Unknown Speaker (3:51)

That lived in New York.

Unknown Speaker (3:52)

I already felt like it was happening even before it wasn't happening. And that trip became the spark that led to me moving there and my first PR job and so many things that happened after that, which then I wouldn't have the career that I have today if it wasn't for those decisions that I made. But it was never really about that resume or that moments. It was really about the resonance and it was about my identity catching up to where it had already been. Like it was my identity catching up to that dream. I remember another shift happened actually when I was in high school and I visited Los Angeles for the first time. And it was just like this breath of a city. It was this creative place. I remember going through Beverly Hills, sitting at the beach, just looking at the hills and thinking about how expansive was. And I just remember at that time I was like, I meant to do something here and I thought I was actually going to move there right after college. I ended up moving to New York, which I just shared. But what was interesting is that I eventually made my way back to la. I was in New York for a.

Julie Solomon (4:59)

Couple of years and then I came.

Unknown Speaker (5:00)

Back to my hometown in Nashville. And then I moved to LA in 2012 and really built the career that I have now. My, my online coaching business there. And way back in high School. I didn't know what it was, but this desire to feel like I was meant to do something there and I was meant to be there, felt really safe there. Like I was allowed to want more in that energy. And then cut to a. Years later, I moved to la. I launched programs, I launched my podcast. I had my child there. You know, he got married there. Like, everything kind of catapulted there in my late 20s and 30s. But that seed was planted long before, like 15 years before the strategy, the how ever entered the picture. And it was planted in a moment of possibility and this emotional clarity that I. I didn't need permission to have this dream. Right? Another big moment for me was when I studied abroad and I went to Paris, which is one of my favorite cities in the world. And I'll never forget just the way that that city carries itself. Long lunches, slow mornings, unapologetic elegance. Like, every day felt like this beautiful feminine ceremony. And Paris didn't just show me beauty, but it initiated me into a version of myself that I didn't yet know how to express, but I deeply recognize within me. I think I was maybe 20, 21 when I went there, and it was the first place that I remember feeling fully like myself. Like, I don't know if you have a place like that for you, but when friends will ask me, like, what's your favorite place? And I'm like, it's Paris. I just. I don't know what it is, but I come alive there in this soft and clear and grounded and very radiant way, not trying to be anything, but just allowing myself to just be. And I think that city refined so much of me. So then cut. Two years later, though, that energy and what I just explained, it, it whispers in my brand. It whispers in my presence. It whispers in how I lead and how I mother and my power. So much of it. And each of those places, even though this isn't an episode about travel, but each of those places mirrored something that I hadn't named yet. And I. I'm sure when I was sitting there explaining those to you, you were probably nodding your head, thinking about those places that you have that mirror. Something that maybe you couldn't name at the time, but looking back on it, it's like, oh, it wasn't because I needed to learn something necessarily in that moment, but it was because I was ready to remember who I really was and how this experience, this moment, this place, has a part to play in that. And so many women try, from my experience, they try to think their way into that clarity, into that resonance.

Unknown Speaker (8:03)

When I first launched my online coaching business, I was juggling everything like so many of us. Writing the content, managing the DMs, setting up the offers, doing all the backend funnels, figuring out how to make it all look and feel aligned not only from a brand perspective but from a customer experience perspective.

Unknown Speaker (8:20)

And honestly, it was so overwhelming.

Unknown Speaker (8:23)

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Unknown Speaker (9:34)

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Unknown Speaker (10:39)

The truth is the clarity doesn't come from thinking. It comes from feeling. It comes from experience. It comes from that resonance and that embodiment and from environments and moments that mirror the self that you're ready to inhabit it is a bit of this future self idea. You know, people talk about that in manifestations, right? Like you've got to claim and own your future self. But that's really where, where I feel like the butterfly effect lives in these small, quiet, sacred shifts. The kind that sometimes we only notice in hindsight when we realize that our life changed the moment that our energy did. And I see this happening actually with one of my clients right now. She has been in what she calls a weird season. She's not broken, she's not burnout, she's has years of experience, she has made millions of dollars. She's just paused and she's been reflecting and listening and noticing kind of the role shifting around her. And she's not trying to force this new chapter, even though we all, we all know that's so hard and to not want to force it. But she's really trying to let it arrive. And so what she's doing for her, she's doing a 40 day prayer challenge. She's not even trying to manifest anything specific or trying to force a solution, but she's really just trying to create space and to let that future self land in her body before it's required by her calendar. And that, to me, is the butterfly moment. It's not a reinvention, not a strategy, but a true sacred stillness that precedes the next timeline. And whether she realizes it or not, she's already inside it. Because sometimes the real portal isn't a place, it's truly a presence and it's. It's proximity to ourselves. So if you're in that quiet in between right now, there are three questions that I invite you to ask. I invited her to ask these, so I'm going to invite you to ask. And it. The first question is, where have I felt the most me? Even if I couldn't explain why, that could be a catalyst to so many moments of confusion that you might be having right now with your leadership, your offers, your business, where it's going, how to recalibrate it. The next question, what places or moments have mirrored a version of you that you weren't quite ready for, but you haven't forgotten? I'm going to say it again. What places or moments have mirrored a version of you? I was not quite ready for, but I haven't forgotten. This is kind of that idea of.

Unknown Speaker (13:18)

If you spot it, you got it.

Unknown Speaker (13:19)

And if it's still lingering there, there's something to be said about that. The third question is, what's whispering right now? Even if it doesn't make logical sense. So question one, where have I felt the most me, even if I couldn't explain why? Two, what places or moments have mirrored a version of me I wasn't quite ready for, but haven't forgotten? And three, what's whispering right now, even if it doesn't make logical sense? Those aren't just memories or dreams or past moments of inspiration. They are truly maps. They are breadcrumbs from the future you that already exists. That's nudging you to stay open because you don't have to figure it all out. But what you have to do is just follow what feels familiar in a way that sometimes logic can't touch. And that's where we have to give ourselves space to step back sometimes from the strategy, because it's so easy to try to force solutions, try to force the strategy, try to force the messaging, try to force the marketing. But if we haven't lined up to this clear clarity piece that cannot come in from strategy, then it's not going to happen. It's kind of like we keep trying to put the cart before the horse. And this is what I love to help women do. I help women recalibrate their messaging and identity to match who they've already become, not who they used to explain themselves as. Because your next chapter doesn't require a louder voice from you. It requires a true mirror, a quieter strength, a presence that doesn't demand to be seen, but it truly commands and changes the room that it's felt. And here's what I do know. You don't have to earn your future self. I didn't have to earn what I felt in New York, what I felt in Los Angeles, what I felt in Paris years before it ever actually transpired into something. You just have to recognize the places, the people, the things, the positives where she already lives. And sometimes she arrives in the form of a street, a prayer, a breath, a car ride, a beach moment before she ever becomes the business, the message, the brand. So let that sink in. All right, my friends, today was a short one. I hope this is helpful. And I would love to know if you are feeling this season of in between, if you're feeling this pause and maybe this resistance to even pause, if you're feeling, you know, similar to what my client has been feeling. I would love to know that feedback. If you want to slide into my dms, let me know what comes up for you in this episode, what you're going to be taking with you to really help you drop in and deepen this new next level of leadership and what's coming from that. I would love to hear that. All right, friends, I'll see you next week, same time, same place.

Julie Solomon (16:20)

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