The HoneyDew with Ryan Sickler – Episode 323: Mick Betancourt Got Two Black Eyes from the Devil!

Release Date: March 3, 2025
Host: Ryan Sickler
Guest: Mick Bettencourt

Introduction and Guest Welcome

[02:54] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan introduces the show with enthusiasm, highlighting the unique storytelling approach of The HoneyDew. He welcomes first-time guest Mick Bettencourt, setting the stage for an intense and personal conversation.

[03:05] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick humorously references a tattoo, breaking the ice and adding a lighthearted moment to the introduction.

Early Life and Family Background

[05:52] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick shares his multicultural heritage, stating, "I'm Irish and Puerto Rican," and describes the neighborhood he grew up in, Humboldt Park, Chicago—a place marked by poverty and instability.

[06:14] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan probes into Mick's family dynamics, asking about his parents' ages at his birth.

[06:46] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick reveals that his parents were teenagers when he was born—"my father was 16, my mom was 17"—which set the foundation for a tumultuous upbringing.

Father’s Struggles and Custody

[08:21] Mick Bettencourt:
Discussing his father's custody, Mick explains, "my dad was getting custody of me. So, you know, like, what is that?"

[09:27] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan delves deeper into Mick's living conditions, asking about the stability at home.

[09:27] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick describes sleeping arrangements in a crowded and unstable household: "my dad slept on a love seat... I slept on the throw rug under him."

Death of Mick’s Father

[21:14] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick recounts the tragic death of his father: "He got electrocuted on the third rail," detailing the confusion and emotional turmoil surrounding the incident.

[24:22] Mick Bettencourt:
He further explains the circumstances, mentioning the lack of closure: "the insurance... he was cut up."

[27:10] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan expresses empathy, asking Mick how he processed his father's death.

[28:00] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick shares a heart-wrenching moment at his father's funeral, stating, "I saw my dad," and grapples with the reality of loss despite the presence of his father’s body.

Transition to Living with Mother

[31:03] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan asks about Mick's move to live with his mother after his father's death.

[32:35] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick narrates an unsettling encounter with his mother, who was heavily intoxicated: "She closes the distance like Hagler hits one, straight right."

[35:24] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan highlights the inappropriateness of the situation, to which Mick responds with his perspective as a child.

Struggles with Poverty and Stealing

[38:00] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick describes extreme poverty: "there’s no food... I started stealing shit, man. I can't live like this."

[39:01] Mick Bettencourt:
He recounts his first experiences stealing food and the consequences that followed, leading to a decline in his mental health: "I started hallucinating and my stomach started hurting."

[42:32] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan touches on the emotional weight of Mick’s actions, prompting Mick to reflect on his feelings of shame and regret.

Finding Solace in Wrestling

[47:11] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan asks about how Mick found an outlet, leading to the introduction of wrestling as a pivotal part of his life.

[49:17] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan shares his own experiences with wrestling, drawing parallels to Mick’s journey: "Wrestling really showed me everything."

[50:14] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan emphasizes the discipline and mental strength developed through wrestling, connecting it to personal growth and resilience.

[53:05] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick opens up about how wrestling taught him perseverance: "I just never occurred to me. It was always like, I'll quit when shit gets hard."

Reflections and Personal Growth

[55:08] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick reflects on his wrestling experiences and the lingering impact of his past mistakes: "The failures in my life haunt me daily."

[57:29] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan shares how wrestling helped him cope with his father's death, highlighting the importance of having an outlet for emotions: "I needed to get my mind off of everything that's going on."

[58:37] Mick Bettencourt:
Mick narrates a critical moment where his grandfather dies in his arms, deepening his sense of loss and responsibility.

Closing Thoughts and Advice

[71:26] Mick Bettencourt:
When asked about advice for his 16-year-old self, Mick offers contemplative insights, encouraging resilience and self-awareness in the face of adversity.

[71:42] Mick Bettencourt:
He promotes his Substack for more in-depth stories, inviting listeners to engage further with his journey: "if you like these stories... it's on there."

[72:11] Ryan Sickler:
Ryan commends Mick for sharing his profound and challenging experiences, appreciating his openness and courage.

Notable Quotes

• [06:46] Mick Bettencourt:
  "I'm Irish and Puerto Rican."

• [08:21] Mick Bettencourt:
  "Only child. So I'm living with my dad, who lives with his mother and his two sisters."

• [21:14] Mick Bettencourt:
  "He went missing."

• [32:35] Mick Bettencourt:
  "She closes the distance like Hagler hits one, straight right."

• [38:00] Mick Bettencourt:
  "There's no food. I started stealing shit, man. I can't live like this."

• [53:05] Mick Bettencourt:
  "I just never occurred to me. It was always like, I'll quit when shit gets hard."

• [57:29] Ryan Sickler:
  "Wrestling really showed me everything."

• [61:14] Mick Bettencourt:
  "So my mom's business is her business. I need to eat, and I need clean clothes, man."

Conclusion

In this deeply personal episode, Mick Bettencourt shares his harrowing journey through poverty, family strife, and personal loss. With Ryan Sickler's empathetic guidance, listeners gain an intimate look into Mick’s resilience and the transformative power of finding an outlet like wrestling amidst chaos. The episode underscores themes of survival, forgiveness, and the relentless pursuit of stability against overwhelming odds.

For more of Mick’s stories and ongoing updates, visit mickbettencourt.substack.com.

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