's, it's part of our American ethos as a, as a culture. And so I don't, I don't like.
Guest or Panelist
Good.
Leo Pareja
Let him create a differentiated product. And you know, again, one of the things that we do as a company is I look at myself as a platform. So like I want to be the iOS in the app Store.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And let my agents build their own apps.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Versus I'm not trying to build a super app. And so 72 sold has their own mousetrap and they'll capture some market and so will other agents, you know, with ranging business models.
Tommy Mello
You know, I always talk about last week. I was in front of my own group, 1500 people, and I said, listen, McDonald's is right across the street from our office. You go there, feed a family of four for 40 bucks. But if you go to state 44, you got to wait a week to get in there, and it's going to be very, very, very expensive. And you cancel, you still pay the down payment. I'd rather be. But, man, if you go in there, they greet you by your name, they sit down, a manager stops by, you're halfway done with your martini, they reshake it. It's an experience. So how important is the brand?
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
And so brand especially. I just listened to something Gary Interchuck. That's the second time I'll quote him today, where it resonated and hit very personally with me. He said, when you talk to skilled salespeople, they kind of disregard brand and marketing because they're really good at closing.
Guest or Panelist
Right?
Leo Pareja
So it's like, can I generate a lead, convert it down the funnel, and turn it into business? Which again, applies to everybody versus companies who very successful have leaned into marketing and brand. And then it's more of a pull attraction versus hunting and gathering.
Tommy Mello
Right.
Leo Pareja
And so, you know, the answer is both. But it's, you know, it's that branding experience that differentiates. Like, you have this little thing on here that just sold for $1 billion to Coca Cola.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
And it was. It was a brand play that appealed to a specific consum. Demographic that made them infinitely more valuable than other commoditized products. Right. So I think a brand differentiates a commodity in a, you know, typically for an ex. For. For. To make it a premium product.
Tommy Mello
Have you ever heard of the wizard of ads?
Leo Pareja
No.
Tommy Mello
His name's Roy Williams. He was the first guy to build the ad for Rolex. And it sounded something like, imagine yourself. And he's got, you know, you're going to the mission impossible. You've got a quest. You are going up this impossible goal set. And he goes through it, and he's done it for me live. And he knows it by heart. And he goes, you've reached the pinnacle, you've accomplished. Mount Everest, Rolex. You deserve a role. And it's just like that whole brand. So he did every major jewelry store. He's doing a little bit of home service. But what I found is people want to do business with me. Even though we've got a thousand people, my co workers that we work with is they want to know that I'm going to back it up. They want to know that I'm going to make you happy. They want to know that the story, instead of being transactional, like we could do it for less or we're slashing all prices or you know, it's, these are our values. And now I've realized more than ever I need to be up front and center. I do all the radio, tv, billboard, and it's not a, it's not a, a vanity thing. It's just I wanted to get to, I'm not going away anytime soon. No one could quit and say, hey, I'm taking away all of my clients that, that I helped build with you. So do you think you need to be as a CEO more doing Instagram and LinkedIn, post and you know, call it TikTok X whatever. What is your theory on that?
Leo Pareja
Yeah. Yes, 100%.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So, and you know, I, I joke that I blame Elon and Zuck for this.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Because I felt that before that I, I couldn't name too many publicly charged, publicly traded CEOs.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
But we've, we've moved our attention.
Guest or Panelist
Right?
Leo Pareja
And TV killed the radio star.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And then Google did it to TV ads and social is doing it to every other form of paid consumer push media versus consumption media. And the thing that I think is extremely exciting is we are switching from a social graph to an interest graph across every one of those platforms. So when social started exploding 10 years ago, and I, you know, I, I was told very much to my face I needed to do that and I ignored it. Yeah, but the game was create a following and then sell to that audience the algorithms. And by the way, the reason the algorithms have been able to move to a social, an interest graph versus a social graph is because the AI inside of the algorithms is getting much, much better at pairing people.
Guest or Panelist
Right?
Leo Pareja
But you can open up a brand new Instagram or TikTok account today, which by the way, this didn't work 18 months ago, where you hit the right product market, fit on message and you go viral. And so what to answer your question is where is the attention that is the most basic construct of lead funnels and conversion in commerce. And I don't care what industry we're in or what century we're in.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
You need, like 200 years ago you needed to be in the town square. Yeah. Because there was, there was no direct mail. So if you weren't at the right block, no one saw you.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And once upon a time it was the billboard on the highway. Then the, the right Instagram ad, the audience and again I'm in the real estate industry and our, my goal is to partner and attract the best agents in, you know, the world because we operate in 27 countries. So what better ROI as part of my time to speak to the audience I'm talking to.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So you know, I've been very focused on social and yesterday in front of the whole group, somebody said take out your phone and see, you know, what is the views on your content over the last 30 days. And it's. It was at 394,000.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And at a minimum we post once a day from my Instagram account. We post the Same content on LinkedIn, Facebook, X threads and we do a lot of, I say yes to a lot of this because then we repurpose this same content into shorts that drive to another, you know, cta. But think about that. If I open up my Instagram right now, it says in the last 30 days there's been 394,000 views on my content. What would you and I pay for that?
Guest or Panelist
Oh yeah, right.
Tommy Mello
Like that's organic.
Leo Pareja
That is and it's hyper targeted. It's to my sphere of influence because the people that like it non followers. It's because the algorithm is showing them or it's being shared quite a bit. And so how much longer will you know the platforms let me get away with that level of free viewership? I actually don't know.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Because meta's got a pretty good track record of putting some paywalls behind it. But like why wouldn't I?
Tommy Mello
Well, you take advantage while you have it. But I know a guy that's like smartest guy in the room, he's a developer, he controls 800 million queries through Google. Like he figured out kind of knows Google's algorithm better than them. And he goes, Tommy, can you imagine an organic. You're going against every major programmer in the world because their job is to get you to pay something. That's how the, that's how the platform makes money. So you could make it work, but it's not long lived. Usually like that's what's so hard about building a budget is we're so good. It used to matter a domain authority.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Tommy Mello
And now it's crazy. But things are changing and so we gotta be willing to learn.
Leo Pareja
And I think it depends as to. You didn't ask me the question of like what is the goal? What is the goal in my role? Because you asked me specifically as a CEO, it's Visibility.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And the speaker we had at our event yesterday said visibility trumps ability in today's attention world.
Tommy Mello
What was the speaker?
Leo Pareja
His name is Jared James. He's a good friend of mine.
Tommy Mello
That's awesome.
Leo Pareja
Visibility Trump's ability.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And I'll ask you this, is there a chance that there is a better technical garage door installer in a local market than you?
Guest or Panelist
Oh, yeah, yeah.
Leo Pareja
But do they know he exists?
Tommy Mello
No.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So visibility Trump's ability 100% of the time.
Tommy Mello
Well, a lot of companies that spend there's better products in Silicon Valley than the network effect, but I mean, somebody could come up with a better Facebook, but they got the network effect. But you know, the fact is no one knows who they are. Marketing is like essential. If I had to pick one skill that trumps everything, sales and marketing.
Leo Pareja
Does that Rolex do anything better than this $600 Apple Watch?
Tommy Mello
No.
Leo Pareja
Tells time. This actually tells me text messages and emails in my heart rate.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Function. This actually does more. But if I had a Philip Petik, you know, Right. Like that, that tells society something about me. And that's what you're paying for. Brand and status.
Tommy Mello
I will say that those watches, amazingly not the last two years, but they go up in value too. So they kind of hold their value. I bought these two amethyst rocks, massive amethyst. And my cousin's a geologist. He sourced them through Uruguay. And I said, how long? He goes, it'll take me a year to get these. I said, all right, I think I paid 70,000 for both of them. He said I could sell them each for a hundred. And he goes, they're only going to go up. Those aren't like rocks you find very often. So everything I look at is like, is it going to. I have some fun stuff, but, but very rarely. I, I, we, I showed Scott the I got kit from Knight Rider. There's not a whole lot of those out there. It, it's kind of a collector's piece. So I hope it goes up in value. That's a whole different topic. But where do you spend your money? I mean, literally, like you've probably got enough money where you don't need to work.
Leo Pareja
So the fun part about being a human is like there's no rule book or rule set that has to happen.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And I'm a, I'm a husband and a father and my kids are 10 and 8. And the, one of the thoughts that I've been really hyper aware of right now is that there's seasons to life yeah, right. In my 20s, all I cared about was awards. Like, I wanted to be the number one agent on the planet, right. And I actually achieved it by the time I was 28 at the largest company in the world. I wanted, you know, 30 under 30. I wanted number one in the world on this list and number. And like, I was actually very highly driven by that. And the craziest thing is I actually, I, I. The dog caught the car. Like, I actually did it. And it was the most empty and meaningless feeling of my entire life because I didn't feel any different. My EBITDA was not higher.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
It was actually probably lower than other years where I was optimizing for net. Net profit. And so I feel very lucky that I, I got my ass handed to me in my 20s, right. I lost everything and rebuilt it before I had kids. And what it put me is in these really interesting relationships and rooms at a very young age. And I asked every single older man or woman who had made hundreds of millions of dollars what they would do different. And they were all super clear, like, it didn't even take two seconds that it was, don't screw up time with your family and your loved ones. You can't get it back. And so the other thing they told me is there is an indifference point past a certain number. And I've had friends exit from 20 million to a billion dollars. And by the way, as long as you don't have a car, watch, or now rock habit. So, you know, we. The last two companies my wife and I exited, we already had the house. We have. We live in a very nice neighborhood in Coral Gables, Miami. You know, we. I have a Model S with everything on it. She has a Model X with everything on it. Our kids go to one of the best schools in Miami. Nothing changed. Like, past this certain indifference point.
Tommy Mello
What is that point?
Leo Pareja
The reality is, it's. It's for the lifestyle that you optimize for. So one of the things that I can tell you as an entrepreneur, I held resentment to the words lifestyle, business or SMB.
Tommy Mello
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
Because it felt not big enough. And then I went and did one where I raised a bunch of money and had big numbers involved. But the reality is, I think most of us. And again, this. I blame the culture and the glorification of the entrepreneur and the massive eggs and the massive raise. But at the end of the day, it's like, how much money do you actually need to live the life you want to experience the things you want to experience? And so I. And, And I am eternally grateful for the stuff I can't control. Meaning, like my DNA, my iq, the parents I had, like, in the United States. Exactly. And I actually lived overseas for six or six countries before I was turned 15.
Tommy Mello
Okay.
Leo Pareja
So I have a lot of context to that statement. And so, you know, I don't think we can control certain parts of the DNA. But I, like, I don't need or want for stuff. Right. Like, I don't. I don't have sports cars. I. I love spearfishing and the water, but I don't buy a boat because I've done the math and like, charting is cheaper.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
So that, that question I think is like, how do you. How do you prioritize time and effort? Like, for me, time with my 10 and 8 year old and my wife, my siblings, my parents, my cousins is actually the most valuable thing on the planet for me. And back to the DNA thing, it's probably because I'm Latino and I was bred to do that, but it's how I prioritize things. So for me, it's experience over things.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Like, we spend two to three months every summer on the road with my entire family. And I run a global company, so we spend time in the south of France and Barcelona and wherever we want all the way to, you know, the west coast and surfing in Costa Rica. And again, like, that is expensive. But I don't, you know, have a Ferrari habit.
Guest or Panelist
So.
Leo Pareja
Yeah, I think it's. And by the way, there's no right or wrong.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Leo Pareja
Like, this is like, there's no rule set here. And the one thought I go back to all the time is in two generations, no one will remember you or I've lived.
Tommy Mello
Oh, yeah.
Leo Pareja
So just really enjoy the ride.
Tommy Mello
That's really good, man. I really like that. So. But you still, you know Geno Wickman? You familiar with him?
Guest or Panelist
Yeah.
Tommy Mello
He was on a podcast recently and he said, I sold my EOS system, 87.5% of it, and he owes Tommy a massive pot of gold. I won't even go into the numbers, but I felt so empty. And a lot of people have that when they, they sell their business, they got freedom, they could do whatever they want, but they kind of lose purpose. There's a great book of man search for meaning. I talk about it in every podcast, I think, but I still want to. Like, like, like some people are like, man, I retired for a year and I just was like driving myself nuts.
Leo Pareja
Yeah. So. So a. I love his stuff. And we actually have a partnership with The OS that we, we preach in, in our, in our ecosystem, B is part of the entrepreneurial experience, is that it becomes your identity. So I've exited three times and you know, after the first one it was painful and traumatic. And then the second one, you're like, okay, now I like know what to expect. Simple things like, hey, my email is now Leo leopreja.com. it's no longer at the business.
Guest or Panelist
Right, Right.
Leo Pareja
Because that's like that email was with you for 5, 10, 15 years. Like even just little things of how you log into the bank, you have to change that email because that domain no longer belongs to you.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah. Right.
Leo Pareja
And so one is identifying who you are outside of the identity you've built as an entrepreneur. By the way, I spent about six months spearfishing. I got really good at it. I'm a rescue diver. But you know, as I was on my third spearfishing trip of that week after we sold the last business and I was contemplating buying the Spirit fishing charter, I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa. Like my brain's doing that thing where like, I think when you are a builder, yeah, you, that's your thing. Right. So look, I, I know people who sold their business and buy a ranch and become like really good at that, but then they optimize and love and play and do that. So again, most things, you, you can't know it without experiencing it.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So like that famous Jim Carrey quote is to that it's like, I wish success and money and fame on everybody so they know how empty and meaningless it is.
Guest or Panelist
Right? Right.
Leo Pareja
Like you don't know what you don't know. And there's a principle that I talk a lot about. I did a keynote about it yesterday where I said, progress over perfection, progress over destination.
Guest or Panelist
Yep.
Leo Pareja
Because like, there is a body of psychology that says that the only commonality on happiness comes from progress.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
So take, take the woodworker who can take a piece of wood and turn it into a chair. Take the steel worker who can take, you know, raw and turn it into a sword, a hammer. There's actually a documented amount of happiness in manual labor and blue collar work of taking something that's raw and turning it into a completed product. And you know, I view myself as highly creative even though my, my canvas is business and sales and conversion. Like if we can go from X to Y, I like that. And it's that iterative process that I enjoy. And so again, I, I've been pretty fortunate to do it in multiple industries and experience it. But Once you zoom out and you understand, like, demand, cta, cac, ltv, ebitda, margin, gross net, all that stuff. Like, to me, it's like colors in a palette. And I'm painting.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah, Right.
Leo Pareja
And so, like. And I say that because I have an art degree. And so I actually did paint and do sculptures in college, and then I went into the business side and enjoyed that 10 times more. So I think it's just finding out what gives you joy and passion in. In the season of life. Like, I don't miss my kids Jiu Jitsu when I'm in town. Like, I travel very little, and.
Guest or Panelist
When.
Leo Pareja
I do travel, I concentrate and try to do as much as possible. Like, fitting this in because we were in town. But what I care about in this season, over anything, is making sure I can take my son to Jiu Jitsu, my daughter to her singing class, and make them breakfast and dinner.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
We have people who help, but I choose to.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah, right.
Leo Pareja
Because I have a. And math drives everything in my brain. Like, my daughter's 10 years old. I probably have, I don't know, 700, put her to bed nights. But if you're just like, dad, leave me alone. I got it. Like, think about that. And so that's a finite resource that I can't buy more of.
Tommy Mello
I love that man. Yeah. Well, I was on the stage and I said, listen, guys, when I die on my casket, I don't want to say, best garage door guy, best entrepreneur, best leader. I wanted to say best dad. And I don't have kids yet.
Leo Pareja
Well, I would one up that and said, when I take my last breath, I want those people in the room because they care enough to be there and hold my hand.
Tommy Mello
I love that. I love this man. I want to talk just a couple quick things, then we'll get you out of here. You know, a lot of people who do you look up to a lot in the business world? And why? Because a lot of them are frustrated. They're just not happy people.
Leo Pareja
Yeah, no, I think that is a fantastic question, and I've been asked that a lot. Like, who are the two people historic and all that stuff. And honestly, the question I always go back to is my dad. First of all, we are all flawed human beings. Yeah, Right. So do not put anyone on pedestal, including me.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Like, I'd say to my people, like, oh, you're this and that. Or, like, look, at the end of the day, we're just trying to figure this out as we go along. And you shared fatherhood As a goal. And it's, by the way, it's like central to my identity, what I love to do most. And I was super clear I wanted to be a dad from the, like, since I was 6 years old. I was talking about my future wife and kids. Yeah, when you take that child home, that is the scariest moment of your life. Because you, like, there's no manual, there's no nothing. But the comforting part is 100 billion humans have done it in recorded homo sapien version of the species that we are right now. And so to me is like, look up to the folks that you can learn from, but don't put anyone on a pedestal. Like, when I look at someone I would admire, I want to look like, how are they seen as a father, husband, brother, son? That's way more interesting to me because everything else is just a skill or a tactical system, in my opinion.
Tommy Mello
You know, there's a guy you should meet. He's 80 now. 81. Robert Ciardini. I don't know if you ever heard of him. Wrote the book Influence. He's an amazing guy. Amazing dad, amazing grandpa. Is there one book that other than the Bible, the E. Myth, the Richest man of Babylon. Just going through a few here, but is there a book that's kind of out of the norm that really just changed your life?
Leo Pareja
Yeah, you have a couple. So again, real estate.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Like the one that. And by the way, the question asked differently is like, did you ever remember reading the Picture of Dorian Gray in high school or college? It was by. Oh, my God, I'm forgetting the name of the author. But it's a book about a character who reads a book and it fundamentally changes the course of his life. And for me, it was Rich Dad, Poor dad by Robbie or Kiyosaki. Right. Super basic real estate book. A lot of people in real estate said that that business changed their life because again, being millennials, like, we didn't have the glorification of entrepreneurs growing up. Like, we were basically told, go to college and get a good job and hopefully climb the ladder.
Tommy Mello
Yeah, the corporate ladder.
Leo Pareja
Yeah. But that was the first book that explained leverage of people, time and money for me. So, you know, kind of almost in that category of like, that's too easy. But I'll give you a fun Nerdy systems. One that fundamentally changed everything in my brain, which is David Allen's getting things done. And it's really like a framework of how the brain works from short term memory to long term memory storage and how to create a. For Folks who have the schedules we have where I've officially ran out of time.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
I lead an organization of 83,000 agents in 27 countries with 2,300 staff people. I will never get anything, everything done.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
And so it's the radical prioritization of do, delegate, delete.
Guest or Panelist
Yep.
Leo Pareja
And being at peace with stuff, not getting done.
Tommy Mello
I love that, man. I always say I got to delegate to elevate. I'm working right now, getting ready to start with. Oh, man. And my let. And I always used to listen to him say I could work three shifts in a day. And I just always looked at him and I always say, I'll out delegate you all day. Like, I don't want to be in control.
Guest or Panelist
Like.
Tommy Mello
And I want my people to fail fast. I mean, failure is not an option. We need to fail. We'll just fail quicker while they're still loading the gun. We've missed the target 80 times now. We're hitting bullseye every time.
Leo Pareja
But again, going back to my seasons, like, When I was 21, I did work, like, 8 in the morning to 10pm at night, and that was the right season for that. Now I. I, like, don't want to and don't care to, and that's okay.
Guest or Panelist
Yeah, right.
Leo Pareja
Could I be more productive or more successful? Sure. But, you know, I want my kids to be there at the end.
Tommy Mello
That's so cool. How do people get a hold of you if they want to reach out?
Leo Pareja
Leo, Social Instagram, my name at leopreha.
Tommy Mello
I'll let you close this out, man. I. I know we should have talked more about exp and everything, but I just kind of went with this and just wanted to know more about you, so.
Leo Pareja
No, absolutely. And. And I. And that's the beauty of this era, right? Like, once upon a time, in order to get to know people, like, we happen to be able to do it in person, but even the ability to be in each other's orbit is because of this visibility, Trump's ability. So I would tell people to stay in curiosity and taste and play.
Guest or Panelist
Right.
Leo Pareja
Whether that's AI or social, I think there's this paralysis by analysis of I have to get it right. And in this era, I think volume trumps everything. And that's probably true in every era, but it's. I'm hyper aware of it in this one.
Tommy Mello
Well, it's a pleasure to have you on. I really appreciate it. This was killer. Thank you so much.
Leo Pareja
Thank you for having me.
Guest or Panelist
All right.
Tommy Mello
Hey, there.
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Episode Title: AI and the Transformation of Business with Leo Pareja
Host: Tommy Mello
Guest: Leo Pareja, CEO of eXp Realty
Date: September 22, 2025
This episode features Tommy Mello and Leo Pareja in a candid, wide-ranging conversation on the impact of AI and technology on business, the evolution of the real estate industry, entrepreneurial mindsets, and the importance of balancing personal fulfillment with ambition. Leo shares lessons from his journey from young real estate agent to CEO of eXp Realty, offering actionable insights for home service entrepreneurs.
| Time | Topic | |----------|----------------------------------------------------------| | 02:17 | Leo’s entry into real estate and early lessons | | 05:51 | AI’s transformative power and the end of tech gatekeeping| | 07:43 | Acceleration of technological change | | 09:09 | AI: Overhyped vs. Underhyped | | 11:15 | Private equity and culture in home services | | 14:13 | Endurance of human experience beyond AI/automation | | 18:53 | ChatGPT’s conversion rates and why consumers trust it | | 24:38 | Business model innovation in real estate (Greg Haag, 72 Sold) | | 29:01 | Brand, marketing, and CEO visibility | | 35:09 | “Visibility trumps ability” and organic content reach | | 39:13 | The “indifference point” and prioritizing experience | | 44:01 | Progress as a source of happiness | | 46:10 | Legacy and being present for family | | 48:18 | Book recommendations |
Leo Pareja’s unique perspective on business, technology, and the human side of entrepreneurship provides practical wisdom for home service entrepreneurs and leaders in all industries. The episode emphasizes embracing rapid technological change by staying curious and moving fast, while also grounding success in brand building, personal relationships, and purposeful living. Visibility, adaptability, and authentic experience are recurring keys to thriving amid exponential transformation.